From my perspective as a black woman raised by another black woman, this is how many generationally traumatized black women end up: becoming detrimental to their own children. Black mothers are generationally broken and not raised with love or empathy, but survival. Most likely because of the black American experience, the slavery. As a result the next black mother experiences and makes unfortunate life decisions that lead to repercussions. Consequently, they lack emotional maturity and project their anger and trauma onto their offspring. As a result, they unintentionally harm their sons and daughters mentally, emotionally, and physically. Therefore, when you mention that she's treating him as if he were his own father, that observation is spot on. They direct their frustration towards those closest to them because they can't express it towards those who truly deserve it, like his father, their abusers, generational dehumanization, social exclusion, and more. The self-deprecation extends beyond themselves, but it's a painful reality that they choose to hinder their own child's growth in order to find solace in attacking someone else. The wrong person
@@CookieMonster5276certainly not true it depends on YOU as a person and wanting to grow or stay stuck . My mom was aggressive and rude basically my whole life . And I’m definitely the complete opposite. That made me not wanna treat ppl that way
@@agelessbeautee5.04and that’s where it all starts ! Ppl don’t understand that kinda stuff can really put a hold on a child especially if the parent doesn’t check on the child to see how it feels growing up wit no dad
@@agelessbeautee5.04 Because he couldn't have learned the so-called "rudeness" (which I don't think he's rude) from someone who was absent. Whatever he learned was from the parent who was there to directly inflict the abuse. Moreover, no one is letting the dad off the hook. There is no objection to anything Karamo said about the dad. But a father being absent is no excuse for the mom being abusive. A present parent can do just as much damage as an absent one. The mom doesn't get a cookie for simply being present if her presence has been damaging. And since we're deflecting to the father when making a point about the mom, let's talk about the mom blaming her son for the sorry man SHE chose to "lay up" and produce an innocent child with?
He is smiling because it is scripted and fake.. she was told to act like that as was he... These shows are scripted improv. Your given a storyline and told to build off of it. I've been on a few of the daytime television shows Maury, Jerry , and Judge Greg Mathis . Trust me its fake. They take real life scenarios and act them out.
There’s something deeply wrong with her. Who tells their own child “you’ll never be anything?” And the way she responded when Karamo asked if she hugged him…. This is really sad. I really hope that young man is able to pursue his dreams & cut this psychopath out of his life.
@@MichelleQuadathat’s the thing we see what the PROBLEM is from the OUTSIDE !!! it’s her simple. Her attitude is nasty, she too caught up on what the daddy did, telling him he just like his daddy l. He don’t even know his dad… she got resentment/Anger with his dad she taking it out in him ! been doing it since he was a kid !!!
@@MichelleQuada Why pray on his downfall?? Btw I wonder why he's "bad" 🙄 look who's "raising" him. She's punishing him for her choosing a bad man and looking like his father and your dumbass is sitting here saying "he not gone be shit if he don't lay on his back and take it. " LADY, he got his "bad ways" from HER. Yes, the adult. Shocker. Both of you need to learn some accountability and learn that just because you're an adult doesn't mean you're innocent. OPEN YOUR GODDAMN EARS AND EYES. what use are they if you can't even assess basic problems that's RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU?
Him blocking her out is a trauma response. He can't escape physically so he's attempting to mentally. She has so much to learn. Sadly many of our toxic parents don't, ever.
That word "I hate you" is a very strong word for a mother to say to her child who she carried for nine months. I cant see myself saying these things. He's such a sweet young man❤
@bushyhaynes4942 everything you said is very true, I could never see myself saying that to my children. I also wanna point out that when someone that you love unconditionally like a parent, family member, friends ect. says "I hate you" & "I wish I never had you/ I wish you were never born." to you it sticks with you forever, it cuts deeply and brings so much self-doubt! I might not remember every situation when my mother uttered those words to me, but I damn sure will never forget the first time she said it & how much it hurts to this day!
This is true. However, I also feel in this particular case for her it is a projection, which she probably didn't realize she was doing. I don't think she hates him. I think she is triggered by what she sees as a reminder of her past hurt which she herself probably never dealt with and unfortunately now hurts her son . All in all, I have hope that they both will heal and their relationship gets better.
She acts like that child is her ex man. She’s taking out every single emotion she has towards the father of her child on that young man. She should be ashamed of herself. Like girl no one chose your baby daddy but you. She acts childish. I’ll say it she’s a horrible mother. Disgusting.
She provides the basic stuff for his survival, that’s all they portrayed. No motivation or emotional support, which is what a child needs more than anything. I would say she’s been a horrible mother. His father ofc is the Worst!!
A mother telling her child that she wishes she never had him???????????? Those words are too strong. !!!!! Those words will ring in his mind for the rest of his life.
It's like each time she sees this guy, it's like she sees his father. She's revenging whatever the dad did to her on the son. She really hates her son.
As a parent. This broke my heart. For him, the lack of maturity from the mother, the mother being emotionally unavailable and the healing this man needs. God bless this boy. He’s going to need it. The mother needs therapy ASAP!
I can't believe that he still Loves her, he is a probably the strongest young black man that ever said that to their parent that doesn't love them. I sorry, I wouldn't love my momma if she says that to me, I would ran away and live with somebody else.
I wish she would act like an adult for two seconds. Never stoop down to your child’s level, being that they’re a child. When you feel you can’t get through to your child, give them space. That doesn’t mean don’t talk to them at all. It just means make basic conversation. You don’t have to make it about them. And never let anything negative ABOUT THEM slip out of your mouth. Demolishing your child’s character is horrible. And it can be carried through generations. Be the change!
So, I commented this before I got the chance to finish the video. The ending was beautiful, I just hope it lasts. I pray he makes it far in his future music career.
Smh poor parenting smh….. he ain’t say 5 glocks he said blocks so u said that for wat,,,?,???she’s childish who sits nd go back nd fourth is absolutely crazy to me smh whew she blew me real bad sooooo childish he gone forever hate her frfr 😢
So she need just allow him be rude she can't even talk when it's her turn on stage without him cutting her off nobody did that when he was telling his side of the story so I feel he wrong for doing it to her yall so blind and one side about this he has earrings on clothes on his back and don't look like he starving and I'm sure she the one doing it all he don't work
She lacks accountability. Saying your son does things that makes you hate him is proof of that. Ask yourself why is he doing these things. What have I done as a mother that attributed to this behavior… Acknowledging his mental health is important here. She needs to be a PARENT and help him, not tear him down.
she’s exactly the reason why his father left too. she’s a miserable person who takes no responsibility. if all you do is yell, they’re going to tune u out because nothing will ever change, no matter what they do. cringing at the idea of hugging your own son absolutely blows my mind.
@@EdgieBrannon-wd6jo well what I can tell you is many who are abused in this way think its normal because its always been that way. They do not know anything else. Once people learn and understand this disorder they come to understand that they have been abused for a long time. What was shown was abuse. Many eventually are diagnosed with COMPLEX PTSD.
She came out SHOWING everyone that what that boy said is on point! She came out acting a straight fool. She's obviously hateful, immature and doesn't take accountability for the negativity and hate she's projecting. That woman needs therapy and needs to stop blaming her son for his Dad's behavior. Karamo needs to stop "babying" these grown-a$$ people, like this woman, and call them on their BS!!
He’s such a good kid!!! He doesn’t deserve this pain and it’s not his fault. His mother needs help and she needs to stop blaming him for her problems !!!! I’m praying for him and his escape and healing🥺🥺❤️❤️
I can't believe I'm over here crying for Brandon. His mom is a narcissist and he seems so sweet. His mom is really immature and hopefully she changes. If your reading this Brandon, know that God loves you and you have people rooting for you. Don't change who you are or start being narcissistic because of your mom!
