Why People Should NOT TEST The INFJ

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  • @OnTrack101
    @OnTrack101  3 года назад +33

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  • @harryboyes2812
    @harryboyes2812 3 года назад +354

    I don't know who said it, but I believe this quote is appropriate here. "Be afraid of the fury of a kind man. He may be kind because he knows what he can do."

    • @jessicadroberts3783
      @jessicadroberts3783 3 года назад +22

      Yes, every so often I need to ask myself if I like the person in my life more that what the point of discussion/ discord/ argument is worth because I could so easily cut to their soul if I wanted to. So if your INFJ suddenly goes quiet on you mid argument and walks away they are choosing to say nothing because they have decided that you are either a) more important to them than the argument is worth or b) the topic is simply a waste of their time and energy and they don't care about your opinion enough to continue. In either case allow the distance because if you push them so that they go personal, it will cut into your deepest insecurities that you didn't even know you had.

    • @harryboyes2812
      @harryboyes2812 3 года назад +10

      @@jessicadroberts3783 Yes, this is true. We INFJs do tend to do that.

    • @hadyjalloh1519
      @hadyjalloh1519 3 года назад +3

      BRILLIANT POSITIVE COMMENTS

    • @WhatWhy42
      @WhatWhy42 3 года назад +15

      Don't tell everyone... It's more fun when they find out in person

    • @WhatWhy42
      @WhatWhy42 3 года назад

      @Jack Warner no such thing... Lol 🦂

  • @BryanChance
    @BryanChance 3 года назад +204

    Many times, INFJs "allow" things to happen, back down from an argument, let the other win, do it the person's way, etc. Why? It's not a sign of weakness or a pushover. The INFJ is helping out the other person....without them knowing.

    • @PD-qu8dq
      @PD-qu8dq 3 года назад +21

      We be saving lives. I know a Few People that have benefited from My Protection.
      They Don’t even Understand it, I’m backing away from Conflict because I’m Not Trying to Fight No Body😏

    • @pieterty1933
      @pieterty1933 3 года назад +9

      Depends, if it's someone we don't care about we will let them win, if it's someone we love we won't fight but just try to explain our point of view and ask them to think about it

    • @humblejo130
      @humblejo130 3 года назад +6

      Haha!!! Why is it, random people are the only ones that know me, but the people around me don't

    • @naakhoondesigns
      @naakhoondesigns 3 года назад +2

      OMG!!! Yes, Yes, Yes........

    • @arjamamukhopadhyay997
      @arjamamukhopadhyay997 2 года назад +1

      101% agreed

  • @erikknudsen4034
    @erikknudsen4034 3 года назад +66

    I once had a boss who insulted me, belittled me, and made it known he didn't believe in me. Worse than that, he lied to me. I felt he really underestimated what I was capable of. So what did I end up doing? I took him and the company to court. The case went all the way to my state's supreme court, and a new law was formed in my name, making it officially illegal to do what they had done.

    • @jasminecontreras7341
      @jasminecontreras7341 3 года назад +3

      Yesssss 👏🏼 I’m so happy for you! Good job!

    • @jamielake-boyd3600
      @jamielake-boyd3600 2 года назад +2

      Good for you. I'm not a great communicator. So it's hard for me to do that kind of stuff so I think that's why god takes care of me in a different way. And I'm ok with that. Plus as an empath I have to protect myself of that kind of energy but I do anything for my grandkids.

    • @TheParez
      @TheParez 2 года назад +2

      Fool me once; that's ok. Fool me twice....

    • @jamielake-boyd3600
      @jamielake-boyd3600 2 года назад +1

      @@TheParez fuck em

    • @teru8443
      @teru8443 Год назад +1

      Wow you are really cool.

  • @vickiv.v.615
    @vickiv.v.615 3 года назад +9

    Others' envy is fuel.
    Silent persistence is my superpower.
    Love, love, love...help, help, help...give, give, give...and, only if necessary, crush.

  • @FoXyy17
    @FoXyy17 3 года назад +563

    As an infj i never lose i either win or learn 😊

    • @asjadmotara
      @asjadmotara 3 года назад +17

      Accurate

    • @christopherj5780
      @christopherj5780 3 года назад +8

      Every time.

    • @jeffreylovell1594
      @jeffreylovell1594 3 года назад +10

      ... I either *

    • @nikolameiclaire7414
      @nikolameiclaire7414 3 года назад +7

      100%

    • @tokyo7012
      @tokyo7012 3 года назад +7

      omg girrlllll pls delete this comment cuz ppl shouldn't know that ur an infj. Infjs should stay as a secret cuz then ppl will take advantage of u but if u don't wanna delete it then i guess its ok i mean u can take the risk if u want to

  • @c.l.9344
    @c.l.9344 3 года назад +89

    I'm an INFJ and an empath.
    We're very peculiar, there's no one like us. When we flex, we marvel people. I wish I would of known that I was an INFJ sooner. Were a unique set of people.

    • @Daytruin
      @Daytruin 3 года назад +8

      i cried when i first found these videos as they are 90% accurate at least and some are spot on. I've never heard anyone accurately describe me before and for that i get a sense of relief.

    • @james12erby43
      @james12erby43 3 года назад +3

      SAME

    • @LadyLight87
      @LadyLight87 2 года назад +2

      I'm also an infj empath. 🙂

    • @Joemozza1234
      @Joemozza1234 2 года назад +1

      I’m 46 and only realised I’m an INFJ empath and also physic and wish I’d found out years ago coz it would’ve saved me many years of pain. But I turned out a solid man with many life lessons learned and now live to make my own happy. Universal love to all you other empaths xx

    • @Melody-098
      @Melody-098 Год назад

      True I always felt very different from the peoples around me , especially in terms of interests and my way of doing different things. Now I know why

  • @ShanicornBeauty
    @ShanicornBeauty 3 года назад +162

    One of the reasons why I love being an Infj. That sudden shift always catch people off-guard.🥰

    • @rose_yts
      @rose_yts 3 года назад +19

      Isn't that true? They resent us because they didn't see it coming. But they were the first to underestimate us without any foundation.

