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  • Опубликовано: 5 фев 2023
  • 13-year-old Troy brought a gun to school, stole a car, and was arrested for assault. His sister says he’s struggling because of their mom’s drug habit and her abusive boyfriend. Troy claims his mom has said she hates him and wishes he was dead. Can Karamo help this family and break Troy’s pattern of dangerous behavior?
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  • @KaramoShow
    @KaramoShow  4 месяца назад +22

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  • @quymiah
    @quymiah Год назад +9418

    he’s definitely traumatized, you can tell by him staring at the floor and the stuttering is from the nervousness of hoping not to say anything bad.

    • @LoganTaliaferro
      @LoganTaliaferro Год назад +398

      And the sister is so sweet on here

    • @jazzlynestrada4198
      @jazzlynestrada4198 Год назад +379

      Plus he fidgeting so the memories bothers him he tryna distract

    • @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024
      @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 Год назад +214

      Yup. He’s horribly traumatized.

    • @marigoldshines
      @marigoldshines Год назад +140

      He’s one of the most beautiful men I’ve ever seen.

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 Год назад

      Black Single Mothers are the most Depressed Human Beings in this World

  • @KiahTheKreator
    @KiahTheKreator Год назад +11107

    Thanks guys for the kind words. I love my brother and mother. We are healing and moving forward

  • @NeicyJ1990
    @NeicyJ1990 Год назад +4474

    The younger generation is trying to heal while the older generation doesn't take accountability

    • @nlmookie7822
      @nlmookie7822 Год назад +46

      💯💯

    • @ummwhatever1913
      @ummwhatever1913 Год назад +30

      Sad!

    • @boogie_4203
      @boogie_4203 Год назад +233

      deadass!! they swear they can do no wrong because things were “better back then”, when they just as traumatized as us!

    • @nlmookie7822
      @nlmookie7822 Год назад +61

      @@boogie_4203 nah fr if not worse Cz remember that was some of the crack generation all different shi that’s why they stubborn don’t wanna right their wrongs because they don’t wanna be wrong in general

    • @A11urings0ul
      @A11urings0ul Год назад +72

      It honestly hurts soo much being aware of how toxic my house hold is a “this generation is sooo sensitive” being thrown in my face..like I’m sensitive bc i communicate and express how I’m feeling??? It rlly sucks

  • @user-mm5ts5hl5t
    @user-mm5ts5hl5t Год назад +1799

    Can I just take a minute and applaud how the sister is just helping out. She is not judging her mother or throwing around shade. She hugs her mother regardless of the lies she told, and she continues to want to support her family. I love her consistency as a daughter even when she is engaged.

    • @sherei9530
      @sherei9530 Год назад +34

      I'd bet that the mother used to have a respectable life. Drugs messed her up.

    • @LoganTaliaferro
      @LoganTaliaferro 11 месяцев назад +5

      Me and my mom need to be on Karamo like i would love to be put up for adoption fr because I don’t even know why she had me fr and I feel like she wishes me Dead too and I have no one to count on in life

    • @iamhe4407
      @iamhe4407 11 месяцев назад +2

      I do this for a living and the sister is a very throw the rock hide your hand and dismiss whatever I say because I’m going to agree with the most of it as long as I go unnoticed type of person, as a professional I’m above 98.9 % efficiency

    • @justineb1335
      @justineb1335 3 месяца назад +1

      Tired of the excuses we make for these people who chose not to step up to their choices .kids have to accept to forgive and have to sweep off all the pain and trauma we can't undo and that will be a part of their interactions with others.

    • @Xane_Dragon
      @Xane_Dragon 3 месяца назад

      ​@@justineb1335
      Well I have a happy pill for that .....works wonderfully 🙂

  • @imdaprettiest
    @imdaprettiest Год назад +4002

    the pain in his voice & the way he said “ it’s ok “ 🥺🥺 .

    • @michelleterrell5133
      @michelleterrell5133 Год назад +373

      He sounded like he was holding back tears. There is no way the boyfriend would be living with me if he put his hands on my kid.

    • @filesofjayce
      @filesofjayce Год назад +91

      i would've crieddddd omgg

    • @niahsvision
      @niahsvision Год назад +79

      ik he look so sweet

    • @Tshalamonii
      @Tshalamonii Год назад +55

      I literally said “ awe “ out-loud and I never do that 😪 this really is truly sad!!.

    • @antwangraham8765
      @antwangraham8765 Год назад +8

      No way he still be living 😂😂😂

  • @jupiter1050
    @jupiter1050 Год назад +4116

    troys behavior is not normal, trembling, staring at the floor, not making direct contact, bad behavior, stuttering, not saying anything.. these are all bad signs- i honestly hope he heals from this

    • @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024
      @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 Год назад +429

      The way he walked in and the hug felt like a call for help, the hug mostly too. It felt like a scream for help.

