Why The INFJ Can't Live A Normal Life
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- Why The INFJ Can't Live A Normal Life. If you ever wonder why INFJs struggle with having the kind of life ordinary people have, there are still plenty of things you don’t know about them. So, why do these one-in-a-million creatures live a complex life?
Having unique ideologies, strict standards, and complex thought processes, INFJs would surely have difficulty living the kind of life most people have. Thus, they can maximize their time and make the best out of their temporary existence in this world. But as an INFJ, have you ever wished to have an ordinary life? Did you ever try to be normal?
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00:15 10 Their minds are restless and won't settle for conventional thinking
01:14 09 They always want to keep their life purposeful
01:52 08 They want to do so many things
02:53 07 Their thought process is complex
03:56 06 Their priorities are not like everyone's priorities
04:52 05 They have a futuristic mentality
05:48 04 They align with their Higher Self- not with other people
06:55 03 They don't keep up with trends
07:49 02 A normal life won't make their wild dreams come true
08:44 01 They can't conform to worldly thinking
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00:00 INTRO
00:15 10 Their minds are restless and won't settle for conventional thinking
01:14 09 They always want to keep their life purposeful
01:52 08 They want to do so many things
02:53 07 Their thought process is complex
03:56 06 Their priorities are not like everyone's priorities
04:52 05 They have a futuristic mentality
05:48 04 They align with their Higher Self- not with other people
06:55 03 They don't keep up with trends
07:49 02 A normal life won't make their wild dreams come true
08:44 01 They can't conform to worldly thinking
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Do these channels ever cover the INFP? It seems like many other personality types are discussed. After 3 years of allowing these videos in my feed I NEVER see anything on - INFP. I suppose the infp is left to be an Enigma and ignored, unlooked at mystery. I mean, is it for some reason the natural inclination to talk about everyone else excluding the INFP??
@@jenniferh.7219 Don't be disheartened. At least you know yourself. I don't know what my personality type is. Of late, I even believe that I am an Aspie after watching videos of women and autism. I did an online Myers Briggs test and apparently I am an INFJ. But I don't know, maybe a struggle with low self esteem has impaired some of the beneficial traits describing the INFJ type. I am afraid to venture into doing anything that might cause me to stand out as a succes in society because after some trauma in my life experience, people hate on you if you just begin to twinkle for a moment like a star in this world. Don't worry INFP, no one has it figured out
Thank you
“INFJs willingly dive into uncertainties just to feel the bliss of being alive.”
The accuracy.
I hear you! I had the same with a best friend of 20 years just recently. It’s as much of a gift as it is upsetting
That's the key, maturity for the INFJ..
I'm a mature INFJ, decade after decade you'll finally learn you can't help stupid people, you can't fix stupid people, you can't help narcissistic, narcissistic sociopaths, psychopaths, borderline personality disorders and so on, people have to want to help themselves..
You/we can't give up our life for people that aren't willing to work for their own life..
borderline personality really exhausted me😣💔but she's my befriend and she's an infp
Wow words of wisdom....I am also an infj still exploring to find my potential...its a struggle though but I have found people to connect and engage in stimulating and deep conversations...
😢
Thanks for the tips. Needed it for my career goals 👌
You nailed it.
Our mother was an INFJ.
Housewife
Stay at home mom
Could cook to feed the 5th army
Made sourdo
Made cheese
Made bookshelves
Made socks and quilts and knit hats and blankets
Collected silver
Collected fountain pens (the really cheap ones)
Collected Linux operating systems
She taught us how to cook and how to do math
She'd answer every single "why?" we asked, and if she didn't know, we'd find a book on it
She played guitar so much the frets wore through and we had to get her a new one. I'm still not sure how we succeeded in surprising her with it.
She lived her life like she was on borrowed time (the doctors told her mother not to buy baby cloths), and in the end, all she wanted was to be remembered. How could we forget?
Her granddaughter reminds me of her terribly
Your mother sounds like an incredible woman. Cheers! ❤
Your mom sounds like me, except my son's are so irritated by me and the way I am. She was so lucky to have you as her son!
