My Mom Drinks And Puts Hand On Me! | KARAMO
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- Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2023
- Ja'Quan says his mom drinks and then puts her hands on him. Gina says she's the only provider in their family. There's no one else but her. Ja'Quan loves his mother but just wants her to stop getting physical and being hurtful. Can Karamo help this mother and son mend their ways?
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Thank you Karamo for letting me share my story! This was really hard for me and my mom to do and watching this, we have so much to work on but it was very eye opening on both parts. I hope my story could reach other people who have situations like this 🫶🏽
So courageous! You are a wonderful young man and I pray you gain your independence and get around people that really see you and love you for you. While your mom heals, you deserve an amazing life outside of her, but also with her. Wishing you both success:)
Y’all got this! Praying for y’all! HAPPY HOLIDAYS to you and yours…. THE TRUTH!!
Don't let your mom continue to abuse you!
Thank you for sharing ❤ I have experienced this same situation with my son. But God is able to do all things! Amen 🙏🏽 we are in a better place now. Thank you 😊 blessings to you and your mom ❤
Good bless you sweetie. You are worth *so* much more than having someone beat on, and degrade you. You and your mom definitely need to continue to work towards bettering your relationship, but in the meantime, please don’t continue to accept abuse from her, be at physical, or emotional abuse, and by “accept”, I don’t mean getting up in her face, and squaring off with her. I mean…leave. Find other living arrangements, so that you have a safe place of your own to retreat to, and find peace in. You can still work on your relationship without living in the same space. I wish you both the very best, and remember…you’re worth it. 💜
We need to remember that being a mother does not mean you get a free pass to do whatever you want to your child. No matter their age. This is where emotional maturity comes into play. We need to do better and start healing ourselves so our children and others don't pay for the pain from our pasts.
THANK YOU❗️❗️ she grieving but that's not an excuse to abuse your child when you as the parent messed up. Just take accountability and everything will fall in place. Her saying she didn't do certain things is triggering him yet you telling him he know what time it is if he put his hands on her when he clearly stated he would never touch his mother. She's the problem and people really not seeing it.
We know that parents "do not" always get it right My mom/dad has since passed on. My dad pretty much abandoned us after they got divorced. My mom provided for us immensely and put our needs before hers. However, it came with a huge price. The hate and venom she felt towards my dad she passed on that hate on to us and we never found a healthy sibling relationship with one another because were too busy absorbing her hate and more times than not she stirred the pot amongst her kids. So much so accusing a few of them having incestual relationships until she said it to the wrong sibling and they put her in her place. I told one of my siblings that I think my mom may have possibly been a victim of abuse when she was younger because she was too fixed on sex and not in a healthy way. Only after she passed on I reconnected with an estranged uncle who said my Grandmom who was their mom was 12 years younger than my Grand dad and he actually raped her and my uncle was a product of that rape and then he married her all the while they had 18 more kids together while he abused her. Then I discovered that my mom may have had a self induced miscarriage which we never knew of and my Grand dad her dad my have possibly been the father. The scars our parents leave behind. SMH.
@@imhereforitall9218hope you are doing better now 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Amen, sister.
@@timmywolford6191As a child free woman, i can agree and i also believe that being a child does not give you a free pass to abuse your parents. she's dead wrong for the abuse and still, at his big age he needs to learn respect. he's indeed a big boy and when he bucks up at a woman her first reaction will be to protect herself. They are both adults who ned to do better
My heart broke for him! You can tell despite everything she did to him he still loves her. I wish them the best!
It’s called a trauma bond
What horrible mother, she should be ashamed. She says I am your mother, well he's your son.
