The fact that April allowed that to happen for so long and to that degree shows she has absolutely no respect for her boyfriend. She’s just using him as a placeholder until she gets what she really wants! That man should walk away from that drama. He seems like a nice man so he can do a lot better.
That’s right if I was the boy friend I would’ve been put this fool in his place and let him know you are putting yourself in a position to get a cussing out or a ass whooping for being disrespectful and I would’ve let the girl friend know if you continue to be friends with him and all of this drama I’m gone have to make you choose if you choose to continue to be friends with this fool you and me are finished and that would’ve been it and that’s all she wrote.
Skinny dude was obviously the better choice. And he isn't going to marry her for whatever reason. She needs someone who can say what Harvey said. Which is not what her current boyfriend is capable of.
This is not hoe--ness.this is insecurity Manifesting itself in a way that prompts greater attention from Her man through the perceived competition her best friend has, Thus causing and exploiting the "if she spends so much time and gets along so well with him, then what's my usefulness to her " thought. Not every negative action a person commits in their own personal love life boils things down to "hoe" or "fuc boi". The underlying problems with themselves and society are more complicated then that
She’s more disrespectful than the best friend because honestly she knew how her “man” felt and knew he had problem with asserting himself and instead of then handling the problem herself and going to her best friend, she let this drag on to TV and let her boyfriend be humiliated. Gotta throw the whole gf away 🚮
April is totally into her "friend." She is all smiles when he speaks and annoyed when her boyfriend talks. She looks mad when Steve is telling her "friend" off. Her boyfriend needs to know his worth and move on to a woman who wants him, appreciates him and deserves him.
Absolutely! Damn, you were reading my mind. Her clear body language is a sign she’s with the bs her bff gives her bf. Hell two children and you’re the stepdad? Ask yourself what really happened to those men or man?
I hope April is ready to be a single mom for life because with her "bestfriend" around, that is not unlikely. No man will stand with that type of disrespect.
Man if it was me, first thing He wouldn't have a key to their place, 2nd he wouldn't be tagging along everywhere they go. I would be gone way before this
My man better put a ring on it💍 we’re past the boyfriend phase. You serious with me, my children and the home we live in them you might as well seal the deal 👏🏽 Until then, my best friend will always come around
Bye April! The boyfriend shouldn't have to check the best friend about boundaries, April should. He should be looking for a new woman that respects a relationship with him
He is merely a boyfriend. He don't have them rights to be dictating who comes in and out of HER house. She's had many "boyfriends" over the 20 years they've been friends, and he's godfather to her two kids. Their friendship is lasting, a boyfriend is not.
@@juliessealcazar4884 facts you would already let it be known if she really cared she would of let it been known you my friend but i respect my man if you cant understand then idk what to tell you
She dont respect the boyfriend. That issue should have been resolved long before now. Obviously he doesn't mind her having male friends so he gets whatever he gets.
When he said “I’m not going anywhere” that was an instant alarm going off for me. He made it confrontational for no reason and into a competition. He knows what he’s doing.
Thanks Steve for showing the polite man how to stand his ground and be respected. A lot of good men lack such father figures and that's why "good men" tend to be seen as "weak".
I’m going to keep it all the way real bout this subject if that was me and the best friend talking I would’ve been kicked off the show for cussing 🤬 and I would’ve made April make a decision. The best friend was out of line for what I said I would’ve put them hands on him. This is why a man and woman can’t be friends.
TIt for tat isn't going to work if he wants to build his relationship with her. That's great if he's done and wants to show her what it feels like, but not if he wants to spend the rest of his life with her.
*This is why I don't really like the whole opposite best friend thing. Your best friend of opposite sex is your significant other. You're building your life around the new person, starting a family, etc. It doesn't really matter if you've known the other person since childhood. You're not building a future with that childhood friend. Priorities change.*
it dont have to be in that way she could like her bestfriend more than her bf but in different ways but she still valuse her bestfriend more...you know.
If April were told to choose between the two of them she would choose her "friend" in a heartbeat. You know good and well that the "friend" made a copy of that key before he "gave it back."
Leander Gates By having a male friend. I would not allow myself to get involve with a woman with male friends, if she needs to have a male friend there is the door. And my wife well understands this. Male acquaintances is ok, a male best friend that has her phone number is a big no.
This is ridiculous. the boyfriend should have enough balls to say to April that if she wants to entertain the other guy, then he'll leave and walk away. No guy should have to fight for a woman who clearly is accepting advances from another guy
@ms gonsalves I wonder why you think any guy will feel comfortable putting “a ring on it” when you clearly don’t respect him by allowing your best friend to be invasive. Will you feel comfortable marrying a guy that allows his female best friend invade in your relationship that way?
@@ireoluwaige I have male best friends and a boyfriend. My man doesn’t feel insecure about my childhood friends and he’s meet them. If you wants to be serious with me and build a life, like I said seal the deal and you’ll ALWAYS have privileges more than my friends BY DEFAULT. That’s the difference between a husband and a boyfriend.
+Mo'Niique M How about she just tell the best friend to give them some space...he obviously wouldn't keep doing it unless she's allowing it. The boyfriend shouldn't have to say anything to him...he tells his girl how he feels, she tells her best friend..that's how it works.
Nah. The boyfriend should have grabbed his y chromosome a long time ago and told her if this issue with him isn't resolved, hes leaving. I mean they probably wouldn't be together because she doesnt seem to respect him but at least he wouldn't have been sitting here on national tv looking like a fool.
Totally wrong....she raised a weak man, that’s not a good man. He’s polite to FAULT, and it’s probably not the moms fault it’s probably his dads fault for not being a role model. Masculinity can’t be taught by moms, no matter how great they are
I see a well cultured man there, and for all you who think he was weak, its not his place to tell another man to back off from his girlfriend.... So that's where I see the "weak" version of him. If a lady actually don't wanna lose you, she won't leave it in your hands.
yeah u said it. The guy was is nice and trying to be calm n good in front of her gal. You push that boy to the edge n he gonna knock his punk ass slim ass to the ground. She doesn't even understand how much privacy her best friend is invading.