@@MichelleQuada you know him better than we do 😂. I guess I'm sympathetic because you & Brandon reminds me of my mother and I. I love her but at times it has to be from a distance. At times she has said some awful things to me that I didn't deserve. I'm no angel and I admit I have went back and forth with being argumentative at times, but I know she triggers me at times so I don't let it get there! I hope you two are doing better. He's your twin for sure.😊
@@DavionCoffee-g1x I appreciate the positive feedback and we are trying to build a better relationship but I know it’s going to take some time Brandon is no angel either lol and he do talk way to much 🤣
@@MichelleQuadau gotta remember that he’s learned to regulate his emotions from you. You have to model what you expect from him. It can get hard especially if you’re doing it all alone. You both resent each other, but neither of you are the real enemy. I wish you both the best 🤍
No, those with NPD manipulate constantly, it is exhausting, be clear, we saw a woman having a meltdown. This is what an NPD does when they feel they lack control over something, anything.
Mom definitely comes from that generation of entitlement, no accountability, “Im big your small im right hour wrong” mentality. The parent is always right. Memory lost when confronted. Always the victim somehow , projecting on their offspring. Oh and i forgot VERY CHILDISH. What was in the water when they was kids? 🧐
Same, but she's changed over the years. It was hard growing up but after all those fistfights, she finally calmed down, and now she's great mother to my little sisters.
She is disgusting. She doesn't take any accountability and was quite taken aback when Karamo told her she's causing harm. She doesnt need to have kids. She emotionally damaged that child. Couldn't even give him a genuine hug.
This man gaslit and targeted a woman who called out an unprofessional business owner who was selling a potentially dangerous product. He is no healer, he's a snake.
She really hates her son…you can tell. I think when she sees him, she sees his dad and that happens a lot unfortunately. This was a tough episode to watch. Parents, love your babies no matter what. They are apart of you.
@@MichelleQuada Love your son. It’s heartbreaking to see the damage that’s being done to both of your relationships. He needs you and you have to be the bigger person and love him harder. I’m sure he’s got some behavior problems, but you are his mother. Hold him tighter because he is your blood.
I cried so hard when she hugged him. Especially after seeing how happy that made him 😢 she needs to do better as a Mother. I could NEVERR!!! & I have 3 sons.
It's really sad because this man has nobody in his corner to help him and he's 18 years old he's at prime dating age now and that same hurt that his mother passed down to him I'm is going to be passed down to his next girlfriend or wife
I don't have faith that she's gonna actually do the work once they leave. I truly feel for this kid and all the trauma he's gonna eventually have to unpack from his childhood.
It’s the “like you better than everybody” part that sticks out. The rest of words are bullets from there. She’s jealous of her son growing up and bitter about his daddy neither is his fault. Praying for this relationship she had that baby before healing herself. 😭
A lot of Black Single Mothers does that, its what's wrong with the Black Communities and Black Society. If Black Women chooses to be SINGLE MOMs like its CUTE, then they need to think more about their kids than themselves and Stop blaming their kids about their Thug Deadbeat Fathers.
I agree 100%. This young man is starving for love, and this woman has no idea how to give it. Her own development was stifled at some point, so she presents like a child.
though i agree, i think we all know that if karamo told these parents like it is they would shut down get upset and walk away. he HAS to sugar coat it to get through. sometimes people just need to hear how to move forward not a list of everything theyre doing wrong. this is why karamo does the show and not me. hes trained to get through to them. id be cussing them out before the show was over for the way they treat their babies.
Run, Brandon. Don't let broken people break you, no matter who they are. I pray you are able to escape this cycle of trauma and build a beautiful, life surrounded real love and people who will pour into you. You got this, KING! 💪🏿❤️
Brandon, I know you want things to be different and you were hopeful after the show. I am sorry to tell you that I do not see change happening. I do think that your mother has a personality disorder and you are going to need to learn how to deal with that. Google going grey rock with my NPD mother, you will get many sites. Review then and learn. I am so so sorry for this happening to you. Know that you have done nothing to cause this, it is not your fault. Do not take on that that baggage. You will learn that you are not alone and many have this same experience. This does help. When you understand the WHY, it does help. Unfortunately those with NPD do not change, they never become normal. What helps is knowing how to interact with them to prevent you getting hurt. Hey, maybe one day you will write a song about this.Most artists use their own life events as insipiration.
some people don’t deserve children. idc what she’s been through. I couldn’t even imagine treating my son like that. hell no. she’s the problem clearly. his parents failed him and ts is so sad
This is one of the most disgusting things I’ve seen a parent say and do to their kids. Telling your kids you hate them, you don’t like them, they ain’t sh@&&!….who can bear that every single day of their life. All the screaming….good Lord! I’m going to pray for both of them. This is heart breaking. She doesn’t seem like she wants or likes being a mother.
She is TERRIBLE! I see straight through her. She did all that for show, as soon as she gets back in her home, she'll go back to ger ways. She's selfish, immature and bordeline narcissistic. You can see the hate on her. All these loving women out here who long for children to love and her she is with a BLESSING that she is ABUSING. She gives single black mothers a bad name, she is the stereotype. I pray for that young man, he should move her out his life.
Well said im embarressed for him she is disgusting her son needs love stop blaming him for his father mistakes give him some encouragement i have an autistic son and i love him unconnditionally its like im must take it out on him your right she gives a bad steretotype of black mothers like me who work so hard give your son some love
The way this young man responded when she came out screaming at him told me everything I needed to know. She is the one that disrespects him and all he shows it back. People think talking to someone negatively would magically make them want to be positive….but he can u when all u do is cause hurt? I believe 100% she hates him because she hates his dad. This is sad.
Exactly!!! I’m a single parent if 3 and never talked down on them because I hate their father…I always hug my kids and tell them how much I love them it’s no excuse
Brandon. You’re a nice young person with big dreams and promise. Don’t let anyone take that from you. Not even your mother. As a mother myself, it hurt me to see your mom talk like that . Hurt people hurt people, It was beautiful to see you receive the hug you’ve been yearning for, probably your whole life. I wish the best for you!🙏🏾🙏🏾🧡. Great job Karamo!
She’s a narcissist she will never change. If he sees my comment he needs to emotionally disconnect. You are the scapegoat. The “is child” and this “child has been rude” his whole life is a sign of narcissistic. He always had an attitude. He’s disrespect. How is a child always disrespectful!!!! She’s crazy disrespectful and disgraceful. Save yourself
Somebody call mother Iyana because this woman needs a wake up call and to take accountability for the pain she has caused. I love how Kamaro has empathy for every party, but it feels like problematic behaviors by the offending party go unchecked.
My daughter's have the same father and they are as different as day a night. Kids are different and have different personalities and you have to treat them accordingly. I'm not going to argue with a child. Period
@@sherryjennings9542 you don't have to argue with them, but please don't be as foolish as the mom in the video. Love and guide your children, don't be their biggest enemy.
Or she’s projecting… telling him he is just like his dad, when he probably acts more like her. Emotionally they seem to be the same age and when they clash, he mirrors to her -her same behaviors and she can’t stand it.
She has no idea the damage she's done to him. As he gets older the way she treats him will affect all of his relationships. The hatred she has for his father she's taking it out on him.
I seen this for the first time with my ex. His mom said the same things to him when he was young and still as an adult. I wish you were dead, I hate you, you'll never be shit like your daddy. He believes it. He use to be suicidal. He'll drink and say he ain't shit. Now he's seeking help. He can't have a healthy relationship because of his mom.