Honestly. I also found it weird that it seemed that for the most part Karamo was critiquing the sons behavior like he didn't just tell him he's gone through years of physical abuse. As if "Having a mouth" isn't a natural response to her behavior. So many parents need a reality check
@@mindyourbusiness660righttt like she was barely held accountable and she wont change
I just had this conversation the other day with a good friend of mine that we "ALL" know that parents "DO NOT" always get it right and sometimes instead of dealing with their own trauma they just pass it down to their kids like a used pair jeans. My Mom/Dad has since passed on but by the scars our parents do leave behind. SMH. @@mindyourbusiness660
First off she is not a horrible mother. Y’all see a little snippet of someone’s life and think you know shit but you don’t. She gets upset but he has a super smart ass mouth and it is extremely intimidating when someone of that size stands up over and to you. She loves her son and takes care of him. She’s a single mom and how is she supposed to discipline him. Hitting is not always the answer but spoiled ass kids that don’t know how to watch their mouths need to move around. Don’t argue just leave and stay gone. Love me from a distance but if you’re here and I’m taking care of your grown ass you either shut up or get your block knocked off. So mind the business that pays you ma’am and take this show for what it is. ENTERTAINMENT!!
She's horrible. Some folks standards are just higher than others and so is their quality of life. She is as bad as they come. In life a strong sample is usually an indication of the end. To know that you are trying to defend this behavior just like she did actually says more about you than her. But you do you. I bet I can guess what her education level and credit score is and whether she rents or owns and owns in a quality neighborhood, not one filled with renters either. I can only guess. @@ronniejamerson9358
From the looks of it, she’s lucky he isn’t also getting drunk and beating her. Sick af
And she talking about I was you would hit me! Smfh this could get dangerous
@@ronm3034RIGHT! She better be glad he ain’t reflexively smack the shit outta her cause stuff like that does happen
Awww he’s such a gentle giant! My heart just breaks just hearing his sweet and gentle voice talking and crying pleading with her to be human towards him. ❤😢 I can’t stand when parents are vile and nasty human beings to their children but don’t want their kids to act like them. Where is the logic. Does she even understand if he has a slick mouth it’s because she TAUGHT him to have that slick mouth and he got it from her? WHERE is the logic. Parents, WE need to take accountability for our mess, not simply say “I’m the parent!” We have to do better and admit when we’re wrong then do better. SMH
*Inhuman* How on earth can she call herself a parent? Guiding her son into a poisonous whirlwind of hell and self distruction. I am praying to GOD for him he does *NOT* end up on the wrong side of the tracks. HE DESERVES to be nurtured & loved & desperately requires POSITIVE role models in his life. He is so well mannered, educated and respectful, adorable and special. He is in deep need of specialist suppport & deep *SPIRITUAL HEALING*
@@lolitarouge Sure does! You can tell he has been touched.
Why are we bypassing that he was abused! Violently abused. All of the peace and love talk seems to be misplaced - he is in danger. She has literally bashed in his head. What are we talking about here?
AND! She is making her son her emotional spouse! We can’t always have an Oprah ending to a situation - he needs support and resources to remove himself from that environment. They can rekindle when he is at a safe distance.
Exactly! This is a weird conversation. She stood up to him like she wanted to fight when she came on the stage. He needs to cut all communication with her.
PREACH
Go save him then
I know the mother is an adult but she’s very immature , I don’t think she knows how to be a mother . Her definition of a mother is whooping ass . She’s taking her hurt and anger out on her son, yes he may have a smart mouth but her drinking and built up anger makes it worse . He’s not her friend he’s her son and she beats him like a Heaux off the street when she’s mad . Some ppl aren’t meant to be parents / doesn’t know how to have a healthy relationship with their children
Their relationship was so toxic this episode actually made me cry I hope they were able to mend their relationship after the show 😢
They both took their wildebeast looking selves back home and continued on. Karamo is starting to fill the Jerry Springer donut hole that was left but not quite on that level.
@@imhereforitall9218why so negative ? Karamo is doing great and what I've noticed is that he doesn't immediately jump on sides and the audience is well mannered
I love the son personality and soul I could tell he is a good person I hope him and his mom can make their relationship better overtime ❤
Thank you
Unless they are both actors and it is really difficult to know with these reality shows, they are too far gone and he needs to get the h*ll away and run like his hair is on fire. She is coo coo for coco puffs.
Me too he's got a light to him and I love it. I'm so sorry he went thru this 😢
@@imhereforitall9218this is real they listened to my story for me to come to the show
Another toxic abusive mother damaging her child. Why is she hitting a grown man? Too much of this is being displayed on this show.
