Battle of the Sexes: Women are judged by their appearance || STEVE HARVEY

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  • Опубликовано: 22 ноя 2015
  • Women are always expected to look their best. Men? Less so. Steve Harvey asks his "Battle of the Sexes" panel if that is fair.
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  • @alaysiacarter5260
    @alaysiacarter5260 7 лет назад +2774

    Steve face when she said this is the nicest I looked in a year.😂😂😂💀💀

    • @alexandriawoodard1619
      @alexandriawoodard1619 7 лет назад +92

      I laughed sooooo loud

    • @alaalfa8839
      @alaalfa8839 6 лет назад +77

      Steve lost his diplomacy with her. If he would live with her he would wear earplugs....Its not fair that some women got such voice.

    • @dinaguy9809
      @dinaguy9809 6 лет назад +5

      😂😂😂

    • @nondumisogasser7155
      @nondumisogasser7155 6 лет назад +50

      He was like girlll oh hell no

    • @preciouscolombiana
      @preciouscolombiana 5 лет назад +8

      Right and Juanita’s face too 😂😂

  • @yossarius
    @yossarius 5 лет назад +346

    1:18, "women should.not have to dress for the people around them."
    You don't have to. You can dress however you like. With as little or as much effort as you prefer.
    But no one else is obligated to like how you look.

    • @harleyjameson1939
      @harleyjameson1939 4 года назад +19

      But that's the sticking point right there. If everyone doesn't find her interesting, hilarious, and attractive they're "judging" her, which allows her to feel superior to them. Just another demonstration of the profoundly delusional sense of entitlement this generation has been spoon fed by people who only wish to sell them useless products. "You should never have to compete, that's too hard, the world owes you something simply because you were born average." Sad.

    • @SpecialKRNB
      @SpecialKRNB 4 года назад +6

      @@harleyjameson1939 Girl don't entertain him. A woman could look a hot disgusting mess and men STILL feel comfortable enough to approach. Facts.

    • @kfen8794
      @kfen8794 4 года назад +11

      @@SpecialKRNB ya bums but not high value men who have options lol

    • @SpecialKRNB
      @SpecialKRNB 4 года назад +1

      @@kfen8794 You can lol. But, you don't know that. And Besides I always pictured meeting my future husband sweaty and stinky from either work or a workout. I could never imagine meeting my future hubby all dressed up in a suit and tie. I will find him, however we meet, irresistible and delectable. But that's just me. I like the sweaty stinky coming from work or the gym aroma and look. It's extremely attractive to me. It signifies to me that he's STRONG and PROTECTIVE.
      Wanted to Add: other women have their own personal perspectives and ideas of what they find strong and protective in their men. It's just biological and I have always looked at it on a BIOLOGICAL level.

    • @kfen8794
      @kfen8794 4 года назад +9

      @@SpecialKRNB no high value man is going to approach a women that he doesn't find attractive.everyone has their own taste, but quality men want quality women simple as that

  • @poison03nae
    @poison03nae 8 лет назад +769

    I feel people should dress appropriately for the occasion. lol

    • @staceykersting461
      @staceykersting461 7 лет назад +8

      Ya, I'm usually camping or boating, so I'm not exactly all dolled up. I don't wear anything that's beat down, tho. Always nice running shoes and well-fitting clothes in colors that look good on me. I'm pretty picky.

    • @PsychicsRfake456
      @PsychicsRfake456 7 лет назад +17

      I 100% agree. To me if a woman is overdressed it is just as big of a turn off as being underdressed

    • @AltNova
      @AltNova 5 лет назад +5

      I agree. Sweatpants for important occasions and boxers for funerals

  • @xDaringMotive
    @xDaringMotive 8 лет назад +2080

    if you expect your partner to be hot, u better look the part yourself.

    • @jab7168
      @jab7168 6 лет назад +189

      If you expect 7 figure salary, you better reciprocate with at least mid six figure salary .

    • @NoName-sp5dp
      @NoName-sp5dp 5 лет назад +1

      Vengeance Fray why

    • @tashawilliams8093
      @tashawilliams8093 5 лет назад +4

      Exactly.

    • @ryanphillips5591
      @ryanphillips5591 5 лет назад +16

      What standards do u hold yourself to? I know what your insinuating. But thats disrespectful to all the work men put in to be in a relationship with you. I think the least you could do is keep yourself up

    • @lobrogaming5249
      @lobrogaming5249 5 лет назад +22

      And u better pay half the bill

  • @phyliciasmith5745
    @phyliciasmith5745 8 лет назад +587

    how is that woman 24?

  • @crashpal
    @crashpal 7 лет назад +413

    "What the hell is wrong with you?" My thoughts exactly Steve

    • @whiteballs538
      @whiteballs538 2 года назад +2

      "she's awesome" Steve killed me 😂

  • @theblueadventurer615
    @theblueadventurer615 7 лет назад +498

    I honestly think there's no real double standards, there's actually a demand to look good for both parties.

    • @staceykersting461
      @staceykersting461 7 лет назад +19

      I think they're talkin' bout false eye lashes, spanx, high heels, tons of time spent on nails and makeup hairpieces , just way too much,.....keep yerself in good shape, do what makes you happy and confident, and there's nothing wrong with the nat'l look. Just be clean reasonably well groomed. Supermodel, Lauren Hutton, pulled it off superbly in the '70's.

    • @don8668
      @don8668 5 лет назад +9

      I agree with that. Women expect you to look nice when you go somewhere with them.

