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how did you guys come to the conclusion that infjs r sigma like? is just the overall traits of that person (INFJ) personality that make them similar to the sigma model?
The thing is the more idiotic the narc is which is wide spread and absolute it is very easy, most healthy children are more complicated than these adults
They lack a strong sense of a core self. They wear masks and hide their true intentions. So if you can see that it should be easy to understand why they don't like that and feel very threatened by that. Best to not fight but kill em with kindness. Those fukers never give up and I gotta pick my battles wisely
All the Narccisists I've known and know and Deal with now, seem to Hate me. This info. helped me see why. While they're building up their Lies and Drama's, I'm in the background seeing and knowing what's being planned. When their One Sided Explosion happens, I've already made sure WHEN it Happens. All 'Their' People watch them Stunned and watch me Cooler than a Cucumber on Antarctic Ice. Yeah, their Shit slinging can Hurt. Do I need to let people know that? Nope, Cuz I'm already over it as their Antics have already brought Shame upon themselves!
@@nikhiltrivedi2963 plus, Narcissists have problems too. Shaped by their environment or past life. They have a gift in control and discipline, and organizing, but they use it for their own self-gain. Or misfortune of others.
This explains a lot. Every narcissist I've dealt with in my work life and personal life, I've seen as an arch-enemy. Now I see that it's because our personality types indeed are natural enemies.
I'm currently destroying a narcissist's ego and I've almost taken all of her fame and friends. I did that cause she seemed to be jealous of me. And every exam day she would sit beside me and ask me questions like she was testing me or sm. I've literally surpassed the fucking heck of her. I can't stand when people refer to her as a topper. Now everyone in her friend circle are my friends first and I can see them referring to me as the better one. 😗..kinda feeling bas for her..
Same. For long time I was thinking that something was wrong with me. Why I antagonize that kind of people just by existing in their space? Now I feel better. It's just the way it is.
All my life being a magnet to narcissists. I learned the hard way. Nowadays I smell them 100 miles away. What I do? Ignore them completely! Not sensitive to their multiple schemes anymore.
Narcissists hate SIGMA INFJ because we don't give a F on their dramas and toxicity. We simply ignored and laughed at them. They hate it so much and it ruins their moods. Another thing, they were jealous of things we achieved and have even for some copy us but failed.
I wouldn't say we're bullet proof, we do get hurt. But we can access a situation and move on quickly. If you're truly sigma you won't waste much time with a narcissistic person once your aware.
INFJ-A here, I learned about narcissists the hard way, I married one, the covert variety. I freed myself and divorced her after 11 years of suffering. I see them a mile away now and can't stand them.
@@fitgoatee3336 Yeah man, enjoy your life now that the bars are broken. I just found the most awesome sweetest girl recently too. Man what a difference. The good ones are out there but man are they rare! Good luck my fellow survivor!
@@lukelim5094 Yes Luke, there is hope. If you have one in your life (narcissist) make plans to liberate yourself. There's good women out there but you'll have a hell of a time finding western women that are. Plan carefully if you are exiting a narcissist and best wishes.
@@grimlockarts8386 thanks for your words man. I got cheated by my ex fiancee. And i film wedding in Singapore. So it had been super hard for me mentally till now. I tried dating apps for a year and i am so bloody sick of it. She left me for a "richer and stable" guy. We are chinese btw. But she is as poisoned and vain by the materialistic side of the world to satisfied her ego in this globalized world. It is not even western viewpoint but that ego and blind pursuit of a certain "lifestyle". It really disgusts me. But yes Singapore is quite westernized. I am hurting even now. So to see people walk out of it and have your words really means a lot. Thank you and i hope all the best to you. I am trying to have hope.
I grew up among narcissists and sociopaths when I realized at the age of 30 that they had conditioned me to dependence all my life. Through I broke the condition, my path began from INFJ-T to INFJ-A & finally to an INFJ-A Sigma (32 today) , today I live my own life without dysfunctional relationships. It was the hardest but also the best decision of my life. Believe in yourself and no one can steal your freedom and your love. You are worthy of getting back the love that you give so unconditionally to all those around you. You deserve the best because you represent the best of humanity. I love you INFJ
I am a narcissist hunter. I smell them and their empty souls. There's a part of me that wants to pray for them. The rest of me was built to reduce them to dust. I don't enjoy crushing people, but I must admit that it feels rewarding to do so to a sociopath.
Narcissists often suffer from a core wound experienced during childhood. This traumatic injury leaves them in a permanent existential crisis. They seek validation because they live in terror of being invalidated. They do not exist as individuals but only as reflections in the eyes of others. They must be worshipped because anything less brings on their rage for having been devalued. They are very easy to spot because of their anger at being ignored. (devalued). They are very dangerous to people who are naturally protective and caring because the person will sense the need and try to supply it. They become the drug supplier to an addict (Narc) who will destroy the supplier if they do not give and give yet at the same time they are always on the look out for a new supplier and will cast away the previous supplier unless that is all that is available to them. A sigma INFJ does have the protection of being a solitary animal IF they themselves are not wounded in such a way that they try to "Fix People"
My older brother is a narcissist, he hates me and avoid me at all cost. Yeah, they fear us but make no mistake, it's better for us avoid them too, there's no victory in there. A long relationship with a narcissist can escalate sometimes and it's just mutual loses. Take care of yourself!
You are right. I have two Narcissistic brothers they hate me and family alway pretend they don't see what they doing to me and they fear them and made me scapegoat because I was taking care og the family and love them. Now I have no contact grom the whole family because I am working on a big dream and they don't want to grow so I said goodbye and continued it's hard but I have grieved them finish. Good luck to us all.
There are narcissists in my family as well. Lots of them, I'm highly misunderstood within my family because I am fiercely independent and distant. And it hurts because these are people I love but don't like. People need me more than I need them and this is a hard pill for some to swallow.
Same. Younger brother. I'm 63, he's 58. I moved in with him and my mom, to basically take care of her. I had no idea how troubled my brother was and is. He absolutely hates me. And I have realized that it's because I see him. And he doesn't like it.
The funny thing is, when a narcissist or covert narcissist tries to manipulate me, I just play along to see how far they will go, every time they tried to backstab me it always backfires and crush their ego. This is the only way we can transform them is little by little humiliating them, so they can face the truth of their self. If INFJ was a zodiac it’ll be the Scorpio star sign.
The Scorpio astrology reference is about the dark side of the Scorpio’s reputation... the pinchers and venomous stinger in their nature. The MBTI is scientific and like psychology and all of science a work in progress... where as astrological interpretation is ancient esoteric with hidden meanings and lost interpretations falling just shy of occultism. The science of today was the forbidden sorcery of the ancient world. Just as all occultism is in fact the starting point of today’s science. What people believe is real to them... so the level to which they accept and embrace their nature and the influences of information and cultural influences creates a psychological perspective to the individuals who subscribe to any particular beliefs. The ratio of outcome to projections creates a pattern of interactions and activities... the mind is strong, the body is weak, the universe is unlimited from our minuscule perspective and yet everything is connected to everything and we are children of the universe... so astrology is a ancient remnant of methodology that attempts to describe the individuals in relation to the larger universe and create a comfortable understanding between scales of interactions... giving the individual practitioner a comfortable range of expectations and understanding. With a measure of related accuracy based upon a statistical probability disguised as astronomical trends... using the actual astronomical data of the heavens as a divination construct. Thusly it’s adherents find value, usefulness and comfort within the belief system. It’s detractors embrace skepticism and use misrepresentation to construct scientific evidence arguments against it without applying the psychological emotional psyche to the situation nor the mathematical statistical probabilities to the range of situations possible and thus not perceiving why certain individuals like using the system and social connections it creates and provides. Dividing populations into smaller groups creates interpretations and opportunities for grasping at selected aspects... both favorable and unfavorable... which is why participants find value in Astrology. Just as naysayers and skeptics find similar situations by creating their groups based on their beliefs. In this way cultural psychological intellectual societies are typically formed around beliefs and belief systems... which creates the political cultural outcomes of religions, cults and other such phenomenon. It’s all healthy human behavior when it’s healthy and non exploitative... and subject to irrational behavior when people allow their emotional connections and reactions to become unstable and extreme... or when they are manipulated by narcissistic individuals or sociopaths who use any available systems and situations to facilitate exploitation. which is a human behavior phenomena pattern unrelated to the associated belief system... and the psychological qualities of the individual or individuals involved. This is just my opinion. I studied Astrology expecting that the passage of the seasons in the Northern Hemisphere created some kind of influence on the individuals development which created the patterns of behavioral patterns... but discovered that individuals who embrace certain aspects gain those aspects... and that people who are projecting expectations... see what they expect to see most of the time. With some variations because people can only interpret their understanding not the actual events and consequences which again simply fits with the statistical patterns of abject reality but projector perceives their projections most of the time. LOL... Sigma INFJ drawn into the conversation. Trying to provide accurate translations for all parties in order to facilitate greater understanding. PONTIFEX MAXIMUS
With the last narcissist I dated, out of the blue, when I thought everything was okay, he ghosted with no explanation. When he finally gave me crumbs of an explanation, by text only, he said that I’m too intuitive and insightful for him and he’s terrified to speak to/face me. I suspected I wasn’t the only lady in his life romantically, apparently I was right.
