I believe he told everyones secret because he was embarrassed. Not embarrassed of his secret cause he barely hid it, just that he was exposed. He didnt want anyone to feel like they were on moral high ground and had room to talk about his situation
Don’t tell Sheila… I know it wasn’t handled in the best way, but Angela airing Mike out was the only way Sheila would leave. She took everything else he gave her because she didn’t think she was worth more and she said as much. As you said as well, Mike had to tell HER it was over. I do believe that the way everyone else who knew about Mike’s affair behaved, that none of them would’ve ever told Sheila if Angela hadn’t.
I think Diane avoided intimacy with Terry not just because she didnt want to, but because it kept up the charade of her not getting pregnant. Terry is a doctor, if they were being intimate consistently he would've got suspicious had she not got pregnant. Where as if they dont have it, then he already knows why they aren't having another baby.
I also believe she didn’t want to have sex was because it was ONLY because he was only having sex to get her pregnant.. not because he loves her and wants to enjoy the sexual pleasure of being with his wife. I wouldn’t want to have sex with a husband either if all he talked about is having a son. Plus, how would he know he was getting a son? Imagine if she got pregnant again and it was another girl? He’d probably continue fussing and harassing her for his son.
Why didn’t nobody jump across the table and beat Mike to protect their secret ?😂😂ig it’s for the movie but I’m definitely not gonna sit there and wait to be slandered.
Mike told for two different reasons. First, he believed that the other men told their wives his business. He didn't know that Angela saw him, so to him the only way Angela could have known is if Marcus told her. So he was angry at what he considered to be a betrayal by people whose secrets he kept. Second, he didn't like how Angela and the others were looking down on him for his affair. In his mind they were all a bunch of high nosed hypocrites. How dare Angela judge him when her own man was cheating (even though he didn't know about Angela's affair), how dare Terry and Diane look down on him (when Terry didn't trust his wife with the paternity of his child and Diane went behind her husband's back to have her tubes tied (a secret he only knew because Sheila told him), how dare Perfect Patty and her Perfect other half look down on him after what he confessed to Mike. Mike wanted them to remember that he isn't the only one with sin and shattered all their glass houses. If Angela hadn't kept antagonizing him before the bomb dropped, if Patricia hadn't stepped in, if Marcus had kept quiet he might have just addressed Sheila.
Nice insights into the dynamics at play! 😊 If Mike waited and was gonna tell Sheila, how do you think he would have done it? Why did he even go to the retreat in the first place? This brings up so many questions in my mind...
@@HeitCheri As you guys said in the video, you get away with what other people let you. If the status quo is working why change it. Sheila was she was at this moment and before is a doormat. A god fearing woman, she goes along to get along. She won't leave of her own volition. And as long as there was no pressure from Trina, Mike might have been satisfied with the status quo for a while longer. But ultimately I think he would have left when he wanted to have kids. Unless Sheila changed, Mike might have hung in there for a while. So it depends on when he ultimately wanted to have kids or if Trina didn't want to be a mistress anymore. But it was coming. I think it might have been like it was at the table. Mike would have come home one day, at Sheila's food and after dinner would have laid it out. That he wanted a divorce, presented her with what he set out with his attorneys. Gave her time to back her stuff or pack it for her and moved her out. Patricia and the others would have gotten a call from Sheila to come get her. The end. Whether he would have been with Trina or someone he judged more whether is unclear. But he would have been cold and straightforward with Sheila.
I don't think Angela cheated. She just said it out of spite and to not look like a victim. I think thats why she was able to see the signs of cheating and was willing to tell Shelia. I definitely agree she should have told Shelia in private not at the table.
@@HeitCheri love that. Angela is the one who loves to get under people's skin. She definitely knows how to get under Marcus skin. It's almost like foreplay. Look how her and Marcus initiated sex. It always started with an argument. I know you guys have talked about toxic relationships, so for me, Angela and Marcus are at the top of the list. It's almost comical.
Not only did Angela spill Mike's secret, but it was ugly how he told everyone's darkest secrets, and he didn't apologize to Sheila for the pain he caused her.
