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I have no insight into your situation, so my next comment might not apply at all to you. When you first announced on your channel that Maya was moving in with you, I cautioned on this channel that living with a single mother and her child was not a wise move. A husband at that stage will never come first as the child will always be the mother’s prime obligation. As husband, you will ALWAYS come last with regards to her family.
It shouldn't be a problem to marry a single mother and to be positioned in a certain hierarchy structure. The problem lies with Maya that she discarded Gio. With her everything is black and white. She has a childish mindset (narcissistic).
Not to mention there is a dude out there somewhere that can become anything from an annoyance to a Real and Present Problem because who Really knows what went down with them . One side is not all of it
Well Gio, lack of information breeds speculation. If you make your married life very public on social media and build a subscriber base around it, many would expect that breakup info would be public as well. One of the appeals of the Philippines to the passport bro crowd is the hope of finding a feminine, petite woman with traditional values to partner with. Your experience, whatever the circumstances, should be a wake up call for those who seek to marry a Filipina hoping it will be a forever relationship. Even if you think you know everything there is to know about a woman, her family and upbringing, identified any and all red flags, and spent a lot of time building a solid relationship while living together, marriage is still a gamble at best. Best wishes for your future endeavours.
right? it's funny to me that people put their entire lives on display without hesitation when it benefits them but when there's a break up they want privacy. I wish Gio and Maya both the best but it's kind of unrealistic to not expect people are going to wonder what happened. I agree with them that it's none of their business but people are still going to wonder, it's literally human nature. Eventually it will come out even if it's on a different channel but in that case it may not be 100% factual. It seems to me like it would be in their best interest to set the record straight themselves. I'm guessing they are both trying to figure out how to do it without hurting the other's feelings which is a good thing.
I recommend if your thinking about moving to the Philippines, don't listen to any of these guys, put your boots on ground and do your own research and only then ask questions, remember to learn the cultures, the language, the political organizations, religions, it's not the U.S.A or any other countries. Good luck to all and safe travel, see the real world.
Yep I 2nd that ~ From the BS budget videos to LTR with a girl! It's all BS! Believe me a person who has no real budget in Cebu ~ Yes I have a budget but I can draw on $9K a month if I want to? I just save lots of money over here!!! & always say to yourself " The Philippines aunt your country because you are a guess! I see a lot of other expats treat the locals like sh*t specifically the Australians and Canadian expats in Cebu and these guys will treat us as Americans like crap also!!!
dont get involved with a single mother, dont live close to GF/wife family and dont build a house/invest in anything where it benefits a local to get rid of you. this is universal in regards to all expats anywhere
@@jumpinjehoshaphat1951 Sure there's some good advice on this channel at times but also a boatload of contradictory statements made over the years and some just flat out lies
I knew she's not a housewife material, I'm also a Filipina and my American husband we been married for 13 years. The way she acted in my observation in camera I felt she's not real and not committed to your relationship.
I got the same vibe. I think some of these Filipinas get a Western guy and start a YT channel then think they are some kind of local celebrity. I find it so hilarious. They get drunk on all the simp comments from posters.
Now on her own she's playing angel/victim with her 5 minutes non-value added videos just to get super chats and receiving plenty of donations from the next Gio. She thinks she could be financially independent by hosting her YT channel on her own. The majority of her incomes is from donations rather than YT.
Gio you're a good guy. But I think if you're honest, you would admit to yourself that you didn't pick Maya because the was the exemplary filipina. You chose her because she's so very pretty, and you ignored all the other stuff. I'm not saying she's a monster, but if you had chosen a filipina for how loving and caring she was, you would be happier, and still together.
@@morlandoemtp Well only Gio can answer that question. However, I myself would not have chosen her, even though she's the prettiest Filipina I've ever seen...
@@Maarten8867 you in for a world of trouble with Filipinas and most women if you think like that, beauty is not on the outside only, it’s on the inside also.
Lived with the perfect Filipina for over a year, married the perfect filipina, then both going your own way after 1 year of marriage to the perfect filipina. You vloggers give such great advice but can't tell why you had problems so that others can look at what they might be facing? Saying it's "private" is BS because you made your lives public. It's either of three things that brought you to this quick ending of your relationship: 1. lying. 2. cheating. 3. disagreement on how to raise the Filipinas child. We can learn from the good things you guys point out in relationships but if you never really go over the bad parts of the relationships, how can you learn from it. Next relationship, don't advertise it at all. Don't use her as a prop saying how wonderful she is then when the first little "storm" that comes along, you bail. I've been married 16 years to my filipina and let me tell ya, no one is perfect and you have learn how to get along and make things work when the "storms" come. Bailing out after a YEAR of marriage? BS
Gio may not have had a choice. Judging by his mood in the last few vids he seems soulless - like he poured it into the relationship to save it and it didnt work. Now he will have to go find it again. Filipinas can very hard-headed and once they make up their mind you can’t change it.
I meant to make a comment on your channel of what I noticed in your video of how you met Maya. She wasn’t interested until people were telling her you were “famous” on RUclips. Then she’s interested and started a RUclips channel. It was a huge red flag for me. I figured you’d just block me if I said that. It’s unfortunate things are not working out, but I’m not surprised. Good luck to you.
@@FinstaDaMinstaMaya was helping support her family before she got with Gio and when they were dating he never told her it bothered him. After they were married it became a problem for him. Problem number two was her wanting another baby, he made it clear to her he did not. He decided to leave before she got pregnant.
Best thing your wife maya can do is come to her senses and go back to her husband. On her channel I see a lot of simps filling her head with b.s. a single mother leaving a man that’s willing to care for her and another man’s child she needs to wake up.
Do we know the whole story? Do we know both sides of the story? It's all speculation, isn't it? We don't know who's right or who's wrong here. To say that one side needs to come to their senses is making a big assumption, isn't it? Unless you know something that we don't?
Gio, Wow, I take my hat off to you for sharing the news. I can tell that you had to gather a lot of strength to do the video. I am disappointed for you and wish you all the best in the days ahead. I think you are an inspiration to many of your followers on RUclips. Please continue to share your stories wherever you go Cheers, Andy
If you have no hopes of reconciling with Maya, you need to file for divorce in the USA asap. Divorce is coming to the Philippines and the longer you are married, the worse the consequences. You ignored 2 major red flags. The first, never date or marry a single mom, especially one with a daughter. That is such a dangerous thing to do. The second, never marry a girl with multiple tattoos. A traditional Filipina will not get tattoos. Every Filipina who gets visible tattoos knows she will be less employable, yet she still chose to get them. So it shows a lack of wisdom and purpose. You said neither you nor Maya did anything wrong. No, you both did, you married without true integrity to your vows. You both fit in well with current American values.
First, let me tell you Gio, that for whatever the reason, I’m sorry that things didn’t work out four you and Maya. Everyone’s been there, some of us more than once. And that is precisely why many guys watched your content: They want to learn and not make the same mistakes they and others have made. You have literally profited from providing such advice through your “consultations” and whatever other benefits came from your channel. Now I’ve read all of these comments to date, and I realize you’re grieving, but I would not flat-out tell your viewers that you’re not going to discuss it any further. I have to agree with several viewers who are not satisfied with you pulling the “personal” card. We’ve traveled with you on your journey, been welcomed into your home, and listened to your guidance. Consequently, it’s just hypocritical to say that now all of a sudden your life is “personal”. There’s no other way to put it. As several viewers have commented, no, you’re not obligated to discuss the details of what happened, but neither are they obligated to watch your content any longer. You’ve stopped being a teacher.
Making a physical change can also be a good thing to help reset things. Always good to have time to reflect and to give yourself some time to heal . There is a small city just north of Bacolod I think its call Talisay City that might be interesting to see you visit. I've found that I can get less expensive flights to and from the east coast of the U.S. many time by flying in and out of Hong Kong. Iloilo has 4 nonstop flights to HK every week for about $60 if Google flights is correct. Take care of yourself right now minor accidents are more likely to happen as you will be a little more distracted.
My oberservation of Filipino women is coming true. More of them are becoming westernized. The xpats moving in that culture are contributing to this. Ive been praying for vloggers i see living together outside of marriage, its not right in accord with Gods word. All the best to you.
