The way Mr.Karamo is so calm and he talks to his guests with a respectful tone and he’s so understanding with them. I wish there was more people out there like him.
Isn't that all we all need?! To be heard and seen. It makes me angry when parents bark at children to respect them when they are not being respectful to their children. Your date of birth doesn't entitle you to respect from a child. Respect does. Want respect? Give it.
I’m so proud of those young ladies in story 2 with the guy. They’re very mature and intelligent to not fight with each other realizing HE IS THE PROBLEM. I wish more people were level-headed like this! I wish them the best.
Except the part were they’re still sleeping with him knowing he’s never going to commit to either of them and then complain about him👀 not so mature and smart there
Wow, the first couple was very insightful. I never knew ptsd could manifest as anger and paranoia. I hope he gets some serious help as soon as possible. When he snapped back into his trauma, he went on a repeat loop. I’m blown away. I just never knew.
Yes. And speaking from experience of having ptsd & bipolar, he doesn't want help, and yes, she's playing a dangerous game.. she need s to stop enabling him, before it's too late..
It is! It’s really hard, I didn’t have ptsd like that but I had relationship ptsd that I ruined not knowingly to my current bf and I drove him away lots of times accusing him of cheating because I was so scared it’d happen again and I didn’t know I pushed him so far until I saw him break down or try and break up understandably, I would cry and hurt myself and throw up just thinking about other women with him and I never knew I was the issue until too late, I’d get mad ab little things like less attention or not being home from work on time little things I can see now are completely normal, it’s hell living like that and it really makes it feel like your right and someone’s hurting you :(
@@kingzmama9563bipolar is definitely something hard to deal with, but I can say it’s not impossible if their willing to change and get therapy it’s not always a dangerous game if they can get help
The first story is a great example of how guilt and paranoia can eat you up. These men get forgiven and spend eternity trying to find things to make them feel less guilty
An actual good talk show that holds the people accountable and shows them how to be good people in the future and portrays them as actual humans instead of exploiting their situations and using them as clout?! This is amazing!
I've learned so much in this video . I just found this out today and immediately went to see all the videos and I can tell that this is a really really good talk show.
No this is true mental illness. Most likely a paranoid/ schizophrenia. The host is professional and can’t just diagnosis him on tv. He did help him understand his paranoid thinking which is a great start for this man. But he is mentally ill
She's not a sociopath, she's still suffering from her own traumatized heart and needs to be able to heal.😢 It's a shame that she could not truly at least listen to her daughter and hear her heart as well. Both of them are in survival mode.
@@GypsyGirl317It’s true that the mother is traumatized but she’s probably not doing anything at all to heal it, while her daughter is pouring her heart out to her, talking about her pain. The mother is still talking about herself, saying things like “Have you ever used hard drugs?” To her own daughter as the daughter talks about her pain, the mom can talk about her own struggles, it looked like she didn’t listen to her daughter’s pain and talked about herself.
The last lady was a drug addict with narcissistic tendencies and her daughter underestimates how much of an impact that can have on people. Her mother has nothing to give.
The mother who got clean really touched me she jumped up immediately when she saw the hurt in her daughter her mother is truly sorry and really want to do better
the second girllllsss!!!!! i love that they stuck together and raise their kids together instead of fighting!! they see that their kids are human and watch what they do. they are great role models. i loved them!! great mothers fr
especially when you know that most Men don’t like to show how vulnerable they can be and i love when they’re in a safe space to just let all of that vulnerability out
You should never tell a daughter that as a child u copy ur parent or learn to be better she learn to be better they both need therapy not a 15 min blame game of yelling that girl wasn’t ready to accept an apology bc she would have listen to her mom help her mom understand her side in a calming matter if she was. More calm and each one talk they would have learn each other but they are basically strangers that got to get to know each other to gain respect and love
@@lataya26 did you not hear what the mother said? literally every time her daughter started to talk about her pain she would compare it to her pain and say that her pain is nothing compared to the mothers. that women is beyond saving and what kind of apology was that. she would use her past as a excuse for her actions. i just hope that the daughter is going to heal and the girls already said that she heard her mothers past a million times evrytime she would talk about her struggles.
Wasn’t expecting to cry during this but the mom and the daughter crying, got me crying… 😪. That was a genuine apology, and sometimes- that’s all we want from our parents: a genuine apology. That’s it. That heals soooo much trauma
Wow! The last clip of the mother and daughter. That mother clearly has been through so much, but she still has a hard time APOLOGIZING AND FULLY ACCEPTING HER ACTIONS that affected her daughter! She kept making excuses and offering explanations, but never just outright apologized for hurting her. I hope the daughter sees this and knows how much love and support she has behind her. You can tell how emotionally intelligent she has become because of what she dealt with growing up. I’m rooting for the mother’s healing, but ESPECIALLY so for the daughter. She’s doing such an amazing job. ♥️
Karamo, PLEASE don’t change. PLEASE don’t give in to the trashiness that other hosts have given into. YOU KNOW WHO I’m talking about - including the one that starts with “Dr.” You’re not exploiting our community; you’re helping us raise the mental health veil. You’re helping us see and heal generational trauma. Stay the course. You’re doing so amazing.
