Yes no contact works for both people because it allows you to heal and let them appreciate you. When they broke up with they threw you away as garbage or treat like a dog until the rat got the gun. The situation will flip eventually especially if you were a good person. Don't do anything let them come back to you in their own way.
I feel the same way me and her were together 3 years I went to rehab for drinking she stayed with me 2 months in that broke up with me and then said she met someone else she’s been txting me everyday and even sent some nudes last night after I asked but still says she don’t want to be together I’m just starting no contact but at first I felt like I had nobody to talk to couldn’t stop thinking about her I still think about her but I found just txting your friends or txt anyone that keeps ur mind from wandering that helps also go for walks go shopping get new clothes make yourself feel good u will be ok
Me too. I keep dreaming about him then I wake up and it's like it hits me all over again. I have some job interviews lined up which is great but I feel so dead inside.
@@katemate1034 I wake up an hour before my alarm every morning and can’t fall back asleep, all I can think about is her and her friend that started dating right after she broke up with me
@@LaunchpadNation I'm so sorry. Hopefully it's just a rebound thing but if not to be honest it sounds like she doesn't deserve you, and I'm sorry that's a cliché but it is true. My relationship was long distance and he wants someone closer. I really want to ask him if there is any hope at all, I just want to know if I have any kind of chance, but I think it's not a good idea.
@@LaunchpadNation im exactly one year out from when my partner of over 6 yrs left. it really hasn't gotten any easier especially with the loneliness and difficulty sleeping that you have mentioned here
What sucks the most is that you and another person shared so many little moments that no one else had with you. It’s as if this certain language only existed between two people. You go from knowing someone deeply to having to see them as just some person you used to know. Best of luck to all you guys out there. Going through it atm
Expensive Man hell to the no bruda. I’ve had time to heal that bish can have her junkie old mans I’m working out and bigger than I was it helped me so much to channel emotions. I’m not ready for new relationship or anything but I’m not crying in my room with the lights off 🤣🤣😂👏😝😎 as the song goes the damage is done so I guess I’ll be bricky bricky leavin 😉✌️
1: they try to make you jealous 2: they want you to think they’re doing spectacular 3: they will ask how you’re doing 4: they will post how happy they are 5: they still haven’t picked up their stuff 6: they’re hot and cold 7: they delete all photos except one 8: you hear from their friends, and timing makes no sense 9: they keep their schedule consistent
@@TheBlanco951 i hope i can do the same😐 but i can't ignore him😞 cause i still love him so much💔😭 it hurts when he told me he just want me as a sweet friend😥😭
TheBlanco951 indeed! and don’t ever try faking it or suppressing things. It backfires most of the time.. Y’all ladies need to do the NCR for yourself and yourself only. move on and let go! If one day that he realized things, at-least the ball is in your court.
Absolutely on point, I'm dealing with a breakup and bought the kit and watched the videos. Lee is on point. I went from a bad breakup where she was threatening to call the cops, to we have spent most of the last two weeks together including a vacation. It's been amazing.
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Thats when you 100% say no. !!!. Silence is bliss...... Enjoy it... Life goes on... And its still beautuful if not even better than you thought .... 😊😊
He blocked me on everything...went to his house, ( 7 year relationship here) knocked on door, wouldn't answer...i just left quietly...no more from me...his turn.
I blocked her on everything except text and phone call. She has to make the effort to contact me...period. Shes the one that left me why should I pursue her?
Its been almost four months and still hurts but kinda better than the first few months. We were able to chat on the 3rd month and he told me to always take care of myself and also asked about how is my family. It was a long exchange of text msgs but thats it. Going to 4th month and watching Coach Lee's videos helps me to be strong. Thank you Coach Lee. 🥰
If he doesn’t adore you & see you as the best out of all women out there then move on. You don’t need to chase a man that is immature or insecure. Find a man that values and respects you. If he does something wrong tell him. If he lashes out and doesn’t discuss it do leave him.
Thank you very much for the phrase, “People go for what they want. “ Being reminded of this is incredibly insightful that helps me through the turbulence. I did the breaking up after a lot of consideration. Yet, I am back here binge watching Coach Lee💜
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Coach lee is the Bruce Lee of break ups. He knows what he's talking about, and he does it with finess and calmness. Can't get enough. Not only is it for break ups but for the thoughts and reactions of humans in general. Just great stuff..
Coach Lee's video regarding if you love someone let them go is excellent. He makes so many good points not just on the no contact rule but general issues. Really good.
I fell for my ex tricks and I tried reaching out before I saw your video. A big mistake! But I didn't pursue, I went into radio silence right way. Coach Lee, you are so correct. It's a power tussle.
Haven't heard from her in over a year, she's in a relationship that I thought was a rebound at first but apparently not. Stay strong brothers, I hope you'll get your lovers back and be happy. If they don't, well still try and go after happiness without them.
Just started busted out laughing in a moment of depression when Coach mentioned, "posting quotes on social media about how happy they are." My ex did this multiple times last week lol
@@marcoaslan2714 she reached out a few times, once at 2 months, another at 5 months. Both times while she was with another dude. First time - I didn’t know and set a date. She cancelled at last second. Second time I knew better and sent her back to him saying it’s not fair to him. Currently, she is 6 months pregnant with his child as they are unmarried and have been together < 1yr. Thank God I walked away.
Just wanted to thank you hugely. I've proceeded with the no contact rule, my situation was a little bit different from your cases, so I successfully "translated" some signs that my Ex was sending me and I actioned in a good way... Now we came back together, and we love each other more than ever! Your videos helped me along my depression, helped me to stay strong, and not pleed, beg or stress her with meaningless words. I gave her the chance to miss me! and this happened quite well! :) Hope everybody will hear more closely your advises. All the best Coach
It has taken me more than 5 years to get over my wife and to understand myself; but i am the better for having done so. My feelings for her have finally changed and sadly I know that when her world falls apart I won't be able or willing to help her as I did in the past. I am a good man and I deserve more out of my life than to feel badly about myself the way I did. I have no debt, no bad habits and integrity by the bucketload. But life is an experience and there is someone else out there who's going to be so much better for me.
Coach Lee, just 3 months after backing out of my graduation party, my ex took me pumpkin picking and told me that she was moving away from her parents’ house. Now, she only lives 38 minutes away from my house and she invited me to her apartment and told me to find a way, which I did. It’s coming. It’s just a matter of time before it comes.
2 weeks of no contact. My ex is changing his watsapp profile picture many times. Today posted a picture holding a champagne bottle... Well that will make me jealous 😂🍾
Mine viewed my story after reactivation his account.... Going Grey rock.... Now I'm not posting stories...don't want him to think he has access to me...
I deleted him from all social media and before every time he changed a profile picture then I would contact him .. now it has been almost 3 months NC, 6 months break up .. he changed his WhatsApp pictures like 2weeks 10 days once .. first it was him hiking whatever events outside , second is in 10 days I’ve already saw tow pictures of them having fun in snow .. it’s like he want the world knows he has a gf , the frequency of he changed his profile during these 4 months more thanwe were together for 16 months 🙄
He posted this on his page “Each to his own way I’ll go mine. Best of luck in what you find. But for your own sake remember times we used to know” Quote by Ian Anderson
Coach Lee's video series in summary: Become like that of a jedi zen monk in balanced meditation, attempting to coerce a skittish, timid cat from underneath a bed, in a fashion that keeps the cat still liking the monk and wanting to stick around after it does. The monks strategy: Only petting the cat if it comes to him. Thanks Coach Lee! Your videos have been extremely helpful in a very difficult and distressing time.
after 5 months i met my ex and had a chat over coffee, we spoke about all the accusations and rumours that were made from third-party people. we hugged and i asked her if she would want to meet again, she said yes and we met again for coffee this morning. i told her how i feel and she took it well, she told me how she feels. although she says "were not getting back together yet" i can't help but think she is thinking about it otherwise she wouldn't have said "yet". heres to the next time i meet her
@@frankvilla203 it wasn't meant to be. we were starting to get close but i eventually saw through all of her lies, i gave her chance after chance and she betrayed me yet again... haven't said a word to her in a week now and i no longer feel the need to talk to her again. just goes to show that the things you think you want most in life, is your peace.
Honestly I'm not even doing No Contact and I'm not looking to win my ex back (dude dumped me a month before our wedding and left me stranded in a foreign country with no money and visa issues, he can get bent), but as much as my brain is happy he's gone, my heart still hurts and just watching these videos is a massive comfort. Thank you. I literally fall asleep to them at night when I can't handle the pain, and watch them again during the day when I can actually absorb your message.
I cried in front of her she was as cold as the devil, she said no,my mum was there tried to beg her on my behalf but she was adamant, I had lost everything my job my business n my wife of 3 years. I tried to even kill myself but now I'm just healing one of at a time
@@Master.Ojinaga Keep healing! If you're spiritual at all and believe in positive vibes, ask people for them, ask the universe for them - I swear it helps. The more people sending good energy your way the better! I'm so sorry to hear about your wife, but maybe in this case rejection is protection... if she could be that cold to you, that's not someone you want as a wife. You deserve better. Positive vibes and love to you, life has another plan for you, you just have to hold on and hang in there until you can see it 💖
@@instagamrr I read your story. That sucks. I just got out with a False Twin Flame relationship. Still waiting for my real twin flame soon. My ex and I were from the same country, Dominican Republic 🇩🇴 She still thinks I'm waiting for her LOL. My real twin is coming.
