During a recent podcast, this topic came out but left viewers with a lot of questions, hence uploading this here So that someone who is in the condition can be helped So do share with a person u know has been into a toxic relationship
Mera relationship bht jyada hi bekar tha maine dubara pyar kia hai aur samajh nahi aa rha Hai ki maine apna pariwar sab kuch uske liye chodh dia hai lekin fir bhi woh chahta hai ki puri family saath hi tb hi shadi ho ab kaise krenge samjh nahi aa rha hai
Mam , I want to take advice from you as I am in same condition and are of the same age group as you were . I think we both have the same story but the fact is that I feel so lonely and I want that someone gives me an advice to get over from this hell. Mam can you please help me by giving me a way to move forward in my life .
Pta nhi chalta n kisi ke face pe toh nhi likha hota ye sab chize toh dheere dheere nazar aane lagti hai Nowadays please don't don't go to in any relationship
Aise toxic log hr bar sorry bolnge hr bar mafi mangenge emotionally wo ye dikhaenge agr aapne usey chhor diya to jee nhi paenge, aur hm ladkiya hr torchar jhel k v hr bar unhe maf krte h ye soch kr ye ab aage se repeat nhi krega ab ye sudhr gya , ek chance de dete, Bt bt bt ek bat jo bilkul pkki h jisme koi doubt nhi wo ye h ki agr kisi ne aapko ek bar physically abuse kiya to 200 percent wo hr bar krega bar bar krega , ha sath me justify v krega apne violence ko situation ko blame dega kbi apni family ko kbi aapke behaviour ko kbi work place me kisi se hue anbn, taki aapko lge he has a valid reason to show his arrogance, aur kdwa pr sach h hm girls emotionally itne fool hote h ki hm man v jate h ki bechare k sath bhot glt hua h to gusse me mar diya, lekin guys ye bs uska strategy taki aap usko oppose na kro ya kro v to ek time k bad maf kr do, Aisa case mostly 21-25 k agr group k girls jo bhr khi clg me pdh rhi h ya job kr rhi h unke sath hota h, kynki ye age bhot masoom ya keh skte h psychologically immature hota h aur inhe smjh me nhi aata pyar k nam pe ye bhediye aapko exploit kr rhe h, aur family ko v nhi batati ladkiya unhe lgta sb unhe judge krnge ya usey padhai chhorni pdegi job chhorni pdegi, in sb insecurity k wjh se wo sb akele sehti h us trap se nikl nhi pati ya jb tk niklti h tb tk unke sarir k ghaw se bda unke aatma ka ghaw bnta h jo nightmares k trh Puri life unhe sone nhi deta, ek bat suggest Krna chahungi bhle aapko realise ho ya na ho lekin jb v aapke sath khaskr k phla physical assault ya forced ***** hua ho usi time us riste se nikl jaie wrna jb tk aapko realise hoga tb tk aap aise trap aise loop me fas chuki hongi jha aapko siwae mrne k kuch dikhai nhi dega, ek bat aur ye kbi Mt socho aage kese hoga sbko pta chl jaega etc etc aap jis din us toxic rishte se nikloge agle hi subah life a fresh chapter start hoga aap better decision lekr life ko acha bna paoge aur apne past ki gltiyo ko kbi nhi dohraoge, one life doesn't means one story, bhot chapters hote h ek do khrab ho jae bt ache chapter unko compensate kr dete h phir aap piche mud kr kbi nhi dekhte ho
The way your father react is reflect the love and beautiful bond between father and daughter..... You are an angel... And i hooe your this is very much useful to each gurl standing out their 🌷
@bepositive67-o3ylittlegoves might be busy...tm tnsn mt lo app apne close ones muma ya didi se btt kro..wh smjhenge..ignore that person dont meet him , attend his calls
@bepositive67-o3y look tum kisi ke liye apna life end karo usse usko koi faqk nhi parne wala ...jisse faqk parega uske baare mein socho and grow ur self busy rakho khud ko ..kuch new friends banao ,new skill sikho ek kamyaab insaan bano usse lakh gunna aache loge tumhare life mein aa jaiyenge 😊
Aisa hi mere sath ho rha hai, mere husband ne mere sath aisa kiya hai bcche b nhi de rha. Mere bcche, maa, bhai relative sbki nzro me usne acchi image bna rkkhi hai, muje na parents ka support hai na relatives ka, mai bilkul akeli hu, mera friend meri help krta hai, ek bhai bnaya hai maine lekin muje unke sath b gandi nzro se dekha ja rha hai , muje hr trf se torcher diya ja rha hai....abuse kiya ja rha hai ....manupulate kr diya hai usne bccho koo puri trh se...
