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This is going to sound bad.. You know that smell that all puppies have on their breath? ..I accepted the advances of a 22 year old,she initiated all pursuits lol Well..it turns out that all young women have have a certain smell to them! It took me back to my highschool days!! Sorry NOT sorry!
Hi Rich, to proof you are right, I am older, fat and poor but I have interesting hobbies she likes and I share those with her, I also make her laugh and I often cook for her mom. With that simple things, I am fortunate this young amazing lady has been with me for 10 years already. I hope my luck doesn't run out. Cheers.
@@Admin-qy4zi naaaah. Most people are boring. When you are younger you have some dreams, and that "spark". The worse thing you can do in your life is to be at some point a ready product. I did this mistake. Loosing that "spark" I became predictable and boring. If you are not fishing for dumb young woman - you should strive for having some higher goals and be interesting. Being that ready product you are destination. Destination isn't sexy - journey is.
It's been a long time I watched this channel. Nothing really changed here, only me. It took some time to rewire my brain, but my life has gotten much better in return. No more chasing tail, no more dating, no more BS. I concentrate on my health, wealth, friendships, and all the other things I find important. Life has never been this good and I cannot imagine I would ever give it up for a woman.
MGTOW...I was talking to my parents who couldn't understand my brother's divorce and I told them about how most guys don't pick up the ques, but women (and most people) telegraph how they are, will be (selfish, generous, conniving, whining)....'cut them off, that's why I'm still single.'
@@girohead I avoided a lot of marriages that were not good for me. Thank God I was too cautious as an automatic defensive mode that some how kept me off a very dangerous highway made up of broken heroes on a last chance powerglide....baby we were born to run. Run from western women. Look for quiet, loyal, women who have feminine traits.
As a seasoned gentleman myself (42) dating multiple young women (18 to 25), I haven't made bank nor do I have any particularly exotic hobbies. I do have a very interesting past (multiple years travelling the world), but this doesn't seem to be a big factor in their attraction. In my experience you can do quite well with young women just by generally having your shit together to a reasonable degree eg you're living on your own, keep your place reasonably clean and tidy, you're self-sufficient, have a respectable (but not necessarily high) income. Basically if you're secure and stable, have some vitality about you, not fat, have one or two hobbies you enjoy, and she's into older men, then she'll be happy.
As a 40 year old myself, why the hell would you even want to date an 18 year old? That’s like babysitting. They have almost nothing in common with our generation.
This was one of Rich's best and useful videos. Even for younger men, having hobbies and being interesting is important. Honestly, who wants to enter HER world of shopping, Facebooking, and baby showers?
@@jamesmorrin2729 Exactly. No man should be the least bit interested in her hobbies. Her hobbies, more often than not, are stupid. She wants to come into your world if she's worth af.
Stay in shape and take care of yourself. I’ve seen so many men this summer in their 40’s-60’s driving sports cars and they’re overweight. What’s the point of making bank if you’re gonna look like shit.
Because they can still fuck more young women than some obsessed gym visitor, therefore they don't feel very motivated to change that. Although, I agree with the overall point, we should take care of ourselves.
Be interesting and exciting because it's what you like being. Never try to be something hoping it will get you women. Firstly because it's too much work inventing a persona that you think is what women want, secondly it's fake. You know it and they will recognize it sooner or later. Do things you love and be engaged in your passions, be authentic and genuine in your interests and you will be satisfied and fulfilled with or without a woman. Be that kind of man and you won't have to "try hard" your way into women being interested in you. I see so many guys asking for tips and tricks and what is the secret to getting girls, well there is no secret. Either you are the kind of guy that people want to be around because it's just who you are or you aren't. Be the man you dreamed of being when you were a kid and be awesome!
That's real talk right there. Be happy with yourself and let everything else come along. Who wants to be around someone who's not happy with being around themselves
I'm 39. In my recent experience dating women in their 20's, 75% of them (Gen Z) into polyamory. They have no issues lying to your face that they are not polyamorous, but don't believe them. This is the reason why I don't waste time with them anymore. If all you want to do is have sex with them, then they are easy, albeit tainted.
If and when neccessary I just pay them for sex if that's what they're offering. I in no shape or form want a 20 something year old in my domestic space 24/7. They LIE LIE LIE and if you spent all your money trying to impress them you'll go ballistic.
That's what's wrong with most people. You can't have a taste of the sushi for free. This guy is completely on his game. Women aren't free, nor cheap. You got to pay, to play. ON TOP Of being an interesting person to be around like he alluded in the video. Good looking, wealthy men are almost a dime a dozen now with the tech jobs and entrepreneurs around.
Well where has the pure relationships gone to? More importantly, if she is in need of money for luxus desires, perhaps she has some struggles with her self esteem? Maybe just stay away from women that depend on luxury for esteem boost too much!
@@pugsymalone6539 Thats just it, you don't have to be a jester and being boring works only to your detriment when it comes to options. The point of the video is to show that women are notoriously hypergamous and will absolutely trade you up even if you think she is loyal it will always be in the back of her mind. If your life is empty and devoid of things to look forward too... guess what she won't be looking forward to you and will throw you away for some dude who would literally destroy her life and still support him because he is moving back and forth and is interesting even if it is destructive. You can choose to elevate or destroy a woman but if you have nothing to look forward too then its like being with a cat. You don't have to entertain her, you just have to have a life thats active and whatever direction that activity goes so long as you have it and include her she will follow
@@BigBadBossu I don't disagree with the message in the video, I get it. What I'm saying that I've played that game and it always ends the same. I'm now boring as in; I will live a low-key life in a nice home, eat and drink well, have a nice garden and well trained, well cared for pets. If a gal wants to join me in that, fine. I will not leave my comfort zone to get laid by a squirrel who will never be satisfied with the status quo.
@@BigBadBossu Listen to yourself, you are exactly right she'll "always" want to trade up. Nature has a plan for survival of the human race. That includes frequent, promiscuous sex with all sorts of genetic variety. Does that sound like it heavily involves you, as one man? No. It doesn't. Accept your lot in life, she will move on no matter who you are or what you do. Unless... you successfully keep her miserable, and why in the world would you hope to do that. Its just your turn. Be a man and move on too.
When I was growing up and I said to mom that I was bored, she would say "boredom comes from within". More and more I realize her wisdom. If I have to entertain a woman all the time when I am with her, she will ALWAYS have to be entertained by me making me obligated to entertain her. Rich makes a great point that we should be involved in our hobbies and have fun interests but a woman has to put in some effort to the relationship too. Otherwise its just another train wreck situation.
@@silverfox6883 Congrats to you for being good looking and being a rock star. Besides you gloating about it, how does this information help the rest of us?
I agree. Do something interesting. Lots of guys loose hobbies after they are married. Wife’s don’t like husbands to have hobbies. Hobbies take up time away from them. I see it in young couples all the time. When I see older people divorce he doesn’t know what to do. He lost friends because of the wife. This older gentleman lost his wife and a few weeks later he found someone new so he could attend to her needs. His kids asked why would he do that. It’s because he has no friends and doesn’t have hobbies, he doesn’t know what to do with his time. It’s sad. Men are taught to give everything up for family. When you see a woman who lost her husband continues to see her friends and do things. Why because a guys “friends” used/are her friends husbands. Not a lot of connection most of the time.
It's disgusting to be honest on all fronts. And EVERYONE knows this subconsciously, yet still tends to their selfish desires even in a marriage. I've heard of women who are uncomfortable with their significant other being fit because of their insecurities. That whole "give up everything for family" thing needs to stop. We not in the past anymore.
I can totally relate. WHen I was married in the past , I ended up losing touch with friends , not doing the things I liked . All because she had issues with it all . Even gym was an issue because she wasnt into the gym and was very insecure etc . I started doing these things again after the divorce. Many of my old friends are now married and so I dont see them because they are now doing what I used to do !
@@MrTimjm009 Richard Cooper calls this the "beta"-nizing by a thousand concessions. When I Heard that for the first time, I understood what he meant based on past relationships
Very true. Especially if the wife has no hobbies she will grow tired of sitting around the home doing nothing while the husband is out enjoying his hobby. Men should never give up their hobbies/ interest.
I've never been married, but from what I see most wives do NOT want their husbands to have hobbies. As you say, the wives see his hobbies as taking time away from HER. And \ or it's money that could be spent ON HER. There's no way I would want to be in a situation like that.
@@MX-CO problem is women always want more.. every time she sees you she’s hoping you’d want escalate - men are just fine with occasional fun, women on the other hand want to know ” where is this going “ therein lies the problem. 😬
@@MX-CO short answer: overseas - women in the west are destroyed by a combination of factors including but not limited to feminism and divorce laws which are 100% on their side. Good news is such unfair divorce laws are not in effect in 85% of the world hence interacting with women in the west feels like dealing with a man in a woman's body, whereas women in other places are actually feminine, desirable and pleasant. This all has to do with economics. When a woman does not need you economically, her entire demeanor and outlook is changed. You will quickly notice the difference in a woman's femininity and appeal in places such as Argentina, Colombia, Brazil, panama, East Europe etc. Or if you're into Asian women, Asia. You will never get a woman in the west to be what you want her to be. They make it look like they are enjoying casually dating you when in fact, they are like a baker who is giving you a sample of his cake in the hope that you will be buying the whole cake. This btw is coming from a person with experience of 350+ women from all regions of the world ;-)
I'm in my early 30s and I dated a woman in her mid 20s and even then I could feel the generational difference between us. Not sure if the age gap mentioned here will work long-term but there's always exceptions to the rule. Right now I have no interest in dating since I've been busy just working on myself. Got a new career path lined up and saved so much money and keeping fit.
At 55 I mostly date girls from 20-30. The closer they are to 20, the more I have to consult urban dictionary. I have to look up A LOT of new slang every time we text! But in the end, it's worth it. They're still so much nicer and sweeter and more appreciative than older women.