@@Melbester9 Just happened to see this notification cause I’m online. 6 months later and I’m so over my ex, have been since February (it’s may now) - so glad I got through it. In no way or form do I miss anything, and I’m loving my life so much more now. You will too! Hang in there~
Am almost 30days of no contact. He had tried to get me back but I ignored. He nolonger shows signs of coming back. Should I take his clothes off my closet to his place of work please advise
She started seeing a therapist before the breakup and is continuing to do so. So tells me she's not"having the time of her life" she still not happy. And I can see on social media she's not happy.
2 years of NC now. By now I do not give a sh..t never stalked, or knew if she displayed these signs because again, I never took a look she was doing. For me it was, if she really wanted to come back she would say it. No drama no tricks, as simply as that. Keep no contact guys and develop your dreams and goals. Has worked well for me. Now I can look back and learn about my mistakes
I think after 6 months it stops being NC and you've just moved on. I dont think anyone should be pining over their ex if they havent talked to you in a year.
Anthony Redden sake boat as you lol. She’s been with the new guy for 8-9 months now. started dating him immediately after we broke up and it’s a long distance relationship as well.
Tough Love from Coach Lee. “People go after what they want.” I would add they end up where they want to be. The place/person they are called to be with. Hurts like hell, but time is the ultimate healer. Thank you, Coach Lee for your straightforward approach to relationships.
Coach, she asked for space and I am giving her what she wants. I’m about 10 days into no contact and I got into my #1 choice graduate school last night. I put it on my snap story and the next morning I wake up to this from her “Hey I’ve been going back and forth about whether or not I should text you but I do really want to congratulate you on getting into NYU. That is such a huge accomplishment and I am very happy for you! I know this is something you would have wanted to call me about but I do appreciate you giving me space and respecting boundaries. I wasn’t sure if texting you would bring up any bad feelings or awkwardness, so that is why I hesitated to do so initially. You don’t even have to respond to this or anything I just wanted to congratulate you because this is a big deal and you should be proud of yourself. I hope that you are doing well and I’m sure that in time we will talk about this a lot more.” I am wondering if I should validate this with a small response thanking her or just keep no contact... she said herself I don’t have to respond. I’m wondering if not responding will just boost her curiosity or make it seem like I’m being cold.
joeharna ended up responding, like Lee said ignoring wouldn’t get me anywhere even if she said “it’s ok” but I didn’t continue a convo or anything just said “No problem, I’m doing well. Thanks” and left it at that
@@naiko6700 Ultimately no, but the door isn’t completely closed. She is studying abroad in London for the next year and neither of us really wanted to do long distance. But we are still close friends and there is the possibility of something happens when she returns to the states. I’m not “waiting” for her, but like I said the door isn’t completely shut so who knows. We started up talking again after like 3 months no contact. I think NC is a good method to use, just make sure you don’t overdo it or act cold when/if the other person does reach out.
First day of no contact, she’s posting on social media more now. And retweeted out saying she’s never cared 💀 idk how to feel. She’s hot and cold. Tells me give me time and we will get back together, but she’s different on social media. It hurts
Yeah, flirting with another woman, even a co-worker, or some woman on the street and posting photo on your social media. She will fear you replace her. It could be she chase someone who are not fix, so she go and see, and making sure your are their in case of a back up. Most woman got man backup plan in her mind. Insecure woman fear to be alone, to not have attention. She could be caring, lovely but after a while she will become hard to please her, it will become never enough. She will want you pass more and more time with her while you will forget your own life. You will settle down, with no hope , no drive anymore and you will become boring and she will dump you. Woman with lack of parent love when child, become toxics on a long round.
I was with my girlfriend for nearly 6 years. This past weekend before Christmas, I proposed to her and asked her to be my wife. She told me that her being scare of becoming sick from Covid-19 and being a better mother outweighed her desire for me. I was totally floored. It left me angry, sad, and just numb....been watching these videos for the past 12 days for some advice and help.
Good stuff Lee... Almost in my mid 40s divorced now over 5yrs. I have new girlfriend been with for last 3 yrs. Been going through your video's lately very encouraging. We split up recently and you've hit every nail on the head. I really love and care for her but at this point it makes alot of sense on the Do Not Contact process with her. Anyhow thanks for your videos and your advice.
@@nosugarkoolaid1990 his new relationship failed miserably. He got slapped in public by his gf infront of me. Now I’m living my best life and that dude is lmao I have no words. I never checked up on him after 2 months of breakup. Some people just don’t deserve our energy.
Hey Coach, here's my situation : My ex dumped me on the 14th of December. She only reached out on Christmas day, and on New Year's Eve by sending me a picture of some soaps she had made and to wish me a happy new year. I wished her the same but did not carry the conversation as I did not really pick on the "indirect/direct approach". After that, she reached out this sunday and we saw each other that same afternoon. Things were great, we laughed and joked a lot, like nothing bad had ever happened to us and our relationship. We even poked fun at each other in trying to make the other a little jealous about possible people that we dated during our time apart. At the end of the meetup, I felt good and went for the kiss, but she turned her head and said that she was unsure of her feelings. I didn't try to convince her of anything, I just walked away with a smile and she said : "see you soon, maybe"...I'm in no contact right now and I haven't heard from her since. I guess I won't ever but at least I think I handled it pretty well. Go figure.I also learned that a rebound was involved. He had dumped her a few days before her reach out, I'm assuming that's why she did it. What do you think of it ? Will I hear from her or is she just playing games with me by putting me in backup plan mode ? Maybe I gave out a needy vibe and spooked her away...Thanks a lot.
She’s seeing you as a backup option. Do yourself a favour and just walk away from her life forever! You don’t need anyone in your life who doesn’t properly value your life and your commitment!
You went to far with the kiss, If she enjoy the moment she will compare it with the other guy. Just dont over do it. She felt lonely, back up plan definetily. you know what to do, dont make her believe you'll be always there waiting for them.
Haha I watch so many of these videos I remember reading your story the other day on a different video.. sorry to hear about your ex... next time no kissing : 0
Well at least I'm in permanent no contact guys so yeah...but she's using me for sure I think so too...I haven't heard from her since so I guess it proves it
Chris Murray No Contact Is To Help You Move On. If They Come Back And I Mean “IF” Not Saying They Are Then They’re Yours. But Do Not Sit Around For Them To Call, Or Reach Out To You On Social Media. Jus Keep Living Your Life, Doing Your Normal Routines. Everything Is On Gods Timing
broke up, did NC. Ex reached out. Fast forward....we tried different things. We are at an empass but the feelings are still very strong between us. She wants to be friends. I said no. She is not happy about it at all. I said, I dont want to be friends only. But if you change your mind, give me a call and maybe we can talk. As per Coach Lee. She is hurt, frustrated and upset. What doesnt help is that we live next door to one another. I was very frank with her. I told her I loved her and willing to work on things still. SO I left that door open. But in the meantime, I said I was backing away. Back into NC for this boy. Battle of stubborness.
Going to focus a lot on no contact. I was the one who broke it off yet im the one always hot and cold. It feels pathetic on my end. Im glad i dont have social media so i dont indulge in stalker habits. I look forward to the day i can finally feel this chapter of my life is finally closed and im no longer looking back wanting things to feel normal between a dead end relationship. Thanks for posting.
Hi coach lee!! Your videos really kept me going n got me through some very tough times. We broke up two months ago, ive been focusing on myself and working on my life and surprisingly after those two months, i moved on!! And out of the blue one of my old friends popped up in my life and well... he likes me!! A lot 😂 and i like him too, sooo since valentines is coming up, weve already kissed, a bit. I was in hospital for the passed week, he visited me everyday and just today as he was leaving he ended up kissing me :)) hes taking me out for valentines!! Tysm for making these videos! They are extremely helpful and good to listen to when im doing chores or hobbies. Lets hope this one works out tho, and im so glad that with your help i was able to move on so thankyou!! I hope everyone find the peace and happiness that they deserve, and know theyres hope!! It just may come in a different form 💖💖
12:20 His best friend, a mutual friend, just called. He sounded very nervous and was asking a lot of strange questions. He got a lot of information to take back to my ex. I have been knowing him for many years and he has never called me on the phone. So the reason for the call is obvious. My ex has been on full block since March 2020.
Married for 32 years he left for his "soulmate" who is someone else's wife. I tried for 6 months to talk to him and I asked him repeatedly if hes sure this is what he wants and he kept saying yes. I decided to move on with the divorce after he was gone for about 8 months because he and her were mean, hateful, and evil. He brought her to all of the court hearings. She can easily go for 75 years of age but shes only 54. 2 years after he left he contacted me saying he loved and missed me and he wanted his family back, and his life wasn't fun anymore. I didn't give in. He allowed for her to steal money from me off of our home equity loan which was given to me in the divorce. He bought her a Lexus car with some of the money he took. She leaves him without transportation when they are fighting which I understand is constant. Too much damage. Within a year of him leaving he was diagnosed with prostate cancer. His SUV that I helped him get was repossessed. Now he has to pay the money back through garnishment. Now he dont even communicate with our daughter. He changed jobs to one only 15 minutes from the house where me and our daughter lives so he can drive by anytime he wants. He dont talk to anyone anymore not even his mom or sisters and no one in my family not even our children. He has lost his self respect and so much including friends and respect from others. Shes still married and she goes home to her husband and kids for the weekend and she is sleeping with his best friend. I think hes embarrassed and has settled for what his life is now and his consequences. I pray for him daily. I'm strong for myself and my kids. I would love to have my husband back but he will never be that man again. Hes been gone now for 3 years and me and my kids have kept it moving. I think he is going through a midlife crisis because his craziness started soon after my sister died who he absolutely loved and adored. ☹😢 I dont know if we would ever be the same if we tried again. Thanks Coach Lee for your amazing videos. They are so informative and have so much insight. I too think you look like Dexter. ❤
Coach Lee needs say 2 million views. He should be a legend. He's a legend to me. I don't have my ex back or anything, but I appreciate what she gave me in the relationship and what I gave her. I know I mean a lot to her. Sure, would love to have her back. I am glad I have Coach Lee, though, to help me get through this and behave the right way.
