Dude, thanks to your methods, I just got my girl back. Literally half an hour ago she called and said she still loved me, and that the guy she was dating doesn’t compare. I just wanted to come on here and say thanks man
This man speaks truth, and I’m proof of it! My ex of a few months started dating someone new and she seemed like she really liked him and turned me down after I said I still had feelings. 1 month on, she splits with the guy bc he didn’t want anything serious and now we’re back together and more in love than before. She kept saying how I was always at the back of her mind when she was with anyone new. Stay in contact folks!!!!
This man speaks truth! I am currently going through this scenario almost exactly. Yeah, the other guy being there stings. But, the more I am talking and spending time with my ex, the more I see and feel her being drawn back to me. She's curious. The attraction is most definitely there! The only thing that goes against others advice is the "no contact" rule. Everyone else seems hell bent on that being a MUST. I believe Dan's approach to seem more logical to me. Wish me luck, brothers! I'm getting MY girl BACK! Good luck to others who might be going through this! PREACH ON, DAN!!!!
Interfering and destroying her rebound relationship part was the best man. And I did exactly like that. She indeed told me she was gonna tell her rebound that she talk to me . A few days later she called me back saying the rebound started acting insecure and she told me that the rebound told her he wants her all to himself. I left it alone and slowly she started contacting me on her own. I definitely showed her and told her by via text that I wasnt gonna respect her new relationship and no I wasnt calm or patient about it either. I never met up with her , simply talk to her a few days and on the 3rd day I picked her up from her job and took her during her lunch break to pick up her stuff from her rebound and been with me ever since
Was with my ex for 2 years broke up about a month ago and she's with a new guy already after a couple weeks. It sucks but we're still being friends so wish me luck thanks for the advice!
Can I leave an HONEST comment...every other dating coach has basically said to be BETA about the situation with their no contact rules, and you’re the only coach who has said “F being the nice guy, be assertive” and you’re the only guy pushing for results NOW....I have so much more respect for you dude !
Dude... I've been watching so many videos that made me feel just as needy and anxious. You changed my mentality completely. She's mine. I feel it. You are fucking awesome.
My wife of 18 years divorced me and it’s finalized in April, and we were not together but in communication because of our daughter, for 2 years. She told me on Friday she’s dating someone and had 4 dates and likes him. I am beyond devastated
Dan you the man. My ex just recently started seeing someone . Been using these tactics .and already within couple of days .. she has now said she shouldn't have to settle for second best 😎....and can we possibly meet for a coffee...lads this stuff is gospel follow it to the T if you want your woman back..wish me luck gents!!..and good luck to everyone else going through this.
This guy is great!! I got dumped last week, she told me I was great with her and she wanted to be with me but didn't want to get hurt, it was a massive wake up call for me, I was too friendly with her, Shes my women, and I needed to make her feel like my women, I need to be more assertive with her, and less needy, always replying to texts straight away, changing my plans to suit her, etc. I thought I was being a decent guy, I wasn't, it was a test and I failed. I now can see that after I've taken a backward step from the relationship, I'm going to win her back.
I'll say one thing - watch this and learn. This man knows what he is talking about. After months of hopelessness, self-pity and emotional crap I'm back in the game, like a boxer getting up bloody from the canvass after a close-knockout in the tenth round. I'm still in the fight and I'm going to go the full twelve and if I end up winning on points I do, and if I don't at least I had a good go and I didn't go down without a fight. The man I thought of as my opponent is no longer the invincible warrior I thought he was. I'm back and I'm coming out swinging.... Thank you Dan, you really are the man!
I am hopeful because of these methods. Even if she doesn’t come back to me, this is helping me through one of the greatest trials of my life… & it is helping me improve as a person through it all… thank you for the hope, Dan! cheers
My ex is in a rebound relationship but keeps texting me. I have followed your advised and somehow things seems good so far. I had a phone call with her few days ago while a boyfriend was around. She was cooking and dish she used to make for me and asked if i remember. I made couple of jokes, she laughed a lot and tried to keep the conversation longer. what surprised me is the fact she said "I hope we will meet for coffee after the quarantine ". I told her of course we will. I also mentioned it was nice hear her voice , she said she was happy too. i wished her nice evening and ended the conversion.
my ex is dating someone else right now and they're almost in a relationship. i'm in the friendzone right now but i want to get back to her. my mistake was that i took her for granted and i was often lazy and all i wanted to do was cuddle. how do i show her i've changed?
