Battle of the Sexes: Are stay-at-home dads "punking out?" || STEVE HARVEY

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  • Steve Harvey's "Battle of the Sexes" tackles the question of whether it's time to end the social stigma for stay-at-home fathers.
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  • @alaysiacarter5260
    @alaysiacarter5260 8 лет назад +399

    Steve just over here sipping on his tea like☕☕☕

    • @Ashley_Delon
      @Ashley_Delon 7 лет назад +4

      Alaysia Carter Right😂!

    • @MickeyR6
      @MickeyR6 6 лет назад +2

      Make him a meme like Kermit the frog 😁

    • @lamiahassan887
      @lamiahassan887 4 года назад +1

      Alaysia Carter he had me dying😂😂😂

  • @all.abt.ash_3079
    @all.abt.ash_3079 8 лет назад +544

    Juanita sounds like Cardi B

    • @tamesechristian6020
      @tamesechristian6020 5 лет назад +6

      Camisha Ferguson I was thinking the same lol

    • @ciko2334
      @ciko2334 5 лет назад

      This!

    • @angie4203
      @angie4203 5 лет назад +5

      swear ii was the only one wo realized tis like forget everything else peep cardi and off set!

    • @mardyjoseph8203
      @mardyjoseph8203 5 лет назад

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @cjm9109
      @cjm9109 5 лет назад +1

      Probably her cousin

  • @kadoman0
    @kadoman0 8 лет назад +358

    3:00 shots FIRED!!!!

    • @hellotinashe
      @hellotinashe 8 лет назад +47

      +Ckador awkward....*sips tea*

    • @kadoman0
      @kadoman0 8 лет назад +41

      +tinalyzing I know right.... I was like... DDDDDAAAAAANNNNNNGGGGGG!!!!! BRUH!!!!

    • @ashleys9829
      @ashleys9829 8 лет назад +9

      +Ckador lol i was like ohh got damn!!!

    • @PrayingPanda
      @PrayingPanda 8 лет назад +6

      +Ckador SSSSAAAAAAAVVVVVVVAAAAAGGGGGGEEEEEE

    • @charmingcharlie011
      @charmingcharlie011 8 лет назад +4

      😂😂😂 right!

  • @carisv2834
    @carisv2834 8 лет назад +88

    I think this shows a huge culture gap.

  • @ransfordbotcey92
    @ransfordbotcey92 8 лет назад +235

    Looking at their ages and seeing 24s and they looking like 40s and late 30s

  • @dorisokafor6317
    @dorisokafor6317 8 лет назад +25

    Lol he slick he said "20 nurtures?" 5:20

  • @JamesTechJackin
    @JamesTechJackin 8 лет назад +191

    TBH....It's all about everyone in the household playing their part. If the man wants to stay home and raise the kids, then so be it. Raising kids and keeping the home in order is a legit full time job so I don't see what the problem is. As a 20 year service member, I am looking forward to switching roles and starting my new job as the stay at home parent. It's all about what works for you and YOUR family. So many people get caught up and have an opinion what everyone else is doing, and they tend to lose sight on what is going on in their own household.

    • @mollymariern
      @mollymariern 8 лет назад +20

      Amen!! My husband is also former active duty, now reservist who stays at home with my 3 boys now that it's MY turn at career success. Nobody can tell me this man isn't virile and sexy as hell while carrying it all. He is our ROCK!! (And it's a LOT of work if you're doing it right!!)

    • @epic_errors
      @epic_errors 6 лет назад +2

      mollymariern that's the wrong with evetyrhing. Let let gender decide a career. I've been married with a woman with two kids. Those kids were everything to me but they don't feed themselves. Finiacally and physicallyl

    • @jennyksslr
      @jennyksslr 6 лет назад +2

      James Jackson 100%! And thank you for your service. My nephew retired a couple of years ago and took on the roll of staying with his daughters. I hope all is going well in your parenting journey 💕👏👏

    • @mattieallen7168
      @mattieallen7168 6 лет назад +6

      I totally agree. It's whatever work for that couples' household. Everyone is entitle to their opinions, it's when the person given the opinion tries to make it a rule or law. It's no right or wrong way to this, its whatever works. My son is a stay home dad of eight (8) and work from home. He gets the kids to school, cook, clean, take his girlfriend to work (they only have one car), all of it. Then work until it time to pick everyone up. So does that make him a PUNK, NO this work for their household.

    • @ericcutrer7470
      @ericcutrer7470 5 лет назад +1

      Very Good Observation!!!!

  • @lemonmarie2161
    @lemonmarie2161 8 лет назад +565

    The idea that men are meant to only work is just as sexist as the idea that women are meant to only cook and clean and take care of their kids. If we're going to break the stigma that women only exist to do small domestic work, then we need to break the stigma that men are the only meant to provide. By saying that working is a "'manly" thing, it's basically the same as saying that women belong in the kitchen. That Juanita girl is disgusting and sexist.

