The mum who tested positive for drugs has lovely children. I wish she knew that. Her behaviour is affecting her son. Her daughter shows a lot of maturity, She's in charge of that home. Mum is really blessed to have a daughter like that, reaching out to Karamo to make things in the home better. God bless her.
Karamo is amazing, he’s like the trauma whisperer. His tone when he is dealing with all these broken people is heart warming and you can feel how genuine he is and wants to help! ❤ this show.
Too bad their behavior won’t pass down generational lifespans cause it won’t. These disrespectful kids days are getting shorter and shorter cause they’re not disciplined like the older generations the older generations had respect for elders ALL elders
Grandma KNOWS EVERYTHING except how to properly love a girl/woman. She doesn't want to hold herself accountable for making this young girl deal with her own grievances that haven't been addressed. The granddaughter would reject her because there is no open-door policy with a lot of old-heads out here.
I hope this show wins Emmys and NAACP awards. Karamo is an exceptionally great social worker/psychologist, communicator, and human being. His life is so very purposeful. His sons are really lucky.
i literally feel so bad for the granddaughter. she’s so mature and intelligent in many aspects. she isn’t even disrespectful in the slightest but the grandma gives away a lot of hints that show signs of disrespect, manipulative behaviour and so on. zandra ain’t do nothing wrong. she’s such a sweet heart and doesn’t deserve any of this. i hope she can live on her own and find peace someday ❤
@@Kscomelli I agree. the grandmother is scared and hurt from the loss of her daughter and unfortunately is taking it out on her granddaughter. she can't see her granddaughter for who she is and is making her live in her parents' shadow. I pray that God will bless the granddaughter to keep her mind and feet on a straight path.
Real apologies don't come with a backhand. Understood that the gma probably didn't learn to love herself properly/hasn't grieved her daughter properly. Being a parent myself it's hard NOT to learn to get my mental health in check. Hopefully they can break some cycles
@@naaeexx she didn't truly mean it, it came with a qualifier... 🤦🏻♀️ She needs some counselling to deal with her own issues. She needs to be more respectful of her grandchildren and more mature in her approach to their young adulthood.
Did y’all peep how he greeted MyAsia. He saw her effort and disarmed her defensive energy so fast with just his hug greeting and acknowledgment 💛Karamo for President
I love Karamo. He’s the real deal. His show is refreshing to see after growing up watching Maury, Jerry, etc where toxicity was encouraged and embraced. He humanizes his guests instead of making a mockery out of them.
I agree with you. My mother and father used to tell me how much they did not like me & that I was like my father's mother...they hated her and just because I was like her they looked at me like I was her. It even trickled down to my daughter...they told her (one time) that she was just like her great grandmother, I knew what they meant by that. Needless to say, It did not happen again. Abuse me but not my babies.
I can empathize with the grandma though because she shouldn’t have to be raising any kids at this point of her life but by default she has to now. She’s definitely wrong though in her approach, but it’s a really tough spot to be in for her.
I like how he was giving Melanie hugs a lot but damn her brother sure did need a hug too, you could see it in his eyes he was hurting about something too, probably something deeper than just his sister
That's because the host doesn't support men he only supports toxic behavior in women and that's real talk look at a lot of his shows he always make the man leave the stage
The grandmother kicks her granddaughter out but is upset that her granddaughter is gravitating to someone that is caring for her? Make it make sense🤷🏾♂️
Throw all of the dishes away ,that was my solution 🤷🏾♀️😂😂😂 my kids was pissed. After a while u get tired of repeating the same things. I bet they learned. They started coming home from grandma & father houses with bowls & spoons & once they didn’t wash those I threw them away to 😂😂😂. Eventually they got the message, now the sink is squeaky clean 🎉
Found him on instagram, and now I can’t stop binge watching this show. Wow this is amazing and crazy at the same time how I see people just broken and hurt and they act out in certain ways
The show is like being a fly on the wall in family counseling ; you really get to see real people with real issues and you realize everyone is dysfunctional, no family is perfect and some peoples problems are way worse than your own. This is not staged , it’s not to exploit them it’s to bring their troubles to light to see another way . I love Karamo
13:46 This grandma and granddaughter situation was traumatizing to listen to. The audience laughed at the fact that she was putting her hands on her grand daughter.. This is what I’m talking about when I say abuse against black girls goes unnoticed, they enable it and see it as discipline or a justified reason or a joke. It just makes me so sick to my stomach. You should never EVER put your hands on someone just because of what they said.
@@tomsawyer1109 I can only speak from my experience. And from my own experience everything I went through got pushed under the rug, while my older brother had more freedom than I did.
I was raised in the old school if you think your grown and disrespectful when I have to be your PROVIDER you should be able to take a ass whopping…. cause when these kids fuck up it’s the parents who have to pick up the pieces. The PARENT is responsible for the child & most kids who don’t have discipline turn out like these kids. The granddaughter was the only MISUNDERSTOOD child out of the bunch every other child thought they had it figured out
@@sincereboykin1035did we watch the same show? Cuz most of these kids are dealing with the consequences of unstable households. The 1st daughter didn’t even know who her father was, the 2nd girl lost her mom and was dealing with an emotionally abusive grandma, the other 16 year old had to step up and be an adult because of her mom’s behavior. Discipline is doesn’t need to be physical and these kids deserve stability, consistency, example and love. Not this bs 🤷🏽♀️
I wish I had his wisdom and compassion growing up. Karamo will heal, change and grow generations of traumatised people. I LOVE BRO!! Mad respect for the work you do!!