I believe that Mike told all the men's secrets because he believed they had told his to the women. When he says "C'mon Marcus, yall talking about me". I think he believed that because he had just told the men he was sleeping with Trina, and now the women know, they must have been talking too much. He wasn't aware that Angela saw him doing the late night creep to Trina's room. What do yall think?
I think he assumed the other guys were as trifling as him in the same way. The only one who was a distant second to Mike (in the area of cheating), was Marcus cheating with his baby mama (and whomever else). Mike really miscalculated I think.
When you live with anyone for a long time, there will be some tough times because people go through stages and change. It's not easy. I've been with my husband since I was 22 and will be 51 on Friday. It takes more than love. Love is an emotion but it needs to be an action word and these things have to be learned. Both people need to be committed.
That's why people shouldn't share everything with their spouses about their friends and vice versa. That's one rule that I've always followed. Mike wouldn't have had nothing to tell about me😅
Playing devils advocate, I think Mike reacted the way he did because he was the go-to man for secrets He was that friend that they went to for confession. He had everyone's back, despite what they did. It seemed to me like he had no judgements on them. Which is why he probably felt so comfortable telling them that Trina was his side piece Its a bit hypocritical how the men were ok keeping secrets with each other, then punish the women for keeping THEIR OWN secrets So when his secret was exposed, and his boys didn't have his back, he's like "okay, let me get it all out there". What would've made sense was if he denied it at the table, and looked to the men for support, the way he supported keeping their secrets. And when they told him to tell the truth, Mike should've said "why don't YOU tell the truth about a/b/c..."
I was in the army for 5 years and the “you don’t want them to know your name” is so accurate 😂😂😂 In basic, one of the drill SGT’s said “whose a ROTC” and I was about to say me but I saw someone in my platoon slightly shake his head no. 😂 I’m glad I didn’t 😂 one of the other trainees proudly raised his hand and he got smoked the 🐕 💩 out of him. 😂😂😂
I think it's a chance Patricia could've felt betrayed also by Gavin confiding in Mike. Breaking the fourth wall on their image and it's like he Cheated cuz SHE is the therapist. So in her mind He should be confiding in HER.. Not Crazy Ass Mike 🤡😂
Pat was messed up though. It's a wonder that she was able to still teach and see patients with all she had going on. Still, I could see her feeling upset that she wasn't confided in.
@@HeitCheri ‼️‼️‼️😭😭😭.. frfr.. I always think it's wild that Tyler Perry chose to Kill Off Gavin in Part 2, in a Car Accident, as opposed to Suicide.. cuz he and Pat had enough goin on and Suppressed so Much that you really would think either of them could've ended up Suicidal once their Bubble was Burst wide open. It also would've made the ending of Part 2 much more impactful, especially considering their Psychological Background.
@@HeitCheri and Pat was prolly able to still teach and such as a coping mech for herself.. Distracting herself from her own Prollems through having some form of control over other ppls.
I think Sheila would’ve left Mike but NOT in that moment or on that trip. She needed someone to push her in that direction I’m afraid. If Mike didn’t end it there, it likely would’ve taken a building friendship with Troy or another man to give her that push she needed to end it but had Mike stayed the only man in her life then no I don’t see it happening.
Longevity is really no longer appreciated these days. When I hear modern people talking about someone who's been married for years I then hear them say "but were they happy ". Happiness is a feeling that comes and goes. Nothing is 💯 of the time. Married is more than just feelings.
PREACH!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Expectations need to be managed. NOBODY is at the pinnacle of happiness every day, so why would that even be an expectation in marriage?
I feel like when people ask if the couple was happy they are really asking about the quality of the marriage itself. Okay you’ve been together for years but how many of those years was one or the other partner living in their own personal hell? Yes happiness is a "feeling" but why stay with someone who disturbs your peace or doesn't care about anything you are going through, Life is too short to just stay in a relationship that is actively stressing you. We even see that in this very movie with every single couple. Most of these people probably should have divorced way before the events of this film, there's no reward for long suffering and going along to get along.
