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  • @Melly-xoxo
    @Melly-xoxo 3 года назад +6845

    Man: *takes care of his kid*
    Idiots: That’s emasculating”
    Man:*doesn't take care of his kid*
    People: “He’s a deadbeat”

    • @BlankedOutSlate
      @BlankedOutSlate 3 года назад +224

      I'm sorry, I don't see the difference between people & idiots

    • @yumikumi2
      @yumikumi2 3 года назад +52

      You're proof you're not listening. This is about people viewing men staying at home taking care of children as emasculating and lazy, for which that is sexism, it's not about you and your child custody problems. You need to chill with that incel stuff.

    • @brainboy6655
      @brainboy6655 3 года назад +32

      @@BlankedOutSlate wow, sick roast. Aliens be laughing right now

    • @eibbor171
      @eibbor171 3 года назад +10

      ohhh the double standard i was molded by it, constantly breath it....love it

    • @cirilocampos9909
      @cirilocampos9909 3 года назад +7

      We never get the credit we deserve

  • @marinadiaz1762
    @marinadiaz1762 3 года назад +16860

    Doesn’t a dad raising his children make him ya know A DAD?

  • @Jbamb92
    @Jbamb92 Год назад +3242

    Society constantly asks the question: “where are these kids’ dads? They need a father figure in their life” When a mother is raising her children alone, but when a father steps up and raises the children alone it’s considered emasculating and against gender norms. What a double standard

    • @maggiethepearl7183
      @maggiethepearl7183 Год назад

      It’s so f*cked up because all of these poor kids can’t see or talk to their fathers and learn from them because in cultural/ society standards they’re constantly working

    • @mrsantoro8306
      @mrsantoro8306 Год назад +53

      It’s humanity’s fault.

    • @MillennialMountainMama
      @MillennialMountainMama Год назад +83

      Oh yes and single moms are bashed, widows are forgotten, and single dads are seen as heroes. I have seen good and bad single parents.

    • @gettingcalledoutontwitteri1882
      @gettingcalledoutontwitteri1882 Год назад +55

      @@MillennialMountainMama
      When men do it, its seen more as "Babysitting " or if a mother is a b...while women get mocked for being all alone

    • @andrewmccully8254
      @andrewmccully8254 Год назад +2

      Because you aren't a man worth anything if you can't keep a woman or partner in your life and children. It's not enough to be an amazing father you have to sacrifice everything to keep the mom around too no matter what.

  • @i143icecreams
    @i143icecreams Год назад +671

    First Lady was spitting some of the realest and deepest stuff. “She won’t settle for the next pretty boy who says nice things to her cause she’ll know her dad got her back.”

    • @RowingIsFun
      @RowingIsFun 8 месяцев назад +38

      Right! IDK how all these people can just burst into motivational speeches like that out of the blue lol

    • @sarahnadeofpoetry
      @sarahnadeofpoetry Месяц назад +6

      ​@@RowingIsFun Good education, raised right by their own family members, forming friendships with the right people, a desire to engage in critical thinking on different subjects outside the bounds of their education, and a lot of thoughts that get bottled up inside because there's just no appropriate time or place to bring them up.

    • @zayteer1657
      @zayteer1657 Месяц назад

      Why are you prejudging pretty boys?

    • @JDOTYBALLA
      @JDOTYBALLA 28 дней назад

      @@zayteer1657shutup 🤣

  • @Lily-cr8if
    @Lily-cr8if 3 года назад +8178

    that first woman is literally a QUEEN, period.

  • @avrge4386
    @avrge4386 3 года назад +10462

    "shes going to learn not to settle for the next pretty boy thats says nice thing to her" FACTS!

    • @julianfrederick9082
      @julianfrederick9082 3 года назад +18

      Facts? Not at all.

    • @dolliexzo
      @dolliexzo 3 года назад +324

      @@julianfrederick9082 it is though

    • @julianfrederick9082
      @julianfrederick9082 3 года назад +6

      @@dolliexzo could you elaborate

    • @DakonBlackblade2
      @DakonBlackblade2 3 года назад +506

      @@julianfrederick9082 Women raised without good role models around them often do not properly understand the difference between being praised by a man cause he wants to get in their pants and someone who actually values and respects them. Therefore it is very common for such women to get trapped in toxic relationships once they become adults.

    • @DakonBlackblade2
      @DakonBlackblade2 3 года назад +178

      @@julianfrederick9082 There is no distinction between what ? Men that want to take advantage of women and men that actually like someone ? You can't seriously be saying that.
      Also its not my problem if you can't understand "big words", I'll keep writing the same way I always do, thank you.
      Ps: what the hell does atheism have to do with anything ? Where did that even come from lol. And as far as insults go, I give your attempt at it a 2.5/10, it was mildly hilarious but fails at its intent real bad so I'm afraid it's far from a passing grade.

  • @Josh1OD
    @Josh1OD Год назад +770

    Man, the psychologist may not have confronted the mean women, but his words and his warmth while saying it, made me almost cry.

    • @inheritmyshoes9559
      @inheritmyshoes9559 Год назад +33

      He was amazing. He didn't care to confront the negative.... just to uplift the fellow man. And while that's not everyone's style, and not always the way to go.... it's his beautiful way.

    • @bendemare5270
      @bendemare5270 6 месяцев назад +4

      Right it was so touching.... I feel sad for how many males can be afraid of confronting sexism when it's targeted toward them, And I am grateful to see support in the form of this video😢

  • @weirdwisteria_8964
    @weirdwisteria_8964 Год назад +402

    I grew up with a pediatrician mom and a stay at home dad. Let me tell you, my dad is not only a fantastic cook, but also a champion of ballet buns. My dad might not be perfect, but he is an amazing dad.

    • @MSDS777
      @MSDS777 Год назад +19

      Champion of ballet buns - love that!

    • @catressbarber6626
      @catressbarber6626 Год назад +8

      Yes great fathers are everything!

  • @chrisd2051
    @chrisd2051 3 года назад +10536

    What's unmanly about taking care of your kid?

    • @TheSnowdogsShorts
      @TheSnowdogsShorts 3 года назад +607

      Nothing.

    • @somebodyoncetoldme2664
      @somebodyoncetoldme2664 3 года назад +582

      Showing affection and not being the bread winner and apparantly not manly. Didn't know it was the 1950's....oh wait it's 2020 damn

    • @basedblackbeard4456
      @basedblackbeard4456 3 года назад +45

      @@somebodyoncetoldme2664 Not being the breadwinner is unmanly though.

    • @averageofficechair
      @averageofficechair 3 года назад +261

      Nothing, but some ppl are still living in the 1950’s and think women should always be kind and nurturing and men have no emotions apart from anger ig

    • @robuk3723
      @robuk3723 3 года назад +13

      Seriously dude, if it was so rewarding the mother would be doing it. Also why would the birthrate be plummeting?

  • @alexdee5341
    @alexdee5341 3 года назад +3992

    Girls, learn from the first woman: Do not settle for the pretty boy who says nice things.

    • @ernestjimmy4537
      @ernestjimmy4537 3 года назад +35

      Thank u

    • @BrownCheeni
      @BrownCheeni 3 года назад +65

      Too late..

    • @airbornemelody6156
      @airbornemelody6156 3 года назад +56

      Yeah she had really good stuff to say

    • @mega1chiken6dancr9
      @mega1chiken6dancr9 3 года назад +8

      men should work. you really gonna let your wife bring in the income for you? LOL.

    • @pinklov4447
      @pinklov4447 3 года назад +155

      @@mega1chiken6dancr9 Why? Do you have any reason for that opinion other than being caught up in cultural expectations and not having the brain capacity to think past them?

  • @Bee-do8zx
    @Bee-do8zx Год назад +259

    What’s the most shocking to me is that even the older generation cares less about the stereotypes of gender roles. That was the most wholesome thing ever.

    • @megabrian756
      @megabrian756 Год назад +9

      These days, the ideals of hate and division are spread like gospel. Back then, it was a lot more of parents teaching their children to be good, kind people. And although things are objectively better today, we must weed out the division and keep everybody on one page.