My kids won't even talk to me. I had a difficult time at one point in my life due to toxic mold. Unknowingly poisoning me and my children. It was killing me. When I finally figured out what was making me so sick, and it took over 10 years of suffering, I lost it. Psychologically. Couldn't believe no one in the family believed me. It was inconvenient for them as it rendered our home, and also nesting for aging husband, valueless. It was easier to deem me crazy and on drugs. The point being, I did every thing. Like your mother. I am gifted and can do so many things. And whatever I "want" to learn, I do. And then some. So when I had a break down, physically and mentally suffering from toxic mold exposure is no joke, my family couldn't accept it. I, who everyone looked to for medical advice, who coached 2 soccer teams and had a girl scout Troup and a brownie Troup and a full time business in the Caribbean while having a photography business while raising three kids and on and on. Two kids were still little and only know what was told to them by people who didn't live with us and didn't know me. They won't talk to me as they think I'm nuts and or dangerous. I love my kids more than my own life. and my grandchildren don't even know me. I was a good mom. They were always loved and perfectly cared for until something unknown to me almost killed me and in protecting them I lost my mind trying to figure out what the culprit was. I figured out out. Only to be disbelieve and locked up as crazy. My kids were still going to be in that house that was toxic caught it on fire. Of course no one was there. Not even a pet was harmed. I made sure every one of dozens of pets were out of the house and safe. And I flicked my bic. They didn't live in that house another day. Even though I wasin psych. Eval for 7 months. Then prison for two years. First degree arson. There was no criminal intent. No money involved. No insurance was ever thought of for me. I only wanted my children to not be exposed to deadly carcinogenic toxic mold. No on would listen. So I did the only thing I could think of at the time to protect them. They are lost to me, I guess forever. The lives of my life. My three beautiful girls. Sorry. I only wanted for them to remember me too
Thanks for this. RIP Mom.
@@bellaricci5533 You are not alone. Reach out. We may be focused on blah, blah, blah, but we do have room for you.
Being normal is too boring. Becoming the coolest version of myself and living the most meaningful life are much more appealing than just being copies of people who don't even understand themselves.
: True - most people are not self aware .
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i knew without looking that this post came from a female. That’s not an accusation, just an observation. A prediction, plreally based on the perspective.
hmmm. i understand what you mean… but what if not being normal had a direct effect on your life negatively? What if there were consequences?
I hear folks say they don’t care what other think of them. I hear that almost entirely from women, however. Likewise, “I have no filter” and statements of that sort, and I wonder what their lives must be like.
As a male, if people don’t like you, that effects your reputation, with trickles down to your employment and income, whether or not you’ll date or be found attractive, or maybe have to spend your entire life alone. Then there’s issues that are required for emotional development and happiness: sex, love or children.
Right off I can’t think of any REAL consequences in life for a woman pertaining to saying or doing anything unpopular. You’d have to blatantly break the law the see an impact on yourself socially. In the end… you’ll still be able to pick and choose what options in life you’ll enjoy or disregard. You’ll never find yourself shunned by society as a consequence for being different.
i point these inconsistencies out, not to offend anyone, and not to start a man-hunt, but to broach a question:
If your option to EVER experience romantic love or desire, ability to have friends. ability to have children, ability to gain and hold employment all rested on whether or not you could be normal,… would you still choose to be different instead. Different and alone?
@@johnbobbitt6470 well, i understand your perspective, for literally "being normal" is what i have to cope with every second of my life. I just don't feel happy and satisfied to force myself to follow "normal", especially that " normal" is not usually right. As you point out, being different does have negativity, and so does being normal. I chose to be who i really am and i except all the consequences of my choice. The main point is nothing but to enjoy the way you go. If being normal makes you happier, just keep on. Wish you all the best!
I lived that life before i think i was ready.
I tried to be Normal once...Worst 2 minutes of my Life!
Am telling u,worst moments
I agree, it feel not comfortable for us to try to do what most of people do or like. Always the "Why", the meaning. When I don't find a usefull or meaning reason to do a thing, I prefer not to do it.
Haha . That was funny
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Thad is a great comment 😊😊😊 1:53
Embrace being this way. Learn how the other personality types engage the world and learn to interact with them on their level. The INFJ is adaptive enough to learn how to do this. This is key. We have the potential in tying together people of similar interests. We don't need to be leaders, but the glue that holds leaders together in a common goal. The human resource types, the advisors, the power behind the throne.
I know , I've learnt this skill set a few years ago.
Yes!!!!
I've learnt this & enjoy it!
