DeafBlind and Intellectually Disabled (Learn How to be his Friend)

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  • Опубликовано: 16 фев 2022
  • Max's Fundraiser: bit.ly/HelpingMax
    Max is DeafBlind and intellectually disabled. At the age of 16, he has never had access to a program for the DeafBlind. Instead, educators have told his family that he is incapable of learning. Max and his family want others to know that he is worthy of accommodations and unconditional love.
    If you are a DeafBlind specialist and would like to get in touch, send us an email at wegotyoumax@gmail.com
    Follow Max at / max.way1

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  • @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids
    @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids  2 года назад +2346

    Help Max get the education he deserves at bit.ly/HelpingMax . If you are able, please consider contributing $20. Many people giving this amount will create a gigantic positive change in Max’s life. I have contributed the first $10,000 in order to communicate to Max that we fully believe in him. The last few minutes of this video describe the fundraiser. Thank you so much!

    • @erinriley3912
      @erinriley3912 2 года назад +123

      I just started the video but I already know I'm definitely donating!! Go Max!!

    • @sugarsore
      @sugarsore 2 года назад +32

      Incredible!

    • @nesultimate3854
      @nesultimate3854 2 года назад +29

      Heck yes!!!

    • @15daboss
      @15daboss 2 года назад +58

      Please keep the link above active! I plan on donating as soon as I am able to! His story touched my heart in so many ways!

    • @katherineknapp6604
      @katherineknapp6604 2 года назад +54

      I'll ask my mom and we will see what we can do. Don't worry Max, weather it's a donation or spreading the word I got your back 100% 😊

  • @AA-cm3pd
    @AA-cm3pd 2 года назад +10235

    "The point is, he's human." What an incredible family

  • @lilliealicea8002
    @lilliealicea8002 2 года назад +872

    "He is intellectually delayed but he can LEARN"
    Well said, grandma. Every child can grow in the right environment. So excited that the fundraiser will help Max be able to do this!

  • @OffshoreITguy
    @OffshoreITguy 2 года назад +1523

    I can't get over the grandfather, he is awesome. The amount of love that man has for that child is so apparent.

    • @dylangreen7970
      @dylangreen7970 2 года назад +34

      When Chris asked something along the lines of what did you think when you heard he was deaf blind, he said Max is my man. What a great family.

    • @c.swinford8283
      @c.swinford8283 2 года назад +38

      He's super smart as well. Teaching Max the parts of his face and different textures is really clever and seems right on par with what he needs. And holy cow they do look alike lol.

    • @mackinaw748
      @mackinaw748 Год назад +8

      His personality is so cool

    • @rsabardoelectrical
      @rsabardoelectrical Год назад +7

      Well done Grandpa, what a great role model, you a good man

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @pitbull2743
    @pitbull2743 2 года назад +1419

    My wife had to watch this in segments. Our son was deaf, blind and mute. Max reminds us so much of our son. The diagnosis was Rubella and we spent our lives supporting, and loving him. Later on he lost his balance and so had to be in a wheelchair. The words they say are exactly what we believe. Doctors said he would only live to be in his mid twenty's but he nearly doubled his life expectancy. One day we where walking downtown and a woman came walking towards us and had that look that we have seen before. As she walked past, she turned her head to stare at him. Lo and behold, she walked square into a cement light pole. Love the humor you show because it does nothing but help heal the soul. He passed away on February of 2017 at 43. God bless all of you and know you are not alone.

    • @JenniferKitchens123
      @JenniferKitchens123 2 года назад +85

      I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us.

    • @christianherrera4729
      @christianherrera4729 2 года назад +62

      Thank you for sharing this. Your son continues to live on in the peoples lives he touched.

    • @diegoscoffeemug
      @diegoscoffeemug 2 года назад +25

      May he rest in piece 🤍

    • @pitbull2743
      @pitbull2743 2 года назад +19

      @@diegoscoffeemug Thank you.

    • @pitbull2743
      @pitbull2743 2 года назад +18

      @@christianherrera4729 Thank you Christian. Never forget is so true.

  • @newchapterasmr
    @newchapterasmr 2 года назад +1509

    ‘Now i’m old, I don’t like rolling in the snow. But for him I roll in the snow’ what a fantastic grandpa. And mom, and grandma. They are so positive and loving

    • @chaddy2409
      @chaddy2409 2 года назад +8

      I would roll in the snow for you too

    • @SinclairSound
      @SinclairSound 2 года назад +35

      That man right there has more love in his heart at any given moment of the day than most people do in their entire lives

    • @cemo4642
      @cemo4642 Год назад +4

      Yes i totaly agree...what a beautiful family soul they are...

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад

      @@cemo4642 ❤ thank you

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад

      @@chaddy2409 ❤

  • @gianettie5015
    @gianettie5015 2 года назад +1314

    This family IS SERIOUSLY Amazing. You can tell they don't feel he's a burden, they treat him with respect and dignity and they LOVE HIM. They want the absolute best for him. My goodness, I'm so happy he is in their care!! Max and this family deserves the world !!

  • @CoffeeSuccubus
    @CoffeeSuccubus 2 года назад +787

    "He's human"
    "He's my boy"
    I already love this family.

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад +1

      We love you too

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад +1

      We love you too

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад +1

      @Valedits what age difference

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад +4

      @Valedits that’s my grandfather not my dad if that’s what your talking about

    • @dangit459
      @dangit459 2 месяца назад

      I wish these were my grandparents 😢

  • @Wonderhussy
    @Wonderhussy 2 года назад +1075

    I wish this family was 10 times as famous as the Kardashians... I feel there is much more to be gained from watching their incredible love and joy ♥️

    • @kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934
      @kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934 2 года назад +17

      You’re absolutely right in that. Anything to do with obscenely wealthy persons doesn’t contribute to real people and what they deal with when money isn’t making it automatically fine and the best as best can be…

    • @carolfitzhugh8097
      @carolfitzhugh8097 Год назад +16

      So true. Unfortunately,most of our society "worships" at the altar of self-centeredness.

