My Story in the Raw~The truth untold~The Reborn community
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- Опубликовано: 22 сен 2021
- I feel I owe my audience the truth about how I was used & hurt by two so called "friends" in this community last year. Katie at My Little world & Ines at Reborn Hygee "aka The Reborn doll collective aka this little piggie 41 along with a few other ladies who also did not have the decency to come talk to me & took part in ostracizing me. The bullies of The Reborn Doll Community! This happened right under everyone's noses!
You all can think for yourselves! To me people are not disposable!
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Hi Tasha, I hope our community can be a positive place to share this reborn hobby. I have been here 5 years. A lot of wonderful ❤ channels left. These dolls bring us all happiness in the sad world we are living in. Your babies are so sweet. 😍 Have a blessed day
Thank you for being here & for sharing my friend. There are so many many amazing people in this community & I too hope that everyone can be here & enjoy the hobby! I pray for our community everyday 🙏❤😘
Well said and well spoken Tasha, it’s nothing wrong with speaking and talking about your experiences, I cannot stand a bully and a Mean person!! 😫 When you find out about people and see how they really are you have to let them go! Yup I unsubscribed from those bobbsey twins a while ago
sending big hugs and love to you dolly friend 🤗💖💕💕
Hi Kartrina! Yes people's true colors come out eventually. I truly just want to enjoy the hobby & dolly friends & can't understand how people can be so cruel over a hobby!
You are the warmest kindest most welcoming person. I always feel so good after watching you & your babies on YT!
and did I see right in the notifications? Is it true!!! Lol I've got my coffee & coming over to see who has arrived!!!
BIG BIG HUGS my sweet dolly friend!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗
@@piximommysreborns Thank you my dolly friend! I feel the same about you and your channel😊 Ahhhhh!! Yes it’s true!!! 😻✨🤗🤗💖💖
I am so glad that you spoke out. The lady who ordered a Sweater from the ETSY store was ME. Yes, I do order a lot from ETSY, NEXT, Millie and John and NUTMEG. They are my favourite places to shop from. I try different styles on my Reborns without caring about copying others. In the process, I have ordered stuff which I really did not like on my Babies but if you don’t try different styles, how will you know what you like ?? It took me 2 years of trying bodysuits, over sized socks, Spanish knits, custom rompers to discover what I do like. So DO WHAT YOU WANT and Enjoy your Babies in Private & Public. 😍
Hi, I had no idea who you were! That just goes to show that all ppl see is some snobby person thinking everyone is "copying them".
Who knows how many times I may have bought something as I grew in learning baby styles in what I liked that maybe one of them had that I failed to notice! I can see now looking back how that may have been a problem!
I knew full well how they both were about that & believe me I walked on eggshells & tried to be really careful. I either avoided certain things all together & of course I gave them a shout out if I knew they had something. But my memory with that kinda stuff isn't so great as who has what baby stuff isn't high up there in my life list of "important things to remember"!
I've always said that I was never so great with style & that I have learned so much from ALL of you ladies that have great taste!
The fact that we're even having a conversation about this is rather funny!! But this is the very stuff that those woman are willing to tare another person down over!
I'm so glad I no longer have that stink attached to me bc I would never want anyone to think that I feel that way!!
I'm sorry you got picked on by those ppl. I never knew exactly who they were talking about.
Hugs! 🤗
Hey Tasha! Honestly I have just gotten back into the reborning community after such a long break well because of...life! I had no idea that people who I used to watch at first on the youtube reborn community could be so two-faced about people who just love doing what they do and participating in such a welcoming hobby. It really sucks that people aren't who they say they are, but unfortunately that is a fact of life. I'm really glad you brought this to light about the negative aspects in the reborning community, and you really say things how they are and how they affect you - an honest person is a true person! I've really grown to love this channel and who you are as a person in the wonderful reborn community! - big hugs from a fellow new yorker 💖💖💖
(NEW YORK STRONG!!) 🗽 Hi Jenna, a heartfelt thank you for all of your kind words & support!! It really means more to me then you will ever know!! I'm so so glad to have you here!!
I think most of us New Yorkers don't pull any punches we just tell it like it is!! It must be in the water! 🤣
But seriously I was born & raised here. Not once in my life have I ever had a "falling out" with anyone I considered a friend until I reached this community! It's bizzar! People are not disposable to me! At the very least if you no longer want someone's friendship either tell them in a kind way, or distance yourself & stay cordial! It would have been so nice to just have that & to have the few that followed them off the cliff actually have their own brains!! My goodness!! Lol
I'm very sorry that this happened to you. I am thankful for you and appreciate you doing this video. :)
I think you are funny and relatable. Good for you. Thank you for sharing this. Maybe other people who have had negative experiences will be able to come to you for support❤✌
Good for you for standing up for yourself! Bullying affects everyone at all ages.
Thank you for being here!! 🙏❤
Hi Tasha. I always love your videos and count you as an inspiration and friend. You are an incredible artist and I love your honesty and tactfulness. Don't let the trolls get you down. We all have had fake friends that we thought would always be there for us and then they Stan us in the back. Don't give up and remember you have a lot more people that really are your friends on RUclips and in real life. Big hugs from your pal in Oklahoma
Good for you to let it out. You’ve opened my eyes big time thank you
Your Oscar is so Stunning ! I'm new here and I enjoyed all you had to say!
Thank you & welcome my friend! 🤗
Tasha, great video which you handled very honestly and with class! It didn’t take me long to pick up on Inez and her unkind comments before anything was ever mentioned. Then eventually Katie did not set well with me and needless to say, l have unsubscribed to both. You are the example of a very true, supportive and loving friend and you come across on video exactly as that type of person! I’m so sorry that you had to endure such unkind individuals! Most of us have been exposed to such individuals and then it is up to us to “take control “ and do something about it! And you did! Hugs and love, Alice🧚🏼💝💖💗
So sorry you have gone through this! It's sad that people have to tare others down to make themselves feel big and better than others. I just what to collect dolls, find others who enjoy the hobby, and be in a happy place with it. Good for you for standing up for yourself. Thank you for sharing your story and being positive. God bless you, Tasha. 😇🙏😇🙏😇🙏
Oh Tasha, I know your heart has been hurting for a while about this, so I'm glad that you are finally able to get this off your chest! I feel bad that this happened to you or to anyone else in the doll community. It's supposed to be our happy place and when we form friendships, you would never think this would happen in a million years, but sadly it does. You know I have been through some similar situations with people I thought were my close friends, only then to find out I was just a step ladder to be used for social climbing and once I was no longer useful to them, I was discarded like last week's trash! It's an awful feeling to say the least, but it also made me a lot more cautious with whom I befriend in this hobby and it's sadly made me a bit cold because I had to grow a thick skin to constantly take the insults thrown by those previous friends in their videos! I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy, let alone having to watch my dearest friend go through it! I know that you are a ride or die friend and I appreciate that about you more than you'll ever know. You've been there to pick me up during a lot of dark scary things in my life, not remotely doll related and knowing you are always there means the absolute world to me! I hope people head the warning in general about befriending others through social media.......not everyone out there has the best of intentions and it's always good to be cautious! Sending tons of hugs your way! Love you! xxxooo's
Oh my Dear Kellie I really love the wonderful advice you have put into this comment that others will see! I know you have been through this as well yourself & I know that it's taken alot of time for you to heal & grow that thick skin! I also know that on some level even to this day it still hurts when those previous "friends" throw the occasional shade. I think some ppl just don't care who they hurt. Some do it for veiws, attention or both.
You are my rock my dear friend! Your my family like a sister to me! I couldn't possibly ask for a better friend & I love you to the moon & back! You have been right there the same through some extremely difficult things in my life. You make me a better person! "Oh goodness I'm sure this public affection may get some pokes lol" but I don't care!! Lol
It almost seems silly talking about all this YT reborn community stuff when the "real" we have been through doesn't compare! But yet still the truth is this hobby is a place where we spend alot of our free time. Most especially with covid more socializing is done here online & in the hobby. It doesn't make it any less when someone hurts us here. I was tired of carrying it in silence. I realized I owed it to my audience & to myself to just tell this story straightforward without walking on egg shells. I'm so glad I did! It's like a huge weight has been lifted from me! I hope I did it in a kind way. I did my best to not speak out of anger & just share from the heart what I experienced.
Thank you for being here "& I don't just mean here"! You have picked up my crumbled pieces from this throughout the process & I always knew that you truly understood. I think it's something important for people to know "not just about these particular ladies" but in general that when we put ourselves out there on public platforms we are vulnerable to alot & that's why many of us do grow that thick skin! I've learned many lessons throughout this process. No one wants to be used it hurts!
