Things Not To Say To Stay-At-Home Dads
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- Опубликовано: 20 мар 2019
- From "Can you change a nappy?" to "So who wears the trousers?", stay-at-home dads get asked all sorts of questions about their experience of being a stay-at-home parent. Here, some fathers tell us how they're not taken seriously, what it's like to be the only dad in a world of mums, and why raising their children is never 'baby-sitting' or 'daddy day care'.
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It's not babysitting, it called PARENTING.
I was your 1K like woohoo
Elise Domingues just realised my comment hit 1K like xD thank youu
been a dad for 3 years, still learning/accepting this.
I hate that shit. When my older niece was an infant, someone referred to my brother caring for her when her mom was out as "babysitting." Like...she's *his* child, too, man...
Not to my mom 🤪
Damn this really opened my eyes to how sexist and closeminded the world is towards dads with young kids
Totally! Most public mens restrooms in my area don't even have the baby changing tables.
Luckily, we men hold all the power to change that! Let’s make sure it becomes a topic in elections etc.
@Kiki Melendez hm? What do you mean?
Jasmyn Gwatney IKR
Oh its not just dads with young kids. Anything where the woman is the "victim" of a crime goes too. Like men "can't be raped". Another thing that happens a lot is divorce, women get everything and often full custody even if they are unfit mothers. Because "they gave birth". Yeah, its pretty BS. There is a long uphill battle for true equality in every aspect but one day we'll get there I'm sure.
I imagine these comments must be so annoying. There's nothing wrong with dads staying at home; just do whatever is best for you.
The comment about being bored was one I wasn't expecting.
The response from one man, saying 'oh no, my daughter's crying in the next room...BORING' was hilarious though!
Come on tho
Yeah totally agree. If the dad wants to stay home with the baby who should care, no one. It's the couple that decides not society's "gender roles"
Gabriella Byers yeah but come on
@@joeking2384 Why should you care what other people decide how their family dynamic works. It doesn't effect you, so why should you care if someone is a stay at home dad?
Ugh the "Where's mom?" question reminds me of the question that's always asked me at work and the store "Where's your daughter?" "Who's looking after your daughter when you're at work?" Like, I dunno. I just leave her with a pack of coyotes and hope for the best. Sheesh ppl are nosy.
You made me laugh 😄 for the first time in weeks so thank you
"Where the baby?"
"Yeah, I just leave her to her own devices and hope she hasn't burned the house down by the time I get home."
WhAt Do YoU tHinK?!
Or maybe they're just tryna figure out if it single XD
😂😂
My father was a single parent. I remember vividly the days when he'd comb me and my sister's hair for school and my husband was a stay at home dad at one point and they're both manly as hell!
I see NOTHING wrong nor emasculating about a man actually being a responsible parent.
Right? They both love their kids, what's so shameful about that?
My Dad raised me as a single parent and while I know it was hard, he was always there and we had a fantastic and stable childhood.
thanks for sharing this, it's inspiring for dads!
Can't relate my dad went to get the milk and never came back
Beautiful.pat your dad on the back for me
when my brother and I were babies my dad would have to carry both of us around all day lmao... mommy was out hoein around ._.
@@lovious8662 sangwoo is that you-😥😳
The "babysitting" comment really annoys me. If your own child you parent not babysit 😜🤪🤪
People who say male sexism doesn't exist need to watch this video.
Props to these men, seriously.
The thing about sexism against men is that it's often based in misogyny; in this case, the thought is that caring for children is "woman's work," so a man taking care of his own child is less of a man, somehow.
Do people understand that men made these sexist standards about women and men’s places in society?
@Rehaan Aamir that's a very one-dimensional view of what misogyny is. Misogyny isn't just "oh I hate women" it's also a general idea of what "a woman's place" is. If misogyny was just hating women it would have died off cause no misogynists would ever marry if they simply hated every woman. It's more complex than that. Roles associated with women are also seen as being lower-status. Almost everything you can quote as being sexist against men has to do with the idea that the man is "lowering himself" to the status of a woman, as if parenting or softness or emotions are tainted by their stereotypical association with femininity. As a man pretty much any time I've been hated on about things regarding gender, or otherwise treated poorly in that context, it's been because I didn't match up to the status of what a man is "supposed to be", not because that person had a negative image of men in their head.
The same attitudes that hurt women, hurt men. If we only respected each other these problems wouldn't exists. The problems aren't just affecting women or men, it's affecting everyone.
@@CorbiniteVids I agree!