    • @boojay111
      @boojay111 Год назад +6

      well said, they are an amazing family and Max is a joy

    • @dyawr
      @dyawr Год назад +3

      Well said👍

    • @sylviajohnson8454
      @sylviajohnson8454 Год назад +1

      I agree. Those Kardashians are completely useless ~

  • @CapturedByKen
    @CapturedByKen 2 года назад +3515

    I'm actually emotional because I'm so relieved and grateful that he has such loving parents and family. It's beautiful to see

    • @shaderasbora1033
      @shaderasbora1033 2 года назад +60

      I'm having the same feelings right now, so glad he has such wonderful, loving people as his family.

    • @SilentEchoes91
      @SilentEchoes91 2 года назад +22

      He's so lucky 🤧💙

    • @mjshabazz8874
      @mjshabazz8874 2 года назад +41

      I really adore them! I felt safe just hearing how they talk to him so I know he feels safe. That’s so important in life 🥺💙

    • @kittymervine6115
      @kittymervine6115 2 года назад +30

      it was an honor to be able to watch this family, and I hope learn from them.

    • @Empathy-and-resilience
      @Empathy-and-resilience 2 года назад +22

      Same, the love I feel from this family brings me to tears 🥲

  • @prestonferry
    @prestonferry 2 года назад +1631

    He’s lucky to have a family like that… His grandfather seems very wise and the type of grandfather you’d like to have…

    • @user-mb3dx5fl9f
      @user-mb3dx5fl9f 2 года назад +29

      Facts. Like almost no family that I know is so obviously and genuinely nice. Super lovely ppl.

    • @carleycasey9439
      @carleycasey9439 2 года назад +15

      They are lucky to have him

    • @jesussavedme6260
      @jesussavedme6260 2 года назад +3

      You are loved by Jesus🤍

    • @celestek.2395
      @celestek.2395 2 года назад +15

      I love the grandpa! Wise is the best way to describe that beautiful soul. He just gets it. Probably the most connected human I’ve ever seen. 💗

    • @amiehough6471
      @amiehough6471 2 года назад +4

      @@celestek.2395 hi

  • @itgetsworse4667
    @itgetsworse4667 Год назад +220

    His mom legit melts my heart, she is so joyful and bubbly I bet Max loves her so much

    • @comeatmepussycat6777
      @comeatmepussycat6777 11 месяцев назад

      She is not bubbly but fat. She aint gonna get better coz she is already depressed way beyond return.

  • @wrex.
    @wrex. 8 месяцев назад +46

    "Children come to us with empty baskets, and it's our duty to fill that basket" "Every human being loves to know that they are admired, loved, and respected" Max is surrounded by the most beautiful ppl.

  • @sleepyote
    @sleepyote 2 года назад +2195

    Notice how most people like Chris right away? He has a caring vibe, and people can feel it. 🧡

    • @sleepyote
      @sleepyote 2 года назад +49

      Oh Max's mom mentioned it too!

    • @samusvikerness661
      @samusvikerness661 2 года назад +35

      Chris is the man.

    • @AndrAiaNighthaven
      @AndrAiaNighthaven 2 года назад +53

      He is an empath. He has such a big heart everyone can sense that in him.

    • @ravenchain85
      @ravenchain85 2 года назад +54

      He's an awesome guy. One of the things I really love about the videos is the way Chris shows how easy it is to make meaningful connections with people who communicate in ways other than speaking.

    • @mrpussinboots4252
      @mrpussinboots4252 2 года назад +7

      vIbE

  • @tyyteeeinreallife6955
    @tyyteeeinreallife6955 2 года назад +584

    He was born into the right family; its so much love in that house hold I can feel it.

    • @michellewilkes5801
      @michellewilkes5801 2 года назад +24

      And that alone is the most beautiful thing about Spsb videos every single one of them you know is genuine is real and there's no put on here at all it's all the most genuine thing on the internet it would be the best thing on TV and it is for sure the best thing for real in life everyone should take a clue strive to be more everything like sPSP because the world would then be a better place ❤️🙏

    • @nanayaa.5325
      @nanayaa.5325 2 года назад +5

      I agree.

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад

      @@michellewilkes5801 ❤❤❤

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад

      @@nanayaa.5325 ❤❤❤

    • @ascent8487
      @ascent8487 9 месяцев назад

      Thank The Lord, he really was!

  • @msb5775
    @msb5775 2 года назад +194

    You can tell he was raised in a household of love and joy due to the amount of trust he has in a complete stranger just because his mom says it’s ok for that stranger to be there.

  • @stephme2686
    @stephme2686 2 года назад +357

    At first I was skeptical of how beneficial this interview could be especially for him but I learned a lot and I realized I need to check myself sometimes. The more people watch this the more they’ll learn to treat people with more respect

    • @isthataspider7410
      @isthataspider7410 Год назад +42

      Some of us go into watching an interview expecting him to be able to talk directly with Max, but the reality is we all have different ways of communicating. Especially with a disability or several. This video did a good job showing how Max communicates and respecting him for who is as an individual, not just the disabilities he has. We should all use this as an opportunity to be patient with those in our lives who communicate differently and take the time to appreciate each other.

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад +3

      ❤️

  • @JR-gh8lp
    @JR-gh8lp 2 года назад +1046

    T-H-E-R-E I-S S-O M-U-C-H LOOOOOOVE in this family. The love the grandfather has for Max is immeasurable and priceless.

  • @carlyaltomonte303
    @carlyaltomonte303 2 года назад +1456

    Best grandfather ever. I honestly felt his love flowing off him talking about Max it made me cry. Such a lovely family. Max is lucky to have you all.

