5 Tips on How to Get Your Ex Back When She Has Moved On

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  • Опубликовано: 29 дек 2024

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  • @dontedavis2951
    @dontedavis2951 5 лет назад +1035

    Who else watches this as motivation like every other day

  • @miltons295
    @miltons295 6 лет назад +287

    Im gonna get my ex back I miss her soo much and gonna try get her the new me

  • @NRLJAY
    @NRLJAY 5 лет назад +101

    Your the GOAT. as I was taking notes I felt it working mentally first. It's about being playful and fun. Joking around with her. Get out the emotions first and then be happy and joyous around her or other women. Anyone for that matter. Turning an uncomfortable situation into a joke or something positive looks good to the other person. Taking away the negative tensions. Getting rid of stress hormones and giving into the healing chemistry that resides in the body. Love you man! I am greatness and so is anyone reading this. Nothing and no one can stop us. I just laugh at them.

  • @kailoma_
    @kailoma_ 2 года назад +60

    I can confirm self-love and finding the confidence really works.
    My wife finally came back when she noticed how fast I had grown over the separation to the point of being so cool about being friends. I assure you, follow the steps outlined by Dan and you’ll be well on your way to getting that ex back.
    I became a better man, more confident in life instead of wallowing in self-pity, she noticed how strong I became and begged me with tears to consider her again.
    Dan, I owe you everything. thank you for the helpful tips which made me a better person in every aspect of life. Continue doing the life-saving work you do.
    A thousand thanks is not enough,
    Cheers Mate 👍

  • @kenr215
    @kenr215 7 лет назад +106

    my god i messed up so much, my confidence was lost after she left with my son. now theres someone else..

  • @afrobian1
    @afrobian1 5 лет назад +83

    This guy saved my dignity, i was gonna text my ex and pretty much beg her for a second chance because i genuinely changed. Time to edit the text lol

  • @cesarquintana4596
    @cesarquintana4596 7 лет назад +182

    I saw my wife for the 1st time in 40 days today. I was confident,calm and flirty, even when she was trying to make me mad. She even said I remind her of one we first met and she said why couldn't you change before we decided to get a divorce. what do you think this means?

  • @devonteedwards9503
    @devonteedwards9503 4 года назад +50

    My ex has met up with me twice secretly behind her new boyfriend’s back and again tonight. It’s going very well so far !

  • @erkazzofficiel
    @erkazzofficiel 7 лет назад +310

    I'm so scared to get in touch with her cuz she haa already moved on and I know Im gonna make a fool of myself and get rejected

  • @kaimatthews4071
    @kaimatthews4071 4 года назад +35

    I was a really angry and controlling guy in my relationship and she left me well left the old me now I am gonna be more relaxed and nicer to her

  • @josephstalin5776
    @josephstalin5776 7 лет назад +128

    You sir, are a legend. Spot on advice for when you can't use the no-contact rule 👌🏼

  • @swamidude2214
    @swamidude2214 5 лет назад +30

    She doesnt have a new boyfriend, but she definitly moved on. I met up with her after 4 months and I dont think she felt much attraction. Even though I lost like 15 kg of fat and put on 8 kg of muscle. I know she must have noticed, everyone notices it. Also I did a lot to improve my life in other ways and Im mentally much stronger. Still she seems to absolutely not care...
    I have litterally no idea how to make her feel attraction. The first time it went pretty natural. She chased me basically. Im not needy, Im fine with the breakup, I dont even act like I want her back. Im confused if maybe Im acting ‘to fine’ with the breakup, so she thinks I moved on and thus its better that its over. I pretty much accepted it right away, so perhaps she now thinks I never really cared that much...

  • @ananseghana7708
    @ananseghana7708 7 лет назад +285

    This guy's so good. I used your tips and it's working great.

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  7 лет назад +57

      Great to hear. Keep going and get her back!