The last girl is way more emotionally intelligent than her mother, she needs to cut her off forever. I’d call her bro too! Mom is likely never going to change. I have this relationship with my mother, and I treat my dog with more grace and love than I was shown as a child. I’m not having children because the stress alone has caused me too much illness to pass on 😣
That young lady was full of rage and I can’t blame her either…I hope karamo can get them passed their anger and issues…the mom needs to listen to her daughter and stop making excuses…it’s so sad to see these parents have a tainted relationship with their kids…my heart goes out to that young lady
Mother's is the name for GOD in the lips and Hearts of All Children's. When A mother doesn't act like a mother A child has no choice but to die while breathing. Pretending to be strong. Childhood is over the moment you know you're going to die.
The way the guy in the second clip got quiet when he was asked, what does being an involved father look like to you and how how he answered shows the generational trauma he experienced from his own father. He was not guided and is perpetuating that same experience onto his own children.
So true. He is hiding behind being a cock man. Hiding behind how many women he can get, his looks, his swag etc. He told a lot about himself by the way he sat.
I'm so glad he accepted the offer of therapy. I saw him soften in that moment and allow his authentic vulnerable side to be seen. It felt like the two young ladies appreciated that as well, and were thinking deeply. ❤
I’m so in love with the way karamo directs these conversations , he gets people to easily change their minds in a positive way and see the brighter side of things in the world!
@@nhughes1162 exactly…it’s literally impossible. At that point the daughter is wanting something from and yelling at a BRICK WALL. Atp the mother already got all the blame and shame continuously saying that won’t help lmao 🤷🏾♀️ she needs to heal in the me time the daughter needs to just leave the mama alone
@@exvuo true but that mother will never hear her…if she couldn’t even fake it in front of thousands…hell even millions if it went viral, then she wont be able to fake it everyday. They both need healing of course the daughter does..that’s why she’s there. But all ik is that mother will RUIN her daughters life if she is in it
feel so much for the last girl. the mother is extremely narcissistic. no matter what you go through, it’s no excuse to be a bad mother. if anything, it should be a learning experience to be a better mother. she chose addiction over her children- some parents don’t deserve their children. mom couldn’t even listen to her daughters pain without talking about herself. shame
I'm a mother who had problems with addiction and I didn't take my kids through my s**t. I'm the one trying to get a relationship with them. My children have turned their backs on me. So what should I do?
@@lolaakin8460 They feel like I didn't love them. I knew I was too far out there and I wanted them to have a good life. I've tried to tell them but now they won't talk to me and I miss my kids. I really do love them with all my heart.
@@Lakesha-iy4fz i think trying to listen to them. and be patient because healing takes time. you love them and if you want things to get better, try slowly easing your way back into their lives. listen to them when they’re ready to be vulnerable about their side of the story. don’t cut them off or say anything until they’ve put out their sentiment, that way they’ll feel heard by you. then apologize. addiction must’ve been so difficult for you and i’m truly sorry but it’s no excuse to treat your children differently. even if you feel like they’re wrong, family is important. if it happened years ago, just apologize and work towards the future.
I absolutely love the way Karamo pours love into the guests on his show. What an awesome man. The black community needs more upstanding and loving men like him. Very uplifting❤
The third one and last really got me crying. It makes me wanna be way better to my mother cause others have way worse and my mother isn’t even a horrible parent, she and my grandmother are amazing. I am writing this as a 12 yr old who is sometimes rebellious. I don’t listen to my mother when she gives me the best advice, now that I see this it makes me want to love my mother tons!
The 4th mom is who she is and is a product of her enviornment. She is in a fight for her life but doesnt realize that she doesnt have to reside in the hustle and bustle but she can choose and live in peace! God bless her and her other children and grandchildren❤
“That relationship has died” he spoke a real word. he didn’t express any anger towards the mother but the guidance to the daughter. the mother is the lost cause and if growth is not her goal then it’s done. i pray for her strength.
Bc he actually cares. He wasn't sponsored by exploitative companies or people who have ulterior motives past helping the people they bring in the show.
The last mother. So emotionally unavailable, self victimised. it’s making me ANGRYYYY. That girl really set a good boundaries pushing away that mother.
those two young girls are perfect examples of strength, to be betrayed by a man over and over. be left with two kids each with an immature father doing the minimal...wow..they were respectful of themselves and each other, they were mature when their baby daddy was having an emotional convo with Karamo. they didnt beat him down although he did them bad. they are even co parenting with each other, their kids from same dad. We need more women like them. who look and another woman regardless of the circumstance and see themselves. just want them to wrap it up, kids are blessings but no more kids till they find a mature man and also there are diseases out there and they need to be healthy and alive to raise their beautiful kids. dont let these men who dont care about them take them away from who needs them
They’re also a great example of “use birth control and don’t repeat the same mistake twice” They’re still sleeping with a guy they know is sleeping around, by the looks of things, 4 babies later, no protection. So sickness can still bounce around them. Karamo did a good job addressing that part of them still sleeping with the dude
The one with meeco, diamond, and jamesha was very beautiful and refreshing to see. It was amazing to see that black man cry, that means he's taking a step towards emotional vulnerability and that's beautiful !
The mom with the jeans jacket, hands down, she is changing... she is trying, she is learning to love! She's giving it her all...unlike the last one, just horrific!
Thank you, Karamo. You give an hug of compassion, patience, validation, and honesty. Wish I could get help from you. I doubt my family would even show up. I'm not trying to play the victim. Just stating facts.
The last girl is going thru exactly what my mother went thru. Never being supported, no guidance being judged n neglected by mother but always pushed education.
