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A couple of things Foreigner’s fear when dating a Filipino. 1. Is she married, 2. Is she over 18, 3. Will she treat me as a ATM machine. 4. Will she bring her entire family on the second date. 5. Will she lie to me? 6. Dose she have another guy that she is also dating. END
I'd say the top foreigners' fears are: - Filipina having many brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, uncles, aunts, cats and dogs to possibly support. - That the Filipina is literally owned by her parents. She is too attached to them. She will trust their word over yours. This is very dangerous, even to your life. Like Morena Kaye's father told her after he kicked her and her French husband out of his property where they built a house "why do you care about what he thinks?" (paraphrasing here), that father to me is dangerous. Thank God Morena Kaye stood by her man. Many Filipinas will agree with what their parents order them to do, and I'm sure that will include your expiring. All that you mentioned can be verified by the foreigner.
My brother married a Filipina girl, we told him not to but he said they were in love. We told him she will divorce him n 5 years when she becomes a citizen through marriage. And in 5 years she divorced him and married a Filipina male and brought him over.
1. He runs out of money 2. He runs out of money 3. He runs out of money 4. He runs out of money 5. He runs out of money 6. He runs out of money 7. He runs out of money 8. He runs out of money 9. He runs out of money
As a very married Minister in the Philippines for almost 8 years now. I can assure you that I have met a multitude of single mothers and never once met one with a mixed blood child. I have also met a multitude of intergenerational couples who are still together.
i met one danish guy did that he said she was crazy but its him just like to drink and take girls from bars in cdo even he had a beautiful young pinay and newborn
Thank you Irish. I watch many videos that talk about the Philippines and Filipinas, and I always share them with my Filipina Fiance to gage them for truthfulness. She told me you were right on the spot. You even made her laugh with some of the fears you shared, especially about the rain and the sun, but now I know what to do or at lease offer a solution that will work for us both. Again, thank you. You content is always refreshing and we enjoy it very much.
But you have to understand that these are generalizations. See Jhaja from Off Grid Island Family, Selena from Pro Life Traveler, and Morena Kaye. They don't care about the sun, rain, or anything.
As some one who is separated from a Filipina my advice is don't do it. You can give them the earth an the sky and at the end you are just a ATM, even after almost 3 decades of being with her. So many examples of bad marriage to Filipinas. But some guys still think their Filipina is different
Honestly, it comes down to the individual, I am engaged to a Filipina and my fiancée made it very clear that she is not like other Filipina woman when it comes to money. She actually views it as in insult if I were to try and to give her money as if she was not able to support herself with dignity. My advice is to get to know the individual first and understand their circumstances before you make plans to visit them in person. Before I went and lived with my girlfriend now fiancée for 2 months in person, we video called everyday for at least 3-4 hours per day during each video call for 6 months before I flew to the Philippines. Learn the culture and the family culture, learn about there circumstances and start slow. Currently we are working on the K1 visa with USCIS waiting for our NOA2 so we can get married.
Her family will always have their hands in your pockets. Be firm. Never give them a dime. It soon becomes thousands. Never talk money with her family. Ever. It’s not their business.
I dated a filipina woman when I was living in Florida. Im average sized but she would tell me it was huge lol. Also she would call me Mr. "My first name", example Mr. Charlie. "Oh Mr. Charlie go slow! It so big!" Made me feel like the man lol
You should never make a Filipina or anyone in her family loose face as well or you will have problems hard core. As a foreigner you have to have a open mind and unlearn what you have learned in your country because trust me it is not the same in the Philippines.
