For a brief second, she let her wall down while listening to her father’s letter. That really showed/proved the importance of having a present father. 😓
I promise I was thinking the exact same thing!! I saw them both light up when he ask where’s y’all father?… They both said Jamaica so happy an proud an then there was the letter like you said so yeah I think that maybe a way in… Man I hope these babies get the help they need for! An he’s not just putting on for his show…😔🙏🏽 Ps. They have a wonderful mother! 😇
After watching her face light up during that letter, I’m realizing that her hurt/trauma is bc her father left. Lowkey she might be acting out to get the father to come back. She probably feels if she get in really bad trouble that it would be enough for him to return back to America. 🤷🏽♀️
I think he would've got a better reception if he talked to the kids backstage in a secluded environment with a counselor available. Unpacking past trauma is never easy, especially from teenagers who barely know how to process their emotions in healthy ways. When the girl kept saying "I don't know" she probably really don't know why she keeps making terrible decisions, she's operating from a place of trauma. She needs professional help to unpack and process her trauma responses.
This karamo dudes a walking L.. After seeing him react how he did to the pink sauce controversy I was baffled. How can someone be that ignorant and blind. I'm trying hard to restrict myself from insulting this guy because he's so unaware
I love this mom, and I pray that things work out with her kids. I can't imagine what will happen to her if anything is to happen to her kids because of their reckless and selfish behaviour.
@@Yungentjay you don't know that these women will play like the dad is bad and won't let him see his kids as a punishment for dumb stuff. Other times the dad is dead or in jail for something he shouldn't even be in jail for.
I feel like Karamo is taking the right approaches here, but it’s tough to open up when you’re scared, let alone in front of a studio audience. As a kid it’s common to be worried you’ll get in trouble. But in a controlled environment (e.g., private counselling session), you can make a lot more breakthroughs
I hate people who try to tell somebody how they feel ...maybe it is normal to him. Why do you expect him to talk and a therapeutic setting in front of an audience and millions of viewers how disrespectful is that I got to stop trying to watch this show it's weird as hell..
I like that Karamo acknowledged that he can’t get through to these kids. That was a nice sign of integrity that these kids needed to see. I also wish he and the producers would have invited a specialist to the show to work with the kids on air a bit. That would have been nice.
First off I can she the daughter has some identity issues maybe there was some molestation going on because look how she's dressed...It's just sad....she needs some real intervention and mental health counseling...I think because she identifies as a male that's a problem as well
@@annawest7186 Do you know her personally? Probably not! It appears that she is a good parent. You can be a great parent and your children turn out bad. You can also be a bad parent and the child beat the odds, make better choices and become successful and productive in life.
I went through this exact same state when I was younger with my mom. I was arrested and always leaving home for months or weeks at a time without calling her. her mother reminded me of mine bc I remember how much my mom truly cared about me and how she cried over my bad doings. Later on during my senior year i started to act right and me and my mothers bond grew and I’ve never been happier. We’ve been so much better since I realized the real problem was me and I fixed it and I’ve been so much better off.
I’m so grateful that my teens are into anime & I was a young mom but we never lived in harsh environments, I love this mother and focused & supportive to her children she is, I feel & pray her teens will make a great turn around and live an abundance life of success & love ❤
I wish Karamo and the teen had a one-on-one conversation without the audience present, and replayed it after talking with the mom. It's awkward talking to a quiet teen with like 100 audience members watching.
i hate people who try to tell somebody how they feel ...maybe it is normal to him. Why do you expect him to talk in a non therapeutic setting in front of an audience and millions of viewers.. how disrespectful is that I got to stop trying to watch this show it's weird as hell...
@@1thegreat841 right! Both parents can be there and the kids turn out bad or a parent can be single and the child turn out like a model citizen it's not just the parents it's also based on the children's environment and who they associate themselves with parents can't watch their kids 24/7 once they get to a certain age and parents can only do so much so really once a child gets to a certain age it's really their choice whether or not they want to do right or wrong a parent can discipline a child to the best of their ability and the child may or may not listen to them so really it's based on how the child perceives their life
@@1thegreat841 agree my mom or dad never raised me one of em is deceased now which is my dad mom still living and still never call show up text write etc I been abandoned at birth but I got two jobs my own ish and I’m Greatful I’m making it mentally I’m hurt with them but besides that I’m living my life can’t blame them for ever or everything it’s just how life works
I love the way Karamo speaks directly to each person finding a solution for each individual. everybody received the message, there is more to life! Beautifully put together!
Lol im sorry but the fact he thought them talking to him was finna just work a miracle. Literally in front of a crowd he thought he was gone just get them to open up . Be realistic.
I actually agree with you.....while I commend this host for what he is seeking to do! The young lady was obviously very shut down and taken her mother Didn’t change much. She needs to be in a space with the no cameras, there are no people, where she feels like she can be safe in talking freely no judgement no condemning
I'm curious who said that was his train of thought. You thought that Karamo thought that in 15 minute clip a educated and experienced man that grew up in the hood really expected a Breakthrough??? He was trying to send a message and provide resources 🙄🙄 Let's not go for Karamo when he is putting himself out there trying to help these kids. Doing more than alot of us.
@@lisafrass this is true, sometimes the best thing to do is plant the seed and the growth will come later. Sometimes it won’t, but it’s up to the individual to use that information to wake themselves up out of their reality. Either way, he’s done his part I believe.
First and foremost I know this beautiful woman personally and applaud her for reaching out trying to get help with her babies it's not easy to ask for help, teenagers are hard to raise period but even more so now that covid has them so messed up emotionally. I'm a single mother myself raising a 15 year old so I can totally relate. We have a horrible mental health system in the United States with an ugly stigma when it comes to discussing mental health issues.. it does take a village to raise a child but when the village is lacking resources in certain areas it can be very frustrating. Mama you keep your head up beautiful I know it's hard but your babies will appreciate your strength and when they're old enough and the frontal lobe has fully developed LOL they will understand ❤
i hate people who try to tell somebody how they feel ...maybe it is normal to him. Why do you expect him to talk in a non therapeutic setting in front of an audience and millions of viewers.. how disrespectful is that I got to stop trying to watch this show it's weird as hell...