    • @moonrice555
      @moonrice555 8 лет назад +61

      +Britanny Lichel Exactly. Our society is so stupid. If I stood up there and said women need to keep their mouths shut, cook, and have sex, they'd roast me alive---but it's okay to say men were put here to be beasts of burden. She's archaic. I'd love to know how her husband really feels. And why did she piss that money away going to college and then stay home?

    • @lemonmarie2161
      @lemonmarie2161 8 лет назад +25

      Jim Beam If you believe that men are made to just work and do all of the money making then you must also believe that women are just made to cook/clean and make babies, right?

    • @efraindavidzambranorodrigu2981
      @efraindavidzambranorodrigu2981 8 лет назад +8

      I love it. I like the idea of knowing thre s people out there who think the same as me. Thanks.

    • @Cr15ty100
      @Cr15ty100 8 лет назад +17

      I agree. It's sad that this thought will carry over the next generation because she's raising her kids to be that way and to think that way.

    • @prncessbaby16
      @prncessbaby16 7 лет назад +20

      moonrice, thats EXACTLY how i feel! college isnt cheap at all, if she didnt want to use her degree, whyd she go in the first place? the woman doesnt even carry herself in an educated way with all this dang yelling and talking over people

  • @ledyba57386
    @ledyba57386 5 лет назад +12

    I just can't stop laughing at Steve's facial expressions throughout this whole video.. he's so funny!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

  • @anitanipah547
    @anitanipah547 8 лет назад +1802

    The stay at home mom in red is very very disrespectful

    • @kitchenmom
      @kitchenmom 8 лет назад +37

      +Efia „Nips91“ Nipah But she is all about respect!

    • @idomagirlabahi7786
      @idomagirlabahi7786 8 лет назад +134

      Very disrespectful and hypocritical.

    • @Haya.94
      @Haya.94 8 лет назад +186

      Naaah i like her she is so real 😂😂

    • @CreativelyPhoenix
      @CreativelyPhoenix 8 лет назад +97

      Yes, if it was me on that stage I would have wanted to snatched her up lol. She's shaming other women and contradicting what herself in the process also.

    • @MrJohnandevan
      @MrJohnandevan 8 лет назад +21

      +Fran JLo I agree, she'd very judgmental and if you aren't ACTUALLY experiencing it (i.e, married, have kids) how could you possibly know what you are talking about.

  • @JoeOct31
    @JoeOct31 2 года назад +1

    "No, you too busy havin sex"
    Steve: *Sips tea*
    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @loveislife77
    @loveislife77 8 лет назад +455

    I really feel bad for Juanita's husband.

    • @pedromeneses5661
      @pedromeneses5661 6 лет назад +56

      You shouldn't, traditional moms tend to make husbands happier and have higher chances of a long lasting marriage, when a woman does the "man's job" (providing), then wtf is the man supposed to do? mom's are the best caretakers, no doubt, and now they want men to not work? You are setting marriages up for disaster, if one partner can do well without the other, then at the least setback, they will file for divorce, plain and simple, hence why men are hesitant to marry women who persue careers as much as them

    • @radmanpedram3214
      @radmanpedram3214 6 лет назад +3

      Doggo Fitness very true besides women have a biological nature to be provided protected and cared for if men in never provided or protected women the human race not only wouldn’t survive but also women would be less happy and on constant stress

    • @radmanpedram3214
      @radmanpedram3214 6 лет назад

      Also another point I would like to make women tend to be more happier being a single mother due to nuturing their child with this it creates stability of having a family.

    • @lotuswolf1518
      @lotuswolf1518 6 лет назад +1

      JesuCristoEsREY , same he made poor decision by making her wife

    • @solid9981
      @solid9981 6 лет назад +3

      I don't I would love to mash that.

  • @CatsEyes13
    @CatsEyes13 6 лет назад +4

    lady in red : if her man stays at home, he is a punk.
    she stays at home, it's ok. lady sit down.

  • @Criticcizm
    @Criticcizm 8 лет назад +12

    What if the father is an author or simply works from home? Is that punking out?
    My opinion is, if your significant other is ok with it, then it's nobody elses business who works and who stays at home. Too many people worry about what others think. Do whatever makes you happy and if people have a problem with it, you have a middle finger for a reason.

    • @maylynbayani
      @maylynbayani 3 месяца назад

      An author is still employed.

  • @biggiecheese4400
    @biggiecheese4400 7 лет назад +19

    Why are all of these arguments originally anti-men/pro-women?

    • @crashpal
      @crashpal 3 года назад +1

      Society misusing equality rights

  • @mollymariern
    @mollymariern 8 лет назад +9

    Love Steve Harvey but completely disagree with this segment. I'm a successful career woman and my husband stays at home with my 3 young boys... The man DOES IT ALL. He also happens to run a business from home and is a Marine reservist. When he is gone on his reserve duty I'm in awe of all that he does. My ROCK is gone and things are tough until he's home again. He demonstrates strength and love and is a role model for my boys. We are raising fine young well-adjusted men that don't define their worth (or anyone's) by the paycheck they pull in. Children don't care. My boys don't know anything of salaries, etc. They know their loving rock of a father is present. Sexiest thing ever that I can be supported in *my turn* at career success and have my (very virile, masculine, strong warrior-man) in my corner, carrying the home-front and supporting his wife. (No "watching them stories" for this man. He's too busy in the serious work of growing the next generation of upright men to send out.

