I was very happily married to a woman that was 14 yrs older than me for 40 very happy years,I lost her a yr ago to Alzheimer's, was holding her hand when she passed,we were very happy together and had a very strong and positive marriage,I miss her alot, great show I've subscribed to your channel because of the quality of the video
@@onwukaebukacollinsebuka2331 Yes it does work as long as both are on the same page, we both were raised by our grandparents and saw things in life the same way, age shouldn't be an obstacle, we had a very long and happy life together
I never wanted to make a family of my own, I was blessed with a mature woman, a real gift from God himself, a woman my own age at the time of it was nothing I ever wanted, back then there were way too many problems with things like this, am 64 yrs old and I get lots of attention from ladies much younger than me, too late for that now. Sir there's nothing wrong with a mate your own age, it depends on what you're looking for in life
Thanks a lot for these sessions. I am learning a whole lot. I am 26 and my girlfriend is 20. At first I thought that maybe I am too dumb and she's too smart, 'cause she's way emotionally mature and composed compared to me. Sometimes people have told me she's too young (referring to the number) but I feel like if they zoomed closer into the relationship they'd see the truth of it. It angers me a lot sometimes (perhaps this is another sign of immaturity haha). But I think it was important to become self aware about this. Ironically, I never had this self awareness before I met her. I think that is the first step towards growth...the maturity of emotional intelligence. This video has articulated what I have felt very fluently. I wish you could do a video on some practical ways to increase one's emotional intelligence, in essence the steps following self awareness. Thanks again.
This is a very amazing perspective. I believe people focus more on the physical age aspect because they worry how it will be perceived by the outside world.However, as you mention, mental age is the most important. And the physical age should be of concern to only the parties in the relationship. Very excellent advice Icfcl !!!
We need to assess ourselves more on the inside to gauge our readiness for relationships rather looking only to the outside which would mostly be physical age.
You spoke very well and I wish older women listen and understand too. I love to marry Older woman but how do I approach is my problem and how it will turn up.. maybe get angry something like that. My reason is that she will understand me better and I will be ever ready to understand her each day as well. But how to meet is the big problem I have
I'm ashamed to admit that I found this channel a week ago. How did I not know about this 😂. Anyway, glad I finally found this channel, I'm really enjoying the content.
The best heard thus far on age differences. Am adult male.at a great level of maturity. And your thoughts are most important. Not only to the individuals but to society at large. Much pressure place on couples from the outside world by people of oppionions. Every one has them most have little or no support behind those oppionions. Just polleys repeating what others say So couples have also remove themselves from outside pressure. Believe in time much of this will improve thanks to persons like yourself who our trying to help educate the public Lord knows education need to be updated in this modern world. Thank U
Pls advice me ma'am. I would be 39 soon n my man is 60, we love each other so much n very happy together but sometimes he thinks the age gab is too much. Pls what do u think? Bcs I love him n want to settle with him
One worst thing most volks do has been said we are to judgemental outside first looks what the average person does or is not knowing the whole acts look can be are misleading just because everyone does it I donot have or how we wear senoritas senors fashions dress who bothers who or hurts who we are mostly in a hurry to judge adios
It should matter religion s I see it or share yours if close to each other same likes dislikes no one should be on drugs that re used alcohol being bored doing what I used to work most often because no one to date I joined auto club made amigos should have known my now senorita amigo sooner to do more or enjoy things more than going places alone some of this is not around anymore to do or les of life is daily who knows unpredictable until it happens how to say it I know what I mean my past present but how to properly word say it some want it so badly they just ruin it for themselves in a hurry I have found easy does it just doing hints even in my business if only ten cents just do anything for dinero you never know what could be doing what will get you what I just donot go anywhere doing zero life for me is very dull boring doing just sitting around like my dad use to say I’d come home with fifty cents after doing it long time you learn things too mucho volks say nothing to pick up I donot worry I chose where to lookjust easy does it if I go else where I hate it being told too mucho work or hard or what do I do with five cents then just go some where sit on your ass doing next to what have nothingdios I am tired of this all even in dating no nice ups around or where their own fault they turned down some thinking the grass is greener on the other side not always true
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I was very happily married to a woman that was 14 yrs older than me for 40 very happy years,I lost her a yr ago to Alzheimer's, was holding her hand when she passed,we were very happy together and had a very strong and positive marriage,I miss her alot, great show I've subscribed to your channel because of the quality of the video
Does it work
@@onwukaebukacollinsebuka2331 Yes it does work as long as both are on the same page, we both were raised by our grandparents and saw things in life the same way, age shouldn't be an obstacle, we had a very long and happy life together
@Carl Gomm what of not marrying ur own tribe how do u look at it pls
I never wanted to make a family of my own, I was blessed with a mature woman, a real gift from God himself, a woman my own age at the time of it was nothing I ever wanted, back then there were way too many problems with things like this, am 64 yrs old and I get lots of attention from ladies much younger than me, too late for that now. Sir there's nothing wrong with a mate your own age, it depends on what you're looking for in life
@@onwukaebukacollinsebuka2331 Sir may I ask what issue you're speaking of ?