I'd consider myself an ESTP narcissist, but with my INFJ friend I'm totally different, he makes me agree with him that I'm wrong and I never do this in front of anyone but him. I've always been wondering how my INFJ friend makes me feel so comfortable about my failures. Now I understand more.
Im an infj and my husband is an ISTP Narc and I did the same with him. To me it was about understanding him not necessarily judging him. I genuinely wanted to know why he did the things he did..And then we'd go from there...and he would from time to time admit the wrong doing
That's wonderful. I'm do happy for you. I am an infj and my estp friend refuses to listen to anything I say. He is trying to break me and I won't let him. Soon I will slam the door, I hpe he realizes my worth before then. Once I am done, I am done
I'm an INFJ-A, yes sometimes I just kept my own judgements on what I see to others because I dont want to hurt their precious pure heart.... But, whenever they are so spoiled, I'll just use my actions and gestures to make see themselves on how they spoiled and irritating are ..............
@@mikebar42 Ni (introvert intuition) Fe (Extraverted feeling) Ti (introverted thinking) Se (extraverted sensing) those are the top 4 cognitive functions of INFJs. Also the INFJ is one of 16 Myers Briggs personality types
Very accurate, whenever I meet a narcissist who's feared by everyone in their circle, I challenge them, they try to manipulate me in many ways, but I refuse to go along with their games, and I do all I can to prove them wrong, this gets every victim the narcissist gathered to rebel on them, because my inner leader gets me to give people power to rebel against all injustice, this makes the narcissist give up and run for their dear life and cut all connections with me.
I am a Sigma INFJ....I survived a relationship with a horrendous narcissist. I walked away with very little mental damage, whereas he called me his Karma...
It is impossible to "take the bait." As an older person, I have decades of self awareness. I've grown through intense pain from earlier in life and a silly narcissist is a mere fool that must be contained. By which, I mean dismissed out of hand.
Sadly, I recently had a 3 1/2 years battle with a Covert Narcissist (an actual true narcissist). At the time, I didn’t know he is a Covert Narcissist. In fact, I’d never heard of such until I discovered it thru ‘RUclips’ videos but, I had already driven him out of my neighborhood. You’re correct.., the physical and mental damage I’ve sustained from dealing with that POS was/is unnecessary! However, he awaken something in me that HE COULDN’T handle, either!! Hence, he moved away!!!
I have. My older brother is one of the worst you will ever see. I was forced to grow up with him and he bullied me for years. Now I prove to him in nearly every conversation that my mind is, and always has been, FAR ahead of his pathetic egotestical bullshit. In the 5th grade, I was reading at a level he didn't get to until he was well past 20. He's average intelligence. My IQ is well over 160 and he hates it lol. He's a douche.
@@luistorres6956, I agree. ‘RUclips’ is a great source for information. Depending on what one is searching. However, there are narcissists working here at ‘RUclips’ as well. Many of these “workers” will delete or hide/bury people’s posts, if THEY don’t agree with them. I’ve been targeted by these narcissistic, Political Hack “workers” for my disapproval of Trump. If you make too many factual points, while having a ton of ‘Common Sense’, they’ll bury your posts, delete or, limit the number of viewers to see them. It’s THESE types of “workers” here at ‘RUclips’ that gives this place an unsettling taste in one’s mouth.
I simply call this shutting the Narc down! Yep, I see right thru you. I'd rather be alone than deal with a wolf in sheep's clothing. Simple minded, think you can get over on me, why? Because your lacking common sense. Not here to play games or appease someone else. Will I ever find true love outside of myself? Only if he is a self aware Infj, who respects peace and freedom for us to mutually be ourselves. Good topic! Namaste!
I agree with EVERYTHING you’ve stated....., except one. A narcissist isn’t a “wolf in sheep’s clothing.” You’re giving them too much clout. Narcissists are COWARDS that PRETENDS to be strong!! They’re also DUMB! People confuse their vile, scheming behavior for “smarts.” However.., they’re simply vile and scheming narcissists. That’s all..., NOTHING more.
@@nernatbentley3778 The reality is, a narcissist is a sheep in wolf's clothing. They pretend to be powerful and strong but all they do is manipulate and weave lies, they are weak and thrive off of other's attention and followers. Like a sybiotic virus version of the beta trying to copy the alpha. Which is why you become their arch enemy if you show that they can't control you, if you oppose them and try to get people to see who they really are they feel attacked and attempt to defend themself the only way they know how, that's right. More manipulation. Honestly I feel sorry for them, it's such a pathetic mental style and is so easy to take down. I faced off against a narcissist in high school who tried to pretend to be friendly, no-one else liked him but at the time I was blind and alone so he began trying to indocrinate me, but I think he could tell it wasn't working and then one day a year or two later it just clicked, and he immediately got aggresive towards me. Now I'm not a strong guy so I couldn't defend myself from his phsyical abuse but needless to say I had an ace up my sleeve. I always seem to attract older authority members who either hate me or think I'm completely innocent and one of those was my head of year, so I just told her and she seemed completely convinced he was fine too, but she probably just didn't see it. Instead of doorslamming like I ended up doing to him I might've attempted shutting him down but at the time I had no self confidence and could not make speeches of any kind around people. I'd have exposed his false persona and how I only ever followed him around because I was on my own. I spent the rest of my school years basically a lone wolf, hanging out with the students who didn't fit in, I've always been best alone. Now I'm much more self assured but I just need to break down the barrier of forced "niceness" that I put up between me and the world. I'm never able to say what I truly mean in public because of this filter, so that's the next thing I'll work on. Remember, if you ever notice a narcissist (especially if they have a follower), either shut them down immediately or ignore them. Having learned from being a follower at one point I know how they attempt it, drawing you into their circle and their friend groups, exploiting your strengths for laziness or personal gain. And then throwing you away when you aren't useful anymore. Good luck everyone! :D
@@Ixarus6713, You are a very wise and self aware person. Not too many people are willing to admit to being submissive, whether it happened in the past or presently. Thanks, for sharing your story! I’ll be honest with you..., I felt as if I was reading a post written by the younger version of myself. In my youth, I could recognized certain people’s manipulation towards me but, like you, I didn’t know how to address them verbally or, behaviorally. However, now that I’m older (MUCH older ☺️), I handle people differently. I let them know when they’ve “crossed the line.” Remember this...., NEVER punish yourself for being “nice.” That’s your core nature! That’s ultimately the person you are. Just be mindful of the people you share yourself with. There are people out here worthy of your kindness. Truth be told, the World can benefit from it today. However..., cut people out of your life that seeks to abuse your kindness!! DO NOT hesitate doing so either! Trust your “Gut Instinct” (your Intuition). It’ll NEVER lie to you!! “Thoughts” can be confusing but, not your Intuition. Be well, my friend. 😎👍🏽
I've been married to a narcissist for 12 years and I'm an INFJ. I think I literally scare him sometimes with the amount of growth with every challenge that he presents. I told my counselor it's like a messed up dance of tango.
Lolol why does this tickle me so? Maybe it's because i secretly wish I could keep my favorite narc in this way. They do have their charm, don't they. :)
My ex is a narcissist. I didn’t know what Npd was. So I was very confused as to what was happening and kept trying to fix our relationship and help her problems. I knew when she was lying and it hurt a lot. When I finally realized the woman I fell in love with was just an act, when i discovered what NPD was, when she tried to tell me I’m not the person everyone else said I was, the person i know i am, I let everyone know who she is, how evil and manipulative she is. Then when she tried to comeback after leaving me I allowed her to come-over. This time I called her out she yelled and insulted and I screamed back this time I insulted her this time she hit me. I realized I knew from the beginning who she was but lied to myself. Things were different this time I couldn’t lie Anymore when I had her telling me lies about myself I knew i had beaten her at her own game and then I told her to get the fuck out of my life. I got out of that relationship confident in myself and knowing who I am and a broken rib. But I’m Alive, happy and never again will I lie to myself.
This my life story man.. except for the part where i did not let her come back for the revenge. Few months in and out of depression.. I played her game of silent treatment on her when she tried to come back and her fragile ego couldnt handle the humiliation.. But i knew it was coming.. i remember in the early days where i asked her to prove her love for me which was something i never asked anyone in my life to do which i knew was totally not me.. i was subconsciously seeing through her lies and even looking up on google why she was like that . I identified the obvious plot holes in her stories and scalled her out on it ., i ended up as a broken shell of a a man after breakup. But i recovered and came back much stronger than before. I don’t regret any of it though . I believe she was just God send for my personality growth and also so that I could know about NPD ans save anyone around me from these people in the future.
This sounds exactly what I went thru with my ex. Unfortunately he wasn't my first relationship with a Narcissist but he is the reason I became educated on what they are. I've had 2 significant relationships with Narcissists...and ppl wonder why I don't want to date
You have to be careful with narcissist's because they will fight to the death to protect their fragile ego. If you fight them, do it publicly, never fight them alone. If you get them mad enough, they tell on themselves then it is easier for the others that they've been puppeteering to see how messed up they are. You will have to end the fight by door slamming them out of your life, but you can nuke how everyone sees them before you do since they rely on manipulating a crowd.
