This worked for me in a few day's. Great method because I WAS AT FAULT for being in a certain way emotionally abusive 😔 However I gave her some space for a few days and then begun to re-attract her and she called me crying out the blue saying how much I hurt her and I need to do better. Fellas I realized accountability goes along way with the woman you love. We spoke for about an hour and made some good ground. I love her and she's the best woman I've ever been with overall in my 46 years. Sadly when you're used to garbage women, you don't know how to appreciate when you get a good one so we sabotage it sometimes. Take it day by day fellas and I wish you the best if you're home watching this imagining her with another man.
He’s right. Literally after going BACK to I was when her and I were good.. a few things happen IMMEDIATELY: 1.) You calm your anxiety 2.) You remind her of the old you 3.) You help yourself become detached from what SHES doing and begin to focus on what YOURE doing .... humor, humor and not being affected by what she’s doing. And if you’re going to text... DONT.... voice texts! 3 short ones are better than three texts! She can hear your voice and it simulates a phone call... one-sides of course... but they will keep your messages and listen to them. We can hope lol. But I PROMISE you the moment I went back to being an unaffected, sarcastic dude... turning every negative into a funny positive... I FELT better and she probably felt a twinge of attraction. You HAVE to remind them of the old you, especially if you were needy! Always end the voice text with... “I guess we’ll catch up soon!” Then disappear a day or two...
I could kick my own ass for not watching this sooner. Awesome video, I’m going through the same thing with my ex and unfortunately she’s already with someone. I’m trying damn best to get her back
Man, my respects! I got the get your ex back and we are together again. I just bought the make her love you for life and this is all magic. Thanks, Dan!
YES NEUTRAL! She claimed she liked me, but I was too friendly. I wasn’t being a bf. I was also too emotional! And I said oh give me a second chance, and she wasn’t impressed by it. I asked her out this Friday, and I plan to take initiative!
Hey Dan I've implemented a lot of your tactics with my recent break-up and it has helped a lot and honestly I never thought that RUclips page would ever be able to give me advice on my relationship and how to rekindle it but you have and I appreciate that thanks bro
OMG!! DAN IT WORKED MY EX IS ON HER WAY BY ME NOW I GAVE HER 3 DAYS AND INSTEAD OF TELLIN HER WHAT IM GOIN TO DO I JUS DID IT, SHE SAID I SEE U TRYIN AND IM GLAD I HURD FROM U TODAY, JUS GOT A TEXT WYD, IM OFF TONIGHT CAN I COME.SLEEP MANNN I JUS SUBSCRIBED YOU THE MAN💪🏾 SOUTH LOUISIANA IN THE BUILDING 🦁
I love your videos I have been watching for lately as my wife left me, took off her ring, told me she wants me out. I was a constant liar our whole relationship, I treated her like shit and got away with it for so long before she snapped now I know how much I love her because it had to get to this point to realize that. I’m starting your program please everyone wish me luck I don’t want to lose her and will do whatever it takes
Dan, your the man! For both content and delivery your videos are my favorite. Two months ago my GF of 4.5 years walked out after a huge fight. The bad feelings have been brewing for a while until it all came to a head. I'm in the process of getting her back, listening to everything I can find online. I've studied pick-up for several years, but only now understand that it's an ongoing process withing the relationship. Woman are hard work, but what choice do we have? It's probably that way by design. Anyway just wanted to thank you for your excellent work. You're doing real good in the world!
Genuinely just wish you would do videos for the ladies as well. You are the most real relationship coach I've found but everything is for men lol. Still going to watch and hope that some of these points apply to getting your man back 💔
Dan, I should be paying you instead of my Pdoc, your videos have been more helpful to have a chance of saving my marriage than talking to her has been. I made that mistake, I dont think I ever really got over her wanting to leave me early in our marriage, about 17 years ago.
Hey Dan due to my past i have slipped up on self improvement and have been led into the dumps unfortunately due to negativity. I can see that these videos are mainly for men but I still got alot out of them. I would love for you to do a video from the women's point of view and how you would go about getting your man back. Your videos have alot of value and it's great advice. I have gotten out of them what I can but both genders think differently. I wonder if it would differ. As for being a women I just want to mention that all these tactics are pretty much spot on. 😊 Have a great day
What if I hurt her too much so she is just not willing to open up even though I am not texting often, I am positive and light-hearted and fun...She replies but does not get into a real conversation, she has built up a strong protection layer and perhaps now her feelings are gone as well. How should my strategy be if the reason for the break-up was not lost attraction but too many fights and negativity? I know she finds me attractive but still doesn't believe in us anymore....Any good strategies?
My ex broke up with me, she said I did nothing wrong but doesn’t want to be in a relationship because she feels she can’t be there for me and it was unfair on me and needs some space to deal with some stuff. We agreed to have some space but we carried on talking for a while after we broke up and then she got mad at me for not giving her enough space. We ended up fighting and she blocked me on Facebook and said that she knows that I had been talking crap about her (which I didn’t do) and her friends have told her I’d said crap to them. I spoke to these guys and all of them said I never spoke any crap to them and apparently she told one of them she knows I’ve not spoken any crap but it was that I never gave her any space. We dated for 3 years and never ever fought with each other before we broke up.