  • @angelasalum8514
    @angelasalum8514 Год назад +573

    My father was a stay at home dad. He is a disabled war veteran. He taught me so many things and I can't thank him enough, he is the strongest man I have ever met. ❤️

    • @hello-sz7hp
      @hello-sz7hp Год назад

      I'M SOOOO SCARED OF A 20TH BOOSTER EXISTING! THE VACCINE EXISTING *RISKS* A 20TH BOOSTER EXISTING!!!!! HEEEEELP..... PLEASE..... *BECAUSE*
      *vaccine existing* is to *20th booster*
      AS
      *Running a stop sign* is to *T-bone accident*
      Or
      *left side driving* is to *head-on collision*
      Or
      *Going the wrong way on a one way* is to *slow head-on collision*
      Or
      *going the wrong way* is to *spirally head-on collision*
      Or
      *Failing to signal* is to *getting rear ended*
      Or
      *not wearing a seatbelt* is to *death from an accident*
      Or
      *not wearing a helmet is to *death from an accident*
      Or
      *Leaving your headlights off* is to *crash from not seeing you*
      Or
      *Tailgating* is to *rear ending a person*
      Or
      *not having side mirrors* is to *changing lanes ingnoring a car there and crashing*
      Or
      *speeding* is to *rear ending a car or pedestrian*
      Or
      *Jaywalking* is to *getting run over*
      Or
      *drunk driving* is to *crashing*
      Or
      *putting poison in the hamburgers* is to *customers getting sick*
      Or
      *spraying cyanide in the air* is to *people breathing it and life ended from it*
      Or
      *leaving your door unlocked* is to *robbery*
      Or
      *Knocking over the cones* is to *getting other drivers confused and driving into dangerous unfinished parts of the road*
      Or
      *Not putting up a wet floor sign* is to *someone slipping and breaking their leg*
      *Cooking bacon shirtles* is to *getting burned*
      Or
      *running with a knife* is to *it hitting someone else*
      Or
      *Shining a laser everywhere in the sky* is to *blinding an aircraft pilot*
      Or
      *firing a glok in random directions at the store* is to *someone getting injured*
      Or
      *putting dynamite in people's garages* is to *it blowing up*
      Or
      *Throwing a block down from a building* is to *it landing on someone's head*
      HEEELP!! PLEASE, i am so worried!!!

    • @SuperSpieth
      @SuperSpieth Год назад +11

      I’m glad he taught you so much!

    • @hello-sz7hp
      @hello-sz7hp Год назад +1

      @@SuperSpieth 20th 20th 20th booster booster booster

    • @vervideosgiros1156
      @vervideosgiros1156 Год назад

      ​@@hello-sz7hp Mais outro taradinho anti-vacinas?!

    • @MrJoelMiller
      @MrJoelMiller Год назад +5

      Tell him I said thank you for his service

  • @brodymarsh6495
    @brodymarsh6495 3 года назад +5023

    Judge Judy: “Fathers are not second class parents!”

  • @robbie16b
    @robbie16b 3 года назад +4379

    She said , “mr. mom” ... sis.... that’s called a DAD

    • @realone7488
      @realone7488 3 года назад +197

      Mr. Mom was an 80s movie about a stay at home dad, which was a radical idea at the time. But yes, that’s definitely what a dad is, too.

    • @cheybaby4320
      @cheybaby4320 3 года назад +8

      All I can think of is the song.

    • @anastasiajane3066
      @anastasiajane3066 3 года назад +2

      Ikr lol

    • @sirknight8804
      @sirknight8804 3 года назад +5

      @Adriano Castellano Though who wouldn't wanna marry a stay at home dad

    • @squirrel8185
      @squirrel8185 3 года назад +7

      one of the things that made me madist as a stay at home dad is when people would see me with my kids and ask, "oh, are you baby sitting them today?" i be like, "no... i'm fothering them today... becuse i'm there fother... and thats what we do."

  • @BuffinsTheCat28
    @BuffinsTheCat28 Год назад +536

    I'm a daddy's girl. He's from where I learned that I wanted to become an aerospace engineer, and go to college to work on missles and spacecrafts. My mom never taught me such things. Dads are amazing!

    • @jamesparson
      @jamesparson Год назад +2

      So what did you end up doing?

    • @amberbrown8254
      @amberbrown8254 Год назад +19

      My dad is an aerospace engineer! And he is my biggest hero and a wonderful influence on me growing up ♡ best of luck!

    • @ishrendon6435
      @ishrendon6435 Год назад +8

      Not all dads are amazing lol but i get your point

    • @mahatawfeek2532
      @mahatawfeek2532 10 месяцев назад +3

      This comment hit home tho because i want to got to university and become an aerospace engineer but the one stopping me is my horribly abusive dad and even when i got kicked out and went to my moms place he is still causing me horrible problems. Anyways seriously love and appreciate both your dad and your mom because your mom didnt teach you stuff your dad did but i bet she will support your decisions. It makes me happy seeing that the world still has good parents fr

    • @user-pe8il6pd2v
      @user-pe8il6pd2v Месяц назад

      Good for you and dad. Hope you are an aerospace engineer with a bright future.
      That said, hope you realize your mom also put in effort too as a parent (unless she is not around for whatever reason). Even if she is just cook and clean....

  • @keyoharris
    @keyoharris Год назад +270

    My dad died when I was 11. I was attached to his hip. I’m 32 now and till this day the 11 years I had with him nothing has matched that. He was amazing.

    • @ArchAngelManga
      @ArchAngelManga Год назад +12

      I'm sorry for your loss mate

    • @strawberri_.swxrlzz
      @strawberri_.swxrlzz Год назад +6

      i’m so sorry for your loss my man, condolences

    • @helenchelmicka3028
      @helenchelmicka3028 Год назад +2

      Sorry for your loss Keyo ❤️ xx

    • @EeveelutionStorm
      @EeveelutionStorm Год назад +3

      I'm sorry for your loss.
      I lost mine a few years ago and it still stings every day... but nothing is ever gonna change the fact, that he was your Dad and he loved you something fierce.

    • @jessiewalthers7645
      @jessiewalthers7645 2 месяца назад

      Fighting back tears reading this. My dad lost his dad at exactly 11 years old as well. My dad said they were so close and he was his everything. Unfortunately my dad did not give my brother and I the same relationship and bond and chose alcohol over us and it has affected my entire life. I’m 40 years old and I’m still dealing with the trauma of not having that bond. I envy those who have / had that (but not in a jealous way )

  • @reh3884
    @reh3884 3 года назад +2797

    When my daughter was young, I would take her to a local restaurant. All the waitresses knew she was my daughter, but would always comment, "oh, are you babysitting today?" I would reply, "no, I'm with my daughter."

    • @mikecummings4715
      @mikecummings4715 3 года назад +435

      I was a stay at home dad, my response to the "are you babysitting" question was "no I'm parenting, babysitters get paid and a day off"

    • @colie0406
      @colie0406 3 года назад +151

      That's so goddamn annoying

    • @twiggymp416
      @twiggymp416 3 года назад +44

      @Bullets in Bacon Grease i-

    • @asmrgolden6790
      @asmrgolden6790 3 года назад +2

      😉

    • @mayadraws7934
      @mayadraws7934 3 года назад +68

      @Bullets in Bacon Grease anybody can be a bad person at the same time anybody can be a good person. Color does not matter. Even if it is in a social experiment.

  • @yoshi999z7
    @yoshi999z7 3 года назад +7193

    The last woman made me cry. “When you die, people will forget you in a New York minute but she will remember him for the rest of her life”

    • @christopherluvsaidan67
      @christopherluvsaidan67 3 года назад +177

      Drops mic.

    • @squirrel8185
      @squirrel8185 3 года назад +313

      one of the things that made me madist as a stay at home dad is when people would see me with my kids and ask, "oh, are you baby sitting them today?" i be like, "no... i'm fathering them today... becuse i'm there father... and thats what we do."

    • @mrusername3438
      @mrusername3438 2 года назад +2

      @@christopherluvsaidan67 Cringe

    • @gilpaspot9811
      @gilpaspot9811 2 года назад +22

      And that's one of the (purely selfish) reasons people have children. Fear of being forgotten.

    • @Jinkroll
      @Jinkroll 2 года назад

      @@squirrel8185 bruh what the fuck

  • @brinolabar7918
    @brinolabar7918 2 года назад +289

    I am a stay at home Dad and I can say I have never had a job more rewarding in my life.