He's so incredibly patient, listens intently even under duress. I hope he continues making something of himself, and I hope his success outshines his struggles with her.
This is one of the most toxic mothers I’ve ever seen. When Karamo told her it doesn’t give her a license to hurt him , it went right over her head. You cringed at the thought of hugging your OWN child? You can’t give disrespect , show no love , and then demand and think you deserve love and respect. She placed all the blame on him, and then is isolating and separating him from his younger brother. Giving him no outlet or even chance for love in the home he lives in. This was disgusting. I couldn’t imagine treating my child that way.
The power of life and death is in the tongue. As parents we need to be careful with the words we use to describe our children, or what we call our children. Your son is who you have called him to be. Your negative words are reflecting in his life. Use positive words to lift up your children and not hateful and negative words to tear them down. Pray, and bless your children and don’t curse them. Your children are a reflection of you.
she is so disgusting. so sad, not every woman deserves to be a mother. She is so insecure and unhappy with every aspect of her life and until she decides to love herself, she will remain to be this nasty of an individual who can't control her emotions. Her, "ugh" with her tongue say's it all. She truly does not stomach him. Young man, walk away, work on you and find yourself a good woman who WILL love you and give you a family.
I’m rooting for him! I’m glad he’s in this world. I’m hoping that he overcomes having a mom like that, bc the fact she said she felt an “eww feeling” while thinking about hugging him, he doesn’t deserve that. I hope I see big things from him.
Karamo has such a kindness within him. You could tell he got choked up from this interaction. He really does wish to support this boy and show him that he is worthy of all the good that life has to offer.
One of the worst moms I've ever seen on this show. She's extremely immature, blames her son for her abusive behaviour and completely ruins his confidence. Was growing up like that too and it's extremely damaging but going no contact + therapy has helped. Brandon, in case you're reading this: You're wonderful and worthy of love. The way she treated you was never your fault and you deserve better. We're seeing you.
Agree totally and will add this is a cluster B personality disorder called NPD. She will not change, she actually is not able to love. What shocked me was her total meltdown in the show, they normally save this BS for at home and in public act all normal. There was NOTHING normal about this woman and everyone saw that.
@adrictrlx He explained it fully in this video and also in an older one. When your child/spouse/(sometimes)parent is acting out or being hateful (for attention usually), instead of matching that energy or punishing them, love them louder. Show them more love. Especially if their actions are bc they aren't getting the (correct) attention they need. They need for your actions and words to show them love louder. Like the son in this video, he was acting out bc he needed/wanted his mother's love. Yea, she loved him, but never told him. He needed to hear and feel that. How do you make someone hear or feel love when they don't feel it or hear it? Turn up the volume! So...love them louder.
The mom needs a lot more help. To feel cringy when hugging your own child has me shook. I feel for this young man and my blood is boiling for him. I can't imagine that level of pain.
I agree, she needs therapy. It is likely she was abused as a child and likely came from a dysfunctional home. That is a lot of baggage to deal with. She clearly needs help to even start to address her issues. What concerns me is everyday she deflects and continues to place blame on her son, she is damaging his self esteem. I am so very impressed with this young man to understand something was simply wrong. He even takes ownership himself, well for simply being a teenager. Let me be totally clear, there is nothing he could do to make her behaviour even slightly acceptable. There is NO grey zone here, no argument on each side, None at all. This is 100 percent abuse. He spoke up and went on a public tv show to address this issue. I can look at what he did as a total stranger and feel proud of this young man doing something that took very real bravery, but his own mothers view is, " he makes me hate him and he talks too much". WOW!!!!!
Wow. He said her hug felt like love. That’s very sad. All he’s used to is hate. I pray they can get a better relationship with one another as mother and son and learn to support each other where they are both lacking ❤️
This is why fathers are so important in children lives. When they abandon them, the kids are stuck with these crazy moms who belittle them. It’s a never ending cycle that needs to stop.
@@nathalielanau5183 You could always get partial custody of your child so you don't have to deal with the mother, a lot of men just run away they don't fight to continue at least seeing their kids so that is no excuse.
This one right here is a tear jerker! 😢 He is a good kid! He didn’t show any signs of disrespect. The mother needs to be delivered honestly. I wish he was mine the son I never had! Love Louder
Treating ur son like that because he reminds u of his dad.. she’s extremely evil I feel so bad for him she definitely doesn’t love him. She doesn’t even see how bad she’s hurting him I’m disgusted like how else is he supposed to act when his own mom hates him!
She doesn't hate him she hates his ways yes definitely doesn't give her the reason or the right to take all her frustrations out on him, his dad scared her deeply she's not over it and still doesn't give her the right to take that out on him he is NOT his father and if you treat him like that of course he gonna act out turn his nose up and all she's the cause of his actions she has to get over her pain if not she's gonna run him to the streets and loose him forever she better fix it B4 it's too late all I know praying for this family so hard 💯💪🏾
Karamo don’t make excuses for her behavior. She regrets giving birth and she means what she’s saying to him. Just look at how she came out on stage, if she’s like that on national television then I can only imagine what she says to her son in private. He is treating her the way she is treating him. Like A Stranger!
As someone who had to hear those hateful things from mother... it's so sad to see him trusting her and what she commited to do in the program. She rolled her eyes, spoke ironic, and will do it again. She can hold it back, but then they just let it escape and it’s the worst pain
I was thinking the same thing. Sadly if Brandon continues to do well and SHE doesn't work on herself her jealousy and abuse will follow him into adulthood. She gonna be a "why you never call me" parent fr.
Karamo, omg you NAILED this one! I was in tears when the son teared up and they hugged one another. This was so beautiful, and an awesome step seeing mother and son embrace and love one another working towards the beginning of their healing. 🔥🔥
This is what everyone needs. To know their family, especially mothers & fathers love them. No matter their age. A little love & compassion, to know someone cares about you, I believe it would change a lot of people’s actions these days.
Karamo, you hit the nail on the head. As a parent you can call out negativity over your children. Parents be very careful what you say to your children in anger. Even when they fail, you should be the one to encourage them to greatness.
I teared up with him. His momma should've hugged him again once he said how impactful that hug was. I pray healing on both of them individually and together. This boy needs his momma- a momma who will be supportive and uplifting
@@nikkiajackson6651that’s not anyone’s problem. When you become a parent it’s not about you anymore. If you’re not stable to raise another human being then don’t give birth to them?!?!?!?! People can judge what they want. We’ve seen the video, we’ve listened to her words and watched her behavior. She’s a nasty person. Get over it.
Watching that young men cry with the pain in his heart and needing his mom love speaks volumes. It’s so many kids like him that need attention from their parents.
I noticed a shift in his aura. He turned from arrogant anger to a free minded man. You can see it right after she put her pride to the side and hugged him. Karamo’s genuine intentions goes a long mile!
She doesn't deserve to be a parent. Just because you have breast ovaries filopion tubes and a pussy doesn't make you a woman or a mother. Before we become women we have to grow into a decent human being first. Just because you have balls a dick don't make you a man.
I love you Karamo! You are healing a lot of people out here! God put you on this earth for a reason! I hope and pray that people around you love you back! Shine on!
@@africanqueenmo She is not a terrible mother, at least she’s honest about how she’s been dealing with him- good or bad. It would be one thing if she was completely oblivious. Like Kamaro said she’s probably dealing with unhealed pain from her life experiences. Her being willing to come on the show and even given him a hug shows that she’s trying to reconcile their relationship. She’s a flawed person like us all. I think she needs to continue therapy so she can learn and unlearn why she is the way she is.
