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  • Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
  • Ashley says her relationship with her mother Regina hasn't been good since she was 13 years old. Ashley says she has a history of abuse with her mother's boyfriends violating her and her mother not standing up for her. Can Karamo help this family repair their relationship?
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  • @4CQueen
    @4CQueen Год назад +3231

    I wouldn't DARE leave my children with a mother that would treat me like that. If she's nasty to you, she's definitely nasty to those kids.

    • @sandrarice4197
      @sandrarice4197 Год назад +92

      One day, the elderly mother will need her daughter and grandchildren, and if I were the daughter, I would not be there for the elderly mother. The elderly mother will reap what she sows!!! Who in the world would ever call their children dirty names and harm their chldren or grandchildren. This elderly mother put men over her daughter. Shameful behavior from the elderly mother!!!

    • @ms.independent3994
      @ms.independent3994 Год назад +35

      ​@@sandrarice4197You right. I wouldn't be there for her either. She's very hateful.

    • @Logantaliaferro
      @Logantaliaferro Год назад +22

      My thing is you can never Curse at a Child , or do anything to a child that they will remember for the rest of their life

    • @tieramason2279
      @tieramason2279 Год назад +28

      You couldn’t pay me to leave my kids with her

    • @MsLady-gb3gy
      @MsLady-gb3gy Год назад +4

      I agree❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @PrettiGirlKesha
    @PrettiGirlKesha Год назад +1084

    Her mother is never going to change. When she said “she never told me sorry” her mother rolled her eyes. Tell me I’m dead to you and we’re going to leave it as that…..FOREVER!

    • @onepieceluffy7427
      @onepieceluffy7427 Год назад +44

      That's most horrifying words any mother could have said: words are life and death

    • @Dark_shadow_Owl
      @Dark_shadow_Owl Год назад +21

      I thought I was the only who noticed that

    • @pinkyydior556
      @pinkyydior556 Год назад +10

      Okay cause she wasnt sincere at all

    • @god_gamer2.088
      @god_gamer2.088 Год назад +6

      THATS WHAT IM SAYIN

    • @sandymc9470
      @sandymc9470 Год назад

      Exactly her mother wasn't sincere at all. she's a very hateful woman

  • @ebonykersey3811
    @ebonykersey3811 Год назад +1302

    Mom is embarrassed that the daughter put her business out there. The mother is toxic. Mom is bitter. Mom is hurt.

    • @shardayjourdan7396
      @shardayjourdan7396 Год назад +19

      Hit the nail on the coffin 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @fuller8705
      @fuller8705 Год назад +23

      She jealous of the daughter

    • @prettyface7818
      @prettyface7818 Год назад +1

      Very bitter yess

    • @mrskimbrown94
      @mrskimbrown94 3 месяца назад

      @@ebonykersey3811 you summed up this relationship perfectly. I agree with this comment 💯 percent .

  • @angellenise.
    @angellenise. 9 месяцев назад +57

    Parents fuck you up then say “go get you some counseling” 😂😂😂

  • @Obeox
    @Obeox Год назад +1155

    The embodiment of a toxic mother. She’s so evil !!!

    • @MsLady-gb3gy
      @MsLady-gb3gy Год назад +1

      ❤ ❤❤❤Sad indeed ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @collegestudent1563
      @collegestudent1563 Год назад

      You think? And it really shows what type of woman she really is!!!!

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 Год назад +2

      😈 Evilarrested development

    • @Diivasatti
      @Diivasatti Год назад +27

      She’s not evil, she’s hurt and needs her own healing.

    • @fitdiva737
      @fitdiva737 Год назад +10

      Mom is hurting too! They both need help, not ugly comments!

  • @clayp470
    @clayp470 Год назад +173

    Dr. Phil who??? Karamo is a gift that we didn’t know we needed! The way he saw right through mom and dismantled that tough exterior of pain! This is the definition of being effective! I love it!

    • @c0cobr0wn504
      @c0cobr0wn504 Год назад +6

      Yes!!!!

    • @safiyyahhameed6354
      @safiyyahhameed6354 9 месяцев назад

      absolutely!

    • @bbah1
      @bbah1 День назад

      Fuck "Dr" Phil....the only thing I took from him was "don't reward bad behavior"...other than that, he is a trump supporter and that tells me everything I need to know. Treats his wife as a trophy...a huge hypocrite when it comes to what he tells his guests versus who he endorsed for president...just useless and a fraud.

  • @daniellemiller2547
    @daniellemiller2547 Год назад +1614

    The fact that she thinks it's normal for parents to call their children names....Trauma is real. I was physically, emotionally, and verbally abused as a child and I had to un learn alot of what I internalized as "normal".Therapy literally changed my life and allowed me to heal. I refuse to pass on that generational trauma to my baby, it stops with me.

    • @questionresearch8721
      @questionresearch8721 Год назад +26

      It stops with me too.

    • @Mannymoe3
      @Mannymoe3 Год назад +16

      Decisions made like you did have potential to benefit your generation for a long time. Your great great great grandkids in the future could benefit because you led a good example.

