I want to thank you.. Tonight my husband of 20 years told me he wants to divorce me and he hates everything about the life we made together.. I’m absolutely crushed and wanted to keep asking why, when I try so hard and love him so much.. Instead I just stopped fighting and went in the other room and decided to watch RUclips to keep Me from being a crying hot mess..I hoped that as I watched the right message will come thru because I am so lost inside. It feels so unfair but I didn’t beg , i swallowed it down and realized i need to handle this smarter . I really really needed this video tonight. So thank you. I feel like an absolute wreck but I felt like you spoke to my soul and told me I am worth more.
Hey, thank you for sharing. I can guarantee you’re not alone here. She has incredible wisdom and I’d really encourage you to browse through her page. Hope the best for you!❤️
I’m so proud of you for going in the other room, I would have broken down the dooor demanding my Whys?!! But today I am better with my words and my emotions. I’m proud of you. I hope you are ok today. Sending love and strength!
1) Do not chase people who don't associate or love you. 2) How you show up for yourself •What you think about yourself ? •What you're saying to yourself in general ? 3) Let go of the opinions of others. Why he did not wanna be with you your father, mother or boss? 4)What is your daily ritual ? • See if your actions align with the vision of the person you wanna be.
“I was meant for other things, I was meant for better things” Wow I needed this. I have been making up a story in my head that it was my fault I was rejected for the last 7 months, literally torturing myself. 😖
My mom has developed an auto immune disease from the stress/trauma of her marriage. She tells me every day to listen to what my body is telling me. Thank you for bringing light to the physical toll of emotional trauma. I'm bawling over here
Currently heartbroken. My heart completely shattered. I bought both of your masterclasses and hope I will neeeeveeeeer fall for lovebombing again. Thank you for being you, sending love from Germany ❤
Same over here!!! Let's hope this year teaches us how to love ourselves and that we are our first priority and whole even without somebody else!! Best wishes from Belgium!!❤
Dein Beitrag ist jetzt sechs Monate her, manchmal hilft es mir, wenn ich durch Zeitabstand gewonnen habe und dann klar auf etwas zurück gucken kann. Weil die Zeit dann dafür sorgt, dass ich nicht mehr hochabhängig bin, sondern einfach nur die Dinge so betrachte wie sie sind. Ich hoffe nach einem halben Jahr bist du jetzt in einem besseren Ort 🫶🏻
I’m 22 years old and I love listening to you. I feel like listening to a mom or a big sister I never had Thank you margarita for helping with your videos !!🩷🩷
Thank you so much for this! I struggle with Borderline Personality Disorder and, among other struggles, I deal with extremely low self esteem and insecurity. One surprising thing that has helped me significantly has been simply showing up for myself - waking up at the time that I said I was going to, going to the gym when I said I was going to, eating healthy. The little rituals and habits really do make a huge difference!
Your diagnosis doesn’t matter bby, and it doesn’t make u a different person. Everybody has „something“, and if people don’t treat u better, do you think THEY get diagnosed? Are u even sure u have it and aren’t just a soft person? X
Hello Margarita! Im also a man here, and these videos are very beneficial to us too. I definitely struggled with self esteem growing up, because I had more feminine qualities, and was insecure about myself. I realized that there's nothing wrong, but I was around the wrong types of people.
Detaching and building self-esteem in 4 steps - your guide is a game-changer! Your insights are a roadmap to personal empowerment. Time to let go and cultivate a stronger sense of self. Thanks for the transformative wisdom.
Just saying, that we men also watch your videos, you help a lot, especially about confidence & detachment (from where or who we must). Plus your calmness gives such an amazing energy
Both my parents didn’t want anything to do with me. My dad has now died and mom doesn’t call or text. I’m constantly questioning why in my head 😢 I try so hard to let go and have spent so much money on therapy but my heart hurts. Needed to hear this, thank you.
