Overcoming Adversity - How To Handle The Most Horrific Life Challenges Ever
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- Опубликовано: 16 фев 2014
- Overcoming Adversity -- The key mindset you need to have to handle adversity well. This one technique, if you do it, could turn your current situation around completely.
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if there is no enemy within the enemy outside can do us no harm. African proverb
so true!
Hey Leo,
I have been watching your videos for quite some time now (almost 11 months!) and I have to admit that these videos have changed my life.
I started with just randomly browsing through your videos (after I stumbled upon one) and later I just started following your personal development blueprint
I have become more confident, my health is great, my career is on the right track and I am not in therapy anymore (my doc has officially put me off medications)
I wanted to say a BIG thank you! thanks for making my life (and many others) better
hope your life is better than was 3 years ago.
*That’s great, l hope you still doing good🙏🏼✨‼️*
training, consistency, self discipline is the ultimate solutions
Any challenges in life, by staying true to myself I can overcome!
It must be difficult at times being a life coach. I say this because a lot of people out there just want an easy fix and not something they should be working at. I know I have definitely had my difficulties with wanting a fix and also telling the truth. Sometimes its hard to tell people truth but they do need it at times. I can understand now how some counselors, life coaches, and psychologists can be neurotic. It must be frustrating to try and sit there and explain to people the truth and they don't take it.
Not at all. Being a life coach is the easiest thing in the world for me. I don't baby people or try to bully them into doing anything. I don't push any personal agenda as a coach. As a coach, I mostly ask you questions. I don't force-feed you information like I try to do in my videos. It's a very different format. Very different audience.
The people I coach are extremely driven already. They are rockstars. A mediocre person would never hire a coach in the first place because they are too short-sighted to see the benefits.
If a life coach or psychologist is neurotic, that's because they don't practice what they preach, or they are in the wrong career.
I’m revisiting this video during a transitional period in my life and this is still as helpful as it was years ago. Thank you for producing your videos with the quality that you put in it. I appreciate it.
He is better than my therapist !!!
19:33 "Survive horrific things like death" ... 2014 Leo foreshadowing some enlightenment insight right here ;)
Thanks Leo for making and keeping this content available. I needed to hear it today. Loved your mantra too.
I met Victor Frankel when I was 13 years old and I bought his book. Very small town in Texas. I was surprised he was traveling around to these tiny places. But I had never heard of such a thing as the holocaust. It was so inspiring to me. I never forgot. 💜❤️💜❤️
The worst things to face in life are not those that are pointed at us, but at those we love.
There are some things we don't have the power to overcome, on their behalf.
That's the worst adversity life can offer.... usually accompanied by a
need to be strong for them. For all life's breif joys, this one aspect is the thing I shall be
most glad to see the back of, when my time comes.
Thank you Leo... I am dealing with something really hard in my life right now and the last three days I had literally given up and locked myself away from the world! I thank you for this video... you have no idea how much you are helping us out here! God Bless (however you want to take that... Lol!)
Thank you so much Leo.
I'm in a though situation at life now. I'm have been given a task that includes traveling a long distance with hotell stays. I am unsure of weather i am able to do complete the task in the given time period. But now i look at it as a challenge, and i can handle whatever challenge gets thrown at me.
Thanks again Leo, this will change my life.
Hearing this, listening to this felt like receiving a great and completely unaspected gift. I really hope that I oneday will be able and get a chance to give something back to you. Thank you Leo /Millan
Thank you God for letting me see this powerful guidance ❤️ i love you Leo thanks!! May you be successful in all your intentions xx
C'mon man, affirmations? I wan to reassure anyone who reads this, almost certainly lost forever comment, that even without affirmations, you almost certainly have built in to you what it takes to overcome the most severe adversity. I was a depressed, anxious poly drug addict who'd been hitting it for, shamefully, more than one dacade, I quit my career to take an easy part time job to pay for drugs, my grandma died after 10 years of Alzheimer's, then within the next couple of years my cousin and friend hung himself, both my parents died horrific deaths from cancer, one after the other over 10 months, I had to care full time for my mum for 8 months, losing my job, too many times watched the terror in her eyes as she had horrific seizures as the ambulance took 2 hours to arrive. And here I am, kicking heroin, getting my life in order and knowing that whatever comes my way, even my own death, I will deal with it because I am born with the innate ability to cope with the extreme suffering that our ancestors have evolved to cope with over millions of years.
