1.Emotional manipulation 2.Lack of communication 3.jealousy and controlling 4.Stop trying too hard and give time to the relationship 5.Real vs Reel 6.effect of patriarchy on both genders.
Jis society mai hum rehte hai, us society mai rishte ko majboori mai nibhaane ki training di jaati hai. Mai toh hmesha se ye sochta tha ki kuch saal pehle tak hi 2 anjaan log ek dusre se shadi kar lete hai, woh ek dusre ko thik se jaante bhi nhi hote aur physical ho jaate hai, kaise bhai? Mujhe aaj tak is sawal ka valid jawab nhi mila.. bas ek hi baat hmesha ki kyunki sab aisa karte hai tum bhi karo, yahi sanskaar hai.. aur usi ko pyaar ka naam de do.. fir samay ke sath jab klesh badhte hai toh nibhaao jaise taise.. aji ghante ka samaaj hai ye, khud ko sanskaari samjhne wale log ye sab karte hai.. is se lakh guna acche woh log hai jo ek dusre ko jaan kar samajh kar ye decide karte hai ki unhe saath rehna chahiye ya nhi, aur rishta toxic ho toh woh log kam se kam discuss toh karte hai rishte k future ke bare mai, insan apni voice toh utha sakta hai... Lekin sala yahan ke jaahil log ghut ghut ke jeene ko, toxic rishte ko bhi ghaseet ghaseet ke chalane ko achievement samjhte hai, aur sochte hai jodiyaan toh bhagwaan ke ghar se banti hai🤦
Pehle ke log ek dusre se kvi ni mile the phir v aaj itne age tak sath tik rahe hai. Pr ab log living me reh kr v shadi ke bad kalesh kr rhe hai.. to much difference 😂
@@poojamaurya8456 Yahi toh dikkat hai madam, tumhare liye sath tikna zyada zaruri hai, lekin ye zaruri nhi ki woh shanti aur khushi se sath hai ya nhi. Sabse bada sawal toh yahi hai ki, 2 anjaan log, jo ek dusre ke bare mai lagbhag na ke barabar jante hai, woh shadi ke agle din hi physical ho jaate the, sabse badi haiwaniyat toh yahi par ho gayi, aur tumhe ye odd nhi lagta.. tumhe maloom v nhi h ki 2 logo ka physical hona koi khel nhi h, lekin kyunki tum aisi society mai trained ho toh tumhare liye ye ok hai..aur jahan tak rishte ke lambe tikne ki baat hai, kabhi gaur se dekhna woh rishta lamba tika kis liye, pyaar, understanding, discussions ki wajah se ya is wajah se ki ab shadi ho gai hai toh nibhaana hi hai, bhale hi vichaar hmare na milte ho, lekin society k pressure ki wajah se sath toh rehna hi hai. Pati sharab pita ho, uska charitra accha na ho, na hi uska behaviour accha ho tab bhi logo ne jabardasti ghut ghut ke us rishte ko nibhaya hai, aur tumhe ispar proud hota hai..tum jaiso ko hi toh sunaya hai maine apne main comment mai.. khair fayda kuch hai nhi, aap logo ki akla ka daayra itna nhi hai, isiliye aap meri baato ko comprehend nhi kar paaoge.
@@poojamaurya8456 Mai mature logo ke perspective se baat kar rha hu, 15-16 saal ke baccho ki baat nhi kar rha hu.. sensible rahiye thoda, kuch bhi bol rahe ho mtlb
Sab moh maya hai, be single and love yourself. You do not need anyone especially in the 21st century to depend on anyone for your financially, emotionally or spiritually.
@@Magic73805 bhai, 140cr ki abadi wale desh mein, aur log nhi add krna hai mujhe, i m purely biological, but , biology is not everything, look around you, so many miserable people,making their kids miserable,making them conform to societal standards,literally choking them to death on the name of customs and traditions. Meri taraf se ram ram
वो क्या जिए इस जिंदगी को, जो जिए कल में कहीं हर सांस आती एक पल को, हर सांस हर पल है नई है धूप थोड़ी एक क्षण को, है छाव फिर आती कभी हो जिंदगी पर क्या भरोसा, है आज या तो कल नहीं ।।
Maine kal hi apna relationship toda hai jo bahut hi toxic aur controlling tha. Jo bat sir bataye hai wo bat apply ho rha tha. Maine bat karna chaha lekin nahi kiya. Ye sab 2 sal se chal rha tha. Finally maine bol diya ki mujhse ab nahi hoga. Love you sir ❤
Bol to diye pr dekhna uski habit. Itni pad gyi hogi n ki ye sab gyan ki bate kuchh kam nhi krega....aane wala time bahut hard hone wala h ...may be wapis bhi jana pde😢😢
@@nancydubey5178 i agree but ek baar aap strong mindset ke sath chalte hai n tab ye sab piche chut jata hai. Agar fir bhi wo baat aapko sata rhi hai eska mtlab aapka faisla strong nhi hai. Lekin sab log aisa nhi kar sakte jaldi. Thanks
@@Mithubhai489 Happy to hear that you came out of toxicity. I don't know if it helps but try doing meditation start from 1 min and then gradually increase the duration of meditation and try to read 5 pages of any book or Bhagavad Gita. Your mind calms down and you will find peace.