The grandmother in the second clip?? Who talks to a baby like this?? I hope she gets far away from her ASAP. Life is too short and beautiful to live under the thumb of a resentful, bitter old woman. I don't know much about this show or Karamo, but I pray CPS was contacted.
The grandmother and granddaughter are also triggering because the mother daughter relationship dynamic in black families needs to change. The way black moms not ALL but many have torn their daughters down through tough love needs to change as well. Many black girls feel rejected not only by absent fathers and the single moms who raised them out of fear of them turning out like them( used harsh language and unfair punishments)Moms traumas bleeding on their daughters still in 2023. We need to heal this generational trauma.
She needs to be in classes that will keep her engaged. Sometimes they go too slow in these classes. It’s a problem because the child is ahead then stops paying attention at all then can become so far behind. It’s a terrible cycle. That young lady is very bright.
I think the second teenager (the little girl with her grandma) was actually very smart and articulate!! I think it was actually the grandma doing wrong with that situation. She's very old school & getting older so I think having to raise her grandkids is stressful for her so she's taking it out on her granddaughter. That young girl, I think is going to go far! She seems extremely smart, intelligent, well spoken, & respectful to me!! (Not saying the young girl isn't doing things wrong, the Grandma is doing & saying alot worse things)
It breaks my heart to hear the little boy, Troy, talk about his mothers boyfriend. I relate deeply to the police being called and ignoring the obvious abuse of Black children. I really hope the adults in his life able to help him distance from that man. Abused kids often act out, period. It seems like he has a great sister behind him, offering to take custody of a child is a huge deal. Mom seems genuine too, i really hope at it goes well for them all.
I’m sitting here boo-hoo crying. I don’t know how this channel popped up on my feed but I’m telling you this show is so needed, I absolutely love it. I hope you have many more seasons to come because we need this so badly, thank you. ❤
With troy i was fighting back tears the whole time, i couldn't look at the mom cuz all I saw was the damage and the darkness from the drugs and the past. God bless his sister, that's a woman every brother needs... One that i need.
The grandmother and granddaughter portion is a triggering for ME! I gotta heal more of my inner child after watching this! I only finished it because I wanted to watch all of the episodes. We have to fix this within our culture frfr. I'm 38 years old and after this I feel like a child.😢
My mother is similar to the grandma so this was triggering for me as well, it took me 4/5 years to completely heal my inner child. I’m 32. Its hard but possible ❤
The situation with the grandmother and her grand-daughter, the young boy with the sister with the afro, and the two girls where one had a job: all these scenarios really show how parents and parental guardians really often ignore how much impact they have on their children. Most children need attention, nuturing, and quality time together. I really hope the best for these children. My heart also goes out for the brother who brought his sister.
the grandma: "I always give her time to talk and never talk over her." also the grandma: "NO- no no, that's not what happened, she's wrong." literally cutting her off the whole time💀
Old school parenting is why a lot of adults traumatize their kids now with a bunch of “tough love” aka abuse. Either it’s physically, emotionally, mentally- weird asl. Old school is the reason “children are seen and not heard” phrase was even created. Ridiculous behavior, the disrespect and expecting respect is ridiculous. - That grandma gonna be mad where she end up- in a nursing home 😂
Facts. I hated that my parents treated me as if I didn’t have a say or voice anything im glad i always stood my ground im not accepting nobody’s bs😂 27:49
As a great grandma now I completely agree with you. ❤️ I raised my son with unconditional love and acceptance, treated him respectfully from baby age, and listened to his heart always. ♥ He is now a fantastic husband and father.
Too many people do not understand that children are humans. Doesn't matter their age, they are humans. They need guidance not abuse. You wouldn't treat an adult the way most people treat their kids.
So where do you learn who to respect? And what that looks like? And when you step out of line what does correction look like? What yall don't want to admit is that there is a time and place for everything, and that NOBODY gives a damn about what makes you as an individual uncomfortable if you disregard the comfort of everyone else. That's respect.
Let me tell y’all something that “shoot you in the foot” “get out of line” is NOT old school! That is language spoken straight from the MASTER’s mouth that has been taught and passed down through black generations! We have to break the chains black parents✊🏾✊🏽✊🏿PLEASE🙏🏾
I live in the UK (no lived experience of the USA) and I immediately thought that phrase had a slaver connotation. It's ugly. Cripple you so that you can't run away.
Christina with the 2 teen girls was a young mom and that’s part of it. She had to grow up early and expects her daughters too. I cried with this story because I think they family issues can change.
J has a stress or anxiety condition. She just ripping her hair out. 1:13:51 I also think shes having an identity crisis that could be contributing to that stress. Im glad she agreed to talk to someone. She was really the one that worried me the most since she's already in a gang and thinking the wnba wants gang members on their teams. Her compass is just spinning out & i hope she gets help.
