How to date correctly?

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 22 июл 2024
  • Book a session with your new coach: mymentor.life
    For upcoming events: tonygaskins.com/events
    For courses on life, love, and business: tonygaskinsacademy.com
    To join this channel as a member of The Blessed Tribe: / @tonygaskins

Комментарии • 2,5 тыс.

  • @marquettawilson3712
    @marquettawilson3712 4 года назад +769

    When he said “ some of yall was raised by a worry wart, so everybody you meet you think they wanna chop you up and put you in their freezer” I hollered 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @YodyBrown2011
    @YodyBrown2011 4 года назад +808

    I criiiieeeeedddddd when he said he has to have Citizenship in the same Country 🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂😂, nothing but the TRUTH

    • @Empressshorts
      @Empressshorts 4 года назад +17

      Yolanda Marie he be having me hollering!! 🤣

    • @lyndapeoples8127
      @lyndapeoples8127 4 года назад +12

      Yolanda Marie... my eyes are already big and they got really big when I heard him say that! 😳

    • @Wavy-Waves
      @Wavy-Waves 4 года назад +15

      Yolanda Marie LAWD HAVE MERCY!!! He is telling the truth. My cousin just married a Nigerian & it has been a nightmare. I told that fool don’t do it!

    • @Wavy-Waves
      @Wavy-Waves 4 года назад +3

      Abisola Abiodun Girl start your RUclips channel first.

    • @kenyafromcali
      @kenyafromcali 4 года назад +2

      Ma’am that was nothing but the truth!

  • @marquittadixon7761
    @marquittadixon7761 Год назад +198

    This man is literally a comedian 🤣🤣🤣 but he dropping straight gems 💎 Thank you Tony!

  • @mariahpowell
    @mariahpowell 2 года назад +360

    “He better have transportation, a place to stay and citizenship” 😭😂😂😂

    • @DH-zi5ob
      @DH-zi5ob 2 года назад +7

      And when Brotha Tony said that third middle leg ready to dip that stick🤣🤣 that right there made me enthusiastic to wait!

    • @drea1228
      @drea1228 2 года назад +9

      He is soooo humorous 😂😂

    • @elizabethcross8372
      @elizabethcross8372 Год назад +16

      Emphasis on citizenship 🤣🤣🤣

    • @jacquelynsimmons6131
      @jacquelynsimmons6131 Год назад +4

      Say that!!

    • @elizabethclarke2005
      @elizabethclarke2005 3 месяца назад

      OMG I cant stop crying and laughing at the same time

  • @Best-ThingYouNeverHad
    @Best-ThingYouNeverHad 4 года назад +732

    I been dating wrong like my whole life. Good I know now. Its not too late to get it right

    • @Empressintuition
      @Empressintuition 4 года назад +7

      Ditto

    • @Kmillions77
      @Kmillions77 4 года назад +16

      Yes, same here! I wish I would of known all this before but glad I know now.

    • @Kmillions77
      @Kmillions77 4 года назад +5

      @@tiffanydiggs7625 yes, yes, yes bless you ❤

    • @ninasky3275
      @ninasky3275 4 года назад +6

      @@tiffanydiggs7625 yes thats right and we can teach our (future) children better

    • @uyiclementina6984
      @uyiclementina6984 4 года назад

      Hmmmm oh yes

  • @Watchme411
    @Watchme411 4 года назад +194

    "eating peach cobbler" 😋🍑 & " singing on the microphone" 🗣🎤 🤣🤣😂😂... love the subliminals

    • @Wavy-Waves
      @Wavy-Waves 4 года назад +13

      campbella 81 My slow 50 yr. old tail was lost for a minute.😂😂😂😂 I got it y’all. Y’all young folks is something else with these names.😳😂😂😂

    • @zelmahenry7300
      @zelmahenry7300 4 года назад +2

      😂😂😂😂eating peach cobbler and singing on the microphone

    • @lindaturner9018
      @lindaturner9018 4 года назад

      @@Wavy-Waves aá z

    • @skyshae3224
      @skyshae3224 2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂

  • @tiffanyharris9292
    @tiffanyharris9292 3 года назад +313

    For the single ladies this is great advice, I conducted myself in this same manner and my now fiancé said he appreciated the fact that I let him handle things yet he knew I had my own. Know your worth ladies and don't buy into what society says we should do.

  • @jamiepope9823
    @jamiepope9823 2 года назад +32

    Everytime I meet a new person, I come back to this video....this time I will follow the steps....

  • @michellelucius7973
    @michellelucius7973 4 года назад +546

    This is so true a guy was texting after the third day I’m like is it a reason you can’t call me. He said yes I’m in a situation. After he told me the situation ( He live with a Woman) I stop reply and blocked him.

    • @traquilasmith2275
      @traquilasmith2275 4 года назад +20

      U did right for your self. Don't waste your time Or settle for less that was a sign from God. God knows the right man. God bless

    • @saiyansnake
      @saiyansnake 4 года назад +12

      SMH, good riddance, that guy was a scum bag.

    • @manij1913
      @manij1913 4 года назад +31

      Michelle Lucius 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 instant BLOCK ...... that and “I live with my baby mama for the kids “ or “Sweetie we not together but you mine “ BBBLLLOOOCCCCKKKKKEEEDDDTTTT 😂

    • @MsSweets0211
      @MsSweets0211 4 года назад +2

      💪🏾

    • @Glamrocs
      @Glamrocs 4 года назад +14

      🤦🏾‍♀️ Thank God you was wasn’t desperate for a man

  • @candybroadway3023
    @candybroadway3023 4 года назад +785

    Tony is the big brother I never had...you have enriched my life. You have made a difference.

