Reprogramming My Life | Deep in Scarcity Mindset
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- Опубликовано: 3 июл 2024
- Time Stamps:
00:00 - Update
03:45 - Scarcity Mindset
13:16 - The 100 Year Life by Lynda Gratton
15:40 - Bruce Feiler on Ten Percent Happier
*There appears to be a glitch at 17:48 - the sound bit here is: "We are living longer, for those of us who are lucky enough to do that, and we should take breaks and change course where needed and not feel the pressure to follow this outdated ideal of how our lives should be."
Resources:
- "How the Immigrant Scarcity Mindset Holds Us Back" by Dave Lu: www.davelu.com/p/how-the-immi...
- "The 100 Year Life" Summary by Lynda Gratton: • The 100-Year Life | Lo...
- Bruce Feiler on the Ten Percent Happier Podcast: • How To Find Meaningful...
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Hi there, I'm Jenn!
In this video I share one of the lowest points in my journey so far. Reprogramming my life is a lot harder than I thought.
Previously, I've talked about casually taking job interviews "for practice." However, things have taken a turn, and I find myself spending more time interviewing than actually enjoying my sabbatical or pursuing creative projects. This is far from what I envisioned for my break; it's almost as if I'm actively avoiding it.
I open up about the discomfort I'm feeling, especially regarding financial security despite having budgeted to take a sabbatical for a year. To shed light on my feelings, I share excerpts from Dave Lu's article, "How the Immigrant Scarcity Mindset Holds Us Back." It resonated with me, as it perfectly captures the mindset of first-generation Asian Americans like me. It's not an excuse, but it's something I wanted to share because it really hit home.
Despite it making logical sense to take the time to rejuvenate, I still can't seem to allow myself to relax. The past few weeks have been an ongoing battle with myself, torn between the idea of taking a break and succumbing to my fears. I wish I had better news to share. I started this RUclips channel with the intention of holding myself accountable through public documentation, hoping it would encourage me to dive into creative pursuits instead of settling for security. Yet, as things stand, all I really feel is a sense of embarrassment for not sticking to this resolution. But maybe, if I don't end up with a job offer next month, it's the universe's way of telling me I truly need this break.
Thanks for joining me on this journey of self-discovery and vulnerability!
It takes time for our bodies to get used to a new reality. Even if it's embracing a resting season, it doesn't happen overnight. Our old selves still come knocking back. I deeply resonated when you said "I can't stand it. I can't stand sitting in the discomfort" I went back to my same 9-5 four months after quitting.
After the first few months of feeling embarrassed and like I failed at pursuing my own goals, I'm embracing trying new things outside of work and truly enjoy it knowing I have a paycheck coming my way that week wether I decide to pursue something creative or not! The whole experience taught me I had to ease my way into an entrepreneurship mindset instead of cold plunge my way into it, and that there is nothing wrong with 9-5 work... rooting for you and I hope you forge your path
I'm African, and I relate to you so much!!! I'm only 21, and I feel as though I'm failing so much. Thank you for starting this channel. I'll definitely be following your progress ❤
I quit my contract job that took 9 months to find because I was so uncomfortable in my body everyday that I thought it wasn’t worth my mental health to continue any longer. I don’t regret it, but I am scared. Finding a job in this market is scary. I’m hoping I get out of my slump and can do something creative. Who knows. I’m enjoying watching your journey. It helps me through mine. Much love. ❤
I’m so happy to hear that it’s helpful! ♥️ And I’m proud of you for doing what’s best for you and putting your mental health first. When we are compassionate to ourselves I feel like the universe follows suit. I’m with you - the market is scary! Wishing you all the best in your search, and I hope you find something creative 🥰
Hi Jenn I can’t imagine how it must feel to be this vulnerable but i am SO HAPPY that you are!! I think you’re really helping a lot of people who silently feel the same way, myself included!
Have you thought about maybe taking something on part time? That could help you have the stability you crave but also give room for growth. The interior design job and animal shelter opportunities sound nice, maybe something like that can help you progress towards what you are looking for.
I wish you all the best! 💗
Hi Christina! I’m so glad to hear it’s helpful 🥰 It makes being vulnerable worth it for me.
I have thought about taking part time roles and have definitely applied to jobs that align more with my interests (interior design, dogs) but sadly I’m only getting interviews for Product roles. It’s a tough market right now! Thanks for your advice, I’ll definitely keep shooting my resume out!
I'm there too. I don't want to be and I try not to be. I have found journaling to be the most therapeutic exercise. I hear you still being grateful and I try to do the same. I do believe we're going through things to learn lessons. It's not comfortable though.
Oh my goodness! Stay strong! There's a lot of trust and faith in the process.
One more thing, you are an amazing young lady and any company would be blessed to have you. I've been resisting transitioning my business to a multi social media platform to advertise, but I need to. I do love what I do and that's so important!
Thank you so much! Journaling has helped me a lot during this time and I’m happy to hear it has helped you. It’s amazing that you get to do what you love for a living 🙂 Cheers to us for trusting the process!
Have you read The Pathless Path? That really helped me right before I set off on my career break. It covers feeling all the fears ❤
I haven’t read it but I watched the summary by Ali Abdaal! It’s on my list :) In theory it makes sense, but in practice it’s still a bit scary! Hoping to join you on the other side of fear, and congratulations on taking care of yourself and taking a career break! ♥️