@@ucheerondu1939NO, NO, NO. I have no idea what planet you are from. This is ABUSE, FULL STOP, NO GREY ZONE HERE. In the few minute rant from this woman she checked off boxes as having a personality disorder. Read about NPD, that is what we saw. I know what i am talking about i worked in mental health for 30 years and 9 out of 10 kids who attempted suicide had a parent like this. The damage this does to a young person is forever, there is no repairing that damage. Worse to know she likely started this a decade ago.
This woman came out here like a wrecking ball, let’s start with that and end with that fact she hated this young man since the day his dad left her. His problems stem from her and maybe wouldn’t be there if she actually loved him. He literally melted from that hug.
She’s acting like he’s his father. Disturbing behavior. Heal and stop abusing your son.
From my perspective as a black woman raised by another black woman, this is how many generationally traumatized black women end up: becoming detrimental to their own children. Black mothers are generationally broken and not raised with love or empathy, but survival. Most likely because of the black American experience, the slavery. As a result the next black mother experiences and makes unfortunate life decisions that lead to repercussions. Consequently, they lack emotional maturity and project their anger and trauma onto their offspring. As a result, they unintentionally harm their sons and daughters mentally, emotionally, and physically. Therefore, when you mention that she's treating him as if he were his own father, that observation is spot on. They direct their frustration towards those closest to them because they can't express it towards those who truly deserve it, like his father, their abusers, generational dehumanization, social exclusion, and more. The self-deprecation extends beyond themselves, but it's a painful reality that they choose to hinder their own child's growth in order to find solace in attacking someone else. The wrong person
@@Nonamegirl1question where was your father?😒🥱😴
@@Nonamegirl1yes! this is also true, she took it out on both him & his father.
the son you can tell he speaking the truth like the stuff you say to us children still sticks with us more than what we stay to u
Acting like she's acting I don't blame the father for leaving her who wants that.
She’s the reason. There’s no accountability and she’s mad immature. She’s the type of parent I can’t stand encountering as an educator 🤦🏾♀️
My mom was exactly like that to me and my siblings Fr
8:21 this exactly how it was
So of y'all always got something negative to say and your own children don't talk to some of y'all this family gonna be alright is yours
@@EdgieBrannon-wd6joyea… if this family can all will!
It’s call Toughlove my son will be just fine yall just make sure you handle yours Ty
If the child has been rude his whole life, I can't imagine where he learned such rudeness.
The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, unfortunately 😕
Why is nobody talking about his completely absent father
@@CookieMonster5276certainly not true it depends on YOU as a person and wanting to grow or stay stuck . My mom was aggressive and rude basically my whole life . And I’m definitely the complete opposite. That made me not wanna treat ppl that way
@@agelessbeautee5.04and that’s where it all starts ! Ppl don’t understand that kinda stuff can really put a hold on a child especially if the parent doesn’t check on the child to see how it feels growing up wit no dad
@@agelessbeautee5.04 Because he couldn't have learned the so-called "rudeness" (which I don't think he's rude) from someone who was absent. Whatever he learned was from the parent who was there to directly inflict the abuse. Moreover, no one is letting the dad off the hook. There is no objection to anything Karamo said about the dad. But a father being absent is no excuse for the mom being abusive. A present parent can do just as much damage as an absent one. The mom doesn't get a cookie for simply being present if her presence has been damaging. And since we're deflecting to the father when making a point about the mom, let's talk about the mom blaming her son for the sorry man SHE chose to "lay up" and produce an innocent child with?
When he said "That felt like love" I broke down. He just wants to be loved and accepted!
literally jst happened to me
Same. He looks like a man, but hes just a boy and he still needs his mama
YIKES. The mother proved his point with in 1 second of getting on the stage. I could not live with a person like the boy’s mother.
Her mask slipped so fast. Imagine being on TV is supposed to show her best. If that’s her best imagine her in private
“you make me hate you” umm excuse me?? That broke my heart for him
Foreal i would of ran away
U JUST ACT LIKE UR GAWD DAYAM DADDY..THAT SAID ERRTHANG I NEEDS 2 KNOW
That hug had me crying. This sweet boy deserves to be supported and uplifted. That smile on his face after the hug said everything.
Yooo me too😢 😂😂 I was saying the whole time that kid need a hug and look.. he couldn't stop cheesing lol
I started crying seeing that joy in his face🥺❤️
OMG,me too! That baby just want to be loved💙this was truly priceless❣
He is smiling because it is scripted and fake.. she was told to act like that as was he... These shows are scripted improv. Your given a storyline and told to build off of it. I've been on a few of the daytime television shows Maury, Jerry , and Judge Greg Mathis . Trust me its fake. They take real life scenarios and act them out.
Me too balling
There’s something deeply wrong with her. Who tells their own child “you’ll never be anything?” And the way she responded when Karamo asked if she hugged him…. This is really sad. I really hope that young man is able to pursue his dreams & cut this psychopath out of his life.
It’s like she’s hating on her son. Some parents are like that.
He not gone be shit if he keeps up the bad ways y’all from the outside looking in like wtf
@@MichelleQuadathat’s the thing we see what the PROBLEM is from the OUTSIDE !!! it’s her simple. Her attitude is nasty, she too caught up on what the daddy did, telling him he just like his daddy l. He don’t even know his dad… she got resentment/Anger with his dad she taking it out in him ! been doing it since he was a kid !!!
@@tonyacashmere3824 I swear these people are just pretending to not see the wickedness of this woman.
@@MichelleQuada Why pray on his downfall?? Btw I wonder why he's "bad" 🙄 look who's "raising" him. She's punishing him for her choosing a bad man and looking like his father and your dumbass is sitting here saying "he not gone be shit if he don't lay on his back and take it. " LADY, he got his "bad ways" from HER. Yes, the adult. Shocker. Both of you need to learn some accountability and learn that just because you're an adult doesn't mean you're innocent. OPEN YOUR GODDAMN EARS AND EYES. what use are they if you can't even assess basic problems that's RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU?
He deserves so much more! His parents failed him!!! And I can tell he’s a good kid too.
Him blocking her out is a trauma response. He can't escape physically so he's attempting to mentally. She has so much to learn. Sadly many of our toxic parents don't, ever.
She doesn’t even seem mentally or emotionally capable to change on her own. I wish they offered some long-term therapy for the family as a whole.
❤
@@tiffanyadams2956 I doubt she'd go.
She has NPD, she cant and wont "learn" her way out of this. She is toxic and it will likely get worse.
Absolutely, I know some mom's who needs to be locked up
That word "I hate you" is a very strong word for a mother to say to her child who she carried for nine months. I cant see myself saying these things. He's such a sweet young man❤
Smh
@bushyhaynes4942 everything you said is very true, I could never see myself saying that to my children. I also wanna point out that when someone that you love unconditionally like a parent, family member, friends ect. says "I hate you" & "I wish I never had you/ I wish you were never born." to you it sticks with you forever, it cuts deeply and brings so much self-doubt!
I might not remember every situation when my mother uttered those words to me, but I damn sure will never forget the first time she said it & how much it hurts to this day!
Thats true Haynes one would wish was never born at all or better thrown to the bush for other people to pick up and raise for themselves
This is true. However, I also feel in this particular case for her it is a projection, which she probably didn't realize she was doing. I don't think she hates him. I think she is triggered by what she sees as a reminder of her past hurt which she herself probably never dealt with and unfortunately now hurts her son . All in all, I have hope that they both will heal and their relationship gets better.
10 months we carried our baby. And, you are right. That’s horrible of her
She acts like that child is her ex man. She’s taking out every single emotion she has towards the father of her child on that young man. She should be ashamed of herself. Like girl no one chose your baby daddy but you. She acts childish. I’ll say it she’s a horrible mother. Disgusting.