I hear what you're saying but I'm in my 40's and think that entertaining/dating younger women is for the most part a waste of time, money and effort. You will be much better off and happier devoting your time to your own career and development.
I got divorced at 47 and spent the next 8 years trying to partner up wasting tons of money and time. I’m 56 now absolutely loving my single life but like the occasional play date/sleepover as long as they leave in the morning 🤣🤣💪🏼
We can always control our time, money and effort. That gives you higher value, which women are attracted to. When you don't try to impress to get the putang, is when the legs spread.
My Cabin was a great thing I built up starting 20 years ago. Sure building the cabin, but also the land. Just this year I took one girl out to pick raspberries, blue berries and black berries. Then made jam with her those evenings. She had never made jam before, never canned anything and here she was on a date doing and learning. Thinking of little things like that and not just going out for other entertainment, but being able to make your own where you lead and she is following and learning how you live your life is better.
Great Video Richard. The reason why a lot men are boring is because they get into long term relationships at an early age. They spend most of their 20s and 30s perusing and pleasing woman. Then once in a long term relationship, all of their ambitions, goals and sadly , testosterone, dies. I cant tell you how many of my friends who are either married with children or live with their girlfriends who are just plain boring. Work,home then repeat. Aside from men focusing on their path to success, the opposite of why men are boring can be applied, and that is they are more focused on being “a good guy” to a woman who will leave them for another man who has many hobbies. This almost happened to me. I lived with my then girlfriend for almost 3 years and i saw all my interest in hobbies and lifestyle fade away and now they are back. My advice is become an enthusiast of something. Whatever it is (cars,gym,boats,planes,traveling ect). Point is, your interesting hobbies should be about 30% of your lifestyle aside from chasing excellence. You may even find excellence in that hobby. Cheers
You have a good point. As a chick, I enjoy men who are passionate about something other then p***y. I enjoy learning new things and being exposed to or helping fix car types I don't know or gadgets is really interesting.... Also, having the space to breathe sometimes while they do that stuff is a stress reliever. Absence makes heart grow fonder sometimes.
My way of thinking as well. What he is saying is too much work for little value. I could be spending that time making more money or working on my hobbies. Living in a big city has the advantage of wide selection of young pretty girls with paid arrangement. If the first few times go well she can be regular. Also add more young girls to fill when she is not available. Also, you don't get attached.
Y'all are kinda missing the subtext here. He said invite her into your world. Meaning, you don't have to "entertain". Therefore, you can keep more of your money AND you can do whatever the fuck YOU want to do. She's just along for the ride, having fun, and staying engaged.
@@hlgoodkat9677 No buddy, we get it. If you find a girl who´s worth it from time to time, go for it. But most of the time, these 304´s arent worthy of that time with you, they are not worth the squeeze, give you only headaches. That´s why im most of the time with Joker. And as Bud said, most of the time it´s more peaceful and relaxing to just pay for the fun.
Everything you said makes sense. I'm a 37-year-old guy it took me awhile to get to where I'm at financially. I have the means to take myself and a woman traveling to different countries. My main hobby is travel going to different beaches and jet skiing, museums, food and going to the gun range. Sometimes when I travel cross country being in the desert or wilderness and setting up target and shooting outdoors with no hearing protection. That part might frighten her a bit because I'm sure it would take some trust to lead up to it. But my main thing is international travel and going to interesting places.
Im half deaf, carry ear plugs or campact muffs or be exciting and buy NFA silencers! Legally purchased suppressors dont require additional paperwork to cross state lines like other NFA items
I second that, either get license for suppressor, or use ear plugs with noise activated ear muffs over them. I've got ten different ringing sounds in my ears 24/7. Its very mentally exhausting, and makes it hard to understand what people say, but not due to volume but the ringing will cancel out a syllable of a word or a whole word. You end stopping talking in groups because people get tired of repeating themselves. Heed my words. Also goes for lawn equipment too.
Spot on I'm 38 dating a 26 yr old and as soon as I stop doing "Fun" shit ie:socializing shit goes stale. Tried just giving her cash to go to the mall & do her own thing, but she complains unless I go with her and make it "Fun".
I brought a girl home to try to spin Drum & Bass records on my turntables. She was floored by how complicated it was to line up the 8/16 bars...and to understand the key and melody between tracks She was puddy in my hands afterwards.
I’m 37 and is not considered the age group that you’re talking about, it I see exactly what you’re talking about! You attract who you’re, and that’s the equation. I’ve been working on myself since divorce and I would say my confident level have spiked to the roof!
Life is a balancing act. I learned very early on that being world class at anything requires sacrificing other aspects of your life. Its much more effective being a jack of all trades in life as it will give you more balance, more knowledge and allow you to have a more worldly and interesting personality. And with regards to women, I’m personally looking for a team player rather than a party hopper. The minute the party stops, she’ll simply find another party.
So let me ask you a question. With all this knowledge about women, do you thing that your happy ? I mean rather than pushing guys into new relations with "hot girls it would be better to build a happy life with the right person and with good friends, good job. But "good" every where doesn't belong to this world, it's how to deal with struggles what makes the difference between real man and a simple male. I agree with a lot of your ideas but you have to put the woman in the equation so the benefit goes to the family, and that makes the man the woman and the children happy. The family is the unity wich built a healthy society
"You have to give them something to look forward to..." No man, not my job. If a girl finds you attractive you can do no wrong. If she doesn't think you are attractive, but wants your resources, thats a total waste of your time from day 1.
100 percent this. If you are trying hard too much it means she is not attracted to you. Attractive men don't need to entertain her, they are his entertainment.
I'm the one getting bored with them usually. I couldn't care less about what they want and how they feel. I just let them enjoy their self-made little Disney drama as long as it doesn't affect me and most importantly it doesn't waste my time. As Rollo says, their twisted imagination is the best tool you can use to your advantage... and it requires zero effort. It can't get any easier than that.
"Sweet dreams are made of this Who am I to disagree? I travel the world and the seven seas Everybody’s looking for something Some of them want to use you Some of them want to get used by you Some of them want to abuse you Some of them want to be abused..."
Exactly. I cannot even imagine caring about the useless things that entertain most modern women. I just do my thing and have never had an issue getting women. This video feels dire or something. So many women require next to nothing to "entertain". Being with one that require this much care/feeding is exhausting. I've had a few of these before and they never last. They are easily spotted. It's funny, if a guy is using his car as a way to attract, the woman is using her V in the same way. When you have a woman cook for you, like it's no big, that's when you pay attention.
Dang…you nailed it. We don’t care about the money, can you intellectually interest me? We crave being invited into your world & pouring into you & doing things with you. We have our own money but can you be a companion that I can converse & laugh with.
In general all true - when I was 30 and dating a 24 year old it didn’t matter she was top-of-her class college educated, she revealed no clue or preference for what she might like doing. I had to guess and often fell into what I liked to do, which caused only boredom.
I once angered a woman on purpose. Kept saying she didn't know what she was talking about and she was wrong. Was in bed with me within an hour of meeting her. So yes. You can do anything but bore her
@@dannywholuv It was a joke ,they didn't have sex, she went to "bed" with him, and the punch line was he was so boring she fell asleep. He picked A- Aron as his name, hints at a funny guy making a funny joke....come on it was a good one, keep up.
I feel this is harder as an introvert. I do like going out every so often, since I do get tired of staying at home. But I am not into things that are so "thrilling", such as riding a speedboat, rock climbing, riding tall/fast roller coasters, off roading, etc. Some of the places I like to go to are to learn something such as a museum, visiting historic landmarks, trying unique food, watching a live show, or checking out some kind of festival or local event. I do like going exploring around local cities and photograph unique things. As an introvert I like doing things that are more relaxing and may learn something new. There's women who like these too, but it seems it's mainly middle aged and older mature women who are into these kinds of activities. Not most women in their 20s. Also, it seems trying to have a knowledge of pop culture, history, trivia and current events from reading and watching many videos doesn't really seem to impress young women either.
As a woman, at first I disagreed. But then I thought about it… you’re right. I have my own money and a huge list of hobbies but I find that I want the man to show me that he would make my life better… men my age (I just turned 25) don’t know how to work, have fun, no hobbies, and are stuck up they think their looks and money are enough. You basically said that women want substance in this video. Very true… and is why I usually go for men older than me.
You nailed it again I noticed most girls will tell you they are doing nothing or bored it's their default state in this state she's inviting you to ask her to do something interesting I noticed a girl will become more interested if i talk about my hobbies with her If she's not interested in your hobbies then sucks she is taken or busy i her life and not ready for you And it's better to not waste your time getting her interested A man thing is passion and hobbies or adventure and sport and most women Don't have those or suck at them and taking the lead in introducing her to your passion is how you connect with her or rather how she connect with you A good example of an older guy who dated a hot young girl was that professor who dated a sport girl and they went to live on various forests around the world, the woman was strong and hunt but the man had knowledge about plants and animals and could guide her Thro their adventure, that's how he kept her interested and not bored with him
I'm not a subscriber, but I'll watch a recommended video from time to time. Like anyone, I don't agree with 100% of your content and don't disagree with 100% of your content, but occasionally, I'll take something away from the videos and enjoy them. However, your line: "You're not entering their world, she's being invited to enter your world" is spot on, and one of the best things I've heard on this channel. It's great advice for older guys looking to date younger, and most older guys think they've got to act young or "cool" or whatever, but that's not why younger women are into you. She's into you because you're an older, seasoned man- lean into it. Don't send stupid emoji texts. Don't be an immature goof. Be the older, masculine man that lured her in the first place. It's not only great advice for older men, but it is good advice to younger guys too. Have your life plans, lay them out, and give her the opportunity to fit into it, don't alter it for her. Lay out who you are, what your vision is, and where you're headed. If she's interested, she'll adapt and squeeze herself into your world, not the other way around.