I think there’s more going on. I think Something crazy happened to her in the group home. The way her brother was giving mum the side eye when she was speaking. He knows what’s going on but isn’t going to push his sister under the bus. I pray they get the help and support they need!
I’ve never seem or heard of this show but i love what he doing with this. Giving children a space to be heard and seen and forcing parents to face the monsters they refuse to acknowledge they created. It would be a blessing to get my mom and brothers on his show
i understand how the granddaughter feels you can hear from the cracks in her voice that she really is in pain. the grandmother isn't "overprotective" she's just being hurtful and unfair to her granddaughter and its so annoying to know that even tho the grandmother apologized, behind scenes she'll continue.
Or she felt safe enough to finally cry, because if grandmother is she truly old skool “you better stop that crying before I give you something to cry about”.
the grandmother in the second clip was the issue. she was disgusting and disrespectful to that girl. when the girl came out i was expecting to see someone wild and ridiculous, and she was well spoken and smart and polite. the grandmother wants to control her and thinks it’s always supposed to be “yes ma’am” and “no ma’am” and nothing else. and she was even disrespectful to her daughter, that girl passed and shes still slandering her name. well hell she won’t even SAY her daughters name. granny got issues and it ain’t the grandchild
U can see it in her face the drugs is sucking her dry the sister needs take the son away I was happy wen she said he can come wit me 😢cuz oh lord this lil boy needs help
For the first mother and daughter I have notice in the school system sometimes teachers will single out the kids that have had disciplinary issues and even sometimes antagonize them or provoke the child because they already see them as “bad” Also see needs to be challenged in her classes to prevent boredom
That older sister is an amazing person. She’s so empathetic and you can tell she really cares about her lil brother and mom. The way she talks to her brother is so sweet and she loves him so much. She’s beautiful too, gorgeous hair, style, face. Just all around a beautiful person.
The grandma part was so fucking triggering because I understand where the granddaughter is coming from. Respect goes both fucking ways. Explaining yourself isn't being “disrespectful”. People take it disrespectfully because they refuse To accept that they may be wrong.
That part!!! She was so biggety and disrespectful. Who gonna respect you when you calling her bitches and talking down to her..come on grandma you got to do better.
That grandma has some DEEP issues that she is too scared to deal with and it hurts her self worth, so picking apart her grand daughter makes her feel better about herself. She is a reminder of the failure she did with her own daughter. She needs to love her grandma but seriously out grow her, and love from afar.
@@Mzlamannuelwe are the teachers, we can’t just call them wild when is her were here before them are responsible for them. I do agree, they are different, but this grandmas behavior is unacceptable. Children are still people. That’s what people seem to not understand.
After hearing the 14 year olds childhood I can't really blame her for all she did . She tries to move on but really its hard to leave all the trauma after what happened to her
the switch up from melanies audience is crazy… aint nobody wanted to feel bad and sympathetic until she straight up said the bad shit. she deserve better
This shows intense holy it's like I am sitting in a real life counseling therapy session and seeing results this guy's good I'm good that you're bringing family together
Wow pure little girl, the grandnother is projecting so much on her. Please Girl, stay strong, I admire your STRENGHT, YOUR RESPECT, wow kuddos to you, YOUR INTELLIGENCE, Your EMPATHY, YOUR BEAUTY AND SO MUCH MORE
I can tell by the mom’s appearance and jawline grinding that she is on drugs. I dealt with it with my own mom from 11-35 years old. Things were hard and things were said that still hurt me to this day. I lost her in January of this year but before she left I asked her to forgive me because I forgive her… with no apologies ever given to me. I pray for this family to heal and the mom to leave those drugs alone because if she don’t it will lead to health issues that will take her away permanently 😢
This is a great show helping people’s lives change for the better. Our younger generation need help in the smallest ways, it makes a difference. Great show
Troy is a sweet hearted kid, who’s UNFKNG-FIT, coke goblin of a mammy manipulated him badly in her desperation to stay young. HE NEEDS IMMEDIATE HELP, and I’m so glad his beautiful sister is there with him. Luther sounds like a broke piimp,;who’s back would be snapped for touching MINEZ.
I was so confused..going to watch the beginning again. I thought the mother was taking care of the daughter's child and married her child's father😮. I hope big sister takes custody of him...her little brother is borderline depressed/disassociating. They all need more of Karamo - more counseling...
I love the fact that Karamo always ask the children when they come out. “Can I give you a hug”. He’s an amazing host and he is very compassionate towards every guest.
This man is one of the most intelligent and well educated man who has the heart of a lion and the voice and manner of a person full of love for his fellows. He is FAIR to ALL and displays kindness goodwill to ALL (GOOD AND BAD) in his show!!!!! BRAVO this is therapy for all watching. 36:27
That grandmother resents the fact her daughter didn’t listen to her and through that process ended up passing away. She is still mad at her daughter but since she isn’t here she takes it out on her granddaughter for things her daughter did.
This is a beautiful young lady who is very respectful and very smart. She doing well in school. I can see her determination on better herself to be more than her mom and dad. Grandma please come to her a little softer and caring, that’s what she is trying to get from you. She loves you so much. ❤
So sad because the girls feel very neglected. The mother struggling alone with depression is a disease too. She needs help and support, the mother feels so overwhelmed, and just doesn't have energy to do anything.