I’ve been a single father for a year now. Raising our daughter states away from her. She hasn’t seen our daughter in all this time.. she left her boyfriend and told me she wanted to be family again.. I’m going back to Texas in two days to get her back and bring this family back to the trio we once had. This video is brilliant. Thank you. I’ve got this!
I was following your videos here on youtube during the break up with my ex girl , and taking all your advice. This video in particular got my attention the most. Took a few notes and bam a month later , we got back together and now she came back a different person as well. Thanks for sharing your videos on RUclips. I'm still a fan of yours man and I'm still counting to see your videos for future game points
My ex split with me around Christmas time, I’ve made mistakes before I found this video and she is with someone new but we have a child together. I hope this gives me the confidence to win her back and show her how strong I can be.
I've really got to get out of a negative mindset it's why I've lost my ex-girlfriend and it's hard but to get into a positive mindset but Dan is right in what he's saying
This made me feel so much better I just lost my wife a week ago but thanks hope this really helps godbless everyone and I hope that everyone gets their ex back
I never spoke to my ex after 3 months she told me I messed up after I came from holiday to see her again I was hurt I gave space to get her back but now she's with someone I will get her back I'm not giving up 👍🏻
Ex is coming into town next weekend with our children (7 months gone), but also with her Monkey Branched Rebound. I get the kids for 3 days while they stay in a hotel, just miles away. Should be interesting. It's taken awhile, but most of the pain has subsided. It's all about the kids now, as Daddy knows how to love, pamper, perhaps even spoil a bit. Don't know how we're going to do the drop-off, as no man that did that to MY family will ever be welcomed at MY house. Wish me luck folks, wish me luck!!!
We broke up a month ago...we dated for 3 yrs...Bt for a small argument she left me...i apolozised for a month cried badly in front of her...she also cried...bt she didn't forgive...now shez dating someone else very quick...i had no contact with her for a month...now we are best friends again as we use to b4 relationship..bt i want her back...her BF doesn't like me being her friend...bt shez against him..shez like my ex is a very nice guy...any chances of getting her back.!?? Shez happy with him thats why..!
Everything in this video worked for me 100%, our interactions were all good. We had laughs, smiles, forehead kisses every now and then. Tickled her on the bed being flirty and everything. She has been very responsive to me and it’s been so good. She split up with the other guy. And two weeks later she completely cut me off and I saw the others guy in the house. She said they want to try again! Need another video Dan
Okay. So let me start off by saying that I'm a girl and I'm bisexual and I've dated this girl and she was like the WORLD to me. I loved her soooo much. And we broke up because.... Okay....let me tell you the reason why we broke up. So one day, my friend texted me and asked me was I still dating my girlfriend and I said yea.....why. And then she told that my girlfriend was cheating on me for some guy. And then she proved it to me and showed me some text messages saying that my girlfriend was dating someone else behind my back. So I got mad and heartbroken at the same time and then I started going off and then I calmed down a bit and texted my girlfriend and said hey. I need to talk to you about something...and she didn't say anything. So like 30 minutes later, she still didn't respond so I texted her again and I said its important and then 11 minutes later, she said okay. So then I said ummmm, my friend texted me and said something that really broke my heart. And she also said that you cheated on me....is this true. Then I showed her the texts that my friend sent me and then she read them and then she said "nah man, baby I love you so much". And I said fr cause that really broke my heart and she said "I'm fr babe. You know I wouldn't do that". And I said "so you 100 percent positive sure that you're not cheating on me.....okay". Then she said I'm 1000000% I ain't cheating. And then we said some more stuff and I ended the conversation with okay. And then she sent me a gif that said I love you and I told her that I love her too. And then my friend wanted to see the text so I showed it to her and she said....to be honest. I don't believe her. And then that's where I got confused cause I didn't know rather to believe my friend or my girlfriend. Then the next day I wanted to talk to my gf about it again but I guess she was acting to scared to talk to me since she got caught. And then later that day...she broke up with me and I was SOOOO heartbroken and sad. I didn't know what to do. And now my friend is mad at my ex gf because of what she did. She doesn't even like her anymore. And now today...I just found out that my ex gf goes out with my boy best friend... He's like my brother and I call him big bro and he calls me lil sis and now I'm pissed and heartbroken that my ex goes out with my brother/best friend. And from what my brother/friend told me. He said that my ex gf liked him for a while and he liked her for a while and he asked her out and she said yea. Then I really didn't know what to do. And...and....I don't even know anymore....but there's more to the story tho. And all I can say is that I REALLY, REALLY miss my ex gf and I wish I could have her back so bad but she goes out with my brother/best friend now.