I know this goes against most advice. I just ask them if there's anything they've got on their box. Let's go tick it off because honestly I've gone almost everything I wanted to do.
You don't even know that person and you already do all this stuff. Too much investment and wasted time for someone you don't know. A drink or two and pull. If things go well you'll have plenty of time to do these things when you get to know her better
This is interesting. I once dated a girl that had money and did really cool interesting things, but she herself was actually boring and had a boring personality. I could be at a rock concert with her but be bored. I could be at Six Flags Great Adventure with her and be bored. Vice versa, other girlfriends I dated I could be home with absolutely nothing to do and have a good time talking with them and hanging out.
I've learned that buying more toys doesn't make you interesting. Same with making more money or getting more education. Either you are interesting or you're not. I don't do women who're after my resources, whatever those would be. It's me that's interesting or nothing is.
I listen to you from time to time boss. Since I only see some of your videos, it must be really good ones and I’m always enjoying what I see. I don’t know how I missed that you have a book so I’m gonna give that a check out, as someone who is gifted genetically, I’m seeing how being in shape with some money can really go along way. And I’m only 5’6 5’7 a good day.
I still have trouble understand what "being boring" really is. And what is "exciting" for that matter? If I go out of my way to "not be boring" by doing things that I do not find interesting, fruitful, engaging etc., then what is the point of that?
Each woman is different. but bottom line is: make her attracted to you and like talking to you. I would tell you what I think he means by 'don't be boring' but then you might steal my secret ;)
Great advice Rich, thanks for sharing. You can also keep yourself more interesting by observing the world around you, noticing trends and characteristics of people, neighborhoods and trends. And watching good video channels, listening to interesting podcasts and reading a variety of good books. This way you can talk about a number of different topics, and be able to continue or steer conversations in the direction you want. Which makes you a better leader compared to most guys, who just listen to mainstream news or don't stay current with new or different content.
exactly. sometimes he talks out of both sides of his mouth, which is confusing. i would never get into the mindset that I need to entertain a women. she's welcome to come along or whatever, but if she's bored. . . there's the door. I just don't care if theyre entertained or not.
You get the results of the work you put into it. As you said: "working hard in you job and hitting the gym". Then, when it gets to dating, you go: I'm going to be mediocre / average. Well, if you're willing to settle for that level of results...
yep. and it's because competition has gone up. worldwide economy has had a mass effect. people are meeting less in person, where you typically could attract local women But hey, just keep working on yourself (or at least keep up your appearance) because sometimes you never know who might come along
I inherited "being boring" from my dad. Granted, he busted his butt for us, and I respect him for it, but I have the tendency to be boring. I'm good looking and women love my physique, but you can't bore them. Having cool experiences under your belt can help too, and can serve as conversation pieces.
I honestly find it a blessing these days to be considered boring (quiet). It gives a clear view of people you should/shouldn’t have in your life. Women that easily get bored of me are women that I should’ve never bothered in the first place.
Wrong mindset guys. Always expect vv0men to entertain you not the other way around. Being a dancing-monkey for them has never worked and never will. I'm always the one judging them and I state that very clearly during the interaction... They usually pretend to be upset but I know they love the challenge because they always make an extra effort to impress me.
Boring--he means just live your own life-if you’re the point of origin you’re automatically interesting. If she becomes the point of interest, and she’s an idiot, you’ll lose her. If you’re holding her at an arms length then she will be more likely to put in the work. It’s biological. My husband plays phone games when he’s not working and I hate it-but I’m not a cunt so I do the work to gain his attention. Modern women aren’t as easy to train but it can work.
I haven't listened to all your stuff, but this is the first time I've heard you talk on the "Offensive" side of the pitch, could you do more on this side... seems like most of your stuff is on the defensive side with boundaries and not putting up with BS.. Would like to see more content on the here's what "To Do"... not just the "Dont Do This". Thanks.
This is so true. I'm getting to mid forties. Done a lot in my life. Had a record deal, single in the charts, been a school director, lived abroad. Ticked the boxes for an interesting life but now am burnt out. All those experiences are done and over. Can't live on past glories forever.
I’d like to see a video on things about men that women consider interesting. I basically have 3 hobbies; writing, hiking, and improv comedy outside of my business. I used to ballroom dance but moving out to the country / the pandemic killed all that. Only a couple women seemed really interested in my writing. SOME women like hiking while others find it awful and boring. Improv Comedy impresses some women, scares others (they dont want to do it themselves or find it cringe-inducing watching other people do it). I used to be into group meditation as well but found that was rare to be able to share with a woman (it bores a lot of them). So I have kind-of a list of possible hobbies that I assume are interesting to women. If anyone has feedback or other ideas I am all ears. 1) Cooking classes? Personally I find cooking to be barely a step above watching paint dry but do it all the time to save money. Is this actually something women find interesting? 2) Swing Dance? It requires learning and mastering a whole new set of skills and the pandemic kind of ruined this in many urban areas, but perhaps it’s still a thing or set to make a big comeback? 3) Horseback riding? I dont know quite why but a lot of women seem really drawn toward dogs and horses - I think because they are “masculine” animals that they can still trust and control to some degree. I really don’t want to ever own a dog, but find horse riding kind of fun whenever I have done it. Maybe it’s worth doing solo once every few weeks just to casually mention here and there with women as a date opportunity or as a “what do you like to do”? 4) Sailing? I had one ex who was obsessed with sailing to the point of madness. Sailing I found was academically fun as an idea but in practice can be a real chore (and expensive). 5) Sports of some kind? Maybe like Dodgeball / Kickball? There are leagues around which require a lot of commitment (attending a game / practice or two a week) but maybe that’s a thing women would be interested in. There are a surprisingly large number of women who love attending baseball / football games too so even attending some live sports events may be a way of appearing interesting, even if you aren’t a sports fan?
I think I got lucky.. I am 60 my wife is 33, we have been married 14 years and we never have had a fight or even a serious argument, we have one daughter ... Our life is pretty good
@@majormarketing6552 did the math she was 19 when we married... whats make that so creepy to you?... also creeps lurk in the dark. is your life so perfect you can judge others for being happy?
@@Hapfletcher She is so cheating on you right now. A 60 year old fart cannot satisfy a 33 year old woman. And yes, you're a creep for marrying a woman young enough to be your daughter when she was a teenager. A forty six year old with a teenager means she has major daddy issues, and you just want to bang your daughter. I feel bad for the daughter that the two of you have together. One parent looks like her sister, and the other looks like her grandpa.
It’s not just lifestyle, it’s personality... a lot of these guys are timid and low energy/not talkative... it’s hard to change that without depending on substances. Just date the woman that loves you not the one you love and she’ll always try to prove herself to you
My last two were late 20 year olds and I'm late 40s. When they tell me they want to open a flower shop with a personal loan or that they are are 80k in debt for a 4 year degree in social studies, I look at them as if they were the ugliest woman ever. Another thing, I'm tired of early 30s/late 20s with no kids sticking silicone into those naturally perfect bodies. I am not impressed with balloons that do not move naturally. Has to be a #1 sign of insecurity and attention seeking. yuck I see those and she's gone.
@@bassioelmucho To come...uhm...and leave :) ps: You got to be delusional to assume the hot 20s chicks are "dating" the old rich guys. They don't. They get invited to the boat, bang and leave. It's transactional. He ain't an "interesting" guy or a "Chad", he's just rich with money to spare.
This happened to me I took young girl to a restaurant and the waitress knew her. The waitress said to her nice you have a sugar daddy! First time in my life I heard that We still see each other now and then but I said I’m not paying rent or car payments I think it works because she thinks I’m funny
I am a nearly 80 year old man. The first mistake an older man has in dating a younger woman is.......dating a younger woman. They are so immature, inexperienced, insecure, chasing an impossible dream and quite honestly lack the experience to really satisfy not only the psychological needs of an older man but also the sexual needs. Younger women need more time to grow, mature, gain wisdom and experience. Younger women also tend to be too emotional about unimportant things.
Just my two cents from the Asian girl's perspective in Asia coming from a man's experience who lives in Asia. Trust is number one. Real trust. Money helps all relationships, no denying that, but even that can be an exception if the man shows willingness to make it at some point. Last is looks, to a degree they don't matter. (If you are good looking and then "let yourself go", but are still loyal, you are fine 90% of the time.) The new generation is very* different from the older generations of Asia*. It often reminders me of what stories I heard my parents talk about in the 60's/70's. Times a have changed much over here (Thailand).
Being a former US Army Paratrooper I took a young girl skydiving with my friends she screamed when we exited the aircraft all the way down to earth, I asked her how was it she was fucking speechless.
Excellent vid, Rich. Good spot on points. Hell, I'm now mid-sixties and 10-15 yrs ago I decided was time to get serious about my look (always considered myself average), game (had no game, didn't really even know what it meant), and start taking more risks (albeit calculated ones) in career and with women. It's paid off in a big way, both financially and with the women in my life. And I've never married (thank God). One thing I've learned, and I believe it's one thing that challenges all us men living in western cultures, is to choose women wisely. I had NOT chosen wisely for most of my life, and suffered because of it. I'm now only interested in high self-esteem, intelligent daddy's girls, for lack of a better term. (Basically women who when I ask them about their dad's immediately speak in glowing terms about them). I'd rather keep spinning plates (win-win) than settle for something (someone) I know I can get just because they look good or make good money. Again, thank you and keep em comin, brother!
So you made these changes at around the age of 50? I just turned 50 and am in the same boat you were in 15 years ago. Was wondering if it's possible to change?
Do you think that you are missing out on genuine love by spinning plates for the rest of your life? How do you envision the last few years of your life?
As a man, it is quite impossible to keep up with what to do to keep a woman. You must be like this, you must be like that. You must make her feel like this or make her feel like that. This could be incredibly frustrating, trying to please the unpleasant. For mean, singleness is the way to succeed.
