Mom Tried To Run Me Over...Twice! | KARAMO

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 2 дек 2024

Комментарии • 950

  • @kekejefferson9219
    @kekejefferson9219 Год назад +1759

    When your pregnant at 12, it's generally not by a another 12 yr old, the baby is by a grown man and a family member.

  • @RestorationEdenMinistries
    @RestorationEdenMinistries Год назад +1195

    This is disturbing, the level of toxicity that exists in our community and the feelings of obligation to be in relationship in the name of love. Accepting abuse is NOT love.

    • @4CQueen
      @4CQueen Год назад +26

      Exactly! Keeping things like this hush! hush! Only allows the pedofyles to continue to do it to someone else's child.

    • @RestorationEdenMinistries
      @RestorationEdenMinistries Год назад +6

      @@shawn6986 You are right!

    • @jacobTheeCreole
      @jacobTheeCreole Год назад +4

      Agreed it’s terrible !

    • @jacobTheeCreole
      @jacobTheeCreole Год назад

      @@shawn6986facts

    • @SableDevon
      @SableDevon Год назад

      Black folks so use of living in dysfunction. We don’t even know till we are removed.

  • @jah3053
    @jah3053 Год назад +542

    The fact she is smirking back stage while her daughter recounts the story is alarming.. run from this person.

    • @Nique.Alexis
      @Nique.Alexis 6 месяцев назад +3

      I just said look at her face, my face is screwed up every time I see her face.

    • @DIDYOUGETTHEMONEY
      @DIDYOUGETTHEMONEY Месяц назад

      @@jah3053 I know rose personally this isn't her character at all

  • @KamiaMcWilliams
    @KamiaMcWilliams Год назад +962

    I'm sorry, but that whole "that's still your momma, sister, cousin, brother...etc" is just an excuse within our community to dismiss toxic behaviors. Mom is dealing with resentment & anger, I could tell when she mentioned that her mom deals with her daughter not really her son and the daughter has a lot of anger to. Hitting a child in the face for your neglect...because you left matches around for him to set a fire, is nothing but anger and it's not right.
    It's a lot of generational traumas that they both have to break to be both mothers & daughters-- because they're taking it out on their children but looking for love in each other. They have to deal with that trauma first.

    • @4CQueen
      @4CQueen Год назад +45

      Grandma should've been on this show too, the mom was raped and forced to give birth to Brianna at twelve. I can see Granny telling the mom to hush and don't tell nobody about what happened to jer Elders aren't always wise and granny sounds like a problem too.

    • @HeyoitsJay
      @HeyoitsJay Год назад +10

      Exactly. Like stop playing games with your life. Some people aren’t worth it.

    • @nimloc1670
      @nimloc1670 Год назад +4

      Thank you. I've been saying this for so long

    • @MillennialHippie
      @MillennialHippie Год назад +4

      This is the best comment on this video. Very well put!

    • @kwestpearson4040
      @kwestpearson4040 Год назад

      Honestly my mom did the same thing when I was a teenager for talking back it taught me how to listen everyone has different styles of parenting some whoop kids some send them timeout we agree this generation is softer than tissue paper and shooting up schools churches and joining gang's murder rates have gone crime rate has gone up because parents got to show some tough love cause it what the kids need

  • @4CQueen
    @4CQueen Год назад +1015

    If my mother is trying to hit me with a car & calling me a mutt, she can't EVER be in my kids lives, she wrote her own epitaph .

    • @TrueMiThompson
      @TrueMiThompson Год назад +14

      The daughter is not a saint hitting her kid in the eye is abuse not discipline. Hurt ppl hurt ppl. I get a spanking usually a few taps on the lower extremities.

    • @lathessiastevenson8516
      @lathessiastevenson8516 Год назад +5

      I agree

    • @Zorobbabel
      @Zorobbabel 11 месяцев назад +3

      Agreed👏👏👏

    • @andreniquejarmon9309
      @andreniquejarmon9309 11 месяцев назад +4

      ​@RoseMackie-ms3lgwoah. True nobody knows the whole story but breathe. As long as you and yours are moving forward bump what ppl think and say.
      I'm 24 and true nobody is perfect yes what you did was wrong and hurtful but y'all talked apologize and moved forward that's all that matters.
      Blessings to you and your family. One thing you said was she's still your princess because she looks just like you. That was beautiful in itself.

    • @aiziajackson-bartholomew7346
      @aiziajackson-bartholomew7346 10 месяцев назад +4

      @RoseMackie-ms3lgare you the mom or is she?? Stop making excuses for your failures. As a mother you help your kids at any age so if her husband and her needed a summer and granny got the kids why are you out here airing that business out to make yourself feel better for what exactly?? Grow up.

  • @1991Meka
    @1991Meka Год назад +1834

    Black people have done ourselves a huge disservice by saying, "Well, that's your parent, and you have TO ALWAYS respect and love them."

    • @changestartsnow5116
      @changestartsnow5116 Год назад +12

      You do!!

    • @kristataylor8829
      @kristataylor8829 Год назад +69

      You can give respect your parents with your presence or if you can't then you can respect your parents with your absence

    • @1991Meka
      @1991Meka Год назад +85

      @@changestartsnow5116 I do. Neither one of my parents raised me, do they still deserve my respect?