I absolutely love this message!!! Also, I think her kids would really benefit going to live with their Father in Jamaica, if that’s at all possible. They are really lacking a Father figure as well as some much needed counseling! Social media has really done our children in. It’s so sad.
@@PIMPSTREZZ-DNA-FAM it’s a show at the end of the day. This isn’t therapy, nor is it a private therapy session. It’s a SHOW. But he does give good advice and brings relatable conversations and situations into the forefront.
@Bexican77, I know them well also. Both children I’ve worked with at a school I taught at and they attended. I’ve always question what was really going on with the young lady. She stayed in trouble. There’s something deeply rooted and if it’s not address, then there’s no way she’ll grow up to be the beautiful young lady that she was meant to be.
There is absolutely no father figure, and the mother is doing her best to give them a better life. The eldest child is two steps away from a prison, if she doesn't change. My heart goes out to that family. I'm tired of seeing young people going down the wrong road. 🤔🤔🤔🥺🥺🥺🥺🙏🙏🙏🙏
I feel so sorry for this hard working and loving mum, these kids has so much opportunities that other kids wish they had, I wish it’s never too late for them to realise.
This is the reason why I should not have kids. Having to beg someone to have common sense is not something I can do. The mother is trying her best to save her young life from going to ruin, I don't think I could try this hard. I would just give up and let her learn through experience. Power to all the parents who try their best to set up their children for success.
This episode really touched me. There are a lot of layers to this young lady pain. The question was ask if she was initiated into a gang. She replied yes. I really feel that she wanted to express herself but not to violate the code she shut down. Also the question was never ask if she had been sexually violated in any way. I get the vibe that something traumatic has happened to her. And the brother wants to protect his sister by following along to a certain point. Yes she needs counseling to get to the root cause of her pain. And maybe then the two siblings will open up to there parents.
This is so sad to watch. They're too far gone. I pray the mother find's peace because it doesn't seem like there is much hope left. Once they get to a certain age and live that life, it's hard to pull them out.
and mama is the BLAME! If the environment was toxic neighborhood etc MOVE!!!!! You do what you gotta do to save your CHILDREN. NOW YOU DONT APPROVE because its out of hand!! you need order and discipline with children from a BABY!!!
The disconnect here is sooooo real... These kids come from a totally diffrent place. They need other kinds of help that can not be given in a session, it is a societal. Economics, and institutionalized racism is being played out here, and it hurts to see, and feel it.
This was a hard show to watch.. Very heartbreaking, because this was me with my son back in 2017. He was incarcerated until 2021 and has turned his life around.. Her works for the DOT now and has his own family.. It's never too late if they get the right help.. God bless this mom got trying to get the help her kids deserve. I pray they do change and they do survive the issues in their lives
The fact that her Mom let her friends stay over while she had to work and stuff while she’s on probation and she still let her have friends over. How dare she still disrespect her mom😞😞🤕🤦🏾
watching this made me tear up and i really felt this episode with my heart cause i lost somebody, my best friend to gun violence and to see or to even think that these kids could be my best friend pains me because they really have sooo much potential and they really are smart kids who are just tangled up in the wrong situations
When she heard her father's words she became vulnerable!! If the dad was in the home in almost certain their lives would be a bit different! #Blessings #prayingforourchildren
Yes or even send them to Jamaica! That’s what normally happens with kids of foreign parents they send them to show them that they have it so good in America
I feel very much so for this Mom. Different circumstances with my youngest daughter who is 15 and her children. Very different culturally as well. I am grateful that I have had the ability to get her mental health help since she was young. She is still struggling, but not like this. It is easy for us to lose track of our blessings in certain things. These kids though, I honestly was surprised by them being as open as they were. He says he has these goals, but he is treading a fine line. I truly hope he gets with someone to guide him and help him from getting to where his sister is. He may already be there and just not being as open as she is. I hope that the therapist she is paired with can reach her. I truly do. Mom is trying, that is plain to see. Mistakes are definitely being made, but that is learning as a parent and trying to do better with what is available. I truly hope this family gets the support they truly need.
I would give her to God, she is totally committed to her gang The young man gives me hope, I believe that he’s just caught up and influenced by his sister
Indeed. That young girl has lot of issues. I just pray that she Don't get her brother involved with her drama. The mother is Doing the best she can by moving them out of that environment. There is a saying you can move them out of the ghetto but you Can't take the ghetto out of them. Some times tuff love is the only Way out....The mother is a great provider but there are. Times when Your child has to hit rock bottom.
I know both of these children personally. Both were my students. Janaira has always been a problem child. From fighting to setting desk on fire. There’s something rooted and it needs to be brought out. Both children were friends with my children until we moved back to Michigan.
Listening to Roshena it's obvious she's a hard working Mother ... Dealing with her "mis behaving daughter... Roshena loves her children most definitely doesn't want them INCARCERATED... Blessings to the Family 🙏🏼
She’s a young lady who’s still developing emotions and seems like things got mixed up with her and is hard to know a secret from a teenager especially she’s in the gang where you can’t a say word so that’s probably why she’s like that but I see she’s hiding a lot and seems like a sweet person
Montel and Early Oprah = 💜 Karamo Vibes! When people tried to help or bring awareness, instead of trash and exploitation. These kids need their dad present, their hearts teared when that letter was read.
@@sheambitious29lachelle17 no. if she is a single mother she needed help in childcare or else they all starve to death. she even took em out of the hood, and they're big enough to run away. when you have a child, please come back to us if your child acting like they ain't yours esp after you given your life to keep them safe and happy and we will give you some love because kids could be a/hs
For the sake of the girl due to the fact that she got that arrangement to be able to join the nba via Karamo I hope she manages to fully pull away from whatever people she’s affiliated with because jealousy is strong and very often ppl kill ppl in the midst of their successes due to the “crab in the bucket” mentality. I’d love to see her end up in the WNBA and become great and glow up from this lifestyle.❤
@@timiaraychelle3904 no what there saying us they couldn't have expected to get through to her on national television they should have did a One on one. You can't change the past and honestly you saying she could have did the right thing is a pure example of what happens when you send your kids out to the world to get judged.
