Speed Dating with a BIG STEVE TWIST!

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  • She keeps dating men who are absolutely WRONG for her! So, Steve put together a speed dating experiment to test her ability to find a GOOD man. #steveharvey #dating
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  • @iamjakartasgirl9463
    @iamjakartasgirl9463 6 месяцев назад +128

    “Don’t let a man have to tell you twice that he don’t want you”… “he tell you the truth”… that’s really the best advice from Steve… saddest truth😔 but really really works

  • @Warriorzways
    @Warriorzways 6 месяцев назад +107

    lol Steve gonna roast you, give you advice, and put you on at the same time. Love it

    • @Stacybaby949
      @Stacybaby949 5 месяцев назад

      I feel like she Representing for Steve to Notice for an Offer of a Job or something? I know sounds Weird, my intuition is telling me that strongly! IMO💁🏽

  • @EdwardSanchezProductions
    @EdwardSanchezProductions 6 месяцев назад +213

    This question is for Steve 😂😂😂😂

    • @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH
      @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH 6 месяцев назад +36

      She’s shouting at the audience when the audience is CORRECT! Glad Steve explained it clearly for her. At 35 baby girl don’t need to be wasting her time on this guy.

    • @lindajackson2382
      @lindajackson2382 6 месяцев назад +5

      LOL

    • @ThePensmith78
      @ThePensmith78 6 месяцев назад

      She just showed her whole ass by shouting that question was for Steve. Kinda rude.

    • @mzmack-su4fg
      @mzmack-su4fg 6 месяцев назад +3

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ericalover3025
      @ericalover3025 6 месяцев назад +1

      Did she pick vanilla

  • @MyWayWendy
    @MyWayWendy 6 месяцев назад +85

    "Don't take him back and let him be someone else problem" why go through another headache with him again"

  • @Dream_more_age_less
    @Dream_more_age_less 6 месяцев назад +70

    The 'Good guy' is really handsome

  • @susanc7729
    @susanc7729 6 месяцев назад +69

    I totally missed his tv 📺 shows especially this part
    When he hooks people up 😊

    • @loyduncan3728
      @loyduncan3728 6 месяцев назад +3

      I agree! I like him best doing this. I want to know a good man's view of a relationship. I could have used him a long time ago.

    • @ebrimasanyang5277
      @ebrimasanyang5277 5 месяцев назад

      ohh

  • @eneobande7433
    @eneobande7433 6 месяцев назад +166

    She's going to do what she wants at the end of the day.

  • @gloriabaylor882
    @gloriabaylor882 6 месяцев назад +28

    Don't let him dump you twice! He is not worth it! 😮😅🎉

  • @NicoleT46
    @NicoleT46 6 месяцев назад +17

    Mama boy, player, emotionally unavailable,good guy, narcissist.
    Good show Steve Harvey🔥

  • @Dauntea
    @Dauntea 5 месяцев назад +19

    It’s not that women can’t spot a good guy they just don’t often want to choose them

    • @yayos.7340
      @yayos.7340 3 месяца назад +2

      Now that’s the TRUTH

  • @chappy9472
    @chappy9472 6 месяцев назад +14

    It's not you date who you attract or who you are, it's you date what you settle for. We all meet good and bad people all the time. It's what you settle for that makes the difference. If you're always dating emotionally unavailable, narcissists, self-interested people, then there's something about those people you are attracted to and therefore you settle for that until it doesn't work out for you. Then you rinse and repeat and go through the whole process all over again. Taking accountability for your own action/poor decision is the first step to solving your dating issues fr.

  • @RosalinaJose-e9n
    @RosalinaJose-e9n 6 месяцев назад +37

    She lòoks so good in RED ❤❤

    • @ninawestlake5005
      @ninawestlake5005 5 месяцев назад +1

      Yes❤

    • @jetcrews97
      @jetcrews97 3 месяца назад

      Word beautiful black 👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾😍😍🥰🤎🥂💯🥂👏🏾

  • @lindajackson2382
    @lindajackson2382 6 месяцев назад +31

    Judge Lynn told the TRUTH!! Listen to Steve!
    Look when a DUDE TELLS YOU HE DOESN'T WANT MARRIAGE OR KIDS, it's YOU HE DOESN'T WANT TO MARRY- NOT SOMEONE ELSE!

  • @YACKYSNACKY
    @YACKYSNACKY 6 месяцев назад +33

    This is so awesome. I hope she gets a wonderful Husband.