Bhut km log h jo social media pe iss level ka content de It's very helpful for every generation Sir meri request h ki aaj k time pe bhut se parents v toxic behavior apna rhe h, as a generational trauma. To usse kaise overcome kiya jaye, ek baar is pe v explanation ya apne tarike se hm young generation ko smjaye
Mujhe lgta h ek shi relationship wo h jha p mutual respect h ...aur ek reason a ek dusre ko respect krne ka admire and usse inspire hone ka....aur good comunication ho ... emotional responsibility ho, mutual care aur willingness ho ek dusre ka sath dene ka aur relationship m ane wale chalenges ko face krne ka ......usme ek sence of personal space ho.... freedom of choices ho ....and courage to face disagreements ho bina us disagreement ko personal liye .....and most importantly trust ho aur constant curiousity ho ek dusre se kuch alg janne ki ...... I don't know these kind of peoples even exist or not .... I'm a 22 year old girl and i always think like this...but I never met someone who has these values....sb bolte h ye sb real nhi h aur ye artificial feel hota h ye sb sch m ni hota emotions aise work ni krte ye to buisness jaisa ho gya..... I'm like ha to isiliye hi na life partners khte h ..... I don't know I'm right or wrong or partially right...but there is so many other things to consider.....but ajtk meri life m jitne bhi males se bat hui h ...they never agree with me not even in my family...so i think m single hi rh jaungi 😂😂😂
@@Rohitash_Bishnoi_29This give me a little hope that such man do exist..right time definitely gonna meet such person who have the same thoughts, mindset, mutual love respect loyalty and so on,, in case if not..better be single forever
And that's the thing gen z people don't understand very well, I am 22 yr too and want to tell you there is nothing called personal choice and freedom in this romantic relationship, nobody is actually independent, couple is 'interdependent' on each other For example: would you like if your partner roam in underwear all the time in the name of personal choice or freedom, if yes then your thoughts are valid and you deserve such partner but if no then sorry you are contradicting yourself We gen z people don't know what we want actually and contradicting ourselves all the time, we don't realise this, in previous generation they had sense of responsibilities and duties towards each other rather than mainly focusing on freedom and independence Those people who told you it's artificial may they are correct, because real healthy Relationship is not about freedom and independence but about interdependence, sacrifices and caring for eachother
Jb koi kisi ko sach me apnana chahta h wo kisi b trah ki pareshaniyo se ni darta... ldta h us situation se or apne aap ko apne ristey ko or apne liye hr ek decisions ko sahi proof kr k dikhata h society family sbke samne.... Or jise ni apnana hota wo RAI KA PAHAAD bnata h...😊😊
My relationship started during corana time..with a wrong number.. after 6 months we meet each other..now it's our 4.5 years relationship. I'm a student in IIT Bhubaneswar doing msc course and he is a horticulturist..now we are bg with ours own work..we talk in a day minimum 1hr and maximum 2 hours,but to till reach this label..it takes 3 years to making a base of relationship relationship like to know about each other very well, mutual understanding and trust is strong,now we make understand each other after 3 years relationship when i enter IIT,our relationship old , base is strong,we should do work with matured,we should not keep those habits like a new relationship. now it's time to love each other and more focus on our own work,now our days our going happily.
Divorce ho ya toxic relationship aukat se jada sabko is jamane me sbkuch mil jata h or isilye kisi ko khone ka dar ni ab koi compromise ni krta jo kuch hud tk sahi bhi h..aur baki bachi kuchi is social media ne krdiya to extra marital affair cheat ye sab ho rha...kul milakr mje to time sahi ni lg rha...sab samay ka khel h😢
I broke up my relationship with gf yesterday. I was feeling guilty but after watching this video I feeling relaxed. ( She was har baat pe gussa karne wali girl
बहुत शुक्रिया इन बातों को भारतीय समाज में चर्चा पर लाने के लिए और ये भी कहने के लिए की emotional manipulation parents भी करते हैं , मैं पढ़ी लिखी नौकरी करने वाली लड़की हूँ सालों साल ८ घंटे ऑफिस के वाशरूम में बैठ के रोयी हूँ पर ये नहीं समझ पायी की एक “toxic” रिश्ते में हूँ जब तक विशेषज्ञ ने ये शब्द नहीं बताया - स्तब्ध हूँ मैं अपनी बेवक़ूफ़ी और कम अक्ल होने पर काश की ये चर्चाए कुछ साल पहले होती !! मेरी समझ के बिलकुल बाहर है की यदि आप अपने रिश्ते में जूझ रहे हो तो सोशल मीडिया की दुनिया में इससे उलट तस्वीर क्यों प्रोजेक्ट करोगे ? क्या कारण होता होगा ?
a lot of layers are there ma'am, Like..humein Train kiya jata hai ki society mein izzat banaye rakhna is uttermost Thing to achieve, Pyar toh ho hi jata hai ek baar shadi ho jaye kinda baatein suni hi hongi aapne, baat lambi khinch jayegi isliye short mein yehi kehna hai ki we As societal Organism live meaningless and hollow life...bas naukri shadi bachche then unki shadi .yehi ek structure mein fit karna chahte sab .
I feel person need to work on skills and develop space for spiritual knowledge Because being in melodramatic toxic family i am fed up and unknowingly i have became like one for sometime but now i am aware by God's grace
सम्बन्ध विच्छेद को किसी भी कीमत पर बचाने का पारिवारिक जनों का प्रयास काफ़ी कामगर साबित होता है...sir कुछ समय साथ बिताने के बाद फिर से संबंधों के तनाव में कमी आता है और समय के साथ तनाव खत्म भी हो जाता है, जीवन फिर से सुखमय हो जाता है... इसीलिए ऐसा कदापि नहीं होना चाहिए कि हम परिवार/ सामाजिक स्तर पर संबंधों में विच्छेद न हो इसके लिए कोई कदम ही न उठाएं
@@dhruvdesai910 little kiddo you will realise one day... How cruel this world is. If you read the Marxist ideas they are super awesome but in practical application these ideas create states like Russian and china. Ideal relationship ideal democracy whatever whatever they only sound good.
Yes Sir you are right Maintaining calls for maturity Also ending such things at the right time is also a call for maturity I can't stress enough the need to be Real and avoid being reel'🙂↔️
sir, i am from bihar. i facing so many discrimination here related to the castesim. " their are very many ews category people told everytime without ask for anybody they told with everyone i brahmin or i am bhumihar, rajput etc. i can do anything, i distroy everything" i think they have mental desease form the genetically. please light something about on this.
Mai agr apne point of view ki baat krun to acha lga is topic pr baat hui but mai agree nhi krunga is cheej se ki koi cheej jo sirf apko toxic lgti h to apko divorce le lena cahiye. Jeetna maine dekha hai ajkl humari society mei shyd log shaadi se pehle hi boht kuch experience krne mei lg jate hai joki shyd ek boht bada reason hai shaadi ke baad pyaar na rehne ka kyuki ap sb kuch first time experience nhi kr rhe hote logon ke beech pyaar nhi rehta log chod dete h kyuki unko pta chl chuka hai ki chodna kaise hai kyuki vo shaadi se pehle hi kafi sare realtions mei reh chuke hote hai itne sare breakups dekh chuke hote hai jis vjha se unko ye decision lena mushkil nhi lgta. Baithke in topics pr baat krna acha hai lekin ground reality alg hai vjaye is cheej ko support krne ke hume solution dhundhna cahiye. Insan apni life ko jeene ke kuch raste bnaye hai jinse unki life achi kate life mei sacrifice krna pdta hai life beautiful hoti nhi h bnana pdta hai sab kuch humare hath mei hota hai or agr hum baat krein ye toxic word ki logon ki fikr ko logon ke pyaar ko logon ki kdr ko ajkl ke samaj mei toxic naam dediya hai blki toxic word ka meaning bhi nhi pta logon ko haan mai jha ldkiyon ke sath ya ldkon ke sath boht jyada glt horha hai mai uske against hun jha pr bhi violence horhi h mai uske khilaf hu lekin hum khud hi kisi rishte mei toxic cheejen mankr rishton ko todne lgenge to mujhe nhi lgta vo society mei acha mahol create krega blki hor jyada toxicity bdhegi samaj mei human values khtm hojayengi,negativity bdh jayegi hum insanon ko jitna acha smjhte hai utne hote nhi hai iske bhi bad impacts hai hope maine kisi ko hurt na kiya ho but ye mera point of view tha
इसका एक पक्ष और..? वो कैसे जाने? जो आप बताए बो तो अधूरा रह गया.., ये तो वह है जो दुनियां की चकाचौंध में उजागर है, सर काश! मैं आपसे पर्सनली इस पर विचार करती तब कुछ संदर्भ और जुड़ते.....
ek scientific term hai- 'synergy'. when the net work output by two in proper proportion is greater than the output produced by each individual at the same condition. 90:10 ya 80:20 ka partnership bannta hai ek baibahik relation mein (or any other type of relationship rather than heterosexual) tab woh chor aur victim ka relation bann jata hai. A toxic relationship. husband/wife kamata hai (80-90% work)aur wife/husband(10-20% work) usske paise marke na sirf apna pet bharta hai balki apne aiyasi ke bhi saare intezam kar leta hai.
Sir jealousy and controling behaviour ke uper ek video banaye josme kis kis tarah ji jealousy a d controll hota hai shaadi ke baad ye iske uper ek vudeo banaye khas har ladki ke uper kis tarah ki pababdiya ho sakti hai aur iska kya karan hai wo banaye video isje uper
Then why should not somebody be jealous if she roams around with you One day when she will leave that somebody You and that somebody will Start considering yourself victims of love And you both now will be jealous of a third man
@@modellocomotiveworks2215 Logic? She's my love, and I'm her love. We both can roam around with each other, we do not care if someone else is jealous. Because we aren't entitled to be with that "third person" forever. But we are entitled to be with each other, forever. Me, and my gf, we do not talk to our opposite genders, even if we do, we rarely take interest in them. And this makes our relationship very healthy, we never ever fight. A fight is very rare for us. That's how a relationship should be, until marriage! After marriage, due to jobs, interaction with opposite gender becomes common, but the girl/boy should still know the limit, and keep this professional only. But trust me, if a girl, or a boy roams around freely with their respective opposite genders, they end up fighting each other. Jealousy is a human trait, it's very common to be jealous of something, but that jealousy should not be exploited. My gf is not in love with that "third person" who is jealous. So him being jealous does not matter. My gf is in love with me, so she must take care of me, and try not to hurt me, or make me jealous. That's how a healthy relationship is! Do not teach me, it's been 9 years since my relationship. We haven't broken up, not even once.
@@modellocomotiveworks2215 People often call this "jealousy" a "red flagged trait". That's not how it works. Just because a husband doesn't want his wife to be too close with another man, does not mean that the husband is "red flag". It's his wife, it's his choice, he doesn't want anyone else to touch her wife, he wants his wife all for himself. It's very common, and this is how relationships are prevented from being broken. If either party is given too freedom, they exploit it, and end up fighting with each other. In fact, even animals showcase this attribute of "jealousy". Cats, penguins, ducks, often showcase jealousy. You cannot call this "toxic". That's dum.
The starting music of this video was very good. Can you share the link of the music. And Mr. Masijeevi, I think you have to also create video related to science just like the show of Morgan freeman through the wormhole. Your voice is great sir.
Alimony is gender neutral in our country. If your wife earns more than you don't have to give Alimony but if kids are involved then you are expected to give for your children. Kids aren't just women's responsibility. Men likely do to second marriage then women as it is looked down upon women 8f she has kids.
@@drjagritisingh6569 you are not aware how our court system works, there was one case where husband was unemployed, court give him order to do labour work to give maintenance to his ex wife, many cases are there were wife just have to say she is unemployed(without proof) and she will be granted maintenance or alimony, so it's gender neutral in books not in reality And thing about children, then generally custody is given to mother and father just become ATM machine and if he is lucky then visitor occasionally, many fathers are there who haven't seen their children in many years. Remember that Suchana Seth eth case, she kill*d her son because she don't want him to meet with his father. There is reason why only men don't like maintenance or alimony but majority women don't understand this(or maybe don't want to understand). Just live under the rock
@@SKY8435 dude majority cases are when even after assigned alimony by court , men don't provide it.there are also cases where women paid alimony, you can Google the cases since they were famous. I told you unworking wife and children you have to give alimony. Majority men don't pay alimony and likely to do second marriage. Remember there are only 1 percent divorce in our country, since women mostly depend on husband monetary and divorce is a taboo in our society.
