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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2022
  • I just got married! ❤️ 🎉 Here's the explanation of five reasons we chose to date for 5 years before getting married. We have gotten questions about it A LOT, but it was the perfect timeline when it came to my bipolar, our ages, family and what's been going on in the world.
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  • @awdswds1988
    @awdswds1988 Год назад +34

    Lizzie you send me a care package with snacks in 2012 when I was in college and I am still so touched by it. Thank you for being such a wonderful person and I am so happy for you!

  • @NotANameist
    @NotANameist Год назад +6

    I’m bipolar and married for 10 years. I always try to keep in mind the advice of a dear priest: marriage is not just a noun, it’s a verb. Marriage is something you have to do, day in and day out. Recommit to it over and over again. Best wishes to you as a couple.

  • @xHannahNadiax
    @xHannahNadiax Год назад +12

    I can’t tell you how much I love this video! Congrats on your marriage. I feel so much pressure in Catholic circles to get married real fast. But as long as you’re remaining chaste and faithful to the church why is it anyones business? I have a very strong desire to be in a relationship for a while before getting married. I’ve been unable to justify this desire, but you’ve explained it perfectly. I’m also bipolar and because I am often very emotional I think it’s super important to approach decisions rationally and for me I will need a while before making a lifelong commitment.

  • @mylifeingeneral
    @mylifeingeneral Год назад +27

    I'm bipolar and I've been with my boyfriend for 7.5 years. Happy marriage to you Lizzie ❤️

  • @melaniegriesemer
    @melaniegriesemer Год назад +20

    I love hearing about how you guys truly thought through this decision and took it seriously! 🙏🏻

  • @cabpeer5963
    @cabpeer5963 Год назад +5

    "Love is patient Love is kind". Patience is the very first on the list of Love. The fact that you guys waited as long as you needed to get married is a really good sign. God bless your marriage and give you many happy years together❤️

  • @beyondboringborders8557
    @beyondboringborders8557 Год назад +2

    I consider your genuine heart for people, good faith and logical side saved you a lot from what BP could have done. What a smart girl you are and i wish many ppl with BP could aware what’s happening to their brains objectively. A lot of blessings for a lovely and wise couple. And i wish you keep fighting for beautiful things you could see together. 🎉

  • @alondraceja9618
    @alondraceja9618 Год назад +6

    ❤️ soooo happy for you! Congratulations Lizzie!

  • @trailrvs
    @trailrvs Год назад +18

    So happy you two got married and did things right according to the teachings of the One True Church!

  • @emmaociee
    @emmaociee Год назад +5

    Awwwww, I've been with you since COC video days, when I was in Jr High! These wedding clips are a BLAST to see! It seems like the Lord really does have you in such a great place in your life 💛 blessings

    • @relentlessrhythm2774
      @relentlessrhythm2774 Год назад

      No way! I also started watching her in JH. I'm 23 now. It's been 10 years, I found her channel on my 13th birthday.

  • @Peter-GG
    @Peter-GG Год назад +2

    Congratulations Lizzie!! You're a testament to how powerfully God's grace, patience, and lovingkindness can work and touch others through each of our (often very messy!) particularities. Blessings as you and your husband embark on this next chapter of your life together!

  • @relentlessrhythm2774
    @relentlessrhythm2774 Год назад +2

    Congratulations on your marriage! I'm grateful you two are being wise. I've been following you for ten years and am excited for your marriage!

  • @jeremiahong248
    @jeremiahong248 Год назад

    Congratulations to your coming marriage!! Wishing you happiness and marital bliss !
    Longing to see more of your videos ..like in the past !😊

  • @michaelwyka9585
    @michaelwyka9585 Год назад +1

    God bless your marriage, Lizzie! I've been married to my bride 32 years now and it has been the hardest and at the same time, the most wonder filled endeavor of my life. God bless you both.

  • @judysteele5554
    @judysteele5554 Год назад +1

    So happy for you! You have such wisdom for one still young!