I did the level ups but got shit-tested until I kindly put her in her place & diffused the argument with communication. Then got told by text later what she appreciated about what I've done recently.
So hard when you can’t go around to see ya kids. I don’t understand why they think anything is wrong when they texts or say all nasty things but soon as we do we made to feel we are the bad ones abs always to blame. Why are they like this please
My ex doesn't want me back but I'll definitely stop acting like a pussy and use this man's advice in a future relationship. Wish I would have seen these videos before losing all my confidence and turning my ex off.
Well done Padma! 👍 Yes, that's right - a man must follow the steps. Without following the steps, he will miss important parts of what makes a woman truly want a guy back. Enjoy your reunited relationship. If you ever get stuck as the relationship continues, be sure to watch this playlist: ruclips.net/video/xFsZR9N03Dk/видео.html Cheers, Dan
My ex broke up with me and afterwards I didn't give her enough space and other people have said things that aren't true. She's since said she doesn't care about the things people have said but that she does care that I didn't give her enough space and has now deleted me from social media.
In that case, you need to use more advanced techniques to get her to re-add you, feel attracted again and meet up with you. All of those techniques are provided in: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
Hi Dan, I love your videos. I followed your steps and I finally grabbed coffee with my ex yesterday. Unfortunately, she was cold and mentioned that she did not want to see me very often. I know that through the interaction, I was confident, attractive, and funny. I made her laugh and did not remind her of the past relationship. What can I do to warm her up to at least being friends again?
your a good bloke Dan thanks I will apply this advice drinking was my problem I have now stopped and working on myself losing weight getting fit etc see how it goes !
Dan, you the man brother. Better than Bad Boy info was awesome. Reaction from women is night & day, like immediately. Finding that, the level of romantic response from women seems to be based on how much show nonverbal romantic appeal towards them. Oh Man, they really submit & give themselves over to you, instantly. It is amazing. Wow.
Just the realization of being one up with women and them being one down, has drastically changed how women literally hand themselves over. Feel like, the experience is something out of a movie. Never knew, how much power we as men have. Every guy should be able to tap into this. It is our right and it is AWESOME.
You are the best... Coz u always give me reason to understand who am I.... Keep it up the good work.... Sadly i haven't cintact my ex yet.. But I believe I'm worthy of her...N yes I'm not neutral to her
Just focus on interacting with her and make her smile, laugh and feel good to be talking to you. If you do that, she will believe that you've changed. However, if you try to tell her that you're Mr. Positive now and won't be negative anymore, she will keep her guard up. Watch this for some more tips: ruclips.net/video/gcdx4Wlqcyc/видео.html
All this is true. I understood exactly what was the problem of our relationship. My ex-girlfriend does not trust me and believe that I will change. She said that she gave me ten chances, but she can't do it anymore. She said that if you change, change for yourself, not for me. During our relationship, I was depressed and sad, but she wanted me to be happy. Two nights ago, she told her mother that she doesn't believe and trust me and she can't give me a chance and she doesn't want a relationship with me.do i have still chance that she has no trust and believe to me ? Dan i need you man
She thought I cheated and I told my friends some stuff about her she didnt like and I'm talking to some friends she wouldnt like me to anymore apparently. And I didnt cheat. And I told my friends limited info she didnt know plus logging into my accounts secretly. I'm not mad I just want her back and wanna explain better. She is my everything I'll do anything for. I've pur my life on the line for her several times without her knowing
I’m in a difficult position my soon to be x wife cheated got dumped we have kids and we do have a bond for each other if we need each other but now after she did that it hard to talk with her she morning over it how can I get her back? And out of her depression we been together for 23 years and kids
I'm trying to get back the mother of my child..we talk still but I'm trying to re attract her every time I see her. I know she still loves me, but she has a huge wall up and I can tell. I need some help Dan
Hi Dan I only came across your stuff after I had managed to get my ex to agree to have drinks a few times but she has gone cold again won’t answer my calls or texts. I have watched your super system and I understand what I’ve done wrong now but it took me 5 months for her too agree to have a catch up and I think I may have blown my chance I wish I came across your stuff sooner Thanks Scott
Dan anyway i can contact you? My ex left me 3 weeks ago and we were talking and trying to fix things long story short I took her for granted and then I did alot wrong trying to get her to come back now she talks like she has no feelings for me. I regret what I did and this girl is the woman of my dreams! Help!
She told me she needs a family and security. That's why she didn't get back with me.. I'm 28 and she's 34. I think I wasn't making her feel secure in terms of long term marriage.