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Thank you so much for all your advice. I've just broken up with him after 23 years. It's so hard to read him because he has mental issues but some of what you say is helping. I really thank you. What you say helps me to understand.
“ you don’t hit the ⚽️ until they hit it to you” coach Lee, you deserve the presidency of our beautiful 🇺🇸 😃. This is my EX’s mindset! I know my ex is deeply in ❤️ with me. I know and I feel it.
For heaven's sake coach ur right the girl is always posting snaps of fun, with friends,and pics of her self well dressed and crazy notes of hw she's gonna enjoy the day knowing I will see the status imagine she now days put her profile pic wearing the sweater I bought her ... I didn't Kno it was no contact rule doing all this infact I guess I did this indirectly.
The first time he break up with me he said to me that there will be no chance for us but he came back after 6 months,now he break up with me again saying he wants to relax and be alone,I'm asking him if we are over but he isnt giving a closure ,he just told me he doesn't want me to call him and send messages,I don't know if we are still together or not,,he don't givew amswers
What if you didn’t want to break up with someone but they pulled away and you needed to stand up for yourself and it was really hard but the thought is continuing to be ghosted randomly while being told I love you was too much to deal With?
I had this happen to me. I am the dumper but didn’t want to be. I noticed a pull back and distancing so I made the decision. I would still like to work things out, but most likely not possible now.
I would like to share my experience...and NC DOES WORK, coach Lee is right on what he is saying., After over a month and few days she called me, it really worked , boy was I shocked.. initially she couldn't bring herself to say she's s sorry, but sounded like she had many regrets... coach Lee refers to it is dumpers remorse -> "item is no longer on the shelve..". We are back together and things are working out well, we say (I love you to each other again) :) Tomorrow I'm sending her a red Rose for valentine's day.
My ex reached out to me after about 2 weeks. Short casual conversation. We have exchanged subtle casual texts back and forth. She lives right next door which makes things feel weird. After the breakup, I expressed a willingness to talk things over. It either works or it doesnt. I have practiced the NC. Only responding when she contacts me. I would like to work things out. But she is soooo stubborn. She will fight things like this out of spite regardless of what people tell her. I can tell she is struggling with the decision. We were in love afterall. Hate to say I am waiting but. I am using the time to better myself. But hope the opportunity comes where her and I can sit down and discuss it. She did initially block me on facebook, later unblocking me. She is allowing her kids to do activities with me again. So time will tell. She knows I am not interested in just friendship.
After 7 months broken up, him wanting to be practically best friends while he dates another woman, I'm finally at day 7 of no contact. Not only that, I blocked him. My emotions are all over the map. I'm trying to move on, but he truly was my best friend for over two years. I'm committed to staying in NC at this point. I'd tried before but he would reach out after two or three days every time. Hence the blocking. We shared so much, but on I must go. Much love to you all. Stay strong. 💞
You got this. I think the hardest part for me is feeling guilty for apparently not being 'mature' enough to get over him while being his friend. Like, once again I'm the bad guy, because I don't want to or can't be friends with him. This is in my mind, mind you. Just how I feel. I wanted to be friends but I felt he lead me on for months.
@Mitsubishi Lancer Evo V he reached out around my block at the 2 month mark to tell me he was mad at me for the NC. He was still with his rebound. It was confusing. I waited a few days and emailed back saying I wasn't interested in back and forth and if he wanted to get together to talk to let me know. I never heard from him again and it's over six months now. I'm doing fine. Going on some dates. Still miss him at times.
It’s all a game , to see if u reach out first , let them reach out to you , that way u will have control of the situation but if break and keep texting and calling etc , In their mind they got you , take that power away nine times out of time it’s pride that prolong the situation
Man my is ex is kinda immature or stubborn.She contacted me on friday but I was busy so I didn't noticed then she removed her message then I replied 2 days later because like I've said I was busy then she didn't reply.Ah whut?
my ex made a off key comment to me the other day about sleeping with someone last week, no other reason for them to mention it other than looking for a reaction. i didnt react....win!
We broke up 3 days ago, but 6 days ago. He restricted me on his Facebook page. Why did he not unfriend me or block me? Why did he just restrict it so I can still go to his page and see everything before? That confuses me even more.
He just walked away because his previous ex threatened to stop him seeing his daughter. It was sudden, I get that kids come first. We were messaging back and forth at first, then he blocked and ghosted, then I stopped contact for 2 weeks, then he came back asking for booty call, i declined, he ghosted again. I've now done no contact for 2 weeks and i feel better for it although I still think about him everyday. He's still got me blocked on everything.
Heartbreaking to see the amounts of posts from people all over the world with breaking hearts 😭 I'm guilty of watching these clips to. I'm 40 and gone through a lot of heartbreak in my life. It hurts.. It takes apart of you away. But trust me you always end up finding yourself again. Just don't allow the pain to change u as a person. Never go into a rebound relationship. Short term affection isn't want your heart really wants. We must all learn to accept its over no matter what we do or seek advice.. Life isn't meant to be easy. ( I wish it was) just never be available to someone that disrespects u. Actions always speak louder then words. Invest in yourself.. Stand back a little and take time. No rush... No contact don't work trust me, and even if it does its never the same.. And never judge your Self worth on people that treat you like shit.. Normal people don't hurt others. They have issues.. Its not us..!!
Something I've experienced is my ex telling me "she's not trying to give me false hope", without my bringing anything up, when she comes around and tries to spend time with me.
Wishing I saw these vids sooner since I didn’t let us break up. We broke up January and kept talking until he just did a 180 and asked for us to not talk. After this I kept my same schedule and so did he, gym everyday at the same time and he would look at me multiple times and look for me but then act like he didn’t see me when he’d walk by. He looks miserable and so do I. I had to reach out for some important info he had on Sunday and he was instantly replying, flirting, and making conversation. He even saved a photo of us in the chat?? I ended the conversation and am now implementing the NC. Fingers crossed because we actually are very very good for each other just needed some self growth before moving forward.
Dear coach lee I have seen all of your videos and I only found one video that is dumped by a married person. I request you to kindly make another video and tell us how can we deal with a married woman if she has dumped us after 2 years of relationship and went back to her husband and living with him. Even she told her husband about me
He unblocked me after 2 months and he just posted a pic of him and his new girlfriend... because he knows I wil see it.... it feels like my heart has been broken into millions of pieces.... i still wont chase him. He isnt fixing it. He is just making it worse
I watched this out of curiosity... I've no intention of ever getting back with my ex. I've recently found out that she monkey branched to an older married man with more money, who she's known for years and had been lurking around her instagram. However, she has displayed some of this behaviour... Unfortunately I broke no contact, but only because she wasn't reaching out about her own stuff. It was just getting on my nerves.. In that way maybe I 'lost,' but I made sure I was the bigger person by paying her back some money that she wasn't even bothered about. Did NOT want to owe her anything. She looked upset when I handed the stuff over eventually, but I already knew about this older guy at the time so I just felt numb towards her. Good riddance.
how are you feeling now? I've just been ended and im on like day 4 of no contact, wished I found this guy before and right now im trying to focus on me
I did no contact for about 8 months now and she has been msging my friends asking where I am and what I'm doing. Well I'm glad I did the no contact because I worked on myself and met someone great. Exs are exs for a reason. I could never go back I have to much pride.
My ex and I work together. Ive noticed that my ex would talk to exactly thee person that i am talking to immediately after seeing me and them talking or even while me and tge other oerson are talking . I just stand there and is genuinely perplexed. "since when does he talk to that person?" I ask myself. He's social, so it's not too surprising that he'll talk to just about anybody even if it's at random, but he seems to be particularly interested in the people that im talking to. It's annoying 'cause I have to pretend he's not there just demanding their attention. I came here to find out if he's acting like that as a way to be over me or if it's him just being rude. I don't know . it's been a little over a month since ive implemented the no contact rule with him. Im doing it for him to forget about me and move on; not to get back with him.
Great video! My ex left our photos kissing/hugging on their social media. I don’t understand why they still have them on their after 2 months of no contact. She made it clear it’s over and doesn’t want anything to do with me yet my photos are still on her social media.
oncallempath If she left the pics up, she cares. I want you to know about Coach Lee’s Workshop I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.
I saw he searched an old song of ours, searched the meaning of a hat I was wearing, created a sad playlist about heartache and regret and have been posting more "provocative" pics and videos on his social media. Otherwise there's no contact between either of us. He did start talking to another girl he must have lined up but it's obviously a distraction. Honestly don't know if I even care anymore but the attachment is no joke.
We are having lunch after 7 months ..he has a new love and said he needs to tell me goodbye..she has manipulated him in to thinking he and I are nothing but memories and he needs to be a better man...we had 11 years ...I have no idea what to say to him..I'm so not begging or fighting for him but he is struggling..how do I handle this? I love him unconditionally, so it's very hard
I don't know about others here but I get excited about watching a new, dare I say it, "episode" of Coach Lee's, NC Rules! This one resonated on a pretty big level! She has been doing a couple of those things, i.e. baiting, posting smiles that don't seem real to me? Who knows? Sunday will be week 5 for me in NC, we'll see and a Huge, Thank you! At best you've helped me keep both my dignity and sanity!
