1) stop apologizing to others about your house’s state of cleanliness (makes them feel uncomfortable). 2) PTT (know your products, tools, and techniques before starting a task). 3) think “less is more.” Also, be mindful of what you have (is it really useful enough to be in your home). 4) try to layer multiple tasks by doing manual things WHILE the automatic things are happening. Pretreat with your cleaning products (time saver). 5) create routines and schedule things if u know you’ll miss em. 6) clean as you cook (“messes are magnetic”). 7) use others help. Positively talk to family members by asking what they are best at. 8) don’t hang onto things u literally know u don’t need. “Look at ur stuff with fresh eyes.” 9) fill ur hands! When u leave a room, fill ur hands as well (cleaning as you go). 10) tweak your expectations: do what u can, but be realistic. You guys are so nice in the comments ☺️
Yes, please do a weekly cleaning video! Also, could you do a "clean with me" or a "how to" series on cleaning super dirty things (nasty tile shower, caked on hard water buildup on glass shower door, that black hard water ring in the toilet, thick greasy stovetop, etc.) using examples at other people's houses? I've been watching this channel since 2016 and have learned everything I know about cleaning my home. Thank you for everything you guys do!
@@user00616 I remember reading that wd-40 works on hard water crud on your shower doors. I personally swear by scrubbing bubbles on stuff that is hard to scrub off a surface. I've gotten (literally) 20 year old ick off the walls of the house I inherited with scrubbing bubbles.
@@wolfie6199 Perfectionists usually have OCD and it can impact badly on their success in/enjoyment of life. A reformed perfectionist is someone who has trained themself to 'make do' with 90% or 80% of their previous expectation of themself so that they can live happily...
I always apologise when people come over, and they always say “Don’t apologise, I came here to see you, not your house!” And I’ve also found that apologising then brings the attention to the mess when the visitor wouldn’t haven’t otherwise notice it.
Yes to the weekly routine video. I’d love to see a monthly routine video too. Melissa, I found your videos in the beginning of this year and you have no idea how much it has helped me with cleaning my home. I just didn’t know how to clean. I disliked cleaning coz I didn’t know how or what to clean and I always admired clean homes. I saw your bathroom cleaning video and cleaned my bathroom immediately. I saw your bedroom cleaning video and did that immediately. I watched your car cleaning video and got started on that. You really have showed me how to clean. A weekly and a monthly routine will be great so that I can stay on top of cleaning and know the frequency with which I need to clean around the house. Thank you thank you. You are my cleaning savior.
Whenever I visit someone’s home and they start apologizing, I just say, “Oh, it’s okay, I came to see you, not inspect your house!” Hopefully, that’s the same reason they come to my house. -Connie
When cleaning,I say to myself that I am doing this so my family can be healthy and happy and not for showcasing to anyone..sounds so basic but it makes cleaning a lot more purposeful
Cleaning as you go along makes life so much easier. I try to wash dishes while cooking, the only thing left would be the pots/pans and stove. I keep a spray bottle with bleach and other shower cleaners in the bathroom. Usually spray the tub and plastic shower curtain after each shower. Then deep clean on the weekends or every other weekend due to my schedule. Bathroom sink is wiped down after each use. Also I make sure my kitchen sink and kitchen is clean at nights, floor swept counters clean fridge wipe down. Floors usually moped every other week. I say all of this to say that it pays to keep a clean and tidy home. Yes life happens but when you go to a hotel you rate the cleanliness of the room so why not place your home, your sanctuary with the same expectations. #loveacleanspace. Great video Melissa.
I would love to see a weekly cleaning video! My home, as a whole is somewhere between a 4-6 right now. However, we did a major declutter this summer in our master bedroom and I now feel like it is at an 8-9. I am now working in the living room. I work full time as well as help my mom often. My father has passed away, I have no siblings and she has health issues. In the past, I’ve set huge goals and failed. So, for 2020, my goal is to work at least 30 minutes a day decluttering/organizing, etc. until I get the job done. I realize it is only January 04, but it is amazing how much I’ve gotten done in the two hours allotted.
Your 10 rules are the most useful guidelines I've ever seen. Common sense and specific to getting the job done. Helps me believe that I can actually conquer house management.
husband has put me on a spending/buying freeze. and I am glad. I need to be more mindful and less cluttery. Thanks Melissa. Best Wishes for all good things in 2020 for you Riley and Chad. I am expecting my first grandson mid February and am so excited. I have lots of decluttering to do between now and then...
Great video! Great tips! I’ve been married to a hoarder for 38 years; he doesn’t even see filth. But, since downsizing a year ago, I’ve put my “ foot down” and vowed to never live in that type of environment again. This meant many LOUD arguments have ensued, as I insisted on keeping our house tidy. But, strangely enough, he’s starting to keep his space neater , and I heard him admit to a neighbor that he kind of likes walking into a clutter-free house! And, to answer your question, I’d rate my current home a 7-8; same as you... ( I wish I did this years ago, as it may have helped my grown children be neater. I hope it’s not too late for them to learn.)
WISH: I would love much more on the topic about emotional clutter and cluttering your fantasy self. Also (tied to the emotional clutter) things, clothes, art work etc. that belong to my kids. PLEASE...🙏🏻
I have been decluttering my home for the last 18 months. Your channel has helped me with this journey. I have also been on a low buy for the last 9 months. It feels so freeing to not over spend and have a more peaceful home. Thank you!
I would love the weekly/monthly cleaning schedule videos. I am not in the same physical shape anymore and just listening to you in this video I've realized I need to adjust my expectations. I find myself being overwhelmed since I can't do ALL the things anymore, so I feel like the schedule videos will help me with a new & fresh cleaning perspective. Thanks for sharing.
I would love to see a how you do a weekly cleaning routine. I work from home with 3 rambunctious boys... your input as a mom and being an entrepreneur is very impressive and a wonderful platform that you have!
I find small messes can migrate - a small mess on the counter sticks to the bottom of a glass or bowel, then gets transferred to a new surface when the item is moved. So I'm constantly wiping down my kitchen counter when working in there. Yes on the weekly cleaning schedule video. Thank you for all you share on here! I would rate my house about a 6.
