I can completely relate and understand I've had to do the same and yes you are absolutely right it is the hardest thing that one will ever have to do because your heart doesn't want to you just know that it's the best thing to do! I too have been there many a day wishing you the best ❣️Mark B
This hits home I don't feel safe communicating with him he doesn't make it safe for me to share my feelings the invalidating me saying I'm negative all the time is draining
Very well said. People need to make themselves accountable for the effects of their decisions on their partners, friends, family. Please keep making these thoughtful, intelligent videos. People need to hear your wisdom.
This is so true! When we let you in and pour out all our love, if you double cross us, we will pack our love and give it to someone whom will cherish or value it.
Sir you brought tears to my eyes with this. I have never felt safe in my life because of males so if I come to you with the love that I have and you say that you love me too, I give you the opportunity to stand with me and yes to protect my heart and if you don't protect that heart, then your hurting me like the rest of them did your No different.
It don't matter Most men just don't take us serious. I mean I straight up told my ex the issue and he didn't change it. They just think you're playing games or that you're dicmitized or stuck until you leave their a**😅
Me too..... my heart was in so much pain I developed Angina and got on medication. It felt like someone was literally squeezing my heart. People don't understand the damage they cause out here
He mistreated, neglected, lied, emotionally, sometimes physically and mentally abused me. He also used me because the woman he wanted didn’t want him back. I began to feel nothing everyday. How can you love someone that doesn’t love you back. It gets old.
This was actually beautiful. Kinda broke it down to "her love is endless and can be for everyone or anyone *worth it* " no one can take your ability to love and no one can stop you from loving
he came back after pushing me many times, but now, i still love him but already scared enough that i went completely silent and even afraid to get near him 🥺 you are so right ..
I just stumbled across this on RUclips. This brought me to tears. It is my heart song, expressed far better than any words that I could come up with on my own.
Very very true. You didn’t create the love you experienced from me … it’s always been me. No regrets on letting you in ~ but now, I took it all back. ❤❤❤ Just all to myself … and yes! We can do that too 🥰
Beautifully said ❤ And we should realize that the love we experience when we are in love is within us. thus we can always experience it whenever we want
Damn!!! This clip hit it right on the nail! I love you for always putting into words what a lot of us women feel and have a hard time expressing. Please keep speaking the truth for both men and women. God bless you 🙏🏽💕
I love hearing something that I been feeling but never had a way of putting it together without sounding disrespectful. Thank you so much for this message! God bless you and your family and everyone 🙂
Amen Amen. Will never make any one take away my confident. Women, men know yourself from the beginning of any relationship. I come from a loving family so I will always be true to myself.
NO FINER WORDS COULD HAVE EVER BEEN SAID TO THE DEGREE AND THE PASSION THAT YOU HAVE EXPRESSED, COULD STIR THE EMOTIONS OF SO MANY, THANK YOU 🙏 ☺️!!!!!!!!!!
That's to the point. It's never right to take love extended by a partner for granted. Regaining it back might never be the same again. Respect really counts.
@@Shavier777 think on this..... who would give a better experience, someone reading a book to you about, say example 911.....or someone that was actually in it?
Forgive and give second chance. People make mistakes and learn. But also you make some differences in how you express your love, make sure you give enough healthy space that make him wonder about you to not think of others and honors you, be busy enough to not constantly bother by seeking attention,... you may surprise by the out come. Most men loves women makes them work like business. Because they think by their head not by their heart like us
Once you make a woman feel less than you already lost her! Been there broke my heart so deep but I pulled myself together and found someone who lets me shine! 😊
They say that contempt is the death of a relationship but this is where contempt starts. Where you still think it's all about you and you don't understand that these are just the consequences of your own actions
The love is unconditional, the tolerance is not.
This part
True 💞
Very well said
To walk away with love still in your heart is one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do... ❤
I can completely relate and understand I've had to do the same and yes you are absolutely right it is the hardest thing that one will ever have to do because your heart doesn't want to you just know that it's the best thing to do! I too have been there many a day wishing you the best ❣️Mark B
@@MariaGutierrez-cr3sd ❤️
speak that!!!! Exactly 😔😏💔
Agreed
same here
Hard to love someone you don't feel safe with and respected by. Wish more men would watch this BEFORE they mess around and find out.