    • @user-kj4od7ig3t
      @user-kj4od7ig3t 5 лет назад +10

      @ Stacey Kersting: most men don't require any of that. many men like it, but they don't require it. much of the beauty standard pressure that women get, are from society & other women. men don't care. as long as you have a vagina, men don't care about the rest as much as you think.

    • @tenshi.kurama
      @tenshi.kurama 3 года назад

      Looking good is just different for the sexes. If I see a man dressed up by woman standards I’m gonna be turned off (think makeup)

    • @britt1953
      @britt1953 2 года назад +5

      No….women will legit be treated differently based on their appearance. Men don’t experience that to the same degree because people care more about a man’s mind than their appearance.

  • @carmay3600
    @carmay3600 8 лет назад +636

    When I leave my house I am representing myself, my husband and my faith. I refuse to look "beat to hell". lol

    • @aminaa6054
      @aminaa6054 8 лет назад +37

      LOL love your comment. one must look good at ALL times. :) stay classy

    • @tandapanda918
      @tandapanda918 7 лет назад +3

      carmay3600 you're on point girl

    • @juanitathompson6752
      @juanitathompson6752 6 лет назад

      carmay3600 ok!

    • @DeAngelo77
      @DeAngelo77 5 лет назад +10

      I’m a guy and believe even we should be expected to dress nice.

    • @KimmieJ1920
      @KimmieJ1920 5 лет назад +10

      Exactly. I'm divorced but I refuse to look beat to hell because Boaz might be at the store.

  • @deed8551
    @deed8551 8 лет назад +907

    Well she said she was the one who hunted her Boyfriend down. That explains it.
    Can't stand her. Annoying. I agree with Steve. You don't have to look beat down, at least do something.

    • @Comp00z
      @Comp00z 8 лет назад +15

      +Shah Dee LOOLLLL i totally agree with you

    • @deed8551
      @deed8551 8 лет назад +3

      +Lee K Glad we're on e same page

    • @Comp00z
      @Comp00z 8 лет назад +9

      It's not about wearing sweatpants you can wear sweatpants and still look good im just saying this is more than just sweatpants

    • @DeAngelo77
      @DeAngelo77 5 лет назад +7

      Rachel P No one says you have to look good. No one is saying you have to do anything. We are merely suggesting that you shouldn’t go out looking homeless. But if that’s what you want, if you want to go out looking like you just woke up, without even taking a shower, fine. But even as a guy, I never go out without trying to look at least a little presentable. This doesn’t only apply to women. It applies to everyone. But of course women make it about themselves and how oppressed they are.

    • @pickmeup95
      @pickmeup95 5 лет назад +5

      Well damn she ain't hurting nobody. I see what you saying tho

  • @chaffls8786
    @chaffls8786 5 лет назад +58

    The lady in purple makes my ears ache 🤣🤣🤣

  • @gigi4266
    @gigi4266 6 лет назад +615

    the girl in the purple is 24? she looks older than me and i'm 27.

    • @pinata985
      @pinata985 5 лет назад +5

      She’s 27 now lmao

    • @mohammadyousuf1516
      @mohammadyousuf1516 5 лет назад +16

      I think that’s because she is fat
      Fats look older

    • @codapapa7955
      @codapapa7955 4 года назад +3

      @@mohammadyousuf1516 I agree

    • @ang_ro
      @ang_ro 4 года назад +7

      she looks older than me & i'm 39...

    • @ashanmendis1930
      @ashanmendis1930 4 года назад +7

      She looks 40

  • @BoodaSDavis
    @BoodaSDavis 8 лет назад +969

    Keep clean underwear on in case you have to go to the hospital 😂

    • @ahlamelmhoujab798
      @ahlamelmhoujab798 8 лет назад +51

      +Booda Davis Omg , mom always told me to always match my bras and panties in case i have to go to the hospital Hahah I can relate there

    • @holistic7980
      @holistic7980 8 лет назад +4

      lol that's an old one😁

    • @tllymchll7474
      @tllymchll7474 8 лет назад +16

      +Dreams ahlam Chile, some days, I grab what I see..,lol. yellow bra, black and white podka dot panties...lol

    • @edithbelle4940
      @edithbelle4940 8 лет назад +17

      +Booda Davis my mum told me this and i've never forgotten it, my poor kids will get this lecture too.

    • @bigredd690
      @bigredd690 7 лет назад +7

      take heed to that saying I'm a firefighter and an EMT and I can't tell you how many people I have encountered who have either never heard that saying or didn't pay attention to it

  • @nellyluscious
    @nellyluscious 8 лет назад +260

    Ha!! Steve Harvey face though at her ''This is the nicest I've looked all year..''!!! lmao!!

    • @TheBrooklynchik1987
      @TheBrooklynchik1987 8 лет назад +37

      +NellyBelle Yasss, he was thinking "there's worse?!" haha

    • @nellyluscious
      @nellyluscious 8 лет назад +2

      TheBrooklynchik1987 right! Lol

    • @che-doniplatt5476
      @che-doniplatt5476 8 лет назад +2

      that line when he said "You know when you look your best..." you go after them, the shade...he probably saying she looked her best in her sweats when she went after her 'boyfriend'.