I LOVE U coach Lee you’re the best I used a lot of your techniques about 5 months ago I got back with my ex 2 months after our breakup we have since moved from Atlanta to Ohio and things are GREAT to top if we’re pregnant 🤰🏾!!!!....thank u so much Coach Lee for all your practices they surely worked for me & you’re surely THE BOMB 💣❤️
Coach Lee I’m 35 I started dateing someone 27 we haven’t talk in a month now I did everything for him I was good to him he sent me a friend request after our argument a month ago we never been friends on Facebook book I just wonder did he even cared like he said he did he said he don’t give a f
@@ieishawashington2661 I would go into NC and see what happens. It's hard but at this point even If you were the nicest person in the world he still for some reason cant see that, probably due to the fight. You need to separate yourself from him and let him see how great you were, watch coaches videos on NC and your ex during NC. Also watch his videos about coming from a position of strength, because right now you probably don't feel very strong. This has really helped me and I'm about a month into NC. The best thing you can do is go into NC, and let time do its magic. This will eventually give you a great peace whether or not you get him back. We don't always have the answers but we do have the science behind NC and trusting the facts. Coach Lee mentions dozens of times how this has saved many relationships. Trust the process. Also a friend request on Facebook doesn't mean they are completely ready yet. They still need time. It's the same thing as liking/commenting on posts.
All of us hurting, we're just putting on a brave face and mostly faking it that we're feeling great and that's a good way to start. These videos give you hope but I'm not sure living in hope is the best thing to do. Moving on is the only thing to do which currently is what I'm struggling with because I truly loved them and they hurt me. My reaction to their disrespect led to the breakup. Logically I know they're flawed and i can do better than them but their presence still lingers in my thoughts day and night. I'm struggling, it's been almost 3 months of hard NC. Hope to get through this soon.
I don’t recall asking for any coaching? Wrote my comment on here 4 months ago. I have healed & know I deserve way better. Way better! Then mistreatment from a man that lies pretending that he does care! Whom will go out and do whatever he feels is ok behind my back. No thanks! Feels it is ok to hurt & deceive me! Look, If he doesn’t adore me, appreciate & value me then so long! Most of all respect me & what we should of had together him being honest & opening up. Has many chances to that I gave him, too, in a kind & caring way. Plain & simple. Especially if I was kind & feel now doing all the work in the relationship. Not right. I’m only being whom I am devoted,loving,caring & giving to him. Not sure why you want to coach someone whom feels she is is healthy. Whom knows she is to be respected & her Worth & value. Really always did but I gave in & trusted an immature man. I know to move on from him that I deserve way better & am only seeking a good man now. Someone intelligent that has a good sense of humor & can laugh at himself. That wants a real relationship not to play games. Or deceive their partner! I learned a lot needed to I assume -lesson taught. Won’t make that mistake again! No doubt! His loss I say. Sounds harsh but I know I deserve way better. I played a part yes my being to kind & somewhat naive. Know too I was not standing up for myself more & speaking out. Will set strong boundaries yes. Never again! Thanks coach!
My ex actually reached out today after 47 days of no contact , asking about my exams . but I'm thinking she still does not want me back ..she was just asking how was I doing. reaching out doesn't mean they still want you..maybe??
dude this is a obvious hoover attempt for your ex to gauge how you are doing. Please ignore it, so the 47 days of disciplined silence doesn't go to waste. That silence is your power.
Dr Cooper she just wants to see what your up to even though she’s getting banged, orrr the guys that ran through her don’t want her, either way she’s using you for attention for whichever it may be. If you do if fact get back together, she will automatically put you in her roster full of man bitches that are performing different kind of resource services for her.
Just wanted to say thank you for the information coach. This has been very helpful and has worked for me. My ex has reached out to me and wants to get back together.
No contact for 9 days. Starting of NC, he change his profile picture which used to be our picture. And actively online till late night. Its out of his ordinary behaviour but I still remain silent. Today just notice from whatsapp that he deleted my phone number. Well, actually nc working guys. For me i start to feel better. And he trying to bait me to break this but i will just remain silent.
There´s another sign that I´ve noticed: They reach out after six weeks of NC, and after asking how you´re doing (COVID-19 gives them the perfect excuse) they go on about how they think about you, then "remember that we don´t talk anymore" only to tell you that they only want to be friends after you casually suggest meeting up without acknowledging the offer of a meetup, neither accepting nor rejecting it.
😂😂😂😂😂coach lee you are a living legend of wisdom respect sir💪 she does all the things you mentioned you but it appears like comedy now thanks to you
I find myself laughing through most of this video, lol. "They're just doing terrrrific" "They're just sooo happy.... Without you, of courrse*
Yes no contact works for both people because it allows you to heal and let them appreciate you. When they broke up with they threw you away as garbage or treat like a dog until the rat got the gun. The situation will flip eventually especially if you were a good person. Don't do anything let them come back to you in their own way.
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@@marthagarguilo1093 agree on that part threw u like a garbage + dont let em come back
I feel the same
What hurts me the most is that we were so close that now that she’s gone I feel empty like I have nobody to talk to
I feel the same way me and her were together 3 years I went to rehab for drinking she stayed with me 2 months in that broke up with me and then said she met someone else she’s been txting me everyday and even sent some nudes last night after I asked but still says she don’t want to be together I’m just starting no contact but at first I felt like I had nobody to talk to couldn’t stop thinking about her I still think about her but I found just txting your friends or txt anyone that keeps ur mind from wandering that helps also go for walks go shopping get new clothes make yourself feel good u will be ok
Me too. I keep dreaming about him then I wake up and it's like it hits me all over again. I have some job interviews lined up which is great but I feel so dead inside.
@@katemate1034 I wake up an hour before my alarm every morning and can’t fall back asleep, all I can think about is her and her friend that started dating right after she broke up with me
@@LaunchpadNation I'm so sorry. Hopefully it's just a rebound thing but if not to be honest it sounds like she doesn't deserve you, and I'm sorry that's a cliché but it is true. My relationship was long distance and he wants someone closer. I really want to ask him if there is any hope at all, I just want to know if I have any kind of chance, but I think it's not a good idea.
@@LaunchpadNation im exactly one year out from when my partner of over 6 yrs left. it really hasn't gotten any easier especially with the loneliness and difficulty sleeping that you have mentioned here
What sucks the most is that you and another person shared so many little moments that no one else had with you. It’s as if this certain language only existed between two people. You go from knowing someone deeply to having to see them as just some person you used to know. Best of luck to all you guys out there. Going through it atm
No contact for 14 days. I’m realizing that space and distance has helped me heal. I see the bigger picture. Thanks Coach
Dr.'sorders exactly.. try 3 months 😭😭😭
That’s good homie but your not outta the woods yet. Believe me. 15 years left for old man with hep c 😝 I want my shit back though not her.
Expensive Man hell to the no bruda. I’ve had time to heal that bish can have her junkie old mans I’m working out and bigger than I was it helped me so much to channel emotions. I’m not ready for new relationship or anything but I’m not crying in my room with the lights off 🤣🤣😂👏😝😎 as the song goes the damage is done so I guess I’ll be bricky bricky leavin 😉✌️
Francisco Morales hi
Lucky Man Don’t Wait For An Answer
Jus Move On
1: they try to make you jealous
2: they want you to think they’re doing spectacular
3: they will ask how you’re doing
4: they will post how happy they are
5: they still haven’t picked up their stuff
6: they’re hot and cold
7: they delete all photos except one
8: you hear from their friends, and timing makes no sense
9: they keep their schedule consistent
And he's doing all of this
THANK YOU!!!!!
@@naiko6700 There's not going to be a third time. Move on SuckaPunta!!
Great she is not doing any of these, im screwed if i keep hope i guess
My ex didn't do none of this
Hitting 3 months no contact. She’s not coming back guys, but it feels a little less weighted now.
thats another purpose of no contact. to help you get over them.
3 months no contact also . Although I have no idea what will be the issue in my case... We shall see...
Don’t expect a timeline on when they would come back. I have an ex who came back after 4 years lol
I'm hitting almost 2 years still hurts
@@agawdsparadise3782 u need to move on
I love no contact. Not only does it work very well, it also helps relieve me of my anxiety.
TheBlanco951 same here .👏🏽
TheBlanco951 struggling about it at first but getting used to it na!🙃
@@lilyoh7460 It's bad medicine, but medicine non the less
@@TheBlanco951 i hope i can do the same😐 but i can't ignore him😞 cause i still love him so much💔😭 it hurts when he told me he just want me as a sweet friend😥😭
TheBlanco951 indeed! and don’t ever try faking it or suppressing things. It backfires most of the time.. Y’all ladies need to do the NCR for yourself and yourself only. move on and let go! If one day that he realized things, at-least the ball is in your court.
NC 4 months truly proud of myself .. can’t stand people treating me like crap
Any updates
I understand the pain :(
Oh man...
How is the progress coming with the nc
Amen..
Day 12 of no contact and I’m feeling stronger than ever, thanks Coach!
Can’t wait to feel this
What sucks the most is what we do when we are going through a breakup. It's like we lose ourselves
I know and we were fine before the relationship
Silence is golden.