Becoming a mother is a choice. Our kids do not owe us for the sacrifices we need to make so that we are able to care for them; it's our responsibility. Kids do not ask to be born and shouldn't be treated as such.
I love Troy’s sister . You can see she’s a strong and kind woman. I hope their family can heal.
I wish she can take him 😢 cuz mom is a drug addict she won’t change anytime soon
@jazzyhair30 You don't know that. Maybe she will accept help and start to heal. Her coming to the show was a big step.
The mum who tested positive for drugs has lovely children. I wish she knew that. Her behaviour is affecting her son. Her daughter shows a lot of maturity, She's in charge of that home. Mum is really blessed to have a daughter like that, reaching out to Karamo to make things in the home better. God bless her.
Honestly, Troy just needs some real love from a parent, and I promise you his behaviour will change. He is actually very lovely
@@awhynn8270Troy sister is a baddie & I like her natural hair 💯
I love that he gives these kids a safe space to speak
same
I wish the audience could do that to without judging instantly.
Not the audience bc they needa zip it
@@---zj5jfliterally
Same and I think that the first girl is amazing and Is just hanging out with kids who are bad
Karamo is amazing, he’s like the trauma whisperer. His tone when he is dealing with all these broken people is heart warming and you can feel how genuine he is and wants to help! ❤ this show.
@jamillahfoster, a billion thumbs up!
Troy's sister is awesome. I pray for healing over these families.
Grandma is in denial about her own behaviors. These kids need to be heard and shown a better way without passing down generational trauma and or abuse
Some need discipline.
@@Jajaffuexactly
Too bad their behavior won’t pass down generational lifespans cause it won’t. These disrespectful kids days are getting shorter and shorter cause they’re not disciplined like the older generations the older generations had respect for elders ALL elders
@@alwayssomething8344yall act like u wasn’t doin the same thing when you was younger difference from disrespect and discipline
Grandma is the problem and needs help
This girl gets great grades and is a good child and she has to suffer this abuse from her grandmother because of what her parents did ? 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
Exactly I just don’t understand if you grow her why u can’t understand her
Its so frustrating, like if anything you should be proud of her, shes in such good classes with some good grades? Shes very intelligent.
I hope the kid turns out well. I cant help what wonder is the grandma a part of the reason why her own daughter turned out like she did
@killuazoldyck3839 yes, that part.
Exactly! That baby going to graduate and leave and never come back.
Grandma KNOWS EVERYTHING except how to properly love a girl/woman. She doesn't want to hold herself accountable for making this young girl deal with her own grievances that haven't been addressed. The granddaughter would reject her because there is no open-door policy with a lot of old-heads out here.
She's failing twice.
grandma don’t know SHIT
I agree
Take note to have your FB door wide open if God allows you to get older
I see why her daughter ran to the streets . God bless her soul she didn’t want to be home with that bitter woman .
I hope this show wins Emmys and NAACP awards. Karamo is an exceptionally great social worker/psychologist, communicator, and human being. His life is so very purposeful. His sons are really lucky.
I agreeee ‼️‼️
Everyone needs a sister like Troy's. She let's him speak his himself, is supporti e and proactive. She is trying to help her family.
Ain't nothing wrong with these younger generations. They just don't tolerate abuse and manipulation. The hubris of that grandmother is grotesque.
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I agree
Exactly!! Just bcz they are kids doesn't mean they have any reactions or feelings...they are here to be loved❤
at least thats just most of them
i literally feel so bad for the granddaughter. she’s so mature and intelligent in many aspects. she isn’t even disrespectful in the slightest but the grandma gives away a lot of hints that show signs of disrespect, manipulative behaviour and so on. zandra ain’t do nothing wrong. she’s such a sweet heart and doesn’t deserve any of this. i hope she can live on her own and find peace someday ❤
Grandma is tired, and old school doesn't consider their children and grandchildren feelings.
Young lady, you have only 1 year and then you can go to college.
@@Kscomelli I agree. the grandmother is scared and hurt from the loss of her daughter and unfortunately is taking it out on her granddaughter. she can't see her granddaughter for who she is and is making her live in her parents' shadow. I pray that God will bless the granddaughter to keep her mind and feet on a straight path.
Y’all seen how the grandma avoided apologizing
27:04 she did
Real apologies don't come with a backhand. Understood that the gma probably didn't learn to love herself properly/hasn't grieved her daughter properly. Being a parent myself it's hard NOT to learn to get my mental health in check. Hopefully they can break some cycles
clearly nothing was resolved. someone needs to tell the grandma about herself
@@naaeexx she didn't truly mean it, it came with a qualifier... 🤦🏻♀️
She needs some counselling to deal with her own issues.
She needs to be more respectful of her grandchildren and more mature in her approach to their young adulthood.
Property posession 25:55
Did y’all peep how he greeted MyAsia. He saw her effort and disarmed her defensive energy so fast with just his hug greeting and acknowledgment 💛Karamo for President
I love Karamo. He’s the real deal. His show is refreshing to see after growing up watching Maury, Jerry, etc where toxicity was encouraged and embraced. He humanizes his guests instead of making a mockery out of them.