    • @jokybones
      @jokybones 3 года назад +6

      Yes but sadly some poeple can't handle that the kind dude is also the brutally honest one...

    • @jfo3000
      @jfo3000 3 года назад +3

      @@jokybones Honesty is the best policy.

    • @brittneyhailey
      @brittneyhailey 3 года назад +2

      Always

    • @jokybones
      @jokybones 3 года назад +2

      @@brittneyhailey #Always

  • @omollo-1
    @omollo-1 3 года назад +81

    Being Savage and Ruthless to those who had it coming is the sweetest thing I do wrong as an INFJ, when my patience is tried and humility taken for a ride, then is where the inner demon awakes and it is a bad news on a good day. Feels good stepping on huge egos, especially when they are alphas.

    • @PD-qu8dq
      @PD-qu8dq 3 года назад +4

      I’m a Snake, but I’m trying to walk the righteous path, But I’m Still a Snake. You better take your ass on with that Stick, because I will definitely Bite your ass.
      You poke at me, that means you wanted to see the REAL Me, Not the Mask I put on.

    • @rose_yts
      @rose_yts 3 года назад +2

      yep, the story of my life.

    • @Daytruin
      @Daytruin 3 года назад +1

      love karma videos lol.

    • @KSM-mu3xx
      @KSM-mu3xx 3 года назад +1

      Yaaasssss !

    • @Sjb2077
      @Sjb2077 2 года назад +1

      Yes, me too.

  • @JamesJohn-og8or
    @JamesJohn-og8or 3 года назад +35

    I am an INFJ and a very strong one. This was so on point that my mouth fell open. You nailed it with this video presentation...There's not one thing that you presented here that I am not. I screwed my entire family who told me I would never amount to anything..I became a doctor and published researcher. They all put their mouths up their hind quarters! I dismissed every one of them now!!

  • @artscience9981
    @artscience9981 3 года назад +40

    As an INFJ in a very competitive environment (engineering research), I have learned some humility because some of those other personality types are incredibly smart and can shoot me down quickly. However, I usually keep my own counsel, keep pursuing my goals and eventually I can sometimes surpass them. This video makes it seem like INFJs always win, which I can tell you from experience is not the case. I think all the types have superpowers, but if my experience is a guide, I think one INFJ superpower is persistence in the long term.

    • @laurentverpeaux2281
      @laurentverpeaux2281 2 года назад +1

      amen and well done for going outside your easy zone. done the same with farming and self sufficiency/environment. Now spiritual path and healing....arts....we are fluid and changing

  • @spmoran4703
    @spmoran4703 Год назад +4

    I have never been in competition with anyone. And never will be.

  • @marizabarnes
    @marizabarnes 3 года назад +28

    I was asked once this question by a lady with an attitude, at a bankers’ dinner party;
    “And tell me, what are your skills?” While she smiles at me and drinks from her glass of wine.
    I answered right away “My skills? Hmmm, I can play with your mind in ways you can’t even imagine, and yours?”
    I still remember her face lol. That was the end of the conversation 😆

    • @wondeaman2774
      @wondeaman2774 2 года назад +4

      the problem is they don't understand or they have no idea who u are

    • @flashhaxor-oo1un
      @flashhaxor-oo1un 2 года назад +1

      I also said that but precisely instead of "you can't imagine" I said " in ways you can never even imagine"

    • @roslyncerro1263
      @roslyncerro1263 Год назад

      Rock on!😘

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 Год назад

      I like her .

  • @jchamilton4476
    @jchamilton4476 3 года назад +17

    I’m pretty new to this INFJ info. I’ve always noticed people feel betrayed when I don’t roll over and submit. I’m so nice most of the time it is confusing to people when they can’t bully me into doing something their way. I’m a behavior specialist with my school district and I have a very kind reputation, but when it comes to advocating for a student (typically a student with major behavior issues) I am very resolute. It is unusual to see people’s expressions as they struggle to process this. I’m glad I’m not the only INFJ in the world. I definitely feel alone in my core beliefs throughout day-to-day life.

  • @phoenixsama7302
    @phoenixsama7302 3 года назад +118

    This is all about the confident infj, For now I'm working on self-love

    • @diederickkruse3821
      @diederickkruse3821 3 года назад +4

      And even then this one's rather subjective

    • @flowerpower4944
      @flowerpower4944 3 года назад +15

      This is indeed a true mature INFj, all you younger INfjs will be fine and will attain a greater self, even the mature ones are still growing and learning don't ever give up you are all very special and authentic,hang in there💗💗💗💗💗

    • @TheDarkness1
      @TheDarkness1 3 года назад +13

      We were all young once. You don't get to the top of the mountain without climbing it. If you are dropped off at the top, you didn't learn the lessons along the way.

    • @flowerpower4944
      @flowerpower4944 3 года назад +5

      @@TheDarkness1 yea that's very true, we have to put in the hard work to attain .💗💗

    • @divergence_tiffanyramos4337
      @divergence_tiffanyramos4337 3 года назад +2

      @@flowerpower4944 : What up sister?!?! Thought I'd say "Hey!" The homie from the last comment thread we we're on still hasn't followed through with that free lunch. Lol. What a chump! You win some and you lose some. Nice to comment with you again. Take care of you and yours always!😊

  • @ArbitratorsSanctuary
    @ArbitratorsSanctuary 3 года назад +51

    All facts! I try soooo hard to keep my cool because I have no middle ground.Most don't even know I've scanned everyone around me for strengths and weaknesses. I know exactly what to say or do to get under their skin but what good does that really serve.