    • @natalielampridi5573
      @natalielampridi5573 Год назад +15

      That's so sweet

    • @istankon-el2470
      @istankon-el2470 6 месяцев назад +2

      Aw

    • @bendemare5270
      @bendemare5270 6 месяцев назад +2

      Amazing🎉

    • @GenF91
      @GenF91 2 месяца назад +1

      Aww

    • @ramcesdelgado5123
      @ramcesdelgado5123 Месяц назад +2

      I’m unemployed for now. My father always work outside from home. Wish he would’ve stayed at home full time everyday and raised me. It’s an honorable job. More than just work.

  • @yourlocalskateparkshaman
    @yourlocalskateparkshaman 2 года назад +110

    I'm childfree but I love seeing stay-at-home dads because these are men who love their children and spending time with their children and didn't just have a kids to "spread their seed". They're actually being responsible for the human life they created. I also just love seeing them interact with their kids. I once saw a dad with 3 of his kids and when it was time to leave the park he just said "Come on buddy!" And it totally warmed my heart.

    • @quesadilla9957
      @quesadilla9957 Год назад +1

      @paper plane “More a dad who cares about his family than someone who stays at home,” what? His role is worth less because be’s the primary caretaker of his and his wife’s children? Why? Is this your attitude towards the more common dynamic of a stay-at-home mom and an out-of-home dad? Her role means she cares less about her family because she’s not working outside? You’re ridiculous. 😂

    • @Killmeideserveit
      @Killmeideserveit Год назад +1

      @paperplane1471 listen there dimwit. Parenting isn't a _ucking competition. Doing one thing or another does not make you more or less of a father. Both are hard work and important thing in the story is the child- if it's happy then it's good.

    • @quesadilla9957
      @quesadilla9957 Год назад

      When you equate having children to "just a hobby," hahaha

  • @HerbertLye
    @HerbertLye 3 года назад +16295

    Laughing at stay-home-dads is just purely sexist, period.

    • @elenajackson9763
      @elenajackson9763 3 года назад +566

      @Platzpropeller it's sexist against women. It's perpetuating the idea that men are weak if they raise their children, implying that women are the weaker sex as this should only be a job for them, while men do the real work.

    • @elenajackson9763
      @elenajackson9763 3 года назад +119

      @Platzpropeller I was saying that to the person who said it wasn’t sexist because clearly they don’t believe sexism against men exists, as racism against white people doesn’t exist. I wasn’t agreeing or disagreeing, just telling them that even than, it would still be sexist against women. I’ve taken many women’s studies classes as electives, a lot of what you said is blatantly untrue based on accredited studies with many replications and empirical evidence. You did not need to write an (entirely wrong) essay lmao, good bye

    • @elenajackson9763
      @elenajackson9763 3 года назад +63

      @Platzpropeller women are denied a lot of jobs because employers expect them to get pregnant and take leave, even if unmarried. Women are also ridiculed for being stay at home (my mom was a stay at home mom so I should know). So don’t just pull facts out of your ass without doing research

    • @Crustycats
      @Crustycats 3 года назад +189

      Yes, my dad was a stay at home dad, he had to raise us when we were infants, to toddlers then as kids, while my mom worked.

    • @jacksamunster4407
      @jacksamunster4407 3 года назад +6

      @@Crustycats so your dad isnt a real man and hes lazy

  • @proctorritter5176
    @proctorritter5176 3 года назад +4146

    Father: Takes care of his daughter and makes sure that she’s clean, healthy, fed, comfortable, and safe
    Karens: *This is an Avengers level threat*

    • @cubismagic2296
      @cubismagic2296 3 года назад +10

      I’d have those Karens know, Mr. Mom is the highest rank anyone can have

    • @kelvinpang438
      @kelvinpang438 3 года назад +33

      @J K Apparently you know for certain that he doesnt have a wife who is making enough money,interesting.How do you know this?I would like to know.

    • @alyhs9628
      @alyhs9628 3 года назад +15

      @J K uhm... it is the man part... theyre talking about masculinity... so yeah they do have a problem with that IDIOT ._.

    • @jennyo7218
      @jennyo7218 3 года назад +15

      @J K Elaborate on the dumb shit you just said so I can further make fun of it.

    • @StudlyFudd13
      @StudlyFudd13 3 года назад +11

      @J K Soooo he doesn't have a wife or a husband that works? Hmmm please tell us more about how you can read minds.

  • @ripvanwinkle6449
    @ripvanwinkle6449 Год назад +19

    That first girl... just really cherished, and missed the time she could have had with her dad. Fills me with sorrow.

  • @kitkat3155
    @kitkat3155 10 месяцев назад +26

    I was raised mainly by my father because of my mother’s mental illness. He would take me everywhere with him, on day trips and all sorts of things. He is a wonderful father and I would be very upset if someone treated him this way.

  • @rachelthegreat2959
    @rachelthegreat2959 3 года назад +1800

    Dad: *doesn't take care of kids*
    Idiots: He's such a deadbeat.
    Dad: *takes care of kids*
    Idiots: You weren't supposed to do that.

    • @trinitywidmann5866
      @trinitywidmann5866 3 года назад +52

      I wish my father would've took care of me and my brother growing up. He was never around, and for the times he was, he basically didn't want to deal with us. He didn't have a job either.

    • @whiteboymike3999
      @whiteboymike3999 3 года назад +16

      @@trinitywidmann5866 my father was never home and when he was it was basically the same like he wasn't there but he did work ALOT and hard work. So I give him that, he did alot so I could have what I have now.
      I always had a bit of resentment but now I understand fully. I love my father and I always try and be a better father to my child give them time and everything. I also teach them to be humble, nice, and I couldn't be more proud straight A student. You can always be a diff kind of parent, my mother was horrible 🤣 but I just take it as a lesson of someone I dont want to be.

    • @erics2954
      @erics2954 3 года назад +1

      I think people only call those people deadbeats when they are either never home or when they dont take care of their kids but also don’t work

    • @flyingchappal916
      @flyingchappal916 3 года назад +1

      #society

    • @angel-nv7jk
      @angel-nv7jk 3 года назад +2

      Men can't win in society, could they?

  • @lesterkakepetum2586
    @lesterkakepetum2586 3 года назад +1968

    I’m a single dad , I’ve raised my daughter on my own since she was 3 1/2 months old , she’s now 9

    • @choncho2585
      @choncho2585 3 года назад +48

      thats a cakewalk wait till they are teens they will take a lot of years of your life lol

    • @pranav.m8784
      @pranav.m8784 3 года назад +16

      So true

    • @yatagarasu1495
      @yatagarasu1495 3 года назад +45

      Good Job bro :)

    • @alexandranunkisahriarti2019
      @alexandranunkisahriarti2019 3 года назад +31

      You are the best! 👏👏👏 ... be a loving one, you will have wonderful return for that! 🌹

    • @john-dw4zc
      @john-dw4zc 3 года назад +10

      Good job sir

  • @dianaquick8883
    @dianaquick8883 Год назад +68

    My husband is a SAHD, and our home would cease to function without him. He does EVERYTHING in the house, and I do everything outside the house. For Saturday, we go out together for our morning "date" together to do grocery shopping since our kids are old enough to be left by themselves for several hours. For us, we have kind of a traditional 1950s marriage, but the gender roles are reversed and it happens to work for us.

  • @crazycroissantnorris3695
    @crazycroissantnorris3695 2 года назад +144

    “That is an honourable job” true words of wisdom!
    Also a lot of people are unhappy in their jobs, I would just say they are jealous. There is nothing wrong with being a stay at home dad or mum. ♥️

  • @hayley.elr-5403
    @hayley.elr-5403 3 года назад +8505

    My siblings and I were raised by a single father. My dad took me shopping for a prom dress, taught me how to walk in heels, talks to me about boy problems and even bought me my first training bra. If someone talked to my dad like that I would be furious. My dad takes pride in being both a dad and a mom. And he pulls all the ladies, no one should say that it’s not masculine to love and take care of your children.

    • @miathekindofnicehufflepuff508
      @miathekindofnicehufflepuff508 3 года назад +418

      That honestly sounds great.... my mom can’t even do that

    • @chloe_marvel
      @chloe_marvel 3 года назад +236

      My friend is the same. She has a mom but her dad helps her with "girly" stuff more.

    • @zed.4582
      @zed.4582 3 года назад +85

      My dad also raised me and my sister single handidly :>.
      *(Quite a dark childhood wth our mother.)*
      -He/They.