    • @jessewru6425
      @jessewru6425 2 года назад +8

      YES!

    • @mcfluffynips
      @mcfluffynips 2 года назад +23

      Facts. He is a true advocate and a great grandfather.

    • @DrELewis2014
      @DrELewis2014 2 года назад +7

      Yes♥️

    • @LILAC2CARB
      @LILAC2CARB 2 года назад +12

      Yes he blew me away, what a fantastic grandfather!! You can tell him and Max are best buddies… ♥️

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад

      @@LILAC2CARB we are too ❤

  • @teffley2766
    @teffley2766 Год назад +125

    The grandparents remind me so much of my own grandparents with my disabled brother. My grandfather is like, "that's MY boy" and he's definitely his favorite. My grandma aaaalllways is coddling him. So cute!

    • @Laura-kl7vi
      @Laura-kl7vi Год назад +5

      That's lovely. Grandparents do wonders for children when they are able to be in their lives.

  • @vivianevenancio6502
    @vivianevenancio6502 Год назад +130

    The grandpa... Oh, that's a real man! Protective, caring, secure. This hole video just renewed my hope in mankind, there are some awesome people out there.

  • @nwanneamaka_
    @nwanneamaka_ 2 года назад +494

    as someone who’s black & disabled, i’ve always felt very alone. thank you so much for showing so many beautiful black ppl with disabilities. it makes me feel way less alone

    • @moonchild_778
      @moonchild_778 2 года назад +21

      And you are a beautiful black person that just so happens to have a disability ❤️

    • @gimhanikk3134
      @gimhanikk3134 2 года назад +15

      I am black too. But that is not a thing to be sad about. Be proud of your colour and everything about you. When you accept yourself , you will meet people who genuinely accept and care for y. Love you dear.🤗😘

    • @Laliyahish
      @Laliyahish 2 года назад +32

      @@moonchild_778 a lot of people prefer to say that they are disabled rather than that they have a disability because our disabled-ness is an important part of our identities :)

    • @oversizednoveltycheck6978
      @oversizednoveltycheck6978 2 года назад +11

      You're not as alone as you thought you were...at least not anymore...:)

    • @moonchild_778
      @moonchild_778 2 года назад +6

      @@Laliyahish oh I didn't mean to offend. I wasn't sure and I know some people prefer that their disability isn't what makes them them but I totally understand

  • @bdowney518
    @bdowney518 2 года назад +270

    "What's the point?" "He's human" what a power message. Inspirational

    • @areldo
      @areldo 2 года назад +10

      @@DYA9091 that doesn’t mean he doesn’t deserve love.

    • @kaclama
      @kaclama 2 года назад +8

      @@DYA9091 Can I ask why you chose to say that? What was your goal?

  • @BDWriter92
    @BDWriter92 6 месяцев назад +15

    Max's development is a credit to his mom and grandparents. No matter how "disabled" a child is, having a family that works with them makes a huge differences.

  • @willehq
    @willehq 2 года назад +305

    Rarely do I watch a video and feel loved, but this one did it. And it wasn’t even directed at me! This family absolutely radiates positivity and love and it’s contagious.

    • @carolfitzhugh8097
      @carolfitzhugh8097 Год назад +16

      These people need to not only give parenting lessons,but lessons on how to be decent human beings.

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад

      @@LandaDominique ❤❤❤

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад

      @@carolfitzhugh8097 ❤❤❤

    • @jstittgen
      @jstittgen 9 месяцев назад +1

      I felt this too!

  • @daniellel230
    @daniellel230 2 года назад +401

    Grandpa's speaking voice is absolutely stunning. I wonder if he's a singer- he just has an incredible tone of voice.

    • @majesty2321
      @majesty2321 2 года назад +37

      No way I was thinking there's something about the grandpa that stands out makes me feel safe and protected in the way he speaks. Can tell he is caring asf about the people in his life

    • @MrWatchcollector
      @MrWatchcollector 2 года назад +5

      its the first thing i noted.

    • @PactolusC
      @PactolusC 2 года назад +2

      He sounds like Tony Todd!

  • @becausealmonds8295
    @becausealmonds8295 2 года назад +186

    I cannot believe that people genuinely say he is incapable of learning. It is very obvious he has already learned how to communicate, walk, understand the people and body language around him.

  • @hjbjd5
    @hjbjd5 Год назад +57

    I am truly thankful to meet all of the special friends who bravely share their stories with us. 💗

  • @Deer548
    @Deer548 2 года назад +98

    That automatic connection he had with Chris was simply amazing! …. the physical lean and the verbalization. Max is certainly an excellent judge of character! He’s lucky to have such a wonderful family and they are lucky to have him. ❤️

    • @apothecurio
      @apothecurio 5 месяцев назад

      We know so little about the brain. I’d bet Max’s intuition for others is incredibly powerful compared to most.

  • @ellieschramm9765
    @ellieschramm9765 2 года назад +211

    “Every kid is a basket, my job is to fill their basket.” Well said!

  • @potatoenjoyer5255
    @potatoenjoyer5255 2 года назад +224

    I love how passionate and logical grandad is. He truly is Max's anchor.

  • @zoebasina1804
    @zoebasina1804 Год назад +40

    Every child needs to have that type of love and support, able or disabled. "He can do it", "you can be anything, what you wanna be". What an amazing uplifting family

  • @sanniwartinen3595
    @sanniwartinen3595 2 года назад +80

    What the dad said at the beginning of this video brought tears to my eyes. He is the definition of what a FATHER should be!!! Not everyone is blessed with a nurturing and protective daddy and this family is truly blessed.♥️

    • @XxEmoGothOutcastxX
      @XxEmoGothOutcastxX Год назад

      That's the grandfather but yeah :)

    • @tiger_844
      @tiger_844 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@XxEmoGothOutcastxXI think they meant the dad of the mother

  • @priyamvadasingh8583
    @priyamvadasingh8583 2 года назад +934

    Chris is a genuinely pure soul, no wonder all the kids light up in his presence :)

    • @Silverwing28
      @Silverwing28 2 года назад +22

      So true. You can tell what a kind soul he is by how the kids react towards him.