Hi Dan! (Sorry if my english is not good i’m French) I post here because I need help with my ex. I am a 16 year old high school student. 4 months ago I was dropped by my girlfriend after going out with her for 2 months during the holidays. We unfortunately only saw one week because we left each other on our side on vacation. She just told me that she had no feelings for me anymore. I think I was too "duck" with her. (Too much I love you etc ...) which has (I suppose) killed her attraction that she had for me at the beginning. Today, I heard that according to one of her friends she did not love me anymore and she did not really want to go out with me again. The current goes well between us. She makes me small smiles and looks etc ... However I feel her disinterest even if some of my friends told me that they felt like she liked me. We are in two different classes and we see each other very little. I invited her to the cinema and several releases but she always finds an excuse without counterproposal. She only once agreed to come to my house with a friend. The best thing to do would surely be to move on but I am very motivated to try to seduce her. Thank you very much
My question is… how do I get my ex wife back that divorced me two years ago because of my drinking and not being a good husband? I’ve been sober over a year now and we have two young children together. But the problem is, last summer she got a new bf and moved in with him and then to make things worse. She got pregnant with him and gave him a son. I feel she’s not happy with him and realizes now that I got my shit together. All my legal issues resolved and behind me. I’ve had a great job for over a year and got my car and license back. I’ve also become an amazing father to our children. I’d do anything to get her back. I think about it every single day! Please help
I went through a bad bout of deppression. So i felt not good enough for my wife and got complacent and disrespectful and made her feel like a room mate. We been married 11 years together for 17. I did all the no no's the begging pleading crying. What should i do to get my connection back? We been seperated for 6 months now.
I was dating a girl from work for about 4 months. I think the fact that I can easily contact her is a good thing, but it also doesn't help for no contact. I don't have time on my side because of the length of the relationship, but I at least want to try (Restraining order here we come!). I don't think she hates me, but at the present moment she definitely doesn't see me as a strong confident-masculine person. I'll have to admit that I think I turned her off because I was too nice, too available, and not dominant enough. Can anyone give me advice on how to make the best of this situation?
Hello dan, im in a bad situation right now. She is a co worker. She told me i was negative, slept on the couch, then asked for her key to be returned a few days later. Fast forward 2-3weeks, tried talking to her, and she says she hates me. I said, "all this petty shit that happened is in the past, i dont hate you", she says thats not why i hate you. She did recently block on Facebook. I think my situation is fubar.😣😔
Hi Dan, Quick one, what if all elements described played a role in the break up? Do you prioritise the most dominant cause of failure and focus on improving that knowing they will have positive flow-on effects to the other areas or do you take time to level up in each area? Keen to hear your take on this. Furthermore, thank you for all that you do mate!
Hi Dan, I broke up with my girl 5 days ago and I gave her space during the 4 days. Now, I talked to her and her group of friends and I actually made them all laugh. I tried texting her a joke during class which I know for sure she would laugh at and she just left me on read, but I shrugged it off. She just seems depressed when I she sees me, but when she sees another guy friend she seems more talkative. It seems that shes doing everything to get herself to be mad at me. What should I do? Am I following everything right?
thanks for the confidence boooost !! I have seen 100 of videos and in all they say "Do NO CONTACT and IMPROVE" but they never tell how. they are just selling their books and coachings session. like litterally everyone. I came to ypur channel like 3 hrs ago and continuously watching and got to know with what mindset i should approach my ex(yeah i am on 25 dayth of NC). Before breakup i went needy and she went more avoidant and distant. Now she was cold for about 2weeks after breakup and before nc. I will send her hii and see how she reacts. i have done improvements in my self and she had seen all my stories. I hope it goes well.
Hey dan got a question for you Was with my ex for 8 years But she broke it off for: 1.Saying she wasn’t in love with me anymore (loved me as a person though) 2. Saw our relationship as more of a friendship But these are the really big points I wanted help on imo Said she didn’t see a future with me& didn’t want to marry me Is that something a woman can change her mind on?
Dan I shared with you my story of how in my last meet up (about 3 weeks ago) me and my ex kissed. I made her feel the sexual tension and attraction and we kissed. But it's very hard to get another meet up, my ex is in college all week and has a part time job (which may as well be full time) so she is busy basically 7 days a week and even when I suspect she's not busy she puts off meeting up with me. she never says "oh maybe this day" or offers an alternative, just shuts me down. it's getting to the point where I have to text her every 4 or 5 days asking how's her schedule looking etc we should get together. nothing. what should I do about this? How can I get her to AT LEAST want to try arrange a day to meet up? I don't want to keep looking like I'm desperately trying to meet up with her. thanks Dan I hope you can give me some advice
Got her on the phone again was still a bit nervous but she said yes to meeting up for coffee : 0 hopefully I get to China meet her and it goes well thanks so much! she said would be impossible to meet but I used lines from the ex back super system and managed to get her to say yes
Would you say this applies the same way to Long Distance Relationships? Especially when they are in a rebound and I’ve watched this after doing all the dumb stuff
Dan, I could lose the love of my life, my best friend for good. I cheated on her and confessed. after the break up the attraction she had for me slowly starting fading even after following your advice. It wasn't really so much about her attraction towards me because she still was attracted. It was the cheating that really messed her up mentally. She has a very negative point of view now about everything. After the break up, we started having sex again, but it was the sex that reminded her about the cheating. What's the point of attracting her and being confident and showing her I'm ok and having sex after the break up if she's the one messed up in the head after my mistake. It doesn't matter how confident I look in front of her or how composed I am or how much I improve in life if it only reminds her of how bad she is doing mentally. Keeping my shit together in life isn't helping me get her back it's just making me look like a bigger asshole. But if I get too sensitive and emotional then I loose her attraction and respect like you explain in your videos. I'm stuck in between... I beginning to get scared and lossing hope Dan, what am I supposed to do! I cherish her so much... She means everything to me!! Please help!!