  • @wishwash6647
    @wishwash6647 4 года назад +9

    This is working she doesn't wanna stop messaging me lol she's playing hard to get but she is opening up to me... Usually she messages one time I. The morni g but now she's messaging me all day and wants to meet up... Good luck out there guys. The good fact about this is that all that anxiety and pain ur feeling now actually goes away when u start seeing how she is acting and messaging.... Gonna start to persue more 😊

  • @Jordan.M23
    @Jordan.M23 7 лет назад +87

    THIS IS THE EXACT VIDEO I NEEDED

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  7 лет назад +11

      I'm glad I made it then! I hope it helps you.

  • @dudefacial
    @dudefacial 6 лет назад +56

    Man please do a video about when you still live with your ex. I’d love to hear your views

  • @UchihaItachi00000
    @UchihaItachi00000 4 года назад +14

    I love this video because it not only got me out of the feels but got me trying to get her back, so far I'm in the call zone!

  • @marloninquirer
    @marloninquirer 4 года назад +9

    yes its true. those saying that you had to go no contact for 30 days to get her back is just BS. unless she's head over heels in loved with you, you will not re-attract her by not communicating with her for a long time. you gotta chase her at some point

  • @shatterednbroken1401
    @shatterednbroken1401 3 года назад +7

    My wife just left 2 weeks ago and I did turn into that cry baby begging for her to come back with no confidence...now I know what I need to do to feel better about nyself and prove to her I'm going to keep better myself ...this gave me a boost

  • @marcuswilliams467
    @marcuswilliams467 Год назад +4

    I am in the Friendzone currently and totally did all the things that I shouldn't have done.

  • @donniepistone6347
    @donniepistone6347 5 лет назад +50

    I am going to get her back !

  • @orslehoczki2852
    @orslehoczki2852 6 лет назад +129

    I don’t know how.... but it worked😶😶😱

  • @fsxbigeefy3438
    @fsxbigeefy3438 5 лет назад +47

    Dan Bacon you just boosted my confidence up 10 time what it once was from watching this. Everything you said was clear and understandable. Not only that but you also just told what I’ve been through and just literally told me to pulled the reverse card. I appreciate that bro tip. Because I may thought i lost someone very special but it was the way I acted before. I just need to believe in what I said and get her back and get her attracted to me.

  • @woolies9494
    @woolies9494 4 года назад +6

    Why couldn't I have found your videos weeks ago.. I'm gonna try after this to get my beautiful woman back

  • @luisleal8683
    @luisleal8683 4 года назад +10

    THIS GUY IS AWESOME! HIS PERSPECTIVE AND INSIGHT REGARDING ATTRACTION AND CONFIDENCE IS AMAZING! THANK YOU BRO!

  • @Jay_chicago
    @Jay_chicago 5 лет назад +15

    Are are we as men so confident when we are dating, but when we are in a long relationship or marriage we lose that confidence. Why is that?

  • @seantatum1484
    @seantatum1484 7 лет назад +16

    I broke it off 6 months ago. I asked that she not contact me and she respected the wish by doing just that. I recently reached out to her in a fit of misery. I told her that I'd been miserable and lost and that these feeling simply came to a head and that I was sorry for reaching out and that it would not happen again. She mentioned that she had been thinking of me and that we could be friends and get together sometime soon to catch up.
    I expressed my reluctance to meet her simply because I didnt want to pick scabs on wounds Ive been trying to allow to heal. But in the end I agreed to meet her. We will see each other for the first time in 6+ months today. What should be my approach? Nothing has change on my end for the most part. Same clothes, same job (I am super successful), same look, same everything. What do I entice her with at this point when everything is the same?

  • @jbvelez2828
    @jbvelez2828 7 лет назад +91

    How can i get my ex back ? If she happy with other guy ?

  • @williamanderson7236
    @williamanderson7236 2 года назад +2

    Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.

  • @angelamaro3480
    @angelamaro3480 4 года назад +11

    I'm working on it. My woman is pretty stubborn and she sets her mind a certain way so it's a bit tough, however I know shes letting her guard down and I'm getting her back. Not sure when but I know itll happen.

  • @jcporosity4764
    @jcporosity4764 4 года назад +8

    I lost my wife im here for help I have learn im learning sooo hard when u have kids also

  • @5orever5ive31
    @5orever5ive31 3 года назад +6

    Man this gonna be the third time we might get back together

  • @kaseycruz7983
    @kaseycruz7983 5 лет назад +11

    I want her to forgive me. And i want her to want to be with me again.

