Rooftop Leadership | Scott Mann | TEDxSantaBarbara

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  • Опубликовано: 19 сен 2016
  • "Trust is eroding all around us everyday. Conflict and skepticism fill the void.
    In these challenging times, this former Green Beret explains how to lead people who don't want to be led."
    Scott Mann is a former Army Special Forces officer who spent 23 years deployed to some of the most challenging and violent places on the planet. He is a master at building relationships in high-stakes, competitive environments. As a Green Beret in the United States Army, he forged bonds and solved problems using values that moved people around the world to stand up for themselves. His secret? He was able to restore trust and create human connections in places where that didn’t seem possible. He is now bringing those same principles to corporate boardrooms and conference rooms-where trusted leadership is more valuable-and more vulnerable-than ever.
    Scott is a regular contributor to CNN, Fox News, Wall Street Journal Radio, and NPR.
    Today he is a leadership speaker and trainer. He is also the author of the #1 international best-selling book Game Changers. Scott remains on a mission to teach organizations the same “game-changing” leadership strategies he learned in combat.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 453

  • @lucasyjester
    @lucasyjester Год назад +330

    I'm sorry is the point of this talk really just about trust? Because... that seems so obvious. Don't get me wrong, Scott has obviously had some intense experiences that would have illuminated the importance of trust in a very impactful way but I would hope that the majority of people wouldn't need to go to war to understand this... maybe I've just been lucky in terms of my community but "trust is eroding all around us everyday" is not my reality

    • @darrellrussell7259
      @darrellrussell7259 Год назад

      trust is such a strong word I believe, and there are not many giving it

    • @kenoxfps8598
      @kenoxfps8598 Год назад +1

      without trust, life loses meaning, imo

    • @kenanxo7384
      @kenanxo7384 Год назад +1

      I understand him when I put myself in his shoes

    • @fortunaterbush8607
      @fortunaterbush8607 Год назад

      People often fear change, but also being undervalued and disrespected. People fear the pain of being overlooked for leadership roles and being disregarded as “not leadership material”.😎

    • @barrywells2020
      @barrywells2020 Год назад

      depends on your view of the situation

  • @paigelpatterson
    @paigelpatterson 2 года назад +2

    Scott is the definition of what it means to be a noble human being.

  • @mountain-climber
    @mountain-climber 2 года назад +3

    So amazing that just the presence gives empowerment to the locals. No expectation, just the support, gave people the courage they needed to protect themselves. What a unique perspective to leadership.

  • @dereksunder
    @dereksunder Год назад +1

    Trust has diminished and I keep hearing this everywhere and everyday. Faith and hope keep me sane.

  • @amagodatfortnite
    @amagodatfortnite 2 года назад +2

    ‘Leave your tracks’, I’m all teary at this. Powerful talk and powerful message.

  • @randubrown
    @randubrown 3 года назад +9

    Dude this guy is beyond eloquent, this is seriously good and needs to be heard!

  • @sammypdennison
    @sammypdennison 3 года назад +27

    This man is incredible, what an amazing story!! I hope he keeps in touch with all the people he met, he would have helped them so much!!

    • @rooftopleadership222
      @rooftopleadership222 3 года назад +1

      Thanks Sammy. I sure do my best to do that. Our non-profit "The Heroes Journey" works with a lot of these folks every day to help them tell their story as they transition home from service.

    • @brandawoodword
      @brandawoodword 3 года назад

      He really is

    • @jessyclaston
      @jessyclaston 3 года назад

      this is so good!

    • @rabiasalas7410
      @rabiasalas7410 3 года назад

      Agreed!!!

    • @bridgettemsanders
      @bridgettemsanders 3 года назад

      very good talk!

  • @agnespuentes
    @agnespuentes 2 года назад +1

    I am often in awe of people who become specialised in the military. Not for me, but so grateful that it is a calling for others.

  • @JevenDovey
    @JevenDovey 7 лет назад +33

    Scott Mann is the MAN! His training is awesome and he is a true leader. Just finished a 48 hour Rooftop Leadership training course with Scott and I'm walking out with a new view on the world.