Her friend group. The same Westernized Filipinas in that area are responsible for at least 2-3 other public breakups. The Philippines is cooked, boys. Look elsewhere, again.
Thats why you gotta date outside these damn expat enclaves like BGC or Dumagete, get out into the smaller towns and provinces for the more traditional oriented women and never help westernize her yourself.
@@theswede5402 exactly , stay away from the corrupted expat areas , my wife's from a small town in central Luzon , most humble down to earth person I've ever met , she's beautiful with an even more beautiful soul .
Sorry you've had such bad experiences. My experience was my mom married my stepfather when my brother and I were young, and he was a godsend to us. A good, decent, hardworking man. He loved us like his own and he and our mom are still happily married, decades later. It can work out if you choose carefully.
I hate to say it but I think that the time of going to the RP and getting married to a "traditional" Filipina may well have passed. With the advent of the Smart Phone it is virtually impossible to find that traditional girl that existed back in the 1990s. Use your big head gentlemen. Build your mini empire and enjoy your adventure.
You're right. IMO, it's only a matter of time before it get's just as bad in these more traditional-minded Countries as the West. Social Media is like crack to women's craving for attention and proclivity for hypergamy. That being said, I tell young men to date a woman for at least 3 years before considering marriage. In my experience and from what I've observed, they (females) are great the first 6 months to a year, but will get tired of "putting on the show to close the deal" leading to the question, "what happened to the woman I fell in love with, cause this ain't her."
@@markmielke5283 it’s true but the supply demand ratio still favors foreigners. And the girls get braver and more adventurous. I mean you’re completely right when it comes to traditional marriages but the accessibility to Filipinas is still high.
The Philippines is a great vacation destination, but after a while you just get tired of looking at slums and traversing lousy infrastructure. The people can be nice, but they'll never be your friends - you are always an ATM and that's just the way it is. As expensive as Canada is, I moved back here to enjoy the cleanliness, comforts, having my own stuff around me, and being in a place where stuff just works (most of the time :) )
Amen. Thailand and Vietnam are so much better. Like I was saying before, if it wasn’t for easy women, that place wouldn’t have much else to offer and hardly anyone would go there
Sorry to hear Gio. I will say I think you’re better off explaining what happened than going through thousands of comments in the future speculating. I found with my divorce I wish I’d have come out with more up front than what I had to hear as erroneous conjecture. I would recommend to any guys with a pinay relationship to discourage them from having a RUclips channel. From what I’ve seen they start thinking they’re the Philippines version of Marylyn Monroe. They enjoy all the simp adulation a little too much.
Why should he have to explain his PRIVATE LIFE to any one just to appease THEIR desire and need for drama? It's HIS life and he gets to choose what he shares, no one elses.
As the world turns... Life has many unpredictable circumstances that can arise. An ending of a marriage is one of them. I empathize with you both. I for one, appreciate that neither of you are bashing one another and I watch both of your channels regularly. Healing definitely takes time and weight loss in break ups is often a byproduct. Stay healthy and I will continue to watch both of your channels. Good luck in finding your next place to hang your hat. Peace ☮
Now from Davao we have direct flights to Bangkok, Qatar, Hong Kong. Also direct to Tacloban is another new one. Singapore also! I did a video on these. All the best Gio. Keep your chin up buddy!
I feel like I just saw your marriage episode yesterday. It sucks to have to go through that in a foreign country with no family support but at least you didn't have to go through the American family court system.
What's up Gio, I'm the tall brother that told you I like your show, when you were sitting in the lobby at the St. Dominique condo's in IloIlo mid November, from soldier to soldier, don't let up, take your channel to higher heights, I believe you can also still give relationship advice to a certain degree like all of us, failed relationships are a regular part of today's global society unfortunately, we're not robots, we live & learn, now go have fun and keep on keeping on, feelings come and feelings go ..... ✌️ From Thailand 💃
It’s not fair. You use to share and give relationship advise from your personal life in all your vlogs but will not share the details from your breakup. You benefited from sharing your personal life. I feel it’s not a 2 way street.
We all have a certain appetite for gossip, but that doesn't mean anyone's obliged to 'share the details' of their relationship just because they did videos with their partner every now and again.
Its hypocrisy. He built his blog by sharing information to now close his followers off is not right I know what I will do and that watch to see if he becomes transparent if not just unsubscribe
Gio, what's a good way to find a personal trainer when living in a condo in Cebu? I would want them to come to the gym in the condo and help me get in shape. How much do the charge? Thanks.
Marriage with anyone after you have been single for a long time is difficult. You have to give up a lot and make many compromises which can really affect quality of life. As far as dating advice goes, we are all experts until it goes south. All the best for your next project.
Thanks for the update Gio! That was enough to let us know what happened…when the dust has settled I think a whole video series would be very very helpful to avoid this trap and downfall in the first place…We all want to know how to properly manage a Filipina with the cultural gap…
I’ve only followed you Gio for the last few months and watched about a dozen videos and I’m seriously considering when I turn 65 January 2026 to take my SS benefits and start a new life abroad, bc the American dream is over, and I’m done punching a clock only to turn around and give it all away for the sake of existence. All the best my friend from afar and I hope one day to meet up. ✌️
The American dream isn't over it just takes new thinking. Get back to homesteading roots. Or living on the road. Buy an Airstream and a nice truck. It's still the best place in the world if you own your home free and clear. That's still the major obstacle most everywhere. Once that's done it's smooth sailing.
We have the same mind Gio. I moved into a beautiful 3 bedroom 3 C/R 2 story house here in Liloan, Cebu, a year ago, near my GF parents house. But before my GF could move in, her "Baby Daddy" shows up all of a sudden after 6 years and she took him back. So now I want to get out of here possibly in January or February and my plan is to also travel on my Honda ADV 160 to many islands, Mindenao, Leyte, Samar, Luzon, Panay, and then Negros. Cebu city has wore me out being so close to my ex. Time for a cool change. Chin up. Good luck to you my friend.
While not a rule ..it’s better not to live in the same area as your partner but but …when these guys marry the provincial Filipina you’ll be used a cash cow and never be really accepted. A. Don’t marry a provincial Filipina and look at her history and upbringing.
I’m sorry to hear about the dissolution of your relationship with Maya. Just a note about your upcoming future housing, Davao airport is now launching 3 international destinations direct! Thailand, Singapore and Hongkong, non stop direct from DVO. Hope things go well with you and stay safe and healthy. 👍
Davao City is ok, but too freaking hot!!! You are only about 9 degrees from the equator. Spent 6 years down there and then moved to Camiguin Island 4 years ago. Couldn't be happier. More isolated but less dickheads.
Haven’t watched your channel in a while . I have to say I’m not surprised about the outcome of the relationship but won’t go into why I’m not surprised. Wish you both a good future . I do agree with some of the other comments that it would be great if you did a video on what went sideways in order for viewers to learn . Also , if divorce is not allowed then you cannot get remarried in the PI or even date ? Would be good to learn from .
If he can get a divorced judgement in the USA, he can remarry. The Filipina can not ever remarry unless she becomes a US citizen along with the divorce. They might be able to get it annulled though.
@@archiecruz6336 "Multiple ex wives?" So people in the Phils can get married multiple times without being divorced first? Surprising the gov't allows that.
Sorry how things worked out. I don’t think Maya’s little girl liked you. Just my impression observing the vibe between the two of you at your friend’s wedding.
This will be good, Gio. Your5 best videos are when you are out exploring and showing us what you have learned. This new chapter in your life will help us all; can't wait!
Honest vlog Gio. Sorry to hear about what you might be going through. I've done solo bike trips in Thailand. Been thinking of doing the same in the Phils. Be happy to join you on one. cheers.
Best wishes for your future adventures. Hard to stay footloose and fancy free in the Phils. without committing to a relationship but it’s not so stressing if u stay single rather than get married! Enjoyed your advice - keep up the good content. Merry Xmas. 🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄
Come to BGC. 20-minutes from airport. No basura. All the food options you could ever want. Mostly locals and a few expats. Everyone minds their own business. We love it here :).
@@RonRichards-v5f who cares if its crawling with anyone, you can mind your own biz no problem. Its not like anyone forces anyone to lingo or mingle with other expats
I'm sorry to hear about this Gio but hope only the best for both of you. Look forward to seeing future posts and am excited for your new adventures from your experienced point of view. Looking fit btw, great job!
