How To Cry Step-By-Step - Helps with Depression, Anxiety & Suppressed Emotions

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  • Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
  • Do you sometimes feel sad for no apparent reasons? When was the last time you cried? In this video, you will learn how to let go and express your sadness.
    Sadness, depression and anxiety disorders are getting more and more common nowadays. So many people feel sad, although we are so "connected" via the internet. However, in the age where everybody is supposed to be happy, where is the place for sadness and crying?
    The first thing you need to realize is that sadness is nothing wrong. Sadness is just an emotion. Just like happiness is. And the way we express happiness is through laughing. The way we express sadness is through crying. It's not rocket science. Babies can do it too.
    But then why do we (as grown-ups) struggle with expressing our sadness? Well, a big chunk of this is due to "group think" and the notion that being sad is the same as being weak. Which is not true. Feeling sad is normal. Feeling emotion is human nature. And suppressing emotions is not healthy. So you better learn how to cry.
    In this video, I will guide you through a simple process. You will need only 2 things.
    The first is a safe environment where you can cry.
    And the second is the emotional triggers which you can use to start crying.
    Check the video, where I explain them in detail.
    Let me know in a comment below how you like the video.
    And please share it with a friend who might need this.
    Thank you!

Комментарии • 3,2 тыс.

  • @sophie-wo3hh
    @sophie-wo3hh 5 лет назад +5792

    i have depression and cannot cry due to the numbness. i cannot remember the last time i cried, but would love to be able to so much

    • @martin-georgiev
      @martin-georgiev  5 лет назад +262

      Dear Sophie, I hear you. Have you heard about techniques like Emotional freedom technique (EFT) is an alternative treatment for physical pain and emotional distress. It's also referred to as tapping or psychological acupressure.? You can google it?
      And try this breathing technique cause the emotion might be trapped in your body ruclips.net/video/biFfR2sZGvA/видео.html

    • @Dan3043
      @Dan3043 5 лет назад +126

      That's exactly how I feel, I often describe myself as being emotionally constipated, as I haven't been able to cry in years. People often equate being depressed to feeling sad, but in my opinion it's more like feeling numb. It's feeling everything and nothing at once. I feel empty and devoid of any kind of hope, but I also believe that through periodic crying, I might just be able to relieve or assuage some of that despair and angst that cripples me so relentlessly. From an early age, I taught myself to suffer in silence, and I always strove to suppress my emotions, which meant not getting angry - or rather not allowing myself to manifest it outwardly - not getting overly exited, not crying (not even in private) and so on. I prided myself on being able to remain seemingly unfazed by shit that would happen. I was always told to maintain my composure at all times, even as a child, and so I did... I guess somewhere along the way I became so emotionally constipated and overwhelmed by it that I just broke down. I now wish I could feel my emotions and allow myself to cry every now and then.

    • @martin-georgiev
      @martin-georgiev  5 лет назад +59

      @@Dan3043 Thank for sharing Dan. I hope this helps bro. At least you are aware of it all.

    • @hayprofilms
      @hayprofilms 5 лет назад +14

      Dan
      Gosh how I relate a lot to your comment and your term emotionally constipated is exactly my term for how I feel. Not being able to cry is crippling and people cannot understand.
      My emotional constipation attacks can last 5 minutes up to even 20 minutes and sends my blood pressure of the scale and eventually after 3 years, my blood pressure went up to high too often and I have just had a small stroke. Im doing ok but fear another stroke for the same reasons. My cholesterol is a little high but nothing to be concerned about.
      The hospital said long term stress =long term high blood pressure which can = stroke, I am on medication for blood pressure.
      The pressure I experience when I have my attacks tells me why I struggle day to day.
      regards
      Hayden

    • @scottedwardwhitaker8464
      @scottedwardwhitaker8464 5 лет назад +9

      sophie same and i absolutely hate it ive watched sooooo many videos of how but havent been able... ive been bout ready to end it all and ive been told crying will help me releive some of the pain...

  • @bagonk238
    @bagonk238 4 года назад +7978

    Dang I never imagined the day I'd be searching up how to cry

  • @natcordner
    @natcordner Год назад +357

    One minute I'm in the therapy room sobbing, the next I'm on RUclips searching for how to cry. Oh, how time flies when you're bottling up your emotions :)

  • @vanile8413
    @vanile8413 5 лет назад +11345

    I am legitimately scared that i wont be able to cry when a loved one dies.

    • @sugakookiearmy4884
      @sugakookiearmy4884 4 года назад +107

      Same

    • @gracehart6123
      @gracehart6123 4 года назад +437

      i didn’t cry at my grandads funeral bc i legit cant

    • @josec.6394
      @josec.6394 4 года назад +275

      When my dad died I couldn't at first. But I slowly came to the realization that he was really gone, and I couldn't stop crying.

    • @ジャスミン-f2l
      @ジャスミン-f2l 4 года назад +108

      This might sound bad but I only cry when my animals die but when the people in my family i can’t I try but I can’t

    • @lisaunknownlastname2151
      @lisaunknownlastname2151 4 года назад +11

      Vanile YESSSS

  • @stephen9381
    @stephen9381 4 года назад +7271

    When you laugh at the fact you need to search how to cry, you realise a lot

    • @barshanandi9238
      @barshanandi9238 4 года назад +59

      Haha yeah...