    • @averageyoutubeuser5537
      @averageyoutubeuser5537 2 года назад +18

      @@diantinatalist6686 no, no its not. Stop and don't comment on Chris' videos if this is how you are going to be.

    • @averageyoutubeuser5537
      @averageyoutubeuser5537 2 года назад +9

      @@diantinatalist6686 wait I now see the other comments you've put here and other channels. You are twisted, just don't use RUclips please.

    • @Usapatriette
      @Usapatriette 2 года назад +5

      Like attracts like and we here on this channel like Chris. He is clearly a beautiful soul. @diANtinatalist, if you are this cold-hearted and cannot see his decency, you should seek help.

    • @chewychibi03
      @chewychibi03 2 года назад

      Yeah. He’s a light in this world.

  • @Guenter34
    @Guenter34 2 года назад +377

    Max's grandfather needs to get into voice acting. He has a such a strong, deep voice

    • @chrisucl
      @chrisucl 2 года назад +8

      It's called Stantorian. I thought the same.

    • @BellaFirenze
      @BellaFirenze 2 года назад +5

      @@chrisucl Stentorian.

    • @lsadin2457
      @lsadin2457 2 года назад +1

      HAHA

    • @cindygardner8649
      @cindygardner8649 2 года назад

      I completely agree😊👍

    • @ratsrule6110
      @ratsrule6110 2 года назад +2

      OMG now you say it, yes! I agree, I hope he see's your comment and actually looks into it

  • @MuzicOutlet
    @MuzicOutlet 2 года назад +80

    I’ve genuinely never seen a family so beautiful, loving, and fun. These people seem like the BEST to hang out with.

  • @leeoconnor123
    @leeoconnor123 2 года назад +48

    I am a carer for my daughter with medical needs, Autism and low IQ..I spend most of my time worrying about her, worrying how I am going to help her learn what she needs to learn, what people think she should know, how to be independent but she isn't.. watching your video gave me an incredible insight into where I am going wrong. I just need to show love and understanding and acceptance. You are such am amazing family, you all have a gift in raising Max and Max is a gift to you and us. Thank you so much. Eager for Max to get specialist help he deserves and see that beautiful smile some more in another video.

  • @Aheartofbooks
    @Aheartofbooks 2 года назад +579

    When Max's family was talking about how his school didn't see what he was capable of intellectually and talked about how they fought for him, it made me incredibly emotional. I was teased and bullied by my teachers for years with them saying I couldn't achieve a lot of things. I never had someone fighting for me like that. To see them do that means very much to me. It's clear how much they love Max. He is so blessed to have them and they are so blessed to have him. What a lovely family. There should be more people like them on this earth. Thank you for doing this story, Chris.

    • @terryenby2304
      @terryenby2304 2 года назад +23

      You deserve someone supporting and advocating for you too 💜 I hope your life is better now!

    • @lovingmayberry307
      @lovingmayberry307 2 года назад +10

      I'm so sorry that happened to you. You sound like such an amazing, caring person! 💙

    • @SakenaRedmond
      @SakenaRedmond 2 года назад +10

      I’m extremely sorry that happened to you. I had my share if being bullied by teachers as wee so I know the feeling… besides having ADD that has affected my education till this day

    • @Hellohihey670
      @Hellohihey670 2 года назад +5

      I am really sorry trust you weren’t treated fairly as a kid. You truly deserve all the best. Have a wonderful day and God bless you!

    • @juicyjones1
      @juicyjones1 2 года назад +5

      You’re beautiful 😍🤗 inside and out ♥️ I pray for you to have a peaceful happy blessed life🙏🏾♥️

  • @SAOS451316
    @SAOS451316 2 года назад +845

    If SBSK was a television show it would be on the level of Mister Rogers' Neighborhood or Reading Rainbow. What Chris does is so very important. Hundreds of thousands of people will see Max and his potential and carry that into the world. I know this community will raise the funds, and in a couple years I bet Max will be able to tell us all about his life himself.

    • @theambitlady
      @theambitlady 2 года назад +13

      This is spot on! 💗

    • @Mattatat9ty3
      @Mattatat9ty3 2 года назад +18

      Yes! I couldn’t agree more. Chris exudes human connection, kindness and love. SBSK is a hidden gem I tell my friends/family about all the time.

    • @kristareganmusic
      @kristareganmusic 2 года назад +3

      Totally agree!!

    • @kim2306
      @kim2306 2 года назад +5

      I would die if PBS picked his show up. ❤️❤️

    • @_xojaex3
      @_xojaex3 2 года назад +3

      Dude tell me why when I played this my husband thought i was watching reading rainbow, he just sounds so welcoming.

  • @LordHoward
    @LordHoward Год назад +20

    imagine if all families were as loving as this one

  • @nc7072
    @nc7072 2 года назад +59

    Can y’all just feel the love from this family?! Cos I sure do!

  • @elizabethszulc7659
    @elizabethszulc7659 2 года назад +466

    I can’t get over how wonderful the whole family is. So positive, so full of love, so proud, and absolutely nothing but amazing energy! Everyone needs love like this! ❤️

  • @BayouBellePhDBe
    @BayouBellePhDBe 2 года назад +163

    When he smiled knowing he had a new friend, his smile is PRICELESS!!!

  • @thevardodark4618
    @thevardodark4618 2 года назад +44

    I love grandma’s statement, “the point is, he’s human.” It is so beautiful seeing these families who love and protect their person and patiently teach you and help you know how you can communicate with their person and connect. What wonderful magical people.