  • @aaronsalentine7876
    @aaronsalentine7876 5 лет назад +12

    Thanks! I will be using this when i meet up with her again. I need my confidence back and myslef like when i meet her.

  • @virenrodrigues1741
    @virenrodrigues1741 4 года назад +12

    After three weeks of intentional ghosting , she has blocked me. I m just waiting for her to unblock me whenever so that I can block her.

  • @oconnell123
    @oconnell123 7 лет назад +16

    Im going threw this right now.. my girlfriend of ten years and my two little boys are moving out while im away for work.. I broke down in front of her twice, but now im trying to be the strong one. She broke down in front of me.. I have watched your videos Dan and they help me.. when i get home from work in two weeks im going to try to be the strong funny man she loved. Not the naggy i want you back please give me another chance type of guy!
    Any other tips buddy?

  • @Stressed10user
    @Stressed10user 25 дней назад

    Keep going guys...but dont go in half cocked. Make sure you are ready and have done your homework. Good luck

  • @connormitchell8048
    @connormitchell8048 6 лет назад +7

    We broke up today. I tried to make her laugh but it didnt work. I told her that I understood I acted weak and clingy and she said that's good that you broke a barrier, whatever that means. Then I said I'd be open to friendship and she didnt seem to like that idea. Dan if you could help me out with the next step I'd really appreciate it.

  • @kenr215
    @kenr215 7 лет назад +16

    when my ex left i couldnt deal with the pain so everytime we talked about our young son i would pour my heart out and we would get in to these stupid arguments. until she called the cops after words taken outta context as we could only comicate by text. we entered a civil restraints against my will but i was so tired of fighting and didnt want a peminant restraining order on me. one year later, 2 after the break up, she is messing with another guy keeping it secret from me. i cant really say anything to her with the order, but my heart is killing me. she has my son around this man and slept over his house im crushed.. its hopeless at this point , no? i was accused of so much that wasn't true, that its crazy i still want my family, but i do! i have no idea what to do. i wont make a scene even though she has everybody convinced i will she clams shes scared of me but i think thats just her way to get me outta her life. hell if i try to disrupt there process how would i even do that? id have the cops at my door the next day. this just feels like a lost case for me..

  • @mmosley8492
    @mmosley8492 Год назад +1

    Great advice, all these other people saying no contact, like if I want them back I have to contact them sooner or later

  • @TheXeliminatorX
    @TheXeliminatorX 7 лет назад +73

    How long should I wait if she's just got another guy? The honeymoon phase is unbreachable

  • @rockysingh8455
    @rockysingh8455 5 лет назад +19

    The best youtube channel on getting your love and exploring yours skills.

  • @dereksupino
    @dereksupino 7 лет назад +19

    I broke up with my gf while we were away but regretted it and I tried to get back with her. She said she needed a break, when we met up after a week we hooked up and she gave me a second chance. However she wasn't ready to get back, she felt pressured into it and regretted giving me the second chance and now we are just friends. I don't see her for another week, I'll see here at college. My dorm room is right next to hers coincidentally. Any advice on what I should do.

  • @shalevsaada7596
    @shalevsaada7596 3 года назад

    the only one on you tube that give a real matures advices and no toxics mind games like wait 10 years until she misses you and crawl threw all the Sahara dessert to you and beg to come back

  • @oicurpn
    @oicurpn 4 года назад +6

    What do you do when you messed up and you work together and has a new guy in her life

  • @rafaelparra1260
    @rafaelparra1260 4 года назад +4

    I'm gonna make it, she will be back =)

  • @skullguyonline
    @skullguyonline 5 лет назад +7

    This guy "gets it".

  • @techdude4864
    @techdude4864 5 лет назад +7

    Feedback from Dan or others is welcome. I’ve been hooking up with my ex gf for a while now. But she has been in a rebound for almost 3 months and she doesn’t seem to be slowing on that. Why aren’t they having problems with me and her? She keeps me a secret.

