Regarding #1, I turned down a “dream job” for a huge, well respected company because every day leading up to the starting date, I felt sick to my stomach. I didn’t want to have the job, but thought it was what would propel my career forward. Instead, I took a job that emphasized slow and steady with a healthy culture and nice people. I am learning, I am getting career benefits, I am getting fair pay. It maybe less prestigious and less money than I would have otherwise gotten, but I’m so much healthier and happier now. I am finally learning who I am without constant stress.
Whenever I'm doing something super mundane, I love to play Ghibli music specifically. With soft, hopeful Ghibli music on, even washing dishes feels like I'm the spunky, hardworking heroine in a coming-of-age animated film. Haha!
Notes for myself. 1. Soft life most importantly requires to live an organized life. Everything i own needs to have a place (where it should be kept after using) Stationery items, books, pencil case, skincare items .. everything should be kept at their place.
"don't accept jobs you feel a little icky about" - also with people. I always tell this to people. When people say they feel a little nauseous or uncomfortable/etc about replying to someone, 9 times out of 10, our subconscious has realised something our conscious brain has Not. It is a warning sign and your body showing issue with something about that person. I was just talking to a friend yesterday who said she felt like she had to gag every time this dude messaged her like "your body has noticed something is wrong please listen to your body". It's the same with break ups. "You can't sleep because you're worried he might show up and disrespect your boundaries over the break up, that is your brain very likely processing that something is wrong." Obviously it's not *always* as clear cut as that, but a lot of the time, trust your body and a lot of negative situations will seem to breeze by. When I feel nauseous around someone, unless there is a Specific Reason I can pinpoint isn't survival, I step back. I've noticed how much drama/etc I seem to suddenly miss out on just by trusting when my "body has the ick on someone".
"say no without fear" silence 🤝 solitude another beautiful video! i appreciate the way you took the soft living concept on an intellectual perspective and not just physical. anyone can do it so long as we allow ourselves to be kind, understanding, and patient to our body and the ppl around us. energy is a real thing and i truly believe it's an important thing to protect and not give it out to just anything or any person, we must use it intentionally. love you always! 💙✨️
I'm totally shocked at the first rule, one of my current issues is exactly that. There is a scientific event that is a bit far and my research group was invited to go, it's kinda expensive but if I publish an article and do a presentation there, I can go for basically free. I felt a bit pressured to go, and a lot of FOMO as well, but being honest... I don't want to, I don't even like this career path I'm taking of being a scientist 😭
@@sollerona That's so complicated for me to answer because my issue is exactly not knowing that... I'm just really doing what comes my way, but I often feel like biology is not for me (which I just graduated and am now getting a masters degree) :( it's mostly fear of trying new things and regretting later
@@bear3si don't really think you will ever regret trying new things, the worst thing it can happen it's you don't like them and the best thing it's you do, eitherwise i think you will learn something about yourself and it'll help you to take paths that'll make you happy in the future
This is honestly so real. A lot of the so called hustle culture has been adopted but it's so unhealthy and things we see on social media are so unrealistic and unachievable for majority of us. And we are just so used to seeing this tiny portion being magnified by algorithms. It's just so much better doing what we love and can handle than putting someone else's life on a pedestal especially since it's so easy to compare our lives with others.
something about listening to this was quite uncomfortable, simply because it was something i urgently had to hear at this point of my life. i painfully related to everything you said and although I'm pretty good at reminding myself these, hearing these exact words from somebody else other than myself was quite helpful. Thank you
Hey girl, I just randomly found your video and found it awesome! It's always nice to hear real advice rather than the unrealistic advice that is unfortunately more common nowadays lol. Great video!!
this was so extremely realistic and i want to thank you for that. this advice can be used for people who aren’t famous, aren’t influencers, are just people getting through life! we appreciate you so much 💕
This list goes directly to my commonplace book! I Managed to learn by myself the rules 2, 3, 4, and 5. But my personal project and the aspect we were working with my psychologist are related to understanding and aquiring the rules 1, 7, 8 and 10. I'm kind of mastering the rules 6 and 9, but this ones are hard to feel free to do because I'm healing from past toxic relationships. I'm halfway to go, but I really hope I can come back to this video at the end of the year and comment that I at least managed to aquire 2 new rules for my life! Thank you so much for this video!