Hi Melissa..I live alone. For the most part,I stay on top of my messes and have a pretty clean apartment but sometimes life gets in the way and before you know it it looks like a tornado hit. Can you do a series for single ppl that live alone
Yes, I would love to see a weekly cleaning routine video! Also, do you have a routine for deeper cleaning in your own house? Are there things you do monthly or yearly, or do you do those kinds of tasks sporadically as you think of them? My house is probably an 8 on its best day, 5 on its worst day. My goal is to generally be “10 minutes from company-ready,” when I’m keeping up with weekly cleaning and daily tidy-up!
EXCELLENT video! As always great ideas.. I have to clean more as I go. My mom had so many great sayings.. one was “ lower your expectations and your performance will rise “
I'm such a procrastinator that I didn't even start my new years resolution (quitting smoking) until February 4th! But I finally quit and life has gotten better. I'm feeling healthier and more motivated to clean my clutter. Taking baby steps but I will get there!
That’s hard being ruthless I can’t throw things my beautiful mum gives me shes 91 she’s my mum bless her ❤️❤️ I lucky she does that others have no mum 😮 or great relationship I feel really blessed
My house is about 7 if I am on top of my cleaning. It can be a 3 or 2 if I am not on top of de cluttering and cleaning up after myself. My significant other is the cleaner one. Trying to implement your top rule which is adjust my expectations, my SO gives me the benefit of the doubt. Thank you melissa you truly have changed they way I see cleaning😊
I'm a 4-5. It's a very small house in desperate need of shelving units. Not to hold clutter, but just to have an "Everything in its Place" situation. I'm trying. Watching your videos for so long has been helping a lot. Sometimes it even feels like it could be a 6. 😊
Happy New Year! I’m glad you’re talking about and advocating mindfulness regarding consumerism and a minimalist mindset. I’m slowly but surely doing this in my own life now.... Less Stuff = More Life!
I loved the encouragement of “if you have something from 20-30 years ago and you don’t really need it or use it anymore, you can safely move on from it” Trying to live a more minimalist lifestyle but there’s some really deep childhood memories and traumatic things that cause me to hold onto trinkets or pieces of paper..🤷🏻♂️ I really enjoyed this particular segment of this video. LOL !! who knew that 2020 would be such a year?
I have been watching cleaning videos for many years now....had have no motivation to organize/maintain order in my house till I found your channel.i like your attitude and your approach.just wanted to say thanks!!
I'd love a weekly cleaning video! I'm disabled and only do what I can, fortunately my husband does help but it's frustrating for me. You could maybe do a video on cleaning when you're less able bodied as well. Clean wise about a 7 tidy wise a 4! xx
Kirsty Macfarlane I have a disabilty & live alone aswell. My mam does things that I can't do when she's free. Allthough I like to do most of it myself if I can
@@kerryirving2949 are you from Scotland? It's very frustrating I know. My day used to be, get up and walk our 3 German shepherds, do whatever housework needed doing, have a bath or shower and then go to my work. We've only got one German shepherd and how I exercise her is through training and games in the house and garden, you know the housework situation and I'm not fit to work! Frustrated is an understatement, to go from being so active to only going out twice a week for about 3 hours is a big adjustment and all before I was 40! I've had spinal problems since my late teens but nothing was ever done until it was too late. That's my story and I totally sympathise with you xx
@@kerryirving2949 I'm from Ayrshire, it was when you said your mam that I thought you were Scottish. It's tough having a disability, especially when you're young, I feel that people don't make allowances. I walk with a stick and elderly people will still push in front of me to get on the bus even though I'm bent over leaning on it in pain! It's good that you have your mum's support. No, my disability was down to genetics, there's joint and spinal conditions through my family history. Though nobody has had what I've got and there's nothing anyone can do so I just get on with it as best I can xx
We rearranged the living room and my husband created a seat for me by the large library shelf, so OF COURSE I had to redo the library. A large diaper box full of books for the used book store! Woot!
I would say 3-4 at the moment, coming up to a 7-8 when people come over, but hoping to get better after I graduate and have a bit more energy to put towards cleaning... I have 2 cats, a relatively small space, boyfriend who cooks with passion (and muck everywhere after every cooking session), quite low energy generally because of heart failure, no dishwasher, super heavy vacuum cleaner and too much stuff/possibly just not enough storage. I am moving towards making cleaning as easy as possible, because a clean, uncluttered space is really a game changer for life in general. Been loving the channel for years!
I would say my house is about a 6 at any given time. I'm a mom of 4 boys ages 10,8,7,1 so I have come to terms that my house will be dirty but I still try to keep it clean as possible
Yes definitely would love to see a weekly cleaning routine video!!! My house on any day would be a 5 plenty to be cleaned and decluttered but with six kids sometimes it gets away from me.
I'd say these days my house is about a 6-7. It's mostly tidy, WAY less clutter. If it gets messy, it doesn't take long to pick up. The area I struggle is deep cleaning, dusting and vacuuming/mopping frequently enough. My boys' rooms are DISGUSTING. But they are 17 and 19 (home from college for the stay-at-home order here in Florida) so that is where I'm learning to adjust my expectations. I've moved away from yelling and forcing them to clean up to making them close their doors and live in their own filth. Sure enough my 17 year old was so bored a few days ago he not only cleaned his room, but the garage and also blew the leaves off the driveway. Love these videos!
My home is around a 3 due to my own health and trying to find a way to make things better for my family of two plus pets. Happy New Year to Melissa and Chad..
@@youmakemehappy7 My prayers go out to you dear. The three score I gave was at its best.. right now I'm afraid to let anyone in.. Embarasses me something awful.
I try to keep at least the living room tidy. It's the room we spend most of our time in as a family, and the room visitors see. I keep only couches and tv in there. Nothing to collect dust or clutter. It's nice to have one clean room when the rest is too much for me to clean. Also, ask for help. Don't be embarrassed. There is always one person you can count on that won't judge you. Someone from church (if you attend) or someplace you come into contact with people ❤
@@christinaruiz4183 Thank you for this reply, it has helped me... I try to keep area's for cooking and restroom fairly clean for obvious reasons. I would just love to get some cleaning tips that help when you are disabled to help us all try to stay on top of it instead of in my case doing the basics of what has to stay clean.