I agree. And I can do this. Where I'm stuck is that part where we want people to put in the same effort we do to adapt. Also understand it's unlikely. I just feel if I can be patient enough to find that it's could be out of this world magical. I'll update everyone in 50 years lol
I like the "power behind the throne" 💗 indeed!
Yes I tried to fit in once growing up that shit was horrible I was so despressed I was literally hurting myself but as I gotten older I realized that Im different really different and Im okay with that I stop caring about what think of me a loooong time ago and as I found myself I felt good inside and that's when I started having a relationship with God its amazing truly
Relate much 💗^o^
I wouldn't want to be anything other than an INFJ but it is a lonely existence because there aren't many who live as mindfully and with as much depth. The world is a beautiful place and there are so many meaningful things to experience. If you find someone else who understands that never let them go. People with deep true souls are a rarity in this world. 😌❤️
This video is spot on. Right down to always being asked about the latest football game, and always having to tell someone: I’m not into that. If I get pressured on it, I ask them if they would like to talk about the Roman coliseum, and why that was created. LOL! Family, friends, everything this video I was just sitting here thinking: what a pain in the ass I am. Thank God there is the afterlife, because I’m not sure I could handle another lifetime of this nonsense.
"Thank God..." I have always had an awareness to arriving in this reality (again.) I was horrified when staring into a mirror at 4 years of age with the understanding that I've returned. The lesson to be gained has everything to do with not resisting, because resistance creates persistence. Be well and happy.🙌
@@stevenwilgus5422 I remember back when I was 4 or 5, maybe 6, and I'd look at myself and say I'm here again. I also ask my mother when I was 5, what's my name and when's my birthday this time.
Patrick me either 😖
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Patrick Curtis, I simply love your commentary. Brilliant.
This personality has been a CURSE most of my life UNTIL I found out through educating myself about Narcissists, ( after being ripped off 20yrs by one, had no idea these evil parasites existed until it was too late ) Anywho so with researching, as we do 😂 it led me to Empaths and INFJ personalities that are the top target for these creatures. So researching and educating myself with all this life saving information led me to a journey of self discovery of myself, learning and understanding who I am and protecting myself from toxic people. Now having this knowledge, this beautiful personality is now a BLESSING ☺️ I’ve evolved and pressed on to maturity , having tremendous personal growth. I can now understand myself and I keep learning and growing with built in strong healthy boundaries to protect myself. My life could have been so different if I had this life saving knowledge 30 years but I’m thankful that this valuable information is out there now to help us understand that our personality is an absolute blessing especially when we have like minded ones in our lives . Thank you 🙏 SO much for sharing this information, you will never know how much it makes a difference in a INFJ’s Life 👏👏👏👏 💝🌸💖 NZ
Same here!
Incredible. So factual, on the spot facts! I'm currently trying to rid of a parasite myself!
Wow sounds exactly like my life.
I remember as a teenager being literally terrified of living a normal life. So, yeah, my life is far from normal. And I love it.
I used to think about being forced to live a normal life and I would feel suicidal. I couldn't do it. My family doesn't really understand that, therefore I have always been the Black Sheep. So I lived very differently and gave myself a wonderful, interesting life. Now I live in nature as sort of a Hermit and constantly learn and absorb information. I do not care to be around people because "people " just doesn't work for me. Amazingly though I am in my 60's I find that younger men in their early 30's find me intriguing and attractive and sometimes fall in love with me. I stay clear of having relationships with them though. Life is a trip. I think I took a separate plane from other people.
Look over to the next row! That's me waving. Younger people tend to get me a lot more then older ones. People in the 25 to 40 year age range are ready for the future. They want to go forward. I think that's why I find an audience with them way more often.
What kind of "normal" life can empaths have in an insensitive world who wants comfort more than teamplay.?
These descriptions are dead on. It's great to see a list like this that validates INFJ abnormalities in a positive light. We know we're different, but we need to truly accept ourselves.
One of the hardest things about being INFJ is not only are we rare but most people aren't even aware of personality types. It's so hard to explain why I think and feel and how I know things about people and people's scenarios without knowing them and because I'm so brutally honest they make me out as a snob or an asshole or to think I believe I'm special when all I do is keep it real by showing them a mirror.
What's normal? It's a personal choice. Never met anyone normal yet. Very thoughtful video. 👍
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Right, what's abnormal either?!
@@selihteris that a rhetorical question?