    • @jerelene21
      @jerelene21 3 года назад +5

      Agreed!🙏🏾

    • @CatGee
      @CatGee 3 года назад +1

      I always say the same! So true

    • @RecoveryCEO
      @RecoveryCEO 3 года назад +3

      I really give up on dating especially with black men.

    • @MoneTheGreatiAm
      @MoneTheGreatiAm 3 года назад +2

      BIG Facts!!!! He's saved me so much time

    • @nellynell3109
      @nellynell3109 3 года назад

      💯

  • @Steviecyanide444
    @Steviecyanide444 2 года назад +227

    I’m 20 with no type of guidance from either of my parents. I really needed this ✨

    • @Steviecyanide444
      @Steviecyanide444 2 года назад +17

      I been doin EVERYTHING wrong LMAOO

    • @xandriaborges
      @xandriaborges Год назад +5

      You wanna be friends girl?!? Im turning 20 next month 😊

    • @avanoelle5333
      @avanoelle5333 Год назад +11

      Same!! I’m pretty much reparenting myself. It’s a journey it’s hard af but I already feel so much better

    • @dimedavispresentstalkyospit
      @dimedavispresentstalkyospit Год назад +8

      I appreciate yall for realizing this early on💯💯 keep educating yourself and surround yourself with ppl who are on your level.
      Be different from the crowd. The crowd is crowded for a reason and misleading one another

    • @sherikawilliams1466
      @sherikawilliams1466 Год назад +1

      I was there am in my 30s learning this to teach my kids

  • @starlash-a
    @starlash-a Год назад +24

    You need 10 hours to know if he crazy 🤣 this man pure Gold

  • @lynmariah3539
    @lynmariah3539 4 года назад +165

    Father God I ask that you protect this Man , his mind as he continue to give us wisdom that we need . This generation NEEDS to hear this , you hear meeee! Satan is mad because he don’t want us to know this information , buttt God in your name I pray Amen🙏🏾

  • @ericabostwick4033
    @ericabostwick4033 4 года назад +278

    This is good step by step instructions....

  • @kimiko_111
    @kimiko_111 3 года назад +105

    "Broke, busted and disgusted" 😂😂😂

  • @seahorn2058
    @seahorn2058 3 года назад +278

    “It’s not that we aim high and miss, it’s that we aim low and hit”. This blessed me Mr. Gaskins, God bless you🙏🏽

  • @logikgirl12
    @logikgirl12 4 года назад +426

    This is bulletproof! Any person dating like this would never be underappreciated or lied to. The grown boys would not have space to do their misdeeds, they would be dropped very early on!

  • @jlove3371
    @jlove3371 4 года назад +658

    “This is a red flag if you meet a man and in the beginning all he’s doing is texting you”
    This is so correct and it’s my pet peeve...we’re grown, why text all day.

  • @noig_donnypia5647
    @noig_donnypia5647 4 месяца назад +8

    When my husband finds me, I want Tony at the wedding. 💒 I’ve learned more from him in the few months of watching his videos than from my own father in the 10 years, he’s been home from prison. It’s never too late to get it right. I didn’t have the proper guidance but God sent us Tony. for the women that wanna do right but weren’t taking the right steps. I’m excited for the new chapter I’m starting. no more giving in.

  • @Godfavorsmi
    @Godfavorsmi 4 года назад +78

    When he said “the bigger the Diamond the smaller the Love”, I automatically thought of Cardi B & Offset!😅

    • @doramawrie3741
      @doramawrie3741 3 года назад

      Lol Lovely Losja!!

    • @Mahogonykisses
      @Mahogonykisses 3 года назад

      Thissssss partttt!!

    • @nikkinanette8807
      @nikkinanette8807 3 года назад +2

      I know people like that personally. Buying the chick a larger wedding ring within the 1st year, then throwing the upgrade ring 💍 in other women’s faces only to get a divorce a few years later.

  • @Itsdannib
    @Itsdannib 4 года назад +423

    This could have saved me so much time dealing with individuals but I’m on it now! Thanks Tony for the vid🙌🏽🙏🏽

    • @oliviahatchett9334
      @oliviahatchett9334 4 года назад +4

      I know I’m late, but I just said this to myself lol

    • @yolettahall4003
      @yolettahall4003 4 года назад +2

      Same here, better late than never 🦋🌹❤️❣️

    • @Th3lite
      @Th3lite 4 года назад +8

      We live and we learn dear and it’s better late than never. Be good to yourself.

    • @btalley8198
      @btalley8198 3 года назад +4

      Deleting folks off my phone now...

    • @DanaEliz24
      @DanaEliz24 3 года назад +3

      I was just saying I wish I saw this 7 months ago ! God allowed us to see this video when we did for a reason so we are on it now Sis!!

  • @chasafras
    @chasafras 4 года назад +1309

    When he makes the woman’s voice when he’s explaining something 😂

    • @lzsunshine
      @lzsunshine 4 года назад +56

      Whew chile! He pops that tongue and gets to going and I fall out every time. I have to rewind to actually listen to what he has said because the voice takes me out every single time.