So, I'm one of those "seasoned' guys (I'm 67) that Rich is talking about; he and I actually talked about this stuff over the phone. Though I still take women out to dinner (going tonight, in fact), I've also done the following: 1. Worked on my physique and have taken off 20 lbs of fat and added back 5 lbs of lean muscle. 2. Lifting heavy stuff 3. Joined a Dojo. 4. Am fronting the idea of off-roading in my T4R to keep it "interesting"; while this has gotten me far more traffic of the feminine variety, I find they view off-roading with both exhilaration AND trepidation. 5. Using professional photography on dating apps. 6. Am now using the "ultimate female aphrodisiac": confidence. Still using an online approach but with each of Rich's suggestions, the return on investment has been, frankly, astounding.
Hey Rich a part of you book that stuck out to me was your recommendation to get a motorcycle. Let me tell you. Best decision ever. All the best brother. Thanks for the valuable information.
As one of the "Tyrones" I still have to game and impress these women and face the markets on weekdays. Hard work never ends for a man. That's why I dig this channel.
Interesting. My first date with my wife got cut short and we ended up babysitting her baby relative. I changed my first diaper and we spent some time listening ti a lot of her favorite music. Our second date we got caught in a rainstorm in a park and ended up running to a baseball dugout in a torrential downpour and ended up making out in there for over an hour while the rain came down so heavily.
Dating is a headache. I totally get where your coming from but it just seems like too much work. I work enough to pay my bills and keep up with myself. No time for all that.
It's so true...as a younger man I would date older women all the time and I was being invited into their world. I dated a woman for 1 year and she never came to my place I would always go there and spend the night there.
Good talk, and good timing for me. I just re-evaluated my hobbies list, and most of it is solo activities a woman wouldn't want to do. Because I used to do them to fill my time when I was single and not looking for a woman. That's one reason I lost my last GF. I got complacent and boring.
I like your commentary with one exception: if you have money, you are automatically considered a sugar daddy. She wouldn't give you the time of day without out that aspect.
Like Rich taking his McLaren to get new tyres, they're an accessory you can spend money on in return for personal gratification. If it doesn't meet your needs, you trade in for a more interesting model. You don't expect the McLaren to love you back, you just make the most of what it can offer.
You have no idea what you're talking about. If you're fit, confident and well dressed, then there is a lot of sexual attraction happening, and it is quite easy without spending hardly anything at all (much less than older women). Younger ladies are MUCH cheaper and more fun. You're honestly underestimating how trash their male peers are and how thirsty they are for successful and confident men.
@@lancar5637 missing the point. Rich can afford a vast array of cars as he has a McLaren, it's pre-selection. He puts his money into the McLaren and makes the effort with it because it gives back what he wants. The juice is worth the squeeze. He's discerning and know what he wants out of it. Sure, you can spend your life in Ford's and Hyundai's. Same way Rich can drive his McLaren at 40 everywhere and never get the most out of it. Or he can find a quiet stretch of road, invest in new tyres and hit the pedal, and boy, does the investment pay off.
If the woman sees you as boring, and you have all of these top skillsets and money you're referring too, doesnt that make the woman the one that has issues? It doesnt sound like a good investment to go for a woman who evaluates like that, and a mindset like that resembles a manipulative one to me aka dance a jig for me wealthy boi
In other words is about surrounding yourself with expensive toys to entertain them. It's not about love. It's about material stuff they're looking for. So, you saying only love is boring for them, you have to mix it up. You have to become the master at tricks, keep them occupied with events and exciting things. That means you become the slave clown and the all around trickster for them. Have to entertain the pssy. I got money and I have to become the entertainer to them. Feed the pussycat and entertain it, otherwise they'll walk away to next house. Whoa, great recommendations. You enjoy it.
I date women who are interesting themselves and are working to achieve their dreams or are helping me achieve mine. Just find women who find what you like interesting and fascinating 👌👌
Respect to my fellow old man making this video. Best of luck on your next young girl pick-up the next time when you drive past your local high school. I used your advice and it works. I bought a van to hit it. Keep them away from my wife, kids, and money. Even make her pay for gas and have her working for me on the corners. Life is good.
49 here dating a 34 year old woman who has no kids and does not want them and it is truly the best relationship I’ve ever been in however both she and I are self described unicorns. She regularly calls me “Sir” and yes she is invited into my world I am rarely in her world at all
I can totally relate to your comment. I’m 47 dating 34 yro woman. She’s a professional with a solid economy but her corporate world is rather boring and shallow… I’m not interested at all. In my world she has found excitement, adventure, experience and much more. Best relationship I’ve had in a long time!
@@lulloa47 good luck to you ! It’s amazing how easy and fun it is hanging out with a younger woman , glad to know others are having similar experiences!
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If you're pushing monogamy you're still full of shit 😤👀
Yo Rich, whats your take on OF is getting out of the pornography business?
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This is going to sound bad..
You know that smell that all puppies have on their breath?
..I accepted the advances of a 22 year old,she initiated all pursuits lol
Well..it turns out that all young women have have a certain smell to them! It took me back to my highschool days!!
Sorry NOT sorry!
Hi Rich, to proof you are right, I am older, fat and poor but I have interesting hobbies she likes and I share those with her, I also make her laugh and I often cook for her mom. With that simple things, I am fortunate this young amazing lady has been with me for 10 years already. I hope my luck doesn't run out. Cheers.
- Not having enough money.
- Falling in love.
Those are the mistakes
So true
@@Admin-qy4zi naaaah. Most people are boring. When you are younger you have some dreams, and that "spark". The worse thing you can do in your life is to be at some point a ready product. I did this mistake. Loosing that "spark" I became predictable and boring. If you are not fishing for dumb young woman - you should strive for having some higher goals and be interesting. Being that ready product you are destination. Destination isn't sexy - journey is.
the latter in the worst one
I've learned quite early that being with a woman who depends on you for her daily dose of entertainment is a recipe for misery.
Oh man this is a powerful point.
Women are easily bored, they can’t stand being alone with themselves... Drives me nuts, like... Read a book or something...
This is how you get access to the sex though. pick your battles
@@kreaturae most cannot.. it is not in their nature. women are social
I make it clear that they need to be happy with themselves FIRST.
If she says she's bored, it just means your spending way to much time with her. Plain and simple
Yup bye sounds like a Shhh test
I tell her to "be more entertaining then" ;)
After the bedroom action as a older man I'm gonna get bored of her way fast...Try talking to females in their 20s...."Stop the Cap"....🤷🏽♂️
I once told my gf "well has it occurred to you that you are the boring one"
@@Diazlsx07 And then what happened?
It's been a long time I watched this channel. Nothing really changed here, only me. It took some time to rewire my brain, but my life has gotten much better in return. No more chasing tail, no more dating, no more BS. I concentrate on my health, wealth, friendships, and all the other things I find important. Life has never been this good and I cannot imagine I would ever give it up for a woman.
BINGO!!
As a woman, I’ve done the same & feel the same. Maybe that’s actually the goal of life- learning to love yourself THAT much.
MGTOW...I was talking to my parents who couldn't understand my brother's divorce and I told them about how most guys don't pick up the ques, but women (and most people) telegraph how they are, will be (selfish, generous, conniving, whining)....'cut them off, that's why I'm still single.'
@@girohead I avoided a lot of marriages that were not good for me. Thank God I was too cautious as an automatic defensive mode that some how kept me off a very dangerous highway made up of broken heroes on a last chance powerglide....baby we were born to run.
Run from western women. Look for quiet, loyal, women who have feminine traits.
It all sounds like a lot of work. I am already too busy.
As a seasoned gentleman myself (42) dating multiple young women (18 to 25), I haven't made bank nor do I have any particularly exotic hobbies. I do have a very interesting past (multiple years travelling the world), but this doesn't seem to be a big factor in their attraction. In my experience you can do quite well with young women just by generally having your shit together to a reasonable degree eg you're living on your own, keep your place reasonably clean and tidy, you're self-sufficient, have a respectable (but not necessarily high) income. Basically if you're secure and stable, have some vitality about you, not fat, have one or two hobbies you enjoy, and she's into older men, then she'll be happy.
Can't wait for work
Absolutely agree
As a 40 year old myself, why the hell would you even want to date an 18 year old? That’s like babysitting. They have almost nothing in common with our generation.
@@VictoryAviation Jedem Daseine=
@@ФранкМатроскин I don’t know who that is or what it means 🤷🏼♂️
Marriage is like a Tornado: "In the beginning there's a lot of blowing and sucking, then you lose your house".
Lol, brilliant
Uhhhhaaa you made my day.
They scream when they come, and take the whole house when they leave
Great philosophy 👍
Whoa 🤯 fax 📠
This was one of Rich's best and useful videos. Even for younger men, having hobbies and being interesting is important. Honestly, who wants to enter HER world of shopping, Facebooking, and baby showers?
Women arent interested in your hobbies! They want you to give them attention and be their muse. Just be youself. If they dont like it move on.
@@jamesmorrin2729 Exactly. No man should be the least bit interested in her hobbies. Her hobbies, more often than not, are stupid. She wants to come into your world if she's worth af.
@@RN-gx7wt So cringe??? WTF R U Talkin bout??
Why would let such a woman into your world? You must have really low standards. There are women who do sports, read books, travel etc.
Have hobbies and friends and a lifestyle that is attractive to her and all other dudes too.
Stay in shape and take care of yourself. I’ve seen so many men this summer in their 40’s-60’s driving sports cars and they’re overweight. What’s the point of making bank if you’re gonna look like shit.
I’m lost on how anyone has an excuse for being overweight anymore; we all know what we should and shouldn’t be eating.
they pay for the women 1 hour at a time. it works for them
True...Don't have to look like a body builder, but stay tight and no gut hanging over the beltline...
That goes for the wives as well...
Because they can still fuck more young women than some obsessed gym visitor, therefore they don't feel very motivated to change that. Although, I agree with the overall point, we should take care of ourselves.