Kinda the point, or pointless yet we all fall within something to depict what we are or at least to others, we humans are funny in how we’ve chosen to evolve and then not know anything about what we are.
@@sylmen1111 we know what we are as humans read the news watch the news read a history book we haven't evolved as much as you may think.
Totally on point, ever since I was a child I didn’t have my goals oriented the same way everyone else did, so being asked what I wanted to be when I grew up confused me. I always had an answer to give so it would satisfy them but I loved my books and knew there was a whole big world out there. I’m in my 30’s now and I still don’t know “what I want to be when I grow up” (my dad is an entrepreneur in his 60’s and says this). I know I want to help people, so I listen and I study herbs but at the same time I want to be a hermit in the mountains away from people content with my books and animals. I don’t get lonely being away from others, I have my ENFP mate so I am satisfied. Being a nomad was always a dream though I know nowadays that would be more difficult.
This spoke to my soul. I feel so understood.
I only recently discovered I was INFJ. And upon reflection of my life so far, it has been unconventional. I am so happy to know I am not alone on this journey.
Completely accurate, incredibly good illustrative commentary specific to us "INFJ's!" So spot on!
Im stuck and frustrated. But clearly a commandeur. How this fit?
I remember taking this test in school. We were set to work in groups, first split by introvert and extrovert, then S and N, and so on. When it came down to Justice or Perceiving, I realized I'd be alone for the project and went with INFP, although every time I've taken the test, it's been INFJ. I guess it explains why I feel misunderstood in my thoughts and words a lot of the time too. Trying to move through life with totally different perspectives and goals to others is challenging.
Probably shouldn’t group the types together for a project anyway, everyone has different strengths.
These are very validating for me because I feel completely misunderstood and like I’m a weirdo to everyone. Apparently, I enjoy talking about things that make other people uncomfortable. If you feel like that my heart goes out to you.💔
I hear that!!!! Sometimes we seem "troubled", when we just don't know... these videos put everything in perspective. Hope you're well❤️
I'm so thankful for being a good"INFJ".Most people are SO SPOT ON there.. you are who you are..it's God 🙏 WILL..
Only because we occasionally allow it to be God’s will. 👉😎👈
I embrace my unique life as an INFJ. I never go with the flow, I always move to the rhythm of my own beat.
I've wished for a "normal" life my entire life and realized that it's not meant for me, in my opinion, this is where religion come into play. I like religion cause it actually helps, psychology.
Sometimes I do wish to have an ordinary life and think clearly, but sometimes I don't because I want to be different from everyone else. I spend my day mostly alone thinking about ideas for stories I want to create and pondering on what the future might bring.
It’s nice. I spend my time alone thinking about what I can do to make people happy, as many people of course! other stuff is planned before that and etc, but it’s just yeah, alone and thinking.
I legit could sit and stare at a wall for hours just thinking about everything and anything. I often do this because of how much I overthink. But sometimes it becomes so overwhelming that I wish I could just switch off my brain. This is one of the traits I dislike having very much.
@@sinavaianaaiolupotea512 I feel the exact same way you do. It’s the idea that damn I went so far into it, it’s hard to have a purpose in this world. Feels so pointless to go for the top and at the same time don’t want to be “working” to make money. It’s a strange idea I have, but it definitely made me quite difficult to understand of course 😂 idk as long as I help really.
@@gilsthyname256 omg literally me rn. I mostly sit and contemplate my purpose here on earth. Not in a depressing way but more of just wanting to know genuinely why TF I exist, what can I do, why am I here? I feel like there's so much to life but yet so little energy to fulfill those goals. But then like, what are those goals?
Idk, I'm filled with sm thoughts I forget to exist in the moment. But I feel you ☺️
@@sinavaianaaiolupotea512 not even going to lie this is the first time I heard someone explain their feelings towards this and actually are pretty damn close to what I go through for sure. You are the only one I’ve meet that actually gets it 🤧 and for not knowing your goal is just dead on 💀 I never know mine
This is so true. The normal life is so mediocre. The only times I wish to be normal is when I feel so isolated due to the lack of being with my tribe. People who understands me, are like minded and can be around feeling fulfilled.
As an INFJ, the only thing you need is happiness. Find a moment of happiness, then you will find the truth of your existence. Moments change, but strive for that same moment. We change the world…as long as we don’t let the world change us.