  • @2expressmranderson
    @2expressmranderson 3 года назад +1

    One thing is for certain, we undervalue fathers in our society.

  • @New_JAM
    @New_JAM 8 лет назад +11

    drink your coffee Steve. Drink your coffee

  • @lastchanceamv
    @lastchanceamv 8 лет назад +7

    2:54 apply water to the burned area, she literally got roasted there pretty fine xD

  • @mojomaelstrom
    @mojomaelstrom 5 лет назад +1

    The "none of y'all comin' back" line is CLASSIC

  • @RealTakerslady
    @RealTakerslady 8 лет назад +72

    That Latino woman was on point, men need to take their a** to work no matter what. Whether the woman works or not.

    • @jt5646
      @jt5646 8 лет назад +6

      RealTakerslady you know you sound like a feminist right? It's disgusting how you think that way I work at home and sometimes in a office but if a man decides to stay home because he got fired or he can't get a job that is fine while the wife is at work the man can be at home taking care of the kid's and when the wife comes home she sees her kids shower and already have eating than let the man be at home

    • @RealTakerslady
      @RealTakerslady 8 лет назад +9

      Grizz Cmt You don't knoe what a feminist is apparently. A feminist wouldn't care if the man was at home. I'm a traditionalist, men are protector/provider.

    • @jt5646
      @jt5646 8 лет назад +3

      RealTakerslady you know feminist have the ideal that they have more right than a man so by you saying men shouldn't stay home you are implying that womem are only allowed is like saying you aren't allowed to hit a female if she hits you

    • @theblueadventurer615
      @theblueadventurer615 8 лет назад

      not a feminist, a white knight.

    • @bwjoe674
      @bwjoe674 7 лет назад +1

      What if the man works from home? Like a novelist like James Patterson. Or a day trading stock broker who can work from his home computer?

  • @jeddybens780
    @jeddybens780 8 лет назад +1

    the way Steve was sipping his tea and the look he was giving that woman next to him had me rolling

  • @Anthony-wk9sb
    @Anthony-wk9sb 5 лет назад +3

    The women in the red has it spot on we all need a great male role model a mother provides a role model figure with how she raises us a father isn’t as good at providing it, mother are more nurturing and deeply connected to the children they birthed.

  • @Lexmorningstarnz
    @Lexmorningstarnz 6 лет назад +1

    The prime minister of New Zealand, who is a woman, is a working woman about to be the working mother. Her partner will be the stay at home dad. I think that is a great honor! He is giving up his fishing show to stay home, raise their child, so his partner can do her service to the country. This is 2018 people. Stay at home dad's are amazing!! Thank you for all if you do.

    • @lotuswolf1518
      @lotuswolf1518 6 лет назад

      Lex Morningstar ,only strong women believe in gender equality and are cool with idea of stay at home dad, thats why she is prime minister of New Zealand

  • @jennyksslr
    @jennyksslr 6 лет назад

    I had a stay at home father and that was in the 80s-90s my mother worked. I agree with what Steve said, that if it is an economical decision made by both parents. I am so grateful that I had a parent home with me. Now I am a SAHM with husband that provides, because that is what economically works for us. Being a parent is a blessing and isn't always easy... The important thing is that if you have children they need their parents.

  • @ThanuG15
    @ThanuG15 2 года назад +1

    It is easy to forget this but it is okay to have an personal opinion.
    People get too worked up over wanting everyone to agree with you. Your opinion is still valid.

  • @chimchimmochithecatlover6406
    @chimchimmochithecatlover6406 3 года назад +3

    Ancient patriarchal society was harmful not just for women , but also for men. And inequality against men is being acknowledged from just recent years. But we are still far behind .

  • @knockoutking2262
    @knockoutking2262 5 лет назад +5

    Yo good for the stay at home mom standing up and saying something to this extremely liberal crowd and good for Steve backing her up

    • @geremymason5936
      @geremymason5936 4 года назад +2

      Steve knows what up. He tried to be diplomatic but we all know how he feels about the topic.

    • @Jambuc829
      @Jambuc829 3 года назад +1

      @Geremy Mason I know for a fact that you don’t have a daughter.

  • @KindaSweetPotato
    @KindaSweetPotato 7 лет назад +37

    It seems hard for people to see past this whole "man pride". I think we all agree being a parent is hard as hell. But its contradicting to say being a parent is on equal grounding if you wouldnt want your husband to do it because now he's getting off easy and isnt providing. thats doesnt make any sense logically. if my husband wanted to stay at home (seeing as we could afford it economically) then yeah thats cool. Take care of our kids, hold the house down because we will always be a team and whatever I make really is our money. the same goes if I stay home. I personally could not be a stay at home mom forever. I want to work once my children are old enough to go to school, I like to be busy and working so thats really why I would want to work. But again I think being a stay at home parent is a hard and can be a very stressful job. its on the same level as having your typical job and whoever decides to do it in our relationship doesn't matter. the only factor that would really come in is money.