Gio, I’m going to follow you and Maya. The only difference is I will be more active on your page. You have great content. Army, what MOS? If you still want to go diving when I’m in town, let me know it’s free and on a boat. I’ve heard about the expat issues. Robert
Im behind you,Gio,and respect all your decisions.I know we all make tuff decisions in our lifetime,but we just learn from them,and move on.I know you will move on to a happy life doing what you enjoy,and thats all that matters.I love that you can travel,and explore great places.
I'm so sorry things didn't work out between you & Maya. I wish the best for both of you. You don't owe anyone an explanation. Looking forward to where you land next.
Hey Gio, truly sorry to hear about you and Maya, I've followed you both for some time and I'm a subscriber to both of you. It was kinda sad to find out about the situation from a third party RUclipsr and watching Maya videos over the last couple of weeks that were kinda confusing without knowing what's going on. Will continue to follow your adventures, and I'm hoping to retire in the Ph eventually. Good luck and stay safe! 🙂
Wow Gio, I wish you well on your new start I'm sad to say. I thought you and Maya had something good going. But, I what to say thank you. I learned a lot from you about the Philippines and relationship in the Philippines. Keep your head up! ✊🏾
Good luck on your journey, Gino. Cebu Pacific launched direct flights from Iloilo to Singapore and Hong Kong last month, as well as new routes to Dumaguete, Tagbiliran, and Daraga. There were already international flights before, but they were cancelled due to COVID pandemic. Medical City Iloilo accepts TriCare insurance for U.S veterans at a 25% copay.
Think Gio missed some small print, Davao too is a very international airport with direct links to the major transit centres of Hong Kong, Bangkok, Singapore, Qatar, plus China Quanzhou.
Dear Gio, Wishing you and Maya all the best as you work through this difficult time. And thanks to you and your channel I have found the information you provide as very helpful. I am now living and enjoying a good life here in the Philippines for the past 2.5 years. I hope our paths cross at some point in the future.
We have all been through a breakup and you have NO obligation to share details. I have always appreciated your calm demeanor and advice on your channel. Wishing you the best in a new chapter.
Well that’s his prerogative, I personally would think invaluable for expats and he also gives advice all things about the Philippines. He should share what goes wrong and why ..the cultural issues can be tough to take, more so with there province girls but then in Maya’s case you have a poor Filipina thinking something she’s not ..entitled. Here’s the kicker, there’s a kid involved..another broken family.
Hey Gio! Any idea what month and where in the mainland you are heading? I will be in Cebu for the month of February '25'. I'm retired and have a great place in Rosarito, Baja, Mexico just south 30-minutes south of San Diego! I'm one block from a Gold's type very modern gym(with professional) trainer's! I'm three blocks from the beautiful pacific ocean! The door's always open! The Baja pacific is a great place to visit and do vlogs! I will also spend the month of April in Thailand! Heading back to San Diego & Baja May1st! Best of luck on your new adventures! Ray by the Bay
I like the information you give. Water heater, price of condos, city life, food, etc... I like the pretty colors in the city. Buy a good telescope or spotting scope to use in those high-rise condos. View the ocean. Great job, safe travels.
Well said, and good luck with new adventures, looking forward to seeing lots new videos and seeing things differently from now on, keep well and be safe , good luck for the future, cheers from us many years a subscriber to you from central Queensland Australia 🇦🇺
I live in Quezon City. I can walk to three different malls all right next to each other. I'm right next to the MRT which gives me access to much of Metro Manila without the traffic. It is actually quiet where I live which is unusual for Metro Manila. This all works for now but I think in 2025 I want to check out some other places in the Philippines. Thank you for your channel Gio. It was very helpful in planning my move to the Philippines. I have been here one year now. I have my SRRV courtesy Visa. It has been a great experience.
@GiointhePhilippines yeah it's working out well. Ironically I was thinking about moving to Cebu City next year. If you're coming this way, I would love to meet you. I am living near Trinoma Mall. Ayala has a couple of nice developments out here
Gio Gio Gio, Really sad to hear this news. Happy for anyone who is lucky enough to find the right one. As we all know it’s not easy and no matter how hard we try sometimes, not always meant to be. It’s always a good thing when we can end a relationship on good terms. Life is to short to waste on a lost cause.If you not happy or something don’t feel right, at the end of the day a person needs self satisfaction and what makes them truly happy. Let this be a lesson to all, no matter how good you think your relationship is going, good things don’t always last forever. Have that understanding that your life could change any day and to be ready for the next chapter in your life. With that said always wish you GIO and everyone else in the world nothing but the best. Hold your head up and stay positive kuya! Life must go on! Always stay safe and spread the love God bless
Really sorry 😞 to hear that the marriage didn’t work out and wish you all the best. I don’t know what happened but I know from personal experience that people change after marriage. All the best for the future!
You might also want to consider Ormoc. There are four ferries a day back to Cebu City, offering a convenient connection. It’s a great option for provincial living without being surrounded by too many expats. Baybay is another fantastic choice. If you’re ever in Leyte or Samar and need a riding partner, let me know-this is my backyard!
It's a shame when things don't work out but it is also a prime example for those who are looking for a relationship to know that this is a possibility. I wish the best to both Maya and you, and good luck on finding what you are looking for.
I am planning to move to Cebu, IT park particularly, and do what you said you want to do, use Cebu as a home port and travel, best of luck Gio , even though we have never met l consider you a friend and wish you all the best and looking forward to seeing more content.👍👍😎
Hi Gio, I've been watching your channel for years, but I dont comment much. I just wanted to say that I am sorry to hear that things didn't work out for you and your wife. Unfortunately, I have been there a couple of times myself, and i know it sucks. It's a lot of stress and heartache, but life goes on. I wish the best of luck and happiness to both of you as you go through this difficult time.
Be positive and onto the next chapter. Looking forward to meeting you Gio for a consultation. I’ve been watching your channel and respect your opinion. Take care be safe.
Always go with your instincts! Usually, it's right. If I listened to my instincts in my 20s (in my 50s now), I would've been richer and happier now. We still love your channel. And I will never get married again!!
I met my Filipina in 2018. Lived with her for two plus years now. And yes it’s not the perfect relationship; I have my faults and she has hers. But we’ve learned to get along with each other. Still not married but will eventually. Marriage is a life long commitment. I always thought you shouldn’t marry someone unless you’re absolutely sure she’s the last girl you’ll ever go out with.
Thank GOD you left her , She was dragging you down , Her insecurities and possessiveness was beyond normal , You made her what she is , shes ungrateful.
Love the idea of riding around the Philippines on a motorcycle!! Definitely need more content about riding lifestyle in the Philippines. Following for more info on Mactan. ✌🏼
Hey bud, sorry to hear about you guys splitting up. I always thought you were a great couple together. Looking for a new spot, I'm at Boracay island. Live in the dream man. Renting a beautiful condo in a resort community loaded with amenities away from all the touristy stuff. Boracay is a fantastic island, not overly populated or crowded, beautiful beaches, fantastic restaurants and food...
Gio thinking of you and the tough time at the moment. What’s meant to be is meant to be. I’ve always enjoyed your vlogs for a long time and I look forward to enjoying them for some time to come. Stay well and thanks for sharing.
Don't get married again, amigo, stay single, and be your own man. Also in Thailand, better gym facilities and less pressure from the women to marry...should suit your new mentality
Good news Gio, once the dust settles you may become qualified to give amicable separation advice 🙂 Back to the business at hand, I'll be interested in your quest for a new semi retirement destination. I lived in Phils for 5 years in 90's and it's one of my plan B's as the loop is closing in other SE countries with regards to tax treatment of foreign sourced income. Goodluck.
Thanks for the update. Cebu sounds like a good fit. The transportation access is huge. You spoke before about possibly returning to the US and working a few years to bulk up your retirement. There isn’t a better time. Unemployment numbers are at a historical low and most companies plan on adding payroll with the new administration. Companies cut back with Covid and working at home. Return to the office is the mantra here in NYC. What a difference in the streets from a few years ago.