  • @fiskur20000
    @fiskur20000 3 года назад +4

    I am getting her back

  • @sourabhgupta5563
    @sourabhgupta5563 5 лет назад +14

    Thank you you made my day now I can get her back easily

  • @tanka93
    @tanka93 4 года назад +6

    My wife and I have been separated for over a year. We are close because of our son. About a month ago she had a date with a guy. Two weeks after that, we had sex two days in a row. She said that it doesn't change anything and that we can't do that anymore. I want her back! What should I do immediately?

  • @kohchungsoon6361
    @kohchungsoon6361 3 года назад +10

    Your video is so informative! Thank you! I’m the begging type of ex as she recently is looking into another guy that they both are quite close now. I didn’t know it as she didn’t tell me about it until I found out. Now I know and I really want to get her back. Any tips for me for case? This happens 1week ago

  • @feny8
    @feny8 2 месяца назад

    I work with her and I’ve been following his tips. She is still giving me attention and is flirty. But work is all I got. She has me blocked on everything social media and phone

  • @user-sw7bf1wl1b
    @user-sw7bf1wl1b 7 лет назад +20

    My ex left me for another guy what should I do

  • @joshuamelendez2604
    @joshuamelendez2604 6 лет назад +20

    Bro!!! This is good stuff

  • @OC_Golfer15
    @OC_Golfer15 4 года назад +5

    Hello Dan, my ex and I broke things off back in April and now she has this new guy that she tells me about. I’m afraid to tell her that I don’t want to hear about him because we’ve had a similar situation happen in the past and it led up to our breakup. If you could contact me back and help me out then I would greatly appreciate it 🙏🏼

  • @_prowlerofthenight_
    @_prowlerofthenight_ 2 года назад +1

    Guys I don't know what to do, either contact her or do the 'No Contact 30 days' thing. We've been broken up for a little more than a month and I felt so much stress about the break up that I fainted. I miss her.

  • @MrHVTelesz69
    @MrHVTelesz69 5 лет назад +6

    What if I broke it off with her for a stupid reason, and didn’t contact her for awhile and now when I just try to be friends she won’t even speak to me

  • @Vigneshvicky-tb2ln
    @Vigneshvicky-tb2ln 6 лет назад +6

    Hey! I broke up with my ex before 2 months. But between that I begged her so much. And I shouted at her and I hurt her so much. I went to her and asked are you in relationship with someone else like that. So she got so angry. And I didn't relaized that. She told you won't change your character . But ri8 now I realized everything without her. I felt so bad what I did to her. So I went to her I told her that I am so sorry for everything. I don't have trust on you. I believe In others words. Not yours. I am so sorry. She told me I can understand your situation. And she told me don't wait for me I don't care you changed your character or not. I don't want any relation now I want to be happy with myself. I told her u r angry on me and my negative thoughts are making you to speak like this. But she told whatever, I am speaking normally with you . Don't wait and waste your time. I won't come back to you anymore. Is she will come back to me or not? We have to study till 4 more years in same class. What to do? She told I am not even Caring abt you. And she cried because of you I lost my Friends . But I can't understand her mind now is she is crying for them or for me. What to do now ?

  • @noelmedina5665
    @noelmedina5665 7 лет назад +19

    Wow dan thank you very much, I really needed this advice. I now have more confidence in myself and believe that I can get my ex back. Wish me luck

  • @samyy9226
    @samyy9226 7 месяцев назад +3

    Wish i had seen this sooner

  • @russschoewe3551
    @russschoewe3551 4 года назад +5

    What if after 3 years together she ended it through text message and she was with her new "man" 30 hours after breaking up with me?

  • @travisrush7689
    @travisrush7689 4 года назад +12

    Wow this is the best video I have ever seen on getting your ex back. Great detail and guidance to perfection. Your explanation on no contact is so true, I felt and did all of the things you mentioned. Lack of confidence and worrying if she's with someone else. I never healed from it with using no contact.