Be interesting and exciting because it's what you like being. Never try to be something hoping it will get you women. Firstly because it's too much work inventing a persona that you think is what women want, secondly it's fake. You know it and they will recognize it sooner or later. Do things you love and be engaged in your passions, be authentic and genuine in your interests and you will be satisfied and fulfilled with or without a woman. Be that kind of man and you won't have to "try hard" your way into women being interested in you. I see so many guys asking for tips and tricks and what is the secret to getting girls, well there is no secret. Either you are the kind of guy that people want to be around because it's just who you are or you aren't. Be the man you dreamed of being when you were a kid and be awesome!
Well said 👏
👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 I too caught myself feeling and seeing this way
That's real talk right there. Be happy with yourself and let everything else come along. Who wants to be around someone who's not happy with being around themselves
Now this is solid perspective.👍
Post more or upload some contents of your own. It will be helpful.
Well said Zach, you have to be who you are.
I'm 39. In my recent experience dating women in their 20's, 75% of them (Gen Z) into polyamory. They have no issues lying to your face that they are not polyamorous, but don't believe them. This is the reason why I don't waste time with them anymore. If all you want to do is have sex with them, then they are easy, albeit tainted.
The truth about female nature...
Female empowerment, like abortion.
All I want with them is fun but they are not easy, bro.
But that’s Gen Z, what about Millennials?
If and when neccessary I just pay them for sex if that's what they're offering. I in no shape or form want a 20 something year old in my domestic space 24/7. They LIE LIE LIE and if you spent all your money trying to impress them you'll go ballistic.
Don't ever try to date seriously a party girl. They are never good.
Don't try do really anything seriously with party girls.
Why so ?
Honestly I am pretty sure that girl this guy in the thumbnail is with is a former or was a former party girl.
@Malcolm McCorkle I agree. Try to find the quiet girl too. I've found those to be the best in bed as well. The loud ones are usually just starfishes.
Word
Giving them your money when they don't deserve or earn it.
That's what's wrong with most people. You can't have a taste of the sushi for free. This guy is completely on his game. Women aren't free, nor cheap. You got to pay, to play. ON TOP Of being an interesting person to be around like he alluded in the video. Good looking, wealthy men are almost a dime a dozen now with the tech jobs and entrepreneurs around.
Well where has the pure relationships gone to? More importantly, if she is in need of money for luxus desires, perhaps she has some struggles with her self esteem? Maybe just stay away from women that depend on luxury for esteem boost too much!
I’m a boring guy. Boring is really important to me. Any woman 👩 I date has to not only accept it but like it.
That is a great example of maintaining frame!
I'm with you, man. I'm boring. Not their court jester.
@@pugsymalone6539 Thats just it, you don't have to be a jester and being boring works only to your detriment when it comes to options. The point of the video is to show that women are notoriously hypergamous and will absolutely trade you up even if you think she is loyal it will always be in the back of her mind.
If your life is empty and devoid of things to look forward too... guess what she won't be looking forward to you and will throw you away for some dude who would literally destroy her life and still support him because he is moving back and forth and is interesting even if it is destructive. You can choose to elevate or destroy a woman but if you have nothing to look forward too then its like being with a cat.
You don't have to entertain her, you just have to have a life thats active and whatever direction that activity goes so long as you have it and include her she will follow
@@BigBadBossu I don't disagree with the message in the video, I get it. What I'm saying that I've played that game and it always ends the same. I'm now boring as in; I will live a low-key life in a nice home, eat and drink well, have a nice garden and well trained, well cared for pets. If a gal wants to join me in that, fine. I will not leave my comfort zone to get laid by a squirrel who will never be satisfied with the status quo.
@@BigBadBossu
Listen to yourself, you are exactly right she'll "always" want to trade up. Nature has a plan for survival of the human race. That includes frequent, promiscuous sex with all sorts of genetic variety. Does that sound like it heavily involves you, as one man? No. It doesn't.
Accept your lot in life, she will move on no matter who you are or what you do. Unless... you successfully keep her miserable, and why in the world would you hope to do that. Its just your turn. Be a man and move on too.
When I was growing up and I said to mom that I was bored, she would say "boredom comes from within". More and more I realize her wisdom. If I have to entertain a woman all the time when I am with her, she will ALWAYS have to be entertained by me making me obligated to entertain her. Rich makes a great point that we should be involved in our hobbies and have fun interests but a woman has to put in some effort to the relationship too. Otherwise its just another train wreck situation.
I agree 💯 with you. I am not here to be someone's feather and tickle them everytime they get an itch.
This is the truth
I say something similar all the time.
"Circumstances aren't boring. Only people are boring. Being bored is a choice."
You're so right Richard and I love the way you put that...
"Your not going into her world, You're inviting her into yours."
Make money. Make muscles. Learn game. Hold frame.
This strategy will last you about 2 years. Then she mentally checks out no matter what. Just pump and dump.
'Frame' hahaha wow I'd forgotten all about the 2000s.
I had heaps of much younger girls back in the day without being a big money earner, though I had the looks and was a bit of a rock star ...
@@silverfox6883 Congrats to you for being good looking and being a rock star. Besides you gloating about it, how does this information help the rest of us?
@@silverfox6883Yeah, you’re such a flake! You must have over 1k dislikes! Too bad they don’t show! Mine’s one.
I agree. Do something interesting. Lots of guys loose hobbies after they are married. Wife’s don’t like husbands to have hobbies. Hobbies take up time away from them. I see it in young couples all the time. When I see older people divorce he doesn’t know what to do. He lost friends because of the wife. This older gentleman lost his wife and a few weeks later he found someone new so he could attend to her needs. His kids asked why would he do that. It’s because he has no friends and doesn’t have hobbies, he doesn’t know what to do with his time. It’s sad. Men are taught to give everything up for family. When you see a woman who lost her husband continues to see her friends and do things. Why because a guys “friends” used/are her friends husbands. Not a lot of connection most of the time.
It's disgusting to be honest on all fronts. And EVERYONE knows this subconsciously, yet still tends to their selfish desires even in a marriage. I've heard of women who are uncomfortable with their significant other being fit because of their insecurities.
That whole "give up everything for family" thing needs to stop. We not in the past anymore.
I can totally relate. WHen I was married in the past , I ended up losing touch with friends , not doing the things I liked . All because she had issues with it all . Even gym was an issue because she wasnt into the gym and was very insecure etc . I started doing these things again after the divorce. Many of my old friends are now married and so I dont see them because they are now doing what I used to do !
@@MrTimjm009 Richard Cooper calls this the "beta"-nizing by a thousand concessions.
When I Heard that for the first time, I understood what he meant based on past relationships
Very true. Especially if the wife has no hobbies she will grow tired of sitting around the home doing nothing while the husband is out enjoying his hobby. Men should never give up their hobbies/ interest.
I've never been married, but from what I see most wives do NOT want their husbands to have hobbies. As you say, the wives see his hobbies as taking time away from HER. And \ or it's money that could be spent ON HER. There's no way I would want to be in a situation like that.
Always better to rent
3 F's rule. If it floats, flies or fuqs it is better to rent than buy.😎
@@MX-CO if you have to ask 😬
@@MX-CO problem is women always want more.. every time she sees you she’s hoping you’d want escalate - men are just fine with occasional fun, women on the other hand want to know ” where is this going “ therein lies the problem. 😬
@@MX-CO short answer: overseas - women in the west are destroyed by a combination of factors including but not limited to feminism and divorce laws which are 100% on their side. Good news is such unfair divorce laws are not in effect in 85% of the world hence interacting with women in the west feels like dealing with a man in a woman's body, whereas women in other places are actually feminine, desirable and pleasant. This all has to do with economics. When a woman does not need you economically, her entire demeanor and outlook is changed. You will quickly notice the difference in a woman's femininity and appeal in places such as Argentina, Colombia, Brazil, panama, East Europe etc. Or if you're into Asian women, Asia. You will never get a woman in the west to be what you want her to be. They make it look like they are enjoying casually dating you when in fact, they are like a baker who is giving you a sample of his cake in the hope that you will be buying the whole cake. This btw is coming from a person with experience of 350+ women from all regions of the world ;-)
@@MX-CO nor was I suggesting anything of the sort. Just have your fun and move on..
I'm in my early 30s and I dated a woman in her mid 20s and even then I could feel the generational difference between us. Not sure if the age gap mentioned here will work long-term but there's always exceptions to the rule. Right now I have no interest in dating since I've been busy just working on myself. Got a new career path lined up and saved so much money and keeping fit.
That’s not an age gap
Its not an age gap.... must be some personality difference.
At 55 I mostly date girls from 20-30. The closer they are to 20, the more I have to consult urban dictionary.
I have to look up A LOT of new slang every time we text!
But in the end, it's worth it. They're still so much nicer and sweeter and more appreciative than older women.
I hear what you're saying but I'm in my 40's and think that entertaining/dating younger women is for the most part a waste of time, money and effort. You will be much better off and happier devoting your time to your own career and development.
I got divorced at 47 and spent the next 8 years trying to partner up wasting tons of money and time. I’m 56 now absolutely loving my single life but like the occasional play date/sleepover as long as they leave in the morning 🤣🤣💪🏼
@@joziewales1965 I hope your getting tested for STI🤮🤢
We can always control our time, money and effort. That gives you higher value, which women are attracted to. When you don't try to impress to get the putang, is when the legs spread.
@@joziewales1965 tell it to the Judge ... at the Great White Throne.
My Cabin was a great thing I built up starting 20 years ago. Sure building the cabin, but also the land. Just this year I took one girl out to pick raspberries, blue berries and black berries. Then made jam with her those evenings. She had never made jam before, never canned anything and here she was on a date doing and learning. Thinking of little things like that and not just going out for other entertainment, but being able to make your own where you lead and she is following and learning how you live your life is better.