She's treating him like she want to treat his dad,but he's not around.
She provides the basic stuff for his survival, that’s all they portrayed. No motivation or emotional support, which is what a child needs more than anything. I would say she’s been a horrible mother. His father ofc is the Worst!!
She came out proving his point --screaming at the boy like he's attacking her.
A mother telling her child that she wishes she never had him????????????
Those words are too strong. !!!!! Those words will ring in his mind for the rest of his life.
It's like each time she sees this guy, it's like she sees his father. She's revenging whatever the dad did to her on the son. She really hates her son.
Exactly, my grandma said that to my mom and it still effects her to this day
My mom told me that in middle school, at the age of 33 I still cry about it. Some mothers don’t understand the power of their words.
@@SheisShay I'm so sorry. My mother told me the same thing in high school. I'm now 37 and still struggle some but I know God makes no mistakes.
Forever
As a parent. This broke my heart. For him, the lack of maturity from the mother, the mother being emotionally unavailable and the healing this man needs. God bless this boy. He’s going to need it. The mother needs therapy ASAP!
She hates this kid because she hates his dad disgusting.
She's emotionally immature. Kids can't regulate themselves without a compass. If mom's compass is skewed... welp!
I can't and will not make light of his situation at all. No one should ever have a mother -- and I use that term loosely -- like her.
I can't believe that he still Loves her, he is a probably the strongest young black man that ever said that to their parent that doesn't love them. I sorry, I wouldn't love my momma if she says that to me, I would ran away and live with somebody else.
God says you have ❤️ anybody.
I wish she would act like an adult for two seconds. Never stoop down to your child’s level, being that they’re a child. When you feel you can’t get through to your child, give them space. That doesn’t mean don’t talk to them at all. It just means make basic conversation. You don’t have to make it about them. And never let anything negative ABOUT THEM slip out of your mouth. Demolishing your child’s character is horrible. And it can be carried through generations. Be the change!
So, I commented this before I got the chance to finish the video. The ending was beautiful, I just hope it lasts. I pray he makes it far in his future music career.
The moms energy wasn’t it bro always believe your children
Smh poor parenting smh….. he ain’t say 5 glocks he said blocks so u said that for wat,,,?,???she’s childish who sits nd go back nd fourth is absolutely crazy to me smh whew she blew me real bad sooooo childish he gone forever hate her frfr 😢
he's no child. my bro joined the navy at 16.
So she need just allow him be rude she can't even talk when it's her turn on stage without him cutting her off nobody did that when he was telling his side of the story so I feel he wrong for doing it to her yall so blind and one side about this he has earrings on clothes on his back and don't look like he starving and I'm sure she the one doing it all he don't work
"I dont hate you, you make me hate you".. starting off strong
She lacks accountability. Saying your son does things that makes you hate him is proof of that. Ask yourself why is he doing these things. What have I done as a mother that attributed to this behavior… Acknowledging his mental health is important here. She needs to be a PARENT and help him, not tear him down.
she’s exactly the reason why his father left too. she’s a miserable person who takes no responsibility. if all you do is yell, they’re going to tune u out because nothing will ever change, no matter what they do. cringing at the idea of hugging your own son absolutely blows my mind.
Well the streets are going to hurt them and he needs to listen and be respectful
@@angeladoss8128she should've taught him to listen and be respectful.... once again it's her fault!
People will try to determine other people but not themselves
@@angeladoss8128Why should he respect her when she doesn’t respect him?
@@EdgieBrannon-wd6jo well what I can tell you is many who are abused in this way think its normal because its always been that way. They do not know anything else. Once people learn and understand this disorder they come to understand that they have been abused for a long time. What was shown was abuse. Many eventually are diagnosed with COMPLEX PTSD.
She came out SHOWING everyone that what that boy said is on point! She came out acting a straight fool. She's obviously hateful, immature and doesn't take accountability for the negativity and hate she's projecting. That woman needs therapy and needs to stop blaming her son for his Dad's behavior. Karamo needs to stop "babying" these grown-a$$ people, like this woman, and call them on their BS!!
That's what I said. Literally did everything he explained.
He’s such a good kid!!! He doesn’t deserve this pain and it’s not his fault. His mother needs help and she needs to stop blaming him for her problems !!!! I’m praying for him and his escape and healing🥺🥺❤️❤️
I can't believe I'm over here crying for Brandon. His mom is a narcissist and he seems so sweet. His mom is really immature and hopefully she changes. If your reading this Brandon, know that God loves you and you have people rooting for you. Don't change who you are or start being narcissistic because of your mom!
I’m sorry but his most definitely not sweet 😅
@@MichelleQuada you know him better than we do 😂. I guess I'm sympathetic because you & Brandon reminds me of my mother and I. I love her but at times it has to be from a distance. At times she has said some awful things to me that I didn't deserve. I'm no angel and I admit I have went back and forth with being argumentative at times, but I know she triggers me at times so I don't let it get there! I hope you two are doing better. He's your twin for sure.😊
@@DavionCoffee-g1x I appreciate the positive feedback and we are trying to build a better relationship but I know it’s going to take some time Brandon is no angel either lol and he do talk way to much 🤣
@@MichelleQuadau gotta remember that he’s learned to regulate his emotions from you. You have to model what you expect from him. It can get hard especially if you’re doing it all alone. You both resent each other, but neither of you are the real enemy. I wish you both the best 🤍
No, those with NPD manipulate constantly, it is exhausting, be clear, we saw a woman having a meltdown. This is what an NPD does when they feel they lack control over something, anything.
“he act like he better than everybody” that’s something only insecure people say
Facts
exactly!!! smh
Yes in her case she is insecure but there are some people out there who actually think everyone is beneath them.
She's nuts.
@@TF-gf3fsLmaooooo.
Mom definitely comes from that generation of entitlement, no accountability, “Im big your small im right hour wrong” mentality. The parent is always right. Memory lost when confronted. Always the victim somehow , projecting on their offspring. Oh and i forgot VERY CHILDISH. What was in the water when they was kids? 🧐
OMG! so true
Narcissist BIG FACTS
U hit it right on the nail
Right my mother is from that generation
Same, but she's changed over the years. It was hard growing up but after all those fistfights, she finally calmed down, and now she's great mother to my little sisters.
She just rolled her eyes, frowned her face and blocked everything he was telling her. But wondering why her son exhibit the same face.
“He thinks he’s better than everyone” I heard that one many times before….all because I wanted more for myself and for my family.
Crab in the barrel a lot of black folks have. If she doesn't change I suggest he keep his distance
Same! It’s like they’re bitter that THEY raised us and WE don’t want the same path as them or want to accept what they did
Same bruh that's a fact. That seem to be the main thing they say.
She is disgusting. She doesn't take any accountability and was quite taken aback when Karamo told her she's causing harm. She doesnt need to have kids. She emotionally damaged that child. Couldn't even give him a genuine hug.
FAKE HUG FROM A FAKE MOTHER
Karamo is so patient , emotionally intelligent and intuitive. He is a true healer.
Not with how he treated that lady who told the truth about that nasty Pink Sauce.
This man gaslit and targeted a woman who called out an unprofessional business owner who was selling a potentially dangerous product. He is no healer, he's a snake.
@@TEC-XX_619all people make mistakes
Right.
@@squarebear619He apologized actually. People make mistakes. He’s not perfect. I didn’t agree with it, but I hope he learned from it
She looks disgusted that she hugged him. This is so awful. Just abrasive. I hope she gets help. Prayers for that young man. 😢
She really hates her son…you can tell. I think when she sees him, she sees his dad and that happens a lot unfortunately. This was a tough episode to watch. Parents, love your babies no matter what. They are apart of you.