Hey Dan, my GF just broke up with me a few days ago. She doesn't want to see me or talk to me. not because she is mad or angry but to find rest and to get happy and find herself again. We had a long relationship and we had it good. last month she did't feel that way anymore and I was too hard on her for like a year. she couldn't handle it anymore, didn't want to talk about it and pretending to be fine. Now her bubble snapped and she couldnt take it anymore and left. She has it really hard and me too. Now is her birthday in 1 week and I already baught some presents before we broke up and still want to give them. I also just started to play guitar. do you have any suggestions of how to get her back? I have so manny regrets of making her sad and I feel so stupid and dumb and sorry. I hope that you can help me. Kind regards, Kevin.
Hey Dan, I was wondering if you offer 1 on 1 phone calls? I'm going through a very difficult time with my wife and I'm not sure what approach should I take. I would be more than happy to pay you for your time 🙏 thank you so much. Great video.
Dan , how can l get my ex girlfriend back after two years apart. She has a boyfriend , and I would love to get her back permanently. We had a lot of outside influences causing problems and filling her head with negative things. You guessed it her girlfriends who I don't like because the heavy drinkers but they do know how to manipulate her. She is a follower not a leader. I sure would appreciate any and all advice I really do love her and I miss her and even though I was very busy with work I still made my time to be with her . By the way her mother is narcissistic and has belittled and operated her most of her life and she's now 54 and I actually watched it with my own eyes but I know at the time if I would have said something to her mother it would have caused a bigger problem but it was smarter for me to sit back and observe and then later on tell her that her mother was wrong that she can do anything she puts her mind to because she's smart and not to let anybody put her down
So odd, my ex just started doing this to me after I thought we were rekindling things. We spent the last month back and forth and started sleeping together and hanging out and we had a few issues since she was still dating others and I was not fond of that because I felt we were getting back and then all of a sudden the past week, she wont respond to any text I have sent for two days. i got the drift and just left it alone. She has seen the improvements I have been making over the past few months and has said that they were winning her back and she loved the positive changes. i dont get it and not sure what to do at this point.
dan, I know you said about re attracting you're ex fast but we only met once and she says she doesn't have time cause of a new job. I try texting but she doesn't text if it's not related to our pet. or meet if not related to our pet. she told me we only texting strictly. no calls. she really stubborn. it doemst bother me because I'm now confident enough that I'll get her back eventually but at times it does kill me... what can I do?????
I was nice to my girlfriend till day one but you saw something in my phone she didn't like I tried to tell that was nothing she wouldn't believe me she wanted to see what was in it try to prove to her it was nothing she wouldn't believe me so I snapped that's the only reason why she broke up with
This worked for me in a few day's. Great method because I WAS AT FAULT for being in a certain way emotionally abusive 😔 However I gave her some space for a few days and then begun to re-attract her and she called me crying out the blue saying how much I hurt her and I need to do better. Fellas I realized accountability goes along way with the woman you love. We spoke for about an hour and made some good ground. I love her and she's the best woman I've ever been with overall in my 46 years. Sadly when you're used to garbage women, you don't know how to appreciate when you get a good one so we sabotage it sometimes. Take it day by day fellas and I wish you the best if you're home watching this imagining her with another man.
He’s right. Literally after going BACK to I was when her and I were good.. a few things happen IMMEDIATELY: 1.) You calm your anxiety 2.) You remind her of the old you 3.) You help yourself become detached from what SHES doing and begin to focus on what YOURE doing .... humor, humor and not being affected by what she’s doing. And if you’re going to text... DONT.... voice texts! 3 short ones are better than three texts! She can hear your voice and it simulates a phone call... one-sides of course... but they will keep your messages and listen to them. We can hope lol. But I PROMISE you the moment I went back to being an unaffected, sarcastic dude... turning every negative into a funny positive... I FELT better and she probably felt a twinge of attraction. You HAVE to remind them of the old you, especially if you were needy! Always end the voice text with... “I guess we’ll catch up soon!” Then disappear a day or two...
I could kick my own ass for not watching this sooner. Awesome video, I’m going through the same thing with my ex and unfortunately she’s already with someone. I’m trying damn best to get her back
Is amazing how motivated i leave house after watching these videos...
How can you show her you’ve changed but she won’t answer my texts or meet up with me?
From experience Dan's advice is the only one that works when getting an ex back.