She could’ve been stepped in but i guess she just likes her attention and/or doesn’t give af that it makes her bf feel some type of way.. either way it’s disrespectful to the bf and he should leave her. They’re both in the wrong for letting her best friend run their relationship, she’s more wrong for not checking him after she realized it wasn’t in her bf’s personality to do so.
+Morpheus Magnus Alden is the Beta. Steve is the Alpha. I assume Isaiah is a Beta trying to be an Alpha. There's a documentary on RUclips that details the difference between the two. I'll try to find the link.
Morpheus Magnus the alpha is the one in the pink. beta in purple
6 лет назад+20
Steve is "acting" like what he thinks an Alpha male should be and Isaiah is definitely Beta but I think that they are both giving me a VERY STRONG effeminate vibe underneath.
If he was a true friend, he wouldn't be interfering with his best friend relationship. The boyfriend seems like a really nice (not weak) guy who isn't wired to show aggression.
Nice has nothing to do with it. Hes extremely passive and non-confrontational. He wonders why the girlfriend and the best friend don't give him any respect - its because he doesn't command it. He seriously up here letting the friend dictate his relationship and saying "please."
He's just not mad yet,I understand him. When you have dealt with bigger things you're conservative of what you expend you're energy in. He gets furious he's probably like me. You either get a concussion or get your act right. There's no in between. Before that,you can get away with murder. But after that,raise your finger and I'll break it.
@@samuelmuiga3101 that’s what’s confusing me. The males I’m around make their point known early. And they rarely make their request more than once. So once I hear “he ain’t mad yet” or “he don’t want to expend energy into this situation”, I automatically think that he doesn’t care. Maybe it’s his friends in his ear telling him that something isn’t right with his girl and her bff’s relationship. He does seem very passive, and someone’s got to be dominant in the relationship.
@@LeoGeminiPassyon dude cares. He's scared out of his mind the friend is after his girl. He literally came on national TV because he's that afraid. He's just passive and nonconfrontational. He knows something is wrong with the relationship but doesn't want to upset his girlfriend by setting boundaries.
Yes he’s a good and respectful and level headed guy I respect him for trying to keep it clean but he has to come to a point sometimes in life you can’t play nice with people you half to get dirty and firm to the point and that’s it the best friend is to damn arrogant and cocky needs a good old ass whooping he would be humble and that’s the bottom line.
What kind of bf gives a "best friend," a key to the apartment? That is jacked up, man. But he seems like Steve was right. He wasn't putting his foot down.
This is really not his problem he needs to have a talk with his girlfriend and she needs to set boundaries if she respects her man at all. He really shouldn't worry about this guy whatsoever he's a insecure narcissist and neither him nor his girlfriend even realize that yet. He is going to be constant drama in both their lives until he's cut out of the picture. Narcissist thrive on drama and attention good or bad.
This Isaiah dude was also on divorce court. Incidentally, he was there complaining that *his* GF was inappropriately close with her best friend. This all sounds mighty fishy to me 🤨
The boyfriend needs to put HER in check most of all. The best friend can't come around if she doesn't allow him to come around. How does he know where they are on their dates? Why is he allowed to come over unannounced? If the boyfriend doesn't get her in check, it's gonna be the same problem all over again in 6 months.
TBH! The friend acc comes accross as the real boyfriend. All I can see is nods of approval between the girl and the friend. 😂😂😂😂😂 These two must have broken up by now
Figs3 These kinds of friendships are more complicated. I have a best friend as close as this (20 yrs long) and in the past she acted like she was in competition with my bfs.. To the point where a few times I thought she didn't want me with anyone out of jealousy that someone was closely sharing her space in my life. They do have to learn to respect a more serious relationship if the bff really is for you and cares to see you happy.
пока I understand where you are coming from, but I have seen on too many occasions where the significant other has a problem with the best friend. So they give them an ultimatum, and they choose the relationship. Which is insane to me. Like I've known you for years I've been with you crying, ups and down but because your relationship has a problem with me we can't hang out? But because your happy, forget me right? Naw.
@@Figs3her telling him that he has to notify them before he comes over and return their key shouldn't ruin their friendship if he's really her best friend and that's it. I wouldn't want my s/o to put me in that situation and I wouldn't put her in that situation.
+shomifochap3 Because steve was the one talking...let this be Jamarcus (i didn't catch the boyfriend's name) having this same conversation with the best friend back home talkin bout "this is what you gonna do....". If this man is bold enough to just be walkin up in your home whenever he feels like it 1) he has no respect for you 2) he ain threatened by you.
I believe it's up to her to tell her friend that he is over stepping his boundaries out of her respect to the boyfriend. She should never put her boyfriend in a position to fight the guy because she wants him around. A real woman would tell her own friend to back off. She don't respect her boyfriend and if I was the boyfriend I would give her the ultimatum. It's either him or me. I'm not throwing hands over a woman that's stupid.
@@harshdarji1122 if it does so be it, she already letting her best friend be too involved in her relationship so if he checked her best friend and she got mad at him then he need to drop her ass too
Steve is soo good! Loved how he took care of the situation. That friend dude was trash… the man shouldn’t be with that girl who can’t stand up for her man. If my best friend talked that way with my man i would cut her off from my life completely.
Nah. She's taking liberties because she knows he will allow it. I aint mad at the woman because if he's just going to say "ok" and allow it, who am I to say she's wrong for going with it?
I don't think so😐 arrogance is 100% percent negative.. But the way the boyfriend is... Has both negative and positive sides depending on the situation and the person you're dealing with. ..
Hannah H because the arrogant guy doesn’t validate her and she’s always chasing his validation. The nice guy always validates her and comes off as needy.
I understand what Isiah was saying to Alton .... stand up be a man show me that you have her back and that I can fall back and I will do just that ... It seems Isiah and April had each other's back for along time Alton couldn't even demand respect in his own home .... So I was right there with Steve when he said stop asking and tell him how it's going to be from now on !