@@timiaraychelle3904 bro, he wants her to open up to him when there’s a crowd of people watching her. He’s asking questions he knows the audience is going to react to. Yea the questions he’s asking are important it just shouldn’t have been in front of a crowd. She’s most definitely not going to “break her walls”. He wasn’t going too work a miracle especially without someone who actually knows how to handle the way she acts.
The problem is these kids is becoming desensitize early , they think they supposed to be doing the bs they doing they couldn’t even answer half the damn questions K had for them
I don’t like the crowds reaction to certain answers she gives. It’s hard already opening about her life especially with a audience and being recorded but the extra ooh and ahhhs add more fuel to the fire
Our country has ruined many families. The young lady doesn't know who she was created to be. She's scared, but trying to be someone she's not. She needs to wake up before it's too late. It's either jail or something worse. If they allow discipline back in the home not abuse it will get better.
I'd love to talk to these kids and their mother.I wish I was on this show to give these kids another way of thinking.I so feel this family.If nothing changes mom will be crying big later as well as the kids.
@@cassandradennard6323 Yes, there's still hope.I agree.I really felt this one because I've been in the mother shoes and lost my son to prison.However" there's still hope left for him also. He has changed so much.I just wish it didn't take him to go there.And I hope this mother never has to feel wht I felt when they took my 18 year old son that had never been in trouble with the law and is now 25.The worry is real when they are living as such and when and if they make it to the prison system. I will keep this family in my prayers.Its not too late for them.
It’s funny reading these comments because no one seems to see the reason for mi bringing the kids on the show I’m just trying to save my kids before it’s to late and I’m so over everyone talking about a stick 1St off it not no stick like that and 2 nd off if you not here to give me any helpful tips then don’t judge me are my kids I’m trying to save them and they are still my kids and this is a start to Better them and myself . Some people are crazy they just judge ppl instead of trying to help that’s what’s wrong with the world now they don’t see the right point just the negative . BUT THANKS 🙏🏾 FOR THE FEEDBACK MUCH LOVE ❤️ AND RESPECT
Awwwwww 😢it’s like she wants to break down so bad they have a beautiful future Lord please keep them and lead them to a different Light guide them babies and help their mother ❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Lord I felt this mother's pain I'm currently going thru the same thing as she is with my son and the pain and worrying is unexplainable I'm praying for her kids and her as I pray for my own
Just bring them to Nigeria, they do not even need to go to rehab or some type of correctional place, they will just change for the better just by living here. I swear to God
what happened between her being 2-3 years old and the pandemic? Mom says they were close when she was 2-3, then the pandemic hit and the child had new friends, etc. The child is 16, so that leaves roughly 13 years unaccounted for. What happened? I'm only 4 minutes in, so perhaps it will come out later on in the episode, but I would be interested in knowing what happened in those years.
Sometimes it is the home environment, but sometimes there's the outsider environment. My momma had 2 kids, single, worked in aerospace, provided every single need and more. We spent quality time together, we were well behaved kids. My brother went to 2 private schools, paid for by my momma. At 12years old, under the influence of a friend's older brother, my brother started getting into trouble. Juvenile Hall, CYA, then eventually prison. In and out of prison..to this day... He is 52. My momma tried counseling, and he was doing well until he left the facility. He played sports and was a great quarterback. But his choices caused him to be where he is now.. and now on top of that, he is on drugs for over 5 years. My momma passed away of cancer, and I assume he felt guilty for what he pit her through. She practiced tough love. He couldn't live with us as a gang member, with that street life. Wasn't going to happen. Oh and my momma was a teenager, 16 having my brother and worked, lived on her own and provided us stability. He made choices and messed up his opportunities because of fast money because his allowance wasn't enough.
J is nervous, the fidgeting with the hair, etc. The brother seems a little more in tune with his feelings but he has to find his own reasons and motivation, otherwise everything seems pointless
Something about that momma is telling me that a lot of this is on her. Not saying she did anything wrong, but maybe she failed to establish rules and boundaries when they were smaller and it got out of hand when they got older. I hope they get it together.
It’s not the generation…. Please stop grouping us. I am respectful to strangers and I respect both of my parents even my father who was not there for me much
The sad truth is their environment has more influence and they aren't afraid. Sad thing is that little girl being tough, once you start showing weapons, she's going to get it in return with her brother following suit. They're headed for the prison or the cemetary
I believe they're acting out because their Father isnt there. He can write all of the letters he wants, they can go unread. Very unfair to the Mother that is there. Personally, they'd be outta my house simply because not knowing what they're doing outside they could possibly bring problems to our home...DAMN THAT!! Mom needs to demand her respect though. I think to keep peace in the household she's gifting them a lot. I see how expensive they look for tv. She has to make them earn their looks and get jobs.
My exact thought because her father is not there she acting out nd her brother look 👀 up to her so he’s doing the same ting . He’s much softer which she’s playing tuff it hurt my heart watching this . Nd that letter that the father write 🙄 is not enough ‼️
My son is 25 no kids got a two bedroom apartment and a car he has three jobs Amazon Lowe's and landscaping call me the other day and said Mom I just want to say thank you it's so hard being an adult I don't know how you did it but thank you man when I say that made me cry.
Love that!! He deserves every bit of it. That comment that came before me.. is what’s wrong with the world right now. All I know is your son, has came a long way doing that… BECAUSE OF YOU🎉❤!! That’s why he’s going to continue to make you proud❤
These kids clearly grow up in poverty, in a dangerous neighborhood. They have been around and seen a lot of things. The Mother may also be able to blame in this situation. You cannot expect your kids to behave right when you haven't been a good guidance. She may be trying to makeup now but the damage is already done.