Absolutely spot on advice.
Man, my respects! I got the get your ex back and we are together again. I just bought the make her love you for life and this is all magic. Thanks, Dan!
YES NEUTRAL! She claimed she liked me, but I was too friendly. I wasn’t being a bf. I was also too emotional! And I said oh give me a second chance, and she wasn’t impressed by it. I asked her out this Friday, and I plan to take initiative!
Hey Dan I've implemented a lot of your tactics with my recent break-up and it has helped a lot and honestly I never thought that RUclips page would ever be able to give me advice on my relationship and how to rekindle it but you have and I appreciate that thanks bro
I enjoy listening to you from a women’s point of view you are spot on
I recently lost my job and my girlfriend I have severe anxiety and depression and your videos are helping me, thankyou
OMG!! DAN IT WORKED MY EX IS ON HER WAY BY ME NOW I GAVE HER 3 DAYS AND INSTEAD OF TELLIN HER WHAT IM GOIN TO DO I JUS DID IT, SHE SAID I SEE U TRYIN AND IM GLAD I HURD FROM U TODAY, JUS GOT A TEXT WYD, IM OFF TONIGHT CAN I COME.SLEEP MANNN I JUS SUBSCRIBED YOU THE MAN💪🏾 SOUTH LOUISIANA IN THE BUILDING 🦁
I love your videos I have been watching for lately as my wife left me, took off her ring, told me she wants me out. I was a constant liar our whole relationship, I treated her like shit and got away with it for so long before she snapped now I know how much I love her because it had to get to this point to realize that. I’m starting your program please everyone wish me luck I don’t want to lose her and will do whatever it takes
What if she says you're a lovely guy and haven't done anything wrong essentially she just isn't in love with you anymore and wants to be single
How would u get her to unblock u :( ?
Dan, your the man! For both content and delivery your videos are my favorite. Two months ago my GF of 4.5 years walked out after a huge fight. The bad feelings have been brewing for a while until it all came to a head. I'm in the process of getting her back, listening to everything I can find online. I've studied pick-up for several years, but only now understand that it's an ongoing process withing the relationship. Woman are hard work, but what choice do we have? It's probably that way by design. Anyway just wanted to thank you for your excellent work. You're doing real good in the world!
Dan love your videos , you’ve completely changed my perspective on relationships, I’m so excited for the future. You rock !!
I feel much better now, I was about to reach out to her *not confident*. Thanks for the tip!
Genuinely just wish you would do videos for the ladies as well. You are the most real relationship coach I've found but everything is for men lol. Still going to watch and hope that some of these points apply to getting your man back 💔
I want to kick myself because why didn't I found this video earlier. I am giving you 2 subs today.
Dan, I should be paying you instead of my Pdoc, your videos have been more helpful to have a chance of saving my marriage than talking to her has been. I made that mistake, I dont think I ever really got over her wanting to leave me early in our marriage, about 17 years ago.
For real..watched a bunch of these types of videos and I feel like your the most genuine
Hey Dan due to my past i have slipped up on self improvement and have been led into the dumps unfortunately due to negativity. I can see that these videos are mainly for men but I still got alot out of them. I would love for you to do a video from the women's point of view and how you would go about getting your man back. Your videos have alot of value and it's great advice. I have gotten out of them what I can but both genders think differently. I wonder if it would differ. As for being a women I just want to mention that all these tactics are pretty much spot on. 😊
Have a great day
I feel myself getting better just by watching these videos. Amazing.
What if I hurt her too much so she is just not willing to open up even though I am not texting often, I am positive and light-hearted and fun...She replies but does not get into a real conversation, she has built up a strong protection layer and perhaps now her feelings are gone as well.
How should my strategy be if the reason for the break-up was not lost attraction but too many fights and negativity? I know she finds me attractive but still doesn't believe in us anymore....Any good strategies?
This struck my core! Thank you I am a new me
This dude is a expert. I always get alot of wisdom. From dan. And right now i really need it
This stuff will work! It worked for me!!!!!!
THIS GUYS JUST STRAIGHT UP CALLED ME OUT ON EVERY DETAIL
My ex broke up with me, she said I did nothing wrong but doesn’t want to be in a relationship because she feels she can’t be there for me and it was unfair on me and needs some space to deal with some stuff. We agreed to have some space but we carried on talking for a while after we broke up and then she got mad at me for not giving her enough space. We ended up fighting and she blocked me on Facebook and said that she knows that I had been talking crap about her (which I didn’t do) and her friends have told her I’d said crap to them. I spoke to these guys and all of them said I never spoke any crap to them and apparently she told one of them she knows I’ve not spoken any crap but it was that I never gave her any space. We dated for 3 years and never ever fought with each other before we broke up.
I was literally gonna do everything you said not to do,glad I came across this video🤦🏽♂️
Thank God for you Dan. You're a life saver.
I did the level ups but got shit-tested until I kindly put her in her place & diffused the argument with communication. Then got told by text later what she appreciated about what I've done recently.