    • @Blackamethyst55
      @Blackamethyst55 4 года назад

      😂😂

  • @sandraudechukwu8339
    @sandraudechukwu8339 5 лет назад +96

    Just look presentable for crying out loud... you don’t have to over do it but just look good because first impressions matter

  • @numbers5796
    @numbers5796 3 года назад +34

    When she said she wants to bless her husband, some in the audience didn't know whether to applaud or not

    • @7spider391
      @7spider391 Месяц назад

      Because the way she said sounded so condescending

  • @joineejones4935
    @joineejones4935 8 лет назад +1383

    Every time that white chick speaks I'm like.... 😒

    • @ceargolio2
      @ceargolio2 8 лет назад +48

      +Joinee Jones why she made a lot of sense, like it or not

    • @ItsMeDWC
      @ItsMeDWC 8 лет назад +53

      Annoying Af.

    • @jodybutler7639
      @jodybutler7639 8 лет назад +32

      +Joinee Jones It was like she was trying to out do Steve.

    • @bokamash6916
      @bokamash6916 8 лет назад +4

      Yes...yes...yes

    • @MrJimmy3459
      @MrJimmy3459 8 лет назад +10

      +Joinee Jones Stop being racist

  • @TowerofAboveandBelow
    @TowerofAboveandBelow 8 лет назад +87

    So what's the argument, to have the right to look awful and smell bad but still attract people? Grooming is just basic health and well being.

  • @yala_laleye
    @yala_laleye 5 лет назад +68

    The guy with the glasses though who said "You should always dress to impress" 😍👌 he fine!

  • @MoDavI-sl7iy
    @MoDavI-sl7iy 5 лет назад +52

    She's being honest. Too honest 😆. And people can't handle that.🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @TrinityHostile
      @TrinityHostile 5 лет назад +13

      Ikr? Who doesnt want to wear sweats all the time!? I wear leggings and tshirts all the time and my hubby still staring at my ass 🤷‍♀️🤣🤣🤣

    • @seanwilson9302
      @seanwilson9302 4 года назад +5

      Oh we can handle her honesty it's her jelly roll looking stomach that gave me a hard time lol

    • @whisperingwhiskerss4877
      @whisperingwhiskerss4877 4 года назад +1

      TrinityHostile cause you body probably snatched boo... I hope 😳😉

    • @MK_ULTRA420
      @MK_ULTRA420 4 года назад +3

      She's not honest about her weight tho 😂😂😂

    • @Kari_Michele
      @Kari_Michele 3 года назад +1

      Exactly. People can’t handle the truth esp when it isn’t popular.

  • @taracherokeenative1173
    @taracherokeenative1173 8 лет назад +50

    My mother taught me to be decent no matter what you have on and where you're going. Yes, a woman can look beautiful whether she's dressed up or dressed down but should be decent at ALL times. Meaning, if you're running to WalMart or to the laundry mat, doesn't mean you go out in pajamas and slippers(throwing on sneakers is still not ok), hair in curlers with an ugly, dingy scarf on your head, looking like you haven't cleaned yourself or brushed your teeth. That's tacky and disgusting.

    • @PrayingPanda
      @PrayingPanda 8 лет назад +5

      +Laneen “Cherokee” M Your mother is a smart woman

    • @mareek2007
      @mareek2007 8 лет назад +1

      +Tara Cherokee Marsh I totally agree.The same should apply to men though.

    • @xxxSabrinaroxxx
      @xxxSabrinaroxxx 5 лет назад

      Exactly sometimes if I leave the house with no makeup I make sure my skin is clean and my hair is on fleek and smell freshz even if I’m wearing just a t shirt and leggings. Although I don’t agree with the sneakers part cause I always wear nice looking sneakers most the time lol

  • @xoxjanjounxox
    @xoxjanjounxox 8 лет назад +1047

    the woman in purple screams to me: FEMINIST EXTREMIST lol

    • @crazyhass84
      @crazyhass84 6 лет назад +17

      Jina S or just a fat Girl! LMAO

    • @sersomeone9704
      @sersomeone9704 5 лет назад +44

      SJW and also part of the Fat Acceptance movement.

    • @aaroncook4189
      @aaroncook4189 5 лет назад +23

      Until there's a house fire then she'll twist those little brown hairs into pigtails and scream "oh I'm just a girl" there are no feminists in a house fire. Women and children first. $1/he surcharge- Bill Burr But for real those are FACTS!

    • @bella101408
      @bella101408 5 лет назад +4

      @@crazyhass84 What's wrong with her weight

    • @bella101408
      @bella101408 5 лет назад +6

      @@sersomeone9704 yall like making fun of these SJWs but continue to bully and belittle them

  • @MissV301
    @MissV301 6 лет назад +527

    God that woman in purple has the most irritating voice and personality!

    • @LauraJohnson47
      @LauraJohnson47 4 года назад +11

      Veronica Blum That’s because she’s really insecure 😟 nobody asked her how long they were together nor did they asked who makes the money in the so call relationship, she doesn’t look confident she looks desperate.

    • @virginialpinon748
      @virginialpinon748 4 года назад +1

      She comes across butch. Had a friend like that. She didn't give a damn. Everyone laugh she was straight thought otherwise had a man. He actually preferred her and her attitude. There r those out thete

    • @jameelaali5115
      @jameelaali5115 4 года назад +2

      Seriously, like girl bye🤣she aggy

    • @naylani7790
      @naylani7790 4 года назад +5

      Her voice may be annoying but she’s speaking facts🤷🏾‍♀️...