How many trips are you thinking your going to be doing to the US. Knowing this will help me in my thinking about moving back and forth from PI to Vegas. Thx 4 the vids
I fly back and forth 2-3 times a year to the USA, specifically Texas. Clark Airport I use Qatar Airways, and the airport is a breeze. It's one stop in Doha and on to DFW airport. I recently used Japan airlines out of NAIA, and the airline was a great experience with a stop at Haneda airport in Japan. I suggest getting an airline travel credit card if you go back and forth that much to earn miles for an almost free airline ticket at some point. Many different cards out there find what suits you best! Good luck!
True gentleman Gio, your business is not for public airing. I hope you both recover personally and become happy in a new life. Very tough time but keep true to yourself, god bless!
Sorry to hear what happened. Youll do fine your channel is growing and you will discover new adventures ahead in so many places still to see in many islands. Cheer up, something awaits you in the horizon.
Rambling is good. It helps clear the air, the way I see it. It's good to know what's happening like maybe seeing less vid notifications. It's good to hear I can get stuff from Amazon in Cebu. I did see an Amazon building when looking at vids for Condos at IT park. I need to know I can order a printer. I was concerned about getting stuff from Amazon. You've elevated some concern about that. Thanks for the vids.
From Argao Cebu and Anchorage Alaska we both wish you the best Gio! It’s your life and no you don’t owe an explanation to anyone regarding your relationships. We will keep watching and enjoying your videos. Also take care f yourself physically emotionally and spiritually! Chris and Ruby Morgan
Good luck with your future endeavors. I remember when you did the videos about apartment searches 3 years ago and this was a very good choice. I will keep watching because you never know where you might end up. Have a safe trip.
You're doing the right thing, Gio. Too many expats and foreigners anywhere overseas is never a good thing; it often leads to higher prices and drama. Hopefully, you and Myra will reconcile.
I’m heading to Bangkok tomorrow but haven’t booked a hotel. Did you have one you liked when you went. Only planning 2 days in Bangkok then off to some other part of the country
Love your channel, Gio, and I'm sorry to see everything you're going through. I've enjoyed learning a bit about the Philippines through your videos. To the people begging for detailed information on "what happened" - give it a break already. Would you want to share intimate details like that in your personal life? I'm guessing not, and most of us watching the channel have at least one failed relationship to our name where we may not even know what went wrong. Best of luck in your future adventures and finding happiness. I look forward to following along.
Hi Gio, you made the comment "going back to the US a lot more and staying longer" that is it in a nutshell!!! I go back to Australia every 5 months and stay 2 months at a time (Sydney) if I didn't do that I could not possibly live in the Philippines without having a Western fix. This is what keeps me SANE!!!!. Good luck Gio and take care.
Sorry to hear the bad news Gio, I can tell in your voice and looking at your face you are absolutely GUTTED,,, Just take your time in a few months time you will look back and realise life gets better and easier, Pleased to see you are moving area but not country ❤ Good luck and ignore the noise in the comments
I heard it's very hard to get a divorce in the Philippines. How do you handle the legal part of the separation? If you could make a general video about the subject will be very helpful.
Not a good one...a much better alternative! Thats's why i move to clark from makati as i fly a lot: emirates and qatar to fly to europe, cebupacific flies direct from clark to bangkok, tokyo, singapore, hong kong and macao...you also have many korean airlines...it is brilliant, 10 to 15mns for check in, security and immigration....cannot be any better!
Good luck to you both. What went wrong with your relationship is no one's business but yours. Only the drama seekers want it. Good on you for not making it public. I will continue to view your vlogs. Wish the best to both of you. 🍻
Gio, I have a little bit of advice for you. I don’t need to know everything that is going on. I know enough that I can relate. I have been married to two filipinas. My current wife more than 25 years. We had a lot of disagreements early on. A lot of fights the first 5 years, and then the fights became less frequent over the years as we got to know each other more. If you truly want to be married to her it is not all you. You have to give and take. If you love each other it can work. Good luck!
All due respect, it's impossible to tell him to stay married to her without knowing what is happening. There are 2 sides to every story and the man is not always guilty.
Some times you have to have the mentality… I am not going to be divorced twice…I am not going to be a 2 time loser. Maybe the relationship is beyond repair? If you want it to work dont give up.
@@tonyquinn22that is what 2 people are giving each other the marriage official solemn vows for, facing off eye to eye and putting the ring on each other's finger. Through good times and harder life periods, even bad times, dedicated on supportive togetherness and remaining in a state of "Together forever after". Those that later on come to find out that they cannot live with the bond and sticky obligations that such vows brought on them, need to seriously reconsider on the matter of ever after in future be of the compatible material to step into such a lifelong concept. In other words never think of any re-marrying again. Because they will bring only wrong on themselves and misery emotionally on their new, later on, love partners in future. Too big probability.
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i suggest just build a bus house so where ever there storm you can simply go out and back
Just wondering what bank you use ..I have bofa.i think it's good in the Philippines or no ?
There’s an amazing fitness trainer in Rhema Fitness Gym Gio it’s 2 minutes walk from Gaisano Grandmall Basak lapu2 , the address basak-Marigondon road
@giointhephilippines Statistics were not in your favor Gio as 2nd marriages have the lowest success rate of all. Wish you find happiness again.
Old dog gets scammed, Gio loses in love, Monty no videos, Pea becomes Westernized... trouble in Paradise???
Also expats assaulting each other at Ground Zero
😂😂😂
Yes and there's more to come
Pea becomes westernized 😂. Fact check says true 😂
I think this is a win for Gio
I have no insight into your situation, so my next comment might not apply at all to you. When you first announced on your channel that Maya was moving in with you, I cautioned on this channel that living with a single mother and her child was not a wise move. A husband at that stage will never come first as the child will always be the mother’s prime obligation. As husband, you will ALWAYS come last with regards to her family.
It shouldn't be a problem to marry a single mother and to be positioned in a certain hierarchy structure. The problem lies with Maya that she discarded Gio. With her everything is black and white. She has a childish mindset (narcissistic).
Bingo 🤨
Truer words were never spoken
@@WendellofIloilo TBH I wouldn't want to be with someone who put me ahead of her children.
Not to mention there is a dude out there somewhere that can become anything from an annoyance to a Real and Present Problem because who Really knows what went down with them . One side is not all of it
Well Gio, lack of information breeds speculation. If you make your married life very public on social media and build a subscriber base around it, many would expect that breakup info would be public as well. One of the appeals of the Philippines to the passport bro crowd is the hope of finding a feminine, petite woman with traditional values to partner with. Your experience, whatever the circumstances, should be a wake up call for those who seek to marry a Filipina hoping it will be a forever relationship. Even if you think you know everything there is to know about a woman, her family and upbringing, identified any and all red flags, and spent a lot of time building a solid relationship while living together, marriage is still a gamble at best. Best wishes for your future endeavours.
right? it's funny to me that people put their entire lives on display without hesitation when it benefits them but when there's a break up they want privacy. I wish Gio and Maya both the best but it's kind of unrealistic to not expect people are going to wonder what happened. I agree with them that it's none of their business but people are still going to wonder, it's literally human nature. Eventually it will come out even if it's on a different channel but in that case it may not be 100% factual. It seems to me like it would be in their best interest to set the record straight themselves. I'm guessing they are both trying to figure out how to do it without hurting the other's feelings which is a good thing.
"finding a feminine, petite woman with traditional values" forget about it lol
Perfect solution DON"T GET MARRIED 🤨
So they should 🙄
@@martin3399 As long as it's going there way it's fine
If they have a better offer ?
Don't blink
Pinay are the same
I recommend if your thinking about moving to the Philippines, don't listen to any of these guys, put your boots on ground and do your own research and only then ask questions, remember to learn the cultures, the language, the political organizations, religions, it's not the U.S.A or any other countries. Good luck to all and safe travel, see the real world.
Great advice. Most of these RUclipsrs have their own issues yet they advise people.
Yep I 2nd that ~ From the BS budget videos to LTR with a girl! It's all BS! Believe me a person who has no real budget in Cebu ~ Yes I have a budget but I can draw on $9K a month if I want to? I just save lots of money over here!!! & always say to yourself " The Philippines aunt your country because you are a guess! I see a lot of other expats treat the locals like sh*t specifically the Australians and Canadian expats in Cebu and these guys will treat us as Americans like crap also!!!