She hates herself!!
Most definitely don’t
Amen!!!
@@MichelleQuada Love your son. It’s heartbreaking to see the damage that’s being done to both of your relationships. He needs you and you have to be the bigger person and love him harder. I’m sure he’s got some behavior problems, but you are his mother. Hold him tighter because he is your blood.
@@MichelleQuadayes she do
As someone that dates someone with a narcissistic mother like her... This trauma do NOT go away! It effects relationships later on in life.
True facts
Facts sure have ruined alot of my relationships
I totally understand what you mean and I’ve dealt with it and steal dealing with it
Literally. I picked up things from my mom that I had to unlearn. Break generational curses. I no longer speak to her.
he seems so sweet, it’s sad that he has nobody to show love to him.
He’s not sweet he hasn’t been raised to be sweet
He’s disrespectful because she’s disrespectful
@@nikkiajackson6651I hope he heals and does well in her life. Like you said, she is extremely disrespectful and is passing it down to him
I cried so hard when she hugged him. Especially after seeing how happy that made him 😢 she needs to do better as a Mother.
I could NEVERR!!! & I have 3 sons.
His face lit up when his mother hugged him. I actually was closed to tears seeing that moment.
It's really sad because this man has nobody in his corner to help him and he's 18 years old he's at prime dating age now and that same hurt that his mother passed down to him I'm is going to be passed down to his next girlfriend or wife
@@A_Well_Traveled_Manright
Me too
I literally cried especially knowing what it is like to have a emotionally unavailable parent.
@@A_Well_Traveled_Man he will be healed and not pass it on or triggered in Jesus name amen
I don't have faith that she's gonna actually do the work once they leave. I truly feel for this kid and all the trauma he's gonna eventually have to unpack from his childhood.
Me too. My heart breaks for him.
It’s the “like you better than everybody” part that sticks out. The rest of words are bullets from there. She’s jealous of her son growing up and bitter about his daddy neither is his fault. Praying for this relationship she had that baby before healing herself. 😭
That's horrible. I hate when parents make their children suffer because of jealousy
A lot of Black Single Mothers does that, its what's wrong with the Black Communities and Black Society. If Black Women chooses to be SINGLE MOMs like its CUTE, then they need to think more about their kids than themselves and Stop blaming their kids about their Thug Deadbeat Fathers.
“Well maybe he had a lil piece uh tail or sum!?” 😂😂😂😂 screaming 🤣
She is a horrible mother. I wish Karamo would stop enabling these narcissistic parents and start defending these kids.
I agree 100%. This young man is starving for love, and this woman has no idea how to give it. Her own development was stifled at some point, so she presents like a child.
Yes he said the son needs to stop disrespecting her like what!!! Why she's terrible to him.
This is sad...
though i agree, i think we all know that if karamo told these parents like it is they would shut down get upset and walk away. he HAS to sugar coat it to get through. sometimes people just need to hear how to move forward not a list of everything theyre doing wrong. this is why karamo does the show and not me. hes trained to get through to them. id be cussing them out before the show was over for the way they treat their babies.
@@niaholmes5385that sounds like they’re problem. Then you tell that kid, you grow up and do what you gotta do and never talk to her again
The damage she's done to this young man will impact him the rest of his life. It's so wrong. 😥💔
And he will unconsciously hurt women because women are his mother
@@NileGoddessespecially if they act like her. Not necessarily true if he meets someone who shows him differently!
Yesssss
Run, Brandon. Don't let broken people break you, no matter who they are. I pray you are able to escape this cycle of trauma and build a beautiful, life surrounded real love and people who will pour into you. You got this, KING! 💪🏿❤️
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Brandon, I know you want things to be different and you were hopeful after the show. I am sorry to tell you that I do not see change happening. I do think that your mother has a personality disorder and you are going to need to learn how to deal with that. Google going grey rock with my NPD mother, you will get many sites. Review then and learn. I am so so sorry for this happening to you. Know that you have done nothing to cause this, it is not your fault. Do not take on that that baggage. You will learn that you are not alone and many have this same experience. This does help. When you understand the WHY, it does help. Unfortunately those with NPD do not change, they never become normal. What helps is knowing how to interact with them to prevent you getting hurt. Hey, maybe one day you will write a song about this.Most artists use their own life events as insipiration.
Be ready for his mom to attack you cuz she in these comment 😭😭😭
Are yall a physiologist😂😅?
some people don’t deserve children. idc what she’s been through. I couldn’t even imagine treating my son like that. hell no. she’s the problem clearly. his parents failed him and ts is so sad
This is one of the most disgusting things I’ve seen a parent say and do to their kids. Telling your kids you hate them, you don’t like them, they ain’t sh@&&!….who can bear that every single day of their life. All the screaming….good Lord! I’m going to pray for both of them. This is heart breaking. She doesn’t seem like she wants or likes being a mother.
If u think that bad my mother has demons inside her LITTERLY
She gets mad cuz he talks?Ike whattt
@@boruto4162what did she do if you don’t mind sharing
@@boruto4162Oml
@@ceecee8924Girl. She doesn't need to do all of that yelling just because she's mad.
He got me shedding tears just watching😩I felt everything he said to heart
Child I started crying as soon as he said “that felt great!” 😫😫😩
Idk you or what you’re going/been through but I’m sending you warm virtual hugs and if no one told you today I love you ♥️
Me too! The tears just started rolling
He’s bad because she’s a bad parent. How can you say “You make me hate you” to your own kid! Thank you Karamo for trying to heal them 🙏🏿
She's never gonna change 😔 poor boy.
Look at how she's rolling her eyes when karamo was holding her accountable.
Not true wacth the full episode
She is TERRIBLE! I see straight through her. She did all that for show, as soon as she gets back in her home, she'll go back to ger ways. She's selfish, immature and bordeline narcissistic. You can see the hate on her. All these loving women out here who long for children to love and her she is with a BLESSING that she is ABUSING. She gives single black mothers a bad name, she is the stereotype. I pray for that young man, he should move her out his life.
Well said im embarressed for him she is disgusting her son needs love stop blaming him for his father mistakes give him some encouragement i have an autistic son and i love him unconnditionally its like im must take it out on him your right she gives a bad steretotype of black mothers like me who work so hard give your son some love
That’s exactly what I was thinking .. it looked forced and I bet when they get home that they will be back to the same dynamic of toxicity
@@aahrianniehazelwood6564z
I like her. I can't stand him
@@lc-il6wr mmm ok
The way this young man responded when she came out screaming at him told me everything I needed to know. She is the one that disrespects him and all he shows it back. People think talking to someone negatively would magically make them want to be positive….but he can u when all u do is cause hurt?
I believe 100% she hates him because she hates his dad.
This is sad.
I am a mother of 4 and I will NEVER make them feel like they aren't worth nothing being a single parent is not an excuse to treat your child like shit
Exactly!!! I’m a single parent if 3 and never talked down on them because I hate their father…I always hug my kids and tell them how much I love them it’s no excuse
Brandon. You’re a nice young person with big dreams and promise. Don’t let anyone take that from you. Not even your mother.
As a mother myself, it hurt me to see your mom talk like that . Hurt people hurt people,
It was beautiful to see you receive the hug you’ve been yearning for, probably your whole life. I wish the best for you!🙏🏾🙏🏾🧡.
Great job Karamo!
When he smiled and said the hug felt great, I couldnt help but cry for him... He needed that hug
Yes. I’m still crying. This makes me want go hug my sons.