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 Год назад +1

      This is a good momma

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 Год назад

      This is a mad woman 😮😮

    • @lieslmichelle4136
      @lieslmichelle4136 Год назад +1

  • @mayameza8438
    @mayameza8438 Год назад +66

    The mama almost had me until she rolled her eyes at the end. Lord as someone that had a toxic relationship with their mother, therapy. Just work on healing yourself. It’s so hard to deal with that while they are alive and after they are gone ❤️. I hope the daughter can continue to see that the mom got her own issues and they both just need to do some self healing. And if one won’t, take the next steps to keep yourself safe.

  • @kenishawilkerson2322
    @kenishawilkerson2322 Год назад +2481

    I would NEVER talk to my Mother again. Girl, create those boundaries and heal! Unfortunately, you’ll have to grieve the loss of your Mother while she’s living in order to truly heal! 😢

    • @psyourauntie
      @psyourauntie Год назад +18

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @PositivitySpeaks101
      @PositivitySpeaks101 Год назад +19

      U saying that !! But she need her momma!! Stop needing your mother when you have kids .. the mother is tired!! She shouldn’t talk to her daughter that way!! But the daughter only talk to her mother because she need something!! Stand on your own two feet and you don’t have to worry about no one talking bad to you!!

    • @questionresearch8721
      @questionresearch8721 Год назад +3

      Facts. Run woman. 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

    • @AniyahPayne-c8d
      @AniyahPayne-c8d Год назад +19

      @@PositivitySpeaks101okay but why would want to talk to there mother when the way she responds to things is so rude and nasty she didn’t ask to be here so the least her mother could do is help her out

    • @kalston030
      @kalston030 Год назад +15

      Ooouuu that mother is toxic and evil- her daughter needs to stay away from that witch!!

  • @heather6362
    @heather6362 Год назад +135

    Mommy grew up in a hard knock life and never realized the impact that she would have on her children. Blessings to both the mother and daughter!

  • @KiaFlow
    @KiaFlow Год назад +2365

    That momma ain't 💩. I'm sorry you went through that Ashley. You deserve so much more

    • @rubystruth
      @rubystruth Год назад +58

      Exactly. That’s like abusing someone and then saying you should be grateful I didn’t kill you. What in the world

    • @MarilynKeirrar
      @MarilynKeirrar Год назад +9

      Real TALK!!! Whew! 😩😩

    • @Blu-Man
      @Blu-Man Год назад +1

      ​@@MarilynKeirrargot an idea

    • @collegestudent1563
      @collegestudent1563 Год назад +2

      Ain't that the truth!!!!???

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 Год назад

      They're from DETROIT. what do you expect from these Ghetto Moms?

  • @bithanya1998
    @bithanya1998 8 месяцев назад +15

    EVERY KIDS DESERVES A PARENT BUT NOT A EVERY PARENT DESERVES A KID!!!

  • @allmyclothesaretaylored
    @allmyclothesaretaylored Год назад +1037

    When the mom rolled her eyes when the daughter started crying I knew that mom didn’t want to change a single thing about their relationship. Maybe it would be for the best if they cut contact.

    • @aaliyahallen7815
      @aaliyahallen7815 Год назад +93

      Same, I noticed that eyeroll and lost all sympathy I had for the mom. The daughter is gonna have to cut contact in order to have peace.

    • @linealjr07
      @linealjr07 Год назад +36

      I noticed that as well, that momma ain’t going to change one bit.

    • @YourAverageChick
      @YourAverageChick Год назад

      She's a ❤-less witch🧙‍♀️ whom should have Never had children 🎯

    • @questionresearch8721
      @questionresearch8721 Год назад +10

      Ashley will have to find a better way to enlist help when she needs it. I saw that eye roll.

    • @marieperpetuemoncoeur2954
      @marieperpetuemoncoeur2954 Год назад +13

      Of course… What do you think? People will change in 15 mns in front of camera? Unfortunately no.

  • @jeririce6748
    @jeririce6748 11 месяцев назад +11

    The fact that so many children grow up with this type of parental figure is so devastating and my heart would wish that no child would have to endure this. I hurt for them both. I pray that as a society we can begin to recognize, intervene and heal all this brokenness. It truly is a blessing to be raised with such loving parents. I appreciate my mother and father even more for their role and love and sacrifice❤

  • @tamdaniels5382
    @tamdaniels5382 Год назад +727

    The mom is embarrassed that she wasn’t a good mother to her children so she’s very defensive and angry. God bless the family and bring closure to this chapter in her daughters life

  • @yolandajohnson2615
    @yolandajohnson2615 Год назад +58

    I love how Karamo broke the situation down to the mother without judging her. It's a lot of pain there. I pray that they can get thru this and be there for each other. Breaking generational curses is hard work, but it can be done.

