“Don’t let a man have to tell you twice that he don’t want you”… “he tell you the truth”… that’s really the best advice from Steve… saddest truth😔 but really really works
She’s shouting at the audience when the audience is CORRECT! Glad Steve explained it clearly for her. At 35 baby girl don’t need to be wasting her time on this guy.
I feel like she Representing for Steve to Notice for an Offer of a Job or something? I know sounds Weird, my intuition is telling me that strongly! IMO💁🏽
It's not you date who you attract or who you are, it's you date what you settle for. We all meet good and bad people all the time. It's what you settle for that makes the difference. If you're always dating emotionally unavailable, narcissists, self-interested people, then there's something about those people you are attracted to and therefore you settle for that until it doesn't work out for you. Then you rinse and repeat and go through the whole process all over again. Taking accountability for your own action/poor decision is the first step to solving your dating issues fr.
Judge Lynn told the TRUTH!! Listen to Steve! Look when a DUDE TELLS YOU HE DOESN'T WANT MARRIAGE OR KIDS, it's YOU HE DOESN'T WANT TO MARRY- NOT SOMEONE ELSE!
I LOVE that Steve didn't only present her with black dudes because it's not only black dudes who cheat or are toxic and it's not only white dudes who are good guys. It's about the characteristics and behaviors that we have to master.
She chooses Nr 4 cause he was dangling the money carot infront of her! To bad that people still get hooked by that! NEVER make yourself depending on someone financially or in space! When your independent in those 2 categories you can chill and really get to know your encounter! ✌🏻
Most likely you are right. There is a generation of black women who think they are entitled to a wealthy man that takes care of everything, no finsncial responsibility for her. But that allows her to do anything she want. Career, parties, servants. And they are entitled!
Unbelievable that she chose someone who basically said the most important thing in a relationship is him getting his food and sex, and the woman to stay at home with the kids cooking and being sexy all the time.. 🤦🤦🤦 .. Just for the money. She's looking for the wrong thing. She has a twisted idea of a relationship in her head because she cares too much about "power"
It surprised me that Steve did not ask if the guy was married first. And Steve reiterated to her that he wants to have babies and get married. First of all, you should get married then have babies. . Thats what's wrong with society and culture today, marriage should come first then children!
Honestly, I'm as independent as they come, but I'd be willing to quit my job if my husband made enough for us to live comfortably. I think many women feel this way.
This is what happens she said the question was for Steve but the audience is telling her what her family probably told her. And people with common sense have told her.
It dawned on me halfway through this segment that the root issue here is self-esteem. It's disheartening to see a woman as stunning as she is, not recognizing her worth and prioritizing the idea of having a partner over her happiness. She must understand that she deserves to be content before seeking fulfillment in a relationship.
At the risk of being misunderstood…a female like this one is a dawgs desire! Nice looking woman with a slightly compromised self esteem. As is, in addition to having self esteem issues she is unsure of herself and what she wants. Therefore, she may come across the guy she NEEDS and not recognize him because he doesn’t come in the package she WANTS. That happens a lot with both men and women. Good luck to her…and the rest of y’all ladies too! Woof!
And what does she bring to the table? What makes her think she deserves a good man? Steve should have asked her. And even she settles for a nice guy, she will always be attracted to the `power` guy, meaning rich, player and athletic. You can send her on 100 dates, she will always pick a player and a narcissist.
Many may not know much about the law of attraction, but I think you attract who you are, or what you give out. She seems a lot like the guys she's used to dating idk 😏
I have experiences similar to her. This video is so great. I see a guy with good heart underneath, amiss with some not so savory tendencies, and I think, well he’s good here. I think our love together can resolve the rest. No… it’s not true. I need to stick to the good guys. The truly good guys and not pass them up.
He wants her to be step mom to the kid he had out of wedlock 🤦🏾♀️. He might just need help. He doesn't want to marry her or have a baby with her, and thank goodness, b/c it sounds like she'd be settling for him. She asked the question, but it's clear what she really wants to do, so I'm not sure why she even asked.
Do i need to read or learn a certain course in understanding the points for steve Harvey's shows?, because, man, i love these shows, yeah i'mah a culprit too, he gets me.