I'm sorry for your loss...i wish more power to you..
Leo, I agree with you up to a point. When it comes to things like rape and torture , we may physically survive but mentally become a basket case. There are some horrible torturous scenarios a person can have happen to them. Some are not inflicted by another human being , like being burned all over in a house fire. Some things are just too much for certain people and understandably so.
AJ Steele I have experienced every form of trauma possible besides the death of a child. And I grow with every horrible rape,assault,paralyed,and on CHEMO at 39. And I always bounce back. I wonder if resilience could be part of some personality types.
@@mandyscardino9021 I will say that I appreciate your sharing that.
thanks for your video. I am in the process of moving to another state, finding new work, and dealing with some personal stuff all at the same time. Been real tough.
This video is really old but I’m just seeing it now. It’s an interesting perspective. It really is eye opening to imagine how primitive humans survived. Not only did they not have the tools, technology and conveniences we have but they had so little knowledge. I’ve never really thought about that before....what it must have been like basically being born into a vacuum....nothing to provide any context, not even any way to communicate before any sort of language was developed. That’s a wild thought! It certainly required a great deal of intuition and bravery and trust in eachother. It was probably very scary....but in a way, maybe it was a little better than existing with all the complexity in our world these days. Basic needs were prioritized and there was never a question as to what your focus should be. With no understanding of why you existed, where you came from or what your future may hold, you had no choice but to really live in the moment. Past and future were foreign concepts. All you had was the present moment. There is something liberating about that. Humans have come a long way and in some ways we’ve made life easier for ourselves but all that improvement and advancement came at a cost and we’ve lost sight of what really matters. We have almost too much knowledge now...which ultimately is distracting. It’s very interesting to think about.
Thank you, Leo.
Bruce Lee was very good on these sorts of areas
His book on philosophy is well worth reading/flicking through
He was far more than a mere martial artist.
Thank you for this video. i have been searching for awhile how to cope with my current position in life and how to press through. you didnt mention God but i truly believe he lead me to this video. i have been suffering with anxitey and this has helped me alot. idk if you are a man of faith but God bless you.
SO REAL!
THANK YOU!!!
thank you Leo, i needed to hear this today
Thank you Leo. You are so wonderful 🙏🏼
Great Video Leo!!! Love your content!!
Thanks Leo,
Thank you Leo , I needed that
Thank you leo for this philosophy. It makes a significant impact on my life.
THANK YOU SO MUCH
I may call you an earth angel
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you soooo much!!!
Thanks a lot
This is very powerful advice! Thank you!
Great stuff Leo
Your video was comforting thanks for that at least. Today was rough. I am suffering horrible vertigo and I got the bad news I gained weight again. It has caused me to go from ripped like a model to a massive gut. I work out for hours a day and still bigger and bigger. This is a nightmare as I was an anorexic. Meeting a specialist in 2 weeks. I eat very low numbers and gain weight weekly I now have hormonal problems and am almost infertile. I have been pretty much crying since I got up am still searching for answers. Running still comforts me at least.
Thank you Leo. This was very very useful, trust me! It came at a time I totally needed this
Thanks man ❤️
you have helped me a lot!! thanks for sharing this with everyone. ^.^
I really appreciated your videos!
Awesome explained. I was so in need of such video thanks. Liked
Nice!! I love this.
very nice insights, Leo.
swoosh this is timeless
Thanks a lot from France =) That was really inspiring, I'm gonna do the exercise with the sentence to repeat and i'm gonna start meditation =) Thanks again
I watched this video in the past but now I feel like I got it..