You just said something that makes this whole situation makes sense. No wonder the best friend didnt back off. If the bf cant stand up to him how can he stand up for the gf with someone else
My ex had a guy friend that she was used to going on exercise walks with on certain mornings. I was wary of the idea at first, of course. I did my best to get a full understanding from her as to the nature and dynamics of her relationship with him. As I got to know her better, I believed she was honest that it was platonic. Rather than just act on my natural male instinct, which said "no dudes when I'm not around and especially if I don't know them". I was determined not to react out of prejudice, though. So, I became eager to meet him, so I could see him with my own eyes, talk to him and feel him out for myself. He wasn't like this guy. He didn't assert himself into her life. She obviously made me a priority and we spent a lot of time together, doing a lot of things. So after awhile her relationship to him was barely a notion for me. We actually went to his house for parties and stuff. I never had to say anything to him. He was happy for her and was occasionally occupied in trying to have a relationship of his own. She is now a former girlfriend but not because of him.
Lmao the last part sums up the whole ordeal or fiasco or whatever you want to call this. With all due respect to you bro....she belongs to the street for making you go through that. And you are to blame as well for enabling that. But no hope's lost....a big bullet missed you and you should learn ffom that. You deserve better than her and next time make sure to be respected
@@josephinestafford4466 outside of a relationship go ahead. But as soon as you enter a relationship good luck finding a ma that is willing to accept your plan b’s and plan c’s. But I understand I’m insecure because I know what kind of men want to be around women that have a partner.
At 6:09 April whole mood seemed like it has changed. She was smiling when her best friend was talking big to her boyfriend until Steve stepped in to help.
steve is such a character! he played it so good! the boyfriend just needs to be firm and real. straight face. no jokes! Say what u mean and mean exactly what you say!
What the boyfriend wants is for her best friend to respect their relationship as boyfriend/girlfriend and give them space. If he starts being aggressive, his girlfriend is gonna blame him for chasing away her best friend, which is why he's begging him to stop.
I have noticed than men do this like a barking dog instead of the person holding the leash. What I mean by that is the all aggressive / possessive and threatening, and not like how Steve talked to the guy, setting up boundaries and what happens when those are broken. But this was just one sided. Because he did not address the issue of the girlfriend, which is something a boyfriend may have. Which is interesting on it's own. Considering that the girlfriend accepts all of this.
He should confront her first & talk to her in a good way & ask her what she really wants & what she's looking for. Let her choose who she wants to be with forever. Like bring the other guy & you guys stay on opposite sides & her in the middle. Let her choose. That way you'll know if she's the one for you or a waste of time
This wouldn't have been an issue from the beginning if: A) she respected her boyfriend and didn't allow her "best friend" to overstep his boundaries. B) If the boyfriend had some self-respect and walked away from the very beginning.
I love the way that Steve showed the young man how to approach the situation because not only does the other guy respect that but SHE respects it as well. He was trying to sugar coat something that needed to be dealt with directly.
I dated more than one girl who had a male best friend. VERY annoying the way these guys slither and sniff around and constantly third wheel with you. This video brought back a lot of memories, especially the tendency these weak men have to invite themselves along to your dates. Can't respect a man who interferes in another man's relationship on the grounds he is a friend. Only date women who have female best friends.
I have guy friends and don't allow any disrespect towards my man. So don't go around saying don't date women with guy friends. Should be, don't date women who don't demand her friends to respect her man
Steve did NOT come for this game... He was hoping the WHOLE time that this was HIS situation so he could mud-stomp said "BEST FRIEND".. and I agree. Who TF are you to give me YOUR rules of MY relationship? Boy puhleeze
+Chanel Champ Exactly. Boyfriend outranks best friend in the importance stakes, and the boyfriend should make it clear the b/f sets the terms of access, not the best friend.
@@tristanmatierrienne2397 That's true, but as a man you can't let another man disrespect you. Especially in your home. He would had gotten his ass whoop a long time ago.
Who is giving this dude an itinerary....The best friend doesn't know the schedule, until someone informs him. How does he know when to show up at HS grandmother's house, at a restaurant or any engagement unless someone tells him FIRST where they are headed. If you don't want anyone in your business, keep them out of your business.
You can see he can't see her that way. His tone, attitude and demeanor would have been a bit different. He wasn't going to fight for her love. He was standing up for her. There is something no one is saying. He told him put a ring on it. Boyfriend paused. Boyfriend stuttered when he said he wants to. Friend challenged him with kids. Boyfriend paused again. And hesitation kicked in. Friend is looking at things from the outside looking in with the window open. Boyfriend is right in front and can't see like many others. Sometimes a person has to choose. Lose a friend of 20 years. Lose a boyfriend of 6 months. Or lose both. And start over again.
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That best friend aint no fool, he already have a copy of that key.
Lol.
Nubian Baxter 😁😁😁😁😁
😂😂😂
Nubian Baxter So right!
Right, BF gone be like "I knew you was cheating with yo best friend." she gone be like "How, he gave you the key back." hahaha
This is literally the "you vs. the guy she tells you not to worry about" meme
Ahhhhhhhhhhahahahahahah my stomach 😂😂😂😂😂👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Right 😂😂😂
😂🤣😂🤣
Her vs alpha or beta
That's the guy that you do have to worry about.
🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅
The fact that April allowed that to happen for so long and to that degree shows she has absolutely no respect for her boyfriend. She’s just using him as a placeholder until she gets what she really wants! That man should walk away from that drama. He seems like a nice man so he can do a lot better.
That’s right if I was the boy friend I would’ve been put this fool in his place and let him know you are putting yourself in a position to get a cussing out or a ass whooping for being disrespectful and I would’ve let the girl friend know if you continue to be friends with him and all of this drama I’m gone have to make you choose if you choose to continue to be friends with this fool you and me are finished and that would’ve been it and that’s all she wrote.
Skinny dude was obviously the better choice. And he isn't going to marry her for whatever reason. She needs someone who can say what Harvey said. Which is not what her current boyfriend is capable of.
Not with being such a pushover he won’t be able to get a good girl till he grows a backbone
They are cousins ewww. I just seen them on judge judy. He suing her for some clothes. They playin us all
Damn who hurt you?