The breakdowns you guys did about this movie and the sequel had me in a chokehold 😭. I was SEATED right by the door waiting for the videos on the sequel to drop after watching the first crop lol. I just finished the baby boy breakdowns too 💚
I don't like how Mike treated Sheila, but when you look at it,how could Sheila not know that they were messing around though. Angela, was picking the scab though and Mike just pulled everybody else's secrets up and out.
Mike Telling everybody's business at the Dinner Table is one of the most iconic Scenes in Black Cinema History Mike was right everyone was actually all high and mighty when it came to him they had selective outrage so Mike flipped the script on them they tried to make him the Scapegoat
@@malikwilson7387 yeah that's my favorite part. If I'm going down everybody coming. Then in Why did I get married to everybody hated him because they were all embarrassed.
Mike was low about telling what Gavin said to him about Patricia. In real life he would have gotten punched and cut off. You need your friends to vent so you don't say something mean to hurt your spouse. You have to get it out to someone you can trust.
Gavin went to the wrong person (Mike) to confide about the loss of the son. Thinking about it, I'm not sure that Mike has been like this. The way Mike said it, and exposed Gavin and Patricia was really harsh and mean. Gavin could have gone to Terry and/or Marcus, and I get that he was going through the emotions, with something horrible like this.
We All Feel Some Kinda Way About Mike But We Can't Undermine Angela and How She Betrayed Her Own Husband and Bragged/Boasted About Giving Him an "STD". ALL of Them Were Wrong In Their Own Way But Crazy Thing Is If It Wasn't For Mike Everybody Still Would've Been Phony IMO 😅. Love Y'all Keep These Up And Plz Finish the Love and Basketball 🏀 Series
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See, I always thought Angela was quick with the verbal comeback. There is no other evidence that Angela really did this other than what she said. Did Angela have symptoms, get treated, and then wait for Marcus to come to her that he cheated? And come up with this verbal comeback in the meantime.
@@orangevf1right i don’t believe she actually cheated bc in the second film she mentioned the std situation and asked “why should i trust you?” i think she said that to get under his skin but to also still assert her dominance over him.
27:11 - Two things can be true though. Maybe she’s not feeling him anymore so that’s a reason to withhold but if they’re not using protection, she’s avoiding sex because she knows she can’t get pregnant. It’s like a man saying “I don’t know whats wrong” knowing damn well he got a vasectomy on the low.
It does make sense because avoiding sex mean she don't have to say she got her tube's tied because if they were having crazy sex an her not getting pregnant then he's gonna be wondering what's going so to not deal with telling him whats really going on just don't have sex with him.
My grandmother always pushed me to get married but I think she just wants to see me walk down the isle or for religious reasons, I’ve never heard her speak of it as in a making me happy or enriching my life thing. It’s like what I’m “Supposed” to do. She, herself, has been divorced twice and my mother has had multiple divorces. And the response is don’t use us as an example. But I don’t think if you are a janitor you should expect your child to be an architect, at some point we have to start being the example instead of setting it.
10:41, SEE !! That’s where TYLER’s BLACK MAN should’ve come out and put it in the script. “Shit !! I’m doing pretty well. You’re at my spot Vacationing” 😂😂😂
Here's something I don't understand: if Trina was flirting with Troy, why didn't Mike consider that *maybe* she was more for the streets than for him? Lol. I mean, I get he's Mr machismo (or trying to be) but that should have been a huge red flag to him what type of woman Trina could be. That would have benefited his "rep" better... not that he was ever right in what he did, said, or thought.
If Mike couldn't read what kind of woman Trina was by such a betrayal of Sheila as her "friend", then he wouldn't have a clue about anything else. That was a big red flag. Great question! 😊
@@HeitCheri exactly. That whole time he thought he was putting it down and he was the one being played. Say what you will about Angela, but that woman was clairvoyant lol.
I’m just trying to figure out how does Mike know about all this? I understand him knowing all the men’s secrets because those are his guys and they show the guys breaking off and talking to each other a lot but how does he know about the girls problems? I may have missed it but I’m just curious because they never really show the girls interact with the men unless it’s their husband, so for him to know everyone’s deep dark secrets is confusing me
Regarding Terry he wasn’t wrong. He is a doctor so if they were having s3x regularly and she wasn’t getting pregnant question would eventually arise so not having s3x would delay any questions about not getting pregnant which is why he questioned if he fathered the 1st one!
