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Ignoring pretty woman works on married men;; they are just interested in making 💰; family life;; I hear a guy a pretty lady: all woman are the same physically
@@lloydkline1518 There is no known universe where "all woman are the same physically". They are not at all the same physically. Not even close. They are not all the same anything.
@@YourWingmam Women are frequently in a contest with each other, individually and as a group. No man knocks women more than women hammer other women. Catty (Katty?), I believe is the term. It's one of those "woman mysteries". Jealousy, envy.
If you have to ignore a woman because of how she acting that means she settled for you and plans to upgrade soon as she can because woman date up remember. Because all the woman that I've known of even relatives when they met that dude that all the girls won't they will pretend to be an angel just so he will think she is better than all the other girls she won't ask him for nothen and will turn down money from him knowing she needs it just to make him believe she's the one. And she will even buy him things. So if she's not star stuck by you she gone give you problems then latter leave you for an up grade.
My ex had the habit of walking into another room whenever we were having an argument. After about the 3rd time of she doing this, I asked her why she did that. She actually said to me, "Because, in my mind, if you follow me into the other room, I've won the argument." That was the last time that happened. After that day, whenever we had arguments and she walked away, I'd just turn on the TV and let her stew alone in the other room. She soon stopped that habit, lol.
Some women tend to stay children for ever. Believing winning an argument in this way equals to believing winning an argument just because today is Friday. More over, when there s a winner there is always must be a loser. So, when she's the so called winner, you must be, in her mind, the loser. Boy, this woman is a true and healthy mental supporter in this relationship. So, have a kick from her here, a kick from her there, until you cognize its time for the kicks to stop by simply leaving her. Hope it didnt take you too long.
Cool she just walked into another room and that's still fine..... What if she walked out from you and never return back.... 🤷 I mean to say that your girl is much much better and having so much control upon her anger and that's why she still stick within four walls..... 🙂
Agree, at 27 I feel amazing not caring about women… I am working hard and doing pretty well financially and emotionally. I’ve decided to not get married already
Cosmicdust 1 and Not convinced have got it 100% correct. Women have got too many options thanks to dating apps ect. No peace of mind can be had with dating any more. Hookers are the only way to go, no more dramas.
“From the streets did she emerge, and to the streets she will return. And I say unto you, she is for the streets. So be not weary, when she must return from whence she came.” BEGONE THOTS!!!
So many vids on RUclips discussing ignoring women and its something I've been doing since childhood. I'm 54 now and women gravitate towards me like a damm magnet. Apparently the "ignoring" has become such a part of who I am that perhaps in this day and age it's especially prominent because of how the behaviors of women have changed yet my behaviors as a man have barely wavered. I've such a sense of self and I'm EXTREMELY in tune with it, that the presence of others is only important to me if it serves a purpose, which itself is EXTREMELY rare. I think women are amazing creatures, but my world doesn't revolve around them. I don't need a woman and perhaps most can sense this. True joy is within me, and it does not require the presence of others.
It takes courage and strength to walk away from a woman that doesn’t want you. It doesn’t show them you’re weak. What it does is show them you are strong enough to wait for someone you deserve.
If she's, 'broken' from past relationships...why is it my job to fix her? When she repeatedly tests & challenges you just to reassure her insecurities...forget it. Tell her to get professional help.. You are not her emotional punching bag. You didn't ask for it...you are not responsible for it....you don't need the frustration.
First, it's not your job to fix anyone and that's not possible anyway. Second, your description of what you'd say is actually a great way to handle her shit test. ;)
Yo go easy, everyone deserves a chance even after they get 'damaged' from trauma. When she turns it against you its time to walk away, dont toss someone aside for shit that happened to them. Nothing is worth giving up your humanity over.
It’s not so much about ignoring. I think it’s more about not seeking her validation and approval by really approving/validating yourself. That makes it very easy to be direct, have boundaries, keep some space and stay calm. That vibe of emotional self reliance, not needy, where she feels she can’t control or manipulate you is picked up right away. Women are almost psychic with picking up vibes.
I'm a single man. I've been single for 9 years. I do what I want, when I want and the only stress in my life is my own, and I handle it easily. When I have had women in my life there was always too much stress and chaos. I was very unhappy with women. The sex was not worth it. Now days I have peace and fulfillment.
There is this girl who has told me that I am a selfish person who does not care about anyone and ignores her, yet she keeps coming back telling me that she hates the fact that she is so attracted to me lol. The more you ignore them, the more they get attracted.
Woman don't never know what they want and they chage you for somebody else in a minute if they see more value I choose Jesus Christ he just gave me everything
Not me. I'm a woman and I stayed single for years because I was tired of getting ignored every time I tried to put myself out there. I don't have time for games. I like compliments and attention. I finally met someone who is kind and attentive. I'm beyond blessed to have finally met someone who pays attention to me and cares about what I have to say. When I later on discovered that everyone else was just ignoring me in hopes I would date them, I just got really sad because they were assuming I was just like the other women they met who liked games. It is common but not every woman plays these games. You also have to ask yourself if you even want to waste time and energy ignoring a little immature girl when you could have a grown ass woman who is direct and affectionate.
It is sad that women, who have all the options and do the selecting, actually select guys intentionally to break their hearts just for the thrill of it. They repeatedly wreck their lives.
Truly, some of them enjoy the perception of 'power'. They plan and laugh about it. In the past 10 years I've come across an endless stream of rude, angry, selfish, agitated women. I walk away fast.
Those type of women deeply fear stability and love from good men. They rather go for guys that they know will carry out their self fulfilling prophecy and are addicted to the abusive dynamics that they have only known since they were probably raised in a household with unstable parents.
@@will3634 Yeah and I'm not even focusing on the dating scene, just women in general. Whether it be raging , rude behind the wheel of their car, or a store clerk. It's like they have so much freedom in all aspects, they almost seem angry about it. Who knows, but it sucks. So much for the fairer sex. I 'd rather compliment a man for something he's wearing than some babe.
Women who continually "shit-test" aren't worth keeping around. The emotional drama is draining to your peace of mind. Your gut will let you know the correct time to leave them. Don't question it. Just leave. If she's a "keeper" except for when she "tests" you, tell her to stop. If she ignores your request, leave her. Lots of women play these stupid games, but lots of them don't. Stick with those who don't.
“From the streets did she emerge, and to the streets she will return. And I say unto you, she is for the streets. So be not weary, when she must return from whence she came.” BEGONE THOTS!!!
Problem is that's just about every woman. It just varies from how insecure to how confident the woman is. If she's confident then the testing will be very little as she is confident enough in herself not to put all of her trust into your masculinity. These are the type of women you want. The insecure type that have a child mindset will test non stop for the whole relationship. The insecure ones want to see if they can put all their trust into you and so they see if they can knock you off your frame.
Men are fixers, I love that about men but most women need something else (in a moment of tension). Did you see my video on what never to say to an angry woman? ruclips.net/video/U3D2gWhYiuw/видео.html But, if you're really considering going solo for now or forever, watch this one: ruclips.net/video/GKE9sKwjH_g/видео.html But stick around so you'll understand the other women you might have to deal with in life at work, friends etc :)
Brother, there are a sh*t ton of low value women out there! So, im not surprised that the low-value ones dont know what to do with you! Wishing you the very best, especially trying to navigate the dating enigma!
Hey bro remember be a good man not a nice guy . And never try to be knight in shining armor . That doesn't work . She just see you as a nice FRIEND . NOOOOO 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I gave her everything, did as much as I could for her but she was still waiting for the man who left her to merry another girl. She wanted to put me in the friend zone, so I stopped talking to her. A few months after she wants to start talking so I walked away, I am no one’s second choice.
Been there. The alpha widow. I thought me and her were solid. Even considered marriage. That was until her ex announced he was getting married. The honeymoon was in Hawaii. Guess were mine now wanted to go? I knew it was over at that point.
Wonderbar! I've only seen this video of his but he was pretty much on point!. If you have a video you'd like my take on, write the creator and title (links get filtered) in a new comment :)
@@YourWingmam the thing is a woman's words don't match her actions. Thankfully I have a virtuous woman that shows it. However for the most part there's a trend of women using guys for foodie calls while having a side dude that puts up no effort. A woman will break her OWN RULES for a man she desires. So I will stick to that theory. Also what do YOU consider a high value woman?
When a woman's frame is unstable, it's tempting for a man to abandon his own frame and attend to hers. The problem is that she may like the attention he gives and then habitually act out to get more of it. Attending to a woman's fragile frame can divert a man from his primary mission, which means that both are now derailed from the success train.
Fellas… keep in mind… SOME women who grew up in “dysfunctional environment” like fighting parents, fight older siblings or classmates in bad relationships… they think it’s “normal” to ALWAYS BE FIGHTING and ARGUING. They literally FEEL “bored” and “insecure” when you act like a “good/nice guy” They will Literally cause drama and arguments to feel “normal” aka be reminder of what they saw growing up with their parents, siblings and classmates. “Emotionally damaged” women DON’T know HOW to appreciate or what to do with a good, healthy and happy relationship. They will consciously or subconsciously SABOTAGE it to “Feel normal”. Its sad but it’s the truth. Look out for these signs from a damaged female fellas. Run like hell!
I'm often reminded of Jack Nicholson's character in one of his movies, wherein he was asked by another character as to how he considered women. He replied, "..When I think of a woman, I see a man, I just take away reason & accountability...."