  • @NC-qc7wd
    @NC-qc7wd 6 месяцев назад +21

    It dawned on me halfway through this segment that the root issue here is self-esteem. It's disheartening to see a woman as stunning as she is, not recognizing her worth and prioritizing the idea of having a partner over her happiness. She must understand that she deserves to be content before seeking fulfillment in a relationship.

    • @valerielove9837
      @valerielove9837 5 месяцев назад +3

      Well said

    • @Purpledawg-d9s
      @Purpledawg-d9s 5 месяцев назад

      At the risk of being misunderstood…a female like this one is a dawgs desire! Nice looking woman with a slightly compromised self esteem. As is, in addition to having self esteem issues she is unsure of herself and what she wants. Therefore, she may come across the guy she NEEDS and not recognize him because he doesn’t come in the package she WANTS. That happens a lot with both men and women. Good luck to her…and the rest of y’all ladies too!
      Woof!

  • @cheekkah7904
    @cheekkah7904 6 месяцев назад +36

    Is it just me or she looks like Jennifer Hudson?

    • @rasu-ahk2954
      @rasu-ahk2954 5 месяцев назад +3

      Just you

    • @seritawilkins1058
      @seritawilkins1058 4 месяца назад +3

      It’s just you love

    • @77DSeven
      @77DSeven 3 месяца назад +1

      I can see the similarity @15:04. Like they could be related maybe, because I have sisters and sometimes it's just tiny features we share.

    • @jetcrews97
      @jetcrews97 3 месяца назад +1

      She does look like J-Hud

    • @FrancescaA00
      @FrancescaA00 19 дней назад

      I can see cousins or relatives

  • @marianaya5824
    @marianaya5824 2 месяца назад +1

    I LOVE that Steve didn't only present her with black dudes because it's not only black dudes who cheat or are toxic and it's not only white dudes who are good guys. It's about the characteristics and behaviors that we have to master.

  • @Anthony-ox2tb
    @Anthony-ox2tb 4 месяца назад +10

    She's the rebound chick😮

  • @jtmidzi1
    @jtmidzi1 3 месяца назад +2

    You said it Steve: Dont feel the need to fix these men! Just get a good one with a few minor issues to tweek.

  • @emeldahnjoki7045
    @emeldahnjoki7045 6 месяцев назад +17

    Surprised how she picked the narcissist right up, yet she heard the "stay home mum" vibe

    • @HighMaintenanceMinimalist
      @HighMaintenanceMinimalist 5 месяцев назад +3

      Honestly, I'm as independent as they come, but I'd be willing to quit my job if my husband made enough for us to live comfortably. I think many women feel this way.

    • @emeldahnjoki7045
      @emeldahnjoki7045 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@HighMaintenanceMinimalist No Ma'am, I don't feel that way... Especially if his intention is to control you.

    • @nyamheria
      @nyamheria 4 месяца назад +1

      @@emeldahnjoki7045exactly that’s a scary territory you’re putting yourself freely

    • @FrancescaA00
      @FrancescaA00 19 дней назад +1

      Should be a choice and discussed between the two of you and agreed upon. When it’s a requirement then that’s narcissistic.

  • @Fuccahata
    @Fuccahata 6 месяцев назад +64

    She still love that dude

  • @BonnitaDendere
    @BonnitaDendere Месяц назад +1

    The part Steve said don't let a man tell you he don't want you twice

  • @user-dn9vd9xg9p
    @user-dn9vd9xg9p 6 месяцев назад +11

    It surprised me that Steve did not ask if the guy was married first. And Steve reiterated to her that he wants to have babies and get married. First of all, you should get married then have babies. . Thats what's wrong with society and culture today, marriage should come first then children!

  • @sonjag.8686
    @sonjag.8686 6 месяцев назад +35

    She chooses Nr 4 cause he was dangling the money carot infront of her!
    To bad that people still get hooked by that!
    NEVER make yourself depending on someone financially or in space!
    When your independent in those 2 categories you can chill and really get to know your encounter! ✌🏻

    • @323azteca
      @323azteca 6 месяцев назад +5

      Most likely you are right. There is a generation of black women who think they are entitled to a wealthy man that takes care of everything, no finsncial responsibility for her. But that allows her to do anything she want. Career, parties, servants. And they are entitled!