  • @mgtowsrevenge3542
    @mgtowsrevenge3542 6 лет назад +12

    Steve, I spent a lot of time in my formative years with my father's parents. My grandmother was the real life Donna Reed. She cooked and cleaned in skirts (with petticoats), pumps, velour or cashmere tops and apron. I never saw her in anything else unless it was a formal occasion. Every dinner was full table settings with 3 forks, 2 spoons and knives (plus proper table edicate and protocol).
    Every day at exactly 5:30 she would stop what she was doing and go to the bedroom and sit in front of the vanity and "doll herself" up, before my grandpa came home. She always said that a good wife "always" made herself presentable to her husband when he comes home from work. He's worked hard and "we" (I guess she was talking about the both of us) have no idea if grandpa had a good or bad day and it was her job to ensure he didn't have and problems (stress) when he comes home.
    She was obviously an anomaly, because in my many years of searching, I have not met one woman that even comes close to her.
    In fact, it's been kind of fun when girls try to compare me to other men (I say, "don't play that game with me...") and I roll out the "battleship" that was my grandmother. They didn't even have a chance.
    Keep up the laughter.

  • @tdepp2311
    @tdepp2311 8 лет назад +135

    Lmfaooo at Steve "we can't ever know you". 😂😂😂

  • @sugarspiceunlimited
    @sugarspiceunlimited 8 лет назад +1343

    girl in the purple lies too much

    • @zadijojosh8455
      @zadijojosh8455 6 лет назад +63

      She should be voted as a Feminism movement Leader. Since I watch several question and chapter of the show, she always against everyone(Man & Women) in the room

    • @theotromp6464
      @theotromp6464 6 лет назад +43

      I want to see her boyfriend face when she says that she had sex more than 20 man.

    • @fhuber7507
      @fhuber7507 6 лет назад +40

      She has a BF?
      Nope.
      No way.

    • @JaeD904
      @JaeD904 6 лет назад +57

      I thought she was in her 40s. Sadly it says she’s 24.

    • @HighCountryLife
      @HighCountryLife 6 лет назад +30

      She is a millennial for sure. Her thoughts and opinions are what matters and her experiences are the facts of life. And obviously just has sex with whoever wants to give it to her.

  • @maylynbayani
    @maylynbayani 3 года назад +11

    My mother, who is a very shrewed businesswoman, told me to always look my best. Never to gain approval, but to use it in my arsenal in getting my goals. People will always be visual creatures and the image what you portray is what they will believe. Others can argue about it for hours but it does not make it any less real.

  • @jeromebrown5744
    @jeromebrown5744 6 лет назад +130

    Confidence isn't fake hair and makeup. Confidence is all about a mindset. I agree with her on that. Some of these women dressed to the hilt and have no personality. Not to mention narcissistic.

    • @susanfurnish4132
      @susanfurnish4132 4 года назад +1

      AGREED. Snobs.

    • @PyromancerRift
      @PyromancerRift 4 года назад +3

      Confidence = knowing you have assets to put on the table.
      If you are ugly AF and you are confident, you better be rich or you're fake and women will think you're a creep.

    • @YaNa-xq4ll
      @YaNa-xq4ll 4 года назад

      Exactly

    • @listen2urspiritleadwithlov616
      @listen2urspiritleadwithlov616 3 года назад +7

      With low self esteem. Hiding behind clothes and makeup. What you see is what you get. I'm not getting doll up to go get groceries.

  • @realflowerssings6596
    @realflowerssings6596 5 лет назад +14

    The days I'm "bummy" and want no one to bother me seem to be the days I get most attention. Make it make sense.

  • @Natas_Nico08518
    @Natas_Nico08518 8 лет назад +36

    Steve's facial expressions are everything...that chic in the navy needs to have several seats because she's not exactly winning in the great looks department AND what about having pride in your appearance. I very rarely go out in jeans and a hoodie or go to the store in my gym clothes after the gym...my attire reflects who I am to the people around me. We like to say don't judge a book by it's cover but if you seen me in a moo moo, hair in a bun on top of my head with no make up because im "comfortable" and "confident" and came to you for a job or pick my kid up from school, you would judge me

    • @GoddessBlueYozakura7
      @GoddessBlueYozakura7 7 лет назад +1

      +Natas Nico-
      I go out in a hoodie and jeans all of the time because I don't like the attention. So I hide.

  • @malajm84
    @malajm84 6 лет назад +16

    steve's face killed me...he's like you looked worse than this?! then he is looking at the audience like why is you clapping? lol i cant

    • @zalamael
      @zalamael 2 года назад +1

      Yeah, and she says she wants people to love her for her mind, not her appearance. That is because she is too lazy to work on her appearance. And her mind isn't worth much either, given that she is self important and delusional.

  • @kloud7713
    @kloud7713 5 лет назад +26

    As a girl I like to dress up for myself and feel good about myself. As for partner wise , I don't expect them to go full out fashionista but I do appreciate if the guy wears something appealing. I also do like to dress up for the guy not because i'm forced to but because I want him to see that I put effort in and I want him to think like "damn that's my girl"

    • @josephinenyamunda4395
      @josephinenyamunda4395 7 месяцев назад +1

      Well said and you want to look your best with your man and I want my gal to best

  • @kimwatts7182
    @kimwatts7182 8 лет назад +94

    I love being a beautiful woman.

    • @kimwatts7182
      @kimwatts7182 8 лет назад +7

      +Adam Hecker ....thank you that is a nice compliment.

    • @NoName-sp5dp
      @NoName-sp5dp 5 лет назад

      Thelondonbadger ikr. Women can be so envious smh

    • @zora99ny
      @zora99ny 5 лет назад

      Kufre Akpan speak for yourself only

    • @maylynbayani
      @maylynbayani 4 года назад +3

      True! Stay beautiful!

    • @evaandelisa
      @evaandelisa 4 года назад +2

      All women are beautiful!