    • @macanoke7597
      @macanoke7597 3 года назад +47

      Oh boy...i start to love your father😍

    • @jayzenstyle
      @jayzenstyle 3 года назад +34

      If only my father was present in my life at least once a year...

  • @mnemo-nyx5750
    @mnemo-nyx5750 3 года назад +2583

    Imagine thinking caring for your own children is "not masculine" lmaoo

    • @atmmachine11
      @atmmachine11 3 года назад +124

      My dad must have been pretty masculine cause he left while my mom was still pregnant with me.

    • @Snowaxe3D
      @Snowaxe3D 3 года назад +75

      @@atmmachine11 Prolly gone to get milk for all those muscles, /s

    • @novaangelica5096
      @novaangelica5096 3 года назад +6

      @@atmmachine11 people don't mean that way , even though I don't support them , in just trying to say what they wanna say , they are saying that a dad should not take care of his children but a woman should the dad's obligation is to work and provide the money meanwhile the mother takes care of them. That's ridiculous

    • @squirrel8185
      @squirrel8185 3 года назад +5

      @@atmmachine11 owch that one hert to read.

    • @kevinpark55
      @kevinpark55 2 года назад

      I think that people who really do act in real life like the actresses and actresses who played the evil women and evil men should be shot. Less evil people in the world by executing evil people.

  • @fightingmink
    @fightingmink 2 года назад +196

    She’s so 100%. I tell my coworkers my wife has the toughest job between us as she stays at home raising our kids.

    • @nate2759
      @nate2759 Год назад +19

      You are a real man for recognising that.

    • @hello-sz7hp
      @hello-sz7hp Год назад +1

      @@nate2759 I'M SOOOO SCARED OF A 20TH BOOSTER EXISTING! THE VACCINE EXISTING *RISKS* A 20TH BOOSTER EXISTING!!!!! HEEEEELP..... PLEASE.....

  • @miriamcross7060
    @miriamcross7060 Год назад +100

    I was raised by a single father. It was probably the best thing to happen to me he taught me what love was as well as he was there with me to talk about my problems and along with my grandma taught me what periods were and bought me my first products I needed when I was embarrassed. I wouldn’t be where I am today without my dad and if someone talked to my dad that way I would seriously be furious. I needed my dads love and perspective to be where I am today

  • @terryterry8376
    @terryterry8376 3 года назад +23289

    I'll tell you honestly, as a female, there's nothing sexier than a man who is comfortable with his masculinity

    • @_confused_jaxx_
      @_confused_jaxx_ 3 года назад +1077

      I would agree if I was straight

    • @deeanna8448
      @deeanna8448 3 года назад +382

      100% correct!

    • @GymCritical
      @GymCritical 3 года назад +404

      Makes sense why sports players are the go-to (we slap butts in locker rooms consistently)

    • @gaminglegend
      @gaminglegend 3 года назад +440

      @@GymCritical It's so gay that it's straight

    • @pmaster1173
      @pmaster1173 3 года назад +42

      How about....MONEEYYYYYYYY

  • @akmazaidi2909
    @akmazaidi2909 3 года назад +802

    When the first lady said,
    "... And she's going to learn not to settle for the next pretty boy that says nice things to her, because she's going to know, 'my daddy's got my back'."
    Queen.
    *mic drop*

    • @olukiyesimi
      @olukiyesimi 3 года назад +19

      im saying bruh she was spitting point after point

    • @rolmos310
      @rolmos310 3 года назад +8

      Agree total mic jaw drop

    • @kluger2222
      @kluger2222 3 года назад +6

      She spits fire

  • @lilyavery4958
    @lilyavery4958 Год назад +73

    Me and my siblings were raised by our single father. He passed away from Cancer in 2018 this was so touching to see! My dad played both rolls amazingly, always put us first and was the only support we ever needed! Dads can do it all! Props to single/stay at home parents!

    • @johndoe883
      @johndoe883 Год назад +3

      U need a hug get over here

  • @mistrotech8894
    @mistrotech8894 Год назад +51

    As a teen with a single father, this hits close to home😔 While he works very hard and has a job, I respect stay-at-home dads very much.

  • @IhsFace
    @IhsFace 3 года назад +2662

    My Greatest Fear: *Hi I'm John Quiñones*
    Edit: It hasn't happened yet, please pray it never happens

  • @ananya-jb5sx
    @ananya-jb5sx 3 года назад +1808

    “she’s gonna have self respect so she doesn’t settle for the next pretty boy she sees” 🧍🏽‍♀️🧍🏽‍♀️🧍🏽‍♀️

    • @XoAngelFanyXo
      @XoAngelFanyXo 3 года назад +7

      NOT YOU WITH YOUR OIKAWA PROFILE PIC AHIAJSKSKSKKS

    • @abelia1142
      @abelia1142 3 года назад

      @@XoAngelFanyXo u ok? Ya know it’s fine to be a normie but you don’t have to make fun of people who aren’t, you look stupid

    • @abelia1142
      @abelia1142 3 года назад +2

      @zahara Naqvi Ummm sis u need mental help?

    • @Kuromll
      @Kuromll 3 года назад

      Pfff, you out here with your oikawa pfp!!!

    • @abelia1142
      @abelia1142 3 года назад

      @Arianna Chavez first of all, I don’t watch haiyku, I’ve only watched like one episode and I only know like 2 characters, idek who Oikawa is. Second of all, I understand that but you see the problem is that these people were making fun of someone for simply their profile picture which wasn’t harmful in any way, and they had good intent. doesn’t anything about that seem unfair to you? Now I have better things to spend my time on than this and I’m sure you do too so bye bye

  • @jeremiahdunn4733
    @jeremiahdunn4733 11 месяцев назад +12

    I honestly had a tear with the first one..as being a single dad it hit different she has an amazing dad you could tell

  • @RuzzyID
    @RuzzyID Год назад +24

    FACTS AT 2:55
    This is what daughters, need to be taught.
    Same for sons aswell by their mothers.
    Just because someone's "pretty" or "Popular" or whatever doesn't mean they should instantly jump to them and suck up to them. Know your self-worth and your own importance.

  • @anaida.
    @anaida. 3 года назад +882

    "I think it's wonderful" "I would've loved my father to stay at home with me" 🥺 same sis same

  • @girayhasanali4761
    @girayhasanali4761 3 года назад +5085

    “our manhood is not defined by what we do, our manhood is defined by what we have within and how we express that to others.”
    Wise words from a wise man.

    • @ZZMJo
      @ZZMJo 2 года назад +55

      Or manhood is defined by what we do = taking care of whom we love.

    • @sliat1981
      @sliat1981 2 года назад +4

      From a man who was too scared of saying in front of woman

    • @joanneaugust1489
      @joanneaugust1489 Год назад +61

      @@sliat1981 I don't think he was scared. I think he knew that this was a battle he couldn't win because some people are beyond reason, so he made the wise choice of staying quiet.

    • @sliat1981
      @sliat1981 Год назад

      @@joanneaugust1489 😅

    • @argieadachi3434
      @argieadachi3434 Год назад +44

      @@sliat1981 a wise psychologist wouldn't bother to argue with empty can. Their job is to read how people thinks. And base on his reaction he's well experienced on that field and wouldn't bother argue

  • @grekoy
    @grekoy Год назад +27

    Growing up, I have a stay at home Dad while Mom was out working. That shows me Fathers are capable to do Mother things and vice versa.

  • @natashagodfrey-ashford1420
    @natashagodfrey-ashford1420 5 месяцев назад +5

    Stay at home dads are a win! I am glad more men are there for their children more and more, also giving mothers an opportunity to work as hard as they want. I am glad to see the push for women who are hard hard working and dads that are there for their children and families in a nurtured and supporting way. Mothers have good instincts naturally. I believe in this movement 🙌 🙏

  • @yokiryuchan7655
    @yokiryuchan7655 3 года назад +2621

    A guy takes care of his kid, he's a wimp and a girlie man but if he wasn't taking care of his kid, you'd call him a deadbeat and a loser so which one is it? Should he take care of his kid or not? You can't have it both ways people.

    • @phSyn
      @phSyn 3 года назад +116

      ikr?? People are weird

    • @JayPlusForerunner
      @JayPlusForerunner 3 года назад +10

      @@phSyn yeah

    • @lotusinn3
      @lotusinn3 3 года назад +20

      Factual. Nice profile pic, by the way. Johnny English!