I really feel she's taking him for granted, that's why she can take out her frustration and assault him smh 😢🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
I think this has more to do with his Dad 😢
Right 😩😬
You are finally shedding light on what we deal with in the black community families growing up I love this show you real acknowledge trauma
Yyyassh friend!
How could she hurt him? He's sure a beautiful soul. I prey that God gives him more strength and he finds true happiness. I swear if he was my friend I'd always stay by his side and live life finding happiness. He deserves so much more. Don't cry my friend. I can see what your grandma saw in you and you are important and needed in this world.
Because Bratty kids-turned-to adults get smart at the mouth, and it makes you want to slap them. That's how.
@@uwilberforce4628 words shouldn’t drive you to crimes
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You make a very valid point.
Old school parents & us parents raised by old school parents DO NOT tolerate sassing aka “a smart-ass mouth.”
Bless him lord🙌🏽
@@msohsosolohe’s literally just speaking his mind and how he feels
She’s the masculine one with her spouses so she treats him like she’s his father instead of his mom smh. She’s full of excuses of why she beating on a grown man….
He stood up when she came out because he expected to get hit. Why Karamo did not pick up on that or choose to look past it was more than likely for ratings because he seemed to have turned on the young man like a mad dog. What I do tend to notice about Karamo is when the man is attractive he seems to show them more grace. He may not be aware but it appears there's some light flirtation that goes on when he has a handsome man on there.
@@imhereforitall9218
Who doesn't show grace to the most attractive people? Blame society's influence.
When I was 150-170lbs, life was fun and a breeze, now that I'm 200lbs I'm treated like a thief in every store I go to, men and women will walk in front of me or ride their bike in front of me to imply that I'm so fat they don't have room to walk or ride in the direction they need to, I get bullied everyday by strangers - like smaller women will make eye contact with then pat their stomach, rub it or pinch the little fat they have.
People are just mean and heartless to the poor and to the obese. 90 percent of the world treats the poor and the obese and even black people, horribly!. 😢
Seen that movie before. So the way to validate is because she does things for him and makes him feel incapable of providing for himself all the while abusing him. She has to know that one day she will grow old and gray and will not always have that masculine stout build about herself and will need assistance to care for herself. Then who will she look to then?
@@imhereforitall9218I feel like he stood up to feel bigger then his mama this is probably his first time really standing up to her. When your taking in a tall emotional task your body also tends to physically react and I think that’s why he stood
She's really nuts. @@chinasmith1920
whenever a parent only hits their kids and no one else its because they are a bully, picking on the kids makes them feel empowered and no one else will put up with it.
Exactly why she also wants him to stay with her talking about for the love foh
From the VERY second he spoke I felt his pain. Not even a full min into this and I already have anger towards the mom. Karamo, I compliment you way too often and you may never see these comments, but you brother are a force! You represent black man at a level that I really cant recall other black men being. The way you speak, listen and repeat is remarkable. Thank you for representing a strong black man,
Nah fr and In order to understand why your child acting like that you gotta ask don’t always think they bad or jump to conclusions.
This poor boy 💔 I'm happy he was able to share his story with the world. This was really sad to hear
Hitting someone with an extension cord is not playing. She wanted to hurt you "jokingly 🙄". Your mom doesn't like you. I'm sorry
You clearly don’t know shit about me
Yup! And I get a sneaking suspicion she may have had bad issues with the father and her son reminds her of him so she’s forever abusing him as an outlet
@@pinksilkduragthts usually the reason!
I really feel she takes him for granted, that's why she takes out her frustration on him smh but it takes a real man to take accountability and to apologise, wish them the best 😢🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 she hates him. I would to
What I’m getting is he’s big and she feels the need to bring him down to size cause his anger intimidates her. She is hurting from losing her world which was her mom and brother. Her drinking can also add to her aggression…. THE TRUTH!!
I believe he’d give the shirt off his back or the shoes off his feet to help someone. He’s truly an Earth angel
He is such a wonderful human being
She needs to be IN JAIL. No excuse for hitting someone!