    • @marilynking527
      @marilynking527 4 года назад +6

      Marie Minx yes 😂😂😂

    • @Radience100
      @Radience100 4 года назад +20

      Yes! It’s hilarious !!!!!!😂🤣

    • @blacklove2923
      @blacklove2923 4 года назад +12

      Funny right..😭😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @missj5564
      @missj5564 4 года назад +16

      He is hilarious when he does that.

  • @gracedean2957
    @gracedean2957 4 года назад +46

    My mom and dad said this is the way it was during their times in the 50s and 60s. They didn't understand this dating one-person thing. During their time they didn't have sex, they called it "courting" and you could court whomever you wanted until you decided to marry. When I was dating I would tell guys this and they immediately want to call me a hoe because in their head they are thinking about having sex when dating is just apart of getting to know someone. In getting to know someone, sex is not a requirement.

  • @SmileyQueenlife
    @SmileyQueenlife 4 года назад +161

    This guy is a lifesaver. I been going through these grown boys giving in and letting them have their way but no more !!!

    • @aliciabenson474
      @aliciabenson474 3 года назад +7

      You not alone 😫🙏🏽

    • @valeriew364
      @valeriew364 2 года назад +5

      Amen, I’m tired of bending for them.

    • @dorothymatthews6690
      @dorothymatthews6690 2 года назад +8

      Good for you Kaykay! Been there done that too. I've been celebrate for 10 years now and will remain so until marriage.

  • @violets711
    @violets711 4 года назад +314

    I made it through all 48 minutes and this video was totally worth it. My eyes are open now!

  • @chantico221
    @chantico221 4 года назад +260

    Where was this video 10 years ago lawd! Lol

  • @Naturalwoman730
    @Naturalwoman730 4 года назад +181

    Loose bootie, singing on the mic and hotdogging, u are too funny, this is so informative and entertaining at the same time. I love it

    • @cheryljones2009
      @cheryljones2009 3 года назад +6

      I've never even heard the term "hotdogging" & I'm 50 years old!!! 😆 lol

    • @DeeQJohnson
      @DeeQJohnson 3 года назад +4

      What in the world is hotdogging😂

    • @shutit4024
      @shutit4024 2 года назад

      @@DeeQJohnson I think it means anal

  • @nursesrock4264
    @nursesrock4264 3 года назад +206

    This is the most important video you have ever posted, in my opinion. Step by step for the clueless and curious. It's definitely not a 1 or 2 time watch...it's a study and perfect type of lesson

    • @gorgeousreese9741
      @gorgeousreese9741 2 года назад +7

      Yesss I’ll definitely be studying and applying !

    • @donnahouston6958
      @donnahouston6958 2 года назад +8

      Wow i agree I have LISTEN To this Video like Three Times Before THIS Video Goodness I have made so many mistakes but this has really equipped me

  • @jereline100
    @jereline100 4 года назад +162

    I'm going to save this video for when I start dating again and i'm going follow your every step. When I get married I'm inviting you to my wedding Tony 😅
    Be blessed 🙏🏾

    • @TharaMesseroux1
      @TharaMesseroux1 2 года назад +1

      I am single now, but when I get married, I’ll let you know too, Tony!💗 Thank you for taking the time to educate us! Be blessed!🍀🦋

  • @shaylatates1338
    @shaylatates1338 4 года назад +83

    “Struggling with your loose booty ways “ 😩🤣🤣🤣 I love Tony Gaskins god bless point blank perioddd!

  • @yvonneatsu5323
    @yvonneatsu5323 3 года назад +17

    I believe in living separately before getting married. No need to play house. Thnak you Tony Gaskins!

  • @TharaMesseroux1
    @TharaMesseroux1 2 года назад +67

    I am single now, but when I get married, I’ll let you know, Tony!💗 Thank you for taking the time to educate us! Be blessed!🍀🦋

  • @shereewhite4828
    @shereewhite4828 4 года назад +515

    All the single ladies, including myself, as well as single men, let's M.I.U.M!!!!! (MAKE IT UNTIL MARRIAGE! = Abstinent until marriage! Last month marked my 6th yr of being abstinent! 😊

    • @Wavy-Waves
      @Wavy-Waves 4 года назад +27

      Sheree White So proud of you, because it can be difficult. Great example for all of us. Keep up the good work.

    • @shereewhite4828
      @shereewhite4828 4 года назад +46

      @@MichElle-py8lk While some are being sarcastic, God knows my heart & will honor my sacrifice. I shared my journey to inspire others. People give the award, God gives the reward.

    • @Wavy-Waves
      @Wavy-Waves 4 года назад +33

      Beulah4ever Honey, don’t be upset with someone trying to do right & get it right. Why don’t you take a page out of her book? She is winning along with countless other women. How is your way of doing it working out for you? See when you do it the right way, it is rewarding. I have lived my entire life this way, waiting till marriage. My medals are: no stds, no unwanted pregnancies, no abortions, a husband who adored me, children whom I knew who their father was, without wandering, not worrying about if he is cheating, or really loves me, & true happiness to name a few. Instead of bashing this lady, learn from her. Allow her to motivate you to do the same & get a good husband. Don’t put a sister down. Remember the message was from a real man,she happens to be a great example, like me.😎

    • @bronicaloglesby3610
      @bronicaloglesby3610 4 года назад +8

      @@shereewhite4828
      Keep up the great work 👍
      It's a struggle but you are showing others through example of what God can do through you!