    • @carolyn-anderson
      @carolyn-anderson 3 года назад

      where do you do the training, I just found this talk, I'd love to know where he is located to do this?

    • @bigdollarsigns
      @bigdollarsigns 3 года назад

      I saw another TED he did, it was so powerful.

    • @juanlsalazar
      @juanlsalazar 3 года назад

      Can't believe this is that old a talk, it fits for right now so well.

    • @elke-femke
      @elke-femke 3 года назад

      what was in the course?

    • @sammypdennison
      @sammypdennison 3 года назад

      you're so lucky!!!

  • @honeyissweetforme
    @honeyissweetforme 2 года назад +1

    I have never heard such a well-spoken and charismatic speaker. His delivery is spot on. Truly amazing and touching talk.

  • @stanchance
    @stanchance 3 года назад +3

    Leading is more than running at the front, leading is often at the back supporting.... And Scott is a perfect example of this.

    • @risapiera
      @risapiera 3 года назад

      He really is.

    • @amberdenkins
      @amberdenkins 3 года назад

      People want to be seen. Leaders want others to be seen

  • @kurstank1953
    @kurstank1953 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for your service Scott, we are safer because of men and leaders like you.

  • @keithpotter7366
    @keithpotter7366 Год назад +1

    I will never fire a rifle in Afghanistan but I will give thanks for people like you, Scott, who have. Thank you for your service.

  • @sherylrinkler
    @sherylrinkler 2 года назад +1

    If we lead with courage and transparency, those that care will always follow. That's how we know we are doing the right thing.

  • @marekdluzniak
    @marekdluzniak 3 года назад +3

    Its a bit sad going to war as a peacemaker, to learn how live, create trust and build community. Its exciting to see it as valuable lessons for leadership.

  • @billconconi3996
    @billconconi3996 3 года назад +2

    Both highly articulate and profound. Very much enjoyed this talk.

  • @sammyllee
    @sammyllee 2 года назад +1

    Lessons teach us and experience defines us, this man is proof of that!

  • @The-Secret-Garden
    @The-Secret-Garden 2 года назад +1

    This is real leadership in my eyes. Leading by example in such a real way.

  • @margotaylor-ritchie5937
    @margotaylor-ritchie5937 2 года назад +1

    The world would be such a better place if people were focused on forming connections like that.

    • @lamarjacobs
      @lamarjacobs 2 года назад

      That is a world I can only dream of

  • @tomdashwood9578
    @tomdashwood9578 3 года назад +2

    Yes it makes sense to break bread and be face to face in order to align with values and trust. The complexity of all this is pretty incredible.

    • @jensjfriedemann
      @jensjfriedemann 3 года назад

      So very true, I think it's engraved in our brains that sharing a meal is a time to find common ground.

  • @risapiera
    @risapiera 3 года назад +5

    Such a golden heart, you can see it and feel it through this entire talk.

  • @rachelleramirez611
    @rachelleramirez611 4 года назад +18

    Teary-eyed every time I watch this. Beautifully crafted and performed. Leave tracks.

    • @dustinprichards
      @dustinprichards 3 года назад

      you should watch his other talk "Scars"

    • @carolanneoswald2551
      @carolanneoswald2551 3 года назад

      I have seen another talk he does, it was very powerful.

    • @sienaredders
      @sienaredders 3 года назад

      its so true an such a good way of presenting it.

    • @bra-nd-on
      @bra-nd-on 3 года назад

      brilliant talk!

    • @rooftopleadership222
      @rooftopleadership222 3 года назад

      Rachelle, thank you so much for your kinds words...and for your great editing skills in getting the Leading through Chaos book out on the street.

  • @andrehuestan
    @andrehuestan Год назад +1

    Rooftop leadership, oh yes that makes perfect sense. Thanks for telling the story to understand ourselves better! 💪💪

  • @adairamacdonald
    @adairamacdonald 2 года назад +1

    The physicality he gives to this presentation really connects something for me.