  • @MrBeautiful2908
    @MrBeautiful2908 Год назад +575

    This is NOT a mother. She’s just a female that gave birth. Karma is going to sneak up on her so fast she won’t see it coming. This just shatters my heart into pieces. God help us all.😢

    • @Thinktanker24
      @Thinktanker24 Год назад +11

      That’s exactly what a mother is. A woman that gives birth. What she isn’t is a mom. That takes care. Anyone can be a mother

    • @sephiroth1501
      @sephiroth1501 Год назад

      That aint no mother..shes jsut a female ​@@Thinktanker24

    • @jjvalenta526
      @jjvalenta526 Год назад

      Thats a birthgiver. Not a mom.​@@Thinktanker24

    • @nathanbrooks89
      @nathanbrooks89 10 месяцев назад

      Shut the fuck up. How can you say that. You can clearly see she’s a GOOD person

    • @gojosw4685
      @gojosw4685 9 месяцев назад +6

      ​@snoozeyalooze932 only women can be a mother, but not every woman CAN be a mother

  • @phillip_lee_atkinson
    @phillip_lee_atkinson 10 месяцев назад +7

    Just look at the mom’s facial expressions during the last segment. I’ve experienced this. Mom’s only crying and getting emotional because she being forced to deal with things that she doesn’t want to deal with and doesn’t care about. The looking up when she apologized…the rolling her eyes when her daughter said that she’s never apologized before…these are clear indicators that mom doesn’t care and is probably never going to care.

  • @brienb796
    @brienb796 Год назад +300

    Mom is miserable and will be cussing her out as soon as they walk off stage 🤦🏾

  • @4djinn
    @4djinn Год назад +41

    My anger issues would not allow me to let my mother talk to me like that cause at that point she would be no one to me so I'd walk her like a dog with no remorse. I know that's harsh but I got two boys and a girl on the way. I don't care how old my kids get, I'm their father and will do whatever to see them succeed in life. I couldn't IMAGINE in the slightest bit talking to my kids like that. I truly feel heartbroken for her. She really should've never had kids. Her daughter is a true warrior and a blessing. She should've given her up to someone who could've loved her right. This mom makes me tight af. The cameras would've cut so quick how fast I'd deck her jaw off.

  • @jefferlytoussaint853
    @jefferlytoussaint853 Год назад +444

    Did y’all see how the mom rolled her eyes when Ashley was crying about how her mom never told her sorry? Yeah- she’s not changing

    • @Diivasatti
      @Diivasatti Год назад +21

      I peeped that too! Yea she’s not changing.

    • @ReeRee4260
      @ReeRee4260 Год назад +11

      I said the exact same thing. I feel sorry for Ashley 😞.

    • @liliny2314
      @liliny2314 Год назад +9

      Oh my God I totally saw her eyes rolled to the back of her head I think that she's on drugs

    • @lajunecrockett2381
      @lajunecrockett2381 Год назад +2

      You right mom is not ready

  • @lolosbizarreadventure
    @lolosbizarreadventure Год назад +21

    when she said "i love you more", there were so many layers to that. and it was true because she loves her mother more than her mother ever loved her

  • @carolharris5455
    @carolharris5455 Год назад +290

    Mom is heartless from her own pain nothing can help her she’s empty inside

    • @BabiCakes8
      @BabiCakes8 Год назад +10

      She has a Calloused Heart. All you can do for those people is pray for them and keep your distance.

  • @darcellandre
    @darcellandre Год назад +37

    Some parents are only supposed to bring you into the world. That's it! This relationship is unrepairable. The mother is unreachable; Ashley, leave her in the wind.

  • @oddchocolate964
    @oddchocolate964 Год назад +543

    ashley is gonna have to heal without having a relationship with her mother. the mama's generation has so much unresolved trauma and when they can't acknowledge it eats thru the entire family.

    • @abee3387
      @abee3387 Год назад +7

      Maannnnn this is So ACCURATE it's depressing

    • @OverSe3rrrrr
      @OverSe3rrrrr Год назад +4

      So accurate. They both gon need to start therapy asap if they both wanna heal

  • @xxarianahiltonxx5116
    @xxarianahiltonxx5116 Год назад +30

    Im so grateful for my wonderful mother. I can't imagine how I would be without her. She is very emotionally intelligent and kind to me. She cares for me so much. She has helped me with my mental health. She even takes steps to get help for herself. It's unfortunate that we all couldn't have the parents we deserve.

  • @preposteroussvideos
    @preposteroussvideos Год назад +772

    Her mother is truly evil

    • @4CQueen
      @4CQueen Год назад +30

      The daughter is going to be sitting in the mother's seat in about five years calling the daughter evil for leaving them with that evil woman.

    • @gossip_girl_xoxo2003
      @gossip_girl_xoxo2003 Год назад

      @@4CQueenplease seek help get some therapy you honestly need it 😳

    • @manii4308
      @manii4308 Год назад +3

      @@4CQueennah. I wouldn’t say that. Her daughter knows that pain. She can and will overcome.