    • @kristataylor8829
      @kristataylor8829 Год назад

      @@shawn6986 this goes to show your stupidity there are laws in this world that are not man made and respecting authority actually goes with how you prosper in every aspect of your life again since you missed the point you can respect your or with your absence so instead of blocking your prosperity in this life by going back and forth leave and have nothing to do with them

    • @sinalyrae8320
      @sinalyrae8320 Год назад +3

      Absolutely correct

  • @ms.undastood2586
    @ms.undastood2586 Год назад +447

    There comes a time when you have to cut all ties with a toxic person, EVEN if that person share the same blood.

  • @deeransom
    @deeransom Год назад +904

    Watching Karamo makes you feel like he actually cares about his guest and not just trying to exploit them for ratings. I feel he genuinely wants to help people mend relationships and broken bonds.

    • @This.is.my.family
      @This.is.my.family Год назад +12

      Yes, thank you ❤

    • @Bless26771
      @Bless26771 Год назад +15

      Karamo is doing a great good. He calls a spade a spade point blank

    • @natashathompson8800
      @natashathompson8800 Год назад +5

      Yes

    • @thomasyoung5013
      @thomasyoung5013 Год назад +7

      Sure bud it's not like that's what he gets paid to do

    • @tya4662
      @tya4662 Год назад +4

      Agreed he’s so down to earth and compassionate. Love love love 💗 Karamo!

  • @konpeitosama
    @konpeitosama Год назад +217

    Just because she's your mother doesn't mean you have to be close to her and let her be in your life like that. You can love her from a distance.

    • @rosemarymackey6933
      @rosemarymackey6933 Год назад

      And guess I don't have to expect her to be in my life but my grandkids is my main concern that's it so let that be said you don't know me I don't know you judging off the show yall ppl funny cause I kept my grandkids last summer and took them to Disney world for the first time and where was the parents having issues like always SMH sad case

    • @shamf9672
      @shamf9672 Год назад +16

      ⁠​⁠@@rosemarymackey6933you want a cookie for being a grandmother? But couldn’t be a mother?🤣 nah. That last part spoke louder than the rest of what you said especially the tone of it. Didn’t even need to bring up that they were having issues.

    • @boogie_4203
      @boogie_4203 3 месяца назад

      You don’t have to love them at all ! They owe YOU love, you owe them nothing if they can’t uphold their basic responsibilities as a parent.

  • @ShadowMor00
    @ShadowMor00 Год назад +236

    I'm very happy I wasn’t brainwashed to believe you have to stay connected to your abusers, just because they're related to you.

    • @brianamackey1343
      @brianamackey1343 Год назад +2

      Thank you ❤

    • @rosemarymackey6933
      @rosemarymackey6933 Год назад

      Never ask her to stay connected to me she's grown and married just keep my grandkids safe that's it not let a man beat on him because she didn't beat him the husband and he admitted to that let's keep it real I never seen her beat my grandson like that truth be told

  • @JustAnAverageBlackWoman
    @JustAnAverageBlackWoman Год назад +156

    It's hypocritical AF that the same people who tell women to leave a man who beats or tries to kill them, tell the same women to fight for a relationship with an abusive mother.

    • @theiswithin3649
      @theiswithin3649 11 месяцев назад +5

      👉🏾 well said🎯

    • @questionresearch8721
      @questionresearch8721 4 месяца назад

      I totally agree.

    • @BlackFairy-zk7wl
      @BlackFairy-zk7wl 3 месяца назад

      Exactly ! If a man hits you , leave. If this was not her mom , we would be telling her to leave . As a community, we really need to detach from this perspective because our babies are experiencing the toxicity that's not being dealt with . I'm so TIRED of but that's your mom . What about the babies that have to watch this ? What does that teach them about what love is ?

  • @gracevictorious3922
    @gracevictorious3922 Год назад +359

    Giving your kid a black eye is crazy.

    • @jacobTheeCreole
      @jacobTheeCreole Год назад +22

      I bet he won’t strike another match

    • @roselandebazelais8236
      @roselandebazelais8236 Год назад +12

      @@jacobTheeCreole Where were the matches at???

    • @roselandebazelais8236
      @roselandebazelais8236 Год назад +26

      @@jacobTheeCreole Who left the matches somewhere to be found????

    • @janaabreu
      @janaabreu Год назад +19

      An adult was neglectful or careless enough for those matches to be found.

    • @cristina-dk4vo
      @cristina-dk4vo Год назад +13

      ​@@jacobTheeCreolethey left the matches out. How are both the parents sleep & the kids are up? I would have called cps too for blacking a child's eye

  • @x10kbatz
    @x10kbatz Год назад +405

    I understand why she was upset, But HITTING THE BABY and also LEAVING A MARK yea that’s abuse let’s not sugar coat that

    • @longbranch11207
      @longbranch11207 Год назад +28

      Yea the kids should have been taken away from her. She was locked up in the room with her husband while the children left unattended and have the nerves to beat the poor baby

    • @snickers8970
      @snickers8970 Год назад +34

      Exactly! She is no diffrent from her mother that tried to run her over. They gotta break this cycle! Hopefully this is step one for them.

    • @wildfiregirl1556
      @wildfiregirl1556 Год назад +5

      Nothing wrong with discipline. But they shouldn't have matches out period.

    • @lifewrayne
      @lifewrayne Год назад +37

      @@wildfiregirl1556I wish y’all would stop saying that.. that’s not discipline it’s abuse. A swat on the hand or butt is discipline this is a BABY who’s not even capable of understand what they did.

    • @lashayparker5602
      @lashayparker5602 Год назад +1

      @@longbranch11207,my thoughts exactly!