I literally crying so hard.. how can a person do this with someone 💔... I'm sorry for you ❤ you beared a lot but God knows everything... He blessed you what you actually deserve ❤
I can totally relate. Suddenly after 4 years after leaving a toxic relationship, all those memories started flashing in front of my eyes. Still I don't know how I survived those terrible 3.5 years of my life. I really felt like Shivani was narrating my own story. It's very difficult to have the courage to leave these relationships, really proud of you, proud of me and all the men and women out there who survived this phase and came out gracefully. Now living the best days of my life with the best person ❤️
Stay bless my dear sister i have also seen this kind of relation but right now im single and thought if next one do same this then what i will do like fear of coming relation
Dear, one suggestion from my end to everyone is jaldi mein don't make any decisions. If you're planning to be with someone for the rest of your life, bohot soch samajh ke lena wo, Jo ki mostly teenagers ko pata nhi hota and jab pata chalta hai tab kuch kuch logo ko bohot late ho ja chuki hoti hai (example: me 😅). Dil dimag dono ki suno par future ke bare mein soch ke. Last but not the least bohot bohot thank you itna positive replies karne k liye. Wish you guys all the very best for your future endeavours❤
This is giving me the courage to speak about my toxic abusive relationship. We carry so much shame in being abused. While we take all the pain to heal. Thank you - I hail from Ranchi too and trust me Shivani ji you are the light so many of us needed. Gratitude and so proud of you.
Hey! I took stand for myself one month ago. I m married but my partner has all the three toxic points which you mentioned in ur video. I got married in 2017 and torchered physically from last 4 years. But after watching your video I feel proud of my self and on my decision. Thank you.
Can't believe how many of us go through this and how blinded we get. I didn't go through physical abuse by god's grace but was emotionally abused through cheating, betrayal, manipulation, control, gaslighting and abandonment. To all who have been heartbroken, I promise you will get over it and get stronger through all this. Recognise the red flags from the beginning, it's always there. The universe shows you signs of abuse, do not ignore and choose yourself. Lots of strength and love ❤️
Appreciate your perspective, but I know a few Jain men in my surroundings who are physically or emotionally abusive with their partners. It's not about Religion, it's just about choosing to be a good human. Every religion has good and bad people. Can't discriminate based on Religion, isn't that what Jainism teaches us as well. Jai Jinendra 🙏🏻
Cool video, My relationship of 6 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Don't fall prey to someone else because you are in a vulnerable situation. You should take out time for yourself and go on a trip, join a hobby class, or teach underprivileged children. Have a purpose in your life.