I'm so beyond grateful & blessed to have your friendship!!
Big big hugs!!!! 🤗
Ps. I don't know where the rain is! It's sunny & windy here today, but I'm guessing the rain is on its way! I think it hit you first! 🌧 lol 😘
Thank you so much for being real I’m very new to Reborn world . As it has helped me in a very tragic dark time in my life. And so I’m glad I’ve been made aware.
So glad your here! Many of us have found this hobby in the same way & it very much helps us through difficult times to have this hobby to enjoy!
Big hugs, Tasha 🤗
So sorry you went through this ,you seem like a really down to earth person ..wishing you only health and happiness as you move forward 💐
So sorry you went through that with people you thought were your friends. I don't subscribe to many in the reborn community so I am glad when you show new things I wouldn't otherwise see. God Bless, keep your chin up, it will get better.
Wow!! Such strange behavior on their part. You said it all. Pray for them. They need it. I am so sorry ...it's very hurtful when so called friends just turn coat for no reason!! You are wonderful...keep your chin up!! God Bless!! ❤
I’m so sorry Tasha you had to go through this. That is something I wondered about when I started my channel. I just want to enjoy, share my babies and enjoy others with the same interests. I really had no idea grown ‘ladies’ could behave like that in this hobby! I had to deal with junk like that at work, so much so it affected my health, and after 6 years of it I decided it wS time to retire and get away from all that, and hope that the less stress would restore some of my health problems.
I just have to tell you how impressed I am with your courage and strength to share this, pray for them and put this behind you! I’m here for you and will be praying. Love 💕 n hugs 🤗, Christy
Hi Christy, thank you so much I really appreciate what you said & your prayers 🙏
I'm an alcoholic/addict in recovery. I have been sober since Jan of 07. Prior to that I spent alot of my adult life out of the mainstream world withdrawn in my own world of addictions. I got married & had my first child right out of HS & worked as a nanny & cleaning houses for many yrs. When I got sober it was a fight for my life & took many yrs to clean up the train wreck of what my life had become. I finally started my own business with the help of a friend. So then I got very busy with that & just raising my children & being extremely greatful to be alive & sober! I was mostly surrounded by friends from AA, my "mom friends" & some friends in the animal industry & wildlife rescue. Most of whom were just kind compassionate people.
When I found this hobby I was really excited to form "social friendships" & just in general hang out in a hobby that wasn't something out of a necessity it was something fun that I enjoyed. I had never seen or experienced women behaving this way. It took my by surprise.
Yes I went to HS of course lol but honestly I always marched to the beat of my own drum. I was nice to whoever was nice to me regardless of what social circle they may or may not have been in.
I've never had to navigate my way around people like this. Looking back on the situation I talked about in this video. I'm thinking to myself "clearly I missed something. I genuinely thought that those friends were actual people that cared about me.
Everything in life is a lesson & I definitely learned from this one. My life is busy & full between business, my children, family, AA, animal rescue & the few friends that I've grown close with over the yrs that I truly just want to enjoy sharing the hobby, the art & all of you lovely ladies who take your time to visit my channel & leave such lovely kind comments that brighten my day!
I will keep you in my prayers for your health dear. I can only imagine how difficult it was having to face situations like this at your job. It's not like here where we can just "turn it off" so I can see why it took a toll on your health.
My prayers are with you 🙏 ❤
Thank you so much for this. 😘. I am so grateful to call you a friend. I realized just recently what that pair of best friend UTubers were all about. My eyes were opened about a month ago watching Katie’s nervous breakdown on camera defending herself and her friend from detractors. It was scary! I started to think about all the back handed compliments I’d received just to let me know that my collection was not quite up to par with their high end collections. My babies had such unusual, funny faces and she hoped people like me wouldn’t post their unprofessional photos in the ILARDA Doll Community group on Facebook. I was invited by a well known sculptor to join that group, but have always been afraid to post there. I am very proud of my collection as I think we all are in this hobby, whether they were painted by ILORA master artists and wearing designer clothing or not. I realized I would never be good enough in their eyes and when ShellBea came forward and let us all know that it was okay to feel this way about them, I decided then and there to remove myself from their sphere. I had already unsubscribed to both their channels, first from Ines’s channel because she is always unashamedly rude and crass to her audience; and then from Katie’s after her video meltdown complete with blurred images and voiceovers of their detractors! This was a supposedly spur of the moment video that must have taken days to edit and compile. If it wasn’t so shocking, it would have been hilarious. These two need to grow up and realize some things are better left unsaid. And mature ladies do NOT gossip! That’s high school stuff.
Linda I'm very greatful for your friendship too!! You are honest & say what's on your mind & I love that! Your also such a kind & thoughtful person!
I absolutely ADORE your babies!! Not only do I love the magic they bring to you & the love you have for them, they happen to be of course right up my alley! I love a baby filled with character & made with love!
I'm so so sorry that you were made to feel that way about your beautiful collection, but the vibes you got were not wrong! I'm ashamed to say that I listened way to long to them poking fun of everyone & their dolls that were not up to their "standards". I believe I started to say "ENOUGH" to often to them about the way they spoke of & treated others. They considered me a "liability" as they would call it , that would jeopardize their "cultivated" public image! Once I started the Pixi Squad & began to focus & preparing to paint , as well as used my own heart & brain to decide who I wanted to speak to & unblock, that's when it all went downhill. But silently I suffered. It hurt to have been used. It hurt even more when I just excepted their shunning from their click & moved forward & they chased after me to attack me! That was so unessisary! I had done nothing to them except move on with my life & hobby! I was hurting!
I'm so very greatful for you & all the friends that I have in my life who let me know that I'm cared about the way I care about all of you!
And yes exactly "adults don't gossip behind one another's backs" most of us figured out by middle school how hurtful it is!
Grow up & say it to someone's face or don't say it at all!
BIG BIG HUGS LINDA!!! 🫂 🤗 ❤
Im glad you stood up for yourself. And for many others who have probably suffered silently at the hands of these people. I will never understand the mentality of a group of ADULT MEAN GIRLS who dont understand what "community" means. Just because we like dolls, doesnt mean that all of us want to partake in childish behavior. There are, unfortunately, many people who will befriend you for YEARS and then use you, the first second they get. Or throw you away the second you are of no use to them and then blame you for abandoning them. Its unfortunate. But speaking out is how we spread awareness and stop this behavior. Dont let it change your heart. You've got a good one!
My Dear Rina, thank you my friend! I have known you as long as I have known this community & you are such a sweet compassionate person & have always been so supportive & kind to everyone in this community!
I read your vlog btw! I'm really sorry you had that experience with someone you thought was a friend! Just know that you are a good person & a great friend!!!
Your right, this stuff stops when we stand up & speak up!!! It's not drama. It's nothing back & forth, it's simply standing up & telling your story! This way the majority of us that are adults & behave like adults can go on to enjoy all the wonderful things about this hobby & about each other!
Sending big hugs!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗
@@piximommysreborns yes! We must stand up for us. And each other. I text you right after watching this but i wasnt sure if you got it. Im glad you saw this though! Love you and the babies! And all our love to your family this week as your hubby heads into surgery!!
Hi Tasha, Thankyou so much for your bravery and courage for making this video, I highly respect you. You’ve probably don’t remember me as I did have a you tube channel for nearly two years however ive also been hurt from another well known reborn channel and in the end I was so hurt and got stalked from her and her and her other close friend that I withdrew from the reborn community and stopped making videos. . I thought that I was a good friend with this person for three years and when I suddenly wouldn’t stop watching / commenting on someone’s videos who she had changed her mind about she started stalking me and telling other ‘friends’ things that wasn’t true about me. Overnight I lost two close friends and two other relationships changed completely towards me. I can empathise and really feel your hurt and it’s only in the last month or so that I’ve dared to leave a comment on someone’s channel. So Thankyou once again for making this video, I’ve felt really isolated and alone not knowing who I could trust. Although I really wish that this hadn’t happened to you, I know that someone else out there might understand how painful and hurtful it is when something likes this happens. Take care. Lots of love ❤️
Sue!! Yes I do remember you. I recognized your channel name & I looked at the one video you had posted. From the thumbnail I imeaditly recognized you! You usually filmed in your beautiful conservatory. I was fairly new to the community when I watched your videos! I always enjoyed them so much! If my memory is serving me correctly, back then was your channel one of those that RUclips had deleted without any explanation? I could be wrong, but I thought you might have been a channel that had disappeared. I just remember missing seeing your videos!
I was so new at the time so of course didn't know much about who was who & who was friends with who. I'm so sorry that you went through a similar situation. It really baffles me is to how someone that was supposed to care about you & be your friend could just turn on you at the drop of a hat! I understand that friends have falling outs & sometimes we decide we would like to distance ourselves or just agree to go our separate ways, but then to start stalking & bashing someone who was a "friend" it's just crazy.