Indeed
Diamond*
No it’s not
Absolutely on point, I'm dealing with a breakup and bought the kit and watched the videos. Lee is on point. I went from a bad breakup where she was threatening to call the cops, to we have spent most of the last two weeks together including a vacation. It's been amazing.
The more I listen to you. The Less I want this woman back.
Coach Lee .... Often imitated, Never duplicated. As the old song goes.. He's not just good, He's the Best !!!!
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Hello friend, I recommend this great man who fixed my relationship in 24 hours, now my partner is back and more committed after many years of separation and breakup, he can also help you ....
What if you have a no contract order from the court and he can’t contact you or I could get him in a lot of trouble? But I want to talk to him ???
If they try to make you break the rules, it‘s not because they want you back, it‘s they need the comfort „ah she‘s still all about me“
Sounds like a narcissist who misses to be fed by his victim..
I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring my husband back after divorcing me for more then five year with my 9 month old baby his name is DR osoiye he can help you bring your husband back within two contact him
Thats when you 100% say no. !!!. Silence is bliss...... Enjoy it... Life goes on... And its still beautuful if not even better than you thought .... 😊😊
He blocked me on everything...went to his house, ( 7 year relationship here) knocked on door, wouldn't answer...i just left quietly...no more from me...his turn.
I blocked her on everything except text and phone call. She has to make the effort to contact me...period. Shes the one that left me why should I pursue her?
That is the hardest choice anyone will ever have to make. I’m glad you were strong enough
Its been almost four months and still hurts but kinda better than the first few months. We were able to chat on the 3rd month and he told me to always take care of myself and also asked about how is my family. It was a long exchange of text msgs but thats it. Going to 4th month and watching Coach Lee's videos helps me to be strong. Thank you Coach Lee. 🥰
How your story went since then?
If he doesn’t adore you & see you as the best out of all women out there then move on. You don’t need to chase a man that is immature or insecure. Find a man that values and respects you. If he does something wrong tell him. If he lashes out and doesn’t discuss it do leave him.
Thank you very much for the phrase, “People go for what they want. “ Being reminded of this is incredibly insightful that helps me through the turbulence. I did the breaking up after a lot of consideration. Yet, I am back here binge watching Coach Lee💜
I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring my husband back after divorcing me for more then five year with my 9 month old baby his name is DR obohse he can help you bring your husband back within two contact him
Coach lee is the Bruce Lee of break ups. He knows what he's talking about, and he does it with finess and calmness. Can't get enough. Not only is it for break ups but for the thoughts and reactions of humans in general. Just great stuff..
Coach Lee for President. Making Relationships Great Again 🔥🖤🌹
Coach Lee's video regarding if you love someone let them go is excellent. He makes so many good points not just on the no contact rule but general issues. Really good.
Thank you. I’m glad it helped. Here is the link to that video for those interested: m.ruclips.net/video/mQ78WpcE6ao/видео.html
I fell for my ex tricks and I tried reaching out before I saw your video. A big mistake! But I didn't pursue, I went into radio silence right way. Coach Lee, you are so correct. It's a power tussle.
Haven't heard from her in over a year, she's in a relationship that I thought was a rebound at first but apparently not. Stay strong brothers, I hope you'll get your lovers back and be happy. If they don't, well still try and go after happiness without them.
I feel u. There's no other way mate
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Right? 2 years later and she's pregnant. She said she never wanted kids before. Fml.
Shinobits I am not waiting a year of no contact to contact my ex. I’m contacting her after 30 days .
@@Un1234l omg bro are you fr??? I’ll kill myself if that happens
What happened bro ? Have you heard anything from her?
Just started busted out laughing in a moment of depression when Coach mentioned, "posting quotes on social media about how happy they are." My ex did this multiple times last week lol
Laugh at your situation
And see the bright side of this
And think like not taking anything seriously take things lightely specialy these relationship
Same with mine. Did you get her back tho?
@@marcoaslan2714 she reached out a few times, once at 2 months, another at 5 months. Both times while she was with another dude. First time - I didn’t know and set a date. She cancelled at last second. Second time I knew better and sent her back to him saying it’s not fair to him.
Currently, she is 6 months pregnant with his child as they are unmarried and have been together < 1yr. Thank God I walked away.
Message him now for help
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Just wanted to thank you hugely.
I've proceeded with the no contact rule, my situation was a little bit different from your cases, so I successfully "translated" some signs that my Ex was sending me and I actioned in a good way... Now we came back together, and we love each other more than ever! Your videos helped me along my depression, helped me to stay strong, and not pleed, beg or stress her with meaningless words.
I gave her the chance to miss me! and this happened quite well! :)
Hope everybody will hear more closely your advises.
All the best Coach
Btw when you guys broken up....Did she deleted the photos of you guys together?
You still together? I’m going through this now!
It has taken me more than 5 years to get over my wife and to understand myself; but i am the better for having done so. My feelings for her have finally changed and sadly I know that when her world falls apart I won't be able or willing to help her as I did in the past. I am a good man and I deserve more out of my life than to feel badly about myself the way I did. I have no debt, no bad habits and integrity by the bucketload. But life is an experience and there is someone else out there who's going to be so much better for me.
All of us here are heartbroken. Why don't we try to become friends or matches to support each other?
This helped a lot , my ex does all of this and just listening to these videos made me more stronger ,distant ,& confident .
Did you're ex came back?
Message him now for help
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@@ellanice2961 LOL
Coach Lee, just 3 months after backing out of my graduation party, my ex took me pumpkin picking and told me that she was moving away from her parents’ house. Now, she only lives 38 minutes away from my house and she invited me to her apartment and told me to find a way, which I did. It’s coming. It’s just a matter of time before it comes.
Message him now for help
2 weeks of no contact. My ex is changing his watsapp profile picture many times. Today posted a picture holding a champagne bottle...
Well that will make me jealous 😂🍾
Good luck dear
Almost same here, he was holding a beer instead 😂
Mine too he is changing his profile picture many times 😂
Mine viewed my story after reactivation his account.... Going Grey rock.... Now I'm not posting stories...don't want him to think he has access to me...
I deleted him from all social media and before every time he changed a profile picture then I would contact him .. now it has been almost 3 months NC, 6 months break up .. he changed his WhatsApp pictures like 2weeks 10 days once .. first it was him hiking whatever events outside , second is in 10 days I’ve already saw tow pictures of them having fun in snow .. it’s like he want the world knows he has a gf , the frequency of he changed his profile during these 4 months more thanwe were together for 16 months 🙄
He posted this on his page “Each to his own way I’ll go mine. Best of luck in what you find. But for your own sake remember times we used to know” Quote by Ian Anderson
Perfectly said! Its so true..love Ian Anderson of Jethro Tull..70s rock group..
Coach Lee's video series in summary:
Become like that of a jedi zen monk in balanced meditation, attempting to coerce a skittish, timid cat from underneath a bed, in a fashion that keeps the cat still liking the monk and wanting to stick around after it does. The monks strategy: Only petting the cat if it comes to him.
Thanks Coach Lee! Your videos have been extremely helpful in a very difficult and distressing time.
😂😂😂 basically yes!
after 5 months i met my ex and had a chat over coffee, we spoke about all the accusations and rumours that were made from third-party people. we hugged and i asked her if she would want to meet again, she said yes and we met again for coffee this morning. i told her how i feel and she took it well, she told me how she feels. although she says "were not getting back together yet" i can't help but think she is thinking about it otherwise she wouldn't have said "yet". heres to the next time i meet her
VNDY OFFICIAL good luck! You got this! Wishing you all the luck
@@frankvilla203 it wasn't meant to be. we were starting to get close but i eventually saw through all of her lies, i gave her chance after chance and she betrayed me yet again... haven't said a word to her in a week now and i no longer feel the need to talk to her again. just goes to show that the things you think you want most in life, is your peace.
Honestly I'm not even doing No Contact and I'm not looking to win my ex back (dude dumped me a month before our wedding and left me stranded in a foreign country with no money and visa issues, he can get bent), but as much as my brain is happy he's gone, my heart still hurts and just watching these videos is a massive comfort. Thank you. I literally fall asleep to them at night when I can't handle the pain, and watch them again during the day when I can actually absorb your message.
I cried in front of her she was as cold as the devil, she said no,my mum was there tried to beg her on my behalf but she was adamant, I had lost everything my job my business n my wife of 3 years. I tried to even kill myself but now I'm just healing one of at a time
@@Master.Ojinaga Keep healing! If you're spiritual at all and believe in positive vibes, ask people for them, ask the universe for them - I swear it helps. The more people sending good energy your way the better! I'm so sorry to hear about your wife, but maybe in this case rejection is protection... if she could be that cold to you, that's not someone you want as a wife. You deserve better.
Positive vibes and love to you, life has another plan for you, you just have to hold on and hang in there until you can see it 💖
@@Master.Ojinaga YOU DESERVED BETTER !! GO ON AND LOVE YOURSELF BE STRONG !! HUGS
@@instagamrr I read your story. That sucks. I just got out with a False Twin Flame relationship. Still waiting for my real twin flame soon. My ex and I were from the same country, Dominican Republic 🇩🇴
She still thinks I'm waiting for her LOL. My real twin is coming.
@@Melbester9 Just happened to see this notification cause I’m online. 6 months later and I’m so over my ex, have been since February (it’s may now) - so glad I got through it. In no way or form do I miss anything, and I’m loving my life so much more now. You will too! Hang in there~
I'm halfway through the video and I'm laughing because it is so accurate.