Some people just don't/didn't want kids or didn't have the ability to raise them. It has nothing to do with you: they would have failed as parents no matter who the kid was. Sometimes you need to grieve the loss of what you wish you had in childhood, and realize that it has nothing to do with you. If you search for love where it is not, or with people who are incapable of it, you will always be disappointed, and worse, you will make it about yourself, instead of about them. You deserve love and attention, and the child that you were deserves it to. You can't do anything about your parents, but you can still help the child in you by grieving what she never got, and instead of continuing to look for where it isn't, look for where it is. You might never get approval or love from your parents, but you can get it from friends or chosen family or partners. Just because your parents didn't give it to you doesn't mean it's unavailable, you just have to go where it is available. You have to allow yourself to give up looking for it where it isn't, and looked for it where it is. Just because little you didn't get it doesn't mean it's your fault or that you weren't good enough, ironically, it means your parents weren't good enough at being loving parents. Detach from their ideas of your worth, they did not have the capacity to love you the way a child needs, nor the way an adult needs. Let that be their problem, not yours. It's not your responsibility to "fix yourself" or prove anything, it was their responsibility to raise a child properly.
I hope this pov helps; if someone else was you, your parents would still acted same way. So it's not you, it's them. They messed up, you deserve to be loved🌸
Sometimes people deal with their own struggles inside,maybe its not you,maybe its them who has trauma/issue. But it sucks that you have to deal with that,i gave up on trying hard to please my parents and gave myself the kind of love i wanted.
A friend of 40+ years said she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore because I wouldn’t break up with my current bf. I decided not to respond to her comments at all. I’ve come to realization that for 40+ years, this woman has mostly made me feel bad about myself. My relationship with my bf may not be perfect, but I can say for certain that he has never made me feel judged or condemned…unlike her. I actually feel a sense of relief to let her go.
So well said! Thank you! I needed to hear this about not chasing friends. The hard thing is that the people who do want to hang out with me aren’t as fun to be around and I don’t connect with them as much. But I guess I just need to hang out with them anyways and maybe focus on doing fun activities so I’ll still have fun even if they’re more boring people.
I heard once, ‘if it’s not a hell yeah, it’s a No’ It’s a nice concise litmus test- you may spend more time alone, however, like she says that time is golden for you.
I was given the advice and had somewhat of an experience and expect to have more; that more whole people, sometimes less traumatized people seem boring at first because they don't have the intensity that we are used to being around. You may find that those people that feel boring at first, end up being very deep stable loving people with whom you can have the type of connection that you haven't experienced before.it's hard to imagine, but it may just be an experience that's new for some of us. Explore a little… I don't think we should have friends that are boring, but maybe the dynamic connections were looking for lie under a boring surface! Lol
Margarita my dear, thank you so much for your words! I’ve been following you since I was 15 and now I’m almost 18, and you don’t have idea how much you’ve helped me understand and mature my way of thinking ❤️ Kisses from Brazil 🇧🇷
You are from Brazil? Me too! I don't know anyone who listens to her here. That's so nice, and, I don't know why I'm speaking English with you. hahahahah
Good advice and funny! I'm a 26 year old man who has struggled with self-esteem his whole life. But it has become more pronounced over the past year since starting my current job. I've been struggling with severe imposter syndrome for the past year because I am almost a licensed engineer and people seem to think I know more than I really do. I'm pretty honest about what I do and don't know. But I feel the biggest reason for my self-esteem issues is how much I internalize everything. I don't have the energy for this shit, yet I cannot seem to stop myself wtf
I am 43, working out 3 times a week, eat pretty healthy 🎉🎉 I agreed 💯 with you about what we put in our body. I have a 15 years old and a 11 years old 🙏🏼
My friend recommended you to another friend (both girls), and I got curious and had to check you out. I must say that you are so spot on! Thank you for bringing femininity back. It's so underrated, and the the western world has overlooked the importance of femininity, often forgetting that it is just as crucial, if not more so, than masculinity. I just wanted you to know that many men out there will thank you as well for the work you are doing, including me!
As always, you're not only motivating, you're right. I once read what makes someone special is also our investments in them. If someone leaves you sitting alone in a restaurant, pull out your little book (plan B) and enjoy your meal anyway investigating in yourself.
I love your calmness and the way you explain everything with such detail! I'm new to your channel,and I have been binge watching and listening to your content. 💖💕✨🤗
This was one of my favorite episodes not only because of what you said but how your wonderful personality really came through today. Thank you for being you and sharing your knowledge!
