How to actually dress modestly! | Biblical Womanhood, Traditional Wife & Marriage, HOMEMAKING
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ABOUT THIS CHANNEL | I am a wife to an exceptional man, a mother to beloved daughters, a diligent homemaker, and a businesswoman. But before all these roles I am a woman who belongs to The Lord. A daughter to the God of The Bible through the work of my savior Jesus Christ. On this channel, you will enjoy content designed to cultivate a rich experience of biblical womanhood. You will be encouraged to place your true hope and faith in the Lord. You will also hear hard discussions about accountability and personal responsibility for your life and what it produces. We embrace real character and integrity as much as we do physical beauty and femininity. We are called to be women of our Father's Kingdom and to honor Him with our speech, actions, and our modest yet feminine dress. I would love to have you along for the ride as we embrace a manner of life that brings honor to the name of our Father and get to the work of accomplishing our mission.
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When we dress modesly, we reveal our dignity.
Period.
As a Christian woman, this is the most insightful explanation of modesty I have ever heard. Any deviation from this concept is a form of lasciviousness.
Coming from a father and evangelist. I want to thank you so much sister. May the Lord continue to bless you with the wisdom that so many young women are lacking today 🙏
She says this so eloquently but clearly Truth!
The thing about a woman's body is that all parts are sexualized. Best to just always dress elegant and classy then there is no question to "Is my outfit modest enough." You also have a completely different attitude when you dress elegantly vs provocatively. Women aren't dumb, we know exactly what we're doing when we get dressed. We just have to keep in mind who's eyes will be on us that day and go from there.
You got some women that are just brick houses though 😂.
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Modesty and Elegance are always the best way to go, because you can be feminine without beeing sexualized and attract the right kind of men that are respectful and modest too
Where can i find women, smart, like you
@@sagittarius420cheefiemaking fun of Gods creations?
I love it when the truth is revealed . Thank you ! I love your hair
Your husand is a very lucky man, blessings to both of you
I absolutely agree with you. ❤
Luck?
Blessed and favored not lucky.
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HOLINESS starts from the inside and then HOLY SPIRIT will tell you what's right to wear and things to just throw away. I'm single commandment keeping woman and this is very true what is being taught.
This what’s missing…the Holy Spirit😢
Very well stated, thank you 😊 👏🏽
Holiness starts from the inside to the outside, it gain expression outwardly and not only inwardly
Woman never started wearing pants until after World War Two. Pants were always seen as a man’s garment.
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I love you!! Wise woman + absolutely gorgeous = you. Women like u are in danger of extinction! Stay this way always....
We need more (Christian) women like you. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Y’all need more Christian women to use and abuse, by cheating with the complete opposite of modest women😐🤦🏾♀️
@@Themachine3.0Thank you.
Simply a deep explanation sis it's too bad that some women will not receive this truth continue to be decent.
That’s one of the things that Muslim Women do really well. Modesty! And we should all be taking notes!!!
even the curvier muslim women are able to not reveal their figure! it can be done!
we don't need to learn anything from Muslims
I agree. I enjoy Bindi's content a lot, but when I hear snippets like this and visit her clothing site, there's a little bit of disconnect going on. While they are pretty, I think the lower cut necklines, 'high waisted' skirts, and cinched waists that she wears and sells do show off our form and, therefore, are not modest enough to keep our brethren from stumbling. The v-necks are basically an arrow pointing to our chests, and the high-waisted/cinched waists give the appearance of an hourglass figure, which men find very alluring - a large chest and wide hips. I think the clothes she wears and sells are more modest than what the world wears and sells, but the world's only standard for modesty is not getting a fine for public indecency, so the bar is practically nonexistent. Even if her clothes are giving an 'illusion' of a form, the point of modesty is to hide the female form entirely, not change or mimic the feminine physique. This is also one of the reasons I stopped wearing makeup when I became a Christian.