    • @staticshotaop561
      @staticshotaop561 11 месяцев назад

      Keith lee

    • @taw3777lazy
      @taw3777lazy 10 месяцев назад +1

      Mama got Issues 😢

  • @denisemcclellangriffin2400
    @denisemcclellangriffin2400 Год назад +14

    The fact she was still rolling her eyes at the end

  • @TheMilanW
    @TheMilanW Год назад +544

    Sometimes you just have to let toxic people go. I haven't spoken to my mom in 2 years because of this same exact behavior

    • @death24314
      @death24314 Год назад +35

      Same I had to let my mom go. She is too toxic, I can't deal with it anymore

    • @ashleyj7011
      @ashleyj7011 Год назад +11

      Same definitely understands 💯

    • @YourAverageChick
      @YourAverageChick Год назад +8

      Me too and I'm Not looking back🎯

    • @Que772
      @Que772 Год назад +8

      I'm 1 year 8 months in not seeing my mother.

    • @octaviajackson-hg9sq
      @octaviajackson-hg9sq Год назад +9

      Definitely get it. She told me she never like me anyway 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @germainm82
    @germainm82 Год назад +17

    I wish Karamo would've offered them some family counseling because God knows they can use it!
    It would be nice to follow-up and see how this mother & daughter are doing in a few months. I pray they will mend their relationship 🎉

  • @joyhudson5674
    @joyhudson5674 Год назад +241

    I’m sorry I don’t believe the mom meant that apology. I feel like that was all an act cause she realized how she was making herself look on tv. If I was that girl I would stay far away from her.

    • @nicolewilliams0318
      @nicolewilliams0318 Год назад +20

      Absolutely! Just fake!

    • @Mannymoe3
      @Mannymoe3 Год назад +6

      That's tough to say if it was fake or not, you see how she carried on in the beginning I'd say she would of rode that out til the end if Karamo didn't step in. Think about what brought her to apologizing, it wasn't Karamo calling her out saying she's the problem or she's a bad mom, he told her something along the lines of "when does someone ask you how you're feeling?" then she opened up like a book. Don't get me wrong, I'm SOOOOOO for ditching your parents if you need to so you can heal or break the cycle but it doesn't mean they don't love you deep down in their hearts. I believe that version of the mother that said sorry was her young self, the version when she was just as vulnerable as her daughter dealing with the same think she's putting her daughter through.

    • @kamillepierce7271
      @kamillepierce7271 Год назад +4

      @@Mannymoe3I believe she meant those words when she said I’m sorry

    • @tiffanydlo.x
      @tiffanydlo.x Год назад +5

      Fr look at that eye roll at 13:58

    • @selfmadeekayy99
      @selfmadeekayy99 10 месяцев назад +3

      Definitely. Seen it was fake from the start and ended it off with that eye roll/ look she gave.

  • @destinywilliams9387
    @destinywilliams9387 Год назад +22

    I’ve never seen such evil behavior coming from a MOTHER. This is truly heartbreaking.

  • @pollywilliams6623
    @pollywilliams6623 Год назад +201

    Her mother acts like she hates her😢

    • @realmnthrwknives
      @realmnthrwknives Год назад +77

      acts? She absolutely does, its sick.

    • @scottrogue946
      @scottrogue946 Год назад +27

      She does!

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 Год назад +16

      She's a DETROIT Witch. What do you expect. I mean she's from Detroit, the Raggedy Toughest Cities in the World

    • @Ghostaredead
      @Ghostaredead Год назад +4

      I think the host did a good job reading between the lines and finding out one of the mom issues is the daughter doesn’t ask about her ! The moms angry and aggression maybe her way of showing she’s going thru shit

    • @CerseiLannister999
      @CerseiLannister999 Год назад +2

      ​@@LuvSelf_CareProducts I think he just means that where she from is a big indicator of what she's learned. I know some chick's from Chicago so grimey make yo skin crawl. In my smaller home town, I never saw anything like it. And we all black.

  • @ButterflyAngels217
    @ButterflyAngels217 Год назад +4

    This just brought me to tears. Sometimes the parent can't give you what you need because they don't even have it. They need healing too.

  • @AJayyyyyyBabyyy
    @AJayyyyyyBabyyy Год назад +248

    Ain't No Wayyyy In Hell That I'm EVERRRR Gone Talk To My Daughter That WAY 😔😔 My Daughter Is Only 10 Months.. I Can Only Treat And Raise Her The Way My Mother RAISED ME. I WILL NEVER TELL MY ONLY CHILD THAT SHE IS DEAD TO ME.. EVER. 💯💯💯

    • @NEE2TIMESS
      @NEE2TIMESS Год назад +10

      Neverrrrr 😳💯

    • @AJayyyyyyBabyyy
      @AJayyyyyyBabyyy Год назад +3

      @@ashleyj7011 Of Course.. I'm Already A Great Mother.. But I Want My Daughter To Grow And Grow And Learn About These Things

    • @jahneastanfield2662
      @jahneastanfield2662 Год назад

      We'll see in 21 years!😂

    • @ashanti-moya
      @ashanti-moya Год назад +7

      Exactly but that’s how she was also raised. Generational curses are real!