Good day . So I wasn’t going to comment but just reading everyone comments I just wanted to say before anyone blames anyone everyone should see that I’m reaching out for help before it’s to late and no it can’t change in the 30 minute show but it is a start and I didn’t bring them on the show to embarrass them I brought us on the show to express my feelings and let ppl know I don’t approve of any negativity. I’m just trying to save my family that’s it don’t know what anyone else thought and the show was a resource for us so don’t point no fingers at any of us because we all trying to get better but thanks 🙏🏾 for the feedback Much LOVE ❤️ AND RESPECT
Please don't give up on your children, I am in Criminal Justice and it hard when I seen young people go to jail at young ages and never get out. Please try to get therapy. I am praying for you and your children, this is scary times we live in.
Some of y’all don’t know kids clearly. Sometimes it’s not the parents. J is a sweetie pie at heart. You can see it all in that baby face but A LOT of kids (all kinds) test the waters. Whatever that water may be to them, they do, and sometimes they go in to deep. I have no doubt this mother is decent. She has flaws as all moms do. But she ain’t abandon her kids or beat them sensely or starve them… she will do better. She’s still growing too. J is just 16 and figuring out herself. The reality is this could even end up being who she is. Only time will tell. But that mom is doing the right thing getting help.
@@catherinegilbert7057 if he loved his children he wouldn’t have done something for that to happen. he may have been deported I promise you that’s not stopping him from continuing his life so what exactly is your point?
@@the1andthe272 the kids said they speak dto there father daily. What is your point? You dont have to do anything wrong to be deported. I'm not even saying for sure that's the case. Two parent homes have troubled teens to.
@@catherinegilbert7057 or maybe they’re acting out because they need more then just to speak to him daily yea 2 parent house holds have troubled teens when it’s 2 parents but one is still doing all the work you know like a married single mother very unlikely you have a troubled teen with two fully active parents that are completely involved and have a healthy relationship
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I like how the mother isn't shaming and talking bad to them but supporting them making them feel like someone is actually there for them
No such thing
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Agreed
I'm 15 gonna be 16 on 6th April 2024 now I'm 16
@@omrohit3998cool
She got teary eyes when Karamo read her dad's letter. She's mad...and I love the mother, she's trying her best for her kids
Well, She can't raise BOYS to be a Man
aight but why she using a stjck then complaining theyre fighting back
@@JM-go5kx don’t see nothing wrong with that😂
@@Yuvsme Facts they would beat your ass back in the day with anything.
@@JM-go5kx trying HHEERRRR best
For a brief second, she let her wall down while listening to her father’s letter. That really showed/proved the importance of having a present father. 😓
I promise I was thinking the exact same thing!! I saw them both light up when he ask where’s y’all father?…
They both said Jamaica so happy an proud an then there was the letter like you said so yeah I think that maybe a way in…
Man I hope these babies get the help they need for! An he’s not just putting on for his show…😔🙏🏽
Ps. They have a wonderful mother! 😇
Her face lit up
After watching her face light up during that letter, I’m realizing that her hurt/trauma is bc her father left. Lowkey she might be acting out to get the father to come back. She probably feels if she get in really bad trouble that it would be enough for him to return back to America. 🤷🏽♀️
In Africa we weep nicely
Yes most definitely. I wish he picked up on that and pressed it more. She would've crumbled completely!!
I think he would've got a better reception if he talked to the kids backstage in a secluded environment with a counselor available. Unpacking past trauma is never easy, especially from teenagers who barely know how to process their emotions in healthy ways. When the girl kept saying "I don't know" she probably really don't know why she keeps making terrible decisions, she's operating from a place of trauma. She needs professional help to unpack and process her trauma responses.
Ok it's weird being in here by myself🤣😂
Exactly
💯🎯U can not help someone without a little understanding they approach was all wrong karamo🙏✌️
This karamo dudes a walking L.. After seeing him react how he did to the pink sauce controversy I was baffled. How can someone be that ignorant and blind. I'm trying hard to restrict myself from insulting this guy because he's so unaware
COUNSELING DOESN’T WORK!💀
I love this mom, and I pray that things work out with her kids. I can't imagine what will happen to her if anything is to happen to her kids because of their reckless and selfish behaviour.
No Father in the picture
What happens when your dad doesn’t take care of his shit
@@Yungentjay you don't know that these women will play like the dad is bad and won't let him see his kids as a punishment for dumb stuff. Other times the dad is dead or in jail for something he shouldn't even be in jail for.
2 paths Prison or Death
@@kirascullark5224 or healing from sexual, physical, and emotional abuse trauma.
I feel like Karamo is taking the right approaches here, but it’s tough to open up when you’re scared, let alone in front of a studio audience. As a kid it’s common to be worried you’ll get in trouble. But in a controlled environment (e.g., private counselling session), you can make a lot more breakthroughs
Agreed
I hate people who try to tell somebody how they feel ...maybe it is normal to him. Why do you expect him to talk and a therapeutic setting in front of an audience and millions of viewers how disrespectful is that I got to stop trying to watch this show it's weird as hell..
@@PIMPSTREZZ-DNA-FAM 💯
The gang members may also be watching. If she shares too much information she may be killed or labeled a snitch.
So glad he offered that!
I like that Karamo acknowledged that he can’t get through to these kids. That was a nice sign of integrity that these kids needed to see. I also wish he and the producers would have invited a specialist to the show to work with the kids on air a bit. That would have been nice.
The son is so positive wow hope he does have a good life
she needs someone she can trust and can protect her.
Agreed. She is stuck in some fear. The momma knows what has happened to her l
Kids.
First off I can she the daughter has some identity issues maybe there was some molestation going on because look how she's dressed...It's just sad....she needs some real intervention and mental health counseling...I think because she identifies as a male that's a problem as well
Im 15 gonna be 16 on 6th April 2024 now I'm 16
@@feleciafoster4480hell nah she tried to rob folks
She’s a great mom ❤doing the best she can as a mother
No she's not! Kids don't just turn out bad like this. She's not a good parent, period!
@@annawest7186 parenthood is hectic...please don't judge her...I guess she is trying her best to get help...
@Anna west you sound so dumb
@@annawest7186 Do you know her personally? Probably not! It appears that she is a good parent. You can be a great parent and your children turn out bad. You can also be a bad parent and the child beat the odds, make better choices and become successful and productive in life.