Aadya will grow up and seeing this video , she will be proud to have such a open minded mother and a raised queen. To be honest she will become bold seeing you ❤
I also came out of a toxic relationship,.. my ex was fully toxic and its v difficult to realise that its not your fault… these type of people make your life hell and then blame you only and you are always in guilt… they take all your friends away and make you lonely.. I left my toxic relationship worked on myself.. Starting developing and building myself… Did all the adventures and travelling that I wanted to do… Met the most amazing person and married him❤❤ Truly lucky and blessed❤️🧿 So girls never let anyone manipulate you… Believe me love yourself and right one will love you❤🧿🧿🧿
Didi you are best . Aftet listening your story i literally started crying 8:05 . Isase pata chalta hai mummy papa se best world mein koi nahin ho sakta❤
Adhya is so blessed to have you as mother jo ki ek acche mentor bhi ho. Thank you. And scch mey Shivani di aap sacch me bohot strong hai itna kuch aapne kaise bear kiya hoga 😢 mujhe imagine kar k drr lgta hai. Aap sbke role model hai. Bhagwan aapko and aapke pariwar ko khushiyan aur arshiwad dey taki esey logo ki parchai tk na pade.
Mene mere boyfriend deepak sharma se shadi ki, wo shuru se toxic and cheater tha. Uski bhaut affair rahe kritika, nikita, priyanka, sakshi sharma etc. Wo mujhe almost roj pitta tha, mere character ko blame krta tha. Mera weight 39 kg ho gya tha. Socide krne wali thi but apni beti ka soch kar nhi ki. 7 saal lge toxic marriage se niklne me. Aaj bht beautiful, confident, working hun. Daughter ko bhi bht ache se rakhti hun.
It's not one sided Wo khud itni achi h aur aas paas k log k sath acha behave krti h jiske badle pyar isko mila Kyuki itna lucky koi ho nhi skta Ye luck nhi ye pyar usne kamaya h
Parents hamesha achhe hote h kabhi bhi apne bachho ka bura n chahte bas hum log us pyar ko samajh n pate or sochte h k vo gussa krenge etc.. but trust me agar Puri duniya me koi apka achha chahte h vo sirf parents hote h😊
Yes you are right. I was in a toxic relationship with my mom , her colleague n ex boyfriend.... But now since I left them ... I found someone who really loves me and respect me and I'm happy with him.
This video will help many people who are about to give up in their lives. Hats off to you to overcome this, many people couldn't survive in this kind of situations.
Agar arrange marriage main husband hi toxic ho to tubh to koi bhi larki kay parent's apnay damadh ka gerahban say pakar kar nahi kehta ayenda meri beti kay sath kuch galath nahi ho , shadi kay badh bhi woh apki beti to hoti hi hai na par tubh kia hojata hai parent's ko usko uskey Hal par chor detey hain r jubh murder ko suicide keh dia jata hai tubh atey hain social media par insaf magney koi bhi abuser tubh tukh hi abuse karta rehta hai jubh tukh larki kay side say koi stand nahi laita
The best part of this video is she didn't shed a drop of tear while sharing her toxic past. Warna these for everything, people do drama on small things.
Crying or sheding tears is not drama, sensitive topic ya past ki baat karte waqt aajata hai rona, some people are more emotional, some are more practical.
@@sejaaaa true being emotional and sheding tears are fine, but now a days it has become a nack to draw TRP Or views. For genuine reasons yes, but unnecessarily using background music, few tears in eyes and slow motion all such is drama.
Ye aapki kismat hai ki aapke father itne understanding the otherwise aisi situation me parents hi apne baccho ko blame karte hain aur ye declare kar dete hain ki iska to kuch nahi ho payega.Your father was really exceptionally good father.Society ko aise fathers k bacche hi badal paate hain.Baaki baccho ki jindagi to apne father ko ye samjhane me nikal jaati hai ki wo bhi kuch kar sakte hain. You are damn lucky..!!!!