@@amychilders5170 In my case, I sit in a chair in front of what I'm cleaning. It's hard for me to stand for long periods. I have rolling laundry hampers, so I don't have to carry them. I spray cleaners and let them sit for a while to soak in. I use paper plates so I don't wash plates. I take Motrin to help with pain and inflammation. I have Fibromyalgia, Lupus, Neuropathy, and Heart problems. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask me ❤
I have a motto when I declutter, since all too often, I hold on to things for sentimental reasons (and I come from a family of pack rats): When in doubt, throw it out! It’s honestly helped me let go of a lot, and I shared this motto with my boyfriend who also had an issue collecting things.
I absolutely love these rules. I love the hands full one especially. I always do that when I leave my car! As soon as the keys come out of the ignition, I look around for trash, clothes, cups, etc. any thing I can take inside the house and put where it needs to go! It keeps my car so clutter free!
Yes me too as well as 3 daughters and between 12 to 20 young people once and sometimes twice a week. I prefer that the kids feel welcome and happy rather than feel in awe at my tidy house. In the grand scheme of things its more important that they are happy and have happy memories.
Downstairs- 8, I have a business. Need to mop twice a day. But only get to do it daily or every other day. My time is spent downstairs from 6am-7pm, M-F. Upstairs- 3, teen boys. I will use the "have your hands full" with my boys. Love it.
Totally agree, When I go into someone's clean, uncluttered house and the first thing they say to me is to apologize for the condition of their house, when it is at a level 8 or above, it drives me crazy. I have moved on from feeling awkward to just feeling annoyed with them.
You have helped me declutter and clean so much. I like watching your videos whilst I’m doing it. It’s a pleasure when you have to go in a draw or a wardrobe and it’s tidy and not stuffed! I
Gotta be ruthless! I was helping my friend clean and I got a big black bag and started throwing away all of his old toys and random art projects from when he was like 10
Yes! Please weekly cleaning schedule video! I get overwhelmed and forget!!! So, now when I see something that needs cleaning, I stop what I'm doing and do it then.
Recovering from 7 days a week, long hours on night shift, with a history of quick unplanned moves, so I need to make decluttering more permanent and make an inventory and sort through things that I had to store around and kind of give up on until time opens up. Fortunately, I kept on top of the kitchen and bathrooms as the priority and basically learned Real Simples Periodic table of cleaning. I watch these things to help stay motivated! 🙂
I just saw this after being home for 2 months from cancer surgery. I think my house is about a 5 because the dishes are stacked on the counter, the family room and living rooms are basically clutter free, but my bedroom and den are FULL of clutter (medical supplies and piles of mail) from 3 months ago. I am working on all of this today and will be watching your spring cleaning video while I'm decluttering/tidying my den.
Every winter mice show up. This makes me extra diligent about cleaning so the mice don't find anything to eat and go away. I discovered they can climb!
Omg this is my first winter where i see mice and its making me super depressed honestly. I clean but im so afraid to even go in the kitchen. Im not even a slob but somehow mice show up because i see their droppings. Yes they climb even jump! They can fit in holes as small as a dime. What do u use? My parents bought poison im terrified the house will smell. Any tips? Im glad im not alone in this
I worked at McDonald's in the mid -1980s during high school and college. "Clean as you go" was literally the dictum that was constantly repeated. It sticks with me to this day. 🙂
My house is like a 4 right now, im 9months pregnant and decided to clear out our storage room and turn it into a nursery, so we have stuff all around. And because i get tired easily the day to day stuff doesnt get fully done either, laundry and dishes pile up Cant wait til everything is clean again and hopefully ill get my house to an 8-9
@@christinecourtemanche8023 the name of the book is Clean my Space by Melissa Maker you can also get it in ebook form. The microfiber towels that she has is at the web Clean my Space It was a very good investment for me .
I try my best to keep my house clean, so that I don't feel that need to apologise if someone comes to my place (usually brought by my husband). I would say that I manage to keep it at around an 8. I am trying to make it better. I grew up with a housekeeper and my sisters and I didn't really learn the principles of keeping a house clean. When we didn't have our housekeeper anymore, the house became a huge mess and I shiver just thinking about that time. I want a clean house and a clutter free life.
i load a batch of laundry at night, when i get up i walk by the laundry room, start, and go have coffee, i have a schedule when i wash items, that alone has made a huge impact, and i have a schedule for all cleaning. yes i clean the kitchen while i go
This is really helpful. I've started to ensure that I always have something in my hands whenever I'm moving from room to room; seems like an insignificant thing, but holy crap it makes a huge difference in the long run. It's second nature to very quickly take a second or two to scan the room and pick out at least one thing that I know I can put away properly. I'm also really particular about cleaning while I cook...it's part of the whole experience for me, it's really satisfying to know I have a minute to wash a pan while something cooks and leave everything tidier than when I started.
Hey, Melissa! I’m new to your channel, but I’m so happy I found you guys! Yes to the weekly routine video. I actually had made a giant checklist of all cleaning tasks as well as Daily, Weekly, Monthly, and Deep Cleaning routines right before I found your channel. I’d love to see how they line up. Also, I’ve got a couple requests. Do you have anything on how to clean a toilet tank (not the bowl, but inside the tank in the back)? And, do you have any tips on tight spaces like between the outside of the toilet tank and the wall (it’s too tight for my fingers). Also also, do you have anything for air vents? I was wondering if you could wash the vent covers with all-purpose cleaner or a solution similar to the stove vent and then possibly vacuum a bit into the vent itself. Just curious, especially since we have a dog. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and skills! PS: It’s kinda weird, but I got super excited when I went shopping today and made several of your DIY recipes. As an extra bonus, while decluttering over the past couple weeks, I found a bottle of tea tree oil I didn’t know we had. Now, my house will be clean AND smell great! Seriously, how did you make cleaning so fun?!
Yes, for weekly cleaning video! Can't seem to get myself on a schedule like doing one room a day. I live in small 1 bed, 1 bath apt, with laundry in the basement and only two people. Should be a snap but it's not. Avoidance and procrastination are the words that comes to mind. I usually get laundry done 1x week but that's where the regularity ends.