The presence of Fathers is truly needed. The one lady said she just found who her childrens father is.
I feel so bad for that young lady her grandma is probably mad at her because she reminds her the most of her daughter
Yes she look jus look her mom
I agree with you. My mother and father used to tell me how much they did not like me & that I was like my father's mother...they hated her and just because I was like her they looked at me like I was her. It even trickled down to my daughter...they told her (one time) that she was just like her great grandmother, I knew what they meant by that. Needless to say, It did not happen again. Abuse me but not my babies.
They would've never saw her again
I most definitely believe that
@user-si7iw3py6j exactly and the way she speaks of her daughter who died. I cant help but wonder if she played any part in the way she turned out.
Anybody can see that Grandmother is the problem. She doesn't even say her deceased daughter's name and runs her in the mud. Smh
She definitely is
You are a hundred percent right, she makes me want to no be nice. I feel for this young lady, the grandmother needs to heal.
She is 100000000% the problem
That grandma needs help, ain’t no telling how her deceased daughter felt..
I can empathize with the grandma though because she shouldn’t have to be raising any kids at this point of her life but by default she has to now. She’s definitely wrong though in her approach, but it’s a really tough spot to be in for her.
I like how he was giving Melanie hugs a lot but damn her brother sure did need a hug too, you could see it in his eyes he was hurting about something too, probably something deeper than just his sister
Awww you're right! I feel for him.. hmm
In an extended clip backstage karamo had a little talk with him and gave him a hug 🥺
@@Lolopee I love that 🥹 I’m glad now
melanie has been through a lot i was following her and ericson before they went on the i came to the from thier yt channel
That's because the host doesn't support men he only supports toxic behavior in women and that's real talk look at a lot of his shows he always make the man leave the stage
I must say… I’m a person that’s stuck in my ways entertainment wise but this show has blown me away. The level of compassion and fairness. Unmatched.
Parenting classes are needed across the board for all these folks!
The grandmother kicks her granddaughter out but is upset that her granddaughter is gravitating to someone that is caring for her? Make it make sense🤷🏾♂️
Ikr she made me mad every time she popped up
the things she was saying id talk back to her too bc its not the kids fault she doesnt have a mom or dad
She don't have no love in her heart
Right!?
If my grandma was bringing up my dead mom or dad(my dads dead)I would talk back also
The lil boy hurt my heart. The pain in his face
Every black guardian’s(parent’s) problems, “she wouldn’t wash the dishes”😂
LMAO REAL 😭😂
Throw all of the dishes away ,that was my solution 🤷🏾♀️😂😂😂 my kids was pissed. After a while u get tired of repeating the same things. I bet they learned. They started coming home from grandma & father houses with bowls & spoons & once they didn’t wash those I threw them away to 😂😂😂. Eventually they got the message, now the sink is squeaky clean 🎉
I swear boy they like that…
Yup
@@letsmakeitmakesense714thats not good parenting. U needa do better as a black mother
This girl is bored because she’s gifted.
Exactly she needs to be tested I’m sure she needs to be in high honors classes AP. Damn near in community college programs
Found him on instagram, and now I can’t stop binge watching this show. Wow this is amazing and crazy at the same time how I see people just broken and hurt and they act out in certain ways
The show is like being a fly on the wall in family counseling ; you really get to see real people with real issues and you realize everyone is dysfunctional, no family is perfect and some peoples problems are way worse than your own. This is not staged , it’s not to exploit them it’s to bring their troubles to light to see another way . I love Karamo
I love Karamo too!
13:46 This grandma and granddaughter situation was traumatizing to listen to. The audience laughed at the fact that she was putting her hands on her grand daughter.. This is what I’m talking about when I say abuse against black girls goes unnoticed, they enable it and see it as discipline or a justified reason or a joke. It just makes me so sick to my stomach. You should never EVER put your hands on someone just because of what they said.
All black kids not just girls
@@tomsawyer1109 I can only speak from my experience. And from my own experience everything I went through got pushed under the rug, while my older brother had more freedom than I did.
I was raised in the old school if you think your grown and disrespectful when I have to be your PROVIDER you should be able to take a ass whopping…. cause when these kids fuck up it’s the parents who have to pick up the pieces. The PARENT is responsible for the child & most kids who don’t have discipline turn out like these kids. The granddaughter was the only MISUNDERSTOOD child out of the bunch every other child thought they had it figured out
@@sincereboykin1035💯
@@sincereboykin1035did we watch the same show? Cuz most of these kids are dealing with the consequences of unstable households. The 1st daughter didn’t even know who her father was, the 2nd girl lost her mom and was dealing with an emotionally abusive grandma, the other 16 year old had to step up and be an adult because of her mom’s behavior. Discipline is doesn’t need to be physical and these kids deserve stability, consistency, example and love. Not this bs 🤷🏽♀️
"I need you to love me louder" actually made me cry
Same 😥
I’m glad his sister stepped up for him 😢😢❤
I wish I had his wisdom and compassion growing up. Karamo will heal, change and grow generations of traumatised people.