  • @Alcohelix
    @Alcohelix Год назад +525

    "You're not going to sit here & act like I'm a bad parent." Told me everything I needed to know.
    Your child(ren) ultimately determine if you are a good/bad parent, not you. They are the ones on the recieving/observing end of the treatment given to them.
    Parents need to listen to their chilldren & their feelings, not dismiss & automatically think they're right just because they are the parent. This is how you start to form a healthy relationship.

    • @starbabi77
      @starbabi77 Год назад +7

      Word ...I said the same thing....that's always how it starts.....🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @rosemarymackey6933
      @rosemarymackey6933 Год назад +5

      I respectfully understand wat yall saying but it's deeper than this show ain't nobody no perfect parents us as parents make mistakes and I do knowledge my daughter feelings but she's have to communicate and not run to social media putting the world in our family business and communicate and work through together our kids have to do better because she's have her own family to make it right broking the generation Curse

    • @naex.x
      @naex.x Год назад +7

      @@rosemarymackey6933eh. I think putting it on the internet was actually smart. Throwing class at yo kids? Trying to harm them? nah. you have no intentions on hearing them out! Then you try to run your child over…what’s there to communicate? “mom…I just want you to know that what you did hurt me.” She already laughed at her and called her a clown…what you think is next? I get children are supposed to respect their parents…but y’all parents need to respect your children as well. “Us parents make mistakes” that wasn’t no mistake, she knew exactly what she was doing. That’s not a mistake…it’s a choice and her choice was to harm her child. If your hurting your child and then questioning why they don’t communicate with you…I’m not going to lie…you’re quite dumb…? Why would your child want to communicate with you when you have hurt them!! TRIED TO KILL THEM!? nah that’s horrible parenting. Idk how you raise your children or child…but if you’re trying to make a statement that parents make mistakes and even though she was in the wrong blah blah…ain’t no excuses for that kind of behavior. Never will be.

    • @RodneshaRenell
      @RodneshaRenell Год назад +3

      @@rosemarymackey6933I get what your saying but if the kids need to do better then so does the parents it’s not a one sided thing

    • @rosemarymackey6933
      @rosemarymackey6933 Год назад +1

      @Jonae__ like I said yall don't know the half of it and what made do what I did yall just seeing one side and for years I been going to this trauma with my daughter I did everything as a mother to reach out to her but yall sit on this internet shit and troll me like I said I didn't do anything wrong but defending my household my daughter has her own shirt where her ex girlfriend and other baby daddy living but yet want to come to my shit and Disturb my peace

  • @destinywilliams9387
    @destinywilliams9387 Год назад +1504

    I can’t get over the fact that she hit her child in the face. It’s hard for me to sympathize.

    • @blacksunflower2958
      @blacksunflower2958 Год назад +137

      Yeah I damn near would’ve called on myself hitting my baby in the face bc I’ve clearly lost my sh#t! I’m not huge on whooping at all but I can understand for what he was doing but not in the face !

    • @nicolejiles1261
      @nicolejiles1261 Год назад +4

      ❤qar

    • @longbranch11207
      @longbranch11207 Год назад +20

      Thank you and thinking it’s ok. The children should have been taken away from her

    • @destinywilliams9387
      @destinywilliams9387 Год назад +77

      @@longbranch11207 Thats clear physical abuse, and neglect with the matches just lying around too

    • @Ilyasdawah
      @Ilyasdawah Год назад +7

      Agreed

  • @SaudeJuniee
    @SaudeJuniee Год назад +70

    “She still my mom” girl BYE 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @OdachiRain
    @OdachiRain Год назад +352

    WHO GOT HER PREGNANT AT AGE 12
    CAN WE TALK ABOUT THAT WTF
    WHERE IS THIS MAN AND IS HE IN PRISON?!

    • @rosemarymackey6933
      @rosemarymackey6933 Год назад +13

      He ain't in jail I did well taking care of my kids

    • @barbarawilliams5130
      @barbarawilliams5130 Год назад +41

      Somewhere else messing with other children. Please pray for all the children of the world.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @thetaureanmisanthrope
      @thetaureanmisanthrope Год назад +57

      ​@@rosemarymackey6933​...but what does that have to do with the fact that you were *SEXUALLY ASSAULTED* at a young age?! You were *taken advantage of.* That's the point we're getting at.

    • @pinksilkdurag
      @pinksilkdurag Год назад +22

      @@rosemarymackey6933how old was he when he impregnated you?

    • @mhizzcatia9511
      @mhizzcatia9511 Год назад +11

      Might b a family member tht SA her

  • @HeyoitsJay
    @HeyoitsJay Год назад +183

    As a mom idc about your personal trauma. You have an obligation to get better for your kids. It’s not okay what happened to her but she’s old enough to know better than to try and run over with her CHILD with a car and show up in pajamas. Like nah. She had to be embarrassed to change.
    Also hitting your kid in the face for YOU being neglectful is not okay. Do better

    • @shawntacarter3921
      @shawntacarter3921 Год назад +6

      Yes, as a mother myself I’m working thru my trauma because coming from a mother who used her trauma as an excuse to treat my harsh is just crazy

  • @deeransom
    @deeransom Год назад +204

    So she hit her child in the face because she was being an irresponsible parent and not supervising them?