    • @drake4217
      @drake4217 3 года назад +9

      fully agree with this statement.

    • @user-kp1sl7nd3f
      @user-kp1sl7nd3f 3 года назад +58

      Everyone should take care of their children, no matter the gender!

  • @idc4163
    @idc4163 3 года назад +1127

    It’s kind of sad that dads being loving parents to their kids isn’t normal. People still call it “babysitting” when they watch their own kids.

    • @mega1chiken6dancr9
      @mega1chiken6dancr9 3 года назад

      lmao what? it is funny though. men should work. you really gonna let your wife bring in the income for you? LOL.

    • @tara5938
      @tara5938 3 года назад +51

      @@mega1chiken6dancr9 Why should men work? Is their Y chromosome going to quack away if they don't?

    • @mega1chiken6dancr9
      @mega1chiken6dancr9 3 года назад

      @@tara5938 because that's how life works

    • @tara5938
      @tara5938 3 года назад +36

      @@mega1chiken6dancr9 And who said that?

    • @ameliar.1440
      @ameliar.1440 3 года назад +28

      @@mega1chiken6dancr9 I would've much preferred a stay at home dad growing as opposed to the cocaine addicted one that was always in prison

  • @owencadavos837
    @owencadavos837 Год назад +28

    It's my first time seeing this episode it made me really cry. I appreciate you guys making something like this. I'm a stay home dad my self i take care of my two kids. Its just hard hearing bad things coming from other people whose judging you because your not doing what most man does. How i wish someone would also say to me that I'm doing a great job. Thank you and Godbless you all

    • @shelleyphilcox4743
      @shelleyphilcox4743 Год назад

      @Owen Cadavos I think it is sometimes harder for Dads being the parent who takes on the home responsibilities because it can be more isolating as there are not as many of you and you dont always get the same support from other stay at home mums networks...often because people are afraid of gossip if they look like they are too friendly with a stay at home Dad. It can be quite lonely I imagine.
      Unfortunately, being a stay at home parent means no one ever tells you you are doing a good job, and that's no different if you are a woman. As a woman, especially a single mother, the world just wants to say you are useless and your children will be a disaster. You have to find the resilience and confidence in yourself that you know you do a good job, you have good priorities, you love your kids, discipline them when needed and take care of them and their home.
      A man does what he needs to and takes the responsibilities that are best for the overall wellbeing of his whole family and it sounds to me that is exactly what you are doing. Do not let small minded fools get to you one bit...you need to stop caring what others think and care about what you think and your children need from you...and that is being the parent at home looking after their needs. That's a man. I wish you all the best and hope that you remember that what children value, whether you are the parent working at home or the parent working outside the home, is that you love them and are interested in them as people and give them the best attention you can give them whatever long or short time that is available to you.

    • @shelleyphilcox4743
      @shelleyphilcox4743 Год назад

      @Ganjah MacK Good for you. You are absolutely right. It doesnt matter who stays and works in the home and who is working outside of it or how that balance is split...the priority is doing what works for your family unit for the best outcome for your children. Best of luck...you've got a long way to go if your little one is 3! Mine are grown up now, the worry never stops, but the broken sleep gets better!

    • @xandriecee6437
      @xandriecee6437 Год назад

      Bless your heart, sir. As a daughter of a stay-at-home father, I'm here wholeheartedly telling you that you're doing such a great job, and you are more of a man for being such an amazing father to your children. Not every kid in this world is blessed to have incredible parents, but you chose to be there for your own children, that itself makes a whole lot of great difference. Always know that your children appreciates everything that you do for them. God bless you, sir! 💙💙

  • @blackshyguy2160
    @blackshyguy2160 Год назад +16

    This was pleasantly refreshing to see so much genuine support for a stay at home father

  • @Icanttinkofahandle
    @Icanttinkofahandle 3 года назад +2469

    Can we appreciate that the girl had headphones so she doesn’t have to listen things she’s not ready to hear.

    • @SuperSpieth
      @SuperSpieth 2 года назад +61

      I agree! 👍

    • @juliorobinson5386
      @juliorobinson5386 2 года назад +103

      I carry my headphones so i can avoid a lot of unnecessary situations.

    • @ShaiMyst
      @ShaiMyst 2 года назад +167

      yea they do that often with children who are under a certain age or who are not active participants in the dialogue. Well at least in all the videos I have seen

    • @kekoasiversons350
      @kekoasiversons350 Год назад +8

      I play music really loud on my 350$ jbl I keep it loud so no one talks around or to me👍 anti social asf boi so anti I stop you're socializing boiiiiiiiiii

    • @jesuszavala1101
      @jesuszavala1101 Год назад +1

      @@kekoasiversons350 hehehe

  • @rosierennie5867
    @rosierennie5867 3 года назад +1641

    "She's going to learn not to settle for the next pretty boy that says nice things to her, because she's going to know, 'my daddy's got my back'."
    🎤
    DROP

    • @scarletwarlock3261
      @scarletwarlock3261 3 года назад +26

      That woman couldn’t have said a more true statement. My respect for her and the father are a billion percent

    • @2eleven48
      @2eleven48 3 года назад +1

      Rosie Rennie.....I guess people don't realise you're making a sexual innuendo here.

    • @christina4012
      @christina4012 3 года назад +9

      @@2eleven48 oh.. my... gosh. No stop.

    • @blueeyes6884
      @blueeyes6884 3 года назад

      Is this person serious right now

    • @kingdomperspectivesmindset5595
      @kingdomperspectivesmindset5595 3 года назад +1

      💯🥰

  • @LillySwifty
    @LillySwifty Год назад +13

    My dad was a stay at home dad. He'd go through fire for us. I trust him with everything. I learned so much from him!

  • @heyjowsucksii4128
    @heyjowsucksii4128 Год назад +6

    I'd love to have this kind of dad rather than a dad that doesn't care about his family. ✨️

  • @agenderpersonwholovescheese
    @agenderpersonwholovescheese 3 года назад +2283

    “Our manhood isn’t defined by what we do. PERIODT.” Tell em gramps 👏

    • @squirrel8185
      @squirrel8185 3 года назад +47

      one of the things that made me madist as a stay at home dad is when people would see me with my kids and ask, "oh, are you baby sitting them today?" i be like, "no... i'm fathering them today... becuse i'm there father... and thats what we do."

    • @aquibalamLUMOS
      @aquibalamLUMOS 2 года назад +12

      @@squirrel8185 you are awesomeee!!!

    • @zianathaya3837
      @zianathaya3837 2 года назад +1

      Except when men like to put make up on

    • @enmanniska5751
      @enmanniska5751 2 года назад +24

      @@zianathaya3837 I dont agree, makeup can be a creative outlet or a confidence booster for anyone. Sure it is seen as feminine in most cases in todays society but it actually used to be masculine a long time ago. Being comfortable with your masculinity means being able to do whatever you wanna do even if its seen as feminine. I think its so important to let go of toxic masculinity, we shouldnt try to push people to fit into boxes, we should try to embrace our differences as those define our individuality and make us special. Nobody actually wants a world where people are the same, that would be so boring...

    • @astra5091
      @astra5091 2 года назад +2

      @@squirrel8185 YES YOU’RE AN AWESOME FATHER IN THAT CASE

  • @ichorousicarus
    @ichorousicarus 3 года назад +5890

    they should recycle old plots and ideas. i don’t see anything wrong with it.

    • @dorkhydrogen
      @dorkhydrogen 3 года назад +383

      That would be a great idea because the plots are getting a little old so going back to the old ones would be good for a while

    • @midgetporn9735
      @midgetporn9735 3 года назад +143

      Exactly. Especially the wife beater and the pedo predator ones. That obnoxious pharmacist was good too lmao. Freaking hilarious.

    • @greenbeans123
      @greenbeans123 3 года назад +15

      @@AxxLAfriku lol cheater

    • @vuriikhat8473
      @vuriikhat8473 3 года назад +35

      i like to watch racist scene. Black vs white discrimination or asian vs white. I also love to watch foster kids who was mistreated by guardians.

    • @RespectableRick
      @RespectableRick 3 года назад +60

      Yeah it would be interesting to see the difference between how people responded then v.s. now.