Much respect Dan, youre awesome. I saw my ex in the gym yesterday (she is dating already after telling me she would never get back with me) after 2 weeks of no contact, and was confident in my emotions, which i was lacking before. She gave me a big smile and waved, as i just nodded and walked to my bench. She later ended up saying "how are you" etc, and showed me her new apartment on her phone. She was flustered and nervous. I walked off eventually and she looked back like sth blew her mind lol!
I was with my girlfriend for a year and 5 days. She left me because of my jealousy and I was controlling her life. I just didn’t wanna lose her and Idk what to do......
I now this video is old but man, WOW. You have open my eyes so easily. Is fantastic this sensation of "renovation", she left me but I KNOW She will be back to my side... soon...
I’ve made majority of all these mistakes you said, I went from being Dominant, non caring and masculine to being needy clingy and to emotional available. She’s told me I’m too neutral and treats her like a friend so she’s starting to see me as such. But she still loves me and has hope. I feel that lil bit of hope is fading if I don’t act fast. How can I get back in to good standing with her
I’ve deleted all other relationship coaches and videos, you have the right balance Dan and I’m sticking with your advice only. Why would you do no contact if you want your woman back, I think it does you more damage. Confidence, balance, calmness and masculinity.
This is extraordinarily effective advice, and helped me to realize the mistakes I had been making after the most difficult breakup of my life. Thank you sir!
Love the accent. I want my ex back and its because i taken her for granted and being neutral hahaha! But as i come visiting her like once a week i see hope and still needs to improve my aproaches heheh!
Bro I had been doing just the opposite and wanting her to get back. I just realised I was just messing up even more. 😕 Thanks for your advice. Gonna fix this right now.
I love these videos, especially the end of this one. Everyone will have an opinion, tell you to move on or keep trying. My situation is very complicated. I got the new girl at work, the attraction was so strong and natural I didn’t have to try. I took her for granted and this scrub at work took over. They’ve been together maybe 8 months now, much longer than her and I. In 6 of these 8 months she wouldn’t even look at me, let alone speak to me. Now we’re on good terms and even though we all work together, I’m very forward about my feelings and what I want. I stumble. I’m definitely not worried about him. It’s just that, she’s engaging when he’s not around but on her best behavior when he is. Those are the tough times. She knows what I want. She’s not saying yes but she’s has every opportunity to tell me no, which she hasn’t done either.
Me and my ex broke up and she is dating someone else. After watching this video 3 times I’ve changed my tactics! I’m hoping for the best we still talk and text every single day still, I’m just changing the way I talk to her
Knowing your the Man is very Key 🔑 nowadays with society trying to make the man seem stupid and weak toxic masculinity blah blah Men need to stay In their masculine frame and Lead 😎
Shit what should I say if I already fucked up and told her I respect her and him being together... didn’t want to push her away more than I already did😑 and she doesn’t want to disrespect the other guy and being in contact with me..
Damn, i wish I watched this video almost a year back... Seeing your girl with other guy is really painful, at least to me, i did some of the mentioned mistakes, it won't happen again in the future. Thank you Dan! Greetings From Mexico!
it went great!! found out her and her boyfriend has been barely working out, he’s treating her badly, and our connection and conversation ahh how i missed it. (background story: we broke up before because i ended it, i started seeing her soon after my dad died in december and i didn’t know how to feel or what i wanted
Hey Dan, thank you for all the great advice I did what you told us in the video and I see that my ex has some feelings again and that I attract her like a man should. I have only 1 problem, she doesn't want to meet me alone because it would be unfair to the new guy. We have the same friends circle and when we are with the friends it's no problem to interact and attract her but I can't get her to be alone with me so I could give her the real attraction experience. Should I wait for him to make mistakes or how can I get her to meet for a coffee or something like that? Thanks in advance for your answer
Dude, you are great. So I'm getting close to getting my Ex back. She has a new man after separating. She likes this guy but I have been spending time with her and making her laugh her ass off. I give her a big hug and a cheek kiss when I see her. We share kids so see each other regularly. She has even said that she is confused. She loves me but cares for the new guy. I am seeing women but My Ex said she wishes me luck. My plan is to just keep being fucking awesome. She's going to be thinking about me and New guy is hopefully gonna fuck things up.