    • @ilovemeris2213
      @ilovemeris2213 Год назад +35

      If she put them to bed and he got up and tried to burn the house down he needed his ass whooped I don't care what they said

    • @Ghostaredead
      @Ghostaredead Год назад

      Yup u got it

    • @Ghostaredead
      @Ghostaredead Год назад +33

      @@ilovemeris2213that state of mind is exactly why they on this show

    • @ilovemeris2213
      @ilovemeris2213 Год назад

      @@Ghostaredead but it's OK for the cops to beat and kill black people right and get hero awards and be celebrated I rather discipline my kids firmly out of love then let them get away with everything and have the police on them and I'm proud to say Mt tough love paid of and my daughter running g track🙏🏿I hate to see Karamo act like this is just a black thing when it stated in slavery and we had to beat our kids for learning how to read and write so the master wouldn't beat and kill em or sell them away how soon we forget

    • @rosemarymackey6933
      @rosemarymackey6933 Год назад +3

      Exactly that's my point I was trying to say she's not a bad parent but she didn't beat my grandson the husband did that

  • @Dexters.LaBOREatory
    @Dexters.LaBOREatory Год назад +57

    My love for my family is CONDITIONAL, never going to be unconditional.

    • @lashayparker5602
      @lashayparker5602 Год назад +1

      The best comment on this entire video!

    • @aurely972
      @aurely972 Год назад +5

      And i might add, I can very much love you and not be in your life for my safety

  • @LuckyyLEVEN
    @LuckyyLEVEN Год назад +51

    Her grandmother taught her to always love the ppl who abuse her . Ain’t no good in that at all .

  • @OdachiRain
    @OdachiRain Год назад +607

    the second the daughter said her mum had her at age 12 i didnt hear anything else after that. the mum is abusive absolutely but its INSANE to have a child at such a young age. OF COURSE the mother is going to have problems, the daughter has to understand that. theres wrong on both sides but being raped as a child, being a child having a child....the mum is stuck at 12

    • @poetlong2929
      @poetlong2929 Год назад +18

      Exactly

    • @alicemccallister16
      @alicemccallister16 Год назад +11

      I agree

    • @trentoniscringe
      @trentoniscringe Год назад +8

      Rosemary's mom never told her any different. She was allowed to do was she wanted. But she always took care of her and was there for her. I have witnessed a lot of stuff that happened and it's crazy to sit here and put on a fake show to down her mom and not has made a move to help their relationship as she say but Brianna has went back to ignoring her mom

    • @4CQueen
      @4CQueen Год назад

      Sometimes 12 year old girls are forced to have s#x and get pregnant, I can see the grandma making the mother keep Brianna and telling her not to say anything..

    • @diamondbeetpaul.9537
      @diamondbeetpaul.9537 Год назад +3

      True indeed

  • @penelopeb1370
    @penelopeb1370 Год назад +88

    Thank you for bringing mom back out. I saw how her countenance softened. And I shed a tear for her daughter after she said "I just want my momma".
    Mom, I can't imagine your pain. And you had to keep going in spite of it. That tenderness you showed her on stage was beautiful. You both deserve that.

    • @wisdomspeakstruth333
      @wisdomspeakstruth333 Год назад +6

      You have to be the bigger person. You can’t try to run her over bc she tried to hurt you. Stay away from her until you all have cooled off bc one mistake can cause her children to be without their Mom and you in prison. Don’t tell her personal business to the world. That’s not love. That is drama and you are showing the world that you could care less about her. How do you want to build a relationship with her and then tell us about her double life. Really? She’s still a child in her mind when it comes to you. Ask God to teach you how to Mother her.

    • @patricasamplesosexy1466
      @patricasamplesosexy1466 Год назад +3

      ​@RoseMackie-ms3lg😮please erase this message. It is not cool and where is the love? I pray for both you and your daughter.

    • @kekemarie-rn8cc
      @kekemarie-rn8cc 6 месяцев назад

      @RoseMackie-ms3lgwow she gave yu a compliment and you go on to do the opposite of what she complimented you for that’s really sad

  • @kyaramonique420
    @kyaramonique420 Год назад +35

    I been waiting for this since the shorter clip dropped this morning.

  • @taylortiwari7118
    @taylortiwari7118 Год назад +184

    This one was tough. Two very hurt inner children unfortunately passing on the hurt. I truly hope things get better, and the kids involved are safe

    • @4CQueen
      @4CQueen Год назад +12

      Great grandma should've been on this show. She needs to explain herself too. 11 year old daughter graped and forced to raise her molesters Baby , shame on it all..

  • @Hollygdorsey1
    @Hollygdorsey1 Год назад +86

    Mom is grossly ignorant. She approaches her daughter like a home girl in the street. She literally said, “come on dog.” Your daughter is not your friend.

    • @changestartsnow5116
      @changestartsnow5116 Год назад +9

      Did you not hear her say she had her at 12!!! She was still a kid trying to raise a baby.

    • @cristina-dk4vo
      @cristina-dk4vo Год назад +2

      She was literally a child with a baby

    • @criminalsurveillance
      @criminalsurveillance 6 месяцев назад

      @@changestartsnow5116 , you speak as if that was said when she was twelve. She is in her forties. Unjustifiable.

  • @Unsubscribed321
    @Unsubscribed321 11 месяцев назад +30

    The daughter states that at age 12 that is where her relationship went sour with her mother and that was also the age that her mother got pregnant. The mother is stuck at age 12. The mother sees herself in her daughter. There is resentment but there is love. Depending on whether the daughter was conceived out of rape or by a boy within the same age range as the mother could also be an angle as to why the dynamic of the relationship is the way it is as well.

  • @TreDa3rd
    @TreDa3rd Год назад +33

    This is my niece Briana and I hate that she has to go thru what she does with her mother... Keep her in your prayers!