    • @AJayyyyyyBabyyy
      @AJayyyyyyBabyyy Год назад

      @@jahneastanfield2662 Don't Worry Bout Me.. Worry Bout Yours Thank U. 💯

  • @Laleece
    @Laleece Год назад +44

    I think the mother needs to express what’s hurting her and then she can be a better and more supportive mother to her daughter. The mother opening up about not having her mother was refreshing because that’s what’s hurting her. ❤️

    • @cocoliwise
      @cocoliwise Год назад +6

      She’s set in her ways. That doesn’t always help. She can share her trauma and still be nasty towards her daughter.

  • @OceanBabiedollBias
    @OceanBabiedollBias Год назад +282

    The fact that she rolled her eyes at ashley when all she said was "ive never heard her say sorry before" 😐🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ i have no words for this so called mom. Shes BLESSED that ashley came out nothing like her

    • @dannblair
      @dannblair Год назад +17

      i thought i was the only one who caught that.

    • @butyoucancallmesam
      @butyoucancallmesam Год назад +15

      I thought the same thing. The momma ain't genuine.

  • @RachelleBeyer
    @RachelleBeyer Год назад +2

    I do not know how he could be so kind to that woman after the way she acted. Incredible grace. Very admirable.

  • @AlanaGurl
    @AlanaGurl Год назад +110

    Ashley, break that generational curse and move on. If your mother truly wanted to do better, it wouldn’t have taken all of this. She meant everything she said the first time. Cut that cord and move on. ✂️💛. It’s not easy, but you’ll be better off, because she’s not going to change.

  • @ajwhite1077
    @ajwhite1077 6 месяцев назад +5

    Mom is more toxic than a septic tank. She said more than once I DONT LOVE YOU.

  • @bbq9777
    @bbq9777 Год назад +214

    She makes precious’s mom look like Claire huxtable 💀 what an evil witch. Sometimes you gotta say bye to these toxic moms. They’re evil and won’t change. Best to cut the cord.

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 Год назад +10

      This Poor Daughter needs Claire or even Harriette Winslow in her life

    • @collegestudent1563
      @collegestudent1563 Год назад +2

      Absolutely!!!!! Just leave it alone!!!!

    • @lifewithyana2924
      @lifewithyana2924 Год назад +7

      LMAOO it’s not even funny but SERIOUSLY. She had my anxiety going through the roof through the screen. I can only imagine how she feels in rl.

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 Год назад

      @@lifewithyana2924 I assume that your Mom did the same shit to you

  • @sunnylamine
    @sunnylamine Год назад +1

    Whew! Thank you Karamo. We all went through something watching these Ladies mend and start anew. If the Mom is reading this, I see that you are a truly sweet Lady who faces adversity and built a layer around protecting your younger self. Let that go! Embrace love. You are Blessed with successful children who gave you grandchildren. Some people don't and will never be Blessed like that. I love how you melted in your one on one with Karamo and showed your vulnerability. That is your superpower and your vulnerability healed your Daughter in less than 5 minutes. Yo the Daughter, God Bless You and all that you have endured and fighting for. I'm in your age group and all I know is sometimes a hug or kiss from my Momma is all I need to get back out here in these streets and fight for what's mine. I wish you both a healing and loving future!

  • @mariesain
    @mariesain Год назад +220

    This episode was so triggering for me. I just want to send Ashley so much love & positivity! I really hope she heals. ❤

  • @stormalexustv6072
    @stormalexustv6072 Год назад +7

    even with my struggles growing up i truly appreciate having a mom who never put a man before us never called us the b word never did drugs smh i can go on i feel sorry for ppl who have to grow up with parents like this

  • @dabriahsease3416
    @dabriahsease3416 Год назад +196

    Man she makes my mom look like a saint I’m about to call her smh she deserves a chance

    • @AsiaMare
      @AsiaMare Год назад +15

      Facts

    • @_belloty1394
      @_belloty1394 Год назад +15

      Good for you! I hope it works out for you

    • @Miss-Bree
      @Miss-Bree 11 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂did you call her?

  • @amybethea6187
    @amybethea6187 Год назад +1

    Karamo handled this poor troubled mother SOOOOOOO beautifully. This was a great episode. He is wonderful.

  • @BlessedtoSOAR
    @BlessedtoSOAR Год назад +320

    Her Mom has been in survival mode for so long I can see she has a hard wall up when emotions and feelings have to be acknowledged. I pray healing for both of them. Her Mom apologizing was a huge breakthrough for the daughter.

    • @xtina_m_marie7361
      @xtina_m_marie7361 Год назад +22

      I think you’re absolutely right! Now I still don’t agree with how she treated her own child.

    • @phillip_lee_atkinson
      @phillip_lee_atkinson 10 месяцев назад +18

      SURVIVAL MODE MY A**🤨…
      I don’t give a damn about the why, there’s no f***ing excuse for treating your children badly.