Most days my house is probably a 6, 7 on a good day. We save 8-10 for Christmas😁 I like the clean enough to be healthy, but messy enough to be happy rule. Sometimes I leave the chores for later, because they'll always be there. However, your kids are only kids for a short time❤
My issue with ‘being ruthless’ with items in my home is how do I dispose of certain things? An old lamp, an old duvet, pillows I’m not using, old dirty rugs???? I don’t want to add to the mountain of waste.
Hi, you can search online for ways to recycle/donate in your area. And old lamp can be recycle like electronic, animak shelters love old duvet and pillows (wash them first or ask the shelter how they prefer). Maybe some items will be more difficult, but its important to not produce waste. Hope its helps :)
I think about this too. I recycle, donate etc where I can but have to accept that some stuff will go into land fill with an apology to our planet and a resolve to do better. I try to buy and use less plastic and general stuff, less stuff means less use of energy and product to clean....motto for the year is 'quality over quantity in all things'. I think that initially you will have to add some things to the waste mountain but like me, resolve to improve. Rose x
Marian I do understand you are talking about used up items not 'stuff' per se but as extra food for thought, I was also interested in the concept of 'unbuying'. That is intentionally getting rid of things with more effort than just donating to a charity shop/thrift store. Unless it's some really nice things then stuffing your stuff in a bag and giving to the thrift shop doesn't really teach you anything about not buying stuff in the first place it just moves the 'problem' onto someone else. I heard about this on 'a small wardrobe' channel. It has certainly made me think. I wonder what proportion of donations will untimely end up in land fill anyway. If you put stuff in yourself you feel the pain. It's quite a dilemma isn't it? Best wishes Rose (UK)
Please do a weekly cleaning routine!!! Scheduling works wonders. I’ve been subscribed to your channel for several years now and I only got consistent with my cleaning routines when I purchased a Happy Planner.
Jen Rich ah so sweet my channels name is Susan Just Susan.... I sopped after 11 videos because I became ill one thing I would like to do is go back in 2020 to tell my story and where I have been
Thank you for all your tips. It really makes a difference when you have a plan and stay on top of it! Please do a weekly cleaning schedule for us. Growing up my mom would tell us... in Spanish "limpiar sobre lo limpio" or "clean over clean" She never did a "whole day or spent any hours cleaning". Meaning she never waited for things to get dirty or unorganized. She was too busy to let the house work get out of hand so instead she did a little every day and enlisted everyone in the home... Our house was always clean and tidy. People would come over and say how did you know we were coming? She didn't know. She didn't have to stressed over the house work.
7 EXPERT CLEANING TIPS YOU NEED TO BE USING: ruclips.net/video/-C-ic2H24OU/видео.html
1) stop apologizing to others about your house’s state of cleanliness (makes them feel uncomfortable).
2) PTT (know your products, tools, and techniques before starting a task).
3) think “less is more.” Also, be mindful of what you have (is it really useful enough to be in your home).
4) try to layer multiple tasks by doing manual things WHILE the automatic things are happening.
Pretreat with your cleaning products (time saver).
5) create routines and schedule things if u know you’ll miss em.
6) clean as you cook (“messes are magnetic”).
7) use others help. Positively talk to family members by asking what they are best at.
8) don’t hang onto things u literally know u don’t need. “Look at ur stuff with fresh eyes.”
9) fill ur hands! When u leave a room, fill ur hands as well (cleaning as you go).
10) tweak your expectations: do what u can, but be realistic.
You guys are so nice in the comments ☺️
Thank you! Was looking to see if anyone had typed the summary.
Nolan Mullen I love your “get to the point” attitude! Storytelling is not my favorite way to learn. Thanks for the summary.
Thank you 👍👍👍
Thank you Nolan!
Nice. Appreciate it!! Thank you
Yes, please do a weekly cleaning video! Also, could you do a "clean with me" or a "how to" series on cleaning super dirty things (nasty tile shower, caked on hard water buildup on glass shower door, that black hard water ring in the toilet, thick greasy stovetop, etc.) using examples at other people's houses?
I've been watching this channel since 2016 and have learned everything I know about cleaning my home. Thank you for everything you guys do!
Linda L caked on water build up on textured glass shower doors!!!!
For the black hard water ring try baking soda
Use Dawn for your stovetop 😀
@@user00616 I remember reading that wd-40 works on hard water crud on your shower doors. I personally swear by scrubbing bubbles on stuff that is hard to scrub off a surface. I've gotten (literally) 20 year old ick off the walls of the house I inherited with scrubbing bubbles.
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My house is a 7. It’s clean enough to be healthy and dirty enough to be happy. And THAT is from a reformed perfectionist.
Linda Marrone love this!🙌💚🙌
Linda Marrone
Actually lots of folks care! And Linda that’s a great tip to remember thanks 👍🏽
How do you become a reformed perfectionist?! 😩
@PrettyLittleThings 1980 Speak for yourself!
@@wolfie6199 Perfectionists usually have OCD and it can impact badly on their success in/enjoyment of life. A reformed perfectionist is someone who has trained themself to 'make do' with 90% or 80% of their previous expectation of themself so that they can live happily...
I always apologise when people come over, and they always say “Don’t apologise, I came here to see you, not your house!” And I’ve also found that apologising then brings the attention to the mess when the visitor wouldn’t haven’t otherwise notice it.
Yes to the weekly routine video. I’d love to see a monthly routine video too.
Melissa, I found your videos in the beginning of this year and you have no idea how much it has helped me with cleaning my home.
I just didn’t know how to clean. I disliked cleaning coz I didn’t know how or what to clean and I always admired clean homes.
I saw your bathroom cleaning video and cleaned my bathroom immediately. I saw your bedroom cleaning video and did that immediately. I watched your car cleaning video and got started on that. You really have showed me how to clean.
A weekly and a monthly routine will be great so that I can stay on top of cleaning and know the frequency with which I need to clean around the house.
Thank you thank you. You are my cleaning savior.
