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Sometimes when you try to control toxic relationship you also become toxic. You do not have any control on your anger, you are annoyed always, sometimes tend to cry without any reason.
I can compltely relate to this................i was in a toxic relationship it was of 12years....it was suffocating....i lost myself i lost my self confidence i lost my existance i was compltely controlled by him....what i thought that moment was his care but no it was his posssessiveness his dominating attitude....he killed me deep inside....i was ill mentally i was in depression i went through hell............what u said is true...damn true every single word is true cz i have experienced it every day was a nightmare every night was a journey to hell.....
Yrr exactly same yahi sab attitude usk andr h full dominating attitude over possesiveness and ruling attitude mere hisab se jeena h tujhe m jo kahu vo krna h ab bilkul bardash nai hota mujhse.
@@ishashroff1745 i donno how u r handling....but trust me....u have to end it by yourself....otherwise it will end you....humari hi galti hai...humne hi unlogo ko starting se mana nahi kia ki q sune sab baat tum logo ki...har baat bina soche samjhe mante chale gaye out of love care ka tag de de kar....lekin now jab wo log humse hamari freedom le liye infact hum din me kitne saans le wo v unke hisab se hone laga tab hume suffocation hone laga.....its toxic dear u cant live like that.....hume lagata hai unke bina nahi reh sakte qki unke alawa hume itna pyaar koi nahi kar sakta par kya humne kisi or ko moka dia hai hume pyaar karne ka....moka do move on come out of it.
Very rightly said, it’s the irony that the person takes your goodness for granted, and use your innocence as a weapon to satisfy their so called EGO., and it’s true, this kind of bond is beyond Repair. A toxic person will load you with guilt, insecurities, non-answering attitude, etc., and will keep you in a forever loop of keeping you badly and not living you in peace. It’s all you need to find the strength to leave such a kind of bond, because it’s just this kind of person is not right for certain kind of individuals. It’s just that a soft, innocent, sweet and non- manipulative person can’t handle such beings. It’s always better to grab your strength and fight with odds, pull yourself out and move on. It’s better for both. The moment you decide to move on, decide not to look back, sometimes there is no turning back. It’s just over. Don’t evaluate, what went wrong and why it turned like that. Some relationship are not meant to happen, they just teach you what you lack inside you, just hold yourself strong, embrace all the learning and move on. It’s better to let go certain relationship for your own betterment.
Can anyone of you can talk with me in insta I will share my problem by which I am struggling from 2 years if anyone can listen to me then please I just need an opinion from an unknown person that's why please
har ladki ke pass appke jesa bhai hona chahiye. really ur fabulous mene to aapki vedio dekhne se pehle hi toxic relation ko chor diya tha but thoda regret feel ho raha tha but ur vedio make me feel well and confident. thanks for the great vedio
Loved this topic. I am married but in a very toxic relationship. He doesn’t want to let me go. He doesn’t want to change anything. He lies,cheated in the marriage even after 21 years..He doesn’t agree for counseling of any kind either. He has never ever respected me or the marriage. I have always been nothing to him, always 2nd choice and just 2nd option. I watched your videos on cheating and they really inspired me. Your videos help me a lot. Keep inspiring us. God bless you and your family.
Kaise kr liya yrr....bht brave ho ap plz mujhe b koi advise do Mai kya kru he threads me ki ghr pe sb bta dunga nuksan phchaunga mai ek second be ni rhna chahti uske sath pr dr ji wjh se kuch kr ni pari plzzz koi solution btao
@Zasha writes hey if you're still in that relationship tou pls kisi family member ko involve karo aur usse sab batado is baray main, wo apko support karega is sab se deal karne main. Doosra yeh ke wo banda apka kuch nahi bigar sakta us se darne ki zarurat nahi. Say good bye to him and block him from everywhere and MOVE ON. 🙏
@@zashawrites3251parents k saamne juth bolna ki ye mere piche pda hua hai maanna hi nii ki tumhara koi scene tha iske saath wo sirf tumhe dra rha hai sim change krdo aur zero contact rkho aur agr koi mutual friends b hein toh unko b Tata bye bye krdo jo frnds hote h iss case wo aur situation khraab krte h idr ki baat udr krke phir ek do saal baad uss bnde ko automatically hichak hogi tumse baat krne mei wo khud hi side ho jayega zero contact is best solution sb logo se jo directly indirectly involve hein
Aap bhut cute lg rhe ho sir😍😍 When u say tum pagal ho jaoge bimar pd jaoge dimagi rup se i don't know why but I'm crying these topic...Thank you so much sir itni care krne ke liye☺🥰.. God aapko hmesha happy rkhe☺☺
Aapki baat meri maa ki baat ki tarah exact lagi Aaj ki bhagwan ishara de rahe hain ye inshan tere liye sahi nehi hai Thank you so much sir for this beautiful soul relaxing video God bless you sir Aise hi video banate rahe taraki hoti rahe aapki
I have been in this toxic relationship from almost 2 years,but i stop talking and blocked him for a week it's hard to move on but your video gives me so much strength and motivates me alot,still he calls me from different numbers but i don't pick, he blackmails me all the time,he has ruin my life.thank you bhai your videos are always everything.
He showed me that his happiness is because of me, he was good at talking, making me laugh initially. But in 6 months of our relationship, we fought many times and did patch up again and again. because I don't want to hurt him and left him sad also he got a fever or low Blood pressure many times after the fight which makes me emotional. He kept on blaming me for every argument, every fight. I was tired of it. I was not allowed to leave I felt stuck. He said unexpected bad words to me in anger saying that I made him do that. Every time I decide not to look back he came up with a new tactic in the name of love. All good memories make me weak that they can be sorted out. But how many times? In one month there were 10 moments of argument and fight. He told me I will never have a good relationship ..all his bad words lowered my self-confidence. I feel bad. I decided again to move on but it is so difficult. It would be better for both of us.