The son, the fact that he still wants the work through this. 💔
The poor child is broken and traumatized!😪 She's toxic and broken. It's not safe for him to be living under the same roof with her UNTIL she has gotten therapy, completed anger management, and Alcoholics Anonymous classes.😢Anger and Alcohol are not friends. An apology and a hug won't fix this situation. I pray that he has the strength to walk away (if worst comes to worst) and get the love and therapy he deserves! It's difficult to heal in a toxic environment. ❤🙏🙏
I love Karamo, and he is such a genuine person. When that young man was speaking at the beginning of the show, Karamo looked so sad and teary-eyed. He really cares for people, just an overall good spirited human being
she’s abusive and he should call the police and have her arrested immediately after she puts her hands on him!
Exactly!
He look and sound like clevland son that voice on point 😂😂
its messed up how she was smiling about the mental abuse. i truly hope he can heal and find peace
“ I am your backbone. You are nothing without me. “ she could’ve phrased that a little better…
I love his spirit. He's a sweet soul that's so hurt!!!
This was hard to watch. He’s a reflection of her with his mouth & she can’t take it. Before her loss she was still acting this way, I’m sure. No accountability. Every time I see these episodes I’m just so grateful for my parents. I had a MOUTH on me growing up & my parents disciplined me, yes but never put hands on me. I hope they can work it out.
He is a reflection of his grandmother. His mother is obviously operating in her masculine.
Hell never have a life or any happiness with this mother shes a bully and she will and has held her son back in life i pray he moves out and lives a life and keeps his relationship at a difference
She’s a terrible mother just because you birth him doesn’t give you the right to hit him respect goes both ways 😢
I just wanna give him a hug oh my gosh :(
I just want to hug him 😢 I’m sorry his momma is so hurt that she’s hurting her boy ❤ he’s a beautiful human being and I’m praying for him
Living with a Alcoholic is hard. Prayers to him
Unhealed trauma from childhood could really damage a person. They have children and when they dont heal, its passed on to the children. I applaud the push for mental health. For his mother and other generations before, we weren't allowed that same grace. I pray for healing for this family. Hurt people, hurt people.
Karamo is the 🐐 he breaks it down and holds ppl accountable for their actions. I really hope the mom changes her ways not only for herself but for her son because it's a cruel world out here and he already has a lot he has to deal with ( weight issues, etc) this is the time where she needs to embrace her son, help him build his self esteem, and mold him into the strong black man he's destined to be. When we have kids, a lot of times we have to push our feelings aside and focus on what our children need at the time, yes her son needs to stop bucking up to her but he's only learned that behavior from her so if she wants it to change then it starts with her. I wish them all the best and I pray they have a healthy mother and son relationship going forward 🙏🏽
He is a sweetheart and you can tell they really love each other ❤
This is the most ghettoest stuff that Karamo be having on tv exploiting these folks and sending them back home to continue their cycle of dysfunctionality.
@@imhereforitall9218Not true. He offers every guest counseling. For the most serious DM cases, he offers counseling prior to leaving the stage & more so push for counseling. And if the cases involve abuse to minors, he's a mandated reporter. Behind the scene after the show isn't shown to the audience.
It's a reality show and like "ALL" reality shows it is typically about the host exploiting folks lives and throwing them a bone by providing a free trip with subpar hotel rooms and meals while they rake in all the cash with good ratings. The more sensationalized the stories the higher the ratings. Is it any wonder the same types of people keep showing up on most of these reality shows? Just feeding off of folk's desperation. Any type of counselling is substandard at best. They can gaf about them all. @@JC_le_Canadien
I normally am a quiet watcher and never comment, but this video made me so emotional. I can feel his pain through the screen, I've been exactly where Ja'Quan is, not with the physical abuse though for me it was mental and emotional, but I hope his mother and him can mend their relationship or at least create some distance so he doesn't have to endure it anymore.
He is such a sweetie ❤ I hate that she treated him this way! She needs to keep her hands to herself.
That boy stood up as a defensive not to be menacing. If somebody knocking u upside the head regularly up gotta be prepared.