Hats off for these great dads!
Many demand more dads staying at home and these guys really live a perfect example. But also on how difficult it is and sexist this society is against dads
FuchsEll foxx Thanks! 😀 @send_dad (a.k.a the one in the black t-shirt)
The Black guy with the beard in the khaki top is Gabriel Sey. He's a huge youtuber and is MOST CERTAINLY bringing home the Bacon lol
Love his RUclips channel
😎👊🏾
But if he's a RUclipsr then he's still at home right?
@@shywithsprinkles_5619 She's not saying he isn't a stay-at-home dad, she's saying he makes a lot of money while being a stay-at-home dad.
i thought i recognised him, it’s really sad that people disregard jobs that they don’t see as legitimate
Been stay at home dad for over 8 years for my two.... heard everyone of these and more.... been the best years of my life, 💯
Well done! Being a parent seems so hard
Did you heard it more from other mothers/women or from men ? Because if it comes more from women then I’m a bit confused 😆
wish I had the tenacity to do this!
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 good job Robin.
I can barely look after myself, nevermind another two beings 😂
@@sunshine1917 How are you confused?
If my dad wasn't a stay-at-home dad, I don't think I would be anywhere near as close to both of my parents as I am now. I'm so grateful for how generous he always has been with his time and how hard he has worked for me
thanks for sharing this, it's inspiring for dads!
Nice to hear. It could be the real reason he stayed home was because he knew he was better at it. I hope your mom appreciated him, and that he appreciated her.
My husband was a stay at home dad - he loved it, I loved it, our kids loved it.
@ArmoredSoldier76 Honey, do you know their situation? No? Then don't assume kid.
These guys kids will grow up loved knowing that they'll always have their daddy
"Things not to say to people with self harm scars"
Yes please im sick of some of the questions from people and the random times I get my arm pulled away from me and people looking for ages
@Talsong Kingslayer Children are inquisitive, parents can't teach their child about every single subject in one day, that's why you're a child for 18 years.
If they see something they don't know about or may not yet have developed an understanding of empathy they are likely to react to it. If anything, you as an adult should be grown up enough to understand that it's not from a bad place. Everyone's been through shit, no need to lash out at the wrong people for innocent comments.
positivitytroll oh yes
PLEASE
@Talsong Kingslayer it's not a "rude" question. There's no way of us knowing if they are recent scars or not. We ask because we are worried.
Just the other day I was waiting for my daughter at ballet and a couple of moms came out to question me as to why I was sitting in a parking lot staring at all the girls. They were more than embarrassed when I said I was just waiting for my daughter like all the other parents. Being a stay-at-home dad is rewarding but tough to deal with at times!
My dad raised 3 kids on his own after our mum left us. He received so many comments all the time, especially in the 90s. I remember not being able to go into the family changing room with him at the local swimming pool, he wasn't able to change our nappies in public, he also helped a little boy crying in the supermarket once who was lost, and when we found the mother she accused my dad of taking him. Not only was this horrible for my dad, but it was really traumatic for me as a kid. It's terrible having people inadvertently telling you your family is bad. But he was great, he actually founded a group for single dads, organised trips for all of us, and he even took cooking classes for dads and single dads
I do consider myself feminist and all that but this is one of the things I always catch myself thinking dumb things about. It's so weird how we've been conditioned to like "question" dads who take care of their kids. And I can't even say it's because my dad wasn't in my life, because he was. He actually always picked us up from school, he cooked the meals and everything, he always took us shopping or to the zoo or something, so it's really not that I'm not used to dads being dads. It's literally just my own ignorance that always stops me when I see a dad out with his kids and makes me think stuff like "oh, where's the mum?" That's why I really like these videos because they really get you to think about the things you think or say about a specific group of people and they challenge you to do better. Love it, thanks for calling me out on my own ignorance
S The fact that you question yourself and are self aware says a lot about you. You seem like a great person. ❤️
@@younice9707 thank you. I try ❤️
You are a prime example of a good person omg
👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
Off-topic, but great profile picture 😂
I am proud of men who take proper care of their children 👈👌❤🙏
The sad thing is, many people still consider stayng at home raising your child as a "menial and less important job" and because of that, it should be done by women, not by men
You're right...the saddest part of that is that it is mostly women who think that in my experience. Even more sad is that there is a big subset of that group who are women with stay at home partners.
When I say 'sad' I mean sad for them. It has always been sad to me that we are a consumer driven society and that 'success' seems to be buying the most useless junk. There are material things you need, then there is just stuff. Great, useless piles of stuff.