So hard when you can’t go around to see ya kids. I don’t understand why they think anything is wrong when they texts or say all nasty things but soon as we do we made to feel we are the bad ones abs always to blame. Why are they like this please
God this is all me. I think it’s too far gone at this point, unfortunately but I’ll keep watching.
My ex doesn't want me back but I'll definitely stop acting like a pussy and use this man's advice in a future relationship. Wish I would have seen these videos before losing all my confidence and turning my ex off.
Dan my man … I have bought the system and it worked for me
But be warned… you have to do everything including the activities he recommends. And of course… trust the process
Well done Padma! 👍 Yes, that's right - a man must follow the steps. Without following the steps, he will miss important parts of what makes a woman truly want a guy back. Enjoy your reunited relationship. If you ever get stuck as the relationship continues, be sure to watch this playlist: ruclips.net/video/xFsZR9N03Dk/видео.html Cheers, Dan
What if there are external stresses in her life and she ended things saying that the stress of having a relationship just adds to the "pile"?
4:24 golden
My ex broke up with me and afterwards I didn't give her enough space and other people have said things that aren't true. She's since said she doesn't care about the things people have said but that she does care that I didn't give her enough space and has now deleted me from social media.
In that case, you need to use more advanced techniques to get her to re-add you, feel attracted again and meet up with you. All of those techniques are provided in: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html
Hi Dan, I love your videos. I followed your steps and I finally grabbed coffee with my ex yesterday. Unfortunately, she was cold and mentioned that she did not want to see me very often. I know that through the interaction, I was confident, attractive, and funny. I made her laugh and did not remind her of the past relationship. What can I do to warm her up to at least being friends again?
your a good bloke Dan thanks I will apply this advice drinking was my problem I have now stopped and working on myself losing weight getting fit etc see how it goes !
This video really resonated with me. All of these points he made hit me right in the gut.
This is the best video I've watched. It's all so possible
Dan, you the man brother. Better than Bad Boy info was awesome. Reaction from women is night & day, like immediately. Finding that, the level of romantic response from women seems to be based on how much show nonverbal romantic appeal towards them. Oh Man, they really submit & give themselves over to you, instantly. It is amazing. Wow.
Your voice gives me hope
Just the realization of being one up with women and them being one down, has drastically changed how women literally hand themselves over. Feel like, the experience is something out of a movie. Never knew, how much power we as men have. Every guy should be able to tap into this. It is our right and it is AWESOME.
@Danbacon your explanation feels very true to my situation and I want to let you know I fully appreciate the advice
How once again I did not watch these videos, now if I catch up with her one day I’m doing all this with her and not going to be no deuce anymore
At what point do I reach out, or do I wait for her to reach out to me?
This guy is the 🐐
You are the best... Coz u always give me reason to understand who am I.... Keep it up the good work.... Sadly i haven't cintact my ex yet.. But I believe I'm worthy of her...N yes I'm not neutral to her
What should a guy do if a woman broke up with him because he was too negative/pessimistic?
Just focus on interacting with her and make her smile, laugh and feel good to be talking to you. If you do that, she will believe that you've changed. However, if you try to tell her that you're Mr. Positive now and won't be negative anymore, she will keep her guard up. Watch this for some more tips: ruclips.net/video/gcdx4Wlqcyc/видео.html
All this is true. I understood exactly what was the problem of our relationship. My ex-girlfriend does not trust me and believe that I will change. She said that she gave me ten chances, but she can't do it anymore. She said that if you change, change for yourself, not for me. During our relationship, I was depressed and sad, but she wanted me to be happy. Two nights ago, she told her mother that she doesn't believe and trust me and she can't give me a chance and she doesn't want a relationship with me.do i have still chance that she has no trust and believe to me ? Dan i need you man
I dont want to be late man . Tell me i have chance and what need to do please . Its almost two months after she broke up with me
Really appreciate this video man. I’m gonna try and work on myself and try my best to get her back.
she broke up with the old you. that's a good one since i am changing.
She thought I cheated and I told my friends some stuff about her she didnt like and I'm talking to some friends she wouldnt like me to anymore apparently. And I didnt cheat. And I told my friends limited info she didnt know plus logging into my accounts secretly. I'm not mad I just want her back and wanna explain better. She is my everything I'll do anything for. I've pur my life on the line for her several times without her knowing
I’m in a difficult position my soon to be x wife cheated got dumped we have kids and we do have a bond for each other if we need each other but now after she did that it hard to talk with her she morning over it how can I get her back? And out of her depression we been together for 23 years and kids
I'm trying to get back the mother of my child..we talk still but I'm trying to re attract her every time I see her. I know she still loves me, but she has a huge wall up and I can tell. I need some help Dan
Hi Dan I only came across your stuff after I had managed to get my ex to agree to have drinks a few times but she has gone cold again won’t answer my calls or texts. I have watched your super system and I understand what I’ve done wrong now but it took me 5 months for her too agree to have a catch up and I think I may have blown my chance I wish I came across your stuff sooner
Thanks Scott
Dan anyway i can contact you? My ex left me 3 weeks ago and we were talking and trying to fix things long story short I took her for granted and then I did alot wrong trying to get her to come back now she talks like she has no feelings for me. I regret what I did and this girl is the woman of my dreams! Help!