    • @simon-842
      @simon-842 4 года назад +66

      @a You are never fully lonely. God and your family will be with you all the time. And If that helps: I am also with you !

    • @curseface
      @curseface 3 года назад +52

      lmao i just feel that I'm laughing so hard about this insted of crying my soul out

    • @somestrangeperson5175
      @somestrangeperson5175 3 года назад +15

      I was just laughing

    • @Lifeszu
      @Lifeszu 3 года назад +12

      I'm just laughing 😂😂😂

  • @WrenBeaumont
    @WrenBeaumont 9 месяцев назад +147

    it’s so weird, you feel your heart clenching, you feel the lump in your throat and it hurts like nothing else. but you still can’t cry. being able to express itself is a gift I guess.

  • @ezbrent5573
    @ezbrent5573 5 лет назад +3495

    This is the saddest comment section on RUclips

    • @martin-georgiev
      @martin-georgiev  5 лет назад +184

      There is hope!

    • @feinsterspam7496
      @feinsterspam7496 5 лет назад +21

      There is a guy talking about suicide being ok, look at his comments, there are people writing that they are going to kill themself and probably some of them are really dead by now

    • @sicko_4019
      @sicko_4019 4 года назад +10

      I’ve seen way sadder. This is just the icing of the cake.

    • @Luca_Denhard
      @Luca_Denhard 4 года назад +1

      Martin Georgiev I’m hip

    • @pixelfish3395
      @pixelfish3395 4 года назад +1

      No. There is worst

  • @hollyhenshall9839
    @hollyhenshall9839 4 года назад +3839

    I can’t cry I constantly feel it building up but it’s doesn’t come out I get angry very easily by the tiniest things and that’s when I cry even if it’s minor

    • @jayveebernaldez1087
      @jayveebernaldez1087 4 года назад +53

      Lol same, I'm having a mental breakdown rn coz I think some things that happened this past few days has break through the ceiling of my tolerance or things that I can handle and... I can't take those anymore

    • @dddanielharryzam
      @dddanielharryzam 4 года назад +24

      same for me. I just wanted to feel emotion. I wanted to cry.

    • @kaitlyn6401
      @kaitlyn6401 4 года назад +2

      haha me

    • @dajunkolmfaoooooo
      @dajunkolmfaoooooo 4 года назад +2

      I only cry in bed

    • @ItzCortana
      @ItzCortana 4 года назад

      Ikr :(

  • @sup389
    @sup389 3 года назад +633

    Before I use to cry every single day on the littlest things! And I always felt like a burden, and useless. But now I can't cry at all. All of it is just in there building up. For anyone like me struggling out there I just want to say, stay strong!

    • @providencephelps1497
      @providencephelps1497 2 года назад +22

      Me too.I used to cry constantly. Now I feel stone-like

    • @sunnyj851
      @sunnyj851 2 года назад +8

      I thought I was the only one like this

    • @cristiancorrea5700
      @cristiancorrea5700 2 года назад +5

      Feel the same, and now it’s like all my emotions from months of struggle now have been accumulating inside but I just can’t release them now…

    • @positivelygracie
      @positivelygracie 2 года назад +5

      I was sure this didn't happen to anyone else, I thought I was alone

    • @aleksitjvladica.
      @aleksitjvladica. Год назад +1

      I am the same.

  • @petarivanov9301
    @petarivanov9301 5 лет назад +2787

    Crying for me become harder... When I actually got into depression... And I can't cry... It's just sit there... Feeling it... But it doesn't want to come out.... Sad songs... They don't work... Memories... Don't... Nothing.... I feel like I am a dead boy in an ugly body 😊

  • @lifeaskimberly9314
    @lifeaskimberly9314 3 года назад +2000

    I just can't cry anymore, so much so to the point i needed a tutorial.

  • @SunnyTheSimp
    @SunnyTheSimp 2 года назад +519

    I was about to do self harm to force myself to cry but this actually made me feel tears on my cheeks after 3 years. Thank you so much.

    • @tognah6918
      @tognah6918 2 года назад +24

      Stay strong bro. Dont be scared to reach out, there are people who care about you,

    • @SunnyTheSimp
      @SunnyTheSimp 2 года назад +8

      @@tognah6918 Thank you so much.

    • @pehallewis2368
      @pehallewis2368 2 года назад +3

      Stay strong you can do it! ❤

    • @SunnyTheSimp
      @SunnyTheSimp 2 года назад +3

      @@pehallewis2368 ❤️❤️❤️

    • @elvira360
      @elvira360 2 года назад +1

      @@pehallewis2368 are you a Larry?? 💚💙💚💙

  • @laylakosara4671
    @laylakosara4671 5 лет назад +1254

    I used to be the person who will cry when ever I want at any situation... but now I feel so numb I don't even cry when I am so sad or depressed

    • @milostomic2751
      @milostomic2751 5 лет назад +7

      Same

    • @sj3supa923
      @sj3supa923 4 года назад +17

      I've been numb for five years I'm lost

    • @exploringbiblicalendtimes779
      @exploringbiblicalendtimes779 4 года назад +3

      There also needs to be a context. Depression can sometimes mean according to therapists unfinished grief or complicated grief and incomplete grief. If you have lost someone dear to you and there has not been enough grieving that can cause depression. So search your past and grieve any losses that were special to you. I had to do this and I felt much better

    • @caraharbinson1407
      @caraharbinson1407 3 года назад

      Same

    • @LemTheDemon
      @LemTheDemon 3 года назад +2

      Same. I used to be an emotional person crying when happy crying when sad crying for others etc. But now depression and anxiety has been here for a while and it’s harder to cry

  • @hannahprince8512
    @hannahprince8512 5 лет назад +3553

    I need to cry, I can make a tear roll down my face but that’s all(I never expected this many likes or replies, thanks guys) :>

  • @sleepypotato7187
    @sleepypotato7187 2 года назад +17

    the fact that we searched how to cry. anyway, we are all heroes and warriors. just keep fighting the dêmon, don't give up!