What if the mother died or abandoned the kid.
they should have baby changers in more than just the mums and disabled toilets though 😴
I think it's standard here in the states to have changing tables in the men's room.
Or better yet; there should be designated rooms just for baby changing!
Oh yeah I never thought about that. MEN CHANGE NAPPIES TOO!!!
Oh yeah I never thought about that. MEN NEED TO CHANGE NAPPIES TOO!!!
Agreed. Single dads and gay dads need to change their babus, too.
Things not to say to ex Convicts or Prisoners
Did you drop the soap?
@@taylorwilde9774 yes very funny making fun of men being raped
@@taylorwilde9774 prison rape is not a joke
Good suggestion, OP
@@ricejuice8982 shouldn't of gone to prison in the first place
I don’t get why people have problems with a stay at home dads
If you listen to some people, everything in the world is emactulating, apart of, apparently, being a douche. Guess they were exposed to much worse men while growing up then I was?
People have a problem with everything.
Because people still believe the men should provide for the family however some people don't have a choice but to be a stay at home dad just be greatful there stepping up to actually raise the kids being a stay at home dad is hard at times but also very boring and stressful if I could go to work I would but for me and my partner that wouldn't work out because she can't cope with the baby on her own.
@@quotidian5077 Exactly...
@Rehaan Aamir Um I actually wouldn't have a problem with that so speak for yourself. That would mean I could go out and work and explore the world instead of having to watch some bratty kids. Whoever told you these things?
I love these guys! I hate how everyone assumes only moms could stay at home
Kate Miller Thanks! 😀 @send_dad (a.k.a the one in the black t-shirt)
My husband and I have decided when the time arrives he will be staying home. It's crazy how much flack even I get for it :( as someone who had their dad work 16hr days, I'm ecstatic our child will have dad every day :)
As long as your child is well taken care of who the hell cares.
me watching this (a 16 year old girl)
oh yeah same
Lmao
Me 😂
Also you look very cute do you have Instagram 😇
My cousin is a stay at home dad while his wife is a physician and he does a really good job when it comes to taking care of his daughter because she's well fed and well taken care of
It's 2020, people need to realize stay at home dads are okay and they do a fantastic job
I tried to convince my ex to be the stay at home dad cause I made more money than him but his ego prevented that. I love that some men are past that stuff!
Fucked up logic. He may like his work as much as you do yours, and does not have to quit just because you make more money
@@potmki6601 Eh kind of. If you really stop to think about it wouldn't you want the person making more money to continue working rather than the person that's making less money? Especially if theres a large gap in what the two people are making.
@@sleepybtchx If we are desperate for money, we got to consider, otherwise everyone is free to live how they want. If you want to keep your work and you want your spouse to be at home, and they too love they work and want someone else to stay home, you can compete who makes more money, but one of you just will not live like they wanted to, and that's not a good basis for a healthy marriage. I guess you two just not meant to be.
Kimberlee B but they can both still keep working???
I could watch them all day speaking so happily about their children. Absolutely lovely
Yesterday I was at a department store in Brent Cross Shopping Centre. The disabled bathroom was located in 'men's toilets' area. The baby changing was located in the 'ladies toilets' area. I'm a disabled 23 year old lady, also I use a wheelchair. It was so awkward going into the men's area to use the disabled toilet, getting funny looks from members of the public 😒
Also why do they never maker the corridor wide enough for wheelchairs near the disabled toilets 🚽😦
I respect ✊ DAD’s that help with kids❤️
How about Dads that *raise* the Kids and the Mom is out working.
Dad main carer. Mom main provider.
That is the case of the Video.
If they stay around 😂
@@Tomas-ml9nv
Being dumped doesn't count as not sticking around.
Not Knowing you sired a child wouldn't really be fair to group there either.
And leaving when you know you would be raising a child you *unknowingly* adopted..
More so.
They are not helping out, it’s not something nice or considerarte ... they are doing their job. That is all.
fanOmry that will actually be awesome but Then they will have to take full responsibility like give birth and beastfeed 🤷🏾♀️
"Things not to say to people who refuse to pay their TV licence"
The name of this so called "license" should be changed to a "Live Broadcast Tax" because that's what it actually is. Anybody can own & use a TV and NOT be extorted by the BBC.