    • @mrsrichard7835
      @mrsrichard7835 5 месяцев назад

      Do you know how many white women who act this way? You sound really ignorant.

    • @TheWilDOn31
      @TheWilDOn31 3 месяца назад +1

      Unbelievable that she chose someone who basically said the most important thing in a relationship is him getting his food and sex, and the woman to stay at home with the kids cooking and being sexy all the time.. 🤦🤦🤦 .. Just for the money.
      She's looking for the wrong thing. She has a twisted idea of a relationship in her head because she cares too much about "power"

    • @sonjag.8686
      @sonjag.8686 3 месяца назад

      @@TheWilDOn31 many never experienced a good fulfilling relationship! But once they get to know that, they will never look for anything else.

  • @i_am_jay_blaze
    @i_am_jay_blaze 6 месяцев назад +18

    Brilliant response 🫶🏼

  • @HumanityRisingNow
    @HumanityRisingNow 6 месяцев назад +7

    Don’t let a man have to tell you twice he doesn’t want you.

  • @mauriceakerr9123
    @mauriceakerr9123 6 месяцев назад +25

    Steve is the best mentor

  • @gweneetikibradley3007
    @gweneetikibradley3007 6 месяцев назад +8

    Amen💛!
    God has the RIGHT man for us when we trust Him. Let go of the WRONG person💛.

  • @joanagain007
    @joanagain007 6 месяцев назад +13

    I appreciated this show... I enjoy it

  • @timli1830
    @timli1830 6 месяцев назад +7

    Early! Thank you Steve for posting this video today! My birthday was yesterday and this made it even better than it already was!

  • @calmw2911
    @calmw2911 6 месяцев назад +5

    There is nothing that is as difficult as choosing the right person in the world of relationships.

    • @maryterrell9701
      @maryterrell9701 5 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly too many folks pretending to be who they are not

  • @janespitfire9884
    @janespitfire9884 5 месяцев назад +3

    Steve help her!! You are right do not chase a man and especially ones who ignore or want you again to be used. Steve has good common sense

  • @ninawestlake5005
    @ninawestlake5005 5 месяцев назад +2

    Her even asking this silly question means she knows darn well she's triflin'.

  • @i.kaysworld4090
    @i.kaysworld4090 6 месяцев назад +9

    She look like she ready for the baby mama drama lol

  • @jeannetshibola2166
    @jeannetshibola2166 6 месяцев назад +9

    That guy will dump you again

    • @mlm1916
      @mlm1916 6 месяцев назад +4

      ... and again ! ... and again !!

  • @Gambia-Vibe1
    @Gambia-Vibe1 6 месяцев назад +17

    Waoh great words to learn from this Video ❤

  • @chillfluencer
    @chillfluencer 6 месяцев назад +4

    But what Steve didn't tell us: She's an actress he hired as well...

  • @evelynwright9805
    @evelynwright9805 4 месяца назад +1

    Are you kidding me? Red Flags Red Flags Red Flags. What is wrong with YOU?

  • @mzmack-su4fg
    @mzmack-su4fg 6 месяцев назад +2

    Daytime... Ion know him like that Steve! 😂😂😂

  • @cwayzums
    @cwayzums Месяц назад

    Twist to the Steve Twist; The “Narcissist” was acting himself. This lady will be back crying to Uncle Steve.

  • @Honeybadger0010
    @Honeybadger0010 5 месяцев назад +2

    And what does she bring to the table? What makes her think she deserves a good man? Steve should have asked her. And even she settles for a nice guy, she will always be attracted to the `power` guy, meaning rich, player and athletic. You can send her on 100 dates, she will always pick a player and a narcissist.

  • @DarenSons
    @DarenSons 5 месяцев назад +2

    Do i need to read or learn a certain course in understanding the points for steve Harvey's shows?, because, man, i love these shows, yeah i'mah a culprit too, he gets me.

  • @IvanaGirl
    @IvanaGirl 2 месяца назад

    Hooooollllyyy shhhhh*%*%* the narcissist is EXACTLY like my ex to a T!!! 👀 that was crazy to watch

  • @blueskies773
    @blueskies773 Месяц назад

    I have experiences similar to her. This video is so great. I see a guy with good heart underneath, amiss with some not so savory tendencies, and I think, well he’s good here. I think our love together can resolve the rest. No… it’s not true. I need to stick to the good guys. The truly good guys and not pass them up.

  • @dianaradford1040
    @dianaradford1040 6 месяцев назад +6

    Keep walking pass him live your life.