Tysm aaj main bhut better feel kar rahi hun same situation hui hai mere sath or ab main bahar hun or aapki videos dekhti hun .aese log n pyar nhi kar sakte hai bas aapko control karnege or aap kabhi bhi kush nhi rahe paoge ty shiv ji🙏
Maine Aaj hi toxic relationship ko aaj khtam kar Diya...usne mujhe bahut...maine pyar bahut kiya usse ..mental peace khatm ho gaya...abuse... Mental and physical torture kiya.... paise or mobile dono hi gaye ..only one sided love .tha .😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@umking1952 nikal sakti ho aap in sab situation se aapko khud realisation karna hoga. Or ye toxic relationship toxic behaviour karne wala person mentali ill hota h unhe ek type ka personality disorders hota h jise (NPD) khte h aap NPD par deatails k liye RUclips pr soul groth, saryut anand, kashika Jain , Bashir sir ke videos dekho apko bohot help hogi in sb situation se heal hone m
Thankyou so much Anubhav ji 😊mene Aaj hi is toxic riste ko khatam kr diya or new life ki taraf Jane ka fesla liya Sahi kaha apne dipress pagal kr dega ye baat samjh aagai 😊 thankyou
right bro... as much as one want to fix it.. it gets more complicated... you r 💯% right bro... we all need to finish such toxic relationship whether one is married or not.. doesn't matter.. jst get out of it...
Thank you so much Bhai main Kuch mahine pehle hi toxic relationship se bahar nikla Hu abb mujhe koi aisi ladki dikhi hai jiski simle ki wajha se mere chere pe dubaara smile wapas Aaya hai 😊❣️
@@alishasutting6587 i can understand.....kitna b kosis krle we can't get out of it ....jab bhi chhod k jana chahti hu emotional attacks hote h mr jaunga nhi reh skta ala bla.... Bs bolna easy hota h ki chhod do but Krna utna hi mushkil 🙂
@@Itsshikha00really???? aur aise chutiye aadmi k saath full lyf nikaalogi toh wo maar kutai b krega agr toxic insaan k saath rehna hi hai toh arrange marriage hi krlo dekho chodna mushkil hai pr namumkin nii hai 3-4 months k baad koi right one dund lena aur tumhe wo toxic insaan bhul jayega aur tum nafrat krogi aise insaan se jisne tumhara valuable tym waste kia have some mercy on urself film nii h lyf ki toxic insaan change ho jayega
@@__swasti_2316 maine bahut try kr liya.....pr vo jane ni deta vo ab b block kiya hua maine sbkuch khtm krne k liye hi....lekin muje pta h vo kuch b krke bat krega mujse pehle dhmki deta tha ki tere bhai ko btau mere sath shadi ko bolke kaat k jari h mera.....fir Maine usse drna chhod diya bola jo krna h kr....to ab rone lgta h even do bar pair pkd k b mafi maang chuka mujse....he gives me abusing most of the time or jb m rishta khtm krti hu isi baat pe to pair pkd leta h mere ro roke bolta h aage ni kru aisa
Going through a rough phase..can totally relate to the words.. becoming mentally unstable ..my partner is always blaming me for everything.. the understanding is totally lost ..
This is so relatable with me I move on from toxic relationship recently after 2 yrs of relationship...firstly I have not control myself to talk with him for that I keep my phone with my parents and now after 20 days I feel better,and I know my importance I used to love myself ..this is all happen bcoz of my supporting parents Thanks God you save me ❤❤❤❤
Bhai..apne mere Dil ki baat bata di... Main ek toxic relationship me hu. Pichchle 2 saalon se lekin aj chorunga aj chorunga karke karke.. daily basis me mera mental health khrb ho raha hai 😭😭 Usko is chiz ka ghantaa fark nhi padta.. Mujhe chorna padega mere life ke liye.. Yeh relationship kabhi thik hone wala nhi hai 😭😭😭
I m suffering from same things. That person made me like m only for him. And now after a long time he says don't bother me I will talk to u when I want but u don't need to make calls .N also says don't talk to other person.he wants me whenever he feel needed else he doesn't need me. N today I left him and won't go again to that selfish person. U r right. They don't want us they only hv addiction of us .So they can use us whenever they feel needed
There is not a single point u missed out . Got this video at the right time.. Toxic relationship is like waiting for the dream hope to happen but eventually its not at all going to happen😖.
Thank you so much bhaiya for this video mere sath v same aaisa hi horha tha par mai finally free hogai inn sabse mai v usse bahot pyaar krti thii parr wo nhi aapki video dekh k thoda sukoon mila maan halka hogya❤ but ek chiz aacha tha hum dno kabhi physical nhi huwe the long distance relationship me the hum
Today I wanna share my story.. I was in a relationship with a person during the first lockdown.. A lot of things happened during that time.. At first he was like this guy who is shy, well behaved and everything. As soon as lockdown entered I needed space and me-time.. He would always act clingy and react in tremendous ways if I didn't give him time.. One day I was spending time with my family when he video called me and started drinking poison in front of me.. I had to immediately contact his big brother.. After many many many tries I finally broke up but somehow could not leave that person. I felt guilty for mistakes that I did not do. He acted as a victim telling his friends only half of the story. After 2 years of brkup. He has moved on. And I still feel a tremendous fear to share my life with someone. I feel I need to go back because I invested so much. Recently I got disrespected by him and his new gf.. Someone gathering my respect I backed off.. Having a hard time letting all this go from my head and moving ahead in my life.. I feel ppl are talking and laughing at me.. I feel I need to hide in order to be safe.. Knowing such ppl exist in the world scares me a lot.