He is REALLY thirsty..get him some more water 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
+Markea Littles his skin was hella clear tho, LMAO!!
+Chanel Champ LOL!
He looks like a thumb
Markersable 😂😂😂😂
Markersable 😂😂😂😂
April seems to thrive on that type of attention. If she was in her boyfriends position I bet she would not have been putting up with that nonsense.
hmmm *sips on tea*
This is not hoe--ness.this is insecurity Manifesting itself in a way that prompts greater attention from Her man through the perceived competition her best friend has, Thus causing and exploiting the "if she spends so much time and gets along so well with him, then what's my usefulness to her " thought. Not every negative action a person commits in their own personal love life boils things down to "hoe" or "fuc boi". The underlying problems with themselves and society are more complicated then that
her best friend is the real man and her supposed boyfriend is a weak ass little loser
She’s more disrespectful than the best friend because honestly she knew how her “man” felt and knew he had problem with asserting himself and instead of then handling the problem herself and going to her best friend, she let this drag on to TV and let her boyfriend be humiliated. Gotta throw the whole gf away 🚮
Theri4444 ... lol do explain how SUPPOSEDLY he is "real" at anything... Least of all a "man" bcz I am quite curious to hear your definition.
April is totally into her "friend." She is all smiles when he speaks and annoyed when her boyfriend talks. She looks mad when Steve is telling her "friend" off. Her boyfriend needs to know his worth and move on to a woman who wants him, appreciates him and deserves him.
I thought I was the only one 😭
So true.
I caught that. All that smile went away
Absolutely! Damn, you were reading my mind. Her clear body language is a sign she’s with the bs her bff gives her bf. Hell two children and you’re the stepdad? Ask yourself what really happened to those men or man?
PERIOD!!
April looks at Isiah more affectionately than her boyfriend 😂
Schnell I said the same thing!!
Because her best friend is more of a man
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It’s like her brother
The best friend and April have been together. They was on Jerry Springer years ago. Best friend loves being on different tv platforms
april is the one who has to fix this not her boyfriend ...
Pretty much
If her boyfriend can't put his foot down before it even came to the show how is he gonna protect her from another dude from stepping in?
True, either you fix this or im out.
Thank you!
Sloooot
I hope April is ready to be a single mom for life because with her "bestfriend" around, that is not unlikely. No man will stand with that type of disrespect.
Man if it was me, first thing He wouldn't have a key to their place, 2nd he wouldn't be tagging along everywhere they go. I would be gone way before this
🤣
Facts
@@davidford3968 witch is why she keeps her best friend, men like you come a dime a dozen. Nobody got time for that 🤣
My man better put a ring on it💍 we’re past the boyfriend phase. You serious with me, my children and the home we live in them you might as well seal the deal 👏🏽 Until then, my best friend will always come around
The boyfriend is Weak. Cant even say what he wants.
Completely agree
I agree. He couldn't be with me acting like that. Talking about please. He begging her best friend.
DajaVuBeauty yeah that's pretty soft. Is it just me or does the best friend come off to be a little sweet
henry williams I thought the same thing.
Something tells me April is gonna leave her current bf, and go for Isaiah
Bye April! The boyfriend shouldn't have to check the best friend about boundaries, April should. He should be looking for a new woman that respects a relationship with him
He is merely a boyfriend. He don't have them rights to be dictating who comes in and out of HER house. She's had many "boyfriends" over the 20 years they've been friends, and he's godfather to her two kids. Their friendship is lasting, a boyfriend is not.
Deborrah Cooper at the end of the day she’s dating him not the best friend she should be prioritizing her boyfriend not her best friend
I agree, I wouldn’t be having my bf looking stupid and fighting somebody else over me
@@juliessealcazar4884 facts you would already let it be known if she really cared she would of let it been known you my friend but i respect my man if you cant understand then idk what to tell you
She dont respect the boyfriend. That issue should have been resolved long before now. Obviously he doesn't mind her having male friends so he gets whatever he gets.
When he said “I’m not going anywhere” that was an instant alarm going off for me. He made it confrontational for no reason and into a competition. He knows what he’s doing.
why does he have a key to the apartment?
I kno that's so weird, that's not normal where I come from lol
Jack King why do you think? I dont care what she say they getting it on theres no reason for that man to have the house key
You know why... comon guys...
He probably has copies of it
😂😂😂
There are soooo many things wrong with this situation right here
A key is given to be used so don't complain when it is used
Z7EVEN I- 💀💀💀💀
@@loragriffiths5588 exactly the issue is why was it given???
@Amtraklove Yea…April…
@@misaelchalas8561 That’s what I want to know. My only conclusion is her and her bff have always had keys and she did it without her man knowing.
Thanks Steve for showing the polite man how to stand his ground and be respected. A lot of good men lack such father figures and that's why "good men" tend to be seen as "weak".
The way Isaiah sipping his water is a whole mood.😂👌🏾
Brings out the woman In him😂
@@boitumelorakwena7089 🤣
@@boitumelorakwena7089 FACTS!!
I think he looks weird drinking that much water. To me ? He's a bit pshyco 🤷🏻♂️😂
It’d be better if it was tea 🤣
That is a weak man!...lol! Wow! Everything the "best friend" said registered in my brain as fighting words. Nothing less.
Zach Banasiak Clearly!...LOL!
Jonathan I'm a female and I'm rocking with you. Whoop his a$$!
Even Steve Harvey knows! 🤣🤣
Jonathan DaCosta i heard alot of fighting words😂😂💯
Jonathan DaCosta lmao!!!!!!
Steve is hilarious! I don't know how to do the rest of this without cussing. 🤣🤣🤣
I’m going to keep it all the way real bout this subject if that was me and the best friend talking I would’ve been kicked off the show for cussing 🤬 and I would’ve made April make a decision. The best friend was out of line for what I said I would’ve put them hands on him. This is why a man and woman can’t be friends.
@@henrybryant4900 I AGREEE. 😆
Lol 🤣 wo cussing your hilarious Steve sit their show & tell put his ass on check ✔️ this man needs to know respect for his bff & her bf
Facts
The boyfriend just needs to step up and be a man. He acts afraid and weak. Its embarrasing to me and I dont even know him
Yeah he needs to grow a pair.