  • @cleanup_crew3582
    @cleanup_crew3582 4 месяца назад +1

    She will choose the guy that looks more of her type no matter what.

  • @spookymech6462
    @spookymech6462 6 месяцев назад +2

    I knew he wasn’t a good guy I can’t believe she picked him.

    • @linkas.6724
      @linkas.6724 6 месяцев назад

      It was so obvious.... Maybe she is a hired actress too...Or her decision was based on chemistry and money...

  • @African.Diaspora.InLondonUK
    @African.Diaspora.InLondonUK 6 месяцев назад +4

    ❤ how many times do YOU need to be shot? U gave him a Shot!move on girl

  • @nsubugaabdul3016
    @nsubugaabdul3016 6 месяцев назад +2

    Y'all the question is for Steve!!!!!

  • @thisjustin212
    @thisjustin212 18 дней назад

    This is what happens she said the question was for Steve but the audience is telling her what her family probably told her. And people with common sense have told her.

  • @sandradee9193
    @sandradee9193 6 месяцев назад +4

    She about to cry

  • @INFORMATIVESITUATIONS
    @INFORMATIVESITUATIONS 3 месяца назад +1

    THANKS FOR CONFIRMING MY THOUGHT STEVE. HOW IN THE HELL THAT YOU'RE GONNA FIX SOMETHING THAT'S BROKEN INTO DAM- PIECES 🤔🤣 JUST PUT IT INTO THE TRASH WHERE IT BELONGS💩

  • @SkyLoreking
    @SkyLoreking 6 месяцев назад +4

    he would have been a billionaire if he had not been divorced thrice

  • @tweedledee-z5c
    @tweedledee-z5c 2 месяца назад

    Regarding the ex… girl it wasn’t with you. He didn’t want kids and be married with you.

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 6 месяцев назад +2

    3:44 haha Steve wants to tell her what she needs.

  • @thewise2443
    @thewise2443 6 месяцев назад +1

    Everyone sounds like a robot “I like to come home to a nice hot meal” “I want a caring man” … we pickup & learn things & that’s why we get into relationships for the wrong reasons when you don’t know what you really want & your just saying all the things you think is “right

  • @sandradee9193
    @sandradee9193 6 месяцев назад +5

    I would date the good guy

  • @wiser0185
    @wiser0185 3 месяца назад +1

    Same spirit in a different body.
    No#3 for me

  • @keyona77
    @keyona77 6 месяцев назад +2

    Number 3 is the best

  • @tahmercynung2498
    @tahmercynung2498 6 месяцев назад +3

    This is so interesting and educative

  • @cynthiaprice3528
    @cynthiaprice3528 3 месяца назад +1

    Many may not know much about the law of attraction, but I think you attract who you are, or what you give out. She seems a lot like the guys she's used to dating idk 😏

  • @denisehumphrey2467
    @denisehumphrey2467 3 месяца назад +2

    This was a great video

  • @dspenderella9671
    @dspenderella9671 3 месяца назад

    She's attracted to the man playing the narcissist, and he's attracted to her too. I wonder how their date went.

  • @wl6279
    @wl6279 5 месяцев назад +1

    yeah I thought she was 25 too good grief lol

  • @323azteca
    @323azteca 6 месяцев назад +5

    Love Antrell. He made her laugh for real I bet. The chemistry was there. He probably had a hard time acting. They make a good couple. She will probbsly turn him down if no dough. I think she liked when he say "wait until you see my bank account". She seems to me controlling and money-minded. Hope I'm wrong.

  • @Sugarchaela1
    @Sugarchaela1 4 месяца назад +1

    Im guilty of that fixing a man

  • @ayomidewilfred1864
    @ayomidewilfred1864 4 месяца назад +1

    All what I needed right now is wealth not marriage. I am 29 year old

  • @curiousk4083
    @curiousk4083 6 месяцев назад +7

    😂😂😂his been beaten by life. Sister run, his not the same person but damaged goods.

  • @civildk9077
    @civildk9077 2 месяца назад

    "Don't let a man, have to tell you twice, he don't want you!" Steve, is gonna teach you 'how to recognize the right guy', and stop dating the same type of guy. "Y'all stop being in a 'fix a man' business". "There's something wrong with all of us".