प्रेम प्रेम सब करें,प्रेम न चिनेह कोय!! ढाई आखर प्रेम का पढ़े जो पंडित होय! जो व्यक्ति आपके जीवन पर छा जाने को आतुर है,जो आपसे आपकी आजादी छीन लेने को आतुर है,तुरंत समझ जाना चाहिए कि ये व्यक्ति हमारे उपयुक्त नही है। प्रेम कोई बाहरी घटना नहीं,ये बिलकुल भीतर की घटना है। Real lover sets you free, fake ask you to bond with him😢
Thanku sir it helped me. Kyuki mein ek aise relationship m hun jahan rishte ko mein hi smbhaal rhi hun iss Relationship n mujhe emotionally bahaut weak bna diya but aab lgta h ki mujhe hi koi move le k isse bahar aana hoga aur ek nayi shuruaat krni hogi.. Thanks a lot Sir
He can't understand me... I am becoming weak day by day...in every arguments he treat me like I have been wrong always.. Every single day he tries to control me again and again... And it's really hurting both physically and mentally...... Just for a person we should never forget our worth our importance....time heals everything but you should fight with such toxic situations without fear and doubts... Yes you can ✊
I know how much I suffer form last 1.5 year but he can never change I just want same time ki meri life ki sabse badi galti uske sath relationship me ana tha yaad ata hai ki kabhi ap khush the but vo sirf pretend karta hai vo suru ase hi hote ho I just want ki agar ap relationship me ase toh chod do nhi toh ap life time Kai truma me rahoge
We tend to hope that this time it will get better, but each and every time it is just getting worse. Disrespect is the key feature of every toxic relationship. I hope people who are watching this video, soon get out of their toxic relationships.
Thankyou so much for motivating me , I'm also suffering from toxic relation. Saari unhi cheezo se guzar rhi hu jo aap bta rahe hai, ab mujhe bhi is relation se bahar nikalna hai or ek new zindagi ki suruat krni hai thankyou so much for motivation.
By looking the comments i understand that not only me,also there are many who suffered the same problem that i am facing now😔...but how to get out of it🙂how can i control my feelings,love,care for him🙂how can i forget al the memories of past 3 years 🙂
Tq sir for lesson i love my gf more n I ll never cheat her but this adays day i m lttle possessive nw after watching ur video i ll rlly do respect care n understand her once again thank you sir,❤️
Feeling really relaxed suffering from a tocix relationship from a very long time eveyrtime a bunch of abusive words thrown upon me I became fed up with it and confused that how to get rid of it Your video help me mould my life in another direction
Ek ek word sach hai...,please jo bhi aise insan ke saath hai khud ko jitni jaldi ho us insan se alag kr len...,aise log hamari mental health per bhot hi bura prabhaw chhod kr jate h
Thank you so much. This helped me a lot. Vh mujhe aise bolta tha ki jaise hmesha galati meri hi ho... Jabki hmesha hr bar vh jgra shuru krta h mai hajar bar bolti hu ki mujhe jgra nhi krna phir bhi.. Aur agr koi chiz vh krta h th uske hisab se vh sahi h lekin agr same chiz mai karu th mai glt ho jati hu, bolta h ki mai badla le rahi hu... Hmesha bolta h mai chahti ki vh meri life se chala jaye jb ki maine kabhi aisa bola bhi nhi.. Hmesha jgra hone k bad maine use sorry bola.. Us bande k muh se ajtk sorry bhi nhi bola gaya.. Insb chizo se meri mental health p bhi bht asar pada.. And i decided to leave kyuki uske sath rehne ka mere pas ek bhi reason nhi tha.. Uske sath rehti hu th aisa lgta hai jaise life is hell, and without him i am in peace. And this is me ,choosing myself and my mental peace over my love for him. Easy nhi tha lekin rehne ka koi reason bhi nhi tha.
Sir, this type of videos suits you a lot instead of story telling. This is the bestest side of your's or can say that you have explored another dimension of your's. Keep it up,stay blessed. Much love and respect. ❤❤❤💐💐💐🍫🍫🍫❤❤❤
Anubhav sir thank you so much from the bottom of my heart❤ aapki is ek video ne mujhe phir se ek nyi life de di.. Main apni relationship me female partner ke emotional torture se enxiety me tha and iska asar meri pdhai and work dono. Pe. Pad. Rha tha but thanks ❤❤❤❤ you aap. Mere liye bhagwaan ki tarah aaye Aapki. Is. Video ne. Mujhe himmat di ki main kaise gande riste se bahar aau aur ye bhi sikhaya ki pyar and foolishness alag alag hain... Because I am just 25 year old and kabhi life me itna experience nhi kiya to mujhe lagta tha ki bas love hota hai and aapse judne se phle main ye hi nhin janta tha ki toxic relationship jaisa bhi kuch hota hai But aapse jana ki sach me main jis relation me hoon wo sach me Topxic hai Kabhi aapse mulakat hui to aapse jaroor Share krunga apni story... Thank you love you a lot sir.... for saving my life
No ....it can't possible that means person left but only memories can stay with u... So u can make urself bg n try to remove him but it can't possible 🦋
Give some time to your soul , keep busying yourself with some productive works ... One day you will feel so happy and give yourself thanks for coming out from this toxic relationship.... Have a beautiful journey sis ❤️❤️❤️
Sir mai kya bolu Mai Aaj hi puri tarah se bhr aayi hu 3 saal k extreme toxic rltn k baad bhut problem Hui bhut dhamkiya bhut torture Hui aapne shi kaha bs himmat ki deri hai ...
Thnk uh so Much anubhav sir😭❤ Mujhe es video ki hai jarurat thi bohot waqt se..... U r my inspiration... My guruji.... Bht bht thnq ❤ Aap sobse best ho.... 🔥
Aap jo bhi kaha vo 1000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000% true. Aise toxic relationship me khali carrier aur mental peace khobhaithna nhi balki jaanse mardalniki khata bhi hosaktihai bina doubt..... maine face kiya ye sab. I realized and came to know the truth after 24 years of suffer.😒🙏 Bht bht dhanyawad.🙏
Hey bro... I order ur book after my friend's suggestion and received it yesterday. I started reading this book from 9 am and finished this just before 10 minutes ago... everything u have written is 99% relatable with my love story...how u both started talking to how she left u dying alone....I want to meet you in person...can u tell me the name of ur City so when the lockdown is over I can meet u ....I am over excited to meet u .