Don't tell Sheila. I don't think Sheila knew of the affair or would have left Mike. Plenty of abusive husbands have wives that know of their mistress and never leave.Sheila will raise their side baby like Viola in Fences🤣🤣
I don't believe Diane avoiding sex was a plot hole. If she was intimate and never got pregnant, Terry would start asking questions. Probably pressure her to see fertility specialist etc.
I think that Sheila would not have left Mike she would have stayed you do have some females not all regardless if the man cheats on them or do other things behind closed doors the woman will still stay because she feels that she does not have anyone else but that man that she loves so much and some women are okay with how men treat them
Dont tell sheila. Chileeeee i cant stand the actor that play mike to this day lol. & also would yall eventually do a breakdown of “A fall from grace” that movie there…😂
I liked the movie and all, but I prefer The Play's story plot more. In the play, Diane, Terry, Mike, Sheila, Troy and Trina are all high school friends. There is no Marcus and Angela. Diane, was the lawyer and Angela all rolled into one. She took no shit off of Trina, nor Mike. And there was no Poppy. There was barely any storyline after Shelia came back around. Nothing of what should have been left in.
I believe he told everyones secret because he was embarrassed. Not embarrassed of his secret cause he barely hid it, just that he was exposed. He didnt want anyone to feel like they were on moral high ground and had room to talk about his situation
Maybe it's just me, but I love when yall talk about the Why did I get married movies.
Me Too! It's just soooo messy. At least it's about fictional characters 🤭😂🤭
Not just u
Same. 😂 It’s so much going on.
Especially the breakdown of the couples! LMAO!!!!
Same😂😂😂
Don’t tell Sheila…
I know it wasn’t handled in the best way, but Angela airing Mike out was the only way Sheila would leave. She took everything else he gave her because she didn’t think she was worth more and she said as much. As you said as well, Mike had to tell HER it was over. I do believe that the way everyone else who knew about Mike’s affair behaved, that none of them would’ve ever told Sheila if Angela hadn’t.
I think Diane avoided intimacy with Terry not just because she didnt want to, but because it kept up the charade of her not getting pregnant. Terry is a doctor, if they were being intimate consistently he would've got suspicious had she not got pregnant. Where as if they dont have it, then he already knows why they aren't having another baby.
I agree, eventually Terry would have noticed something was wrong and would insist on seeing a fertility specialist. Then the secret would be out
I also believe she didn’t want to have sex was because it was ONLY because he was only having sex to get her pregnant.. not because he loves her and wants to enjoy the sexual pleasure of being with his wife. I wouldn’t want to have sex with a husband either if all he talked about is having a son.
Plus, how would he know he was getting a son? Imagine if she got pregnant again and it was another girl? He’d probably continue fussing and harassing her for his son.
Why didn’t nobody jump across the table and beat Mike to protect their secret ?😂😂ig it’s for the movie but I’m definitely not gonna sit there and wait to be slandered.
😂😂😂 I know!!!! Just waiting patiently for your turn. Naw!!!
Right, he would have been Jazzy Jeffed out that door! 😂
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Patrica never forgave Gavin for blaming her over their child’s death. I feel like once that was revealed she was completely over him.
Sadly, Sheila would never have left Mike.
Facts!
When it flashed to Mike on the floor I lost it 😭😩
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Mike told for two different reasons. First, he believed that the other men told their wives his business. He didn't know that Angela saw him, so to him the only way Angela could have known is if Marcus told her. So he was angry at what he considered to be a betrayal by people whose secrets he kept.
Second, he didn't like how Angela and the others were looking down on him for his affair. In his mind they were all a bunch of high nosed hypocrites. How dare Angela judge him when her own man was cheating (even though he didn't know about Angela's affair), how dare Terry and Diane look down on him (when Terry didn't trust his wife with the paternity of his child and Diane went behind her husband's back to have her tubes tied (a secret he only knew because Sheila told him), how dare Perfect Patty and her Perfect other half look down on him after what he confessed to Mike.