    • @Anelemahlatsi
      @Anelemahlatsi 8 месяцев назад +5

      DISGUSTING how you're defending the mom GROSS

  • @JenniferN55
    @JenniferN55 Год назад +4

    Sometimes u just gotta accept the mess for what it is and keep it pushing. Love and respect from a distance.

  • @rubystruth
    @rubystruth Год назад +129

    Her being dismissive is disturbing and reflects her low self worth. It doesn’t matter if it’s old it’s valid. It’s not her daughter’s fault her mom wasn’t around but it’s still her responsibility to heal and not pass on that trauma. Wishing them all the best.

  • @Monique670
    @Monique670 Год назад +93

    She a HORRIBLE mother. Like why is she like that????? Girl wash your hands with your mother. She’s toxic ! AND put her hands on your daughter !??? Nawww I would’ve been done.

  • @Queensofafrica8
    @Queensofafrica8 Год назад +2

    This man deserves an award!!!! If they ever cancel this show, it will be completely unjust

  • @ShadowMor00
    @ShadowMor00 Год назад +119

    She would have gotten choked out talking to me like that lol. I doubt this reconciliation will last, but I wish Ashley all the best.

  • @ButtaCup13
    @ButtaCup13 Год назад +9

    Whew Jesus!! I thank you sooooo much for giving me a Mom that you knew would have gone to bat for me if i EVER came home telling her even a piece of what Ashley experienced!...This was hard to watch and unfortunately, her behavior is not going to change smh...Ashley i pray you get that car sooner than later...you dont deserve any of that disrespect 😢😊

  • @Heyyy-Della
    @Heyyy-Della Год назад +80

    I think that this is one of the realest episodes he had by far. I feel bad for Ashley her mom is cray cray.

  • @NY2PDX
    @NY2PDX Год назад

    I have watched and watched and watched this man’s shows religiously for months-and he ALWAYS amazes me with his loving advice. He’s awesome.

  • @prettyNpink
    @prettyNpink Год назад +342

    I'm a firm believer in giving people grace and space. It is clear that the mother has lots of unhealthy learned behaviors, that became normal to her. She can't unlearn all of those traits in a one hour sitting. The daughter is giving her mother a second chance. She could change with guidance. Karmo, you are changing lives. One show at a time. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @Logantaliaferro
      @Logantaliaferro Год назад +6

      Grace and space uhm how about reassurance and GOD and getting baptized

    • @prettyNpink
      @prettyNpink Год назад +14

      @@Logantaliaferro She may not be a religious person. Sometimes just meeting people where they are without judgement can go a long way.

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows Год назад +17

      Nah, she needs therapy. This momma trippin

    • @stockton609
      @stockton609 Год назад +13

      Her mother is a trash bag😢😢😢😢 please move on and leave her in the past.

    • @MarilynKeirrar
      @MarilynKeirrar Год назад

      Facts

  • @sugaray7435
    @sugaray7435 Год назад +7

    Karamo out here doing the Lord work! God bless this man!! ❤

  • @kayotheepotato
    @kayotheepotato Год назад +77

    Every few days I get tipsy and stumble across an episode of Karamo then call my mom crying about how grateful I am lol

    • @TeeCup22
      @TeeCup22 Год назад +5

      Me too! 😭 I get so sad ever. Damn. Time. I’m blessed to have the mother I have. I wish everyone had the same.

    • @onepieceluffy7427
      @onepieceluffy7427 Год назад +4

      ​@@TeeCup22Amen sista Amen 🙏😭😭😭

  • @sciocezze68
    @sciocezze68 Год назад +2

    I adore Karamo For His patience...omg ..IT Breaks my Heart to See this..his love for people is priceless..

  • @realmnthrwknives
    @realmnthrwknives Год назад +122

    Such an evil ass woman! She's gonna die alone and lonely, just rotting. Not a sole will help her when she's old and needs help because of how she acts. I feel so bad for the daughter and i hope she doesn't continue this trauma for another generation. I can't imagine how hard it is to deal with a "mother" like this.

  • @roselormeus9477
    @roselormeus9477 Год назад +1

    Karamo you are an amazing Human being!!! my eyes are teary right now as I see myself and my relationship with my mom through those. I really hope her mom works on herself. I can't watch those episodes about mom and child especially daughter issue without crying and there's more mother and daughter's issue outside than I could imagine and realize it's not only me.

  • @abhimanyusingh5465
    @abhimanyusingh5465 Год назад +57

    Girl leave this women who calls herself your Mother honestly you better off without her

  • @quisdebonair
    @quisdebonair Год назад +2

    I absolutely could not. My temper would not allow my mother to talk to me that way. The way we would have been rumbling and tumbling on that set!!! I wish I could just give Ashley a hug, whew!