    • @aminamahamed-wright1412
      @aminamahamed-wright1412 Год назад +79

      unfortunately you don’t have the agency to speak on this unless you know these family dynamics in black families. do not misdiagnose him he’s in a high stress situation.

    • @PL4YBO1CRT
      @PL4YBO1CRT Год назад +242

      @@aminamahamed-wright1412 family dynamics in black families more often than not normalize generational trauma, which is what leads to so many black kids acting out like troy does. you don't need to be an agent to see a traumatized child. he himself stated that he was abused by both his mother and the people she brought around him. i understand what you're getting at.

    • @aminamahamed-wright1412
      @aminamahamed-wright1412 Год назад +13

      @@PL4YBO1CRT i understand and know and care deeply about mental health i never said generational trauma should be normalized but these things allow us nuance and be able to understand why our family dynamics are happening

    • @Kyng.Gemini.
      @Kyng.Gemini. Год назад +67

      Possible signs of anxiety, he walked in the room with his head down and has a bunch of cameras In his face

  • @noomigilljam4641
    @noomigilljam4641 Год назад +657

    The innocence in his face breaks my heart. I really feel for this boy. He seems insecure and scared to express himself, and I fully understand him in that, constatly waiting to see if its okay to express your feelings or if you going to be manipulated or not emotionally validated💔 I hope he heals, God bless him.

  • @planetfixatormore1242
    @planetfixatormore1242 Год назад +954

    The sister is an absolute beautiful human. the fact that she is her brothers voice, his safe haven, and guidance speaks volumes. I applaud her for being so young but yet so mature and nurturing. The mother tbh, needs her son taken away from her. He does not deserve this lifestyle, and people need to stop judging kids when they parents are as good as they are.
    Prayers to this family. ❤️

  • @kukuakukua
    @kukuakukua Год назад +4116

    That sister made me cry. Everybody needs a sister like that

    • @LoganTaliaferro
      @LoganTaliaferro Год назад +31

      Real facts .

    • @TheeincredibleDaisia
      @TheeincredibleDaisia Год назад +37

      Tears. She is such a good person

    • @thickveganafro4279
      @thickveganafro4279 Год назад +6

      She is no hero, she lied. Her brother is still in that house with his unstable mother. The host of this show,the mama, and sister shall reap what they have sown. May God take care of the brother. The sister lied for clout making it appear like she was going to take care of her brother. Lies and garbage! smh JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL

    • @nggapraying4392
      @nggapraying4392 Год назад +30

      @@thickveganafro4279 you know this how?

    • @ihte714
      @ihte714 Год назад

      Nigga Crying😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @angelxigh
    @angelxigh Год назад +3325

    The son rocking himself backstage is a trauma response, almost similar to rocking the infant stage of himself because he grew up unattached to unreliable parenting 💔 so sad

    • @bhouckie
      @bhouckie Год назад +98

      Correct 👍🏼, I trust they’re getting the needed help

    • @shon7425
      @shon7425 Год назад +13

      I caught that

    • @jazzlynestrada4198
      @jazzlynestrada4198 Год назад +88

      I feel like rocking back-and-forth is like a self soothing mechanism

    • @Poeticdiva79
      @Poeticdiva79 Год назад +28

      I never knew why I rock. I learned after going through therapy.

    • @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024
      @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 Год назад +10

      @@jazzlynestrada4198 Sometimes it’s ADHD, but this isn’t.

  • @abbygale3522
    @abbygale3522 Год назад +148

    The daughter has such a peaceful presence about her. What a beautiful soul.

  • @yun-or6mg
    @yun-or6mg Год назад +109

    Troys "it's okay." absolutely broke my heart.

  • @kizzyburton4742
    @kizzyburton4742 Год назад +5003

    I love the way the sister protects the brother and understandably acknowledging the mother's struggle. Addiction is real and I pray that she can get help and save her son. Young black men have enough to endure.

  • @moniquejohnson1822
    @moniquejohnson1822 Год назад +1962

    You can look at the mom, and her mannerisms,... It is very obvious that she is still using drugs.

  • @J.Nworld
    @J.Nworld 9 месяцев назад +83

    As a 13 year old myself, I feel so horrible for Troy. As a person with anxiety, depression, etc, I know how he feels man. I’m sorry for the fact that he had a bad experience growing up, it’s honestly so sad seeing him staring into nothing overthinking, reliving the trauma, feeling the pressure and feeling as if you’ll say something bad and the consequences if you do, nothing could explain the sorrow I feel with this poor boy. I hope he’s truly better and safe and slowly healing, thank the Lord for his sister whom pushed back her trauma and outgrown it to support him. People with that type of person around this time, it’s really such a gift that you could have someone around when you going through that. Bless this family and forgive them of their sins God, amen.

  • @taetae752
    @taetae752 Год назад +109

    I love the sister energy. She is and is going to be the backbone plus support that this young man will need.

  • @halosane4170
    @halosane4170 Год назад +1967

    She's doing "everything she can" about the Luther situation. Put his ass out! Can't stand a parent putting a man/woman above their kids. He literally said this man choked him like??