More women cheat then men.
Yes, and Amen. 😢❤ Invested too much time. God knew.
absolutely
Loving a person and being in love with a person is a big difference ❤
❤
Not enough people understand this fact.
When we start to feel unsafe with someone, especially expressing our feeling, it's all down hill from there.
At this exact point..
❤
@@iramsabasame 🥺
❤
True 👌🏼
Truer words were never spoken....'Feeling safe and Peace of mind' are so important to us! Thanks for this! 💛🙏🏽
Amen tell him handsome intelligent brother we’re all the intelligent men with a heart ❤️❤ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This hits home I don't feel safe communicating with him he doesn't make it safe for me to share my feelings the invalidating me saying I'm negative all the time is draining
Wow wow & wow
You just read me totally
You're so wise
Amen!
Love can’t exist without feeling safe
That's right ❤❤❤
I bez zaufania
Very well said. People need to make themselves accountable for the effects of their decisions on their partners, friends, family. Please keep making these thoughtful, intelligent videos. People need to hear your wisdom.
Remember: A woman's behaviour is always a reaction to whatever actions she is receiving.
Yes!!! The male sets the precedence !!!
Exactly
Thank you.
It why all men should throw 💩 at women
EXACTLY
This is so true! When we let you in and pour out all our love, if you double cross us, we will pack our love and give it to someone whom will cherish or value it.
Exactly
Yes ma'am 🎯
Yesssss indeed
Can and does this work without God involved????
True🙌🏽
Sir you brought tears to my eyes with this. I have never felt safe in my life because of males so if I come to you with the love that I have and you say that you love me too, I give you the opportunity to stand with me and yes to protect my heart and if you don't protect that heart, then your hurting me like the rest of them did your No different.
Thank you for putting feelings into words that some women have trouble expressing ❤ you're amazing ✨
And he said it perfectly. He spoke to what we women go through.
It’s a slow demise, by the time we leave we’ve given it everything we have . By the time we leave we’ve been done a long time.
He’s spot on.
It don't matter Most men just don't take us serious. I mean I straight up told my ex the issue and he didn't change it. They just think you're playing games or that you're dicmitized or stuck until you leave their a**😅
You hit it straight not missing. She loved like that before she met you, you just got to experience the sincerity of her heart
I never stop loving RH. I have to protect my heart. The safe and honest has left.❤🙏
Fantastic! This gentleman is an earth Angel. Thank you💐
She never stopped loving you. She just stopped believing in you.
Yes!!!
🙏💯
❤
Exactly. Breaks my heart.. I'm going through it now.
And respecting him
This! Nailed it! And so eloquently too.
Wow he took the words right out of my heart.
Oh this is so true and so timely. Once I started to feel unsafe even though I loved him I had to go. And honestly it'll probably make his life easier
I had to the same. I recognized that he was struggling in ALL levels in the relationship therefore I pulled it. I wish him well nonetheless.
My goodness he understands a lot more than most!⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Facts. 💯
Can we clone him and reproduce a million times?
His eloquence is perfection.
I don't get it. So he saying women are selfish and manipulators.
Cold hard facts!!! I've been there. Used, abused/mistreated. I loved till it almost killed me Had to walk away to keep my heart safe❤🔥🙏👑🙏🔥❤
This
Me too..... my heart was in so much pain I developed Angina and got on medication. It felt like someone was literally squeezing my heart. People don't understand the damage they cause out here
Girl. I feell you !!! Same thing here. We have to stay save and protect ourselves or we will be killed off.
Word!!!!
He mistreated, neglected, lied, emotionally, sometimes physically and mentally abused me. He also used me because the woman he wanted didn’t want him back. I began to feel nothing everyday. How can you love someone that doesn’t love you back. It gets old.
You speak with a lot of wisdom and truth. Don't stop! I ❤ listening. God bless you for what you are doing. 😊
Its one of the saddest thoughts, knowing that point is around the corner.
Taking someone's genuine love for you for granted is the worst mistake you'll ever make
True
like my x and his wicked falsehood of people..