Sir, Koi ladaka/ladaki ko "A" vyakti k sath toxic relation lag raha hey to Unko "B", "C", "D" sabhi ke sath same relation rahega, Pruthvi par koi perfect nahi hey, aur nahi esa koi couple hoga jis k bich Nokjok na hoti ho... Par agar sabhi divorce k bare me sochege to society me balance kese rahega, Kya ham itne forward ban gaye hey ki sidhe relation khatam karne pe aa jaye ... Couple agar 3rd person ko relation me enter na kare to kafi problem solve ho sakte hey, fir wo 3rd person hamare family members hi kyu na hov.... Batchit se kafi solution aa sakta hey.... Relation break hota hey to dono taraf se nuksan hota hey.... "Vasudhaiva Kutumbakam" wali hamari philosophy se down hoke sidha 30%....! Partner me perfection mat dhundho, Uski kamio k sath uska swikar karo...
Agar gf ko kisi male best friend ke saath coffee pe jana ho, movie jana akele ya trip pe jana ho. Or ham use mana kre ya uske decision ko influence kare to kya ham toxic hai? Mere khyal se sir ne saare aspects ache se cover nahi kiya hai. Prem me thode bandhan to hote hi hai isliye hi samBandh ya prem ka bandhan kaha jata hai
No you are not toxic, people just used these words to shame you and make you feel guilty Jealous, insecure, toxic, controlling etc. these are some common words to manipulate partner You are prioritising your lovely relationship and if that person(your gf) cares about others than you and your relationship then she is not one Go together and enjoy together, this is how you grow in relationship
@@sarkarinaukrinews55hahaha that's true Always priority matter, relationships are not for immature people who let 3rd person in between relationship, respect to your partner or don't be in relationship
सम्बन्ध को बचाने की अतिशय चेष्टा,
सम्बन्ध को समाप्त होने का कारण बनती हैं। ❤ 🙏🙏
Exactly ❤
Exactly
1.Emotional manipulation
2.Lack of communication
3.jealousy and controlling
4.Stop trying too hard and give time to the relationship
5.Real vs Reel
6.effect of patriarchy on both genders.
कब से सोच रही थी कि कोई इस टॉपिक पर कोई बात करे। थैंक्स सर❤
आज के जरूरत के हिसाब से बहुत ही बढ़िया topic पर चर्चा किए है सर आपने,,, साधुवाद आपको🙏
Jealousy, control wale topic pe ek detailed video ho jaye sir! These conversations are way more important than we realise!
Jis society mai hum rehte hai, us society mai rishte ko majboori mai nibhaane ki training di jaati hai. Mai toh hmesha se ye sochta tha ki kuch saal pehle tak hi 2 anjaan log ek dusre se shadi kar lete hai, woh ek dusre ko thik se jaante bhi nhi hote aur physical ho jaate hai, kaise bhai? Mujhe aaj tak is sawal ka valid jawab nhi mila.. bas ek hi baat hmesha ki kyunki sab aisa karte hai tum bhi karo, yahi sanskaar hai.. aur usi ko pyaar ka naam de do.. fir samay ke sath jab klesh badhte hai toh nibhaao jaise taise.. aji ghante ka samaaj hai ye, khud ko sanskaari samjhne wale log ye sab karte hai.. is se lakh guna acche woh log hai jo ek dusre ko jaan kar samajh kar ye decide karte hai ki unhe saath rehna chahiye ya nhi, aur rishta toxic ho toh woh log kam se kam discuss toh karte hai rishte k future ke bare mai, insan apni voice toh utha sakta hai... Lekin sala yahan ke jaahil log ghut ghut ke jeene ko, toxic rishte ko bhi ghaseet ghaseet ke chalane ko achievement samjhte hai, aur sochte hai jodiyaan toh bhagwaan ke ghar se banti hai🤦
Wow u r right bilkul sahi kaha aapne krwi sachai h shi h shi 😮👏👏
Ajkl bachpan ka pyar wala Relationships bhi shadi ke bad kalesh hi kr rahe hai bhai😂😂😂 unka hi jada divorce hora shadi toot rahi hai😂
Pehle ke log ek dusre se kvi ni mile the phir v aaj itne age tak sath tik rahe hai. Pr ab log living me reh kr v shadi ke bad kalesh kr rhe hai.. to much difference 😂
@@poojamaurya8456
Yahi toh dikkat hai madam, tumhare liye sath tikna zyada zaruri hai, lekin ye zaruri nhi ki woh shanti aur khushi se sath hai ya nhi. Sabse bada sawal toh yahi hai ki, 2 anjaan log, jo ek dusre ke bare mai lagbhag na ke barabar jante hai, woh shadi ke agle din hi physical ho jaate the, sabse badi haiwaniyat toh yahi par ho gayi, aur tumhe ye odd nhi lagta.. tumhe maloom v nhi h ki 2 logo ka physical hona koi khel nhi h, lekin kyunki tum aisi society mai trained ho toh tumhare liye ye ok hai..aur jahan tak rishte ke lambe tikne ki baat hai, kabhi gaur se dekhna woh rishta lamba tika kis liye, pyaar, understanding, discussions ki wajah se ya is wajah se ki ab shadi ho gai hai toh nibhaana hi hai, bhale hi vichaar hmare na milte ho, lekin society k pressure ki wajah se sath toh rehna hi hai. Pati sharab pita ho, uska charitra accha na ho, na hi uska behaviour accha ho tab bhi logo ne jabardasti ghut ghut ke us rishte ko nibhaya hai, aur tumhe ispar proud hota hai..tum jaiso ko hi toh sunaya hai maine apne main comment mai.. khair fayda kuch hai nhi, aap logo ki akla ka daayra itna nhi hai, isiliye aap meri baato ko comprehend nhi kar paaoge.