  • @sigh.4495
    @sigh.4495 3 года назад +4986

    my eyes: *starts burning*
    me: keep going
    my mind: there you go being pathetic again
    *tears stops forming*
    me: bruh

    • @for_kl.5574
      @for_kl.5574 3 года назад +187

      Basically me whenever I try to let emotions out :(

    • @Mattie777
      @Mattie777 3 года назад +7

      Is your pfp Nishinoya?! He’s awesome

    • @ryuk8138
      @ryuk8138 3 года назад +16

      Omg sameeee.. theeee fucking sameeeeeeeeee

    • @besantranslation6467
      @besantranslation6467 3 года назад +5

      Same

    • @jordynbaylor1289
      @jordynbaylor1289 3 года назад +4

      Me😭😭

  • @Tia-qw9iw
    @Tia-qw9iw 5 лет назад +634

    Crying doesent mean youre weak... It means youve been strong for very long time..

    • @martin-georgiev
      @martin-georgiev  5 лет назад +48

      Great perspective Anna! Thanks for stopping by!

    • @iamaries.v
      @iamaries.v 5 лет назад +3

      Nopee.... False....You Are #Weak

    • @LOLOsugoi
      @LOLOsugoi 4 года назад +4

      Almost made me cry

    • @minimimikyus3056
      @minimimikyus3056 4 года назад +41

      @@iamaries.v letting yourself be vulnerable is courageous, don't be afraid to cry

    • @renni5663
      @renni5663 4 года назад +3

      someone told me "if you cry, youre so weak" and now im having trouble crying. its horrible.

  • @eslle7481
    @eslle7481 3 года назад +95

    I cried for the first time since I was 12 because of your advices. I thought it's impossible, thank you, I owe you a lot.

  • @astrialnova
    @astrialnova 5 лет назад +465

    "Somewhere you feel safe"
    Time to look up another tutorial

    • @rajmalla5310
      @rajmalla5310 4 года назад +8

      AstrialNova he meant alone

    • @34Her34
      @34Her34 3 года назад

      Lol

    • @MorningSunASMR
      @MorningSunASMR 2 года назад +3

      Me trying to cry here and you making me giggle smh.

    • @ardentynekent2099
      @ardentynekent2099 2 года назад +1

      Yes! For me, "safe" is pretty much a place I've never found.

  • @Crimmir
    @Crimmir 4 года назад +748

    I can’t cry, but instead, I get intense, long-lasting migraines and headaches.

    • @LemTheDemon
      @LemTheDemon 3 года назад +9

      Samee

    • @francisbacon4363
      @francisbacon4363 3 года назад +7

      I have cluster headaches and migraines and I can't cry as well so in summary, i feel you bro 😔

    • @manuarteteco6153
      @manuarteteco6153 3 года назад +13

      same. Last time I managed to cry was around 10 months ago and it all went away and felt way better. Also I feel a strong pressure on my eyes which is terribly annoying

    • @kaleeshsynth9994
      @kaleeshsynth9994 3 года назад +1

      Same

    • @kingchaaos3591
      @kingchaaos3591 2 года назад +1

      meeee

  • @mhd_shaheem
    @mhd_shaheem Год назад +161

    From how to stop crying to how to cry 🙂

  • @hapderutironsa8529
    @hapderutironsa8529 4 года назад +518

    You know there's something wrong when you have to search up "how to cry"

    • @boredddbutt740
      @boredddbutt740 2 года назад +9

      Nah I just don’t wanna go to school

    • @SerreVid-dt8sm
      @SerreVid-dt8sm 2 года назад +1

      I know I have something wrong

    • @VeenSSJ
      @VeenSSJ 2 года назад

      Yea.. buddy.

    • @AyanKhan-dv2xy
      @AyanKhan-dv2xy 2 года назад

      @@boredddbutt740 lol bruhh same, But I'll have to go some day.

    • @valkrie5816
      @valkrie5816 2 года назад

      Yeah

  • @jennysanimations4181
    @jennysanimations4181 4 года назад +319

    I'm so numb, the most I've squeezed out is one tear. I usually cry when I talk to a therapist but I keep it in. When I alone, when I want to cry, I'm too numb

    • @spongeout
      @spongeout 4 года назад +6

      It’s so hard to cry I can only shed a tear

    • @francisbacon4363
      @francisbacon4363 3 года назад +2

      @@spongeout FUCKING SAME HERE DUDE, i just can't seem to shed some tears

    • @abdellahyellas6232
      @abdellahyellas6232 3 года назад +1

      Hello, just out of curiosity. Did get your emotions back?

    • @maxandcheese2468
      @maxandcheese2468 2 года назад +2

      This is literallt me

    • @SunnyTheSimp
      @SunnyTheSimp 2 года назад +2

      I have mental breakdowns where I’m shaking and screaming but not even a single tear falls.