@@annawest7186 lots of serial killers lived normal happy lives before they started killing
I went through this exact same state when I was younger with my mom. I was arrested and always leaving home for months or weeks at a time without calling her. her mother reminded me of mine bc I remember how much my mom truly cared about me and how she cried over my bad doings. Later on during my senior year i started to act right and me and my mothers bond grew and I’ve never been happier. We’ve been so much better since I realized the real problem was me and I fixed it and I’ve been so much better off.
That’s great to hear bro, glad you’re doing better🙏🏾
CURRENTLY BINGE WATCHING KARAMO
Would love an update on this family
I’m so grateful that my teens are into anime & I was a young mom but we never lived in harsh environments, I love this mother and focused & supportive to her children she is, I feel & pray her teens will make a great turn around and live an abundance life of success & love ❤
I wish Karamo and the teen had a one-on-one conversation without the audience present, and replayed it after talking with the mom. It's awkward talking to a quiet teen with like 100 audience members watching.
Word and little shorty is in a gang so anything she say how people's are watching crazy
I agree @fluuuv
i hate people who try to tell somebody how they feel ...maybe it is normal to him. Why do you expect him to talk in a non therapeutic setting in front of an audience and millions of viewers.. how disrespectful is that I got to stop trying to watch this show it's weird as hell...
I'm 15 gonna be 16 on 6th April 2024 now I'm 16
She not mad she sad.....
Her Father let her down.... that's the energy I'm getting
Why y’all always blame the dad ! I have a choice for my dad not to be around and I’m okay with that ! Stop blaming everything on an absent father
@@1thegreat841 sounds like you're projecting 🤷🏾♀️ good black fathers matter...period!
@@1thegreat841 cuz it be the dad girls and boys want they dad they see other people spoiled by they dad that’s why
@@1thegreat841 right! Both parents can be there and the kids turn out bad or a parent can be single and the child turn out like a model citizen it's not just the parents it's also based on the children's environment and who they associate themselves with parents can't watch their kids 24/7 once they get to a certain age and parents can only do so much so really once a child gets to a certain age it's really their choice whether or not they want to do right or wrong a parent can discipline a child to the best of their ability and the child may or may not listen to them so really it's based on how the child perceives their life
@@1thegreat841 agree my mom or dad never raised me one of em is deceased now which is my dad mom still living and still never call show up text write etc I been abandoned at birth but I got two jobs my own ish and I’m Greatful I’m making it mentally I’m hurt with them but besides that I’m living my life can’t blame them for ever or everything it’s just how life works
I love the way Karamo speaks directly to each person finding a solution for each individual. everybody received the message, there is more to life! Beautifully put together!
Her twiddling her hair and him twitching his leg says everything.
I'm 15 gonna be 16 on 6th April 2024 and now I'm 16
@@omrohit3998this u in the video?
Their mum is really hopeful and happy that they’re willing to make an effort to change and become better
Lol im sorry but the fact he thought them talking to him was finna just work a miracle. Literally in front of a crowd he thought he was gone just get them to open up . Be realistic.
I actually agree with you.....while I commend this host for what he is seeking to do! The young lady was obviously very shut down and taken her mother Didn’t change much. She needs to be in a space with the no cameras, there are no people, where she feels like she can be safe in talking freely no judgement no condemning
@@YolandaMarant true
I'm curious who said that was his train of thought. You thought that Karamo thought that in 15 minute clip a educated and experienced man that grew up in the hood really expected a Breakthrough??? He was trying to send a message and provide resources 🙄🙄 Let's not go for Karamo when he is putting himself out there trying to help these kids. Doing more than alot of us.
Ya and theyre kids in front of people and they dont wanna be there
@@lisafrass this is true, sometimes the best thing to do is plant the seed and the growth will come later. Sometimes it won’t, but it’s up to the individual to use that information to wake themselves up out of their reality. Either way, he’s done his part I believe.
First and foremost I know this beautiful woman personally and applaud her for reaching out trying to get help with her babies it's not easy to ask for help, teenagers are hard to raise period but even more so now that covid has them so messed up emotionally. I'm a single mother myself raising a 15 year old so I can totally relate. We have a horrible mental health system in the United States with an ugly stigma when it comes to discussing mental health issues.. it does take a village to raise a child but when the village is lacking resources in certain areas it can be very frustrating. Mama you keep your head up beautiful I know it's hard but your babies will appreciate your strength and when they're old enough and the frontal lobe has fully developed LOL they will understand ❤
i hate people who try to tell somebody how they feel ...maybe it is normal to him. Why do you expect him to talk in a non therapeutic setting in front of an audience and millions of viewers.. how disrespectful is that I got to stop trying to watch this show it's weird as hell...
I absolutely love this message!!! Also, I think her kids would really benefit going to live with their Father in Jamaica, if that’s at all possible. They are really lacking a Father figure as well as some much needed counseling! Social media has really done our children in. It’s so sad.
@@PIMPSTREZZ-DNA-FAM it’s a show at the end of the day. This isn’t therapy, nor is it a private therapy session. It’s a SHOW. But he does give good advice and brings relatable conversations and situations into the forefront.
@Bexican77, I know them well also. Both children I’ve worked with at a school I taught at and they attended. I’ve always question what was really going on with the young lady. She stayed in trouble. There’s something deeply rooted and if it’s not address, then there’s no way she’ll grow up to be the beautiful young lady that she was meant to be.
Well said @Rebecca H.
There is absolutely no father figure, and the mother is doing her best to give them a better life. The eldest child is two steps away from a prison, if she doesn't change. My heart goes out to that family. I'm tired of seeing young people going down the wrong road. 🤔🤔🤔🥺🥺🥺🥺🙏🙏🙏🙏
they speak to their father what are you saying
@@starloced Speaking vs. actually being in the home are two different things. Thanks for the comment 😇
@@AuthorLHollingsworth but saying they have absolutely no father figure is a stretch. you’re welcome 😂
Absolutely no father figure? That’s a stretch for a father who they speak to frequently AND who saw fit to write into the show.
Erm yes there is a father figure.... They are in regular contact!