    • @cherishamoura9233
      @cherishamoura9233 Год назад +177

      I would beat Luther so bad he would run away from my house putting his hands on my baby

    • @neilbowman5334
      @neilbowman5334 Год назад +76

      Ikr, I'm surprised Luther isn't dead. Se allowed that man to put his hands on her son

    • @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024
      @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 Год назад +1

      She wasn’t doing enough for me AT ALL. TERRIBLE MOTHET.

    • @prazinpamable
      @prazinpamable Год назад +19

      This is an example of what a woman allows for conveniences.

    • @giornobabe
      @giornobabe Год назад +33

      ​@@prazinpamable adults** don't matter the gender lol

  • @deniserobinson6210
    @deniserobinson6210 Год назад +1734

    She can get that man out of her house, but her man comes before her son. This happens so much it's disgusting.

    • @cortezbrooks1694
      @cortezbrooks1694 Год назад +12

      Yup

    • @3xclusive_khlo
      @3xclusive_khlo Год назад +28

      How does ur man come before your son like what?

    • @3xclusive_khlo
      @3xclusive_khlo Год назад +15

      That makes no sense u put ur kids before anything especially if they’re young

    • @jpproductions4746
      @jpproductions4746 Год назад +45

      @@3xclusive_khlo no they were saying what the mom was doing

    • @3xclusive_khlo
      @3xclusive_khlo Год назад +7

      @@jpproductions4746 ohh my fault gng

  • @iridessabumblebee3168
    @iridessabumblebee3168 Год назад +103

    I hope Troy gets the help he needs. Poor baby looks traumatized.

  • @calibankzthomas9229
    @calibankzthomas9229 Год назад +92

    Seeing Troy the way he is hurts. He is crying out for help and for someone to hear him. I hope he gets what he needs.

  • @isolatedrose9583
    @isolatedrose9583 Год назад +1075

    You can tell she’s still on drugs… it’s in her face, in her actions, rubbing her nose… you can tell. She can’t take accountability for her actions. The lying. Back and forth with the stories… I’m praying for that baby.

  • @chayaleahisrael4791
    @chayaleahisrael4791 Год назад +1122

    Don’t ever put a man before your children. Call them names and say awful things to them!! A mother love goes a long way every child need it.

    • @dominiquelemon7125
      @dominiquelemon7125 Год назад +18

      PERIODTT 💯❤️ you said it‼️

    • @wildfiregirl1556
      @wildfiregirl1556 Год назад +15

      Facts.

    • @altheadawn2531
      @altheadawn2531 Год назад +13

      A father's love of the foundation

    • @chayaleahisrael4791
      @chayaleahisrael4791 Год назад +18

      @@altheadawn2531 I’m glad I had both It takes two but the father definitely needs to be in his sons life.

    • @archangelrapheal5231
      @archangelrapheal5231 Год назад +2

      ​@@altheadawn2531 IMO Father's love is very underappreciated, everybody talks about A Mother's love but what about A Father's, what a Father would do for their children

  • @theoneandonly_kymani
    @theoneandonly_kymani Год назад +85

    I feel bad for Troy. I can't ever imagine my parents telling me that I'm nothing and wish that I was dead 💔 glad they doing better and hopefully it stays that way ❤️

  • @anhsrk
    @anhsrk Год назад +106

    this one got me crying.
    im 24 and took my brother in about a year ago after our parents drug him around like a burden or luggage and neglected him his whole life.
    we're on track now and he has his own place and everything. working too and he knows im right down the road. his mannerisms were like Troy when he got here and it was so heartbreaking. my little brother is a head taller than me now, but he was close to me in weight and we were both underweight. these sorts of situations are so heartbreaking and suffocating. i felt like i swapped ages with my parents and it was difficult at first. but we have good friends now around us and we help each other with what we have.
    it's just painful that this happens so frequently. i love the big sister in this video so much. she gives me strength.
    I tried to get my brother when i was 19, but things didn't work out then.
    My brother is only 5 years younger than me so he isn't the baby I carried on my hip growing up. But it is difficult to show him to be a kind and responsible man when I've been left by family and only just recently graduated. But he's growing into a wonderful person and I'm so happy.
    To Kaia and Troy, best of luck. It can be painful, but it is worth it.

  • @wadilotus
    @wadilotus Год назад +1355

    What a lovely daughter, inside and out. I hope the mother and brother get the help they both need.

  • @naori.1383
    @naori.1383 Год назад +672

    I saw this video on tiktok, that little boy reminded me of my little 16 year old brother. His "it's okay" was soaked in so much innocence and youth it broke my heart into a million pieces. I can't even bring myself to watch this video without crying. I couldn't imagine those words being spoken to either of my brothers. He favors my little brother too much, it just hurts. I hope they're all healing. Us black families have got to break these generational curses. Much love to y'all

  • @gotries1316
    @gotries1316 Год назад +15

    6:11 when he said "it's ok.." i really felt it

  • @candaceharris6520
    @candaceharris6520 Год назад +43

    I love how Karamo makes everyone feel comfortable and reassures them.