I was married to a Filipina for 25 years, the narrator is being truthful about the things she is saying, y’all better listen! The one that made me laugh was the sun, the narrator is spot on! For my late wife, The typical attire for the Texas sun was white cotton long sleeve shirt a big hat and sunglasses. 😂 The way it was explained to me was lighter skin is equated to more success, it meant you worked indoors or professional career. Darker skin from the sun meant lower status, someone who worked under the sun, ie agriculture or something to that effect. Oh and showers they aren’t at all into the mabajo Puwit Dont flame me or report me... political correctness does not exist in PI
Some of your points on Some points off, As a Expat going on 5 years Married, We fear your Family Drama #1, It is off the chart, Filipinos fear just about everything, Some is justified, God Bless
My experience with filipina's was nothing but disappointment. Tried to get with several of them here in the US and couldn't get the time of day. Even tried one of those filipina dating sites and nada! Finally said the hell with them.
don't tell anyone... cos a few of them want a 1/2 foreign baby and are looking for a donor. And, if she turns up accusing you of getting her pregnant, just say "Congratulations, who is the father?" So you are good both ways.... unless you get serious and then you would have to confess. Most will want kids if they get serious.
Many others have said this: She fears that he will want to date HER - rather than the 100-strong extended family ruled by her fearsome old great-grandma, who says upon meeting him: "How much money you make?" "(foreigner answers)" "Not enough!"
Taking a shower very often might have the idea if freshness, nut doesn't leave space to the microbiolife associate strictly to grow on the skin. This is very bad. In fact medical study showed that a bath per 7 days like it was done 50 years ago is the best for health.
Not sure where she's from, but it isn't safe to presume that all Filipinos are speaking Tagalog. There's also Cebuano/Visayan, Ilocano & Hiligayno, which have tens of millions of speakers.
Heh, I guess there must be some truth in the old rumors. I once had an affair with a Filipina. Sometimes she would pull her face and say "Oh, but it's so big!" And I'm only average 🤭 On the other hand, maybe she was just sweet-talking me.
I'm think of travelling. 47 canadian. I search so many way To going to a place and having someone. Not a big... it's ok. I shower and I want to do activity but I'm not rich. I have many question.
Ooh my girl's name is same Sharlene Irish (Shai for short) .. When it is sunny she hides from the sun, she even hid by a wall after we were already out walking together. The sun came out and she ran and hid. Strange. Well she found out about my D and was scared at first but now she has been with me 6 yrs. LOL
I never heard any Filipinos speak about Insurance or insurance policies do they have them? Also talk about Drivers Education please. We drive on The Right Side not The Left, I'd think it would be very Difficult for me to transition.
I’m big for a black guy. You don’t need all of that, unless you’re dating mostly black chicks or US white women. In Asia it’s mostly an obstacle to overcome. Average white foreigner is big enough. This makes sense because the women aren’t huge.
Every Filipina has hidden fears when it comes to dating foreigners. Some are normal and some are a little crazy. Fear is the biggest enemy in any relationship, so understanding what her fears are can help you get your relationship off the ground and keep it from stalling out.
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I would hire you to tell scary stories to kids at a campfire while roasting marshmallows. 🙂 You are such a good story-teller and have a cute accent. 🙂
The vast majority of single Filipinas who are moms have kids with a Filipino. Fact.
A couple of things Foreigner’s fear when dating a Filipino. 1. Is she married, 2. Is she over 18, 3. Will she treat me as a ATM machine. 4. Will she bring her entire family on the second date. 5. Will she lie to me? 6. Dose she have another guy that she is also dating. END
I'd say the top foreigners' fears are:
- Filipina having many brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, uncles, aunts, cats and dogs to possibly support.
- That the Filipina is literally owned by her parents. She is too attached to them. She will trust their word over yours. This is very dangerous, even to your life. Like Morena Kaye's father told her after he kicked her and her French husband out of his property where they built a house "why do you care about what he thinks?" (paraphrasing here), that father to me is dangerous. Thank God Morena Kaye stood by her man. Many Filipinas will agree with what their parents order them to do, and I'm sure that will include your expiring.
All that you mentioned can be verified by the foreigner.
Yep, most of them are deceitful without even knowing it, an embedded survalist culture reinforces it
Dang, who broke your heart? Lmao Goodluck finding success with ANY nationality with that mindset. Lol
i hope you heal bro, but with that mindset you only attract the wrong girls, think only what you want and become and you attract your love my friend❤
@@GetOffTheInternetAndTouchGrass Those are valid concerns. Are you one of those that think men should just deal with all of that and not be concerned?