  • @shammendraeshwar433
    @shammendraeshwar433 5 лет назад +6

    Everybody is attracted by appearance,nobody falls in love with character at first "sight"

  • @maylynbayani
    @maylynbayani 5 лет назад +19

    Thank you Joe! Yes, first impressions matter. Others might not want to hear it but it does not changes the fact that you get the job/the girl/the opportunity when you look more put together because it gives the impression that you have your life in order.

  • @melquizedec
    @melquizedec 2 года назад +4

    the camera man knows his job...every time someone says something sketchy, he has to point to Steve face for his expression LoL

  • @shauneenicole2535
    @shauneenicole2535 6 лет назад +14

    I don't have that problem because I like to look good everywhere I go, even just half decent when going to Walmart. I'm the type of woman who likes to dress up and wear heels. It's a part of my personality ever since I lost 106 lbs.

  • @somedaysoon9551
    @somedaysoon9551 5 лет назад +43

    Katherine is crazy. I'm 21 and a big girl too and when other big girls say things like this, it really gets on my nerves. People are going to judge your based on your appearance and while everyone wishes that wasn't the case, it is what it is. The solution isn't to keep stubbornly living in this ideal world in the hope that people are going to accommodate you. There's a balance between staying true to yourself and knowing that if you want to win you've gotta play the game. It's not like you have to lose weight and stay dressed to the nines but, you have to acknowledge that every choice has a cost and it up to you figure out what your budget is.

  • @daniellehoreau7721
    @daniellehoreau7721 5 лет назад +10

    "This is this nicest I've looked all year!!"
    Me: Oh my... 😕😕

  • @wonderwoman1199
    @wonderwoman1199 4 года назад +14

    NO .. we Like good looking men. They need to look fly too

  • @Michael_B82
    @Michael_B82 8 лет назад +784

    The white girl sounds like she is has low self esteem

    • @idomagirlabahi7786
      @idomagirlabahi7786 8 лет назад +149

      She's your typical modern day white liberal feminist.

    • @Keymoriah
      @Keymoriah 8 лет назад +118

      +falconfan1990 She sounds like the type who would put down other women and accuse them of having low self esteem just because they always try to look good.

    • @GameCriticNoob
      @GameCriticNoob 8 лет назад +18

      +falconfan1990 Don't see how. She did say she doesn't really care for appearances. That would kind of imply she holds herself to some esteem.

    • @nawal10
      @nawal10 8 лет назад +3

      Don't we all =|

    • @jodybutler7639
      @jodybutler7639 8 лет назад +1

      +Michelle Talley LMAO!!!! You are hilarious!!!

  • @GetTheGrandFunkOut
    @GetTheGrandFunkOut 8 лет назад +66

    Women are judged by their appearance; men are judged by their wallets (clothes, car, house). Judging by Steve's dress alone, every husband-seeking woman KNOWS he has a bigger wallet and more spending power -- and therefore more desirability -- than the four men on his panel.

    • @carriewhitmore
      @carriewhitmore 3 года назад +5

      I think it’s starting to change though. Women make their own money now so they expect men to look good now too.

    • @redclayscholar620
      @redclayscholar620 3 года назад +5

      @@carriewhitmore the men you want do not care for your money while the men that care about your money will not look like the men you want.

    • @-DA-ONE-
      @-DA-ONE- 2 года назад

      @@redclayscholar620 damn nice one

  • @eyeamgod2734
    @eyeamgod2734 2 года назад +4

    So the woman in purple don't get dressed to impress her husband but got dressed up to a live studio audience and millions of viewers that she don't know! Make it make sense!

  • @juanitathompson6752
    @juanitathompson6752 6 лет назад +6

    Steve's face when she said "this is the best I've looked in years" 😂

  • @Serendipity989
    @Serendipity989 8 лет назад +30

    Uh this 24 year old...The men said nothing about judging just that they appreciate time put into looking good.

  • @mollynavarro4101
    @mollynavarro4101 4 года назад +7

    Uncle Steve is hilarious! His facial expressions and when he bent down! I can’t stop laughing!

  • @kaiaballobey4239
    @kaiaballobey4239 4 года назад +3

    People do go by how you look. But when you get to know someone, things change.

  • @killersushi99
    @killersushi99 6 лет назад +6

    *Juanita at **2:06**.....Perfect.*

  • @user-ln6pu7kq9j
    @user-ln6pu7kq9j 8 лет назад +19

    Loool Katherine makes me laugh. She seems pretty confident actually.

    • @ceargolio2
      @ceargolio2 8 лет назад +3

      +Kez P she is the embodiment of looks doesn't matter

    • @douglasmcquaid5343
      @douglasmcquaid5343 5 лет назад +1

      Ofcourse. When you're generally unattractive looking, you make it up with character and personality

    • @amaj_lex
      @amaj_lex 2 года назад

      @@douglasmcquaid5343 facts!!!!

  • @allsmilez13
    @allsmilez13 8 лет назад +94

    I love being well dressed HOWEVER the woman in the purple dress has a right to dress how she wants. These comments and the folks on this video are a trip. People need to stop being so worried about what the next person is doing and worry about themselves.

    • @brookeh21
      @brookeh21 5 лет назад +3

      Preach!

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 5 лет назад +2

      yes

    • @seanwilson9302
      @seanwilson9302 4 года назад +1

      Yeah but the girl in purple looks like Grimmus lol she's a fatty which means her boyfriend is poor and desperate if she's the best he can do lol

    • @harleyjameson1939
      @harleyjameson1939 4 года назад +2

      But the comment section is so people can discuss and the other people can complain about the discussion. That's the arrangement.