Mike wanted them to remember that he isn't the only one with sin and shattered all their glass houses. If Angela hadn't kept antagonizing him before the bomb dropped, if Patricia hadn't stepped in, if Marcus had kept quiet he might have just addressed Sheila.
Nice insights into the dynamics at play! 😊 If Mike waited and was gonna tell Sheila, how do you think he would have done it? Why did he even go to the retreat in the first place? This brings up so many questions in my mind...
@@HeitCheri As you guys said in the video, you get away with what other people let you. If the status quo is working why change it. Sheila was she was at this moment and before is a doormat. A god fearing woman, she goes along to get along. She won't leave of her own volition. And as long as there was no pressure from Trina, Mike might have been satisfied with the status quo for a while longer. But ultimately I think he would have left when he wanted to have kids.
Unless Sheila changed, Mike might have hung in there for a while. So it depends on when he ultimately wanted to have kids or if Trina didn't want to be a mistress anymore. But it was coming. I think it might have been like it was at the table. Mike would have come home one day, at Sheila's food and after dinner would have laid it out. That he wanted a divorce, presented her with what he set out with his attorneys. Gave her time to back her stuff or pack it for her and moved her out. Patricia and the others would have gotten a call from Sheila to come get her. The end. Whether he would have been with Trina or someone he judged more whether is unclear. But he would have been cold and straightforward with Sheila.
“I think you need to stay man, we gone need some law enforcement around here”
My favorite line in the entire movie.
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Don't make life decisions based on movies (or social media) - great advice. Go out and meet real people in real life in healthy relationships. 🙂
DON’T TELL SHIELA!!! Fun fact: Prior to this movie & The Wood, Richard T. Jones was Ike Jr. in What’s Love Got To Do With It.
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@@smilealwaysnatasha3423 This is when you rewatch older movies & you see actors & actresses with small roles before they broke out.
Oh snap! He was!
@@dity9442 When you rewatch older movies you’ll see actors & actresses with a small role before they broke out.
I don't think Angela cheated. She just said it out of spite and to not look like a victim. I think thats why she was able to see the signs of cheating and was willing to tell Shelia. I definitely agree she should have told Shelia in private not at the table.
IDK, the jury is still out on that one. Maybe we should talk about that further?
@@HeitCheri love that. Angela is the one who loves to get under people's skin. She definitely knows how to get under Marcus skin. It's almost like foreplay. Look how her and Marcus initiated sex. It always started with an argument. I know you guys have talked about toxic relationships, so for me, Angela and Marcus are at the top of the list. It's almost comical.
Not only did Angela spill Mike's secret, but it was ugly how he told everyone's darkest secrets, and he didn't apologize to Sheila for the pain he caused her.
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I believe that Mike told all the men's secrets because he believed they had told his to the women. When he says "C'mon Marcus, yall talking about me". I think he believed that because he had just told the men he was sleeping with Trina, and now the women know, they must have been talking too much. He wasn't aware that Angela saw him doing the late night creep to Trina's room. What do yall think?
I think he assumed the other guys were as trifling as him in the same way. The only one who was a distant second to Mike (in the area of cheating), was Marcus cheating with his baby mama (and whomever else). Mike really miscalculated I think.
I couldn't agree more
I agree that was my thought on the other video he thought the fellas told his secret
When you live with anyone for a long time, there will be some tough times because people go through stages and change. It's not easy. I've been with my husband since I was 22 and will be 51 on Friday. It takes more than love. Love is an emotion but it needs to be an action word and these things have to be learned. Both people need to be committed.
That Boy Richard (plays Mike) was ACK'N maaayyyynneeee ! 😂😄😂
😂😂😂 Hey Queen!
That's why people shouldn't share everything with their spouses about their friends and vice versa. That's one rule that I've always followed. Mike wouldn't have had nothing to tell about me😅
Sheila would have NEVER left Mike! This needed to happen.
I would like to see y'all do a video about about The Family that Preys
That's on the list for sure and I really want to cover that one. ❤️😊❤️
This scene is such a classic.