I have one son with my ex wife. We divorced so fast as I was on something. Anyways hearing this I am going to try to add this advice and get my family back that’s broken.
this is applicable to many situations. Not only ex as the fundamental is the same. for example if you got rejected by one girl cause you were sensitive. Later you improved and she comes back but you are confused and feel insecure, so you use "no contact" or "hard to get" which does not work. When she is now in a new relaitonship and she was attracted to you before, I'd still go for it even if you didnt even had sex and it was just holding hands and she blushed around you dozen of times. Go for it and use the friendsangle if you want. If that current guy is not the dream guy of hers, you can do it. But you cannot influence it too much if she really met the one. Statistically speaking, you have the upper hand though. Funny thing is, I always thought if you adapt "get your ex back" to the friendzone in general (not only ex) it could be the new product lol. The premise is that she must have been attracted to you at some point where she showed strong signs of interest.
Me and my ex have been broken up for almost a year. However, we saw each other practically everyday and acted like in a relationship but didn't have the title. She never wanted to get back together with me and I made a lot of mistakes by begging and annoying her. She's tried talking to other guys but never actually got past the texting stage. Just recently she started talking seriously to this guy and is MADLY in love with him. She cut me off out of nowhere and now is so in love with him and they are eventually going to date (if they aren't already). It's been two weeks since she started talking to him and about 3 weeks since I saw her. I am going to take your advice and change and see how it goes. I'll give periodic updates if anything happens.
Hey Dan (great name) so my ex wife cheated and had a 4 month affair and left me for the other guy. They've been together for over a year. Ive had my fun but we were good and ide like to try and fix ut We share a child and she is willing to be "friends" obviously im taking the friend angle but not being a friend. What should I do since her relationship seems serious
Thanks Dan for the great video. I am going to apply these methods. I am determine to get her back, guys wish me luck, she is my women :) Hope to update soon enough here when I am back with her !!!
She says she misses me but she is talkin to a lot of other dudes and already accepted a date, but she changes her mind because she doesn’t really want a relationship but she did accept the date. She said she misses me today she said it 3 times but she also called me her best friend so ion whats going on
Please help: we mutually broke up. We didn't talk for two months, now working on getting back together these past two weeks...during the 2 month hiatus she went out and slept with a guy she works with... How do I deal with the idea that she still sees him everyday at work?
I'm meeting up with my ex this weekend for a movie. Wish me luck gentlemen.
Dude, thanks to your methods, I just got my girl back. Literally half an hour ago she called and said she still loved me, and that the guy she was dating doesn’t compare. I just wanted to come on here and say thanks man
DONT respect her new relationship. She's YOUR woman!
This man speaks truth, and I’m proof of it! My ex of a few months started dating someone new and she seemed like she really liked him and turned me down after I said I still had feelings. 1 month on, she splits with the guy bc he didn’t want anything serious and now we’re back together and more in love than before. She kept saying how I was always at the back of her mind when she was with anyone new. Stay in contact folks!!!!
Note to self: “She’s my woman!”
This man speaks truth! I am currently going through this scenario almost exactly. Yeah, the other guy being there stings. But, the more I am talking and spending time with my ex, the more I see and feel her being drawn back to me. She's curious. The attraction is most definitely there!
The only thing that goes against others advice is the "no contact" rule. Everyone else seems hell bent on that being a MUST. I believe Dan's approach to seem more logical to me.
Wish me luck, brothers! I'm getting MY girl BACK! Good luck to others who might be going through this!
PREACH ON, DAN!!!!
YES, she's my woman :-) I'll get her back...
"Don't put the other guy over you" Me: taking a look in the mirror shirtless , flexing then doing a flip. Feeling like a champion✅
Omg I just got her back and gave me a big kiss
Nice mate
I was emotional!! ive done all the mistakes.