Happy New Year Clean My Space Nation!!!! 🎊 🎉 🎈 🍻 🎆
Happy new year melissa♥ i started watching your videos 5years ago.. i like you so much thanks for making great videos
Happy New Year! 🥳
I appreciate your channel. 🤗
Happy New Years to you and your family. PS, you have crazy beautiful hair!
Happy New Year! Have a great 2020
Happy New Year, y'all!!!
Whenever I visit someone’s home and they start apologizing, I just say, “Oh, it’s okay, I came to see you, not inspect your house!” Hopefully, that’s the same reason they come to my house. -Connie
Cheery1015 I like this response so much. It would definitely put me at ease!
I agree... I don't like to talk about anyone's house condition. I think it's RUDE. I come to see you not to INSPECT!
I joke and say I'm going to take photos and post them on the internet! It breaks the ice and we get a good belly laugh out of it 😂
Yet there's people that just sit there looking around while you're talking to them!! Makes me not want to invite them!
Id say I’m an 8 1/2. I love a clean and organized home. Clutter and mess gives me anxiety, while a tidy home makes me feel calm and happy.
When cleaning,I say to myself that I am doing this so my family can be healthy and happy and not for showcasing to anyone..sounds so basic but it makes cleaning a lot more purposeful
High Priestess exactly, having a clean and organize home means happy family dwells in
Cleaning as you go along makes life so much easier. I try to wash dishes while cooking, the only thing left would be the pots/pans and stove. I keep a spray bottle with bleach and other shower cleaners in the bathroom. Usually spray the tub and plastic shower curtain after each shower. Then deep clean on the weekends or every other weekend due to my schedule. Bathroom sink is wiped down after each use. Also I make sure my kitchen sink and kitchen is clean at nights, floor swept counters clean fridge wipe down. Floors usually moped every other week. I say all of this to say that it pays to keep a clean and tidy home. Yes life happens but when you go to a hotel you rate the cleanliness of the room so why not place your home, your sanctuary with the same expectations. #loveacleanspace. Great video Melissa.
😂Your post made me tired. I think I need a nap !
Yes to the weekly routine cleaning video!! ♥️♥️♥️
Yes of course: I would love to see a weekly cleaning routine!! 👍🏻
I would love to see a weekly cleaning video! My home, as a whole is somewhere between a 4-6 right now. However, we did a major declutter this summer in our master bedroom and I now feel like it is at an 8-9. I am now working in the living room. I work full time as well as help my mom often. My father has passed away, I have no siblings and she has health issues. In the past, I’ve set huge goals and failed. So, for 2020, my goal is to work at least 30 minutes a day decluttering/organizing, etc. until I get the job done. I realize it is only January 04, but it is amazing how much I’ve gotten done in the two hours allotted.
Good for you!!!!! I wish she would answer you.
Weekly cleaning video. Heck yes.
CMS POLL: On a scale from 1-10 - what would you rate your home?
negative 10 lol
4🌝
4-5 but I am trying to improve that. Ok now that I think about that, it may be somewhere between 3 and 5.
6-7
5-6 papers are my nemesis. Can you do a paper organization/declutter video
Your 10 rules are the most useful guidelines I've ever seen. Common sense and specific to getting the job done. Helps me believe that I can actually conquer house management.
husband has put me on a spending/buying freeze. and I am glad. I need to be more mindful and less cluttery. Thanks Melissa. Best Wishes for all good things in 2020 for you Riley and Chad. I am expecting my first grandson mid February and am so excited. I have lots of decluttering to do between now and then...
Congratulations - such an exciting time :)
Great video! Great tips! I’ve been married to a hoarder for 38 years; he doesn’t even see filth. But, since downsizing a year ago, I’ve put my “ foot down” and vowed to never live in that type of environment again. This meant many LOUD arguments have ensued, as I insisted on keeping our house tidy. But, strangely enough, he’s starting to keep his space neater , and I heard him admit to a neighbor that he kind of likes walking into a clutter-free house! And, to answer your question, I’d rate my current home a 7-8; same as you... ( I wish I did this years ago, as it may have helped my grown children be neater. I hope it’s not too late for them to learn.)
WISH: I would love much more on the topic about emotional clutter and cluttering your fantasy self. Also (tied to the emotional clutter) things, clothes, art work etc. that belong to my kids. PLEASE...🙏🏻
I have been decluttering my home for the last 18 months. Your channel has helped me with this journey. I have also been on a low buy for the last 9 months. It feels so freeing to not over spend and have a more peaceful home. Thank you!
This is my resolution for this year!
I have been watching you now for few years. I love all of your great cleaning tips and how environmentally friendly they are. Love from the UK ❤️
Thanks very much Amy! ❤️
You’re so wonderfully articulate and authentic. Really great, but rare, qualities.
Yes, I would like to see your checklist and schedule.
I would love the weekly/monthly cleaning schedule videos. I am not in the same physical shape anymore and just listening to you in this video I've realized I need to adjust my expectations. I find myself being overwhelmed since I can't do ALL the things anymore, so I feel like the schedule videos will help me with a new & fresh cleaning perspective. Thanks for sharing.
I would love to see a how you do a weekly cleaning routine. I work from home with 3 rambunctious boys... your input as a mom and being an entrepreneur is very impressive and a wonderful platform that you have!
I find small messes can migrate - a small mess on the counter sticks to the bottom of a glass or bowel, then gets transferred to a new surface when the item is moved. So I'm constantly wiping down my kitchen counter when working in there.
Yes on the weekly cleaning schedule video. Thank you for all you share on here!
I would rate my house about a 6.
Hi Melissa..I live alone. For the most part,I stay on top of my messes and have a pretty clean apartment but sometimes life gets in the way and before you know it it looks like a tornado hit. Can you do a series for single ppl that live alone
Same here- single living can be messy since I really don't have to be concerned about how another person is affected by my "tornado" situations
April Felton id like a video on this aswell
I often wonder HOW DID I DO It THIS FAST?!!! (destroy it)
@@garlicgirl3149 likewise!!!
@@garlicgirl3149me too! How???
Yes, I would love to see a weekly cleaning routine video! Also, do you have a routine for deeper cleaning in your own house? Are there things you do monthly or yearly, or do you do those kinds of tasks sporadically as you think of them?
