I adore this. There was a time in my life when I was 22/23 that I truly felt on top of the world and able to conquer anything. Now, I’m 28 and so fueled by fear. This video put me back in touch with the part of myself that could conquer anything 🥹 it’s truly amazing and almost brought me to tears. Thank you for this
I just lost my “safe” job as a video editor at 25 and still living at home, I’m now in a transitional period where I have to decide ultimately what the next few months(and years) are gonna look like for me especially now that I’m getting older and family expects certain things. I thank God for stumbling across this video you really inspired me and it feels nice to know that there are other people my age group not really knowing what they’re doing either but “figuring it out later” love that mentality and it’s something I’m definitely about to take with me moving forward
I'm also 25 and I'm in a somewhat similar situation. This transitional phase has been talking a toll on me too - I have figured out what I want to do to make the shift to the next phase of my life but there are a looot of uncertainties and it is a very risky decision so I have been very afraid to take the leap. This video inspired me to take that mindset and trust myself, trust that I am going to figure it out.. Anyway, I hope everything works out for the both of us 🙏✨️
What a coincidence, I'm also 25 and an aspiring filmmaker stuck in a transitional phase. It's comforting to know that there are other people out there too going through the same thing and I'm sure we'll all make it out together.
Reading these comments really warms my heart. I'm 25 too, going on 26 in 4 days lol. I too am currently trying to navigate a transitional phase. I left a job to pursue my passion, but it's been a struggle to keep things afloat on the financial front as the upkeep takes a lot. And I do want to pursue my dream however, I know I'd have to get a stable side job to financially support myself. I'm grateful I recently got a nice opportunity to fulfill that, something that will also give me a bit of time to work on my own gig, so that's a relief. But ngl, I'm very scared to juggle these two responsibilities. I think I'm strong enough, but man I'm nervous. 😅 I feel, growing up, I put a lot of emphasis on having it "figured out" by a certain age, like, by 25. A job I liked, certain financial independence and well, idk, a life that makes me feel happy. And boy was I super wrong.😂 Life has a way of throwing many curveballs but over the course of the past few years, I've grown to embrace the changes, ride the wave, instead of fighting it. And It's honestly so freeing. I really hope we all never stop having this faith in ourselves, be it 25 or 85. So happy to have stumbled upon this video. Such a refreshing reminder. ❤
Same here! So many people seem to be in the same boat at 25. Definitely makes me feel less alone 🙈 I’m about to quit my ‘safe’ but stresssful job because it’s affecting my mental health and i want to do things in my own way rather than following a more traditional path. It is super super scary but long term I know it’s going to be the best for personal growth and happiness ❤
For the past 3 years I’ve been struggling with the feeling of stagnancy in my life, adapting myself to my routine and avoiding any little change that could possibly be risky. Living with the guilt of wasting my youth is really suffocating and I really hope I can draw inspiration from your mindset 💞
I can totally relate. How old are you Slay? Sometimes we focus so much on what we have missed that we forget how much more ahead we have. And the exponential growth thanks to the experience factor.
Literally just go outside, walk around, and talk to the strangers you meet. Anything. Hey did you happen to see the where the deodorant was? Oh my god I'm so glad I chose this line. How are you doing?
This is advice I needed. I’ve been in my bubble and I feel guilty about it and I grow more restless and frustrated the longer I stay where I am. I’ve been working a job I hate for the last four years and I just need to jump into something new. I need more courage to say yes to life
Don't stay in your bubble, but keep going outside. Engage in social activities, sports, entertainment, nature, even learning (eventually take your books and tablet and go out). Do things and meet people. Think pragmatically. In your search for a new job, consider what you like and are good at, but then set goals (even "small" ones like writing a resume) and put them into practice. Overthinking doesn't make things happen. It just makes you stay stuck in an imaginary world of unfulfilled possibilities. Fear is human, but things won't turn out as bad as you imagine and will make you grow anyway. Everything you DO opens up new doors. But doing nothing only keeps you inside, both physically and mentally. So, again, get out of your trap-den. Good things WILL happen. Good luck!
@@itsfelipesanches Glad it helps, Felipe. Out of experience: you mind will talk talk talk endlessly to "protect" itself and the status quo. Don't fall in the trap and keep living in reality, where things really happen and the growth is. And while at it, don't forget to also have fun! Best of luck
Ive been doing / engaging in this kind of mentality since I was in college so that’s more than 5 years now. It brought me the highest of highs as well as the lowest of lows (thus far) but I have zero regrets! ❤
"I think that there's a time to say no to some things but there's also a time where like you don't want it to hinder your growth and I feel that is a season that I am in"
Life has been passing me by. I’m 28 turning 29 and I just feel empty and alone. I want to take risks but I’m scared. I hope i find the courage to chance
the moment I saw on the paper the "say yes... figure it out later" the biggest smile came across my face. I've been doing this as I've reached my senior year of high school and am wanting to make the most of it. Part of it to make it to college and succeed, the other to have fun and take the opportunities of youth. Its amazing.
as a fellow creative, the thing that I envy about your films is how well you can organize these personal reflections into words and stories. I feel like I truly tend to want to create in a similar way or maybe just from a similar place. Anyways, great job being able to express a thought. I'm only just now taking action and taking myself seriously as a creative so i have to say thank you for your inspiration.
Thank you so much for sharing this video! I'm at a point in my life where I don't feel like I'm "participating in life" because I work from home and study my degree online, and my big weekly outing is going to the supermarket for groceries or getting a haircut haha, but the truth is that I've wanted to do something different for a couple of months now that makes me feel alive again. I've been wanting to do a Eurotrip for years and finally have the financial resources to do so, so your video gave me the courage to go on a trip for a couple of months and do something that really forces me to break out of my routine. May you continue to seek out and find adventures that make you feel good about yourself! Meanwhile, we'll be here waiting for the next video:)
I thought I was the only one suffering in my comfort zone. I have always wanted to get out of it yet couldn't gather the courage that it takes to get out. The risk is the word that scared me the most and till date I find myself living in the bubble. I won't totally blame myself for this, I believe all of the habits are because of the environment and beliefs that I grew up with. But this video today has helped me, even for a tiny percent I got a new perspective. I'm happy that I found this video today when I needed something like this the most. It's all about taking the risk or regretting later.