    • @PD-qu8dq
      @PD-qu8dq 3 года назад +5

      🙃🙃🙃🙃…Exactly!! But if they want it, we can give it to them. I don’t have no problem giving you your issue, I know this ain’t what you want but If you will not listen when I tell you, I Can Show you with a Hands On Demonstration.

    • @ArbitratorsSanctuary
      @ArbitratorsSanctuary 3 года назад +1

      @P D 😂 A hands on demonstration

    • @mstiqphn1x579
      @mstiqphn1x579 3 года назад

      Exactly, No middle ground, & No save their feelings filter🔔🔮🌞Once i turn from nice to direct unfiltered honesty🔔🔮🌞Its all niceties off the table🔔🔮🌞

    • @nay3liduhhh
      @nay3liduhhh 2 года назад

      I can 100000% relate, we can destroy someone if we really wanted to 😬

  • @gustavs3298
    @gustavs3298 10 месяцев назад +2

    Reminded me how my ex girlfriends tried to test me in toxic way and later on they said that were in shock that I clapback like no one ever did. I felt bad about it, but I hope they learned, that such behavior can backfire.

  • @icare4214
    @icare4214 3 года назад +12

    On point! An INFJ doesn't need encouraging chants to achieve their goals. People's doubts are the fuel ⛽ 😎

  • @serban2139
    @serban2139 3 года назад +173

    "eh...he won't do that, he's too nice."
    ...Hitler side: hold my beer!

    • @My-Name420
      @My-Name420 3 года назад +9

      HAHAHAHA

    • @melonpan88
      @melonpan88 3 года назад +6

      Erm... it was not Hitler's INFJness ( I doubt that he was ever INFJ) which led to his crazy and inhuman acts but his very obvious psychopathic traits ( i.e. lack of empathy, ego-centrism, sadism, narcissism etc..). INFJ traits =! psychopathy

    • @misguidedpearls7456
      @misguidedpearls7456 3 года назад +9

      I've shocked people n myself whenever i get pushed to far..
      Bc i usefully dodge negative situations n people

    • @agapelove1111
      @agapelove1111 3 года назад +5

      Hitler was a Psychopath, not an INFJ. That’s a different video

    • @melonpan88
      @melonpan88 3 года назад +1

      @Farran Hill Sorry, your statement has not convinced me. Can you support that claim with any scientific facts? Any psychological studies using INFJ and non-INFJ cohort groups to compare any significant risk factors for personality disorders. I doubt that. Psychopathy usually doesn't develop in later life. There are already early manifestations in childhood or adolescence (such as animal cruelty etc.)

  • @laurabarber6697
    @laurabarber6697 3 года назад +74

    An infj is like a sholan monk. We won't ever initiate yet once provoked you will be shocked At our skills.

    • @angry_honeybadger
      @angry_honeybadger 3 года назад +10

      We are the one at the end of the bar, quiet, mysterious and most definately not the one to start a problem with

    • @flowerpower4944
      @flowerpower4944 3 года назад +8

      Yea we tell it how it is people hate the TRUTH,.👍💗💗

    • @notahouse
      @notahouse 3 года назад +4

      I think my favorite line and the one I dread using the most is “It would be in your best interest..…”. This gives a person a get out of jail free card or things are going to take a turn for the worst. Some never recover, they just can’t take a hint. I try not to get to that point though, it’s never a fair fight, yet we know this walking into the ring.

    • @angry_honeybadger
      @angry_honeybadger 3 года назад +4

      @@notahouse Not your problem; theirs. Not your fault you have this gift; it's your blessing. Honour it

    • @notahouse
      @notahouse 3 года назад +1

      @@angry_honeybadger Amen!

  • @sirrenn1936
    @sirrenn1936 3 года назад +25

    I can unintentionally embarrass myself, think about it ten years later and feel the pain. UGH!

  • @introvish
    @introvish 3 года назад +50

    Most people who test me alot usually have insecurities playing in the background.. what is so sad is that I'm the one who tells them because I see them so clearly.

    • @violet18
      @violet18 2 года назад +2

      I sense when someone in a room doesn't like me. And if I'm around them often, it means that soon I'll figure out why.

    • @wondeaman2774
      @wondeaman2774 2 года назад

      @@violet18 same here

    • @violet18
      @violet18 2 года назад

      @@wondeaman2774 It's strange, but it's just a feeling that hits me. Is it the same way for you too? For example, I remember sitting in a restaurant while I was waiting for my order when a girl walks in and right away I felt something strange when I looked in her direction.

  • @claudiamariatanasa997
    @claudiamariatanasa997 3 года назад +76

    "Humble yourselves in the presence of the Lord, and He will exalt you.
    "
    and.... watch out for inflamed Ego's!
    two of the most precious tips for which I am grateful! 😊

    • @MARIPILIPM
      @MARIPILIPM 3 года назад +1

      To know your worth doesn’t mean being egotistic. I’m afraid you’re either insecure or lack a true understanding of the matter. Don’t put God as your shield!

    • @flowerpower4944
      @flowerpower4944 3 года назад +6

      We are humble, and we are still growing and learning, and I'm an old INFj, but it's good to encourage each other, especially younger INfjs, we are using our Spiritual gifts daily💗💗🙏

    • @flowerpower4944
      @flowerpower4944 3 года назад +3

      I don't think you are an INFj,!!

    • @TheDarkness1
      @TheDarkness1 3 года назад +7

      @@flowerpower4944 Agreed. Blind faith in religion without critical thinking raises a red flag to me.