Am almost 30days of no contact. He had tried to get me back but I ignored. He nolonger shows signs of coming back. Should I take his clothes off my closet to his place of work please advise
She started seeing a therapist before the breakup and is continuing to do so. So tells me she's not"having the time of her life" she still not happy. And I can see on social media she's not happy.
2 years of NC now. By now I do not give a sh..t never stalked, or knew if she displayed these signs because again, I never took a look she was doing. For me it was, if she really wanted to come back she would say it. No drama no tricks, as simply as that. Keep no contact guys and develop your dreams and goals. Has worked well for me. Now I can look back and learn about my mistakes
2 years? Damn!!! :(
Aaron Rodriguez so who are you with this quarantine period 😆😆😭
I think after 6 months it stops being NC and you've just moved on. I dont think anyone should be pining over their ex if they havent talked to you in a year.
@@choicemeatrandy6572 it's going on 7 months. I think you're right. 🙁
Anthony Redden sake boat as you lol. She’s been with the new guy for 8-9 months now. started dating him immediately after we broke up and it’s a long distance relationship as well.
Tough Love from Coach Lee. “People go after what they want.” I would add they end up where they want to be. The place/person they are called to be with. Hurts like hell, but time is the ultimate healer. Thank you, Coach Lee for your straightforward approach to relationships.
I've experienced the hot and cold. I came into a conclusion that he's playing mind games that's all it is!
@@anichuks1490 it sounds scary. No ty.
😂😂😂😂😂
@Ani chucks l want
Once it's done it's done and over the journey objective is too keep moving foward and upwards!
Coach, she asked for space and I am giving her what she wants. I’m about 10 days into no contact and I got into my #1 choice graduate school last night. I put it on my snap story and the next morning I wake up to this from her “Hey I’ve been going back and forth about whether or not I should text you but I do really want to congratulate you on getting into NYU. That is such a huge accomplishment and I am very happy for you!
I know this is something you would have wanted to call me about but I do appreciate you giving me space and respecting boundaries. I wasn’t sure if texting you would bring up any bad feelings or awkwardness, so that is why I hesitated to do so initially. You don’t even have to respond to this or anything I just wanted to congratulate you because this is a big deal and you should be proud of yourself. I hope that you are doing well and I’m sure that in time we will talk about this a lot more.” I am wondering if I should validate this with a small response thanking her or just keep no contact... she said herself I don’t have to respond. I’m wondering if not responding will just boost her curiosity or make it seem like I’m being cold.
Do not respond my man! Continue NC until you get a message from her that is more suitable to what you're looking and waiting for
joeharna ended up responding, like Lee said ignoring wouldn’t get me anywhere even if she said “it’s ok” but I didn’t continue a convo or anything just said “No problem, I’m doing well. Thanks” and left it at that
@@Nyualum21 Ok fair enough, great response. Best of luck
Did you get back together?
@@naiko6700 Ultimately no, but the door isn’t completely closed. She is studying abroad in London for the next year and neither of us really wanted to do long distance. But we are still close friends and there is the possibility of something happens when she returns to the states. I’m not “waiting” for her, but like I said the door isn’t completely shut so who knows. We started up talking again after like 3 months no contact. I think NC is a good method to use, just make sure you don’t overdo it or act cold when/if the other person does reach out.
First day of no contact, she’s posting on social media more now. And retweeted out saying she’s never cared 💀 idk how to feel. She’s hot and cold. Tells me give me time and we will get back together, but she’s different on social media. It hurts
Just relax bruh. You're caring too much. You're probably too clingy and needy that's why she broke up with you.
Yeah, flirting with another woman, even a co-worker, or some woman on the street and posting photo on your social media. She will fear you replace her. It could be she chase someone who are not fix, so she go and see, and making sure your are their in case of a back up.
Most woman got man backup plan in her mind. Insecure woman fear to be alone, to not have attention. She could be caring, lovely but after a while she will become hard to please her, it will become never enough. She will want you pass more and more time with her while you will forget your own life. You will settle down, with no hope , no drive anymore and you will become boring and she will dump you.
Woman with lack of parent love when child, become toxics on a long round.
@@mickay1 so true..
I was with my girlfriend for nearly 6 years. This past weekend before Christmas, I proposed to her and asked her to be my wife. She told me that her being scare of becoming sick from Covid-19 and being a better mother outweighed her desire for me. I was totally floored. It left me angry, sad, and just numb....been watching these videos for the past 12 days for some advice and help.
Good stuff Lee... Almost in my mid 40s divorced now over 5yrs. I have new girlfriend been with for last 3 yrs. Been going through your video's lately very encouraging. We split up recently and you've hit every nail on the head. I really love and care for her but at this point it makes alot of sense on the Do Not Contact process with her. Anyhow thanks for your videos and your advice.
Hey, How is it going for you now after 3 weeks now ?
My ex shows almost all the signs. He even reached out but he didn’t come to the main point yet. I’m still continuing with no contact.
So what happen
@@nosugarkoolaid1990 his new relationship failed miserably. He got slapped in public by his gf infront of me. Now I’m living my best life and that dude is lmao I have no words. I never checked up on him after 2 months of breakup. Some people just don’t deserve our energy.
Hey Coach, here's my situation : My ex dumped me on the 14th of December. She only reached out on Christmas day, and on New Year's Eve by sending me a picture of some soaps she had made and to wish me a happy new year. I wished her the same but did not carry the conversation as I did not really pick on the "indirect/direct approach". After that, she reached out this sunday and we saw each other that same afternoon. Things were great, we laughed and joked a lot, like nothing bad had ever happened to us and our relationship. We even poked fun at each other in trying to make the other a little jealous about possible people that we dated during our time apart. At the end of the meetup, I felt good and went for the kiss, but she turned her head and said that she was unsure of her feelings. I didn't try to convince her of anything, I just walked away with a smile and she said : "see you soon, maybe"...I'm in no contact right now and I haven't heard from her since. I guess I won't ever but at least I think I handled it pretty well. Go figure.I also learned that a rebound was involved. He had dumped her a few days before her reach out, I'm assuming that's why she did it. What do you think of it ? Will I hear from her or is she just playing games with me by putting me in backup plan mode ? Maybe I gave out a needy vibe and spooked her away...Thanks a lot.
Luigi De Piano get rid of her Shes breadcrumming and if she has no intention of getting back she shouldnt behave like that.
She’s seeing you as a backup option. Do yourself a favour and just walk away from her life forever! You don’t need anyone in your life who doesn’t properly value your life and your commitment!
You went to far with the kiss, If she enjoy the moment she will compare it with the other guy. Just dont over do it. She felt lonely, back up plan definetily. you know what to do, dont make her believe you'll be always there waiting for them.
Haha I watch so many of these videos I remember reading your story the other day on a different video.. sorry to hear about your ex... next time no kissing :
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Well at least I'm in permanent no contact guys so yeah...but she's using me for sure I think so too...I haven't heard from her since so I guess it proves it
The problem with no contact is when the other won't contact you either.
Chris Murray No Contact Is To Help You Move On. If They Come Back
And I Mean “IF” Not Saying They Are
Then They’re Yours. But Do Not Sit Around For Them To Call, Or Reach Out To You On Social Media. Jus Keep Living Your Life, Doing Your Normal Routines. Everything Is On Gods Timing
broke up, did NC. Ex reached out. Fast forward....we tried different things. We are at an empass but the feelings are still very strong between us. She wants to be friends. I said no. She is not happy about it at all. I said, I dont want to be friends only. But if you change your mind, give me a call and maybe we can talk. As per Coach Lee. She is hurt, frustrated and upset. What doesnt help is that we live next door to one another. I was very frank with her. I told her I loved her and willing to work on things still. SO I left that door open. But in the meantime, I said I was backing away. Back into NC for this boy. Battle of stubborness.
Update?
Going to focus a lot on no contact. I was the one who broke it off yet im the one always hot and cold. It feels pathetic on my end. Im glad i dont have social media so i dont indulge in stalker habits. I look forward to the day i can finally feel this chapter of my life is finally closed and im no longer looking back wanting things to feel normal between a dead end relationship.
Thanks for posting.
Hi coach lee!! Your videos really kept me going n got me through some very tough times. We broke up two months ago, ive been focusing on myself and working on my life and surprisingly after those two months, i moved on!!
And out of the blue one of my old friends popped up in my life and well... he likes me!! A lot 😂 and i like him too, sooo since valentines is coming up, weve already kissed, a bit. I was in hospital for the passed week, he visited me everyday and just today as he was leaving he ended up kissing me :)) hes taking me out for valentines!!
Tysm for making these videos! They are extremely helpful and good to listen to when im doing chores or hobbies. Lets hope this one works out tho, and im so glad that with your help i was able to move on so thankyou!!
I hope everyone find the peace and happiness that they deserve, and know theyres hope!! It just may come in a different form 💖💖
@Joseph Oamen reported
Two months is a rebound
My name is Joseph , I really do love your coaching .. I deeply appreciate.
12:20 His best friend, a mutual friend, just called. He sounded very nervous and was asking a lot of strange questions. He got a lot of information to take back to my ex. I have been knowing him for many years and he has never called me on the phone. So the reason for the call is obvious. My ex has been on full block since March 2020.