I had to sit back though & think. I thought about how these "friends" would talk about one another behind each other's backs & the ongoing drama & negative situations they would thrive on. When I looked back at their behavior in how they spent their time in this hobby , then it became clear to me how they could do it to me! None the less it hurts! I'm so sorry that you had felt so isolated. I definitely can relate to that because yes it was literally like overnight. The two ladies were the ring leaders, but 5 ladies I knew & loved had just removed me from their sphere. We shared many mutual friends in common & I did notice that I few more distanced themselves at that time. Even a very well known sculptor/Artist who's sculpts are very dear to my heart mysteriously stopped following me at the time whom I know was close with one of the other ladies that dropped me with no explanation. I still follow & love her work & still comment because that's just who I am. But it hurts my heart to know that ppl just followed these ladies mindlessly & hurt me in that way. So I most definitely emphasize with feeling isolated. I felt embarrassed & humiliated as well because we were all so "public" on RUclips & had included one another in alot of what we did. So to all of a sudden be "left out" felt awful. I continued on including them , mentioning their channels for a while until it became very clear that they were not even going to be cordial & that I was suddenly "the enemy".
Well Sue I'm really so glad to see you!! I never knew what happened to you or where you had gone! This was such a lovely surprise!! Thank you so much for your comment & sharing your story!
I would so love to see you make videos again! I will sub to your channel just in case you do decide to do that. Either way it truly is so great to see you!! It wasn't long after I had found your channel that you were gone, so I only remember a little bit, but really liked you alot!!
God bless you dear. Stay safe & well 🙏❤
Oh how I miss your videos Sue, and your FUN antics!! I wish you'd make videos again....HUGE HUGS ❤❤❤‼️‼️‼️‼️
@@piximommysreborns hi Tasha, Thankyou so much for your reply, I really appreciated it. So much of what you said I could relate to. Yes, my first channel was one of those that got mysteriously taken down. I left it a while and then I started a new channel and was enjoying being part of the community with some of my so called friends. The rest is history, it was shocking that it all went overnight and I still feel a bit stupid that I didn’t see the writing on the wall. I have since heard that I’m not the first one that it’s happened too. So I just withdrew from the community as I didn’t know who I could trust. I may go back to making videos one day, Thankyou for subscribing to my channel. I must be feeling better as I’m started to leave comments which is a step in the right direction. I look forward to seeing you and your beautiful babies in future videos. Thankyou once again. Lots of love 💛💛💛
I am so sorry that you have experienced this. I too went through a VERY similar situation (in my life) and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. You have a heart and care about people and their feelings. Just pray for people like this (just like you said in the beginning of your video). Everyone can use some extra prayers especially in today's society.
Oh honey I'm so sorry you have been through this in life!
When I was going through rough times & a divorce it was actually some folks in AA "Alcoholics Anonymous" that told me to "pray for the ppl who I thought were wronging me". This at that time was not an easy thing to do. Especially that my children were involved & being hurt. They told me "Fake it!!" "even if you don't mean it, pray anyways & eventually it will come from your heart". I felt SO MUCH BETTER!! It took a little time to learn, but it happened! I also learned the great lesson that "holding onto resentment is like setting yourself on fire & expecting that the other person will burn". Which is so true! The praying really helps you to let go of the resentment!
Yes we could all use some extra prayers as well!
I saw a video yesterday of someone mocking me in this particular video. Mocking my pain. I realized that a few months ago a friend had sent out an e.mail off an e.mail list of friends. Letting everyone know this woman's husband had just passed & asked for prayers/cards extra... I vaguely remembered the woman's channel name, but didn't know who she was. I added her to my prayer list & have been praying for this person regularly! I come to find out yesterday that this is the woman I had been praying for , for several months! It's very clear that "hurt people" hurt people. That's just the way it goes. The more someone is hurting the more someone may lash out at others. The Lord only knows why she chose me. Maybe it's just bc the pain of having close friends suddenly turn on you is nothing compared to losing your beloved other. Sometimes when ppl are hurting so badly they can't see anyone else's pain especially if it seems insignificant to them. Maybe she was just never a nice person I really don't know. Maybe she see's me as a strong person & thought mocking me wouldn't hurt. It did! But I will continue on praying for her anyway! She needs the prayers & I pray God brings her some peace & comfort. It can't feel good inside to take it out people you don't even know.
Anyways sorry for such a long response & thank you for listening dear your a sweetheart 😘 💕
Tasha your amazing hun. Love your videos and how you speak from your heart. Hugs
I am sorry you had to deal with all of that drama. If you want a true friend in the community I am here. I have tried to be friends with others in the community but it seems hard for some reason. I am a true blue friend and don’t just let anyone in. I feel like there is cliques in the community and that makes it all harder to find reborn mommy friends. Hugs
I would be more than happy to follow you after listening to your story! I feel you're a genuine person!!
Thank you very much! That really means a lot!! 🥰
You seem to be a truly lovely and beautiful woman...inside and out...I am so sorry with all going on in our world and how our community gets enough misunderstanding from folks not involved the last thing we need are folks fighting over dolls. Very sad. Keeping doing you...I enjoy all your videos and will be joining your pixie group. God Bless 😊
Thank you so much Renee!! I'm so glad to have you here my friend! 😍
I had a feeling you were going to lift the lid of off something sooner or later! You're very brave and deserve so much better ❤ I bet a weight has been lifted off of your shoulders 😌 Honesty and kindness will prevail in the end! Pettiness and meaness can only go so far before it gets shut down! Good for you for taking a stand 👏 Sending you and Oscar hugs 🤗 Take care love xox
It's funny you say that bc thats exactly how I feel "like a weight has been lifted off!!". I felt like I carried this for so long! Time of course healed a bit of the pain, but I never really said what happened straightforward & it was bothering me alot. Especially when they would kick up & throw shade my way & more especially when I see them being so unkind to others! I would always wish I had just spoken up!
I'm so glad I did!!
Thank you so much for your support my sweet friend!
Oscar sends BIG BIG HUGS!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗
I am so sorry that happened to you. You are way better off without them. To be perfectly clear, you are too good for them. 💜💜💜
Thank you Lisa!!! I enjoy you so much!! 🧚🏼♀️😍🤗
I'm so happy you spoke up that took courage. Ppl can be so cruel at the expense of others. I'll never understand why they feel the need to intentionally use and hurt others. I don't like gossip or drama and especially not bullying. With friends like that you don't need enemies. I recently went through a similar situation and it was making me spiritual and physically ill, stole my peace of my felt like I was really for a nervous breakdown. I removed myself from the situation and took back my peace. This didn't happen in the reborn world but it happened with ppl I should have been able to trust. It was very heartbreaking and disturbing what some are capable of doing. I went through a range of emotions from hurt fear anger and finally peace. Now I just pray for them. You are a beautiful soul inside and out don't let anyone ever take that from you. I'm so happy you found your peace again and in doing so I'm sure saved others from being hurt as well. Thank You❤️
You are so kind! Thank you so much & thank you for sharing a bit of your story as well. It's disturbing to see what some people are really capable of, but it's wonderful to know that there are many people out here in the world that are kind loving souls. People who can not be at peace when involved with those who are intentionally pouring pain onto others.
It took me a long time to come out with this publicly, but I'm glad that I did. It closed the chapter, it made me see that I'm not alone & it hopefully may help others in the future.
I'm back to my happy place & back to my peace. I'm not perfect, but I need to know that I'm doing my best to treat others in the way that I would like to be treated.
I hold no resentment & now I pray for them. That makes me feel good & I certainly know that sighlenty praying is hurting no one.
Thank you for taking the time to share your kind words it means alot! 🙏 🥰
Tasha
I'm learning who is being real and those that even though they say they don't like drama but won't let go when someone is saying stuff about them. What I like about you is that you say what needs to be said and then that's it. You don't keep rehashing it, you move on and put it behind you. You will always have me as a friend no matter what others say to me about you because I can see that you come straight from your heart. I have been through a lot with people at work to last me a life time, so I can totally relate. Love you! If you are ok, I would like to refer to you as my Sister.
Hello my Sister! Yes that sure is ok!
You are truly such a genuine & kind soul! I'm so sorry you've been through so much at work! I don't know why, but I get this feeling that people take advantage of your kindness! I really wish people would not mistake kindness for weakness. They often do though.