Sure. Best to put your boots on the ground. But there's good advice available on this channel.
dont get involved with a single mother, dont live close to GF/wife family and dont build a house/invest in anything where it benefits a local to get rid of you. this is universal in regards to all expats anywhere
@@jumpinjehoshaphat1951 Sure there's some good advice on this channel at times but also a boatload of contradictory statements made over the years and some just flat out lies
I knew she's not a housewife material, I'm also a Filipina and my American husband we been married for 13 years. The way she acted in my observation in camera I felt she's not real and not committed to your relationship.
I got the same vibe. I think some of these Filipinas get a Western guy and start a YT channel then think they are some kind of local celebrity. I find it so hilarious. They get drunk on all the simp comments from posters.
Now on her own she's playing angel/victim with her 5 minutes non-value added videos just to get super chats and receiving plenty of donations from the next Gio. She thinks she could be financially independent by hosting her YT channel on her own. The majority of her incomes is from donations rather than YT.
Gio you're a good guy. But I think if you're honest, you would admit to yourself that you didn't pick Maya because the was the exemplary filipina. You chose her because she's so very pretty, and you ignored all the other stuff. I'm not saying she's a monster, but if you had chosen a filipina for how loving and caring she was, you would be happier, and still together.
@@Maarten8867 There are lots of pretty women there. I’m sure he picked her because he felt like he could spend the rest of his life with her.
@@morlandoemtp very true and if he was going just for looks he wouldn't have settled with her there's way better in looks department
@@morlandoemtp Well only Gio can answer that question. However, I myself would not have chosen her, even though she's the prettiest Filipina I've ever seen...
She's not even a 7
@@Maarten8867 you in for a world of trouble with Filipinas and most women if you think like that, beauty is not on the outside only, it’s on the inside also.
Lived with the perfect Filipina for over a year, married the perfect filipina, then both going your own way after 1 year of marriage to the perfect filipina. You vloggers give such great advice but can't tell why you had problems so that others can look at what they might be facing? Saying it's "private" is BS because you made your lives public. It's either of three things that brought you to this quick ending of your relationship: 1. lying. 2. cheating. 3. disagreement on how to raise the Filipinas child. We can learn from the good things you guys point out in relationships but if you never really go over the bad parts of the relationships, how can you learn from it. Next relationship, don't advertise it at all. Don't use her as a prop saying how wonderful she is then when the first little "storm" that comes along, you bail.
I've been married 16 years to my filipina and let me tell ya, no one is perfect and you have learn how to get along and make things work when the "storms" come. Bailing out after a YEAR of marriage? BS
Exactly
Gio may not have had a choice. Judging by his mood in the last few vids he seems soulless - like he poured it into the relationship to save it and it didnt work. Now he will have to go find it again. Filipinas can very hard-headed and once they make up their mind you can’t change it.
You got this Gio! Regroup and don’t make any major decision while you’re hurting. Take a break and clear your mind for now.
When I asked about Dumaguete, I was given the same answer more than once. " It's full of drunken foreigners".
I meant to make a comment on your channel of what I noticed in your video of how you met Maya. She wasn’t interested until people were telling her you were “famous” on RUclips. Then she’s interested and started a RUclips channel. It was a huge red flag for me. I figured you’d just block me if I said that. It’s unfortunate things are not working out, but I’m not surprised. Good luck to you.
@@neilgunns8391 ya I agree she was always mking faces that I seen .
There were some red flags.
@@NYJGreatnesswhat were the red flags?
After the Ging breakup he said multiple times his next gf would not be on YT and he would keep things private
@@FinstaDaMinstaMaya was helping support her family before she got with Gio and when they were dating he never told her it bothered him.
After they were married it became a problem for him.
Problem number two was her wanting another baby, he made it clear to her he did not. He decided to leave before she got pregnant.
Best thing your wife maya can do is come to her senses and go back to her husband. On her channel I see a lot of simps filling her head with b.s. a single mother leaving a man that’s willing to care for her and another man’s child she needs to wake up.
My philosophy is don’t chase just replace
All the simps trying to move in on the action
Do we know the whole story? Do we know both sides of the story? It's all speculation, isn't it? We don't know who's right or who's wrong here. To say that one side needs to come to their senses is making a big assumption, isn't it?
Unless you know something that we don't?
She left HIM?
How do you know he wants her back? 🤔
Gio,
Wow, I take my hat off to you for sharing the news. I can tell that you had to gather a lot of strength to do the video.
I am disappointed for you and wish you all the best in the days ahead. I think you are an inspiration to many of your followers on RUclips.
Please continue to share your stories wherever you go
Cheers,
Andy
If you have no hopes of reconciling with Maya, you need to file for divorce in the USA asap. Divorce is coming to the Philippines and the longer you are married, the worse the consequences. You ignored 2 major red flags. The first, never date or marry a single mom, especially one with a daughter. That is such a dangerous thing to do. The second, never marry a girl with multiple tattoos. A traditional Filipina will not get tattoos. Every Filipina who gets visible tattoos knows she will be less employable, yet she still chose to get them. So it shows a lack of wisdom and purpose. You said neither you nor Maya did anything wrong. No, you both did, you married without true integrity to your vows. You both fit in well with current American values.
First, let me tell you Gio, that for whatever the reason, I’m sorry that things didn’t work out four you and Maya. Everyone’s been there, some of us more than once. And that is precisely why many guys watched your content: They want to learn and not make the same mistakes they and others have made. You have literally profited from providing such advice through your “consultations” and whatever other benefits came from your channel. Now I’ve read all of these comments to date, and I realize you’re grieving, but I would not flat-out tell your viewers that you’re not going to discuss it any further. I have to agree with several viewers who are not satisfied with you pulling the “personal” card. We’ve traveled with you on your journey, been welcomed into your home, and listened to your guidance. Consequently, it’s just hypocritical to say that now all of a sudden your life is “personal”. There’s no other way to put it. As several viewers have commented, no, you’re not obligated to discuss the details of what happened, but neither are they obligated to watch your content any longer. You’ve stopped being a teacher.
Making a physical change can also be a good thing to help reset things. Always good to have time to reflect and to give yourself some time to heal . There is a small city just north of Bacolod I think its call Talisay City that might be interesting to see you visit. I've found that I can get less expensive flights to and from the east coast of the U.S. many time by flying in and out of Hong Kong. Iloilo has 4 nonstop flights to HK every week for about $60 if Google flights is correct. Take care of yourself right now minor accidents are more likely to happen as you will be a little more distracted.
My oberservation of Filipino women is coming true. More of them are becoming westernized. The xpats moving in that culture are contributing to this. Ive been praying for vloggers i see living together outside of marriage, its not right in accord with Gods word. All the best to you.
I agree.
Her friend group. The same Westernized Filipinas in that area are responsible for at least 2-3 other public breakups. The Philippines is cooked, boys. Look elsewhere, again.
Thats why you gotta date outside these damn expat enclaves like BGC or Dumagete, get out into the smaller towns and provinces for the more traditional oriented women and never help westernize her yourself.
@@theswede5402 exactly , stay away from the corrupted expat areas , my wife's from a small town in central Luzon , most humble down to earth person I've ever met , she's beautiful with an even more beautiful soul .
Best wishes to Gio.
Note to ANYONE reading this....and speaking from experience....LOTS of experience.....never ever ever become a stepfather. NEVER.
it can work out. starts with the father not being around tho
Sorry you've had such bad experiences. My experience was my mom married my stepfather when my brother and I were young, and he was a godsend to us. A good, decent, hardworking man. He loved us like his own and he and our mom are still happily married, decades later. It can work out if you choose carefully.
Being a stepfather is a thankless task.
@@doctordetroit4339 100%
I hate to say it but I think that the time of going to the RP and getting married to a "traditional" Filipina may well have passed. With the advent of the Smart Phone it is virtually impossible to find that traditional girl that existed back in the 1990s. Use your big head gentlemen. Build your mini empire and enjoy your adventure.
You're right. IMO, it's only a matter of time before it get's just as bad in these more traditional-minded Countries as the West. Social Media is like crack to women's craving for attention and proclivity for hypergamy. That being said, I tell young men to date a woman for at least 3 years before considering marriage. In my experience and from what I've observed, they (females) are great the first 6 months to a year, but will get tired of "putting on the show to close the deal" leading to the question, "what happened to the woman I fell in love with, cause this ain't her."