@@poojamaurya8456
Mai mature logo ke perspective se baat kar rha hu, 15-16 saal ke baccho ki baat nhi kar rha hu.. sensible rahiye thoda, kuch bhi bol rahe ho mtlb
Sab moh maya hai, be single and love yourself. You do not need anyone especially in the 21st century to depend on anyone for your financially, emotionally or spiritually.
@@sheetalyadav4563 tum toh biological ho hi nhi.. bina kisi ke depend hone se aa gyi orr itta badi ho gyi 😂
@@Magic73805 bhai, 140cr ki abadi wale desh mein, aur log nhi add krna hai mujhe, i m purely biological, but , biology is not everything, look around you, so many miserable people,making their kids miserable,making them conform to societal standards,literally choking them to death on the name of customs and traditions. Meri taraf se ram ram
Your comment is just an utopia...
Hello aap deserve krti Mere jaisa philosophical banda jo aapke najriye ko badal sake..😢
Sexually
वो क्या जिए इस जिंदगी को,
जो जिए कल में कहीं
हर सांस आती एक पल को,
हर सांस हर पल है नई
है धूप थोड़ी एक क्षण को,
है छाव फिर आती कभी
हो जिंदगी पर क्या भरोसा,
है आज या तो कल नहीं ।।
Maine kal hi apna relationship toda hai jo bahut hi toxic aur controlling tha. Jo bat sir bataye hai wo bat apply ho rha tha. Maine bat karna chaha lekin nahi kiya. Ye sab 2 sal se chal rha tha. Finally maine bol diya ki mujhse ab nahi hoga. Love you sir ❤
Good job bro.
Bol to diye pr dekhna uski habit. Itni pad gyi hogi n ki ye sab gyan ki bate kuchh kam nhi krega....aane wala time bahut hard hone wala h ...may be wapis bhi jana pde😢😢
@@nancydubey5178itna sach nhi bolna thaa bhiya 😊😊
@@nancydubey5178 i agree but ek baar aap strong mindset ke sath chalte hai n tab ye sab piche chut jata hai. Agar fir bhi wo baat aapko sata rhi hai eska mtlab aapka faisla strong nhi hai. Lekin sab log aisa nhi kar sakte jaldi. Thanks
@@Mithubhai489 Happy to hear that you came out of toxicity. I don't know if it helps but try doing meditation start from 1 min and then gradually increase the duration of meditation and try to read 5 pages of any book or Bhagavad Gita. Your mind calms down and you will find peace.
Bhut km log h jo social media pe iss level ka content de
It's very helpful for every generation
Sir meri request h ki aaj k time pe bhut se parents v toxic behavior apna rhe h, as a generational trauma. To usse kaise overcome kiya jaye, ek baar is pe v explanation ya apne tarike se hm young generation ko smjaye
IDEAL RELATIONSHIP SHOULD LET YOU BREATHE, AND IDEALLY, IT SHOULD LET YOU BREATHE TOGETHER❤
Thnks sir
Unfortunately, In reality there is no ideal relationship in this world 🌎.
Mujhe lgta h ek shi relationship wo h jha p mutual respect h ...aur ek reason a ek dusre ko respect krne ka admire and usse inspire hone ka....aur good comunication ho ... emotional responsibility ho, mutual care aur willingness ho ek dusre ka sath dene ka aur relationship m ane wale chalenges ko face krne ka ......usme ek sence of personal space ho.... freedom of choices ho ....and courage to face disagreements ho bina us disagreement ko personal liye .....and most importantly trust ho aur constant curiousity ho ek dusre se kuch alg janne ki ...... I don't know these kind of peoples even exist or not .... I'm a 22 year old girl and i always think like this...but I never met someone who has these values....sb bolte h ye sb real nhi h aur ye artificial feel hota h ye sb sch m ni hota emotions aise work ni krte ye to buisness jaisa ho gya..... I'm like ha to isiliye hi na life partners khte h ..... I don't know I'm right or wrong or partially right...but there is so many other things to consider.....but ajtk meri life m jitne bhi males se bat hui h ...they never agree with me not even in my family...so i think m single hi rh jaungi 😂😂😂
so that's why i am always think I'm not for this genz.😢
@@Rohitash_Bishnoi_29This give me a little hope that such man do exist..right time definitely gonna meet such person who have the same thoughts, mindset, mutual love respect loyalty and so on,, in case if not..better be single forever
And that's the thing gen z people don't understand very well, I am 22 yr too and want to tell you there is nothing called personal choice and freedom in this romantic relationship, nobody is actually independent, couple is 'interdependent' on each other
For example: would you like if your partner roam in underwear all the time in the name of personal choice or freedom, if yes then your thoughts are valid and you deserve such partner but if no then sorry you are contradicting yourself
We gen z people don't know what we want actually and contradicting ourselves all the time, we don't realise this, in previous generation they had sense of responsibilities and duties towards each other rather than mainly focusing on freedom and independence
Those people who told you it's artificial may they are correct, because real healthy Relationship is not about freedom and independence but about interdependence, sacrifices and caring for eachother
@@Rohitash_Bishnoi_29 thankyou for replying brother 🙏🏼
Right
जिससे आप प्रेम करते हैं उसे पर विश्वास करके उसको स्वतंत्र छोड़ दीजिए कभी जिंदगी में रिलेशनशिपटूट नहीं सकता है
Galatfami mat raho❤😂😂
@@2Xmusicbyrishi आप हैं मैं नहीं,नामर्द लोग स्वतंत्र नहीं कर पाते
Agree. Our society pressurises us to stay in toxic relationship rather than leaving it
Jb koi kisi ko sach me apnana chahta h wo kisi b trah ki pareshaniyo se ni darta... ldta h us situation se or apne aap ko apne ristey ko or apne liye hr ek decisions ko sahi proof kr k dikhata h society family sbke samne....