    • @geremymason5936
      @geremymason5936 4 года назад +2

      Its not just about a mans pride - its biology. Women are designed to want to reproduce with the most fit mate available to her that can provide for and protect her and their children. Being a stay at home dad or whatever you want to call it will never be ok with the vast majority of women (as well it shouldn't).

    • @Jambuc829
      @Jambuc829 3 года назад +1

      @Geremy Mason Women are the ones fighting to change that. Too many women back in the day stuck in abusive relationship or cheaters because she depended upon him for survival. Provider also isn’t the same as protector. Times have changed my guy it’s 2021 not the 1940’s. Women are high paid lawyers, doctors, politicians celebrity chefs and engineers. The number of stay at home dads are also going to continue to grow especially with women graduating from college at a higher rate than men in a work force where brute strength is no longer necessary.

  • @kudzaimari
    @kudzaimari 5 лет назад

    Protecting and providing for your family is not only "financial" ........understand that

  • @yanelliflores3417
    @yanelliflores3417 6 лет назад +2

    I LOVE THAT WOMAN IN THE RED DRESS!! YASS GIRL YASS!!!

  • @thdjjfsfh
    @thdjjfsfh 3 года назад +1

    We have two kids and my wife is a nurse. During the early stage of our parenting journey, she does so much more of the children raising than me, because I spend more than half of my waking hours at work. Then COVID happens, and I work at home with my toddlers. I now experience what it's like to be a single dad for what appears to be weeks at a time. It's hard. We decided to stay in a smaller house and drive older cars so we can have more time with our kids. Bringing home money is not the only way to provide for our kids, both parent plays an extremely important role. I would not curse single parenthood to anybody I know, it's not good for the kids or the parent.
    Choose your partner wisely, spend a day with two toddlers and you'll trade those abs and legs for a nurturing personality. I think if we solve the family problems in our culture, our society will be much better off.

  • @cookiemichelle
    @cookiemichelle 3 года назад +1

    Some men are Stay at Home Dads and some are just calling themselves that. Some men are lazy as hell and just say that's what he is doing to be to acceptable. Then some men have the nerve to be 'jealous' or feel emasculated ; the women is the bread winner. If you choose to be a slacker, you need to own the feelings that come with it.

  • @JokerG16
    @JokerG16 8 лет назад +7

    I don't mind a stay at home parent, no matter the gender. However, what's the point in racking up THOUSANDS in student loan debt if you're going to CHOOSE to stay at home because you WANT to?

  • @ehteshamshaikh883
    @ehteshamshaikh883 5 лет назад

    Juanita is the perfect example of best wife ... lady props to u

  • @Newseason392
    @Newseason392 6 лет назад +4

    I would NEVER accept it. My husband either!

  • @zero1188
    @zero1188 6 лет назад +10

    junita. "being a father to his kids make him a punk"

    • @geremymason5936
      @geremymason5936 4 года назад +1

      Thats not what she said. She's saying a man not going to work to provide for his family is punking out.

  • @xuxushushu
    @xuxushushu 5 лет назад

    My fiancé wants me to get out and make girl friends, he suggested a part time job so I can also make use of my time. He worries for me because I have chronic depression and PTSD, and wouldn’t want me to be left alone while he’s at work. He stressed that none of the money I’d make would go into the household - it’s mine to do whatever I want with it. He wants to provide for the both of us, luxuries included. He believes it’s his job as a man to take care of me emotionally, mentally, and financially. He also asked that once I’m pregnant, I should stay home and only worry about that. He’s a traditionalist and wants me to put the kids first and I will. All that to say, people are different. The lady in the red has no place to tear down another woman who chooses a different path than she. We can give our opinions without being mean.

  • @mzprincess1996
    @mzprincess1996 8 лет назад +1

    I completely agree with Steve.

  • @Black_Samurai-fish
    @Black_Samurai-fish 3 года назад +1

    A man should provide and a woman should take care of the kids. Although I will say that having a dad at home is better than a baby sitter.

  • @user-eo4px2cu4v
    @user-eo4px2cu4v Год назад

    Whatever works for your own household. Period.

  • @Shewas-kathybates
    @Shewas-kathybates 6 лет назад

    “Right cause you too busy having sex”
    Steve sips tea
    LMFAOO damn

  • @ThatGuy-km1lc
    @ThatGuy-km1lc 5 лет назад

    Stay at home mom is needed

  • @andrakarsten226
    @andrakarsten226 5 лет назад

    I was stay at home mom for a few years because I was ill and couldn't work. Now my son is old enough where he can stay after school, I don't need to drive him around so I am going to start working in the new year. I will never be okay with my husband staying home, by choice. Not that he will ever so that. But for the sake of our sex life, you gotta be the man.

  • @MarkKilmer89
    @MarkKilmer89 8 лет назад

    Staying home with family is a privilege and chivalrous tradition that men should want to give to their wife. When I was working and my wife was offered a job making $10k more than me, I was not too proud to let her accept it. All of the looks and comments I get about "a special day with Daddy" at the park, the grocery store, and the doctors office don't go unnoticed, I just don't care because I know that my kids are being taught our values and not those of a daycare worker.