  • @maynardsavery
    @maynardsavery 2 года назад +1

    Scott is an amazing man and the work he does is so important in understanding so much of this

  • @maehaslet
    @maehaslet 3 года назад +1

    Impressed by how you connect military service to leadership! Nice talk.

  • @IAmTheRealRoblox
    @IAmTheRealRoblox Год назад +1

    Trust, you said it. That's amazing work to be proud of and humbled by.

  • @peterdgrubb
    @peterdgrubb Год назад

    Thank you Scott for all you have done and continue to do for this country and those who defend it

  • @theonlyway977
    @theonlyway977 2 года назад +1

    "connect at exactly the right spot, with precisely the right person" I know he's talking about something that's planned and coordinated but it made me think of so many moments where I met someone by chance and they turned out to be precisely the right person that I needed in my life at the time. Thank you for that reminder Scott.

  • @rawirinikau
    @rawirinikau 2 года назад +1

    I hate to admit how mesmerised I was by this talk. I normally can't stand anything or anyone so steeped in militarism but this was beautiful.

  • @jensjfriedemann
    @jensjfriedemann 3 года назад +2

    I find it fascinating the length of time a war can continue, perhaps so long its the only thing they know how to do. Raised by the fight.

  • @davinachilds
    @davinachilds Год назад +1

    Definitely agree with Scott on this stuff, trust needs to be built in to the foundation of every successful relationship you build

  • @bilbobaggins3rd
    @bilbobaggins3rd Год назад

    I'm very glad Scott has this platform as an outlet for the trauma he has experienced.

  • @carlasteadman
    @carlasteadman 2 года назад +1

    To have come out of that with a perspective like Scott has is pretty amazing.

  • @johngayton
    @johngayton 2 года назад +2

    I have seen another of his talks and the way he enacts those scenes to make his point is really powerful. He has such a unique skill in his speaking.

  • @sadfacesforall
    @sadfacesforall Год назад +1

    Oh my god, what he sees at the 17 minute mark had me in tears.

  • @briannavantifcampen
    @briannavantifcampen 2 года назад +1

    13:39 “when our higher purpose serve people we will never even meet”. Powerful stuff- purposeful stuff. This is what I want to do with my life.

  • @brandawoodword
    @brandawoodword 3 года назад +2

    Learning how to become a better leader, regardless of what comes your way. Good stuff.

  • @helenimnotready
    @helenimnotready 2 года назад +1

    It's so true that people bond more quickly and strongly during intense situations like that, and the idea of always having that mentality is really interesting!

    • @lamarjacobs
      @lamarjacobs 2 года назад

      There is something in human nature and adversity that I'm sure there is a lot of research on

  • @tyeziika
    @tyeziika 2 года назад +1

    I've always heard the term "leading by example" but this is truly it. incredible.

  • @TheJazHong
    @TheJazHong 2 года назад +1

    We often forget when we are thinking about management and leadership that, while there is plenty of information and research about how to be an effective leader, at the end of the day we are dealing with people. Personal interaction and engagement is invaluable.

  • @thiagodornelas131
    @thiagodornelas131 2 года назад +1

    Such a cheerful guy, I'd never guess that he is a military!

  • @forestchancey
    @forestchancey 3 года назад +1

    Watching Scott I can tell he is the perfect leader - as he leads by example, he's honest and you can tell his morals and values are true and align with that of serving and contributing.

    • @juniorjacksonjr
      @juniorjacksonjr 3 года назад

      ya he seems to me to have a really good well rounded view compared to most military ppl i have personally met

    • @noahjerted
      @noahjerted 3 года назад

      I know I'd follow him, through and through

  • @jacey-morgan
    @jacey-morgan 3 года назад +1

    Bringing people together and coming together for a common purpose is true humanity. It touches us at our core, the polarity between fear and love.

    • @rooftopleadership222
      @rooftopleadership222 3 года назад +1

      Thanks Jacey. It was beautiful to see and we need to do it more today.