  • @msjustifyed864
    @msjustifyed864 Год назад +369

    that sister has a quality that is very hard to have..to be hurt by someone and still be respectful and supportive of them. she will be a great mom if she isnt already

    • @lareinelester685
      @lareinelester685 Год назад +23

      I noticed that too. She wasn't yelling and screaming at her mom at all.

    • @queenjesse1000
      @queenjesse1000 Год назад +24

      The sister is the chosen one shining her light and leading the way to healing.

    • @mariebrice4011
      @mariebrice4011 Год назад

      ​@@queenjesse1000lpla by LJ😊 he❤❤
      The better is ❤

  • @FinDom1
    @FinDom1 Год назад +671

    She has such sweet kids. I hope they get the help they need.

  • @kaygooden2757
    @kaygooden2757 5 месяцев назад +7

    The daughter is a very beautiful human, inside and out.

  • @mirrbaby9854
    @mirrbaby9854 8 месяцев назад +12

    When he said, "it's okay." I broke down! That poor, poor, little one! I pray he gets all the help, love, and support he needs! His sister is something like his saving grace...

  • @justsayinit100
    @justsayinit100 Год назад +725

    He is the most adorable, intelligent young man. 🥰 I am so glad he has a loving sister, but he needs a loving mother and father in addition to his sister to guide him into becoming the man he has the potential to become.

    • @wildfiregirl1556
      @wildfiregirl1556 Год назад +7

      Facts.

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 Год назад +9

      And where are their FATHERS at? That's the question. Single Black Mothers can't do everything, you know.

    • @sharmainearroyo7113
      @sharmainearroyo7113 Год назад +22

      @@knightclassic1 Mom says the father was around and he was going back and forth

    • @tachic4152
      @tachic4152 Год назад +1

      ​@@knightclassic1correct just wish he can make up his mind and stay you know

    • @Almond.stars666
      @Almond.stars666 Год назад +28

      @@knightclassic1Y’all act like a father or two parents is suddenly gonna make a difference! A child’s basic needs is love, care, and support , if one of those is missing everything can fall apart!

  • @donaldrmorgan7497
    @donaldrmorgan7497 Год назад +379

    The daughter is a special person!!! I pray God heals the family and bring a wholeness that only HE CAN!

    • @brittneywhite9996
      @brittneywhite9996 Год назад +15

      He needs to stay with his sister

    • @nida4509
      @nida4509 Год назад +1

      Oh yes

    • @daliae14
      @daliae14 Год назад +3

      @@brittneywhite9996 i agree i love the sister , i feel so bad for troy 😢

    • @gnassoffice6972
      @gnassoffice6972 Год назад

      Amen,He Is GOD!

  • @ivesdoll
    @ivesdoll Год назад +23

    Poor kid just wanted to play hide and seek 😕 shows how young he is, his innocence was taken

  • @lyssalashell786
    @lyssalashell786 Год назад +51

    I was going through this situation just a couple months ago. My mother chose her new man over me, and kicked me out cause I was too toxic apparently, can't shut up, and I didn't do anything. Telling you now, I wanted a job at 16 to start saving up, but she told me no live your life. I tried to live my life, but I couldn't having to raise and take care of my siblings. She didn't work, so she could have took care of them but she preferred to stay in her room on the phone from the moment she woke up till the moment she went to bed. I cooked and did laundry and cleaned behind a family of 6 and when he moved in I did such for a family of 7,but when she told me she was pregnant around my birthday I couldn't do it. I refused to raise another child that I didn't birth. So I did start trying to live my life after that,we got into plenty of arguements where I tried to get her to understand my point of view or how I felt or when there was something she could have done, and when she was being a hypocrite,which happened often. I tried working at Taco Bell for about a week, but I had to quit because working in a Spanish dominated territory, Nobody spoke English except the manager, and she was never there. And I remember, this day, October 19th, she kicked me out to live with my grandmother. She told me she would keep and raise my cat, but I had to kill my fish because that was going to be no one else's responsibility, despite brothers saying that they wanted to keep the fish, so I did as such which was heartbreaking and moved in with her mother and fyi staying in that house got very Depressive, houses have a certain tone to it when you know the people who have died in it. So I moved to Arkansas, where I connected with my dad's side of the family who I haven't seen since I was under the age of 10 because of her, and the rest of my mom's side of the family. I mean, at least now my great aunt, Catherine picks me up, and we'll hang out from time to time. I'll be at her house for most of the time, but I originally lived with my dad's mom and staying at the house by yourself in the middle of the woods for 12 hours, doesn't really do good on the mind. At least I'm able to find a job down here and I start in on the 6th of March. Wish me luck cause this could be the changing point of my life

  • @sashaswtheart79
    @sashaswtheart79 Год назад +576

    He’s a handsome child. If she doesn’t get herself together and start mothering him, he can end up being a lost cause.