kehte hain na pehla pehla pyar main logo ko kuch samajh nhi ata log andhe ho jate hain main bhi ho gyi thi aaj se 4sal pehle almost 3year complete hone ko tha relationship hamara wo jo kehta tha wohi sunti thi usse kuch bhi nahi chupati thi pehle to wo bohot accha tha uske aur mere dono Gharo main sabko pata tha hamare relationship ke bare main 1sal jab complete huwa tha relationship ka uske bad se uska behaviour main changes ane lage uski ek na sunu toh gli deta tha kahi jane ke liye mana karta tha sadi ho ya koi function main uski sab bat manti thi ek bar unse mujhpar hat bhi uthaya tha main uski harkatose pareshan hoke usse break up bhi karne ki koshish ki lekin wo apna hat katkar mujhe black main karta tha meri friend se bhi buri tarike se bat karta tha wo itna toxic tha ki uski har bat mujhe manni padti thi main sochti thi log kiya kahenge agar usse break up hogya toh kiya bolungi meri kudh ki koi ijjat he nahi thi uske samne ekdin main ye apne aap ko khud samjha ki aab nahi jab usne mujhe logo ke samne Jalil karna suru kiya tab mujhe samajh aaya ki ye pyar hain? Jo logo ke samne baizzat karaye jismae meri koi galti bhi na ho usdin khud ko us toxic relationship se bahar nikala bohot kuch jheli uske sath relationship main rehkar Aab uski yaad nahi ati bas ghin ati hain break up ke baad usne mujhse maafi bhi mangi lekin main uski fitrat se wakif thi isliye uske sath relationship main firse nahi aayi allah bachaye eise logo se jo hamari hasti Hui zindagi ko jahannam bana dete hain Aab uski Sadi ho gyi hain aur main bhi relationship main hu aur uske sath khush hu bohot himmat chahiye hoti hain eisi situation face karne ke liye kabhi kabhi soch kar hasi ati hain ki kitni bewakuf thi jab us toxic relationship ko bachane ke liye uski har bat manti thi...
Hope this video of yours help many many girls who go through this type of relationship.Actually right after the first physical abuse the girls should break off.
This is so important...such a good message! DV is not acceptable and we girls often keep quiet because of shame but we need to stand up for our truth. God gave you this success so that you get a platform to share your story so that girls who are blindly walking into such relationships will think 100 times. Also, girls...don't take abuse from anybody verbal or physical... whether it's your in laws, their relatives, etc. no one has the right to decide who you are. And if you feel guilty because you are asking for bare minimum please understand you are in a wrong relationship and you have your entire life to so don't waste it. ❤
I didn't realise untill i watched your video that yes i was in toxic relationship. He used to have a lot anger issues . Didn't allow me to use social media apps. Its was not abuse never. But toturing me mentally. I somehow managed that time . He didn't let me to make friends and make sure i didn't talk to them . But eventually everything gets great . I'm with him . But he is the most lovable person now. He is caring from very start . But there are some things which i would say toxic but in other manner he is great . Now everything is very very good. He also accepts hi mistakes . He also supports me in almost every decisions. Whatever happens happens for good.
"Thank you for sharing your story. I’m truly sorry you’re going through this. Toxic relationships can be incredibly challenging and emotionally draining. It’s important to remember that you don’t have to face this alone. Reaching out to a medical expert or a therapist can provide valuable guidance in managing these situations and finding a way forward. You deserve to feel safe, respected, and supported. Please take care of yourself, and know that there are resources available to help you through this." Quick recap - seek medical help on priority , that will teach u to how to handle toxic people , just not your emotions - share it with a reliable resource who can guide u - learn to handle such people and first of all your emotions
I expressed this to my dad first I wanna a get out of it after 7.5years now I am 21 😂he was all 3 at the same time and an addict too of lots of things u can guess what might have gone through and also had a ghosting personality, trying to believe with the whole family that I don't look good I am fat, do't have a good body language and bla bla I should tolerate a man, I should be compassionate towards their 1st son, I am ugly his cotation was like" you are with me 'cause u won't get any boy out" and also many a times provoked me to self harm and threatened me of suicide multiple times . Verbal abuse ,sexual assault and what not?! Ohhhhh shhh of relief...... Luckily I didn't fall in the trap of marriage and that is the reason why I am still alive having 8 psychiatric meds+ counselling but yeah trying to be on my own track alone cheers to me
Heartbreaking!!! I have seen you in college and never knew that there was so much behind your lovely smile. And sorry ; i feel sad that we couldnt help you then. Be proud of where you have reached. We are rooting for you.