I am a woman and love this video! You know what you’re talking about. Respect! 👍😀
Interfering and destroying her rebound relationship part was the best man. And I did exactly like that. She indeed told me she was gonna tell her rebound that she talk to me . A few days later she called me back saying the rebound started acting insecure and she told me that the rebound told her he wants her all to himself. I left it alone and slowly she started contacting me on her own. I definitely showed her and told her by via text that I wasnt gonna respect her new relationship and no I wasnt calm or patient about it either. I never met up with her , simply talk to her a few days and on the 3rd day I picked her up from her job and took her during her lunch break to pick up her stuff from her rebound and been with me ever since
Alright i will try to get her back tomorrow
No I WILL get her back tomorrow
Wish me luck
Was with my ex for 2 years broke up about a month ago and she's with a new guy already after a couple weeks. It sucks but we're still being friends so wish me luck thanks for the advice!
The confidence you show has to be genuine. Don’t approach your ex unless you really are more confident. Being “Ballzy” really works
Can I leave an HONEST comment...every other dating coach has basically said to be BETA about the situation with their no contact rules, and you’re the only coach who has said “F being the nice guy, be assertive” and you’re the only guy pushing for results NOW....I have so much more respect for you dude !
Dude... I've been watching so many videos that made me feel just as needy and anxious. You changed my mentality completely. She's mine. I feel it. You are fucking awesome.
My wife of 18 years divorced me and it’s finalized in April, and we were not together but in communication because of our daughter, for 2 years. She told me on Friday she’s dating someone and had 4 dates and likes him. I am beyond devastated
Dan you the man. My ex just recently started seeing someone . Been using these tactics .and already within couple of days .. she has now said she shouldn't have to settle for second best 😎....and can we possibly meet for a coffee...lads this stuff is gospel follow it to the T if you want your woman back..wish me luck gents!!..and good luck to everyone else going through this.
This guy is great!! I got dumped last week, she told me I was great with her and she wanted to be with me but didn't want to get hurt, it was a massive wake up call for me, I was too friendly with her, Shes my women, and I needed to make her feel like my women, I need to be more assertive with her, and less needy, always replying to texts straight away, changing my plans to suit her, etc. I thought I was being a decent guy, I wasn't, it was a test and I failed. I now can see that after I've taken a backward step from the relationship, I'm going to win her back.
I'll say one thing - watch this and learn. This man knows what he is talking about. After months of hopelessness, self-pity and emotional crap I'm back in the game, like a boxer getting up bloody from the canvass after a close-knockout in the tenth round. I'm still in the fight and I'm going to go the full twelve and if I end up winning on points I do, and if I don't at least I had a good go and I didn't go down without a fight. The man I thought of as my opponent is no longer the invincible warrior I thought he was. I'm back and I'm coming out swinging.... Thank you Dan, you really are the man!
I am hopeful because of these methods. Even if she doesn’t come back to me, this is helping me through one of the greatest trials of my life… & it is helping me improve as a person through it all… thank you for the hope, Dan! cheers
The best explanation so far. Other channels will keep telling you about No contact. No next step but No contact.
My ex is in a rebound relationship but keeps texting me. I have followed your advised and somehow things seems good so far. I had a phone call with her few days ago while a boyfriend was around. She was cooking and dish she used to make for me and asked if i remember.
I made couple of jokes, she laughed a lot and tried to keep the conversation longer. what surprised me is the fact she said "I hope we will meet for coffee after the quarantine ". I told her of course we will. I also mentioned it was nice hear her voice , she said she was happy too. i wished her nice evening and ended the conversion.
my ex is dating someone else right now and they're almost in a relationship. i'm in the friendzone right now but i want to get back to her. my mistake was that i took her for granted and i was often lazy and all i wanted to do was cuddle. how do i show her i've changed?
Dan Bacon is right not just in a relationship but having the confidence in life you can achieve anything
I needed this video 3 years ago and I still think about her everyday. This sounds a lot better than the other "get your ex back" videos
What about long distance...
I’ve been a single father for a year now. Raising our daughter states away from her. She hasn’t seen our daughter in all this time.. she left her boyfriend and told me she wanted to be family again.. I’m going back to Texas in two days to get her back and bring this family back to the trio we once had. This video is brilliant. Thank you. I’ve got this!
I was following your videos here on youtube during the break up with my ex girl , and taking all your advice. This video in particular got my attention the most. Took a few notes and bam a month later , we got back together and now she came back a different person as well. Thanks for sharing your videos on RUclips.
I'm still a fan of yours man and I'm still counting to see your videos for future game points
This guy knows what’s up, don’t listen to Al those no contact people
My ex split with me around Christmas time, I’ve made mistakes before I found this video and she is with someone new but we have a child together. I hope this gives me the confidence to win her back and show her how strong I can be.