    • @myaj4533
      @myaj4533 Год назад +3

      If the pregnant 12 year old wasn't properly taken care of, then emotions aren't gonna go away, especially if it was traumatic or a family member...Your sister seems to be still emotionally 12 years old with certain situations....Tell Briana stay strong. She got this....❤

  • @hazelboyce7230
    @hazelboyce7230 Год назад +40

    So much toxicity. I could not live like this, you have to learn to love people from a distance.

    • @hazelboyce7230
      @hazelboyce7230 Год назад +4

      @RoseMackie-ms3lg Too much toxicity on display. Your personal life is of no concern of mine and anyone is free to comment on what is displayed on TV. If you didn’t want anyone commenting, then keep your business off of the TV.

    • @TheShyAiko
      @TheShyAiko Год назад +1

      @@hazelboyce7230 thank you ! She commenting on ppl stuff but broadcasting her business. But dont want anyone to speak their opinion .

    • @hazelboyce7230
      @hazelboyce7230 Год назад +1

      @@TheShyAiko Her character is on full display. Anyone with a modicum of understanding, knows that anything on social media is free fodder for consumption. Her whole business on a talk show and she wants silence. Make it make sense.

  • @jrose1999
    @jrose1999 Год назад +24

    1:19 and if you notice she said this started at 12 her mother was literally triggered by her daughter turning 12 because of what happened to her imo

  • @lystramcburnie3297
    @lystramcburnie3297 Год назад +30

    Aa an individual who grew up with an abusive mother and lived in foster care and group home as a child, I’ve come to the realization that I will never get the love and acceptance from my mother. I’ve realized a long time ago that my mother isn’t capable of loving herself much less loving another person. My mother never wanted to be a mother. I don’t trust her with my kids and I never will. I accept that she’s my mother but I put her where she belongs. I’ve since learned that she will never accept responsibility and apologize for what she did.

    • @rosemarymackey6933
      @rosemarymackey6933 Год назад

      That's your problem so I can't related to that wen I been there the whole time with my daughter I'm not prefect but I know this is that my child needs help that's it

  • @jordynpaige2662
    @jordynpaige2662 Год назад +10

    Karamo is hands down one of the best talk show hosts of all time. Truly.

  • @rootspart2397
    @rootspart2397 Год назад +27

    everybody tryna break a cycle but nobody sitting down and figuring out wtf the cycle is

    • @averageatbest6917
      @averageatbest6917 Год назад +3

      Right! They both and the whole family need a whole lot of God, Jesus, and therapy

  • @Livewell-xgi
    @Livewell-xgi 10 месяцев назад +11

    A supposed apology from your mom when it ends with “but you’re not perfect either” is always painful. That’s the moment that reminds you they’ll never change.

  • @darcyzepeda9676
    @darcyzepeda9676 Год назад +19

    How tf she get mad at the child for grabbing the matches that THEY left out. ITS A DAMN CHILD ! Your responsibility to not leave shit out like that PERIOD

  • @onlyb-yz4jz
    @onlyb-yz4jz Год назад +14

    The mama is something else. "you going always be my princess, bc you look like me" miss ma'am. let the statement be about your daughter. Don't add yourself or a reason you love her.

  • @queenofthenile8090
    @queenofthenile8090 Год назад +21

    The mom was abused at 12 and took her anger out on her daughter... Daughter was angry at mother for mistreating her and never learned the correct way to parent, so she abuse the grandchild.... The cycle is deadly 😢

  • @Preciousdxo
    @Preciousdxo Год назад +274

    The daughter's son having a black eye plus her telling her mum to shut up is a MAJOR red flag

    • @selectamy2369
      @selectamy2369 Год назад +13

      What u tryna say

    • @ekachuks7481
      @ekachuks7481 Год назад +12

      Exactly, especially telling her mum to shut up in the national tv. No, not right. However, I truly wish that they can workout their differences.

    • @theycallmedopeness
      @theycallmedopeness Год назад +131

      @@ekachuks7481baby her trying to hit her with a car is a no no!! Saying shut up is mild comparing to trying to hit someone with a car. She could have killed her!!

    • @kalston030
      @kalston030 Год назад +7

      I thought the same exact thing

    • @zammymynakersnackstbmoth
      @zammymynakersnackstbmoth Год назад +49

      How is the DAUGHTER tge red flag???

  • @Cheeseburgers729
    @Cheeseburgers729 Год назад +10

    "She manipulive"lmao I just can't

  • @blessedbygodirby4014
    @blessedbygodirby4014 10 месяцев назад +8

    Yeah idc momma or not im not finna deal with chaotic behavior

  • @MissDeenaB94
    @MissDeenaB94 Год назад +33

    My mom’s mother called CPS on my mom back in my junior year of high school. My mom initially believed it was one of my cousins who is pretty judgmental but the case worker that stopped by did a house check and proceeded to ask my mom what her relationship with her mother was like. My mom put 2 and 2 together and later on down the line, my mom’s first cousin, who she was raised with, finally told her that she called. We cut her completely off and believe it or not it wasn’t because of that. She has done so many wicked things down the line and we just finally had enough of her bullshit. It’s crazy because that same narcissist spirit tried to come and over take my mom and for a while we butt heads BAD but we’re waking every day towards healing. My grandma put my mom through HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLL and despite my mom’s demons, she’s still a bomb ass mother and because God gives me grace and mercy everyday, I return the same to her. I’m so glad this young lady is breaking the generational curse. Sending my prayers and love 🙏🏾🥹🤎

  • @spoilerlover09
    @spoilerlover09 Год назад +18

    Blood or not, when it’s time to remove toxicity from your life DO IT

  • @shynbryt11
    @shynbryt11 Год назад +18

    Sometimes you have to stop allowing toxic people in your life! Including your mother!!