Did he eventually come back
Married for 32 years he left for his "soulmate" who is someone else's wife. I tried for 6 months to talk to him and I asked him repeatedly if hes sure this is what he wants and he kept saying yes. I decided to move on with the divorce after he was gone for about 8 months because he and her were mean, hateful, and evil. He brought her to all of the court hearings. She can easily go for 75 years of age but shes only 54. 2 years after he left he contacted me saying he loved and missed me and he wanted his family back, and his life wasn't fun anymore. I didn't give in. He allowed for her to steal money from me off of our home equity loan which was given to me in the divorce. He bought her a Lexus car with some of the money he took. She leaves him without transportation when they are fighting which I understand is constant. Too much damage. Within a year of him leaving he was diagnosed with prostate cancer. His SUV that I helped him get was repossessed. Now he has to pay the money back through garnishment. Now he dont even communicate with our daughter. He changed jobs to one only 15 minutes from the house where me and our daughter lives so he can drive by anytime he wants. He dont talk to anyone anymore not even his mom or sisters and no one in my family not even our children. He has lost his self respect and so much including friends and respect from others. Shes still married and she goes home to her husband and kids for the weekend and she is sleeping with his best friend. I think hes embarrassed and has settled for what his life is now and his consequences. I pray for him daily. I'm strong for myself and my kids. I would love to have my husband back but he will never be that man again. Hes been gone now for 3 years and me and my kids have kept it moving. I think he is going through a midlife crisis because his craziness started soon after my sister died who he absolutely loved and adored. ☹😢 I dont know if we would ever be the same if we tried again. Thanks Coach Lee for your amazing videos. They are so informative and have so much insight. I too think you look like Dexter. ❤
Coach Lee needs say 2 million views. He should be a legend. He's a legend to me. I don't have my ex back or anything, but I appreciate what she gave me in the relationship and what I gave her. I know I mean a lot to her. Sure, would love to have her back. I am glad I have Coach Lee, though, to help me get through this and behave the right way.
Hello dear I can recommend you to the same powerful Dr who helped me get my ex back to me permanent with more love and commitment. He can help you and bless your relationship perfectly
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Thank you so much for all your advice. I've just broken up with him after 23 years. It's so hard to read him because he has mental issues but some of what you say is helping. I really thank you. What you say helps me to understand.
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“ you don’t hit the ⚽️ until they hit it to you” coach Lee, you deserve the presidency of our beautiful 🇺🇸 😃. This is my EX’s mindset! I know my ex is deeply in ❤️ with me. I know and I feel it.
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Too be honest this all sounds like me. And I'm the one who got dumped 😐
For heaven's sake coach ur right the girl is always posting snaps of fun, with friends,and pics of her self well dressed and crazy notes of hw she's gonna enjoy the day knowing I will see the status imagine she now days put her profile pic wearing the sweater I bought her ... I didn't Kno it was no contact rule doing all this infact I guess I did this indirectly.
The first time he break up with me he said to me that there will be no chance for us but he came back after 6 months,now he break up with me again saying he wants to relax and be alone,I'm asking him if we are over but he isnt giving a closure ,he just told me he doesn't want me to call him and send messages,I don't know if we are still together or not,,he don't givew amswers
What if you didn’t want to break up with someone but they pulled away and you needed to stand up for yourself and it was really hard but the thought is continuing to be ghosted randomly while being told I love you was too much to deal
With?
Message him now for help
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I had this happen to me. I am the dumper but didn’t want to be. I noticed a pull back and distancing so I made the decision. I would still like to work things out, but most likely not possible now.
I would like to share my experience...and NC DOES WORK, coach Lee is right on what he is saying., After over a month and few days she called me, it really worked , boy was I shocked.. initially she couldn't bring herself to say she's s sorry, but sounded like she had many regrets... coach Lee refers to it is dumpers remorse -> "item is no longer on the shelve..".
We are back together and things are working out well, we say (I love you to each other again) :) Tomorrow I'm sending her a red Rose for valentine's day.
Mark Johnshon Thats really amazing! I wish you guys good luck and stay strong together. Hopefully one day I’ll be in your position.
Why did you guys break up ? I need hope . I’m only on like day 4 and shit I miss her
very professional. You are right on in every aspect of our relationship. why can't it be easy
My ex reached out to me after about 2 weeks. Short casual conversation. We have exchanged subtle casual texts back and forth. She lives right next door which makes things feel weird. After the breakup, I expressed a willingness to talk things over. It either works or it doesnt. I have practiced the NC. Only responding when she contacts me. I would like to work things out. But she is soooo stubborn. She will fight things like this out of spite regardless of what people tell her. I can tell she is struggling with the decision. We were in love afterall. Hate to say I am waiting but. I am using the time to better myself. But hope the opportunity comes where her and I can sit down and discuss it. She did initially block me on facebook, later unblocking me. She is allowing her kids to do activities with me again. So time will tell. She knows I am not interested in just friendship.
After 7 months broken up, him wanting to be practically best friends while he dates another woman, I'm finally at day 7 of no contact. Not only that, I blocked him. My emotions are all over the map. I'm trying to move on, but he truly was my best friend for over two years. I'm committed to staying in NC at this point. I'd tried before but he would reach out after two or three days every time. Hence the blocking. We shared so much, but on I must go. Much love to you all. Stay strong. 💞
You got this.
I think the hardest part for me is feeling guilty for apparently not being 'mature' enough to get over him while being his friend. Like, once again I'm the bad guy, because I don't want to or can't be friends with him. This is in my mind, mind you. Just how I feel. I wanted to be friends but I felt he lead me on for months.
@Mitsubishi Lancer Evo V he reached out around my block at the 2 month mark to tell me he was mad at me for the NC. He was still with his rebound. It was confusing. I waited a few days and emailed back saying I wasn't interested in back and forth and if he wanted to get together to talk to let me know. I never heard from him again and it's over six months now. I'm doing fine. Going on some dates. Still miss him at times.
you seem to be the constant North Star in the chaos of my thoughts and at times uncertainty of my emotions.
What makes everything so difficult to understand is that my ex has been prescribed with Xanax after we broke up!
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Probably dealing it or using it for sex it can be used as a date rape drug also. Fyi
It’s all a game , to see if u reach out first , let them reach out to you , that way u will have control of the situation but if break and keep texting and calling etc , In their mind they got you , take that power away nine times out of time it’s pride that prolong the situation
Man my is ex is kinda immature or stubborn.She contacted me on friday but I was busy so I didn't noticed then she removed her message then I replied 2 days later because like I've said I was busy then she didn't reply.Ah whut?
my ex made a off key comment to me the other day about sleeping with someone last week, no other reason for them to mention it other than looking for a reaction. i didnt react....win!
@@jameswatt1029 out of interest, whats the spell?
@@jameswatt1029 yes
@@jameswatt1029 lol?
Michael Hanvey king running empire 😆😆😆
We broke up 3 days ago, but 6 days ago. He restricted me on his Facebook page. Why did he not unfriend me or block me? Why did he just restrict it so I can still go to his page and see everything before? That confuses me even more.
He just walked away because his previous ex threatened to stop him seeing his daughter. It was sudden, I get that kids come first. We were messaging back and forth at first, then he blocked and ghosted, then I stopped contact for 2 weeks, then he came back asking for booty call, i declined, he ghosted again. I've now done no contact for 2 weeks and i feel better for it although I still think about him everyday. He's still got me blocked on everything.
We broke up. No contact. In a few months she’s gone online found someone else and they’re practically living together.
So sorry to hear this Thomas, stay strong, you deserve better
Heartbreaking to see the amounts of posts from people all over the world with breaking hearts 😭 I'm guilty of watching these clips to. I'm 40 and gone through a lot of heartbreak in my life. It hurts.. It takes apart of you away. But trust me you always end up finding yourself again. Just don't allow the pain to change u as a person. Never go into a rebound relationship. Short term affection isn't want your heart really wants. We must all learn to accept its over no matter what we do or seek advice.. Life isn't meant to be easy. ( I wish it was) just never be available to someone that disrespects u. Actions always speak louder then words. Invest in yourself.. Stand back a little and take time. No rush... No contact don't work trust me, and even if it does its never the same.. And never judge your Self worth on people that treat you like shit.. Normal people don't hurt others. They have issues.. Its not us..!!
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Good to see this
Normal people don't hurt others.they have issues it's not me Misty.
Lush X “ just never be available to someone who disrespects you” I LOVE THIS! Made my morning Saturday
I just turned 40 a couple weeks ago.....This....allllllof THIS 💜💜
Something I've experienced is my ex telling me "she's not trying to give me false hope", without my bringing anything up, when she comes around and tries to spend time with me.
Quit wasting your time with these scam attempts. You should be ashamed of yourselves.
She’s trying to use you for her own convenience to make herself feel better.
Wishing I saw these vids sooner since I didn’t let us break up. We broke up January and kept talking until he just did a 180 and asked for us to not talk. After this I kept my same schedule and so did he, gym everyday at the same time and he would look at me multiple times and look for me but then act like he didn’t see me when he’d walk by. He looks miserable and so do I. I had to reach out for some important info he had on Sunday and he was instantly replying, flirting, and making conversation. He even saved a photo of us in the chat?? I ended the conversation and am now implementing the NC. Fingers crossed because we actually are very very good for each other just needed some self growth before moving forward.
Dear coach lee I have seen all of your videos and I only found one video that is dumped by a married person. I request you to kindly make another video and tell us how can we deal with a married woman if she has dumped us after 2 years of relationship and went back to her husband and living with him. Even she told her husband about me
He unblocked me after 2 months and he just posted a pic of him and his new girlfriend... because he knows I wil see it.... it feels like my heart has been broken into millions of pieces.... i still wont chase him. He isnt fixing it. He is just making it worse
Do you need help
I could have love to recommend some one who who help me stable my relationship
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Block him hun :/ it’s not worth the heart break
@@victoriaprestidge9144 you can make.him love you so much
I watched this out of curiosity... I've no intention of ever getting back with my ex. I've recently found out that she monkey branched to an older married man with more money, who she's known for years and had been lurking around her instagram.