Hey! Margarita, we have this practise in India where we thank our teachers(Gurus) for imparting knowledge. Guru for us is someone who removes the darkness around us and enlightens us. We have huge respect for them, this year I have learnt a lot from you a lot more than I have from anyone else. I have immense respect for you and thank you a lot for all the knowledge, you have no idea how much u have helped me.🙏🏻🙏🏻
You give out so much value. TYSM Margarita. My notes for Build incredibly strong self-esteem 1. Do not chase or force those who do not want you, Do not associate with those who do not love you 2. Let go of opinions of why someone did not want to be with you. (You were meant for other things and better things that bring out the best you). 3. What's your daily ritual? What do you eat? How do you take care of your body? 4 Make sure your actions line up to the person you want to be (you are the maker and manufacturer of yourself) 5. Always show up for yourself and things that are important to you.
Thank you for this video. I am currently going through the biggest heartbreak of my life, being my boyfriend breaking up with me, and finding out a month later that I have an autoimmune disease. It’s been a terrible 2 months of my life but am now learning to detach from the idea that I’ve made in my mind about my ex and the life we could’ve made together. I’m now focusing on treating my disease and focusing more on restoring the energy I’ve lost trying to fight for the love that was supposed to have ended a few years back. It’s difficult but I’ll get through this. I am proud of myself ❤
So grateful to have stumbled across you scrolling through RUclips. Have been binge watching your videos and can’t explain how incredible you are to listen to. This is a topic that I wasn’t even aware of, your knowledge is washing me and I am obsessed with your videos. So empowering and so light on the soul. Thank you !!!!!!!!!!! Thank you !!!!!!!! honestly god bless and genuinely appreciate your work
Alot of this applies to men to I am a guy. This was geared towards women but it helped me with a breakup and facing the rejection, asking for an explanation of why I was cheated on and closure which I was denied but I have to just let go as it was not for me. Thanks
This applies to friendships as well. It it really hard to let go of a friendships that are unhealthy. And i always got anxiety wondering why they are not responding, overanalizing if i did something wrong. I must learn to accept it and move the focus back to my life. If people reject you, you have to stop chasing them. I was so afraid of losing friends, that i accepted almost everything. Now i realise i have to let go of people that don't contribute to my wellbeing so i can make room for something better.
This was divinely timed. I'm reading this book at the moment about relationships with daily lessons and yesterday's focused on intrapersonal vs. interpersonal skills to work on for a growth mindset. It was so eye opening to realize that pretty much all my problems are all stemming from the relationship with myself, not relationships with others.
Dr Gabor! He is honestly my all time favorite Dr too. He has changed my mental state in ways he’ll never know. I’m so happy you know of his teachings and him too!
It's rather incredible rewatching this healed with am unexpected amount of self confidence after a breakup (5 months ago). Now looking at building self esteem for myself and detaching my emotions for myself and happiness from a different Pov. You taught me a lot on how to stop neglecting myself !
your words calm my mind and help me feel less anxious. You've really helped me navigate some very painful hard time and i've learned a lot about myself
I tell people about this channel All.the.time. Any woman dealing with self esteem issues (virtually all of us) who does not know about this content is missing out. I love you, Margarita. Thank you for the clear way that you’ve developed to say these things. 🙏
I really needed this after a guy I was interested in suddenly ended things. As I am healing, I will also act til I make it to who I want to be. Thank you!
"chased the explanation of why i wasn't good enough for my father to be in my life my whole dang life" roll call - im here! i will get this @#%@ off me
I am a grown scapegoat in a dysfunctional family and more. Experienced an abusive ex. I have a top CV and career but am on my own. So many «girlfriends» are not supporting me bc I am not married. Men are very supportive, but many have wrong intentions. I appreciate this video a lot….taking my power back now❤ Thank you
the 'why' that you're searching for, the simple meaning is - you are meant for other things, you are meant for better things. we need to stop thinking about why, we need to move forward to what's next.
I love this channel so much. You’ve really helped me quite a bit. But I wonder if there are actually women that have healed before finding a husband that’s loving and supportive. It’s easier to feel lovable when you’re loved. You don’t need validation the same when you’re getting it.
I can tell just by your energy alone, you actually live your words. Tranquility and peace. You are absolutely right. Actor comes on stage, we know in seconds if he is King or Pauper. Is she Queen or Pauper?
Omg...so incredibly blessed and grateful I found your channel... Most importantly I found this incredibly intelligent, insightful authentic beautiful soul that absolutely knows her stuff!!! You are soooooo good and absolutely appreciated!! And I absolutely!! Agree with you million percent!! We can never guess or really figure out someone else's whatever, right??? Can't wait to share this video with a couple people I think will absolutely love your insights and inspiration!! 🙏💯💖✌ Have an amazing day!!!
This was lovely. I’ve ended so many relationships as of late and I’m really glad that I did especially after hearing this. It was just more validation. Thanks for all you do.❤
I want to thank you.. Tonight my husband of 20 years told me he wants to divorce me and he hates everything about the life we made together.. I’m absolutely crushed and wanted to keep asking why, when I try so hard and love him so much.. Instead I just stopped fighting and went in the other room and decided to watch RUclips to keep
Me from being a crying hot mess..I hoped that as I watched the right message will come thru because I am so lost inside.
It feels so unfair but I didn’t beg , i swallowed it down and realized i need to handle this smarter . I really really needed this video tonight. So thank you. I feel like an absolute wreck but I felt like you spoke to my soul and told me I am worth more.
Hey, thank you for sharing. I can guarantee you’re not alone here. She has incredible wisdom and I’d really encourage you to browse through her page. Hope the best for you!❤️
I hope you're doing okay!❤
You are so strong ❤
are you okay??
I’m so proud of you for going in the other room, I would have broken down the dooor demanding my Whys?!! But today I am better with my words and my emotions. I’m proud of you. I hope you are ok today. Sending love and strength!
1) Do not chase people who don't associate or love you.
2) How you show up for yourself
•What you think about yourself ?
•What you're saying to yourself in general ?
3) Let go of the opinions of others.
Why he did not wanna be with you
your father, mother or boss?
4)What is your daily ritual ?
• See if your actions align with the vision of the person you wanna be.
🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank You!!!!❤
Thanks ❤
@@Labuenavidasurf welcome ♡
@@sushmita2013 welcome ♡
“I was meant for other things, I was meant for better things” Wow I needed this. I have been making up a story in my head that it was my fault I was rejected for the last 7 months, literally torturing myself. 😖
My mom has developed an auto immune disease from the stress/trauma of her marriage. She tells me every day to listen to what my body is telling me. Thank you for bringing light to the physical toll of emotional trauma. I'm bawling over here
i worry this may happen for my mom 😢 and i’m so sorry btw
You are whole. You are enough. You are worthy. And you are so loved.❤️
This is a wonderful reminder
You deserve it.🤍@@gopikaa.s6617
And so are you..... ❤
Thanks so you are! and I read it like “you are whore” at first lol 😂
Currently heartbroken. My heart completely shattered. I bought both of your masterclasses and hope I will neeeeveeeeer fall for lovebombing again. Thank you for being you, sending love from Germany ❤
Same over here!!! Let's hope this year teaches us how to love ourselves and that we are our first priority and whole even without somebody else!! Best wishes from Belgium!!❤
It will get better, everything will be aleight in the end. Trust me
Did he come back? They usually do 1-2 times.
Me too 💔
Dein Beitrag ist jetzt sechs Monate her, manchmal hilft es mir, wenn ich durch Zeitabstand gewonnen habe und dann klar auf etwas zurück gucken kann. Weil die Zeit dann dafür sorgt, dass ich nicht mehr hochabhängig bin, sondern einfach nur die Dinge so betrachte wie sie sind. Ich hoffe nach einem halben Jahr bist du jetzt in einem besseren Ort 🫶🏻
So thankful I cut off the fake friendships. So thankful women are healing and detaching from males.
I’m 22 years old and I love listening to you.
I feel like listening to a mom or a big sister I never had
Thank you margarita for helping with your videos !!🩷🩷
Yes. yes. yes. Make and keep the promises you make to yourself, if you don't your soul will know and feel it.
Thank you so much for this! I struggle with Borderline Personality Disorder and, among other struggles, I deal with extremely low self esteem and insecurity. One surprising thing that has helped me significantly has been simply showing up for myself - waking up at the time that I said I was going to, going to the gym when I said I was going to, eating healthy. The little rituals and habits really do make a huge difference!
Your diagnosis doesn’t matter bby, and it doesn’t make u a different person.
Everybody has „something“, and if people don’t treat u better, do you think THEY get diagnosed?
Are u even sure u have it and aren’t just a soft person?
X
@@Seraphina93 I know you think this is kind but we’re invalidated a lot. She can be soft AND have BPD💕
Hello Margarita! Im also a man here, and these videos are very beneficial to us too.
I definitely struggled with self esteem growing up, because I had more feminine qualities, and was insecure about myself. I realized that there's nothing wrong, but I was around the wrong types of people.
You are so on point! Even though I just turned 60, I still am thinking of who I want to evolve into and am working as if I am already that person!
Never stop empowering us, Margarita! Thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom! ❤
Every time I listen to you I am more confident 😂❤
I appreciate you
Seriously tho! Even as a guy, I have a few videos of hers on repeat 😊
Detaching and building self-esteem in 4 steps - your guide is a game-changer! Your insights are a roadmap to personal empowerment. Time to let go and cultivate a stronger sense of self. Thanks for the transformative wisdom.
Just saying, that we men also watch your videos, you help a lot, especially about confidence & detachment (from where or who we must). Plus your calmness gives such an amazing energy
Both my parents didn’t want anything to do with me. My dad has now died and mom doesn’t call or text. I’m constantly questioning why in my head 😢 I try so hard to let go and have spent so much money on therapy but my heart hurts. Needed to hear this, thank you.
Some people just don't/didn't want kids or didn't have the ability to raise them. It has nothing to do with you: they would have failed as parents no matter who the kid was. Sometimes you need to grieve the loss of what you wish you had in childhood, and realize that it has nothing to do with you.
If you search for love where it is not, or with people who are incapable of it, you will always be disappointed, and worse, you will make it about yourself, instead of about them.
You deserve love and attention, and the child that you were deserves it to. You can't do anything about your parents, but you can still help the child in you by grieving what she never got, and instead of continuing to look for where it isn't, look for where it is. You might never get approval or love from your parents, but you can get it from friends or chosen family or partners. Just because your parents didn't give it to you doesn't mean it's unavailable, you just have to go where it is available. You have to allow yourself to give up looking for it where it isn't, and looked for it where it is. Just because little you didn't get it doesn't mean it's your fault or that you weren't good enough, ironically, it means your parents weren't good enough at being loving parents. Detach from their ideas of your worth, they did not have the capacity to love you the way a child needs, nor the way an adult needs. Let that be their problem, not yours. It's not your responsibility to "fix yourself" or prove anything, it was their responsibility to raise a child properly.
I’m so sorry! Must be a very heavy kind of pain.. Don’t forget you’re loved. You ARE love! ❤
I hope this pov helps; if someone else was you, your parents would still acted same way. So it's not you, it's them. They messed up, you deserve to be loved🌸
It’s more tough if they are your parents.
Sometimes people deal with their own struggles inside,maybe its not you,maybe its them who has trauma/issue. But it sucks that you have to deal with that,i gave up on trying hard to please my parents and gave myself the kind of love i wanted.
A friend of 40+ years said she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore because I wouldn’t break up with my current bf. I decided not to respond to her comments at all.
I’ve come to realization that for 40+ years, this woman has mostly made me feel bad about myself. My relationship with my bf may not be perfect, but I can say for certain that he has never made me feel judged or condemned…unlike her. I actually feel a sense of relief to let her go.
It is not her place to tell you who should be in your life. She needs to focus on her life. Yes, let her go.