I got offered a job position in the ICU of a hospital 2 years ago. I was going to say no, I never imagined working in that type of environment, it seemed very scary. But my mom was the one who told me to try it out and see what happens- the worst thing that'll happen is you just leave. So I took the jump and I'm beyond happy I said yes. It was definitely scary at first, but the amazing people I've met there have helped me along the way. Just say yes!
I think we all are brave, energetic, fearless and bold but in every one's life there comes a phase when we doubt ourself and filled us with different fears. In this weak times, we need ourself the most for ourself.
I'm currently the saddest and unhappiest version of my life. I want to quit my traineeship and get a higher degree so I can go to university to learn the skills I really wanna learn. But I do not live at home and I have rent and food to pay. I'm scared to quit. But I know it would be worth it.
This resonates so much with me, the past few years have been me relying on things to stay steady, stable, and routine. But then learning to just act first, think later just works out so well in so many situations, and in most worst cases just results in me learning how to make better decisions. Moving to a new city in a few weeks and just seeing what happens seems so exciting!
I agree. I think routine is so important that we set times for ourselves, but also that we nurture our spontaneous side. That we live carefree, for me I have a dedicated morning and night routine because then I can show up like I need to as my best self. Hope you’re doing well!❤
I'm literally marathoning your channel and I'm loving it. It has helped me to solve some things in my life and awakened a motivation that disappeared last year... THANK YOU!!
I just graduated high school and I'm going to be a film student. I'm a little bit scared to begin to live life and to be on my own and this video just helped me so much to see life from another perspective and to be more confident about myself, about my future and the control I have in my life. Also, your cinematography and video editing is top tier, I've seen like ten videos of yours and I'm just stunned and amazed of your work I hope you go far in life and enjoy that talent that you have.
I love your bravery! I am leaving teaching to go figure it out. I have moments when I wonder what I’ve done by resigning, but then I realize that there are many more options that will help you succeed than there are reasons your decision could destroy you. Best wishes!
Love the saying "say Yes now, figure it out later." This is the mindset I and other Rockers I know use for shows we want to go to. We buy the tickets without even knowing how to go to the show or where we're gonna stay lol but that's what makes it so much fun. Cause we'll figure it out on the way
I'm going through this now - I feel confident in myself but stagnant in my life. I just quit my 9-5 today in my home city and am moving to the UK at 30. I'm not worried about how it will go, I'm just excited to put myself in the ebbs and flows of life again.
the part at 4:46 reminds me of this shot in working girl where the main character was looking at the city from the ferry and it was when her life had also changed. Thank you for this beautiful video, it takes away some of the fear I have to say yes to things
I love this! It's a mindset that I'm hoping to apply this year too - last year I spent too much time being afraid to take risks. Your storytelling and cinematography are so inspiring and I can't wait to see what you create in 2023.
Thank you so much❤ This morning I cried and stressed out about my life. I tried to get out of my comfort zone and now I am scared. Thank you once again, it reminds me why I am here in this situation right now.
Totally agree, Riza! I wouldn‘t be where I am if this had not clicked with me 10 years ago. I‘m the cautious type who became an adventurer! Looking forward to your next video!
Yes! I love this mindset and I really resonate with it :) I'd like to believe that when we're in a position to say 'hell yes' to certain things, it already means that we have the things we need to be able to successfully ~figure it out~. So here's to figuring it out together and taking the plunge this 2023!
Riza I quit my job not long ago to go into my own venture and I just stumbled across your video. What you said really resonated with me and I really thank you for this beautiful video. It was exactly what I needed to hear today and it reminded me why I am doing what I’m doing. You’ve got yourself a lifelong supporter & subscriber! ❤
Beautiful video - it's a good reminder to all of us, to break away from the norms we've all grown up with and to challenge ourselves to truly go out there and explore all that life has to offer us. Thanks for sharing Riza!
coming back to this months after I first watched it, This has changed how I see and do things so much. I've always wanted to solo travel, but never had the balls to do it but when I was on a 6 hour train ride back home with 2 of my friends last week, I booked a whole ass 1 month long trip to Japan. Alone. Full Solo. Those same friends called me an idiot, because I didn't get a refund option on those plane tickets, but without remembering the main quote from this video, I said "Do now, figure it out later". and now I got this video in my recommended again and goddamn am I excited! Thank you.
A beautiful movie. Thanks for making it. I've had a wild few years, and I've allowed fear and hesitation to take over. I needed to hear this today. 🙏❤️
It's really interesting to see your ability to put into words what many experience. The biggest change for me, is not that there's no more risks, but that the risks/choices seem to mean more. Sometimes I've stumbled, but you at least always stumble in a direction. We figure out as we go. Superb video!
I cried a lot after watching ur video, it’s really hits my feelings, brings up nostalgia, show me that I’ve been through a lot in order to be who I’m , I will always take risks in order to seek my dreams and passions, thanks a lot, ur video inspires me up ❤️❤️
sometimes i remember that when everything is said and done, one day we will look back to this time period of uncertainty and confusion with pure nostalgia
You really have a beautiful way of storytelling. Your honesty is refreshing thank you! Mindfulness inspired me to create my own channel - to gently remind people to stay in the present. I started deeply looking into meditation as someone who struggles with a constantly wandering mind since early university days. Some days are easy but most days are incredibly hard to be present constantly, especially as a student. Meditation has genuinely helped me become a better person and more importantly actively try to be a mindful person. Days are not easy but its the littles steps consistently that count!