Love Antrell. He made her laugh for real I bet. The chemistry was there. He probably had a hard time acting. They make a good couple. She will probbsly turn him down if no dough. I think she liked when he say "wait until you see my bank account". She seems to me controlling and money-minded. Hope I'm wrong.
The guy told her 'I want you at home raising the kids' no conversation, a direct order, and she still picked him! Because she thought he was cute! I hope he turns out to be a good guy!
Everyone sounds like a robot “I like to come home to a nice hot meal” “I want a caring man” … we pickup & learn things & that’s why we get into relationships for the wrong reasons when you don’t know what you really want & your just saying all the things you think is “right
from the get go before i knew they were comedians my top and only choice for her was #4, similar ethnic background on top of his good looks and kind/ fan personality.
To me, she doesnt sound like a person just picked out of the audience. She talks very confidently and self assured with no hint of nervousness of being on national tv.
She recognised the Good Guy, and she saw the red flags in #4. I based my opinion on her line of questioning to him. I wonder if she picked him b'cos she found him attractive or his talk of his bank account. 🤷🏽♀️
THANKS FOR CONFIRMING MY THOUGHT STEVE. HOW IN THE HELL THAT YOU'RE GONNA FIX SOMETHING THAT'S BROKEN INTO DAM- PIECES 🤔🤣 JUST PUT IT INTO THE TRASH WHERE IT BELONGS💩
In Barbados (an island in the Caribbean where Rihanna is from) we call it a stupes or in our dialect stewps 😊 Ling tried though and she did improve but Lamb just had enough for the day😂
“Don’t let a man have to tell you twice that he don’t want you”… “he tell you the truth”… that’s really the best advice from Steve… saddest truth😔 but really really works
From judge Lynn
you've made a point
This question is for Steve 😂😂😂😂
She’s shouting at the audience when the audience is CORRECT! Glad Steve explained it clearly for her. At 35 baby girl don’t need to be wasting her time on this guy.
LOL
She just showed her whole ass by shouting that question was for Steve. Kinda rude.
😂😂😂😂
Did she pick vanilla
lol Steve gonna roast you, give you advice, and put you on at the same time. Love it
I feel like she Representing for Steve to Notice for an Offer of a Job or something? I know sounds Weird, my intuition is telling me that strongly! IMO💁🏽
"Don't take him back and let him be someone else problem" why go through another headache with him again"
I totally missed his tv 📺 shows especially this part
When he hooks people up 😊
I agree! I like him best doing this. I want to know a good man's view of a relationship. I could have used him a long time ago.
ohh
The 'Good guy' is really handsome
Oh yes and very nice
She's going to do what she wants at the end of the day.
You know this
FACTS
Facts!
@@JerryCurlJoe j b
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This is so awesome. I hope she gets a wonderful Husband.
Don't let him dump you twice! He is not worth it! 😮😅🎉
It's not you date who you attract or who you are, it's you date what you settle for. We all meet good and bad people all the time. It's what you settle for that makes the difference. If you're always dating emotionally unavailable, narcissists, self-interested people, then there's something about those people you are attracted to and therefore you settle for that until it doesn't work out for you. Then you rinse and repeat and go through the whole process all over again. Taking accountability for your own action/poor decision is the first step to solving your dating issues fr.
Mama boy, player, emotionally unavailable,good guy, narcissist.
Good show Steve Harvey🔥
Judge Lynn told the TRUTH!! Listen to Steve!
Look when a DUDE TELLS YOU HE DOESN'T WANT MARRIAGE OR KIDS, it's YOU HE DOESN'T WANT TO MARRY- NOT SOMEONE ELSE!
hi
She lòoks so good in RED ❤❤
Yes❤
Word beautiful black 👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾😍😍🥰🤎🥂💯🥂👏🏾
My husband and I have been married for 55 years. We are very Blessed!
Don’t let a man have to tell you twice he doesn’t want you.
Brilliant response 🫶🏼
It’s not that women can’t spot a good guy they just don’t often want to choose them
Now that’s the TRUTH
I LOVE that Steve didn't only present her with black dudes because it's not only black dudes who cheat or are toxic and it's not only white dudes who are good guys. It's about the characteristics and behaviors that we have to master.
She chooses Nr 4 cause he was dangling the money carot infront of her!
To bad that people still get hooked by that!
NEVER make yourself depending on someone financially or in space!