It doesn’t matter how emotional she is, when DISRESPECT is shown. Take your self respect, IGNORE her, & walk away. No amount of logical explanation will make sense to her. Other than that, good response on the ignoring topic
I've ignored women all my life. When I was a toddler, my Mom told everyone my older brother was the good looking one. I grew up thinking I was ugly so in fear of being teased for my looks, I never spoke to girls. It wasn't until College, a girl in class asked me out. I always wondered why she asked me out? Anyway, from then on, women have always asked me out. 2 were even strippers. 20 years after College, I ran into my College crush and she asked me out. We married a year later.
If you’re going to ignore a woman make sure she is truly behaving badly because otherwise it’s actually unkind to treat people this way and you will lose a woman who values herself this way. I ignore men who ignore me right back.
Fellas!! When you ignore women NOTHING HAPPENS!!! It’s simply beautiful!! No interaction whatsoever no drama whatsoever no nonsense whatsoever!! It is fantastic and peaceful and wonderful!! Enjoy!!!
@@memechannel3345 Who cares what “people” do? If you are on your path going after your goals and achieving your goals then those same people claim you and say “I knew you when” your wardrobe was gross, your car was a wreck and booted you lived in a pen and now you’re at the gym your health is great you financially sound your investments and dividends passive income and cash flow are amazing you just put a new roof on your home put in a new kitchen and bathroom new windows and floors refinished!! Now tell women to kiss 💋 my ass !!
By being a whole/complete/happy person with clear boundaries/direction you will attract the right people in your life. To ignore a woman is to really give her space when its appropriate (including if it's a strategy), whatever happens as a result should be honored. When you've trained your subconscious to react the way you want to respond, you wont have to remember a bunch of rules, it will just flow...as it does with anything else you have learned. IMHO
Darius and Wingman combining intellectual forces! Thank you both for saving all men from a life of needless suffering from immature, undeserving women.
What I love abt this channel is how mature and healthy it is. There are some things I did deal with in the past. They were unpleasant, sometimes brutal. I burst into a laugh when you mentioned those "young girls with bodies count" (some boys do that too). Talking abt the elephant in the room! Bless you, Anna.
Thanks so much for those thoughtful compliments on my content, much appreciated! HBC affects young men differently than young women. May add more about this in a video thanks for the inspiration! :)
@@robert4you yes! If you have no witnesses you should let her stab you or catch that on camera. The law will always protect women. So be safe and smart.
I definitely learned early on in my life that it was better to ignore her than try to make her understand where she was wrong in her argument. Eventhough it meant I was bitting my tongue in anger, but it definitely saved me more frustration. And over the years it takes the most minimal attitude for me to just ignore her and I get my personal space which is the best thing.
High value women come and go like the breeze, did you know there is a girl turning 18 everyday of the year fellas Stay on your purpose, ignore her if it’s needed, and always have an abundance mindset 🙌🏻
There is so much beauty being single,mentally and emotionally is just a blessing to be single and happy.OMG this is just the biggest remedy for good health and long life
It's ok to take a break from women. Have you seen my video on the Benefits of Staying Single? Just in case: ruclips.net/video/GKE9sKwjH_g/видео.html If you do decide to consider dating again, start with my red flags videos: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ
It's nice to see that one of the most tough redpillers on the web is appreciated by a female creator. It fuels me interest to watch your other content.
I know that it works! Even my roommate/friend likes to start nonsense arguments. I started ignoring her when she did this and it has made the household much more peaceful. Just got done watching your video amd you got a new sub! Thank you!
I wasn't allowed to ignore a woman. She kept finding ways to force me into court. Only took $300K, several custody evaluations, and a couple of new hearing venues. That's what really happened.
After being used by two of the ones I've loved and most trusted in my life for years, and coming away nearly killed from one relationship, and taken for my disability money by the second one, and found by all women to be "undatable" and worthless, I don't need anyone now. I'm finding the freedom I've gained in my solitude has given me time to pursue more creative and fulfilling interests. Since I suck at winning the heart of a good woman, I stick to what I'm best at.
Call girls are no strings attached ( keep your wallet locked up ) , simply have your requirement , pay the agreed sum and you both move on . Humans , like most other species except swans , are solitary seasonal beings , where the females come into heat , get shagged by one or many dudes ( not necessarily at once ) , get impregnated and move on to have their offspring . Its religions that tried to interfere with nature and natural tendencies that has screwed it up for humans with the unnatural notion of one partner for life .
@@gavinclaassen6440 "It is religion that interferes with nature" ..and society and parents and... actually any expression of authority you "must" obey if you are not an individuum (acc to Jung)
Everything has to be balanced including communications. Silent treatment/stonewalling will never work, being a doormat will never work either. Healthy communications will work
Bs not with a modern black women especially one who was raised by a angry single black woman herself. History almost always repeats itself unfortunately 🤷🏾♂️
Darius is right. "Losing a good one" doesn't mean losing the best one, or losing overall. Men can have a great life even when they leave a few good ones in the dust. Women aren't considerate, even the good ones. They have to be incentivized in some way, or, as Darius is trying to convince men to save their time and money, ignored. There's no point in talking about keeping a unicorn, because ya can't find one to begin with.
I love that you added the bits where there are conditions to where ignoring works. A self-aware woman knows when she's acted out, and is willing to work on it when she's being called out. However, if she's generally high value, and is struggling over one aspect of her past, and the man keeps punishing her for it, she is able to see this mismatch and understand there will be other options of men who will kindly stay around to help her through it. And she will be able to do it for her man in return. So ignoring doesn't work if you are not high value yourself.
Right, but even in cases where you don’t have much for status, not catering to other people’s bullshit at the least gets you more respect and you’ll appear a hell of a lot more attractive anyway. Sometimes too even just the peace you get of not making yourself secondary to others has the AMAZING benefit of realizing your true value and how great it is to not have said person in your space when they weren’t treating you properly. At the end of the day, you attract in life what you are regardless of looks and status, NOT what you want in life.
Dang! Just discovered your chanel. I have been a fan of Darius for some years. Your blend and approach is appreciated. And to think you speak happiness as a life goal wow what a pleasant find. Thank you for your presence and what your bringing to life here. In relationships or non relationships just trying to learn what life brings us is a slippery slope.
Thanks so much for checking out my channel! It's always good to get other perspectives. Life is a never ending learning curve lol might as well embrace it! :))
You just got my subscription for agreeing mostly with Darius and shining more light on what he said in that video.. because this guy really knows what he's talking about. For years i've been listening to his videos and also implement most of his stregedies in my daily life and believe me they do work with awesome results.. now i don't even have to watch a video to know what to do when it comes to women behaviours to know how to deal with it, because they're apart of me now. Point blank and period
That lion/lioness analogy is funny: I was talking to my ex-wife on the phone this morning -- we are still close friends -- and my cat "Layla" kept _meowing_ to get my attention...😊
Good job I'm an ace. Dating and relationships have always bewildered me. Half the people I know are women, and it's just never occurred to me to even think of having relationships with 99% of them. Or 99% of guys, for that matter. I enjoy your videos. They help me to understand women, and men too. Just that I always feel like a visitor from Mars when I see actual couples walking down the street, having their conversations and dramas. Why do they do that to each other? This video helps. A lot. Thank you.
So glad you found some value in this video. And don't feel bad, even though people are in relationships few of them understand themselves never mind each other! ;)
@@YourWingmam I thought as much. It's almost as if they don't know for sure what they really want, and they're all afraid to find out. Your videos are just simply amazing, because you're telling people to look in that direction, to show how to approach this with eyes wide open. You are amazing. Thank you.
I'd ignored a Woman at one time, after she made a pass. I had experienced a bad reputation because of it, by her scandalizing my name in the process. Nowadays, I'm always wary of women and try to avoid looking directly at them, just in case, they get the wrong idea!
Revealing to me. I expected you to say he's too hard on women, but found out you actually mostly agree. I don't think I would fit in the normal definition of a nice guy, but I'm definitely learning something here. Many thanks, and keep up with the great content, I am following your channel since some time now, and loving it! I think I fit in the category of men who'd rather stay alone for the time being, though :)
Thanks so much for following my channel and glad you found some value in this one! It definitely ok to stay single for now or forever. Did you watch my video on the benefits of staying single? Just in case you missed it: ruclips.net/video/GKE9sKwjH_g/видео.html
@SoftserveSodium Sorry, but men aren't supposed to be emotional. Women will take this as weakness, yes they will feel sorry for you but they won't want to sleep with you.
@@lykedady72 You do not want those women. Why build a relationship with that kind of toxic trash. Such a woman can NEVER love you. She can only love an image you project. When you say men are not supposed to be emotional, you deny reality and surrender.your frame. This is a conformist mindset. It says that in order to get a woman, a man must suppress his emotions. It also assumes that this misandric view of masculinity is correct. Such women are glaring examples of toxic femininity. Such women demand strength no matter what. So while strength is a good trait, all humans have all emotions and that includes a need for nurturing. She has decided she will not nurture a man because her fantasy is crushed by a man who has weaknesses. Such women are misandric children.
I’m quite confused. There seems to be a general consensus that women are lacking some type of fundamental self-control/awareness/security and therefore need to consistently refresh their perceptions of themselves and the relationship with a battery of different “tests”. 1. Why is there this tumultuous behavior? 2. Why do most men need to be on their ‘psychological tippy-toes’ because of her unrestrained emotional/psychological whims? Why can it be simple?-behave yourself, don’t play a single “game” in the relationship, and let me love you to the full extent that I possibly can. 3. Why is a man beta because he loves without reservations (stoicism)? 4. Why is this psychological acrobatics necessary? It just seems like “satisfaction” is not a state that women can hold for long. It’s like if everything is fine and dandy for too long, then it’s boring.