    • @agirlyoudontknow332
      @agirlyoudontknow332 8 лет назад

      i completely agree. why have someone else take care of yours when you can provide so much more to them.

  • @federal_agent9673
    @federal_agent9673 4 года назад

    I don't understand how "slut-shamming" is even a bad thing. If you sleep around all the time, don't expect not to get judged. This goes for both men and women

  • @LisaAnn164
    @LisaAnn164 6 лет назад

    I believe that the man/ husband is to be the provider for his family.

    • @IvoryTaurean
      @IvoryTaurean 6 лет назад

      Elizabeth Anders it can be both ways see that's the problem here a lot of women always look at it like it's a pride thing with us men well I could save for probably most men but not for me I honestly I don't need a housewife. And I'm not ashamed to admit that. I don't need a housewife I'm a grown man I live alone. I can cook and clean for myself. I've done it for the majority of my life. So I honestly don't need that. What I appreciate more is a woman who has the drive and ambition to better herself professionally. Because I have the drive and ambition to better myself and to me that shows a testament of your character integrity and commitment. and I need somebody who has that. maybe I'm being too practical here maybe I'm being a little too logical for me it's not an economic thing for me it's just I'd rather see that time and effort into getting an education put to practical use rather than just doing nothing with it and that has always been pretty much my make-up if there's no practical application for it I want nothing to do with it. The funny thing is is a lot of times women have the standards in men that they will never meet he has to make six figures he has to have a nice house, no kids, he has to have a nice car but yet on the other hand you have no job, 2-4 kids, you still living with your parents, and your car keeps breaking down. And then get mad when a man turns and leaves for a woman closer to his own level. This is why I say to those women who want to sit here and try to have these ridiculous standards because they want to feel like they should just have to be a wife and a mother and nothing else. those requirements that women keep preaching about about you all want a man that makes a lot of money and has a nice house and has a nice cars you need to start acquiring that yourself maybe then we'll talk.

    • @LisaAnn164
      @LisaAnn164 6 лет назад

      Ivory Alexander The Topic for the Segment of the show was "Should Women Date a Man Who is Unemployed"? Well...the question was asked; and the anser was given. Do not get angry with is for it. First of all, I have NEVER given any indication that a man NEEDS to have a top-level education, six-figure income, a nice house(though it would be nice...but not a major requirement), the perfect type of job, etc. I consider the man as the provider and protector for his family. Therefore, it is important for him to have a job; because (at least to me) it shows that he responsible as a man and he is able to stand on his own...Asked and ANSWERED.
      It seems to me that alot of men become upset when they hear women say that they would rather not date(or marry) men who are unemployed; and we(as women) are called "goldiggers" and "materialistic". I for one am not. Let's get that straight. Yes...I desire to date(in my case marry) a man who is employed, has his own place to live, and yes...even has is own car. This shows to me that he is responsible, takes care of himself, and can stand on his own. I have mentioned NOTHING about his education, type of job, NOR amount of money he should make. Again, I am no "goldigger". I have my own income, have a place of my own, can stand on my own, AND I HAVE NO CHILDREN. I desire (and expect) for the man in my life to do the same as well. The question was asked; and the answer was given. Do not get angry at us women because of it.

  • @pmbarro
    @pmbarro 6 лет назад

    Being a stay at home wife is not that hard as they say. They just use it as an excuse. What's so hard about waking up, being in your pjs all day, and putting cartoons for the kids to watch while no one tells you what to do and when to do it. As opposed to walking up early 5 day's a week, getting ready, having a boss tell you what to do all day, be mentally and physically tired then come home to a woman that can't even cook you a decent meal. Frustrating.

  • @chimchimmochithecatlover6406
    @chimchimmochithecatlover6406 3 года назад +2

    Just one thing.........its their choice.

  • @rodneyoneale5935
    @rodneyoneale5935 2 года назад

    Day is and will always be the one to provide unless disabled

  • @Ebizzill
    @Ebizzill 7 лет назад

    That escalated quickly ma'. Calm down. Plus its not easy for people to just get jobs after a job loss. Sometimes even the stay at home mom has more credentials (college educated) and has an easier time to get a job faster than the guy.. who may not be accredited. I say, sometimes times are hard, and do what life throws at you.

  • @zabisidiqkhil5726
    @zabisidiqkhil5726 6 лет назад

    The lady in dress, what an Honorable lady,

  • @swoosh3684
    @swoosh3684 6 лет назад +4

    Men provide, women look good. Anyone want to object?

  • @natalieestremera2057
    @natalieestremera2057 5 лет назад

    What is wrong with people. To see a man do what a women does by nature is just awesome. Is peaceful to know that a husband has that commitment to their family and not only say "I Bring home the money"

  • @xoprincesseboni
    @xoprincesseboni 8 лет назад +1

    Stay at home dad? Man up!