I feel a little sociopathic the way I like to observe narcissists, like a bug under a magnifying glass. I do pity them though, when you look at the wounded insecure inner-self it's very sad, and I wish I could help them just get over "it" an be well.
You're not alone there lol - lived with a narcissist for 8 months and felt like I became a scientist observing a facsimile of humanity that never quite managed to pull it off. It's weirdly fascinating and pathetic at the same time.
@@jessyyssej608 Yes because part of me has a detached interest in observing the tactics. Not sure if you're familiar with MBTI personality type system for myself as an INFJ we are sometimes inordinately effected by others.
@@savagewaifu4694 🤣😂 Perspective. I dont think confidence is common in the times we live in and it's a bunch of pusillanimous people on the internet typing random opinions at everyone else for reactions. I can see where one would say an INFJ would be full of themselves and I can also see where that angle of arrogance is just from a mindset of someone who cant relate and takes it the wrong way....
That would explain why I also feel as if I'm always attracting these sorts of people into my life, whether by just being casual acquaintances or momentary lovers or crossing paths with strangers. There are also times where it seems like the world is practically crawling with that personality type. I wonder what the root of that behavior would be, if it's got to do with our society being so geared towards instant gratification and manipulation.
isn't that the way? Ironic, right? I attract women ( friends ) who are narcissistic, shallow, needy, and insecure. Also men with those flaws who want to dominate in a relationship. I am very even tempered and understanding so they get to take a lot of rope. Then they eventually reach the end and hang themselves with it. People like that mistake our ability to be disingaged for submissiveness, or weakness. But I'm not afraid to speak up about a serious wrong or offer counsel to a friend I see taking a misstep. That has ended up with the other being thrown completely off balance. The response is usually hostile. That is the end for me.
Spot on. I met a narcissist somewhat recently and I recognized it right away and knew exactly what game was on the table so I took on my role and started playing. I fed false information about myself to see him take the information to try to weaponize it against me. He followed the narc protocol and said omg I love that too and I stopped replying to 1. Give him time to research this new topic and 2. See the perfectly schedule emotional reaction of being ignored for even 5 minutes. I gave a lame excuse and we kept on with the game. He sent a selfie and said something vague that begged for a specific question as an opening to a rehearsed sob story - I didn't take the bait. He tried many times to get me to ask the question but I never did. My responses got slower and slower and he hated it but he was intrigued by me so he was careful to not break the very weak bond. He tried bragging which didn't work. He tried personal question which I deweaponized so he had to now improvise from his regular game strategy, and thats when I fed another false information and he thought it was the big lucky break he needed. The rest of the week I lead him down a dead end road of this false bonding and slow responses until the game had turned into him trying to self sacrifice his ego in an attempt to finally get behind my wall. In the end he couldn't take the embarrassment and just gave up and left me alone. Game Over. :)
Laughter also works wonders. Lately, whenever I've stood up for myself and been called a bitch or had worse said to me, I find the best response has been, "That's the best you've got? Get back to me when you come up with better material!" All narcissists can do is repeat themselves and look stupid. It also helps keep me, or anyone else facing this kind of drama for that matter, from sinking into anger or humiliation because we can still make ourselves laugh at someone's shenanigans and maintain our cool in the meantime.
The sad part is I end up trying to manipulate the narcissists to heal. They're people too. The scary thing is that I don't even know why I'm doing it. My behavior seems to be driven very much by my subconscious. I just wish I could focus that energy on myself instead. It would be a better life.
I also considered the same ... but use your time on better things ... change your mindset ... they consider you just a thing or an appliance ... and when an appliance stops working ... for example a dishwashing machine ... you throw it away and get another one ... or just wash the dishes yourself ... lol Thank them for teaching you an important lesson ... cut them totally out of your life and focus on loving yourself ... healing and growing
You're not alone in that, you know. I found that the continual reference to narcissists as "hollow monsters" throughout this video was rather bothersome, like even the worst assholes in the world must have some deeply rooted reason why they became the way they are.
I fell into this way of thinking also. When I found out what my ex was I quickly felt sympathy after my shock and sadness dissipated. Unrealistically I believed I could help him turn it all around. I had decided I'd stay and weather the storm. He had already moved on and shut me out completely. And it didn't hurt like it had in the beginning. It actually made me feel even more sympathetic for the wandering pointless monotonous conveyer belt life he is compelled to live.
Once the sigma is matured, it is impossible to make a real relationship with a narcissist. The closest they can get are just accomplises in society. The door is slammed on them early. This video actually gave a good reason for my typical reaction toward my abusive family member that caused me pain all life. The years passed, now I can even deflect him by manipulation. Figured out my personality recently and it massively widened my perspectives on psychology, now the skills are significantly sharpened. I still respect people, but can easily tell apart ill intentions.
I'm an INFJ and I've always seen people licking narcissist's shoes but I've a very small friend group. I prefer real and pure people in my company rather than chasing self obsessed fools. I always become alone bc the narcissists leave me for the shoe lickers most of the times
My whole family are narcissistic, I grew up thinking terrible things were the way was supposed to be. I unfortunately have a layer of narcism that I been trying to unlearn since the day I realized that some of my actions weren't right. I wish I learned to unlearn sooner because my narc fam has been using my weaknesses against me.
Call on Jesus Christ. I was feeling shame from my family and I called on God and he took the feeling away that instant. He is healing me and can heal you too.
I don't like an idea that INFJ should manipulate narcissist, or that we are better in that then they are. I am just being me, I can see " through" people, but I do not manipulate people. I can/might use that "knowledge" when boundaries have been crossed several times..It's not my intention, I am not trying to be evil person and I don't want to be and I am not. And if I do that, I don't feel better, or empowered or satisfied like maybe they can feel. After all I feel sorry for narcissist not because of their behaviour, or defending them, but because they are wounded and traumatized soul...and it's reflecting on their spirit, mind, behaviour that is affecting other people...And they are not aware of that, and never will and most of them will never/can't heal.. Because it's too deep and complex thing. ..
Sometimes exposing them a little bit is exactly what The narc needs for growth. Self examination. They may always be a narc but it's important not to walk on eggshells around them. It's not serious just another narc . How will this one try to manipulate me?
Narcissist are just cupcakes ready to be stomped at a moments notice. I prefer to play with them like a gentle mouse. I feel bad for them, but would they feel the same for me? You either stand for your boundaries, or you will fall for any trap in life. An INFJ^^
You see I hate that for you. Do not feel sorry for them, many of them know their behaviour is trash but refuse to change. You don’t feel sorry for that. Doesn’t mean you should be overjoyed to put them in their place when need arises but don’t you dare feel bad for slapping someone back after they’ve slapped you multiple times. Idk where we got the idea of ALWAYS being the bigger person but the reason people get like this in the first place is because no one taught their asshole parent a lesson. If they’d done that it is far less likely they’d have raised a narc.
I don't know about you I am talking about agressive and pure evil narcisst. Not some female narcistic coworker or teenager or little old granny being mean ... Report to authorities.... No need to involve myself if someone is crazy and dangerous...
I do agree with almost everything you say but even the most pawerful infj have they wounds and weaknesses and narcissist are very good at spotting them!!!! 🍀
No wonder it seems like I'm always running into narcissists, or developing an obsession with those I identify as psychic vampires. Either they must be everywhere, or it's because more people are developing narcissistic personality types as a result of technology or social media. Perhaps it's my ego or shadow that compels me to lash out at these folks, while my "higher self" urges me to ignore them and not give in to their drama. I've also learned that laughing at someone, not getting angry or lashing out at them, is one hell of a great way to shut down any asshole who starts shit with me. Even when they call me a bitch or anything more vulgar, I've been saying "That's the best you've got? Get back to me when you've got better material!"
I now realize why I am avoided by those with narky vibes. Well, they try to trick me initially as they would other empaths and realize it does not work so they back off. It could be very subtle that I realize the person projecting a false grandeur of self which is repulsive to me. Little do they know, I'd respect open insecurity over narky projection. Even if it is covert! I also know it is best for me to avoid them or limit my interaction at all costs. Part of me wants to help them snap out of it but I refuse to waste my healing energy on someone is not wanting better for themselves.
This is Facts..💯...One I learned what a narc was I realized that my Free Spirit, Ability to.see right through people and and Blunt nature is an EXTREME clash with Narcs💯...I am a very kd soul but I READ ENERGY AND DONT DO DRAMA AND CANT BE CONTROLLED!...Yes I am THE Qu.een Of ignoring toxic people
I'm a INFJ. I married a narcissist. We've been together for 17 years. Her power is fading and she knows it. She's becoming desperate. Very unpredictable now. I'm moving all my assets from her grasp just incase this goes south while I'm at work. I'll use primal zodiac signs next time. They're spot on. I'm a Komodo Dragon. She's a Catfish. Keep me in your thoughts and prayers.