That mother is rotten... every time karamo said something to her she had a comeback as to why her actions are justified.
I think he should go his own way. Maybe with space she'll learn.
Shes toxic otherwise.
I really love Jb and his mom. They love hard and they fight hard. It’s a lot of pain and grief between the two of them. They’ve lost the people who mediate between them and now they have to do the work themselves, and I’m extremely proud of them for it. & proud of Jb for sticking up for himself in this setting rather than a fight. It’s a generational healing they’re going through.
MAYBE THE PROBLEM IS THE LOVING HARD PART... SHE NEED TO START LOVING SOFT AND GET ANGER MANAGEMENT
Yes!!! Perfectly said
You can see the son is a kind young man and he has been through a lot. I feel so bad for him, my heart hurts for him.
Thank you Karamo for helping black families heal. I know it’s not all healed after the show but it’s the start. Thank you 🙏🏽 Sir. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
He needs to leave and get his own place with help and support along way away from her
She’s not a good mom. Period point blank. Some people aren’t meant to be mothers and being a mom doesn’t give you the excuse to do whatever you want to your child
Having to prove to the same person who abuses that they abused you is exhausting... 😢 her denying the names she called him and him having to repeat them😭
He’s so sweet and does not deserve this . I started crying ❤ why would you want to hurt him !! I see both sides ❤❤❤❤
Omg I just want to hug that Man.❤❤ when a baby first open their little eyes the 1st person they see is mommy . For her to treat her own child like that is insane 😢
He sound like Cleveland’s son from the Cleveland show
My love goes out to him
I can tell that his mother talks to him and beat him because she is showing her attitude on the show and I know alot of people that drink are very abusive and be disrespectful when they are under the influence of the alcohol
I feel like he stood up in case she tried to attack him. He knows his mother. I would do the same if somebody was always attacking me. I’m not gonna stay seated & wait for you to do it.
I love how karamo handles things 😭❤️
This is me and my mom cause i am him and his mom is my mom so i can definitely relate
He stood up because she is always in attack mode and he was getting ready to defend as always
This man has a beautiful soul. There are so many toxic Black mothers who we make excuses for.
He’s big because he’s stress eating running away from her and her evil ways smh I feel so sad for him, I been through this the pain you feel in that cord feels like a static shock
This mother and son made me cry. They are both beautiful people and I pray that they work things out. I wish I could work things out with my family. Sending them love,
He needs to stop talking to her for a couple of months
Agreed.
I'm a parent and I can't see myself talking to my kids like this if they are hurting not have compassion for their feelings and not acknowledge my fault this is sad
I honestly wish Karamo could come to Jamaica and do some shows because trust me is be on it
Thank you so much for helping this family. In doing so and them sharing it openly with everyone you all help others that are quietly growing in the background. I love you. Thank you for caring enough to take the chances to make a difference. May God Bless you now and forever ❤
No parent should put their hands on there own kids
For ANY reason. Way too normalized. As if his mouth is as bad as her hitting him with a frying pan.
@@ClayMastah344 no it's not normal kids have bad mouths my nephews have bad mouths does that mean my sister should hit them no just punish them if there adults take there car away or don't let them out if they still live under your roof just let them out for school and or work only
@@chrisettefryershe said it’s too normalized by society not that she thinks it’s normal. Read closely
Its giving me precious energy
Damn. this the real life Precious story.
Words hurt 😢💔
She love her son but needs to redirect her anger. He’s an adult you can’t just go around hitting him just because you’re his mother. And he needs to be respectful and mind boundaries as well. But they love one another and need to show it in a different way.❤❤❤
Karamo, you ATEEE this situation up for this family and left not even a morsel!❤ Thank you for what you do.
I love my mom and we never was this volatilebyt if my mom continually keep putting hands on me and down talking and belittling me. I would lay her ass out one good time. I don't care respect me and talk to me like you got some sense and I will recepicote that same energy
Same! I hope parents realize that not all kids will be like the sweet guy in this video and some will actually whoop that ass parent or not! 🤷🏾♀️
@@ChannelSettings4 Exsctly
If my mom did me dirty like that I would sure as hell slap her tf back! There are boundaries you should never cross with your kid, including literally hitting them (especially with objects) while they're grown. I hope he's doing better.