My brother married a Filipina girl, we told him not to but he said they were in love. We told him she will divorce him n 5 years when she becomes a citizen through marriage. And in 5 years she divorced him and married a Filipina male and brought him over.
Pre-nups would've been a good idea.
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1. He runs out of money
2. He runs out of money
3. He runs out of money
4. He runs out of money
5. He runs out of money
6. He runs out of money
7. He runs out of money
8. He runs out of money
9. He runs out of money
True story. Just like every other woman.
Thats why its wedding chains not wedding rings 😜👍
Stop looking in bars, and stick to provinces where morals and traditional values remain
@@davidtesler1198 province or cities: *AWALT* buddy, wake up
@@davidtesler1198 *MOSTLY remain
They don’t like it too rainy and don’t like it to sunny😂 Like a delicate flower 💐
As a very married Minister in the Philippines for almost 8 years now. I can assure you that I have met a multitude of single mothers and never once met one with a mixed blood child. I have also met a multitude of intergenerational couples who are still together.
i met one danish guy did that he said she was crazy but its him just like to drink and take girls from bars in cdo even he had a beautiful young pinay and newborn
And I'm sure all those single mothers still pretend to be religious, when they have violated god's word and the morals and values he set.
Intergenerational, you mean, a generational age difference?
I think you would do a great kindergarten teacher. Your face expressions, your demeanor in general is so cute. 🙂
Thank you Irish. I watch many videos that talk about the Philippines and Filipinas, and I always share them with my Filipina Fiance to gage them for truthfulness. She told me you were right on the spot. You even made her laugh with some of the fears you shared, especially about the rain and the sun, but now I know what to do or at lease offer a solution that will work for us both. Again, thank you. You content is always refreshing and we enjoy it very much.
But you have to understand that these are generalizations. See Jhaja from Off Grid Island Family, Selena from Pro Life Traveler, and Morena Kaye. They don't care about the sun, rain, or anything.
@@ChochiT0-ddd7fd these "generalizations" apply to 99% of Filipinas. How could I make a video if I don't generalize?
@@SmartGirlPhilippines Gen-eralizations are bad as you don't know every Filipina..
As some one who is separated from a Filipina my advice is don't do it. You can give them the earth an the sky and at the end you are just a ATM, even after almost 3 decades of being with her. So many examples of bad marriage to Filipinas. But some guys still think their Filipina is different
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Love to listen to your tips and most of them make me smile 😊.
Never visited so its great value to learn the culture .
Salamat
Great video I think you summed up the fears really well. Great job
I promise to be very gentle and supportive!
Me too, until inconvenient
You deserve your name: Smart Filippina. Well thought out, easy to understand vlogs. Thank you!
"Make sure your pull out game is good." Ded...
You are Amazing. You always keep it real. Great video. Tanks for sharing .Be blessed.
The warmest rain I ever experienced was in the PI. I was delighted.
Always love your raw and humorous advice. I find it informative and refreshing. Thanks!
She said smash 😂❤
Not to mention "Bump uglies"....
@@DavidTucker-e2j a more sensitive way of saying "pump fuglies"
I find this more interesting, in what people from different countries think about people from different countries than their own.
This is exactly the things we have gone through. we are just waiting on the day for her to come here now,
Honestly, it comes down to the individual, I am engaged to a Filipina and my fiancée made it very clear that she is not like other Filipina woman when it comes to money.
She actually views it as in insult if I were to try and to give her money as if she was not able to support herself with dignity.
My advice is to get to know the individual first and understand their circumstances before you make plans to visit them in person.
Before I went and lived with my girlfriend now fiancée for 2 months in person, we video called everyday for at least 3-4 hours per day during each video call for 6 months before I flew to the Philippines.
Learn the culture and the family culture, learn about there circumstances and start slow.
Currently we are working on the K1 visa with USCIS waiting for our NOA2 so we can get married.