My x husband is a narcissistic man .and I'm infj. We used to go to war with each other. Thank God we Parted ways. The whole world has to only be about him his family his feelings.his wants and needs.if its about anyone else he won't want to care or hear about it
I work at a podiatry office with no medical background as a medical assistant.. basically first 1 1/2 years were a ship wreck. Straight up crying and going home miserable and anxious. But when I realized my own power as an INFJ and finally pre-diagnosed my boss/the doctor as narcissistic it made sense ! The doctor would straight up embarrass the f out of me in his office which everyone around can hear, plus in front of patients... he wouldn't teach us face to face. In the hallways though if we were to encounter each other he would tilt his head down and stray his eyes away. He was scared of my presence wherever I was. My eyes are wide open and although I did not do so well the first year and a half, recently the last couple months I've gained much knowledge and experience of how to work around this Narcissist. I know of his troubling pasts and ik of his insecurities. As a feeling type with a little experience I've seen past mean/toxic behavior now, and I want to raise him up even if he traumatized and hurt me as an employee. We are just people, and i don't condemn anyone for acting in a toxic manner. Hurt people, hurt people. I want everyone to win just as much as i want to.
All of the narcissists i know literally hate me because i call them out on their crap. i know my boundaries and i'm not allowing them to take energy from me that i can give to people who are actually genuine. i know i'm an infj by the way that one narcissist called me one to someone else and that person told me. i sat there thinking, am i?? so i did so much research to get to the bottom of it. i found out that i'm not a narc and the person who called me one actually is the narc. after i found this out, i saw them again and i asked them how im a narc. they said because i always think i'm right.. i had them look up the actual definition and they went silent and never talked to me again. lol it's because they didn't even know the actual meaning of the word and then they found out it was literally describing them lmao. I feel as though i definitely manipulate the narc subconsciously.. like i don't realize i'm doing it, but i just want them to see what they are actually doing and saying, so that they don't try to switch the narrative so they can become the victim, like they ALWAYS try to do!! they never see how their actions hurt people and i don't allow it. INFJ's are warriors and advocators. we stand up to narcs because it is our literal calling
Deeper the abyss,brighter the light. I’ve studied till I’m blue in the face. I’m not saying I know it all by any means. But studying sure opens up windows to the soul
I feel happy coming to this site after being emotionally and mentally abused from a covert narcissist husband . . Healing of the abused and becoming stronger for my son . Toxic and evil 👿 individuals . Evil disciples . I pray to God to keep away from me that kind of people . I will learn how to identify them now … the brother in law and the husband , I was surrounded by two vampires that were sucking my blood and making my life miserable .
Never laugh, behind a lie. We've tasted death & know mortality like an old friend. Honesty keeps you alive... Sobriety guards it. Keep your monster, on a leash. I might not be good for laughs and niceties. But you can be well assured I'll be there, hell or high water.
This Sigma INFJ type is really crazy. Am just realising my self. Even me watching this vdeo today is amazing cause today 29 of December 2021 at 00:50 am in Ghana, my age 24yrs won't evere happen again. Wish i can type more but we Are super heroes among men...
My test was always INTP but i can tell from experience that this is true. Had a guy working with me for years, he was telling almost impossible storys, made fun of people behind their backs and was the best friend when nobody else was around, switching personality instantly when someone else enters whom they want to attract in whatever way by downgrading others. I turned that around and opened peoples eyes because they were unable to see what was going on.
This is more of an intelligence level rather than a personality trait. For anyone could see all of the above you just have to be emotionally stable And have a certain level of intelligence.
Weird, ive had people in my life that I guess were narcissist and I made their lives hell. I try to avoid these people like the plague but if I do happen upon one accidently watch out.
I lived up to this to a point. I had know idea what a narcissist was or a Empath at the time. Dam I wish I can redo this in my life. But I’m happy that it’s over.
I had one at work.. started out nice..then taking small bites, confronted them, they tried to laugh it off. If they tried to order me around, I walked away without a word. If they tried to butter me up, I finally told him, " I don't like you..never have, never will. " ; That drove him crazy..he finally quit. He tried to talk to me on his last day leaving... without breaking stride, I said, " You're already forgotten. " The look on his face was priceless.
They can fall for it. I almost married a narcissist. Still love her, just too young to realize the game she was playing wasn't healthy. Unfortunately kids involved and had to make it last until they snapped. Narcissist made up a story and stuck to it trial after trial and dismissal in court after dismissal. In the end they accepted 50/50 custody and I haven't seen my boy in years due to that pettiness. Somehow. I feel lucky to be away. I did everything I could. More to keep them from jail time. Its difficult being INFJ. This video was my 5 year relationship. Too bad. Beautiful kid. Not a day goes by I don't think about him. Or her.
Wow you just described my mother down too a tea and not only that anyone who disagrees with her in any shape or form is the enermy and she will go out of her way too cause as much damage and chaos as possible
They also take INFJ as the challenge and a greatest food source ! Until the gig is up..then you see the fear. This is when the danger to both is at its worst.
I was diagnosed infj-t in1991 i have two older brothers that a narcissists. Never fell for it even as a very young kid. They hated be hanging around because i would call them out as i do with anyone. I have not seen ether one of them close to 30 years.
I'm between an INFJ and INFP and my gf's parents are very traditionalist narcissists. There is always an awkward feeling around them because they try their hardest to put on a good act and are completely disingenuous towards everyone. They have obviously mentally abused and manipulated their daughter which is really sad to see, but I think they know that I understand this and try to show even less of their genuine self to me as a response. They know that I know and that terrifies them. Me and my gf have been talking about getting married, but needless to say it is difficult to talk to them about it, let alone talk about it in their presence since they must see me as their enemy
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Can you possibly do a matchmaker Infj video of how the relationship would be between different Infj types?
Could you also add #SigmaINFJ or like #SigmaEmpath in title to link your vids?! 💖😇
Who in the world was the one person to dislike this video lol
@@kitsune1946 a Narc... 🙄🤣 Thats all they could do cuz they scurd.. lol
how did you guys come to the conclusion that infjs r sigma like? is just the overall traits of that person (INFJ) personality that make them similar to the sigma model?
Once a infj is woken up, it’s impossible to refall for the tricks and the curtain is forever opened
And the door slammed shut.
We see through everything. Everything.
Everything.
I am there.
Legit my dude. Once the bs and lies burn away.
I think why narcissists hate the infj is because infjs become mirrors, the scary part is that infjs reveal the monster in them.
The thing is the more idiotic the narc is which is wide spread and absolute it is very easy, most healthy children are more complicated than these adults
True talk
This
They lack a strong sense of a core self. They wear masks and hide their true intentions. So if you can see that it should be easy to understand why they don't like that and feel very threatened by that. Best to not fight but kill em with kindness. Those fukers never give up and I gotta pick my battles wisely
Literally how I felt about my ex narc
So in a nutshell: we can see right through the narcissists and call them out on their crap. They fear us because of that.
As they should 😊
@@JadeR246 Perfect name perfect reply♾
Yeah like the government.
All the Narccisists I've known and know and Deal with now, seem to Hate me. This info. helped me see why. While they're building up their Lies and Drama's, I'm in the background seeing and knowing what's being planned.
When their One Sided Explosion happens, I've already made sure WHEN it Happens. All 'Their' People watch them Stunned and watch me Cooler than a Cucumber on Antarctic Ice. Yeah, their Shit slinging can Hurt. Do I need to let people know that? Nope, Cuz I'm already over it as their Antics have already brought Shame upon themselves!
@@jeffreyreynolds4732 Yes, sounds familiar.
When someone can see beyond your mask, and into your soul, it is not wise to provoke them.
Nice one
We're Unicorn on happiness
Wolf while normal,
The Devil while provoked.
Been studying INFJs for a while. What happens when a narcissists ego is focused on how others view them? Vulnerable narcissism.
@@spocker22 they change their outer shell according to people's view. but deep inside they are the narcissist.
yep
@@nikhiltrivedi2963 thats an unhealthy INFJ or a mirroring INFJ testing people. Not all peronalities are perfect
@@nikhiltrivedi2963 plus, Narcissists have problems too. Shaped by their environment or past life. They have a gift in control and discipline, and organizing, but they use it for their own self-gain. Or misfortune of others.
This explains a lot. Every narcissist I've dealt with in my work life and personal life, I've seen as an arch-enemy. Now I see that it's because our personality types indeed are natural enemies.
I agree.
I'm currently destroying a narcissist's ego and I've almost taken all of her fame and friends. I did that cause she seemed to be jealous of me. And every exam day she would sit beside me and ask me questions like she was testing me or sm. I've literally surpassed the fucking heck of her. I can't stand when people refer to her as a topper. Now everyone in her friend circle are my friends first and I can see them referring to me as the better one. 😗..kinda feeling bas for her..
Same. For long time I was thinking that something was wrong with me. Why I antagonize that kind of people just by existing in their space? Now I feel better. It's just the way it is.
Except Narcissism isn't even a valuable personality type, its just a facade of lies. They lie to everyone, including themselves.
💯💯💯💯
I am empath and I am also an introvert . I let the narcissist destroy themselves without my help .
It's at the point there is no hope for them, they were always the issue, a fitting death
Yes, me too. Napoleon said: If your enemy is making a mistake, allow them to do it.
I fell victim to a narcissist that took me on for everything I had worked for. It triggered my awakening, now I am menace to their kind.
Identical situation for me, life is weird 😇
All my life being a magnet to narcissists. I learned the hard way. Nowadays I smell them 100 miles away. What I do? Ignore them completely! Not sensitive to their multiple schemes anymore.
Narcissists hate SIGMA INFJ because we don't give a F on their dramas and toxicity. We simply ignored and laughed at them. They hate it so much and it ruins their moods. Another thing, they were jealous of things we achieved and have even for some copy us but failed.