My house is probably an 8 on its best day, 5 on its worst day. My goal is to generally be “10 minutes from company-ready,” when I’m keeping up with weekly cleaning and daily tidy-up!
Would love to see you do a print out on a Schedule cleaning
EXCELLENT video! As always great ideas.. I have to clean more as I go. My mom had so many great sayings.. one was “ lower your expectations and your performance will rise “
I'm such a procrastinator that I didn't even start my new years resolution (quitting smoking) until February 4th! But I finally quit and life has gotten better. I'm feeling healthier and more motivated to clean my clutter. Taking baby steps but I will get there!
That’s hard being ruthless I can’t throw things my beautiful mum gives me shes 91 she’s my mum bless her ❤️❤️ I lucky she does that others have no mum 😮 or great relationship I feel really blessed
My house is about 7 if I am on top of my cleaning. It can be a 3 or 2 if I am not on top of de cluttering and cleaning up after myself. My significant other is the cleaner one. Trying to implement your top rule which is adjust my expectations, my SO gives me the benefit of the doubt. Thank you melissa you truly have changed they way I see cleaning😊
Hi! "Clean as you go" is my number one rule! Teamwork! Yes to weekly cleaning. Happy 2020! 😁
I'm a 4-5. It's a very small house in desperate need of shelving units. Not to hold clutter, but just to have an "Everything in its Place" situation. I'm trying. Watching your videos for so long has been helping a lot. Sometimes it even feels like it could be a 6. 😊
Yes to weekly cleaning!! And I’m gonna say 4-5. Others say my home is clean but I’m so particular!
I keep going back to this one and learn something new every time.
Happy New Year! I’m glad you’re talking about and advocating mindfulness regarding consumerism and a minimalist mindset. I’m slowly but surely doing this in my own life now....
Less Stuff = More Life!
YES, YES, YES!!!! I would love to see your weekly cleaning routine 😁
Yes! Cleaning schedule. I don’t know where to start. I’m sort of a hoarder and I’m trying to fix it. I passed slob awhile back
Start with a small area. Clear it and vow never to leave stuff there again.
Whow
Flylady.net has a great system with cleaning and decluttering routines.
I just love that idea of always taking something out of a room with you!
I would love to see your weekly cleaning schedule! And a deep cleaning schedule too!
I loved the encouragement of “if you have something from 20-30 years ago and you don’t really need it or use it anymore, you can safely move on from it”
Trying to live a more minimalist lifestyle but there’s some really deep childhood memories and traumatic things that cause me to hold onto trinkets or pieces of paper..🤷🏻♂️ I really enjoyed this particular segment of this video.
LOL !! who knew that 2020 would be such a year?
Yes, a weekly cleaning video would be amazing!!!
I have been watching cleaning videos for many years now....had have no motivation to organize/maintain order in my house till I found your channel.i like your attitude and your approach.just wanted to say thanks!!
I'd love a weekly cleaning video! I'm disabled and only do what I can, fortunately my husband does help but it's frustrating for me. You could maybe do a video on cleaning when you're less able bodied as well. Clean wise about a 7 tidy wise a 4! xx
Kirsty Macfarlane I have a disabilty & live alone aswell. My mam does things that I can't do when she's free. Allthough I like to do most of it myself if I can
@@kerryirving2949 are you from Scotland? It's very frustrating I know. My day used to be, get up and walk our 3 German shepherds, do whatever housework needed doing, have a bath or shower and then go to my work. We've only got one German shepherd and how I exercise her is through training and games in the house and garden, you know the housework situation and I'm not fit to work! Frustrated is an understatement, to go from being so active to only going out twice a week for about 3 hours is a big adjustment and all before I was 40! I've had spinal problems since my late teens but nothing was ever done until it was too late. That's my story and I totally sympathise with you xx
Kirsty Macfarlane im from the uk. I've had my disability since I was born
@@kerryirving2949 I'm from Ayrshire, it was when you said your mam that I thought you were Scottish. It's tough having a disability, especially when you're young, I feel that people don't make allowances. I walk with a stick and elderly people will still push in front of me to get on the bus even though I'm bent over leaning on it in pain! It's good that you have your mum's support. No, my disability was down to genetics, there's joint and spinal conditions through my family history. Though nobody has had what I've got and there's nothing anyone can do so I just get on with it as best I can xx
Kirsty Macfarlane I cant belive old people push infront of you!! That's awful & disrespectful!
I'm 79 years old and love your show, I had a lot to learn. Mary
We rearranged the living room and my husband created a seat for me by the large library shelf, so OF COURSE I had to redo the library. A large diaper box full of books for the used book store! Woot!
I would say 3-4 at the moment, coming up to a 7-8 when people come over, but hoping to get better after I graduate and have a bit more energy to put towards cleaning... I have 2 cats, a relatively small space, boyfriend who cooks with passion (and muck everywhere after every cooking session), quite low energy generally because of heart failure, no dishwasher, super heavy vacuum cleaner and too much stuff/possibly just not enough storage. I am moving towards making cleaning as easy as possible, because a clean, uncluttered space is really a game changer for life in general. Been loving the channel for years!
Yes! Please make a weekly cleaning routine video.
YAS!! Weekly cleaning routine video!!! Please. The world needs you to do this.
I would say my house is about a 6 at any given time. I'm a mom of 4 boys ages 10,8,7,1 so I have come to terms that my house will be dirty but I still try to keep it clean as possible
Jesica Nicole im also a mom of 4 kids!! I agree it will never be as clean as i wish it was!!
@@marinagoronja6404 yup I've just come to facts and try to get it clean..... I mean it's not dirty just toys EVERYWHERE
Mom of 4 here tooooooo!
Yes definitely would love to see a weekly cleaning routine video!!! My house on any day would be a 5 plenty to be cleaned and decluttered but with six kids sometimes it gets away from me.
I would love to see a video on a “weekly cleaning schedule”
I'd say these days my house is about a 6-7. It's mostly tidy, WAY less clutter. If it gets messy, it doesn't take long to pick up. The area I struggle is deep cleaning, dusting and vacuuming/mopping frequently enough. My boys' rooms are DISGUSTING. But they are 17 and 19 (home from college for the stay-at-home order here in Florida) so that is where I'm learning to adjust my expectations. I've moved away from yelling and forcing them to clean up to making them close their doors and live in their own filth. Sure enough my 17 year old was so bored a few days ago he not only cleaned his room, but the garage and also blew the leaves off the driveway. Love these videos!