  • @modabrat2580
    @modabrat2580 Год назад +21

    Yall saying that the mom was right to call CPS is dead ass wrong. AS A MOTHER to HER DAUGHTER, she should’ve sat her down and had a conversation with her. She went straight to the system. That shit is CRAZY.

    • @UglyBrownGirlDiary
      @UglyBrownGirlDiary Год назад

      Girl fr!!! The fuck is wrong with people

    • @rawuncut6890
      @rawuncut6890 9 месяцев назад +3

      And the fact that she didn’t call even the situation happened but to be vindictive!!! Crazy.

  • @PoohBear7747
    @PoohBear7747 Год назад +23

    The Mom wrong and very evil end of story!

  • @maryjane2965
    @maryjane2965 Год назад +64

    This won’t get better without therapy!These type of anger issues resulting from trauma are almost impossible to break without therapy!Wish Karamo would have offered them therapy,he didn’t even mention it like he usually does😮.

    • @frcomet5009
      @frcomet5009 Год назад +4

      That's bcuz these people are destroyed and he can tell that. There personalities will not change without going through hell and back, so he's at least asking them to hear each other but this shit is doomed even with therapy. They have major personality disorders now they ain't worked on as adults, they are doomed. Some people cannot be fixed

  • @thephoenixrising4614
    @thephoenixrising4614 Год назад +26

    The Mother was never allowed to be a child. Grandmother passed down her pain to her Daughter who passed it down to her daughter.

  • @tiyannacato5765
    @tiyannacato5765 Год назад +14

    They both need parenting class the mom isn’t too old ……. Because the level of abuse passed down is very disturbing hitting your child in the face, the running over, and stabbing is too much the daughter needs to hold herself accountable too

  • @Cali90210-n
    @Cali90210-n Год назад +45

    It's so important to have nurturing soft qualities as a mom. Every child should be used to being hugged and told I love you often by their mother. From both parents actually. The pathology of this family is abuse and that's not ok

    • @capturedbyshelly
      @capturedbyshelly Год назад +1

      Very true, but if the parent ain’t received a nurturing, soft parent how can they pass on qualities they never received themselves to reciprocate that to their own kids.

    • @Cali90210-n
      @Cali90210-n Год назад +2

      @@capturedbyshelly Valid question. I’ll use myself as an example. My mother was not a nurturer, hugger or soft by any means. I now am a mom myself and due to knowing the feeling of not being supported, hugged, or protected, I couldn’t imagine making my sons feel that way. If therapy is needed to learn certain tools to heal past traumas that’s just fine. It is learned behaviors after all. Parents have to sit in their own feelings and I mean really sit in them. Looking at your child’s eyes full of tears, sadness and fear should be enough reason to stop in your tracks, apologize and self correct. Surrounding yourself with other mothers who are nurturing and loving is also a great influence and you begin to build a tribe full of healthy relationships

    • @karmen9514
      @karmen9514 Год назад +2

      ​@capturedbyshelly My mom was like that and all my sisters say is "that's just how she is" they got over it. Me going through other trauma and having no safe space, got it embedded deeper than they did. They left home had kids and became soft. Me I left and had a child... that's that. I did what I had to do to care for her and it took me 6 years to realize I need therapy. It's hard to be soft and have compassion for anyone. I can pretend and try to follow the norms but it's not genuine. I also chose to put my child in therapy because I don't want her to end up negative like me, even though she's not I want to do everything possible to prevent it.

  • @tya4662
    @tya4662 Год назад +19

    Karamo looked like he wanted to laugh in the very beginning because WHOSE MOTHER TRIES TO RUN THEM OVER?! Just ratchet 😂

    • @rosemarymackey6933
      @rosemarymackey6933 Год назад +1

      I did that because she tried to run me over with her girlfriend car first wen she living a double life check that sir

  • @KWin-ik5cl
    @KWin-ik5cl Год назад +19

    No matter what my relationship is with my mom, she ain’t cursing me. The mom seems to have not evolved and needs therapy. The daughter is not gonna get the mothering she wants, mom is not equipped. Hopefully they can get it together individually then come together

    • @Jenny-uv4dl
      @Jenny-uv4dl Год назад +2

      Some MOMS AINT capable of giving love love and sometimes you have to accept tht

    • @KWin-ik5cl
      @KWin-ik5cl Год назад

      @@Jenny-uv4dl 🎯

  • @itzlexxii
    @itzlexxii Год назад +11

    This is beyond toxic, go no contact. She doesn’t like/love and she’s evil. She isn’t worth having a relationship with. No mother treats their kids like this. It doesn’t matter when it happened, it happened. Love her from a distance, the mom is a horrible person

  • @catherinewoods4601
    @catherinewoods4601 Год назад +44

    Ooooh Karamo! You got down today for sure!!! I love that you knew Rosemary did not need to be put down. She needed to be lifted up!! I love the way this show ended but I also know that these two ladies have so much work to do but they can get it down with love. Great show!!!! Build the love up Ladies !!!! Y’all can do it!!!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @shelovesfoodgurl
    @shelovesfoodgurl Год назад +25

    So your friend left the matches on the table, you and your husband were sleeping in the room while kids were unsupervised and they got in trouble because adults failed to protect them from things they could get into or mess with…

  • @itssskaela6628
    @itssskaela6628 Год назад +48

    She did right by calling CPS 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @CeceLove8819
    @CeceLove8819 8 месяцев назад +2

    This is when you love from a distance and wish them well!