She’s a narcissist she will never change. If he sees my comment he needs to emotionally disconnect. You are the scapegoat. The “is child” and this “child has been rude” his whole life is a sign of narcissistic. He always had an attitude. He’s disrespect. How is a child always disrespectful!!!! She’s crazy disrespectful and disgraceful. Save yourself
yeah very easy to see she will never change, so sad
Literally! It killed her to give him that hug she was acting for the audience!
she hates that boy or his dad with a passion and has been treating him as such since he was a child.
U can tell the way his actions that he thinks that he is all of that .I don't like him either! She chose to have him and mess with his dad..
@@lc-il6wr weirdo
Somebody call mother Iyana because this woman needs a wake up call and to take accountability for the pain she has caused. I love how Kamaro has empathy for every party, but it feels like problematic behaviors by the offending party go unchecked.
Whewww Iyanla would have gathered her edges !!!!
Bingo🎯
@@julesjessieyes...she would get her all the way together.
YESSSSSS!!!!!
Where can I view Mother Lyanna's content, I've never heard of her before and I'm interested?
I have a 14 year old son and watching this literally breaks my heart! This woman is so broken and she is breaking everything in her path.
Based on the positive things she said about the younger brother, it's obvious they have different fathers.
My daughter's have the same father and they are as different as day a night. Kids are different and have different personalities and you have to treat them accordingly. I'm not going to argue with a child. Period
@@sherryjennings9542 you don't have to argue with them, but please don't be as foolish as the mom in the video. Love and guide your children, don't be their biggest enemy.
Damn I didn't think about that
@@sherryjennings9542but I think he's saying that's why she has different opinions..she probably hates bd #1 and currently like bd #2
Or she’s projecting… telling him he is just like his dad, when he probably acts more like her. Emotionally they seem to be the same age and when they clash, he mirrors to her -her same behaviors and she can’t stand it.
She has no idea the damage she's done to him. As he gets older the way she treats him will affect all of his relationships. The hatred she has for his father she's taking it out on him.
You are very correct, seen it hundreds of times.
I seen this for the first time with my ex. His mom said the same things to him when he was young and still as an adult. I wish you were dead, I hate you, you'll never be shit like your daddy. He believes it. He use to be suicidal. He'll drink and say he ain't shit. Now he's seeking help. He can't have a healthy relationship because of his mom.
@@jasminwilliams7097 that's sad and heartbreaking. Thank God he's able to reach out and admit that he needed help is getting the help he needs. 🙏🏽❤️
The fact that she refers to him as "this child" is enough for me. No accountability whatsoever!!!!
Crazy b
The power of a hug. Just look at his face. Just feeling that you are loved.
He’s a good kid, he just needs love! It always amazes me how much strength genuine love and support can give someone.
Amen
That’s what makes a child succeed in whatever they chose to do. Love and support 😢
He's so incredibly patient, listens intently even under duress.
I hope he continues making something of himself, and I hope his success outshines his struggles with her.
I'm from CHICAGO And Believe me, I've ran into so many Shitty Black Single Mothers like her.
The way she walked out told me everything I needed to know
😅
And then some
I knew she hated his daddy as soon as she walked out 😭 I’m like oh i know what this is about
She’s a horrible mother I feel so bad for him and it’s sad she’s so unaware
literally.
Amen
She Really Feel like she Not Wrong They Both Are But Your Child Is A Product Of You 🙏🙏 this is what Makes Angry Black Men
“I’m not hurting him” she didn’t even believe that when she said it. I hope he leaves and never looks backs. Just evil.
She’s not unaware she’s selfish asf and a terrible person
This is one of the most toxic mothers I’ve ever seen. When Karamo told her it doesn’t give her a license to hurt him , it went right over her head. You cringed at the thought of hugging your OWN child? You can’t give disrespect , show no love , and then demand and think you deserve love and respect. She placed all the blame on him, and then is isolating and separating him from his younger brother. Giving him no outlet or even chance for love in the home he lives in. This was disgusting. I couldn’t imagine treating my child that way.
I've seen worse...
@@mrb9502 There’s definitely worse , you’re right.
So disgusting
The power of life and death is in the tongue. As parents we need to be careful with the words we use to describe our children, or what we call our children. Your son is who you have called him to be. Your negative words are reflecting in his life. Use positive words to lift up your children and not hateful and negative words to tear them down. Pray, and bless your children and don’t curse them. Your children are a reflection of you.
10:52 The way she rolled her eyes fired me UP! I am heated😡
she is so disgusting. so sad, not every woman deserves to be a mother. She is so insecure and unhappy with every aspect of her life and until she decides to love herself, she will remain to be this nasty of an individual who can't control her emotions. Her, "ugh" with her tongue say's it all. She truly does not stomach him. Young man, walk away, work on you and find yourself a good woman who WILL love you and give you a family.
His mom is toxic as hell. She came out the gate talking about how she hate her son! She speaks Ill will on her son! Uplift him, he’s a king!!
He ain't no king 😂
@@lc-il6wr that’s your opinion and 116 other have theirs pookie 💓
@@It5tete his mom does everything for him..he ain't nothing but a lazy boy!
She is toxic, she shows all the signs of having a cluster B personality disorder, NPD. she wont change and it will only get worse.
That hug has me crying. That boy deserves the absolute world ❤
he was smiling so hard from the hug, he really needed it 🥹
FAKE HUG FROM A FAKE MOTHER
This man is delivering so much healthy healing!! on so many problematic generational Drama. I Pray he continues his calling!!! ❤♥️💙💛💚
I’m rooting for him! I’m glad he’s in this world. I’m hoping that he overcomes having a mom like that, bc the fact she said she felt an “eww feeling” while thinking about hugging him, he doesn’t deserve that. I hope I see big things from him.
Karamo has such a kindness within him. You could tell he got choked up from this interaction. He really does wish to support this boy and show him that he is worthy of all the good that life has to offer.
One of the worst moms I've ever seen on this show.
She's extremely immature, blames her son for her abusive behaviour and completely ruins his confidence.
Was growing up like that too and it's extremely damaging but going no contact + therapy has helped.
Brandon, in case you're reading this: You're wonderful and worthy of love. The way she treated you was never your fault and you deserve better. We're seeing you.
She’s so immature
When u know better u do better
Agree totally and will add this is a cluster B personality disorder called NPD. She will not change, she actually is not able to love. What shocked me was her total meltdown in the show, they normally save this BS for at home and in public act all normal. There was NOTHING normal about this woman and everyone saw that.
Omg this made me cry... every child needs love especially from their mother. This baby needed that hug so much ❤
As a parent, and as a child, i LOVE that phrase "love them louder" its a mantra we could all live by
What does that even mean tho
@adrictrlx He explained it fully in this video and also in an older one. When your child/spouse/(sometimes)parent is acting out or being hateful (for attention usually), instead of matching that energy or punishing them, love them louder. Show them more love. Especially if their actions are bc they aren't getting the (correct) attention they need. They need for your actions and words to show them love louder. Like the son in this video, he was acting out bc he needed/wanted his mother's love. Yea, she loved him, but never told him. He needed to hear and feel that. How do you make someone hear or feel love when they don't feel it or hear it? Turn up the volume! So...love them louder.
@@tristarichardson5280 thank you for explaining
@@adrictrlx No problem hun. 😊
The mom needs a lot more help. To feel cringy when hugging your own child has me shook. I feel for this young man and my blood is boiling for him. I can't imagine that level of pain.