When your independent in those 2 categories you can chill and really get to know your encounter! ✌🏻
Most likely you are right. There is a generation of black women who think they are entitled to a wealthy man that takes care of everything, no finsncial responsibility for her. But that allows her to do anything she want. Career, parties, servants. And they are entitled!
Do you know how many white women who act this way? You sound really ignorant.
Unbelievable that she chose someone who basically said the most important thing in a relationship is him getting his food and sex, and the woman to stay at home with the kids cooking and being sexy all the time.. 🤦🤦🤦 .. Just for the money.
She's looking for the wrong thing. She has a twisted idea of a relationship in her head because she cares too much about "power"
@@TheWilDOn31 many never experienced a good fulfilling relationship! But once they get to know that, they will never look for anything else.
It surprised me that Steve did not ask if the guy was married first. And Steve reiterated to her that he wants to have babies and get married. First of all, you should get married then have babies. . Thats what's wrong with society and culture today, marriage should come first then children!
💯
Amen💛!
God has the RIGHT man for us when we trust Him. Let go of the WRONG person💛.
Early! Thank you Steve for posting this video today! My birthday was yesterday and this made it even better than it already was!
She still love that dude
Correct😂
She's a total moron😅😅
And does 😂
What's love Got to do with it?
She's going to be baby momma #2
Is it just me or she looks like Jennifer Hudson?
Just you
It’s just you love
I can see the similarity @15:04. Like they could be related maybe, because I have sisters and sometimes it's just tiny features we share.
She does look like J-Hud
I can see cousins or relatives
She's the rebound chick😮
Her even asking this silly question means she knows darn well she's triflin'.
I appreciated this show... I enjoy it
Steve help her!! You are right do not chase a man and especially ones who ignore or want you again to be used. Steve has good common sense
Steve is the best mentor
ohh yes
Surprised how she picked the narcissist right up, yet she heard the "stay home mum" vibe
Honestly, I'm as independent as they come, but I'd be willing to quit my job if my husband made enough for us to live comfortably. I think many women feel this way.
@@HighMaintenanceMinimalist No Ma'am, I don't feel that way... Especially if his intention is to control you.
@@emeldahnjoki7045exactly that’s a scary territory you’re putting yourself freely
Should be a choice and discussed between the two of you and agreed upon. When it’s a requirement then that’s narcissistic.
This is what happens she said the question was for Steve but the audience is telling her what her family probably told her. And people with common sense have told her.
You said it Steve: Dont feel the need to fix these men! Just get a good one with a few minor issues to tweek.
It dawned on me halfway through this segment that the root issue here is self-esteem. It's disheartening to see a woman as stunning as she is, not recognizing her worth and prioritizing the idea of having a partner over her happiness. She must understand that she deserves to be content before seeking fulfillment in a relationship.
Well said
At the risk of being misunderstood…a female like this one is a dawgs desire! Nice looking woman with a slightly compromised self esteem. As is, in addition to having self esteem issues she is unsure of herself and what she wants. Therefore, she may come across the guy she NEEDS and not recognize him because he doesn’t come in the package she WANTS. That happens a lot with both men and women. Good luck to her…and the rest of y’all ladies too!
Woof!
There is nothing that is as difficult as choosing the right person in the world of relationships.
Exactly too many folks pretending to be who they are not
Waoh great words to learn from this Video ❤
I cut my into a side pixie her style
The part Steve said don't let a man tell you he don't want you twice
If he already has a child, leave him alone!
Regarding the ex… girl it wasn’t with you. He didn’t want kids and be married with you.
And what does she bring to the table? What makes her think she deserves a good man? Steve should have asked her. And even she settles for a nice guy, she will always be attracted to the `power` guy, meaning rich, player and athletic. You can send her on 100 dates, she will always pick a player and a narcissist.
But what Steve didn't tell us: She's an actress he hired as well...
For sure.
😮
That guy will dump you again
... and again ! ... and again !!
She look like she ready for the baby mama drama lol
This is so interesting and educative
Y'all the question is for Steve!!!!!
I do Agree with his idea. sometimes odd thing work. it may work.
She about to cry
She will choose the guy that looks more of her type no matter what.
Many may not know much about the law of attraction, but I think you attract who you are, or what you give out. She seems a lot like the guys she's used to dating idk 😏
Keep walking pass him live your life.