  • @KingGeLoo
    @KingGeLoo 3 года назад +209

    I haven’t cried for 3 years
    I’m glad i found this video
    Thank you very much bro
    All my stress went out in seconds
    I wish the best life for you
    And thank you again ❤️

    • @Momna3028
      @Momna3028 Год назад

      How can U not cry for three years bro 😭 I cry everyday bro 😭

    • @benchwarmer14
      @benchwarmer14 Год назад +2

      I haven’t cried in years as well 😢

  • @smileysolar3940
    @smileysolar3940 4 года назад +469

    I can't believe I need a tutorial on how to cry.......

  • @Born2Losenot2win
    @Born2Losenot2win 5 лет назад +621

    “You need two things”
    *my mind*
    Onions
    And more onions

    • @thinkingmachine354
      @thinkingmachine354 4 года назад +44

      Amir Don’t make me laugh damn it I’m trying to cry

    • @selmalb1968
      @selmalb1968 4 года назад +10

      I just tried to use an onion to make my tears fall but it didn't work !

    • @saoudiimen6261
      @saoudiimen6261 4 года назад +4

      Believe me it did not work

    • @ToastyFresh1
      @ToastyFresh1 4 года назад +9

      Damn dude I’m depressed over here now I’m grinning like cmon

    • @valeria-ry8ty
      @valeria-ry8ty 3 года назад +1

      lmaooo

  • @yuiiwasaki4932
    @yuiiwasaki4932 3 года назад +117

    Hey, if you’re reading this and you’ve been having a tough time-whether just for a short amount of time, or for years and years-I just want you to know that it’s gonna be ok. You’re gonna make it through this :)

    • @st.universol1153
      @st.universol1153 2 месяца назад +1

      I know this is years after the comment was posted. But I really needed to read this comment. 😂 thanks man.

  • @iremixmusic9362
    @iremixmusic9362 5 лет назад +1080

    Roses are red
    I’m depressed and not even a teen
    The part you came for is 4:17

  • @vmarzein
    @vmarzein 5 лет назад +123

    This guy needs an audience

  • @rolloxra670
    @rolloxra670 5 месяцев назад +3

    I cannot believe I’m searching for this, I was a crybaby since I was a kid and now I feel like there’s no more tears left in me

  • @taliakirca4398
    @taliakirca4398 5 лет назад +183

    Am I the Only one that is feeling so numb that you can‘t even cry anymore no matter how hard you try. You’re feeling all alone as if you‘re the only human being existing. I hate you anxiety and depression for ruining my life

    • @dust1077
      @dust1077 5 лет назад +2

      Talia KIRCA
      And all this time I thought I was alone...i’m going through the exact same nightmare as you are right now and i’m just glad there are others like me, i’m glad that i’m not completely alone...for once. (Though i’m not sure if I should be glad that others are suffering...heh)
      But I just want to say, from me to you, good luck man. Good luck, I hope you can climb out of this black void and I hope you can feel again. I hope we’ll be able to make it out together and I hope it’ll be over soon...
      You’ve got my support and I just want you to know, you’re not alone.
      I’ll be here for you

    • @I_am_Nathan
      @I_am_Nathan 4 года назад

      Just goes to show theres otheres like you. Good luck man, i guess try to be independent and talk to your self

    • @linasophie7778
      @linasophie7778 4 года назад +1

      and it hurts in the chest just because you want to cry so bad but you can’t so you are trying to cry and than it’s just harder, i hate this i used to cry really often but now i can’t even cry a tear when i am so sad about something, can anybody relate?

    • @lokojuju8696
      @lokojuju8696 3 года назад

      I'm currently facing the same thing and I have to go to school everyday i pretend as if I'm not depressed i can't take anymore

  • @bongwater6976
    @bongwater6976 5 лет назад +262

    I blame the modern school system for my numbness

    • @swellfusion
      @swellfusion 4 года назад +5

      damn nazis are trying to break us with deadlines, peer pressure, and grandiose expectations

    • @rabirayrana7648
      @rabirayrana7648 4 года назад +8

      @@swellfusion Nah man, im homeschooled and im depressed

    • @swellfusion
      @swellfusion 4 года назад +3

      @@rabirayrana7648 shit me too bro, i just left school halfway through

    • @georgeespley9177
      @georgeespley9177 4 года назад +2

      swellfusion
      Homeschooling is just the worst haha

    • @headhalfliving
      @headhalfliving 6 месяцев назад +1

      Actually fuck school. I cant fucking take it anymore, i used to be creative and happy, have dreams, school took that all away from me.

  • @UphillJunkies
    @UphillJunkies 2 года назад +2

    look where we have reached....
    Really we lost that sensitive kid in our childhood.

  • @rabiahmed9600
    @rabiahmed9600 6 лет назад +307

    U coming out like this needs bravery my man, thainks

  • @azy8733
    @azy8733 5 лет назад +54

    I haven’t cried in such a long time. Due to the complete isolation of my depression disorder. This really helped me.