    • @flowerpower4944
      @flowerpower4944 3 года назад +4

      @@TheDarkness1 you're right a lot of people going to Church are like that, think some take it too serious, and /or has mental health problems, l.o.l.👍👍

  • @marylittle1795
    @marylittle1795 3 года назад +16

    Be the salt....and the light...INFJ people are this...salt and light to everyone...
    Godbless!

  • @kenbernal8245
    @kenbernal8245 2 года назад +4

    infjs are strong people, dont mess with them, with mindgames and bs, cause a lot belittle them to weaken them, dont waste your time convince them, they have their own standards and frequency.

  • @nasrulfauzi
    @nasrulfauzi 3 года назад +11

    We value give and take. We don't compete, we are fair.

  • @maybee...
    @maybee... 2 года назад +3

    Thank you, I created a report that garnered my employer over a half million $$, no one knew I had accounting skills. I was the only one qualified to do that report, so I did it before it was needed. When it was time to bring my information my immediate supervisor allowed me to make the presentation. It was beautiful.

  • @pnwperson
    @pnwperson 2 года назад +2

    Do you know that some people are insulting you because your potential threatens them? yes--And that's where #7 comes in💀💀💀💀❤️❤️❤️

  • @riquipoo5578
    @riquipoo5578 3 года назад +2

    I can be lethargic but tell me I can't do something and I will prove everyone wrong!!!

  • @jacquesvanderlinden
    @jacquesvanderlinden 3 года назад +61

    The power of an INFJ: better be lonesome than "twosome"

    • @hannaha188
      @hannaha188 3 года назад +1

      I agree!

    • @cajunlady4893
      @cajunlady4893 3 года назад

      One is the loneliest number that you'll ever do
      Two can be as bad as one
      It's the loneliest number since the number one
      I like being with the one I love but LDR
      Is so lonely.

    • @Horseluvver
      @Horseluvver 3 года назад

      Absolutely.

  • @seekerofknowledge8961
    @seekerofknowledge8961 3 года назад +64

    The mind power we posses is truly a remarkable gift from the Lord, which should be treated as such. Never to destroy another but used as an example that we will be victorious regardless of how they try to ruin our calling. I tend to let them do their own self destruction, preferring to pay no attention whatsoever. My power of mind over matter is extraordinary as I fully recovered from 7 strokes since age 21. I would not waste my time on mere mortals stupidity. I only focus on how I can improve or move on!

    • @bvision333
      @bvision333 3 года назад +2

      Amen

    • @c.l.9344
      @c.l.9344 3 года назад +1

      So true, we have incredible minds. Unlike any other?

  • @lanikiamccloud4227
    @lanikiamccloud4227 3 года назад +7

    Well I've read all 220 comments and I see nobody does what I do when tested. I PRAY. I pray so hard for the individual trying me. And I don't stop praying for them either. I pray they get they mind right and Get back right with God. Then I warn them that God is watching them try me and I have worked so hard on mySelf and they should leave me alone before they have consequences out of their control.
    Very very great video. It's almost like I wrote this directly myself to mySelf.
    Amen. Silence is so good in God's Mansion. I am where I am suppose to be. In the Kingdom chilling with my Lord in peace and quiet. Loving every moment of Bliss. With a Do Not Disturb Sign in my window. I mean what I say. Do not disturb me, I am Praying. Praying you find what your looking for, your peace, your joy, the love of your life. I am praying you find YourSelf 1 day. Because I already found what I was looking for. And that something was ME. So let me be.
    So yeah I pass all my tests with flying colors. When tested I REDIRECT. I hold that Mirror up for the lost and point them back to the SOURCE of their issues. Because it aint me with the problem.
    I am just sitting here minding my own business, move along and do the same. I am Out.
    Namaste Nik

    • @larrylee8157
      @larrylee8157 3 года назад

      So good. I think infjs tend to ego trip. We just don't show it. We need the LORD just as much as anyone else.

    • @jfo3000
      @jfo3000 3 года назад

      Loved your comment. I have actually meditated with affirmations for two of my neighbors to be better men. I guess this might be called prayer. Both of them stopped the bad behavior towards me. I did have words with them before my meditations, but people when challenged often don't respond. These guys did, and I believe the meditations helped.

  • @tonytrismegistusroberts5124
    @tonytrismegistusroberts5124 3 года назад +26

    I call that coldness a left shift because thats when I flip from right brain to left sharply, it's often accompanied by swift and decisive violence even if it is rare.

  • @JustforusCanada
    @JustforusCanada 3 года назад +5

    Humbleness is key 🔑 I’m just tryna live a good life with good people. All the other negative stuff is pollution

  • @rowan5335
    @rowan5335 2 года назад +3

    Just like Roosevelt said, "walk softly and carry a big stick! ". These videos actually help me when someone tries a personal attack because I know in my head I don't have to worry that they're right I already know they're wrong so whew, I won't have to overthink it LOL

  • @DaphneFortune
    @DaphneFortune 3 года назад +12

    The older I get the more I am aware of the tactics of my enemy! I pray for my enemy who despitefully tries to use & abuse me... Most of my life people try to figure me out and I can feel their true intentions & expectations. 🙏🏾🙋🏾‍♀️😇

  • @touriajarfaoui4175
    @touriajarfaoui4175 3 года назад +35

    Bravo! Outstanding video! You just nailed it. So so so accurate .an old quote stated: Never wake up the cat who is sleeping. I just love all your analytical video. Continue the diligent work. Thanks for explaining in detail the content of your videos.