    • @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024
      @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 Год назад +8

      Ummmm handsome?

    • @Username-oq3jf
      @Username-oq3jf Год назад +64

      @@bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 yes?

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 Год назад +44

      He serious needs MENTOR. His Father isn't in his life at all.

    • @teeteefantroy9760
      @teeteefantroy9760 Год назад +59

      @@bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 that’s exactly what was written. What’s the problem? He is a very handsome young man.

    • @TheGoodGirlzTv
      @TheGoodGirlzTv Год назад +33

      @@bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 what do you mean? “ ummm handsome?

  • @keithmutamba1395
    @keithmutamba1395 Год назад +528

    The sister is parenting the brother. She is a rescuer. She has clearly been doing the work for herself and now is helping her brother more. It’s amazing.
    Edit:
    The reason I commented on this story is because I identify with it. When you have parents like that and you have siblings. You want to help them to teach them so that they don’t have to go through what you went through. When I see a rescuer like me doing what I’ve done but thriving, it’s not something you see too often.

  • @GoddessLaurel
    @GoddessLaurel Год назад +10

    I just discovered this show, thank you Karamo for having such a caring and responsible approach to your guests. It’s refreshing to see, much, much better than those talk shows that dramatize and exploit the guests trauma and issue.

  • @Bmw26-bi2mo
    @Bmw26-bi2mo 11 месяцев назад +7

    My mother told me the same thing when I was 16 I’m 26 now and it still hurts. Keep Your head up Young King 👑

  • @jakaylaj7804
    @jakaylaj7804 Год назад +645

    This story brought tears to my eyes it’s so many young black men out here lost and end up doing bad things because they lacked attention, love, and security within their home. I can’t wait to finish college so I can do things like this💘

    • @smallesttoesever
      @smallesttoesever Год назад

      All cuz of a black woman. Yet y'all always blame black men

    • @jakaylaj7804
      @jakaylaj7804 Год назад +9

      @@smallesttoesever I don’t know who y’all is ..but it was a lack of love on both sides. A white person can experience this same situation. No one is to blame it’s a sad situation altogether. Go off tho I guess 🥴

    • @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024
      @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 Год назад +5

      @@jakaylaj7804 With yt ppl it’s different

    • @John-ls4xh
      @John-ls4xh Год назад +18

      @@bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 Why is everything have to do with race? The color of your skin doesn't determine the outcome of abusive situations.

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 Год назад

      @Jakayla J I'm sorry but I'm from South Side of Chicago and I will say that Black People are only ones that does Stupid things to their kids

  • @monvlisv
    @monvlisv Год назад +263

    Okay, the mom immediately taking accountability for the accusations are a great sign. It wasn’t all “oh me me me me me” she’s clearly aware of all that had happened

  • @alwayssomething8344
    @alwayssomething8344 9 месяцев назад +5

    His sister is a beautiful woman inside and out. He’s so blessed to have her as a big sister. I’m so glad the mother has gotten help and is sober and the sister and her fiancé took Troy in so their mom could get help. Praying for things to continue getting better for them all

  • @Rosaisabellas
    @Rosaisabellas 5 месяцев назад +6

    the second i saw that baby face i got rlly sad bc he just looked like he had gone through rough stuff. he’s just a kid! :(

  • @tonyaharper2468
    @tonyaharper2468 Год назад +348

    I have 4 boys I'm raising alone and I would love to take in this young man too. We need to raise better loving respectful men.

    • @queenmama9229
      @queenmama9229 Год назад +10

      Yessssss sis I 100% agree

    • @fuccraw
      @fuccraw Год назад +13

      respect and prayers to you

    • @gentillelovely4426
      @gentillelovely4426 Год назад +22

      😰💗💗💗some parents gotta think twice before you say anything to your children a lot of things parents don’t take seriously but there’s a lot shii you can do as a parent that could fuck up you’re kids then when they grow up you wondering why they the way they are I never judge nobody and this is the reason fr because we all grow differently 😰😰😰😰💯💯

    • @GoldenChocolate100
      @GoldenChocolate100 Год назад +4

      ❤❤

    • @cuzinbread5334
      @cuzinbread5334 Год назад +5

      🙏🏿

  • @NycYktv
    @NycYktv Год назад +90

    “Cleaning. If she picks up something I didn’t see she’ll start yelling” bru I never felt something so close

    • @Manii3046
      @Manii3046 Год назад +14

      Yeah parents do that a lot it’s really annoying if they already picked it up why complain?

  • @DamnDemi
    @DamnDemi 6 месяцев назад +5

    6:05 😢 the pain on his face as he's remembering what she said... I'm so sorry.

  • @lauzimnjelesani6755
    @lauzimnjelesani6755 Год назад +20

    All he needs is love and security.