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 4 года назад +3

      Great job 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @beauphomasterpiece3795
    @beauphomasterpiece3795 4 года назад +277

    Also I’d like to add do not drink anywhere with this person you are dating for at least 6-8 months in especially if you are celibate or abstinent. It can alter your decisions

    • @CeeceByrd
      @CeeceByrd 4 года назад +8

      👏👏👏😊

    • @Denise_Cocoa
      @Denise_Cocoa 4 года назад +18

      This is true but I’d like your opinion cuz I JUST had this conversation yesterday with a friend. She is dating a guy and wants to see him when he’s drinking/drunk so she can see how he behaves. Is he aggressive, mean, nasty, perverted, etc. What do you think about that perspective?

    • @Shae_3
      @Shae_3 4 года назад

      Yep

    • @hellosunshine3647
      @hellosunshine3647 4 года назад +19

      I had someone offer to cook me dinner and bring the wine. Df!! No sir, no thank! My coworker told me I was crazy for not accepting. But I barely drink as it is, I'm cleaning up my body, and I definitely will not drink with a man I'm getting to know. No! Stand on that!🙌

    • @hellosunshine3647
      @hellosunshine3647 4 года назад +3

      @@Denise_Cocoa that is interesting but can be dangerous? But I know some people drink on dates maybe one or two, but some people can hold their liquor well so it may require more. This is a hard one! I would say email tony with it. Hopefully we get an answer! Because I've dated a man who was an alcoholic and I had no clue until it was too late smh

  • @itsarisventures
    @itsarisventures 2 года назад +32

    Dating wrong my whole life I’ve paid for meals, supported a man allowed cheating and disrespect. Now I’ve been alone for 5 months and it’s the best time ever I’m learning more than I’ve ever learned . Can you do videos on women dating with kids

  • @radhikaraj7394
    @radhikaraj7394 3 года назад +28

    no eating that peach cobbler no singing on the microphone LOL! im done! Tony you are too good.

  • @jerra_latrice
    @jerra_latrice 4 года назад +102

    "God know I'm home safe."🤣

    • @marishalewis484
      @marishalewis484 4 года назад +4

      Jerra Latrice then he said I’m going to bed 🤣🤣🤣

    • @jerra_latrice
      @jerra_latrice 4 года назад +4

      @@marishalewis484 Right!! That was hilarious!😂

  • @kaydee_6644
    @kaydee_6644 4 года назад +160

    "One of them slices of pizza out that winda"😅🤣😆

    • @m.williams3497
      @m.williams3497 4 года назад

      Khadeeja Shah 😂😂

    • @ceejay51
      @ceejay51 4 года назад

      😂😂😂

    • @goddessblack8787
      @goddessblack8787 4 года назад +2

      I promise these phrases I had me rolling 😆😆

    • @truthloves3206
      @truthloves3206 4 года назад

      😂🤣

    • @LondonKLuv
      @LondonKLuv 4 года назад +3

      I love how that southern accent comes all the way through. lol

  • @kokokay9734
    @kokokay9734 Год назад +12

    This is seriously the best dating advice I’ve seen thus far.

  • @sephrah_precious
    @sephrah_precious 3 года назад +64

    My head is killing me from all the laughing 😂🤣. Your straight face humour in this is too much! Honestly, great tips and I’m saving this video for when the time comes 🙏🏽.

    • @triciamokoena3156
      @triciamokoena3156 2 года назад +3

      I thought I was the only one who was laughing so hard at his straight face humour !
      But indeed great tips. It will separate the grown boys from potential husbands.

    • @LadyJefferson
      @LadyJefferson Год назад +2

      You can at least take a walk around the lake and he can afford a slice of pizza ..

  • @krystavi05
    @krystavi05 4 года назад +501

    Where was this video when I was in my early twenties?! 😭😭😭
    I was told to save myself until marriage, but that's it. I wasn't given all this information, no red flags, no step-by-step instructions, not even clear boundary lines. Nothing. Just "no sex until marriage".
    I can't even begin to explain how necessary this video is! Thank you Tony Gaskins. You've made me feel much more capable of dating correctly with just this video. God continue to bless you!

    • @007stinkey
      @007stinkey 3 года назад +19

      I needed it about 21 days ago 😭😭😭

    • @Shanakkk
      @Shanakkk 3 года назад +4

      Never too late

    • @naturesgirl7447
      @naturesgirl7447 3 года назад +6

      I didn't get instructions neither

    • @golden_shaperson2419
      @golden_shaperson2419 3 года назад +1

      Sooo true

    • @shutit4024
      @shutit4024 2 года назад +2

      Sameeee I was only told once but not taught anything well I had friends having $ex and guess what I did?

  • @MzSoulll
    @MzSoulll 4 года назад +90

    "you still strugglin wit yo loose booty ways" - Tony Gaskins. lmaooo

  • @brittnyy113
    @brittnyy113 2 года назад +30

    I watched this video after talking to a guy for a few weeks and not being sure of where we were going...and literally the very next day, I used all the tips in the video to confidently have the big talk with the guy..... found out he was only looking for FWB, not a relationship! I had no idea of that before and he'dnever told me, because we'd never talked about it! We were going on nice dates, but never really talking and learning each other. Glad I watched this and was able to apply the tips, and save my time/emotions for someone serious.... it hurts ALOT! Because I really liked this guy, but I would've been more hurt if I'd given him the kitty and found out later he was playing me. I will use this video to guide me in the future!