  • @rmlee9489
    @rmlee9489 3 года назад +42

    If all infj people put their minds together, the world would either be way better or way more dangerous. One thing is for sure... In either event, anyone in the way will get 🤬 CRUSHED! Lol

    • @SnookyDre
      @SnookyDre 3 года назад +3

      I feel like the world would be a lot better... Not gon lie tho, they're some of us that would rather watch the world burn. But after talking to them and hashing differences out I think we can get them back on the good side. We don't want another Hitler (INFJ) out here smh. That's an extreme example, but nonetheless a possibility

    • @icalotdonthide2646
      @icalotdonthide2646 3 года назад +1

      @@SnookyDre I'm kinda at the, let the burn and where are my marshmallow stage. I'm just so tired of the needless arguments and stupid cycles people put themselves in. Like, everyone could have it sooo good, but they keep CHOOSING death.

  • @simplyme7821
    @simplyme7821 3 года назад +13

    People that are always competing with an infj don't know what they're doing. I had a girlfriend who said, I'm prettier than you, okay. I have more friends than you, okay. I have more money than you, okay. My house is nicer than yours, okay. Then, I hear she's telling lies about me. I... no, you don't. Goodbye. I don't need to win but, you don't get to walk over that line with me. Goodbye means, I can't even remember your name. That's just the way it is. Carly

    • @samaelj5735
      @samaelj5735 3 года назад +4

      So sad that kind of person was your gf. But not surprised, many people today are insecure and want to verify they're a nice person in many ways. Most of them don't deserve to get respect from us.

    • @lyfeasmemecsit6203
      @lyfeasmemecsit6203 Год назад

      Yes, I'm that way as an INFJ ..we don't care about the crap talk ..To secure with our desires..but! When u cross a boundary yeaaahhhh.. you might as well be a ghost m because Now , ! I Have to show the Inner me.

  • @hog-re2zo
    @hog-re2zo 3 года назад +14

    As an infj I feel like I'm wasting time with my job choice but I'll wake up happy everyday and I like going to work. I'm a oil and tire technician

  • @MARIPILIPM
    @MARIPILIPM 3 года назад +46

    This is exceptionally accurate, that’s me in my working life so on target. Envy has surrounded me for ever, but that never has stopped me 👍🏻

    • @flowerpower4944
      @flowerpower4944 3 года назад +1

      Me too we come a long journey, I love challenges it gives me the go ahead signal, 💗💗

    • @MARIPILIPM
      @MARIPILIPM 3 года назад +1

      Agree 💯

    • @tanafaithrenay1111
      @tanafaithrenay1111 3 года назад

      Same ! 💯

  • @cgsweat
    @cgsweat 3 года назад +27

    INFJ with BPD checking in. As always, these videos cover a typical INFJ, but not _all_ INFJ's. And please stop placing us on a pedestal as if we're these mythical, rare creatures to be envied by everyone else. It's honestly creating a stigma.

    • @estherkalenga8336
      @estherkalenga8336 2 года назад

      Shiiiiid
      Facts tho

    • @P0tH3ADPUNK
      @P0tH3ADPUNK Год назад +2

      I think it's just because we're rare(2% of all humans), humble, honest, moral, nuetral and that's very rare traits to find in anyone these days, these are some crazy crazy times were living in. To have all these values in one personality creates a moral peaceful enneagram 9 personality type, in my opinion. Although you can become mentally unhealthy and embody the opposite traits, of course. I don't think there's a stigma, it's just 1 of 16 personality types. He's only a mouthpiece for the research they did in order to make this video about INFJS.

  • @PD-qu8dq
    @PD-qu8dq 3 года назад +9

    I’m a Humble Humbler.
    I get no ego boost nor benefits to Attacking someone that I can already see their weaknesses and insecurities. I’m trying to build you up with positive energy.
    But Tearing someone Down with Negative Energy is My Favorite and I Love it. All the Negative energy, you get was supplied by you, so thank yourself.

  • @leonieprice2932
    @leonieprice2932 3 года назад +11

    Some good points but an INFJ takes no pleasure in another’s pain and will not use insight to harm another (unless provoked to breaking point, and then, only as an absolute last act of self-defence).

    • @ahhwe-any7434
      @ahhwe-any7434 2 года назад +1

      Yes. At least im completely aware of what I'm capable of. I think others r absolutely terrified of themselves. And hate it w/ a passion when u mirror their antics. Which is just funny to me. It's not me you're mad at, hunny buns 🌠, yw

  • @Angelicconnections111
    @Angelicconnections111 3 года назад +12

    I had no clue I had the potential to be this intimidating.
    Outstanding video like always !

    • @rose_yts
      @rose_yts 3 года назад +1

      I never really understood why I'm envied and why people have no ceremony to show it. Now I do!

    • @duckbacon3117
      @duckbacon3117 3 года назад +1

      Every personality type has the potential to be intimidating.

  • @notahouse
    @notahouse 3 года назад +59

    It’s like Dr. Strange in Infinity War, you see all the outcomes in mere seconds and are capable of choosing the most desirable one. The fact of the matter is this type knows not to fight any losing battles and yet they rarely are in such situations because they know time is on their side. It’s not the fight it’s the war! Eventually you don’t have to move mountains, the mountains already know to move and that’s when the magic starts to happen.

    • @flowerpower4944
      @flowerpower4944 3 года назад +4

      Exactly good comment💗💗💗

    • @notahouse
      @notahouse 3 года назад +1

      @@flowerpower4944 💕

    • @divergence_tiffanyramos4337
      @divergence_tiffanyramos4337 3 года назад +1

      Nicely put and so true! Get on with your bad self!