I have lived a very colorful life in the past. I'm a walking miracle & so lucky to be alive. I'm so greatful for each day God has given me & for all the blessings I have in life, my beautiful children, both my parents still with me, my friends, my fur babies & so much more. Life is just way to short to get all hung up on our egos or silly things that don't really matter. Yes I definitely will address touchy topics or topics of controversy because I don't believe in sweeping everything under the rug, but yes your right I won't dwell on something, drag it out or rehash. It gets talked about & then moved on.
Thank you so very much for always being here & for all of your kind words they mean so much to me & you mean so much to me!!
Sending BIG BIG HUGS!!! 🤗🤗🤗
Good for you Tasha I came into the doll community because of you as I told you before because I felt you were a real one meaning I could relate and I loved your vibe yes there were the other collectors channels that you listed that I watched as well and others and I heard and saw the drama unfold within the doll community and I was someone alarmed but still continued in the hobby and I saw lashes directed toward you so that was a red flag for me so I really felt sad for you because I felt we are all grown woman why acting like a bunch of high school bullies and I seen sides were taken and things were said that for tat was going back and forth and I stopped watching all the channels of the collectors because I thought it was just to messy and I don't like drama but I did appreciate your honesty and your thick skin wow I always knew Katy and Inez were really tight because of their baby swapping so that being said just because someone associates with you doesn't mean that their your best friend it only means their your associate basically so I too knew what was aspiring and yes you did the disappearing bottle first
Thank you so much my friend for sharing your thoughts & all you saw unfold.
I realized afterwards that I had been used & that they were never actually really my friends. I'm very thankful that I do have wonderful friends in my life now who I love dearly & I know they love me!
Ines actually did show that disappearing bottle on her channel before I did. I had mine & when I was ready to share it I mentioned her video in mine giving her "credit" even though she had long since stopped talking to me.
The diaper & whatever else I didn't know or remember she had. By that time it was 6mo or longer since I had watched her channel. It's just beyond ridiculous, but at least that was an eye opener for many ppl to see her being so petty & such a narcissist to believe everyone should watch her channel & know what she has shared before they dare show something!
That stuff is really irrelevant though. What is relevant is that I'm a human being with feelings & so is everyone else that these particular ladies have hurt in this community!
I finally decided to share my story as I never really told it in a straightforward way that could be understood.
I'm glad your still here my friend! Big hugs 🤗
I feel better after seeing this and reading the comments, as I have been getting mentally bullied recently, like now. I keep telling myself to hold my head up and don't take it to heart. BUT I do!! I am easily hurt. Very sensitive..and I do not treat anyone badly. I try to be kind and giving but it seems I am always taken in for being like that..nevertheless I keep on doing it. Good for you Tash..GREAT JOB! Love from Michelle in NZ
Sorry you went through that. It's so hard to make friends in this hobby I find one that you share your babies with and family too
Sweet Tasha we have spoken about this. Katie and Shannon did me the same way. I actually messages them and I know they read them but never answered me. I'm so sorry they did this to you. You are a very strong person that is funny, caring, awesome and damn good person!!! it hurts but you do make better nicer friends. Hugs sweet lady ill have to text you tomorrow. STAY STRONG PIXIE POWER!!!!
Hi my Dear Dottie! I definitely know that everything in our life's happens for a reason & I'm so very greatful for all of the truly wonderful people this "situation" has brought to my life. Including you!
Yes it's really unfortunate that me you & more people then I can keep track of have been done by them in the exact same way! I honestly do not know how they even show their faces in this community after how many ppl they have just used & disgaurded!
From the moment I stepped into this community those two had serious "negative drama" surrounding them. I blame myself in that I did see all the red flags, but when our paths crossed I just passed the flags & went on in. It was stupidity on my part!
In the end they each lost a person in their life's that truly cared for them & had no other intentions other then to be a friend. Afterwards I vowed to myself that I would buckle down, harden up & heavily gaurd myself & my heart. That lasted like a second! 🤣
I am who I am & I know that I would miss to much of life & friendship to be that way. I'm willing to take that chance of being hurt sometimes to be a friend! That's the bottom line.
I don't know why, but it still shocks me each time another person comes forward describing the exact same or very similar experience with them!! It's uncanny!
I know that you've been hurt by these ladies & I know they've had it out for you since! I just keep praying & praying they will focus their attention elsewhere.
I'm glad I got to know you for the person you really are & not the person they "said" you were! Big difference!! Lol
I'm humbly greatful that you took me in after I had defended ppl for so long that had caused you such pain!! 🙏
Yes lady we will definitely catch up tomorrow! 🤗🤗🤗
Oscar looks so adorable and real in your arms! I love his out fit! Take care sweetie ❤️
Thank you Maribet! He's so snuggley in this set!! 😍
Good on you tasha for speaking up dont let them get you down people out here love you and so do i . Keep your chin up sending much love x
Thank you so so much my sweet friend!!! I appreciate you!!! 💋
Love your Chanel hun Don let people put you down as you have a nice personality ❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much 🥰
I’m so sorry you went through this. I really keep to myself for this reason. I’ve been done wrong in my personal life by “friends” most of my life. For that reason I really keep everyone at an arms length and really ignore any neigh sayers. I started my channel early last year I’m sure tons have talked smack about me but ignorance is bliss I don’t know any of it and I’m glad. My ghetto street side will come out lol and I’m too old for that.
I hope you can move forward in clear conscious and enjoy the hobby without any future drama. Keep your head up and keep doing what you do. Ps. I have been snubbed by some in the community and I just moved on. Your situation is very hurtful and I don’t want to downplay it you are an authentic and sweet person, I’ve been ostracized a few times in my life both at work and with friends and it’s devastating. Just know you deserve better and you are free now. Xoxo 😘
I adore you Tasha. I love your Channel, your collection, and your taste in baby things. Thank you for taking a stand against bullies.
Thank you my Dear Lady! I feel the very same about you & really enjoy you so much!! You have a beautiful heart my friend ❤
Big hugs 🤗
Tasha, I have been trying to PM you for years and I always wanted to comment my gratitude and appreciation. I've been in this hobby for a long, long time. It can get extremely complicated with our feelings and emotions through this hobby. Friendships; even though "only online", can still affect us as much as "in person" in many ways. When it comes to matters as this, my anxiety to confrontation kicks in and I remain quiet. (I'm much better at PMing people .. lol) .... I've never publicly commented on many people's videos over the years because I always feared the behind-the-scenes discussions. I chose to try to stay out of it as much as I could. A few times I've made my own videos on how this RUclips hobby has affected me but I never publish them. I do know my channel is watched by a LOT of kids/teens and they are already exposed to some "adult-topics" in this world ... They don't need more. I choose to keep my channel a safe place for all of us - Young and Old. ... But I am commenting now .. to You .... that I think you are courageous and inspiring. Thank-you for making such a difficult video. I know all too well of what you are talking about ..... Take Care and Virtual Hugs to you! 🤗🧡🌿🍃💝🥰
Hi Dear Brenda I hope you are well!
Yes it's very true that friends here can affect our lives & most especially when those friendships become closer & outside of social media. I can say though that through this hobby I've met a couple friends that over the years have become friends outside social media that are as close as sisters to me & I'm so very greatful for that!
What happened hurt & I would have much preferred them to at the very least have left things cordial, but unfortunately that didn't happen.
These days I much prefer to just enjoy the hobby with fellow collectors in a casual way as dolly friends here in comments on social media. I know there are so many nice ppl here, but it is the internet & we should always take that into consideration "or so I've learned lol".
I'm glad that you decided to comment as there's no way to reach me privately it's been that way for at least a couple of yrs now, but I do read all of my comments. I so much enjoy making videos & I so much enjoy reading all of the comments as it kinda makes you all a part of my days which I love so much!
I got a real good taste of "behind the scenes" and they were right about one thing "I'm not like them & I don't fit in!!". This is actually nothing that I didn't actually say , in fact I said all the time "I just can't be that mean. Just don't look, pray for those who are attacking you bc ultimately it's coming from a place of unhappiness".
I've been so happy this past year & have finally started painting "which I've always wanted to do" & I love it more then I ever could have dreamed!
It feels so good to have gone back to being blissfully ignorant! Lol
Thank you so much for all of your kind words they mean so much I really appreciate it!! Your so kind Brenda!
Sending you big hugs & lots of love!! ❤❤❤
I have always enjoyed your channel and still do you don't need them to beat your own drum you continue smiling and doing you your awesome Tasha and I love you vibe your a real one and their not and you don't need Back stabbing gossippers in your circle let them do them you keep it 100 and thats what I love about you
Thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much! 🙏❤
I am so sorry this has happened to you. I don't know what's going on as I try my best to stay far away from bully stuff. And one of the reasons I find it hard to start a channel. Glad you are alright and moving on. Stay well my Dolly friend.