  • @joanneaugust1489
    @joanneaugust1489 Год назад +19

    I also know a family who kind of falls into this category. The dad does have another job, but he has a very small farm, so he's at home the entire time. The mum works in the city in a well-paid job. This is extra great in my opinion: Not only is the dad there for his kids 24/7, they also have gotten to know how a farm works and lived in contact with animals and nature from day one. Seems like a pretty amazing childhood to me.

  • @59mmich
    @59mmich Год назад +16

    My dad retired at 50 when I started university and my mom continued to work (and still does). Having my dad home full time has made our home more balanced, and stable. He is so dependable and the rock of our family! Whenever a child gets more time with dad than usual, it’s a great thing. I am now in my 30s and I can say that I have a healthy and realistic outlook on men because of my dad’s constant presence at home :)

  • @OOOHBILLY
    @OOOHBILLY 3 года назад +1561

    As a single, full-time dad, this hits me in the feels.

    • @tadghobrien7796
      @tadghobrien7796 3 года назад +53

      Well I think your amazing your a true man and I hope your proud of yourself and I hope your kids are too,well done and pay no attention to the haters

    • @baharafghanzad5864
      @baharafghanzad5864 3 года назад +31

      Yea it's really sad that Fathers are treaten like second class parents.
      When I was a little girl I was also mainly raisen by my father and I didn't miss anything because he was like a King raising his Princess. I'm proud to have such a carrying father. So now I know a how a real man is like.

    • @toni-annlynch1121
      @toni-annlynch1121 3 года назад +10

      You go dad. ( not my dad but you know lol)

    • @squirrel8185
      @squirrel8185 3 года назад +13

      one of the things that made me madist as a stay at home dad is when people would see me with my kids and ask, "oh, are you baby sitting them today?" i be like, "no... i'm fathering them today... becuse i'm there father... and thats what we do."

    • @OOOHBILLY
      @OOOHBILLY 3 года назад +12

      @@squirrel8185 bro. People can be so dumb. My kids school call her mom first. They assume that’ since we’re not together, my daughter must live with her mom. It’s really frustrating. Her mom doesn’t even live in the same state. Some people think dads are secondary parents. Crazy.

  • @Kariyu101
    @Kariyu101 3 года назад +3637

    1:39 John Quinones is so strong he can freeze time

    • @AKA_Guest
      @AKA_Guest 3 года назад +136

      [insert massive hoard of jojo references]

    • @gracehaven5459
      @gracehaven5459 3 года назад +14

      New/less Controversial Chuck Norris lol

    • @niki-fs_4209
      @niki-fs_4209 3 года назад +40

      ZA WARUDO! TOKI WO TOMAREEE!
      MUDAMUDAMUDAMUDAMUDAMUDAMUDA!!

    • @kingtchalla1838
      @kingtchalla1838 3 года назад +21

      I have a friend, who wields a green Infinity Stone.

    • @katymccormack1664
      @katymccormack1664 3 года назад +2

      xD

  • @killuanatsume
    @killuanatsume 5 месяцев назад +3

    Both my parents raised me, and both of them had a job. My father was an university teacher and my mother worked in an office. I love them both.

    • @Kat-mu8wq
      @Kat-mu8wq Месяц назад

      I was raised by a child minder because both my parents worked. Age 9 my mother got ill and I had to raise my newborn half sister.

  • @kennedynautel
    @kennedynautel 3 года назад +2950

    How to spot an WWYD scene:
    - Loud conversations going on
    - Saying “I can’t right now I will be back in a minute”
    - Setting takes place in a diner (usually) or other places
    - When the other actors walk away from the other actors

    • @_also__also_5170
      @_also__also_5170 3 года назад +19

      Hey are you a Christian and no hate I love everyone beacuse there still brother or sisters

    • @shrekisgod5547
      @shrekisgod5547 3 года назад +163

      At this point, I’ve watched so many of these videos I know all the actors. 😭😭

    • @two-face1041
      @two-face1041 3 года назад +63

      It’s happening in either New Jersey or New York

    • @kamarvika
      @kamarvika 3 года назад +5

      😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣

    • @skittlescupcakes7233
      @skittlescupcakes7233 3 года назад

      @@two-face1041 ikr

  • @joshythehand2960
    @joshythehand2960 2 года назад +2455

    My daughter's mom passed away when mija was only 4. I raised her all on my own. Yes.. we can handle mommy business. I promise you I can be helping with math homework, baking cupcakes, arranging soccer practice and taking a business call... all at the same moment. Been there done that a thousand times..

    • @salvadoralvarez4129
      @salvadoralvarez4129 2 года назад +25

      ♥️

    • @CarlosDiaz-hf3qv
      @CarlosDiaz-hf3qv 2 года назад +84

      Thank you for your commitment to your daughter. She will have far more confidence in herself than daughters who grew up without the love and nurture of their parents. As a man, I congratulate the privilege of raising a future strong woman by yourself Sir.

    • @dylam541
      @dylam541 Год назад +33

      Man you’re a beast, great job

    • @thatssovenus
      @thatssovenus Год назад +30

      @@joshythehand2960 well I think you gotta give yourself some more credit. You could have been a terrible father and she could have turned out completely different. I have no doubt she looked up to you and respected you for everything you did for her and I'm sure she still does. Being good may have been in her nature but it sure helped that she had a good role-model.

    • @SuperSpieth
      @SuperSpieth Год назад +9

      That’s good you take good care of her!

  • @neollepineda852
    @neollepineda852 2 года назад +2

    I LOVE THE WAY YOU STARY AT HOME WITH HER ALL THE TIME.

  • @azae00Vids
    @azae00Vids Год назад +7

    the first girl needs to be protected at all cost!!

  • @AmandaSoonToBe
    @AmandaSoonToBe 3 года назад +527

    as someone whos dad only hurt and abused me and my siblings, seeing a dad like this makes me want to cry. I hope one day, all dad's can be this nurturing, because that is a true man.

    • @RemHayden1806
      @RemHayden1806 3 года назад +33

      I'm so sorry you had to go through that.

    • @AmandaSoonToBe
      @AmandaSoonToBe 3 года назад +33

      @@RemHayden1806 Thank you, but it made me strong, gave me strong morals of whats right and whats wrong, showed me exactly what I didnt wanna be, taught me sympathy for others, and I can spot a manipulate and abusive person a mile away. I can't undo the past but I can learn from my fathers mistakes and I think how we handle our problems is what defines us as people. I hope to make a difference in the world and change it for the better, even if others may call my generation childish and unrealistic, all we want is a change for the better and I know we'll make this a reality. I dont regret my past, and yes its hard, sometimes all I wish for was a loving dad because of how heavily it still affects me today, but I will overcome it just like I did him. I want to be a role model for others and show even if you have 19 years of heavy abuse and trauma you can overcome it and be happy. So if you or anyone else is struggling dont give up because we'll over come it together

    • @AmandaSoonToBe
      @AmandaSoonToBe 3 года назад +14

      @@RemHayden1806 Sorry for the speech😂 and thank you, it means a lot

    • @RemHayden1806
      @RemHayden1806 3 года назад +10

      @@AmandaSoonToBe no problem, I didnt really know what to say because I dont relate but I wanted to make you feel better.

    • @AmandaSoonToBe
      @AmandaSoonToBe 3 года назад +12

      @@RemHayden1806 that's ok, I'd rather you not relate to it😂 I had to come to terms with it myself a while ago in order to move on, Im doing really good now, Im happier, more successful at work, and Ive some great friends! Also Im very lucky and I have a wonderful mom who loves me💕so dont worry about me Im doing good ^~^

  • @calebsaunders6779
    @calebsaunders6779 3 года назад +802

    I don’t get why people are always in everybody else’s business.

    • @TheSnowdogsShorts
      @TheSnowdogsShorts 3 года назад +4

      Same here.

    • @btsarmyforever4527
      @btsarmyforever4527 3 года назад +2

      Yeah same

    • @wonderful_dai4370
      @wonderful_dai4370 3 года назад +2

      🙌🏾

    • @trumpchicken4937
      @trumpchicken4937 3 года назад +33

      @Bullets in Bacon Grease my guy, it doesn't matter. People are people with human skin, human urges, human everything. Skin color doesn't mean shit.

    • @kedarnigudkar6317
      @kedarnigudkar6317 3 года назад +14

      @Bullets in Bacon Grease your mind is programmed to try to find shit in everything.