Feeling the relief is how you know you did the right thing👍👍👍
@@tnt01unless that person complained to her about her bf constantly and her bf actually a piece of shit. That’s annoying
So well said! Thank you! I needed to hear this about not chasing friends. The hard thing is that the people who do want to hang out with me aren’t as fun to be around and I don’t connect with them as much. But I guess I just need to hang out with them anyways and maybe focus on doing fun activities so I’ll still have fun even if they’re more boring people.
Hey! Just read your comment and wanted to share : you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. Wishing you happiness and more!
I heard once,
‘if it’s not a hell yeah, it’s a No’
It’s a nice concise litmus test- you may spend more time alone, however, like she says that time is golden for you.
Or maybe just let those people find the people who don’t think they are boring and actually like them. Probably you should stay away from them.
I was given the advice and had somewhat of an experience and expect to have more; that more whole people, sometimes less traumatized people seem boring at first because they don't have the intensity that we are used to being around. You may find that those people that feel boring at first, end up being very deep stable loving people with whom you can have the type of connection that you haven't experienced before.it's hard to imagine, but it may just be an experience that's new for some of us. Explore a little… I don't think we should have friends that are boring, but maybe the dynamic connections were looking for lie under a boring surface! Lol
I think you're the problem 😂
Margarita my dear, thank you so much for your words! I’ve been following you since I was 15 and now I’m almost 18, and you don’t have idea how much you’ve helped me understand and mature my way of thinking ❤️ Kisses from Brazil 🇧🇷
Wow! That’s inspiring!
You are from Brazil? Me too! I don't know anyone who listens to her here. That's so nice, and, I don't know why I'm speaking English with you. hahahahah
@gabi-sl8dy Are you Brazilian? Because I am! So nice! :)
understand this in a mature way... YES!!! and also like a self-knowing way!! I feel it deeply.
Good advice and funny! I'm a 26 year old man who has struggled with self-esteem his whole life. But it has become more pronounced over the past year since starting my current job. I've been struggling with severe imposter syndrome for the past year because I am almost a licensed engineer and people seem to think I know more than I really do. I'm pretty honest about what I do and don't know. But I feel the biggest reason for my self-esteem issues is how much I internalize everything. I don't have the energy for this shit, yet I cannot seem to stop myself wtf
I’m so grateful I found your channel
I am 43, working out 3 times a week, eat pretty healthy 🎉🎉 I agreed 💯 with you about what we put in our body. I have a 15 years old and a 11 years old 🙏🏼
My friend recommended you to another friend (both girls), and I got curious and had to check you out. I must say that you are so spot on! Thank you for bringing femininity back. It's so underrated, and the the western world has overlooked the importance of femininity, often forgetting that it is just as crucial, if not more so, than masculinity. I just wanted you to know that many men out there will thank you as well for the work you are doing, including me!
Im a sucker for her videos. Shes been a real one
As always, you're not only motivating, you're right. I once read what makes someone special is also our investments in them. If someone leaves you sitting alone in a restaurant, pull out your little book (plan B) and enjoy your meal anyway investigating in yourself.
Thanks for a great video. Appreciate your wisdom and candidness. Blessings from Germany
I love your calmness and the way you explain everything with such detail! I'm new to your channel,and I have been binge watching and listening to your content. 💖💕✨🤗
This was one of my favorite episodes not only because of what you said but how your wonderful personality really came through today. Thank you for being you and sharing your knowledge!
Hey! Margarita, we have this practise in India where we thank our teachers(Gurus) for imparting knowledge. Guru for us is someone who removes the darkness around us and enlightens us. We have huge respect for them, this year I have learnt a lot from you a lot more than I have from anyone else. I have immense respect for you and thank you a lot for all the knowledge, you have no idea how much u have helped me.🙏🏻🙏🏻
This is actually life changing. Thank you for your work ❤️
Wow I keep rewatching this video over and over. It’s short but packed with amazing info. Im soaking it in. Thank you
You give out so much value. TYSM Margarita.
My notes for Build incredibly strong self-esteem
1. Do not chase or force those who do not want you, Do not associate with those who do not love you
2. Let go of opinions of why someone did not want to be with you. (You were meant for other things and better things that bring out the best you).
3. What's your daily ritual? What do you eat? How do you take care of your body?
4 Make sure your actions line up to the person you want to be (you are the maker and manufacturer of yourself)
5. Always show up for yourself and things that are important to you.
I love how genuine and not-give-a-fuck you are. keep it up and thanks for your insights
Thank you for this video. I am currently going through the biggest heartbreak of my life, being my boyfriend breaking up with me, and finding out a month later that I have an autoimmune disease. It’s been a terrible 2 months of my life but am now learning to detach from the idea that I’ve made in my mind about my ex and the life we could’ve made together. I’m now focusing on treating my disease and focusing more on restoring the energy I’ve lost trying to fight for the love that was supposed to have ended a few years back. It’s difficult but I’ll get through this. I am proud of myself ❤
So grateful to have stumbled across you scrolling through RUclips. Have been binge watching your videos and can’t explain how incredible you are to listen to. This is a topic that I wasn’t even aware of, your knowledge is washing me and I am obsessed with your videos. So empowering and so light on the soul. Thank you !!!!!!!!!!! Thank you !!!!!!!! honestly god bless and genuinely appreciate your work
Your words are always a breath of fresh air. They cleanse the negativity from my mind and my life. Thank you.
Stole the words right outta my mouth! Amen!
LAUGHED OUT LOUD. YOU ARE FOR REAL!
Needed this video right at this time. Thank you so much Margarita! You have been a great resource for me and so many others I am sure ❤
Thank ypu for the reminder, we need it!! Youre glowing Margarita!! ❤❤❤
The hair is glowing you look gorgeous
I love your calm sensibility. You're a beacon of peace in this world of chaos and I'm greatful for your presence 💝
TEARS! THANK YOU!
Keep going Margarita, I like the way you express yourself, super classy & modest, this world needs more classy women like you. God bless.
Ain’t that the truth ☺️✨
I like the ramble/talking abt life things like in the beginning of the vid.
Alot of this applies to men to I am a guy. This was geared towards women but it helped me with a breakup and facing the rejection, asking for an explanation of why I was cheated on and closure which I was denied but I have to just let go as it was not for me. Thanks
This applies to friendships as well. It it really hard to let go of a friendships that are unhealthy. And i always got anxiety wondering why they are not responding, overanalizing if i did something wrong. I must learn to accept it and move the focus back to my life. If people reject you, you have to stop chasing them. I was so afraid of losing friends, that i accepted almost everything. Now i realise i have to let go of people that don't contribute to my wellbeing so i can make room for something better.
@@juliajulie8500they do because they don’t see u as a person, but an object
They also all die alone,
So no worries ❤
You are so amazing! So glad I found your videos ❤❤
The things you say and how you say them really opened my eyes to some things. Thank you for sharing your time and wisdom.
omg i love you, you are diving so deep in many many topics that resonates with myself right now. thank you sister ✨
This was divinely timed. I'm reading this book at the moment about relationships with daily lessons and yesterday's focused on intrapersonal vs. interpersonal skills to work on for a growth mindset. It was so eye opening to realize that pretty much all my problems are all stemming from the relationship with myself, not relationships with others.
What’s the book called pls 🙂
@@kitto3608 it’s called “calling in ‘the one’” by Katherine Woodward Thomas. I’m really enjoying it and one lesson a day is so manageable!
Thank you , margarita 🌸
For this powerful message, really needed to hear that 💕
Dr Gabor! He is honestly my all time favorite Dr too. He has changed my mental state in ways he’ll never know. I’m so happy you know of his teachings and him too!
You always have something inciteful and uplifting to share❤ one of my fav youtubers
Im a guy but I really enjoy your videos and they have been very helpful to me. Thank you!
Thank you! Had to listen to this twice in a row!
I do this too!!! Have a great day :)
You’re SO amazing!! ❤❤❤ thank you for being you Margarita xxx
I LOVE this woman, thank you for the content
You look so gorgeous! Love your hair like that! Thank you for helping us ladies build ourselves up and show us the right way. We appreciate you.
It's rather incredible rewatching this healed with am unexpected amount of self confidence after a breakup (5 months ago). Now looking at building self esteem for myself and detaching my emotions for myself and happiness from a different Pov. You taught me a lot on how to stop neglecting myself !