😂
Hahahahshshsh
Loool
Who sent you?🤔🤔
😂😂😂
As a very motherly boy who loves taking care of kids and would love to have kids of his own someday this gives me a lot of hope
I have a stay at home dad and a working mum and at school they'd often say 'ask you mummy about this' and I never knew whether they meant 'ask the parent at home right now' or whether I really did need to ask my mum cause she was the one who handled the money and stuff. And my parents were obviously both emergency contacts but my dad was higher up cause he was always free. They were only meant contact my mum if they couldn't get a hold of my dad, which never happened. But once I fell of a climbing frame and hit my head and they ignored the preference and called my mum like five times and didn't even think to call my dad. So when I got home I was upset cause I was told, 'your parent isn't responding' and my dad was so confused so he called the school and they said, 'we called her mum about 5 times but she didn't respond' and he was like, 'no shit, she's on a business trip in Dubai right now and was in meetings all day'
my dad is extremely sick, and literally cannot work, so he is a stay at home dad. I hate people that assume anything about stay at home dads
My dad wasn’t a stay at home dad but he always changed my diapers 🤣 My mom would always get my dad to do them when he could. He probably changed me more than my mom
The fact that you remember the times your dad did it clearly shows that it was exception.
A lot of my female friends are doctors. Because they are generally the high earners and work longer hours in the family, their male partners are often partially or fully stay at home dads.
That’s awesome.
My dad was a stay at home dad until I started secondary school and it was pretty banging because he was the only person that would make my chicken nuggets and chips into artwork like a true icon
I'm a single mom of a boy and I had similar situation how will you teach him to be a man? And he's 23 now and a very balance young man
Knowtheledge Thelastdayz Nobody can teach a boy to be a man. A boy becomes a man when it becomes an adult, simple as that.
@@regileblindsea , Thank you! I taught my son to be a good person and he grew into a good man that was my point
@Knowtheledge Thelastdayz also "being a man" is different for every guy.
@Knowtheledge Thelastdayz and what are those bases/ funduments?? It's all shaped by experience. For the traditional women i know, family and relationships is what important and makes them feel like women, while I know women who think career and personal growth makes them a women too.
It's not even like a kid with a single mom would have zero male influence in their life; it takes a village and all that.
I'm really proud of these dads. I think they did two things really well:
1. Is fully willing to share responsibilities and take good care of their children
2. Defeating the notions that dad's can't be full-time caregivers or men should all go out to work.
Keep it up, stay-at-home dads! I believe all of you are great fathers who will bring up children to be great adults :>
I started daycare when I was still an infant. My mom and dad worked 9-5 for almost my entire life (I don't know when I started daycare, but for reference I'm in college now). I was always in aftercare and was generally the last kid picked up until I was old enough to ride the bus and later on, drive. It doesn't matter who the "bread winner" is. I love my parents dearly, but I wish I could have had one of taking care of me at home. That's such a huge privilege--I wouldn't have cared if it was my mom or dad. The point is, men are capable of nurturing just as much as women, and women are capable of being hard workers just as much as men. Having a stay at home parent is a gift.
If a day wants to care for his kids, let him. There's no bad thing in letting the dad stay at home while the mum works
Creekside Studios and besides, I saw somewhere that no matter the gender, if the father is there, they’ll be alright when they reach adulthood!
The dad being the stay-at-home-parent might not be what they meant, but whatever.
@Knowtheledge Thelastdayz but why? If they can afford to only have one parent working, surely bringing up, nuturing their old child is just as important as working? To be fair bringing a child up is a bit like work. But without the lunch breaks, tea breaks, holidays etc, pay etc. Being a stay at home parent does not mean that they are work shy, it's a wonderful gift to be able bring your own child up
@Knowtheledge Thelastdayz so no one should be a stay at home parent? Yes...let's just pay someone else to bring the child up. If one person can support the family, why not bring your own child up instead of working just for the sake of it?
I'm glad you guys love your kids so much I love stay at home parents nothing wrong with that
Pyrrha/Pyrrhon Valentine Thanks! 😀 @send_dad (a.k.a the one in the black t-shirt)
I appreciate the continuation of this series. It must take a lot of organisation so just to say the effort is valued! Genuinely one of my favourite series on RUclips, so entertaining and informative.
I grew up with a stay at home dad and my mom worked. I literally had a teacher who didn’t believe me that my dad could French braid my hair every morning before school and get me dressed in cute outfits 😒
I met a teacher who said "Girls can't do Maths". She said this to a woman who is a Maths graduate and another who is a Computer Scientist (me). So some teachers like talking sh*t.