Smart phones haven't eliminated the Philippines urban slums or Filipina infatuation with White men.
@@markmielke5283 it’s true but the supply demand ratio still favors foreigners. And the girls get braver and more adventurous. I mean you’re completely right when it comes to traditional marriages but the accessibility to Filipinas is still high.
You can still find a decent Filipina, but a lot of guys don’t take their time to vet them.
@@markmielke5283 don't agree. There is still the greatest girls in the world in provinces. Beautiful inside and out... don't give up.
The Philippines is a great vacation destination, but after a while you just get tired of looking at slums and traversing lousy infrastructure. The people can be nice, but they'll never be your friends - you are always an ATM and that's just the way it is. As expensive as Canada is, I moved back here to enjoy the cleanliness, comforts, having my own stuff around me, and being in a place where stuff just works (most of the time :) )
I hear you.
I disagree, I have made some friends. They have never asked me for money in 2 years. You are just hanging with the wrong people.
Amen. Thailand and Vietnam are so much better. Like I was saying before, if it wasn’t for easy women, that place wouldn’t have much else to offer and hardly anyone would go there
@@todd7756 warte mal bis es eng wird.
Es wird dir die Augen öffnen
enjoy the fentanyl crackheads ,rampant crime and high expenses
Sorry to hear Gio. I will say I think you’re better off explaining what happened than going through thousands of comments in the future speculating. I found with my divorce I wish I’d have come out with more up front than what I had to hear as erroneous conjecture. I would recommend to any guys with a pinay relationship to discourage them from having a RUclips channel. From what I’ve seen they start thinking they’re the Philippines version of Marylyn Monroe. They enjoy all the simp adulation a little too much.
Why should he have to explain his PRIVATE LIFE to any one just to appease THEIR desire and need for drama? It's HIS life and he gets to choose what he shares, no one elses.
As the world turns... Life has many unpredictable circumstances that can arise. An ending of a marriage is one of them. I empathize with you both. I for one, appreciate that neither of you are bashing one another and I watch both of your channels regularly. Healing definitely takes time and weight loss in break ups is often a byproduct. Stay healthy and I will continue to watch both of your channels. Good luck in finding your next place to hang your hat. Peace ☮
Now from Davao we have direct flights to Bangkok, Qatar, Hong Kong. Also direct to Tacloban is another new one. Singapore also!
I did a video on these. All the best Gio. Keep your chin up buddy!
I feel like I just saw your marriage episode yesterday. It sucks to have to go through that in a foreign country with no family support but at least you didn't have to go through the American family court system.
Oh yeah the five year annulment process is so much easier. You could just fore go it and end up in prison.
What's up Gio, I'm the tall brother that told you I like your show, when you were sitting in the lobby at the St. Dominique condo's in IloIlo mid November, from soldier to soldier, don't let up, take your channel to higher heights, I believe you can also still give relationship advice to a certain degree like all of us, failed relationships are a regular part of today's global society unfortunately, we're not robots, we live & learn, now go have fun and keep on keeping on, feelings come and feelings go ..... ✌️ From Thailand 💃
Hey buddy how are you?
Well said.
It’s not fair. You use to share and give relationship advise from your personal life in all your vlogs but will not share the details from your breakup. You benefited from sharing your personal life. I feel it’s not a 2 way street.
Give the man a break, he’s probably not ready.
This is Not a two way street. We are just onlookers w/o any say so in their very private matter.
We all have a certain appetite for gossip, but that doesn't mean anyone's obliged to 'share the details' of their relationship just because they did videos with their partner every now and again.
Yeah , that is true and I’m sure he learned from that mistake and if he starts another relationship, he’ll keep it off his channel
Its hypocrisy. He built his blog by sharing information to now close his followers off is not right I know what I will do and that watch to see if he becomes transparent if not just unsubscribe
Gio, what's a good way to find a personal trainer when living in a condo in Cebu?
I would want them to come to the gym in the condo and help me get in shape. How much do the charge? Thanks.
Marriage with anyone after you have been single for a long time is difficult. You have to give up a lot and make many compromises which can really affect quality of life. As far as dating advice goes, we are all experts until it goes south. All the best for your next project.
Great comment. I’m experiencing that now with my gf in Thailand. There’s nothing wrong with her. I just love my freedom more. End of story.
Thanks for the update Gio! That was enough to let us know what happened…when the dust has settled I think a whole video series would be very very helpful to avoid this trap and downfall in the first place…We all want to know how to properly manage a Filipina with the cultural gap…
I’ve only followed you Gio for the last few months and watched about a dozen videos and I’m seriously considering when I turn 65 January 2026 to take my SS benefits and start a new life abroad, bc the American dream is over, and I’m done punching a clock only to turn around and give it all away for the sake of existence.
All the best my friend from afar and I hope one day to meet up.
✌️
Get out of that rat race NOW!!
No one knows what tomorrow brings..
Leave while you can!
The American dream isn't over it just takes new thinking. Get back to homesteading roots. Or living on the road. Buy an Airstream and a nice truck. It's still the best place in the world if you own your home free and clear. That's still the major obstacle most everywhere. Once that's done it's smooth sailing.
We have the same mind Gio. I moved into a beautiful 3 bedroom 3 C/R 2 story house here in Liloan, Cebu, a year ago, near my GF parents house. But before my GF could move in, her "Baby Daddy" shows up all of a sudden after 6 years and she took him back. So now I want to get out of here possibly in January or February and my plan is to also travel on my Honda ADV 160 to many islands, Mindenao, Leyte, Samar, Luzon, Panay, and then Negros. Cebu city has wore me out being so close to my ex. Time for a cool change. Chin up. Good luck to you my friend.
You should be happy that she hadn’t moved in and then he come back. You sound like one of those simps I hear about.
Thats no good im surprised you didn't move on straight away
While not a rule ..it’s better not to live in the same area as your partner but but …when these guys marry the provincial Filipina you’ll be used a cash cow and never be really accepted. A. Don’t marry a provincial Filipina and look at her history and upbringing.
Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Don't give up things will work out for you. Have a blessed day. :)
You dodged a bullet, dude. Count your blessings 🤨
I’m sorry to hear about the dissolution of your relationship with Maya. Just a note about your upcoming future housing, Davao airport is now launching 3 international destinations direct! Thailand, Singapore and Hongkong, non stop direct from DVO. Hope things go well with you and stay safe and healthy. 👍
Singapore airlines / scoot already fly direct to Davao
Davao City is ok, but too freaking hot!!! You are only about 9 degrees from the equator. Spent 6 years down there and then moved to Camiguin Island 4 years ago. Couldn't be happier. More isolated but less dickheads.
Haven’t watched your channel in a while . I have to say I’m not surprised about the outcome of the relationship but won’t go into why I’m not surprised. Wish you both a good future . I do agree with some of the other comments that it would be great if you did a video on what went sideways in order for viewers to learn . Also , if divorce is not allowed then you cannot get remarried in the PI or even date ? Would be good to learn from .
If he can get a divorced judgement in the USA, he can remarry. The Filipina can not ever remarry unless she becomes a US citizen along with the divorce. They might be able to get it annulled though.
plenty of guys there with multiple ex wives/gfs lol my uncle has like 4 families lol
@@archiecruz6336 "Multiple ex wives?" So people in the Phils can get married multiple times without being divorced first? Surprising the gov't allows that.
He can go back to the US and get his divorce. The Philippine government will recognize his divorced status.
@ however I think Gio’s ex can sue him if he hooks up with someone new , no ? Wouldn’t that be considered adultery ?
Sorry how things worked out. I don’t think Maya’s little girl liked you. Just my impression observing the vibe between the two of you at your friend’s wedding.
With millions of women available. Choose wisely.
This will be good, Gio. Your5 best videos are when you are out exploring and showing us what you have learned. This new chapter in your life will help us all; can't wait!
Honest vlog Gio. Sorry to hear about what you might be going through. I've done solo bike trips in Thailand. Been thinking of doing the same in the Phils. Be happy to join you on one.
cheers.
I’ll keep that in mind!
Gio, I've been looking at renting in one of the Cemella projects and would like to know if you have an opinion on them.