    • @Kari_Michele
      @Kari_Michele 3 года назад

      Exactly, thank you! 🙌🏾

  • @melita8223
    @melita8223 5 лет назад +12

    I really question if the one in purple actually has a boyfriend.

  • @jadesmith7983
    @jadesmith7983 5 лет назад +6

    Women are visual too! We just don't leave it at that. The other qualities are important too. But I love a good looking man to spend my time with.

    • @zuzanazuscinova5209
      @zuzanazuscinova5209 5 лет назад

      Sadly the typically lack in other departments, lol.

    • @bibinthomas5282
      @bibinthomas5282 3 года назад

      No....most of em, prefer money first...men go for looks more

  • @pursuingancientpaths8131
    @pursuingancientpaths8131 8 лет назад +33

    I think the majority of men do like a woman dressed nicely, but not ALL men, as this man on here demonstrated. My hubby doesnt want me in torn up sweats and tshirts three sizes too big, but hes just as happy if im in a pair of jeans and tshirt as he is a nice dress. And he doesnt like makeup at all. But he is also very low-maintenance, tshirt and jeans kind of guy. Theres all kinds, you just have to find your match. :)

  • @DeniDaGem
    @DeniDaGem 6 лет назад +6

    This Episode Made Me Exhausted I Don’t Even Want A Relationship Anymore 😂😂😂

  • @SWillis023
    @SWillis023 2 года назад +2

    Katherine: This is the nicest I’ve looked in a year
    Steve: looks her up and down in shock

  • @ShaeMonique
    @ShaeMonique 6 лет назад +76

    0:55 STEVE SO PETTYYYY 💀💀💀

    • @susanfurnish4132
      @susanfurnish4132 4 года назад

      Hahahaha! He thinks he knows everything about everything......hahahaha.......like his view is the only view.....

  • @PreetyRA
    @PreetyRA 8 лет назад +101

    I'm sorry but as a woman, I don't wear makeup, or straighten, dye my hair, infact I don't eveb own a hair dyer. BUT I always have home cooked meals, use steel or glass as storage, we even make our own mayo, go for walks, relax, dance, and drink lotts of filtered water! This is more expensive and hard, but it shines through and natural beauty cannot ever be compared to plastic, thats like saying you prefer fake gem stones. My opinion, feel free to criticise.

    • @XOLovinTheXO
      @XOLovinTheXO 8 лет назад +5

      +Preety RA Preach honey #LOVINTHENATRUALBEAUTY

    • @PreetyRA
      @PreetyRA 8 лет назад +1

      +XLovinDaisesX thanks :D

    • @XOLovinTheXO
      @XOLovinTheXO 8 лет назад +1

      +Preety RA Anytime

    • @PreetyRA
      @PreetyRA 8 лет назад

      +XLovinDaisesX ♥

    • @staceykersting461
      @staceykersting461 8 лет назад +3

      IKR? Seems there's a new "tyrrany of geauty" on the loose These young girls on YT have "makeup rooms". I'm not against a little make up, but, really....too much is hookerish, clownish, doesn't let the real you shine thru!

  • @vipersnake94
    @vipersnake94 8 лет назад +216

    That girl on the right......omg....I can't see how a man can even talk to her, or anyone for that matter. I don't believe she's had sex 20 times lol.

    • @CarAmeL624
      @CarAmeL624 8 лет назад +42

      There's someone for everyone

    • @khoip4937
      @khoip4937 8 лет назад +18

      +vipersnake94 yes those 20 guys were probably desperate virgins or the same size as her.

    • @Vintageshabbychi
      @Vintageshabbychi 8 лет назад +1

      +sam poo ..... HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAAH!!!!!

    • @esterf7064
      @esterf7064 5 лет назад +7

      If she said 20 times it’s probably not 20 guys. It’s probably the count with her current bf. I’m just saying 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @icetray2727
      @icetray2727 5 лет назад +4

      She’s for the beta males not the alpha males

  • @UnknownUnknown-tu3be
    @UnknownUnknown-tu3be 6 лет назад +2

    That purple girl has quite the laugh 🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣

  • @siyarg.4900
    @siyarg.4900 5 лет назад +1

    Famous saying, there's a very very fine line between bravery/confidence and insanity/dominance

  • @cgsoldier4196
    @cgsoldier4196 8 лет назад +136

    I guarantee you that the girl in the purple made up a majority of what she said

  • @hottnessfarra
    @hottnessfarra 8 лет назад +17

    Do more than shower and change under wear. Brush your teeth, clean under your nails, don't put on dirty shoes, shave your face, or head, put something good smelling on, iron your clothes ect.

    • @YG-rv3oj
      @YG-rv3oj 7 лет назад

      hottnessfarra I agree with everything except shaving face, I would never shave my beautiful beard.

    • @StrongnBeautiful
      @StrongnBeautiful 5 лет назад

      👍👌

    • @andy_the_monger1795
      @andy_the_monger1795 5 лет назад +2

      @@StrongnBeautiful
      That's basic hygiene which, Most of the men do all of that.
      What do you think like all men are lazy homeless guys who don't care about themselves.
      Smh feminazi

    • @dewonabridges8239
      @dewonabridges8239 4 года назад

      @@YG-rv3oj yes please and thank

  • @princessrichards9235
    @princessrichards9235 4 года назад +2

    Steve face killed me 😭🤣🤣🤣

  • @andrestepherson3181
    @andrestepherson3181 7 лет назад +1

    Steve Harvey reactions are priceless.