I've really got to get out of a negative mindset it's why I've lost my ex-girlfriend and it's hard but to get into a positive mindset but Dan is right in what he's saying
I've watched this so many times, I am going to be the best out there, she is mine
This made me feel so much better I just lost my wife a week ago but thanks hope this really helps godbless everyone and I hope that everyone gets their ex back
I never spoke to my ex after 3 months she told me I messed up after I came from holiday to see her again I was hurt I gave space to get her back but now she's with someone I will get her back I'm not giving up 👍🏻
Ex is coming into town next weekend with our children (7 months gone), but also with her Monkey Branched Rebound. I get the kids for 3 days while they stay in a hotel, just miles away. Should be interesting. It's taken awhile, but most of the pain has subsided. It's all about the kids now, as Daddy knows how to love, pamper, perhaps even spoil a bit. Don't know how we're going to do the drop-off, as no man that did that to MY family will ever be welcomed at MY house. Wish me luck folks, wish me luck!!!
Dude I am on the verge of divorce! I’m going to try this method and hope for the best thank you for such an inspiring video
We broke up a month ago...we dated for 3 yrs...Bt for a small argument she left me...i apolozised for a month cried badly in front of her...she also cried...bt she didn't forgive...now shez dating someone else very quick...i had no contact with her for a month...now we are best friends again as we use to b4 relationship..bt i want her back...her BF doesn't like me being her friend...bt shez against him..shez like my ex is a very nice guy...any chances of getting her back.!?? Shez happy with him thats why..!
Everything in this video worked for me 100%, our interactions were all good. We had laughs, smiles, forehead kisses every now and then. Tickled her on the bed being flirty and everything. She has been very responsive to me and it’s been so good. She split up with the other guy.
And two weeks later she completely cut me off and I saw the others guy in the house. She said they want to try again! Need another video Dan
What if she acts like she doesn’t want to talk to me at all anymore?
You know, people say they have never seen Conor Mcgregor and Dan Bacon in the same room..
I just get the best text from my ex after watching this video and planned a date!
I'm the woman and this guy is so right.
these are useful tips to anyone not just trying to get their girls back but to regain self confidence , thank dan this is great content
In my mind im the one!
All women want me, I am a man who can have any woman he wants!
Yes i am the man,,i will get her back,,baby i will 😊😊
Okay. So let me start off by saying that I'm a girl and I'm bisexual and I've dated this girl and she was like the WORLD to me. I loved her soooo much. And we broke up because.... Okay....let me tell you the reason why we broke up. So one day, my friend texted me and asked me was I still dating my girlfriend and I said yea.....why. And then she told that my girlfriend was cheating on me for some guy. And then she proved it to me and showed me some text messages saying that my girlfriend was dating someone else behind my back. So I got mad and heartbroken at the same time and then I started going off and then I calmed down a bit and texted my girlfriend and said hey. I need to talk to you about something...and she didn't say anything. So like 30 minutes later, she still didn't respond so I texted her again and I said its important and then 11 minutes later, she said okay. So then I said ummmm, my friend texted me and said something that really broke my heart. And she also said that you cheated on me....is this true. Then I showed her the texts that my friend sent me and then she read them and then she said "nah man, baby I love you so much". And I said fr cause that really broke my heart and she said "I'm fr babe. You know I wouldn't do that". And I said "so you 100 percent positive sure that you're not cheating on me.....okay". Then she said I'm 1000000% I ain't cheating. And then we said some more stuff and I ended the conversation with okay. And then she sent me a gif that said I love you and I told her that I love her too. And then my friend wanted to see the text so I showed it to her and she said....to be honest. I don't believe her. And then that's where I got confused cause I didn't know rather to believe my friend or my girlfriend. Then the next day I wanted to talk to my gf about it again but I guess she was acting to scared to talk to me since she got caught. And then later that day...she broke up with me and I was SOOOO heartbroken and sad. I didn't know what to do. And now my friend is mad at my ex gf because of what she did. She doesn't even like her anymore. And now today...I just found out that my ex gf goes out with my boy best friend... He's like my brother and I call him big bro and he calls me lil sis and now I'm pissed and heartbroken that my ex goes out with my brother/best friend. And from what my brother/friend told me. He said that my ex gf liked him for a while and he liked her for a while and he asked her out and she said yea. Then I really didn't know what to do. And...and....I don't even know anymore....but there's more to the story tho. And all I can say is that I REALLY, REALLY miss my ex gf and I wish I could have her back so bad but she goes out with my brother/best friend now.