Correct sir insan ka matlb nikal jata fir bo yesa he krta hai shuru mee sb aacha chalta lekin aage ki koi parwah ni thi usko sirf ek matlabi insan tha bo
Sir I request you to make a video about "how to deal with a partner who only wants physical relationship or is in a sex addiction."😣 Please I am going through very confusing relationship ..please sir help with a RUclips video as soon as possible 🙂
You should stop that kinda relationship.. And wait for the person who will love your soul more than your body. Becoz at the end you won't get anything from this kind of relationship. Find a person who Would respect you nd do care for uhh. It's better to live alone rather than staying with a person who is just using you .
Pyaar koi sex nhi hai...aagr aap aisa relationship mein ho jissay aapko sirf or sirf physical hona par raha hai ya phir sex addicted ladka toh apko chor dena chahiye because yeh aapko pyaar nhi karta yeh sirf aapka jism se Krta hai or jo ladka jism se pyaar karta hai woh ladka kabhi bhi koi bhi ladki se pyaar nhi karega or naa usska ho payega......so better hai akele rahiye...
Me khud esi chij se nikla hu .bhut kuch seekha Suruaat me kisi ko jyada importance mt do Anytime available mt raho Koi bura man jaayega manne do mt dro Khud ke liye jo sahi hai vo kro Khud ki khusi dekho duniya jaaye bhaad me 😎😎😎 Jeena hai to khul kr jiyo Dr ke jeene me kya rakha hai
To be honest I was so confused and I was stuck in my problem but after watching this full video at the end i smile and feel happy after a long time❤ ❤Thank you sir for your amazing video
How to get out of toxic relationship who hv kids..... And family is pressurizing to be in that relationship bz of prestige??? Please give solution to this......
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Sir agr koi ldka rota h ki tere bina nhi rah skta or bo fesicaly bhi hona chahta h to kya unke sath rhna thik hoga
Ohhhh sir.....you so sweet brother....Thank you Thank you
Sir aap song kb sunaoge hme pls sir yh wala song sunna tere mere darmiyan hai batein un khi pls sir 🌹
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Love you sir from Pakistan 🇵🇰 main samj giya hoo aab mojy kia krna hai
Sometimes when you try to control toxic relationship you also become toxic. You do not have any control on your anger, you are annoyed always, sometimes tend to cry without any reason.
This is true
True 🙂🙂💯
I am now this situation
Oh my God...so true 🙂
Absolutely
Toxic relationship identify karna is easy but usse nikalna bahut mushkil ho jata hai, usse suffer karna mushkil ho jata hai.
Explain in deep plz
@@lalitthuwal9679 I can't explain u, sry
U r right. Toxic relationship se bahar nahi nikalne dega woh, jiban ko raakh bane ke rahega
Sahi bola rhi ho... I can't yarrr nhi nikal paa rhiiii meeeeee
i cant leave
I can compltely relate to this................i was in a toxic relationship it was of 12years....it was suffocating....i lost myself i lost my self confidence i lost my existance i was compltely controlled by him....what i thought that moment was his care but no it was his posssessiveness his dominating attitude....he killed me deep inside....i was ill mentally i was in depression i went through hell............what u said is true...damn true every single word is true cz i have experienced it every day was a nightmare every night was a journey to hell.....
😢
Yrr exactly same yahi sab attitude usk andr h full dominating attitude over possesiveness and ruling attitude mere hisab se jeena h tujhe m jo kahu vo krna h ab bilkul bardash nai hota mujhse.
@@ishashroff1745 i donno how u r handling....but trust me....u have to end it by yourself....otherwise it will end you....humari hi galti hai...humne hi unlogo ko starting se mana nahi kia ki q sune sab baat tum logo ki...har baat bina soche samjhe mante chale gaye out of love care ka tag de de kar....lekin now jab wo log humse hamari freedom le liye infact hum din me kitne saans le wo v unke hisab se hone laga tab hume suffocation hone laga.....its toxic dear u cant live like that.....hume lagata hai unke bina nahi reh sakte qki unke alawa hume itna pyaar koi nahi kar sakta par kya humne kisi or ko moka dia hai hume pyaar karne ka....moka do move on come out of it.
@@suravidey5068 so true yrr suravi dey bht sahi bola yrr tumne
@@suravidey5068 m ek ek baat relate kr skti huu yrr it's really so painfull
Very rightly said, it’s the irony that the person takes your goodness for granted, and use your innocence as a weapon to satisfy their so called EGO., and it’s true, this kind of bond is beyond Repair. A toxic person will load you with guilt, insecurities, non-answering attitude, etc., and will keep you in a forever loop of keeping you badly and not living you in peace. It’s all you need to find the strength to leave such a kind of bond, because it’s just this kind of person is not right for certain kind of individuals. It’s just that a soft, innocent, sweet and non- manipulative person can’t handle such beings. It’s always better to grab your strength and fight with odds, pull yourself out and move on. It’s better for both. The moment you decide to move on, decide not to look back, sometimes there is no turning back. It’s just over. Don’t evaluate, what went wrong and why it turned like that. Some relationship are not meant to happen, they just teach you what you lack inside you, just hold yourself strong, embrace all the learning and move on. It’s better to let go certain relationship for your own betterment.
Very very true.
This is so true
Same happening with me from ten years and i have one son also so i am not being able to move on...what can i do
I believe society is mostly responsible for this suffering.
Wow
Toxic relationship is like holding hot rocks in our hands and throwing it to others , we get hurt only .💞
this is soo much true
Can anyone of you can talk with me in insta I will share my problem by which I am struggling from 2 years if anyone can listen to me then please
I just need an opinion from an unknown person that's why please
So pretty well penned narc disorder 😢🎉
Add something healing as well. I also used to write poems but started hating it because it made me negative personally.