Playing devils advocate, I think Mike reacted the way he did because he was the go-to man for secrets
He was that friend that they went to for confession. He had everyone's back, despite what they did. It seemed to me like he had no judgements on them. Which is why he probably felt so comfortable telling them that Trina was his side piece
Its a bit hypocritical how the men were ok keeping secrets with each other, then punish the women for keeping THEIR OWN secrets
So when his secret was exposed, and his boys didn't have his back, he's like "okay, let me get it all out there".
What would've made sense was if he denied it at the table, and looked to the men for support, the way he supported keeping their secrets. And when they told him to tell the truth, Mike should've said "why don't YOU tell the truth about a/b/c..."
Hmmm... so people told Mike secrets because he was that non-judgemental friend. Interesting...
I was in the army for 5 years and the “you don’t want them to know your name” is so accurate 😂😂😂
In basic, one of the drill SGT’s said “whose a ROTC” and I was about to say me but I saw someone in my platoon slightly shake his head no. 😂 I’m glad I didn’t 😂 one of the other trainees proudly raised his hand and he got smoked the 🐕 💩 out of him. 😂😂😂
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I have been married for 13 years and it IS work.
I think it's a chance Patricia could've felt betrayed also by Gavin confiding in Mike. Breaking the fourth wall on their image and it's like he Cheated cuz SHE is the therapist. So in her mind He should be confiding in HER.. Not Crazy Ass Mike 🤡😂
Pat was messed up though. It's a wonder that she was able to still teach and see patients with all she had going on. Still, I could see her feeling upset that she wasn't confided in.
@@HeitCheri ‼️‼️‼️😭😭😭.. frfr.. I always think it's wild that Tyler Perry chose to Kill Off Gavin in Part 2, in a Car Accident, as opposed to Suicide.. cuz he and Pat had enough goin on and Suppressed so Much that you really would think either of them could've ended up Suicidal once their Bubble was Burst wide open. It also would've made the ending of Part 2 much more impactful, especially considering their Psychological Background.
@@HeitCheri and Pat was prolly able to still teach and such as a coping mech for herself.. Distracting herself from her own Prollems through having some form of control over other ppls.
Nah he couldn't even talk to her so he had to go somewhere
I think Sheila would’ve left Mike but NOT in that moment or on that trip. She needed someone to push her in that direction I’m afraid. If Mike didn’t end it there, it likely would’ve taken a building friendship with Troy or another man to give her that push she needed to end it but had Mike stayed the only man in her life then no I don’t see it happening.
Longevity is really no longer appreciated these days. When I hear modern people talking about someone who's been married for years I then hear them say "but were they happy ". Happiness is a feeling that comes and goes. Nothing is 💯 of the time. Married is more than just feelings.
PREACH!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Expectations need to be managed. NOBODY is at the pinnacle of happiness every day, so why would that even be an expectation in marriage?
I feel like when people ask if the couple was happy they are really asking about the quality of the marriage itself. Okay you’ve been together for years but how many of those years was one or the other partner living in their own personal hell? Yes happiness is a "feeling" but why stay with someone who disturbs your peace or doesn't care about anything you are going through, Life is too short to just stay in a relationship that is actively stressing you. We even see that in this very movie with every single couple. Most of these people probably should have divorced way before the events of this film, there's no reward for long suffering and going along to get along.
The breakdowns you guys did about this movie and the sequel had me in a chokehold 😭. I was SEATED right by the door waiting for the videos on the sequel to drop after watching the first crop lol. I just finished the baby boy breakdowns too 💚
❤️❤️❤️ There's more to come! 😊
I don't like how Mike treated Sheila, but when you look at it,how could Sheila not know that they were messing around though. Angela, was picking the scab though and Mike just pulled everybody else's secrets up and out.
Mike Telling everybody's business at the Dinner Table is one of the most iconic Scenes in Black Cinema History Mike was right everyone was actually all high and mighty when it came to him they had selective outrage so Mike flipped the script on them they tried to make him the Scapegoat
@@malikwilson7387 yeah that's my favorite part. If I'm going down everybody coming. Then in Why did I get married to everybody hated him because they were all embarrassed.