  • @georgesummers8480
    @georgesummers8480 4 года назад +4

    I’m in a sticky situation, I made the decision to break up with my girlfriend, which at the time I thought was the best thing for both of us. But leading on from that I now regret every single thing I did. She is the love of my life, the girl I wanted to marry, start a family with etc etc. She is currently speaking to someone at the moment but wants me to move on. But I just simply can’t.

  • @The_Man8719TwitchTV
    @The_Man8719TwitchTV 3 года назад +3

    Just a hypothetical question, what of both men are following your advice ?? Do I just get rid of the other guy?

  • @elvato8669
    @elvato8669 5 лет назад +7

    This os the best advice that I have heard in any RUclips channel.

  • @talkingchannel6439
    @talkingchannel6439 6 лет назад +14

    My ex from a long distance relationship left me because of lack of time and understanding. We dated for 4 months with physical contact and 8 months without physical contact. Can I still get her back?

  • @standarduserxy
    @standarduserxy 5 лет назад +8

    I just met my ex yesterday after long time no See. Asked for meeting to get closure.
    Thanked her today and told her it made it easier. We said our goodbyes but now, three hours later, she wants to know why the meeting made it easier.
    What do I do???

  • @pinkfurryhat
    @pinkfurryhat 4 года назад +8

    All this makes so much sense jfc i love it

  • @miroslavgroh2444
    @miroslavgroh2444 5 лет назад +8

    Thanks for the video and all your content, it gives me hope of getting my ex back

  • @faizanrashid6637
    @faizanrashid6637 6 лет назад +11

    How to interact when she doesn't want to talk? My girlfriend and I was dating for 2 years and we broke up. Now she blocked me from everywhere. She study in same university and class. But she is sitting with her new friend all the time. So who would I interact with her?

  • @justjames1111
    @justjames1111 3 года назад +7

    Just so much good advice Dan. One question if you don't mind, if an Ex has moved on and time has passed and a new guy is now living with her, what would you advise, or is there a 'point of no return' once a certain amount of time has passed e.g years? Thanks Dan.

  • @typerbatman3935
    @typerbatman3935 2 года назад +3

    I'm currently following this at the moment crazy how this actually works! I've leveled up I'm a better man 😤 and she can see that!! From the phone to the gym and now the bar last night 😏 cheers kings. Thank you @Dan Bacon

  • @jdx8K
    @jdx8K 2 года назад +2

    this video improve my emotional strength and my self confidence and I'm believing that I can get my ex back I just know it thanks dan🇹🇹💗

  • @WajahatAbbas-qw6ol
    @WajahatAbbas-qw6ol 7 дней назад

    Who else has got back by watching his videos

  • @loner_stoner6667
    @loner_stoner6667 7 лет назад +16

    Well this was helpful asf

  • @natej5440
    @natej5440 4 года назад +5

    to disrupt the moving on process should i contact her during no contact

  • @wikaum
    @wikaum 5 лет назад +3

    What if she and I aren't speaking anymore because she felt it would disrupt her new relationship? She said she accepted that me and her would just be friends and she no longer feels that way about me and that she's happy now. What should I do?

  • @osvaldocorza1483
    @osvaldocorza1483 7 лет назад +12

    My ex girlfriend always hid things from me, for example communication with guys she dated before me, now 2 months after the break up she denied me having other person involved after. I really want her back, Is it a good idea to tell that I always knew all the things she hid from me ?

  • @ishanksoni6233
    @ishanksoni6233 3 года назад +2

    Hey I want some advice from u, can u plz help me out from this situation

  • @tivoisxtothecore
    @tivoisxtothecore 7 лет назад +8

    this is whats going on with me right now
    I've been with my ex for 9 years
    we use to live with each other but last year she moved back with her parents and she works close by her parents. this year on July 14th she broke up with me and since then I've been going though it. been depressed as shit. she told me "sometimes people just grow apart." I did the whole annoy her process off calling her, begging her to the point she lost all respect for me. we still calls like sometimes once a day but she doesn't talk or chat or anything else on Facebook or whatever. she is with someone already also. she and him started dating on the day our break up.