Thank you for sharing this story, now I know I am not only the person who went through a toxic relationship, my situation was extremely worse, but I am thankful to god I came out of that situation and moved on in my life.
Great motivation di 😢 It is really very imp. To stand for yourself and it's neever to late to end something toxic, something which is killing you day by day We just have to think once only that do our parents treat us like this if they don't then no one has the right to do so.
Thank u for standing up not even for your self... But for many women's who suffered once 🙏 Stay happy like this with your lovely family ❤ i believe when husband is loving... Women blooms out ❤
I totally agree with you, and deeply feel everything you said ❤ my story was toxic then yours.. only my mother and brother stand by me ....after that God sent an angel to hold me... Now I proudly said God plans are always better
After watching everything I just felt you because lots of thing happened in my life, but I moved on and after watching this I felt I'm on right path, happy for you 😊, God bless you ❤❤❤❤️
@@Littlegloveagar aisa husband ho toh....???ek 6 yrs old baby hai uske liye divorce mushkil lena ho raha.....mera husband ek narcissist hai...mai trap ho gayi hu.....uske gharwale bhi same uske jaise hi hai....mai life se thak gayi hu.suicide kiya toh mere bachhe ka future kharab hoga.....
She is a strong woman....such strong woman...Many should be thankful to her that she is bringing this out..this will surely lead many to break this chain where many think ye to hote rhta hai
Wow!! I have no words, I'm overwhelmed with emotions..I'm watching your funny videos for a long time but never in my wildest dreams could imagine what you've been through..In your videos with your sasu-ma, you seem bubbly, happy-go-lucky kind of a person and here you faced such trauma..Kudos to your parents and in-laws specially your husband to make you believe in love again❤❤
I loved how she narrated her story and with that she tried to convey how to recognize everything, etc. I mean v less youtubers do this thing they just yap their side of the stories and that's it. I have never faced this nor i am gonna in future because i catch red flags, abusers, etc v quickly. Also, i don't trust people that easily but Thankyou for educating us :)
Aadya will grow up watching this video and be inspired by her mother's open-mindedness, resilience, and determination. She'll witness firsthand the strength and courage it takes to overcome challenges and pursue dreams. .
dii honestly speaking I feel tears in my eyes after listen your story, you are a amazing women, now I feel lucky that I am in a perfect healthy relationship, I got many proposal from my college's students but I am glad that I didn't accept any of them, although I am in LDR but I am happy
Thanks for this video, I shatter into tears when papa wala scene came kyuki meri toxic relationship ka end bhi papa se baat karke hua tha .. am also 22 years old and wish for beautiful future like u
@@ansunibate6659see iam a male......... And iam telling you if he still talks to his ex that means he doesn't love you, why to live with such a person who doesn't love you...... Talk with your parents and file for divorce with demand for child maintenance..... As you have child with him, you have all the rights to claim the child maintenance from him
Ohh same happened with me but he was, never abuse me physically but uski harkato sw lgta tha ki vo aisa krega or maine apne papa ko uske bare me btaya like I want to marry him or mere papa ne hmari relationship ka the end krwa diya us time mujhe bhot dukh hua tha but now I'm realising that THANK YOU PAPA parents are never be your enemy love u papa❤
Bhut himmat h apmei shivani you are such a strong women 💪 ❤️, girls always suffer in their life kisi bhi age m kyu na ho lekin na ye bol skte h agar parents friendly hai toh sab kuch thik hoskta h.
Bohot din baad ek badhiya inspirational video dekhne mila, ye story bohot si girls face kar rhi hain. Plz bachcho aap log her pareshani apne parents se share karo qki aap hi unki duniya ho, maa baap ko kuch ni chahiye hota hai. Thankyou shivani and stay blessed dear .