  • @Sweet1m0cha
    @Sweet1m0cha Год назад +81

    Why do some Mothers have to be narcissistic to their own Child.. like its really sad how they don't realize themself how bad mothers can be :(

    • @ayanajohnson2687
      @ayanajohnson2687 Год назад +16

      Not just any child though.. it’s usually the daughters they treat like that. I believe jealousy plays a huge role here

    • @theiswithin3649
      @theiswithin3649 Год назад +3

      Because they ar broken miserable inside and this is what the project this on to their children

  • @samantha7384
    @samantha7384 8 месяцев назад +2

    Mom was never shown love. Exactly why she is the way she is. Her daughter is beautiful and smart and being a good mother providing! I truly think she is jealous of her daughter and the way she came out.

  • @lotusxinception3475
    @lotusxinception3475 Год назад +72

    The mother is lucky to have such a loving and forgiving daughter ❤

  • @sharonnavuga5039
    @sharonnavuga5039 3 месяца назад

    This is why I love Karamo. You just have a way of getting to the heart.

  • @peacefreedom4930
    @peacefreedom4930 Год назад +49

    Karamo has the calm of 100 Buddhist monks. No matter how outrageous his guests get, he remains completely serene. I don’t know how he does it.
    I thought maybe the mom was a narcissist. Turns out she’s full of hurt, frustration, stress, and lashes out. Hurt people hurt people. I don’t think I could trust her. She is willing to go as low as possible to hurt her own child. She does need counseling. Not to mention she believes this is normal behavior. Ma’am I’ve never called my daughter a B word.

    • @Mannymoe3
      @Mannymoe3 Год назад +2

      Yeah Karamo broke her down like no other with just "understanding" her feelings. When that mom said sorry in this video it was the version of her that use to be vulnerable, probably the version of her after the first time her mom called her a b word too. That mom probably been just going through the motions ever since that day and it must of been a hell of a shock for Karamo to say, "When do they ask you how you're feeling?".

    • @karaokekaye9171
      @karaokekaye9171 Год назад

      Still no excuse

  • @tinareynolds4181
    @tinareynolds4181 Год назад +2

    Karamo is really great at his job! He is always on point and knows how to calm any situation.

  • @brianawatkins3645
    @brianawatkins3645 Год назад +23

    Chileeeeeee!!!! When she said she choked slammed her kid... We would've been tussling like we didnt know each other!!

  • @Chings001
    @Chings001 Год назад +6

    I am so very grateful for my late mom who treated me with so much love and care. ❤

  • @maryjane2965
    @maryjane2965 Год назад +36

    Karamo we NEED an update later on this please!

    • @NEE2TIMESS
      @NEE2TIMESS Год назад +7

      yes, i’m so invested 😢

    • @knightclassic1
      @knightclassic1 Год назад

      They probably fell off again from her Body language, I don't believe every one bit that she's saying

  • @nyaj754
    @nyaj754 Год назад +6

    I couldn’t imagine having a mother like this. My God 😭

  • @madamemeek9617
    @madamemeek9617 Год назад +39

    Ashley sweetie, PLEASE do like your egg donor asked of you and leave the past in the past (HER.) Heal from all that generational trauma she put on you, love up on your babies and live your best life. Your mother is a evil demon. Don't have them babies around her anymore either. Go be great and leave her in the dust.

  • @ccchaneltv
    @ccchaneltv Год назад +1

    Karamo you are so good !!!!! Look how her whole demeanor changed with the help of Karamo softly removing her mask. Chile I need a seat in the audience.

  • @dollhausent7750
    @dollhausent7750 Год назад +116

    This mother is narcissistic and completely disgusting. I’m so annoyed watching this interview as I deal with this to a certain extent with my own mom. She feels as if she can do and say whatever she pleases and it’s not supposed to be acknowledged or brought up in order to be held accountable for. That’s an issue, it’s toxic & nobody can deal with you like that

    • @jessicathomas22717
      @jessicathomas22717 Год назад +9

      That is 100% my mom it’s anxiety you still have to deal with even though and it never goes away

    • @Diivasatti
      @Diivasatti Год назад +1

      This ‼️‼️ I’m dealing with the same

  • @isolatedrose9583
    @isolatedrose9583 5 месяцев назад +2

    The mom is emotionally unavailable to her daughter because her mom was emotionally unavailable to her. They both need therapy to break down these behaviors. Deeper therapy than the Karamo show.

  • @Yeayyeayaea228
    @Yeayyeayaea228 Год назад +36

    This made me cry because it sounds like me and my mother.. she wants me to be a strong independent woman and I still want to be that little girl and get that attention and emotional connection with her..
    They will make it and get better, honestly them having boundaries and space will definitely make the relationship better

    • @ashleyj7011
      @ashleyj7011 Год назад +5

      You not alone 💔 I understand 💯🙏💔

    • @Mannymoe3
      @Mannymoe3 Год назад

      You want/need that from your mother but who is giving that to her because she likely needs it also. You are absolutely right to want that from your mom but single mothers become numb after a while through their selflessness of raising kids sadly that is hard to overcome. Not saying you or anyone doesn't care because we would die for our mothers in a hearbeat for sure but they still need to feel vulnerable, feminine, and submissive time to time.