Thank you so much my sweet friend! Yes believe me "ignorance is bliss" when it comes to that stuff & I'm very happy to go on my merry way! Lol
Big hugs!! 🤗
I'm glad you did this video. 👏
it's great to see someone stick up for themselves sometimes you wish to have the courage to speak put no matter how difficult it is. Your strength is admired hat off to you!!!!!
Thank you so much! I was just so tired of constantly being targeted by these ladies. They have since gone on to do videos & livestreams telling viscous lies about me & bashing me for hours on end.
It's just not nice! We are grown women in a lovely hobby. This type of thing just shouldn't be happening. If you decide you no longer want to be friends with someone, that's fine, just move on, it's that simple. They have done this to countless others as well. Many who are afraid to stand up for themselves "& for good reason."
I believe this video is about 2yrs old & these ladies still have not stopped, but that just speaks to who they are.
I now just ignore it all & keep firm personal boundaries with ppl online.
Have a blessed week. Thank you for your kind words 🥰
@@piximommysreborns trust me I understand I went through the same thing a few years back (workplace with a different set of snakes lol) I learn to laugh at their opinions because you miss out on getting to know great people!!!! I can not speak on these ladies because I don't know them. But anyone who just gossip constantly to build themselves up need to reevaluate their own happenings because obviously they are not happy and plus gossiping is very distasteful.
@@piximommysreborns But either way be proud of your bravery to hell with whatever somebody has to say about you misery is a you know what, and if they are not careful that is all they will be left with!!!!! YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪🫶
@Chelsea Garrett yeah I totally understand the workplace situation. That's such a shame & I would imagine much more stressful than this bc it's your job. Unfortunately, there are many ppl like that in the world & women can be especially manipulative & viscous.
I do think that a lot of it boils down to poor self-esteem, sadly. Ppl that are, in general, happy with themselves tend to be the kind of ppl who want to lift one another up, encourage one another & appreciate one another's talents as well as differences.
If someone has to talk bad about others to make themselves feel or look good, they likey are not happy ppl. They are too bitter, jealous & resentful to see past their hate & see that they're only making themselves look bad by talking poorly of others. It speaks to their character & not about the other person they're talking about at all. It's also usually self reflection. It's usually traits they have in themselves & and subconsciously, they project it onto the person they have targeted.
If you truly have an issue with someone whom you had spoken to every day on the phone, it would make sense to pick up the phone & have a conversation like adults. Taking to the internet to defame a person is not the way to solve a conflict. Or, at the very least, just walk away from that person if you feel the issue is something that can't be resolved or you don't wish to resolve it.
And ganging up on someone is also cowardly.
I hold no resentment bc I see it for what it is. Instead, I pray for these ladies that they find peace in their own lives. Not only for them, but for the sake of others, they hurt along the way in their quest to feel important.
I'm so sorry you went through that in your workplace.
Stay strong & thank you so much for listening & for your support ❤️ 🩷🥰
Wow I'm sitting listening to this and almost scared to start sharing my dolls on RUclips and social media 😳 😢
Sweetie don't be scared to start a channel & share your babies. Just remember that online is the internet & don't allow ppl to get close to you that you've never met.
You will be very happy sharing your babies. If you leave it at that you will do just fine!!
Hugs & love ❤️
Tasha
@@piximommysreborns thank you so so much, you are definitely one of my favorites in the reborn community ❤️ sending big Hugs and Love
Hello sweetheart, now I am much older then you. People that are jealous of you, your life and success often turn into gremlins. Really you will learn to listen to your gut feeling about people. This comes with age. Now I didn’t know any of this was going on because we are travelling Australia and often do not have mobile service. I love your videos and who you are. I respect you as a person. I am sending you love and stay safe.❤️🤗
Dear Gail, thank you my friend for sharing some of your wisdom with me. I know your right. I have reached the time in my life where I see that we learn our most important lessons more so from our failures then from our successes. At least that's been the case with me as I look back it's the painful mistakes I have learned & grown the most from.
I did not follow my gut some of the way in this particular situation & looking back I can see that mistake I made. I'm very greatful to be where I am now!
Enjoy the rest of your travels in Australia!! I have always wanted to visit there to see the wildlife, meet the people & most definitely swim in the ocean at Bondi.
Stay safe & well Gail
Oh Tasha, this nearly made me cry, what they did to you. I think you know my feelings on Ines, she truly is a nasty piece of work, just her attitude on things is holier than thou. However you did shock me about Katie I didn’t realise she was as bad, although I knew she was always quick to defend Ines and play the victim. You really are better off without them even though it must hurt you terribly. A lot of people are now realising just who the mean girls are now. ShellBea is a good solid friend and I know she will defend you to the hilt. You said you were not in their class, you are right, you are way above them truly. I just want you to know that I think you are a fabulous, true, honest and beautiful person, all the more so because of what you have overcome in your life. Huge hugs to you 😘😘
Omgosh Toni now your making me cry!! Lol
Your kind words mean more then you will ever know! Yeah it really stung to hear some things they had said about me in a group while we're were "friends". Not everyone gossips about their friends behind their backs! I don't!
And yup! Everyone is always so surprised to know that "seemingly sweet kind Katie" is not so kind at all!! She is just as nasty as Ines! I had a hard time believing it myself until I saw her in action & then in turn "little did I know" it would one day be aimed in my direction! I think she's actually worse bc at least Ines you can see coming. Her true colors shine through real quick! Katie on the other hand maintains her innocent victim ruitine & that pulls the wool over most ppls eyes. I was genuinely hurt when she discarded me in the same way Ines did & even more hurt when she came at me apparently so feed up with me "copying" or not giving "credit" for a diaper! Oh & some bottle that I still don't know which one! While it's all ridiculous it actually makes it all the more hurtful to know something so petty was worth more then a person's feelings.
Thank you for listening Toni ! 🙏❤😘
Tasha well said Mic drop ! 👏
Glad to see your taking control of the people who you let into your life. Good for you.
Thank you my sweet dolly friend! It's really great to "see" you!! I hope you are well! Big hugs!!! 🤗
Closing down an active youtube account and using a private IG to feel safe, being ghosted, blocked and having fake friends that talk about you behind your back, it has happened to a lot of us over the years, it's all about greed and jealousy and wanting to be top dog and spoiling it for others, in short.....BULLYING.
Speak your truth girl. I am so sorry you went through this. It sucks when the closest people to us, hurt us. It’s just like you said though, God closes one door and he opens another one. I know it hurts but in a way, all that negativity isn’t apart of your life now and now you have more space for the positive. Stay strong girl.😊💜
Awe Daphne thank you so much my friend! I'm so greatful to now be surrounded by such truly wonderful people who bring nothing but joy to my life!
It was good to finally shed the last of this pain I carried & maybe help others going through anything similar that they are not alone.
Big hugs! 🤗
There is no greater flattery than style copying.
If you buy an item of baby clothing- it’s not going to be ‘YOUR’S!”
I love that Shell enjoys showing all of us her finds!
Let’s all keep our chins up together xxx
Its so good to hear someone finally say what ive been thinking for quite a while.I used to watch their chanels but ines chanel in particular made me feel very uncomfortable,everything she posted was moaning,being nasty,being horrible about other artists,collectors etc and complaining about being copied..it just went on and on and was like playground behaviour so watching your video i was so sad to hear what you had gone through with them.Congratulations for talking about it on your chanel because bullies like that need to be stopped.I noticed a long time ago what ines was like and very recently noticed katie had changed a lot too so many other people will know exactly what theyre like too. Im from scotland uk and have been collecting for 2 years so love watching chanels from around the world,i just love yours. xx
Hi there Mandy! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts & kindness!
You are most definitely not the only one who got that not so great vibe from Ines, but still thought Katie might be alright & then in time were pretty surprised to find out that her hole little act is completely fake! The two of them feed off one another & the few that follow that believe they still have everyone fooled!
It felt awful for me to find out that ladies I truly thought were my friends & cared for me the way I cared for them were willing to disgaurd me & make me feel ostracized & left out!
One of the ladies "Renee had been a close friend since the beginning". We were very close & though we had drifted apart I still always thought that our bond & friendship was still there. She herself had been snubbed & hurt by Katie "& in person at a doll show". She left that show crying so hard she could barley speak bc grown woman snubbed her in front of everyone & she was so embarrassed & humiliated!! Meanwhile Katie was the one who single handedly behind the scenes caused the entire conflict in the first place! I was there on the other end of the phone to console my friend who I loved so dearly! Oh how quickly that was forgotten about & this past yr "after I was snubbed & excluded" there's Renee at that very same doll show standing side by side in photos with Katie & the ladies who snubbed her & made her feel so awful! She sold herself out to fit in with the fakes & the bullies of this community! That hurt me so badly that I couldn't speak of it in this video bc I most definitely would have been in tears! Fitting in with these few ladies was more important then a true friend.