  • @luckygirly
    @luckygirly Год назад +9

    I can't cry even if I wanna cry so bad...
    I know that I am sad ...but I am smiling and laughing at the things that hurt me so much.. idk why ..thanks I finally cried

  • @josetieneoro
    @josetieneoro 5 лет назад +384

    Noup, it doesn't work for me. I hate this feeling of wanting to cry.
    (Also, when he mentioned the bucket I actually laughed)

    • @martin-georgiev
      @martin-georgiev  5 лет назад +54

      hey math teacher wannabe!
      It was not easy for me as well, took me about 2 years to let go and start crying.
      And if you made u laugh, maybe I should change the title to: "How To Laugh Step By Step"? :D

    • @alappara_kelappurom778
      @alappara_kelappurom778 5 лет назад +1

      Lol...

    • @spankk8400
      @spankk8400 5 лет назад +1

      Me too my man

    • @y7952
      @y7952 4 года назад

      Curious One I’m sorry to hear that man, I wish you a bright future! 💙

    • @Peter-ie6po
      @Peter-ie6po 4 года назад +1

      Lot of alcohol helps a much

  • @jacobr6503
    @jacobr6503 4 года назад +117

    I was really sensitive back then, but now? i've been struggling w it for a few years already. but thanks man, it helped me a lot!!

  • @asherdeazevedo9429
    @asherdeazevedo9429 2 года назад +27

    I haven't cried in over 8 months, and I feel like I can't escape those bad emotions. But I finally cried so thank you 😊

  • @jetwing9463
    @jetwing9463 4 года назад +45

    It's kinda sad how much I need this

  • @shreckler3090
    @shreckler3090 4 года назад +19

    This girl broke my heart and idk what to do anymore. I came here trying to cry and let it out. But I’m more heartbroken than before because I realized I’m so numb and hurt that I have to look up how to cry. To everyone else watching this video and reading this you’ll be okay I love you.

  • @fakiriayoub8087
    @fakiriayoub8087 4 месяца назад +130

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @AfkAliaga
      @AfkAliaga 4 месяца назад

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

    • @KenDeep-ky8oi
      @KenDeep-ky8oi 4 месяца назад

      I wish they were readily available in my place.
      Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
      He's constantly talking about killing someone.
      He's violent. Anyone reading this
      Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

    • @AfkAliaga
      @AfkAliaga 4 месяца назад

      Is he on instagram?

    • @Adamwuerslin
      @Adamwuerslin 4 месяца назад +1

      I cry everytime i take mushrooms. I dont know its for the best, i now subconsciously looks for my next trip, simply so i can cry.

    • @davidponce6132
      @davidponce6132 4 месяца назад

      Where did you go for them?

  • @svken797
    @svken797 4 года назад +25

    Update:
    After 10 months of watching this I managed to cry.. cry like a baby. After I lost my girlfriend. This triggered everything bad in my life. I'm more emotionally ready for cry. Its releive alot.. cry dont be shamed it's very healthy

    • @NoOne-vl5ec
      @NoOne-vl5ec 4 года назад +3

      I’m really sorry bro

  • @aziz9587
    @aziz9587 3 года назад +22

    I cant cry and i never thought that i will search for this

  • @vflwrcovers9295
    @vflwrcovers9295 2 года назад +5

    I never would have guessed I would be searching this up. Mainly bc I’m “too young” to be feeling how I feel, I haven’t been able to cry and I really want too, but every time I try it just builds up an empty feeling in me all my friends won’t talk to me and my mental a health is at its lowest but no one’s helping me. Thank you for this

  • @aichamars4639
    @aichamars4639 5 лет назад +170

    i didn't work :( the thing is im a person who used to cry a lot. it was really easy to me to cry. and i have all the techniques to do it bc it helps a lot. but since months now.. im kind of dead. even the sadest/happiest things don't make me cry anymor.

    • @martin-georgiev
      @martin-georgiev  5 лет назад +3

      I am sorry to hear that Aicha! Please, let us know if something helps you to start feeling again.

    • @madisonmiller1063
      @madisonmiller1063 5 лет назад +2

      Same here

    • @nobodyman2069
      @nobodyman2069 5 лет назад +4

      Me too man. Someone could tell me something and I would drain. But now I'm dead inside... 😐😐😐😐😐

    • @nobodyman2069
      @nobodyman2069 5 лет назад +1

      Nothing could make me cry now

    • @SoManyColours
      @SoManyColours 5 лет назад +2

      It may sound silly but what helps me feel is to realize what you do have. I do not know your situation but I have a dry house dear dogs, horses, many people do not have that so I am lucky with that. You can learn to think like that. See how beautiful every little thing is like a beautiful flower or the sun rising, the stars. You can see and experience that. It makes everything you don't have a lot smaller in your head. It can make you feel less empty even if it is just a little bit. And even if you feel nothing you know it. You know how lucky you are with that and how beautiful that is. That's enough to never give up. Your head is different from what you want you know and you are the leader feelings can't kill you even though it feels that way sometimes. Also to cry it can help to tell someone you trust that you can't cry and why yes weird but then you maybe open it up.

  • @rivkah5996
    @rivkah5996 3 года назад +25

    Been struggling to cry lately because I cried so much in the spring. But clicking on this, his voice was so kind i started tearing up immediately. It's been a struggle lately to seek kindness in others without worrying about taking up their emotional space as well, because we are all so tired.

    • @talkingtomycamera4349
      @talkingtomycamera4349 Год назад +1

      This resonated with me so much. I don’t want to take up someone’s emotional energy.