    • @notahouse
      @notahouse 3 года назад

      @@divergence_tiffanyramos4337 We bad! We know it! We got the stuff to show it! LOL....now my age is showing. 💕

    • @misguidedpearls7456
      @misguidedpearls7456 3 года назад

      That's so true

  • @sarangdarokar2229
    @sarangdarokar2229 3 года назад +13

    This has happened with me,
    I literally break connection with that person, he were always judge me☹️ (you are this type of person and that type) always try to test and judge me.
    Bt now I am too away from that person mentally & physically✌🏻& happy too😇
    🤗Have a wonderful day all my dear INFJ & all friends...🥰

  • @DeyaIV
    @DeyaIV 3 года назад +6

    I don’t live in a competitive world. Even though I don’t feel like I am struggling or trying too hard, others criticise my attitude and enthusiasm, my efforts bring good fruit and joy to my life. When people try to inject toxicity in my life I don’t allow it for long. Even if I snap and look like the weak and unstable, I get to be free from people that aren’t letting me grow and live my life. I express my desire to that person to stop their toxic dynamics, and they don’t stop, then I avoid giving them my attention and care, they eventually go away. I always reach for improvement, I don’t like to be mentally stuck with what I know about myself and about others because we are a constant change. I like to ask questions and make sure if I understood well. Sometimes others think I am patronising.

  • @TheDarkness1
    @TheDarkness1 3 года назад +50

    Turning from Yoda into the Credible Hulk, because I back up my rage with facts, truth, and logic. 😁

    • @flowerpower4944
      @flowerpower4944 3 года назад +3

      Yea they got to have their facts 💯.before starting on me or mine,..once an adult started on my son ,I gave him a lovely right hook on the chin,. No fear in me when need be,l.o.l
      😂😂😂

    • @TheDarkness1
      @TheDarkness1 3 года назад +3

      @@flowerpower4944 😂😂 Gotta keep that pimp hand strong.

    • @MariaA7867
      @MariaA7867 3 года назад +1

      😂😂

    • @PD-qu8dq
      @PD-qu8dq 3 года назад +1

      😂🤣

    • @willthegrete4276
      @willthegrete4276 2 года назад

      Credible hulk is one of the greatest things I've ever heard! 🤔

  • @Gadreel.
    @Gadreel. 2 года назад +3

    i am an INFJ and i am full of negativity, and yet i embraced those negativity within me.

  • @sojourneroftheland
    @sojourneroftheland 3 года назад +18

    I find I crush peoples pride alot without even knowing it. Something about maybe what i say or how i say or in me just "being" that accidentally hits peoples pain point. I dont do it on purpose but when i do it the response is unmistakable. I always feel bad, but then think well maybe its an insecurity they need to just deal with anyway...only thing is I didnt really want to be their unintentional teacher. Edit: I realize this doesnt have much to do with the video but still sharing my observations with fellow infj's :)

    • @sunset9729
      @sunset9729 3 года назад

      How's going.
      Winter is gone here now.
      Been hot.
      In the upper 90s
      Close to 100 for the last3 weeks
      Hope all is well with you. 😁

    • @sojourneroftheland
      @sojourneroftheland 3 года назад

      @@sunset9729 Hey Thunderstorm! Its all good over here. Wow you have it hotter than me 😂🤣...its only a measly 96 out today :) Hope youre keeping cool. And thanks for reaching out, much appreciated 🙂

    • @redefinedliving5974
      @redefinedliving5974 3 года назад +2

      wow. no truer words have been spoken. i don't have intentions of changing people but i do it anyways because being honest is one of my most important values.

    • @PD-qu8dq
      @PD-qu8dq 3 года назад +2

      Because you are an Authentic person and Authenticity Rubs fake people the wrong way.

  • @fredworthmn
    @fredworthmn 3 года назад +3

    I could probably write a theme paper on the subject of this video. But the INFJs would already know what I was saying and most others would be totally confused. The presenter made some excellent points!

  • @teniseholmes1498
    @teniseholmes1498 3 года назад +4

    This is me all the way. I had to snap on a narcissist that thought he could get away with down talking me and demanding things. I just meet this dude two weeks ago and he act like we been in a bitter marriage for 30 plus years and the thrill was gone. I've feed him 3 times and yesterday I couldn't even ask him to buy me something to eat without being told NO in so many ways. Then he showed up uninvited with food just for him. Told me I never asked him to buy me anything to eat. So I snapped. He was in and out my house in less then 5 minutes. As an Empath I tried, his loss.

  • @serban2139
    @serban2139 3 года назад +8

    They never learn...do they?

  • @dimpledimple5545
    @dimpledimple5545 3 года назад +15

    Oftentimes, some people or things are just not worth caring for. There are times when I feel stressed crossing points with someone, I end up deleting my comments and not reply at all. Some people see this as passive-aggressive or that they won the argument. But for me, it's simply - you're not worth any second anymore. I then remind myself that I don't have to even deal with these kinds of things. What's in it for me? You do you. Let's mind our own business.

    • @kababudas4157
      @kababudas4157 3 года назад +1

      Person with highly introverted should know about the famous words of sree Buddha ( light of Asia ) 2500 years ago sree Buddha had said that we can change even a brilliant person ( and normal peoples ) but we can't never change a fool , if you trying this he or she will become your enemy , so take samples from different angles in the world not only in America don't forget that Sindhu river civilisation was ( and today ) one of the most powerful civilisation in the world

    • @vhayashi7369
      @vhayashi7369 3 года назад +1

      Yessss!!! Good for you! You'll like Evy Pompouras she does the same thing! It's n out worth your time or energy because it's wasted on negative crap that doesn't accomplish anything! 🙌 No contact is best with toxic people.

  • @manud1987
    @manud1987 3 года назад +8

    As an INFJ, I know i have the capability of being extremely savage.. however, i bare it inside me because i know if i truly release my anger it might become intolerable to the opposite party 😅

  • @pranavpatil4789
    @pranavpatil4789 3 года назад +8

    Infj = spiritual

  • @sikoina
    @sikoina 3 года назад +6

    At work my supervisors calls me a pushover, always wanting to help people whenever I can and is just all smiles. Recently though I had enough with them and another coworker I started being sarcastic, just a little, but they said I'm being rude. Oh they don''t know how rude I can get c:

  • @nelsonvargas2367
    @nelsonvargas2367 3 года назад +7

    Just when people think they figured me out , i derail them .