  • @shi90s
    @shi90s Год назад +8

    I'm so close with my dad. My mom traveled for work and my dad was at home, he worked(mostly from home) and went to school. Even when my mom stopped traveling you don't get that time back. You learn so much from a present parent than an absent one. I'm thankful for what they provided growing up, but you can provide and still emotionally and physically check out.

  • @Kitty_Kat_Mags
    @Kitty_Kat_Mags Год назад +29

    My dad is a stay at home dad. He worked nightshift for 10 years at a grueling factory while raising me and my sister to support my mom's dreams through college, and after everything she works her dream job and is making enough that my dad no longer needs to work! 5-6 years ago he was able to quit and raise my (now 5) year old sister while my mom worked. My parents love each other a lot and honestly stay at home dad's deserve upmost respect because it's the same as stay at home moms! My dad is amazing and he does everything for our family at home, my parents have it very even and I can tell they wouldn't want to trade it for the world. I hate when people sh*t on this kind of thing because honestly, why? It's really irritating
    Edit: spelling error -_-

  • @trinitijoy4968
    @trinitijoy4968 3 года назад +1558

    This kind of thing is sexist both ways. Saying men can not take care of a child like this because it's not manly along with saying childcare is the women's job. I can't believe people are truly like this

    • @nybergsgarage
      @nybergsgarage 2 года назад +3

      women are uniquely designed to better suited for caring for children and men are uniquely designed to be better suited for fighting the world to make money for their children. I agree with you, though, overall.

    • @cookeepuff
      @cookeepuff 2 года назад +51

      Sorry to burst your bubble, but men and women are not actually all that different. Money is something we created, making money is not inherent in our biology.

    • @shayym0mma
      @shayym0mma 2 года назад +41

      @@nybergsgarage How in the hell did you come to that conclusion? 😐

    • @nybergsgarage
      @nybergsgarage 2 года назад +3

      @@shayym0mma just some basic biological fact is all.

    • @shayym0mma
      @shayym0mma 2 года назад +41

      @@nybergsgarage How is it a “biological fact” when we’re talking about social behaviors? What biological component do women have-that men do not- that makes them “uniquely designed for caring for children”.

  • @nanasaahkane3264
    @nanasaahkane3264 3 года назад +251

    The first woman's words were filled with TRUTH...

  • @Golddude64
    @Golddude64 10 месяцев назад +2

    How dare these people. I love my dad! He may look tough but he’s the sweetest guy in the world

  • @4HGirl91
    @4HGirl91 9 месяцев назад +2

    Seeing my boyfriend with his son- the way he cares for his son and the way his son respects and loves and adores his dad is one of the most heart melting thing I’ve ever seen. Fathers are so important in children’s lives

  • @DS-fi4hf
    @DS-fi4hf 2 года назад +2988

    As a stay at home dad, i REALLY appreciate this video. I’ll be referring to it for those days that are difficult to get through, so thank you!

    • @elizekaiuni5094
      @elizekaiuni5094 2 года назад +59

      You can do it! Always Believe in yourself! Your kids will appreciate that !

    • @rolandcortez2588
      @rolandcortez2588 2 года назад

      It’s all fun and games till you see the daughter you raised get older and break her back to support a fucking man who’s at home not doing shit. It’s 2021 they said ? That’s the problem you guys want to twist genders.

    • @levi2732
      @levi2732 2 года назад

      stay home dad so your wife go outside and work??? dude your soooo f** pathetic id rather die than doing that

    • @harrypotter8507
      @harrypotter8507 2 года назад +39

      Umm... whats wrong with a father being there for his kid and spending time with them? And he is NOT pathetic, he is doing what works for his family, you got a problem with that? Whats wrong with his wife going out and working and him staying home? Its because of people like you that society thinks that dads can't take care of their kids, when they are extremely capable of doing it so keep your opinion to yourself and STOP shaming a dad who loves his family and is taking care of them.

    • @javssilva3995
      @javssilva3995 2 года назад +19

      I doubt myself when it comes to the ability to be a father. I scares the crap out of me. But brave men like you give me hope that I may be able to do it.

  • @IPInguito
    @IPInguito 3 года назад +812

    Me: Sees dollar on floor and picks it up.
    John Quinones: Hello, I’m John Quinones why did you steal that dollar?

  • @kaboomkrazy9856
    @kaboomkrazy9856 Год назад +4

    "Great job, dad"
    that hit me 😢

  • @caanehiggins8552
    @caanehiggins8552 Год назад +5

    When my dad was alive he used to look after me and he showed me and taught me everything I know. How to respect people as I want to be respected

  • @Peperica98
    @Peperica98 3 года назад +229

    The little girl said: I'm just here to eat tbh

  • @dezzydream
    @dezzydream 2 года назад +1192

    as a girl who was raised by a single dad, this hits close to home. my dad would braid my hair before school, he'd cook dinner for us every evening, he would paint my fingernails for me(he actually did my right hand for me a few days ago lol). stay at home dads and single dads are so underrated. they love the child just as much as any mother would, sometimes even more in cases where the mother is abusive. AND being a primary caregiver for a young child is a tough job, so not only do stay at home dads deserve respect, but so do stay at home moms.

    • @xandriecee6437
      @xandriecee6437 Год назад +23

      Same here! Though it's my mom who taught me how to paint my nails 😅😅 But it's my dad who styles my hair when I was a kid. He's a great cook, carpenter, plumber, and heck he even did some of my school projects because he's an artist. I'm a proud daughter of a stay-at-home dad! 💙💙

    • @strawberri_.swxrlzz
      @strawberri_.swxrlzz Год назад +12

      W dad

    • @fable_enthusiast
      @fable_enthusiast Год назад +11

      I think gender isn't a defining factor of parenthood. Why? My parents both work and my mom was only good for cleaning the house, when I was 10 I started cleaning it, and now she's just here in this house to complain. My father despite his mental illness cooked at lunch, showed me how to handle bureaucracy, took care of minor repairing jobs and taught me, took care of bills too. My mom couldn't even braid my hair, I literally watched a RUclips video because she didn't know how to, and never cared to learn.

    • @fable_enthusiast
      @fable_enthusiast Год назад +4

      @@xandriecee6437 I can't say how lucky you are, cherish your dad

    • @xandriecee6437
      @xandriecee6437 Год назад +9

      @@fable_enthusiast thank u! You are likewise lucky and blessed with your father. We are the living proofs of people who grew up under their father's love and care, and it's nothing to be ashamed of. It is an amazing thing. 💙

  • @nostalgiataxi
    @nostalgiataxi Год назад +15

    There's so many children in the world with parents who are unkind to them, or don't even have any. One good, loving and supportive parent is better than none. When I was in school we had certain mornings called donuts for dad's and muffins for mom where kids would eat breast with their mom or dad, but kids who only had one parent and who wanted to attend both was always an admirable thing.

  • @annaaidekijustloveyoutube2194
    @annaaidekijustloveyoutube2194 Год назад +25

    To all stay at home dads: We (us kids who were raised by you primarily) love you, and you’re doing what a parent should do- the best thing for the kids. Dont listen to broken people who have no idea what parenthood should be like. Keep being awesome!!

  • @metalhd7277
    @metalhd7277 3 года назад +859

    “Isn’t it emasculating”
    No being a good father is the most manly thing you can do

    • @sixthirty3388
      @sixthirty3388 Год назад +9

      word

    • @reapingbennefits
      @reapingbennefits Год назад +10

      FACTS

    • @claudettebruce8622
      @claudettebruce8622 Год назад +3

      out of all languages in this goddamn vaccum of space and time you chose to speak FACTS

    • @owengraziano7288
      @owengraziano7288 Год назад

      120% agreed

    • @joeking6972
      @joeking6972 Год назад +2

      Okay but seriously are we really going to pretend that being a stay-at-home dad isn't the coolest god damn job on the planet? Who wouldn't want to do that instead of going to work?
      Anyone who thinks otherwise is just jealous that they can't get a deal like that.

  • @011mph
    @011mph 3 года назад +247

    Imagine actually being mad that a man is taking care of his own child.

    • @2bstiff584
      @2bstiff584 3 года назад +1

      but they mad when a man works all day and the mom takes care of the kid u can not win

    • @scarletwarlock3261
      @scarletwarlock3261 3 года назад

      @@2bstiff584 you can win. Just ignore those pesky haters and carry on. The words of a few strangers whine you’ll never see again mean nothing if they are nasty and unfounded. To hell with them honestly.