  • @mechellekelsick1906
    @mechellekelsick1906 Год назад +1

    This man is doing a great service ! God bless his gift ❤

  • @UrNextEx
    @UrNextEx Год назад +43

    I ❤ Karamo. When he has these mother daughter issues. He is so spot on. But heaven forbid you throw a man in the mix...

  • @home4life505
    @home4life505 Год назад +4

    I was 35 when I confronted my mother for letting men behave the same way. I was also told to get over it. But eventually my mom genuinely apologized. We are great 11 yrs later

  • @love444nyah
    @love444nyah Год назад +47

    no matter how mad i get mad at my kids i would NEVER in my life talk to them like that. this is ridiculous. it might never affected her but it affects her so she should take that in consideration and not just how it made her feel.

  • @peachsangria8704
    @peachsangria8704 Год назад +6

    I had to separate from my mother. It's been nearly 6 months since we spoke. She is nasty, disrespectful, rude and demeaning to me. I'm much older than Ashley. Those things stay with you. I finally pulled the plug on the relationship. Most of my mysterious aches and pains went away during this time. Mothers, please I beg you, think before you speak.

  • @markydan1232
    @markydan1232 Год назад +21

    Karamo you deserve an award. That was true miracle.

  • @tinahilbert6014
    @tinahilbert6014 Год назад +5

    I THANK THE GOOD LORD MY MOM WAS A WONDERFUL MOTHER.....YOU HAVE A BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER AND LOOK HOW YOU TREATS HER..THIS IS SO SAD ON MANY LEVELS....WHEN SHE TOLD HER YOUR DEAD TO ME...I CRIED AND SHE'S NOT MY MOTHER...SEEK GOD'S GUIDANCE YOUNG LADY YOUR GOING TO BE FINE❤❤

  • @momonie4
    @momonie4 Год назад +37

    MY MOTHER NEVER CALLED HER CHILDREN, MOTHER, GRANDMOTHER, GREAT GRANDMOTHER ETC. ETC. ETC. A BITCH OR ANY OTHER CURSE WORD OMG BEYOND DISGUSTING & RIDICULOUS!!!

  • @kusheer
    @kusheer Год назад +6

    My heart goes out to that young lady... Some women really don't deserve to have children!!!

  • @naanra301
    @naanra301 Год назад +52

    This mother must hate herself sooo much for acting like that! But she will never ever tell anyone that she has problems with herself and what she did and because of that the daughter has to live her life without hoping her mother will be there for her someday or being g proud of her. She shall leave her BUT then she also should never ever let her own kids be with her or ask her for any kind of help again!

  • @NailahUmi
    @NailahUmi Год назад +2

    This is why I love his show.. this just brought tears to my eyes!

  • @paralegalkc
    @paralegalkc Год назад +16

    Sometimes you have to love from afar. Toxicity will kill you.

  • @MarilynKeirrar
    @MarilynKeirrar Год назад +2

    I have so much empathy for both mothers. I love karamo’s work fr.

  • @shawn6618
    @shawn6618 Год назад +55

    The worse part is that so many of us can relate....

  • @BriaBarrows
    @BriaBarrows Год назад +2

    Karamo is all about solutions and not judgment. This is what I love about him

  • @jamariyaeyoung7683
    @jamariyaeyoung7683 Год назад +11

    Wow Karamo, this episode hit deep. You are a miracle worker, and the way you broke through the mother, even though she was as hard as a rock. Wow.

  • @meow3518
    @meow3518 5 месяцев назад +2

    From 14:01 to 14:03 - SHE STILL DOESN'T CARE YAALL! She is was just doing this to get it over & done with

  • @marshaw
    @marshaw Год назад +18

    Brother Karamo out here doing good for the community!

  • @ProphetessRosieMFinleyBruner
    @ProphetessRosieMFinleyBruner Год назад +2

    Thank you Karamo for breaking the ice and mending the hearts between this mother and daughter relationship.
    I have a very similar story with my mother. She mentally and abused me daily as a child, while my Dad was working. I confronted her as an adult, he replied to me. "You need to get over it". I feel sorry for her, having such a cold heart towards me and I'm the one who takes care of her the most.
    My oldest sister Angela is the one she admired and loved all her life does nothing for her, and have not seen my mother more than eleven years.
    Now my mom is on a bed of affliction. You will reap what you sow. I'm a servant of God, the office of a Prophetess no one knows the cost of the oil, one has to endure 😢 in ministry or on this journey 🙏. Continued blessings to you Karamo and keep mending hearts. Prophetess Rosie Finley

  • @jalisajohnson9277
    @jalisajohnson9277 Год назад +12

    My mom has NEVER CALLED ME THAT OR TREATED ME LIKE THIS!!! crazy!

  • @_paz_888
    @_paz_888 Год назад +2

    I wonder how karamo does all of this without internalising too much of the emotions. He's always involved the correct amount

  • @nick74195
    @nick74195 Год назад +6

    Mom talking about the past but mom you dwelling in the past by not saying sorry to your daughter.