I would love for you to do a weekly cleaning routine. My house would rate a 5.
My home is a 4. I’m in pain a lot and have 9 indoor rescue cats so it’s really hard. But your videos inspire me. Thank you
My home is around a 3 due to my own health and trying to find a way to make things better for my family of two plus pets. Happy New Year to Melissa and Chad..
Same here. I have a severe chronic pain illness that makes it impossible and I have a son and am a single mother so. My plate is already full😭
@@youmakemehappy7 My prayers go out to you dear. The three score I gave was at its best.. right now I'm afraid to let anyone in.. Embarasses me something awful.
I try to keep at least the living room tidy. It's the room we spend most of our time in as a family, and the room visitors see. I keep only couches and tv in there. Nothing to collect dust or clutter. It's nice to have one clean room when the rest is too much for me to clean. Also, ask for help. Don't be embarrassed. There is always one person you can count on that won't judge you. Someone from church (if you attend) or someplace you come into contact with people ❤
@@christinaruiz4183 Thank you for this reply, it has helped me... I try to keep area's for cooking and restroom fairly clean for obvious reasons. I would just love to get some cleaning tips that help when you are disabled to help us all try to stay on top of it instead of in my case doing the basics of what has to stay clean.
@@amychilders5170 In my case, I sit in a chair in front of what I'm cleaning. It's hard for me to stand for long periods. I have rolling laundry hampers, so I don't have to carry them. I spray cleaners and let them sit for a while to soak in. I use paper plates so I don't wash plates. I take Motrin to help with pain and inflammation. I have Fibromyalgia, Lupus, Neuropathy, and Heart problems. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask me ❤
I have a motto when I declutter, since all too often, I hold on to things for sentimental reasons (and I come from a family of pack rats):
When in doubt, throw it out!
It’s honestly helped me let go of a lot, and I shared this motto with my boyfriend who also had an issue collecting things.
Would Love to see a weekly cleaning routine
I absolutely love these rules. I love the hands full one especially. I always do that when I leave my car! As soon as the keys come out of the ignition, I look around for trash, clothes, cups, etc. any thing I can take inside the house and put where it needs to go! It keeps my car so clutter free!
I'd rate my home a 5 because I have 2 fluffy cats who shed constantly
Yes me too as well as 3 daughters and between 12 to 20 young people once and sometimes twice a week. I prefer that the kids feel welcome and happy rather than feel in awe at my tidy house. In the grand scheme of things its more important that they are happy and have happy memories.
OMG I need a cleaning video on how to manage cat hair 😂😂😂
I have 7 rescued cats...their litter dust, and shedded fur, are two of my challenges. Are there any other Cat Moms out there, with advice?
@@dianeellis-mcroberts9376 I vacuum everyday and clean wipe around the litter 🙂
Downstairs- 8, I have a business. Need to mop twice a day. But only get to do it daily or every other day. My time is spent downstairs from 6am-7pm, M-F. Upstairs- 3, teen boys. I will use the "have your hands full" with my boys. Love it.
I would definitely watch a weekly cleaning routine video.
Totally agree, When I go into someone's clean, uncluttered house and the first thing they say to me is to apologize for the condition of their house, when it is at a level 8 or above, it drives me crazy. I have moved on from feeling awkward to just feeling annoyed with them.
My house would be a 7 with a touch of dog hair 😂
@@BriarRoseA LOL, so true 😂
Same . With cats too
SAME! it's especially noticeable on my black clothing lol
You have helped me declutter and clean so much. I like watching your videos whilst I’m doing it. It’s a pleasure when you have to go in a draw or a wardrobe and it’s tidy and not stuffed! I
Gotta be ruthless! I was helping my friend clean and I got a big black bag and started throwing away all of his old toys and random art projects from when he was like 10
Yes! Please weekly cleaning schedule video! I get overwhelmed and forget!!! So, now when I see something that needs cleaning, I stop what I'm doing and do it then.
I have random electronics and stuff lying about sometimes water bottles etc. I'd say 8/10
Recovering from 7 days a week, long hours on night shift, with a history of quick unplanned moves, so I need to make decluttering more permanent and make an inventory and sort through things that I had to store around and kind of give up on until time opens up. Fortunately, I kept on top of the kitchen and bathrooms as the priority and basically learned Real Simples Periodic table of cleaning. I watch these things to help stay motivated! 🙂
I'd love to see your weekly cleaning 😀
I just saw this after being home for 2 months from cancer surgery. I think my house is about a 5 because the dishes are stacked on the counter, the family room and living rooms are basically clutter free, but my bedroom and den are FULL of clutter (medical supplies and piles of mail) from 3 months ago. I am working on all of this today and will be watching your spring cleaning video while I'm decluttering/tidying my den.
I’m a 4 most of the time and occasionally an 8
Yes Yes Yes Weekly daily monthly routine video!!!!!
Every winter mice show up. This makes me extra diligent about cleaning so the mice don't find anything to eat and go away. I discovered they can climb!
Omg this is my first winter where i see mice and its making me super depressed honestly. I clean but im so afraid to even go in the kitchen. Im not even a slob but somehow mice show up because i see their droppings. Yes they climb even jump! They can fit in holes as small as a dime. What do u use? My parents bought poison im terrified the house will smell. Any tips?
Im glad im not alone in this
They also hate the smell of ammonia and peppermint btw!!
I worked at McDonald's in the mid -1980s during high school and college. "Clean as you go" was literally the dictum that was constantly repeated. It sticks with me to this day. 🙂
I'd give my home a seven clutter-wise and an eight for cleanliness.
My house is like a 4 right now, im 9months pregnant and decided to clear out our storage room and turn it into a nursery, so we have stuff all around. And because i get tired easily the day to day stuff doesnt get fully done either, laundry and dishes pile up
Cant wait til everything is clean again and hopefully ill get my house to an 8-9
After today - my house is an 8- I don’t know it is ever a 10 when I’m doing it all myself !