  • @RainyDayz1991
    @RainyDayz1991 Год назад +3

    My adult son has 2 children and I am proud of him for many things, but I'm MOST proud of him for being a great dad. 💯%

  • @danamcmorris788
    @danamcmorris788 6 месяцев назад +2

    When our kids were little, I worked and my husband stayed home with them. We really didn't want them in daycare and I just happened to make more. Him and our kids loved it. He is such a great father to our kiddos. The women around us had questions and the men were just miserable. They always treated him like he was less than a man because he took care of the kids. Honestly his time with the kids was full time and 100% harder than my job every could have been.

  • @Failedprodegy42
    @Failedprodegy42 3 года назад +234

    Went through this when I became stay at home Dad. I had a brain injury that took me out of the workforce. I wanted to be a viable member of my family so I became a stay at home Dad. I don't know why so many of the guys I was friends with reacted so negatively. Six months later I only two friends I can really talk to. Thank God for the stay at home Dads support group where I live.

    • @bcaye
      @bcaye 3 года назад +26

      Bless your spirit. Your children appreciate you.

    • @ravenseye9179
      @ravenseye9179 3 года назад +16

      Wow. I'm so sorry. Humans can be monsters.

    • @dallasyap3064
      @dallasyap3064 3 года назад +16

      Don't be ashamed, its nothing wrong at all. The fact that your friends reacted negatively shows that they are not your true friends. Its like casting aside or being mad at your friend just bcoz he got into an accident and has been permanently disabled and can't work his dream job anymore. There are better people out there to be friends with, those who u can call friends instead of your these negative friends who don't deserve to be called friends. Don't bother them, u just do your thing and be a good daddy to your kids. U don't have to live according to society, just bcoz society is where men works and women stay at home, doesn't mean u have to follow. U live a life of yours not of the society's. All the best to u.

    • @Sara86A
      @Sara86A 3 года назад +7

      Awww well good for you. Who cares about your friends. Apparently they aren't good friends and don't understand your situation.

    • @oihanagallastegimusic
      @oihanagallastegimusic 3 года назад +11

      Well that was useful to find out which 2 friends were the real ones

  • @Bruh-bx9mh
    @Bruh-bx9mh 3 года назад +312

    "Fathers are not second class parents" -
    Judge Judy

  • @aestheticpoetcarley
    @aestheticpoetcarley 2 года назад +7

    My husband was a stay at home father until a few days ago. He’s incredible.

  • @renwhir
    @renwhir Год назад +10

    There’s nothing that defines a man more, in my opinion, than the role he takes on with his children if he chooses to have them.
    Being an active, positive part of your children’s lives goes so much further than financially providing for them. My sisters partner is a stay at home father, he’s not less of a man for not being the main breadwinner. He cares for the home they all live in, and the people in it. I have so much respect for him.

  • @queefqueen4507
    @queefqueen4507 3 года назад +1918

    The psychologist guy:
    "Period!"
    Me:
    YASSSS PERIOD!!!
    Edit:
    I- 1.9k likes..... literally too much 😭❤️

  • @Pagegirly
    @Pagegirly 3 года назад +778

    As someone who was raised by a stay-at-home dad, I have seen so many people with negative attitudes towards it and I loved all the support to him. I loved my dad's job: taking care of me!

    • @AbdulRahmanSyed-iv3qn
      @AbdulRahmanSyed-iv3qn 3 года назад +8

      Yup i agree

    • @OfficialStreamSagaTv
      @OfficialStreamSagaTv Год назад +1

      A man should Work and stay at home it's very possible there's no reason to sit on your ass all day

    • @Shtriga_34
      @Shtriga_34 Год назад +2

      Could he not find work or did he work from home ?
      Cuz i find it hard to believe a guy would want to voluntarily not work, unless their were issues.

    • @adrien7802
      @adrien7802 Год назад +23

      @@Shtriga_34 not ur business

    • @ariree3216
      @ariree3216 Год назад +14

      @@Shtriga_34 that's none of your business. Taking care of a child is work, it's a full time 24/7 job.

  • @Stopthisrightnow560
    @Stopthisrightnow560 Год назад +7

    As someone whose father wasn't involved, any man who cares for his kids like this automatically gets me all in my feels.

  • @southshields21
    @southshields21 7 месяцев назад

    the 1st ladyhad me crying😭😭😭she spoke so well and from the heart❤

  • @peppa_pig_
    @peppa_pig_ 3 года назад +364

    The first woman was preachin.

    • @gumball_9010
      @gumball_9010 2 года назад +2

      @Srjane Ac do you know that if you don't talk we don't have to hear your annoying sheit?

  • @HeartStruck333
    @HeartStruck333 3 года назад +340

    “Manhood isn’t defined by what we do. Manhood is defined by who we are.” Wise words that I think a lot of people need to hear one day.❤️

    • @eyeconqueror1185
      @eyeconqueror1185 Год назад

      But what’s wrong with what he’s doing

    • @kj12351
      @kj12351 Год назад +1

      It's both really. It's also manly as hell to take care of others.

  • @leannezezeski-sass2773
    @leannezezeski-sass2773 2 года назад +9

    My dad did both, he worked full time and raised me all on his own as a single parent and he was awesome at it, honestly he was better than most mothers I know

  • @LucyQ-ew6zp
    @LucyQ-ew6zp Год назад +12

    As someone who works with kids (at a daycare), hearing one of the "dads" say that taking care of kids is not a real job, I honestly got mad. And also, tell my grandmother and many of the women of her generation (she was born in the 1950s) that being a stay-at-home parent is not a real job and they'll get really pissed off.

  • @letstalkaboutit944
    @letstalkaboutit944 3 года назад +299

    Them actors to good man this shit be getting me mad 😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @lionblaze210
    @lionblaze210 3 года назад +547

    Ooooo this one is gonna piss me off. There are so many times my dad helped me out when my mom couldn’t.

    • @shoyrushoyru
      @shoyrushoyru 3 года назад +19

      most people dont have that experience, you are lucky

    • @martyyymarttt
      @martyyymarttt 3 года назад +18

      @Bullets in Bacon Grease u seem upset about it ... it’s a show move on

    • @nate-qf6qk
      @nate-qf6qk 3 года назад +18

      @Bullets in Bacon Grease majority of the USA is white wats ur point? lmfao

    • @fuzzywuzacat5009
      @fuzzywuzacat5009 3 года назад +13

      @Bullets in Bacon Grease if you want to see black and brown people portrayed as villians, just watch the news.

    • @cerbzzz7147
      @cerbzzz7147 3 года назад +8

      @Bullets in Bacon Grease someone's never seen the interracial couple episodes

  • @therandombassoonist4856
    @therandombassoonist4856 9 месяцев назад +4

    Rewatching this video for the 100th time and it still hits home. Because my dad stays at home taking care of me, my sister, and my disabled brother because he chose too. My parents are amazing my mom loves going to work because she knows that my dad can handle himself. Every family works differently and lives differently everyone should respect that dicison
    (Sorry for bad spelling)

  • @SAMWITCHFOREVER
    @SAMWITCHFOREVER Год назад +2

    This is amazing, my husband is actually a stay at home dad, and i work. I love my kiddo more then anything in the world, however i love working, and am not the best stay at home mom, my husband on the other hand is amazing with kids and our son. Its what works best for us.

  • @omarfarraj160
    @omarfarraj160 3 года назад +538

    Men can do anything women do, and women can do anything men can do. I'd be mad if I saw this going on fo sho

    • @narra7867
      @narra7867 3 года назад +17

      men don't give birth

    • @Paris9309
      @Paris9309 3 года назад +14

      Are you like 15? There’re plenty of jobs a woman can’t do simply because of physical and mental differences between men and women

    • @Fierclyfabulous
      @Fierclyfabulous 3 года назад +45

      @@Paris9309 really? Name one?

    • @teambaconforever3162
      @teambaconforever3162 3 года назад +13

      Michael Davidson could you. Name some

    • @Paris9309
      @Paris9309 3 года назад +6

      @@Fierclyfabulous lets start with mover and let’s say continue with ceo of Top banks , pilots and end with a president , I know you’re gonna say technically they’re allowed to do all that (I forgot Marine officer and more) but I never seen one doing it , except for pilots but percentage is just so tiny as my d*** in the winter morning