  • @glynnburchett5554
    @glynnburchett5554 3 года назад +2

    Beware the dog who does not bark, and the person who does not talk

  • @nelsonvargas2367
    @nelsonvargas2367 3 года назад +8

    I'm an introvert . I'm an empath . And I love it .

  • @marizabarnes
    @marizabarnes 3 года назад +19

    Accurate as always. 👌🏼
    Love to all INFJs ❤️

  • @jannawalters232
    @jannawalters232 2 года назад +2

    I've lashed out when there was a ridiculous lie about me. The person never admitted the lie about me. And I told her I'd never admit to her accusation about me. She totally ignored that.

  • @SekhmetSecretWeapon
    @SekhmetSecretWeapon 3 года назад +2

    that is so spot on, I cant believe it!
    thanks

  • @flypapertrap
    @flypapertrap 2 года назад +3

    I'd rather make friends than enemies. Life is tough enough on person.

  • @infj-tguy6275
    @infj-tguy6275 3 года назад +6

    Just remember ppl, those toxic ppl n their negativity attract evil spirits n demons, that's possibly why they're so negative n toxic so there's another wonderful reason to push em away

  • @muhammadiqmal3679
    @muhammadiqmal3679 3 года назад +3

    as an ENTP that closed with an INFJ friend I could say, the most extreme thing is they disappeared without warning and trace because of something that I also don't understand. I heard that someone told her that I don't like her being in this place when the truth is it was the opposite. It's 100% jealousy from my colleague seeing us together and she just gone because of that false news.

  • @cf6282
    @cf6282 2 года назад +1

    I am an INFJ for sure. I won’t forget the people that do me wrong. I may not even recognize that they did in the first place. But if so…well so be it. I do not lash out…it is of no use..it is a waste of energy. But when I run into them again which does happen…I will know what to do. Stonewall them..others will learn what their weaknesses are and how they operate. Maybe they learn..maybe not..it is not my problem.

  • @M.F.V01
    @M.F.V01 3 года назад +2

    I never compete with anyone.
    I only compete with being better than what I was yesterday.

  • @me.i_0vrokma398
    @me.i_0vrokma398 3 года назад +9

    "Whatever 😒"
    My reaction to insult,provok, humiliation etc
    "👁️👁️"
    My reaction when something cross the line *you know what's after that*
    My reaction when i fight with mom
    "💥🤡😤😠🤪🤯😫☠️👺". I'm crazy 😅

  • @laurentverpeaux2281
    @laurentverpeaux2281 2 года назад +1

    Let s keep changing the world until our last breath sisters/brothers - love to all keep your cool....play your arts

  • @agapelove1111
    @agapelove1111 3 года назад +20

    This is totally me! Do not tread on me! I can turn off my emotions when someone treads on me long enough. After that, the door is closed and it never reopens, unless I am wrong. That hasn’t happened yet, but I am open to the possibility...
    I actually try not to crush anyone’s self esteem because it goes against my morals. However, if I am provoked long enough, I can cut a person down to size but quick wit and no mercy. This is specifically reserved for Narcissists, Psychopaths, Sociopaths and the like. I would never cut down a helpless person without serious provocation. Hurt my kids and someone I love, and you are so f_cked!

    • @tashasmith2245
      @tashasmith2245 3 года назад

      Your story is mine.

    • @lanikiamccloud4227
      @lanikiamccloud4227 3 года назад

      @@tashasmith2245 Same here!

    • @jazminesnide3493
      @jazminesnide3493 3 года назад

      Same... ibe been "closing the door" my whole life and only found that I was INFJ a couple years ago and so much more makes sense to me now. No one in my life understands that when I say if this doesn't stop I will be done with you that I actually mean done.

    • @janemwanu6228
      @janemwanu6228 3 года назад

      This is me

    • @icalotdonthide2646
      @icalotdonthide2646 3 года назад

      It feels great knowing there are more of us out here. 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @alvaroschudeck957
    @alvaroschudeck957 3 года назад +9

    Must add, sometimes we have a Hulk inside, and spent a lot of effort keeping him calm, so when someone bothers us a lot, we just release it, and can be, a totally poison, insidius, and very accurate comment of the mind, body and personality of the Other, or just a furius fisical atack. Then, when calm returns, we start to guilt ourself for being too agressive, but the damage is done and the other just saw our dark side and will never forget that.

  • @joan_007
    @joan_007 3 года назад +3

    4:18
    We never GET RID of anyone.
    Rather, we may just keep them at ARM'S LENGTH. That is, avoid or prevent closeness with such person.

    • @jazminesnide3493
      @jazminesnide3493 3 года назад +3

      I've closed the door on many toxic relationships including most of my family. But I would say they got told then put at arms length and warned again before I shut the door. I guess it just depends how much that person is a negative factor in our lives.

  • @ajjajk
    @ajjajk 3 года назад +7

    This video is on point ..!!! 100 % accurate.

  • @imlearningtoo74
    @imlearningtoo74 3 года назад +12

    Woooow....who are you brother? Very precise. I see a pattern. Infj-sigma-heyoka?

    • @SnookyDre
      @SnookyDre 3 года назад +1

      The man gotta be a CIA agent 😂 using MK Ultra or something. Ain't no way a normal INFJ giving up our thoughts and patterns.

    • @imlearningtoo74
      @imlearningtoo74 3 года назад +1

      @@SnookyDre lmao

  • @KM-yw2yb
    @KM-yw2yb 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for investing the time to put this together. It makes a difference 🙏

  • @stevenwilgus5422
    @stevenwilgus5422 9 месяцев назад

    Havin experienced the phenomenon of "being tested" I can attest to the consequence. IT JUST REALLY PISSES ME OFF! No good comes from people who can not begin to grasp, that we don't reveal what we are because they utterly lack any capacity to understand.