She told me she needs a family and security. That's why she didn't get back with me.. I'm 28 and she's 34. I think I wasn't making her feel secure in terms of long term marriage.
You are a legend .
Damn good advice.
Hi Dan! (Sorry if my english is not good i’m French)
I post here because I need help with my ex.
I am a 16 year old high school student.
4 months ago I was dropped by my girlfriend after going out with her for 2 months during the holidays. We unfortunately only saw one week because we left each other on our side on vacation.
She just told me that she had no feelings for me anymore.
I think I was too "duck" with her. (Too much I love you etc ...) which has (I suppose) killed her attraction that she had for me at the beginning.
Today, I heard that according to one of her friends she did not love me anymore and she did not really want to go out with me again.
The current goes well between us. She makes me small smiles and looks etc ...
However I feel her disinterest even if some of my friends told me that they felt like she liked me.
We are in two different classes and we see each other very little.
I invited her to the cinema and several releases but she always finds an excuse without counterproposal. She only once agreed to come to my house with a friend.
The best thing to do would surely be to move on but I am very motivated to try to seduce her.
Thank you very much
This guy is good.
My question is… how do I get my ex wife back that divorced me two years ago because of my drinking and not being a good husband? I’ve been sober over a year now and we have two young children together. But the problem is, last summer she got a new bf and moved in with him and then to make things worse. She got pregnant with him and gave him a son. I feel she’s not happy with him and realizes now that I got my shit together. All my legal issues resolved and behind me. I’ve had a great job for over a year and got my car and license back. I’ve also become an amazing father to our children. I’d do anything to get her back. I think about it every single day! Please help
I went through a bad bout of deppression. So i felt not good enough for my wife and got complacent and disrespectful and made her feel like a room mate. We been married 11 years together for 17. I did all the no no's the begging pleading crying. What should i do to get my connection back? We been seperated for 6 months now.
Thank u so much for a good advice before I am late..You make me aware of all the good stuff i needed..Ha ha..
I was dating a girl from work for about 4 months. I think the fact that I can easily contact her is a good thing, but it also doesn't help for no contact. I don't have time on my side because of the length of the relationship, but I at least want to try (Restraining order here we come!). I don't think she hates me, but at the present moment she definitely doesn't see me as a strong confident-masculine person. I'll have to admit that I think I turned her off because I was too nice, too available, and not dominant enough. Can anyone give me advice on how to make the best of this situation?
Hello dan, im in a bad situation right now. She is a co worker. She told me i was negative, slept on the couch, then asked for her key to be returned a few days later. Fast forward 2-3weeks, tried talking to her, and she says she hates me. I said, "all this petty shit that happened is in the past, i dont hate you", she says thats not why i hate you. She did recently block on Facebook. I think my situation is fubar.😣😔
Hi Dan,
Quick one, what if all elements described played a role in the break up? Do you prioritise the most dominant cause of failure and focus on improving that knowing they will have positive flow-on effects to the other areas or do you take time to level up in each area?
Keen to hear your take on this.
Furthermore, thank you for all that you do mate!
Yes. I explain that in this video: ruclips.net/video/qFDUOhBRXzY/видео.htmlm18s
Legend! thanks for your support and guidance
So spot on
Hi Dan, I broke up with my girl 5 days ago and I gave her space during the 4 days. Now, I talked to her and her group of friends and I actually made them all laugh. I tried texting her a joke during class which I know for sure she would laugh at and she just left me on read, but I shrugged it off. She just seems depressed when I she sees me, but when she sees another guy friend she seems more talkative. It seems that shes doing everything to get herself to be mad at me. What should I do? Am I following everything right?
Dan, I love your videos, but I wish you had some for women, too.
What if she cheated on me with my son in the house? The guy she cheated with has moved in and he is not working or capable of doing anything.
Your a beast Dan I love how you made me a better man
Good advice, thank you
Great advice can. Really helps
thanks for the confidence boooost !!
I have seen 100 of videos and in all they say "Do NO CONTACT and IMPROVE" but they never tell how. they are just selling their books and coachings session. like litterally everyone. I came to ypur channel like 3 hrs ago and continuously watching and got to know with what mindset i should approach my ex(yeah i am on 25 dayth of NC). Before breakup i went needy and she went more avoidant and distant.
Now she was cold for about 2weeks after breakup and before nc. I will send her hii and see how she reacts. i have done improvements in my self and she had seen all my stories. I hope it goes well.
Hey dan got a question for you
Was with my ex for 8 years
But she broke it off for:
1.Saying she wasn’t in love with me anymore (loved me as a person though)
2. Saw our relationship as more of a friendship
But these are the really big points I wanted help on imo
Said she didn’t see a future with me& didn’t want to marry me
Is that something a woman can change her mind on?