Wow!!!!!!! This really helps me to put things into prospective about myself. I absolutely hate mediocrity and the norm. I physically makes me feel sick.
Trends aren't individualistic, that's why its like that for me.
I have wished for an easier life at times but never normal. Normal to me is stagnant to my inner growth and just plain unentertaining. I am just glad I undertand who I am better so I can stop brow-beating myself into thinking I need to be like everyone else in order to have a life that look like theirs, in other words successful. What I want was stated in this video perfectly; the best version of myself while enjoying the life I choose to live. It's a breath of fresh air to finally let myself off the hook to just be myself and love it rather than viewing it like I'm failing somewhere because I'm actually doing life right!! Nothing about my life has ever looked like anyone elses much rather everyone's and I'm not only grateful for it but extremely happy about it. Total freedom!
Its terribly difficult being an INFJ. I am very often considered to be mentally disabled because I dont know or follow the social norms. Then when people start to realize I think differently than they do, they try to bring me down to what ever level they are on (materialistic, promiscuous, other inappropriate actions) and get upset when they fail. Then they turn and become very upset with me because they experience cognitive dissonance (start to question what they think and believe). Ive had these experiences at work for decades and learned that Im doing EXACTLY what I am supposed to do in this life. Stay strong brothers and sisters, we are just as important as everyone else, but for a different reason.
You certainly don't write like you're mentally disabled. I'm not either. I got straight As when I took a Business Management program. Nor am I promiscuous. I've been celibate for decades. But when one of my uncles heard that I was helping to feed the homeless in a run-down part of the city frequented by prostitutes, he became jealous because I was doing something that doesn't happen in his church. They're a cult that thinks they are the only true Christian church, though they never get involved in charitable works. To discredit me, he told our relatives that I'm retarded and that I was selling my body on the street. Lol! My brother was very angry about that slander.
I've been trying to be normal the past 3 years. Whenever people call me weird, "i prefer eccentric " is my response.
I worked with a project manager who told me, "Lanny, you're eccentric, but I like it." :D It was a wonderful, heart-warming compliment.
Get out of my head :) brilliant analysis 👏
I really struggled as an adolescent. I felt almost completely lost, despite having good family (not perfect but good in some ways). I now know why, I'm an INFJ. Many years of being confused about ourselves, underestimated, misunderstood, patronised, psychologically bullied. Add all that to the already sensitive and quietly passionate INFJ personality and you have a timebomb waiting to go off. No wonder we struggle. It's tragic. This stuff needs to be taught in schools but then again society needs to improve in general. If only society realised INFJs are the best placed to effect important societal change. Then we would be helped when young, and appreciated as adults. Instead we have to find our own path through much adversity, which, while character building, only gives us so much time. All the time we have to watch so many fools and bad people fucking things up. Changemakers are usually lonely people for a reason.
I think an unhealthy life for an INFJ is to disappear by appearing 'normal' and seeking others to make us feel better. We can be invisible among people at times.
INFJ yes, these are so true like living in 2 realms Heaven and earth simultaneously
Hi to all INFJ's, peace love and harmony to all. Totally spot on. My whole life I was told there was something wrong with me, I'm not normal🤔nope, INFJ Heyoka. This is my thank you to all HSP and Empaths, knowing im not alone or a freak😇💚Tha k you and be blessed
Oh, this is probably the first video I can relate to as myself in a nutshell.
As a middle aged classic INFJ I can tell you the first half of life is often a one of suffering and not quite fitting in. The second half is relief and enjoyment of not quite fitting in. Take it easy on yourselves INFJs. ❤
This is super spot on.
This is spot on.
Normal for me is just being myself . Your normal is your business . I live my own life and I mind my own business .
Really needed this
I am an INFJ, but I have adapted enough to be able to not be too serious. This video was very on point with the 'search of a purpose' and 'trying to be the best version'. I constantly think about it, and adaptation is the key.
It actually overwhelmed me after one year of fully adaptation, man, in some moment it felt like if it wasn't me, but cool if it's working with you. P.D. ¿Hablas español? Xd
@@rodrigoflores8324 unfortunately no brother. But yes indeed, it sometimes amazes me how much I can adapt to my surroundings.
Yeah, have you sometime felt as if you were kinda evil for that same reason? I mean yeah all people have some minimal amount of evilness but acting is just in some situations just too overpowered. I did and it was weird, just had to solve it myself. By the way, nice to meet you.