Much respect Dan, youre awesome. I saw my ex in the gym yesterday (she is dating already after telling me she would never get back with me) after 2 weeks of no contact, and was confident in my emotions, which i was lacking before. She gave me a big smile and waved, as i just nodded and walked to my bench. She later ended up saying "how are you" etc, and showed me her new apartment on her phone. She was flustered and nervous. I walked off eventually and she looked back like sth blew her mind lol!
I was with my girlfriend for a year and 5 days. She left me because of my jealousy and I was controlling her life. I just didn’t wanna lose her and Idk what to do......
I now this video is old but man, WOW. You have open my eyes so easily. Is fantastic this sensation of "renovation", she left me but I KNOW She will be back to my side... soon...
I’ve made majority of all these mistakes you said, I went from being Dominant, non caring and masculine to being needy clingy and to emotional available. She’s told me I’m too neutral and treats her like a friend so she’s starting to see me as such. But she still loves me and has hope. I feel that lil bit of hope is fading if I don’t act fast. How can I get back in to good standing with her
I already fucked up a lot but I'm going to fix this! She's my girl!
You said all the problems that I I did. And you gave answers to them. Wish me luck bro’s
I got a question what if her new boyfriend is watching your videos and being his best and maintaining attraction because you are teaching it?
Omg i feel like i got her back...
You gave me the confidence that i really need .. and i shall follow the tips you had given
I’ve deleted all other relationship coaches and videos, you have the right balance Dan and I’m sticking with your advice only.
Why would you do no contact if you want your woman back, I think it does you more damage. Confidence, balance, calmness and masculinity.
Thanks, man. I cannot believe this is working. You're the man. Much thanks.
My problems: Showed insecurity, I was too available for her, I was sometimes too emotional, rarely scolded her etc.
You're advice is at a whole different level.
im follow your advice wish me luck because from what im seeing her rebound relationship is slowly falling apart
This is extraordinarily effective advice, and helped me to realize the mistakes I had been making after the most difficult breakup of my life. Thank you sir!
Love the accent. I want my ex back and its because i taken her for granted and being neutral hahaha! But as i come visiting her like once a week i see hope and still needs to improve my aproaches heheh!
Bro I had been doing just the opposite and wanting her to get back. I just realised I was just messing up even more. 😕 Thanks for your advice. Gonna fix this right now.
YOURE THE MAN DAN, I AM A CHAMPION, IM BETTER
I can do this, she is mine.
I love these videos, especially the end of this one. Everyone will have an opinion, tell you to move on or keep trying. My situation is very complicated. I got the new girl at work, the attraction was so strong and natural I didn’t have to try. I took her for granted and this scrub at work took over. They’ve been together maybe 8 months now, much longer than her and I. In 6 of these 8 months she wouldn’t even look at me, let alone speak to me. Now we’re on good terms and even though we all work together, I’m very forward about my feelings and what I want. I stumble. I’m definitely not worried about him. It’s just that, she’s engaging when he’s not around but on her best behavior when he is. Those are the tough times. She knows what I want. She’s not saying yes but she’s has every opportunity to tell me no, which she hasn’t done either.
Me and my ex broke up and she is dating someone else. After watching this video 3 times I’ve changed my tactics! I’m hoping for the best we still talk and text every single day still, I’m just changing the way I talk to her
Knowing your the Man is very Key 🔑 nowadays with society trying to make the man seem stupid and weak toxic masculinity blah blah
Men need to stay In their masculine frame and Lead 😎
She's been with him almost 4 months. Do i still have a chance?
She's my woman!
I cant stop listening to you dude...your the best
Man, your videoes are making me feel better about myself.
This is the Tom Brady of relationship advice.
SHE IS MY WOMAN!
She's my Woman. I will get her.
Shit what should I say if I already fucked up and told her I respect her and him being together... didn’t want to push her away more than I already did😑 and she doesn’t want to disrespect the other guy and being in contact with me..