My dad was a stay at home dad from when me and my older brother were babies to my 7th grade year when he went back to work. I never thought it was weird, but I knew it was less common that a stay at home mom. I brought it up with somebody and they were shocked, they wanted to know all about why it was my dad and not my mom. I said it was probably the same as having a stay at home mom, but it was my dad.
There are 2 things to choosing who stays at home.
1. Who is more nurturing? If it's equal or near enough, step two.
2. Who makes more money?
It's really that simple.
When I was raising my oldest boy, it was a time when maybe 20% of mens bathrooms had baby changing stations. The world is a lot better now.
This is the first video that I see men asking for ppl understanding / accepting
What about Men who are gay
What about Men who are black
What about Man who are religious
Do they count ? 😅
Darkness Inside Thanks! 😀 @send_dad (a.k.a the one in the black t-shirt)
While my mom did stay home with us more than my dad, both of them had varied work schedules so sometimes it was my dad. I remember when we went out in public there were always old ladies commenting on how admirable it was that he was spending time with us, or how crazy it was to see a man with a sling and a stroller. It was never anything negative, but it really confused me as a kid, I was like "of course he's with us, he's our dad!" It also brothered me that he got praised and my mom didn't, because she was working just as hard
Guy with the beard and the green cardigan...GAWD!!!! Also, my husband is a maid and I work in a corporate office. If the time comes we can no longer afford daycare he will stay at home. Thank you for putting this video up.
Hi ✌🏾. Lol
My best friend (girl) got raised by her dad all alone since the mom was the one who just went away
I was raised by my stay-at-home Dad and it was the best decision he made becuase I knew my mum wouldn't have taken care of me! Thank you Dad for being there for me! Love you lots! 💚
I remember walking into a restaurant bathroom and seeing a father changing his child (I didn't really see the children but it was really young probably a couple a months) and 8 just gave him a sympathetic smile because there was a changeling station in the men's bathroom and a lot of the women that walked in immediately walked out.
I like how the stay at home dad's keep it real and admit the Netflix n chill, cruise to the park, no deadlines etc etc.
As long as they also cook dinner/prepare lunches and don't expect their wife to clean up after working all day it's alright.
Disclaimer: this means some NOT all "mothers have always been seen as nurturing and soft" errrr OK that is a load of old rubbish just ask Rose West or Tracey Connelly and as a childfree woman I am tired of this archiac rhetoric that is STILL doing the rounds. Bravo to these guys and to all who are flipping the script.
@ttfr have put a disclaimer at the start for those who are triggered and no being triggered is not a bad thing it just means a person reacts to something that touches a raw nerve. Everybody gets triggered.
The world need more dads like these
A kid with two dads is really cool
Well yeah my people and community are generally the coolest.
these guys are actually super kind and I'm loving the dad vibe in this video
This is my absolute favorite of all the “Things Not To Say To...” series.
My dad was a stay at home dad with me back in the 90s and did mommy and me swimming classes as the only guy. He’s honestly one of my best friends now that I’m 24.
Its almost as if no matter what walk of life you’re in sometimes people will say things that mildly irk you.
What fresh hell is this that we have bought upon ourselves. Will this unbearable suffering never end.
You're all admirable for showing that man can help out with child care! 😍
g laugh Thanks! 😀 @send_dad (a.k.a the one in the black t-shirt)
"help out"? My partner isn't "helping me" out by being on shared parental leave to parent our daughter.
My partner will be a stay at home dad because I will earn more, so nothing wrong with it. If we have kids...... atm we are not bothered about kids.
How do you know that?
@@willm9359 because I already do earn more, and he agreed to it. He doesn’t care to work he loves kids if we have them, atm not bothered about kids
That was our deal too. Now that the kids are a little older and in elem./middle school she seems to resent it. Never heard a peep when they were babies and toddlers and had to be carried around. I guess now she thinks I have it easy and don't 'work' all day.
Well, I worked corporately for almost twenty years and I know how much of the 'work day' is actual work, lol. I have always thought that in terms of importance, taking care of the kids is at the top. Money is nice and some jobs are very important...it's great if you have a fulfilling one and you get paid for it. Mine is so fulfilling I'm willing to do it for free 😉
The man in the white button up kind of looks like Chester Bennington
True. I saw that too
Right 💛
He does 🤩
Things not to say to homeschooled people? PLEASE!
Olivia McNeil yassssssss 👏👏👏👏
Yes!