@@sthakur47 right brother Narcissist personality ko hi love relationship language me toxic relationship khte h or
har ladki ke pass appke jesa bhai hona chahiye. really ur fabulous
mene to aapki vedio dekhne se pehle hi toxic relation ko chor diya tha but thoda regret feel ho raha tha but ur vedio make me feel well and confident. thanks for the great vedio
Bhai kyun boy friend kyun nahi ..tum ladkia ekdin toxic ladko ke haat hi marogi 😂😂itna pyaar toxicity se waah.👍👍
Sir ap bohtttt sary logo ki help kr rhy hn in videos k through.....Allah ap ko bohttttt sari khushyan dy
Sach me yrr ...meri bhi yhi wish h yrr
Mre taraf se bhi yahi duya hai
Aameen
Aameen
Thank u sir main BHi nikal nhi pa rhi thi ....apki video se himmat Mili hai bhot.❤
Why is it so hard to forget the good memories given by bad people😶
bcoz wrong people did the things in the right way😑😑
True Woh Jante Hai Kab Kya Krna Kab Kya Bolna Hai
I truly feel your words to the deepest level.
So deep
I can't remind any type of good memories 🤣
Loved this topic. I am married but in a very toxic relationship. He doesn’t want to let me go. He doesn’t want to change anything. He lies,cheated in the marriage even after 21 years..He doesn’t agree for counseling of any kind either. He has never ever respected me or the marriage. I have always been nothing to him, always 2nd choice and just 2nd option. I watched your videos on cheating and they really inspired me. Your videos help me a lot. Keep inspiring us. God bless you and your family.
Hi sis same mera bhi yhi haal hai 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I ended that toxic relationship which always give me mentally depressed 😣 all the time ..
Same problem😭
Kaise kr liya yrr....bht brave ho ap plz mujhe b koi advise do Mai kya kru he threads me ki ghr pe sb bta dunga nuksan phchaunga mai ek second be ni rhna chahti uske sath pr dr ji wjh se kuch kr ni pari plzzz koi solution btao
@Zasha writes hey if you're still in that relationship tou pls kisi family member ko involve karo aur usse sab batado is baray main, wo apko support karega is sab se deal karne main. Doosra yeh ke wo banda apka kuch nahi bigar sakta us se darne ki zarurat nahi. Say good bye to him and block him from everywhere and MOVE ON. 🙏
@@zashawrites3251parents k saamne juth bolna ki ye mere piche pda hua hai
maanna hi nii ki tumhara koi scene tha iske saath
wo sirf tumhe dra rha hai
sim change krdo aur zero contact rkho
aur agr koi mutual friends b hein toh unko b Tata bye bye krdo
jo frnds hote h iss case wo aur situation khraab krte h idr ki baat udr krke
phir ek do saal baad uss bnde ko automatically hichak hogi tumse baat krne mei wo khud hi side ho jayega
zero contact is best solution
sb logo se jo directly indirectly involve hein
Same here 😢😢😢
I don't know how to express these thing but when I see a temple I only ask for mental peace and some happiness 😢
I'm too
Aap bhut cute lg rhe ho sir😍😍
When u say tum pagal ho jaoge bimar pd jaoge dimagi rup se i don't know why but I'm crying these topic...Thank you so much sir itni care krne ke liye☺🥰.. God aapko hmesha happy rkhe☺☺
Thank you so much sir.. Main bhi toxic relationship main 1 year se suffer kar rahi thi🙂
Apki video Dekh kr mere face pr smile aa gai hai boht politely ap smjhate ho❤
Aapki baat meri maa ki baat ki tarah exact lagi Aaj ki bhagwan ishara de rahe hain ye inshan tere liye sahi nehi hai
Thank you so much sir for this beautiful soul relaxing video
God bless you sir
Aise hi video banate rahe taraki hoti rahe aapki
Absolutely true
👍 No respect means no pyar
I have been in this toxic relationship from almost 2 years,but i stop talking and blocked him for a week it's hard to move on but your video gives me so much strength and motivates me alot,still he calls me from different numbers but i don't pick, he blackmails me all the time,he has ruin my life.thank you bhai your videos are always everything.
@@Artistic_apron7 block him
Kese sambhala apne khud ko
@@ishu02525 i, tried my best.i started spending most of the times with family and friends and shared my problems with them and it really worked
I want to do that but he blackmails meeeee💔💔💔💔
He showed me that his happiness is because of me, he was good at talking, making me laugh initially. But in 6 months of our relationship, we fought many times and did patch up again and again.
because I don't want to hurt him and left him sad also he got a fever or low Blood pressure many times after the fight which makes me emotional. He kept on blaming me for every argument, every fight. I was tired of it. I was not allowed to leave I felt stuck. He said unexpected bad words to me in anger saying that I made him do that. Every time I decide not to look back he came up with a new tactic in the name of love. All good memories make me weak that they can be sorted out. But how many times? In one month there were 10 moments of argument and fight. He told me I will never have a good relationship ..all his bad words lowered my self-confidence. I feel bad. I decided again to move on but it is so difficult. It would be better for both of us.
I am in the same situation.
Tysm aaj main bhut better feel kar rahi hun same situation hui hai mere sath or ab main bahar hun or aapki videos dekhti hun .aese log n pyar nhi kar sakte hai bas aapko control karnege or aap kabhi bhi kush nhi rahe paoge ty shiv ji🙏
Maine Aaj hi toxic relationship ko aaj khtam kar Diya...usne mujhe bahut...maine pyar bahut kiya usse ..mental peace khatm ho gaya...abuse... Mental and physical torture kiya.... paise or mobile dono hi gaye ..only one sided love .tha .😢😢😢😢😢😢
Be obsessed with ur future brother.. U will rock in ur future 🔥
Thank you so much 👍
Same condition bro but Mai ye sab nahi nikal paa Rahi hu😢😢
Wow❤
@@umking1952 nikal sakti ho aap in sab situation se aapko khud realisation karna hoga. Or ye toxic relationship toxic behaviour karne wala person mentali ill hota h unhe ek type ka personality disorders hota h jise (NPD) khte h
aap NPD par deatails k liye RUclips pr soul groth, saryut anand, kashika Jain , Bashir sir ke videos dekho apko bohot help hogi in sb situation se heal hone m
Thankyou so much Anubhav ji 😊mene Aaj hi is toxic riste ko khatam kr diya or new life ki taraf Jane ka fesla liya
Sahi kaha apne dipress pagal kr dega ye baat samjh aagai 😊 thankyou
Hii apko vo msg nhi ker rha ky breakup ke baad plz reply
Sir meri life me toxic relationship hai or ab mne stand liya hai aapke video se mujhe motivation mila hai thnku so much sir stay safe n stay possitive
right bro... as much as one want to fix it.. it gets more complicated... you r 💯% right bro... we all need to finish such toxic relationship whether one is married or not.. doesn't matter.. jst get out of it...
Thank you so much Bhai main Kuch mahine pehle hi toxic relationship se bahar nikla Hu abb mujhe koi aisi ladki dikhi hai jiski simle ki wajha se mere chere pe dubaara smile wapas Aaya hai 😊❣️
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 wait bhir aayenge aap video dekhne😂😂😂😂😂
@@poonamverma5500🤣😂
Bilkul samj a gayi sir mere sath yhi sb ho rha h. Or mujhe himmat mili h ab apne liye step lene ke liye
Bhai Tum mere upr kya team lga kr bethe the kya bilkul sach baat bolre ho 😶 respect you brother literally a huge respect brother ❤️
When i trying to control toxic relationship i also become toxic now we both are toxic🙂
Us movement
Same wit me
@@alishasutting6587 i can understand.....kitna b kosis krle we can't get out of it ....jab bhi chhod k jana chahti hu emotional attacks hote h mr jaunga nhi reh skta ala bla.... Bs bolna easy hota h ki chhod do but Krna utna hi mushkil 🙂
@@Itsshikha00really????
aur aise chutiye aadmi k saath full lyf nikaalogi toh wo maar kutai b krega
agr toxic insaan k saath rehna hi hai toh arrange marriage hi krlo
dekho chodna mushkil hai pr namumkin nii hai
3-4 months k baad koi right one dund lena
aur tumhe wo toxic insaan bhul jayega aur tum nafrat krogi aise insaan se jisne tumhara valuable tym waste kia
have some mercy on urself
film nii h lyf ki toxic insaan change ho jayega
@@__swasti_2316 maine bahut try kr liya.....pr vo jane ni deta vo ab b block kiya hua maine sbkuch khtm krne k liye hi....lekin muje pta h vo kuch b krke bat krega mujse pehle dhmki deta tha ki tere bhai ko btau mere sath shadi ko bolke kaat k jari h mera.....fir Maine usse drna chhod diya bola jo krna h kr....to ab rone lgta h even do bar pair pkd k b mafi maang chuka mujse....he gives me abusing most of the time or jb m rishta khtm krti hu isi baat pe to pair pkd leta h mere ro roke bolta h aage ni kru aisa
Going through a rough phase..can totally relate to the words.. becoming mentally unstable ..my partner is always blaming me for everything.. the understanding is totally lost ..
This is so relatable with me I move on from toxic relationship recently after 2 yrs of relationship...firstly I have not control myself to talk with him for that I keep my phone with my parents and now after 20 days I feel better,and I know my importance I used to love myself ..this is all happen bcoz of my supporting parents
Thanks God you save me ❤❤❤❤
Bhai..apne mere Dil ki baat bata di...
Main ek toxic relationship me hu. Pichchle 2 saalon se lekin aj chorunga aj chorunga karke karke.. daily basis me mera mental health khrb ho raha hai 😭😭
Usko is chiz ka ghantaa fark nhi padta..
Mujhe chorna padega mere life ke liye..
Yeh relationship kabhi thik hone wala nhi hai 😭😭😭
Main bhi😢
Same mere sath bhi ayesa hi hai
Thankyou so much ❤️ it's very hard to let go but it's very important to come out of any toxic relationship.
That was wonderful guidance 💯 each and every word is so damn true... Sending blessings to those who r stuck in such kind of situations....🙌🙌
I can't get out from this situation 🥺. I always feel I can't live without her. But she doesn't care. I don't know what to do next..
May your blessings work for me.
@@shibambanerjee8same bro
True true 💔 God gave me signs every time to get rid of this now I am safe
Mjhe bhi ek mauka Mila tha ,,, lekin main nhi nikal paaya 🥺
How????
I m suffering from same things. That person made me like m only for him. And now after a long time he says don't bother me I will talk to u when I want but u don't need to make calls .N also says don't talk to other person.he wants me whenever he feel needed else he doesn't need me. N today I left him and won't go again to that selfish person. U r right. They don't want us they only hv addiction of us .So they can use us whenever they feel needed
True that..
You have so much of courage that u left him.
I wish i could do the same thing.
But i am still hoping he will change one day
There is not a single point u missed out . Got this video at the right time.. Toxic relationship is like waiting for the dream hope to happen but eventually its not at all going to happen😖.
☹️
Sahi baat hai yrr
Right
Thank you so much bhaiya for this video mere sath v same aaisa hi horha tha par mai finally free hogai inn sabse mai v usse bahot pyaar krti thii parr wo nhi aapki video dekh k thoda sukoon mila maan halka hogya❤ but ek chiz aacha tha hum dno kabhi physical nhi huwe the long distance relationship me the hum
Today I wanna share my story.. I was in a relationship with a person during the first lockdown.. A lot of things happened during that time.. At first he was like this guy who is shy, well behaved and everything. As soon as lockdown entered I needed space and me-time.. He would always act clingy and react in tremendous ways if I didn't give him time.. One day I was spending time with my family when he video called me and started drinking poison in front of me.. I had to immediately contact his big brother.. After many many many tries I finally broke up but somehow could not leave that person. I felt guilty for mistakes that I did not do. He acted as a victim telling his friends only half of the story. After 2 years of brkup. He has moved on. And I still feel a tremendous fear to share my life with someone. I feel I need to go back because I invested so much. Recently I got disrespected by him and his new gf.. Someone gathering my respect I backed off.. Having a hard time letting all this go from my head and moving ahead in my life.. I feel ppl are talking and laughing at me.. I feel I need to hide in order to be safe.. Knowing such ppl exist in the world scares me a lot.
Bhut hi complicated h....same story...i was also in a toxic rltion
@@ashishkumar-tn8nc sorry to know that
Sending love your way girl ❤️
Give yourself sometime🧘♀️🕉️
@@sunrisenaturebells7281 thank u so much 💗 i am in a much better place right now..