  • @joebermuda6452
    @joebermuda6452 5 лет назад

    I have no interest in being a stay at home dad but men should never be judged by it.

  • @scpeddd
    @scpeddd 7 лет назад

    It really should depend on the couple like Steve said. Personally, I wouldn't mind going to work while he is at home. It depends on the person. I don't understand what is so wrong in that? If you feel the man should be the provider, thats great but don't say that someone who doesn't prefer that is wrong.

  • @kevinrogers4733
    @kevinrogers4733 8 лет назад +8

    Joe don't look like a dame 24 look like 34 years 😅 I'm 24 n look like high school student still wtf 😥

    • @livelaughloathe
      @livelaughloathe 5 лет назад

      kevin rogers bahaha I was thinking the same thing!

  • @K.I.A22
    @K.I.A22 6 лет назад

    I agree with the red one.

  • @Wawgrp
    @Wawgrp 6 лет назад

    I support stay at home dads. You’re providing for your kids by being their dad and who said that work/money is the only way dads can provide. It’s all about exchange of services. It’s your choice.

  • @Yocarisfastlike
    @Yocarisfastlike 8 лет назад +27

    But that home maker role isn't for men

    • @nombulelomthimkulu4167
      @nombulelomthimkulu4167 8 лет назад +3

      100% agree

    • @timothiturner5218
      @timothiturner5218 8 лет назад +5

      but why cant it be ;I

    • @leslieblanco3536
      @leslieblanco3536 8 лет назад +8

      no its not her job by nature. Men can do it too and im sick of this sexist and gender role society. Take care of your kids guys. It's not a sole woman's job.

    • @akalinerfesen8515
      @akalinerfesen8515 8 лет назад +1

      women are better with kids than men.

    • @leslieblanco3536
      @leslieblanco3536 8 лет назад +5

      Akali Nerfesen
      men can be better at it too, they just need to at least try.

  • @fhuber7507
    @fhuber7507 6 лет назад

    Whoever can make the most money should be allowed to make the money.
    Fine with me.
    It is usually better for kids to have the mom at home because when you get a scraped knee and mom is home, she'll kiss it and make it better. If dad is home he'll say "rub dirt in it and walk it off."
    Its just the difference in how men and women handle things.

  • @ricardohd2365
    @ricardohd2365 5 лет назад

    They all be misunderstanding each other.

  • @mennoshouseofmusic1214
    @mennoshouseofmusic1214 6 лет назад

    My wife is leading Twitch Germany, Austria & Switzerland. I am a musician and I raise my 2 kids!

  • @KrypptikkSoulslayer
    @KrypptikkSoulslayer 2 года назад

    👏 Real Talk 👏

  • @shexwendy
    @shexwendy 4 года назад

    Juanita sounds like Cardi B 💀😭

  • @426blackheart
    @426blackheart 7 лет назад +5

    first off I lost it when the chick in red decided to throw shade at the woman next her and Steve decided it was going to be invisible lol. secondly isn't what she saying kinda double standards? I mean if I met a woman and we had 2 kids and she makes 170 grand a year while I only make 55 grand and everything is paid so basically we just throwing money in the bank to save but still living good why can't a guy stay at home with the kids? if the tables was flipped No one would bat a eye at the woman for deciding to stay home. men are just as capable of raising kids as woman are. single father's do it all the time. I have some strong female friends who always say they wanna stand shoulder to shoulder with men in the world. fine then we gotta start losing the double standard b.s. they don't want to hear that though. just my opinion

  • @TheLatinGQ
    @TheLatinGQ 3 года назад +1

    Juanita was saying things 5yrs ago that Kevin Samuels is saying now.

  • @Femi925
    @Femi925 8 лет назад +14

    Chick in the red is full of herself.

  • @gulsarah7779
    @gulsarah7779 5 лет назад +1

    No men GOTTA WORK and PROVIDE for family! That's why you are man! You are called man!!!

  • @pandasworld4168
    @pandasworld4168 7 лет назад

    2:59 was epic

  • @DESMONDWOLF11
    @DESMONDWOLF11 6 лет назад

    The reality is that in this current time it takes two incomes to SURVIVE in today's society.Everything is so much more expensive from food, bills, etc... That way if one lost his or her job there's at least one income to keep the family afloat until the other gets a new job. Both parties should work, share household duties, and above all else rise the children..... It's funny that this thinking is still the majority. The same women that says "he should provide" are the same women that complain the man only works and not help out around the house....

  • @aliciamarie5666
    @aliciamarie5666 7 лет назад

    juanita jst showing her kids that they needa find a lady that js gon take care of kids and stay home

  • @dM0NiQUE
    @dM0NiQUE 8 лет назад

    I think what people need to realize is that everyone has different upbringing and experience. I do not have kids and I am not married but I do come from a religious background.Juanita seems to not only be very traditional but she has religion tied to her views as well. I am not saying that the way she responded, to the woman in the purple dress beside her, was okay but I can understand why she would say what she said and believe that is okay. as a woman and as a man sex is something sacred and should be saved for marriage. in addition, the man is seen as the provider for most religions. And growing up a Christian I understand why that is. Seeing how the wage gap still exists most men can make a larger salary than women however this is not always the case. Also men can't carry a children and pregnancy is not always an awesome experience it can be complicated and take a toll on the mother being able to bond with your newborn and have the time off is well deserved.