Thank you,🎉I like lessons in courtesy...🎉
Thank you for your advices.
Her family will always have their hands in your pockets. Be firm. Never give them a dime. It soon becomes thousands. Never talk money with her family. Ever. It’s not their business.
I dated a filipina woman when I was living in Florida. Im average sized but she would tell me it was huge lol. Also she would call me Mr. "My first name", example Mr. Charlie.
"Oh Mr. Charlie go slow! It so big!"
Made me feel like the man lol
She told me that too but I was " MR DAVE " 😅
You should never make a Filipina or anyone in her family loose face as well or you will have problems hard core. As a foreigner you have to have a open mind and unlearn what you have learned in your country because trust me it is not the same in the Philippines.
She should be smart and use protection. We aren’t the one getting pregnant. They should always protect theirselves 😅
Right? I've always thought the same.
I was married to a Filipina for 25 years, the narrator is being truthful about the things she is saying, y’all better listen!
The one that made me laugh was the sun, the narrator is spot on! For my late wife, The typical attire for the Texas sun was white cotton long sleeve shirt a big hat and sunglasses. 😂
The way it was explained to me was lighter skin is equated to more success, it meant you worked indoors or professional career.
Darker skin from the sun meant lower status, someone who worked under the sun, ie agriculture or something to that effect.
Oh and showers they aren’t at all into the mabajo Puwit
Dont flame me or report me... political correctness does not exist in PI
So Wise , Thank You .
Some of your points on Some points off, As a Expat going on 5 years Married, We fear your Family Drama #1, It is off the chart, Filipinos fear just about everything, Some is justified, God Bless
Anyone ever think about how Filipino guys feel about these chicks so focused on foreign men?
Nope 😂🤣😂
Pretty relaxed.
My experience with filipina's was nothing but disappointment. Tried to get with several of them here in the US and couldn't get the time of day. Even tried one of those filipina dating sites and nada! Finally said the hell with them.
@@ghiggs5096 you said the key. They are already here in the US!😄
love this vlog
This was funny af 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Thanks. You made a great video.
Come to think about it...
I've courted a few Pinays. And they always prodded at me having another gf somewhere else.
Thank you very much
I like your accent 😊
greetings from the netherlands
I'm married to a Filipina and these are all true.
No. 1 about the "D" is definitely true. My wife is Thai, and she has corroborated this. I guess lots of guys in SE Asia are hung like acorns.
😂
I was joking with a friend from SE Asia, and said you must Piss on your balls, in a serious voice he said no I stretch before I pee lol!
Hung Lo must be a myth then😂.
@@rungfang27 🤣🤣🤣🤣
How about guys that had the snip snip operation and can't have kids anymore ?
don't tell anyone... cos a few of them want a 1/2 foreign baby and are looking for a donor.
And, if she turns up accusing you of getting her pregnant, just say "Congratulations, who is the father?"
So you are good both ways.... unless you get serious and then you would have to confess. Most will want kids if they get serious.
very cute today, Irish
Very good video.
The sun *and* rain???
Many others have said this: She fears that he will want to date HER - rather than the 100-strong extended family ruled by her fearsome old great-grandma, who says upon meeting him:
"How much money you make?"
"(foreigner answers)"
"Not enough!"
I would love to date a Filipina girl
Taking a shower very often might have the idea if freshness, nut doesn't leave space to the microbiolife associate strictly to grow on the skin. This is very bad. In fact medical study showed that a bath per 7 days like it was done 50 years ago is the best for health.
He has NO money 😂😂
#1 woooo i dodged a bullet lol
Treeman LOL
No fear factor here ladies.
Afraid of rain lolll Do they not answer the phone at night because of being
afraid of the dark😜
Whats the 9 THINGS A FILIPINA FEARS When Dating a local?
I get the Bid D reference but not sure what "anos" mean, and online tagalog translations dont help (smelly, burnt)
Ano means what...so it's just slang for your "what."