"You're just lazy, you don't want to go to school" "Oh, it's because your parents want to special train you, yeah?" (I skipped grades, but my parents aren't coming anywhere near me when I work trust me) "It's soooo cool, you can just not work at all!"
Olivia McNeil yes
OMG yes, that would awesome!
So heart warming. Love this.
I think it’s great that they’re at home caring for the children! Whether it’s the mother or father when children are young that is a crucial time where they need the most nurture and attention.
Ash2ashesxo Thanks! 😀 @send_dad (a.k.a the one in the black t-shirt)
Lloyd Walton no problem at all!! 😊 thank you for replying!!
I love this series so much wtf
This is how it is in my family. My mom works about 50 hours a week, my dad didn’t like his job and had already been working there a long time, so he retired early.
Perfectly fine
my cousin is a CFO in a software company and her husband is a stay at home husband,they have 2 boys and they can't be happier!
"When she gets older, she'll actually realise that yeah daddy was around rather than 'all I sore was daddy going to work'" I felt that❤
support dads! every parent is important
When I was growing up, both of my parents worked and chores were a family activity. It was really fun, actually. I used to love cleaning the bathroom, because we would throw buckets of water at each other and do all sorts of silly things. I never thought of my mom as being responsible for cooking, cleaning, etc. My parents didn't have to ask me to participate, because I enjoyed it so much. Saturday was "cleaning day" and I would help them until about noon and then I would go and play outside with my friends and my parents would carry on until the evening. I have many happy memories of those saturday mornings.
Dads give their kids confidence, kids give their dads happy.
Thank you! You guys are a positive force for dads!
Protect these Men 🙏♥️
"Piers bloody Morgan"
Fab.
Hope he watches this 😁
HATS OFF TO YOU GOOD DADS OUT THERE
Edgy Aspensnow Thanks! 😀 @send_dad (a.k.a the one in the black t-shirt)
It really shouldn't matter mom/or dad staying home, what should matter is that the child/or children are loved and taken care of! 2 people make the child, 2 people are able to raise a child in some instances.. So all u stay at home dad's/mom's, keep ur head up. You have the best job's, doesnt pay much but u see all the 1st in ur child's life, that is priceless, and yes there are 1st even through teen yrs! That should make u feel the riches... And to everyone saying other wise- make sure ur closet is clean be4 bashing someone for staying home, those skeletons could fall any moment!
It's so sweet to see a father with his kids?? That made it on the list?!?!
I love these dads
I would love to be a stay at home dad once i have kids cause i like to home school them and that is just too much to ask from someone else like their mother
OMG bless them! Such wise men!!
Amazing dads! Keep doing what you do
Stella Martinez Thanks! 😀 @send_dad (a.k.a the one in the black t-shirt)
I love these. Nothing wrong with the dad being a stay at home parent
I love this but it’s not the preferred lifestyle for me and my family. I always hated working and wanted nothing more than to be a wife and a mother, I managed to find a guy who strangely really enjoyed working and the thought of being at home around me and the kids all day would drive him crazy! My best friend and her husband are the exact opposites. It’s all about doing what works for you!
Kids in primary school used to be so confused when my dad used to help at school while everyone else’s mums were there
Some kids didn’t think I HAD a mum!
I love this. The love is felt.
We need a Men's Rights Movement
One of the best of these videos I’ve seen! Incredible lessons to be learnt from people who disrupt the norm. They show that there’s nothing “more natural” about mums looking after their kids than dads 👌🏽💪🏽 There should be a discussion about which parent (assuming it’s possible) should stay at home for the kids, it shouldn’t be assumed to be the mum.
Robynne Britz Thanks! 😀 @send_dad (a.k.a the one in the black t-shirt)
My friends dad is a stay at home dad of 3 boys under 4 years old and a 11 year old girl. He always get asked this stuff and hates it. He really nice tho.
I find it so cute when I see a dad with a baby strapped to him, I just feel like he's a good dad even though I dunno him
well, kudos to u guys, cause ure real men, for putting ure foot down for ure children!! 👏👏👏
I have got to say this is my favorite one yet
My Dad was home from the age of 11 whilst my Mum worked- stay-at-home Dad’s to older kids are so important too 💚
Great dads!! Love em all!!
Wow. Respect to u Dads! My dad took good care of me when my mum left us... keep it up👍
I find it hilarious that they all have the almost SAME EXACT BEARD STYLE
Not at all. Are we looking at the same people?
@@mellymay0303 I said almost. Sure they have different lengths and stuff but almost all of em have a very similar beard lmao
this was so interesting xx