Amen.
Sounds like you have been through something ❤🌺🌾
This was actually beautiful. Kinda broke it down to "her love is endless and can be for everyone or anyone *worth it* " no one can take your ability to love and no one can stop you from loving
So true....
💯 FACTUAL No truer words have ever been spoken.
She’s always protected and always will be. AMEN
The swearing at me..taking my paychecks..throwing things at me....I checked out and was terrified...it took me a long time but I left
True
Glad you were able to leave, there’s nothing like peace ☮️ ❤
just left . something happened to me
Aw hell nawl
Good for you that you found the strength! Best wishes🙏🏽
I like the way you explained the way a woman 's love works.
Thanks for speaking truth!
Exactly. Peace is priceless😅
he came back after pushing me many times, but now, i still love him but already scared enough that i went completely silent and even afraid to get near him 🥺 you are so right ..
I just stumbled across this on RUclips. This brought me to tears. It is my heart song, expressed far better than any words that I could come up with on my own.
I wish I could show my husband this... its too late am in love with someone else but from a distance ...I feel better this way
Thank you Jane. Right on point and a real eye opener
This truth hit brutal..definitely an eye opener
This is absolutely Spot-On.
SPOT ON!!! I tell my husband all the time how "SAFE" I feel, I am with him. And i make sure to thank him💕
What about him makes you feel safe?
You are blessed, Queen!
Thanks SO VERY MUCH FOR SHARING TRUE/'SPIRITUAL' INTENTS OF THE HEART!❣️😊
Yes 🙏🏾🌺
You’re amazing and always on point. We appreciate you
Omg. This couldn’t be said any better. Thank u. My heart is broken but praying this pain will pass.Thank u
I hope your pain will pass quickly.
It will pass when you stop looking back and start looking forward. Ditch the rose tinted glasses and build a future worth having.
Dayum!! Beautifully insightful, sir. God bless everyone going through this. 💖🙏💖
thanku. I will overcome and be ,BETTER"
Thank you Sweetheart. Put so eloquently. Going through that right now
Amen. God bless you for clearly articulating what I have been feeling and trying to express.
Very very true. You didn’t create the love you experienced from me … it’s always been me. No regrets on letting you in ~ but now, I took it all back. ❤❤❤ Just all to myself … and yes! We can do that too 🥰
AMEN!!! ME TOO. IM SAFE NOW. THANK GOD
So True 🌹
What a perfect addition to an already true msg. ❤
Sppeeeeaaaakkk!!!
It’s ALWAYS been ME!!!
You couldn't say it any better exactly how I feel after being in a toxic relationship, I finally broke free.
Very good
Me too 😊
Beautifully said ❤ And we should realize that the love we experience when we are in love is within us. thus we can always experience it whenever we want
Thank you so much!!! You could NOT have said it any better!!! God bless you!!! ❤
Damn!!! This clip hit it right on the nail! I love you for always putting into words what a lot of us women feel and have a hard time expressing. Please keep speaking the truth for both men and women. God bless you 🙏🏽💕
I totally agree
Amen and amen this is so true.
I love hearing something that I been feeling but never had a way of putting it together without sounding disrespectful. Thank you so much for this message!
God bless you and your family and everyone 🙂
Amen 🙌.
You said that just right 👍😅💁🏾♀️ I appreciate the truth 😊
Always 💯🔆
Amen. What a great teacher.
Exactly!! "Once your decision took away her peace of mind"👈🏽 that part!!!
Hearts are not just objects to juggle
Okay 👌🎉🎉🎉
Wow, I love the way you’re able to put a woman’s heart into words ❤
Me too!
Love how true you are! Thanks for speaking my mind! 🎉
Yes 💯💯 Yes,!
I had the utmost respect he took advantage.😢😢😢😢 plz through this out there.😢😢😢
Exactly. We hold on until holding on hurts. Then. Then we go numb.
Well spoken. Once the boundaries of peace and respect has been crossed, this changes the level of respect the other person once had as well!
Amen si🌸😄😘
Thank you for this positive factual msg. brings us back to our centre. Thank u kindly love n light
Amen Amen. Will never make any one take away my confident. Women, men know yourself from the beginning of any relationship. I come from a loving family so I will always be true to myself.