I'm so glad I stumbled on this page, because the focus is almost always about younger women, older men.
This is so refreshing ❣️✌️🥰🥰
Thanks a lot for these sessions. I am learning a whole lot. I am 26 and my girlfriend is 20. At first I thought that maybe I am too dumb and she's too smart, 'cause she's way emotionally mature and composed compared to me. Sometimes people have told me she's too young (referring to the number) but I feel like if they zoomed closer into the relationship they'd see the truth of it. It angers me a lot sometimes (perhaps this is another sign of immaturity haha). But I think it was important to become self aware about this. Ironically, I never had this self awareness before I met her. I think that is the first step towards growth...the maturity of emotional intelligence. This video has articulated what I have felt very fluently.
I wish you could do a video on some practical ways to increase one's emotional intelligence, in essence the steps following self awareness. Thanks again.
This is a very amazing perspective. I believe people focus more on the physical age aspect because they worry how it will be perceived by the outside world.However, as you mention, mental age is the most important. And the physical age should be of concern to only the parties in the relationship. Very excellent advice Icfcl !!!
My friend you just said what am facing at the moment.
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@@ed.chirwa Infact i can't believe 1year is finished since I leave this comment.
We need to assess ourselves more on the inside to gauge our readiness for relationships rather looking only to the outside which would mostly be physical age.
You spoke very well and I wish older women listen and understand too. I love to marry Older woman but how do I approach is my problem and how it will turn up.. maybe get angry something like that. My reason is that she will understand me better and I will be ever ready to understand her each day as well. But how to meet is the big problem I have
Hw old are u ..what age do u prefer
I'm ashamed to admit that I found this channel a week ago. How did I not know about this 😂. Anyway, glad I finally found this channel, I'm really enjoying the content.
Thank you Madam for the in depth knowledge. I'm unmarried but I'll bear in mind your words
After listening to your presentation of the theme ,I subscribed to your channel. Great wisdom and insight . Thanks ma'am and keep up the good work
The best heard thus far on age differences. Am adult male.at a great level of maturity. And your thoughts are most important. Not only to the individuals but to society at large.
Much pressure place on couples from the outside world by people of oppionions. Every one has them most have little or no support behind those oppionions.
Just polleys repeating what others say
So couples have also remove themselves from outside pressure.
Believe in time much of this will improve thanks to persons like yourself who our trying to help educate the public
Lord knows education need to be updated in this modern world. Thank U
I would be so happy marrying someone way older than ma’self.Excellent points there
Thank you madam Evas for the emotional maturity bit, it's so important and u explained it well
Wow, thank you.full of knowledge and i love the calmness.this is really good
Pls advice me ma'am. I would be 39 soon n my man is 60, we love each other so much n very happy together but sometimes he thinks the age gab is too much. Pls what do u think? Bcs I love him n want to settle with him
This message is powerful
Thank you so much ma’m
I really needed these lessons
Profound … thank you so much
Very enlightening
excellent points!!
Wow wow and wow,thank you madam Evas❤surely u made just to this question of whether age matters 😊 i have learnt something from ur talk
Glad it was helpful!
Insightful
Quite enlightening
So insightful
Thank you Doctor
Please does 18 and 31 make sense
Can 20 and 35 get married
No it dont
One worst thing most volks do has been said we are to judgemental outside first looks what the average person does or is not knowing the whole acts look can be are misleading just because everyone does it I donot have or how we wear senoritas senors fashions dress who bothers who or hurts who we are mostly in a hurry to judge adios
Am 41 and he 52 can I get married to him
Yes
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