Even though it hurt so bad I was glad to know where I stood & have went on to have my best yr in the hobby! But when I see others being made to feel this way & they can't put their finger on whats gone wrong, it made me want to speak up!
Bullies stop doing what they do when people stop excepting what they do!
Anyways thank you so much for listening & I'm so glad to have you here! 💗
As far as I’m concerned if someone talks about someone to you it means they’re talking about you to the other person. I’m sad that this community is like this. I’m happy to stay on my lonesome that way I don’t get messed up in any melodrama that seems to be going on. Stay safe, stay happy x
Hi Tasha, first you look fabulous and Oscar looks absolutely stunning, my dear friend I’m I didn’t watched you video I’m been busy like crazy here but I just took a few minutes to watch you channel omg dear I can’t see it how come someone not like you, Tasha you have darling soul. I’m proud of you and talking about something hold on you heart ❤️, dear Tasha people like that I truly feel sorry for them they are sad, lonely, definitely they need prayers. Love you channel Tasha, love they way you are sweet and kind, my heart reach out to you love so glad I had found you and all the RUclipsrs I love the most. I do totally enjoy watching you girls love love ❤️
Tasha- this breaks my heart for you! Baby Hope & I love you! I watch you & misty over at kits to Kradles & Ann Siggers at Ann’s reborn nursery & crochet. Trying to stay away from the drama world.
We ❤ you Tasha and ❤ watching you & your dolls .
Thank you my friend!!! 🤗🤗🤗
@@piximommysreborns
Your welcome 💙 ☺
Tasha, that sounds so much like cyber bullying. It is ridiculous that grown folk act like this.
Yep Tasha- every day is a struggle but if Shell and Lei love you enough to support you- that’s good enough for me.
Only thing I will say is please don’t let that drama taint Stellan -
He is the Holy Grail of Levi’s for many of us.
Most of us are NOT equipped to deal with these ‘challenged’ personalities.
I for one was wary because for the close relationship I had perceived.
Hope you can find friends in the rest of us!
This video has made my heart smile 😊
❤️❤️❤️
Hello sweet lady!
I'm greatful everyday to have Michele & Lei in my life! We never know where God may lead us next & we might miss out on some really amazing people in our lives if we don't allow one another some grace & understanding.
I have Stellan tucked away for a while safely with a friend that wanted to spend some time with him, for that exact reason. I didn't want my bond with him to be tainted by all of this!
It's funny bc after this video, I had just made arrangements for him to come home! I think that sharing my story with all of you was letting go of that last piece of pain that I had buried! So I'm super excited for us all to see Stellan & just in time for fall!!
Hugs & love ❤ 🤗❤🤗
Focus on those that deserve your kindness!
Thank you Sharon 🙏🙏🙏
Your a beautiful person. It would have been so upsetting. Hope your ok
I’m so sorry that you went through this. Honestly, I’m not surprised about RH being like that. But ShellBea opened my eyes about Katie because I really didn’t read between the lines. If RH doesn’t want anyone to have the same things she has, she shouldn’t put them in videos. You will never have to worry about Shell doing you dirty because if she has something to say she will say it straight to you! That’s the best kind of friend a person can have. Stick with those of us that think you’re a great person and don’t worry about those that need validation for everything. Life will be much happier when you don’t have to worry about friends talking crap about you behind your back. Keep your chin up and know that you have good morals ❤️
For me,Covid has taken its toll on me I’m so tired and exhausted! My babies have brought me true joy and happiness
You look after you dont worry about all the bad negativity, I like your Reborn channel, ❤❤❤❤
Thank you sweetie 😘
Every time I’ve seen you on here you’ve always had so much drama with everyone so I am not surprised. You know, misery loves company
Well done 👍 Tasha ,well done ,I applaud 👏 you ,I kind of fell in that Similar trap 🪤,but yup I know something odd what’s not right ,but power to you ,but if I where you ,I would let it go ,it’s not worth having Ines or Katie as so called friends ,indeed they do use ppl but then Sheet ppl like you and me ,I would say to them repent ,as they need to ask god for forgiveness, so yeah ,I being in shoes ,this is why since I got sick with cancer and covid -19 I don’t make videos about giving shout outs or doing much of everything ,only my art reborn dolls and my cancer journey and my baby Yoda’s or updates of my health that’s it ,love you girl stay strong 💪🏻 hugs and love ❤️
copying someone is the biggest form of flattery!
I am no longer a reborn collector therefore I unsubscribed from all reborn channel but this video caught my attention so I decided to watch. I always thought you were all about the hobby and never heard you say an unkind word about anyone so I’m sorry you are going through this. I got out of the hobby because of all the women I saw being petty and mean to one another and I felt like I was following a bunch of high schoolers. These women who tear each other down must be very insecure in their own lives. Keep doing what you do because you are a happy place foe many collectors.😊🙏
Thank you Evanne, I miss seeing you around!
It really baffles me to see grown woman behaving this way & so petty! I guess it's difficult to see when your close up to something. The pack mentality over such childish stuff is absolutely like watching a bunch of high school drama moma's!!
I've been so happy this past year finally having the time & happy place to start painting & enjoying the hobby & friends! I'm glad I finally shared my truth because it was definitely hurtful & something that I see them continuing on with towards me & many others.
I'm not like them & I'm so glad I'm not!!
Thank you for stopping by Evanne! I hope to see you around sweetie 😘 💕
I've never commented here before but I'm a loyal fan! I got my first reborn doll from a wonderful artist just over a year ago. I have been following you for a little over a year. You are the first reborn collector RUclipsr I subscribed to, and I'monly subscribed to I think three channels. I love your channel. I have never been subscribed to those other two people you speak of but I have seen some of their videos. 🤔 Katie especially is very full of herself... "better than thou" attitude. That's why I don't follow them. The drama is as you said, childish grades chool behavior. You keep doing what you do... those who enjoy your videos will continue to enjoy them and you!!
Awe thank you so much & I'm really so glad to have you here!! It just brings me so much joy to share this hobby & so much fun with all of you!!
Big hugs my friend 🤗
I had not been in this hobby long when the diaper incident happened and I was flabbergasted. Fighting over a diaper, I was glad you had posted it as I was new and not have seen them. Sorry ladies I may have items that someone else has as the only place I have to buy baby clothes is Walmart.
You have a beautiful personality and I am so sorry that you had to go through several awful expirences, Tasha. 💖💝X
Both you and any human being does not deserve to be treated in a negative way at all, whatsoever.
I regard you as a friend of mine just by watching your videos, (even if I do not know you personally) because I feel like we would be good friends in terms of our similarities. (Likes and dislikes, putting others first, supporting and respecting others over ourselves, taking pride in our families and putting family/friends first, mental health, the enjoyment of dolls/baby items, our personality traits and a few more examples that I cannot think of, off the top of my head at the moment.) :)
All I can say is, ‘’you do you’’ and anybody that does not like who you are truly does not matter because it is the people that love you whom matter most and are the most important. (I wish I had the confidence that you have and that I could believe my own advice sometimes, haha!)
We are all imperfect humans surviving together and sometimes life, being human and being alive in general is hard enough, therefore, we should all be helping each other on this journey whenever we can, instead of putting each other down. (Especially in our hobbies and a doll hobby at that!)
I hope that you are okay and that your negative experiences do not deter you from making videos, because that truly would be a huge loss to the Doll/Reborn Community. ❤️
We all love you! Kindest regards and love from Lauren. 💖💝X
Hi Dear Lauren, thank you so much for all your kind words they truly mean alot!
Yes it's so very true that life is tough enough all on its very own! Life as so many wonderful gifts of joy, but it's not without heart ache & pain. Every person's journey is a little different, but we all at times go through things that "I chuckle a little when I say" "you couldn't make up if you tried!!".
We just never really know what someone else might be going through at any particular time!! I try to keep that in mind everywhere. On the road, in the market, on the phone exrra... that person that just cut you off on the road might be heading to a funeral or someone sick in the hospital or Lord knows. The ticked off person holding up the line at the market over a 20cent coupon might be losing their house or just be argumentative bc they have a sick child. We just never know. It's important to give people grace & when you think your giving it, keep on giving more!
I am VERY FAR from perfect at this or anything else. I don't always get it right, but I do try & I very much care. I can see your a kind soul just by the comments you leave. I won't stop making videos because of all of you & how much I truly enjoy sharing my dolls & spending the time making videos. I do it because I love it & I enjoy & care for all of you! I'm not nessisaraly able to respond all the time, but I enjoy so much reading all of my comments. All through the day when I stop & have a coffee or just any time I take a little break in between my day I come & read the comments. So I feel like I spend my days with all of you that I know are here & know are watching!