I wouldn't say we're bullet proof, we do get hurt. But we can access a situation and move on quickly. If you're truly sigma you won't waste much time with a narcissistic person once your aware.
True.. but Covert Narcissist can be detected a bit later on.. they stay under the radar.. but once confirmed, Game over for them
INFJ-A here, I learned about narcissists the hard way, I married one, the covert variety. I freed myself and divorced her after 11 years of suffering. I see them a mile away now and can't stand them.
I feel I was the one who wrote this comment! were exactly the same!
@@fitgoatee3336 Yeah man, enjoy your life now that the bars are broken. I just found the most awesome sweetest girl recently too. Man what a difference. The good ones are out there but man are they rare! Good luck my fellow survivor!
@@grimlockarts8386 you mean there is hope?
@@lukelim5094 Yes Luke, there is hope. If you have one in your life (narcissist) make plans to liberate yourself. There's good women out there but you'll have a hell of a time finding western women that are. Plan carefully if you are exiting a narcissist and best wishes.
@@grimlockarts8386 thanks for your words man. I got cheated by my ex fiancee. And i film wedding in Singapore. So it had been super hard for me mentally till now. I tried dating apps for a year and i am so bloody sick of it.
She left me for a "richer and stable" guy. We are chinese btw. But she is as poisoned and vain by the materialistic side of the world to satisfied her ego in this globalized world. It is not even western viewpoint but that ego and blind pursuit of a certain "lifestyle". It really disgusts me. But yes Singapore is quite westernized.
I am hurting even now. So to see people walk out of it and have your words really means a lot. Thank you and i hope all the best to you. I am trying to have hope.
"Sigma infj can manipulate them better." so true 🤣 I let ppl have their assumptions about me and their ulterior motives but im always 2-3 steps ahead
That's why some people see me cold not because I'm but because I don't want anything to do with you if you're faking so I'll stop caring.
Absolutly
Narcissists don't just see me as a threat, they see me as their enemy
I grew up among narcissists and sociopaths when I realized at the age of 30 that they had conditioned me to dependence all my life. Through I broke the condition, my path began from INFJ-T to INFJ-A & finally to an INFJ-A Sigma (32 today) , today I live my own life without dysfunctional relationships.
It was the hardest but also the best decision of my life.
Believe in yourself and no one can steal your freedom and your love. You are worthy of getting back the love that you give so unconditionally to all those around you.
You deserve the best because you represent the best of humanity. I love you INFJ
I am a narcissist hunter. I smell them and their empty souls. There's a part of me that wants to pray for them. The rest of me was built to reduce them to dust. I don't enjoy crushing people, but I must admit that it feels rewarding to do so to a sociopath.
Narcissists often suffer from a core wound experienced during childhood. This traumatic injury leaves them in a permanent existential crisis. They seek validation because they live in terror of being invalidated. They do not exist as individuals but only as reflections in the eyes of others. They must be worshipped because anything less brings on their rage for having been devalued. They are very easy to spot because of their anger at being ignored. (devalued). They are very dangerous to people who are naturally protective and caring because the person will sense the need and try to supply it. They become the drug supplier to an addict (Narc) who will destroy the supplier if they do not give and give yet at the same time they are always on the look out for a new supplier and will cast away the previous supplier unless that is all that is available to them. A sigma INFJ does have the protection of being a solitary animal IF they themselves are not wounded in such a way that they try to "Fix People"
Perfect explanation.
Yes! I was wondering how this worked when the sigma INFJ has their own childhood trauma.
🎯👍 It's like throwing pennies into the grand canyon and expecting it to fill up.
My older brother is a narcissist, he hates me and avoid me at all cost. Yeah, they fear us but make no mistake, it's better for us avoid them too, there's no victory in there. A long relationship with a narcissist can escalate sometimes and it's just mutual loses. Take care of yourself!
You are right. I have two Narcissistic brothers they hate me and family alway pretend they don't see what they doing to me and they fear them and made me scapegoat because I was taking care og the family and love them.
Now I have no contact grom the whole family because I am working on a big dream and they don't want to grow so I said goodbye and continued it's hard but I have grieved them finish. Good luck to us all.
@@s.i.w.acharity3207 ive been there... focus on yourself and dont blame anyone besides those narcisistic. good luck!
There are narcissists in my family as well. Lots of them, I'm highly misunderstood within my family because I am fiercely independent and distant. And it hurts because these are people I love but don't like. People need me more than I need them and this is a hard pill for some to swallow.
Same. Younger brother. I'm 63, he's 58. I moved in with him and my mom, to basically take care of her. I had no idea how troubled my brother was and is. He absolutely hates me. And I have realized that it's because I see him. And he doesn't like it.
@taddeo ruggerio I don't know what you meant and I don't really care
It's called patience, pin them in block their escapes, wait and watch and they destroy themselves and we stay completely innocent.
The funny thing is, when a narcissist or covert narcissist tries to manipulate me, I just play along to see how far they will go, every time they tried to backstab me it always backfires and crush their ego. This is the only way we can transform them is little by little humiliating them, so they can face the truth of their self. If INFJ was a zodiac it’ll be the Scorpio star sign.
I’m an infj and a Virgo
I'm a virgo, and also conssideres My self a Sigma INFJ
The Scorpio astrology reference is about the dark side of the Scorpio’s reputation...
the pinchers and venomous stinger in their nature.
The MBTI is scientific and like psychology and all of science a work in progress...
where as astrological interpretation is ancient esoteric with hidden meanings and lost interpretations falling just shy of occultism.
The science of today was the forbidden sorcery of the ancient world. Just as all occultism is in fact the starting point of today’s science.
What people believe is real to them...
so the level to which they accept and embrace their nature and the influences of information and cultural influences creates a psychological perspective to the individuals who subscribe to any particular beliefs.
The ratio of outcome to projections creates a pattern of interactions and activities...
the mind is strong, the body is weak, the universe is unlimited from our minuscule perspective and yet everything is connected to everything and we are children of the universe...
so astrology is a ancient remnant of methodology that attempts to describe the individuals in relation to the larger universe and create a comfortable understanding between scales of interactions...
giving the individual practitioner a comfortable range of expectations and understanding.
With a measure of related accuracy based upon a statistical probability disguised as astronomical trends...
using the actual astronomical data of the heavens as a divination construct.
Thusly it’s adherents find value, usefulness and comfort within the belief system.
It’s detractors embrace skepticism and use misrepresentation to construct scientific evidence arguments against it without applying the psychological emotional psyche to the situation nor the mathematical statistical probabilities to the range of situations possible and thus not perceiving why certain individuals like using the system and social connections it creates and provides.
Dividing populations into smaller groups creates interpretations and opportunities for grasping at selected aspects...
both favorable and unfavorable... which is why participants find value in Astrology.
Just as naysayers and skeptics find similar situations by creating their groups based on their beliefs.
In this way cultural psychological intellectual societies are typically formed around beliefs and belief systems...
which creates the political cultural outcomes of religions, cults and other such phenomenon.
It’s all healthy human behavior when it’s healthy and non exploitative...
and subject to irrational behavior when people allow their emotional connections and reactions to become unstable and extreme...
or when they are manipulated by narcissistic individuals or sociopaths who use any available systems and situations to facilitate exploitation.
which is a human behavior phenomena pattern unrelated to the associated belief system...
and the psychological qualities of the individual or individuals involved.
This is just my opinion. I studied Astrology expecting that the passage of the seasons in the Northern Hemisphere created some kind of influence on the individuals development which created the patterns of behavioral patterns... but discovered that individuals who embrace certain aspects gain those aspects... and that people who are projecting expectations... see what they expect to see most of the time. With some variations because people can only interpret their understanding not the actual events and consequences which again simply fits with the statistical patterns of abject reality but projector perceives their projections most of the time.
LOL... Sigma INFJ drawn into the conversation. Trying to provide accurate translations for all parties in order to facilitate greater understanding.
PONTIFEX MAXIMUS
Me..As an Sigma Infj...Virgo.
Leo, INFJ here😂🤣
With the last narcissist I dated, out of the blue, when I thought everything was okay, he ghosted with no explanation. When he finally gave me crumbs of an explanation, by text only, he said that I’m too intuitive and insightful for him and he’s terrified to speak to/face me. I suspected I wasn’t the only lady in his life romantically, apparently I was right.
I'd consider myself an ESTP narcissist, but with my INFJ friend I'm totally different, he makes me agree with him that I'm wrong and I never do this in front of anyone but him. I've always been wondering how my INFJ friend makes me feel so comfortable about my failures. Now I understand more.
Im an infj and my husband is an ISTP Narc and I did the same with him. To me it was about understanding him not necessarily judging him. I genuinely wanted to know why he did the things he did..And then we'd go from there...and he would from time to time admit the wrong doing
That's wonderful. I'm do happy for you. I am an infj and my estp friend refuses to listen to anything I say. He is trying to break me and I won't let him. Soon I will slam the door, I hpe he realizes my worth before then. Once I am done, I am done
I'm an INFJ-A, yes sometimes I just kept my own judgements on what I see to others because I dont want to hurt their precious pure heart.... But, whenever they are so spoiled, I'll just use my actions and gestures to make see themselves on how they spoiled and irritating are ..............