Boss Hog lmao
yes!!!
I agree, I would've got in his face and let him know he needs to leave her alone or there will be problems. No exceptions
I thought he was raised well-mannered as reflected by his way of speaking
She be looking like she enjoys all the attention.
April isn't worth all this because she should be the one to put her friend in his place, She doesn't respect her boyfriend.
Yes.. Her face fell when Steve stepped in
Faaaaacts!!!
She probably broke up wit this soft guy no hes the man put ya foot down
It hurts someone begging someone to respect their relationship. (Something's wrong with the girl here)
She obv has feelings for her best friend and is stringing them both along
neither of those guys look like they like girls...
+Christine Jackson Tell it like it is!
+Andre Johnson Real talk though
Aaahhh, so I wasn't the ONLY one thinking that???
Well said LOOL
+Christine Jackson hahaha
Dude, just move on. Or get a girl best friend, see how she feels about it.
Exactly
I mean if he go gets a female best friend it's not the same, they've been friends since childhood and he's her children's god father
TIt for tat isn't going to work if he wants to build his relationship with her. That's great if he's done and wants to show her what it feels like, but not if he wants to spend the rest of his life with her.
Well said.. he should reverse the situation and have a female best friend and see how the gf would react.. she would go crazy then. FACTS!
*This is why I don't really like the whole opposite best friend thing. Your best friend of opposite sex is your significant other. You're building your life around the new person, starting a family, etc. It doesn't really matter if you've known the other person since childhood. You're not building a future with that childhood friend. Priorities change.*
Her energy changed when Steve sat in the chair lol. "He bout to give dude the game" lol
Little does he know, the bff made 10 copy keys
Ok!!😂😂
Lololol multiple copies
She look like she likes her "bestfriend" more😶
Yeah she does.
it dont have to be in that way she could like her bestfriend more than her bf but in different ways but she still valuse her bestfriend more...you know.
@@findmemo626 look at the way she looks at her best friend you ain’t that naive can’t be she ain’t looking at her man like that
If April were told to choose between the two of them she would choose her "friend" in a heartbeat. You know good and well that the "friend" made a copy of that key before he "gave it back."
I'm highly confused!! Isn't the best friend gay?!?!
Monica Dickerson Aren't both of them?! Really confused haha
Monica Dickerson LMAO. The real issue here is that the boyfriend is scared he might start catching feelings for the gay dude
Even if his gay the bf is fu*king weak as *fu*k
Monica Dickerson No he is not gay, he was actually on Paternity Test with Judge Lauren last year.
Loni197331 Interesting...thanks!
Her boyfriend soft.
Leander Gates By having a male friend. I would not allow myself to get involve with a woman with male friends, if she needs to have a male friend there is the door. And my wife well understands this. Male acquaintances is ok, a male best friend that has her phone number is a big no.
Davontae Jackson fr
Bucs Fan that happens all the time. When she’s having the alpha male's kids, she’ll kick his ass to the curb and then want the nice guy.
The boyfriend is limited on words and don't really know to communicate directly
Those 2 want each other. Periodt! That’s why it’s so much tension!
Steve made a big mistake by saying we are 3 men.....i only saw one Man up there.
haitham alhabsi and his name is Steve
haitham alhabsi i saw two men
Misslaeti yea and the boyfriend ain’t one of them lol
Facts
It's called being respectful. He was trying to teach them a lesson.
This is ridiculous. the boyfriend should have enough balls to say to April that if she wants to entertain the other guy, then he'll leave and walk away. No guy should have to fight for a woman who clearly is accepting advances from another guy
Yup exactly
Yeah the girl is the issue imo
Then put a ring on it 💍🤷🏽♀️ Seal the deal.
@ms gonsalves I wonder why you think any guy will feel comfortable putting “a ring on it” when you clearly don’t respect him by allowing your best friend to be invasive. Will you feel comfortable marrying a guy that allows his female best friend invade in your relationship that way?
@@ireoluwaige I have male best friends and a boyfriend. My man doesn’t feel insecure about my childhood friends and he’s meet them. If you wants to be serious with me and build a life, like I said seal the deal and you’ll ALWAYS have privileges more than my friends BY DEFAULT. That’s the difference between a husband and a boyfriend.
I would love to see an update on their relationship after this fiasco.
April and Isaiah together I seen it on Jerry Springer. Isaiah cheating on her. That's her karma now
It's all fake. They're actors
Boyfriend acting like he best friend ....her best friend is her Mann LOOOL boy grow some and put your foot DOWNN !! Act like a boyfriend damnn 🐸☕
Mo'Niique M haha so true
+Mo'Niique M he too soft like butter in the sun. I dont want him as my man! lol
+Mo'Niique M you have to ask where the woman is in all that. Her man is weak
+Mo'Niique M How about she just tell the best friend to give them some space...he obviously wouldn't keep doing it unless she's allowing it. The boyfriend shouldn't have to say anything to him...he tells his girl how he feels, she tells her best friend..that's how it works.
+RiddyOnline THANK YOU. That's exactly what I was thinking the whole time.
April is the one supposed to put her friend into his place though, April needs to respect her man and their relationship
Word up
True
That's exactly what I think. She needs to do it.
she didnt because she know she can get away with it, probably getting the D from "best friend ". she clearly dosen't respect him
Nah. The boyfriend should have grabbed his y chromosome a long time ago and told her if this issue with him isn't resolved, hes leaving. I mean they probably wouldn't be together because she doesnt seem to respect him but at least he wouldn't have been sitting here on national tv looking like a fool.
It’s up to April to put her best friend in check for her relationship’s sake. Your friends respect your partner as much as you do.
i dont see him as weak, i see him being raised polite and well mannered. well done to his momma x
Yea... too much Beta culture going on these days... a man needs to be a man and stand up to the situation sometimes...
His mother brainwashed him, just like 98.9997% of mothers do to their sons. No back bone.