  • @demonsynth
    @demonsynth 3 года назад +5

    I will never again give myself permission to act without restraint. What others can't see shouldn't be held against them, otherwise they'll just wish to remain blind.

    • @armedgunman8988
      @armedgunman8988 3 года назад

      Nope. Deep down they want to see it. They just avoid it. Last guy who tested me, I stripped him down and brought him around town for others to see.

    • @demonsynth
      @demonsynth 3 года назад

      @@armedgunman8988 What point does that serve?

  • @lindavalentin5582
    @lindavalentin5582 Год назад

    EXCELLENT TAKE ON THE SUBJECT!!!
    I’m an INFJ and TOTALLY AGREE 💯%

  • @brianmoser3947
    @brianmoser3947 Месяц назад +1

    Vengeance is mine saith The Lord and nobody does it better!!!😂

  • @91GT347
    @91GT347 2 года назад +2

    Omg I hate it and it happens constantly. They even believe you don’t know they’re doing it. I’ve started failing their test on purpose. Then call them on it later.lol
    The reaction to provocation depends on the subject matter. Usually one extreme or the other.

  • @rada288
    @rada288 3 года назад +3

    Surprisingly accurate and inspiring ! Thank you !

  • @melmafds964
    @melmafds964 3 года назад +1

    whatever a person's personality is, there is nothing more dangerous than a wise and observative person who can portray being dumb or a loser just to let others celebrating their victory

    • @PersianAshley
      @PersianAshley Год назад

      Their victory is my victory. I just realized that they are a family❤

    • @PersianAshley
      @PersianAshley Год назад

      But I also don't understand why they keep on breaking or testing me when in fact,they knew my skills and capabilities even from the start.❤😂🎉

  • @bluefamily3937
    @bluefamily3937 2 года назад +1

    On point!! My ex-husband still thinks he won!! Lol!!!! He gave me a gift!!

  • @v-buckschan111
    @v-buckschan111 3 года назад +20

    Bruh infj are just like , 2 whole opposite worlds conjoined xD

    • @jazminesnide3493
      @jazminesnide3493 3 года назад +2

      Its really difficult when you actually sit down and try to sort through your shit. And trying to talk to anyone is pretty much useless because they don't follow, let alone understand.

    • @KSM-mu3xx
      @KSM-mu3xx 3 года назад

      I don’t even know why I feel the way I feel or what I even feel so yeah that’s true

  • @moubhattacharyay6891
    @moubhattacharyay6891 2 года назад +2

    Nvr Try to Test The Water How Much Is DEEP... If U Don't Know,"How To Swim"!

  • @jesseozuna2769
    @jesseozuna2769 3 года назад +1

    On point haha, and it’s funny too cause I apologize while I’m making a person feel like shit. But that is when they challenge me and try making me feel like shit.

  • @jamaalhorton2343
    @jamaalhorton2343 3 года назад +1

    This is one of the most accurate thing I seen on this!!

  • @nensijurkovic3173
    @nensijurkovic3173 3 года назад

    1. Who will expect ordinary looking person to hit bull's eye?...
    2. They are never participating in unhealthy competition humans have created just to prove their value...
    3. Those who constantly try to test their abilities and patience are the most toxic people...
    4. People may also be questioning an INFJ stand while underestimating their reasoning skills.... - this one hits especially hard, have some issues at my workplace with some coworkers bacause of it...
    5. Controling anger because it's waste of time and energy...
    6... Everything else in this video..
    7. Why do I/ we resonate with your videos so much...??

  • @anthonydied8697
    @anthonydied8697 3 года назад +1

    I can not loose this battle, because I will die. I have chosen this fate to prove how serious my Plight really is..

  • @abdelrahim5184
    @abdelrahim5184 8 месяцев назад

    " seek and ye shall find, ask and it shall be given, knock and the door shall be opened "

  • @jerrodlopes186
    @jerrodlopes186 3 года назад +2

    Don't let this all go to your head my fellow INFJs.

  • @_JESUS_REIGNS_
    @_JESUS_REIGNS_ 3 года назад +5

    Facts! 💯 "Mess with the Bull, you get the horns" #Taurus #INFJ #Heyoka #Sigma #Empath

  • @Wau12345
    @Wau12345 3 года назад +3

    They are always jealous off me. I enjoy. For I know what I can do. God bless you for your response. 😊😇😇🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @worldssickestmedia2713
    @worldssickestmedia2713 3 года назад +2

    I spend a large portion of my life pondering why people give AF about a lot of things that in society it's normal to give AF about. What you "can do" and what you "can't do" is really all that matters. And most times being fanatic is dumb. Especially if it's about something you can't even do yourself.

  • @Elfdustify
    @Elfdustify 3 года назад +1

    This is so spot on!

  • @ericwhalen7400
    @ericwhalen7400 3 года назад +1

    Your right I am ordinary looking I am astonished how so many people say I am the most handsome man in existence I think that is a bit unrealistic but it baffles me how so many people worship my looks I appreciate your honesty my mom said I am not that great looking either crazy world

  • @stevenwilgus5422
    @stevenwilgus5422 3 месяца назад

    It's good to make the point known.
    I am aware. When I sleep, I cross dimensions with full lucidity.
    My simple truth--
    Upon the Stage, Behind the Scene, Constant and changing.

    • @Wellch
      @Wellch 4 дня назад

      I just can’t lucid dream as an INFP..but I decided not to worry about it.

  • @kababudas4157
    @kababudas4157 3 года назад +10

    Our goal is important because goal is above than present knowledge and negative peaple's conclusion