Thanks for watching and for those valid questions! They require more than what I can post in a reply but as for why women are this way, start with Why Women Don't Accept Accountability: ruclips.net/video/hXvSbYpCYmM/видео.html
I asked a colleague to go out with me in october. She did not say yes. She told me we could talk at work. I felt like she did not like me. I choose to stop talking to her and I did not want to waste my time. I realized that I was being mean af ter a few weeks and I became courteous. She seemed to be really interested. Recently She wanted to organize a short trip together with a class we share. Another woman was invited. The other woman was talking to me during the the 15 mn walk to get to the museum. Two days later, I spoke to my colleague at the school, she seemed to be friendly. The following day I asked by mail about the photos taken in the museum. I was really surprised by her answers. She told me that she does something else to do than to answer my text message and she was wondering if I am a stalker or if I seat on my phone. (I did phone her by mistake and stopped the call) I have decided to ignore her for good. She seems to be a woman with a lots of issue. Having used to word "stalker" makes me realize, this woman is already trouble and I have not done anything with her.
I guess I'm confused. The term high value person or partner sounds so shallow and cold. It makes it sound like everyone has a monetary price or something. I've always just wanted someone who I was attracted to. Doesn't mean I think she has to be perfect. God knows that I'm far from perfect. Just someone who I find physically attractive and has a good personality. She is loyal and kind hearted. As long as she has those. I can work around most anything else. I do prefer that she works. Doesn't matter where or how much she makes. I've always been more attracted to independent women more then clingy. That way I know she wants to be with me and doesn't have to be with me. Personally. My opinion is that we expect too much out of people and when they don't meet every expectation. We discard them like yesterday's trash. No one wants to work at relationships nowadays. First sign of trouble. People bail. It's sad. Relationships take a lot work at times.
Value doesn't equal financial worth. Interesting that (in my many years of experience) it is mostly men who think that. But you're socialized to think that way. Nonetheless, you've described a high value woman with no mention of financial value, which is exactly what I mean when I say it. "High value" is just quicker to say than the list of what the associated qualities might look like, especially given the qualities can vary from man to man. You're right that people are too quick to ditch and run, which is why I say look out for the real red flags and don't mislabel quirks and minor irritations as flags. None of us is perfect. Thanks for your comment and allowing me to clarify! :)
I was in a marriage that I thought was for life; to make a long story short she betrayed everything I believed in. My union was a total lie, after 17 years the marriage ended and she pursued a relationship with the same gender and eventually married. As a man I was devastated and blamed myself for years, it took a male friend who was gay to help me understand why. He said John! you did not have a chance, once I digested this information I was able to let go and move on. You know I could have excepted the fact if there were another man; but! honestly I did not have a clue, she kept that part of her life a secret. Anna! I' am sure there are men out there that went through the same ordeal, if you feel this has merit then yes I think this should be addressed in a future video.
A gentleman from my church went through the exact same thing. He had two daughters and his wife dropped this bombshell on him. It sent him into a deep spiral of depression that he was unable to pull himself out of. Sadly he ended his life. I wish more men would talk about this and more women would take responsibility for the consequences of their actions.
I feel for you, John. :( Your friend was right, you just didn't have the right plumbing. I know women this has happened to as well as men. And I know a woman who left her husband and eventually decided she was a lesbian. She says she didn't know before. Even though batting for the same team is more accepted now, it hasn't always been. I'm sure many of them felt tortured by their own shame. That's not to discredit your pain. Of course not! You were a trusting innocent man and that can only feel like the hugest betrayal. As you said, maybe even more so than having been left for a man. At least then you might find a reason for it. It will be hard to trust a woman again but try to remember than nowadays most people who know their true sexuality aren't hiding in the closet so that's not likely to happen again. (Doesn't mean you won't find another messed up woman, but she'll come with other baggage.) Big hug, God bless.
I have a feeling this will happen to me in the future. I've been with her over 10 years, and every now and then, something homosexual comes to light with her. She either denys it or pleads confusion. I've just accepted this, knowing better. We're 30 and marrying next month, no kids. I want kids, she doesn't and wouldn't be a good mother. Suffers from crippling anxiety and depression that she refuses to work on. I love her though. Hopefully the knowledge of my very possible future will make it easier to get over. Even if I'm 40, childless, and alone, life could always be worse. A lot of people say to cut ot off asap and move on with an abundance mindset. But the truth is, the abundance mindset is a self-lie. There is a severe lack of quality women.
@@bluefig797 after 10 years of red flags, I have learned to just cope with these flags. Women tend to be emotionally irrational and subjective to being easily impressionable. I tell myself that every woman has her issues, and mine isn't any different. It would be just as hard with any woman, but maybe in different ways.
As I was listening to this I couldn't help to draw parallel with raising our daughter when she was in high school. Understanding when to help and not to help.
Nice change of pace in this video, and an interesting topic. I hope the timing of the release is for positive reasons (or, at least, maybe you got the hour wrong when you queued it up) and not that you aren't feeling up to your usual Tuesday banter with your tribe, Good job! Praying for you -- Russ P PS/PJ has finally learned to do stairs, so he is probably ready to give Stuffy a run for his money in the "let's destroy the universe!" contest. Tell Stuffy that hiding in a kitchen chair just ain't gonna cut it. ;)
Yes, it was an oops on the queue time lol but now I'm not sure if it was the different time or the different type of video that's made it my most popular of the last 10 weeks. Oy. Not sure if learning the stairs will make your life easier or more difficult! lol God bless :)
Anna as always you were able to do a review without any copyright strikes inclusive of your wit, candour and poise. Much respect but does this also mean that you will still be doing the just the tip tuesday livestreams? A video on Emotional tampon would be 💥 a good idea on your docket.
Thanks so much! Glad this workaround the copyright thing worked out. :)) This got released early by mistake so yes, I will be doing more premieres with the live chat! Suggestion noted! :)
You're a sweet lady, but I think you might not realize women of the internet generation so much- No matter what you give them, attention, or ignoring, they will desire the opposite the moment they have either.
I read your comment, and though I hate to agree, I would say that's very true. From what I have seen, in broad strokes, most people, men and women, are in want of something, but the sad thing is that once they have it, they often abuse it, or the source it is coming from. Most people are takers in this world. Now more than ever. It's full of people who's niceness is a facade so they can achieve their own agenda, and the few who genuinely are kind and who genuinely care about others, too often get taken advantage of, or outright betrayed, and as a result become bitter and cynical. I guess the only way you win against people like that, the former group, is by never allowing yourself to become like them and never letting their cruelty turn you bitter, as you learn what to watch for.
@@YourWingmam You're a woman of quality (from what I can tell, anyway - I don't really know you of course)- modern woman has been completely warped by Online dating and social media, the hypergamy is out of control. Then again maybe it isn't a warping so much as a revealing?
Anna, thank you so much. I really needed to hear this today. I am grateful for you. As much I like Darius, as an older man, I prefer your delivery because it’s delivered in a more pleasant, professional, and mature way.
My job brings me in contact with many women daily and a majority of them will obviously ignore me initially so I just ignore them back. Almost every time when I continue to walk past them and ignore them as if she doesn't exist eventually she'll begin trying to engage with me. I always keep it very short and vanilla and they act like it drives them crazy.
The biggest travesty is not how you break up but how much time lost in doing so . I am so over all of it . Your videos really help me to validate my feelings.. I even share them with my recent ex in hopes they will help her. I still love her but I love myself a tad bit more.
So glad you love yourself more! I recommend that to all. Not in a selfish way, just a self-respect way. Thank you for sharing, more women should watch my videos, they might learn something valuable about what they're doing wrong. :)
This is quite interesting. Generally, men faced with these frustrations turn first to the male-centric channels, such as Darius'. Yet, you don't encounter any epiphanies in that world of men operating out of ignorance. So, you reviewing Darius tremendously interesting, as you can confirm or refute his points. As with any issue, the juice is found in the "why". We cannot understand women and predict what they will want (paraphrasing Freud). So, thank you, Mam Anna, for the insights. This is your least-despair-inducing video so far.
There is a girl I really like and we did "dating" activities for around 3 months and all of them good and enjoyable. But I come to find out that she is going on dates with dudes from dating apps here and there during that period. When I asked her she says she wasn't really looking for a relationship from anyone, yet she keeps me in constant communication but I'm fed up with it. She was what I thought a high value woman, but this was a pretty rough thing for me to find out. Definitely feeling like a used tissue being kept in the back pocket "just in case" it needs to be used. Girls can be absolutely brutal. It's really messed with my head but I'm just going to ignore her from here on out. Not sure if i'm going about it the right way, have had mixed reactions to this.
I feel for you, this situation really sucks. It's tough when you first start seeing someone and aren't at the stage of asking if you're seeing other people. Tough to bring up and often people have different values and assumptions about what's ok. IF she's really a high value woman worth the effort, I encourage you to watch my video on What to Do If She's Seeing Other Guys: ruclips.net/video/LqAsbcG0H6c/видео.html Is She Stringing You Along: ruclips.net/video/RGSdwsUd8rw/видео.html and My video on Chasing vs Pursuing: ruclips.net/video/O6_q8VGFrtE/видео.html Big hug, good luck and do keep us posted on what happens!
My dude, that woman doesn't belongs to you, she just wants you to be around whenever she needs you because she see you as a good guy. My advice is to ignore her completely and in less than a month, she will be crawling back to you, she will realize the mistake she has made, but you would be in another level for her, in a stage where you don't give a damn about her. Plus, you'll get the chance to know someone who values you as who you are. Peace✌🏼
Not judging your comment bro, just flipping my 2 cents, with that analogy there won't be a single hi value women in the world. Simply because all women are emotionally charged and will need an external redirection and reinforcement of positivity . So as a man I think it becomes necessary to evaluate the situation with solidity then decide which one to handle the situation. Sounds like a whole lot of effort, but a functional relationship is worth it.