This brought tears to my eyes naw I'm crying this was triggering for me! He's a big baby and I hope they will mend , heal themselves for themselves and each other. I hope the best for them and their relationship they only have each other! God bless them both and wishing them and you all a blessed Thanksgiving!
My son is my best friend I could never tear him down
I feel for them both❤❤🫂🫂 wishing them both healing. Thank you for all you do Karamo
I teared up so bad, I hope they find their peace ❤
God bless Mr. Karamo! Keep up the good work! it's much appreciated
I’m sorry but don’t he sound like the son from Cleveland brown 😂❤ and also I hope the best for him and his mother and there relationship 💯
Lmaooo
They needed that hug! God bless yal
He so sweet lord I feel for him praying for him I pray god keeps him healthy covered protected 🙏 ❤😢
Bless their hearts. I can see where they are alike & they clash. They both going through so much just taking it out on each other 😢 I hope they resolve it & welcome a new beginning to a wonderful & happy life 🙏🏿🙏🏽🙏🏻
side note: he reminds me of Junior from the Cleveland Show 😅
This is crazy. The child wants to rectify in this case and the parent usually feels like they can take or leave the child and relationship.
My heart hurts for him , I hope he heals he looks like he has a great future ahead of him and a good head on his shoulders .
Anyone else think he sounds just like Jr. from The Cleveland Show?? 😂 That's a compliment btw don't come for me please.I wish I sounded like one of my favorite characters 😢
Aww! If they both need a friend I’ill be both of their friend!! Reach out!! I hope and pray that they wrapped their arms around one another and love on each other!! Use are all you both have!!!!
He didn’t make you do anything. You need to be accountable for your actions and relationship with your son.
This is probably my favorite one ive watched. They both seem genuine
She would've been right beside her mother in that cemetery! He's a sweet and gentle soul and I pray he succeeds beyond his wildest dreams. As for that animal that birthed him, may God have mercy on her wretched, disgusting soul.
Kinda crazy how the entire clip is identical to a recent one that was uploaded.
Hugs for the son!
I just want
to give him a hug ❤❤
Love this episode. The mother reminds me so much of my aunt who passed. Seems like they really hit a breakthrough on here
He just looks like he is an awesome person. Shame on that mama! He put this man through it😒
This is sad but real and also a regular thing that happens in a lot of homes and especially black households. Most black people are use to this behavior because it's been taught generation after generation. You talk smart to your parents you get back handed and popped. Black families and parents don't play around when it comes to talking back. I know when I was growing up if I even smacked my lips, rolled my eyes, talked back it was an immediate retaliation from my mom to hit me, with her hand or whatever was by her to hit me with. And with this situation, I am glad he owned up to telling the truth about him talking back to his mom like he does. You don't jump in your mom's face and talk back to her so I felt for her when she said he was doing that and then as a mom you don't jump on your child so I felt for him. Back in the old days it was way worse than it is now so some kids are very lucky. Our parents and grandparents went through it so it's all they know to teach or do to us. And we as people have to change that generational behavior. Period. We need to learn how to handle things better. I pray for this family and I hope things get better for them❤
This made me so emotional cuz I was in such a similar situation and watching this I understood the pain
I'm so heartbroken. I'm so so so sad for him. His mom sounds like a huge abuser talking bout "you made me so it" and "when I start acting like your mother...". No ma'am, mothers don't hit their kids with cords and smash vases on their heads
I love watching his show.
Baby Boy...live in your TRUTH!!! That's where one of her issues lies!!
he’s is Such a genuine person
So sorry for him. His mom should be a better human being and parent.
CONGRATSSSSSSSSSSS LOVE THE EPISODE😊
I felt so bad for this guy. I wish that I could just give him a big hug. I get that the mother is in her own pain because I truly believe hurt people, hurt people. But it's abuse and she has no right to do that, treat him so poorly and saying he's nothing without her! If that were a daughter and a father abusing, people would be trying to put him in jail!🤷🏽♀️