    • @jacey-morgan
      @jacey-morgan 3 года назад

      @@rooftopleadership222 😌 😍 🥰

  • @aaronereid
    @aaronereid 3 года назад +4

    "when our higher purpose serves people that we will never even meet" definitely felt some tightness in my chest reading about the chat with his Dad.. and then the bit "how do we find the courage to go up those ladders when no one is following us" boom. so many amazing bits to take on here. what a rad guy.

    • @mariannemortimer7724
      @mariannemortimer7724 3 года назад

      This really got me! So incredible.

    • @-joanna-wang
      @-joanna-wang 3 года назад

      I loved the bit about the ladder, because it really is so tough to move forward when you feel like you're alone

    • @dodgersfanextreme
      @dodgersfanextreme 3 года назад

      haha yes, not going to lie i had some tears in my eyes

    • @iamarchiestewart
      @iamarchiestewart Год назад

      Absolutely. Particularly the part about going up the ladders with no one following, that rocked me

  • @theresarives
    @theresarives 2 года назад +1

    Pretty incredible that Scott could come back and do what he's doing now. It takes a very strong character in my opinion to be able to move forward after experiencing such awfulness.

    • @moneymaker324
      @moneymaker324 2 года назад

      He's helping people heal and that's the most important

  • @mymotivationsnow
    @mymotivationsnow 3 года назад +4

    Daaaamn that is a really inspiring talk...

  • @blanchebosdet
    @blanchebosdet Год назад +1

    Regardless of what your beliefs about war are these people do an amazing job for their countries.

  • @halinatomczyk1714
    @halinatomczyk1714 3 года назад +1

    What an intelligent and well rounded man. To have been through what he has been and to come out of it with the ability to be real and raw and honest. It's very refreshing to see! Brilliant man, awesome talk.

  • @raejenson
    @raejenson 2 года назад +4

    Those in business and leadership need perspectives liked this to understand that it is human beings who they are leading and working with, however, this is a pretty intense way to be approaching business in a cushy western world.

  • @samanthaabadi
    @samanthaabadi 3 года назад +10

    loved hearing about Jim and Sitting Bull. such an incredible story. I'm all about leading by example and connecting with those around you to move forward. Scott seems like an absolute champion.

  • @mcgregoro
    @mcgregoro 7 лет назад +11

    Scott, well done. You tell a great story with wonderfully important life lessons...'See you on the roof top'

  • @dodgersfanextreme
    @dodgersfanextreme 3 года назад +2

    This completely moved me. Thank you for making a difference in my life with this talk.

    • @jensjfriedemann
      @jensjfriedemann 3 года назад

      So many of my thoughts changed watching this

  • @brewsterdd
    @brewsterdd 2 года назад +1

    Scott, you are really onto something here. Cheers for this!

  • @steveeagon9785
    @steveeagon9785 7 лет назад +4

    Passionate, inspiring and emotional message from Scott. His message is one that should resonate with anyone who leads people regardless of the job or position. We are all better off working as one!

    • @rooftopleadership222
      @rooftopleadership222 3 года назад

      Thanks Steve. I appreciate your leadership sir. I can tell it's strong.

  • @bestnewtunes8363
    @bestnewtunes8363 Год назад +1

    Defending together. So impressive in the line of fire.

  • @andrenotagiant2752
    @andrenotagiant2752 Год назад +1

    Wow! The fear alone. I have no words.

  • @denisgongolev
    @denisgongolev 2 года назад +1

    what a great presenter he is. he should be a spokesperson

  • @piperdalgliesh
    @piperdalgliesh Год назад +1

    Really increased my understanding of how this all works. Thank you so much I couldn't even imagine what this would be like.

  • @kaihanderstan
    @kaihanderstan 2 года назад +1

    Such an amazing talk Scott, my mind is awash with so many things I would never have otherwise thought of.

  • @imnotq5509
    @imnotq5509 2 года назад +2

    Definitely not what I was anticipating! So much more...

  • @emmajchance
    @emmajchance 3 года назад +2

    the resilience of this man is extraordinary. i can't even begin to imagine the strength and vision he must have.