That's right Dan. There is no such thing as a high value woman unless she has a righteous king by her side. That was our nature since the begining of time prior to the last 200 years when this submission began. We're only here because men have gone soft and as a result woman got out of control. Easy fix but try telling that to the world that has zero knowledge of history.
I have been ignoring women all my life, and so much success came my way, when I stopped ignoring women hell arrived, when I restarted ignoring women, happiness replace her hell.
Thank you. I appreciate your time and effort on this topic, not easy to be a woman, and help men to be a better version of themselves while getting the woman that they have.
Agreed; just to add that if she is a high-value woman then she must be able to appreciate that you have high values too. Best of luck guys and gals(!) .
2 things could happen. 1- she will go out of her way to ask you what's wrong and talk to you which will be an obvious sign she truly cares for you. 2- she will hit up multiple orbiters on social media and plan a play date with them or start texting and messaging them back n forth which will be an obvious sign that she never cared for you and she had alternative motives in the first place.
She cares for you as in she likes you? Bc a girl played a sexual prank on me and I was embarrassed af so I stopped talking to her. A month and a half later she texts me asking about how I felt and she apologized.
I think the important thing is when you have a committed relationship relationship you have to have that friendship but not the type of friendship you have between butts there's a difference different. My wife and I were best friends before we became romantically involved and that really made A huge difference in our life together particularly when she became permanently ill . Because I found a lead to a far greater and deeper understanding and Empathy. The main caveat is no one is the same you have to pay attention Otherwise you may get what you don't It's definitely not good for you or Completely miss What's best for you
Wow. As much as I am really interested in the subject you are the first woman dating coach who got my attention and kept it through the whole video. I really liked what you had to say; Finding your video both interesting and instructional.. You are a very “high value” dating coach!
@@YourWingmam It was My Pleasure. Thanks for… “the best feedback I have ever received on a comment “.😃. WhenI have time, I will watch more of your videos. I have been taking notes and observations on my own personal dating life and mainly flirting /dating in genetics for some years now. And I find the subject absolutely fascinating..Take care.
I mostly agree with Darius (potentially totally agree if I misinterpreted one thing in his video) so yeah, simping / beta comes from chasing. (Vs pursuing... Chasing vs Pursuing: ruclips.net/video/O6_q8VGFrtE/видео.html
@@YourWingmam I ignore my EX...now she turns up with makeup and no bra..tight T-shirt etc..when I pick up my child..I ain't going back...now seems trying to get me...😁
Thank you so much Your Wingman for giving us a perspective from a woman's standpoint. I hear from Darius, Rich (Entrepreneurs in Cars), and the guy from the Better Bachelor about female matters and I agree with them...but I also wonder if what these guys say is true, if they themselves, are not women! Hearing female matters from you, a woman, is super super awesome.
It's called enabling ladies and gentlemen and when you do it. It doesn't help the person you are with in the long term. Just walk away because your own sanity is always more important.
Honestly - “not reacting” to a woman’s emotional response is something , I’ve found, that sets them off ! In relationships, I always find myself being baited into a conflict when being completely un phased by being emotional. It simply hasn’t worked. Advice?
Frustrating, I know! Either she's testing (which is natural even if not wanted) or she's emotionally damaged (which is a red flag)... Watch some of the videos in my 💩test playlist (why she tests you and what to do): ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkFVeRMpvW3s3SC3Vgu7I1d
The problem is, when it's a covert abuser / manipulator, we try for a long time not to react but to respond. And our body is telling us we are in danger .. yet we didnt know the red flags. We end up reacting .. and that should be a huge sign for us to go rather than go quiet.
Once you get free of an abusive relationship, be sure to watch for red flags next time! Red flags, damaged women, narcissists: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ
I like when people like you add to content, I follow his content as well and thank you for adding value to his content making you and the whole topic 1000 percent frkn awesome.
You mentioned provided she isn't emotionally damaged and I think I did that, again. I have learned to think strategies but have not gotten control of core awareness that pauses and processes before reacting. I didn't know about being tested emotionally, I was offended and in some cases insulted over some of her comments that she costumed up as be being concerned for me. You out a light on a few things and sure wish I could pick your brain some more.
Ignore Women? What REALLY Happens When You IGNORE A Woman! (Darius M video review: ruclips.net/video/r8wXi3KLViA/видео.html). Also, watch these:
WHY SHE TESTS YOU:
bit.ly/WhySheTestsYouPlaylist
RED FLAGS:
bit.ly/DamagedWomenplaylist
WHEN SHE PULLS AWAY:
bit.ly/WhenShePullsAwayPlaylist
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Ignoring pretty woman works on married men;; they are just interested in making 💰; family life;; I hear a guy a pretty lady: all woman are the same physically
@@lloydkline1518 There is no known universe where "all woman are the same physically". They are not at all the same physically. Not even close. They are not all the same anything.
No man ever regrets walking away for their own sanity. We usually ask ourselves what took us so long . . .
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True story :)
Do we REALLY ask ourselves this, or do we secretly know? LOL
Sanity is way overated.
@@inconnu4961 we know lol
“I’ll never understand women…women understand women,and they hate each other”- Al Bundy
Almost right! Women don't even understand women lol
@@YourWingmam Women are frequently in a contest with each other, individually and as a group. No man knocks women more than women hammer other women. Catty (Katty?), I believe is the term. It's one of those "woman mysteries". Jealousy, envy.
If you have to ignore a woman because of how she acting that means she settled for you and plans to upgrade soon as she can because woman date up remember. Because all the woman that I've known of even relatives when they met that dude that all the girls won't they will pretend to be an angel just so he will think she is better than all the other girls she won't ask him for nothen and will turn down money from him knowing she needs it just to make him believe she's the one. And she will even buy him things. So if she's not star stuck by you she gone give you problems then latter leave you for an up grade.
A woman might not understand a stranger woman but they understand female nature.
Facts !
My ex had the habit of walking into another room whenever we were having an argument. After about the 3rd time of she doing this, I asked her why she did that. She actually said to me, "Because, in my mind, if you follow me into the other room, I've won the argument." That was the last time that happened. After that day, whenever we had arguments and she walked away, I'd just turn on the TV and let her stew alone in the other room. She soon stopped that habit, lol.
lol, 🙂 thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!
Sounds like you're a boyfriend and a baby sitter at the same time.
Some women tend to stay children for ever. Believing winning an argument in this way equals to believing winning an argument just because today is Friday. More over, when there s a winner there is always must be a loser. So, when she's the so called winner, you must be, in her mind, the loser. Boy, this woman is a true and healthy mental supporter in this relationship. So, have a kick from her here, a kick from her there, until you cognize its time for the kicks to stop by simply leaving her. Hope it didnt take you too long.
I wish my women would walk away when we argue. It's almost never worth arguing over.
Cool she just walked into another room and that's still fine..... What if she walked out from you and never return back.... 🤷 I mean to say that your girl is much much better and having so much control upon her anger and that's why she still stick within four walls..... 🙂
What happens when you ignore her?
Peace, quiet, and freedom. Lots and lots of it.
@xyzct If she's not your wife, she's not your problem!
5 benefits of being single / 5 times to stay single: ruclips.net/video/GKE9sKwjH_g/видео.html
Agree, at 27 I feel amazing not caring about women… I am working hard and doing pretty well financially and emotionally. I’ve decided to not get married already
Your wingman just stop, you won’t convert anyone to your way of thinking. Stop embarrassing yourself.
LOL That's cold!
Ignoring women has brought me peace , dating them brought me, stress and expense. Why so many women aren't honest is another issue in itself.
I totally agree with you
Peace i can't obtain because all these girls the same
-Juice Wrld
Your not doing it right. Haha
Cosmicdust 1 and Not convinced have got it 100% correct. Women have got too many options thanks to dating apps ect. No peace of mind can be had with dating any more.
Hookers are the only way to go, no more dramas.
“From the streets did she emerge, and to the streets she will return. And I say unto you, she is for the streets. So be not weary, when she must return from whence she came.”
BEGONE THOTS!!!
So many vids on RUclips discussing ignoring women and its something I've been doing since childhood. I'm 54 now and women gravitate towards me like a damm magnet. Apparently the "ignoring" has become such a part of who I am that perhaps in this day and age it's especially prominent because of how the behaviors of women have changed yet my behaviors as a man have barely wavered. I've such a sense of self and I'm EXTREMELY in tune with it, that the presence of others is only important to me if it serves a purpose, which itself is EXTREMELY rare. I think women are amazing creatures, but my world doesn't revolve around them. I don't need a woman and perhaps most can sense this. True joy is within me, and it does not require the presence of others.
👌so true.
It takes courage and strength to walk away from a woman that doesn’t want you. It doesn’t show them you’re weak. What it does is show them you are strong enough to wait for someone you deserve.
Caleb, It takes courage and strength to walk away from a woman that really wants you.
@@klauslorentz4113 @ you’ve had to do that? 😢
Who cares what it shows them? At that point what she sees hears feels or thinks is IRRELEVANT
I walked away and I really loved her. She was a toxic crazy bipolar woman that spent more time with her kids father while I was at work. BYE!!!
@@mariosanchez-sj9yv In that circumstance I don’t blame you man
If she's, 'broken' from past relationships...why is it my job to fix her?
When she repeatedly tests & challenges you just to reassure her insecurities...forget it.