  • @mstt3530
    @mstt3530 Год назад +202

    I hope the mother gets help so she can help her son. Such a good supporting daughter/sister

  • @blueblue5427
    @blueblue5427 Год назад +139

    What a gorgeous daughter. I hope they all find peace

  • @shaywilly7942
    @shaywilly7942 Год назад +18

    That sweet boy. His body language tells you that he feels small, Insecure, and unheard. I hope the sister gets custody of her brother or at least he lives with her

  • @seyeonoom
    @seyeonoom Год назад +6

    6:03 the way troy responded was what did it for me. that absolutely broke me.

  • @Myztic71
    @Myztic71 Год назад +272

    This young man's body language and responses broke my heart. I really hope that the family can heal and move forward - without Luther!

    • @robossthinking1056
      @robossthinking1056 10 месяцев назад

      What does he mean Luther left then moved back in, like what 8:49

  • @jvmcghee854
    @jvmcghee854 Год назад +461

    Stability is so important in these teenagers' life. The daughter is so mature to take her brother in. Teenagers in this day and age have so much access to everything and so easily influenced. Glad the mom is sober and, on the road to recovery to being the mom her son needs. No one is perfect and everyone has a past so I am glad the sister reached out to Karamo to help for her family. Praying peace, love and healing for this family. #LOVEISTHEMEDICINE

    • @carolalmeida6492
      @carolalmeida6492 Год назад +7

      His mother is not in recovery. She failed the drug test

  • @urbankutie2475
    @urbankutie2475 Год назад +6

    When he mumbled a "it's okay" my heart broke

  • @MrMystri
    @MrMystri Год назад +72

    The sister is a beaut, an absolute stunner, the Afro and her face, I was like “WOW”😮😮💯👌🏽

  • @jillianacmallia
    @jillianacmallia Год назад +59

    “made me feel like nothing”. that part right there. heart wrenching.

  • @monkeybuttfifty3128
    @monkeybuttfifty3128 Год назад +13

    I absolutely love how she defended her family , her mother But completely held her at every fault she made aswell

  • @Justauri-asdfghjkl
    @Justauri-asdfghjkl Год назад +232

    Seeing the love she has for her brother is really touching. Wishing them the best. Shes a gem ❤

  • @arilove641
    @arilove641 Год назад +152

    Listen babygirl !! This message I am going to give you because nobody will. I am 23 years old and I took on custody of my younger brother three years ago. He is now 12 . I am married married. So yes, I had the support of my spouse but let me tell you it is not easy !!! it comes with its obstacles ! and you will feel regret ! you will not get the help from your mother you are looking for because once she sees that you’re doing everything she can’t she’s gonna leave it all up to you, it takes a real strong person to take on custody of a broken child, while being a broken child/adult, recovering from the wounds you faced from your mothers trauma as well. There’s gonna be days where your little brother will not show you appreciation he will just “act out”, please seek help & guidance, or counseling in those moments, because that is just the trauma that needs to be broken. If you do fall through this, I pray for your strength and your courage. may peace be with your family.

    • @thatbemefool
      @thatbemefool Год назад +18

      I’m glad you said this. Stories like this are heartbreaking and they rob people of their youth. This young lady is engaged. She and her fiancé should be working and exploring but NOOOOO, her Mothers choice’s continue to impact her life.

    • @gabriellebrooks5499
      @gabriellebrooks5499 Год назад +2

      🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @co123
      @co123 Год назад +3

      That’s true I had custody of my cousin. It was a lot and to get him on track but it can be rewarding seeing them achieve something. I went through childhood trauma too and started using that experience advocating for children. I was called daddy, brother, uncle cousin by him and others including court and school. I was a strong advocate that people wanted me to help them as well.

    • @arilove641
      @arilove641 Год назад +1

      @@co123 i definitely want to turn my experience into something greater for the youth and young-adult woman and men. Rn im just going through a period where i am healing and also helping heal my little brother. Its tough. He has ADHD and manipulative issues. And i struggle with resentment and anxiety. This is just an example of a side of it that NOBODY TALKS ABOUT! And also what the first comment said ^ alot of days i do wake up and feel robbed of youth . From 13 - present time ive been caring and providing for my siblings. I left home at 17 to get away and focus on me . I eventually got my Ged and enrolled in college then halfway through boom 💥 i had to circle back for my siblings . Which i always planned on doing . The time just wasnt right. But let me get off here venting lol i just wanna let people know ITS NOT AS EASY AS THEY MAKE IT SEEM!

    • @arilove641
      @arilove641 Год назад +7

      @@thatbemefool 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 man i cant say it enough , i literally switched places with my 42 year old mother ! IM living like im 42 ….. she 23 😂🥴. As far as my husband, man he a real one ! Been here with us since day ☝🏼

  • @usereEyez6208
    @usereEyez6208 Год назад +6

    She’s such a great daughter and big sister,God Bless them all.