INFJ power 💥💥💥💥
What does INFJ mean?
@@willie123811 Advocate personality type
What's an infj? What's it stand for?
✨NO CAP 👁️🌅🦅
@@mikebar42 Ni (introvert intuition)
Fe (Extraverted feeling) Ti (introverted thinking) Se (extraverted sensing) those are the top 4 cognitive functions of INFJs. Also the INFJ is one of 16 Myers Briggs personality types
Very accurate, whenever I meet a narcissist who's feared by everyone in their circle, I challenge them, they try to manipulate me in many ways, but I refuse to go along with their games, and I do all I can to prove them wrong, this gets every victim the narcissist gathered to rebel on them, because my inner leader gets me to give people power to rebel against all injustice, this makes the narcissist give up and run for their dear life and cut all connections with me.
I am a Sigma INFJ....I survived a relationship with a horrendous narcissist. I walked away with very little mental damage, whereas he called me his Karma...
It is impossible to "take the bait." As an older person, I have decades of self awareness. I've grown through intense pain from earlier in life and a silly narcissist is a mere fool that must be contained. By which, I mean dismissed out of hand.
I pray that none of us experience an actual true narcissist. We can all do without the unavoidable damage.
Sadly, I recently had a 3 1/2 years battle with a Covert Narcissist (an actual true narcissist). At the time, I didn’t know he is a Covert Narcissist. In fact, I’d never heard of such until I discovered it thru ‘RUclips’ videos but, I had already driven him out of my neighborhood. You’re correct.., the physical and mental damage I’ve sustained from dealing with that POS was/is unnecessary! However, he awaken something in me that HE COULDN’T handle, either!! Hence, he moved away!!!
My mother unfortunately 🤷🏽♂️
I have. My older brother is one of the worst you will ever see. I was forced to grow up with him and he bullied me for years. Now I prove to him in nearly every conversation that my mind is, and always has been, FAR ahead of his pathetic egotestical bullshit. In the 5th grade, I was reading at a level he didn't get to until he was well past 20. He's average intelligence. My IQ is well over 160 and he hates it lol. He's a douche.
@@nernatbentley3778 its amazing how many ppl tell me RUclips is worthless. Meanwhile it has helped us in so many ways.
@@luistorres6956,
I agree. ‘RUclips’ is a great source for information. Depending on what one is searching. However, there are narcissists working here at ‘RUclips’ as well. Many of these “workers” will delete or hide/bury people’s posts, if THEY don’t agree with them. I’ve been targeted by these narcissistic, Political Hack “workers” for my disapproval of Trump. If you make too many factual points, while having a ton of ‘Common Sense’, they’ll bury your posts, delete or, limit the number of viewers to see them. It’s THESE types of “workers” here at ‘RUclips’ that gives this place an unsettling taste in one’s mouth.
I simply call this shutting the Narc down! Yep, I see right thru you. I'd rather be alone than deal with a wolf in sheep's clothing. Simple minded, think you can get over on me, why? Because your lacking common sense. Not here to play games or appease someone else. Will I ever find true love outside of myself? Only if he is a self aware Infj, who respects peace and freedom for us to mutually be ourselves. Good topic! Namaste!
I agree with EVERYTHING you’ve stated....., except one. A narcissist isn’t a “wolf in sheep’s clothing.” You’re giving them too much clout. Narcissists are COWARDS that PRETENDS to be strong!! They’re also DUMB! People confuse their vile, scheming behavior for “smarts.” However.., they’re simply vile and scheming narcissists. That’s all..., NOTHING more.
@@nernatbentley3778 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
@@nernatbentley3778 The reality is, a narcissist is a sheep in wolf's clothing. They pretend to be powerful and strong but all they do is manipulate and weave lies, they are weak and thrive off of other's attention and followers. Like a sybiotic virus version of the beta trying to copy the alpha.
Which is why you become their arch enemy if you show that they can't control you, if you oppose them and try to get people to see who they really are they feel attacked and attempt to defend themself the only way they know how, that's right. More manipulation.
Honestly I feel sorry for them, it's such a pathetic mental style and is so easy to take down. I faced off against a narcissist in high school who tried to pretend to be friendly, no-one else liked him but at the time I was blind and alone so he began trying to indocrinate me, but I think he could tell it wasn't working and then one day a year or two later it just clicked, and he immediately got aggresive towards me.
Now I'm not a strong guy so I couldn't defend myself from his phsyical abuse but needless to say I had an ace up my sleeve. I always seem to attract older authority members who either hate me or think I'm completely innocent and one of those was my head of year, so I just told her and she seemed completely convinced he was fine too, but she probably just didn't see it. Instead of doorslamming like I ended up doing to him I might've attempted shutting him down but at the time I had no self confidence and could not make speeches of any kind around people. I'd have exposed his false persona and how I only ever followed him around because I was on my own. I spent the rest of my school years basically a lone wolf, hanging out with the students who didn't fit in, I've always been best alone. Now I'm much more self assured but I just need to break down the barrier of forced "niceness" that I put up between me and the world. I'm never able to say what I truly mean in public because of this filter, so that's the next thing I'll work on.
Remember, if you ever notice a narcissist (especially if they have a follower), either shut them down immediately or ignore them. Having learned from being a follower at one point I know how they attempt it, drawing you into their circle and their friend groups, exploiting your strengths for laziness or personal gain. And then throwing you away when you aren't useful anymore.
Good luck everyone! :D
@@Ixarus6713,
You are a very wise and self aware person. Not too many people are willing to admit to being submissive, whether it happened in the past or presently. Thanks, for sharing your story! I’ll be honest with you..., I felt as if I was reading a post written by the younger version of myself. In my youth, I could recognized certain people’s manipulation towards me but, like you, I didn’t know how to address them verbally or, behaviorally. However, now that I’m older (MUCH older ☺️), I handle people differently. I let them know when they’ve “crossed the line.”
Remember this...., NEVER punish yourself for being “nice.” That’s your core nature! That’s ultimately the person you are. Just be mindful of the people you share yourself with. There are people out here worthy of your kindness. Truth be told, the World can benefit from it today. However..., cut people out of your life that seeks to abuse your kindness!! DO NOT hesitate doing so either! Trust your “Gut Instinct” (your Intuition). It’ll NEVER lie to you!! “Thoughts” can be confusing but, not your Intuition. Be well, my friend. 😎👍🏽
I've been married to a narcissist for 12 years and I'm an INFJ. I think I literally scare him sometimes with the amount of growth with every challenge that he presents. I told my counselor it's like a messed up dance of tango.
Lolol why does this tickle me so? Maybe it's because i secretly wish I could keep my favorite narc in this way. They do have their charm, don't they. :)
My ex is a narcissist. I didn’t know what Npd was. So I was very confused as to what was happening and kept trying to fix our relationship and help her problems. I knew when she was lying and it hurt a lot. When I finally realized the woman I fell in love with was just an act, when i discovered what NPD was, when she tried to tell me I’m not the person everyone else said I was, the person i know i am, I let everyone know who she is, how evil and manipulative she is. Then when she tried to comeback after leaving me I allowed her to come-over. This time I called her out she yelled and insulted and I screamed back this time I insulted her this time she hit me. I realized I knew from the beginning who she was but lied to myself. Things were different this time I couldn’t lie Anymore when I had her telling me lies about myself I knew i had beaten her at her own game and then I told her to get the fuck out of my life. I got out of that relationship confident in myself and knowing who I am and a broken rib. But I’m Alive, happy and never again will I lie to myself.
Yes Sigma are Alpha that does it their way. Sometimes we are Delta like but revenge is totally Segma! Live well by and with your own power!
Cheers mate
This my life story man.. except for the part where i did not let her come back for the revenge. Few months in and out of depression.. I played her game of silent treatment on her when she tried to come back and her fragile ego couldnt handle the humiliation..
But i knew it was coming.. i remember in the early days where i asked her to prove her love for me which was something i never asked anyone in my life to do which i knew was totally not me.. i was subconsciously seeing through her lies and even looking up on google why she was like that . I identified the obvious plot holes in her stories and scalled her out on it ., i ended up as a broken shell of a a man after breakup. But i recovered and came back much stronger than before. I don’t regret any of it though . I believe she was just God send for my personality growth and also so that I could know about NPD ans save anyone around me from these people in the future.
Perfect revenge. I am also waiting for the same to happen with my all arms and ammunitions ready to teach a lesson to my ex-narc gf
This sounds exactly what I went thru with my ex. Unfortunately he wasn't my first relationship with a Narcissist but he is the reason I became educated on what they are.
I've had 2 significant relationships with Narcissists...and ppl wonder why I don't want to date
You have to be careful with narcissist's because they will fight to the death to protect their fragile ego. If you fight them, do it publicly, never fight them alone. If you get them mad enough, they tell on themselves then it is easier for the others that they've been puppeteering to see how messed up they are. You will have to end the fight by door slamming them out of your life, but you can nuke how everyone sees them before you do since they rely on manipulating a crowd.
Whoa! Good advice!
I feel a little sociopathic the way I like to observe narcissists, like a bug under a magnifying glass. I do pity them though, when you look at the wounded insecure inner-self it's very sad, and I wish I could help them just get over "it" an be well.