    • @nicolemuse1164
      @nicolemuse1164 2 года назад +1

      I get ot but the signs were already there but glad you moved on

  • @rubikscube6722
    @rubikscube6722 3 года назад +45

    I got married at 30 and divorced at 40. If only I had access to this kind of advice before I got married. 100% of Tony’s advice in this video is true. I violated almost all of those things he forewarns here, and my exhusband did everything Tony forewarns of a selfish, shady man when I was dating him. Now looking to live the rest of my life with “me” at the forefront, not some stinking man. He needs to prove himself in every way the next time around 😂

  • @msbubblyqueen3536
    @msbubblyqueen3536 4 года назад +101

    Omg this is a great one.. @43 yrs old i thought i was old fashion ..but this is the true basics ladies👍☺

  • @phillyflytee9849
    @phillyflytee9849 4 года назад +215

    I dated a guy and within 2 months he asked me to be his gf. I could not be his gf because he did not have his own home.. I found out he was sleeping house to house couch to couch. Bye!!

    • @naram8282
      @naram8282 4 года назад +31

      I had the same scenario 🤣😂, on the third date that I’ve taken him for his bday, he asked to be his gf, ended up stuck with a ‘recovering’ addict in &out of sober homes, driving him around from a place to a place, doc app, spending money and energy on him because I felt sorry for him. What a waste of precious time:(

    • @princesssophiawise3560
      @princesssophiawise3560 3 года назад +8

      @@naram8282 woooooow! my jaw just dropped! wow!

    • @Ladydiva6590
      @Ladydiva6590 3 года назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @Ladydiva6590
      @Ladydiva6590 3 года назад +10

      @@naram8282 wow My ex boyfriend would go to work everyday. Every time I would ask him about going out on a date. He would play broke . But he had the Audacity to ask me for sex I told him to keep it moving and Goodbye 👋🏾

    • @naram8282
      @naram8282 3 года назад +4

      @@Ladydiva6590
      Good for you sweetie😃👍
      We, women have to learn to take the higher road than cheapen ourselves

  • @ramonaphillipsteach3284
    @ramonaphillipsteach3284 3 года назад +15

    I been married twice, once widowed. I did it the wrong way. Now God has healed my heart, I have forgiven my ex’s and myself. Got some therapy from past traumas. Today, I am ready, back at the gym, working on my brain, I know the Lord, we have a relationship. I am also an influencer. Thanks Tony!!!🙏🏽🙌🤗💕☀️

  • @thespiritualgospel555
    @thespiritualgospel555 4 года назад +38

    This my 5th time watching this I gotta get it rite 😂
    Update : still watching this video in 2021 trying this again before I get out there wish me look 😂

  • @chrisparker6249
    @chrisparker6249 4 года назад +847

    The roles have drastically switched these days....Women are now the hunters/pursuers, and some if not most men are okay with this change in pace. It's never a woman's place to pursue a man, no matter what the circumstances may be. Women are only to be in position to receive their King, emphasis on KING!

    • @chrisparker6249
      @chrisparker6249 4 года назад +27

      @Denetria Wright I agree Ms. Wright, we are attracted to each other physically for the most part, so this can easily put a woman in the position as the pursuer. Sadly there are some gorgeous people in this world but lack substance as well.

    • @fah232
      @fah232 4 года назад +35

      Right, I worked at a job and I have never seen women like these, they would walk up to men a just tell them what they want to do sexually to them.....I could never.

    • @queenofthesouth4205
      @queenofthesouth4205 4 года назад +3

      Thank you Mr Parker

    • @chrisparker6249
      @chrisparker6249 4 года назад +27

      @@fah232 Sadly F A H it's becoming a custom or normality in today's society where women are agressive in their approach and have no problem being the pursuer. I do feel that this behavior can establish an expectation for some men where they may see the woman as being easy to sleep with. That's not the tone we need to set here. Women are Queens but not every woman acknowledge her royalty.

    • @fah232
      @fah232 4 года назад +1

      @@chrisparker6249 Exactly

  • @vhayashi7369
    @vhayashi7369 4 года назад +100

    I love how he uses words he doesn't know exactly what they mean but he says he's "going to use it because he likes the way it sounds!" 😂😂😂

  • @chantelcaldwell598
    @chantelcaldwell598 3 года назад +37

    Yes!!! I need a man who is confident and can lead!!! Show me some chivalry and effort!

  • @cierraselby8733
    @cierraselby8733 4 года назад +38

    I thought I had it all together, I've been dating all wrong. I'm ready to do this the right way, thanks Tony! This was enlightening AND hilarious!

  • @ThatGyrlReese
    @ThatGyrlReese 4 года назад +321

    “God know I’m home safe. I ain’t got to tell you I’m home safe. What you goin do if I’m ain’t home safe. Nuthing.” 🤣🤣 Tony is hilarious.

    • @Laur_r.
      @Laur_r. 4 года назад +4

      Sharece Vance lol I had to replay that part! 😂

    • @Nasrumii
      @Nasrumii 4 года назад +2

      😂😂😂😭😭😭

    • @ThatGyrlReese
      @ThatGyrlReese 4 года назад

      Lauren B. 😂 I did too!