  • @Mustafa-yw7cl
    @Mustafa-yw7cl 2 года назад

    There’s a reason the only married (with children) woman there is Juanita. If you’re not married, you don’t know what it’s like to be married and if you don’t have children you don’t know what that’s like either, having nephews and nieces don’t mean you have children and cats/dogs don’t count either lol

  • @HugeFan2
    @HugeFan2 7 лет назад

    Hate this discussion. It should go both ways

  • @sankhawkulathantille
    @sankhawkulathantille 6 лет назад +1

    Stay at home husband and a working wife is like when you see a couple in the beach holding hands, but the man is wearing the bikini and the woman is wearing board shorts. Just not pretty to look at.

  • @kittytaughtu
    @kittytaughtu 6 лет назад +1

    I don't like the way they treat Katherine. The other woman is wrong for trying to exclude others opinion just bc they don't have kids.

  • @anshgupta7805
    @anshgupta7805 2 года назад +1

    So finally, kids the the problem 🤣

  • @renedavila654
    @renedavila654 5 лет назад

    some people need to check out Chris Rock's Difference Between Men and Women. Especially about the part how women view men that either work too much or not at all, or if women work or want to be kept.

  • @marvadawes5343
    @marvadawes5343 6 лет назад +11

    King James Version
    But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel. 1 Timothy 5:8. A man is supposed to be the provider for his family. This is from God.

    • @MichaelVII_
      @MichaelVII_ 5 лет назад +1

      This is written by man from they think is God.

  • @slap_A_flamingo
    @slap_A_flamingo 3 года назад +1

    Bet Steve regretted this move.

  • @blueburaq
    @blueburaq 5 лет назад

    I feel bad for her boyfriend. You already know who I'm talking about

  • @Kami0879
    @Kami0879 5 лет назад

    Whatever each family chooses is okay. But it is in a woman's DNA to raise children. It is in a man's DNA to provide for his family.

  • @neversaygoodbye4
    @neversaygoodbye4 2 года назад

    Steve didn’t know what he signed up for!

  • @seayeoconversations
    @seayeoconversations 7 лет назад

    Steve love the show man omg you are a trip

  • @kimberlyeder4162
    @kimberlyeder4162 Год назад +2

    God meant for men to lead, provide and protect.

    • @forthdimension686
      @forthdimension686 Год назад

      And women were meant to be followers, not working and protected. Women abandoned their post for ours and try and shame men for taking over their post.

    • @kimberlyeder4162
      @kimberlyeder4162 Год назад

      @@forthdimension686 Women were meant to be their husband’s helpmate. That covered a lot of responsibilities.

  • @jeanlola1
    @jeanlola1 6 лет назад

    Best episode ever 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @Seasstryu1251
    @Seasstryu1251 6 лет назад

    Oh look at that, woman in red chooses to be sexist again and say "He HAS to do that" whilst not realizing that she'd be just as much of a punk if what she is saying is true. And yelling "DO YOU HAVE KIDS?!" when it is irrelevant and interrupting people isn't gonna change anything.

  • @Chrisbit1
    @Chrisbit1 7 лет назад +6

    I hate this whole "traditionalist" idea that the man is the provider and the woman is the nurturer, we aren't in the 1950's anymore, if a man chooses to stay home and take care of the house and kids (or just the house) that is great and if his wife wants to go out and work that is also great. In other countries in the world, men and women can choose who stays home and who works (I live in France and this is the case) and it doesn't attack their gender. This single idea of what it is to be a "man" or "woman" is just soo stupid. There's NOTHING wrong with a man or woman being a stay at home parent, if it works for the couple, who the hell cares.

  • @unknowing203
    @unknowing203 7 лет назад

    that's a first ask Steve's smackdown going on

  • @cristianmojica9944
    @cristianmojica9944 4 года назад

    The stay at home mom in the red/pink sounds like she's using the "robbing him of his manhood" as an excuse to stay at home and not have to work

  • @Rakhilya
    @Rakhilya 5 лет назад

    I notice that moms that only have boys or only girls are a little kuku about their mission of raising the next generation. Also kids are not the center of the family. The husband and the wife are. Period!

  • @keepitsexyrenae1
    @keepitsexyrenae1 3 года назад

    If we are both working to provide and take care of our child then that's a win. But if the woman decided to stay home that's okay to. But that's not the choice I want. I choose to work.