Not sure where she's from, but it isn't safe to presume that all Filipinos are speaking Tagalog. There's also Cebuano/Visayan, Ilocano & Hiligayno, which have tens of millions of speakers.
@@bricologyok PC karen
the fear bonus number 1 sounds like give money to my family
Is there a meaning to your pretty sash and necklace ?😊
Traditional garb
all understandable.
And how does 1 go about meeting a philippine girl, I've had this question for a while now
Hey, that was good. But what is "bump uglies?" from #7. 🤣🤣😆😆
possibly a polite way of saying 'butt ugly'
She gets use to it, now she loves it lol
The Filipina fears playing second fiddle if the foreigner she meets is married. Got it.
No. She fears being killed or attacked or threatened.
@@SmartGirlPhilippines
Makes sense considering how women get very jealous when it comes to infidelity.
second fiddle.... lucky to be in the orchestra
I love your color, don't bleach yourself ever. Brown pinay is the best, not white one
No diddy
Are you going to change the asian beauty standard? How presumptuous
I am marrierd to a Half-Filipina and do not have any problems. But when it rains she cancels all plans.
Heh, I guess there must be some truth in the old rumors. I once had an affair with a Filipina. Sometimes she would pull her face and say "Oh, but it's so big!" And I'm only average 🤭 On the other hand, maybe she was just sweet-talking me.
Asians are small. It makes sense cuz in general the women of a group match the men, if you know what I mean
This lady speaks like she has lived in the states for decades
let her eat rice and fish. if not she be unhappy especially if there hamburger and fries only.
There's a song : It ain't the meat, it's the motion, something like that.
Filipina needs to observe her foreigner, especially if he doesn't introduce you to his friends or family,
I thought it might be the ANOS in the @NUS
This is a great video.
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I'm think of travelling. 47 canadian. I search so many way To going to a place and having someone.
Not a big... it's ok.
I shower and I want to do activity but I'm not rich.
I have many question.
Sadly they don’t have to worry about that with me 😢
I see.
I want one
The girl in the video is so pretty!
Ooh my girl's name is same Sharlene Irish (Shai for short) .. When it is sunny she hides from the sun, she even hid by a wall after we were already out walking together. The sun came out and she ran and hid. Strange. Well she found out about my D and was scared at first but now she has been with me 6 yrs. LOL
why are the women afraid of rain ??
That you don't have enough money?
I never heard any Filipinos speak about Insurance or insurance policies do they have them? Also talk about Drivers Education please. We drive on The Right Side not The Left, I'd think it would be very Difficult for me to transition.
Of course Filipinos do have insurance. Filipinos drive on the right too. Former American colony
I've just seen shorts of people there chilling under the rain, selling goods and playing cards.... 🤷🏻♂️
Those are called “stand-bys”
You are smart. If I was younger and you liked me, and you were single...........I would want to be together with you.
3:25 Filipino me are the biggest offenders.
#1 must only be the Filipinas in the PI, because that doesn't seem to be a fear here in the states. LOL
Leave Filipino in Filipino!!!
Nope, gotta get them all
I’m big for a black guy. You don’t need all of that, unless you’re dating mostly black chicks or US white women. In Asia it’s mostly an obstacle to overcome. Average white foreigner is big enough. This makes sense because the women aren’t huge.
Are you the international viginal depth arbiter?
Wow you look Beautiful 🥰
i must say the most want to escape the poor country
I thought it was a filipino not a filipina? That was the correct term
No, fillipino = any, fillipina = lady
Foreigner is a 3 if from Korea 😂😂😂
Being taken off to a DiddyFreaksoffs and.......
Oh u mean big banana LOL
No.. It is a big "D" not a big "B"anana ?
🙌❤️🙌
Im confused by your final point, is this a woman or a pet?
This chick is a madam..
Haha. No. I'm just a regular Filipina.
Sex before marriage...
A German in the Philippines, what did he do in Germany for 40 years, did the women run away from him.
Monty Pythons Biggus Dickus.
Your teeth blind me, I like that 😁
There’s a reason why God commanded us to not have sex unless married