Resilience maybe could be ingrained in some of us that others don't have naturally. I am 39 and have devics disease. And I view it as part of my journey and I was supposed to listen to the message.
Coaching is good stuff we need more like like Leo and myself and others who really want this stuff, there is a growing need for these concepts, stuff they WON'T teach you in school, BUT SHOULD!! Coaching about making a connection with someone, once you've established a "bond" teaching and learning are shared, we ALL learn from each other. What Leo does is different than what I do but along the same path. Teaching is NOT as difficult as one might consider. You don't "spoon feed" anyone, if you have to do that you're wasting you're time, better off BOWLING or something, same thing again if you have to force them to learn you're wasting your time. You have to want to learn, if the desire is not there doesn't matter what he says or does you're just NOT gonna get it!! I work with my clients on a one on one basis, because I use a little more intensive system for people to pick some of this stuff up, I use SHOCK and AWE, it's the same thing like when you were a little kid, mom tells you DON'T touch that it's "HOT"
11:26 Resilience and man being Domesticated in the modern era. (while still being wild and primal and highly autonomous [unwilling to or conflicted about submitting to others, like submitting to a "boss" in a number of respects: body, psychological reactions/defence mechanisms, territorial,sensual-sexual,etc)
"The worst thing a man can do is become civilized."
Thanks Leo :')
I appreciate the content - people must take responsibility to overcome their adversity! I discuss this idea in the last video on my channel w/ a parenting twist - Though I have just 45 subscribers I hope people vibe with the message like I did w/ this video. Thanks again for the video.
whoa, whoa! :o
affirmations? Leo, you surprise me :(
Going through a brutal time right now, basically, visa bureaucracy delays forcing me to wait in my home country while my spouse kids and job in another country. Trying my best to work remotely from Airbnbs while I patiently and painfully wait for my visa. Praying, working and exercising. All I can do . Missed Xmas, new years and will miss my daughter's b day, all because of bureaucracy. Tears me up but what can you do, you pick up and move.
Sales is really challenging bro
I think that's my biggest problem though Leo. I no longer feel like I can handle any situation anymore, I'm getting older, I'm tired and I just want to give up.
I can relate to that. There's a duality to getting older ... if we're lucky, we gain sufficient wisdom to care less; but it's sometimes accompanied with less energy to deal with X, Y and Z.... Keeping fit helps, I think. Healthy body, healthy mind.
Hey Leo, awesome video but how's a way I can turn off the inner judge and be more accepting of lifes changes?Cause I've been meditating and practicing mindfulness for a bit and I notice that I'm aware that I'm judging but I notice every time I try to let to of the thought a part feels resistance or identified with those thoughts. Will persistence of these habits and this affirmation help overcome these fears and self absorbed tendency?
It takes LOTS of work. Follow the videos and keep practicing every day.
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Have you considered that tying to turn off the inner judge could itself be an act of judgement? It could be "this inner judge is bad, let me turn him off." In that case it would be the inner judge tricking you into relying on him, because he convinces you that only he is capable of helping you decide what is good and what is bad.
Do you help people personally? via email?
I would love to get your advice on somethings im dealing with right now. :)
13:33
Survive cancer? How come? I mean yeah we will survive a few months after being diagnosed with cancer but it will definitely kill us.
If Nosferatu and Tony Robins had a wild, cocaine fueled sex party, this would be the result LOL. Keep it up Leo, your a life saver.
Wow I am impressed by Ishita2288 Any suggestions where to start ?
Leo you really look like the V.I. Lenin)
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I will win
This is all connected to my OCD tendencies- are still coaching one on one?
What is an emotional breakdown?? Is it like having an anxiety attack, panic attack?
Yes. Or when you curl up into a fetal position and cry yourself to sleep. Or have suicidal thoughts. Or you just blow up at somebody with your anger.
which book did he recomend ???
Man's search for meaning
Whisky?
training, consistency, self discipline is the ultimate solutions