  • @GoddessBlueYozakura7
    @GoddessBlueYozakura7 7 лет назад

    The women in red is a married woman with children. She's talking about her values in her HUSBAND as the man works to PROVIDE for the family.
    That's the old school way and everyone knows that's how the family unit started.
    Steve Harvey has always said the protect, profess and provide.
    She didn't slut shame the 24 year old she just said you're too busy "fuc***king" to get this concept. lol Remember she says she slept with 20 men. No one needed to know that as no one actually asked her.
    When she said "I know alot of men" lol everyone started laughing as she had to correct them on the "not he ones i've slept with".
    I don't see anything wrong how she put that chick on blast.
    Also studies have shown that stay at home dads or house husbands that rely on their wives are more likely to cheat to prove their ...wait for it... Masculinity!
    So 95% of the time it's not for the good of the family so he needs to keep his butt at work if you actually want to keep him at all.
    The stats showed 28% of women agreed and even 18% of men agreed. That right there shows what most studies will tell you.

  • @michaelogbebor4582
    @michaelogbebor4582 7 лет назад +248

    "Do you have children?"
    No
    "You are too busy having sex thats why"
    O my lawddddddddddd

    • @SafexTrip
      @SafexTrip 6 лет назад +19

      She was so right about that.

    • @jessicarose5674
      @jessicarose5674 6 лет назад +40

      That annoyed me , cause she was more than likely getting around before she got married 🙄

    • @sudipanand7898
      @sudipanand7898 6 лет назад

      Michael Ogbebor 😂😂😂

    • @danielg1461
      @danielg1461 6 лет назад +7

      Jessica Rose not every girl goes around being independent(independent my ass just a bunch of sluts)

    • @Supahead79
      @Supahead79 2 года назад +10

      I would have told her that just because you know to make and have a baby doesn't mean you know how to raise one

  • @BoodaSDavis
    @BoodaSDavis 8 лет назад +1031

    This got real ..... REAL QUICK 😳

    • @swoosh3684
      @swoosh3684 6 лет назад +4

      REEEAL QUICK

    • @dawnrivera6158
      @dawnrivera6158 5 лет назад +2

      It sure did lol

    • @michaelx697
      @michaelx697 3 года назад +6

      Cuz dat person in red keeps makin it personal like tf wrong wit her

    • @Supahead79
      @Supahead79 3 года назад +6

      @@michaelx697 She's a "pick me" girl who needs a man to feel validated

    • @Mae-rr5ye
      @Mae-rr5ye 2 года назад

      😬

  • @uniquelyme913
    @uniquelyme913 7 лет назад +81

    My dad was a stay at home dad with me for the first 3 years of my life. My dad decided he wanted to take on a more active role in my upbringing, and it was great. He'd do the housework while I slept and we spent the rest of the time doing things together, I can't say I have ever viewed him as any less of a man because of this, and my relationship with my mum has never suffered due to her working.

    • @hughdenault3097
      @hughdenault3097 2 года назад +2

      Children will always love their dad when they do that, but it is the wife that eventually loses respect for her husband. They support it at first, but at some point they start to look at their 'man' differently. Thousands of women were interviewed about this and admitted what I am saying.

    • @christophercrutchfield1804
      @christophercrutchfield1804 2 года назад

      Your daddy wasn’t s***

    • @simplyelvi5676
      @simplyelvi5676 Год назад +1

      @@hughdenault3097 exactly. This is exactly what happened in my household including my mother losing respect

    • @hughdenault3097
      @hughdenault3097 Год назад

      @@simplyelvi5676 I'm sorry that you had to experience that. If women focused on being the best wives and mothers, and men focused on being the best husbands and fathers, there would be a lot less going wrong in the world today. We live in a very selfish society where people are programmed to focus on 'me, me, me'. As a young person, you must be careful, and be aware that there is a lot going on in our society today that is focused on subtly programming people into unhealthy habits. Much of what we now see on TV, movies, music and even being taught in schools is unnatural. I have found that whenever something doesn't seem right, if you take it back to nature and how it was suppose to function, that seems to fix the problem. And I have found the best source for wisdom, direction, and to explain much of the madness in the world today is the Bible.
      I will give you the same advice I've given to my daughters. Our lives are like ships at sea. And if you stay focused on Jesus, He will always guide you to safety and to where you want to end up, whether the waters are calm or if in terrible storms. In fact, its when going through the terrible storms where we see and feel His presence the most.

    • @queenpanda26
      @queenpanda26 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@hughdenault3097What a stupid thing to say, who taught you to be so delusional

  • @JoeSmith-le2nk
    @JoeSmith-le2nk 8 лет назад +10

    Only gold diggers don't approve of stay at home dads. They just want the man to make all the money and pay for everything.

  • @amandaclbn8324
    @amandaclbn8324 8 лет назад +910

    Juanita constantly contradicts herself. I can't take her seriously

    • @CreativelyPhoenix
      @CreativelyPhoenix 8 лет назад +29

      I'm glad I'm not the only one who saw that

    • @Jayli0
      @Jayli0 8 лет назад

      +Mandy X'O-twod Which one is Juanita?

    • @CreativelyPhoenix
      @CreativelyPhoenix 8 лет назад +1

      +Jayli0 in the orangish-red dress

    • @Jayli0
      @Jayli0 8 лет назад +2

      drivenpoet I knew it lol

    • @bbtdrums1
      @bbtdrums1 8 лет назад +1

      +Mandy X'O-twod lol like for real. Like SHUT UPPP