I just discovered your channel with this video. You seem very wise (and I don't say that often), everything you said felt true and made total sense 😮 #10 particularly resonated with me. I'm 29, and so far, I've mainly be in relationships out of fear and because of societal pressure. I ventured into them because of the "invisibility cloak" they gave me. I noticed - at least in my case - that once you're with someone, all the "Why are you (still) single?" disappear, and that felt peaceful. When I was 26, I finally stopped this, after getting into a very unsatisfactory relationship that got me asking to myself why I was inflecting that on myself. Since then, I have be on my own, and I ADORE my life. I have not renounced to the idea of being with someone one day, but somehow, it's not that important to me anymore. And I don't care what people say, cause I know how miserable I can be just to be in a relationship out of fear or pressure. Anyway, thank you for your video. I really liked it 🙂
I absolutely loved this, especially the rules 7-9, they are a much needed reminder in this period of my life. I need to let go of my past mistakes, and some past memories with a feeling of guilt attached to them, just like you said. Let that shit go. They're no longer serving me. And the part about not expecting others to conform to your expectations and not letting anyone dictate who you are, not conforming to their expectations, is also great advice. I tend to forget to stand up for myself. And I need to stop expecting people to conform to what I think is right. That's on them, not me, and I have to establish some clear boundaries, practice that. Thank you for this video.
Loved the style of this video! Also thank you so much for the disclaimers, it’s so good to hear someone point out how social media trends these days often mistake a ‘gentle’ lifestyle for a wealthy one, and go beyond the pink-washed ‘girlboss/embracing your feminine energy’ stuff. Thanks
Yes rest 🙌🏼 my body has been in over drive after with a new job, school, and my son. I literally drop everything after 1am now to get some sleep before work. I literally just unfollowed some creators that weren’t helping me mentally and today added you! 👏 ✅ btw love your glasses!!!!!
Thanks so much for this video. Usually these kind of videos requires you to travel to Bali, spend a lot of money and that kind of stuff, but yours applies for a “normal” person like me 😊
Great video! ❤ Thank you! Ultimately you can only control yourself… and you are the only person who can change your life. This is something that took me way too long to figure out. I have a tattoo appointment next month to get one of my favorite lines from Hamilton as a permanent reminder “I am the one thing in life I can control”
Trust In Your Divine self, ❤ and know that anything that is meant for you will never pass you by.... it will show up again if it is meant to, whether it be a job opportunity, a person, a situation, or an event....❤ I love that you're describing what involves accessing your inner self, your higher self, your intuition.... because it will always guide you properly and when you detach from the external world and its expectations, you have truly freed yourself and begun to live and Thrive which is what you came here to do😊
this helped and calmed me so so much in so many ways! i was extremely anxious and burnt out since 3 days, and have been only resting and pondering. This podcast literally relaxed my nerves. I can't choose my favourite point here, i love the vibes of the entire video.
AMAZING VIDEO!! Genuinely such simple and practical tips - thank you for getting right to the point. I was literally about to force myself to sign up for a conference that I didn't wanna be at until I reached rule #1 - perfect timing!
i was slow crocheting while listening. this was sososo good. thank you so much. i also loved that you didnt add any music or sparkly background noise.. it was very grounding. it helped me focus on my present being, on my own natural rhythm, and on your words
You are so kind and I wish someone had told me these things sooner, even just having this video saved to go back to is going to be a good reminder that we're in this together and no one knows what they're doing. Thank you
Uni can be extremely stressful and isolating. Good on you for sharing your wisdom and I’m rooting for all the young people going through it right now. Do your best and go easy on yourselves. ❤️
I was really needing friendly encouragement and wisdom and I found this video! Thank you for sharing this with us. I think it is so vital to have as many instructional guides that don't require wealth or a partner because those things are often implicit in a lot of other advice that's given....
thank you miss. this is the first time in a while that i actually understood the advices intended. you deliver everything so clearly and impactfully. i am very happy that i found your channel today. have a good day ahead!
I deeply resonated with forgive yourself for past mistakes and letting go of expectations of others and others' of you. thank u for the helpful reminders
this video just popped up to me and i'm just SO grateful that i followed my gut and watched it lol. next week i'll turn 20 and this "coming of age" thing is something that's bugging me a bit and all of these is very comforting to hear now. hopefully i can do well on my adult life hahah great vid 🩷
I loved your approach, grounded and seemed like talking to a friend. Also comments here are so cute, followers are being so sweet, it is my first time on the channel, thanks for sharing such useful content. 💜
at 3:00, i recently had to break off a 2 year long friendship that i wasn't able to keep up with, and there were things happening that i didn't like and how the vibe between us made me feel overall, and listening to this really made feel better, since everything happened, this is probably the 3rd time I'm hearing that its okay to leave something that you don't feel enthusiastic about as before, its almost like universe keeps reminding me that its okay whenever i doubt my decisions, and I'm extremely grateful for it! and Thank you so much to you that you uploaded this piece of content on the internet, it helped me alot! I'll rewatch later to keep reminding me of things. ❤
I like to imagine my life as a ghibli film. Imagining yourself in a ghibli film just makes life feel better. Ive read a tumble post on it and started living it. It made life feel worth living again, i focused more on the little things. When i stopped i went into a great depression, it was a dark time. Im learning how to be myself again. How to live a soft ghibli life again. It feels so much better, healthier. Im finding my passion for living again. I would put on (modern) mc music, stardew valley, pokemon, and ghibli music (or film as back). It just helps.
Learning to receive allows for the balance for the Divine masculine and feminine within each of us. It stems from childhood where we were manipulated if someone gave us something.. and then expected something in return, it typically indicates we experienced transactional love within the home. Stay out of those lower vibrational emotions like Shane guilt remorse or fear and step into the higher ones of joy peace Bliss and unconditional love. Shame makes the body physically sick. If you ask for help watch the response, then you will know who your true friends are, who actually show up genuinely and unconditionally. Same with family members.
🌻Your content is very valuable and necessary, talking about these topics (emotional intelligence) makes you a wonderful and cool person, your advice can truly help people improve their lives, and I really hope your content reaches more people!! 🌿I think we think alike, except for physical contact, since I like it a lot, I understand that you may see it as a derogatory act (it's totally valid if you don't like it), but for me it's a way to show people that they are important to you and that you love them a lot. 🍀 I hope you have a wonderful day, and achieve great success and happiness in your life in general!!
soft life can be toxic too though...like you might allow yourself to overanalyze shit when u could just be taking those Ls and making better gains in new things
Man by rule #1 I've already been told my life ain't soft 💀. Being physically disabled means I take what job I can get..so I can get tf out of my toxic household. Rule #2 means I'm gonna tell myself I'm being some silly creature doing my silly little job tho...Idk how exactly yet, but I'll figure it out lol
I’m sorry you feel that way! I couldn’t understand the extent because I am not physically disabled, but perhaps there are entry level admin, office, phone customer service, or online jobs that would allow for less physical strain that you could explore? Hope you achieve everything you want!
Applying #5 in my daily life is the thing that helped to feel in sanity. Me and my family had gone through so much that I decided back then to not be active in one of social media. #1 is a bit of struggle to me. I am still in wonder whether I’m taking a path that I’d love to grow or am I ignoring the subtle signs. I want to take BS Bio Major in Ecology but only Gen Bio(this is my 2nd option) and Micro Bio are available here so I’m a bit scared. Out of all of this I’m going through, #7 is what matters the most realistically in my period of life rn. I’ve been feeling great of toning things down.
i really thank you so much, coming across your channel was the nicest thing ever.. I'm so glad! you're such a smart and gentle person. keep it up I'm really proud of u and looking forward to see more videos of urs ❤
Such a good video, I love living my soft, little life and this reminded me that I don't need to fear missing out and rather enjoy what I have... anyways, I've been really enjoying your videos and I hope you have a good day (:
Regarding #1, I turned down a “dream job” for a huge, well respected company because every day leading up to the starting date, I felt sick to my stomach. I didn’t want to have the job, but thought it was what would propel my career forward.
Instead, I took a job that emphasized slow and steady with a healthy culture and nice people. I am learning, I am getting career benefits, I am getting fair pay.