  • @sarahjaimeson6294
    @sarahjaimeson6294 2 года назад +1

    a perspective i needed today. Thank you Scott.

  • @Sarahnotthesong
    @Sarahnotthesong 2 года назад +1

    I think I just saw your dad doing a TED talk, you are both amazing!

  • @annerossiter
    @annerossiter Год назад

    Leading by example through and through! Thank you Scott! I really got so much from hearing of the way you helped defend and support those people!

  • @be-present-now
    @be-present-now Год назад

    I'm off to "leave my tracks in the world". Thanks for this Scott.

  • @buddabuxby
    @buddabuxby 3 года назад

    How incredible this guy is talking about his idea with a retrospective of his time in the army.

  • @miraramona
    @miraramona 2 года назад +1

    I nearly applauded, and I'm sitting here at my computer on my own. Excellent talk.

  • @andrewtsilas
    @andrewtsilas 2 года назад +1

    To lead you must first learn to follow. he has the right path to be at the front.

  • @sagarmore3893
    @sagarmore3893 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing your experiences Scott, it can't be easy to relive this.

  • @conradthelegendwhite
    @conradthelegendwhite 2 года назад +1

    Most people have their own ideas about how to create positive change, and living your life in the way this guy is talking about would certainly help to connect with like-minded people.

    • @ehsaankumer
      @ehsaankumer 2 года назад

      That's all any of us want hey, like minded people around us

  • @salsadevrees
    @salsadevrees 2 года назад +2

    I had no idea what the difference was between ‘Green Beret’ and ‘Navy Seals’. I hadn’t really thought about it, I guess because I’m not American. I didn’t realised how on the ground with the communities they were and I am really impressed.

  • @liamnneely
    @liamnneely Год назад

    Strongly agree with what's being said here. Trust is a huge foundation in building rapport within ANY kind of relationship and something people are forgetting how to do

  • @theluisquinn
    @theluisquinn Год назад

    Thank you for your service, Scott.

  • @pagetderosier5267
    @pagetderosier5267 Год назад

    I would think that Scott is an exception to the rule of what we see our service people as, or have been lead to believe. What a beautiful and thought provoking talk :)

  • @smilingputin
    @smilingputin 3 года назад

    Leaving your tracks in this world- that really hit me. We so often feel the pressure to make an impact but this phrase just tops that… Leave track for others to follow, don’t build monuments for others to idolize.

  • @TheRealLoveChannel
    @TheRealLoveChannel 2 года назад +1

    Leads by example and reaps the true rewards

  • @realdelilahjones
    @realdelilahjones Год назад

    What a wonderful man, your experiences of trust and community are so powerful

  • @eliasOcarpenter
    @eliasOcarpenter Год назад

    Whether we realise it or not, fear is deep rooted in many people and when one of us is brave enough to lead the way it encourages those around us.

  • @gretaallison
    @gretaallison 3 года назад +2

    WOW! Connect with humans as if your life depends on it. That is a strong message I needed to hear.

    • @jensjfriedemann
      @jensjfriedemann 3 года назад

      It really changes how I view even day to day interactions

    • @easyrider9366
      @easyrider9366 3 года назад

      Quality of life is definitely dependent on our connections

    • @erikashik
      @erikashik 3 года назад

      There were quite a few one liners in here that got me, but that one really hit home

    • @easyrider9366
      @easyrider9366 3 года назад

      @@erikashik true yeah.

    • @erikashik
      @erikashik 3 года назад

      @@easyrider9366 😁

  • @pat-j-d
    @pat-j-d 3 года назад +2

    It would have been such a shock to the system, fighting for a country that didn't really want you there to begin with. I've always been very unsure about our troops being there and I questioned the reasoning to us being there. But then I see this talk and I wonder if the connections our troops made with people while there helped in a way we can't quite see yet. Beautiful talk Scott and thank you for all your hard work.

    • @rooftopleadership222
      @rooftopleadership222 3 года назад

      Pat, thank you. It was a mixed bag. I wish we had done more local work earlier in the war, but at the end of the day, I think we made an impact. More to do for sure...and much to learn. Thanks again Pat.