I'm a Christian in America, and I actually wear a head and face covering out in public and when we have guests. I started doing it during the tail end of the pandemic, and I feel more comfortable knowing that I'm doing whatever is in my power to not be a stumbling block to anybody. I believe, and through studying, that God gave women beauty as a form of glory (because the glorified state of everything is beautiful beyond imagination) and we should therefore hide that glory so as not to 'kill' our brethren, just as Moses was instructed to wear a veil to hide the glory that stained his face when he caught a glimpse of God's back so people wouldn't die when they looked at him.
I get mistaken for a Muslim a lot, but it's just because Muslims are distinguished for their total modesty. It's kind of a shame to Christian women that whenever we dress in a way that we can be certain it won't be a stumbling block to others, we get mistaken for a different religion. Christians were the ones that stood out in the earliest period of Christianity because of their modesty (everyone was pretty modest still, but i just mean Roman women werent wearing veils anymore and wearing dresses that showed more skin - like the Roman-style sculptures of Aphrodite and Athena for example). I think we should be the modest weirdos of society, and I don't think just not showing our legs is enough. Our femininity should be in our modesty and our humility, not in the colors we wear or the shape of the dresses that suit our body types (like Empire waist dresses that are marketed as "modest", but still show that you have a defined waist).
Just to be clear, I see the head and face covering to be the highest standard of modesty, while not showing legs is the bare minimum. The world's standard for modesty is on the floor, and modern Christian standards of modesty are just a little higher than that. I don't want to offend anybody, but I do believe we can do more to keep ourselves above reproach, and to not give anyone an account against us on Judgment Day.
I was waiting for the video to be released, and it's released now! It covers modesty and veiling from the point of view of Scripture, historical Christianity, and the culture surrounding veiling.
Go to the RUclips search bar and type in "Ante-Nicene Christianity Christian Women MUST Wear Veils"
It should be the most recently uploaded video on the Ante-Nicene Christianity channel. I also recommend checking out their other videos, but be warned they are VERY long format. :) I hope the channel helps!
@@Sk8ergurlie1 this was wonderful to read, you’re full of wisdom.
You are right. Athleisure wear can be very revealing.
Wear UNDER the long dress/robe(male) very easy to do
I don’t wear it outside of the home. But good idea!
True. Yet it could be modest while letting the agents engage in sports without the so called restraint.
Another thing is that context also contributes to the mind frame and the understanding of what dresses are.
For instance some African traditional wears for women cover just the chest region and down leaving the belly open. You could also observe the dress code in beaches, it's the same the exalting of undies.
But these don't look as indecent as when worn in the market etc.
Modesty could always be applied. It seeks moderation, virtue lies in the middle
Over the last 3 years I’ve transformed my wardrobe , glory to Christ but it’s been difficult , seeing that I am really curvy with large hips . Even going a size or 2 up in dresses that are deemed modest sometimes you still can see my figure or I look like I’m wearing a potato sack and it can be discouraging sometimes
If you have a husband don't worry about looking like you're wearing a sack. No one should look at you sexually but your husband. Now if you don't have a husband you don't to attract a man with your flesh.
God created you with that figure. I don't think you should be ashamed of it.
@@kerrymartin7557 that’s true , it’s not really shame it’s more so discouraging when it comes to shopping or getting dress , then I end up just throwing on the same dress I always wear lol
@@kerrymartin7557I don’t think that’s shame. Just awareness.
We don’t want to cause men to stumble. And we have to remember that not all men are single
Men.
The worst way to make friends with other women is to make them feel like they have to help their husbands avoid you. 😂
I have the same thing, but I have figured it out over the past couple of years. We have to remember that we don't want to be vain. There are clothing items where you can look nice, but not revealing or a potato sack. Dear sister, remember your body is not yours, but the temple of the Most High. You have it on loan so to speak. To to remember that you're not trying to impress anyone with your clothing, you're covering the Holy Temple of God. ❤ If you're married, I'm sure you're husband appreciates your modesty. My husband definitely does. I also cover my head. If you're not married, your future husband will appreciate your modesty. Take heart dear sister in Christ and remember whose you are. You are beautiful inside and out. 🥰🙌❤️
Dr Kent Hovind talks about how his dad always told him with regards to women dressing provocatively, the answer to them should be: " If your not in business, then don't advertise."