The 3rd story made me cry because being a single parent mother we build up this wall the toughest skin for our kids and when realizing this is your family you go hard to protect them but also miss out on being yourself
I understand the last girl completely. Having a damaged mother who allows her bad choices and lack of self respect to negatively effect their children is not something we can understand. As the child, we cant comprehend how our own mothers can allow us to experience pain, suffering, and damage. It’s their choices that caused us to feel pain and we don’t see how their own pain can allow them to fail to protect their children.
The last one. The mother didn't have an excuse, she had every opportunity to learn and fix it. She fail as a mother. Hats off to the young woman on the last video. stay strong Queen ❤️
My heart breaks for the woman in the last story.. especially for the daughter because I understand what it feels like to want so badly for your mother to just acknowledge that she hurt you and show love. But I also feel sorry for the mother because she has created such a unpenatratable wall, because she doesn't want to take accountability for her actions and come to terms with how it hurt others, so she's robbing herself and her daughter of love, support and forgiveness. It's sad😢
Nah you're excusing the mother, you keep saying that you're not exusing her but YOU ARE not once did that mother apologize for her behaviour not once did she show empathy for a daughter while she was crying. My mother was a drug addict while i was young and STILL looked after me and my sister. That "mother" is just making everything about herself and trying to escape accountability AND YOU'RE HELPING HER DO THAT
I am so glad you see this. I honestly could not believe it. I wanted to stop watching after that, but decided to stick it out to see how the rest goes. It's the first time watching this show. I honestly think it will be the last as well. I just don't know.
I think he thought if he validated the mom’s feelings enough she’d have a breakthrough, but she just agreed with him bc she’s a narcissist 😅 I hate that it didn’t work bc it would’ve done alot for her daughter
I went thru that before. He said I was an informant. But it was the drugs he was on. He tried to kill me. He tape the curtains shut. Girl leave him please. Get out now.
hearing that man’s testimony when it came to accusing his wife, you can just tell there was a breakthrough like he started realizing he’s been projecting from a very traumatizing experience. i could hear the fear and emotion in his voice. i hope that he found the help that he needed
I’m glad to see the first couple being able to talk their feelings out and I know the husbands tears were sincere…he has a good woman and I wish them the best and stop accusing her of nonsense things that’s not happening
That last one I needed to hear. I've been there. Didn't grow up in the foster system. Had to just continue going through the abuse. Whether I was with mom or dad. As a young mom myself. I truly understand and hear her.
I resonated so much with the last family. My father is an alcoholic and for years I waited for him to apologize and give me the closure I needed. Unfortunately, it never came. Maybe it will, but until then I have to grieve the father I never had, set boundaries, and remember that I am my own rock. Thank you Karamo🙏🏾
I don’t know what brought me here. But mannnn I’ve been doing nothing but shedding tears. Idk if it’s because I can relate to some of this stuff or it’s just very emotionally deep. I’m definitely subscribed it’s giving me vibes of wanting to be a guess on the show but pride smh I know right
Stop making excuses for the mother. At the last clip The word mother is just a title, it does not mean Respect. Respect is earned, not owned throw a titel. That mom is grown. and the mother is alo a damn naricizzist. She did only talk about her feeling pain because she was under the drugs SHE PUT in her body. I bet 10000 dollars on that the mom Never said anything as an apology. She only said "dont cry about that, I did drugs and had bad side effects bla bla bla"
I swear I cry on every episode.. This man was heaven sent bc he changing lives all over and I'm just over here taking notes trying to be a better person, mother, child, friend just off his episodes
The last story, the mom is stubborn as hell! The daughter needs to focus on forging her own good memories with her child so her baby can have and feel what she didnt.
Incredible the last story, I lived with a mother centered on her and liar... I find myself there and thank you for this help. I will never be able to deduce that alone. Getting there, putting an end to this relationship (mother / daughter) is very difficult, learning to set limits and be your own rock! I hope to get there! Thanks ! 🇨🇵
I agree with you this broke my heart I didn't have a relationship with my mother I had a lot anger as a child, but when I became a mother I had to understand that my mother wasn't able to be there for me as a mother because she didn't know how her mother wasn't there for her. I now have a better understanding and grace for my mother I love and honor my mother so that I can live a long life I pray that this mother and daughter get the healing that they need
53:25 This trauma of the mother wound is so deep. But I believe they will overcome this. Her daughter is really trying . When her momma shared that she’s afraid, I got chills!! And she said bullying! As their therapist I would do some deep emotional work with them. They can do it!! ❤ Goodluck y’all!
She can’t apologize for her past because she doesn’t want to. She feels that she did no wrong. Her simply being there isn’t enough because from what it looks like she’s only there to shut her daughter down, and save face and defend her actions. Her being there doesn’t mean shit when all she’s doing is still talking about herself and shutting her daughter down.
I just fell in love with Karamo when I saw him connect with the man who was having PTSD… he supported him he supported his wife and he held him accountable and he will get him the help he needs…. No exploitation here! Bravo!
That poor girl in the last story, she couldn’t even be bothered to apologize to her daughter. She’s narcissistic and clearly doesn’t give a shit about her daughter.
Looking at this program makes me cry so much. I’m a grown woman and was so attached to my mama who passed 12 years ago. Still miss my mom in so many ways. 😢😢😢 just picturing being within a mother for this young lady. Oh my God it’s so painful. I felt so good when she said I love my mom. Oh God help her to heal. Karamo you are doing such a great job. God Bless You!🙏🏽❤️🌹
I have been scared as a child but I don't let it bother me. My mom was a victim of abuse and domestic violence .She got caught up in drugs. It's been mental illness in my family. My mom had mental illness all my childhood years. I respect her because I saw a sophisticated and intelligent woman before the illness. Now I'm her caregiver. I treat her with all the respect in the world.