This is so horrifying and many of us want to share our stories too but there is no one to listen and no platform….. i hope you can provide a platform and confidence in many women to come up and share
"Thank you for sharing your story. I’m truly sorry you’re going through this. Toxic relationships can be incredibly challenging and emotionally draining. It’s important to remember that you don’t have to face this alone. Reaching out to a medical expert or a therapist can provide valuable guidance in managing these situations and finding a way forward. You deserve to feel safe, respected, and supported. Please take care of yourself, and know that there are resources available to help you through this." - seek medical help on priority - share it with a reliable resource who can guide u - learn to handle such people and first of all your emotions
Hi shivani I don't know but after watching this video I am crying so so much. I was also in a toxic relationship. The guy was a control freak and abuser. Those years were the worst. Cut to present time i meant a guy who is truly a blessing who makes me feel worthy and valued. He made me believe in love again. Today after watching this, i just feel so proud of you and everyone who has come out of it. You are truly inspirational.
I m literally in tears after this and yesi can relate i m stuck in something where i can do nothing but i happy that i got ur escape more power to uu ❤
@@Littleglovedi ekk baat bolu.. mujhe vi life ko lekar bohut hi jyada confidence thi... may poor family se thi.. but sasural thik thak hi hay.. Lakin ab Mera confidence level is 0%... Din rat roti reheti hun... Pata nehi kiu ye logone mujhe bichar diya... husband acche hay... Lakin sasural may koyi vi Mera Vala dekh nehi pate... Abb may khud ka chehere se vi peresan hun... in logo ka ekk hi baat mere papa ke pas doulat nehi hay... Depression may dub chuki hun...mujhe vi pata hay Lakin isse bahar likenle ki tarika mujhe nehi pata... Meri daughter 5 Sal ki hay...khudkhusi karne ki vi khyaal ati hay mujhe... choti gyao se hun... isliye koi vi pasand nehi karte hay mujhe... Love you di love u a lot....❤ Kisi ko ye baat bol nehi Pati hun.. kiuki love marriage hay...
I know these are a hard moments... I know ur smiling face in this video hides so much of pain,cries... I know that whenever u remember that phase of urs u really freak out... But i know u are a tigress ❤ Being inspiration for others is a work of good deed u r doing.. The tears in ur mother's eyes just say the pain u felt just the hardest situations u handled... You r the only one person who have the calibre and enough capable of sharing ur past otherwise no youtuber is capable sharing her or his moments to make people feel that what is the idea to overcome... That's i want to say abt this.. I hope u remember me by my name ❤love u di so much ❤i hope to meet you 🔜
I am na kinda of emotional person so whenever ur any sad video or any moment i really cry.... Whether it related to Aadya,u or ur any family member... I listened many sad stories of different u youtubers But I don't feel something But by heart i feel some kind of connection with you I am really connected with u and concerned abt u 💓 love you di I really hope u remember me by my name'Asmita' Love you much 😘😘
Me bhi thi aise hi ek relationship me 5 saal usne meri bhot badnaami krayi bhot.. ek dam jaise bs jeene ki wajah khatm ho gyi thi.. fir 2015 me meri shadi huyi.. mujhko sad dekh mummy papa ne meri shadi krdi.. jisme meri marzi nhi thi.. but kab vo shadi mere liye vardaan bn gyi pta hi nhi chala mere husband ne meko us trauma se bhahr nikala.. or itna pyaar kiya ki kab me us ladke se move on ho gyi pta nhi chala.. or aaj humari shadi 10 saal ho gye and we r very happy or humari ek beti bhi hai ..