You're not alone there lol - lived with a narcissist for 8 months and felt like I became a scientist observing a facsimile of humanity that never quite managed to pull it off. It's weirdly fascinating and pathetic at the same time.
Narcissistic personality disorder is a type of sociopath. So your saying you feel like what your observing?
@@jessyyssej608 Yes because part of me has a detached interest in observing the tactics. Not sure if you're familiar with MBTI personality type system for myself as an INFJ we are sometimes inordinately effected by others.
@@allenwalker1379 you’re mirroring, so its not really you, be careful with that
@@eranazeitler203 i hope you managed to run away without damages
Sigma INFJ = Apex Empath.
Simple.
Or full of themself
@@savagewaifu4694 🤣😂
Perspective.
I dont think confidence is common in the times we live in and it's a bunch of pusillanimous people on the internet typing random opinions at everyone else for reactions. I can see where one would say an INFJ would be full of themselves and I can also see where that angle of arrogance is just from a mindset of someone who cant relate and takes it the wrong way....
Wow. Thank you!
Now I have something to look into that may help me better understand me.
Really on point, alot of people can't figure me out and are thus afraid of what they don't know
As a sigma INFJ, I am a magnet for narcissists, even the younger ones.
Then they get bit. And run away crying to their "mommas".
That would explain why I also feel as if I'm always attracting these sorts of people into my life, whether by just being casual acquaintances or momentary lovers or crossing paths with strangers. There are also times where it seems like the world is practically crawling with that personality type. I wonder what the root of that behavior would be, if it's got to do with our society being so geared towards instant gratification and manipulation.
isn't that the way? Ironic, right? I attract women ( friends ) who are narcissistic, shallow, needy, and insecure. Also men with those flaws who want to dominate in a relationship. I am very even tempered and understanding so they get to take a lot of rope. Then they eventually reach the end and hang themselves with it. People like that mistake our ability to be disingaged for submissiveness, or weakness. But I'm not afraid to speak up about a serious wrong or offer counsel to a friend I see taking a misstep. That has ended up with the other being thrown completely off balance. The response is usually hostile. That is the end for me.
Spot on. I met a narcissist somewhat recently and I recognized it right away and knew exactly what game was on the table so I took on my role and started playing. I fed false information about myself to see him take the information to try to weaponize it against me. He followed the narc protocol and said omg I love that too and I stopped replying to 1. Give him time to research this new topic and 2. See the perfectly schedule emotional reaction of being ignored for even 5 minutes. I gave a lame excuse and we kept on with the game. He sent a selfie and said something vague that begged for a specific question as an opening to a rehearsed sob story - I didn't take the bait. He tried many times to get me to ask the question but I never did. My responses got slower and slower and he hated it but he was intrigued by me so he was careful to not break the very weak bond. He tried bragging which didn't work. He tried personal question which I deweaponized so he had to now improvise from his regular game strategy, and thats when I fed another false information and he thought it was the big lucky break he needed. The rest of the week I lead him down a dead end road of this false bonding and slow responses until the game had turned into him trying to self sacrifice his ego in an attempt to finally get behind my wall. In the end he couldn't take the embarrassment and just gave up and left me alone. Game Over. :)
I just wanna say that us INFJs are great and all, but it can always work both ways. Humility is always the best approach
Laughter also works wonders. Lately, whenever I've stood up for myself and been called a bitch or had worse said to me, I find the best response has been, "That's the best you've got? Get back to me when you come up with better material!" All narcissists can do is repeat themselves and look stupid. It also helps keep me, or anyone else facing this kind of drama for that matter, from sinking into anger or humiliation because we can still make ourselves laugh at someone's shenanigans and maintain our cool in the meantime.
I'm a sigma empath and sigma INFJ my worst relationship was me waking up to realize both
Sigma:"Mhmm...Hm?"
Narcissist:"God save my soul from this heathen!!! Oh GOD PLEASE!!!"
*A wild mirror appears*
The sad part is I end up trying to manipulate the narcissists to heal. They're people too.
The scary thing is that I don't even know why I'm doing it. My behavior seems to be driven very much by my subconscious.
I just wish I could focus that energy on myself instead. It would be a better life.
I also considered the same ... but use your time on better things ... change your mindset ... they consider you just a thing or an appliance ... and when an appliance stops working ... for example a dishwashing machine ... you throw it away and get another one ... or just wash the dishes yourself ... lol
Thank them for teaching you an important lesson ... cut them totally out of your life and focus on loving yourself ... healing and growing
You're not alone in that, you know. I found that the continual reference to narcissists as "hollow monsters" throughout this video was rather bothersome, like even the worst assholes in the world must have some deeply rooted reason why they became the way they are.
I fell into this way of thinking also. When I found out what my ex was I quickly felt sympathy after my shock and sadness dissipated. Unrealistically I believed I could help him turn it all around. I had decided I'd stay and weather the storm. He had already moved on and shut me out completely. And it didn't hurt like it had in the beginning. It actually made me feel even more sympathetic for the wandering pointless monotonous conveyer belt life he is compelled to live.
Once the sigma is matured, it is impossible to make a real relationship with a narcissist. The closest they can get are just accomplises in society. The door is slammed on them early.
This video actually gave a good reason for my typical reaction toward my abusive family member that caused me pain all life. The years passed, now I can even deflect him by manipulation. Figured out my personality recently and it massively widened my perspectives on psychology, now the skills are significantly sharpened. I still respect people, but can easily tell apart ill intentions.
That's why alphas and betas constantly size up and clash with sigmas ,because their narcissisticness
Still they together can't defeat the sigma to much logic and comun sense to them .
@@diblack4769 When you're right!! You're right
What do you mean by too much logic and common sense? The Alpha or the Beta?
Sigmas are cringe and made up just like MBTI
I'm an INFJ and I've always seen people licking narcissist's shoes but I've a very small friend group. I prefer real and pure people in my company rather than chasing self obsessed fools. I always become alone bc the narcissists leave me for the shoe lickers most of the times
Explains why everybody hates me 😆
There's allot of narcissists in this world I've learned that along time ago
My whole family are narcissistic, I grew up thinking terrible things were the way was supposed to be. I unfortunately have a layer of narcism that I been trying to unlearn since the day I realized that some of my actions weren't right. I wish I learned to unlearn sooner because my narc fam has been using my weaknesses against me.
Are you okay?
Call on Jesus Christ. I was feeling shame from my family and I called on God and he took the feeling away that instant. He is healing me and can heal you too.
As an Sigma INFJ-T empath, I have crushed many narcisissts hearts with double edged swords, this is what makes me a dark empath 😏
Is that what you really want?
I don't like an idea that INFJ should manipulate narcissist, or that we are better in that then they are. I am just being me, I can see " through" people, but I do not manipulate people. I can/might use that "knowledge" when boundaries have been crossed several times..It's not my intention, I am not trying to be evil person and I don't want to be and I am not. And if I do that, I don't feel better, or empowered or satisfied like maybe they can feel. After all I feel sorry for narcissist not because of their behaviour, or defending them, but because they are wounded and traumatized soul...and it's reflecting on their spirit, mind, behaviour that is affecting other people...And they are not aware of that, and never will and most of them will never/can't heal..
Because it's too deep and complex thing.
..
Sometimes exposing them a little bit is exactly what The narc needs for growth. Self examination. They may always be a narc but it's important not to walk on eggshells around them. It's not serious just another narc . How will this one try to manipulate me?
Narcissist are just cupcakes ready to be stomped at a moments notice. I prefer to play with them like a gentle mouse. I feel bad for them, but would they feel the same for me?
You either stand for your boundaries, or you will fall for any trap in life.
An INFJ^^
You see I hate that for you. Do not feel sorry for them, many of them know their behaviour is trash but refuse to change. You don’t feel sorry for that. Doesn’t mean you should be overjoyed to put them in their place when need arises but don’t you dare feel bad for slapping someone back after they’ve slapped you multiple times. Idk where we got the idea of ALWAYS being the bigger person but the reason people get like this in the first place is because no one taught their asshole parent a lesson. If they’d done that it is far less likely they’d have raised a narc.
I don't know about you I am talking about agressive and pure evil narcisst. Not some female narcistic coworker or teenager or little old granny being mean ...
Report to authorities.... No need to involve myself if someone is crazy and dangerous...
Narcissistic abuse is real and damaging
I do agree with almost everything you say but even the most pawerful infj have they wounds and weaknesses and narcissist are very good at spotting them!!!! 🍀
No wonder it seems like I'm always running into narcissists, or developing an obsession with those I identify as psychic vampires. Either they must be everywhere, or it's because more people are developing narcissistic personality types as a result of technology or social media. Perhaps it's my ego or shadow that compels me to lash out at these folks, while my "higher self" urges me to ignore them and not give in to their drama. I've also learned that laughing at someone, not getting angry or lashing out at them, is one hell of a great way to shut down any asshole who starts shit with me. Even when they call me a bitch or anything more vulgar, I've been saying "That's the best you've got? Get back to me when you've got better material!"
As Ross Rossinborg says if you wrestle with a pig you get dirty and the pig loves it
I now realize why I am avoided by those with narky vibes. Well, they try to trick me initially as they would other empaths and realize it does not work so they back off. It could be very subtle that I realize the person projecting a false grandeur of self which is repulsive to me. Little do they know, I'd respect open insecurity over narky projection. Even if it is covert! I also know it is best for me to avoid them or limit my interaction at all costs. Part of me wants to help them snap out of it but I refuse to waste my healing energy on someone is not wanting better for themselves.