  • @dr.dermixgirlmd7479
    @dr.dermixgirlmd7479 5 лет назад +8

    You can lie to yourself if you want ladies but a man likes something pretty to look at. Doesn’t mean you have to have a full face of makeup and salon hair every day, but stay pulled together, live a healthy lifestyle, and on some kind of regular basis get dressed up and remind him of what “date night” you looks like.

  • @tonyaturner8555
    @tonyaturner8555 5 лет назад +3

    Steve's facial expressions are hilarious!

  • @tomswill9189
    @tomswill9189 5 лет назад

    This was great 👍 Steve. Thanks

  • @qui.jparker3100
    @qui.jparker3100 5 лет назад +1

    I've been watching a few of the clips from this episode and there is definitely a trend of modern vs old fashioned values when it comes to male and female relations.

  • @olafspetzki
    @olafspetzki 3 года назад +13

    "The woman should dress for herself" Aha, then she can also stay with herself:-)
    When I go fishing I don't place a cold beer at the hook but a worm, because the bait does not have to attract me but the fish.
    Yes, men value the looks of a woman...its just the way it is. The same is true with what women look for in a man.
    There is simply no point in bashing each other for how we are and what we desire.
    Also what about talking about gender gap? Men and women are different and they always will be. A woman is always going to look for different things in a man then a man is looking for in a woman.

  • @desireme3019
    @desireme3019 8 лет назад +227

    Loool the white people have the mindset of every tumblr user in 2015

    • @AQUAPHREESH193
      @AQUAPHREESH193 8 лет назад +1

      +Ashley Florez ahahahah PREACH

    • @laftw93
      @laftw93 8 лет назад

      lol

    • @MrBboy3213
      @MrBboy3213 8 лет назад

      so you should only dress good for a man?

    • @desireme3019
      @desireme3019 8 лет назад +4

      ***** you need to re-read my comment boo

    • @ApolloTheLeader
      @ApolloTheLeader 8 лет назад +1

      lmaooo it's crazy ppl actually think like that.

  • @imbored1979
    @imbored1979 6 лет назад +1

    Steve's face at "Nicest I've looked in a year" 😂😂😂

  • @beautybyphumi
    @beautybyphumi 4 года назад +1

    Steves FACE when Katherine spoke 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @OklahomaStateFaSho
    @OklahomaStateFaSho 8 лет назад +4

    Why is everyone so sensitive about getting judged? If you feel confident when you are in public in sweat pants and a hoodie, it is irrelevant. You MUST try to impress people or you won't make it. The whole "I don't care what other people think" mindset will get you nowhere fast.

    • @blackvelevet3172
      @blackvelevet3172 2 года назад +1

      You are right..you can wear what ya want but don't think everyone gotta like you....

  • @antoniothompson5514
    @antoniothompson5514 8 лет назад +3

    Funniest interview I've seen so far!

  • @stumblebassstumblebass3661
    @stumblebassstumblebass3661 3 года назад +1

    The way Steve looked at her 😆😆😆

  • @joelnshimirimana
    @joelnshimirimana 6 лет назад +1

    I learned that how you dress is usually an internal reflection of how you feel that day, but especially a reflection of who you are. Just like your work shld be a reflection of your standards, knowledge and abilities. You shldn't be a master at something, but only perform halfway. The quality of your work is supposed to match the experience and expertise inside of you.
    In the same way, if you respect yourself, if you feel confident, if you feel like you're interesting, and someone worth knowing, if you're joyful, then reflect it. Nobody says "I'm very happy today" w an indifferent face on, or "I'm not mad", w an angry face on. What you feel and who you are inside should reflect correctly on the outside. Look good, be clean. Dressing lazy is a disservice to yourself. Looking good is doing a good thing for yourself. Ppl always say "I dress up for myself" then why don't you do it often? Do you not like to treat yourself to good things???

  • @smurf7665
    @smurf7665 5 лет назад +5

    I feel like purple shirt should be using air quotes Everytime she says "my boyfriend*

  • @myLOVE9901
    @myLOVE9901 8 лет назад +3

    I should be on this panel!!

  • @lindasemmons4815
    @lindasemmons4815 5 лет назад

    Great show Steve

  • @MsWander2222
    @MsWander2222 4 года назад

    4:23 😂😂😂😂 dude behind Steve was like "Oh, naw"!!

  • @strawberriesncandii
    @strawberriesncandii 8 лет назад +5

    I don't like dressing up all the time but I do believe in looking decent all the time. Taking time for either your hair or doing your eyebrows and putting on chapstick and mascara isn't going to kill you. It's great that you can have confidence without dressing to the nines all the time but don't get upset when men or women do not show you the respect you know you want. If you leave your house with a dingy scarf and a stained shirt you put out energy that tells people that you don't take care of yourself. Everyone had 24 hours and can spend 5 minutes getting something together. You never know who is watching you when you leave your house.

  • @braceyourselvesfortruth2492
    @braceyourselvesfortruth2492 4 года назад +4

    Her age was the first of about 15 lies she told in this segment. I HOPE the fact that she looks better than she has in a year was one of them.