Tell her to get professional help..
You are not her emotional punching bag.
You didn't ask for it...you are not responsible for it....you don't need the frustration.
First, it's not your job to fix anyone and that's not possible anyway.
Second, your description of what you'd say is actually a great way to handle her shit test. ;)
Needed this..thanks
Exactly.
Yo go easy, everyone deserves a chance even after they get 'damaged' from trauma. When she turns it against you its time to walk away, dont toss someone aside for shit that happened to them. Nothing is worth giving up your humanity over.
Learnt this the hard way. Thanks
It’s not so much about ignoring. I think it’s more about not seeking her validation and approval by really approving/validating yourself. That makes it very easy to be direct, have boundaries, keep some space and stay calm. That vibe of emotional self reliance, not needy, where she feels she can’t control or manipulate you is picked up right away. Women are almost psychic with picking up vibes.
I used to care before I went MGTOW.
I simply don't care anymore.
My life has been full of peace and tranquility and I love it that way
same here bro. peace is priceless
Facts 👋
@@richiedon9133 Nah. That's your own projection.
@@richiedon9133 and you’re not? Something tells me you’re probably the most feminine here lol
@@richiedon9133 I still watch these videos because I wanna laugh at simps and spread the red pill
I'm a single man. I've been single for 9 years. I do what I want, when I want and the only stress in my life is my own, and I handle it easily. When I have had women in my life there was always too much stress and chaos. I was very unhappy with women. The sex was not worth it. Now days I have peace and fulfillment.
Is it incel? Or you’re now asexual?
@@__Lopps nah he just went his own way
I love women too much to do that.
@@VuNguyen-9. then enjoy bliss.
And you have more money in your pocket.
There is this girl who has told me that I am a selfish person who does not care about anyone and ignores her, yet she keeps coming back telling me that she hates the fact that she is so attracted to me lol. The more you ignore them, the more they get attracted.
But as soon as you give in they lose interest. You can have a woman be interested in you but you can never have a woman that is interested in you.
Woman don't never know what they want and they chage you for somebody else in a minute if they see more value I choose Jesus Christ he just gave me everything
I think she has issues, tbh with you.
Not me. I'm a woman and I stayed single for years because I was tired of getting ignored every time I tried to put myself out there. I don't have time for games. I like compliments and attention. I finally met someone who is kind and attentive. I'm beyond blessed to have finally met someone who pays attention to me and cares about what I have to say.
When I later on discovered that everyone else was just ignoring me in hopes I would date them, I just got really sad because they were assuming I was just like the other women they met who liked games. It is common but not every woman plays these games. You also have to ask yourself if you even want to waste time and energy ignoring a little immature girl when you could have a grown ass woman who is direct and affectionate.
It is sad that women, who have all the options and do the selecting, actually select guys intentionally to break their hearts just for the thrill of it. They repeatedly wreck their lives.
Truly, some of them enjoy the perception of 'power'. They plan and laugh about it. In the past 10 years I've come across an endless stream of rude, angry, selfish, agitated women. I walk away fast.
Those type of women deeply fear stability and love from good men. They rather go for guys that they know will carry out their self fulfilling prophecy and are addicted to the abusive dynamics that they have only known since they were probably raised in a household with unstable parents.
That's why you focus on yourself and don't simp on them.the key is flipping the script!
@@will3634 Yeah and I'm not even focusing on the dating scene, just women in general. Whether it be raging , rude behind the wheel of their car, or a store clerk. It's like they have so much freedom in all aspects, they almost seem
angry about it. Who knows, but it sucks. So much for the fairer sex. I 'd rather compliment a man for something he's wearing than some babe.
I think of that Stones' song, "Congratulations."
Women who continually "shit-test" aren't worth keeping around. The emotional drama is draining to your peace of mind. Your gut will let you know the correct time to leave them. Don't question it. Just leave. If she's a "keeper" except for when she "tests" you, tell her to stop. If she ignores your request, leave her. Lots of women play these stupid games, but lots of them don't. Stick with those who don't.
Not sure I have ever met one who doesn't play for blood and amusement.
Mike you are so right....your gut will tell you...
“From the streets did she emerge, and to the streets she will return. And I say unto you, she is for the streets. So be not weary, when she must return from whence she came.”
BEGONE THOTS!!!
Agreed and same this goes for such men too..
Problem is that's just about every woman. It just varies from how insecure to how confident the woman is. If she's confident then the testing will be very little as she is confident enough in herself not to put all of her trust into your masculinity. These are the type of women you want. The insecure type that have a child mindset will test non stop for the whole relationship. The insecure ones want to see if they can put all their trust into you and so they see if they can knock you off your frame.
A relationship isn't about looking each other in the eyes. It's about looking in the same direction.
You're absolutely right!
@@YourWingmam ❤️
Alternate option: always ignore women entirely and just go your own way. Therein lies men’s happiness and peace.
I've had a woman say that to me,but I dropped her I wanted to see the btch but she kept refusing
Anna I’m almost ready to ignore women altogether..I was always the problem solver and shocker I’m single lol..
Men are fixers, I love that about men but most women need something else (in a moment of tension). Did you see my video on what never to say to an angry woman? ruclips.net/video/U3D2gWhYiuw/видео.html
But, if you're really considering going solo for now or forever, watch this one: ruclips.net/video/GKE9sKwjH_g/видео.html
But stick around so you'll understand the other women you might have to deal with in life at work, friends etc :)
Brother, there are a sh*t ton of low value women out there! So, im not surprised that the low-value ones dont know what to do with you! Wishing you the very best, especially trying to navigate the dating enigma!
Hey bro remember be a good man not a nice guy . And never try to be knight in shining armor . That doesn't work . She just see you as a nice FRIEND . NOOOOO 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@inconnu4961 thank you brother..much appreciated..
@@edwardlopez114 Exactly! The White Knight, we call them!
I gave her everything, did as much as I could for her but she was still waiting for the man who left her to merry another girl. She wanted to put me in the friend zone, so I stopped talking to her. A few months after she wants to start talking so I walked away, I am no one’s second choice.
Dont be a simp
Good stuff!!!!
How many months were few months? 2 or 4 months?
Been there. The alpha widow. I thought me and her were solid. Even considered marriage. That was until her ex announced he was getting married. The honeymoon was in Hawaii. Guess were mine now wanted to go? I knew it was over at that point.
Darius is right on a lot of his stuff Anna, I'm subscribed to him, 👍 up Anna for going out of the circle and checking out another person's work.
Wonderbar! I've only seen this video of his but he was pretty much on point!. If you have a video you'd like my take on, write the creator and title (links get filtered) in a new comment :)
@@YourWingmam Wunderbar !😳
auch Sprechst du Deutsch
@@SaidMahmoud Guess it all depends with that horus pic
Likewise i love Darius M content. Along with Kevin Samuels😁
@@YourWingmam the thing is a woman's words don't match her actions. Thankfully I have a virtuous woman that shows it. However for the most part there's a trend of women using guys for foodie calls while having a side dude that puts up no effort. A woman will break her OWN RULES for a man she desires. So I will stick to that theory. Also what do YOU consider a high value woman?
When a woman's frame is unstable, it's tempting for a man to abandon his own frame and attend to hers. The problem is that she may like the attention he gives and then habitually act out to get more of it. Attending to a woman's fragile frame can divert a man from his primary mission, which means that both are now derailed from the success train.
100% wisdom right there!
I definitely went through this.
Really a good case description, that works both-ways, but we know this is a very good observation and tip. Thank you
I made this very mistake with a woman before and I will NEVER DO IT AGAIN! Being single is worth more!
Fellas… keep in mind… SOME women who grew up in “dysfunctional environment” like fighting parents, fight older siblings or classmates in bad relationships… they think it’s “normal” to ALWAYS BE FIGHTING and ARGUING. They literally FEEL “bored” and “insecure” when you act like a “good/nice guy” They will Literally cause drama and arguments to feel “normal” aka be reminder of what they saw growing up with their parents, siblings and classmates. “Emotionally damaged” women DON’T know HOW to appreciate or what to do with a good, healthy and happy relationship. They will consciously or subconsciously SABOTAGE it to “Feel normal”. Its sad but it’s the truth. Look out for these signs from a damaged female fellas. Run like hell!
I'm often reminded of Jack Nicholson's character in one of his movies, wherein he was asked by another character as to how he considered women. He replied, "..When I think of a woman, I see a man, I just take away reason & accountability...."
It doesn’t matter how emotional she is, when DISRESPECT is shown. Take your self respect, IGNORE her, & walk away. No amount of logical explanation will make sense to her.
Other than that, good response on the ignoring topic
I've ignored women all my life. When I was a toddler, my Mom told everyone my older brother was the good looking one. I grew up thinking I was ugly so in fear of being teased for my looks, I never spoke to girls. It wasn't until College, a girl in class asked me out. I always wondered why she asked me out? Anyway, from then on, women have always asked me out. 2 were even strippers. 20 years after College, I ran into my College crush and she asked me out. We married a year later.
That is great... you played it cool and it paid off.
thats trauma sticks with you sorry that happened to you.
@@cortez121219933 lol true
8 months later, how's the marriage to your college crush whom you married 20 years after college going?
Not to be rude, but in that 20 yr timeframe ur wife had been plowed hard
If you’re going to ignore a woman make sure she is truly behaving badly because otherwise it’s actually unkind to treat people this way and you will lose a woman who values herself this way. I ignore men who ignore me right back.
Fellas!!
When you ignore women NOTHING HAPPENS!!! It’s simply beautiful!! No interaction whatsoever no drama whatsoever no nonsense whatsoever!! It is fantastic and peaceful and wonderful!!
Enjoy!!!
True man. It's 100% true. People will tag you as misogynistic but in reality you just ignore then.
@@memechannel3345
Who cares what “people” do? If you are on your path going after your goals and achieving your goals then those same people claim you and say “I knew you when” your wardrobe was gross, your car was a wreck and booted you lived in a pen and now you’re at the gym your health is great you financially sound your investments and dividends passive income and cash flow are amazing you just put a new roof on your home put in a new kitchen and bathroom new windows and floors refinished!!
Now tell women to kiss 💋 my ass !!
By being a whole/complete/happy person with clear boundaries/direction you will attract the right people in your life. To ignore a woman is to really give her space when its appropriate (including if it's a strategy), whatever happens as a result should be honored. When you've trained your subconscious to react the way you want to respond, you wont have to remember a bunch of rules, it will just flow...as it does with anything else you have learned. IMHO
Wise words as always, thank you! :)
@@YourWingmam I'm not telling you anything you don't already know! Keep up the great work! I wish you were around 30 years ago hahahahaha
Wise words and well spoken.
Love her if she loves you and ignore her if she don't.. give love to someone who deserve to be love. Very simple. 😂
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
I watch Darius and Anna almost every day . So good to hear common sense advice from two grounded mature adults .
Darius seems like just an average guy but he's put out some great content. A lot of good ideas from that guy...
Darius and Wingman combining intellectual forces! Thank you both for saving all men from a life of needless suffering from immature, undeserving women.
You mean women?
What I love abt this channel is how mature and healthy it is. There are some things I did deal with in the past. They were unpleasant, sometimes brutal. I burst into a laugh when you mentioned those "young girls with bodies count" (some boys do that too). Talking abt the elephant in the room! Bless you, Anna.
Thanks so much for those thoughtful compliments on my content, much appreciated! HBC affects young men differently than young women. May add more about this in a video thanks for the inspiration! :)
"You teach people how to treat you."
-- Dr Phil.
That is 100% true!
Absolutely! :)
"I don't care if a woman attacks you...you should never put your hands on a woman" - Dr Phil 😑
@@myerst52 Even if she comes running after you with a big kitchen knife? Asking for a friend...
@@robert4you yes! If you have no witnesses you should let her stab you or catch that on camera. The law will always protect women. So be safe and smart.
I definitely learned early on in my life that it was better to ignore her than try to make her understand where she was wrong in her argument. Eventhough it meant I was bitting my tongue in anger, but it definitely saved me more frustration. And over the years it takes the most minimal attitude for me to just ignore her and I get my personal space which is the best thing.
My father does just that, he never cares about my mom crying in her room
“Treat others how we ourselves would like to be treated.”
PERIOD!!!!
True but women will treat you like crap if you treat them too nice.
High value women come and go like the breeze, did you know there is a girl turning 18 everyday of the year fellas
Stay on your purpose, ignore her if it’s needed, and always have an abundance mindset 🙌🏻
There is so much beauty being single,mentally and emotionally is just a blessing to be single and happy.OMG this is just the biggest remedy for good health and long life
It's ok to take a break from women. Have you seen my video on the Benefits of Staying Single? Just in case: ruclips.net/video/GKE9sKwjH_g/видео.html
If you do decide to consider dating again, start with my red flags videos: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ
It's nice to see that one of the most tough redpillers on the web is appreciated by a female creator. It fuels me interest to watch your other content.
Thanks for that! I don't know that Darius and I agree on everything but different perspectives are always valuable :))
I know that it works! Even my roommate/friend likes to start nonsense arguments. I started ignoring her when she did this and it has made the household much more peaceful.
Just got done watching your video amd you got a new sub! Thank you!
True...like a song you don't like but have to hear to the end!
Actually if a woman knows how to solve her own problems and create inner happinnes for himself it brings peace in you too , well said👍
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
I’ve been ignored by women all of my younger years. I’m 45 now and i got everything i need. Now It’s my turn to ignore women.
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@@YourWingmam é imposivel ser feliz sozinho....
I wasn't allowed to ignore a woman. She kept finding ways to force me into court. Only took $300K, several custody evaluations, and a couple of new hearing venues. That's what really happened.
I'm sorry to hear about that, and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
After being used by two of the ones I've loved and most trusted in my life for years, and coming away nearly killed from one relationship, and taken for my disability money by the second one, and found by all women to be "undatable" and worthless, I don't need anyone now. I'm finding the freedom I've gained in my solitude has given me time to pursue more creative and fulfilling interests. Since I suck at winning the heart of a good woman, I stick to what I'm best at.
Call girls are no strings attached ( keep your wallet locked up ) , simply have your requirement , pay the agreed sum and you both move on . Humans , like most other species except swans , are solitary seasonal beings , where the females come into heat , get shagged by one or many dudes ( not necessarily at once ) , get impregnated and move on to have their offspring . Its religions that tried to interfere with nature and natural tendencies that has screwed it up for humans with the unnatural notion of one partner for life .
@@gavinclaassen6440 "It is religion that interferes with nature" ..and society and parents and... actually any expression of authority you "must" obey if you are not an individuum (acc to Jung)
Everything has to be balanced including communications. Silent treatment/stonewalling will never work, being a doormat will never work either. Healthy communications will work
Bs not with a modern black women especially one who was raised by a angry single black woman herself. History almost always repeats itself unfortunately 🤷🏾♂️
Darius is right.
"Losing a good one" doesn't mean losing the best one, or losing overall. Men can have a great life even when they leave a few good ones in the dust.
Women aren't considerate, even the good ones. They have to be incentivized in some way, or, as Darius is trying to convince men to save their time and money, ignored.
There's no point in talking about keeping a unicorn, because ya can't find one to begin with.
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Men aren’t considerate
I love that you added the bits where there are conditions to where ignoring works. A self-aware woman knows when she's acted out, and is willing to work on it when she's being called out. However, if she's generally high value, and is struggling over one aspect of her past, and the man keeps punishing her for it, she is able to see this mismatch and understand there will be other options of men who will kindly stay around to help her through it. And she will be able to do it for her man in return. So ignoring doesn't work if you are not high value yourself.
Brilliantly stated! :))
Right, but even in cases where you don’t have much for status, not catering to other people’s bullshit at the least gets you more respect and you’ll appear a hell of a lot more attractive anyway. Sometimes too even just the peace you get of not making yourself secondary to others has the AMAZING benefit of realizing your true value and how great it is to not have said person in your space when they weren’t treating you properly. At the end of the day, you attract in life what you are regardless of looks and status, NOT what you want in life.
Dang! Just discovered your chanel. I have been a fan of Darius for some years. Your blend and approach is appreciated. And to think you speak happiness as a life goal wow what a pleasant find. Thank you for your presence
and what your bringing to life here.
In relationships or non relationships just trying to learn what life brings us
is a slippery slope.
Thanks so much for checking out my channel! It's always good to get other perspectives. Life is a never ending learning curve lol might as well embrace it! :))
You just got my subscription for agreeing mostly with Darius and shining more light on what he said in that video.. because this guy really knows what he's talking about. For years i've been listening to his videos and also implement most of his stregedies in my daily life and believe me they do work with awesome results.. now i don't even have to watch a video to know what to do when it comes to women behaviours to know how to deal with it, because they're apart of me now. Point blank and period
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That lion/lioness analogy is funny: I was talking to my ex-wife on the phone this morning -- we are still close friends -- and my cat "Layla" kept _meowing_ to get my attention...😊
All pussy da same! ;) lol
@@YourWingmam >>> 😊
Good job I'm an ace. Dating and relationships have always bewildered me.
Half the people I know are women, and it's just never occurred to me to even think of having relationships with 99% of them.
Or 99% of guys, for that matter.
I enjoy your videos. They help me to understand women, and men too. Just that I always feel like a visitor from Mars when I see actual couples walking down the street, having their conversations and dramas. Why do they do that to each other?
This video helps. A lot. Thank you.
So glad you found some value in this video. And don't feel bad, even though people are in relationships few of them understand themselves never mind each other! ;)
@@YourWingmam I thought as much. It's almost as if they don't know for sure what they really want, and they're all afraid to find out. Your videos are just simply amazing, because you're telling people to look in that direction, to show how to approach this with eyes wide open. You are amazing. Thank you.
I'd ignored a Woman at one time, after she made a pass. I had experienced a bad reputation because of it, by her scandalizing my name in the process. Nowadays, I'm always wary of women and try to avoid looking directly at them, just in case, they get the wrong idea!
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The opinions of the nobodies on your name should mean absolutely nothing to you.
Revealing to me. I expected you to say he's too hard on women, but found out you actually mostly agree. I don't think I would fit in the normal definition of a nice guy, but I'm definitely learning something here. Many thanks, and keep up with the great content, I am following your channel since some time now, and loving it! I think I fit in the category of men who'd rather stay alone for the time being, though :)
Thanks so much for following my channel and glad you found some value in this one! It definitely ok to stay single for now or forever. Did you watch my video on the benefits of staying single? Just in case you missed it: ruclips.net/video/GKE9sKwjH_g/видео.html
I feel wingman is the best and Darius is the best, should do a podcast together!! Both are great prospectives !!
Thanks for the compliment! Always a good idea to get different takes on a topic :))
When she gets mad, just ignore her. It drives them crazy.
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It's called maintaining your masculine frame.
Yes. I agree with both of you! :)
Darius calls it being stoic.
@SoftserveSodium Sorry, but men aren't supposed to be emotional. Women will take this as weakness, yes they will feel sorry for you but they won't want to sleep with you.