  • @Tiffany444-o4r
    @Tiffany444-o4r Год назад +12

    Her mama look wayyy more than 12 years older than her. She is the true definition of a Karmic mother. Let her go

  • @whitneymiller6358
    @whitneymiller6358 Год назад +61

    Her mom is a narcissist!

    • @gracelikerain5039
      @gracelikerain5039 Год назад +3

      Yeah cuz initially when they were talking and she was back stage when the daughter said she wanted a relationship with her mom the mom was mouthing that she didnt want one with her.

    • @tabkaliO
      @tabkaliO Год назад

      And maybe borderline considering the violence.

    • @meshewoodard2768
      @meshewoodard2768 Год назад +1

      ​@@gracelikerain5039sure was

    • @BarbiGirl24
      @BarbiGirl24 9 месяцев назад

      Text book definition

  • @XactlyCeSe1
    @XactlyCeSe1 Год назад +13

    Who the hell got her pregnant at 12 years old??? We need to ask her mom’s mom what the hell was going on???????????

    • @peacehappyb237
      @peacehappyb237 9 месяцев назад

      She was actually 14 when she had her and 13 when she got pregnant.

  • @excusemyenerg6649
    @excusemyenerg6649 Год назад +17

    Sometimes you need to know when to cut off your mom . She has a man n kids she don’t need that lady

    • @cutlyfe
      @cutlyfe Год назад +1

      Yeah I have to cut off mine this year

  • @Anonymous-pg2lr
    @Anonymous-pg2lr Год назад +13

    Damn, it seems like her mom hates her. Her mom acts like a child. She's extremely angry. I love my children. I would never treat my daughters like this.

  • @mhizzcatia9511
    @mhizzcatia9511 Год назад +10

    I love the daughter's beautiful skin

  • @footgoddessjazzy5496
    @footgoddessjazzy5496 Год назад +7

    I see the hate and jealousy in the moms eyes

  • @florastewart7957
    @florastewart7957 Год назад +7

    I want to hug the daughter and throttle the mother. The daughter is so beautiful. I think mom was jealous since day one because her baby got the attention. Daughter should pray and realize her mother just can’t give her what she needs.

  • @fridahndungenzaumi6591
    @fridahndungenzaumi6591 Год назад +7

    You can feel the bitterness in them 😢 Oh lord intervene on this one 🙏

  • @christina2311
    @christina2311 Год назад +8

    It breaks my heart that she would even want to have a relationship with her mom after everything. Her self esteem is broken. If anyone else did those things, she likely would never speak to them. She should seek therapy and CUT all TIES. Family means absolutely nothing if the person is basically evil. Anyone with a womb and nine months to spare can be a “mother”, if they are out to hurt you, cut it off. She is going down a painful and unnecessary path. She also needs to keep her hands off her kids, and teach them safety rules.

  • @shann_on225
    @shann_on225 Год назад +8

    Hard having a hood mom.....She had to asked to hug her crying daughter....

  • @johnfuller1569
    @johnfuller1569 9 месяцев назад +2

    Mom had good reason to call CPS!

  • @dynastyshawntell3015
    @dynastyshawntell3015 Год назад +4

    You hit him in the eye that's abuse. Girl you needed DCF.

  • @jennifermarea8011
    @jennifermarea8011 11 месяцев назад +5

    The fact that she had her at 12 and has no idea about the dad is concerning. It sounds like it had to be SA…

  • @2000wattz
    @2000wattz Год назад +7

    The mom went out there and completely embarrassed herself. She's jealous of her daughter. Plain and simple.

    • @9290SC
      @9290SC Год назад

      This!

    • @NarcSharkCeo
      @NarcSharkCeo Год назад +4

      Maybe not jealous, but resentful that she is a reminder of the man that toyed with her innocence.

  • @luvgege45
    @luvgege45 Год назад +4

    One thing about karamo he will keep it real on whether you're wrong or right in a situation 💯

  • @RyanTheDark
    @RyanTheDark Год назад +50

    She reported you in a vindictive way? Was striking your son and leaving him with a black eye vindictive? Good grief, she legit reminds me of my past abusers it's disturbing.

  • @KayB-l5h
    @KayB-l5h 11 месяцев назад +2

    Sounds like the mom was possibly assaulted at 12 and had to unwillingly become a woman too fast. I don't believe everything the daughter saying. She is very manipulative. How she tried to spin blackening a child's eye in her favor to make it seem right. No ma'am she was all the way wrong. @9:42 Sitting on stage squeezing them tears out. I think they are about 70 30 on the truth.. The mom admits her wrong but the daughter stuck in victim mode. She gotta own up to her stuff too cause she not innocent and nobody has to kiss her butt because she the child. Her own child needs the same from her.

  • @briastevenson3148
    @briastevenson3148 Год назад +7

    The sad part is they act just alike and they both don’t hear each other atp they just need to both leave the past in the past and start over 💯

  • @PLEASURE_MeMe
    @PLEASURE_MeMe Год назад +9

    I couldn't even have my kids around a mother like this. I would even have to love her from the distance. Then she calls her daughter dog. Like....WHAT?!? But nevertheless, don't disrespect your mom and tell her to shut up. And the mother shouldn't put the grandkids in the middle of their situations calling CPS.