I stumbled upon your channel and wow am I glad I did. Your cinematic style for RUclips vlogging is unique and beautiful. The first video of yours i watched, i thought you had hired an actor, but then i realized it was just you being you! I hope you keep that growth mindset and continue to hone your already impressive skills (and continue to make youtube videos for me to watch, of course 😂)
Girrrl I am so happy I stumbled across your channel just now, the energy, the storytelling, the cinematic quality ✨ I've been hesitating so much putting off making my own short films but I'm feeling so pumped up for the day after watching this, can't wait to see more, new sub 💞
Suddenly stumbled upon this video again and I totally forgot that I got the quote “say yes now, figure it out later” from here. It’s been written on a sticky note which I stuck on my mirror earlier this year and now we’re in december and things have changed so much for me this year. Some for the better some for the worse but also some of the best things came along this year. Things I’ve never expected I’d be able to do. But I said yes and figured it out. Normally I don’t have much with quotes nor do they stick but this one? Yes. This is it. I’ll be taking it with me into 2024. 2023 was the year of doing the groundwork. 2024 is the year of getting out there in the world and live. Thank you so much for making this video, it helped❤️✨
i just had a mental breakdown at work because i felt overwhelmed by all the responsibilities i have and still pursue my dreams and have a life but youtube recommended me this video and now i feel kinda better, thank you so much for this, it helped lots💕
saw this amazing video by chance and glad i pressed on it. whatever it comes will come. what will be will be. just go ahead and embrace ourselves in the beauty of risks.
wow I am currently in my 20s and also Its hard i don't know what do sometimes when it comes to making decisions but I know myself and knowing that taking risks and trusting the process is going to be a something that i need to try to tell myself and that quote that you mention is also good to remember because sometimes we just have to jump right in or just do it and see where life takes us despite the fear.
I'm glad that youtube algorithm suggested me one of your videos and i fell in love with it.I love your videos, editing skills and the content. Really my pleasure to know that somewhere in this big planet, a person like you exist. Stay happy and blessed. I'm looking forward to more quality videos as this one ❤❤
The Universe is constantly unfolding, so really, nobody has it fully figured out, because nobody really knows what is going to happen in future, once we accept that and let go, you find true freedom, it's liberating to let go control, and go with the flow, and that in itself is as close to figuring it out we will ever get, and that's beautiful.
Very interesting to see different people in there 20's here. I just turned 20, and my life ahead seems so daunting. Yet because I don't "know my potential" yet I feel full of energy and ready to succeed. But sometimes I slow down and see life in a sort of wholistic way. your videos has helped me with that as of late.
I'm 18 years old, got no friends and have been doing online school for 3 years, this is my final year of high-school which will be ending in less then a month, I will try to take what you've said here and apply it to my own life, idk why but sometimes I have trouble understanding points to big philosophical video like this but I do know some points such as to go with the flow and say yes to things, of course say no in certain situations but for ones such as meeting new people or going out with friends, to go with the Flow and have faith in yourself. Ive also learned that if I dont learn these things I may miss out on many crucial moments in my life and live a forgetful life, which is one I do not want to live, I hope I've understood your video and regardless thank you got making this video for other people.
same here I been stuck doing online school for 3 years now and I'm 21, I'm taking the risk of going to college in person next month so we'll see what happens!
First time here, and I know there must be a reason for that. With that, I thank you so much for the fact that I have another quotes to live by, "Say yes now. Figure it out later." Much love to you ❤
Just pouring my heart out, I want to get out of my comfort home, town and live nomadic life or explore the different parts of country, but my parents health is not supporting at all, neither I can fix in a go, nor I can quit. Adulthood is pretty hard, either start earning from quite early age and make a lot of money so that money takes care of most of things, or be prepared, enjoy early maybe you're in college. Don't compromise on your and your family health, money and life experiences can be bought easily, but time and health.
"'Figure it out' is... if you're going to take the risk, then just trust yourself. That you will have your own back in whatever situation you find yourself in. That you won't let yourself down in the end. ... I think back - and the number of times I could've said no? I can't even imagine what would've happened if I did say no. ... There's a time to say no to some things, but there's also a time where like you don't want it to hinder your growth, and I feel that is a season that I am in."
I rarely comment on youtube. But, I feel like I should on your videos. Thank you for being such a positive, wonderful and inspirational person. You're a wonderful storyteller, and I am glad I came across your video. Have a good day.
I love your positivity and peace you brought in your video, hope you meet a great journey in the next, as well as with the people who are facing stress, and vagueness in life
I genuinely loved this video! I even wrote it down in my notebook.. "say yes now, figure it out later" It's just like how life goes; We don't really know why we're here and for what purpose.. but I'm sure a version of you in the future knows!! and they're gonna be glad that you kept going, enjoyed your moments and made those decisions.. so keep going, let go and move with the flow🌟 at the end I'm really excited for the future, I really am. December 31 11:11 (a lil note to the future me and anyone reading this)
Trying to learn this YT thing, I pressed "K" every time I noticed a cut. I counted 123. I tried to also see if I could categorize each one as Closup, Medium, or Wide. I could not even keep up with camera movement and changes in camera angles. It's amazing to study what goes by so smoothly and seamlessly if I just sit back and watch. You demonstrate the truism that really good editing is not even noticeable. It's a pleasure.
I've been dreaming of something that I want to become and it's been almost four years now I'm still just.... dreaming. It's suffocates me so much but there are doubts and fear and insecurity everything but positivity. I feel stuck in life. I feel like I'm just wasting my time as well as my youth. I hope this will help and I'll make any move and go for what I want now. And believe me procrastination sucks!!!!
hey, these type of videos make me realize, and ask myself, what actually is life?, am i living life to the fullest? ill sit down and answer those questions today, what do i want to do? what are my goals? what do i need to achieve my goals? what matters? im improving, im studying everyday, i did yoga yesterday and will today, im reading the newspaper many days, im journalling, im doing diamond art, im playing sports, so what if i enjoy couple hours or do some mistakes? you got this.