@@rodrigoflores8324 nice to meet you too. Actually yes, I felt that way, and it kind of worried me. Sometimes it can be a little overwhelming, be so constantly thinking about all the outcomes, trying to be ready for everything.
Best video seen here so far‼️ This has been my life, running away from ‘normalcy’ and doing what my internal call is! Has not being easy. However totally worth it‼️‼️
Not easy at all. And i try to be "normal" but been told I'm "eccentric"..
A precise portrayal of who we are in our living experience‼️👏🏻
What is normal? Know thyself be thyself and do thyself.Much Love.
Thanks Man, it felt choking to live like this, but once again, I'm reminded that it's a good thing and nothing's wrong with me, thanks for that.
It is true...always knew I was different..I now embrace who I am with zeal. Wow, since I have been listening to these mags, I have really been able to see who I am..thank you soooo much!
I can totally relate to all of the above mentioned topics.
As a photographer I have a other worldly focus through the lens.
I have manged to maintained a childlike carefree spirit, throughout my life, and haven't allowed myself to become contaminated by toxic 🙃 pollution. I rejuvenate my energy levels in nature and wildlife.
It's a natural selection, of what we're prepared tolerate, in our interpretation the outside world. 🌎
These videos are very accurate, I've watched about 30 or so.
This explains so much.
Thank you ! Totally me. It gets me more and more legitimacy to continue to be as I am without worrying about the judgement of some people.
Spot on
Soooo relate ^o^💕💗thank you sooo much for this. This makes me feel better especially that I recently just know that I am INFJ. I am not that weird afterall ^o^
This is on point. I am an INFJ myself; have completed Myers-Briggs personality test...
This cannot be more accurate, purposeful, restless mind, unconventional! Will be so to the last breath❤️
Thank you . Not feeling alone is such a weight. Being us is amazing 🤩 an I'm grateful 💕
Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is soooooooo true ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Relatable and agreeable 👍
Absolutely fantastic. That's me.
Very true 👍
I'm a few minutes in..and I must say it's scarily accurate!! 🤯
spot on
This video continually shocking everything literally everything he is saying in video is so much relatable.. it's like he is talking about myself
Spiritual Growth is so Amazing
I'm usually INFJ, but recently I've realized that when I've had enough of ppls bs; I become INTJ. Sometimes I feel like I'm crazy, like I have multiple personalities. Is this common or do I need to have a conversation with my mental health team? Yes I have a team.
I can totally relate to all of the above mentioned topics
I write my own karma as a case study
Genius often encounters violent opposition from mediocre minds.
Mediocrity goes after genius with a vengeance.
Albert Einstein
I loved it when others made excuses for me because I don’t think like most people. Oh well
I love routine and structure and that's what I crave now. It's good for my nervous system
Our minds never stop,there in hyper drive, and it gets worse when we try to sleep, to many think we are dazed or not thinking,we are very aware of everything around us, even the way you might hold a pen,body language ect,we don't miss anything ,
Thank you because I was just having a emotional and existencial explosion in myself. I can't actually say how is that you helped me with this info but just read it please.
P.D. In other words you just saved my bad moment.
I have never even heard of this term INFJ, and my feed has exploded with it.
Is the algorithm trying to tell me something?
This was me in my early years now im longing to build a sanctuary outside of myself with abundant life around me, nature and less negative people 😂. Still would love to visit and learn from people who live differently though. Like tribal people who actually welcome people into their space and different traditions that other people may have outside of America. I do think life is just one great big experience that shouldn't be limited by just where you were raised and what you were taught.
Exactly, spot on. Tried being normal is just more stressful for me 😂
Accurate! :)
What's a "Normal Life?" I don't know anyone who lives a normal life, do you? There has only been one person in all of human history who lived a normal life and it got him crucified.
I have described as living under a rock for not following trends or being an alien for my abstract thinking.
*Me watching this video as an INFJ trying to figure myself the fuck out lol
Pretty spot on, just as they normally are... except that, thus time I would probably replace the words "Exist" and "Live" to "Be" and "Become"
I personally think “live” is more, of both. You live because you can and as you live you become whatever it is you wanted to live to be. I don’t really want to become something but hey, if I was known for it then maybe that’s just who I was meant to be.
this is really what i feel now.. and so hard to find people understand me..