Agreed
Totally wrong....she raised a weak man, that’s not a good man. He’s polite to FAULT, and it’s probably not the moms fault it’s probably his dads fault for not being a role model. Masculinity can’t be taught by moms, no matter how great they are
I see a well cultured man there, and for all you who think he was weak, its not his place to tell another man to back off from his girlfriend.... So that's where I see the "weak" version of him.
If a lady actually don't wanna lose you, she won't leave it in your hands.
I like how the show delivers different ideas and scenarios and not repeat the same thing over and over.
Real simple, "It's me or him, pick."
She ain't worth it.
+D.C. Price Damn right
yeah u said it. The guy was is nice and trying to be calm n good in front of her gal. You push that boy to the edge n he gonna knock his punk ass slim ass to the ground. She doesn't even understand how much privacy her best friend is invading.
exactly
D.C. Price AMEN! If she was worth it SHE would've cut it herself.
She could’ve been stepped in but i guess she just likes her attention and/or doesn’t give af that it makes her bf feel some type of way.. either way it’s disrespectful to the bf and he should leave her. They’re both in the wrong for letting her best friend run their relationship, she’s more wrong for not checking him after she realized it wasn’t in her bf’s personality to do so.
Both these guys look a little suspect. April smiling because both of these two guys are fighting over.
Best friend looked suspect, but I can see him smashing the girl at the same time
The way Steve threw the key. 😂😂
Woah, what a difference between an Alpha male and a Beta male. Very interesting!
+BC VC which one of these guys is which?
+Morpheus Magnus Alden is the Beta. Steve is the Alpha. I assume Isaiah is a Beta trying to be an Alpha. There's a documentary on RUclips that details the difference between the two. I'll try to find the link.
Morpheus Magnus the alpha is the one in the pink. beta in purple
Steve is "acting" like what he thinks an Alpha male should be and Isaiah is definitely Beta but I think that they are both giving me a VERY STRONG effeminate vibe underneath.
Right so being an orbiter to another man's woman is alpha? Sure
If he was a true friend, he wouldn't be interfering with his best friend relationship. The boyfriend seems like a really nice (not weak) guy who isn't wired to show aggression.
Nice has nothing to do with it. Hes extremely passive and non-confrontational. He wonders why the girlfriend and the best friend don't give him any respect - its because he doesn't command it. He seriously up here letting the friend dictate his relationship and saying "please."
He's just not mad yet,I understand him. When you have dealt with bigger things you're conservative of what you expend you're energy in. He gets furious he's probably like me. You either get a concussion or get your act right. There's no in between. Before that,you can get away with murder. But after that,raise your finger and I'll break it.
@@samuelmuiga3101 that’s what’s confusing me. The males I’m around make their point known early. And they rarely make their request more than once. So once I hear “he ain’t mad yet” or “he don’t want to expend energy into this situation”, I automatically think that he doesn’t care. Maybe it’s his friends in his ear telling him that something isn’t right with his girl and her bff’s relationship. He does seem very passive, and someone’s got to be dominant in the relationship.
@@LeoGeminiPassyon dude cares. He's scared out of his mind the friend is after his girl. He literally came on national TV because he's that afraid. He's just passive and nonconfrontational. He knows something is wrong with the relationship but doesn't want to upset his girlfriend by setting boundaries.
She wouldn't allow the best friend to do so either. She doesn't respect him.
The boyfriend shouldn’t have to address this at all. If it’s her “best friend” she should have handled it.
Steve has to play dad to the boyfriend and show him how a man handles the situation. Lol
Yes, because someone needs to tell him what to do.
I think he is a very kind person... that's prob y he found it difficult.in expressing himself... he prob wanted to keep it clean n polite he defo was
Yes he’s a good and respectful and level headed guy I respect him for trying to keep it clean but he has to come to a point sometimes in life you can’t play nice with people you half to get dirty and firm to the point and that’s it the best friend is to damn arrogant and cocky needs a good old ass whooping he would be humble and that’s the bottom line.
Mr. Harvey schooled the boyfriend.
April has two kids from previous relationship. Why won't the boyfriend go get a woman with no kids? There is no way that I will put up with this mess.
why isnt april telling her best friend to stay in his lane???? maybe thier in a secret relation-ship. 😄😏😏😶
I notice, the way she look at the friend is full of love more than the way she look at her bf.
Their
Your nasty they cousins.
H Alhamoud yea cuz. She know him longer so she probably does have a deeper love for her best friend
April want her boyfriend to act like Steve... PERIOD!!
I would have excused myself from this situation because no one is worth that drama
"He gonna drink up all this water"
What kind of bf gives a "best friend," a key to the apartment? That is jacked up, man. But he seems like Steve was right. He wasn't putting his foot down.
have you ever watched Friends?
He said if
Hi
Incase of emergencies?
Just by drinking water all throughout that session just proves that Isaiah got the point!
This is really not his problem he needs to have a talk with his girlfriend and she needs to set boundaries if she respects her man at all.
He really shouldn't worry about this guy whatsoever he's a insecure narcissist and neither him nor his girlfriend even realize that yet. He is going to be constant drama in both their lives until he's cut out of the picture. Narcissist thrive on drama and attention good or bad.
Very true
Yep. He's talking to the wrong person.
Yeah he's very arrogant. Dark Triad.
I was in a similar situation with my ex.
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This looks too scripted to be true. If it is, the girl is playing both of them
Vinorth Siva Yes... and the boyfriend is the back up plan.
This Isaiah dude was also on divorce court. Incidentally, he was there complaining that *his* GF was inappropriately close with her best friend. This all sounds mighty fishy to me 🤨
Vinorth Siva it’s not scripted I almost experienced this
But ofcos didn’t let it happen n my boyfriend became my best friend n everything
The boyfriend is the quintessential nice guy
Best believe there's a third guy in the wings that's filling a role in her life too.
The boyfriend needs to put HER in check most of all. The best friend can't come around if she doesn't allow him to come around. How does he know where they are on their dates? Why is he allowed to come over unannounced? If the boyfriend doesn't get her in check, it's gonna be the same problem all over again in 6 months.