Holy Spirit, help me to be more mindful, thank You God.
And thanks Bindi for helping me too
You look smart and intelligent lady @nambassalaurahdeniize what is your secret if you don't mind Queen 😊
AMEN 🙏🙏
“Dress how you want to be addressed” is something Abba has been transforming my mind with. He’s such a good Father who wants His daughters to respect themselves. Love this explanation!
i agree with you. These days people don't believe in much modesty.
She’s a naturally stunning human being
God Bless you Madam. Your anointing will never run dry in Jesus name. You are speaking biblical truth at a time when christians are conforming to worldly standards.
The husband is the owner of your body when you're married couples should check each other before leaving home. You are very young too hold to your belief and teaching. You're beautifully made no makeup or tattoos, jewelry, nail polish, its all naturally you. Even your hair looks nice and naturally yours. I haven't seen no as young as you posting or speaking with makeup. Thanks you for appearing on Utube Channel. The younger generation needed this coming from someone who has truly was taught the righteous way. This post has my vote. Beautifully done. PeaceUn2U♡U Keep Posting. 07/24/24
I needed to add to this post. We are talking about women period point blank. This'll type of women, every man should want in a Christian woman and wife. I'm in agreement when it comes to a woman Christian ✝️ modestly dress code period. We, as women's non-Christian as well. Lets talk about married women in show business shouldn't be exposed their nake breast, butt's or buttocks to whole 🌎 world on live television and media. And some confession to be ✝️ Christian believer. Especially married women, it doesn't matter whether you're a single or married woman you shouldn't be doing it at all. The eyes, can form imagination in the mind.Than, when you cry rape is a violated of your privacy. Young woman's of this generation X Y Z honors your own body. Cover your butt's nakedness. Thanks again keep setting examples for this younger generation beautiful princess in this cruel wick 🌎 07/28/24.
Totally agree!!! I'm on a journey of changing my wardrobe to be modest and I love your content
Do you have any websites or stores you like? I’m also on a journey to dress modestly and am having trouble finding stores that I enjoy. I wish you the best on your journey, praise the Lord Jesus ❤️❤️
Ladies Temu is good
Modesty is something that I’ve always struggled with in my walk with God & have been praying for more insight around it. Your content sheds light on the subject in such a beautiful way. ❤
I learned very young that fad and fashion are two very different things. Fashion is timeless and elegant and often more modest. Strive to ignore trends and go for timeless designs.
Modesty shouldn't be a struggle. We should know what's right and what's wrong! If the body is revealing what shouldn't be, then it means cover up respectfully and comfortably.
I loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee it. I’m a Christian man, but both true Christians and true Muslims do a GREAT JOB WITH THIS. God I can’t wait till you tell me I’m ready for my wife😫🙏🏽
She is beautiful not only outside but inner beauty as well
I really admire you. You are decent, one of a kind and a very good example to many women out there. Well done.
Modesty and meekness are powerful. Invitingeveryonee to see the preciousness of our body doesnt show strength, it suggests weakness.
Yep! And people will push back against this all day long but it’s true
Public comment. Purity and respect and protecting your dignity and integrity . Serving the true purpose by understanding and principles of life. Self realization is the key to success. Thank you so much for sharing your views and fact now generations.
This is very true we need to as women be mindful of how we present ourselves especially in clothing
I listened to one short of yours and subscribed. Thank you for being a classy lady and setting an example for women. Us men need more women like you. Thank you
I wish today’s women would embrace you as their role model.. Keep it up sister! 👍🏽👍🏽
I hope today's women, men, and children would embrace the Word of God as their role model!
It's such a relief that I am not the only one who thinks this way.
Amen I’m starting my wardrobe change and this is exactly what I’m keeping in mind
Man... thank God for you, It's obvious that Christ is in you based on your ideals and values, keep shining your light in this dark world.🙏🏽
She is the wife most men want… I would Marry her immediately she not influenced by worldly things!!!