It maybe less prestigious and less money than I would have otherwise gotten, but I’m so much healthier and happier now. I am finally learning who I am without constant stress.
proud of you! it must have been a rough decision. you’re so brave!
same for me i realized when i went trough hardships that i made the right decision the other job would have only been nice in my fantasy
Whenever I'm doing something super mundane, I love to play Ghibli music specifically. With soft, hopeful Ghibli music on, even washing dishes feels like I'm the spunky, hardworking heroine in a coming-of-age animated film. Haha!
Notes for myself.
1. Soft life most importantly requires to live an organized life. Everything i own needs to have a place (where it should be kept after using)
Stationery items, books, pencil case, skincare items .. everything should be kept at their place.
You’re so right about that !!!
"don't accept jobs you feel a little icky about" - also with people. I always tell this to people. When people say they feel a little nauseous or uncomfortable/etc about replying to someone, 9 times out of 10, our subconscious has realised something our conscious brain has Not. It is a warning sign and your body showing issue with something about that person. I was just talking to a friend yesterday who said she felt like she had to gag every time this dude messaged her like "your body has noticed something is wrong please listen to your body". It's the same with break ups. "You can't sleep because you're worried he might show up and disrespect your boundaries over the break up, that is your brain very likely processing that something is wrong."
Obviously it's not *always* as clear cut as that, but a lot of the time, trust your body and a lot of negative situations will seem to breeze by. When I feel nauseous around someone, unless there is a Specific Reason I can pinpoint isn't survival, I step back. I've noticed how much drama/etc I seem to suddenly miss out on just by trusting when my "body has the ick on someone".
too real!!!!!
"If you're not enjoying the journey, what's the point?"
"say no without fear"
silence 🤝 solitude
another beautiful video! i appreciate the way you took the soft living concept on an intellectual perspective and not just physical. anyone can do it so long as we allow ourselves to be kind, understanding, and patient to our body and the ppl around us. energy is a real thing and i truly believe it's an important thing to protect and not give it out to just anything or any person, we must use it intentionally.
love you always! 💙✨️
I think me and you are both pro at humble soft living and I love that for us 😂🫶🏻
@@scatterbraingirl lol most definitely! 😌✨️
“We are all just ppl” yessssss I’ve been trying to heavily apply this in myself
I'm totally shocked at the first rule, one of my current issues is exactly that. There is a scientific event that is a bit far and my research group was invited to go, it's kinda expensive but if I publish an article and do a presentation there, I can go for basically free. I felt a bit pressured to go, and a lot of FOMO as well, but being honest... I don't want to, I don't even like this career path I'm taking of being a scientist 😭
what do you actually wanna do?
@@sollerona That's so complicated for me to answer because my issue is exactly not knowing that... I'm just really doing what comes my way, but I often feel like biology is not for me (which I just graduated and am now getting a masters degree) :( it's mostly fear of trying new things and regretting later
@@bear3si don't really think you will ever regret trying new things, the worst thing it can happen it's you don't like them and the best thing it's you do, eitherwise i think you will learn something about yourself and it'll help you to take paths that'll make you happy in the future
This is honestly so real. A lot of the so called hustle culture has been adopted but it's so unhealthy and things we see on social media are so unrealistic and unachievable for majority of us. And we are just so used to seeing this tiny portion being magnified by algorithms. It's just so much better doing what we love and can handle than putting someone else's life on a pedestal especially since it's so easy to compare our lives with others.
something about listening to this was quite uncomfortable, simply because it was something i urgently had to hear at this point of my life. i painfully related to everything you said and although I'm pretty good at reminding myself these, hearing these exact words from somebody else other than myself was quite helpful. Thank you
Hey girl, I just randomly found your video and found it awesome! It's always nice to hear real advice rather than the unrealistic advice that is unfortunately more common nowadays lol. Great video!!
I’m so glad to hear it! Thank you for commenting 🫶🏻
As an eldest daughter and breadwinner, I like this vid. And your voice is so calming. It's like talking to a friend. 😊 Keep doing a good job!
this was so extremely realistic and i want to thank you for that. this advice can be used for people who aren’t famous, aren’t influencers, are just people getting through life! we appreciate you so much 💕
This list goes directly to my commonplace book! I Managed to learn by myself the rules 2, 3, 4, and 5. But my personal project and the aspect we were working with my psychologist are related to understanding and aquiring the rules 1, 7, 8 and 10. I'm kind of mastering the rules 6 and 9, but this ones are hard to feel free to do because I'm healing from past toxic relationships.
I'm halfway to go, but I really hope I can come back to this video at the end of the year and comment that I at least managed to aquire 2 new rules for my life! Thank you so much for this video!
I’m looking forward to hearing from you later this year ! 💚
I put the list and some extra notes in my commonplace book as well! Cool to see someone else who thought this was commonplace worthy 😊
@@christin.s.stories omg totally!! Feels like sharing classroom notes with a classmate!! :D
I just discovered your channel with this video. You seem very wise (and I don't say that often), everything you said felt true and made total sense 😮 #10 particularly resonated with me. I'm 29, and so far, I've mainly be in relationships out of fear and because of societal pressure. I ventured into them because of the "invisibility cloak" they gave me. I noticed - at least in my case - that once you're with someone, all the "Why are you (still) single?" disappear, and that felt peaceful. When I was 26, I finally stopped this, after getting into a very unsatisfactory relationship that got me asking to myself why I was inflecting that on myself. Since then, I have be on my own, and I ADORE my life. I have not renounced to the idea of being with someone one day, but somehow, it's not that important to me anymore. And I don't care what people say, cause I know how miserable I can be just to be in a relationship out of fear or pressure. Anyway, thank you for your video. I really liked it 🙂
I absolutely loved this, especially the rules 7-9, they are a much needed reminder in this period of my life. I need to let go of my past mistakes, and some past memories with a feeling of guilt attached to them, just like you said. Let that shit go. They're no longer serving me. And the part about not expecting others to conform to your expectations and not letting anyone dictate who you are, not conforming to their expectations, is also great advice. I tend to forget to stand up for myself. And I need to stop expecting people to conform to what I think is right. That's on them, not me, and I have to establish some clear boundaries, practice that. Thank you for this video.
Loved the style of this video! Also thank you so much for the disclaimers, it’s so good to hear someone point out how social media trends these days often mistake a ‘gentle’ lifestyle for a wealthy one, and go beyond the pink-washed ‘girlboss/embracing your feminine energy’ stuff.
Thanks
Yes rest 🙌🏼 my body has been in over drive after with a new job, school, and my son. I literally drop everything after 1am now to get some sleep before work. I literally just unfollowed some creators that weren’t helping me mentally and today added you! 👏 ✅ btw love your glasses!!!!!
Thanks so much for this video. Usually these kind of videos requires you to travel to Bali, spend a lot of money and that kind of stuff, but yours applies for a “normal” person like me 😊
Dear Heart ❤, In my opinion you are by no means a scatterbrain girl. Your rules are filled with wisdom and thoughtfulness. Thank you. 😊
Awe lol that’s so sweet 😆🫶🏻
Great video! ❤ Thank you! Ultimately you can only control yourself… and you are the only person who can change your life. This is something that took me way too long to figure out. I have a tattoo appointment next month to get one of my favorite lines from Hamilton as a permanent reminder “I am the one thing in life I can control”
Trust In Your Divine self, ❤ and know that anything that is meant for you will never pass you by.... it will show up again if it is meant to, whether it be a job opportunity, a person, a situation, or an event....❤
I love that you're describing what involves accessing your inner self, your higher self, your intuition.... because it will always guide you properly and when you detach from the external world and its expectations, you have truly freed yourself and begun to live and Thrive which is what you came here to do😊
this helped and calmed me so so much in so many ways! i was extremely anxious and burnt out since 3 days, and have been only resting and pondering. This podcast literally relaxed my nerves. I can't choose my favourite point here, i love the vibes of the entire video.
I'm so glad! Take some time to recharge bestie 💚
AMAZING VIDEO!! Genuinely such simple and practical tips - thank you for getting right to the point. I was literally about to force myself to sign up for a conference that I didn't wanna be at until I reached rule #1 - perfect timing!
I needed to hear this, thank you. Will probably rewatch again and again when I need a reminder
i was slow crocheting while listening. this was sososo good. thank you so much. i also loved that you didnt add any music or sparkly background noise.. it was very grounding. it helped me focus on my present being, on my own natural rhythm, and on your words
You are so kind and I wish someone had told me these things sooner, even just having this video saved to go back to is going to be a good reminder that we're in this together and no one knows what they're doing. Thank you
Uni can be extremely stressful and isolating. Good on you for sharing your wisdom and I’m rooting for all the young people going through it right now. Do your best and go easy on yourselves. ❤️
The sound much better and more realistic,feels like u are talking with me in person
many of your thoughts came to my mind when I turned 40. you have a lot of life wisdom at such a young age. ❤
I was really needing friendly encouragement and wisdom and I found this video! Thank you for sharing this with us. I think it is so vital to have as many instructional guides that don't require wealth or a partner because those things are often implicit in a lot of other advice that's given....
Exactly! That’s what I was trying to keep in mind when making this video :)
thank you miss. this is the first time in a while that i actually understood the advices intended. you deliver everything so clearly and impactfully. i am very happy that i found your channel today. have a good day ahead!
You're my new favorite person, thank you for your insights
STOPP that’s toooo sweet 😭😭💚🥹
I deeply resonated with forgive yourself for past mistakes and letting go of expectations of others and others' of you. thank u for the helpful reminders
this video just popped up to me and i'm just SO grateful that i followed my gut and watched it lol. next week i'll turn 20 and this "coming of age" thing is something that's bugging me a bit and all of these is very comforting to hear now. hopefully i can do well on my adult life hahah
great vid 🩷
I loved your approach, grounded and seemed like talking to a friend. Also comments here are so cute, followers are being so sweet, it is my first time on the channel, thanks for sharing such useful content. 💜
at 3:00, i recently had to break off a 2 year long friendship that i wasn't able to keep up with, and there were things happening that i didn't like and how the vibe between us made me feel overall, and listening to this really made feel better,
since everything happened, this is probably the 3rd time I'm hearing that its okay to leave something that you don't feel enthusiastic about as before, its almost like universe keeps reminding me that its okay whenever i doubt my decisions, and I'm extremely grateful for it!
and Thank you so much to you that you uploaded this piece of content on the internet, it helped me alot! I'll rewatch later to keep reminding me of things. ❤
I like to imagine my life as a ghibli film. Imagining yourself in a ghibli film just makes life feel better. Ive read a tumble post on it and started living it. It made life feel worth living again, i focused more on the little things. When i stopped i went into a great depression, it was a dark time. Im learning how to be myself again. How to live a soft ghibli life again. It feels so much better, healthier. Im finding my passion for living again.
I would put on (modern) mc music, stardew valley, pokemon, and ghibli music (or film as back). It just helps.
Idk what sort life is but these are things I generally learned in life
I’m thankful I can relate to the first five rules and working on the others
Im glad that I found ur channel
fav youtuber-chatty-video in quite some time.
AW
So much wisdom here. Glad you're sharing with the world.
This is my new favorite video !
Thank you so much.
Sending you love from France ! 🌸
Waaaaa I love the concept of a gentle lifeee (I haven’t heard of this before seeing ur video) and love how calming your videos are🥹!
I'm so glad! Ty for commenting
Learning to receive allows for the balance for the Divine masculine and feminine within each of us. It stems from childhood where we were manipulated if someone gave us something.. and then expected something in return, it typically indicates we experienced transactional love within the home. Stay out of those lower vibrational emotions like Shane guilt remorse or fear and step into the higher ones of joy peace Bliss and unconditional love. Shame makes the body physically sick. If you ask for help watch the response, then you will know who your true friends are, who actually show up genuinely and unconditionally. Same with family members.
Am so happy to stumble across your channel, this is the first video of yours that ive watched and your advice really resonates with me
From now on I'm your new listener 😎😎
🌻Your content is very valuable and necessary, talking about these topics (emotional intelligence) makes you a wonderful and cool person, your advice can truly help people improve their lives, and I really hope your content reaches more people!!
🌿I think we think alike, except for physical contact, since I like it a lot, I understand that you may see it as a derogatory act (it's totally valid if you don't like it), but for me it's a way to show people that they are important to you and that you love them a lot.
🍀 I hope you have a wonderful day, and achieve great success and happiness in your life in general!!
omg that is so sweet 🥹 tysm
Thank you for the gentle advices, so helpful and supportive.
Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge in a kind and realistic way💕
soft life can be toxic too though...like you might allow yourself to overanalyze shit when u could just be taking those Ls and making better gains in new things
A lot of my video was about letting go and detaching which is the opposite of over analyzing but your opinion is valid ofc
Man by rule #1 I've already been told my life ain't soft 💀. Being physically disabled means I take what job I can get..so I can get tf out of my toxic household. Rule #2 means I'm gonna tell myself I'm being some silly creature doing my silly little job tho...Idk how exactly yet, but I'll figure it out lol
I’m sorry you feel that way! I couldn’t understand the extent because I am not physically disabled, but perhaps there are entry level admin, office, phone customer service, or online jobs that would allow for less physical strain that you could explore? Hope you achieve everything you want!
Applying #5 in my daily life is the thing that helped to feel in sanity. Me and my family had gone through so much that I decided back then to not be active in one of social media.
#1 is a bit of struggle to me. I am still in wonder whether I’m taking a path that I’d love to grow or am I ignoring the subtle signs. I want to take BS Bio Major in Ecology but only Gen Bio(this is my 2nd option) and Micro Bio are available here so I’m a bit scared.
Out of all of this I’m going through, #7 is what matters the most realistically in my period of life rn.
I’ve been feeling great of toning things down.
You made me cry on the #9 & #10. 😢
Thanks!
Thank YOU for my first ever super thanks ! 💚💚💚
I love your channel, thank you so much! ❤
Thanks a lot for these words! They inspire me so much!
Just found your channel!!!
Yay! Thank you!
I love your calm and soothing voice ❤
New sub. Love how youkeep it simple. Thankyou
Welcome!
i don't know why i am crying at the end(╥﹏╥) but thank you very much for this video it was so helpful for me❤
ok, so, this video just pop on my feed, and now, i need more videos SJADAJSDH, love your content
Yay! Thank you!
i really thank you so much, coming across your channel was the nicest thing ever.. I'm so glad! you're such a smart and gentle person. keep it up I'm really proud of u and looking forward to see more videos of urs ❤
this feels like therapy, thanks a lot! ❤❤
Youre so pretty and smart ❤
This video is so soothing❤ just like soft life vibe itself😊
All the points are well articulated👌
scatteredbrain girl, loved it dear!❤
Glad you liked it!!
I love your vibe! Really felt seen with this video!💛
This is so so important
Thank you ♡
Im so glad i found ur channel! tysm💗💗
Thank you, I need to hear this today 🥰
thank you so much
I love your video, thanks for the tips. I'm trying my best to live life carefree and in peace so these ideas will improve my life. :)
Glad you found it useful and tysm for commenting 💚
I love this. For real!❤
Wise words and helpful.
Thank you so much for this video
Needed this, thank you for making these videos 💗
I believe in magic.
Loved this video thanks it was a good reminder! ❤
So glad!
Exceptional content! Thank you!❤❤
Such good videos. Im glad i found them.
Thank you soo much for this
This was so good!
Excellent video!
Your videos are really helpful
Glad you like them! 💚
thank you , keep going
I just found your channel and I'm so grateful! I love what you're doing, Sab, please keep going🫰
Thank you! Will do!💚😭
I find u really beautiful btw
Such a good video, I love living my soft, little life and this reminded me that I don't need to fear missing out and rather enjoy what I have... anyways, I've been really enjoying your videos and I hope you have a good day (:
this made my day so thank you so so much for commenting. and thank you for sticking around to watch multiple videos🫶🏻💚
Omg been trying to forgive myself for a lost friendship 😢 it was my fault but oh well can’t ruminate anymore
Can you make a video on how to cope while you are stuck in a job that you hate?
i second this! it would be really helpful and comforting to see you talk about that! some work is just not romantic or fun but you have to do it.
wise words 💜
Thank you 🙇🏻♂️ truly helpful 🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️
Thank you
your content 🎉
I love This video I just want to be friends with yoy
Aw 🥹🫶🏻 I’m always down to make new friends
Hi girl! Did you already get ADOS test? Looks like all your questioning is like mine, I got the test and boom.... My life is getting very easy
i've never thought about it and my therapist never brought it up.... i might if i ever go back to therapy !
❤
Are you Mongolian?
I’m Kazakh ! :)