TBH! The friend acc comes accross as the real boyfriend. All I can see is nods of approval between the girl and the friend. 😂😂😂😂😂 These two must have broken up by now
that girlfriend should have been put her bestfriend in his place. you shouldn't allow anyone to cause a disturbance in your relationship
Shalee Carpenter so you just going to sacrifice a 10-20 year friendship over some guy?
Figs3
These kinds of friendships are more complicated. I have a best friend as close as this (20 yrs long) and in the past she acted like she was in competition with my bfs.. To the point where a few times I thought she didn't want me with anyone out of jealousy that someone was closely sharing her space in my life. They do have to learn to respect a more serious relationship if the bff really is for you and cares to see you happy.
пока I understand where you are coming from, but I have seen on too many occasions where the significant other has a problem with the best friend. So they give them an ultimatum, and they choose the relationship. Which is insane to me. Like I've known you for years I've been with you crying, ups and down but because your relationship has a problem with me we can't hang out? But because your happy, forget me right? Naw.
Figs3
That's true too
@@Figs3her telling him that he has to notify them before he comes over and return their key shouldn't ruin their friendship if he's really her best friend and that's it. I wouldn't want my s/o to put me in that situation and I wouldn't put her in that situation.
THANKS FOR HELPING THIS YOUNG MAN UNCLE STEVE❤❤
April's friend demeanor changed when Steve started talking
+shomifochap3 Because steve was the one talking...let this be Jamarcus (i didn't catch the boyfriend's name) having this same conversation with the best friend back home talkin bout "this is what you gonna do....". If this man is bold enough to just be walkin up in your home whenever he feels like it 1) he has no respect for you 2) he ain threatened by you.
lmbo I noticed that too!
Wow her boyfriend is a very humble man,girls like these always get the good guys
boy sure loves his water
Lol
My boy definitely knocking them cheeks down
Damn when Steve started to talk to the Best friend you can see the colour changing in his face..
dude he's black how can hus face change color
@@bloprock5376 turns ...blacker🤷🏽♂️
As well as the expression on April's face.
I think he needs a new woman also. because she can't put her friend in her place? Really?
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He put himself their, and will continue to do so with the future boyfriends. How is that their fault?! Did i miss something?:)
@@jamasami2761 the girl should have talked to her best friend and addressed it... That's what's wrong.
That smile she gave when “best friend” was talking! They still smashin.
Update: She has left her boyfriend and has recently moved in with Isaiah.
Abraham Aguilar can’t tell if ur joking or telling the truth
Lol who didnt see that coming
Elias Sanchez me too 😂
How do you know that.
Abraham Aguilar Stop lying!
I believe it's up to her to tell her friend that he is over stepping his boundaries out of her respect to the boyfriend. She should never put her boyfriend in a position to fight the guy because she wants him around. A real woman would tell her own friend to back off. She don't respect her boyfriend and if I was the boyfriend I would give her the ultimatum. It's either him or me. I'm not throwing hands over a woman that's stupid.
Thank you, that's common sense
Thing is she don't respect him and it's blatantly clear why, he's too pussyfoot and acting scary in the face of another man literally sonning him
@@SosukeTYBW Or more like he's afraid if he says or does something to her 'best friend'...that might just end up spoiling the relationship.
@@harshdarji1122 if it does so be it, she already letting her best friend be too involved in her relationship so if he checked her best friend and she got mad at him then he need to drop her ass too
@@SosukeTYBW Well its easier said than done ig...that dude really wants that girl...so he's got to bear the 'best friend'🤷
Steve is soo good! Loved how he took care of the situation. That friend dude was trash… the man shouldn’t be with that girl who can’t stand up for her man. If my best friend talked that way with my man i would cut her off from my life completely.
This is about the woman speaking up. Period or her supposed "best friend" is going to keep managing her relationships. She clearly doesn't mind.
You're 💯 right
Point is. That the best friend wants to get with her & will do anything to break them up.
Nah. She's taking liberties because she knows he will allow it. I aint mad at the woman because if he's just going to say "ok" and allow it, who am I to say she's wrong for going with it?
She isn't even getting the microphone, she's not on stage you want her to speak up. Put her on stage.
That dude the bf is too chill. Steve wanted something more firm.
The BFF is under investigation for being suspect 💯
Her bestfriend is the real man in her life. Her man is weak.
Kia M her best friend is arrogant and a show off and her man is just use to being too polite and doesn't like trouble!!
@@lillyhz1148 It's better to be arrogant and a show off than being a pansy push over.
I don't think so😐 arrogance is 100% percent negative.. But the way the boyfriend is... Has both negative and positive sides depending on the situation and the person you're dealing with. ..
Her best friend is a weirdo and a creep
Hannah H because the arrogant guy doesn’t validate her and she’s always chasing his validation. The nice guy always validates her and comes off as needy.
If this guy honestly believes they're just friends, he's more blind than Ray Charles
😂😂😂😂
😄😄😄😄😄
Best friend smashing her when boyfriend ain't around
🤣🤣
@@adriantbryan more like her best friend tryna smash her boyfriend
Brother out here laying law n order in someone else's relationship..😂I need that typa confidence.
I understand what Isiah was saying to Alton .... stand up be a man show me that you have her back and that I can fall back and I will do just that ... It seems Isiah and April had each other's back for along time Alton couldn't even demand respect in his own home .... So I was right there with Steve when he said stop asking and tell him how it's going to be from now on !
MICHELLE FERNANDER thank you
You just said something that makes this whole situation makes sense. No wonder the best friend didnt back off. If the bf cant stand up to him how can he stand up for the gf with someone else
My ex had a guy friend that she was used to going on exercise walks with on certain mornings. I was wary of the idea at first, of course. I did my best to get a full understanding from her as to the nature and dynamics of her relationship with him. As I got to know her better, I believed she was honest that it was platonic. Rather than just act on my natural male instinct, which said "no dudes when I'm not around and especially if I don't know them". I was determined not to react out of prejudice, though. So, I became eager to meet him, so I could see him with my own eyes, talk to him and feel him out for myself. He wasn't like this guy. He didn't assert himself into her life. She obviously made me a priority and we spent a lot of time together, doing a lot of things. So after awhile her relationship to him was barely a notion for me. We actually went to his house for parties and stuff. I never had to say anything to him. He was happy for her and was occasionally occupied in trying to have a relationship of his own. She is now a former girlfriend but not because of him.
that is still a very disrespectful thing to do from her. it is not about being insecure. in a relationship there is no room for another men.