  • @soomoreira8887
    @soomoreira8887 11 месяцев назад +3

    I love the way you conduct these interviews and treat the families with such respect and dignity as well as making sure the child was heard and his feelings were validated. As well as taking him off stage for the drug test results just shows how compassionate you really are ❤

  • @anitta925
    @anitta925 Год назад +90

    I love the big sister. She is her brother’s rock. Mom needs help. She’s in denial. I hope this family gets the help they need.

  • @boldenmichael4
    @boldenmichael4 Год назад +100

    Its it just me or is ki'a....looking hella!beautiful...she is rocking that afro....well spoken..etc

    • @Zee-ob1pe
      @Zee-ob1pe Год назад

      I don’t like Afro wigs. Terrible . I prefer natural Afros

    • @RiahMunnblock
      @RiahMunnblock Год назад +35

      @@Zee-ob1pe it is natural u a hater

    • @EclecticElegance13
      @EclecticElegance13 Год назад +23

      @@Zee-ob1pegood thing no one cares what you like 💕 She’s beautiful

    • @maniszn5
      @maniszn5 Год назад +25

      @@Zee-ob1pe it’s her natural hair. Even if it is a wig don’t nobody give a damn about what you like.

    • @L14AHH
      @L14AHH Год назад +2

      @@Zee-ob1pe this is about you .

  • @FATboyFAME
    @FATboyFAME 8 месяцев назад +5

    Generational curses are REAL. Particularly in our community. I hope this young king gets the help and support he deserves

  • @Sunflower722tv
    @Sunflower722tv Год назад +1

    Sister is a queen wow I have chills she handled that like a true big sister. I could just cry god bless her from the bottom of my heart

  • @mixed_colombian_mocha2403
    @mixed_colombian_mocha2403 Год назад +187

    You could tell she was using drugs so why lie ? The sister seems so kind and sweet . That little boy needs love and guidance ❤

    • @TheGoodGirlzTv
      @TheGoodGirlzTv Год назад +11

      And he needs attention you can look at his actions and tell his mom doesn’t pay him any attention

    • @anvachri
      @anvachri Год назад +4

      Exactly if I was the sister ill do whatever I can to just tak3 care of my brother if my mother didnt have no care of my brother ill just take control and try to make him a better person

    • @zamambhele242
      @zamambhele242 Год назад +2

      @@anvachritrue the sister should just take him and take care of him

  • @racheldorval3869
    @racheldorval3869 Год назад +166

    I have 2 boys and I lost my oldest due to fun violence last June and it makes me so upset that she would say that she would say she hates him and wishes he was dead when mother's like me love our kids and I want mine back but that Will never happen...as parents we have to watch what we say to our kids because it sticks with them...love your kids, encourage your kids...I do see great things for the young man, it's his environment that makes him act out...prayers always🙏

    • @karamelleyez
      @karamelleyez Год назад +13

      I'm so sorry for your loss.

    • @Mascaraismybestfriend
      @Mascaraismybestfriend Год назад +12

      I'm so sorry sending love 💕

    • @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024
      @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 Год назад

      Keep these Black boys in a ver controlled environment and keep them away from misogynoir/misogyny. Lots needs to CHANGES.

    • @100womaniam
      @100womaniam Год назад +5

      God bless you, your other son, and God bless your son's beautiful soul ❤️ 🙏🏾

    • @macrue952
      @macrue952 Год назад +3

      My condolences to you. I lost my oldest as well to gun violence right before my very eyes. The pain will never go away. I hope that family push forward

  • @Jasminenm1
    @Jasminenm1 6 месяцев назад +1

    Honestly, I began watching your show today, and I must say that I appreciate what you are doing. Direct and understanding. I also looked up your background and saw that you worked about a decade in social services, which makes this show genuine. Thank you for helping our community. God bless you.

  • @melody301
    @melody301 Год назад +9

    That sister!!! She is an angel. She loves her mom enough to hold her accountable and doing so in the most loving way. She's is a prime example of "I am my brother's keeper."

  • @jaleahhutchins7723
    @jaleahhutchins7723 Год назад +76

    I feel bad for that little boy. He’s so sweet. I hope him and his sister are doing okay .

  • @itslit7202
    @itslit7202 Год назад +111

    She's the best sister/daughter they could ask for.

  • @favoredone1222
    @favoredone1222 Год назад +11

    My heart went out to this young king. He could hardly lift his head up. I understand wholeheartedly why he became a product of his environment. His Sister was a Gem. Beautiful inside and out. I pray the best for this family and the mom stay clean.

  • @yktv_tara
    @yktv_tara 8 месяцев назад +2

    bro when he said "it's okay" in that soft voice his heart was totally breaking...absolutely shocking the way the mom reacts backstage

  • @Faaade_
    @Faaade_ Год назад +132

    Please keep us posted on this family! I can tell they really want to be better. Also, shout outs to the sister for stepping up. Troy was feeling so low and it was making me so sad.