Your videos are so refreshing, inspiring, I'm currently changing my mindset and your approach is pretty similar so I'm happy other people can learn that from you. Keep going, you're amazing !!
I just found this video as I'm going through my "anxiously shoveling through semi-motivational youtube videos" part of my Tuesday night and I have to say- I might be having a eureka moment right now. To keep it brief, I dropped out of one of the best universities in Canada this August due to massive burnout and depression and have moved to a whole new city in order to pursue real happiness and fulfillment. At just 20, I feel like my world is simultaneously ending and just starting. To anyone who might be reading this and going through a hard time (as most of us probably are, let's be real) I just hope you can find the time to eat well, laugh carelessly, and allow yourself some grace while you find your place in this world :)
Just found your channel, your videos are so well filmed and edited - I’m shocked you don’t have more subs. As for the message, thank you I really needed to hear it
I couldn't finish this video. I don't want to. I don't want to finish this content and skip to another video. I just want to remain with the feelings you have reminded me. I wish I could be consistent as you were. I've started a new life but sometimes I don't feel strong to keep on.
This video reminds me so much of the book "Year of Yes" by the writer behind Grey's Anatomy, Shonda Rhymes. I highly recommend that book for some beautiful, funny inspiration. She talked about the same mentality, promising that instead of being an introverted hermit hiding from the world and always saying No out of fear, that instead she would say yes, even if it scared the living sh*t out of her. Isnt it crazy, that if she didnt say yes, we wouldnt have some of the most successful, groundbreaking TV stories of our time? That book really changed me, and this video reminds me so much of that same mentality. Im definitely going through a transformational period in my life where Im learning to take risks and say yes, and its slowly changing my life in ways I wouldve never dreamed of as a child. I know the universe brought this video to me as a sign, thank you for your content and your messages. I needed to hear this.
O my Goshhh... I have only watch two videos and I'm 1000% in love. You are really intelligent Riza as an aspiring film maker I'm in love. It would be really dope if I could meet you one day❤
Great advice. I just feel like my problem is that I don't see the chances. I kind of blind for them. It has always been a miracle to me how people make friends outside if work/uni/etc.
A 16 yr old boi here just coming across this video and reading comments of all the people older than me makes me wonder what life is xD ,well for now nothing is more challenging than exams and Asking out my crush! lol I wanna do lotsss and lotsss of things including my dream of travelling alone at night , making lots of friends and just enjoying life hehe
I think there needs to be a movement: "Take risks and figure it out as you go". I imagine that in this day of social media, people don't do this, rather they conceive of their life in their heads. And I imagine that many people today, don't have a method that releases their fears and resentments which leads to uncovering thoughts and reasons they are driven to behave in ways that dont serve them, or a awareness of life as abundance or living in an abundant universe. I am in the first category, and so what I want to do is to do everything that I do in a new way and treat it as a process of learning and YES, I want to do like you do. I am much older than you, but age means nothing for where we are at. I know now that I am a seeker and one who never gives up. xx I love your in the moment and candid way of telling your stories. Thats intimate.
I did something similar at 30. I took a year off to get some travelling done. From Cuba to North Korea. I wish that digital cameras were a thing back then.
I'm 20 yrs old, I'm still in my place for 3yrs and a half for now, in the same highschool class with the same people and same ideas, but I'm sick of that! I wanna say yes to those microscopic chances i wanna live and try again, I'll study for my finals one last time & get out of this bubble, i wanna try living too!
I adore this. There was a time in my life when I was 22/23 that I truly felt on top of the world and able to conquer anything. Now, I’m 28 and so fueled by fear. This video put me back in touch with the part of myself that could conquer anything 🥹 it’s truly amazing and almost brought me to tears. Thank you for this
Lol same. I'm also 28 and it's insane how much I've turned into a fear-ridden anxious wreck since I was 21 :S
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Same here... 28, is excited but also a little bit of mix feelings
Same here 😕 27
You guys are really young still, just go out and do things you want to get done. Don't worry about failure.
"say yes now, figure it out later" damn I'm gonna put that quote on my wall
same :)
this is my exact thought too after watching this
I just lost my “safe” job as a video editor at 25 and still living at home, I’m now in a transitional period where I have to decide ultimately what the next few months(and years) are gonna look like for me especially now that I’m getting older and family expects certain things. I thank God for stumbling across this video you really inspired me and it feels nice to know that there are other people my age group not really knowing what they’re doing either but “figuring it out later” love that mentality and it’s something I’m definitely about to take with me moving forward
I'm also 25 and I'm in a somewhat similar situation. This transitional phase has been talking a toll on me too - I have figured out what I want to do to make the shift to the next phase of my life but there are a looot of uncertainties and it is a very risky decision so I have been very afraid to take the leap.
This video inspired me to take that mindset and trust myself, trust that I am going to figure it out..
Anyway, I hope everything works out for the both of us 🙏✨️
What a coincidence, I'm also 25 and an aspiring filmmaker stuck in a transitional phase. It's comforting to know that there are other people out there too going through the same thing and I'm sure we'll all make it out together.
Hope you figure it out in your own pace and style. That's what Ig I'm trying to do too.
Reading these comments really warms my heart. I'm 25 too, going on 26 in 4 days lol. I too am currently trying to navigate a transitional phase. I left a job to pursue my passion, but it's been a struggle to keep things afloat on the financial front as the upkeep takes a lot. And I do want to pursue my dream however, I know I'd have to get a stable side job to financially support myself. I'm grateful I recently got a nice opportunity to fulfill that, something that will also give me a bit of time to work on my own gig, so that's a relief.