Man my heart hurt for the third video because both mother and daughter went through the same thing around the same age too. Her own mother still don’t even know how to be a mother because her mother wasn’t even there for her. I hope this mother and daughter relationship is stronger and better than ever because I would be so heartbroken to learn that they didn’t try building a relationship. They both deserve each other to heal🥹🫶🏼😭😭
The Mom that couldn't apologize is so selfish! She doesn't apologize because she doesn't want to take accountability for her actions past and present! God bless the daughter and her child 🙏🏾💜
Karamo, thank you for doing a show thats healing vs exploiting. Growing up my stepmom would have those 90s shows on that were just toxic. And growing up in the era of true crime. Its sick. My dad was murdered 10 years ago, this August. And it kills me how television networks profit off these chaotic situational ratings... But you're actually doing the thing to bring up healing generational trauma into peoples households. Good work sir. I think you'll have a positive ripple effect on this strange corner of earth. 🖤
The fact that he’s a social worker and therapist and is facilitating this show 🔥 it’s literally no other show like this!!
Wow, makes a lot of sense...
❤😮
THAT explains it!
At all, i can definitely learn a lot from him ❤
Finally somebody legit
The third story, a beautiful grown lady crying like a little kid saying "All I wanted was my mom" that hit me so hard...
Same
Girl I'm at work balling my eyes out
@@HisLoveBirdme too omg
Same
Same..... Number to heaven ain't working
The way Mr.Karamo is so calm and he talks to his guests with a respectful tone and he’s so understanding with them. I wish there was more people out there like him.
Yesss, he was made for this. He is amazing.
The epitome of sophistication ❤
❤❤❤fr
The relief from the young woman in the last clip when she realizes Karamo and the audience understand her perspective and validate it is beautiful 👏
Isn't that all we all need?! To be heard and seen. It makes me angry when parents bark at children to respect them when they are not being respectful to their children.
Your date of birth doesn't entitle you to respect from a child. Respect does. Want respect? Give it.
I cried so hard when the mother got up and grabbed her daughter and wept with her. That was so so so beautiful!!! ❤
It was
Me too 😭😭😭😭
I felt it ❤❤❤
Me too! 😫🥺
Me too 😢
I’m so proud of those young ladies in story 2 with the guy. They’re very mature and intelligent to not fight with each other realizing HE IS THE PROBLEM. I wish more people were level-headed like this! I wish them the best.
Absolutely they were great and talked to each other communicated clearly.
I think he can be a good Dad. He just needs guidance. Props to those young ladies. ❤❤❤❤
Except the part were they’re still sleeping with him knowing he’s never going to commit to either of them and then complain about him👀 not so mature and smart there
the sleeping part is not tho
It’s only one is sleeping with him not they..
Wow, the first couple was very insightful. I never knew ptsd could manifest as anger and paranoia. I hope he gets some serious help as soon as possible. When he snapped back into his trauma, he went on a repeat loop. I’m blown away. I just never knew.
She playing a dangerous game
Yes. And speaking from experience of having ptsd & bipolar, he doesn't want help, and yes, she's playing a dangerous game.. she need s to stop enabling him, before it's too late..
It is! It’s really hard, I didn’t have ptsd like that but I had relationship ptsd that I ruined not knowingly to my current bf and I drove him away lots of times accusing him of cheating because I was so scared it’d happen again and I didn’t know I pushed him so far until I saw him break down or try and break up understandably, I would cry and hurt myself and throw up just thinking about other women with him and I never knew I was the issue until too late, I’d get mad ab little things like less attention or not being home from work on time little things I can see now are completely normal, it’s hell living like that and it really makes it feel like your right and someone’s hurting you :(
@@kingzmama9563bipolar is definitely something hard to deal with, but I can say it’s not impossible if their willing to change and get therapy it’s not always a dangerous game if they can get help
@@stoplayin21 it does feel dangerous. He doesn’t seem stable. I hope they’ll be ok
The first story is a great example of how guilt and paranoia can eat you up. These men get forgiven and spend eternity trying to find things to make them feel less guilty
So true
An actual good talk show that holds the people accountable and shows them how to be good people in the future and portrays them as actual humans instead of exploiting their situations and using them as clout?!
This is amazing!
That’s what I love about it, truly nothing like this show
I agree, he’s a saint
I've learned so much in this video
. I just found this out today and immediately went to see all the videos and I can tell that this is a really really good talk show.
Not really. Karamo is too biased.
@@naeco1602❤
The first story: he is deflecting and calling her a cheater and a liar because he is cheating and lying. It’s not paranoia.. he’s guilty and insecure
Thankyou!
I know I wasn’t buggin
No this is true mental illness. Most likely a paranoid/ schizophrenia. The host is professional and can’t just diagnosis him on tv. He did help him understand his paranoid thinking which is a great start for this man. But he is mentally ill
@@brendaleary92812 things can be true at once lol he used to dog that girl & it makes this issue worse for him he’s past scared of it happening to him
1st story is why you don't give ugly guys a chance
The last mother was so selfish, to hear her daughter cry out like that and still not get it? Must be a sociopath.
I think after the use of such a hard drug /drugs you don't feel anything or get anything anymore .....
That’s a full blown narcissist. Perfect example.