  • @マシュードーラン
    @マシュードーラン 2 года назад +19

    Crying is a build up of emotion over time that needs to be released. It feels amazing after you’re done and it’s so necessary. Don’t deny yourself of it

    • @Heisenberg.69
      @Heisenberg.69 2 года назад

      Sadly, it doesn't feel amazing anymore like when we were kids

  • @txred7967
    @txred7967 4 года назад +16

    I used to cry so much that now I can’t, tears will form in my eyes but won’t come out

  • @dknon853
    @dknon853 4 года назад +28

    Never cried from a movie,song,show etc and in general I never really express myself when I’m sad and it feels like it’s burning in my chest

  • @reasefladzinski8389
    @reasefladzinski8389 3 года назад +7

    didn’t think i’d ever have to look this up this is unbelievable.

  • @vmarzein
    @vmarzein 5 лет назад +56

    Your world is an island. It can be deserted or combined with other island
    You live in a house called imagination and personality
    When you feel deppressed and you’re unable to find your ‘house key’ and your body goes in “defense mode” and become very sensitively vulnerable
    Turns out the key was crying
    If you couldnt find your key you are locked outside and isolated from reality

  • @Jacky-ei5wy
    @Jacky-ei5wy 4 года назад +46

    **THAT MOMENT WHEN YOU HAVE TO LOOK UP A TUTORIAL ON HOW TO CRY**

  • @ric8839
    @ric8839 3 года назад +20

    I know how it feels not being able to cry, it all changes into anger and the will to do something that helps you release everything. I'm 16 now and I can't even cry anymore...

  • @arandomseal6663
    @arandomseal6663 3 года назад +93

    Funny how I don't really have any other emotional triggers other than my failures

  • @soukaina.222
    @soukaina.222 4 года назад +181

    How am I supposed to cry when my heart is made of stone

    • @dr.ordinary4505
      @dr.ordinary4505 4 года назад +24

      I feel u there. Every time i fail to cry, I realize how much of a monster i am.

    • @yacoub7668
      @yacoub7668 4 года назад +10

      But it hurts more when you can't even cry and let it go

    • @SoManyColours
      @SoManyColours 4 года назад +5

      @@dr.ordinary4505 Your not a monster. It can be really hard to let go and its okay its not your fault.
      and your heart is not made of stone sometimes you dont have access to your emotions but that does not mean they dont exist!

    • @BlueRGuy
      @BlueRGuy 3 года назад +5

      Use a pickaxe

    • @pa4760
      @pa4760 3 года назад

      Are you a girl. I mean, girls knows how to cry and how to laugh. That's wierd

  • @userismad001
    @userismad001 Месяц назад +1

    My soul,my feelings ,my heart and my memories are dead just like a lot of my family. But I cannot bring myself to harm my body physically ,beacause I love this body of mine that has withstood those extremely difficult moments and continues to sustain myself till date.

  • @rubyfield5033
    @rubyfield5033 5 лет назад +21

    people calls me inhuman because i never seem to cry, so i really hope this helps

  • @pastelkid5349
    @pastelkid5349 5 лет назад +141

    I was wondering why my eyes started to tear up
    I was about to sneeze D:

    • @Pidgeotto-3000
      @Pidgeotto-3000 3 года назад

      The same Thing happens to me-

    • @BlueRGuy
      @BlueRGuy 3 года назад

      That's normal, I always do that

  • @rawrxd5118
    @rawrxd5118 3 года назад +3

    i’m just so overwhelmed and so stressed but whatever i do i just can’t cry no matter how hard i try and i find crying as a way of relief and i can’t even feel that anymore

  • @sappho5824
    @sappho5824 4 года назад +128

    Me: **Already crying**
    Also me: **Searches this up**

    • @nbskms1129
      @nbskms1129 3 года назад +8

      I'm tryna cry not laugh

  • @claireity.wholeness8324
    @claireity.wholeness8324 4 года назад +13

    I can’t remember when I last cried without any reservation. This video gave me the tools to face my emotions.
    Another thing I found that helped was watching normal people cry and realize that it is okay to make weird noises when you cry.
    Thank you for making this video.

  • @Darling_Diva
    @Darling_Diva 6 месяцев назад +2

    I love how I haven’t been able to cry for years and still this isn’t working for me
    I don’t even want to hide it, I just want to left it out

  • @emms8606
    @emms8606 3 года назад +14

    about a year ago my grandpa died, at the funeral my cousin was crying really hard while i just stood there doing nothing. he confronted me and said i was "cold hearted" i was so embarrassed, and i still cant stop thinking about it

    • @SmallAlexander
      @SmallAlexander 3 года назад +1

      I havent cried in years. Im afraid i wont be able to even at my own parents funeral

    • @pradiproy2211
      @pradiproy2211 3 года назад

      My dad has died due to covid last may,at the day he died we took my mum to nearby hospital,her hemoglobin level was so low,we were afraid that if she heard the news she Couldn't be able to handle that,so we try to hid it from her till she discharge,but Somehow she heard the news,she was crying loud,i was saying,everything will be alright,she asked me why I'm not crying?
      From that day to till now i tried to cry so many times but my tears Just Won't show up.

  • @xx_peyton_xx2427
    @xx_peyton_xx2427 3 года назад +42

    If you are reading this I just want you to know everything is going to be okay. You are strong. Have a great day and God bless!!! ♥️♥️♥️

  • @ashtoncromwell4628
    @ashtoncromwell4628 3 года назад +29

    Oml this helped so much. The last time I properly cried was when my mother and father died five years ago. Tysm my dude.