  • @TheArtofFugue
    @TheArtofFugue 2 года назад +21

    “the more opportunity you present to the kid, the greater possibility of things the kid will gravitate towards, allowing the kid to become what they are meant to be” -Max’s Amazing Grandfather

  • @Katelovescbj
    @Katelovescbj 2 года назад +173

    I love how grandpa kept saying “okay?”, he is making sure we understand and know that’s the most important man in his life

  • @taylorlynn534
    @taylorlynn534 2 года назад +461

    Everyone is capable of learning. It’s a shame his school isn’t pushing him to his fullest potential. The school needs to try harder to figure out how he learns best and listen to his family!!!

    • @PageShearling
      @PageShearling 2 года назад +6

      @Kane Did you watch the video?

    • @erikschiller4838
      @erikschiller4838 2 года назад +10

      @@PageShearling Nope don't think they did! 😅 (Psssst Kane: skip to 10:18 and rewatch a good minute fron there 😉)

    • @ChaoticLapras
      @ChaoticLapras 2 года назад +14

      I believe he has the capability to learn, however a public school will not have the resources to try and teach him. It's a shame but the level of attention needed isn't attainable in public education.

    • @danielvidal46
      @danielvidal46 2 года назад +18

      I used to be an aide in the special unit to a middle school and high school. Trust me the staff is over worked and under staffed. We wish it was easier but he would need a specialized facility as public school can’t fully reach the needs for him.

    • @sherryd.3425
      @sherryd.3425 2 года назад +5

      @@ChaoticLapras Public education is mandated to gather information about appropriate resources, create programs that approximate them through employee education, individualized programs, and therapies. If they are unwilling to educate a child with Max's needs appropriately, the district is obligated to pay for his residential placement near an appropriate program that will meet his needs. He must learn to functionally communicate with others immediately. It sounds like all his previous educational environments are trying to "wait him out" until he deteriorates past the point of benefitting from his education. He can legally receive district services until his 25th birthday as long as he is acquiring skills that benefit him in his adult transition. Ohio can step up now or wait for us to come for them later. Max is a stunning human being. The UK and Asia are much more committed to children with his needs than we are. Shame on us. Bless Chris.

  • @bio4150
    @bio4150 2 года назад +40

    Max’s mother reminds me so much of mine, so much love and so much trust in her child’s abilities, it made me tear up a little.

  • @IAmSuzyQ
    @IAmSuzyQ Год назад +13

    There's nothing more comforting than hearing your family say, "We got you! No matter what.".
    It's clear to see that this young man is surrounded by love, understanding, and support every single minute of every single day. 🤗

  • @courtneycleveland1720
    @courtneycleveland1720 2 года назад +380

    As a Special Education teacher I am disheartened that Max’s IEP team has not supported you and Max the way that he deserves to be supported. Max can do anything with the right tools! What a wonderful gift to be a teacher who can learn from Max and support his family. Please continue to advocate for Max and one day he’ll advocate for himself through your example. ❤️ Sending lots of love to you Max!

    • @MsNiesh1984
      @MsNiesh1984 2 года назад +11

      Well said, IEP needs get it together & fast. 😤🙏🏾❤️

    • @Flipper86
      @Flipper86 2 года назад +14

      His folks need an advocate and court proceedings. He’s suffered from educational neglect his entire life. He might not be able to see, hear, or ace the ACT, but he should be being exposed to so much more in school (cane skills, matching/sorting, & sign language).

    • @irenedavo3768
      @irenedavo3768 2 года назад

      Please research Jigger Victims

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад

      @@MsNiesh1984 ❤❤

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад

      @@Flipper86 ❤❤❤

  • @aussieaussieaussie9438
    @aussieaussieaussie9438 2 года назад +717

    I didn't cry for Max, I cried because I saw how fine he'll be ❤
    What an incredible family!

  • @gennasantaquilani4863
    @gennasantaquilani4863 Год назад +11

    Just saw the update that Max got accepted into Perkins last summer! That's so incredible! ❤❤ He's so precious.

  • @tommygunss4576
    @tommygunss4576 2 года назад +10

    Max's Grandfather is awesome. " Max relies on me for protection." then starts getting a lump in his throat. I just wanted to tell him. I too know how it feels to have to be as strong as 2 people, and be a protector for my disabled child. awesome family, thank you for letting us meet Max!.

  • @highcotton63664
    @highcotton63664 2 года назад +399

    Kudos to the grandparents and mother for stepping up even though the dad is out of the picture. They are the strong ones.

  • @NaturallyNellzy
    @NaturallyNellzy 2 года назад +875

    God bless you, Chris. I appreciate all that you do. Thanks for introducing us to, Max❤️

  • @theariesexperiment4642
    @theariesexperiment4642 2 года назад +5

    I'd be willing to bet Max can sense someone about to have a heart attack or seizure. He is a super hero.

  • @cindysemblante4411
    @cindysemblante4411 2 года назад +16

    Can’t wait for an update on Max. It was interesting to me how Max is deaf and blind, yet his smile and laughter was completely matched to what was being said in the room. He is reading vibes and energy and his intuition for lack of a better word is on point. Thank you Chris for opening the door and finding a way to connect Max with the accommodations he deserves. I believe his potential once tapped by deaf/ blind specialist will be like a rocket taking off

  • @balaam_7087
    @balaam_7087 2 года назад +261

    Wow I never knew there was a scale of 0-120 for blindness/deafness. That kinda changes my whole outlook. Hey Max, I’d totally squeeze your hand hello 👋, and I also want you to know you’re very lucky to have a family like yours. To the man in the Cleveland cap: I wish I had a father like you.