Or jise ni apnana hota wo RAI KA PAHAAD bnata h...😊😊
Sir ne sahi kaha hamare families melodramatic hoti hai😡
You understand it❤
Opposed it
My relationship started during corana time..with a wrong number.. after 6 months we meet each other..now it's our 4.5 years relationship. I'm a student in IIT Bhubaneswar doing msc course and he is a horticulturist..now we are bg with ours own work..we talk in a day minimum 1hr and maximum 2 hours,but to till reach this label..it takes 3 years to making a base of relationship relationship like to know about each other very well, mutual understanding and trust is strong,now we make understand each other after 3 years relationship when i enter IIT,our relationship old , base is strong,we should do work with matured,we should not keep those habits like a new relationship. now it's time to love each other and more focus on our own work,now our days our going happily.
जिस पर विश्वास करते हैं ,
वही तो विश्वासघात करते हैं !...
Divorce ho ya toxic relationship aukat se jada sabko is jamane me sbkuch mil jata h or isilye kisi ko khone ka dar ni ab koi compromise ni krta jo kuch hud tk sahi bhi h..aur baki bachi kuchi is social media ne krdiya to extra marital affair cheat ye sab ho rha...kul milakr mje to time sahi ni lg rha...sab samay ka khel h😢
Only when you have a good spirutual life you can have good relationship.
सर आपने बहुत ही सही और वास्तविक बात कही है । ग्रेट सर🙏
रास्ता दिखाने के लिए धन्यवाद
Filmo ne ham sab ko sapna dekhna sikhaya...but sacchai
Sir.. Best u said.. Really society ke darr se sab darr jaate hai... Agar relation sahi nahi toh alag ho jana best hai...
But what effect it will have on kid, kids will suffer more than u.
Kai bar majboori mein rishte nobhane pdte hai bcoz all women do not have strong economical backround.
I broke up my relationship with gf yesterday. I was feeling guilty but after watching this video I feeling relaxed. ( She was har baat pe gussa karne wali girl
Physical Relationship huwa tha ki nahi???
Same Mera tha bhai alag to ho gya bas abhi accept nhi kar pa rha jaise hi accept krunga ki ab kuch nhi hai to sab automatically sahi ho jayega
जहाँ दोनों लोग एक दूसरे के लिए toxic हों दुनिआ मे वही प्यार सच्चा हैं प्रैक्टिकल रहने वाले लोग धोकेबाज होते हैं सर और एक दिन छोड़कर चले जाते हैं
I agree sir ji 🙏 thank you for sharing your knowledge with us
Best video seen till now...
Sir you explained today's generation relationship dynamics very well
बहुत शुक्रिया इन बातों को भारतीय समाज में चर्चा पर लाने के लिए और ये भी कहने के लिए की emotional manipulation parents भी करते हैं , मैं पढ़ी लिखी नौकरी करने वाली लड़की हूँ सालों साल ८ घंटे ऑफिस के वाशरूम में बैठ के रोयी हूँ पर ये नहीं समझ पायी की एक “toxic” रिश्ते में हूँ जब तक विशेषज्ञ ने ये शब्द नहीं बताया - स्तब्ध हूँ मैं अपनी बेवक़ूफ़ी और कम अक्ल होने पर काश की ये चर्चाए कुछ साल पहले होती !!
मेरी समझ के बिलकुल बाहर है की यदि आप अपने रिश्ते में जूझ रहे हो तो सोशल मीडिया की दुनिया में इससे उलट तस्वीर क्यों प्रोजेक्ट करोगे ? क्या कारण होता होगा ?
a lot of layers are there ma'am, Like..humein Train kiya jata hai ki society mein izzat banaye rakhna is uttermost Thing to achieve, Pyar toh ho hi jata hai ek baar shadi ho jaye kinda baatein suni hi hongi aapne, baat lambi khinch jayegi isliye short mein yehi kehna hai ki we As societal Organism live meaningless and hollow life...bas naukri shadi bachche then unki shadi .yehi ek structure mein fit karna chahte sab .
and yeah .Dikhave ke liye jeena sikha diya jaata hai bachpan se hi .
Absolutely right sir, you are understanding current situation in young generation 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Respect is more important in relationship🖤🖤💙💙
Very informative video...with a different vision .. thankyou so much sir .
kya bat khii sir nr😇.....dil ko chhu gyi...
Rista bachana h to phone ke video ke anusar nhi apne situation ke anusar jiye
I feel person need to work on skills and develop space for spiritual knowledge
Because being in melodramatic toxic family i am fed up and unknowingly i have became like one for sometime but now i am aware by God's grace
Sir your lectures are all invaluable, but people tend today to sit a lot during the day. Better to name the programme, please stand up! 😊
Feeling so lucky 😌😌😌 because of finding true love ...
God bless
@@SheOrates 😌 thanks vroo
@@motivationexplosion5556jyaada khush mat ho 😊
@@agambansal2268 jealousy is a disease get well soon 😂☠️👽
@@motivationexplosion5556 jealousy nhi hai beta. Jaldi hi true love ka bukhar utar jayega aapka beta
सम्बन्ध विच्छेद को किसी भी कीमत पर बचाने का पारिवारिक जनों का प्रयास काफ़ी कामगर साबित होता है...sir
कुछ समय साथ बिताने के बाद फिर से संबंधों के तनाव में कमी आता है और समय के साथ तनाव खत्म भी हो जाता है, जीवन फिर से सुखमय हो जाता है...