I LOVE BRO!! Mad respect for the work you do!!
The grandmother in the second clip?? Who talks to a baby like this?? I hope she gets far away from her ASAP. Life is too short and beautiful to live under the thumb of a resentful, bitter old woman. I don't know much about this show or Karamo, but I pray CPS was contacted.
i was thinking the same. i hope she gets a college scholarship and moves away.
The grandmother and granddaughter are also triggering because the mother daughter relationship dynamic in black families needs to change. The way black moms not ALL but many have torn their daughters down through tough love needs to change as well. Many black girls feel rejected not only by absent fathers and the single moms who raised them out of fear of them turning out like them( used harsh language and unfair punishments)Moms traumas bleeding on their daughters still in 2023. We need to heal this generational trauma.
She lied said she wasn’t using!!!
You put a man before your kid
They need therapy
You absolutely right.👏👏👏
This 💯
The first young lady has beautiful skin. It’s glowing. I hope she can learn and grow into a productive young woman. Her life can be so bright.
She needs to be in classes that will keep her engaged. Sometimes they go too slow in these classes. It’s a problem because the child is ahead then stops paying attention at all then can become so far behind. It’s a terrible cycle. That young lady is very bright.
Karamo out here being the dad and the zaddy!!!! ❤LOVE HIM
I think the second teenager (the little girl with her grandma) was actually very smart and articulate!! I think it was actually the grandma doing wrong with that situation. She's very old school & getting older so I think having to raise her grandkids is stressful for her so she's taking it out on her granddaughter. That young girl, I think is going to go far! She seems extremely smart, intelligent, well spoken, & respectful to me!! (Not saying the young girl isn't doing things wrong, the Grandma is doing & saying alot worse things)
I'm loving watching Karamo speak to these families! Great job helping them make a difference in their issues.
It breaks my heart to hear the little boy, Troy, talk about his mothers boyfriend. I relate deeply to the police being called and ignoring the obvious abuse of Black children. I really hope the adults in his life able to help him distance from that man.
Abused kids often act out, period. It seems like he has a great sister behind him, offering to take custody of a child is a huge deal. Mom seems genuine too, i really hope at it goes well for them all.
She's not using coke. Anyone who grew up in the hood knows that's a CRACKHEAD!
Right he needs so much love it hurts 😢. He is so sweet and just lashing out
I’m sitting here boo-hoo crying. I don’t know how this channel popped up on my feed but I’m telling you this show is so needed, I absolutely love it. I hope you have many more seasons to come because we need this so badly, thank you. ❤
Amen
Its hard to watch Karamo Show without having to shed a TEAR!
With troy i was fighting back tears the whole time, i couldn't look at the mom cuz all I saw was the damage and the darkness from the drugs and the past. God bless his sister, that's a woman every brother needs... One that i need.
All these babies looking for is the attention and validation ❤😢. This is teaching me a lot when it
The grandmother and granddaughter portion is a triggering for ME! I gotta heal more of my inner child after watching this! I only finished it because I wanted to watch all of the episodes. We have to fix this within our culture frfr. I'm 38 years old and after this I feel like a child.😢
I’m 23 and feel the same
And she look just like her mama
I'm 38 as well, and I totally understand where you're coming from.
I'm 23 trying to understand what is going on with this first video of the young lady frfr.
My mother is similar to the grandma so this was triggering for me as well, it took me 4/5 years to completely heal my inner child. I’m 32. Its hard but possible ❤
The last brother is clearly an amazing human she's very lucky to have him.
karamo is definitely an empath.. the way he picks up on energies. We love you Karamo the way he handles situations. It's beautiful.
He's the best talks show mediator I have seen. Not one sided. Just facts
The family needs to go to church and pray together much 💕
Yes I love how he calls everyone out on their sh*t, no sides taken.
The situation with the grandmother and her grand-daughter, the young boy with the sister with the afro, and the two girls where one had a job: all these scenarios really show how parents and parental guardians really often ignore how much impact they have on their children. Most children need attention, nuturing, and quality time together. I really hope the best for these children. My heart also goes out for the brother who brought his sister.
The trauma of losing her daughter is coming off on her granddaughter the grandmother thinks her child speaking her mind is disrespectful when it’s not
Troys big sister is amazing
This child has more common sense then her grandmother! She's going to push her away and down a dark road! This Grandmother needs counseling.
the grandma: "I always give her time to talk and never talk over her."
also the grandma: "NO- no no, that's not what happened, she's wrong."
literally cutting her off the whole time💀
Old school parenting is why a lot of adults traumatize their kids now with a bunch of “tough love” aka abuse. Either it’s physically, emotionally, mentally- weird asl.
Old school is the reason “children are seen and not heard” phrase was even created.
Ridiculous behavior, the disrespect and expecting respect is ridiculous. -
That grandma gonna be mad where she end up- in a nursing home 😂
Facts. I hated that my parents treated me as if I didn’t have a say or voice anything im glad i always stood my ground im not accepting nobody’s bs😂 27:49
As a great grandma now I completely agree with you. ❤️
I raised my son with unconditional love and acceptance, treated him respectfully from baby age, and listened to his heart always. ♥
He is now a fantastic husband and father.