    • @Areyousayingidontknowmyname
      @Areyousayingidontknowmyname 2 года назад +10

      My mother had a Aunt that was both deaf and blind from birth. Lived to a ripe old age. But when i was younger i always wondered how she coped. Let alone learnt anything without the ground knowledge of sight and sound in early years. How to link things to words. With just touch. But its only through things like this and well life experience that ive learnt that blind is not complete blackness. But many levels. Yea as a young adult. I would hear someone was blind and just assumed everything was like a black room to them.

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад

      ❤️❤️

  • @alliepriestley
    @alliepriestley 2 года назад +742

    I AM SOBBING. this family is incredible!!!!! Every single person in this family just made my whole day- I love their love! This channel seriously restores my faith in the world

    • @aueyburroughs1143
      @aueyburroughs1143 2 года назад

      ANYONE WHO BELIEVES IN HEAVENLY FATHER LORD AND SAVIOUR CHRIST JESUS OF NAZERETH + HEAVENLY FATHER LORD GOD יהוה‎ + "THEIR" HOLY SPIRIT + HOLY GHOST. PLEASE; PRAY, PRAY, AND PRAY SOME MORE: EVERY ONE COUNTS!
      ./+\. NARROW PATH WALKER'S.
      Love from: a nobody a son and a man. P.S. NOBODY SHOULD HAVE TO THINK THAT: "JUST BECAUSE THEIR IS NO MONEY IN THE WORLD YOU ARE SCREWED!"
      When, (THE HOLY HEAVENLY FATHER'S CAN DO ANYTHING, IN TRUTH AND SPIRIT.)
      . +±+ .
      Matthew 19 v 26 KJV WRITTEN IN THE HOLY BLOOD OF HEAVENLY FATHER LORD AND SAVIOUR CHRIST JESUS OF NAZERETH:26 But Jesus beheld them, and said unto them, With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible.
      Á-MEN AND Á-MEN.

    • @robertbarrasa1018
      @robertbarrasa1018 2 года назад +8

      Yes I am sobbing as I love this channel every channel puts joy in my heart because if I feel bad about something I feel for these young men and women God bless them their child their angels for God they don't know no wrong when they passed they will go straight to heaven and fully be restored in their bodies God bless you brother for doing his channels!

    • @Violet._.PhoeniX
      @Violet._.PhoeniX 2 года назад +2

      @@dontworryabit9128 well seeing as the rest of the world dissagrees with you and feel like max is a gift to the human race --- im thinking maybe you are the one that is a shame to the human race??? Just a thought

    • @ministryofpeacekmk
      @ministryofpeacekmk 2 года назад +2

      💖💖

  • @KCsFunHouse
    @KCsFunHouse Год назад +9

    I love the grand dad, we all need someone in our corner like him.

  • @jengrubbs8775
    @jengrubbs8775 Год назад +10

    I don’t even know how to explain how much I already love this entire family just from seeing them for half an hour! Everyone is on board and wants to LEARN. That is rare in my opinion. I don’t think this(the documentary and donations) could’ve happened to a more deserving family 🥰 I wish all kids had such amazing, loving and caring individuals in their lives 🖤
    Also mama if you’re reading this and want a new friend in Seattle, heyyyyyy girl! You seem so cool and down to earth while being such a badass advocate for the community. Love y’all!

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад

      Yasssss. Thank you ❤❤❤ @jen grubs

  • @mackenziecasey6342
    @mackenziecasey6342 2 года назад +370

    When he said "if he can hear me", Max tapped his head vigorously, and when he said "when he can feel my touch", Max scratched his head vigorously then laughed....he can hear and feel you! That seemed clear! You just have to be right beside him so his senses can pick it up better. Thank god his parents and grandparents get that and protect him from people who don't!

  • @bayleighc.5843
    @bayleighc.5843 2 года назад +441

    Just so folks know, ALWAYS direct your words towards the disabled person, even if they can’t talk. Don’t talk about them to whoever they are with, it happens constantly, regardless of if the person is nonverbal or not, has an intellectual disability or not. It’s just respectful to treat them like a normal person, even if the response has to go through a carer or family member or friend.

    • @susanparker7660
      @susanparker7660 2 года назад +26

      @@tubester4567 No, of course not. At that point, if they are non-verbal, there is probably someone with them. So, that person will answer you, you acknowledge the answer by responding to both people.

    • @nitaboo74
      @nitaboo74 2 года назад +22

      Thanks for the advice. I always feel nervous cause I do t want to offend and I want to teach my children how to be respectful as well.

    • @bayleighc.5843
      @bayleighc.5843 2 года назад +14

      @@nitaboo74 of course! Thanks for wanting to learn. I’m sure your kids will be great friends for the disabled kids they may go to school with 💕

    • @00zarzu00
      @00zarzu00 2 года назад +6

      do what chris does and watch for subtle signs (e.g. breathing changes, gestures, body language, eye movements) and respond to those as if the person is responding to you with that, which they may be. i mean, sometimes only people who really get to know someone can read or understand these changes or movements or signals, but sometimes it is sort of obvious if you look out for it. people, even without disabilities, communicate nonverbally all the time. make room for responses that may not be normative to you, be ready to catch them, and you will maybe be able to form more of a connection with someone special or with someone you never thought you could.