She's not a sociopath, she's still suffering from her own traumatized heart and needs to be able to heal.😢
It's a shame that she could not truly at least listen to her daughter and hear her heart as well. Both of them are in survival mode.
@@GypsyGirl317It’s true that the mother is traumatized but she’s probably not doing anything at all to heal it, while her daughter is pouring her heart out to her, talking about her pain. The mother is still talking about herself, saying things like “Have you ever used hard drugs?” To her own daughter as the daughter talks about her pain, the mom can talk about her own struggles, it looked like she didn’t listen to her daughter’s pain and talked about herself.
The last lady was a drug addict with narcissistic tendencies and her daughter underestimates how much of an impact that can have on people. Her mother has nothing to give.
The mother who got clean really touched me she jumped up immediately when she saw the hurt in her daughter her mother is truly sorry and really want to do better
the second girllllsss!!!!! i love that they stuck together and raise their kids together instead of fighting!! they see that their kids are human and watch what they do. they are great role models. i loved them!! great mothers fr
14:01 Wow, seeing a Black man embrace another Black man and tell him he’s safe after he shared such a deep emotion is beautiful.
especially when you know that most Men don’t like to show how vulnerable they can be and i love when they’re in a safe space to just let all of that vulnerability out
Beautiful moment
that last daughter needs to cut ties..and move forward on her own...because that self absorbed mother she has is never gonna give her what she needs.
You should never tell a daughter that as a child u copy ur parent or learn to be better she learn to be better they both need therapy not a 15 min blame game of yelling that girl wasn’t ready to accept an apology bc she would have listen to her mom help her mom understand her side in a calming matter if she was. More calm and each one talk they would have learn each other but they are basically strangers that got to get to know each other to gain respect and love
Look at her sitting there stonefaced as her daughter cries. She ain't shit.
@@lataya26 did you not hear what the mother said? literally every time her daughter started to talk about her pain she would compare it to her pain and say that her pain is nothing compared to the mothers. that women is beyond saving and what kind of apology was that. she would use her past as a excuse for her actions. i just hope that the daughter is going to heal and the girls already said that she heard her mothers past a million times evrytime she would talk about her struggles.
Wasn’t expecting to cry during this but the mom and the daughter crying, got me crying… 😪. That was a genuine apology, and sometimes- that’s all we want from our parents: a genuine apology. That’s it. That heals soooo much trauma
My mother would never
@@ajwriter5699 unfortunately, that’s the case for many of us …
whew lord I'm full on sobbing over here from that segment.
Wow! The last clip of the mother and daughter. That mother clearly has been through so much, but she still has a hard time APOLOGIZING AND FULLY ACCEPTING HER ACTIONS that affected her daughter! She kept making excuses and offering explanations, but never just outright apologized for hurting her. I hope the daughter sees this and knows how much love and support she has behind her. You can tell how emotionally intelligent she has become because of what she dealt with growing up. I’m rooting for the mother’s healing, but ESPECIALLY so for the daughter. She’s doing such an amazing job. ♥️
Ikr, it’s so sad 😕 she rlly deserves more ong
Why do i always cry when he hugs the men😢. Masculine affection is so honest and necessary. Like wow.
Omg when Karamo helped that young man and hugged him and he opened up and accepted counseling 😢😢😢😢
Poor thing needs more than counseling. He needs medication therapy as well.
Karamo, PLEASE don’t change. PLEASE don’t give in to the trashiness that other hosts have given into. YOU KNOW WHO I’m talking about - including the one that starts with “Dr.”
You’re not exploiting our community; you’re helping us raise the mental health veil. You’re helping us see and heal generational trauma.
Stay the course. You’re doing so amazing.
The last girl is way more emotionally intelligent than her mother, she needs to cut her off forever. I’d call her bro too! Mom is likely never going to change. I have this relationship with my mother, and I treat my dog with more grace and love than I was shown as a child. I’m not having children because the stress alone has caused me too much illness to pass on 😣
😢
That young lady was full of rage and I can’t blame her either…I hope karamo can get them passed their anger and issues…the mom needs to listen to her daughter and stop making excuses…it’s so sad to see these parents have a tainted relationship with their kids…my heart goes out to that young lady
Mother's is the name for GOD in the lips and Hearts of All Children's. When A mother doesn't act like a mother A child has no choice but to die while breathing. Pretending to be strong. Childhood is over the moment you know you're going to die.
I just wanna give her a big hug
I loved Momma with the blond hair. Especially, since she and her daughter are going to be just fine❤❤❤
The daughter and the mother hugging and crying had me bawling my eyes out
I really fought tears their whole conversation and that part tore me up
Me too
The way the guy in the second clip got quiet when he was asked, what does being an involved father look like to you and how how he answered shows the generational trauma he experienced from his own father. He was not guided and is perpetuating that same experience onto his own children.
So true. He is hiding behind being a cock man. Hiding behind how many women he can get, his looks, his swag etc. He told a lot about himself by the way he sat.
I'm so glad he accepted the offer of therapy. I saw him soften in that moment and allow his authentic vulnerable side to be seen.
It felt like the two young ladies appreciated that as well, and were thinking deeply. ❤
amen
Broke my heart
the man with ptsd broke my heart. god bless him i hope he heals.
I’m so in love with the way karamo directs these conversations , he gets people to easily change their minds in a positive way and see the brighter side of things in the world!
The last story has me in tears. The daughter didn't deserve that. Her mother really said it wasn't her fault when it really was.