Melissa's videos are always awesome! Why do people unlike them? I wish RUclips had a thing where you had to write why you don't like the video.
Yes on the weekly cleaning routine,
Yes please a weekly cleaning video with a schedule would be marvelous
Hi! I just brought your book as one of my Xmas gifts for myself! I scrubbed my shower with the recipe. It looks sooooo nice now!
What is the name of the book?
@@christinecourtemanche8023 the name of the book is Clean my Space by Melissa
Maker you can also get it in ebook form. The microfiber towels that she has is at the web Clean my Space It was a very good investment for me .
I try my best to keep my house clean, so that I don't feel that need to apologise if someone comes to my place (usually brought by my husband). I would say that I manage to keep it at around an 8. I am trying to make it better. I grew up with a housekeeper and my sisters and I didn't really learn the principles of keeping a house clean. When we didn't have our housekeeper anymore, the house became a huge mess and I shiver just thinking about that time. I want a clean house and a clutter free life.
Still, THE NICEST HAIR, Melissa
Love your stuff. Just bought a Dyson today
i load a batch of laundry at night, when i get up i walk by the laundry room, start, and go have coffee, i have a schedule when i wash items, that alone has made a huge impact, and i have a schedule for all cleaning. yes i clean the kitchen while i go
My house is routinely a 6, but I love when I make it an 8.
This is really helpful. I've started to ensure that I always have something in my hands whenever I'm moving from room to room; seems like an insignificant thing, but holy crap it makes a huge difference in the long run. It's second nature to very quickly take a second or two to scan the room and pick out at least one thing that I know I can put away properly. I'm also really particular about cleaning while I cook...it's part of the whole experience for me, it's really satisfying to know I have a minute to wash a pan while something cooks and leave everything tidier than when I started.
Hey, Melissa!
I’m new to your channel, but I’m so happy I found you guys!
Yes to the weekly routine video. I actually had made a giant checklist of all cleaning tasks as well as Daily, Weekly, Monthly, and Deep Cleaning routines right before I found your channel. I’d love to see how they line up.
Also, I’ve got a couple requests. Do you have anything on how to clean a toilet tank (not the bowl, but inside the tank in the back)? And, do you have any tips on tight spaces like between the outside of the toilet tank and the wall (it’s too tight for my fingers).
Also also, do you have anything for air vents? I was wondering if you could wash the vent covers with all-purpose cleaner or a solution similar to the stove vent and then possibly vacuum a bit into the vent itself. Just curious, especially since we have a dog.
Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and skills!
PS: It’s kinda weird, but I got super excited when I went shopping today and made several of your DIY recipes. As an extra bonus, while decluttering over the past couple weeks, I found a bottle of tea tree oil I didn’t know we had. Now, my house will be clean AND smell great! Seriously, how did you make cleaning so fun?!
Yes, for weekly cleaning video! Can't seem to get myself on a schedule like doing one room a day. I live in small 1 bed, 1 bath apt, with laundry in the basement and only two people. Should be a snap but it's not. Avoidance and procrastination are the words that comes to mind. I usually get laundry done 1x week but that's where the regularity ends.
I’m a 10......apparently my nick name in the subdivision is “Martha” lol. But I still love to watch cleaning videos to learn new tricks!
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How do you keep your house at 10 but also have clean/life balance?
Most days my house is probably a 6, 7 on a good day. We save 8-10 for Christmas😁
I like the clean enough to be healthy, but messy enough to be happy rule.
Sometimes I leave the chores for later, because they'll always be there. However, your kids are only kids for a short time❤
My issue with ‘being ruthless’ with items in my home is how do I dispose of certain things? An old lamp, an old duvet, pillows I’m not using, old dirty rugs???? I don’t want to add to the mountain of waste.
Hi, you can search online for ways to recycle/donate in your area. And old lamp can be recycle like electronic, animak shelters love old duvet and pillows (wash them first or ask the shelter how they prefer). Maybe some items will be more difficult, but its important to not produce waste. Hope its helps :)
I think about this too. I recycle, donate etc where I can but have to accept that some stuff will go into land fill with an apology to our planet and a resolve to do better. I try to buy and use less plastic and general stuff, less stuff means less use of energy and product to clean....motto for the year is 'quality over quantity in all things'. I think that initially you will have to add some things to the waste mountain but like me, resolve to improve. Rose x
Marian I do understand you are talking about used up items not 'stuff' per se but as extra food for thought, I was also interested in the concept of 'unbuying'. That is intentionally getting rid of things with more effort than just donating to a charity shop/thrift store. Unless it's some really nice things then stuffing your stuff in a bag and giving to the thrift shop doesn't really teach you anything about not buying stuff in the first place it just moves the 'problem' onto someone else. I heard about this on 'a small wardrobe' channel. It has certainly made me think. I wonder what proportion of donations will untimely end up in land fill anyway. If you put stuff in yourself you feel the pain. It's quite a dilemma isn't it? Best wishes Rose (UK)
I have been doing "layering" and didn't even realize it. Works great!! Happy New Year!!!
Do you have a vid on cleaning the refrigerator
Please do a weekly cleaning routine!!! Scheduling works wonders. I’ve been subscribed to your channel for several years now and I only got consistent with my cleaning routines when I purchased a Happy Planner.
Mine is almost Martha Stewart LOL just finished the Christmas cleaning and getting ride of just stuff lol happy new decade my friend!
I like your energy - I'd watch a video from you girl 😁👉💕role-model
Jen Rich ah so sweet my channels name is Susan Just Susan.... I sopped after 11 videos because I became ill one thing I would like to do is go back in 2020 to tell my story and where I have been
Thank you for all your tips. It really makes a difference when you have a plan and stay on top of it! Please do a weekly cleaning schedule for us.
Growing up my mom would tell us... in Spanish "limpiar sobre lo limpio" or "clean over clean" She never did a "whole day or spent any hours cleaning". Meaning she never waited for things to get dirty or unorganized. She was too busy to let the house work get out of hand so instead she did a little every day and enlisted everyone in the home...
Our house was always clean and tidy. People would come over and say how did you know we were coming? She didn't know. She didn't have to stressed over the house work.