इसीलिए ऐसा कदापि नहीं होना चाहिए कि हम परिवार/ सामाजिक स्तर पर संबंधों में विच्छेद न हो इसके लिए कोई कदम ही न उठाएं
But sir ideal relationship never exist.... Like ideal gas.... Whatever is ideal that remains ideal...... Harsh but truth......
😂
Perfect black body
There are gases which are near to the ideal behaviour similarly there can be relationship near idealness
@@dhruvdesai910 little kiddo you will realise one day... How cruel this world is. If you read the Marxist ideas they are super awesome but in practical application these ideas create states like Russian and china. Ideal relationship ideal democracy whatever whatever they only sound good.
With due respect Sir your each session is an eye opener
Yes Sir you are right
Maintaining calls for maturity
Also ending such things at the right time is also a call for maturity
I can't stress enough the need to be Real and avoid being reel'🙂↔️
Thank you sir to give me this type of knowledge to handle the relationship 😮
Toxicity tab aati h jab koi ek k loyality me Kami aati h 😂
Sir please make a video on how to stop any bad addiction properly specially
for teen agers🙏
This bloody damn good content... please make more like this...or a course to learn form you sir
Sir you make me remind my college days
sir, i am from bihar. i facing so many discrimination here related to the castesim. " their are very many ews category people told everytime without ask for anybody they told with everyone i brahmin or i am bhumihar, rajput etc. i can do anything, i distroy everything" i think they have mental desease form the genetically. please light something about on this.
ekdum such h sir ye
Thank you so much for your information 😊😊
Very nice and informational video ❤ Very beautifully expressed ✨️
Please make one on Family , sir.
❤❤❤love you sir...one of the best topic
Mai agr apne point of view ki baat krun to acha lga is topic pr baat hui but mai agree nhi krunga is cheej se ki koi cheej jo sirf apko toxic lgti h to apko divorce le lena cahiye.
Jeetna maine dekha hai ajkl humari society mei shyd log shaadi se pehle hi boht kuch experience krne mei lg jate hai joki shyd ek boht bada reason hai shaadi ke baad pyaar na rehne ka kyuki ap sb kuch first time experience nhi kr rhe hote logon ke beech pyaar nhi rehta log chod dete h kyuki unko pta chl chuka hai ki chodna kaise hai kyuki vo shaadi se pehle hi kafi sare realtions mei reh chuke hote hai itne sare breakups dekh chuke hote hai jis vjha se unko ye decision lena mushkil nhi lgta. Baithke in topics pr baat krna acha hai lekin ground reality alg hai vjaye is cheej ko support krne ke hume solution dhundhna cahiye. Insan apni life ko jeene ke kuch raste bnaye hai jinse unki life achi kate life mei sacrifice krna pdta hai life beautiful hoti nhi h bnana pdta hai sab kuch humare hath mei hota hai or agr hum baat krein ye toxic word ki logon ki fikr ko logon ke pyaar ko logon ki kdr ko ajkl ke samaj mei toxic naam dediya hai blki toxic word ka meaning bhi nhi pta logon ko haan mai jha ldkiyon ke sath ya ldkon ke sath boht jyada glt horha hai mai uske against hun jha pr bhi violence horhi h mai uske khilaf hu lekin hum khud hi kisi rishte mei toxic cheejen mankr rishton ko todne lgenge to mujhe nhi lgta vo society mei acha mahol create krega blki hor jyada toxicity bdhegi samaj mei human values khtm hojayengi,negativity bdh jayegi hum insanon ko jitna acha smjhte hai utne hote nhi hai iske bhi bad impacts hai hope maine kisi ko hurt na kiya ho but ye mera point of view tha
Bilkul sahi bola aapne
इसका एक पक्ष और..? वो कैसे जाने? जो आप बताए बो तो अधूरा रह गया.., ये तो वह है जो दुनियां की चकाचौंध में उजागर है,
सर काश! मैं आपसे पर्सनली इस पर विचार करती तब कुछ संदर्भ और जुड़ते.....
Much needed video
Wow great analysis sir
Best🎉, sharing it in my family 😅
Great analysis 👍🏻
I also in toxic relationship finally end up
Ye bahut sahi baat hai..
I absolutely agree with you sir
Ancient education system and morden education par please ak video sir🙏
Problem is - that there cameras is always on. Relationship pe dhyaan hi nhi hota. 🤑
Thank You Sir 😇👌
maa papa❤Family
You are great teacher sir ❤❤❤❤🎉
ek scientific term hai- 'synergy'. when the net work output by two in proper proportion is greater than the output produced by each individual at the same condition. 90:10 ya 80:20 ka partnership bannta hai ek baibahik relation mein (or any other type of relationship rather than heterosexual) tab woh chor aur victim ka relation bann jata hai. A toxic relationship. husband/wife kamata hai (80-90% work)aur wife/husband(10-20% work) usske paise marke na sirf apna pet bharta hai balki apne aiyasi ke bhi saare intezam kar leta hai.
Thank you so much sir 🙏
It became toxic because of ego and repitative patterns...
Also family members oor 3rd person.. Makes it worse
In india first people live for the people then expect people's to live by them
Very clear thoughts ❤
Sir jealousy and controling behaviour ke uper ek video banaye josme kis kis tarah ji jealousy a d controll hota hai shaadi ke baad ye iske uper ek vudeo banaye khas har ladki ke uper kis tarah ki pababdiya ho sakti hai aur iska kya karan hai wo banaye video isje uper
सामने वाला सुनना समझना ही ना चाहे तो बोलकर कोई फायदा नहीं है 🥲💔
My father does it to my mother and she is totally in control of him 😶
Very true Sir
Right sir 👍
Thel structure of the society doesn't allow freedom of relationship.
I beg to differ, jealousy is a human trait. It's common. Its not a toxic trait. Why would i not be jealous if my gf roams around with someone else?