I feel so sorry for this hard working and loving mum, these kids has so much opportunities that other kids wish they had, I wish it’s never too late for them to realise.
what a strong mother she is awesome hoping the best for this family
That girl's anger probably comes from an adult that put hands on her in some way. Not the mother, but someone "touched" that girl and she's angry.
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It shows I've seen this happen by being a teacher it's devastating.
J is nervous as hell, look how she’s picking at her hair non stop. The brother seems more mature.
Absolutely
More confidence
@@charls5834
Yes agree
This is the reason why I should not have kids. Having to beg someone to have common sense is not something I can do. The mother is trying her best to save her young life from going to ruin, I don't think I could try this hard. I would just give up and let her learn through experience. Power to all the parents who try their best to set up their children for success.
I'm glad he's there to help this young lady she really needs the help
This episode really touched me. There are a lot of layers to this young lady pain. The question was ask if she was initiated into a gang. She replied yes. I really feel that she wanted to express herself but not to violate the code she shut down. Also the question was never ask if she had been sexually violated in any way. I get the vibe that something traumatic has happened to her. And the brother wants to protect his sister by following along to a certain point. Yes she needs counseling to get to the root cause of her pain. And maybe then the two siblings will open up to there parents.
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AGREED!!!! Also, the both of them may really benefit from being with their dad as well. Having a Father is huge in a child’s life.
This is so sad to watch. They're too far gone. I pray the mother find's peace because it doesn't seem like there is much hope left. Once they get to a certain age and live that life, it's hard to pull them out.
and mama is the BLAME! If the environment was toxic neighborhood etc MOVE!!!!! You do what you gotta do to save your CHILDREN. NOW YOU DONT APPROVE because its out of hand!! you need order and discipline with children from a BABY!!!
The sister didn’t not give no fucks 😂😂😂😂
Not one damn bit.
The disconnect here is sooooo real... These kids come from a totally diffrent place. They need other kinds of help that can not be given in a session, it is a societal. Economics, and institutionalized racism is being played out here, and it hurts to see, and feel it.
I feel for them…the type of environment they live in will suffocate you.
This was a hard show to watch.. Very heartbreaking, because this was me with my son back in 2017. He was incarcerated until 2021 and has turned his life around.. Her works for the DOT now and has his own family.. It's never too late if they get the right help.. God bless this mom got trying to get the help her kids deserve. I pray they do change and they do survive the issues in their lives
These are some beautiful kids. I pray for an awakening.
They not 😂
That’s a good momma right there! Wishing her blessings ❤
The fact that her
Mom let her friends stay over while she had to work and stuff while she’s on probation and she still let her have friends over. How dare she still disrespect her mom😞😞🤕🤦🏾
It's not an excuse. But she obviously has tramua. Duhh think.
It’s the mother smiling for me as the daughter was explaining all the wild stuff she do. It’s a dark grimm future for my ppl😒.
It’s sad that the brother saying he scared that everyone around him is going to die not just his sister even his
watching this made me tear up and i really felt this episode with my heart cause i lost somebody, my best friend to gun violence and to see or to even think that these kids could be my best friend pains me because they really have sooo much potential and they really are smart kids who are just tangled up in the wrong situations
WE HAVE TO PRAY FOR OUR CHILDREN.
We have to give our kids back to god like he said
When she heard her father's words she became vulnerable!! If the dad was in the home in almost certain their lives would be a bit different! #Blessings #prayingforourchildren
I don't know the case in why he isn't there but he should be there by any means.
Yes or even send them to Jamaica! That’s what normally happens with kids of foreign parents they send them to show them that they have it so good in America
@@lmao2878 if they send them here with that behavior and they continue they going to get k!//ed
I feel very much so for this Mom. Different circumstances with my youngest daughter who is 15 and her children. Very different culturally as well. I am grateful that I have had the ability to get her mental health help since she was young. She is still struggling, but not like this. It is easy for us to lose track of our blessings in certain things. These kids though, I honestly was surprised by them being as open as they were. He says he has these goals, but he is treading a fine line. I truly hope he gets with someone to guide him and help him from getting to where his sister is. He may already be there and just not being as open as she is. I hope that the therapist she is paired with can reach her. I truly do. Mom is trying, that is plain to see. Mistakes are definitely being made, but that is learning as a parent and trying to do better with what is available. I truly hope this family gets the support they truly need.
what happens when she tell the gang that she doesn't want to be in it anymore...
I would give her to God, she is totally committed to her gang
The young man gives me hope, I believe that he’s just caught up and influenced by his sister
I was just thinking the same. But then also mom's blame themselves and get a lot of blame from society if they do it
her mom isnt giving up on her and ilove that bc when "giving it to god" means youve given up and have no faith in your child ..
Indeed. That young girl has lot of issues. I just pray that she
Don't get her brother involved with her drama. The mother is
Doing the best she can by moving them out of that environment.
There is a saying you can move them out of the ghetto but you
Can't take the ghetto out of them. Some times tuff love is the only
Way out....The mother is a great provider but there are. Times when
Your child has to hit rock bottom.
I know both of these children personally. Both were my students. Janaira has always been a problem child. From fighting to setting desk on fire. There’s something rooted and it needs to be brought out. Both children were friends with my children until we moved back to Michigan.
Omg what if they influenced your kids negatively if y’all didn’t move etc
Setting a desk on fire how did it even get to that point
Listening to Roshena it's obvious she's a hard working Mother ...
Dealing with her "mis behaving daughter...
Roshena loves her children most definitely doesn't want them INCARCERATED...
Blessings to the Family 🙏🏼
She’s a young lady who’s still developing emotions and seems like things got mixed up with her and is hard to know a secret from a teenager especially she’s in the gang where you can’t a say word so that’s probably why she’s like that but I see she’s hiding a lot and seems like a sweet person
Montel and Early Oprah = 💜 Karamo Vibes! When people tried to help or bring awareness, instead of trash and exploitation. These kids need their dad present, their hearts teared when that letter was read.
This episode was really sad my heart goes out to the mother. I hope and pray that you will be able to reach these children.
mind dont! she ALLOWED THIS BEHAVIOR WHEN they were kids! They had to be RAISED this way NOT born this way!!!