My heart goes out to the daughter in the last story. How can a mom be so selfish and couldn’t even apologize to her daughter. Disgusting honestly.
That relationship doesn’t need to be mended
This is the reason not an excuse because the mother needs healing her own self
@@nhughes1162 exactly…it’s literally impossible. At that point the daughter is wanting something from and yelling at a BRICK WALL. Atp the mother already got all the blame and shame continuously saying that won’t help lmao 🤷🏾♀️ she needs to heal in the me time the daughter needs to just leave the mama alone
@RolloKoster You see, not only does the mom need healing but SO does the daughter, she's yelling because she wants to be HEARD
@@exvuo true but that mother will never hear her…if she couldn’t even fake it in front of thousands…hell even millions if it went viral, then she wont be able to fake it everyday. They both need healing of course the daughter does..that’s why she’s there. But all ik is that mother will RUIN her daughters life if she is in it
The third story was sooo much sadder than I imagined, the daughter’s pent up emotion pouring out on stage really got to me.
The third story always gets me 😭🥺🥺🥺
I’m in tears
Literally me too - brought me to tears
Bawling 🥺🥺🥺
Found this show by
Accident but now I'm hooked. Great show 🎉
feel so much for the last girl. the mother is extremely narcissistic. no matter what you go through, it’s no excuse to be a bad mother. if anything, it should be a learning experience to be a better mother. she chose addiction over her children- some parents don’t deserve their children. mom couldn’t even listen to her daughters pain without talking about herself. shame
Here is the reason her mother needs to heal to they both need to heal and they need counseling. It's very deep-rooted psychological help
I'm a mother who had problems with addiction and I didn't take my kids through my s**t. I'm the one trying to get a relationship with them. My children have turned their backs on me. So what should I do?
@@Lakesha-iy4fzMaybe apologize and show them you've changed
@@lolaakin8460 They feel like I didn't love them. I knew I was too far out there and I wanted them to have a good life. I've tried to tell them but now they won't talk to me and I miss my kids. I really do love them with all my heart.
@@Lakesha-iy4fz i think trying to listen to them. and be patient because healing takes time. you love them and if you want things to get better, try slowly easing your way back into their lives. listen to them when they’re ready to be vulnerable about their side of the story. don’t cut them off or say anything until they’ve put out their sentiment, that way they’ll feel heard by you. then apologize. addiction must’ve been so difficult for you and i’m truly sorry but it’s no excuse to treat your children differently. even if you feel like they’re wrong, family is important. if it happened years ago, just apologize and work towards the future.
I absolutely love the way Karamo pours love into the guests on his show. What an awesome man. The black community needs more upstanding and loving men like him. Very uplifting❤
The entire world needs more men like him, he’s such an inspiration truly ❤️
Chrisean rock family need to get om this show 🤣
Lololol😂
And do 😂
Lmaooooooo😂😂😹😹😹😹😭😭😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Yes she do bc it is going to be in all drama
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Yo back tf up 😂😂
The third one and last really got me crying. It makes me wanna be way better to my mother cause others have way worse and my mother isn’t even a horrible parent, she and my grandmother are amazing. I am writing this as a 12 yr old who is sometimes rebellious. I don’t listen to my mother when she gives me the best advice, now that I see this it makes me want to love my mother tons!
💚💚💚 I wish you a beautiful and blessed life, love. Rely on them and talk to them about what you’re going through. Hug them.
Amazing!
I just want to hug the last girl. As a momma my heart breaks for the mom that she is and the 15 year old that she was.
The 4th mom is who she is and is a product of her enviornment. She is in a fight for her life but doesnt realize that she doesnt have to reside in the hustle and bustle but she can choose and live in peace! God bless her and her other children and grandchildren❤
I’m in tears over the 3rd story 😭
I can't stop crying 💔
I love how the moms in the second video were able to move past their differences and are at least trying to raise their kids together
The 2nd to last mother seems like she was very intelligent and responsive. Love that!
“That relationship has died” he spoke a real word. he didn’t express any anger towards the mother but the guidance to the daughter. the mother is the lost cause and if growth is not her goal then it’s done. i pray for her strength.
Way better then Dr Phil 💯💯💯
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He is for African American audience. It's a niche that needs mental health intervention.
Bc he actually cares. He wasn't sponsored by exploitative companies or people who have ulterior motives past helping the people they bring in the show.
@christina7662...right👍🏾 Dr. Phill is arrogant and pompous. Comes across like he knows everything. I definitely stopped watching his show.
I love this show!
The last mother. So emotionally unavailable, self victimised. it’s making me ANGRYYYY. That girl really set a good boundaries pushing away that mother.
The mom tried her best.
@@auzy2u845 lmfao ive never seen someone try less in my life
those two young girls are perfect examples of strength, to be betrayed by a man over and over. be left with two kids each with an immature father doing the minimal...wow..they were respectful of themselves and each other, they were mature when their baby daddy was having an emotional convo with Karamo. they didnt beat him down although he did them bad. they are even co parenting with each other, their kids from same dad. We need more women like them. who look and another woman regardless of the circumstance and see themselves. just want them to wrap it up, kids are blessings but no more kids till they find a mature man and also there are diseases out there and they need to be healthy and alive to raise their beautiful kids. dont let these men who dont care about them take them away from who needs them
They’re also a great example of “use birth control and don’t repeat the same mistake twice”
They’re still sleeping with a guy they know is sleeping around, by the looks of things, 4 babies later, no protection. So sickness can still bounce around them.