  • @mellissaharvel8542
    @mellissaharvel8542 6 лет назад +2

    Steve Harvey's face= PRICELESS!😂😂😂😂

  • @acesthearts7994
    @acesthearts7994 6 лет назад

    Yoo steve haveys face when she says this is the nicest I’ve looked for a whole year

  • @philiplewandowski2469
    @philiplewandowski2469 7 лет назад +9

    Both men and women care about looks just as much. The reason a woman wants to go up to a guy like steve showed is because he's attractive. No woman would go up to a guy or do anything like that to an ugly or average looking guy

    • @susanfurnish4132
      @susanfurnish4132 4 года назад

      Steve dresses like a million bucks, but it's not right for me. I wouldn't date a guy that dresses like him alot. It's just not my thing. Different types.

  • @niceuwitonze4693
    @niceuwitonze4693 5 лет назад +3

    She is awesome and little crazy
    I love her so much 😘😘 she lovely and ❤️❤️❤️ cute so confident

  • @mohammedvlogs2031
    @mohammedvlogs2031 6 лет назад

    thanks STEVE HARVEYi its learn me many things i need to know

  • @devon1994barnes
    @devon1994barnes 5 лет назад +1

    Man I need to be on one of these shows to explain the real balance between these things.

  • @joecoe4416
    @joecoe4416 8 лет назад +73

    As soon as the big girl opened her mouth I knew this is going to be a problem and very annoying and I was right, I mute everytime she speaks lol

    • @ThePsychicFish
      @ThePsychicFish 5 лет назад +1

      YOU MUTED!??? LMAOOO!! 😂😂😂😂😭

    • @seanwilson9302
      @seanwilson9302 4 года назад

      I rather listen to a cat getting raped by a moose than to hear that fatty in the purple dress voice again smh annoying af

  • @MyHatsumomo
    @MyHatsumomo 6 лет назад +8

    Girl in the purple cannot be just 24. I thought she was older

  • @ThanuG15
    @ThanuG15 2 года назад

    Same principle as this saying: 'Do to others what you want others to do to you'. It makes it easier at least.

  • @MyOnlyCommentIs
    @MyOnlyCommentIs 3 года назад

    I wear what ever is the occasion.
    I do this for Self Value and Being myself. This 2 things bring the confidence in my mind.

  • @camille4real1111
    @camille4real1111 5 лет назад +9

    The lady on the orange sounds just like cardi b

  • @apd7698
    @apd7698 8 лет назад +5

    there is definately a little bit of cultural difference being expressed on the panel as it relates to physical appearance and clothing

  • @Mafaneh20950
    @Mafaneh20950 6 лет назад +2

    I like how everyone is like I dress nice for myself and my confidence. LOL ok.
    You gain your confidence because people around you sill start giving you looks and checking you out even if it’s subtle. Your subconscious is still aware of it.

  • @sasjaparson8090
    @sasjaparson8090 5 лет назад +2

    Purple Haze girl been smoking before coming on the Steve Harvey show 😂😂

  • @TenjoZakito
    @TenjoZakito 8 лет назад +32

    Of course women are still judged for their appearance, this is one thing I don't think is ever going to change.
    But what I like seeing, is how women are starting to judge men's appearance a lot more than before.
    Good looking guys gets just as much if not more likes on Instagram and facebook than girls, attractive male actors having a solid female fanbase and that skyrockets their career, and of course when a man looks good and chats up a girl, it's definitely easier for you to get her number or a smile.
    Men are starting to realise that being attractive brings them benefits the same way as attractive females get benefits from men.

    • @Vergil14
      @Vergil14 8 лет назад +3

      +TenjoZakito to be fair, women have been judging men's appearance for a long time. But this is one of those situations where there's more nuances compared to what's being talked about in this video.

    • @TenjoZakito
      @TenjoZakito 8 лет назад +3

      Brian .Word Personally I feel that men doesn't get judged by appearance as much, or at least it doesn't affect their day to day lives when they aren't attractive.
      But then again I am not a men so I won't know

    • @Vergil14
      @Vergil14 8 лет назад +3

      It happens more than most people probably think. Like I've been told by female family members, female friends, and random females i do't know that I'm handsome. But right now I'm dealing with a skin condition that does take away from any attractiveness females believe I have, and because my current condition is out in the open for everyone to see, most people are likely judging me as i interact with them, they just happen to have the good graces to not say it to me so as not to accidentally insult me. The women in this video on the other, it's not even that their judged on attractiveness but on presentation, which everyone is judged for. As a black man, if I posted pictures on social media with pants sagging, gold grill on my teeth and obscene tattoos, I'd definitely be looked at in a negative light, even if people who know me well enough will call me the nicest guy on the planet. These girls may be the nicest girls on the planet, but if they're posting those kinds of pictures, it sends a message to men and women in general. But this video had a specific focus.

    • @haitianprodigy8600
      @haitianprodigy8600 8 лет назад +1

      The only thing that have to look attractive is our wallets, and please don't deny it, because it's true.

    • @TenjoZakito
      @TenjoZakito 8 лет назад +3

      Haitian Wood Yeah because I bet you think women can't earn their own money, that male strippers and escorts don't exist, and every women out there is going to throw themselves at you after they find out you have money, or shun you after they find out you don't.
      Either you surround yourself with a very small and toxic group of people, or you just haven't personally got to know enough women to form a unbiased opinion on them.

  • @samuelwright7270
    @samuelwright7270 5 лет назад +3

    Listening to this with my earphones i thought that was cardi b at 2:00

  • @marylinehappy8504
    @marylinehappy8504 5 лет назад +1

    The rolling eyes of Steve at 0:56 ..... Had me die laughing

  • @TeamTerrill
    @TeamTerrill 5 лет назад

    I love Steve Harvey show!

  • @amandaclbn8324
    @amandaclbn8324 8 лет назад +5

    Hahaha I love Kathy