    • @yoongitrash2699
      @yoongitrash2699 Год назад +1

      @@tubester4567 your not expected to hold a full conversation with everyone at all times, regardless of disbilities. if they cant really continue a full conversation in a way that you understand, still make an effort for small talk. for example, "im going to get food, do you want something?" "good morning/hello/goodbye" "how are you?". sometimes they will have loved ones help communicate, but they may not. either way, dont talk past them 🤷‍♂️

  • @ltetobago
    @ltetobago 2 года назад +25

    Keep pushing..my daughter talked until about 5 or 6 and she started having seizures and lost it..she is not autistic..she's 22 now and every so often she says a few things signs a few things and knows everything

    • @swimmingturtle00
      @swimmingturtle00 2 года назад +1

      Daughters are beautiful blessings. She sounds blessed to have a mom like you 💕

    • @Krolted
      @Krolted 2 года назад +1

      Bless you and your beautiful daughter ❤️❤️

  • @lisadudley2005
    @lisadudley2005 5 месяцев назад +1

    He has the best parents. He was truly gifted with a couple of angels ❤

  • @GoatV8
    @GoatV8 2 года назад +208

    Seconds in and you can see what a great family this is. They're lucky to have Max and Max is lucky to have them

  • @hannahmccarty5228
    @hannahmccarty5228 2 года назад +598

    If everyone was raised by such a sweet mommy and grandparents, the world would be a much better place!! I’m so glad they all have one another! ♥️

    • @hannahmccarty5228
      @hannahmccarty5228 2 года назад +4

      @@dontworryabit9128 You seem to be trolling this video so I won’t even dignify your comment with a thoughtful response. I hope you have a great day. I also hope one day you look back on these words with shame, which leads you to change and become more compassionate. ❤️

    • @jieneric
      @jieneric 2 года назад +4

      @@hannahmccarty5228 they seem to have deleted their comment but your reply was epic.

    • @lmao2351
      @lmao2351 2 года назад

      You seem to be forgetting about the dad. Dads are no second class parents

  • @aardeng
    @aardeng Год назад +24

    I'm so glad you were able to raise money for Max, reading about his growth is truly heartwarming. Keep up the good work Max!

  • @livylu6287
    @livylu6287 Год назад +8

    My heart is full hearing how much they love him. That young man is lucky to have his family. ❤ And of course, they are lucky to have him. 😍

  • @mymoonearthsun
    @mymoonearthsun 2 года назад +324

    There are so many amazing families in this world and you can tell this is one of them!💙

  • @Dragonild
    @Dragonild 2 года назад +157

    Max’s mom was worried about people seeing only the bad things, so I’ll put that to rest: I think we can all agree that max has the most precious, amazing family. He’s happy, sweet, and makes me smile. I love seeing the passion and dedication his grandparents and mom have for enabling him to learn. I saw all the beautiful things about Max way before I thought about the negatives ❤️

    • @Ashley-if2rl
      @Ashley-if2rl 2 года назад +8

      Couldn’t have said it any better!! This is such a beautiful family!!❤️

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад

      @@Ashley-if2rl ❤❤❤

  • @dianebush3908
    @dianebush3908 Год назад +5

    It takes gifted people to take care of children with disabilities, God bless you.

  • @tanyabarnes2920
    @tanyabarnes2920 Год назад +2

    Helen Keller was blind and death and look what she accomplished with proper teaching..can't wait to see what max learns, because he is very smart and capable of everything!

    • @maxway1637
      @maxway1637 Год назад

      It’s the same school

    • @nicole4659
      @nicole4659 11 месяцев назад

      But she wasn't born deaf and blind.. It came at a young age. But yes she did accomplish so much

  • @HULLGRAFFITI
    @HULLGRAFFITI 2 года назад +119

    I did art workshop with a guy like Max and I found letting him explore objects in his hand using his super sensitive lips too then give him some modeling clay and watched him roughly replicate those shapes back in clay ..This was an amazing feeling knowing he had the chance to be crative in a tactle way and got the gyst of what I was thinking..Tried a real cat one time and low and behold he made a clay cat...

    • @mysurfing3550
      @mysurfing3550 2 года назад +8

      That's amazing!

    • @Ruby-xk8kn
      @Ruby-xk8kn 2 года назад +21

      That's so awesome!!! I would love to see those clay sculptures, deaf blind people have such a unique experience of the world and it would be fascinating the see art created through only touch and feel

    • @odapunkt
      @odapunkt 2 года назад +3

      Amazing idea!! Yes I believe Max can learn through touch!

    • @Nooooooooooooooooooooo7913
      @Nooooooooooooooooooooo7913 2 года назад +2

      Wow this is fascinating. Would definitely love to see this!

    • @darkacadpresenceinblood
      @darkacadpresenceinblood 2 года назад +2

      that's so cool!! ive always wondered what its like to have touch be your most "dominant" sense because most people rely on hearing and sight, it makes so much sense how deafblind ppl can make clay sculptures just as naturally as we able bodied ppl draw or replicate noises bc thats the sense they focus on most of the time

  • @nariabeautiful8043
    @nariabeautiful8043 2 года назад +104

    "And the point is he's human" I felt that. You go grandma!!!!!!🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

  • @CammieCakesz
    @CammieCakesz Год назад +2

    Max is definitely capable of learning. I realized that what seemed to be him hitting himself to me, was actually him patting his head like his mom does. I don’t think the problem is that he has an inability to learn, I think it’s the teachers inability to teach a child that can’t hear or see. This child communicates solely through touch and by feeling. But with all that being said Awesome Job Chris! You can tell you have a heart of gold if a child that cannot hear or see, can smile and be comfortable with you, he could literally feel the good vibrations.