@@sheambitious29lachelle17 no. if she is a single mother she needed help in childcare or else they all starve to death. she even took em out of the hood, and they're big enough to run away. when you have a child, please come back to us if your child acting like they ain't yours esp after you given your life to keep them safe and happy and we will give you some love because kids could be a/hs
@@sheambitious29lachelle17 that’s not true u learn from other kids at school even if u was raised good
For the sake of the girl due to the fact that she got that arrangement to be able to join the nba via Karamo I hope she manages to fully pull away from whatever people she’s affiliated with because jealousy is strong and very often ppl kill ppl in the midst of their successes due to the “crab in the bucket” mentality. I’d love to see her end up in the WNBA and become great and glow up from this lifestyle.❤
Turn your life around young lady. I hope this family makes it.
I wouldn't feel comfortable talking either if I was being recorded and there was a tv audience in front of me.
that has nothing to do with what she already did. she should’ve been doing the right thing
@@timiaraychelle3904 no what there saying us they couldn't have expected to get through to her on national television they should have did a One on one. You can't change the past and honestly you saying she could have did the right thing is a pure example of what happens when you send your kids out to the world to get judged.
@@timiaraychelle3904 bro, he wants her to open up to him when there’s a crowd of people watching her. He’s asking questions he knows the audience is going to react to. Yea the questions he’s asking are important it just shouldn’t have been in front of a crowd. She’s most definitely not going to “break her walls”. He wasn’t going too work a miracle especially without someone who actually knows how to handle the way she acts.
This is why its so important to have the farther in there lives and in person .
Sometimes it’s out of the mother control
The problem is these kids is becoming desensitize early , they think they supposed to be doing the bs they doing they couldn’t even answer half the damn questions K had for them
I don’t like the crowds reaction to certain answers she gives. It’s hard already opening about her life especially with a audience and being recorded but the extra ooh and ahhhs add more fuel to the fire
Our country has ruined many families. The young lady doesn't know who she was created to be. She's scared, but trying to be someone she's not. She needs to wake up before it's too late. It's either jail or something worse. If they allow discipline back in the home not abuse it will get better.
That young lady is hurt the little girl inside needs to be healed we all need to heal the little girl the little boy inside and that requires therapy
I'd love to talk to these kids and their mother.I wish I was on this show to give these kids another way of thinking.I so feel this family.If nothing changes mom will be crying big later as well as the kids.
They still have hope 🙏 in life and for
Some reason I think they're going to be
Save
@@cassandradennard6323 Yes, there's still hope.I agree.I really felt this one because I've been in the mother shoes and lost my son to prison.However" there's still hope left for him also. He has changed so much.I just wish it didn't take him to go there.And I hope this mother never has to feel wht I felt when they took my 18 year old son that had never been in trouble with the law and is now 25.The worry is real when they are living as such and when and if they make it to the prison system. I will keep this family in my prayers.Its not too late for them.
Amen I was holding on to so much anger it took me 17yrs to let it go I’m finally free 🎉
And it takes a lot, too. Good for you ♥️ 20+ years for me, and I'm free as well.
It’s funny reading these comments because no one seems to see the reason for mi bringing the kids on the show I’m just trying to save my kids before it’s to late and I’m so over everyone talking about a stick 1St off it not no stick like that and 2 nd off if you not here to give me any helpful tips then don’t judge me are my kids I’m trying to save them and they are still my kids and this is a start to Better them and myself . Some people are crazy they just judge ppl instead of trying to help that’s what’s wrong with the world now they don’t see the right point just the negative . BUT THANKS 🙏🏾 FOR THE FEEDBACK MUCH LOVE ❤️ AND RESPECT
Awwwwww 😢it’s like she wants to break down so bad they have a beautiful future Lord please keep them and lead them to a different Light guide them babies and help their mother ❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Keep up the good work brother! Happy you’ve got a spot to conduct real discussions
Wassup
Lord I felt this mother's pain I'm currently going thru the same thing as she is with my son and the pain and worrying is unexplainable I'm praying for her kids and her as I pray for my own
Just bring them to Nigeria, they do not even need to go to rehab or some type of correctional place, they will just change for the better just by living here. I swear to God
Ohhh yeah.
Nigeria is sooo much better!🙄
They from America ????
In disciplining their kids, American kids are different globally something is wrong over there@@SonjaElizabethTeal
KARAMOOOOOO.... Love how much you actually care and I'm so proud of that mother. strong lady
Hopefully Karamo got through to those teens. They both need some serious help.
Wassup
I feel with J she hasn't came out yet and that can definitely take a toll on a person
what happened between her being 2-3 years old and the pandemic? Mom says they were close when she was 2-3, then the pandemic hit and the child had new friends, etc. The child is 16, so that leaves roughly 13 years unaccounted for. What happened? I'm only 4 minutes in, so perhaps it will come out later on in the episode, but I would be interested in knowing what happened in those years.
Sometimes it is the home environment, but sometimes there's the outsider environment. My momma had 2 kids, single, worked in aerospace, provided every single need and more. We spent quality time together, we were well behaved kids. My brother went to 2 private schools, paid for by my momma. At 12years old, under the influence of a friend's older brother, my brother started getting into trouble. Juvenile Hall, CYA, then eventually prison. In and out of prison..to this day... He is 52.
My momma tried counseling, and he was doing well until he left the facility. He played sports and was a great quarterback. But his choices caused him to be where he is now.. and now on top of that, he is on drugs for over 5 years. My momma passed away of cancer, and I assume he felt guilty for what he pit her through. She practiced tough love. He couldn't live with us as a gang member, with that street life. Wasn't going to happen. Oh and my momma was a teenager, 16 having my brother and worked, lived on her own and provided us stability. He made choices and messed up his opportunities because of fast money because his allowance wasn't enough.
J is nervous, the fidgeting with the hair, etc. The brother seems a little more in tune with his feelings but he has to find his own reasons and motivation, otherwise everything seems pointless
This really makes my soul and sprit cry you clearly and see these are good kids deep down hope they open Thier eyes and see their special 🙏🏾
They Are From The Streets, They Ain't Saying Nothing! 🤷🏾♂️ Not Gonna Get Much Out Of Them
Wassup
When Karamo read the letter was when the teen daughter showed some emotion … they seem like they need their dad….