However, she has displayed some of this behaviour... Unfortunately I broke no contact, but only because she wasn't reaching out about her own stuff. It was just getting on my nerves.. In that way maybe I 'lost,' but I made sure I was the bigger person by paying her back some money that she wasn't even bothered about. Did NOT want to owe her anything.
She looked upset when I handed the stuff over eventually, but I already knew about this older guy at the time so I just felt numb towards her.
Good riddance.
She is dating someone else... I feel dead..
Mine was flipped too i feel you my guy ...... we stay strong
Awwwww. This comment broke my heart
how are you feeling now? I've just been ended and im on like day 4 of no contact, wished I found this guy before and right now im trying to focus on me
@@teamosborneracing I’m on my day 4 lol , is it working?
Stay strong
I did no contact for about 8 months now and she has been msging my friends asking where I am and what I'm doing. Well I'm glad I did the no contact because I worked on myself and met someone great. Exs are exs for a reason. I could never go back I have to much pride.
your video was exactly right. all of the advice was perfect. i have not gotten back with my girlfriend yet, but you are an insperation
My ex and I work together. Ive noticed that my ex would talk to exactly thee person that i am talking to immediately after seeing me and them talking or even while me and tge other oerson are talking . I just stand there and is genuinely perplexed. "since when does he talk to that person?" I ask myself. He's social, so it's not too surprising that he'll talk to just about anybody even if it's at random, but he seems to be particularly interested in the people that im talking to. It's annoying 'cause I have to pretend he's not there just demanding their attention.
I came here to find out if he's acting like that as a way to be over me or if it's him just being rude. I don't know .
it's been a little over a month since ive implemented the no contact rule with him. Im doing it for him to forget about me and move on; not to get back with him.
@@rahulgautam1063 what is this?
Hi I just won't to thanks for your videos it's been 2 weeks and we r back together I'm over the moon
He never had a friend reach out, he always had his dad do it!
Great video! My ex left our photos kissing/hugging on their social media. I don’t understand why they still have them on their after 2 months of no contact. She made it clear it’s over and doesn’t want anything to do with me yet my photos are still on her social media.
oncallempath If she left the pics up, she cares. I want you to know about Coach Lee’s Workshop
I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.
I saw he searched an old song of ours, searched the meaning of a hat I was wearing, created a sad playlist about heartache and regret and have been posting more "provocative" pics and videos on his social media. Otherwise there's no contact between either of us. He did start talking to another girl he must have lined up but it's obviously a distraction. Honestly don't know if I even care anymore but the attachment is no joke.
No contact for two months
He texted me and we're back together!
I never expected this to happen not even in a million years
Cute happy for you
Lethal venom 420 mine is 3 months. And thers no hope that we will get back together
wind mill any update
No contact is the only way to get past anxiety of hearing their voice or seeing their calls. No contact is for you to move on without manipluation
It’s so hard, but I’m trying
I understand @@babygirlfeelewis4666
Sounds like games I’d keep going on without him!
I like games practice mental strength
In ten years of relationship, I've never been on her Facebook. I think I'm going to be the one that needs convincing.
We are having lunch after 7 months ..he has a new love and said he needs to tell me goodbye..she has manipulated him in to thinking he and I are nothing but memories and he needs to be a better man...we had 11 years ...I have no idea what to say to him..I'm so not begging or fighting for him but he is struggling..how do I handle this? I love him unconditionally, so it's very hard
I don't know about others here but I get excited about watching a new, dare I say it, "episode" of Coach Lee's, NC Rules! This one resonated on a pretty big level! She has been doing a couple of those things, i.e. baiting, posting smiles that don't seem real to me? Who knows? Sunday will be week 5 for me in NC, we'll see and a Huge, Thank you! At best you've helped me keep both my dignity and sanity!
What if we've been separated for 8 months and our divorce just been finalized last week and she texts to say happy valentine's day?
@@normanpisani2617 Did you have contact with her at all during those 8 months?
@@James-jx3ro yes. We have children so no contact is dificult
@@normanpisani2617Have you watched, Lee's video's on that specific topic?
@@James-jx3ro yes. I keep contact specifically about our kids
I LOVE U coach Lee you’re the best I used a lot of your techniques about 5 months ago I got back with my ex 2 months after our breakup we have since moved from Atlanta to Ohio and things are GREAT to top if we’re pregnant 🤰🏾!!!!....thank u so much Coach Lee for all your practices they surely worked for me & you’re surely THE BOMB 💣❤️
Justen Galacia thank u 💕
Congratulations to you and yours I suggest if you havent already read grab the book called the 5 languages of love by Gary Chapman
This is so 💓 warming.
Congratulations!! Hoping same happens to me
Wow
Coach Lee expecting us women not to stalk is the kinda person I need in my life 😭😂
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Coach Lee I’m 35 I started dateing someone 27 we haven’t talk in a month now I did everything for him I was good to him he sent me a friend request after our argument a month ago we never been friends on Facebook book I just wonder did he even cared like he said he did he said he don’t give a f
@@ieishawashington2661 I would go into NC and see what happens. It's hard but at this point even If you were the nicest person in the world he still for some reason cant see that, probably due to the fight. You need to separate yourself from him and let him see how great you were, watch coaches videos on NC and your ex during NC. Also watch his videos about coming from a position of strength, because right now you probably don't feel very strong. This has really helped me and I'm about a month into NC. The best thing you can do is go into NC, and let time do its magic. This will eventually give you a great peace whether or not you get him back. We don't always have the answers but we do have the science behind NC and trusting the facts. Coach Lee mentions dozens of times how this has saved many relationships. Trust the process.
Also a friend request on Facebook doesn't mean they are completely ready yet. They still need time. It's the same thing as liking/commenting on posts.
@@ieishawashington2661 Don't fall in love, without seeing someone in live. Word are just word. Action mean effort for you.
All of us hurting, we're just putting on a brave face and mostly faking it that we're feeling great and that's a good way to start. These videos give you hope but I'm not sure living in hope is the best thing to do. Moving on is the only thing to do which currently is what I'm struggling with because I truly loved them and they hurt me. My reaction to their disrespect led to the breakup. Logically I know they're flawed and i can do better than them but their presence still lingers in my thoughts day and night. I'm struggling, it's been almost 3 months of hard NC. Hope to get through this soon.
I don’t recall asking for any coaching? Wrote my comment on here 4 months ago. I have healed & know I deserve way better. Way better! Then mistreatment from a man that lies pretending that he does care! Whom will go out and do whatever he feels is ok behind my back. No thanks! Feels it is ok to hurt & deceive me! Look, If he doesn’t adore me, appreciate & value me then so long! Most of all respect me & what we should of had together him being honest & opening up. Has many chances to that I gave him, too, in a kind & caring way. Plain & simple. Especially if I was kind & feel now doing all the work in the relationship. Not right. I’m only being whom I am devoted,loving,caring & giving to him. Not sure why you want to coach someone whom feels she is is healthy. Whom knows she is to be respected & her Worth & value. Really always did but I gave in & trusted an immature man. I know to move on from him that I deserve way better & am only seeking a good man now. Someone intelligent that has a good sense of humor & can laugh at himself. That wants a real relationship not to play games. Or deceive their partner! I learned a lot needed to I assume -lesson taught. Won’t make that mistake again! No doubt! His loss I say. Sounds harsh but I know I deserve way better. I played a part yes my being to kind & somewhat naive. Know too I was not standing up for myself more & speaking out. Will set strong boundaries yes. Never again! Thanks coach!
U can't be fixed by the person who broken you
The only person who can fix you is yourself. Other people can sometimes support you in doing so, nothing more.
damn this is deep
My ex actually reached out today after 47 days of no contact , asking about my exams .
but I'm thinking she still does not want me back ..she was just asking how was I doing.
reaching out doesn't mean they still want you..maybe??
dude this is a obvious hoover attempt for your ex to gauge how you are doing. Please ignore it, so the 47 days of disciplined silence doesn't go to waste. That silence is your power.
@Joseph Oamen No
She is with some guy now and I've moved on.
@@escanorsunspirit1105 I wish I had done that back then..
Dr Cooper she just wants to see what your up to even though she’s getting banged, orrr the guys that ran through her don’t want her, either way she’s using you for attention for whichever it may be.
If you do if fact get back together, she will automatically put you in her roster full of man bitches that are performing different kind of resource services for her.
Just wanted to say thank you for the information coach. This has been very helpful and has worked for me. My ex has reached out to me and wants to get back together.
Hows it going with your ex since then?
No contact for 9 days. Starting of NC, he change his profile picture which used to be our picture. And actively online till late night. Its out of his ordinary behaviour but I still remain silent. Today just notice from whatsapp that he deleted my phone number. Well, actually nc working guys. For me i start to feel better. And he trying to bait me to break this but i will just remain silent.
There´s another sign that I´ve noticed: They reach out after six weeks of NC, and after asking how you´re doing (COVID-19 gives them the perfect excuse) they go on about how they think about you, then "remember that we don´t talk anymore" only to tell you that they only want to be friends after you casually suggest meeting up without acknowledging the offer of a meetup, neither accepting nor rejecting it.