Only something in my own life or family would ever prevent me from making videos & being here in this hobby. I'm certain that I will go through alot more here on YT & in the community in the years to come. I know these ppl will not stop watching me & not stop trying ways to intimate me & I'm sure I will run into others like them. I have to stand strong & keep to my own code of "not looking". I know what's out there! Lol it's as easy & as difficult as that! Haha but I will survive!
Give yourself more credit with the confidence! I will let you in on a little secret "I'm not as confident as I may appear". I have just lived through alot "in real life" & at a certain point you just throw up your hands & say "duck it" 😉 & stop worrying about what anyone else thinks! I suppose in some way I was always like this, but I don't think it's confidence. I think it's just light heartedness "not a word" 🤣. I have always had the desire to just have fun & be me! You have that in you too!! We live once right so make it count! 😉
Thank you for always being so kind & so supportive & taking the time to spend with me! It is ppl like you that keep me here!
I've learned some valuable lessons from all of this. Looking back I didn't follow my gut with a few & did not listen to warnings & in 2 of the cases I was brand new in the community & looked at everyone as kind friendly doll ppl so I leapt before evaluating who was who or watching how they operated. It's a simple as that. Hopefully now I know better!
Hugs & love,
Tasha 🤗❤😘
Ps. I did not proof read that novel I just typed so excuse all the errors I'm very sure you will find! 🤣
@@piximommysreborns That is absolutely fine, haha! 💖💝X
Thank you so much for taking the time out of your day to reply to my comment and awwwww, thank you for all of your lovely compliments and advice, Tasha! ❤️🤗
That is very true! Yes we should all live life to the fullest whenever we can but sometimes that is very difficult to do, (especially when you have bad anxiety, haha.)
However, I will try to work on not to letting every small thing make me anxious/nervous because life is very short and I would like to be remembered for my heart/soul and for my happy, bubbly personality, (rather than my nervousness/lack of confidence/anxiety.)
Big hugs and lots of love from Lauren. 💖X
Tasha you are such an amazing woman! I have so much to say. I will privately message you. Love you girl💕
Hi Brenda, Oh no worries dear you can leave it all in the comments "we're all typing novels here" LOL I'm definitely reading all of your wonderful comments & I know many of you have experienced similar issues with these ladies "or others like them". It's heart breaking to see that this happens with adults in a hobby, but it does.
I try to mention as often as I can, but I don't have private messaging available on social media. It's been that way for a couple of yrs now bc I just wasn't able to manage my time in the hobby in addition to all of my business inquiries, kids school stuff & all that. I can barley text back my poor Mom! Lol
But I promise I will follow up in membership with a live chat "or even a few" so that we can discuss this subject in real time. My hubby was in the ER the whole night last night "his hip re fractured from the accident" , but I'm trying to make some time to get on this evening if I can! So keep a look out for the notifications!
Big hugs! 🤗
@@piximommysreborns prayers coming for you and your husband!
@@brendacollier2521 Thank you so much for your prayers Brenda!! It's of course nothing life or death, but he will definitely be going for surgery. He had been walking around for 3 weeks on a broken hip!! Sooooo stubborn. He was in so much pain, but trying to "tough it out" which was such a not smart thing to do & has now made it even more complicated!
I'm sure I'll chat about it in a video "how stubborn men can be" haha
I’m sorry Tasha that you were treated so terribly. It’s an awful feeling to be outcasted, I’ve been there before. You instantly seek out the problem in yourself, especially where there is multiple people involved. I hope you find a weight lifted now ❤️ I unsubscribed from both characters after I seen them in action.💩 Ignorance and arrogance don’t fly with me. I like real people, no need to block me I’ll see myself out… 🤣😂.. Luv ya Tasha 💕💕💕💫✨
Oh Shelly you have me laughing thank you! "I'll see myself out!" 🤣
Yes yes you totally get it! Of course the first thing I did "after crying alot" was fearlessly search within myself trying to find where & how I failed as a friend & what it was about me or that I was doing or had done that would make "friends" so disgusted that they couldn't even tell me why they no longer wanted my friendship.
While I can point out many of my flaws , it became clear it wasn't about me. This wasn't a "falling out" that friends have. These ladies never liked me in the first place. They never actually cared about me or valued my friendship. I had been used! Plain & simple! When they were done using me for one purpose they didn't just leave me alone, they then set their sights on tearing me down. They did so in such a way to make sure that myself & others knew I was "left out" & then attacked my character in their shade throwing "which hurts when it comes from ppl you cared about who you thought once cared about you".
After Michele's video yesterday & the "novel" I left in her comments I realized how I still carried this & how so many ppl missed it!
Hugs & love to you my friend! Thank you for being here! ♥️
I once had a very much loved friend. We both befriended another and became like the 3 Musketeers. ,Then the newer friend systematically poisoned my friends mind against me. It ended in a huge row and we never spoke again. It hurt me to the core. Almost invariably it's down to jealousy.
Ps... I think you're a lovely lady.
so sorry
I have always said I must not be a good judge of character. The reason why, so many times stuff like what has happened to you is exactly what has happened to me. It has taken a lifetime for me to realize that women can be more cruel then any other species on earth. I have always been a firm believer that women need to stick together and support each other . But I’ve realized that so many women are so jealous that the most ugly side of them will come out. It will leave you not only crushed but also leave you so dumbfounded. It’s such a sad sad thing . It’s always over such ridiculous crap too!
I want to tell you that you are a beautiful, kind, honest, person! Anyone would be lucky to have you as a friend !
I have had a lifetime of love for dollies, You were the very first person that drew me to the doll community and made me feel it was ok to collect dolls. You made me feel comfortable and I didn’t need to be a closet collector anymore Lol
I’ve always been grateful for you! Your advise, your knowledge, your bold spirit and more then anything your sincere kindness!
You just keep doing what you do and let the love wrap around you and smother out all the nasty jealous haters! We have to just feel sorry for them !
Love you to pieces!!! God bless you ❤️
Hi Dear Lindy,
You are such a kind sweet loving person yourself! I too never understood how women can tear each other apart the way that they do, but the older I get the more I've come to understand that it does come from a place of pain & insecurity that manifests itself in jealousy. Jealousy seems to bring out a very ugly side in people. For some I don't think they even realize or even recognize that's what they are feeling. Some ppl take pain & painful experiences in life & bury it so deep that they learn to feel they can't trust anyone & they veiw everyone just as competition because it's easier then letting people in. I feel deeply sorry for those people "& I'm not saying that in a mean way" I truly pray for them to find peace within themselves & the confidence to share joy & love in friendship & supporting one another.
I remember back when I was in school "many moons ago lol". They often put together these field trip work shop things. Where we went out onto a course that had challenges set up & they put kids together in groups. Together we had to figure out how to build a human ladder to reach the top of something. Or walk a tightrope obstacle course. Things that one person could not achieve on their own, but if we worked together using one another's strengths & weaknesses we could achieve the goals together. Alot if trust was involved bc if someone "let go" it was a long way down! But what great life skills it taught us in that working together we could accomplish what seemed like the impossible & what would have actually been impossible if it were left to one person to do on their own!
Together we are stronger! It doesn't matter who actually was the one to grab the flag at the top bc we all knew it was a win for everyone who participated! There's just no reason in life to try & step all over one another & those who do that ultimately stumble & fall, all while having hurt ppl by stepping on them.
This here is simply just a hobby & one that everyone can participate & enjoy in. We've all got enough stress in life & many of us collect these dolls & have fun with them as not only appreciating the art, but also as an escape from daily stress & struggles & something that we treat ourselves to. There's just no reason to go out of our way to purposely try & make others miserable here!
Luckily there are many many wonderful ppl in this hobby & the good far outweighs the bad! Most of us want to grow & learn together & share kindness fun & friendship!
I'm truly greatful to all of you that come & spend your time with me & become a part of my world by having me in yours! Your not a poor judge of character at all. Your a good person who's willing to let others in at the expense of possibly getting hurt sometimes because it's better to take a chance with a loving heart then to never love at all!! ❤🤗😘
@@piximommysreborns your reply was amazing and what a wonderful story you shared about the human ladder lesson ! Love it! They def need to do more of these life lessons in school like this one ! Thank you for sharing. I apologize to you for his very late thank you . As you know life is busy and unfortunately I don’t get on here as much as I’d like . My grandson and myself always love to jump on to watch your channel. Lucas is on the spectrum and many times I can related to things you talk about first hand . Lucas is one beautiful unique little human. He loves and is intrigued with my collection of baby dolls. And he’s still at the age that he’s not judged for it. I know that will change the older he gets among his peers, Unfortunately.