Too many people do not understand that children are humans. Doesn't matter their age, they are humans. They need guidance not abuse. You wouldn't treat an adult the way most people treat their kids.
@@GypsyGirl317We need WAYY more parents like you ! thank you for being the best mother ever!
So where do you learn who to respect? And what that looks like? And when you step out of line what does correction look like? What yall don't want to admit is that there is a time and place for everything, and that NOBODY gives a damn about what makes you as an individual uncomfortable if you disregard the comfort of everyone else. That's respect.
Let me tell y’all something that “shoot you in the foot” “get out of line” is NOT old school! That is language spoken straight from the MASTER’s mouth that has been taught and passed down through black generations! We have to break the chains black parents✊🏾✊🏽✊🏿PLEASE🙏🏾
I live in the UK (no lived experience of the USA) and I immediately thought that phrase had a slaver connotation. It's ugly. Cripple you so that you can't run away.
WHOAA YOU LEARN SOMETHING NEW EVERYDAY
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Christina with the 2 teen girls was a young mom and that’s part of it. She had to grow up early and expects her daughters too. I cried with this story because I think they family issues can change.
J is struggling internally. I pray she gets out of the gang.
J has a stress or anxiety condition. She just ripping her hair out. 1:13:51
I also think shes having an identity crisis that could be contributing to that stress. Im glad she agreed to talk to someone.
She was really the one that worried me the most since she's already in a gang and thinking the wnba wants gang members on their teams. Her compass is just spinning out & i hope she gets help.
She ain’t ripping it she’s twisting it but it’s still anxiety
I think there’s more going on. I think
Something crazy happened to her in the group home. The way her brother was giving mum the side eye when she was speaking. He knows what’s going on but isn’t going to push his sister under the bus. I pray they get the help and support they need!
I’ve never seem or heard of this show but i love what he doing with this. Giving children a space to be heard and seen and forcing parents to face the monsters they refuse to acknowledge they created. It would be a blessing to get my mom and brothers on his show
I hope things work out for you
i understand how the granddaughter feels you can hear from the cracks in her voice that she really is in pain. the grandmother isn't "overprotective" she's just being hurtful and unfair to her granddaughter and its so annoying to know that even tho the grandmother apologized, behind scenes she'll continue.
The granddaughter started crying immediately, and that’s crazy.
She is in pain😢cz she cnt express her self to grandma
Or she felt safe enough to finally cry, because if grandmother is she truly old skool “you better stop that crying before I give you something to cry about”.
I don’t know a lot about Karamo’s background but he would make a GREAT therapist!!! Love him!
@@aundrya_speaks he is ❤ both psychotherapist and social worker..love him as well..
Melanie is only 14. Wow! 😮
Erickson needed a hug too!
I love their accents!!!
My heart goes out to these children. They are all so beautiful. I pray the beast for them.
the grandmother in the second clip was the issue. she was disgusting and disrespectful to that girl. when the girl came out i was expecting to see someone wild and ridiculous, and she was well spoken and smart and polite. the grandmother wants to control her and thinks it’s always supposed to be “yes ma’am” and “no ma’am” and nothing else. and she was even disrespectful to her daughter, that girl passed and shes still slandering her name. well hell she won’t even SAY her daughters name. granny got issues and it ain’t the grandchild
And it seem like she thinks it cute. I hate a “I’m the parent” excuse
We knew Ki’a & Troy’s mama would be positive with the signs and behaviors she’s displayed in front of her son and who she’s around.
Why she lied and agreed 2 the test is beyond me knowing that she was gonna fail it
U can see it in her face the drugs is sucking her dry the sister needs take the son away I was happy wen she said he can come wit me 😢cuz oh lord this lil boy needs help
@@englishtea3291I wonder why the boy wasn't already there when they all knew this mess had been going on, reason they're there.
For the first mother and daughter I have notice in the school system sometimes teachers will single out the kids that have had disciplinary issues and even sometimes antagonize them or provoke the child because they already see them as “bad”
Also see needs to be challenged in her classes to prevent boredom
That older sister is an amazing person. She’s so empathetic and you can tell she really cares about her lil brother and mom. The way she talks to her brother is so sweet and she loves him so much. She’s beautiful too, gorgeous hair, style, face. Just all around a beautiful person.
The grandma part was so fucking triggering because I understand where the granddaughter is coming from. Respect goes both fucking ways. Explaining yourself isn't being “disrespectful”. People take it disrespectfully because they refuse
To accept that they may be wrong.
That part!!! She was so biggety and disrespectful. Who gonna respect you when you calling her bitches and talking down to her..come on grandma you got to do better.
I am also soooo triggered. I went through this same type mess! Respect goes BOTH ways!!! They love to throw the word disrespectful around. Smh
Sis got her Angela Davis going on ❤ respect for you stepping up for your brother💯💯
Coloring books 😮.... Grandma is set in her ways, she stuck in past ...i hope this young lady gets far away
Yes, she will need to get away and set those boundaries!!!!
The daughter in the 1st clip was so beautiful and chocolate. Her hair was slayed. Her nails were cute too. She was very well put together. Go girl.