"Mike Telling everybody's business at the Dinner Table is one of the most iconic Scenes in Black Cinema History"
@@Leonpj21exactly I can't be the only one at the dinner table that's exposed
@@malikwilson7387 right
Mike was low about telling what Gavin said to him about Patricia. In real life he would have gotten punched and cut off. You need your friends to vent so you don't say something mean to hurt your spouse. You have to get it out to someone you can trust.
Gavin went to the wrong person (Mike) to confide about the loss of the son. Thinking about it, I'm not sure that Mike has been like this. The way Mike said it, and exposed Gavin and Patricia was really harsh and mean. Gavin could have gone to Terry and/or Marcus, and I get that he was going through the emotions, with something horrible like this.
We All Feel Some Kinda Way About Mike But We Can't Undermine Angela and How She Betrayed Her Own Husband and Bragged/Boasted About Giving Him an "STD".
ALL of Them Were Wrong In Their Own Way But Crazy Thing Is If It Wasn't For Mike Everybody Still Would've Been Phony IMO 😅.
Love Y'all Keep These Up And Plz Finish the Love and Basketball 🏀 Series
Yes, Angela was dead wrong for that! The finale of the Love & Basketball series is coming out Friday! ❤️ We're trying to put out more than one video per week these days. If y'all wanna see more in a week... ❤️
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"Love and Basketball" 🏀 Video and At Least Mike Didn't Give Sheila an STD Tho 😅
Lastly, The "Scarface" Reference Was Perfect 👌 🤣🤣
See, I always thought Angela was quick with the verbal comeback. There is no other evidence that Angela really did this other than what she said. Did Angela have symptoms, get treated, and then wait for Marcus to come to her that he cheated? And come up with this verbal comeback in the meantime.
@@orangevf1right i don’t believe she actually cheated bc in the second film she mentioned the std situation and asked “why should i trust you?” i think she said that to get under his skin but to also still assert her dominance over him.
#DontTellSheila but I don't think she would have left him either.
14:30, SHEILA was too oblivious to what was going on for me. Any woman with common sense would’ve picked up on the signs.
27:11 - Two things can be true though. Maybe she’s not feeling him anymore so that’s a reason to withhold but if they’re not using protection, she’s avoiding sex because she knows she can’t get pregnant. It’s like a man saying “I don’t know whats wrong” knowing damn well he got a vasectomy on the low.
It does make sense because avoiding sex mean she don't have to say she got her tube's tied because if they were having crazy sex an her not getting pregnant then he's gonna be wondering what's going so to not deal with telling him whats really going on just don't have sex with him.
Diane was kinda scheming on not having a baby. That was premeditated.
My grandmother always pushed me to get married but I think she just wants to see me walk down the isle or for religious reasons, I’ve never heard her speak of it as in a making me happy or enriching my life thing. It’s like what I’m “Supposed” to do. She, herself, has been divorced twice and my mother has had multiple divorces. And the response is don’t use us as an example. But I don’t think if you are a janitor you should expect your child to be an architect, at some point we have to start being the example instead of setting it.
10:41, SEE !! That’s where TYLER’s BLACK MAN should’ve come out and put it in the script. “Shit !! I’m doing pretty well. You’re at my spot Vacationing” 😂😂😂
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Here's something I don't understand: if Trina was flirting with Troy, why didn't Mike consider that *maybe* she was more for the streets than for him? Lol. I mean, I get he's Mr machismo (or trying to be) but that should have been a huge red flag to him what type of woman Trina could be. That would have benefited his "rep" better... not that he was ever right in what he did, said, or thought.
If Mike couldn't read what kind of woman Trina was by such a betrayal of Sheila as her "friend", then he wouldn't have a clue about anything else. That was a big red flag. Great question! 😊
@@HeitCheri exactly. That whole time he thought he was putting it down and he was the one being played. Say what you will about Angela, but that woman was clairvoyant lol.
He didn’t deflect he did admit to it. He was just pointing out the hypocrisy of his friends
24:35 !! The name of this movie should’ve been called “PILLOW TALKING” for this very scene. This part is when the movie got busy.