Karamo did a good job addressing that part of them still sleeping with the dude
@@B.Bunny.B exactly
Story #3 wow 😢 I mean I’m happy the mom and daughter were able to fix their differences but the daughter crying has me in tears.
I am still crying💔
I feel her pain , I can definitely relate, God bless these families
It made me bawl. It reminds me of the conversations I want to have with my mom about recent topics, but I can't because she's passed.
The one with meeco, diamond, and jamesha was very beautiful and refreshing to see. It was amazing to see that black man cry, that means he's taking a step towards emotional vulnerability and that's beautiful !
The mom with the jeans jacket, hands down, she is changing... she is trying, she is learning to love! She's giving it her all...unlike the last one, just horrific!
the last mother and daughter had me crying wow. Karamo show called us back but I declined lol I'm not ready to get this raw and uncut
Karamo and these hugs in the exact moment it is needed is always powerful- people are really hurting 💛✨
The man is absolutely amazing. I’m watching him heal ppl in real time ✨
Thank you, Karamo. You give an hug of compassion, patience, validation, and honesty. Wish I could get help from you. I doubt my family would even show up. I'm not trying to play the victim. Just stating facts.
The last girl is going thru exactly what my mother went thru. Never being supported, no guidance being judged n neglected by mother but always pushed education.
Exactly so it should be easier for her to understand where her mother was
The 3rd story made me cry because being a single parent mother we build up this wall the toughest skin for our kids and when realizing this is your family you go hard to protect them but also miss out on being yourself
I understand the last girl completely. Having a damaged mother who allows her bad choices and lack of self respect to negatively effect their children is not something we can understand. As the child, we cant comprehend how our own mothers can allow us to experience pain, suffering, and damage. It’s their choices that caused us to feel pain and we don’t see how their own pain can allow them to fail to protect their children.
I have to give it to Karamo. This show is something magical and really gives space for healing to so many families. This is so refreshing! 💫
wife #1 is a total sweetheart
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The last one. The mother didn't have an excuse, she had every opportunity to learn and fix it. She fail as a mother. Hats off to the young woman on the last video. stay strong Queen ❤️
100%
The first woman needs to run like the wind and for future reference, when someone apologize to you and says "but" it's not a sincere apology at all!!!
I just commented the same exact thing. He’s gonna kill this woman.
She needs to run like hell
The last story pulled at my heart. Grieve the relationship, set boundaries, and be my own rock ❤
Crying for the young man with 4 kids. Young men need our help. They hold so much in and are hurting
Literally I felt the same way. I really wanted to be there to give him a huge hug and tell him it will be okay
He just need to heal and find guidance
Or buy condoms
The first couple her husband should be happy she wants him cuz he funny looking. 😂😂😂
And he crazy on top of it😅😅
and has the brain to match. crazy mf
And that's why he's insecure.
Don't b rude guys cmon now has nothing to do with looks that's not how love works
On God😭😭😭
The mother daughter made me cry my mom passed away before we talked things out
My heart breaks for the woman in the last story.. especially for the daughter because I understand what it feels like to want so badly for your mother to just acknowledge that she hurt you and show love. But I also feel sorry for the mother because she has created such a unpenatratable wall, because she doesn't want to take accountability for her actions and come to terms with how it hurt others, so she's robbing herself and her daughter of love, support and forgiveness. It's sad😢
Very well said !
He's simply insecure because of his looks, and it's sad for him to put his insecurities on her.
He’s mentally ill and paranoid
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Karamo & his show is beyond REFRESHING!!! I learn something from every show, he's beyond the STRATOSPHERE!!!!!!
Nah you're excusing the mother, you keep saying that you're not exusing her but YOU ARE not once did that mother apologize for her behaviour not once did she show empathy for a daughter while she was crying. My mother was a drug addict while i was young and STILL looked after me and my sister. That "mother" is just making everything about herself and trying to escape accountability AND YOU'RE HELPING HER DO THAT
I am so glad you see this. I honestly could not believe it. I wanted to stop watching after that, but decided to stick it out to see how the rest goes. It's the first time watching this show. I honestly think it will be the last as well. I just don't know.
I think he thought if he validated the mom’s feelings enough she’d have a breakthrough, but she just agreed with him bc she’s a narcissist 😅 I hate that it didn’t work bc it would’ve done alot for her daughter
Karamo's show should be on one of the major networks! Like this is the SHOW!
I went thru that before. He said I was an informant. But it was the drugs he was on. He tried to kill me. He tape the curtains shut. Girl leave him please. Get out now.
Wow...this guy is actually good at this, and not just egging people on to be, or continue to be their worst selves for entertainment.
Karamo is a blessing to this world ❤
Man I wish every family could go talk to this man & get these feelings out. Our communities & country would be a much better place!!
Karomo you're amazing. You help people heal and find closure. This is a great television host. Thanks for sharing your heart to many ❤️
The first couple. She don’t have to deal with that. This is mind blowing I would let him go. She can do better than that.
That last story really hurt me. The "mom" was extremely selfish and blamed the daughter for her faults. Sad
hearing that man’s testimony when it came to accusing his wife, you can just tell there was a breakthrough like he started realizing he’s been projecting from a very traumatizing experience. i could hear the fear and emotion in his voice. i hope that he found the help that he needed
Karamo is proof that there are still good reasonable men out there. Love this show ❤
I’m glad to see the first couple being able to talk their feelings out and I know the husbands tears were sincere…he has a good woman and I wish them the best and stop accusing her of nonsense things that’s not happening
❤ my life too. Mine is accusing me of cheating when i have no interest in doing so .