  • @KRAGLE
    @KRAGLE 5 лет назад +55


    To anyone who needs to hear this

    I
    Love you

  • @saskia3793
    @saskia3793 3 года назад +4

    never thought i’d be searching how to cry but here we are

  • @SussyBaka-ci5xi
    @SussyBaka-ci5xi 2 года назад +9

    this comment section is what made me cry. It's so relatable. thanks for the video and for all the people who wrote these lovely comments!

  • @drewski2001
    @drewski2001 5 месяцев назад +3

    If you want to cry, you have to think long about why you're depressed. Once you analyze everything and it all make sense, you'll start crying.

    • @KyIe-nj4tq
      @KyIe-nj4tq 5 месяцев назад

      I’ll have to try this

  • @JournaHealing
    @JournaHealing Год назад +14

    🍂 I finally cried. I'm back here after two years since I saw this video. I was in bad place mentally and physically looking for answers and trying to heal. I wanted to cry but I couldn't. I've done a lot of things and tried different path. After two years I can say that I cried a lot and I can cry finally. Here's what I recommend to anyone who wants to cry.
    1. Keep a diary where you write your emotions every day. Writing helps to understand one's emotions and how to see one's life from the outside.
    2. read the book "Everything will be fine i promise by Faouzi Zouhair" is a book about healing and your journey as a person.
    3. Meditate and walk a lot. This helps to think and breathe well. Breathing is truly a miraculous act because we are as we breathe.
    I hope you can cry one day. A hug 🍀

  • @Hangrier
    @Hangrier Год назад +1

    You have no idea how brave you are for doing this.

  • @ayushisingh7319
    @ayushisingh7319 Год назад +3

    I want to cry so badly but it’s like there are no tears left to cry, that’s why I want to watch this video. I hope this will help me out to bring my emotions out.

  • @Sevenpiano
    @Sevenpiano 4 года назад +14

    You feel what you’re feeling. Don’t be ashamed of it. If you need help on how to cry, that’s ok. Other people need help on how to laugh and many other things. Keep your energy high, stay grateful and don’t be ashamed to take care of yourself

  • @ocbor-gelg.4025
    @ocbor-gelg.4025 Год назад +1

    Watching this video, listening to this guy makes me want to talk to him instead of just listening to music and staring at photos then cry.

  • @jamie-nn5iv
    @jamie-nn5iv 3 года назад +16

    i literally just need to cry. my body physically won’t and i just need to

  • @smit3978
    @smit3978 Год назад +3

    I kinda thought about it why I can't cry because I used to cry lot in my childhood but everyone always told me you are so weak and I also used to feel like I am so weak so maybe cause of that i can't cry. but now many heartbreaking things happened in my life and I just can't take it any more i have no interest in talking I am so furious always feeling low I just want to say these things to someone and just cry so I can move on in life.

    • @EpikBops
      @EpikBops Год назад

      dam me too. But you rust made me have crying Flashback so tysm! I'm being real thank you!! So much :)

  • @arbana.boowomp
    @arbana.boowomp 10 месяцев назад +1

    For some reason, i’ve been having trouble letting out my emotions. We’ve been reading The Outsiders in ELA and SO many sad things have happened that have broke me inside and made me feel so heartbroken, and i really do need to cry instead of just making sad expressions trying to express my emotions. It looks weird, and i’ve never thought i would get to the point where i’m searching up how to cry. It makes me even madder that i can’t cry about it because that’s all i want to do and it will make me feel better ☹️

  • @astroboy3002
    @astroboy3002 2 года назад +9

    I havent cried for over 20 years. Funerals, deaths of loved ones, i just cant do it.
    I think when i see friends or loved ones crying it makes me even more not want to cry but to comfort then instead.
    I can feel the anxiety in me sometimes when a situation occurs that would make many cry.
    The tap just won't turn on

  • @sammieboy1996
    @sammieboy1996 6 лет назад +15

    It worked! Cried because I love my parents so much

    • @martin-georgiev
      @martin-georgiev  6 лет назад +1

      Glad to hear that Hugo! We all do, deep inside :)

    • @theostaal7437
      @theostaal7437 5 лет назад +3

      @@martin-georgiev mine are the reason I want to kill myself every single day

  • @gunplay9861
    @gunplay9861 Год назад +1

    Can't believe I'm watching a tutorial to cry... I have a lot of pain trapped inside, and I think it can be good to allow me to cry

  • @aakashgupta5613
    @aakashgupta5613 4 года назад +10

    I love the authenticity and simplicity Martin. I think you are raising an important (but underrated point). You genuinely want to help - Something connected !

  • @wqx_2
    @wqx_2 2 года назад +6

    keep fighting y’all we’re gonna get through this

  • @lola_butterflies
    @lola_butterflies Год назад +2

    I need to cry and I just can’t and I never cry with anything, something sad, maybe occasionally something scary, movies, thoughts, nothing. I’m so upset about it and I hope that soon I’ll just be able to when I need to.

  • @tanmayeeghosh369
    @tanmayeeghosh369 5 лет назад +105

    I was crying in my mind

    • @NasGh
      @NasGh 5 лет назад

      Indian Girl and how can you do that?