Usually they are pretty nice
The guy just got rid of a heavy backpack 👏🏻
He is losing weight fast, just dropped 8 stone overnight 😂
Best wishes for your future adventures. Hard to stay footloose and fancy free in the Phils. without committing to a relationship but it’s not so stressing if u stay single rather than get married! Enjoyed your advice - keep up the good content. Merry Xmas. 🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄
Come to BGC. 20-minutes from airport. No basura. All the food options you could ever want. Mostly locals and a few expats. Everyone minds their own business. We love it here :).
Have you been to a different BGC than I have? Crawling with expats
@@RonRichards-v5f who cares if its crawling with anyone, you can mind your own biz no problem. Its not like anyone forces anyone to lingo or mingle with other expats
I'm sorry to hear about this Gio but hope only the best for both of you. Look forward to seeing future posts and am excited for your new adventures from your experienced point of view. Looking fit btw, great job!
Gio, I’m going to follow you and Maya. The only difference is I will be more active on your page. You have great content. Army, what MOS? If you still want to go diving when I’m in town, let me know it’s free and on a boat. I’ve heard about the expat issues. Robert
"going to"
I will ?
Im behind you,Gio,and respect all your decisions.I know we all make tuff decisions in our lifetime,but we just learn from them,and move on.I know you will move on to a happy life doing what you enjoy,and thats all that matters.I love that you can travel,and explore great places.
Hey Gio, sounds like life happens. Wish Maya luck on her journey and I look forward to watching more of your insights!
I'm so sorry things didn't work out between you & Maya. I wish the best for both of you. You don't owe anyone an explanation. Looking forward to where you land next.
Thank you for the kind words and support.
That's right shit happens 🤔
Hey Gio, truly sorry to hear about you and Maya, I've followed you both for some time and I'm a subscriber to both of you. It was kinda sad to find out about the situation from a third party RUclipsr and watching Maya videos over the last couple of weeks that were kinda confusing without knowing what's going on. Will continue to follow your adventures, and I'm hoping to retire in the Ph eventually. Good luck and stay safe! 🙂
Appreciate it!
Wow Gio, I wish you well on your new start I'm sad to say. I thought you and Maya had something good going. But, I what to say thank you. I learned a lot from you about the Philippines and relationship in the Philippines. Keep your head up! ✊🏾
Good luck on your journey, Gino. Cebu Pacific launched direct flights from Iloilo to Singapore and Hong Kong last month, as well as new routes to Dumaguete, Tagbiliran, and Daraga. There were already international flights before, but they were cancelled due to COVID pandemic. Medical City Iloilo accepts TriCare insurance for U.S veterans at a 25% copay.
Think Gio missed some small print, Davao too is a very international airport with direct links to the major transit centres of Hong Kong, Bangkok, Singapore, Qatar, plus China Quanzhou.
Dear Gio,
Wishing you and Maya all the best as you work through this difficult time.
And thanks to you and your channel I have found the information you provide as very helpful. I am now living and enjoying a good life here in the Philippines for the past 2.5 years.
I hope our paths cross at some point in the future.
I would rather have dating advice from someone who's had the good and the bad, than someone who was just happy all the time, right?
True
True, I have experienced both and can assure you marriage in the main, is a bad idea.
We have all been through a breakup and you have NO obligation to share details. I have always appreciated your calm demeanor and advice on your channel. Wishing you the best in a new chapter.
Thanks, I appreciate that.
Well that’s his prerogative, I personally would think invaluable for expats and he also gives advice all things about the Philippines. He should share what goes wrong and why ..the cultural issues can be tough to take, more so with there province girls but then in Maya’s case you have a poor Filipina thinking something she’s not ..entitled. Here’s the kicker, there’s a kid involved..another broken family.
You live your life in public for money. Expected. @@GiointhePhilippines
Hey Gio!
Any idea what month and where in the mainland you are heading?
I will be in Cebu for the month of February '25'.
I'm retired and have a great place in Rosarito, Baja, Mexico just south 30-minutes south of San Diego!
I'm one block from a Gold's type very modern gym(with professional) trainer's! I'm three blocks from the beautiful pacific ocean! The door's always open!
The Baja pacific is a great place to visit and do vlogs!
I will also spend the month of April in Thailand! Heading back to San Diego & Baja May1st!
Best of luck on your new adventures!
Ray by the Bay
Thailand is the centre of the single man universe
Disneyland for men ,, but you need to know it is a fantasy and not real
I like the information you give.
Water heater, price of condos, city life, food, etc...
I like the pretty colors in the city.
Buy a good telescope or spotting scope to use in those high-rise condos. View the ocean.
Great job, safe travels.
Gio, you know it better than I do, but, when one door closes, another opens, best of luck to you man, keep up the good work!
I appreciate that, thanks!
@@GiointhePhilippines of course
Well said, and good luck with new adventures, looking forward to seeing lots new videos and seeing things differently from now on, keep well and be safe , good luck for the future, cheers from us many years a subscriber to you from central Queensland Australia 🇦🇺
Thank you for the well wishes and support.
I live in Quezon City. I can walk to three different malls all right next to each other. I'm right next to the MRT which gives me access to much of Metro Manila without the traffic. It is actually quiet where I live which is unusual for Metro Manila. This all works for now but I think in 2025 I want to check out some other places in the Philippines. Thank you for your channel Gio. It was very helpful in planning my move to the Philippines. I have been here one year now. I have my SRRV courtesy Visa. It has been a great experience.
It sounds like you have a great setup in Quezon City!
@GiointhePhilippines yeah it's working out well. Ironically I was thinking about moving to Cebu City next year. If you're coming this way, I would love to meet you. I am living near Trinoma Mall. Ayala has a couple of nice developments out here
If you drop your contact email here I can send you photos of the area and even some condo recommendations
Avoid cebu if you are used to walking around. Cebu is difficult to get around. Is definitely not walkable.
Gio, you owe your subscribers a brief but accurate explanation to put it behind & move on....
Gio Gio Gio,
Really sad to hear this news.
Happy for anyone who is lucky enough to find the right one. As we all know it’s not easy and no matter how hard we try sometimes, not always meant to be. It’s always a good thing when we can end a relationship on good terms. Life is to short to waste on a lost cause.If you not happy or something don’t feel right, at the end of the day a person needs self satisfaction and what makes them truly happy.
Let this be a lesson to all, no matter how good you think your relationship is going, good things don’t always last forever. Have that understanding that your life could change any day and to be ready for the next chapter in your life.
With that said always wish you GIO and everyone else in the world nothing but the best.
Hold your head up and stay positive kuya!
Life must go on!
Always stay safe and spread the love
God bless
Really sorry 😞 to hear that the marriage didn’t work out and wish you all the best. I don’t know what happened but I know from personal experience that people change after marriage. All the best for the future!
You might also want to consider Ormoc. There are four ferries a day back to Cebu City, offering a convenient connection. It’s a great option for provincial living without being surrounded by too many expats. Baybay is another fantastic choice. If you’re ever in Leyte or Samar and need a riding partner, let me know-this is my backyard!
It's a shame when things don't work out but it is also a prime example for those who are looking for a relationship to know that this is a possibility. I wish the best to both Maya and you, and good luck on finding what you are looking for.
Goodluck, Gio! Life must go on.
I am planning to move to Cebu, IT park particularly, and do what you said you want to do, use Cebu as a home port and travel, best of luck Gio , even though we have never met l consider you a friend and wish you all the best and looking forward to seeing more content.👍👍😎
Thank you for the well wishes. Cebu is a great choice.
I lived near IT Park. Hated it.
Hi Gio, I've been watching your channel for years, but I dont comment much. I just wanted to say that I am sorry to hear that things didn't work out for you and your wife. Unfortunately, I have been there a couple of times myself, and i know it sucks. It's a lot of stress and heartache, but life goes on. I wish the best of luck and happiness to both of you as you go through this difficult time.
Be positive and onto the next chapter. Looking forward to meeting you Gio for a consultation. I’ve been watching your channel and respect your opinion. Take care be safe.
Thank you for the support and good wishes.
Always go with your instincts! Usually, it's right. If I listened to my instincts in my 20s (in my 50s now), I would've been richer and happier now. We still love your channel. And I will never get married again!!
Wow, that's a tough decision
I met my Filipina in 2018. Lived with her for two plus years now. And yes it’s not the perfect relationship; I have my faults and she has hers. But we’ve learned to get along with each other.