  •  Год назад +4

    Felicidades Lizzie!!! I am 60 years old and since my affirmation as a Catholic, I decided that I was not going to seek to marry the first woman that came across me, but until I met a Catholic woman who was willing to respect and live according to the Word of God, but God Needs Me Single for Something Else. I have been celibate for 9 years

  • @JindyMarie
    @JindyMarie Год назад

    Congratulations, Lizzie! I am so so so so so happy for you both!

  • @enylitabib
    @enylitabib Год назад +2

    Love this!
    God bless this marriage.

  • @joellow8605
    @joellow8605 Год назад +1

    Congrats from Singapore! Wishing you a blessed and blissful marriage!

  • @victormossiii1196
    @victormossiii1196 Год назад +1

    Congratulations Lizzie and Trevor!!! You were essential in my conversion to the Catholic Church since you had a COC background and, originally, I started my relationship with Jesus through Independent Christian Churches (in which I still love and respect a lot)! Blessings Newlyweds!!!

  • @fatimacruz1998
    @fatimacruz1998 Год назад +2

    YOU FIT SO GOOD TOGETHER 🥰

  • @ericson5913
    @ericson5913 Год назад +1

    Congratulations!! Awesome wish you guys the best may God bless you with many kids.

  • @Noone-rt6pw
    @Noone-rt6pw Год назад +2

    It's good to see you. We haven't seen you or I haven't seen you in a long time. About a month plus? Are you going to leave us hanging or will you be more consistent? It's nice to know if you're going to be regular or spreading it out some.
    Just saying as a viewer it'd be good to know as thought you might be hanging things up.
    But, I hope you make a very good family with a very positive marriage.
    There's a book called, "Love Busters", it's about recognizing factors that are common to everyone, so it's written of. Foresight is always better than hindsite, but this is hindsite, someone else's that'll give you guys Foresite.
    Wishing the best for you guys.

  • @jamesstanton3280
    @jamesstanton3280 Год назад +1

    Omy I'm so so so so so so excited..
    sooo did i say soo I just found you 3 days ago in a depression phase but I couldn't find anything new so I thought you quit making content buy ur not luv you lizzie

  • @BlessedisShe
    @BlessedisShe Год назад

    So happy for you, friend!

  • @franciscosuccor5860
    @franciscosuccor5860 Год назад +2

    I missed you😢😭😭😭 but I’m happy for you 🥳🥳🥳God bless and be with Mary in your house🥳🥳

  • @elenahermineregal2824
    @elenahermineregal2824 Год назад +2

    Congratulations on your marriage ❤

  • @theRockSalter
    @theRockSalter Год назад +3

    Congrats to the newlyweds!

  • @jgonzalez5833
    @jgonzalez5833 Год назад +2

    😀 happy for y'all!

  • @j.smallz3527
    @j.smallz3527 Год назад

    So happy for you!!!

  • @efrainperez846
    @efrainperez846 Год назад

    Congratulations on your marriage!!! 🙏🤗🤗

  • @christ_project
    @christ_project Год назад +2

    Congratulations dear Lizzie

  • @nemo2179
    @nemo2179 Год назад

    CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

  • @jamesaberle2047
    @jamesaberle2047 Год назад +2

    ❤❤❤ Lizzie, You need to do LIVE about the Wedding ❤❤❤

  • @rafaeljonathanmonterrosoca8400
    @rafaeljonathanmonterrosoca8400 Год назад +1

    May God bless you Lizzie and thank you for sharing your views about the truth about getting married for Catholics. Praise God!!! Saint Virgin Mary and Saint Joseph pray for Lizzie and her future husband.

  • @luisdeleon7022
    @luisdeleon7022 Год назад

    Congratulations!!!!!

  • @eduardohoover2127
    @eduardohoover2127 Год назад

    Congratulations!