Right with the lil fake pats on his back didn't even want to touch him... Sad
I agree, she needs therapy. It is likely she was abused as a child and likely came from a dysfunctional home. That is a lot of baggage to deal with. She clearly needs help to even start to address her issues. What concerns me is everyday she deflects and continues to place blame on her son, she is damaging his self esteem. I am so very impressed with this young man to understand something was simply wrong. He even takes ownership himself, well for simply being a teenager. Let me be totally clear, there is nothing he could do to make her behaviour even slightly acceptable. There is NO grey zone here, no argument on each side, None at all. This is 100 percent abuse. He spoke up and went on a public tv show to address this issue. I can look at what he did as a total stranger and feel proud of this young man doing something that took very real bravery, but his own mothers view is, " he makes me hate him and he talks too much". WOW!!!!!
That IS weird as hell. You had him. You raised him. Where in all that time did YOU (mom) estrange YOURSELF from HIM?
Wow. He said her hug felt like love. That’s very sad. All he’s used to is hate. I pray they can get a better relationship with one another as mother and son and learn to support each other where they are both lacking ❤️
Y’all made this grown man cry. I see I was lucky to be blessed with a great mom!
What a kind Young Man. Wishing him success and a bright future.
6 minutes into watching this and I can see the hurt, pain, neglect all in this kid face! Hes crying out on the inside.
This is why fathers are so important in children lives. When they abandon them, the kids are stuck with these crazy moms who belittle them. It’s a never ending cycle that needs to stop.
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But the father left!
Sometimes these women chase these fathers away.
As if some fathers aren't doing the same ish this mother is doing. Both parents are important!
@@nathalielanau5183 You could always get partial custody of your child so you don't have to deal with the mother, a lot of men just run away they don't fight to continue at least seeing their kids so that is no excuse.
She resents his dad and she’s definitely projecting onto her son
This one right here is a tear jerker! 😢 He is a good kid! He didn’t show any signs of disrespect. The mother needs to be delivered honestly. I wish he was mine the son I never had! Love Louder
He is not showing disrespect on this show what does he protray at home some of the teenagers ate off the chain
@@angeladoss8128shut up
It shouldn't never take another stranger to tell you you should hug your own child, you should want to hug them no matter how hard it is. ❤❤❤
Yes that’s crazy
Treating ur son like that because he reminds u of his dad.. she’s extremely evil I feel so bad for him she definitely doesn’t love him. She doesn’t even see how bad she’s hurting him I’m disgusted like how else is he supposed to act when his own mom hates him!
She doesn't hate him she hates his ways yes definitely doesn't give her the reason or the right to take all her frustrations out on him, his dad scared her deeply she's not over it and still doesn't give her the right to take that out on him he is NOT his father and if you treat him like that of course he gonna act out turn his nose up and all she's the cause of his actions she has to get over her pain if not she's gonna run him to the streets and loose him forever she better fix it B4 it's too late all I know praying for this family so hard 💯💪🏾
The mother does not want to stop talking to her child in a negative way.
And HE (the child) didn’t choose him (the father) SHE DID!!! Absolutely asinine!
thank you
Just that Baby saying "I'll Be good" his behavior and happiness
Karamo don’t make excuses for her behavior. She regrets giving birth and she means what she’s saying to him. Just look at how she came out on stage, if she’s like that on national television then I can only imagine what she says to her son in private.
He is treating her the way she is treating him. Like A Stranger!
Cause her life is hard and her kid doesn't make it easier for her.
@@voskanthe fact you liked your own comment is wild , 💀
@@LIGHTBRIGHT300 I didn't, and you are lying
@@voskan wow it was so easy to get your attention 💀
And he should listen to mother
As someone who had to hear those hateful things from mother... it's so sad to see him trusting her and what she commited to do in the program. She rolled her eyes, spoke ironic, and will do it again. She can hold it back, but then they just let it escape and it’s the worst pain
I been there to
You are very correct. I am so sorry you were abused.
I was thinking the same thing. Sadly if Brandon continues to do well and SHE doesn't work on herself her jealousy and abuse will follow him into adulthood. She gonna be a "why you never call me" parent fr.
Karamo, omg you NAILED this one! I was in tears when the son teared up and they hugged one another. This was so beautiful, and an awesome step seeing mother and son embrace and love one another working towards the beginning of their healing. 🔥🔥
This is what everyone needs. To know their family, especially mothers & fathers love them. No matter their age. A little love & compassion, to know someone cares about you, I believe it would change a lot of people’s actions these days.
That smile on his face when his mom hugged him is priceless 😢 I pray for healing for this family 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Karamo, you hit the nail on the head. As a parent you can call out negativity over your children. Parents be very careful what you say to your children in anger. Even when they fail, you should be the one to encourage them to greatness.
I know mothers that bully their kids but this woman gizzzzzz😮😮😮😮😮😮
I teared up with him. His momma should've hugged him again once he said how impactful that hug was. I pray healing on both of them individually and together. This boy needs his momma- a momma who will be supportive and uplifting
She is not emotionally mature enough to raise a child, period. So much toxic behavior & attitude 🤮
We can’t fully judge her
We don’t know how her parents treated or don’t raise her?!
@@nikkiajackson6651that’s not anyone’s problem. When you become a parent it’s not about you anymore. If you’re not stable to raise another human being then don’t give birth to them?!?!?!?! People can judge what they want. We’ve seen the video, we’ve listened to her words and watched her behavior.
She’s a nasty person. Get over it.
I'm not giving no brat life .I don't like kids. She should've closed her legs!
Watching that young men cry with the pain in his heart and needing his mom love speaks volumes. It’s so many kids like him that need attention from their parents.
I noticed a shift in his aura. He turned from arrogant anger to a free minded man. You can see it right after she put her pride to the side and hugged him. Karamo’s genuine intentions goes a long mile!
He was never arrogant. That woman was hurting his soul. He was defending himself the only way he knew how.
@@l01j99exactly
@@l01j99agree. Possibly just comes off as such, but it's pain nonetheless. Much love
She doesn't deserve to be a parent. Just because you have breast ovaries filopion tubes and a pussy doesn't make you a woman or a mother. Before we become women we have to grow into a decent human being first. Just because you have balls a dick don't make you a man.
I love you Karamo! You are healing a lot of people out here! God put you on this earth for a reason! I hope and pray that people around you love you back! Shine on!
Just imagine how she behaves behind close doors. She's a terrible parent. How could you not like your child, your own child. #Disturbing.
Even in his problems, he’s very mature in his feelings. He just needs good support.
He reminds me of my son a very soft heart a very good person she is hell on earth for him may God remove him from his mother quickly
@@africanqueenmo She is not a terrible mother, at least she’s honest about how she’s been dealing with him- good or bad. It would be one thing if she was completely oblivious. Like Kamaro said she’s probably dealing with unhealed pain from her life experiences. Her being willing to come on the show and even given him a hug shows that she’s trying to reconcile their relationship. She’s a flawed person like us all. I think she needs to continue therapy so she can learn and unlearn why she is the way she is.
@@ucheerondu1939NO, NO, NO. I have no idea what planet you are from. This is ABUSE, FULL STOP, NO GREY ZONE HERE. In the few minute rant from this woman she checked off boxes as having a personality disorder. Read about NPD, that is what we saw. I know what i am talking about i worked in mental health for 30 years and 9 out of 10 kids who attempted suicide had a parent like this. The damage this does to a young person is forever, there is no repairing that damage. Worse to know she likely started this a decade ago.
This woman came out here like a wrecking ball, let’s start with that and end with that fact she hated this young man since the day his dad left her. His problems stem from her and maybe wouldn’t be there if she actually loved him. He literally melted from that hug.
If my mom treated me like this I'd cut her off soon as I moved out. Yea she should've never been a mother. Fuck that hug
She needs to stop punishing this boy for his father's mistakes. She needs wisdom and maturity.