I love your channel. Every time I put something on, I always ask my husband if it’s okay/appropriate. Has nothing to do with control but everything to do with respect :)
this woman here is beautiful inside out. I love her already... I hope many young girls will listen to what she has to say
You are so beautiful. Black beauty in its naturalness. No makeup. Very rare
One of those qualities I am eagerly looking forward to see. I wish I could get to know you young lady. Thanks for being You. Stay blessed ❤
I totally agree with what you're saying it's definitely the truth but sometimes I feel like we just not need to look at the woman but we need to look at the man as well some man dress very provocatively as well and they wear tight clothes to show everything and show off. Women also can be tempted and man can temp another man nowadays just like a woman can temp another woman as well. These days just like the Bible talk about you just don't how a person is and what is in their heart so both sexes need to be careful regardless and carry themself modest. So all I'm saying most people focus on just the woman but some men need to be corrected as well. But I do totally agree with what you're saying but for both sexes.👍🏽 God bless😊🙏🏽
Well said, young Sister in Christ!
I think dressing modestly would take a lot of stress from women too because we don’t have to care about whether we look a certain way etc it’s just easier to just throw on something more loose and simple.
I agree.. leave something to one's imagination; becoming tasteful .
Unfortunately, a lot of women think to dress less means beauty. A good man will look beyond that
Thank you Holly Spirit for teaching me this...i am in my journey of transformation and wearing modesty is one of what you taught me 🙏🙏❤
There is nothing hotter than a pretty woman wearing a sundress.
I totally listened to what you said. But omg I'm loving your hair!
Thank you...what a blessing beyond words. Men with good intentions need women to help us with purity....this is not to absolve us of responsibility, but power lies in the decisions of women to influence morally upright environments to help for us as men to elevate. Caring is cultivating community.
I relate to your thoughts and know certainly levels of truths. I carry weight as a notation and know something more fitted is sometimes best to not feel like I am wearing a bag. Yiur point is well taken.❤
So true and should definitely be shared. It's gotten so bad that even older black grandma's are wearing these skin tight form fitting trash. Let's do better!
Beautiful and Wise. God bless you abundantly
I pray for overall wellbeing for you Vicky....and remember, decency is beautiful, it's classy, it's elegance. All the best in your endeavours dear. ❤✌🏾
This lady is so beautiful. She exudes holiness 🙏🏾
You are such a beautiful woman! Just followed and watching all your videos.
Lovely vessel is overflowing with spiritual biblical reality precious perfection ❤
This should apply to males too. Some men wear ill-fitting clothing that just is inappropriate 😮 when you look at the bigger picture. As people of faith, modesty should go both ways (to everyone, including males, not just women).
True but here she specifically refers to women
Look at this girl, not a touch of makeup, quite beautiful.🙂
Wow, you’re amazing. Would’ve been a guy saying that he would’ve been accused of being a pervert. I really appreciate you saying that I am noticing it thank you.
Those Locs are hella fire af fr! Much Love and Respect from Seattle 💙💚💯
You should make a sign for wal-mart and one for the gym
God bless you for speaking truth
Beautiful message Sis-star 🌟 That crown looks gorgeous! I remember your video at the beginning of your loc journey ❤
Natural beauty!!!❤
She's right
Just that, the second kind is harder to avoid, since we're trying to balance looking good and being decent.
It can be tricky sometimes
This was an excellent perspective. I was trying on clothes today that I ordered online and this was exactly I was taking into account.
Very well explained!
Yesterday a man complimented my arms and said they are sexy 😢 men are very visual and can make anything sexual so no need to help them by dressing scandously!
You focus should be about honoring God with how you dress not man.
@@faith8303 by dressing modestly
In total agreement.
This is responsibility from the scriptures women are supposed to be tasked.
Correct, it is a kind of nakedness. Sometimes it is too much as a Hetro male I find myself purving which can make me a little un comfortable.
This is good content
This is the first of your videos I'm watching and I already pressed subscribed.
It's crazy that my mom said these EXACT SAME THING!!
Bless your soul, daughter of Christ ❤❤❤
Preach on girl!! You literally speak my mind!! ❤❤❤
I understand what you're saying but my take on modesty is to basically not draw attention to yourself, and sadly wearing a covering dress now a days draws more attention than wearing a pair of fitting jeans.