This is Facts..💯...One I learned what a narc was I realized that my Free Spirit, Ability to.see right through people and and Blunt nature is an EXTREME clash with Narcs💯...I am a very kd soul but I READ ENERGY AND DONT DO DRAMA AND CANT BE CONTROLLED!...Yes I am THE Qu.een Of ignoring toxic people
Imagine being an infj raised by a narcissist 🥺
Right here!
Same here! 👋🏼👋🏼
Ugh!!!
Isn't that how I came to be
Don't have to imagine, unfortunately. Had to door slam hard as an adult and keep slamming when she tries to test it.
"They Hate Me because They Ain't Me"!!
I'm a INFJ. I married a narcissist. We've been together for 17 years. Her power is fading and she knows it. She's becoming desperate. Very unpredictable now. I'm moving all my assets from her grasp just incase this goes south while I'm at work.
I'll use primal zodiac signs next time. They're spot on. I'm a Komodo Dragon. She's a Catfish.
Keep me in your thoughts and prayers.
This is the mist accurate description for a Sigma INFJ I have seen so far.
Especially 4, 3, 2, and 1
😈😎😇
My gosh, that is why I have so many problems.
My x husband is a narcissistic man .and I'm infj. We used to go to war with each other. Thank God we Parted ways. The whole world has to only be about him his family his feelings.his wants and needs.if its about anyone else he won't want to care or hear about it
I work at a podiatry office with no medical background as a medical assistant.. basically first 1 1/2 years were a ship wreck. Straight up crying and going home miserable and anxious. But when I realized my own power as an INFJ and finally pre-diagnosed my boss/the doctor as narcissistic it made sense ! The doctor would straight up embarrass the f out of me in his office which everyone around can hear, plus in front of patients... he wouldn't teach us face to face. In the hallways though if we were to encounter each other he would tilt his head down and stray his eyes away. He was scared of my presence wherever I was. My eyes are wide open and although I did not do so well the first year and a half, recently the last couple months I've gained much knowledge and experience of how to work around this Narcissist. I know of his troubling pasts and ik of his insecurities. As a feeling type with a little experience I've seen past mean/toxic behavior now, and I want to raise him up even if he traumatized and hurt me as an employee. We are just people, and i don't condemn anyone for acting in a toxic manner. Hurt people, hurt people. I want everyone to win just as much as i want to.
I always trust my feelings! Feelings don't lie!
All of the narcissists i know literally hate me because i call them out on their crap. i know my boundaries and i'm not allowing them to take energy from me that i can give to people who are actually genuine. i know i'm an infj by the way that one narcissist called me one to someone else and that person told me. i sat there thinking, am i?? so i did so much research to get to the bottom of it. i found out that i'm not a narc and the person who called me one actually is the narc. after i found this out, i saw them again and i asked them how im a narc. they said because i always think i'm right.. i had them look up the actual definition and they went silent and never talked to me again. lol it's because they didn't even know the actual meaning of the word and then they found out it was literally describing them lmao. I feel as though i definitely manipulate the narc subconsciously.. like i don't realize i'm doing it, but i just want them to see what they are actually doing and saying, so that they don't try to switch the narrative so they can become the victim, like they ALWAYS try to do!! they never see how their actions hurt people and i don't allow it.
INFJ's are warriors and advocators. we stand up to narcs because it is our literal calling
yeah my friend is a narcissist, he hurt me a lot but ughhh, "mind controlled".
Sigma INFJs can knock the shoes right out from under a narcissist I've seen it happen 🤣🤣
Funny how this Sigma thing became a trend and now everyone feels as one 😂
Im a sigma infj and i can say i love breaking these people down its so easy. As a carpenter most builders ive worked for fit that to a T
Have you seem "overboard" movie from 1987? Your comment reminded me of this movie😁
Deeper the abyss,brighter the light. I’ve studied till I’m blue in the face. I’m not saying I know it all by any means. But studying sure opens up windows to the soul
Burn ego burn 🔥. I was raised by a narcissist for 18 years and grew up stronger from it , try us I dare you
🤷🏽♂️I'm an ENFJ and all I ever attract are narcissists.
Proud To Be A Sigma INFJ🙌🏾💪🏽💯
I feel happy coming to this site after being emotionally and mentally abused from a covert narcissist husband . . Healing of the abused and becoming stronger for my son . Toxic and evil 👿 individuals . Evil disciples . I pray to God to keep away from me that kind of people . I will learn how to identify them now … the brother in law and the husband , I was surrounded by two vampires that were sucking my blood and making my life miserable .
Never laugh, behind a lie.
We've tasted death & know mortality like an old friend.
Honesty keeps you alive...
Sobriety guards it.
Keep your monster, on a leash.
I might not be good for laughs and niceties.
But you can be well assured I'll be there, hell or high water.
This Sigma INFJ type is really crazy. Am just realising my self. Even me watching this vdeo today is amazing cause today 29 of December 2021 at 00:50 am in Ghana, my age 24yrs won't evere happen again. Wish i can type more but we Are super heroes among men...
Intuitive, Natural Dominance, Fun & Jolly!
This explains why I acted like this towards the malignant narcissistic husband I plan on divorcing the whole marriage this explains me
My test was always INTP but i can tell from experience that this is true.
Had a guy working with me for years, he was telling almost impossible storys, made fun of people behind their backs and was the best friend when nobody else was around, switching personality instantly when someone else enters whom they want to attract in whatever way by downgrading others.
I turned that around and opened peoples eyes because they were unable to see what was going on.
This is more of an intelligence level rather than a personality trait. For anyone could see all of the above you just have to be emotionally stable And have a certain level of intelligence.
Take their power away, then step on them 🙃 always entertaining
You describe me to a tee.. I’m a straight up INFJ!
Weird, ive had people in my life that I guess were narcissist and I made their lives hell. I try to avoid these people like the plague but if I do happen upon one accidently watch out.
My Ex-narc husband of 26yrs
hated me!
Now I understand.
He would tell me I was unlovable.
❤️
I lived up to this to a point. I had know idea what a narcissist was or a Empath at the time. Dam I wish I can redo this in my life. But I’m happy that it’s over.
Clearly, I need to find an INFJ friend. I'm an INTP aspie who fell for, and married a covert narcissist.
It's fun to sit back and watch them burn that narcissistic energy ! ...
I had one at work.. started out nice..then taking small bites, confronted them, they tried to laugh it off. If they tried to order me around, I walked away without a word. If they tried to butter me up, I finally told him, " I don't like you..never have, never will. " ; That drove him crazy..he finally quit. He tried to talk to me on his last day leaving... without breaking stride, I said, " You're already forgotten. " The look on his face was priceless.
I fall in the INFJ category. I was tested and then put into a fraternity of house SIGMA.
They can fall for it. I almost married a narcissist. Still love her, just too young to realize the game she was playing wasn't healthy. Unfortunately kids involved and had to make it last until they snapped. Narcissist made up a story and stuck to it trial after trial and dismissal in court after dismissal.
In the end they accepted 50/50 custody and I haven't seen my boy in years due to that pettiness. Somehow. I feel lucky to be away. I did everything I could. More to keep them from jail time.
Its difficult being INFJ. This video was my 5 year relationship. Too bad. Beautiful kid. Not a day goes by I don't think about him. Or her.
Had a Narcissist try to convince me I was a Narcissist😂 the whole room dropped when I got tired and exposed them.
we always see the red flags 🚩 but when we ignore them they think we stupid and when we snap they are like why are you like this. meh 😑
Cause the world is stupid and ignorant my friend
Now i know why woman avoid me like a plague lol
why ? are you a narcisist ?
Wow you just described my mother down too a tea and not only that anyone who disagrees with her in any shape or form is the enermy and she will go out of her way too cause as much damage and chaos as possible
We are powerful INFJs! Bout time we claim it!
This is way too accurate. ✨👏👍
They also take INFJ as the challenge and a greatest food source ! Until the gig is up..then you see the fear. This is when the danger to both is at its worst.
I was diagnosed infj-t in1991 i have two older brothers that a narcissists. Never fell for it even as a very young kid. They hated be hanging around because i would call them out as i do with anyone. I have not seen ether one of them close to 30 years.
I'm between an INFJ and INFP and my gf's parents are very traditionalist narcissists. There is always an awkward feeling around them because they try their hardest to put on a good act and are completely disingenuous towards everyone. They have obviously mentally abused and manipulated their daughter which is really sad to see, but I think they know that I understand this and try to show even less of their genuine self to me as a response. They know that I know and that terrifies them. Me and my gf have been talking about getting married, but needless to say it is difficult to talk to them about it, let alone talk about it in their presence since they must see me as their enemy
Thank you
We can go deeper into understanding how our biological death anxiety influences and drives our human behaviors like behaving narcissistically.
Revisiting this video, I can't help but think an ISFJ mistyped as an INFJ was being observed.
@@hanahunafa3383 😆. I'm beginning to think that maybe I'm a mistype😅😅
Great ...Finally I know what I am ....a SIGMA INFJ !!!