Great Video Richard. The reason why a lot men are boring is because they get into long term relationships at an early age. They spend most of their 20s and 30s perusing and pleasing woman. Then once in a long term relationship, all of their ambitions, goals and sadly , testosterone, dies. I cant tell you how many of my friends who are either married with children or live with their girlfriends who are just plain boring. Work,home then repeat. Aside from men focusing on their path to success, the opposite of why men are boring can be applied, and that is they are more focused on being “a good guy” to a woman who will leave them for another man who has many hobbies. This almost happened to me. I lived with my then girlfriend for almost 3 years and i saw all my interest in hobbies and lifestyle fade away and now they are back.
My advice is become an enthusiast of something. Whatever it is (cars,gym,boats,planes,traveling ect). Point is, your interesting hobbies should be about 30% of your lifestyle aside from chasing excellence. You may even find excellence in that hobby. Cheers
You have a good point. As a chick, I enjoy men who are passionate about something other then p***y.
I enjoy learning new things and being exposed to or helping fix car types I don't know or gadgets is really interesting.... Also, having the space to breathe sometimes while they do that stuff is a stress reliever. Absence makes heart grow fonder sometimes.
Sorry, Rich. Not interested in becoming an entertainment coordinator. I'd rather just pay a "time sharing" fee when I'm looking for "companionship".
My way of thinking as well. What he is saying is too much work for little value. I could be spending that time making more money or working on my hobbies. Living in a big city has the advantage of wide selection of young pretty girls with paid arrangement. If the first few times go well she can be regular. Also add more young girls to fill when she is not available. Also, you don't get attached.
EXACTLY!
Give the burden of performance on them. Why should you protect the house if she doesn't make you a coffee every morning? stuff like that
Y'all are kinda missing the subtext here. He said invite her into your world. Meaning, you don't have to "entertain". Therefore, you can keep more of your money AND you can do whatever the fuck YOU want to do. She's just along for the ride, having fun, and staying engaged.
@@hlgoodkat9677 No buddy, we get it. If you find a girl who´s worth it from time to time, go for it. But most of the time, these 304´s arent worthy of that time with you, they are not worth the squeeze, give you only headaches. That´s why im most of the time with Joker. And as Bud said, most of the time it´s more peaceful and relaxing to just pay for the fun.
Everything you said makes sense. I'm a 37-year-old guy it took me awhile to get to where I'm at financially. I have the means to take myself and a woman traveling to different countries. My main hobby is travel going to different beaches and jet skiing, museums, food and going to the gun range. Sometimes when I travel cross country being in the desert or wilderness and setting up target and shooting outdoors with no hearing protection. That part might frighten her a bit because I'm sure it would take some trust to lead up to it.
But my main thing is international travel and going to interesting places.
Im half deaf, carry ear plugs or campact muffs or be exciting and buy NFA silencers! Legally purchased suppressors dont require additional paperwork to cross state lines like other NFA items
That’s the life.
I second that, either get license for suppressor, or use ear plugs with noise activated ear muffs over them. I've got ten different ringing sounds in my ears 24/7. Its very mentally exhausting, and makes it hard to understand what people say, but not due to volume but the ringing will cancel out a syllable of a word or a whole word. You end stopping talking in groups because people get tired of repeating themselves. Heed my words. Also goes for lawn equipment too.
Protect your hearing as much as possible. You'll wonder WTF I was thinking when you are dependent on hearing aids for normal conversation.
Dude, she ain’t gonna like you when your deaf.
Spot on I'm 38 dating a 26 yr old and as soon as I stop doing "Fun" shit ie:socializing shit goes stale. Tried just giving her cash to go to the mall & do her own thing, but she complains unless I go with her and make it "Fun".
I hope you know how bad that sounds
Lol ... tell her you always found spanking to be fun, now lay across my legs.
@@tonyh1345 Lmao how?
Call me crazy but I am sticking with my 54 year old wife . The only person I can trust.
This is good advice, broadly speaking. However, what happens if she lets herself go? I find this happens to many married women over 40.
@@damienhunt4264 She's asian. They don't let themselves go.
@@Jetsetfastfood nice
I thought I could trust mine after 43 yrs.....she left 2 days ago
@@walterpetronella1595 She probably had a good reason.
I brought a girl home to try to spin Drum & Bass records on my turntables. She was floored by how complicated it was to line up the 8/16 bars...and to understand the key and melody between tracks She was puddy in my hands afterwards.
Yeah, that'll last.
I’m 37 and is not considered the age group that you’re talking about, it I see exactly what you’re talking about! You attract who you’re, and that’s the equation. I’ve been working on myself since divorce and I would say my confident level have spiked to the roof!
Being interesting/entertaining to women is the single most useful piece of advice I've ever heard
Women also have to be interesting and fun not just men. I got rid of my ex because she was dumb and couldn't hold an intelligent conversation.
I’m a girl and I approve this message 👏🏼
Well, I think we can all breathe a sigh of relief knowing that.
Hola, mami!
I use the master-slave approach. Do you approve? Thanks.
I never attracted women by my looks. Women stated they were attracted to my personality and my humor. Thank God that doesn’t fade with age!
They lied to you. They were attracted by your looks or money, period.
Life is a balancing act. I learned very early on that being world class at anything requires sacrificing other aspects of your life. Its much more effective being a jack of all trades in life as it will give you more balance, more knowledge and allow you to have a more worldly and interesting personality.
And with regards to women, I’m personally looking for a team player rather than a party hopper. The minute the party stops, she’ll simply find another party.
So let me ask you a question. With all this knowledge about women, do you thing that your happy ? I mean rather than pushing guys into new relations with "hot girls it would be better to build a happy life with the right person and with good friends, good job. But "good" every where doesn't belong to this world, it's how to deal with struggles what makes the difference between real man and a simple male. I agree with a lot of your ideas but you have to put the woman in the equation so the benefit goes to the family, and that makes the man the woman and the children happy. The family is the unity wich built a healthy society
"You have to give them something to look forward to..." No man, not my job. If a girl finds you attractive you can do no wrong. If she doesn't think you are attractive, but wants your resources, thats a total waste of your time from day 1.
100 percent this. If you are trying hard too much it means she is not attracted to you. Attractive men don't need to entertain her, they are his entertainment.
Amen to that!
I'm the one getting bored with them usually. I couldn't care less about what they want and how they feel. I just let them enjoy their self-made little Disney drama as long as it doesn't affect me and most importantly it doesn't waste my time. As Rollo says, their twisted imagination is the best tool you can use to your advantage... and it requires zero effort. It can't get any easier than that.
@Nemesistyx lmfao at faking looking good. I still don’t get how we are fooled in this day
Okay, so if you don't like women, then date guys.
Twisted imagination to your advantage? How sad that is. Using each other up.
"Sweet dreams are made of this
Who am I to disagree?
I travel the world and the seven seas
Everybody’s looking for something
Some of them want to use you
Some of them want to get used by you
Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abused..."
Exactly. I cannot even imagine caring about the useless things that entertain most modern women. I just do my thing and have never had an issue getting women. This video feels dire or something. So many women require next to nothing to "entertain". Being with one that require this much care/feeding is exhausting. I've had a few of these before and they never last. They are easily spotted. It's funny, if a guy is using his car as a way to attract, the woman is using her V in the same way. When you have a woman cook for you, like it's no big, that's when you pay attention.
Jordan B. Peterson is the dad I never had.
Richard Cooper is the uncle I never had.
Ironically the chicks are the most boring SMDH
YES and im a chick in my 20s haha
Ahh Peterson has some screws loose....
Peterson has gone a bit south, I don't hate the guy but he's been having it rough the past few years.
Dang…you nailed it. We don’t care about the money, can you intellectually interest me? We crave being invited into your world & pouring into you & doing things with you. We have our own money but can you be a companion that I can converse & laugh with.
In general all true - when I was 30 and dating a 24 year old it didn’t matter she was top-of-her class college educated, she revealed no clue or preference for what she might like doing. I had to guess and often fell into what I liked to do, which caused only boredom.
I once angered a woman on purpose. Kept saying she didn't know what she was talking about and she was wrong. Was in bed with me within an hour of meeting her. So yes. You can do anything but bore her
So you bored her so badly that she took a nap.
@@thechristianmale129 Good one.
Im not sure i understand, did the sex bore her?
@@dannywholuv It was a joke ,they didn't have sex, she went to "bed" with him, and the punch line was he was so boring she fell asleep.
He picked A- Aron as his name, hints at a funny guy making a funny joke....come on it was a good one, keep up.
I feel this is harder as an introvert. I do like going out every so often, since I do get tired of staying at home. But I am not into things that are so "thrilling", such as riding a speedboat, rock climbing, riding tall/fast roller coasters, off roading, etc. Some of the places I like to go to are to learn something such as a museum, visiting historic landmarks, trying unique food, watching a live show, or checking out some kind of festival or local event. I do like going exploring around local cities and photograph unique things. As an introvert I like doing things that are more relaxing and may learn something new. There's women who like these too, but it seems it's mainly middle aged and older mature women who are into these kinds of activities. Not most women in their 20s.
Also, it seems trying to have a knowledge of pop culture, history, trivia and current events from reading and watching many videos doesn't really seem to impress young women either.
As a woman, at first I disagreed. But then I thought about it… you’re right. I have my own money and a huge list of hobbies but I find that I want the man to show me that he would make my life better… men my age (I just turned 25) don’t know how to work, have fun, no hobbies, and are stuck up they think their looks and money are enough.
You basically said that women want substance in this video. Very true… and is why I usually go for men older than me.