I spit my coffee out laughing at "we don't know if Troy mom killed him" 🤣🤣
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The funny thing is troy was already married an divorced so idk about him Emulating thier marriage
Maybe that's why he divorced... because his marriage wasn't living up to his parents' marriage. 🤔
Don’t tell Sheila but I love Why did I get married analysis
Don’t tell Shelia but I watched till the end 😂😂
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I’m just trying to figure out how does Mike know about all this? I understand him knowing all the men’s secrets because those are his guys and they show the guys breaking off and talking to each other a lot but how does he know about the girls problems? I may have missed it but I’m just curious because they never really show the girls interact with the men unless it’s their husband, so for him to know everyone’s deep dark secrets is confusing me
They told their husbands who told Mike.
I think Shiela told him he specifically says she told him Diane had her tubes tied
17:50 GET YOUR WIFE was the best thing MIKE could’ve said. He was being respectful because he didn’t want to catch a BEAT DOWN from MARCUS !! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Regarding Terry he wasn’t wrong. He is a doctor so if they were having s3x regularly and she wasn’t getting pregnant question would eventually arise so not having s3x would delay any questions about not getting pregnant which is why he questioned if he fathered the 1st one!
Don't tell Sheila. I don't think Sheila knew of the affair or would have left Mike. Plenty of abusive husbands have wives that know of their mistress and never leave.Sheila will raise their side baby like Viola in Fences🤣🤣
Chilllleeeeeeee... FENCES!!! Now that was some mess! 😂
@@HeitCheri if you haven't reviewed it yet, please do so.
I gotta get my strength up for that one! 😂😂😂
I just don't unerstand how those three were still friends with Mike after the dinner incident.
This part!
I don't believe Diane avoiding sex was a plot hole. If she was intimate and never got pregnant, Terry would start asking questions. Probably pressure her to see fertility specialist etc.
I love the dinner scene y'all
It is so volatile!!!!
I think that Sheila would not have left Mike she would have stayed you do have some females not all regardless if the man cheats on them or do other things behind closed doors the woman will still stay because she feels that she does not have anyone else but that man that she loves so much and some women are okay with how men treat them
Mike was a demon in the first movie, but he was cleaning himself up in the second movie
Shelia would not have left Mike if Angela did not tell her😢😢💔💔.
Don’t tell Shelia but sis definitely wasn’t gonna leave.
DON’T TELL SHEILA! Love the commentary on all of these videos!!
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Dont tell sheila. Chileeeee i cant stand the actor that play mike to this day lol. & also would yall eventually do a breakdown of “A fall from grace” that movie there…😂
2:06 In hindsight, Pat and Gavin were probably already thinking about a divorce. Just a thought !!
I'm sure it crossed their minds.
10:47 heit's laugh 😂
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"We don't know the mom didn't kill the dad." Whyyy is Heit like this? 😂💀
You know he's always gonna come up with something like that! 😂
Heit is a Marine 😮✊🏾
Yep!
Mike is a snitch. None of the guys told on him so why is he diming them out?
Don't tell Sheila i think that she would have left....some time later / not in that moment
Don't tell Sheila that she had a sister wife
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Am I seeing what I’m seeing! Today is a good day 🥺🥺🥺
Dont tell Sheila I'm here for this video!!!
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I never clicked so fast lol I wanna hear what they have to say lol
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20:47 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Don’t tell Sheila I just watched the whole video 😊
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I liked the movie and all, but I prefer The Play's story plot more. In the play, Diane, Terry, Mike, Sheila, Troy and Trina are all high school friends. There is no Marcus and Angela. Diane, was the lawyer and Angela all rolled into one. She took no shit off of Trina, nor Mike. And there was no Poppy. There was barely any storyline after Shelia came back around. Nothing of what should have been left in.
Also, I think the movie could have done without Patricia and Gavin. They brought nothing for me.
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Do you think Marcus told his baby mama that he was burning?
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elected sherifs make a pretty good salary actually 😂
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8:14 i dont like getting hung up on shit, but...art imitates life dude. cya i guess
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