❤ how many times do YOU need to be shot? U gave him a Shot!move on girl
I have experiences similar to her. This video is so great. I see a guy with good heart underneath, amiss with some not so savory tendencies, and I think, well he’s good here. I think our love together can resolve the rest. No… it’s not true. I need to stick to the good guys. The truly good guys and not pass them up.
Daytime... Ion know him like that Steve! 😂😂😂
Steve. Thank you!
Thank you Steve. This lesson is also for me
Steve you have done well in advice amd good wisdom
Same spirit in a different body.
No#3 for me
Number 3 is the best
I love what Steve had to say. ❤
He wants her to be step mom to the kid he had out of wedlock 🤦🏾♀️. He might just need help. He doesn't want to marry her or have a baby with her, and thank goodness, b/c it sounds like she'd be settling for him. She asked the question, but it's clear what she really wants to do, so I'm not sure why she even asked.
Do i need to read or learn a certain course in understanding the points for steve Harvey's shows?, because, man, i love these shows, yeah i'mah a culprit too, he gets me.
I liked #3 before he even opened his mouth! #4 scared me! Lol He had no care for her hard work. Pregnant and barefoot. Lol!!
3:44 haha Steve wants to tell her what she needs.
Love Antrell. He made her laugh for real I bet. The chemistry was there. He probably had a hard time acting. They make a good couple. She will probbsly turn him down if no dough. I think she liked when he say "wait until you see my bank account". She seems to me controlling and money-minded. Hope I'm wrong.
The guy told her 'I want you at home raising the kids' no conversation, a direct order, and she still picked him! Because she thought he was cute! I hope he turns out to be a good guy!
Number 3 is not only a good man but also guapo
This was a great video
I knew he wasn’t a good guy I can’t believe she picked him.
It was so obvious.... Maybe she is a hired actress too...Or her decision was based on chemistry and money...
Everyone sounds like a robot “I like to come home to a nice hot meal” “I want a caring man” … we pickup & learn things & that’s why we get into relationships for the wrong reasons when you don’t know what you really want & your just saying all the things you think is “right
She looks so sad,she loves him still
Im guilty of that fixing a man
Are you kidding me? Red Flags Red Flags Red Flags. What is wrong with YOU?
he would have been a billionaire if he had not been divorced thrice
I would date the good guy
Simple thank you uncle Steve.
Good lesson for her. But would like an update
Twist to the Steve Twist; The “Narcissist” was acting himself. This lady will be back crying to Uncle Steve.
Hooooollllyyy shhhhh*%*%* the narcissist is EXACTLY like my ex to a T!!! 👀 that was crazy to watch
OMG - all 4 were my ex to a T. How scary is that, and how much do I have to change and realise that I am the prize, not the man.
No spin back around
Do people understand concept of a question?!
from the get go before i knew they were comedians my top and only choice for her was #4, similar ethnic background on top of his good looks and kind/ fan personality.
Great job
You gave her some good advice Mr.Steve 😮
steve giving love advise, even when his wife cheated on him. Great dude...
NOOOO DONT GO BACK TO HIM NOOOOO AMEN
2nd SHOT wait what!? & the
this question is for Steve part lol
To me, she doesnt sound like a person just picked out of the audience. She talks very confidently and self assured with no hint of nervousness of being on national tv.
12:21 I KNEW it!!!
yeah I thought she was 25 too good grief lol
Another great one. Follow up 😊🎉🎉
She is so beautiful
She recognised the Good Guy, and she saw the red flags in #4. I based my opinion on her line of questioning to him. I wonder if she picked him b'cos she found him attractive or his talk of his bank account. 🤷🏽♀️
THANKS FOR CONFIRMING MY THOUGHT STEVE. HOW IN THE HELL THAT YOU'RE GONNA FIX SOMETHING THAT'S BROKEN INTO DAM- PIECES 🤔🤣 JUST PUT IT INTO THE TRASH WHERE IT BELONGS💩
In Barbados (an island in the Caribbean where Rihanna is from) we call it a stupes or in our dialect stewps 😊 Ling tried though and she did improve but Lamb just had enough for the day😂
She just wants a man who has swag... looking at the external instead of within
Young lady don't be Desperate.
Good luck Girl ! 😍👍🏼
Take that as a leave it alone
Girl you're fine you're fine
She feels hard to me.