    • @thinkingmachine354
      @thinkingmachine354 4 года назад +6

      Nasouh T.Ghefari the same way you laugh inside. In my case, you feel something stirring and you feel the cue... but that’s it. No one hears the laughter, no one hears the crying.

    • @jamichaaustin231
      @jamichaaustin231 4 года назад +1

      How to get sad

    • @CVSavagepersona
      @CVSavagepersona 4 года назад +1

      I thought i was the only one

  • @lanarobertson5831
    @lanarobertson5831 4 года назад +19

    when you’re THAT numb

  • @Landon161.
    @Landon161. Месяц назад +1

    People who are able to cry regularly don't know how fortunate they are. I cry maybe once a year if I'm lucky. Very few things worse than having your emotions bottled up and not being able to release them.

  • @billybarinnas7587
    @billybarinnas7587 5 лет назад +29

    How did u do that man
    I haven't cried from few months ago...
    I started to cry on #6: minute ...
    Thank you so much, thank u!
    I'm suffering from depression, anxiety and many phobias ....
    You are amazing
    Everyone MUST cry! It helps to reduce the stress, and take away bad toxins from the organism..
    One advice for those who struggle with the crying, try to drink enough WATER..

    • @martin-georgiev
      @martin-georgiev  5 лет назад

      Hey Billy, I am so glad that the video helped you! Just putting your awareness sometimes in that direction (i want to cry) & by letting yourself go you can do it. And if I helped you give yourself permission, great!
      How does the water drinking help by the way? hehe

    • @derekpoppe49
      @derekpoppe49 5 лет назад

      @@martin-georgiev when you cry thats the water in your body coming out as tears

    • @derekpoppe49
      @derekpoppe49 5 лет назад

      @@martin-georgiev its really good to cry, but if you did too much you could actualky get de hydrated lol but yeah drink lots of water, and keep crying

  • @michaelapowell8735
    @michaelapowell8735 5 лет назад +81

    Tears do not come out my eyes am I just really dehydrated?

    • @martin-georgiev
      @martin-georgiev  5 лет назад +14

      Drink more water? :P

    • @theralphster3260
      @theralphster3260 3 года назад

      @@dadimhungryhihungryimdad9418 keep your head up. you are loved

    • @dadimhungryhihungryimdad9418
      @dadimhungryhihungryimdad9418 3 года назад

      @@theralphster3260 awhh thank you :D people words makes me realize that I shouldn't make cutting a coping mechanism to feel fine and defeat anxiety. Thank you again!

    • @ilikethewordyeahsoyeahyeah6209
      @ilikethewordyeahsoyeahyeah6209 3 года назад

      Lmao sometimes i wonder that too
      Like if i drink more water will it help me cry?🤔🤔

  • @PotatoTuesday
    @PotatoTuesday 5 месяцев назад +2

    For me crying is the sole way i can release my emotions, but the problem is im very apathetic, and have trauma about being made fun of while crying. This helped me finaly feel a little better since im hitting a rough patch in life.

  • @GOOBERINO69
    @GOOBERINO69 3 года назад +16

    i can't remember the last time i cried, i'm so broken that I forgot how to cry

  • @Adi-qu4ls
    @Adi-qu4ls 3 года назад +3

    i cried for long. i needed to let it all out. lately the stress and conflicts in my mind and life had been taking a toll on me and i tend to tell myself to let things go and i dont realise that they still do affect me emotionally. thank you for this video. x

  • @greatcrosby2341
    @greatcrosby2341 Год назад +1

    Can't imagine myself arriving at this state searching for ways to cry. It's just heavy and I need to it go.

  • @thelognerrator
    @thelognerrator 4 года назад +29

    This video was so powerful, for me I took the advice at heart and I just let it all out. It felt great I'm still going as I type this (near the end though). Thank you, thank you for making this video it helped me through a big trial I have been going through for years I feel with this video I can bring myself to triumph and get through it. Remember it's ok to just let it out, and 😭

  • @brycek2033
    @brycek2033 Год назад +4

    Thank you, Martin for being vulnerable enough to share with us. Much love, Bryce

  • @siyadhlamini7691
    @siyadhlamini7691 Год назад +1

    Unfortunately i still could not cry. I have been so numb that even losing loved ones didnt make me cry. Hopefully one day, something will. Until then, I will wait like i have all these years. Love and Light.

  • @A-Abhishekwaghela
    @A-Abhishekwaghela 4 года назад +7

    It's been two years that I haven't cried my heart out

  • @misslisablink1351
    @misslisablink1351 3 года назад +5

    When you somehow have a bad mental state so you go ahead and watch Banana Fish, which has left you emotionally unstable that you can't cry anymore since you cried about over an hour or two and now you want to let it go so you find a video on how to do it and now you have to rewatch ep 24 to let it all out.
    I've thought of having a therapist and properly talking about it to someone but I might pass that onto other people for not noticing on how i really am so i don't want them to feel guilty to find that I'm really like this.

  • @aloktheboi317
    @aloktheboi317 Год назад +1

    i haven’t cried in almost a year. Thank you.

  • @pisadfearn745
    @pisadfearn745 3 года назад +23

    bro whoever sees this I hope u feel better I just wanna let u know that we are all going through shit at the moment but u swear it gets better. It hasn’t got better for me or you so let’s just read this and think about each other I’ve been in such a bad place recently but suicide is never the answer, either is self harm We can get by it if we just go to our best fiend/girl/boyfriend it’s always helpful to cry