@@lykedady72 You do not want those women. Why build a relationship with that kind of toxic trash. Such a woman can NEVER love you. She can only love an image you project. When you say men are not supposed to be emotional, you deny reality and surrender.your frame. This is a conformist mindset. It says that in order to get a woman, a man must suppress his emotions. It also assumes that this misandric view of masculinity is correct. Such women are glaring examples of toxic femininity. Such women demand strength no matter what. So while strength is a good trait, all humans have all emotions and that includes a need for nurturing. She has decided she will not nurture a man because her fantasy is crushed by a man who has weaknesses. Such women are misandric children.
@@lykedady72 if men wasn’t supposed to have emotion then God would have made us unempathetic. Unable to feel. Unable to cry.
I’m quite confused.
There seems to be a general consensus that women are lacking some type of fundamental self-control/awareness/security and therefore need to consistently refresh their perceptions of themselves and the relationship with a battery of different “tests”.
1. Why is there this tumultuous behavior?
2. Why do most men need to be on their ‘psychological tippy-toes’ because of her unrestrained emotional/psychological whims?
Why can it be simple?-behave yourself, don’t play a single “game” in the relationship, and let me love you to the full extent that I possibly can.
3. Why is a man beta because he loves without reservations (stoicism)?
4. Why is this psychological acrobatics necessary?
It just seems like “satisfaction” is not a state that women can hold for long. It’s like if everything is fine and dandy for too long, then it’s boring.
You are right sir.
Thanks for watching and for those valid questions! They require more than what I can post in a reply but as for why women are this way, start with Why Women Don't Accept Accountability: ruclips.net/video/hXvSbYpCYmM/видео.html
@@YourWingmam thanks for replying.
I really appreciate it 🥰
Most women are children. Hence the ignoring when they act up…..just like you do a child.
You are bringing out very balanced perspective and commentary, and I give you 100% 👍
Good show.👍
You're right about emotional control. Most men and women can gain from that!
Thank you! I appreciate your input!!
I asked a colleague to go out with me in october. She did not say yes. She told me we could talk at work. I felt like she did not like me. I choose to stop talking to her and I did not want to waste my time. I realized that I was being mean af ter a few weeks and I became courteous. She seemed to be really interested. Recently She wanted to organize a short trip together with a class we share. Another woman was invited.
The other woman was talking to me during the the 15 mn walk to get to the museum.
Two days later, I spoke to my colleague at the school, she seemed to be friendly.
The following day I asked by mail about the photos taken in the museum.
I was really surprised by her answers. She told me that she does something else to do than to answer my text message and she was wondering if I am a stalker or if I seat on my phone. (I did phone her by mistake and stopped the call)
I have decided to ignore her for good. She seems to be a woman with a lots of issue. Having used to word "stalker" makes me realize, this woman is already trouble and I have not done anything with her.
🙏 I'm sorry to hear about that and I hope she reaches the point of truly doing what is best.
“The only winning move is to not play”
My favorite movie quote from Wargames.
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I guess I'm confused. The term high value person or partner sounds so shallow and cold. It makes it sound like everyone has a monetary price or something. I've always just wanted someone who I was attracted to. Doesn't mean I think she has to be perfect. God knows that I'm far from perfect. Just someone who I find physically attractive and has a good personality. She is loyal and kind hearted. As long as she has those. I can work around most anything else. I do prefer that she works. Doesn't matter where or how much she makes. I've always been more attracted to independent women more then clingy. That way I know she wants to be with me and doesn't have to be with me. Personally. My opinion is that we expect too much out of people and when they don't meet every expectation. We discard them like yesterday's trash. No one wants to work at relationships nowadays. First sign of trouble. People bail. It's sad. Relationships take a lot work at times.
@Jared Harbin The ones WORTH having especially.
Value doesn't equal financial worth. Interesting that (in my many years of experience) it is mostly men who think that. But you're socialized to think that way. Nonetheless, you've described a high value woman with no mention of financial value, which is exactly what I mean when I say it. "High value" is just quicker to say than the list of what the associated qualities might look like, especially given the qualities can vary from man to man. You're right that people are too quick to ditch and run, which is why I say look out for the real red flags and don't mislabel quirks and minor irritations as flags. None of us is perfect. Thanks for your comment and allowing me to clarify! :)
I was in a marriage that I thought was for life; to make a long story short she betrayed everything I believed in. My union was a total lie, after 17 years the marriage ended and she pursued a relationship with the same gender and eventually married. As a man I was devastated and blamed myself for years, it took a male friend who was gay to help me understand why. He said John! you did not have a chance, once I digested this information I was able to let go and move on. You know I could have excepted the fact if there were another man; but! honestly I did not have a clue, she kept that part of her life a secret. Anna! I' am sure there are men out there that went through the same ordeal, if you feel this has merit then yes I think this should be addressed in a future video.
A gentleman from my church went through the exact same thing. He had two daughters and his wife dropped this bombshell on him. It sent him into a deep spiral of depression that he was unable to pull himself out of. Sadly he ended his life. I wish more men would talk about this and more women would take responsibility for the consequences of their actions.
I feel for you, John. :( Your friend was right, you just didn't have the right plumbing. I know women this has happened to as well as men. And I know a woman who left her husband and eventually decided she was a lesbian. She says she didn't know before. Even though batting for the same team is more accepted now, it hasn't always been. I'm sure many of them felt tortured by their own shame. That's not to discredit your pain. Of course not! You were a trusting innocent man and that can only feel like the hugest betrayal. As you said, maybe even more so than having been left for a man. At least then you might find a reason for it. It will be hard to trust a woman again but try to remember than nowadays most people who know their true sexuality aren't hiding in the closet so that's not likely to happen again. (Doesn't mean you won't find another messed up woman, but she'll come with other baggage.) Big hug, God bless.
I have a feeling this will happen to me in the future. I've been with her over 10 years, and every now and then, something homosexual comes to light with her. She either denys it or pleads confusion. I've just accepted this, knowing better. We're 30 and marrying next month, no kids. I want kids, she doesn't and wouldn't be a good mother. Suffers from crippling anxiety and depression that she refuses to work on. I love her though. Hopefully the knowledge of my very possible future will make it easier to get over. Even if I'm 40, childless, and alone, life could always be worse. A lot of people say to cut ot off asap and move on with an abundance mindset. But the truth is, the abundance mindset is a self-lie. There is a severe lack of quality women.
@@harlanwilkinson3142 My good friend. Please think about this a little more. There’s a lot of red flags that you just outlined.
@@bluefig797 after 10 years of red flags, I have learned to just cope with these flags. Women tend to be emotionally irrational and subjective to being easily impressionable. I tell myself that every woman has her issues, and mine isn't any different. It would be just as hard with any woman, but maybe in different ways.
As I was listening to this I couldn't help to draw parallel with raising our daughter when she was in high school. Understanding when to help and not to help.
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Nice change of pace in this video, and an interesting topic. I hope the timing of the release is for positive reasons (or, at least, maybe you got the hour wrong when you queued it up) and not that you aren't feeling up to your usual Tuesday banter with your tribe, Good job! Praying for you -- Russ P PS/PJ has finally learned to do stairs, so he is probably ready to give Stuffy a run for his money in the "let's destroy the universe!" contest. Tell Stuffy that hiding in a kitchen chair just ain't gonna cut it. ;)
Yes, it was an oops on the queue time lol but now I'm not sure if it was the different time or the different type of video that's made it my most popular of the last 10 weeks. Oy. Not sure if learning the stairs will make your life easier or more difficult! lol God bless :)
Anna as always you were able to do a review without any copyright strikes inclusive of your wit, candour and poise. Much respect but does this also mean that you will still be doing the just the tip tuesday livestreams? A video on Emotional tampon would be 💥 a good idea on your docket.
Thanks so much! Glad this workaround the copyright thing worked out. :)) This got released early by mistake so yes, I will be doing more premieres with the live chat! Suggestion noted! :)
Such respect for you. There will be women who will call these videos sexist
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I really like both of you and see where both of you are coming from.
Thanks so much! From what I've seen, Darius knows his stuff :))
You're a sweet lady, but I think you might not realize women of the internet generation so much- No matter what you give them, attention, or ignoring, they will desire the opposite the moment they have either.
I read your comment, and though I hate to agree, I would say that's very true. From what I have seen, in broad strokes, most people, men and women, are in want of something, but the sad thing is that once they have it, they often abuse it, or the source it is coming from.
Most people are takers in this world. Now more than ever. It's full of people who's niceness is a facade so they can achieve their own agenda, and the few who genuinely are kind and who genuinely care about others, too often get taken advantage of, or outright betrayed, and as a result become bitter and cynical.
I guess the only way you win against people like that, the former group, is by never allowing yourself to become like them and never letting their cruelty turn you bitter, as you learn what to watch for.
cat and string theory,so give them a preview and keep it that way,give her what she needs,not what she wants
In my experience women do generally require more variety than men. Remember, I wasn't there for the design phase! lol ;)
@@YourWingmam You're a woman of quality (from what I can tell, anyway - I don't really know you of course)- modern woman has been completely warped by Online dating and social media, the hypergamy is out of control.
Then again maybe it isn't a warping so much as a revealing?
Anna, thank you so much. I really needed to hear this today. I am grateful for you. As much I like Darius, as an older man, I prefer your delivery because it’s delivered in a more pleasant, professional, and mature way.
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My job brings me in contact with many women daily and a majority of them will obviously ignore me initially so I just ignore them back. Almost every time when I continue to walk past them and ignore them as if she doesn't exist eventually she'll begin trying to engage with me. I always keep it very short and vanilla and they act like it drives them crazy.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
What's your job?