But ngl, I'm very scared to juggle these two responsibilities. I think I'm strong enough, but man I'm nervous. 😅
I feel, growing up, I put a lot of emphasis on having it "figured out" by a certain age, like, by 25. A job I liked, certain financial independence and well, idk, a life that makes me feel happy. And boy was I super wrong.😂 Life has a way of throwing many curveballs but over the course of the past few years, I've grown to embrace the changes, ride the wave, instead of fighting it. And It's honestly so freeing. I really hope we all never stop having this faith in ourselves, be it 25 or 85. So happy to have stumbled upon this video. Such a refreshing reminder. ❤
Same here! So many people seem to be in the same boat at 25. Definitely makes me feel less alone 🙈 I’m about to quit my ‘safe’ but stresssful job because it’s affecting my mental health and i want to do things in my own way rather than following a more traditional path. It is super super scary but long term I know it’s going to be the best for personal growth and happiness ❤
For the past 3 years I’ve been struggling with the feeling of stagnancy in my life, adapting myself to my routine and avoiding any little change that could possibly be risky. Living with the guilt of wasting my youth is really suffocating and I really hope I can draw inspiration from your mindset 💞
same. I think this is happening to so many people rn since covid hit. but we have the power to change it up :)
I can totally relate. How old are you Slay? Sometimes we focus so much on what we have missed that we forget how much more ahead we have. And the exponential growth thanks to the experience factor.
Literally just go outside, walk around, and talk to the strangers you meet. Anything. Hey did you happen to see the where the deodorant was? Oh my god I'm so glad I chose this line. How are you doing?
This is advice I needed. I’ve been in my bubble and I feel guilty about it and I grow more restless and frustrated the longer I stay where I am. I’ve been working a job I hate for the last four years and I just need to jump into something new. I need more courage to say yes to life
Don't stay in your bubble, but keep going outside. Engage in social activities, sports, entertainment, nature, even learning (eventually take your books and tablet and go out). Do things and meet people. Think pragmatically. In your search for a new job, consider what you like and are good at, but then set goals (even "small" ones like writing a resume) and put them into practice. Overthinking doesn't make things happen. It just makes you stay stuck in an imaginary world of unfulfilled possibilities. Fear is human, but things won't turn out as bad as you imagine and will make you grow anyway. Everything you DO opens up new doors. But doing nothing only keeps you inside, both physically and mentally. So, again, get out of your trap-den. Good things WILL happen. Good luck!
@@gianz73 beautiful response - appreciate that Gian.
@@itsfelipesanches Glad it helps, Felipe. Out of experience: you mind will talk talk talk endlessly to "protect" itself and the status quo. Don't fall in the trap and keep living in reality, where things really happen and the growth is. And while at it, don't forget to also have fun! Best of luck
Glad to be a part of the Karizaverse 🤩
@ColtKirwan is that you min 2:46? wow
I love you both so much 😭🤧💗✨
Ive been doing / engaging in this kind of mentality since I was in college so that’s more than 5 years now. It brought me the highest of highs as well as the lowest of lows (thus far) but I have zero regrets! ❤
This is the way of life. There are always highs and lows
"I think that there's a time to say no to some things but there's also a time where like you don't want it to hinder your growth and I feel that is a season that I am in"
Life has been passing me by. I’m 28 turning 29 and I just feel empty and alone. I want to take risks but I’m scared. I hope i find the courage to chance
Hey stop focusing on age and start working on your goals. Journaling and meditation will also help u with emptiness.
the moment I saw on the paper the "say yes... figure it out later" the biggest smile came across my face. I've been doing this as I've reached my senior year of high school and am wanting to make the most of it. Part of it to make it to college and succeed, the other to have fun and take the opportunities of youth. Its amazing.
as a fellow creative, the thing that I envy about your films is how well you can organize these personal reflections into words and stories. I feel like I truly tend to want to create in a similar way or maybe just from a similar place. Anyways, great job being able to express a thought. I'm only just now taking action and taking myself seriously as a creative so i have to say thank you for your inspiration.
Thank you so much for sharing this video! I'm at a point in my life where I don't feel like I'm "participating in life" because I work from home and study my degree online, and my big weekly outing is going to the supermarket for groceries or getting a haircut haha, but the truth is that I've wanted to do something different for a couple of months now that makes me feel alive again. I've been wanting to do a Eurotrip for years and finally have the financial resources to do so, so your video gave me the courage to go on a trip for a couple of months and do something that really forces me to break out of my routine. May you continue to seek out and find adventures that make you feel good about yourself! Meanwhile, we'll be here waiting for the next video:)
so glad to hear that Fernando!! :)
loved this comment!!
Haha man, same situation here ✌️ have you made the trip yet and how have things changed?
I thought I was the only one suffering in my comfort zone. I have always wanted to get out of it yet couldn't gather the courage that it takes to get out. The risk is the word that scared me the most and till date I find myself living in the bubble. I won't totally blame myself for this, I believe all of the habits are because of the environment and beliefs that I grew up with. But this video today has helped me, even for a tiny percent I got a new perspective. I'm happy that I found this video today when I needed something like this the most. It's all about taking the risk or regretting later.
I can’t believe I just found your channel yesterday. The cinematography and storytelling is unbelievable. Amazing stuff! ❤
This was outright beautiful. Good luck and Godspeed
I got offered a job position in the ICU of a hospital 2 years ago. I was going to say no, I never imagined working in that type of environment, it seemed very scary. But my mom was the one who told me to try it out and see what happens- the worst thing that'll happen is you just leave. So I took the jump and I'm beyond happy I said yes. It was definitely scary at first, but the amazing people I've met there have helped me along the way. Just say yes!
I love your delicacy, in this world of screaming people, you are a rare pearl!