I always feel so empowered by your content. You’re literally helping me change my life ❤
You are the maker and manufacturer of yourself. 🥰 thank you so much for sharing so much for us!
your words calm my mind and help me feel less anxious. You've really helped me navigate some very painful hard time and i've learned a lot about myself
I feel so lucky that I came across your videos❤️ such a blessing tbh
Your channel is my discovery of the year. Live how you speak and the content, obviously. Thank you ❤
I tell people about this channel All.the.time. Any woman dealing with self esteem issues (virtually all of us) who does not know about this content is missing out. I love you, Margarita. Thank you for the clear way that you’ve developed to say these things. 🙏
I really needed this after a guy I was interested in suddenly ended things. As I am healing, I will also act til I make it to who I want to be. Thank you!
perfect timing 🫶🏾
This is so good. I feel so loved when you make these videos
One of the best videos ever honestly. This helps a lot. Thank you.
This is the perfect video I needed right now! Thank you ❤
"chased the explanation of why i wasn't good enough for my father to be in my life my whole dang life" roll call - im here! i will get this @#%@ off me
God bless you for what you are teaching all of us!❤ you are a blessing, my gosh..
grateful for your wisdom , thank you !
I am a grown scapegoat in a dysfunctional family and more. Experienced an abusive ex. I have a top CV and career but am on my own. So many «girlfriends» are not supporting me bc I am not married. Men are very supportive, but many have wrong intentions. I appreciate this video a lot….taking my power back now❤ Thank you
Can we just take a second to acknowledge how GORGEOUS margarita is oml 💗
Let’s take more than a second please because I 100% agree!
Thank you for the meaning: I was meant for other things and I was meant for better things. I deserve better. Thank you! ❤
Listen to you is making me so relaxed I am almost sleeping 🤗🙏It’s the energy❤️
the 'why' that you're searching for, the simple meaning is - you are meant for other things, you are meant for better things. we need to stop thinking about why, we need to move forward to what's next.
You have been showing up a lot on my youtube page. Finally decided to watch a video. WOW. Im very thankful for your insite.
Absolutely love this video. Thank you Margarita😘
So timely and beautiful.
Thank you!
I love this channel so much. You’ve really helped me quite a bit. But I wonder if there are actually women that have healed before finding a husband that’s loving and supportive. It’s easier to feel lovable when you’re loved. You don’t need validation the same when you’re getting it.
I can tell just by your energy alone, you actually live your words. Tranquility and peace. You are absolutely right. Actor comes on stage, we know in seconds if he is King or Pauper. Is she Queen or Pauper?
I Realy Love your Podcast.....watching them since Days
A Cind of Marathon 🎉
Another amazing video ! Thank you
just subscribed today and have watched a few videos already, you give absolutely incredible advice!
I just love her speech❤️❤️❤️
Act till you make it.
Act like the person you wonna be.Show up for yourself,always be consistent and on time for yourself.
Great video. Needed the reminder so much! Thank you!
Omg...so incredibly blessed and grateful I found your channel... Most importantly I found this incredibly intelligent, insightful authentic beautiful soul that absolutely knows her stuff!!! You are soooooo good and absolutely appreciated!! And I absolutely!! Agree with you million percent!! We can never guess or really figure out someone else's whatever, right??? Can't wait to share this video with a couple people I think will absolutely love your insights and inspiration!! 🙏💯💖✌ Have an amazing day!!!
This was lovely. I’ve ended so many relationships as of late and I’m really glad that I did especially after hearing this. It was just more validation. Thanks for all you do.❤
Thank you for the straight talking! x
love the way you speak, so crude, so real!
Thank you for your videos, you are so on point with your advice! I LOVE IT!!
I’m very blessed by your videos Margarita 🙏🏻 thank you!
You are such a gift. Thank you ❤
I needed this video right in time; thank you❤
Thank you! You have been so insightful and life saving.
The gleam in my eyes when you called us chicken soup 😢❤ that's so cute ngl
Amazing as always! Thank you for being you 🙏🏾