  • @Tory-n2c
    @Tory-n2c Год назад +8

    I believe her mom break the cycle. Beautiful queens. Let go and let God. You are a great mom.......

  • @bakingbreezy216
    @bakingbreezy216 Год назад +2

    Very off topic but mamas lace is melteddddd hunny

  • @DarylSimpson58
    @DarylSimpson58 Год назад +10

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @DarylSimpson58
      @DarylSimpson58 Год назад

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @DarylSimpson58
      @DarylSimpson58 Год назад

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @nazasspace43
    @nazasspace43 10 месяцев назад +2

    Girl!!! Leave her and love from a distance

  • @MzTigga-zt1nk
    @MzTigga-zt1nk Год назад +3

    The math ain't matching...she said her mom got pregnant with her at 12, but she's 29 and the mom is 43 which would make the mom pregnant at 14.

    • @kaygrimes5657
      @kaygrimes5657 11 месяцев назад

      They're BOTH confused.The math ain't mathin'.Thank you,Casey Grimes-Finley,Chicago,Illinois

  • @BabyToast2U
    @BabyToast2U 6 месяцев назад +1

    Constant themes in this community :
    1. Anger, anger, anger
    2 Honor and 'respect' their abuser.
    3. Abuse is normalized as discipline
    4. Parents have premature emotions & act younger than their children
    The younger generation only have the power to break this cycle through separation and learning to love themselves.

  • @aliviaevans198
    @aliviaevans198 Год назад +7

    I can't get past the hitting your baby in the face for something an adult left around!!!

  • @tiararobinson9042
    @tiararobinson9042 Год назад +2

    She know that her daughter don’t care she wouldn’t even look at her .. she gonna regret that moment

  • @brendagay5777
    @brendagay5777 Год назад +6

    Thank God for my parents ❤for the love thay showed

  • @DejGarrett
    @DejGarrett Год назад +9

    I understand the grandmother wanted better for her grandkids but she has to own accountability that she taught her daughter that. Her daughter has to understand she could break a cycle instead of doing the same thing

    • @angelacleveland75
      @angelacleveland75 5 месяцев назад

      A 12-year-old cannot teach a child anything!

  • @TheShyAiko
    @TheShyAiko Год назад +32

    Girl cut that momma off ... that's so toxic but she's stuck at 12 . She has mommy and daddy issues 😕

    • @TheShyAiko
      @TheShyAiko Год назад +1

      @RoseMackie-ms3lg I didn't even finish the episode after she said she hit your grand baby in the face . I don't condone that . BUT there is a lot of trauma . The way you react and what comes out your mouth . Psychologically you didn't develop fully due to trauma... and as a mom I couldn't act like YOU or HER. Parents need to realize they f ups mess up they children . No shade . Hope you'll heal individually so you can be healthy for the children born into this . either way we all got our $hit we have to deal with . Yall dysfunction not stopping my life

  • @elleurfavoritestvegan1550
    @elleurfavoritestvegan1550 11 месяцев назад +1

    The fact she played like she didnt know why her mom called child protectives is insane.

  • @inukoko2012
    @inukoko2012 Год назад +5

    I would’ve been cut her ass off. She tried to run over her own daughter. Her mom is very aggressive and too much. Move on w/ your life…… you deserve better momma. It’s too much trauma.

  • @KapQueen
    @KapQueen Год назад +3

    My mom died at 73 I never got the motherly love. Some times you gotta just cut ties

  • @randihoward3114
    @randihoward3114 Год назад +5

    Better off without her, believe it or not. Love doesn’t =safety

  • @maddieperez8939
    @maddieperez8939 10 месяцев назад

    That was a good start to a long road of healing ahead. I hope they are in a better place. Love is not enough if you are constantly hurting them.

  • @kyboogz6473
    @kyboogz6473 Год назад +6

    parents just have to sometimes understand that even though YOU feel like you were a A+ parent, the kids aren’t always going to necessarily feel that. people perceive things differently. she felt like well my daughter could’ve just come to me at 12 and told me she felt a way with our bond. but her daughter was a kid and felt like as a mom she should’ve just known

  • @ItsMia19
    @ItsMia19 7 месяцев назад +2

    Momma hair was laid though 😂

  • @melmoody1927
    @melmoody1927 Год назад +4

    No mother is always perfect but sometimes we as parents have to go old school bcuz these children grow up very very different

  • @criminalsurveillance
    @criminalsurveillance 6 месяцев назад +1

    Due to her grand mothers statement which I've heard in my own family is why many of us end up in or stay in abusive romantic relationships.. Abuse is not love.

  • @tierahoward874
    @tierahoward874 Год назад +3

    These mother secretly hate their daughter. My mother couldn’t stand me

  • @ChiChiKeiannaJ
    @ChiChiKeiannaJ 11 месяцев назад +1

    Chile, Brianna is a mess, and that momma tried to help her. I believe the mom. Her mom is fed up. Brianna is lying. I can tell. That young lady has ruined her mom's character, revealing parts of the truth.

  • @beautifullyblessed6112
    @beautifullyblessed6112 Год назад +4

    You can’t listen to Grandma saying you always have to love mom , but you don’t have to deal with her & her abuse especially trying to hit her with a car both need help

  • @htmboro8621
    @htmboro8621 6 месяцев назад

    how is everyone in that audience not crying lmao every video i watch has me in tears xD