Karamo has a way with getting through to people. He actually takes his time to listen and have excellent feedback. I love his show ❤
Some times too much tough love can drive your kids away. That's why rational conversation is so important. Fear does not solve everything.
That grandma has some DEEP issues that she is too scared to deal with and it hurts her self worth, so picking apart her grand daughter makes her feel better about herself. She is a reminder of the failure she did with her own daughter. She needs to love her grandma but seriously out grow her, and love from afar.
the grandmother is the worst, i hope she gets far away as soon as she can
Yes she needs to get away from her the grandmother is toxic
I agree with the grandmother. This generation of young people are thee worst. There's a different between beating and discipline.
A lot of parents and grandparents are just like her. Selfish and one sided
@@Mzlamannuelwe are the teachers, we can’t just call them wild when is her were here before them are responsible for them. I do agree, they are different, but this grandmas behavior is unacceptable. Children are still people. That’s what people seem to not understand.
Kai loves her mom and so do Troy. This took me back to my childhood. I pray y’all get through this troubled time ❤❤❤
I just feel like the grandma is very terrified of history repeating its self.
After hearing the 14 year olds childhood I can't really blame her for all she did . She tries to move on but really its hard to leave all the trauma after what happened to her
Heart broke for shorty with her grandma, went thru the same with my mom… to be unheard & viewed as someone you dont have to respect.
I relate
The handsome young man Troy hurt my heart. Myself having 3 boys that was his age. I just want to hug him ❤
the switch up from melanies audience is crazy… aint nobody wanted to feel bad and sympathetic until she straight up said the bad shit. she deserve better
Nah fr
This shows intense holy it's like I am sitting in a real life counseling therapy session and seeing results this guy's good I'm good that you're bringing family together
Wow pure little girl, the grandnother is projecting so much on her. Please Girl, stay strong, I admire your STRENGHT, YOUR RESPECT, wow kuddos to you, YOUR INTELLIGENCE, Your EMPATHY, YOUR BEAUTY AND SO MUCH MORE
everytime zaniah talked & her gma kept trying to interrupt her i was just kept yelling “ stfupppppp “
The grandmother is taking out the resentment she feels against her daughter on her granddaughter. Poor baby girl. It's not her fault.
Ong I just got on this part and she already talking bout her dating is bad and rude
I can tell by the mom’s appearance and jawline grinding that she is on drugs. I dealt with it with my own mom from 11-35 years old. Things were hard and things were said that still hurt me to this day. I lost her in January of this year but before she left I asked her to forgive me because I forgive her… with no apologies ever given to me. I pray for this family to heal and the mom to leave those drugs alone because if she don’t it will lead to health issues that will take her away permanently 😢
This is a great show helping people’s lives change for the better. Our younger generation need help in the smallest ways, it makes a difference. Great show
Lawd the lady with the Afro is so pretty 😍
The mom said "i just found out he was the father". Let that sink in!
Troy is a sweet hearted kid, who’s UNFKNG-FIT, coke goblin of a mammy manipulated him badly in her desperation to stay young. HE NEEDS IMMEDIATE HELP, and I’m so glad his beautiful sister is there with him. Luther sounds like a broke piimp,;who’s back would be snapped for touching MINEZ.
I was so confused..going to watch the beginning again. I thought the mother was taking care of the daughter's child and married her child's father😮. I hope big sister takes custody of him...her little brother is borderline depressed/disassociating. They all need more of Karamo - more counseling...
I love the fact that Karamo always ask the children when they come out. “Can I give you a hug”. He’s an amazing host and he is very compassionate towards every guest.
I do hate to judge, but when I look at the parents of these children… it all makes sense.
This man is one of the most intelligent and well educated man who has the heart of a lion and the voice and manner of a person full of love for his fellows. He is FAIR to ALL and displays kindness goodwill to ALL (GOOD AND BAD) in his show!!!!! BRAVO this is therapy for all watching. 36:27
The brother just spaced out while they talking always had his head down 😢
WOW MY SON IS 42 U ARE DOING AMAZING FOR OUR COMMUNITY. TY YOUNG KING WE NEED MORE LIKE U👍🏾✍🏾🧠💪🏾✊🏾👊🏾
Karamo, your intelligence and your insight is impeccable!
This man got me crying and I wish I could have a private conversation with him. Because, I’m hurting so much.
Praying for you 🙏 ❤.
@@fatimafarah2786 🙏🏼
That grandmother resents the fact her daughter didn’t listen to her and through that process ended up passing away. She is still mad at her daughter but since she isn’t here she takes it out on her granddaughter for things her daughter did.
This is a beautiful young lady who is very respectful and very smart. She doing well in school. I can see her determination on better herself to be more than her mom and dad. Grandma please come to her a little softer and caring, that’s what she is trying to get from you. She loves you so much. ❤
So sad because the girls feel very neglected. The mother struggling alone with depression is a disease too. She needs help and support, the mother feels so overwhelmed, and just doesn't have energy to do anything.
The second show with the boy who bring the gun to school I can see that he wants to cry but is trying to stay strong
Becoming a mother is a choice.
Our kids do not owe us for the sacrifices we need to make so that we are able to care for them; it's our responsibility.
Kids do not ask to be born and shouldn't be treated as such.