"You use the same tone .... You might be mad, and still use the same tone....... " 🤣🤣
That last one I needed to hear. I've been there. Didn't grow up in the foster system. Had to just continue going through the abuse. Whether I was with mom or dad. As a young mom myself. I truly understand and hear her.
I resonated so much with the last family. My father is an alcoholic and for years I waited for him to apologize and give me the closure I needed. Unfortunately, it never came. Maybe it will, but until then I have to grieve the father I never had, set boundaries, and remember that I am my own rock. Thank you Karamo🙏🏾
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42:28 the proud face of mom. Man I’m in tears!!
I don’t know what brought me here. But mannnn I’ve been doing nothing but shedding tears. Idk if it’s because I can relate to some of this stuff or it’s just very emotionally deep. I’m definitely subscribed it’s giving me vibes of wanting to be a guess on the show but pride smh I know right
I'm disappointed with how you treated the last girl. You validated that narcissistic mother too damn much!
The last girl is in so much pain from the past and her mother clearly doesn’t want to acknowledge her or try to understand her.
3rd story has to be hard for mom to hear what happened to her daughter especially since it happened to her...that curse! They just gotta work
Stop making excuses for the mother. At the last clip
The word mother is just a title, it does not mean Respect. Respect is earned, not owned throw a titel.
That mom is grown. and the mother is alo a damn naricizzist.
She did only talk about her feeling pain because she was under the drugs SHE PUT in her body.
I bet 10000 dollars on that the mom Never said anything as an apology. She only said "dont cry about that, I did drugs and had bad side effects bla bla bla"
Omg thank u ! She upset my soul
I swear I cry on every episode.. This man was heaven sent bc he changing lives all over and I'm just over here taking notes trying to be a better person, mother, child, friend just off his episodes
The last story, the mom is stubborn as hell! The daughter needs to focus on forging her own good memories with her child so her baby can have and feel what she didnt.
Incredible the last story, I lived with a mother centered on her and liar... I find myself there and thank you for this help. I will never be able to deduce that alone. Getting there, putting an end to this relationship (mother / daughter) is very difficult, learning to set limits and be your own rock! I hope to get there! Thanks ! 🇨🇵
37:14 I felt Mama's hurt and her wanting forgiveness.
I agree with you this broke my heart I didn't have a relationship with my mother I had a lot anger as a child, but when I became a mother I had to understand that my mother wasn't able to be there for me as a mother because she didn't know how her mother wasn't there for her. I now have a better understanding and grace for my mother I love and honor my mother so that I can live a long life I pray that this mother and daughter get the healing that they need
I love how kind and warm Karamo is to his guests.
53:25 This trauma of the mother wound is so deep. But I believe they will overcome this. Her daughter is really trying . When her momma shared that she’s afraid, I got chills!! And she said bullying!
As their therapist I would do some deep emotional work with them. They can do it!!
❤ Goodluck y’all!
Clip #3 is a tear jerker!!! Pass the tissues 😢😢😢 i pray they both heal and form a close bond ❤❤
She can’t apologize for her past because she doesn’t want to. She feels that she did no wrong. Her simply being there isn’t enough because from what it looks like she’s only there to shut her daughter down, and save face and defend her actions. Her being there doesn’t mean shit when all she’s doing is still talking about herself and shutting her daughter down.
I just fell in love with Karamo when I saw him connect with the man who was having PTSD… he supported him he supported his wife and he held him accountable and he will get him the help he needs…. No exploitation here! Bravo!
That poor girl in the last story, she couldn’t even be bothered to apologize to her daughter. She’s narcissistic and clearly doesn’t give a shit about her daughter.
Looking at this program makes me cry so much. I’m a grown woman and was so attached to my mama who passed 12 years ago. Still miss my mom in so many ways. 😢😢😢 just picturing being within a mother for this young lady. Oh my God it’s so painful.
I felt so good when she said I love my mom. Oh God help her to heal.
Karamo you are doing such a great job. God Bless You!🙏🏽❤️🌹
I have been scared as a child but I don't let it bother me. My mom was a victim of abuse and domestic violence .She got caught up in drugs. It's been mental illness in my family. My mom had mental illness all my childhood years. I respect her because I saw a sophisticated and intelligent woman before the illness. Now I'm her caregiver. I treat her with all the respect in the world.
I’m sorry about all the trauma your family has experienced. Blessings and healing for you all. Hope you’re looking after yourself as well ❤
Man my heart hurt for the third video because both mother and daughter went through the same thing around the same age too. Her own mother still don’t even know how to be a mother because her mother wasn’t even there for her. I hope this mother and daughter relationship is stronger and better than ever because I would be so heartbroken to learn that they didn’t try building a relationship. They both deserve each other to heal🥹🫶🏼😭😭
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The Mom that couldn't apologize is so selfish! She doesn't apologize because she doesn't want to take accountability for her actions past and present! God bless the daughter and her child 🙏🏾💜
Karamo, thank you for doing a show thats healing vs exploiting.
Growing up my stepmom would have those 90s shows on that were just toxic. And growing up in the era of true crime. Its sick. My dad was murdered 10 years ago, this August.
And it kills me how television networks profit off these chaotic situational ratings... But you're actually doing the thing to bring up healing generational trauma into peoples households. Good work sir. I think you'll have a positive ripple effect on this strange corner of earth. 🖤