You nailed it again
I noticed most girls will tell you they are doing nothing or bored it's their default state in this state she's inviting you to ask her to do something interesting
I noticed a girl will become more interested if i talk about my hobbies with her
If she's not interested in your hobbies then sucks she is taken or busy i her life and not ready for you
And it's better to not waste your time getting her interested
A man thing is passion and hobbies or adventure and sport and most women Don't have those or suck at them and taking the lead in introducing her to your passion is how you connect with her or rather how she connect with you
A good example of an older guy who dated a hot young girl was that professor who dated a sport girl and they went to live on various forests around the world, the woman was strong and hunt but the man had knowledge about plants and animals and could guide her Thro their adventure, that's how he kept her interested and not bored with him
I'm not a subscriber, but I'll watch a recommended video from time to time. Like anyone, I don't agree with 100% of your content and don't disagree with 100% of your content, but occasionally, I'll take something away from the videos and enjoy them. However, your line: "You're not entering their world, she's being invited to enter your world" is spot on, and one of the best things I've heard on this channel. It's great advice for older guys looking to date younger, and most older guys think they've got to act young or "cool" or whatever, but that's not why younger women are into you. She's into you because you're an older, seasoned man- lean into it. Don't send stupid emoji texts. Don't be an immature goof. Be the older, masculine man that lured her in the first place. It's not only great advice for older men, but it is good advice to younger guys too. Have your life plans, lay them out, and give her the opportunity to fit into it, don't alter it for her. Lay out who you are, what your vision is, and where you're headed. If she's interested, she'll adapt and squeeze herself into your world, not the other way around.
One of the best dates I took a girl on was Nordic skating on a big lake. She’d never done it before and found it really exciting.
I know this goes against most advice. I just ask them if there's anything they've got on their box. Let's go tick it off because honestly I've gone almost everything I wanted to do.
You don't even know that person and you already do all this stuff. Too much investment and wasted time for someone you don't know. A drink or two and pull. If things go well you'll have plenty of time to do these things when you get to know her better
@@raff5184 I agree. I'm assuming more than just 1 date.
Skál 💀🍻
I would invite them to my house for a date and make them watch when I paint warhammer miniatures for 4 hours. 😁
Hahah. I'd teach her Aircraft R/C flight.
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This is interesting. I once dated a girl that had money and did really cool interesting things, but she herself was actually boring and had a boring personality. I could be at a rock concert with her but be bored. I could be at Six Flags Great Adventure with her and be bored. Vice versa, other girlfriends I dated I could be home with absolutely nothing to do and have a good time talking with them and hanging out.
I've learned that buying more toys doesn't make you interesting. Same with making more money or getting more education. Either you are interesting or you're not. I don't do women who're after my resources, whatever those would be. It's me that's interesting or nothing is.
I listen to you from time to time boss. Since I only see some of your videos, it must be really good ones and I’m always enjoying what I see. I don’t know how I missed that you have a book so I’m gonna give that a check out, as someone who is gifted genetically, I’m seeing how being in shape with some money can really go along way. And I’m only 5’6 5’7 a good day.
I still have trouble understand what "being boring" really is. And what is "exciting" for that matter? If I go out of my way to "not be boring" by doing things that I do not find interesting, fruitful, engaging etc., then what is the point of that?
Each woman is different. but bottom line is: make her attracted to you and like talking to you.
I would tell you what I think he means by 'don't be boring' but then you might steal my secret ;)
Great advice Rich, thanks for sharing. You can also keep yourself more interesting by observing the world around you, noticing trends and characteristics of people, neighborhoods and trends. And watching good video channels, listening to interesting podcasts and reading a variety of good books. This way you can talk about a number of different topics, and be able to continue or steer conversations in the direction you want. Which makes you a better leader compared to most guys, who just listen to mainstream news or don't stay current with new or different content.
Are you serious? Man are dudes on here dumb.
So after working hard in you job and hitting the gym you have a date and you have to be her personal clown or comedian to not bore her.... no thanks
.............and the Lord said, Amen.
exactly. sometimes he talks out of both sides of his mouth, which is confusing. i would never get into the mindset that I need to entertain a women. she's welcome to come along or whatever, but if she's bored. . . there's the door. I just don't care if theyre entertained or not.
When presented with two doors that seemingly lead to nowhere, go for the third one.
You get the results of the work you put into it. As you said: "working hard in you job and hitting the gym". Then, when it gets to dating, you go: I'm going to be mediocre / average. Well, if you're willing to settle for that level of results...
It's about hanging out, having fun, and hooking up.
Relationships and women in general are becoming more difficult as time goes on
yep. and it's because competition has gone up. worldwide economy has had a mass effect.
people are meeting less in person, where you typically could attract local women
But hey, just keep working on yourself (or at least keep up your appearance) because sometimes you never know who might come along
I inherited "being boring" from my dad.
Granted, he busted his butt for us, and I respect him for it, but I have the tendency to be boring.
I'm good looking and women love my physique, but you can't bore them.
Having cool experiences under your belt can help too, and can serve as conversation pieces.
that sums it up for me
I honestly find it a blessing these days to be considered boring (quiet). It gives a clear view of people you should/shouldn’t have in your life. Women that easily get bored of me are women that I should’ve never bothered in the first place.
@@calleocho2107 I get your point, but it's just a weak excuse. It has much more downsides.
Wrong mindset guys. Always expect vv0men to entertain you not the other way around. Being a dancing-monkey for them has never worked and never will. I'm always the one judging them and I state that very clearly during the interaction... They usually pretend to be upset but I know they love the challenge because they always make an extra effort to impress me.
Boring--he means just live your own life-if you’re the point of origin you’re automatically interesting. If she becomes the point of interest, and she’s an idiot, you’ll lose her. If you’re holding her at an arms length then she will be more likely to put in the work. It’s biological. My husband plays phone games when he’s not working and I hate it-but I’m not a cunt so I do the work to gain his attention. Modern women aren’t as easy to train but it can work.
I haven't listened to all your stuff, but this is the first time I've heard you talk on the "Offensive" side of the pitch, could you do more on this side... seems like most of your stuff is on the defensive side with boundaries and not putting up with BS.. Would like to see more content on the here's what "To Do"... not just the "Dont Do This". Thanks.
True. I think it's easier to teach what not to do and gets more views. Also it's probably easier to see what works versus not works.
THIS
Don't give any broad any tips on finance or how to build a business etc. unless it's your daughter, sister etc.
@Ramzes Motoa Yeah like don't wipe from back to front 🤣
The “you can do anything you want to women except bore them” quote… it makes my skin crawl
1. Women don’t care how much $ u have if u don’t spend it on them. I never tell women I have $. Just be a good looking n a good bs’er n u’ll be fine
This is so true. I'm getting to mid forties. Done a lot in my life. Had a record deal, single in the charts, been a school director, lived abroad. Ticked the boxes for an interesting life but now am burnt out. All those experiences are done and over. Can't live on past glories forever.
So maintain the image of being boring to keep your peace and sanity. Got it. 💪
I’d like to see a video on things about men that women consider interesting. I basically have 3 hobbies; writing, hiking, and improv comedy outside of my business. I used to ballroom dance but moving out to the country / the pandemic killed all that. Only a couple women seemed really interested in my writing. SOME women like hiking while others find it awful and boring. Improv Comedy impresses some women, scares others (they dont want to do it themselves or find it cringe-inducing watching other people do it). I used to be into group meditation as well but found that was rare to be able to share with a woman (it bores a lot of them).
So I have kind-of a list of possible hobbies that I assume are interesting to women. If anyone has feedback or other ideas I am all ears.
1) Cooking classes? Personally I find cooking to be barely a step above watching paint dry but do it all the time to save money. Is this actually something women find interesting?
2) Swing Dance? It requires learning and mastering a whole new set of skills and the pandemic kind of ruined this in many urban areas, but perhaps it’s still a thing or set to make a big comeback?
3) Horseback riding? I dont know quite why but a lot of women seem really drawn toward dogs and horses - I think because they are “masculine” animals that they can still trust and control to some degree. I really don’t want to ever own a dog, but find horse riding kind of fun whenever I have done it. Maybe it’s worth doing solo once every few weeks just to casually mention here and there with women as a date opportunity or as a “what do you like to do”?
4) Sailing? I had one ex who was obsessed with sailing to the point of madness. Sailing I found was academically fun as an idea but in practice can be a real chore (and expensive).
5) Sports of some kind? Maybe like Dodgeball / Kickball? There are leagues around which require a lot of commitment (attending a game / practice or two a week) but maybe that’s a thing women would be interested in. There are a surprisingly large number of women who love attending baseball / football games too so even attending some live sports events may be a way of appearing interesting, even if you aren’t a sports fan?
I think I got lucky.. I am 60 my wife is 33, we have been married 14 years and we never have had a fight or even a serious argument, we have one daughter ... Our life is pretty good
God bless you
Do the math. 33 - 14. You are a creep
^ Yeah that’s kind of f*cked
@@majormarketing6552 did the math she was 19 when we married... whats make that so creepy to you?... also creeps lurk in the dark. is your life so perfect you can judge others for being happy?
@@Hapfletcher She is so cheating on you right now. A 60 year old fart cannot satisfy a 33 year old woman. And yes, you're a creep for marrying a woman young enough to be your daughter when she was a teenager. A forty six year old with a teenager means she has major daddy issues, and you just want to bang your daughter. I feel bad for the daughter that the two of you have together. One parent looks like her sister, and the other looks like her grandpa.
Here in Ireland, I always mention my yearly winter getaway to the Caribbean. That usually seals the deal.
It’s not just lifestyle, it’s personality... a lot of these guys are timid and low energy/not talkative... it’s hard to change that without depending on substances. Just date the woman that loves you not the one you love and she’ll always try to prove herself to you
My last two were late 20 year olds and I'm late 40s.
When they tell me they want to open a flower shop with a personal loan or that they are are 80k in debt for a 4 year degree in social studies, I look at them as if they were the ugliest woman ever.
Another thing, I'm tired of early 30s/late 20s with no kids sticking silicone into those naturally perfect bodies. I am not impressed with balloons that do not move naturally. Has to be a #1 sign of insecurity and attention seeking. yuck
I see those and she's gone.