Lmao the last part sums up the whole ordeal or fiasco or whatever you want to call this. With all due respect to you bro....she belongs to the street for making you go through that. And you are to blame as well for enabling that. But no hope's lost....a big bullet missed you and you should learn ffom that. You deserve better than her and next time make sure to be respected
@@MegaHunter316 I hear ya. Appreciate the frankness.
@@elohel3293 definitely insecure. So girls can’t have guy friends now?
@@josephinestafford4466 outside of a relationship go ahead. But as soon as you enter a relationship good luck finding a ma that is willing to accept your plan b’s and plan c’s. But I understand I’m insecure because I know what kind of men want to be around women that have a partner.
At 6:09 April whole mood seemed like it has changed. She was smiling when her best friend was talking big to her boyfriend until Steve stepped in to help.
steve is such a character! he played it so good!
the boyfriend just needs to be firm and real. straight face. no jokes! Say what u mean and mean exactly what you say!
Chantel Clarke I would get rid of girlfriend
What the boyfriend wants is for her best friend to respect their relationship as boyfriend/girlfriend and give them space. If he starts being aggressive, his girlfriend is gonna blame him for chasing away her best friend, which is why he's begging him to stop.
I have noticed than men do this like a barking dog instead of the person holding the leash. What I mean by that is the all aggressive / possessive and threatening, and not like how Steve talked to the guy, setting up boundaries and what happens when those are broken. But this was just one sided. Because he did not address the issue of the girlfriend, which is something a boyfriend may have. Which is interesting on it's own. Considering that the girlfriend accepts all of this.
Agreed
He should confront her first & talk to her in a good way & ask her what she really wants & what she's looking for. Let her choose who she wants to be with forever. Like bring the other guy & you guys stay on opposite sides & her in the middle. Let her choose. That way you'll know if she's the one for you or a waste of time
I like how the best friend is so chill
Legend says he's still in the bathroom
When steve threw that key i laughed so hard that my kidney almost came out of my mouth 🤣🤣🤣
Hell yeah ,me dead😂😂😂
He should have told him to change all the locks to the house
June 2019, these clips will never get old and still relevant...going to miss Uncle Steve Harvey.😢❤
This wouldn't have been an issue from the beginning if:
A) she respected her boyfriend and didn't allow her "best friend" to overstep his boundaries.
B) If the boyfriend had some self-respect and walked away from the very beginning.
I love the way that Steve showed the young man how to approach the situation because not only does the other guy respect that but SHE respects it as well. He was trying to sugar coat something that needed to be dealt with directly.
best friend moving like a pimp got the keys and everything lmao
This dude has been on every show 😆. The people's court, judge mathis. Paternity court and now Steve harvey
It's bad you had to go to a tv show to do that...and he still didn't do it, Steve did.
You know he still has a copy to that key 🤣
Lets be honest "dude get the out our way."
I had anxiety all throughout this conversation. YOU TELL THAT MAN TO MIND HIS OWN DAMN BUSINESS. Just say it already.
Lmao
I dated more than one girl who had a male best friend. VERY annoying the way these guys slither and sniff around and constantly third wheel with you. This video brought back a lot of memories, especially the tendency these weak men have to invite themselves along to your dates. Can't respect a man who interferes in another man's relationship on the grounds he is a friend. Only date women who have female best friends.
Morpheus Magnus and you allow that? Ain’t no way another guy That ain’t my friend coming hang with me and my girl.
not true
I have guy friends and don't allow any disrespect towards my man. So don't go around saying don't date women with guy friends. Should be, don't date women who don't demand her friends to respect her man
Classic example of "Nice guy finish last". ALPHA UP YOUR SELF ESTEEM!💪🏾
April is the one who should be setting her best friend straight
Steve did NOT come for this game... He was hoping the WHOLE time that this was HIS situation so he could mud-stomp said "BEST FRIEND".. and I agree. Who TF are you to give me YOUR rules of MY relationship? Boy puhleeze
+Chanel Champ Exactly. Boyfriend outranks best friend in the importance stakes, and the boyfriend should make it clear the b/f sets the terms of access, not the best friend.
The girlfriend allowed this, even gave homeboy a key. I'm sure dude wasn't even tripping. He was ready to bounce. Not all men are aggressive.
@@tristanmatierrienne2397 That's true, but as a man you can't let another man disrespect you. Especially in your home. He would had gotten his ass whoop a long time ago.
Steve taking a seat was so satisfying 😌. Cuz I know he was dying to set him straight from the first sip.
Who is giving this dude an itinerary....The best friend doesn't know the schedule, until someone informs him. How does he know when to show up at HS grandmother's house, at a restaurant or any engagement unless someone tells him FIRST where they are headed. If you don't want anyone in your business, keep them out of your business.
I thought Steve was going to hit ole boy lol
he nervous drinking lmao he ain’t thirsty.
The boyfriend is too soft. April also needs to put her foot down because her "best friend" is out of line. Her man needs to also man up.
Why don't the best friend just date the girl instead lol
Because he has been friend zoned from the start
@@theonecalledvino8165 exactly
Nah cause he dont want a relationship, it's control issues
Cause he is not looking for a she.
You can see he can't see her that way. His tone, attitude and demeanor would have been a bit different. He wasn't going to fight for her love. He was standing up for her. There is something no one is saying. He told him put a ring on it. Boyfriend paused. Boyfriend stuttered when he said he wants to. Friend challenged him with kids. Boyfriend paused again. And hesitation kicked in. Friend is looking at things from the outside looking in with the window open. Boyfriend is right in front and can't see like many others. Sometimes a person has to choose. Lose a friend of 20 years. Lose a boyfriend of 6 months. Or lose both. And start over again.