    • @SehYoga
      @SehYoga 4 года назад +1

      Sharece Vance lol

    • @queensmith2469
      @queensmith2469 3 года назад

      Lmao 😂 😂 😂

  • @msve3730
    @msve3730 4 года назад +405

    " A woman approaching a man is like a gizzel approaching a lion " basically your making it easy for them. Easy Prey

    • @elizabethschilling7178
      @elizabethschilling7178 4 года назад +10

      Great way of looking at this! Easy prey.

    • @msve3730
      @msve3730 4 года назад +13

      @@elizabethschilling7178 yup I was rethinking my entire life , I'm like man. Wtf was I doing

    • @traquilasmith2275
      @traquilasmith2275 4 года назад +3

      So true easy prey wow good point.

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 4 года назад +16

      ***Gazelle

    • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
      @durbansaladyinaccra2173 4 года назад +5

      @@nikkyshamz2696 I am in the same habit of correcting people's spelling. We should have been English teachers :D

  • @jooo-cfroot8281
    @jooo-cfroot8281 Год назад +16

    It makes me sad that I made so many mistakes in the past but I was desperate just wanting to be loved and he played the exact games you mention 😢.
    Thank You Tony for your Honest approach….I can take it and I will use the knowledge!

  • @sharonjudd7786
    @sharonjudd7786 4 года назад +48

    I love your “gaskinisms” like “loose booty ways” or hot like Caesar’s” “look like the back of a 67 Chevy” “Dip that stick in aguafina” “no singing on the microphone or eating the peach cobbler🤣😝😝🤣😂. Tony you are the BEST! Love your channel.

  • @elizabethschilling7178
    @elizabethschilling7178 4 года назад +278

    Lol! Loose booty ways!! 🤦‍♀️😂😂

    • @dorothysparrow4355
      @dorothysparrow4355 4 года назад +8

      I was on the floor😂😂🤣🤣

    • @TiffanyBTV
      @TiffanyBTV 4 года назад +9

      Holleringggggg 😂😂😂😂

    • @Theduchess0709
      @Theduchess0709 4 года назад +2

      Elizabeth Schilling girl I cried laughing 😂

    • @MsDash17
      @MsDash17 4 года назад +2

      @@Theduchess0709 🤣 LOL!!

    • @CeeceByrd
      @CeeceByrd 4 года назад +1

      😂

  • @HeartOfGold..
    @HeartOfGold.. 4 года назад +204

    Seems like this is going to be an informative video. I just turned 22 never had a Bf yet. Just taking notes and getting my personal life together. Waiting until the time is right in my life to be in a relationship. I don't want to give my time to the wrong man.

    • @amazingasia_
      @amazingasia_ 4 года назад +5

      Heart Of Gold I completely understand. Good for you!

    • @tierajohnson1556
      @tierajohnson1556 4 года назад +7

      stay that way girly you'll know when the time is right .

    • @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
      @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 4 года назад +8

      Follow this advice to the last word and you'll be a-okay

    • @sha2408
      @sha2408 4 года назад +6

      Heart Of Gold you came to the absolute right place! Listen to every video! Get this knowledge!

    • @HeartOfGold..
      @HeartOfGold.. 4 года назад +3

      @@sha2408 Thank you
      I have been watching his videos for a while now. All of them are so helpful. My goal is to binge all of them lol

  • @KB-tj4qb
    @KB-tj4qb 3 года назад +27

    He said “you think everybody ready to chop you up “ that’s me 😂😂😂

  • @Letta0725
    @Letta0725 4 года назад +89

    Thank you Tony ,my dad never had talks with me. I been in alot of bad relationships and currently in an engagement that I'm really trying to make sure he is the right one. You are like the father/ big brother I wish I had. I just turned 31 and now just learning

    • @AwkMind
      @AwkMind 3 года назад +4

      The same.. Wasted precious years looking for a replacement. Just learning now.

    • @francescalegrand6257
      @francescalegrand6257 3 года назад +15

      I'm just learning all of this currently. And, I will be 62 in a few weeks !!
      Better late than ever ??!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @a.8774
    @a.8774 4 года назад +52

    I like it when Tony changes his voice to the feminine side 😀❤️

    • @hoyatay2004
      @hoyatay2004 4 года назад +3

      Anne Johnson pure gold!😹

  • @TrueEssence100
    @TrueEssence100 4 года назад +112

    OMG..I'm hollering...."Loose booty ways"🤣🤣🤣

    • @Mirror_My_Ambition
      @Mirror_My_Ambition 4 года назад +3

      Gurrrrlllll...he is so funny. He took me out with that

    • @LatashaToday
      @LatashaToday 4 года назад +1

      D'Essence of Beautee I almost cried

  • @MayfairJones
    @MayfairJones 2 года назад +5

    Was Married for 23 years...Tony is Absolutely RIGHT ✅

  • @trinasworld9377
    @trinasworld9377 3 года назад +9

    I'm 50 and I see this with a lot of guys, they are easy to read.

  • @ashunt29
    @ashunt29 4 года назад +133

    I appreciate me some Tony Gaskins!!! He keeps it so real. He's like having a great guy friend who won't stir you wrong. He really looks out for women, we need to have support from a Christian man who tells his faults as a player but how he's changed his life around for the better. I love how he loves and incorporates his love for his wife in his videos. He paints pictures for me. Can't wait to get their book together or hear from her. She sounds like a strong woman. His messages are for free, that's priceless.