    • @halinatomczyk1714
      @halinatomczyk1714 3 года назад

      I agree Pat, so very much. But like you said, you see this beautiful man inspiring people and it all makes sense.

  • @suminkim346
    @suminkim346 Год назад

    If we could all follow our " highest purpose and serve people we will never meet" what a better world it would be.

  • @charliechapgould
    @charliechapgould 2 года назад +1

    So many of us are removed from what raw, human experience is and so in our heads about the formulas and processes we need to follow. We forget to just be human and connect with other humans. Once upon a time, our life really did depend on that.

    • @davinachilds
      @davinachilds 2 года назад

      This is a great way to highlight this

  • @alicemonay
    @alicemonay 3 года назад

    Point of no return! I have been there! It is like the fight for your life starts because you have no other option. So much get done and there is so much innovation and life in those moments.

  • @erynsee1319
    @erynsee1319 Год назад

    Maybe I'm particularly emotional today but this talk had me in tears for so many moments. The part about finding courage when no one is following us in particular just... destroyed me in such an amazing way.

  • @stephZandrews
    @stephZandrews 2 года назад +1

    I am so grateful for this message today

  • @mervobak
    @mervobak Год назад

    I think all it takes is for one person to step outside what is being accepted to show everyone that they don't just have to go along with what's happening. This talk really validated that belief, Scott, thank you.

  • @AmericanDreamU
    @AmericanDreamU 7 лет назад +2

    Scott Mann is a great American! #AmericanDreamU is proud to be about of #MissionAmerica. Thank you for all you continue to do for our Country Scott

  • @mehdidouinine
    @mehdidouinine Год назад

    Wow this is amazing Scott you should be so proud of yourself for finding something to focus your attention and power towards post-war.

  • @kaspergardon
    @kaspergardon 2 года назад +1

    This is hectic and heavy and beautiful all at once. Can't even begin to imagine what that would have felt like and been like for ya'll

    • @rooftopleadership222
      @rooftopleadership222 2 года назад

      Thank you for taking the time to watch Kasper - I really appreciate it!

  • @zackarnold1560
    @zackarnold1560 2 года назад +1

    Oh man the story of Jimmy and Sitting Bull, such a surprisingly wholesome part of this talk.

  • @deepfocus1540
    @deepfocus1540 2 года назад

    A bit off the war topic and with no malice, I have always loved that saying "nobody's getting out of here alive." It keeps the permanence of things in perspective.

  • @BruceWayne-nm5cr
    @BruceWayne-nm5cr 3 года назад

    I met some of the military men in my life. I can tell you they are the most disciplined people and their self-control is amazing. And the way they manage anything is just unbelievable. Seems they can do anything and they don't know the word can't.

  • @rosiealturo14
    @rosiealturo14 Год назад

    I just went down such a rabbit hole with this guy and his talks. Just... wow. Such a life lived already and then to come home and navigate 'civilian' life so powerfully, to not give in to that despair... amazing.

  • @thejanicej
    @thejanicej 2 года назад +1

    Amazing talk Scott! Really interesting stuff especially coming from a background with such high stakes.

  • @ameyhousten
    @ameyhousten 2 года назад +1

    Added to favorites - much to get from this one

  • @tiphaineauguet
    @tiphaineauguet 2 года назад

    Scott seems like such an intelligent, empathetic and well rounded sort, I want to ask him if he still agrees with what is happening!

  • @suzyqsuzy
    @suzyqsuzy 3 года назад +7

    Came here after seeing SCARS, this man is powerful!!

  • @Al-Hollandi
    @Al-Hollandi 2 года назад +1

    And now he saved over 500 people leading a secret operation in Kabul.. what a hero

  • @katienlister
    @katienlister 3 года назад +1

    We can say we lead, but the great bones really guide.

    • @mariannemortimer7724
      @mariannemortimer7724 3 года назад

      There are so many courses and big hype events about 'leadership', but you can really see that this guy knows what it means!