What if it’s long distance and I have to text her
Should you talk to other women and date during leveling up to reattract an ex?
You are the man 👍
She thinks I am not the right person. :) What should I do?
Dan I shared with you my story of how in my last meet up (about 3 weeks ago) me and my ex kissed. I made her feel the sexual tension and attraction and we kissed. But it's very hard to get another meet up, my ex is in college all week and has a part time job (which may as well be full time) so she is busy basically 7 days a week and even when I suspect she's not busy she puts off meeting up with me. she never says "oh maybe this day" or offers an alternative, just shuts me down. it's getting to the point where I have to text her every 4 or 5 days asking how's her schedule looking etc we should get together. nothing.
what should I do about this? How can I get her to AT LEAST want to try arrange a day to meet up? I don't want to keep looking like I'm desperately trying to meet up with her. thanks Dan I hope you can give me some advice
Got her on the phone again was still a bit nervous but she said yes to meeting up for coffee : 0 hopefully I get to China meet her and it goes well thanks so much!
she said would be impossible to meet but I used lines from the ex back super system and managed to get her to say yes
Would you say this applies the same way to Long Distance Relationships? Especially when they are in a rebound and I’ve watched this after doing all the dumb stuff
What if she deleted you from social and phone number? I would love to show her that I've changed
Dan, I could lose the love of my life, my best friend for good. I cheated on her and confessed. after the break up the attraction she had for me slowly starting fading even after following your advice. It wasn't really so much about her attraction towards me because she still was attracted. It was the cheating that really messed her up mentally. She has a very negative point of view now about everything. After the break up, we started having sex again, but it was the sex that reminded her about the cheating. What's the point of attracting her and being confident and showing her I'm ok and having sex after the break up if she's the one messed up in the head after my mistake. It doesn't matter how confident I look in front of her or how composed I am or how much I improve in life if it only reminds her of how bad she is doing mentally. Keeping my shit together in life isn't helping me get her back it's just making me look like a bigger asshole. But if I get too sensitive and emotional then I loose her attraction and respect like you explain in your videos. I'm stuck in between... I beginning to get scared and lossing hope Dan, what am I supposed to do! I cherish her so much... She means everything to me!! Please help!!
You’re awesome!!!!
I assume this to be the same with a guy, as this video was based on women exes?
Hey Dan, my GF just broke up with me a few days ago. She doesn't want to see me or talk to me. not because she is mad or angry but to find rest and to get happy and find herself again. We had a long relationship and we had it good. last month she did't feel that way anymore and I was too hard on her for like a year. she couldn't handle it anymore, didn't want to talk about it and pretending to be fine. Now her bubble snapped and she couldnt take it anymore and left. She has it really hard and me too. Now is her birthday in 1 week and I already baught some presents before we broke up and still want to give them. I also just started to play guitar. do you have any suggestions of how to get her back? I have so manny regrets of making her sad and I feel so stupid and dumb and sorry. I hope that you can help me. Kind regards, Kevin.
Hey Dan, I was wondering if you offer 1 on 1 phone calls? I'm going through a very difficult time with my wife and I'm not sure what approach should I take. I would be more than happy to pay you for your time 🙏 thank you so much. Great video.
Dan , how can l get my ex girlfriend back after two years apart.
She has a boyfriend , and I would love to get her back permanently.
We had a lot of outside influences causing problems and filling her head with negative things.
You guessed it her girlfriends who I don't like because the heavy drinkers but they do know how to manipulate her.
She is a follower not a leader.
I sure would appreciate any and all advice I really do love her and I miss her and even though I was very busy with work I still made my time to be with her .
By the way her mother is narcissistic and has belittled and operated her most of her life and she's now 54 and I actually watched it with my own eyes but I know at the time if I would have said something to her mother it would have caused a bigger problem but it was smarter for me to sit back and observe and then later on tell her that her mother was wrong that she can do anything she puts her mind to because she's smart and not to let anybody put her down
So odd, my ex just started doing this to me after I thought we were rekindling things. We spent the last month back and forth and started sleeping together and hanging out and we had a few issues since she was still dating others and I was not fond of that because I felt we were getting back and then all of a sudden the past week, she wont respond to any text I have sent for two days. i got the drift and just left it alone. She has seen the improvements I have been making over the past few months and has said that they were winning her back and she loved the positive changes. i dont get it and not sure what to do at this point.
dan, I know you said about re attracting you're ex fast but we only met once and she says she doesn't have time cause of a new job. I try texting but she doesn't text if it's not related to our pet. or meet if not related to our pet. she told me we only texting strictly. no calls. she really stubborn. it doemst bother me because I'm now confident enough that I'll get her back eventually but at times it does kill me... what can I do?????
How to win her back is she fell out of love?
What happens when she blocked you and wont text you or call?
I was nice to my girlfriend till day one but you saw something in my phone she didn't like I tried to tell that was nothing she wouldn't believe me she wanted to see what was in it try to prove to her it was nothing she wouldn't believe me so I snapped that's the only reason why she broke up with