I don't want to live a fake life for the internet | yap session

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  • Опубликовано: 20 сен 2024
  • I strive to make my content more and more true to who I am every upload. We need more people to create content that is real and not superficial. Anyway, hope you enjoy this little yap session, I know I’m rambling on a bit in this video but I just needed to get my thoughts out on this subject. Thanks for your support 🤍
    What do you wish people talked about more regarding the truth about social media?
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Комментарии • 19

  • @KhaadiiiBenbs
    @KhaadiiiBenbs Месяц назад +3

    Girl connecting with the nature will help you a lot, just like sitting in a park and reading or drawing, even if you're not good at it, it doesn't need to be perfect, or going for a walk , hobbies like journaling are really helpful, just writing something will help you to find yourself , reconnecting with yourself by doing simple things, you dont even need to know how to be "specialist", start before you know how, cause time wont wait for you, and i swear that simply activities, you will truly start living, you deserve it, i know you can, you dont even need the motivation , it will come later, but for now , just look up for the simplicity, and you'll be fine 💕

  • @SamWhitehead-fx9em
    @SamWhitehead-fx9em Месяц назад +12

    Recently I have been trying to cut down on my social media use because it is a massive distraction for me and i'm actually writing an essay for one of my classes about Social media's effects on people socially. I think social media is good in the way that it helps people stay in touch and connect with people who have similar interests or goals as them but its terrible how these apps exploit users attention with algorithms and stuff for their own gain essentially. Also I believe that the constant consumption of content and all the comparison makes it extremely difficult to be your own person, especially young people who have grown up with the internet and rely on it for their social lives.

  • @bykremi
    @bykremi Месяц назад +4

    I recently left my smartphone behind and switched to a flip phone. It was mainly a decision because I spent so much time on social media that I felt every thought in my head was from there. I also knew (deep down) that I consumed it to avoid/distract myself, pushing me to criticize myself endlessly that I am running away and also feeling a pressure to constantly be online, to keep track of what I share, how am I perceived, etc. It was overwhelming to feel like you were struggling in real life, but you must pretend to live better online to fit in. (because I felt like sharing my downs would be perceived as wanting attention). I think there is probably a healthy way to deal with social media, but I just haven't found it yet.

  • @sloan9866
    @sloan9866 Месяц назад +5

    Definitely relate to the dying early part. 24 years old and diagnosed with stage IV cancer, prognosis isn't great. There's so much I want to experience and do, and I probably won't have time for it all. But at the same time I'm also realistic with my new reality. So in a way it's OK. There's one quote that I heard that really stuck with me. Which is "not all happy stories have happy endings". Which I think sums it up pretty well. The end of everything might be heartbreaking, but the time up to that point doesn't have to be. I still haven't found the best way to express my thoughts or feelings on it, but slowly figuring it out.

    • @ChehovsYe
      @ChehovsYe Месяц назад +1

      So sorry for that! Did you make a bucket list of things to do?

    • @sloan9866
      @sloan9866 Месяц назад +1

      @ChehovsYe No not really. There a few trips I'd like to go on, but I don't feel rushed to do any of them. I honestly just feel content living like I did before the diagnosis. I've also been fortunate with the fact I still feel healthy despite the diagnosis. I'll probably slowly check things off, but living day to day and enjoying the small things is what matters to me

  • @isabelpalomodiaz2441
    @isabelpalomodiaz2441 Месяц назад +2

    love your videos girl!!! would you do a video on how you're able to manage alcohol cravings and not let them rule your days? I'm currently struggling with smoking every day and I was wondering what your experience was and how you're managing your addictive impulses. Thanks!!

  • @itsirendil
    @itsirendil Месяц назад +8

    our generation is very susceptible to external influence because we didn't have the chance to develop who we are before we were thrown into the deep end of social media. I find myself easily influenced as well by social media but in a different way than you. for me it was always going with the hivemind on discord groups. i've quit most social media platforms (including discord because that was my Achilles' heel) & only kept those I need for a specific purpose.
    I see my friends doing things for social media and having the instagrammality of an activity be the deciding factor on whether they do it or not. They're not even conscious of the fact they do this qnd when I bring it up, they just stare confused and wonder what's the issue with that because it's so normalised. I'm very strict about it and I tell them I won't participate if the sole goal is to post on instagram. but it's an uphill battle to make people see how sad it is

  • @Hero_Of_Old
    @Hero_Of_Old 13 дней назад

    Completely get the confident yet extremely insecure thing haha. Its a weird paradox. Death is only scary if I don't get to do all the things I want to do.

  • @luana_tulipa
    @luana_tulipa Месяц назад +1

    Love your channel ❤ keep going
    I've been out of Instagram for about 2 months. I didn't like the way I was addicted to reels. I was spending hours watching those short videos and, in the end, I wasn't even entertained. I also realized that I was trying to maintain a certain image people around me had assumed (which in some parts is kind of true), but not the reality 24/7. I felt like I was rejecting some parts of myself to be perceived in only one way.
    And now, I've been out of Twitter for about 3 days. I never had a TikTok, so for me, Twitter is like the worst social media. The amount of hate going on and getting worse there is really bad for my head and, I think, for everyone. But it seems to be kind of normalized there. I hope things get better in the future.

  • @abdallahtarek2680
    @abdallahtarek2680 Месяц назад

    I think it takes courage to film these so thank you for sharing your mind as always, and i think you come out as true and honest and that's what makes me relate is that u show everything in the video from normal to weird and that's normal. love your videos ✨✨✨

  • @nicole.nicole9549
    @nicole.nicole9549 Месяц назад +1

    Love your videos. Do you think you can make a video on your creative process for content creation to how you record and edit💞

  • @brrendaheloisa
    @brrendaheloisa Месяц назад +2

    great video!

  • @velpmode
    @velpmode Месяц назад +1

    behind this.

  • @zoerek.
    @zoerek. Месяц назад +3

    Fuck the internet.

  • @Finn959
    @Finn959 Месяц назад +4

    Nobody's forcing you but the voices inside your head

  • @chrisgray7
    @chrisgray7 Месяц назад +2

    hey which mic are you using? audio quality is amazing (: