A large amount of the men and women even around my age group are not healthy mentally, and physically. Its crazy how bad it is out there. Our standards for beauty are also seemingly going down consistently too.
For one most men should start with deleting dating apps. Its mostly men, I think like 70 percent lol. Also for about 5 years post high school, thankfully I didn't try dating again, I was a wreck mentally, socially mentally and physically. I abused myself and hated myself as well. It seriously took me till fairly recently to not hate myself for past mistakes. I somewhat regret not dating or trying to in most of my 20s, but i think in the long run it was a good thing.
How would you say you are doing now? And yes, men need to get off of apps. I have some friends and family that have had success, but it is really hunting for a needle in a hay stack. How old are you chris?
@john-atallah @john-atallah well one of my only social outlets my gym is not going to exist after this week, and I work 7 days a week ATM. I at least have no fear approaching women I'm interested in, my physique is decent(wish I spent a little less time screwing around the gym when I was younger) but overall my image of myself isn't bad. Lately I feel as though I need some time away from everything to recenter myself a bit, but that's not possible right now. At worst I'd say I'm in a bit of a funk. This year hasn't been the best in general for me, but at least I'm progressing towards my goals, so I'm hopeful for a better future
@@Madchris8828 I understand. Cheers to the grind. Some time away does the mind and body wonders. I am in the same boat as you though (working 2 jobs right now plus youtube) and I have barely had time to workout consistently with other obligations. I will have to do one of those "I got fat" videos lol
@john-atallah bro 😂. Come on John, unless there is something you haven't show us you look good! Haha. Thanks in any case. Spending most of the time working sometimes sucks, but at other times I like it because it keeps my mind off of darker thoughts.
majority of people ive heard say dating are hard dont actually date, they just look at those viral clips of women with abnormally high standards online and start complaining without any actual experience
It is not worth giving western women the privilege of being with a loyal, financially stable, astute, and highly empathetic man. Such gifts should be reserved for those of other cultures & backgrounds that still practice some degree of morality & virtue.
If life wasn't so expensive nowadays and a guy could afford a nice apt and car to live a stable life and have time to impress and love a chick. I get no time to chill and get to know a chick b/c i want to keep my pockets full and save for a nice place. I'm 21, i have a nice new car but I live with my GPA who has a shitty place compared to a modern apt and I'd look crazy inviting the type of chick's I date over for a night lol. It's a insane amount of reasons why dating is fed up now.
Don't worry Jay. You are 21. Ahead of the game if you even own a car. I live at my mom's (at 28 years old) and have a nice girlfriend. If she likes you she will want to see you. Don't let modern standards on the internet fuck you in the head so you don't recognize when a woman might be interested in you 💪
Relationship or dating is about understanding and trying to get along eachother. Nobody's perfect and having high standards of ideal partner only kills your chances of finding someone. I mean in this era of online dating, women find it like a online shopping and for men it's a survival because they have height, wealth and other standards. I am not saying people shouldn't work on themselves but it shouldn't be so that you find a partner. Also you shouldn't expect your partner to be perfect. Everybody needs someone. Everyone deserves love.
I respectfully disagree. Expecting someone to be psychically healthy, spiritually and mentally healthy is the bare minimum. These are not high standards but they are for our society. This is no where near perfection but the baseline.
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A large amount of the men and women even around my age group are not healthy mentally, and physically. Its crazy how bad it is out there. Our standards for beauty are also seemingly going down consistently too.
It's all unfortunate. Gotta stay in healthy social circles to meet like minded people.
For one most men should start with deleting dating apps. Its mostly men, I think like 70 percent lol. Also for about 5 years post high school, thankfully I didn't try dating again, I was a wreck mentally, socially mentally and physically. I abused myself and hated myself as well. It seriously took me till fairly recently to not hate myself for past mistakes. I somewhat regret not dating or trying to in most of my 20s, but i think in the long run it was a good thing.
How would you say you are doing now? And yes, men need to get off of apps. I have some friends and family that have had success, but it is really hunting for a needle in a hay stack. How old are you chris?
@john-atallah @john-atallah well one of my only social outlets my gym is not going to exist after this week, and I work 7 days a week ATM. I at least have no fear approaching women I'm interested in, my physique is decent(wish I spent a little less time screwing around the gym when I was younger) but overall my image of myself isn't bad. Lately I feel as though I need some time away from everything to recenter myself a bit, but that's not possible right now. At worst I'd say I'm in a bit of a funk. This year hasn't been the best in general for me, but at least I'm progressing towards my goals, so I'm hopeful for a better future
@@Madchris8828 I understand. Cheers to the grind. Some time away does the mind and body wonders. I am in the same boat as you though (working 2 jobs right now plus youtube) and I have barely had time to workout consistently with other obligations. I will have to do one of those "I got fat" videos lol
@john-atallah bro 😂. Come on John, unless there is something you haven't show us you look good! Haha. Thanks in any case. Spending most of the time working sometimes sucks, but at other times I like it because it keeps my mind off of darker thoughts.
@@Madchris8828 peak bear mode physique lol. And I hope you conquer those thoughts brother 💪 never fun to deal with.
Excellent content, truthful and practical🙏
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majority of people ive heard say dating are hard dont actually date, they just look at those viral clips of women with abnormally high standards online and start complaining without any actual experience
Very true.
It is not worth giving western women the privilege of being with a loyal, financially stable, astute, and highly empathetic man.
Such gifts should be reserved for those of other cultures & backgrounds that still practice some degree of morality & virtue.
I think if you identify all Western women of not having traditional values you will miss on many that do
If life wasn't so expensive nowadays and a guy could afford a nice apt and car to live a stable life and have time to impress and love a chick. I get no time to chill and get to know a chick b/c i want to keep my pockets full and save for a nice place. I'm 21, i have a nice new car but I live with my GPA who has a shitty place compared to a modern apt and I'd look crazy inviting the type of chick's I date over for a night lol. It's a insane amount of reasons why dating is fed up now.
Don't worry Jay. You are 21. Ahead of the game if you even own a car. I live at my mom's (at 28 years old) and have a nice girlfriend. If she likes you she will want to see you. Don't let modern standards on the internet fuck you in the head so you don't recognize when a woman might be interested in you 💪
I like whenever you upload videos about relationships and dating. Do you have arab genetics by any chance?? You look Middle Eastern
Thanks! I am hoping to do more videos like this. And yes I am Middle Eastern.
Relationship or dating is about understanding and trying to get along eachother. Nobody's perfect and having high standards of ideal partner only kills your chances of finding someone. I mean in this era of online dating, women find it like a online shopping and for men it's a survival because they have height, wealth and other standards. I am not saying people shouldn't work on themselves but it shouldn't be so that you find a partner. Also you shouldn't expect your partner to be perfect. Everybody needs someone. Everyone deserves love.
I respectfully disagree. Expecting someone to be psychically healthy, spiritually and mentally healthy is the bare minimum. These are not high standards but they are for our society.
This is no where near perfection but the baseline.
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Gain train.