  • @alfonsoalvarez-navarrete6894
    @alfonsoalvarez-navarrete6894 Год назад

    Congratulations best wishes for both🎉❤🎉

  • @gto2111
    @gto2111 Год назад +1

    Congratulation 🥳

  • @regiumcroatiumrexbh6003
    @regiumcroatiumrexbh6003 Год назад

    Sooo happy For you two

  • @SSCTDI
    @SSCTDI Год назад +1

    Keep the faith, so your rosary

  • @hglundahl
    @hglundahl Год назад

    Allora, auguri. Congratulations. Felicidades!
    To both of you!

  • @franciscosuccor5860
    @franciscosuccor5860 Год назад

    I really love watching your video God bless you and your loved one🥳🥳🙏🙏

  • @Youtuber-ly6tx
    @Youtuber-ly6tx Год назад +6

    On the vaccination thing, just my 2cents is that I think it's very unnecessary at this point. I had covid, never had the shot, but I'm just as protected as those who had the shot. In fact, the ironic thing is after 2 years of not getting covid, I got covid from my brother who was vaccinated. If there are immuno compromised people there, they could just as easily catch it from someone vaccinated versus someone who isn't. I think ya should let it go. I go to Mass every Sunday and there's no telling who's got the shot who doesn't but everyone's doing just fine. I think covid has really run its course based on the CDC numbers and guidance. I dunno where you're from but in my small town in Georgia no one's been wearing masks for quite some time now.

    • @katarinabeauty8
      @katarinabeauty8 Год назад +3

      I also think it's kind of messed up because like, yeah, it's a choice she put our for people to get vaccinated or not come at all. But it does seem like emotional manipulation maybe, because if you don't do that for them, you seem like you don't love them enough. No hate tho, it's just quite wrong in my opinion.. I am happy tho to see them married.

  • @lornatw
    @lornatw Год назад

    💗

  • @johns.9659
    @johns.9659 Год назад

    Congratulations

  • @HPTFan
    @HPTFan Год назад +2

    I'm glad you are married, Elizabeth. 5 years sound good. Your husband, is your first priority. Not your family. You got to chose him over them. You can still love another. Same goes for him. I hope both of you are enjoying your first season of marriage. Thank you for the video. Stay safe.

    • @HeatherGreenjsyk
      @HeatherGreenjsyk Год назад

      Try saying that to someone who's been close to extended family and grew up knowing five generations of relatives. I lived across the yard from my great-great-grandma. A proper balance is necessary especially with the extended family being a helpful security blanket.

    • @tbw980371
      @tbw980371 Год назад +1

      This is a thoroughly modern view. Yes, husband and wife are a family unit on their own, but extended family is crucial for child rearing and support.

    • @HeatherGreenjsyk
      @HeatherGreenjsyk Год назад

      @@tbw980371 Another push I consider: putting children to work like our great-grandparents had to. I find it unfair that kids work in third world countries very young yet the first world gets a pass. I think its led to the complacency of the past few generations apart from a broken spirit or trauma from constant wars since Korea and the post-NAFTA society. If I bring kids into the world, I don't want them to simply be idle and exist. They're the original social security. Most our kids in the country need more exercise. Its depressing.

  • @douglasjones5630
    @douglasjones5630 Год назад

    I was wondering what you thought about the versus in Psalm 139:13-16, and how they relate to life at conception and abortion.
    Psalm 139:13-16
    13 For you created my inmost being;
    you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
    14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
    your works are wonderful,
    I know that full well.
    15 My frame was not hidden from you
    when I was made in the secret place,
    when I was woven together in the depths of the earth.
    16 Your eyes saw my unformed body;
    all the days ordained for me were written in your book
    before one of them came to be.

  • @annag27
    @annag27 Год назад

    I have been dating my bf for 6.5 years now haha!! We are still young (23) but we are planning on engagement soon :)

  • @AV-tm5zf
    @AV-tm5zf Год назад

    💜💙

  • @michellesunshinestar
    @michellesunshinestar Год назад

    I did notice that. Like Emma May McDaniel got married really quickly. (I think I know why, but I'd have to DM you). And Cambria Joy dd the same thing. And I got married really quickly because my ex-husband was worried about pre-marital S**. It would have been no problem for me, but he was waiting a really long time to get married (5 years).

  • @camilaolveraabreu
    @camilaolveraabreu Год назад +2

    Im glad I’m not the only Christian that doesn’t want to get married within 2 weeks of knowing someone 😅 hahah, at least I think that good qualities for a Catholic man are his patience, reliability and he being consistent all of which take time to work on.

  • @napyrkhat_1212
    @napyrkhat_1212 Год назад +1

    🙏🕊️❤️✝️

  • @femininityoverfeminism212
    @femininityoverfeminism212 Год назад +9

    Congrats! Tho 23 isn’t extremely young to be dating your future spouse. In many Christian circles the ideal age for marriage seems to be 20-25 for women and men -1 to +3 years within their woman’s age.
    I’ve had moments of low key being sad for not being a young bride and what it represents (traditionalism etc) I’m 24 and single.

    • @zdogg8
      @zdogg8 Год назад +1

      Yes, even younger pre this "modern" age.

    • @kmtm93
      @kmtm93 Год назад +1

      I agree. I’m 29 and still single, but when I was younger I wanted to get married at 22 😂

  • @user-fp6rn2km4i
    @user-fp6rn2km4i Год назад +2

    Wow Lizzie I wanted to be the one to marry you when I first discoverd you in 2016. 😄
    Congratulations, may Christ bless your marriage. ✝️💐

  • @brenofernandes248
    @brenofernandes248 Год назад +4

    Desejos de Felicidade vindos do Brasil!!!

    • @saviocoimbra7286
      @saviocoimbra7286 Год назад +1

      Ela é católica?

    • @danielyoseph8786
      @danielyoseph8786 Год назад +1

      @@saviocoimbra7286 Sim, convertida do protestantismo há alguns anos. Vc pode ver todo o processo de conversão dela nos vídeos mais antigos

    • @saviocoimbra7286
      @saviocoimbra7286 Год назад

      @@danielyoseph8786 É q eu não sei inglês. Ela de casou na Igreja Católica?

  • @joeoleary9010
    @joeoleary9010 Год назад +3

    If you go on the Carnivore Diet (beef bacon butter and eggs) for one month, I can almost guarantee you that your lifelong problems will go away.

  • @aurinsaint9058
    @aurinsaint9058 Год назад

    .....good luck to you both. I hope you guys make it. Keep communicating. Stay on your meds.

  • @rrkehn1
    @rrkehn1 Год назад +1

    Have you seen the new cdc updates?

  • @LoantakaBrook
    @LoantakaBrook Год назад +2

    I hope you had a nice wedding.
    I know someone who almost died after 💉 thank God they were able to get Anointing of the Sick which saved them.

  • @rrkehn1
    @rrkehn1 Год назад +37

    Mandatory vaccination in 2022 to go to a wedding???!!!! Wow.

    • @elygarcia2855
      @elygarcia2855 Год назад +12

      Insane and with the knowledge that they were made with fetal cells or tested with fetal cells

    • @frances91651
      @frances91651 Год назад +3

      Unreal

    • @jillbert40
      @jillbert40 Год назад +1

      And we even know that it didn't keep anybody from giving it or getting it.

  • @carolinpurayidom4570
    @carolinpurayidom4570 Год назад

    Thats not that long to me that is the minimum

  • @LizzyTwifehomemaker
    @LizzyTwifehomemaker Год назад +1

    23 is really young to start dating?.....I know someone who had her first child at that age after being married for a few years.....just saying

  • @Jerry.anthony.c
    @Jerry.anthony.c Год назад

    2:15 - Extremely cautious.
    3:00 - Hurting someone so deeply
    4:20 - Becoming Catholic. Hmmm

  • @Guresu
    @Guresu Год назад

    Why do Christians take so long to get married? I’m a Christian but don’t think I’d get married in under 3 years

  • @CookingwithEllie
    @CookingwithEllie Год назад +1

    ALWAYS follow the Catechism. If you are unsure of something and different priests are saying different things look at the Catechism for answers. There is so much info out there that it’s sad that a lot of Catholics turn a blind eye to truth.