Why everyone blame dads !!
@@1thegreat841she’s not blaming…she only feels they need their dad which is so obvious by her emotions
Something about that momma is telling me that a lot of this is on her. Not saying she did anything wrong, but maybe she failed to establish rules and boundaries when they were smaller and it got out of hand when they got older. I hope they get it together.
I am scrolling through the comments wondering if I’m the only one who sees it.🤦🏾♂️
Sweet mommy,get all the help you can for your babies. Never stop praying for them as well.
This generation is terrible.. as a mom I feel her pain trying to deal with a teenager these are hard..
It’s not the generation…. Please stop grouping us. I am respectful to strangers and I respect both of my parents even my father who was not there for me much
The sad truth is their environment has more influence and they aren't afraid. Sad thing is that little girl being tough, once you start showing weapons, she's going to get it in return with her brother following suit. They're headed for the prison or the cemetary
There has to be an update on these kids.
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I believe they're acting out because their Father isnt there. He can write all of the letters he wants, they can go unread. Very unfair to the Mother that is there. Personally, they'd be outta my house simply because not knowing what they're doing outside they could possibly bring problems to our home...DAMN THAT!!
Mom needs to demand her respect though. I think to keep peace in the household she's gifting them a lot. I see how expensive they look for tv. She has to make them earn their looks and get jobs.
My exact thought because her father is not there she acting out nd her brother look 👀 up to her so he’s doing the same ting . He’s much softer which she’s playing tuff it hurt my heart watching this . Nd that letter that the father write 🙄 is not enough ‼️
Are u going to write this under every video lol
@@badboygoodgirl Apparently you're a fan because you're reading my comments.
I may write similar replies because it's MY opinion lol.
Not having a dad around isn't a sufficient reason for misbehaviour!
@@danielbaylor1912 exactly
My son is 25 no kids got a two bedroom apartment and a car he has three jobs Amazon Lowe's and landscaping call me the other day and said Mom I just want to say thank you it's so hard being an adult I don't know how you did it but thank you man when I say that made me cry.
Tf is he getting paid a hour?? 4$ 😂😂😂
Love that!! He deserves every bit of it. That comment that came before me.. is what’s wrong with the world right now. All I know is your son, has came a long way doing that… BECAUSE OF YOU🎉❤!! That’s why he’s going to continue to make you proud❤
Oh woow
@@jvids9750 LMFOAOAOOA
Amen in Jesus name.
Unappreciated kids but they will realize when they are grown and on they own.
Facts
I love the mom she is doing the best she can for her Childen
I wish I could bring my 3 sons on this show. A mediator is definitely needed. Thank you for all you do.
“Where y’all father at “ IN JAMAICA ❌❌
something i noticed was how they both kept trying to hide their smiles.
I pray that young man stays strong
These kids clearly grow up in poverty, in a dangerous neighborhood. They have been around and seen a lot of things. The Mother may also be able to blame in this situation. You cannot expect your kids to behave right when you haven't been a good guidance. She may be trying to makeup now but the damage is already done.
I can’t stand when parents call the police ….
Sometimes it’s needed, sometimes parents have trouble with controlling kids bigger than them it can be scary
So what was she supposed to do?
good thing its not for u then. what other parents do is irrelevant to u
Good day . So I wasn’t going to comment but just reading everyone comments I just wanted to say before anyone blames anyone everyone should see that I’m reaching out for help before it’s to late and no it can’t change in the 30 minute show but it is a start and I didn’t bring them on the show to embarrass them I brought us on the show to express my feelings and let ppl know I don’t approve of any negativity. I’m just trying to save my family that’s it don’t know what anyone else thought and the show was a resource for us so don’t point no fingers at any of us because we all trying to get better but thanks 🙏🏾 for the feedback Much LOVE ❤️ AND RESPECT
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what’s your daughter instagram?
Please don't give up on your children, I am in Criminal Justice and it hard when I seen young people go to jail at young ages and never get out. Please try to get therapy. I am praying for you and your children, this is scary times we live in.
what’s your daughter ig ? lol
@@jaaychannel 48bandzzzz
I really wish the crowd would stop clapping after every moment because it’s almost like we can’t get a true response with every co-signing clap
right
poor girl got identity issues🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Praying for her and her family
Some of y’all don’t know kids clearly. Sometimes it’s not the parents. J is a sweetie pie at heart. You can see it all in that baby face but A LOT of kids (all kinds) test the waters. Whatever that water may be to them, they do, and sometimes they go in to deep. I have no doubt this mother is decent. She has flaws as all moms do. But she ain’t abandon her kids or beat them sensely or starve them… she will do better. She’s still growing too. J is just 16 and figuring out herself. The reality is this could even end up being who she is. Only time will tell. But that mom is doing the right thing getting help.
the way she so chill with the one word responses
But the father is in a complete different country living his life 😅 good job I’d he loved them he’s be there to support his kids
maybe he got deported
@@catherinegilbert7057 if he loved his children he wouldn’t have done something for that to happen. he may have been deported I promise you that’s not stopping him from continuing his life so what exactly is your point?
@@the1andthe272 the kids said they speak dto there father daily. What is your point? You dont have to do anything wrong to be deported. I'm not even saying for sure that's the case. Two parent homes have troubled teens to.
@@catherinegilbert7057 or maybe they’re acting out because they need more then just to speak to him daily yea 2 parent house holds have troubled teens when it’s 2 parents but one is still doing all the work you know like a married single mother very unlikely you have a troubled teen with two fully active parents that are completely involved and have a healthy relationship
He most likely was deported
“On instagram they not real” dead homies 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I feel for J. I remember having these feelings and chellenges with parents at that age too.
The girl is actually answering Karamos questions but his bias his getting in the way. As a Journalist, let her tell her story.
Keep up the great work, Karamo. Love your show, brother. Love from South Africa (CapeTown)
“it’s normal” is prolly her fav sentence 😂.
I wish i had a mom like her