  • @saleenapiano
    @saleenapiano 5 месяцев назад +2

    This family is incredibly sensitive and empathic in communicating with their son/grandson. I wish all parents/grandparents were like them. Very touching episode; it brings tears to my eyes

  • @UniquelyPenny
    @UniquelyPenny 2 года назад +348

    Max is SO empathetic so the “vibes” that are out there. He is 100% picking up what those around him are putting down.
    I really believe in what you are doing and love that this community exists. ❤️❤️

  • @EllenSmellen
    @EllenSmellen 2 года назад +60

    I don't think I've ever witnessed such a beautiful family

  • @Strength_In_Wisdom
    @Strength_In_Wisdom 2 года назад +9

    Max is Grandpas Heart!! I can feel their love through the video.😄

  • @ashleighbaugh9839
    @ashleighbaugh9839 Год назад +6

    His Grandpa is amazing. The way he talks about him and how he will do anything for him.. you know that's a proud grandfather

  • @fefemyluv
    @fefemyluv 2 года назад +234

    Max is truly loved. His grandfather, especially, exudes a fiery passion for him. ❤️

  • @yarrayarra3731
    @yarrayarra3731 2 года назад +67

    That man
    That mother
    I was thrown out of home over a hair cut years ago…
    This family love kills me every time 💕

    • @doloresdaphne8541
      @doloresdaphne8541 2 года назад +8

      💓💓💓💓 bless you

    • @chixbleau7321
      @chixbleau7321 2 года назад +5

      I’m sorry that happened..life is tough sometimes for us all in different ways..I hope you’ve become the person that you’re capable of becoming..Make yourself stronger and know that you love yourself..and you always got hope.. I feel for you!!Peace to your heart mind and soul..❤️❌⭕️❤️

    • @trext2277
      @trext2277 2 года назад +3

      I been down a long rd with my family also. I wonder who I would have been with these people cheering me on.

  • @Ronaee
    @Ronaee 2 года назад +20

    The energy from Max and his family is so amazing, they all seem like such wonderful people. It’s a shame there’s so many people who don’t believe in him. We believe in you Max!

  • @chrisgreen1904
    @chrisgreen1904 2 года назад +21

    This makes my day. Great family, the way they're working together to meet his needs. I love it.

  • @septixskeptix1107
    @septixskeptix1107 2 года назад +580

    At the time of writing this, Max has nearly reached $180,000! What a great community! I'm rooting for you , Max!

  • @margithammer8835
    @margithammer8835 2 года назад +74

    I don't understand why the schools would say Max is incapable of learning, to what, cover for the fact that they are incapable of teaching him? What an ego trip! Take responsibility. Deaf-blind and ID are eligibility categories under IDEA. They have a legal obligation to provide a free appropriate public education for him, and they are not. The school district should be paying for him to go to an out of state school that will meet his needs. I grew up in Illinois, and they did for me. The school district paid for me to go to an out of state residential school because the schools where I lived couldn't provide for my needs. This is the expectation. That family aught to hire a lawyer and sue the school district. It's totally reprehensible.

    • @kailynembrack9110
      @kailynembrack9110 2 года назад +1

      🥰

    • @sarahalbers5555
      @sarahalbers5555 2 года назад +1

      I agree, this family should pursue more opportunities for Max, even if they have to go thru legal channels. He deserves the best life has to offer. I adore him and his family!

  • @7nviie
    @7nviie Год назад +14

    such a beautiful family, such a beautiful child. as a disabled person myself, i thank you endlessly for these videos. it comforts me to be reassured that there are genuine, kind, and caring people in the world. 💕🙏🏼☮️

  • @rebekahnice7755
    @rebekahnice7755 Год назад +10

    Oh this family has my entire heart!

  • @lizadiana7406
    @lizadiana7406 2 года назад +259

    This family - besides being very loving - are pure genius in the way they help Max experience the world. They are wonderful educators! Thanks Chris for setting up the fund!

  • @TheNunududu
    @TheNunududu 2 года назад +95

    Max giggling and leaning on Chris is just the feel good moment of the week.

    • @mego9200
      @mego9200 2 года назад +3

      Definitely:)

    • @shaleamontanez4591
      @shaleamontanez4591 2 года назад +2

      He just enjoying his time, smiling and just so comfortable. My sister is also disabled and the one thing she will do is rest her head on my lap for comfort. It's incomparable

  • @IAmSuzyQ
    @IAmSuzyQ Год назад +1

    What's the point?
    *"The point is that he's human."*
    EXACTLY! He deserves all the same respect, attention, interaction, and dignity that anyone else does. Being blind, deaf, or nonverbal, doesn't make someone any less worthy of love and compassion.

  • @treemarie3080
    @treemarie3080 2 года назад +19

    It's so awesome to see Chris and Max become friends :) I love that Max's family is so protective yet sensitive to his needs and how he makes connections with people. What an amazing family

  • @angiepangie989
    @angiepangie989 2 года назад +37

    The joy on mom's face seeing her son connect with a new friend is PRICELESS 😍

  • @hamhawk2019
    @hamhawk2019 2 года назад +72

    "We all have the ability to learn if we get the opportunity to be taught" - the grandad. SO SO SO SO TRUE!!! I love this family and I am so thankful Max gets to grow up in a home where people are going to fight for him. Max has so much to offer this world, so I hope he can receive an education that will push him to reach his fullest potential.

  • @stucody
    @stucody 2 года назад +3

    That’s outrageous Max didn’t receive the proper specialist services. Here in the UK, early childhood support would be provided

  • @RebekhaGGamer
    @RebekhaGGamer 2 года назад +3

    I have a friend like him that I grew up with I'm still friends with him. He is so sweet and smart. He is able to hand sign too. I signed to him when I was learning to talk. He lives on his own in an assisted living apartment. He went to the school for the deaf and blind. I wish I could meet Max in person. He seems like a sweet boy. I like to see that his parents are loving and kind. They seem like the parents to be friends with. I love to see his parents so upbeat.

  • @darcyferrigno
    @darcyferrigno 2 года назад +276

    OMG when his grandma answered the question of why to talk to Max and she responds "Because he's human" is everything. I am so glad that Max has a loving, fighting, caring and wise support system of a family always with him. Love to you all.

  • @foreverkei-chan
    @foreverkei-chan 2 года назад +74

    The way these family members talk about Max makes me more fully understand how God thinks about us. How special to have seen this video

  • @lvrn124
    @lvrn124 4 дня назад

    He has an incredibly loving family. He is so loved and cherished.