Wow you just explained my relationship of 27yrs perfectly. I can't thank you enough to give me the words.🙏🏽❤️
Yes! Feeling safe and protected is so important...
Say it again
Yes
Absolutely, can't go on much longer. Can't get her back...thanks doc.
I love this! Speaking straight facts! 🎯💯
Yes 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
NO FINER WORDS COULD HAVE EVER BEEN SAID TO THE DEGREE AND THE PASSION THAT YOU HAVE EXPRESSED, COULD STIR THE EMOTIONS OF SO MANY, THANK YOU 🙏 ☺️!!!!!!!!!!
Yes sir. 100%. Lost all respect for that person when respect was not given
Thank you very much for all that you do. You always say the exact words that i cannot put together to express how I feel.
Right 👍🏾
This is the perfect explanation on a woman's behalf. It truly resonated with me! Thank you for validating so many of us women's position🙏🏽💕
Exactly… love requires safety and respect. Walking away was the hardest decision, ever
Spoken with the understanding of a wisdom and respect for a woman. Thank you!!!. 👏👍👍⭐️
I agree 💯👍🏾🌾🙏🏾
That Part ❤️ Now He Mad crazy 🙏🏾
Yes this is how I feel that’s exactly what happened. He told me he took my love for granted.
You always say the right words at the right time. Thank you
best text ever. hitting the core of the truth
The raw truth in this.❤️
That's to the point.
It's never right to take love extended by a partner for granted.
Regaining it back might never be the same again.
Respect really counts.
This maybe the smartest thing you ever said about a real women Brother👏🏿🎤
I really love your thoughtful conversations
You said it perfectly sir, thank you sir, God Bless you.
This is eloquently spoken. It hurt, but it's true.
So on point🙌
Thank you for saying this💟
You explained it so well that’s exactly what it is thank you for sharing ❤🙏
Big Facts! You better tell the truth!
My Brother you articulated this so beautifully. THANK YOU
💥 Explosion. He couldn't have said it any better.
I TOTALLY AGREE!!! He Aced it!!!!
But is he talking about himself? From experience
@@Shavier777 think on this..... who would give a better experience, someone reading a book to you about, say example 911.....or someone that was actually in it?
He really couldn’t
Truth. If I can't feel safe in your presence then I won't stay there.
Amen true words 💯
You sharing these videos is truly needed nowadays. Thanks for just putting it all out there and being real about it!
So true. He took me for granted. Always threatening me other women. I left him n now he is coming back. No way I m taking him back.
Forgive and give second chance. People make mistakes and learn. But also you make some differences in how you express your love, make sure you give enough healthy space that make him wonder about you to not think of others and honors you, be busy enough to not constantly bother by seeking attention,... you may surprise by the out come. Most men loves women makes them work like business. Because they think by their head not by their heart like us
Stay strong woman.
@@user-eh2nt6iy4r you turned my heart.
Don’t ever go back .. he has and never will change.
Derrick, you hit the nail right on head...thanks for keeping it 💯 brother! This is definitely your ministry!
Perfectly said. It's like you can read my heart.
Amen!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Finally someone gets it. 🔥👑🔥
Yes. I'm wondering how in the world did he find the answer to how a woman feels after being in a bad relationship.
I JUST LOVE THE POSITIVE WORDS THAT U HAVE TO SAY EVERYTIME THOSE ARE FACTS MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS U EACH DAY
Once you make a woman feel less than you already lost her! Been there broke my heart so deep but I pulled myself together and found someone who lets me shine! 😊
how do men get intelligent like this, true healer of hearts
Thank you for speaking for me. Your understanding is healing.
These are the deepest words ever! Blew my mind in many ways because I had this AHA moment
Decisions took her way her peace of mind, feeling safe. Thank yoy. Expressed correctly.
They say that contempt is the death of a relationship but this is where contempt starts. Where you still think it's all about you and you don't understand that these are just the consequences of your own actions
Facts!!!! Recently lost my peace at mind in my relationship and the love I felt for him hasn’t been the same since….😢
I'm in the same exact situation
What happened to the peace of mind?