Unbelievably good storytelling. Beautiful message. Thanks for making this!
I think we all are brave, energetic, fearless and bold but in every one's life there comes a phase when we doubt ourself and filled us with different fears. In this weak times, we need ourself the most for ourself.
I'm currently the saddest and unhappiest version of my life. I want to quit my traineeship and get a higher degree so I can go to university to learn the skills I really wanna learn. But I do not live at home and I have rent and food to pay. I'm scared to quit. But I know it would be worth it.
I hope things worked out for you. I'm kinda in the same spot and am ready to take that leap of faith.
that final shot of you in New York, was THE SHOT. The Music, the way you do the doll. God!!
This resonates so much with me, the past few years have been me relying on things to stay steady, stable, and routine. But then learning to just act first, think later just works out so well in so many situations, and in most worst cases just results in me learning how to make better decisions. Moving to a new city in a few weeks and just seeing what happens seems so exciting!
I agree. I think routine is so important that we set times for ourselves, but also that we nurture our spontaneous side. That we live carefree, for me I have a dedicated morning and night routine because then I can show up like I need to as my best self. Hope you’re doing well!❤
I'm literally marathoning your channel and I'm loving it. It has helped me to solve some things in my life and awakened a motivation that disappeared last year... THANK YOU!!
I just graduated high school and I'm going to be a film student. I'm a little bit scared to begin to live life and to be on my own and this video just helped me so much to see life from another perspective and to be more confident about myself, about my future and the control I have in my life. Also, your cinematography and video editing is top tier, I've seen like ten videos of yours and I'm just stunned and amazed of your work I hope you go far in life and enjoy that talent that you have.
I love your bravery! I am leaving teaching to go figure it out. I have moments when I wonder what I’ve done by resigning, but then I realize that there are many more options that will help you succeed than there are reasons your decision could destroy you.
Best wishes!
something about the shots and music and her calming voice just hit home
Love the saying "say Yes now, figure it out later." This is the mindset I and other Rockers I know use for shows we want to go to. We buy the tickets without even knowing how to go to the show or where we're gonna stay lol but that's what makes it so much fun. Cause we'll figure it out on the way
I'm going through this now - I feel confident in myself but stagnant in my life. I just quit my 9-5 today in my home city and am moving to the UK at 30. I'm not worried about how it will go, I'm just excited to put myself in the ebbs and flows of life again.
the part at 4:46 reminds me of this shot in working girl where the main character was looking at the city from the ferry and it was when her life had also changed. Thank you for this beautiful video, it takes away some of the fear I have to say yes to things
omg adding that movie to my watch list!
I love this! It's a mindset that I'm hoping to apply this year too - last year I spent too much time being afraid to take risks. Your storytelling and cinematography are so inspiring and I can't wait to see what you create in 2023.
Thank you! You got this 🫶🏼
so? may we have an update ? :)
It's so good to know you're not alone in this
Thank you so much❤ This morning I cried and stressed out about my life. I tried to get out of my comfort zone and now I am scared. Thank you once again, it reminds me why I am here in this situation right now.
Love that transition with the vehicle at 0:10. That's awesome.
I keep coming back to your videos and they inspire me and fill me up with joy again and again
Wish you were my friend irl
Totally agree, Riza! I wouldn‘t be where I am if this had not clicked with me 10 years ago. I‘m the cautious type who became an adventurer! Looking forward to your next video!
Yes! I love this mindset and I really resonate with it :) I'd like to believe that when we're in a position to say 'hell yes' to certain things, it already means that we have the things we need to be able to successfully ~figure it out~. So here's to figuring it out together and taking the plunge this 2023!
Riza I quit my job not long ago to go into my own venture and I just stumbled across your video. What you said really resonated with me and I really thank you for this beautiful video. It was exactly what I needed to hear today and it reminded me why I am doing what I’m doing. You’ve got yourself a lifelong supporter & subscriber! ❤
Your content is like a balm for the soul. Thank you for making this.
0:34 shocked me! I've been listening to Andrew & his sibs podcast. Huhu So good to see all my fave content creators in one frame! Luv ya all!
Absolutely beautiful video. The vibes, immaculate. The message, sensational.
Beautiful video - it's a good reminder to all of us, to break away from the norms we've all grown up with and to challenge ourselves to truly go out there and explore all that life has to offer us. Thanks for sharing Riza!
'micro chances', love that :) tiny infinities that exist all around us
keep it up, can't wait to see where you go next!
coming back to this months after I first watched it,
This has changed how I see and do things so much. I've always wanted to solo travel, but never had the balls to do it
but when I was on a 6 hour train ride back home with 2 of my friends last week, I booked a whole ass 1 month long trip to Japan. Alone. Full Solo.
Those same friends called me an idiot, because I didn't get a refund option on those plane tickets, but without remembering the main quote from this video, I said "Do now, figure it out later".
and now I got this video in my recommended again and goddamn am I excited!
Thank you.
My first solo trip was to Japan for a month too! It was the best time and learning experience of my life. 🤍 I wish you a great trip!
@@LifeOfRiza thank you! I hope you the best of luck with your future trips aswell ❤️
This is definitly one of my favorite RUclips channels. Thanks Riza
A beautiful movie. Thanks for making it. I've had a wild few years, and I've allowed fear and hesitation to take over. I needed to hear this today. 🙏❤️
It's really interesting to see your ability to put into words what many experience. The biggest change for me, is not that there's no more risks, but that the risks/choices seem to mean more. Sometimes I've stumbled, but you at least always stumble in a direction. We figure out as we go. Superb video!
I cried a lot after watching ur video, it’s really hits my feelings, brings up nostalgia, show me that I’ve been through a lot in order to be who I’m , I will always take risks in order to seek my dreams and passions, thanks a lot, ur video inspires me up ❤️❤️
sometimes i remember that when everything is said and done, one day we will look back to this time period of uncertainty and confusion with pure nostalgia
You really have a beautiful way of storytelling.