  • @just4roles1
    @just4roles1 Год назад +14

    Congratulations on your marriage! I'm so disappointed to here you required vaccinations. I am more disappointed to hear that loved ones actually went and got the jab just to be welcomed at your wedding. That's insane! It's not even a vaccination, "vaccinated" are no more protected than unvaccinated. If someone required me to take the jab in order to be welcomed to their wedding that would be the end of our friendship. I am dumbfounded.

  • @exxdrinker
    @exxdrinker Год назад +3

    Vaccinations to go to a wedding? Worst reason ever. So sad.

  • @ColorfulBallerina
    @ColorfulBallerina Год назад +17

    Didn't know it was catholic to discriminate and violate an individual's bodily autonomy. Forcing people to get medicine in their body that they don't want is wrong.

    • @alondraceja9618
      @alondraceja9618 Год назад +1

      ?

    • @tbw980371
      @tbw980371 Год назад +1

      Seems like everyone had a choice with whether to go or not. Try harder

    • @just4roles1
      @just4roles1 Год назад +1

      Well they had a choice and I sure know what my choice would have been.

    • @christinep5807
      @christinep5807 Год назад +1

      It is not Catholic to discriminate. Sadly this topic is still a dividing factor in friendships and family. Praying for people’s faith in the Lord, rather than the false science that has been projected on most of society.

    • @joannabowen635
      @joannabowen635 Год назад

      Some people have compromised immune systems making them susceptible to possibility of life threatening illness. It shouldn’t be too much to ask to keep a loved one, family or friend from harm or even death. Once upon a time, our country valued safety and care for community over individual “freedoms”. If one hath not charity, one hath nothing. WWJD?

  • @loreman7267
    @loreman7267 Год назад +2

    God have mercy on you for demanding vaccination.

  • @zdogg8
    @zdogg8 Год назад

    You are precious. Congratulations. I've followed your journey into the Church, and of course now, beyond, for a few years. In so many cases, you exhibit a wisdom well beyond your years. You are a complete jewell and a happy addition to our Catholic family. I do pray for the day when you finally outgrow your "wokisms" and the de rigeuer lefty shibboleths. Thankfully, you are unashamedly counter cultural mostly - as a good Catholic in today's culture should be. So I believe your positions are "hearf felt"- but heart felt takes one so far, as you know already. Oh, well, you're young. What did Churchill say about liberal young vs. conservative old....without the former means 'no heart' and sans the latter means 'no brain.'

  • @ppazautomation
    @ppazautomation Год назад

    She lost me at a mandatory vaccination … wow.

  • @lisalapoint7022
    @lisalapoint7022 Год назад +2

    Lizzie, I cannot beleive you required people to be vaccinated to come to your wedding. That is NOT Cathiolic, or of God. UNsubscribing now.

  • @libertylady8462
    @libertylady8462 Год назад

    I loved this video and your insight and thoughtfulness until the end when you required mandatory vaccines to attend your wedding. You’re a praying woman and a researcher. Please pray on your stance on the Covid “vaccine.”

  • @julianaolguin7413
    @julianaolguin7413 Год назад +1

    No more catholic

  • @dualscreengrant
    @dualscreengrant Год назад +1

    It takes a lot of courage for you to be supportive of vaccines. The anti-vaxxer movement on RUclips is even more popular than the atheist movement was on RUclips in 2011. We need to stop fearing the hatred from "Christians" who don't care about hurting or killing people.

  • @alexkkx
    @alexkkx Год назад

    I’m so happy for you Lizzie! God bless you you’re a great person and you have great apologetic videos! You’ve helped me better comprehend my faith. ✝️🤍🙏🏼