    • @devonadee858
      @devonadee858 4 года назад

      That book is going to be good!

    • @ashunt29
      @ashunt29 4 года назад +1

      @@p_tiffanii I will have to check Pastor Blakes out. Thank you for your recommendation. He reminds me of Chico Bean, the comedian, as far as his physical attributes.

    • @christinedozier2154
      @christinedozier2154 2 года назад

      Exactly!

  • @alicea561
    @alicea561 4 года назад +39

    Sometimes your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows

  • @mariahconklin4150
    @mariahconklin4150 2 года назад +5

    He asked for my number. ☺️ What a good guy and he called me within 24 hrs. And he’s never been in a relationship. What a winner with a great mom. 🙏👏👏👏

  • @madonatadros2041
    @madonatadros2041 2 года назад +21

    This man has changed my life for the better. You are doing God’s work Tony! God is blessing you and your family.

  • @GoodGrief101
    @GoodGrief101 4 года назад +96

    I learned in my early twenties to not let a man buy me a drink. I did a few times while out with friend’s. Anyway, an eight dollar drink isn’t an investment in my time. It doesn’t give anyone the go ahead to follow anyone around and etc. I started being upfront and would let them know if you buy me a drink, do it because you want to, but don’t expect anything. I would get a drink and be left alone. Setting boundaries and being upfront is a must! Tony knows what he’s talking about. I wish that I could have known a lot of this stuff as soon as I turned 18 to avoid a lot of nonsense. Thank you and be blessed!

    • @prettygirllafarrah
      @prettygirllafarrah 4 года назад +9

      LaVette I wish the same ! No one really taught us about dating and dating rules . We just went the flow 🤷🏾‍♀️.

    • @GoodGrief101
      @GoodGrief101 4 года назад +7

      prettygirllafarrah that’s true. My kid’s are teens and I probably over share. I wasn’t talked to 🙄and I want them to be smarter than I was.

    • @traquilasmith2275
      @traquilasmith2275 4 года назад +1

      Right so true i wish i knew this year's ago as well learning and growing now. 👏

    • @GoodGrief101
      @GoodGrief101 4 года назад

      Traquila Smith it’s nice to be 40 and waking all the way up!

  • @knightyknight5399
    @knightyknight5399 4 года назад +158

    Gave a guy my number and he was texting me 01:30 in the morning calling me honey and baby....That was a no from me...😣..Hes number was lost in a heart beat...

  • @Jasmyne444
    @Jasmyne444 4 года назад +19

    This has changed my life. 🤯🤯🤯 God bless you 🙌🏾

  • @courtneyhoward9096
    @courtneyhoward9096 8 месяцев назад +7

    Thank you, Tony, for this! My mom never taught me anything about dating except you have to be friends first (get to know them), My dad wasn't around, and my two older brothers didn't teach me anything. So I appreciate this information at 34 years old. Bless you 🙏🏾

  • @m.williams3497
    @m.williams3497 4 года назад +91

    “You still struggling with loose booty ways” 😩😂😂😩

  • @mirandasmith8501
    @mirandasmith8501 4 года назад +135

    I don't have any brothers until now. Tony is the protective brother I always wanted. Thank you big bro, much love for you❤

  • @nadeanbowles3052
    @nadeanbowles3052 4 года назад +7

    “When we play mind games, everybody loses.” -TG. AMEN!!!!!!

  • @lasonjacade489
    @lasonjacade489 3 года назад +6

    I spit out my drink when Tony said” You can’t be hot dogging and eating peach cobbler.” I hollered!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 The way he put things appropriately is so funny! But, what about “ dipping that stick in some Aquafina phrase??? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This video has truly blessed me. Thank you, Tony

  • @Beautifullybyg
    @Beautifullybyg 4 года назад +54

    I'm going to revise my dating goals and expectations.

  • @MzSoulll
    @MzSoulll 4 года назад +90

    "You cant be over here looking like who shot John and forgot to kill him?!" 😭😭😭

  • @lynn4134
    @lynn4134 9 месяцев назад +5

    This advice is 1000% on point! If you are dating do this and you will save yourself a lot of time point blank period lol. I just started dating again after a break up (and proper healing time) and came back for a refresher lol

  • @extinctionlevelevent1431
    @extinctionlevelevent1431 4 года назад +85

    From the mouth of Tupac:
    “If a man knows you’ll do anything for him, then he will RUN you.”
    “Ladies, you have ALL the power. Stand your ground and hold tight to your principles.”
    “You LEAD him...or you LEAVE him!”
    In other words...Push for what you want from a man, or you let him go!

  • @shereewhite4828
    @shereewhite4828 4 года назад +71

    OMG!!!! This was soooooo informative for women & men of ALL AGES! I'm a 51yr old black woman who's very old fashioned! I agree 100% with what you've explained brother Tony. Women pleeeeease listen to this man, he's speaking the whole truth & nothing but the truth! Men take note on dating & courting, there's a difference. I'm so old school I still use blue magic grease & sulfur 8 grease! 😂😂😂 God bless you brother Tony. This message really blessed me.

    • @phyllisgoodnight9481
      @phyllisgoodnight9481 4 года назад +3

      He should teach this in the church's to the young ladies or the church should get the lesson and start teaching them. We need to do things God's way
      again.

    • @prossykemigisha1708
      @prossykemigisha1708 3 года назад +1

      @@phyllisgoodnight9481 Amen to that.