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  7 лет назад +3

      Instead of talking to her every day, do this: ruclips.net/video/8NERcd2vI6E/видео.html

    • @tivoisxtothecore
      @tivoisxtothecore 7 лет назад

      oh nice u actually replied thanks
      ill check it out now

    • @tivoisxtothecore
      @tivoisxtothecore 7 лет назад

      can I DM you?
      I just have a lot to talk about and it just happened july 14th

  • @dendenmallorca8390
    @dendenmallorca8390 4 года назад +5

    Thank you so much 💓 you're a flipping legend! Kudos!

  • @darrensaunders626
    @darrensaunders626 9 месяцев назад

    Did all the wrong things. I wish i found your videos two weeks ago. We still live together bud shes not talking to me and stopped returning my texts. How do i get her to open up to me ?? Must i give her some space. Thanks again for the great advice 👍

  • @JRodthetripod69
    @JRodthetripod69 7 лет назад +3

    What if you said awful and cruel thing to her and about her kids? I have a kid with her too... so there should still be a way to get her back but yet I'm so stuck in this feeling of hopelessness.

  • @kevhed3589
    @kevhed3589 4 года назад +5

    Hey Dan, I'm in a real bad situation and need your expertise. I've been in a relationship for 9 years now and have three boys with her. To be breif I've done almost everything wrong over the years. She has decided to leave me. I believe it started as just a test and because of my persistent begging and pleading for almost 6 months now. Even finally proposed to her. She seems to of decided to go from a separation to a full on breakup. She plans on leaving in one week. Through it all I have really introspected and now finally understand the whole relationship and what I have been doing wrong and can easily make these behavior changes if given another chance. To make matters worse I believe she is already talking to someone else. I figure I should stop pleaing with her this last week we are together. Is there anything else you would recommend me to do?

  • @arkforthewin2907
    @arkforthewin2907 6 лет назад +4

    I need help plz it would mean the world to me if you help me ok so on Monday I got break up she told me she had to because of her parents because they want a man to have a good job also that they want that man to live alone I been contact her from then to Thur she said I should just move on but I want to get back with her also she is on dating sites already she said we can be friends but I don't want to what should I do plz help I said I can get a good job also live alone then she say don't to but she said she's still got feelings for me

  • @Volted_Z
    @Volted_Z 4 года назад +3

    Is their still a chance years on and she has another guy? I am the new me and she has not seen it

  • @ziyadomar5891
    @ziyadomar5891 7 лет назад +3

    What if you are in college and you see her almost everysingle day? And you talk to her

  • @randonlee
    @randonlee 7 лет назад +6

    I broke up with her last Nov. she calls me out of the blue 2 weeks ago to come over.. We had sex and danced and she said I have grown and become a great man. After this she has totally pulled away and said she doesn't know what she wants.. She even told me she loves me .. I may need to buy your system or I may just throw in the towel

  • @crimsoncannon2006
    @crimsoncannon2006 5 лет назад +4

    I needed this so bad

  • @rickfisher8959
    @rickfisher8959 7 лет назад +11

    Thanks man. Respect

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  7 лет назад

      You're welcome. Cheers

  • @breezy5831
    @breezy5831 7 лет назад +21

    God bless you Dan, you always hit it right on the nose.

  • @edmondmalepane3141
    @edmondmalepane3141 6 лет назад +16

    dude can you be my mentor

  • @sirshane7553
    @sirshane7553 3 года назад +3

    Thx bro hopefully it works

  • @eiji9840
    @eiji9840 4 года назад +4

    I really lack confidence

  • @Slow6oh_
    @Slow6oh_ 3 года назад +1

    she has a bf but ik she’s still in love with me but i don’t know how to break the tension

  • @abhishek_abhishek6
    @abhishek_abhishek6 5 лет назад +4

    Sir what if A girl leave her guy for sm1 else? Kindly make A video

  • @dailylifeactivities472
    @dailylifeactivities472 5 лет назад +4

    After begging pledging,,, i told her i won’t call you agian..after few minutes she calld me ask me can i call you sometimes (sad tune)???can you explain this??

  • @yn709
    @yn709 3 года назад +2

    Hey Dan, what if she has been with the guy for about 10 months now and lives with him?