Your honesty is refreshing thank you!
Mindfulness inspired me to create my own channel - to gently remind people to stay in the present.
I started deeply looking into meditation as someone who struggles with a constantly wandering mind since early university days. Some days are easy but most days are incredibly hard to be present constantly, especially as a student. Meditation has genuinely helped me become a better person and more importantly actively try to be a mindful person.
Days are not easy but its the littles steps consistently that count!
Last year I had a motto that I went by, Live your life. It has recently changed to, Live your best life.
Life of Riza sound like a map for rediscovering yourself.. Thank you for sharing and inspiring
I stumbled upon your channel and wow am I glad I did. Your cinematic style for RUclips vlogging is unique and beautiful. The first video of yours i watched, i thought you had hired an actor, but then i realized it was just you being you! I hope you keep that growth mindset and continue to hone your already impressive skills (and continue to make youtube videos for me to watch, of course 😂)
Girrrl I am so happy I stumbled across your channel just now, the energy, the storytelling, the cinematic quality ✨ I've been hesitating so much putting off making my own short films but I'm feeling so pumped up for the day after watching this, can't wait to see more, new sub 💞
Suddenly stumbled upon this video again and I totally forgot that I got the quote “say yes now, figure it out later” from here. It’s been written on a sticky note which I stuck on my mirror earlier this year and now we’re in december and things have changed so much for me this year. Some for the better some for the worse but also some of the best things came along this year. Things I’ve never expected I’d be able to do. But I said yes and figured it out. Normally I don’t have much with quotes nor do they stick but this one? Yes. This is it. I’ll be taking it with me into 2024. 2023 was the year of doing the groundwork. 2024 is the year of getting out there in the world and live. Thank you so much for making this video, it helped❤️✨
I got sooo emotional while watching this video, as it made me feel free, to figure it out, take risks and I guess be happy !!
Say yes figure it out later. That is a brave risk. Big respect to you Riza!
i just had a mental breakdown at work because i felt overwhelmed by all the responsibilities i have and still pursue my dreams and have a life but youtube recommended me this video and now i feel kinda better, thank you so much for this, it helped lots💕
saw this amazing video by chance and glad i pressed on it. whatever it comes will come. what will be will be. just go ahead and embrace ourselves in the beauty of risks.
I can't like/love this enough ❤
wow I am currently in my 20s and also Its hard i don't know what do sometimes when it comes to making decisions but I know myself and knowing that taking risks and trusting the process is going to be a something that i need to try to tell myself and that quote that you mention is also good to remember because sometimes we just have to jump right in or just do it and see where life takes us despite the fear.
I'm glad that youtube algorithm suggested me one of your videos and i fell in love with it.I love your videos, editing skills and the content. Really my pleasure to know that somewhere in this big planet, a person like you exist. Stay happy and blessed. I'm looking forward to more quality videos as this one ❤❤
"Say yes now. Figure it out later." Might be my new mantra for the rest of the year Lol
The Universe is constantly unfolding, so really, nobody has it fully figured out, because nobody really knows what is going to happen in future, once we accept that and let go, you find true freedom, it's liberating to let go control, and go with the flow, and that in itself is as close to figuring it out we will ever get, and that's beautiful.
Very interesting to see different people in there 20's here. I just turned 20, and my life ahead seems so daunting. Yet because I don't "know my potential" yet I feel full of energy and ready to succeed. But sometimes I slow down and see life in a sort of wholistic way. your videos has helped me with that as of late.
I'm 18 years old, got no friends and have been doing online school for 3 years, this is my final year of high-school which will be ending in less then a month, I will try to take what you've said here and apply it to my own life, idk why but sometimes I have trouble understanding points to big philosophical video like this but I do know some points such as to go with the flow and say yes to things, of course say no in certain situations but for ones such as meeting new people or going out with friends, to go with the Flow and have faith in yourself. Ive also learned that if I dont learn these things I may miss out on many crucial moments in my life and live a forgetful life, which is one I do not want to live, I hope I've understood your video and regardless thank you got making this video for other people.
same here I been stuck doing online school for 3 years now and I'm 21, I'm taking the risk of going to college in person next month so we'll see what happens!
First time here, and I know there must be a reason for that. With that, I thank you so much for the fact that I have another quotes to live by, "Say yes now. Figure it out later." Much love to you ❤
The back shot on the boat while wind playing with your hair is so beautiful
Just pouring my heart out, I want to get out of my comfort home, town and live nomadic life or explore the different parts of country, but my parents health is not supporting at all, neither I can fix in a go, nor I can quit. Adulthood is pretty hard, either start earning from quite early age and make a lot of money so that money takes care of most of things, or be prepared, enjoy early maybe you're in college. Don't compromise on your and your family health, money and life experiences can be bought easily, but time and health.
"'Figure it out' is... if you're going to take the risk, then just trust yourself. That you will have your own back in whatever situation you find yourself in. That you won't let yourself down in the end. ... I think back - and the number of times I could've said no? I can't even imagine what would've happened if I did say no. ... There's a time to say no to some things, but there's also a time where like you don't want it to hinder your growth, and I feel that is a season that I am in."
I rarely comment on youtube. But, I feel like I should on your videos. Thank you for being such a positive, wonderful and inspirational person. You're a wonderful storyteller, and I am glad I came across your video. Have a good day.
I feel you! live life now.our life is happening and we have options to explore! :)
I love your positivity and peace you brought in your video, hope you meet a great journey in the next, as well as with the people who are facing stress, and vagueness in life
I genuinely loved this video!
I even wrote it down in my notebook.. "say yes now, figure it out later"
It's just like how life goes;
We don't really know why we're here and for what purpose.. but I'm sure a version of you in the future knows!! and they're gonna be glad that you kept going, enjoyed your moments and made those decisions.. so keep going, let go and move with the flow🌟
at the end I'm really excited for the future, I really am.