Damn, i wish I watched this video almost a year back... Seeing your girl with other guy is really painful, at least to me, i did some of the mentioned mistakes, it won't happen again in the future. Thank you Dan! Greetings From Mexico!
meeting up with my ex in a hour at a restaurant boys wish me luck, i’ll update in the comments later
it went great!! found out her and her boyfriend has been barely working out, he’s treating her badly, and our connection and conversation ahh how i missed it. (background story: we broke up before because i ended it, i started seeing her soon after my dad died in december and i didn’t know how to feel or what i wanted
Champion mindset.
SHES MY WOMAN !! IM GONE GET IT
Holy crap it worked thank you so much
Dude you are fucking gold!!!! You have helped me like you can’t imagine.
I lost her and got her back thanks to you man and then again I lost her and will be doing this all over again.
this totally broke the no contact rule. I'm so confused...
The NC rule doesn't work very well for men, which is why I don't recommend it. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/tqolmvt2GiU/видео.html
Hey Dan, thank you for all the great advice
I did what you told us in the video and I see that my ex has some feelings again and that I attract her like a man should.
I have only 1 problem, she doesn't want to meet me alone because it would be unfair to the new guy.
We have the same friends circle and when we are with the friends it's no problem to interact and attract her but I can't get her to be alone with me so I could give her the real attraction experience.
Should I wait for him to make mistakes or how can I get her to meet for a coffee or something like that?
Thanks in advance for your answer
Dude, you are great. So I'm getting close to getting my Ex back. She has a new man after separating. She likes this guy but I have been spending time with her and making her laugh her ass off. I give her a big hug and a cheek kiss when I see her. We share kids so see each other regularly.
She has even said that she is confused. She loves me but cares for the new guy. I am seeing women but My Ex said she wishes me luck. My plan is to just keep being fucking awesome. She's going to be thinking about me and New guy is hopefully gonna fuck things up.
I have one son with my ex wife. We divorced so fast as I was on something. Anyways hearing this I am going to try to add this advice and get my family back that’s broken.
this is applicable to many situations. Not only ex as the fundamental is the same. for example if you got rejected by one girl cause you were sensitive. Later you improved and she comes back but you are confused and feel insecure, so you use "no contact" or "hard to get" which does not work. When she is now in a new relaitonship and she was attracted to you before, I'd still go for it even if you didnt even had sex and it was just holding hands and she blushed around you dozen of times. Go for it and use the friendsangle if you want. If that current guy is not the dream guy of hers, you can do it. But you cannot influence it too much if she really met the one. Statistically speaking, you have the upper hand though. Funny thing is, I always thought if you adapt "get your ex back" to the friendzone in general (not only ex) it could be the new product lol. The premise is that she must have been attracted to you at some point where she showed strong signs of interest.
Me and my ex have been broken up for almost a year. However, we saw each other practically everyday and acted like in a relationship but didn't have the title. She never wanted to get back together with me and I made a lot of mistakes by begging and annoying her. She's tried talking to other guys but never actually got past the texting stage. Just recently she started talking seriously to this guy and is MADLY in love with him. She cut me off out of nowhere and now is so in love with him and they are eventually going to date (if they aren't already). It's been two weeks since she started talking to him and about 3 weeks since I saw her. I am going to take your advice and change and see how it goes. I'll give periodic updates if anything happens.
WHAT A KING! Thank you, just thank you already. He is MY MAN.
Hey Dan (great name) so my ex wife cheated and had a 4 month affair and left me for the other guy. They've been together for over a year. Ive had my fun but we were good and ide like to try and fix ut We share a child and she is willing to be "friends" obviously im taking the friend angle but not being a friend. What should I do since her relationship seems serious
I am a strong guy I know how to not be upset or lost without her I will try to get her back she is my women I am the best bro I will be better
Thanks Dan for the great video. I am going to apply these methods. I am determine to get her back, guys wish me luck, she is my women :) Hope to update soon enough here when I am back with her !!!
This is literally the best advice video I have yet seen, and trust me when I say I have seen a lot.
She says she misses me but she is talkin to a lot of other dudes and already accepted a date, but she changes her mind because she doesn’t really want a relationship but she did accept the date. She said she misses me today she said it 3 times but she also called me her best friend so ion whats going on
everytime I try to show any form of love or affection to get out of friendzone she tells me ill find someone else, how do I reattract her.
Please help: we mutually broke up. We didn't talk for two months, now working on getting back together these past two weeks...during the 2 month hiatus she went out and slept with a guy she works with...
How do I deal with the idea that she still sees him everyday at work?
what if she dosen't want to see me ? what if we don't talk anymore , how could i show her these changes ?