I don’t think she specifically means only wearing dresses. I think she means more that women choose to wear leggings and tight fitting shirts too. I believe you could find nice shirts and pants that fits nicely that don’t looks like the body is naked with a different color.
Royalty all over the world dress modestly. Often the female royals like Princess Mary of Denmark & Queen Letizia of Spain wear tailored pants & trousers and they look more elegant, decent & respectable than any type of jeans. If royals of this world represent their kingdoms by dressing more modestly than many who profess to be Christians, what does that say about us who are supposed to be representatives of God's kingdom on this earth?
She does speak about this in her other videos. Yes, we will get attention for dressing well because society no longer sees well dressed modest women anymore.
It's a different kind of attention though. It's respectful and kind vs the type of attention we get when we wear revealing clothing... catcalls, lustful looks and behavior, hate from other women.
Very, very different.
@ClassicLace sadly it's not, the attention is not different if it is coming from men the same thoughts are occurring in their minds as the revealing clothing, but I wasn't referring to wearing revealing clothing, I was more referring to wearing a pair of jeans that fit or things like that
If you’re talking about a Muslim type dress, yes that is not very modest, but a regular flowy midi dress is always going to be more modest than jeans
In old slav culture it was offered to a woman to respect her body while wearing any clothing ,to have 3 centimetres between body and clothing ( which is 300 millimeters) that allows to protect the form but still be comfortable in many ways including the sexual aspect of the body.
I thought what a good idea to have distance 3 sm between body and cloths. And the skirt is not sticking it is just comortable hanging and protecting ,yet showing the style and female presentation in the world.
Oh Lord pls bless me with a good, God fearing and modest woman just like u in my life Amen
I love your hairrrr ❤
Totally agree!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥
❤ well said 👏 thank you so much for this
Yes! Amen!
Thank you my queen🎉
Great Share
This is good!
Very very good.
Teach this.
THIS OPINION.
Blessings!
TELL IT SIS!!
Thank you ❤
Great advice appreciate it thank you will take this suggestion
I love this message
Amen say it louder for the people in the back
Very well said . We should always dress to please God everyday.
You need a tv show!
We try them on before buying them. So by the time we're ready to wear them we know we're fully covered and comfortable.
You are the one. Preach..
That mole is so perfectly placed I e thought she was drawing on a bindi up until this video
🎉❤ Very beautiful point. Thxu
Absolutely beautiful ❤
Why does everyone misunderstand this passage? It's not about how little one wears, it's about people putting on their best, adorning with gold and such, just to show off. It's so those who have less do not feel inadequate.
I ask myself the same question every time I see a video talking about modesty. It's always the same talking points: women....don't show too much skin and don't show off your figure! Mind you....the actual verses on modesty mention nothing about skin or a woman's figure. And the topic is always framed around men and other people's opinions. Biblically speaking modesty is about God and God alone, it's about how we treat those who have less, those who have been pushed to outskirts of society. The very people Jesus came to earth to save. Modesty is humility, yet I can share from personal experience that some women will use their man-made modesty rules to esteem themselves higher and better than other women. That is the exact opposite of what the Bible wants from women who profess to be followers of God. Church/Christian tradition has turned the human into a source of sin. So, to many people....skin equals sin; the more you show...the worse you are as a person.
Nope, that's simply your interpretation of the verse (so those who don't have enough shouldn't feel inadequate) The bible does not say: reduce yourself so that those around you don't feel bad. On that note, don't you think everyone should be responsible for their own feelings and work on their self-esteem? So that even if someone else has "better" things than you have, you should be confident enough in your own self worth and not feel "inadequate"?
@@rguerin84beautifully said
@@spicita it clearly states such in the passage for right after saying such he talks about gold braided in hair and the finest robes worn to be seen. I think you need to read the whole thing and not just one verse.
@@stevendoty9408- The Bible is open to interpretation from anyone. Your perspective may be different from someone else, unless you are The Almighty, you cannot tell anyone what it means.
God bless you ma. You are truly a gem
Absolutely true. Most women today dress that way.
The husband is a lucky man