प्रेम प्रेम सब करें,प्रेम न चिनेह कोय!!
ढाई आखर प्रेम का पढ़े जो पंडित होय!
जो व्यक्ति आपके जीवन पर छा जाने को आतुर है,जो आपसे आपकी आजादी छीन लेने को आतुर है,तुरंत समझ जाना चाहिए कि ये व्यक्ति हमारे उपयुक्त नही है।
प्रेम कोई बाहरी घटना नहीं,ये बिलकुल भीतर की घटना है।
Real lover sets you free, fake ask you to bond with him😢
Thanku sir it helped me. Kyuki mein ek aise relationship m hun jahan rishte ko mein hi smbhaal rhi hun iss Relationship n mujhe emotionally bahaut weak bna diya but aab lgta h ki mujhe hi koi move le k isse bahar aana hoga aur ek nayi shuruaat krni hogi.. Thanks a lot Sir
heyy
He can't understand me... I am becoming weak day by day...in every arguments he treat me like I have been wrong always.. Every single day he tries to control me again and again... And it's really hurting both physically and mentally......
Just for a person we should never forget our worth our importance....time heals everything but you should fight with such toxic situations without fear and doubts... Yes you can ✊
I know how much I suffer form last 1.5 year but he can never change I just want same time ki meri life ki sabse badi galti uske sath relationship me ana tha yaad ata hai ki kabhi ap khush the but vo sirf pretend karta hai vo suru ase hi hote ho I just want ki agar ap relationship me ase toh chod do nhi toh ap life time Kai truma me rahoge
Same sister relationship sa bhar nhi nikla ja rha
We tend to hope that this time it will get better, but each and every time it is just getting worse. Disrespect is the key feature of every toxic relationship. I hope people who are watching this video, soon get out of their toxic relationships.
I ended that relationship today, I identified him so quickly thank you God after 3-4 months
Thank you God
Thank you I'm brave enough to protect me
Kash mene v phle chor dia hota......
Thankyou so much for motivating me , I'm also suffering from toxic relation. Saari unhi cheezo se guzar rhi hu jo aap bta rahe hai, ab mujhe bhi is relation se bahar nikalna hai or ek new zindagi ki suruat krni hai thankyou so much for motivation.
By looking the comments i understand that not only me,also there are many who suffered the same problem that i am facing now😔...but how to get out of it🙂how can i control my feelings,love,care for him🙂how can i forget al the memories of past 3 years 🙂
Aap kitne achhe se samjate ho saari baate 🥰
Tq sir for lesson i love my gf more n I ll never cheat her but this adays day i m lttle possessive nw after watching ur video i ll rlly do respect care n understand her once again thank you sir,❤️
Dil se thank you 🤗🙏🏻bhut bda wala thank you syed thanku bhut chota word h es video k liye ♥!
Feeling really relaxed suffering from a tocix relationship from a very long time eveyrtime a bunch of abusive words thrown upon me
I became fed up with it and confused that how to get rid of it
Your video help me mould my life in another direction
Thank you so much sir main bhot jyada depression main thi kuch smj nhi a rha but ab main smj gai hoon 😊 thank you smjane k liye
Aisa lg raha h ye video mere liye hi bani h
Ek ek word sach hai...,please jo bhi aise insan ke saath hai khud ko jitni jaldi ho us insan se alag kr len...,aise log hamari mental health per bhot hi bura prabhaw chhod kr jate h
Can I talk to you?
@@Zordaar_padmarey yes bro why not?
Sir you're a really great motivator for all us. God bless you with happiness and good health❤🙏
Thank you so much. This helped me a lot. Vh mujhe aise bolta tha ki jaise hmesha galati meri hi ho... Jabki hmesha hr bar vh jgra shuru krta h mai hajar bar bolti hu ki mujhe jgra nhi krna phir bhi.. Aur agr koi chiz vh krta h th uske hisab se vh sahi h lekin agr same chiz mai karu th mai glt ho jati hu, bolta h ki mai badla le rahi hu... Hmesha bolta h mai chahti ki vh meri life se chala jaye jb ki maine kabhi aisa bola bhi nhi.. Hmesha jgra hone k bad maine use sorry bola.. Us bande k muh se ajtk sorry bhi nhi bola gaya.. Insb chizo se meri mental health p bhi bht asar pada.. And i decided to leave kyuki uske sath rehne ka mere pas ek bhi reason nhi tha.. Uske sath rehti hu th aisa lgta hai jaise life is hell, and without him i am in peace. And this is me ,choosing myself and my mental peace over my love for him. Easy nhi tha lekin rehne ka koi reason bhi nhi tha.
Mere sath bhi aisa hi ho rha pta ni kya kru yaar mera to 6 year ka relationship tha
I can complete relate with this
Thank you so much bhaiya ab jake mujhe reality samjh aagyi hai sirf aapke wajah se 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Sir, this type of videos suits you a lot instead of story telling.
This is the bestest side of your's or can say that you have explored another dimension of your's.
Keep it up,stay blessed.
Much love and respect.
❤❤❤💐💐💐🍫🍫🍫❤❤❤
Anubhav sir thank you so much from the bottom of my heart❤ aapki is ek video ne mujhe phir se ek nyi life de di.. Main apni relationship me female partner ke emotional torture se enxiety me tha and iska asar meri pdhai and work dono. Pe. Pad. Rha tha but thanks ❤❤❤❤ you aap. Mere liye bhagwaan ki tarah aaye
Aapki. Is. Video ne. Mujhe himmat di ki main kaise gande riste se bahar aau aur ye bhi sikhaya ki pyar and foolishness alag alag hain... Because I am just 25 year old and kabhi life me itna experience nhi kiya to mujhe lagta tha ki bas love hota hai and aapse judne se phle main ye hi nhin janta tha ki toxic relationship jaisa bhi kuch hota hai
But aapse jana ki sach me main jis relation me hoon wo sach me Topxic hai Kabhi aapse mulakat hui to aapse jaroor Share krunga apni story... Thank you love you a lot sir.... for saving my life
100% relatable thank you I needed this ❤
Love your voice sir ❤️,big fan 😍😍
Thanks so much bhaiya.... Aap sab sahi bole h...bus me in sab se bahar nikl pau
Thank u sir I understood about Toxic relationship
Thank you so much zindagi jeene ke liye Rasth milega ap kisi toxic per one lesson
Very true🙂...Sir make video on how to forget someone after going out from the toxic relationship pls sir ❤️
No ....it can't possible that means person left but only memories can stay with u...
So u can make urself bg n try to remove him but it can't possible 🦋
Give some time to your soul , keep busying yourself with some productive works ... One day you will feel so happy and give yourself thanks for coming out from this toxic relationship.... Have a beautiful journey sis ❤️❤️❤️
Did You Forget him ??
Do no contact rule for 1 month
@@samsunnaharbeauty8795 but it's very hard.
Sir mai kya bolu Mai Aaj hi puri tarah se bhr aayi hu 3 saal k extreme toxic rltn k baad bhut problem Hui bhut dhamkiya bhut torture Hui aapne shi kaha bs himmat ki deri hai ...
I learned a lots by watching this video today.tq so much🙏
Thankyou sir main apne ap ko barbaad kr rha tha par apne mujhe bht motivate Kiya ki uske alawa v family h jo mujhse bht jada pyar krte h
Saw this notification of this 🤭came to see this ❤️ really love all the video.🦋. especially love your voice 🎤🎶.
🥺❤️
Bhaiya aap ki video se bhut umeed milti hai life me aage kuch karni ki ❤❤
Your words hit me hard,Totally relate 🙂💔☑️
Itna sahi kaise bol sakte h aap but u r really true. Thanks.
You're very good and supporting ❤️🥀
I am watching this video after getting in a toxic relationship. Thanks for the counselling.
Thnk uh so Much anubhav sir😭❤
Mujhe es video ki hai jarurat thi bohot waqt se..... U r my inspiration... My guruji.... Bht bht thnq ❤
Aap sobse best ho.... 🔥
Now I will change my life.
Thank you for this
I am single mai aj tak kisi bhi relation me nhi rhi hu, thank god k mujhe ye sab se pala nhi pada
Kab karoge
Good
Aap jo bhi kaha vo 1000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000% true. Aise toxic relationship me khali carrier aur mental peace khobhaithna nhi balki jaanse mardalniki khata bhi hosaktihai bina doubt..... maine face kiya ye sab. I realized and came to know the truth after 24 years of suffer.😒🙏
Bht bht dhanyawad.🙏
Each thing you say and explain by you is so awesome.. Thank you sir.. Love you voice
Vy tune meri dil ki awaz ko sunliya aur ilaz vi bata diya, thank you for your precious advise ❤u
Hey bro... I order ur book after my friend's suggestion and received it yesterday. I started reading this book from 9 am and finished this just before 10 minutes ago... everything u have written is 99% relatable with my love story...how u both started talking to how she left u dying alone....I want to meet you in person...can u tell me the name of ur City so when the lockdown is over I can meet u ....I am over excited to meet u .
Name of book?
@@whoisaakashh why not me
Jab se apke video dekhay hai tb se bahut kuch sikha thanku so much sir
11 minutes in heaven ❤
Memories hai jo hume usko vulne nhi deta. Aur varosa jo kiya hai uska kya wo bhi to hai
Yes I'm in a toxic relationship
Correct sir insan ka matlb nikal jata fir bo yesa he krta hai shuru mee sb aacha chalta lekin aage ki koi parwah ni thi usko sirf ek matlabi insan tha bo
Thank you sir for help me to get out this toxic relationship
Sir I request you to make a video about "how to deal with a partner who only wants physical relationship or is in a sex addiction."😣 Please I am going through very confusing relationship ..please sir help with a RUclips video as soon as possible 🙂
yes sir plzz make a video
What 🙄😑
Yes sir... Pls make a vedio
You should stop that kinda relationship..
And wait for the person who will love your soul more than your body. Becoz at the end you won't get anything from this kind of relationship.
Find a person who Would respect you nd do care for uhh. It's better to live alone rather than staying with a person who is just using you .
Pyaar koi sex nhi hai...aagr aap aisa relationship mein ho jissay aapko sirf or sirf physical hona par raha hai ya phir sex addicted ladka toh apko chor dena chahiye because yeh aapko pyaar nhi karta yeh sirf aapka jism se Krta hai or jo ladka jism se pyaar karta hai woh ladka kabhi bhi koi bhi ladki se pyaar nhi karega or naa usska ho payega......so better hai akele rahiye...
Thank you so much himmat dene ke liye
Thank you so much 🥺🥺🥺❣️❣️
Yes bai vo kbi nhi subrskta, m bdlu g apne app ko m bhr niklu g esw ek new life ki surwt kru g Thank you ❤
Me khud esi chij se nikla hu .bhut kuch seekha
Suruaat me kisi ko jyada importance mt do
Anytime available mt raho
Koi bura man jaayega manne do mt dro
Khud ke liye jo sahi hai vo kro
Khud ki khusi dekho duniya jaaye bhaad me 😎😎😎
Jeena hai to khul kr jiyo Dr ke jeene me kya rakha hai
Bht bdiya baty btate h ap wo srf jakad kr rakhna chahta h na chhorta na bat krta bs jkd na chHta h thnx
To be honest I was so confused and I was stuck in my problem but after watching this full video at the end i smile and feel happy after a long time❤
❤Thank you sir for your amazing video
Aap ka videos hum ko bohot help kardiya... Thank you so much...
Osm sir 👍
Thodi himmat dene k liya thank you bhai
How to get out of toxic relationship who hv kids..... And family is pressurizing to be in that relationship bz of prestige??? Please give solution to this......
Sir jisne bhi aapki ye video pure man se suni hogi na vo jarur end mai muskurak uth gaya hoga.....osm video
Wow...true lines❤️
Ap bht logo ke help krrhe ho... Allah apko kaamyaabi den🤲🏻🤲🏻