  • @deidrebell2425
    @deidrebell2425 Год назад +76

    It was obvious that the mom has a struggle and she was lying about her problems. First is admitted and the daughter has been enabling her. I'm soooooo happy that they're finding a resolution

    • @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024
      @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 Год назад +18

      Right? She was defending her mother and the young child being so quiet. It’s all so terrible. She was sitting up there lying.

    • @jahnoyawalker4227
      @jahnoyawalker4227 8 месяцев назад +1

      I honestly think she just wants her baby brother. I think she just will enable her mom to a place where she has no choice but to give her Troy. Not from a selfish place but just because she knows she can provide better.

  • @ektion
    @ektion 5 месяцев назад +5

    The girl is the definition of grace

  • @SmellMyKnee15
    @SmellMyKnee15 6 месяцев назад +1

    This was actually very heartwarming. What a great big sister. No arguing and yelling so at least on camera they can operate. That’s great! Wishing them well

  • @mr.haneef22
    @mr.haneef22 Год назад +130

    I knew mom was still on drugs and could tell before the results. Nonetheless, she seems sincere. The daughter is very passionate and is the glue to this whole thing. They're on the right path as everyone was calm and seemed open minded to healing.

  • @bossmachi
    @bossmachi Год назад +51

    There is no accountability from mom... He doesn't trust his mom... This is sad ... She needs to be removed from that child to restore the damage before it's too late.

  • @KidAstronaut
    @KidAstronaut Год назад +1

    Karamo your point about social services coming is so needed!!

  • @TheeJavv
    @TheeJavv 7 месяцев назад +2

    Wow, sister is a QUEEN.
    I did the same for my little brother. Thats such pure love. I hope they continue to be happy❤

  • @wonders_work
    @wonders_work Год назад +44

    The sister is amazing and the fact that her fiance is so supportive of her wanting to take in her brother,Troy will be just fine

  • @tonyaharper2468
    @tonyaharper2468 Год назад +63

    Beautiful kids....so sad they have been hurt it will continue to cause them emotional problems in life.

  • @karentaylor9559
    @karentaylor9559 Год назад

    Karamo thank you! For what you do to help these families. God bless you!

  • @jc2007rose
    @jc2007rose Год назад +7

    She is the typical lady that puts her “man” FIRST!! I was in a similar situation as this young man. He can accomplish so much in his life if he stops getting into legal trouble.

  • @MsLove-lb1vz
    @MsLove-lb1vz Год назад +22

    Parents like this really pisses me off. She is obviously still on some kind of drug and to let some man put his hands on the son and still be with him there is absolutely ridiculous. Some ppl should never be able to be parents...THANK GOD FOR THE SISTER.. peace and love to the sister and brother

  • @deannshelton6552
    @deannshelton6552 Год назад +105

    I had tears alll through this show, I can see Troy's pain. I pray this family continues to heal and be well. Thank you for the update.

  • @rechrs5142
    @rechrs5142 Год назад +6

    So sad that kid didn’t even ask to be put on this earth and then to be treated like that, it is really sad, some people don’t deserve children

  • @tayloralliease8013
    @tayloralliease8013 7 месяцев назад +4

    Troy is such a beautiful boy . I'm happy he has Kiah as a sister and I hope that he can finally feel safe and live a normal teenager life . God bless this family .

  • @gontsephaloane1530
    @gontsephaloane1530 Год назад +53

    He is sooo adorable, I hope he gets on the right track

  • @plainoleme6283
    @plainoleme6283 Год назад +24

    This episode was emotional, mainly, due to the son/brother & how sad he looked!!!

  • @nataliaowens4455
    @nataliaowens4455 Год назад +2

    The sister is Everything..she is awesome from her attitude every thing 🤎💪🏾💯

  • @aishasimone06
    @aishasimone06 Год назад +4

    This so sad, I hope he is able to heal from such pain and trauma. He's not a bad child, he's a damaged child. He is scared and hurt.

  • @Ibevay
    @Ibevay Год назад +23

    The moment another man puts his hands on my son you gotta leave IMMEDIATELY.

  • @chanelcarlson3001
    @chanelcarlson3001 Год назад +47

    PLEASE CONTINUE TO GIVE US UPDATES ON TROY, WE ARE INVESTED IN HIM AND HIS WELL BEING NOW!! THANK YOU, KARAMO!! YOU ARE DOING GREAT THINGS!!!❤️👑🌟❤️👑⭐️❤️👑💫

  • @youforget1000thingsaday
    @youforget1000thingsaday Год назад +3

    She looks like a 70s beauty queen with that fro. 🤩😍 I wish NOTHING but the best for this family.

  • @josephrodriguez447
    @josephrodriguez447 Год назад +2

    Man I love this sister dam she trying to help out the whole family and willing to take care troy truly an angel

  • @NicoleWilliams-eb1dk
    @NicoleWilliams-eb1dk Год назад +14

    I was crying when he said it’s ok like all the pain in his heart ♥️