  • @TiffanyBTV
    @TiffanyBTV 4 года назад +117

    I Uber everywhere when going on dates. These ppl could be crazy. I don’t need anyone popping up at my house when things go bad. So far so good glad i stop letting ppl know where i live

    • @beauphomasterpiece3795
      @beauphomasterpiece3795 4 года назад +6

      TiffanyB TV that’s a good idea cause I’ve dated people who have access to systems so if they saw my car tag they can figure out where you live . Crazy yes

    • @wall47291
      @wall47291 4 года назад +1

      @@DatDyme980 me too

    • @TiffanyBTV
      @TiffanyBTV 4 года назад

      IMPACT BEAUTY 😳😳😱😱😱

    • @m.williams3497
      @m.williams3497 4 года назад +5

      Nikki Doe the google number is my favorite I give it to everybody. Only ppl super close to me have my number

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 4 года назад +1

      TiffanyB TV when should you allow them to pick you up? On the second date or when your in a relationship?

  • @yasyas1
    @yasyas1 3 года назад +25

    He is hilarious “Looking like who shot John and forgot to kill him” 😂

  • @queencharles3527
    @queencharles3527 3 года назад

    This is an amazing video. I watched it four times and saved it in my notes! Thank you Tony🙂

  • @begee5847
    @begee5847 4 года назад +35

    “A woman is a wife.” Be blessed ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ashleygoodrich3294
    @ashleygoodrich3294 4 года назад +83

    The next guy I meet I hope he doesn’t like dating like that cause we’ll have that in common. I’m so tired of running into men claiming “ We don’t have to do anything” then going Ghost just because I’m keeping my Legs closed🙄🙄 Dating is so annoying nowadays

    • @mwellsdr
      @mwellsdr 4 года назад +2

      Sis I'm going through the shit right. Now.... you want everything in the world until I tell you... wont be no goosie in this coochie

    • @desire202
      @desire202 4 года назад +2

      Exhausting...

    • @ascelinek
      @ascelinek 3 года назад +1

      Sis I’m tired, it’s the same cycle of grown boys over and over again. As soon as you don’t give it up then they skate right outta there 🙃

    • @xekaicithole3433
      @xekaicithole3433 3 года назад +2

      I have done this but still the guys go away.

    • @micheleantoinette8072
      @micheleantoinette8072 3 года назад +1

      Dating is so frustrating and a lot of it comes from dishonesty--- people unwilling to be upfront or hiding their true intentions... I've only just turned 30 this year and I'm already disheartened 😔.

  • @mangoesnbreadfruit01
    @mangoesnbreadfruit01 3 года назад +3

    You're seriously like the brother I always needed! 🙏🏽 I truly appreciate this video.

  • @stephyLynn7
    @stephyLynn7 2 года назад +1

    This is gold! Thanks brother!

  • @shaylat79
    @shaylat79 4 года назад +68

    Wow lmbo.... you are one of a kind in metaphors and similes “ Aquafina”, “3rd leg” , “ Peach cobbler” etc ....

  • @BA-hb9hh
    @BA-hb9hh 4 года назад +31

    THIS VID SHOULD BE IN THE SCHOOL SYSTEM. BRAVO TO YOU FOR THIS FABULOUS VIDEO

    • @anitahobbs839
      @anitahobbs839 3 года назад +3

      Lol so true ! I needed this years ago !

  • @jamie1879
    @jamie1879 3 года назад

    I'm taking notes and saving this video for the future....thank you Tony. This video right here is a gold mine

  • @chirciusimona4315
    @chirciusimona4315 4 года назад +1

    Your advice is high quality, thank you for talking about these things.

  • @brownsugarglamour
    @brownsugarglamour 4 года назад +119

    “Celibant” 😂😭😭💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

    • @ci.ci.1998
      @ci.ci.1998 4 года назад

      brownsugarglamour 😂😂😂💀💀💀💀

    • @jamiechang1561
      @jamiechang1561 4 года назад +3

      LMAO!!!!!! "Celibant. No you ain't because you can't spell it" 😂😂😂

  • @bowleged1
    @bowleged1 4 года назад +23

    Soon as my phone said Tony Gaskins uploaded a new video I had a moment of Glee

  • @blyessgraze6065
    @blyessgraze6065 4 года назад +2

    Love this message very helpful!🙏🏽

  • @mbrook4983
    @mbrook4983 3 года назад +3

    “Come on Tony.. with this here now dating sermon”..I love this!!! Thank you for this knowledge and education

  • @lionessetoile660
    @lionessetoile660 4 года назад +51

    41 dislikes are those Men who feel like losing stupid fish to get from the river.
    We are here to learn and get ourselves ready into this crazy and messy world.
    Thank you so much.
    I sat quietly and paid attention to your advices like a preschooler do.
    Stay blessed 🙌

  • @LatashaCM
    @LatashaCM 3 года назад +1

    I enjoyed this. You are so real!!! Thank you👏

  • @sunshinexoxo4984
    @sunshinexoxo4984 3 года назад +4

    This is going to be my dating Bible. All of this made soo much sense!

  • @lyndapeoples8127
    @lyndapeoples8127 4 года назад +173

    This is probably the best video that I've ever heard regarding dating, Tony. I learned a lot and I appreciate it. It all makes sense to me...kind of strict. I live a strict life so that's saying something!!