Its a shame that bulling starts early in life.
When you think about it , it literally can and does alters us. Starting at an early age When we see people look at Us funny or voice to us in an unacceptable manner, we learn we must not be right the way we think or view things. With age it usually comes maturity . Unfortunately that’s not always the case.
Especially now this world needs more love ! You spread Love through your channel! Don’t let anyone steal that from your kind soul.
Thank you for being you !
❤️❌⭕️
My advise to you is to leave those two high schoolers alone Katie and Inez are messy I have watched them both and your are way better than them you are a spiritual being and they are not that being said oil doesn't mix with water you are a set apart person and your loving nature is not of theirs Katie and Inez are proud and sometimes come off as arrogant and is really a turn off Inez with her I'm so educated and I use big words shows me she is not 100 percent loyal I a lot of times turn off her live streams because of it too obnoxious and rude sometimes and she will even tell you she is or has an out spoken spirit so that being absolutely true to the fact bow down to her arrogance which I do not do so my advise to you don't assume someone is your friend if they don't tell you you are that's just like a man if a man doesn't tell you your his then your basically not I have nothing against those two ladies their just not my cup of tea I did make a comment on Katie's channel when she was venting about the mass producing knock off kits that she was barking up the wrong tree that this is the real world their gonna do whatever they want and she isn't even a doll artist she just wants something to talk about for her channel
There’s nothing worse than a “fake “ friend. You have plenty of real friends Tasha and I love your channel!🥰
Thank you so much Cynthia & thank you for being here!! I appreciate you all so much!! 🙏♥️
I’m so so sorry you have had a bad experience.
never in my 54 years have I seen so much drama and let me tell you its the entire RUclips community reborn doll channels do seem to have a lot my true crime people drama the dog groomer I follow had people call CPS on her and she gets bullied you are great I enjoy your videos its a keyboard warrior thing I think and Oscar is gorgeous 😍
i think your great your awesome sweet friend getting another adora doll do u know how many people ctdolls they collet
amen
I've had two people in my life cut me out of theirs with no explanation whatsoever it sucks when people do that but just remember God removes people from our lives for a reason just like he brings people into our lives for a reason. We may not understand it but God does and that's good enough for me. God bless you honey!
Thank you sweetie. God bless you too! 🙏 ❤
Tashaaa! Tell those haters to back off the Irish way. They’re acting out bc you are kicking ass all over the reborn community. You are a reborn collector teacher and artist. Be proud of that! They’re jealous your winning the business. You also have a great fun and outgoing personality. They’re no loss if this is what they want to amount to to you. You have what? Ten thousand plus more ppl who want to know you. No worries man ✌️
glad i meet u
I♥️👶🏻 reborn!!
My theory here is to each their own in hobbies and collections I have a few collections and a few that were destroyed and taken from me from a fire. My Nama always said if you get into a hobby or collection do it because you like it and if it makes you happy then that’s all that matters the reborn world I got into by accident with my daughter and we are happy with it and I ll be getting my first silicone baby soon she’s a custom baby
I got started on you tube to enjoy the reborn hobby and to learning about the hobby. I have not started my channel yet but wondering if it is worth it. I'm not into drama and if I have something to say about someone I talk to them not gossip. On the most part we are adults and should act as such. I am a pretty good judge of character and figured out there are clicks and the mean girls here to. It's like welcome back to high school. Sorry you have gone through this.
me to pray for them we learn at church laf love accept forgive
Good video! They were never your friends to begin with . That’s not how true friends behave. Those were snakes and wolves in sheep clothing and you exposed them good for you. Zero tolerance for bullying and being sneaky snakes.
DONT LET ANYONE BULLY YOU HONEY AND LOVE YOU SWEET GIRL 😘
you have such good widsom
I hope you don’t worry about those people anymore, they’re everywhere nowadays. I call them HATERS. 😕
Yes exactly!!! 🤣 (HATERS) & thankfully it's been yrs now since I've payed any mind to them! Lolz
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Tasha, I know this is an old video, but I've just now seen it. When you lost K&I's "friendships" you really lost nothing, and really gained a lot!🙂
Thank you! ❤️🥰
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Hi! As I recently stated on another video I just found you and I’m new to the community I’m not positive who you were speaking about that’s named Shelby but I THINK I know who it was I’d REALLY love to know if I’m right tho because I had an incident last night that made me think about wanting nothing to do w the community because of the way she treated me! I do not have a baby yet and I do not have much money AT ALL! But really want/need me a baby!! I have terrible anxiety and depression and I know when my great nephew was a baby (he’ll b 4 next month) but When he was here and I was holding him everything else in the world didn’t matter and I desperately wanna hold a baby. Well as I said I can’t afford a high end doll rn actually I can’t spend over $100 but Amazon has a few I really like and I mentioned that and she said they were knock offs and stolen kits which I’m completely aware they are knock offs, but we all don’t have hundreds of dollars for a doll I’m on disability I don’t make much and that’s what I can afford atm so of course it was “WE DONT SUPPORT THOSE IN THIS COMMUNITY “ and that was not only embarrassing but also made me feel terrible I’m also thinking of buying a painted kit then putting together myself because I want a nicely weighted doll and also would like magnet in its head for a bow and one in mouth (which most do have the mouth) but I’m almost positive I know because it just seems to weird and the name she uses which I but I can put 2 n 2 together. But I know I told u before but I’m loving your content I’ll continue to watch! I’d also like your feedback on the Amazon doll situation and how u feel about that, I would like to talk to u about it but if u don’t wanna talk here I can message u on Instagram ❤
Hello again, no, it's not the same person. This video is a few yrs old & had to do with friendship falling out.
As far as Amazon & other places selling stolen sculpts, I do have many videos up on the subject. It's not about the dolls being knock offs it's that they are illegally reproduced . The sculpts have been stolen from the original sculptors who put years of their hearts & souls into their artwork.
At the end of the day it isn't for anyone else to say how we spend our own money, but there are many other ways to buy dolls inexpensively without buying what we know has been stolen from someone else's hard work. I have a couple of Paradise Galleries babies that are absolutely beautiful, so I highly recommend them. Another great way is to buy a blank kit. This way, you can put it together & and weigh the baby how you would like. I've seen many collectors do that & and then eventually down the road, have them painted, or some even learn to paint themselves.
You will run into many people in this community who feel a certain way about the stolen sculpts. Many of us have gotten to know the artists & sculptors through the years & have seen firsthand how devastating it is for them having their work stolen like that.
I very much understand not having the money for something you want. I spent some of my adult life struggling while raising my kids. But personally, I would not buy something that I know has been stolen from someone else. That's just my feelings on it.
I think it's a wonderful part of this community that we look to protect our artists & sculptors because without them, we would not have these amazing works of art that bring us so much joy & bring us all together to share in one another's joy.
Check out some of my videos on the topic if you're interested in hearing more of my thoughts. I don't agree with those who take it to the point of being unkind to others. I speak about it to educate people who may not fully understand that the sculpts have been stolen & are being reproduced as "knockoffs" illegally without permission from the rightful owners. When we know better, we do better. Definitely check out Paridise Galleries, dolls Sweetie. They make beautiful, legit, collectable baby dolls at very affordable prices. I have their Noah & Story & they are both beautiful babies that were hand sculpted 🎨
Best of luck in finding your first baby 🥰
@@piximommysreborns THANK YOU for the information and not trying to rip my head off lol I do understand about the stealing tho I’m like that when it comes to concerts if it’s a resale ticket over face value I WILL NOT buy it! IDC if it was the last ticket available I would miss it before I give one of those losers my money…. making money off of bands is ridiculous as well!! Same as merchandise ppl make all kinds of money off someone else’s name!! I have actually had this discussion w a friend of mine and I think i’m going to buy a painted kit because I can’t paint lol but I would like to weight it to my liking! I want it a pretty “heavy” weight to it and would also like a magnet in head for a hair bow for a girl it seems like most cones w one in mouth but not head, so i’ve been leaning more in that direction amazon was an IDEA until I dug a little deeper then started researching and watching videos of assembling my own and stuff!! I really appreciate your time on this, and it was honestly just the way she said it to me that kinda upset me! I’m new which she knew and I just felt she was being nasty about it. But it’s fine because I’m gonna just get a kit, they do sell legit painted kits right? Just wanna make sure that the painted kits ARE LEGIT and NOT STOLEN!! And i’ll definitely watch those videos i’ve been slowly going thru all of them because I really enjoy your content so far and I really appreciate u being helpful and taking the time for educating me and not just yelling and putting me down!🥰