We get ‘ballons’ for men with resources not you
It's always cheaper to pay them :)
to leave ;)
@@bassioelmucho To come...uhm...and leave :)
ps: You got to be delusional to assume the hot 20s chicks are "dating" the old rich guys. They don't. They get invited to the boat, bang and leave. It's transactional. He ain't an "interesting" guy or a "Chad", he's just rich with money to spare.
@@tavirosu25 facts!
One way or another, you are always paying
This happened to me
I took young girl to a restaurant and the waitress knew her.
The waitress said to her nice you have a sugar daddy!
First time in my life I heard that
We still see each other now and then but I said I’m not paying rent or car payments
I think it works because she thinks I’m funny
BS
I am a nearly 80 year old man. The first mistake an older man has in dating a younger woman is.......dating a younger woman. They are so immature, inexperienced, insecure, chasing an impossible dream and quite honestly lack the experience to really satisfy not only the psychological needs of an older man but also the sexual needs. Younger women need more time to grow, mature, gain wisdom and experience. Younger women also tend to be too emotional about unimportant things.
Just my two cents from the Asian girl's perspective in Asia coming from a man's experience who lives in Asia. Trust is number one. Real trust. Money helps all relationships, no denying that, but even that can be an exception if the man shows willingness to make it at some point. Last is looks, to a degree they don't matter. (If you are good looking and then "let yourself go", but are still loyal, you are fine 90% of the time.)
The new generation is very* different from the older generations of Asia*. It often reminders me of what stories I heard my parents talk about in the 60's/70's. Times a have changed much over here (Thailand).
Being a former US Army Paratrooper I took a young girl skydiving with my friends she screamed when we exited the aircraft all the way down to earth, I asked her how was it she was fucking speechless.
Yeah I get the same reaction when I got nothing but my nuts hanging out
Why you gotta be so extra
Well shit. Whats the chances i could arrange to take her into a hot lz in a 53 then on to some helo casting ?
But that’s like, the whole money thing. It’s not really you..
Super cool 👌🏾🤣🌻🌞🌈🦄
Excellent vid, Rich. Good spot on points. Hell, I'm now mid-sixties and 10-15 yrs ago I decided was time to get serious about my look (always considered myself average), game (had no game, didn't really even know what it meant), and start taking more risks (albeit calculated ones) in career and with women. It's paid off in a big way, both financially and with the women in my life. And I've never married (thank God). One thing I've learned, and I believe it's one thing that challenges all us men living in western cultures, is to choose women wisely. I had NOT chosen wisely for most of my life, and suffered because of it. I'm now only interested in high self-esteem, intelligent daddy's girls, for lack of a better term. (Basically women who when I ask them about their dad's immediately speak in glowing terms about them). I'd rather keep spinning plates (win-win) than settle for something (someone) I know I can get just because they look good or make good money. Again, thank you and keep em comin, brother!
So you made these changes at around the age of 50? I just turned 50 and am in the same boat you were in 15 years ago. Was wondering if it's possible to change?
Do you think that you are missing out on genuine love by spinning plates for the rest of your life? How do you envision the last few years of your life?
If she is bored with you, you lack connection. Everything becomes a joy with the right person.
I completely agree! Be exciting to women! Be bold! Be nothing like they’ve never seen! Be an exciting adventure.
As a man, it is quite impossible to keep up with what to do to keep a woman. You must be like this, you must be like that. You must make her feel like this or make her feel like that. This could be incredibly frustrating, trying to please the unpleasant. For mean, singleness is the way to succeed.
So not only do I have to have lots of money, but now I also have to change my hobbies to things that THEY like?? Guess I'm staying single.
So, I'm one of those "seasoned' guys (I'm 67) that Rich is talking about; he and I actually talked about this stuff over the phone. Though I still take women out to dinner (going tonight, in fact), I've also done the following:
1. Worked on my physique and have taken off 20 lbs of fat and added back 5 lbs of lean muscle.
2. Lifting heavy stuff
3. Joined a Dojo.
4. Am fronting the idea of off-roading in my T4R to keep it "interesting"; while this has gotten me far more traffic of the feminine variety, I find they view off-roading with both exhilaration AND trepidation.
5. Using professional photography on dating apps.
6. Am now using the "ultimate female aphrodisiac": confidence.
Still using an online approach but with each of Rich's suggestions, the return on investment has been, frankly, astounding.
You should be doing all that stuff for yourself not women. Fuck em if they’re bored.
Hey Rich a part of you book that stuck out to me was your recommendation to get a motorcycle. Let me tell you. Best decision ever. All the best brother. Thanks for the valuable information.
What bike did you get? I just got my license after reading Rich's book and now I'm looking to get one too.
Royal Enfield Bullet 350 (forest green) 😁..my companion.
@@dipayandey2838 nice dude congrats!
@@michaelklym7043 I wanted a starter bike because Im definitely a beginner so I got a KTM SuperDuke 990 spent right below 8 grand on it.
@@JoseHernandez-hb8vf Nice man that's a fast bike! I have a soft spot for the KTM naked bikes.
As one of the "Tyrones" I still have to game and impress these women and face the markets on weekdays. Hard work never ends for a man. That's why I dig this channel.
Interesting.
My first date with my wife got cut short and we ended up babysitting her baby relative.
I changed my first diaper and we spent some time listening ti a lot of her favorite music.
Our second date we got caught in a rainstorm in a park and ended up running to a baseball dugout in a torrential downpour and ended up making out in there for over an hour while the rain came down so heavily.
Dating is a headache. I totally get where your coming from but it just seems like too much work. I work enough to pay my bills and keep up with myself. No time for all that.
Guy is like "Don't lead with money" then his only example of hobbies is "Come ride in my expensive shit with me".
It's so true...as a younger man I would date older women all the time and I was being invited into their world. I dated a woman for 1 year and she never came to my place I would always go there and spend the night there.
This was informative as a younger man listening.
100%. That's my fiance and me, we have a 12 years gap, yet he checks all the correct boxes you mentioned.
Good talk, and good timing for me. I just re-evaluated my hobbies list, and most of it is solo activities a woman wouldn't want to do. Because I used to do them to fill my time when I was single and not looking for a woman. That's one reason I lost my last GF. I got complacent and boring.
I like your commentary with one exception: if you have money, you are automatically considered a sugar daddy. She wouldn't give you the time of day without out that aspect.
Like Rich taking his McLaren to get new tyres, they're an accessory you can spend money on in return for personal gratification. If it doesn't meet your needs, you trade in for a more interesting model. You don't expect the McLaren to love you back, you just make the most of what it can offer.
Give the burden of performance on them. Why should you protect the house if she doesn't make you a coffee every morning? stuff like that
You have no idea what you're talking about. If you're fit, confident and well dressed, then there is a lot of sexual attraction happening, and it is quite easy without spending hardly anything at all (much less than older women). Younger ladies are MUCH cheaper and more fun.
You're honestly underestimating how trash their male peers are and how thirsty they are for successful and confident men.
Rich complains women are spoiled brats then he tells men to turn women into spoiled brats.
@@lancar5637 missing the point. Rich can afford a vast array of cars as he has a McLaren, it's pre-selection. He puts his money into the McLaren and makes the effort with it because it gives back what he wants. The juice is worth the squeeze. He's discerning and know what he wants out of it.
Sure, you can spend your life in Ford's and Hyundai's. Same way Rich can drive his McLaren at 40 everywhere and never get the most out of it. Or he can find a quiet stretch of road, invest in new tyres and hit the pedal, and boy, does the investment pay off.
If the woman sees you as boring, and you have all of these top skillsets and money you're referring too, doesnt that make the woman the one that has issues? It doesnt sound like a good investment to go for a woman who evaluates like that, and a mindset like that resembles a manipulative one to me aka dance a jig for me wealthy boi
@@meh8099 you forgot that vvomen are not exciting, hobbies are exciting not vvomen.
First date should always be gym date. I spend nothing and I get to see her physicality getting going.
In other words is about surrounding yourself with expensive toys to entertain them. It's not about love. It's about material stuff they're looking for. So, you saying only love is boring for them, you have to mix it up. You have to become the master at tricks, keep them occupied with events and exciting things. That means you become the slave clown and the all around trickster for them. Have to entertain the pssy. I got money and I have to become the entertainer to them. Feed the pussycat and entertain it, otherwise they'll walk away to next house. Whoa, great recommendations. You enjoy it.
Taking notes for when i'm older. Thank You
If a man has to entertain her the whole time, i would rather be single.
I date women who are interesting themselves and are working to achieve their dreams or are helping me achieve mine. Just find women who find what you like interesting and fascinating 👌👌
Respect to my fellow old man making this video. Best of luck on your next young girl pick-up the next time when you drive past your local high school. I used your advice and it works. I bought a van to hit it. Keep them away from my wife, kids, and money. Even make her pay for gas and have her working for me on the corners. Life is good.
He’s right, was able to hold a relationship like this for 10 years after that it became difficult.
Rent, don't Buy!
Give the burden of performance on them. Why should you protect the house if she doesn't make you a coffee every morning? stuff like that
Staying In Shape Is Important...However, Most Young Women Wouldn't Be With An Older Guy (20-30+ Years Older) If He Didn't Have That Big Money Bag...
49 here dating a 34 year old woman who has no kids and does not want them and it is truly the best relationship I’ve ever been in however both she and I are self described unicorns. She regularly calls me “Sir” and yes she is invited into my world I am rarely in her world at all
I can totally relate to your comment. I’m 47 dating 34 yro woman. She’s a professional with a solid economy but her corporate world is rather boring and shallow… I’m not interested at all. In my world she has found excitement, adventure, experience and much more.
Best relationship I’ve had in a long time!
@@lulloa47 good luck to you ! It’s amazing how easy and fun it is hanging out with a younger woman , glad to know others are having similar experiences!
Wow you’re a creep .. you should date menopausal women 😂
Great video Rich, but can you explain why you get passed by a F250 work truck in almost every video?