The biggest travesty is not how you break up but how much time lost in doing so . I am so over all of it .
Your videos really help me to validate my feelings.. I even share them with my recent ex in hopes they will help her. I still love her but I love myself a tad bit more.
So glad you love yourself more! I recommend that to all. Not in a selfish way, just a self-respect way. Thank you for sharing, more women should watch my videos, they might learn something valuable about what they're doing wrong. :)
This is quite interesting. Generally, men faced with these frustrations turn first to the male-centric channels, such as Darius'. Yet, you don't encounter any epiphanies in that world of men operating out of ignorance. So, you reviewing Darius tremendously interesting, as you can confirm or refute his points. As with any issue, the juice is found in the "why". We cannot understand women and predict what they will want (paraphrasing Freud). So, thank you, Mam Anna, for the insights. This is your least-despair-inducing video so far.
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I don’t ignore them. I just pretend they’re invisible..Being 5”7 it’s what they do to me so 🤷♂️
THE MORE A WOMAN IGNORES ME, THE MORE HER LEVEL OF ATTRACTION DROPS.
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Your videos are very refreshing and hopeful for gentlemen like me that want a relationship not a fling!
I'm happy they have been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤ 🙏
There is a girl I really like and we did "dating" activities for around 3 months and all of them good and enjoyable. But I come to find out that she is going on dates with dudes from dating apps here and there during that period. When I asked her she says she wasn't really looking for a relationship from anyone, yet she keeps me in constant communication but I'm fed up with it. She was what I thought a high value woman, but this was a pretty rough thing for me to find out. Definitely feeling like a used tissue being kept in the back pocket "just in case" it needs to be used. Girls can be absolutely brutal. It's really messed with my head but I'm just going to ignore her from here on out. Not sure if i'm going about it the right way, have had mixed reactions to this.
Let me know what happens next
just date other women,simple as that,forget about this one,if she comes,good,if not,who cares,plenty of other women
I feel for you, this situation really sucks. It's tough when you first start seeing someone and aren't at the stage of asking if you're seeing other people. Tough to bring up and often people have different values and assumptions about what's ok.
IF she's really a high value woman worth the effort, I encourage you to watch my video on What to Do If She's Seeing Other Guys: ruclips.net/video/LqAsbcG0H6c/видео.html
Is She Stringing You Along: ruclips.net/video/RGSdwsUd8rw/видео.html
and My video on Chasing vs Pursuing: ruclips.net/video/O6_q8VGFrtE/видео.html
Big hug, good luck and do keep us posted on what happens!
I'm in the same situation. Dropping her like a rock despite the fact I feel she is high value. I don't have the time to waste on her anymore.
My dude, that woman doesn't belongs to you, she just wants you to be around whenever she needs you because she see you as a good guy. My advice is to ignore her completely and in less than a month, she will be crawling back to you, she will realize the mistake she has made, but you would be in another level for her, in a stage where you don't give a damn about her. Plus, you'll get the chance to know someone who values you as who you are. Peace✌🏼
Gentleman YOU are the prize ! Never forget that !
Crazy , Batcrap tests RUN AWAY !
If “ high value “ they won’t pull any of that crap . Ever !
Not judging your comment bro, just flipping my 2 cents, with that analogy there won't be a single hi value women in the world. Simply because all women are emotionally charged and will need an external redirection and reinforcement of positivity .
So as a man I think it becomes necessary to evaluate the situation with solidity then decide which one to handle the situation.
Sounds like a whole lot of effort, but a functional relationship is worth it.
High standard vs high maintenance: ruclips.net/video/36jL8td1LZE/видео.html
That's right Dan. There is no such thing as a high value woman unless she has a righteous king by her side. That was our nature since the begining of time prior to the last 200 years when this submission began. We're only here because men have gone soft and as a result woman got out of control. Easy fix but try telling that to the world that has zero knowledge of history.
I have been ignoring women all my life, and so much success came my way, when I stopped ignoring women hell arrived, when I restarted ignoring women, happiness replace her hell.
Ignoring a women and doing nothing else is very very bad idea
Ignoring a girl while flirting with a hottie is a thing you need to do
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate hearing from you 🙏
Thank you. I appreciate your time and effort on this topic, not easy to be a woman, and help men to be a better version of themselves while getting the woman that they have.
First time viewer and 9 minutes in I had to pause and comment my appreciation & compliments. Great work! Thank you.
My pleasure ❤️
A good dose of indifference goes a long way!
True!
Be indifferent to that which makes no difference…..i.e., most women.
This is so inspiring especially coming from a woman! 🙌 👸🙌
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Agreed; just to add that if she is a high-value woman then she must be able to appreciate that you have high values too. Best of luck guys and gals(!) .
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Your hair looks really good in this video.
Thank you so much! :)
I agree.
2 things could happen.
1- she will go out of her way to ask you what's wrong and talk to you which will be an obvious sign she truly cares for you.
2- she will hit up multiple orbiters on social media and plan a play date with them or start texting and messaging them back n forth which will be an obvious sign that she never cared for you and she had alternative motives in the first place.
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She cares for you as in she likes you? Bc a girl played a sexual prank on me and I was embarrassed af so I stopped talking to her. A month and a half later she texts me asking about how I felt and she apologized.
@@freeduolingo2730 no, I'm talking about while you're in a supposed relationship with her.
@@theclown2393 ok
@@freeduolingo2730 just stay single and save yourself the heartache. Women have turned me into the asshole I'am today.
Wingmam, you are so spot on, and I had to learn these 'tips' the very hard way! 🙂🙃
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"I won't be IGNORED, Dan"
- Glenn Close, alleged bunny boiler.
I think the important thing is when you have a committed relationship relationship you have to have that friendship but not the type of friendship you have between butts there's a difference different. My wife and I were best friends before we became romantically involved and that really made A huge difference in our life together particularly when she became permanently ill . Because I found a lead to a far greater and deeper understanding and Empathy. The main caveat is no one is the same you have to pay attention Otherwise you may get what you don't It's definitely not good for you or Completely miss What's best for you
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By the way.. above all else, this presentation was brilliantly done. I'm very impressed.
Wow, thank you!
Wow. As much as I am really interested in the subject you are the first woman dating coach who got my attention and kept it through the whole video. I really liked what you had to say; Finding your video both interesting and instructional.. You are a very “high value” dating coach!
Wow, thank you! Best compliment everrr :))
@@YourWingmam It was My Pleasure. Thanks for… “the best feedback I have ever received on a comment “.😃. WhenI have time, I will watch more of your videos. I have been taking notes and observations on my own personal dating life and mainly flirting /dating in genetics for some years now. And I find the subject absolutely fascinating..Take care.
That's simping. That's the woman who needs to try to get into guys frame. Always.
I mostly agree with Darius (potentially totally agree if I misinterpreted one thing in his video) so yeah, simping / beta comes from chasing. (Vs pursuing... Chasing vs Pursuing: ruclips.net/video/O6_q8VGFrtE/видео.html
Ignoring pretty woman works if guys have a fancy job; car 100, 000; 🏠house: greatly handsome; otherwise I would not advise it
@@YourWingmam I ignore my EX...now she turns up with makeup and no bra..tight T-shirt etc..when I pick up my child..I ain't going back...now seems trying to get me...😁
Thank you so much Your Wingman for giving us a perspective from a woman's standpoint. I hear from Darius, Rich (Entrepreneurs in Cars), and the guy from the Better Bachelor about female matters and I agree with them...but I also wonder if what these guys say is true, if they themselves, are not women! Hearing female matters from you, a woman, is super super awesome.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!
The only winning move is not to play. Walk Away.
Let them die alone with their cats, who will then eat them.
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I❤ Darius M videos ! ....The best Coach ! 🔥🔥🔥
Hope I honoured his message in this review! :)
It's called enabling ladies and gentlemen and when you do it. It doesn't help the person you are with in the long term. Just walk away because your own sanity is always more important.
Most definitely!
Honestly - “not reacting” to a woman’s emotional response is something , I’ve found, that sets them off ! In relationships, I always find myself being baited into a conflict when being completely un phased by being emotional. It simply hasn’t worked. Advice?
Frustrating, I know! Either she's testing (which is natural even if not wanted) or she's emotionally damaged (which is a red flag)... Watch some of the videos in my 💩test playlist (why she tests you and what to do): ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkFVeRMpvW3s3SC3Vgu7I1d
Great tips. If / when I’m ready to get back “out there” I’ll have this in my arsenal. But if I find myself always fielding tests, I’m out.
The problem is, when it's a covert abuser / manipulator, we try for a long time not to react but to respond. And our body is telling us we are in danger .. yet we didnt know the red flags. We end up reacting .. and that should be a huge sign for us to go rather than go quiet.
Once you get free of an abusive relationship, be sure to watch for red flags next time! Red flags, damaged women, narcissists: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ
I like when people like you add to content, I follow his content as well and thank you for adding value to his content making you and the whole topic 1000 percent frkn awesome.
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
You mentioned provided she isn't emotionally damaged and I think I did that, again. I have learned to think strategies but have not gotten control of core awareness that pauses and processes before reacting. I didn't know about being tested emotionally, I was offended and in some cases insulted over some of her comments that she costumed up as be being concerned for me. You out a light on a few things and sure wish I could pick your brain some more.
Really great video, Wingmam! As a woman, the equation no respect = no arousal is so true!
Thank you so much for watching and validating that point! :))
That actually works the other way round too by the way. Men's arousal is also based on respect to a large extent too.