December 31
11:11
(a lil note to the future me and anyone reading this)
Trying to learn this YT thing, I pressed "K" every time I noticed a cut. I counted 123. I tried to also see if I could categorize each one as Closup, Medium, or Wide. I could not even keep up with camera movement and changes in camera angles. It's amazing to study what goes by so smoothly and seamlessly if I just sit back and watch. You demonstrate the truism that really good editing is not even noticeable. It's a pleasure.
Seriously your videos are a vibe. It feels like im watching a documentary on Netflix
Love it! " Say yes now figure out later"
I've been dreaming of something that I want to become and it's been almost four years now I'm still just.... dreaming. It's suffocates me so much but there are doubts and fear and insecurity everything but positivity. I feel stuck in life. I feel like I'm just wasting my time as well as my youth. I hope this will help and I'll make any move and go for what I want now.
And believe me procrastination sucks!!!!
hey, these type of videos make me realize, and ask myself, what actually is life?, am i living life to the fullest? ill sit down and answer those questions today, what do i want to do? what are my goals? what do i need to achieve my goals? what matters? im improving, im studying everyday, i did yoga yesterday and will today, im reading the newspaper many days, im journalling, im doing diamond art, im playing sports, so what if i enjoy couple hours or do some mistakes? you got this.
Your videos are so refreshing, inspiring, I'm currently changing my mindset and your approach is pretty similar so I'm happy other people can learn that from you. Keep going, you're amazing !!
Yes life happens very very fast be persistent bout your dreams😊.
this make me realize that i've been saying yes and taking the risks more than i did last year and i... can say that i'm happy i did say yes
I love this so much!!! The way you edited it, the way you filmed it, the meaning behind it, EVERYTHING!! So good!!!
Thank you Heather!!! 🤍
so good!!
I just found this video as I'm going through my "anxiously shoveling through semi-motivational youtube videos" part of my Tuesday night and I have to say- I might be having a eureka moment right now. To keep it brief, I dropped out of one of the best universities in Canada this August due to massive burnout and depression and have moved to a whole new city in order to pursue real happiness and fulfillment. At just 20, I feel like my world is simultaneously ending and just starting. To anyone who might be reading this and going through a hard time (as most of us probably are, let's be real) I just hope you can find the time to eat well, laugh carelessly, and allow yourself some grace while you find your place in this world :)
We don't get these videos often, but when we do, they exceed everything
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"figure it out." I don't know, but I wanna cry. From now on, I'll be part of your RUclips journey.
hey... i discovered u r channel today and i just love how short the video is but the content its self is so impoactful .. its daaam good.
Just found your channel, your videos are so well filmed and edited - I’m shocked you don’t have more subs. As for the message, thank you I really needed to hear it
I think your videos are what I've really been needing lately. Thank you.
Been letting life just show me its way, glad you've help me differentiate that it should be the other way around. Thank you!
I couldn't finish this video. I don't want to. I don't want to finish this content and skip to another video. I just want to remain with the feelings you have reminded me. I wish I could be consistent as you were. I've started a new life but sometimes I don't feel strong to keep on.
This video reminds me so much of the book "Year of Yes" by the writer behind Grey's Anatomy, Shonda Rhymes. I highly recommend that book for some beautiful, funny inspiration. She talked about the same mentality, promising that instead of being an introverted hermit hiding from the world and always saying No out of fear, that instead she would say yes, even if it scared the living sh*t out of her. Isnt it crazy, that if she didnt say yes, we wouldnt have some of the most successful, groundbreaking TV stories of our time? That book really changed me, and this video reminds me so much of that same mentality. Im definitely going through a transformational period in my life where Im learning to take risks and say yes, and its slowly changing my life in ways I wouldve never dreamed of as a child. I know the universe brought this video to me as a sign, thank you for your content and your messages. I needed to hear this.
O my Goshhh...
I have only watch two videos and I'm 1000% in love. You are really intelligent Riza as an aspiring film maker I'm in love.
It would be really dope if I could meet you one day❤
Great advice.
I just feel like my problem is that I don't see the chances. I kind of blind for them. It has always been a miracle to me how people make friends outside if work/uni/etc.
Kariza this inspired me so muchhhh 💚 one thing I noticed about all risk takers is this mindset exactly. say yes now. figure it out later
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A 16 yr old boi here just coming across this video and reading comments of all the people older than me makes me wonder what life is xD ,well for now nothing is more challenging than exams and Asking out my crush! lol
I wanna do lotsss and lotsss of things including my dream of travelling alone at night , making lots of friends and just enjoying life hehe
I think there needs to be a movement: "Take risks and figure it out as you go". I imagine that in this day of social media, people don't do this, rather they conceive of their life in their heads. And I imagine that many people today, don't have a method that releases their fears and resentments which leads to uncovering thoughts and reasons they are driven to behave in ways that dont serve them, or a awareness of life as abundance or living in an abundant universe. I am in the first category, and so what I want to do is to do everything that I do in a new way and treat it as a process of learning and YES, I want to do like you do. I am much older than you, but age means nothing for where we are at. I know now that I am a seeker and one who never gives up.
xx I love your in the moment and candid way of telling your stories. Thats intimate.
I did something similar at 30. I took a year off to get some travelling done. From Cuba to North Korea. I wish that digital cameras were a thing back then.
This was me in 2023. Now this year I’m like what’s gonna happen, but I look forward to it.
I'm 20 yrs old, I'm still in my place for 3yrs and a half for now, in the same highschool class with the same people and same ideas, but I'm sick of that! I wanna say yes to those microscopic chances i wanna live and try again, I'll study for my finals one last time & get out of this bubble, i wanna try living too!