  • @aliciac.c.726
    @aliciac.c.726 5 месяцев назад +1

    I liked #3 before he even opened his mouth! #4 scared me! Lol He had no care for her hard work. Pregnant and barefoot. Lol!!

  • @pilarlozano9630
    @pilarlozano9630 6 месяцев назад +3

    Number 3 is not only a good man but also guapo

  • @klassebip2934
    @klassebip2934 6 месяцев назад +1

    steve giving love advise, even when his wife cheated on him. Great dude...

  • @Colosos701
    @Colosos701 3 месяца назад

    To me, she doesnt sound like a person just picked out of the audience. She talks very confidently and self assured with no hint of nervousness of being on national tv.

  • @shellyperry4706
    @shellyperry4706 Месяц назад

    You gave her some good advice Mr.Steve 😮

  • @TrishKing-op2sk
    @TrishKing-op2sk 5 месяцев назад +1

    NOOOO DONT GO BACK TO HIM NOOOOO AMEN

  • @sofyab.6264
    @sofyab.6264 3 месяца назад

    She is so beautiful

  • @beatriceowusuachaw6210
    @beatriceowusuachaw6210 6 месяцев назад +1

    Steve you have done well in advice amd good wisdom

  • @marymalloy2848
    @marymalloy2848 6 месяцев назад +7

    Young lady don't be Desperate.

  • @trialtube6365
    @trialtube6365 4 месяца назад

    I do Agree with his idea. sometimes odd thing work. it may work.

  • @lola-mo5sh
    @lola-mo5sh 2 месяца назад

    from the get go before i knew they were comedians my top and only choice for her was #4, similar ethnic background on top of his good looks and kind/ fan personality.

  • @bigmoney7332
    @bigmoney7332 3 месяца назад

    She's not going to change her dating life, she's going to keep on doing the same mistakes over and over again

  • @JoyJunor-y5x
    @JoyJunor-y5x 4 месяца назад +1

    Good job Steve he did not want to marry you

  • @krissmgvlogs
    @krissmgvlogs 6 месяцев назад

    The guy told her 'I want you at home raising the kids' no conversation, a direct order, and she still picked him! Because she thought he was cute! I hope he turns out to be a good guy!

  • @BeautifulSoulDawn
    @BeautifulSoulDawn 3 месяца назад

    Let him take a hike, he doesn’t deserve you.. find someone who really loves you.

  • @ndp885
    @ndp885 4 месяца назад +1

    Do people understand concept of a question?!

  • @PENELOPENANKUNDA-fn4vu
    @PENELOPENANKUNDA-fn4vu 6 месяцев назад +2

    She looks so sad,she loves him still

  • @Bee-wd4mh
    @Bee-wd4mh 6 месяцев назад +1

    Steve. Thank you!

  • @FrancisCauthen
    @FrancisCauthen 2 месяца назад

    Girl you're fine you're fine

  • @cooladultkidontheblock1882
    @cooladultkidontheblock1882 3 месяца назад

    I love what Steve had to say. ❤

  • @simonefraser574
    @simonefraser574 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you Steve. This lesson is also for me

  • @maryterrell9701
    @maryterrell9701 5 месяцев назад +1

    No spin back around

  • @FrancisCauthen
    @FrancisCauthen 2 месяца назад

    Take that as a leave it alone

  • @1313babinski
    @1313babinski 2 месяца назад

    Na 4 in I had enough Steve I’m out!

  • @gebhardtpetrus5443
    @gebhardtpetrus5443 6 месяцев назад +3

    Steve..what shoes can I wear a navy blue suit with.
    brown or black?

    • @nca4794
      @nca4794 6 месяцев назад

      Whichever best matches your shirt, tie and belt.

  • @samuelkporsu8860
    @samuelkporsu8860 6 месяцев назад

    Simple thank you uncle Steve.

  • @NBaBall3r26
    @NBaBall3r26 6 месяцев назад +3

    2nd SHOT wait what!? & the
    this question is for Steve part lol

  • @EdelweisSusie
    @EdelweisSusie 6 месяцев назад +1

    OMG - all 4 were my ex to a T. How scary is that, and how much do I have to change and realise that I am the prize, not the man.

  • @makhaliacharles58
    @makhaliacharles58 3 месяца назад

    At the end of the day, she'd do what she want.

  • @FrancisCauthen
    @FrancisCauthen 2 месяца назад

    Oh girl

  • @jonathanfactor6688
    @jonathanfactor6688 6 месяцев назад +2

    Great job