I'm shocked as f why so accurate ?
I have a very unsettled mind and I can't help but swing more towards the negative. After having illness myself and illness in my family I analyse every little detail of my body my mind the world and mentally the thoughts never come out positive. Although these videos have helped me understand who I am, in times of worry I wish I wasn't an infj because I can dive headfirst into a black hole and feel like the world's collapsing around me. I don't find much positivity in life.
I really loveeee your videos 💗💕^o^
Could you make videos how become a healthy INFJ?
Check out our INFJ Playlist. We did a video on this.
Everyone close to me always saw my personality as “flaws” to be fixed. “Why does she like being alone, she must be depressed.” “Why doesn’t she constantly care about finding a husband- she’s weird.” People try to talk to me about trash tv shows or sports and I just can’t relate. I do pretend I do sometimes for the sake of appearing normal. I’m working on being more extroverted as well which has been challenging but pretty fun. Love you all!
Yes I tried to be normal many times before I realized I was different. It never worked and I never fit in and almost everything almost everyone ever wanted to talk about was just so boring to me I couldn't keep up participating for very long. I think it's best to just go my own way with most things.
After chasing after all these esoteric, Idealistic goals, and being one big bill from being on the street, I've settled on THE GOOD FORTUNE that has come my way. There are MANY, MANY ways to
success. In HIgh school I envisioned having tons of stocks and bonds and other assets that make PASSIVE INCOME. I'm Talking "taking care of business" like the Bachman Turner Overdive song. And I love it !!! Yes, it took A LOT OF LUCK, but it also took STANDING UP FOR MYSELF! Particularly, when people, including my relatives were stealing money from my mother
who had altzheimer's. Now I can live the INFJ life I WANT!!!!!! I can travel, have adventures, don't have to go to that BORING JOB !!! Write, Garden and experiment like Thomas Jeffferson !!
Have A LITTLE COMMON SENSE and INVEST YOUR MONEY. Your idealism is NOT GOING TO CHANGE THE WORLD.
This video is so accurate but also stressed me out bc it me think of all of the ways that I’m falling short and everything I should be doing. Like have I even solved a major world problem!!? What am I doing with my life!!?!? And what am I doing on RUclips?!?
God this is all so true. I hate routine so much.
I always figured my complex thinking was just because I am female, but I never thought like other girls did. I wanted to go into art, but it was such a cut throat program that I just did not want to deal with the drama. So, Instead I work for a family owned engineering company and keeps hospitals, Dams, colleges and WWTPs running. It's one of the most fulfilling jobs knowing that what I do makes everyone else's easy life possible. :D
You just described me like a book
You just described me to a “T”. My mind is my own roadblock.
We, the true INFJ, not the ‘wanna be’, will come to terms with their uniqueness, once souls and minds mature‼️
Is this the one key indicator...? My deepest goal since as long as I can remember, to be able to have a normal life...
Okay RUclips feed, all of this empath or infNJ and sigma stuff is very ironically similar to me. It seems like there may be more going on here. Yet, IDK if that’s quite exactly all? However I do think it is a really enlightening start (:
I am an INFJ. What I would like to add is, for me, the box other people think in is a rumor. I have never seen this box and I am over 50. I love being unique, but it can get lonely. I always want to go way deeper and to the edge more then other people.
Normalcy is relevant.
What is NORMAL to the spider, is chaos to the fly. I identify with much of what this video says. THAT is "normal" to ME.
Mainly because I do not seek societal approval. "They laugh at me because I am different. I laugh at them, because they are all the same."
Peace and Blessings
I'm an INFP and all these points apply to me.
Sometimes I question myself If I am really an INFJ and when I see all these videos pointing out exactly how I am like if my personality was an open book, I continuously realize that I am indeed one.
Help this has nothing to do with being INFJ 😭 Ni doesn’t mean you’re smarter or unique, Fe-Ti doesn’t mean you’re mysterious and philosophical, Se inf doesn’t mean you don’t care about the present world at all 💀 Everything stated in the video is basically just what more than half of the population secretly feels istg
Thank you so much for commenting this, because I‘ve started to feel very uncomfortable watching this video and reading others comments. -ISFJ
Understanding seems be tough for many but not so much for us…We’re kinda programmed it a A/B/C kind of way ie: problem,Reaction, Solution…