Then why should not somebody be jealous if she roams around with you
One day when she will leave that somebody
You and that somebody will
Start considering yourself victims of love
And you both now will be jealous of a third man
@@modellocomotiveworks2215
Logic? She's my love, and I'm her love. We both can roam around with each other, we do not care if someone else is jealous. Because we aren't entitled to be with that "third person" forever. But we are entitled to be with each other, forever. Me, and my gf, we do not talk to our opposite genders, even if we do, we rarely take interest in them. And this makes our relationship very healthy, we never ever fight. A fight is very rare for us. That's how a relationship should be, until marriage! After marriage, due to jobs, interaction with opposite gender becomes common, but the girl/boy should still know the limit, and keep this professional only.
But trust me, if a girl, or a boy roams around freely with their respective opposite genders, they end up fighting each other. Jealousy is a human trait, it's very common to be jealous of something, but that jealousy should not be exploited. My gf is not in love with that "third person" who is jealous. So him being jealous does not matter. My gf is in love with me, so she must take care of me, and try not to hurt me, or make me jealous. That's how a healthy relationship is! Do not teach me, it's been 9 years since my relationship. We haven't broken up, not even once.
@@modellocomotiveworks2215
People often call this "jealousy" a "red flagged trait". That's not how it works. Just because a husband doesn't want his wife to be too close with another man, does not mean that the husband is "red flag". It's his wife, it's his choice, he doesn't want anyone else to touch her wife, he wants his wife all for himself. It's very common, and this is how relationships are prevented from being broken. If either party is given too freedom, they exploit it, and end up fighting with each other.
In fact, even animals showcase this attribute of "jealousy". Cats, penguins, ducks, often showcase jealousy. You cannot call this "toxic". That's dum.
Carrier ❤ first
8:39 agree with you ❤
You are right
When anger requires treatment,youtube video best
Yes sir
The starting music of this video was very good. Can you share the link of the music. And Mr. Masijeevi, I think you have to also create video related to science just like the show of Morgan freeman through the wormhole. Your voice is great sir.
Thank you sir
Thankyou so much sir ❤
Very nice to see you sir 🙏
ews cutoff is lesser than bc category. till now why they cant understand they are not great and no one is the greatest personality by birth.
1000%right
Divorce lene se nahi bhaisahab alimony or maintenance se dar lagta hai jiske karan loveless relationship jabarjasti chalani padti hai mens ko.
Alimony is gender neutral in our country. If your wife earns more than you don't have to give Alimony but if kids are involved then you are expected to give for your children. Kids aren't just women's responsibility. Men likely do to second marriage then women as it is looked down upon women 8f she has kids.
@@drjagritisingh6569 you are not aware how our court system works, there was one case where husband was unemployed, court give him order to do labour work to give maintenance to his ex wife, many cases are there were wife just have to say she is unemployed(without proof) and she will be granted maintenance or alimony, so it's gender neutral in books not in reality
And thing about children, then generally custody is given to mother and father just become ATM machine and if he is lucky then visitor occasionally, many fathers are there who haven't seen their children in many years.
Remember that Suchana Seth eth case, she kill*d her son because she don't want him to meet with his father.
There is reason why only men don't like maintenance or alimony but majority women don't understand this(or maybe don't want to understand). Just live under the rock
@@SKY8435 dude majority cases are when even after assigned alimony by court , men don't provide it.there are also cases where women paid alimony, you can Google the cases since they were famous. I told you unworking wife and children you have to give alimony. Majority men don't pay alimony and likely to do second marriage. Remember there are only 1 percent divorce in our country, since women mostly depend on husband monetary and divorce is a taboo in our society.
Sir,
Koi ladaka/ladaki ko "A" vyakti k sath toxic relation lag raha hey to Unko "B", "C", "D" sabhi ke sath same relation rahega,
Pruthvi par koi perfect nahi hey, aur nahi esa koi couple hoga jis k bich Nokjok na hoti ho...
Par agar sabhi divorce k bare me sochege to society me balance kese rahega,
Kya ham itne forward ban gaye hey ki sidhe relation khatam karne pe aa jaye ...
Couple agar 3rd person ko relation me enter na kare to kafi problem solve ho sakte hey, fir wo 3rd person hamare family members hi kyu na hov....
Batchit se kafi solution aa sakta hey....
Relation break hota hey to dono taraf se nuksan hota hey....
"Vasudhaiva Kutumbakam" wali hamari philosophy se down hoke sidha 30%....!
Partner me perfection mat dhundho,
Uski kamio k sath uska swikar karo...
Ji nhi cheater aur sharabi ko chor Dena hi behtar hai
Agar gf ko kisi male best friend ke saath coffee pe jana ho, movie jana akele ya trip pe jana ho. Or ham use mana kre ya uske decision ko influence kare to kya ham toxic hai?
Mere khyal se sir ne saare aspects ache se cover nahi kiya hai. Prem me thode bandhan to hote hi hai isliye hi samBandh ya prem ka bandhan kaha jata hai
Gf ko khud akal honi chahiye ki bf h to best Friend ki kya need?
No you are not toxic, people just used these words to shame you and make you feel guilty
Jealous, insecure, toxic, controlling etc. these are some common words to manipulate partner
You are prioritising your lovely relationship and if that person(your gf) cares about others than you and your relationship then she is not one
Go together and enjoy together, this is how you grow in relationship
@@sarkarinaukrinews55hahaha that's true
Always priority matter, relationships are not for immature people who let 3rd person in between relationship, respect to your partner or don't be in relationship
@@SKY8435 agreed
Sir plz make a video on loneliness of youths
Thankyou sir❤
Yes right
the new life 9.10.24✨🙏
Aisa kya hua
Sir I think, I am toxic into my relationship.
Exactly same happens with me.
I am trying to force to her to dont break up and all..
Thanks sir
Thankyou sir 🙏
इन सब बातों के जवाब आप लोगों के पास नहीं है
Please dipression solution video banaiye sir