Still not married but will eventually. Marriage is a life long commitment. I always thought you shouldn’t marry someone unless you’re absolutely sure she’s the last girl you’ll ever go out with.
Ummm "we've learned to get along" doesn't sound like you should be taking the next step to marriage.
Thank GOD you left her , She was dragging you down , Her insecurities and possessiveness was beyond normal , You made her what she is , shes ungrateful.
👍👍👍👍👍
Love the idea of riding around the Philippines on a motorcycle!! Definitely need more content about riding lifestyle in the Philippines. Following for more info on Mactan. ✌🏼
Why not try Thailand for a while?
Hey bud, sorry to hear about you guys splitting up. I always thought you were a great couple together. Looking for a new spot, I'm at Boracay island. Live in the dream man. Renting a beautiful condo in a resort community loaded with amenities away from all the touristy stuff. Boracay is a fantastic island, not overly populated or crowded, beautiful beaches, fantastic restaurants and food...
Gio thinking of you and the tough time at the moment. What’s meant to be is meant to be. I’ve always enjoyed your vlogs for a long time and I look forward to enjoying them for some time to come. Stay well and thanks for sharing.
Which one is really better to us Gio? Surfshark or nord? Thank you
Surfshark
Don't get married again, amigo, stay single, and be your own man.
Also in Thailand, better gym facilities and less pressure from the women to marry...should suit your new mentality
Spend less time dispensing advuce about man/woman relationships, and more time on other touristy things
All the best on finding a new place, Gio. (by the way, did Maya insist on you wearing that T-shirt for this video?)
I’ve personally sat on both sides of this bus. I pray healing and wisdom upon you both. Be blessed as each of you heal and move onward.
Thanks for your kind words and prayers.
Good news Gio, once the dust settles you may become qualified to give amicable separation advice 🙂 Back to the business at hand, I'll be interested in your quest for a new semi retirement destination. I lived in Phils for 5 years in 90's and it's one of my plan B's as the loop is closing in other SE countries with regards to tax treatment of foreign sourced income. Goodluck.
Stay strong things will work out. your a good man Gio
Hey Gio... It's ok to move on. Come visit Clark.. You might like it.
Thanks for the update. Cebu sounds like a good fit.
The transportation access is huge. You spoke before about possibly returning to the US and working a few years to bulk up your retirement. There isn’t a better time. Unemployment numbers are at a historical low and most companies plan on adding payroll with the new administration. Companies cut back with Covid and working at home. Return to the office is the mantra here in NYC. What a difference in the streets from a few years ago.
How many trips are you thinking your going to be doing to the US. Knowing this will help me in my thinking about moving back and forth from PI to Vegas. Thx 4 the vids
I fly back and forth 2-3 times a year to the USA, specifically Texas. Clark Airport I use Qatar Airways, and the airport is a breeze. It's one stop in Doha and on to DFW airport. I recently used Japan airlines out of NAIA, and the airline was a great experience with a stop at Haneda airport in Japan. I suggest getting an airline travel credit card if you go back and forth that much to earn miles for an almost free airline ticket at some point. Many different cards out there find what suits you best! Good luck!
True gentleman Gio, your business is not for public airing. I hope you both recover personally and become happy in a new life. Very tough time but keep true to yourself, god bless!
Sorry to hear what happened. Youll do fine your channel is growing and you will discover new adventures ahead in so many places still to see in many islands. Cheer up, something awaits you in the horizon.
Wishing you and Maya peace and contentment!
Rambling is good. It helps clear the air, the way I see it. It's good to know what's happening like maybe seeing less vid notifications.
It's good to hear I can get stuff from Amazon in Cebu. I did see an Amazon building when looking at vids for Condos at IT park. I need to know I can order a printer. I was concerned about getting stuff from Amazon. You've elevated some concern about that.
Thanks for the vids.
From Argao Cebu and Anchorage Alaska we both wish you the best Gio! It’s your life and no you don’t owe an explanation to anyone regarding your relationships. We will keep watching and enjoying your videos. Also take care f yourself physically emotionally and spiritually!
Chris and Ruby Morgan
Thank you for the kind words!
Good luck with your future endeavors. I remember when you did the videos about apartment searches 3 years ago and this was a very good choice. I will keep watching because you never know where you might end up. Have a safe trip.
You're doing the right thing, Gio. Too many expats and foreigners anywhere overseas is never a good thing; it often leads to higher prices and drama. Hopefully, you and Myra will reconcile.
Nah he deserves better
I’m heading to Bangkok tomorrow but haven’t booked a hotel. Did you have one you liked when you went. Only planning 2 days in Bangkok then off to some other part of the country
Love your channel, Gio, and I'm sorry to see everything you're going through. I've enjoyed learning a bit about the Philippines through your videos.
To the people begging for detailed information on "what happened" - give it a break already.
Would you want to share intimate details like that in your personal life?
I'm guessing not, and most of us watching the channel have at least one failed relationship to our name where we may not even know what went wrong.
Best of luck in your future adventures and finding happiness. I look forward to following along.
Thank you for your kind words and support. I appreciate it.
Hi Gio, you made the comment "going back to the US a lot more and staying longer" that is it in a nutshell!!! I go back to Australia every 5 months and stay 2 months at a time (Sydney) if I didn't do that I could not possibly live in the Philippines without having a Western fix. This is what keeps me SANE!!!!. Good luck Gio and take care.
It is good to hear you have a system that works for you.
Sorry things didn’t work out for you guys, will look forward to your future adventures.
Sorry to hear the bad news Gio,
I can tell in your voice and looking at your face you are absolutely GUTTED,,,
Just take your time in a few months time you will look back and realise life gets better and easier,
Pleased to see you are moving area but not country ❤
Good luck and ignore the noise in the comments
My brotha, life is about living, and relationships come and go, keep living.
I heard it's very hard to get a divorce in the Philippines. How do you handle the legal part of the separation? If you could make a general video about the subject will be very helpful.
He can get a divorce from her in the US
You need a stint in Angeles, for therapeutic reasons. The new Clark airport is a good alternative to Cebu or Manila.
What do you like about Angelas?
Not a good one...a much better alternative! Thats's why i move to clark from makati as i fly a lot: emirates and qatar to fly to europe, cebupacific flies direct from clark to bangkok, tokyo, singapore, hong kong and macao...you also have many korean airlines...it is brilliant, 10 to 15mns for check in, security and immigration....cannot be any better!
clark has very little routes flying has of now.
First time in a year Gio makes a vid without hangover
Good luck to you both.
What went wrong with your relationship is no one's business but yours. Only the drama seekers want it. Good on you for not making it public.
I will continue to view your vlogs.
Wish the best to both of you. 🍻
Thank you, I appreciate the support.
Something like not incriminating yourself. But you can sleep at night.
I glad your getting out of Duma, sometimes people don’t know how good they have, Good luck Paison
Gio, I have a little bit of advice for you. I don’t need to know everything that is going on. I know enough that I can relate. I have been married to two filipinas. My current wife more than 25 years. We had a lot of disagreements early on. A lot of fights the first 5 years, and then the fights became less frequent over the years as we got to know each other more. If you truly want to be married to her it is not all you. You have to give and take. If you love each other it can work. Good luck!
All due respect, it's impossible to tell him to stay married to her without knowing what is happening. There are 2 sides to every story and the man is not always guilty.
Some times you have to have the mentality… I am not going to be divorced twice…I am not going to be a 2 time loser. Maybe the relationship is beyond repair? If you want it to work dont give up.
@@tonyquinn22that is what 2 people are giving each other the marriage official solemn vows for, facing off eye to eye and putting the ring on each other's finger. Through good times and harder life periods, even bad times, dedicated on supportive togetherness and remaining in a state of "Together forever after". Those that later on come to find out that they cannot live with the bond and sticky obligations that such vows brought on them, need to seriously reconsider on the matter of ever after in future be of the compatible material to step into such a lifelong concept. In other words never think of any re-marrying again. Because they will bring only wrong on themselves and misery emotionally on their new, later on, love partners in future. Too big probability.
Unfortunately…these two given their histories are pretty flawed. I would say both …lol,huge red flags going into another relationship.
Usually break ups boil to two things. Cheating or money.