Maine ye cheez face kiya h 2022 me mera brekup hua tha Marne ke condition pe chod ke chla gya tha ...par ab main bhaut kush hu jo hota h axe ke liye hota h ..uss toxic relationship se niklne ke baad pta chla jo hota h axe ke liye hota h .... main abhi v single hu par mera baad uska 2 brekup ho chuka h 😂
Same jo Kuch aj tk mery sth ho chuka ye srf ma yan mera khuda janta hai ksi sy kbi share tk ni kr payi srf dar sy k family brdsht ni kr paye gi lekin ap boht himmat wali ho asi himmat har ksi k pas ni hoti God bless U Shivani
Hi hun I’m from the uk, your story resonates with me I also suffered through this toxic relationship however I had 2 children by him too and was married for 10 years I came to realisation that this has to end and eventually divorced him. I’m fighting for peace everyday however the trauma seems to be inside and I’m finding a better life for me and my children. I just wanted to say you are brave beautiful and inspirational well done for all your hard work and sharing your story with us ❤
In every situation parents support is must. I m surprised why parents don’t trust their children. B the first one to support your children. Never doubt their feelings.
@@rudeguy9024 Bhai. In many cases parents doubt their children behavior and actions. In whatever condition parents must trust their children and support them.
I knew her as a senior and I am super happy that she got the courage to speak, well I should not say that she got the “courage”, as she was always stuffed with courage but yeah she got a “proper platform” to speak up ❤️ . Being a professor’s daughter with a princess kinda life during college days I actually failed to process when she told me about the abuse behind closed doors. She was advertised as an absolute bad@ss at that time among us but now as a woman I really get it that listening her thing with empathy and support would have played a better part for my own soul and would have also made a better version of Shivani herself. (non-traumatic Shivani, I mean). Sorry for not being a better version of myself at that moment. Hope you find much love and peace in life ! XOXO
I also suffered from toxic relationship he is a manipulator .. whenever i realise things and tell him that I don't wanna continue with him then he again start manipulating me and he always play blame game so I always questioned myself in live in a guilt...then i think how could i always be wrong and how he is always right from his pov why my pov is always wrong? I never shared my feelings to anyone I don't have any friends coz he don't like so I don't make friends now i feel like how dump i was m 26 year old mature girl but still trapped in this toxicity and suffered from past 6-7 years only and only for the sake of love bt i loved him truly and whole heartedly bt finally today from this video i tried to move ahead in my life and start new chapter of my life without him where his existence never matter to me ... Thankyou God Thankyou Universe for this awakening....i have learnt my lesson nd not repeat those mistakes which i repeated from past 7 yrs again and again... Thankyou universe thankyou so much i feel blessed now
Mai bhi aise relationship me thi aur uski ko pyaar samjh Rahi thi wo bahut control karta tha mujhe kahi bhi jao ussi se baat karo aisa bolta tha..ek baar mera finger tor dia tha
Mai bahut pareshan hu move on Krna chahti bttt vo insaan khta h ki main pyar krta hu ar mujhe lgta bhi h lkn us insaan ne kabhi bhi mere gussa hone pr mujhe nhi manaya main hospital me job krti thi mujhse job chhodne ko bola Maine chhod diya friends se koi baat nhi krti mai khud ko dhire dhire kho chuki hu
@@Littleglove no di it motivate me but i think that something is happening with me jisko me v pyar hi manti aa rahi hu.. I'm confused bcoz ye physically Harrassment nhi he pr kahi na kahi mental Harrassment he jo ki me find out nhi kr paa rhi.. Apka past sun k bura laga bhtt aur utna hi achha lga ap present me kitne khus ho so me khud k liye v esa hi soch rhi hu ki sayed avi agar esa din chal raha he toh kal me v apke jese khush reh paungi.. I Manifeste this hope I'll get this.. Lots of love ❤❤
During a recent podcast, this topic came out but left viewers with a lot of questions, hence uploading this here
So that someone who is in the condition can be helped
So do share with a person u know has been into a toxic relationship
@@Littleglove so proud about u.
Mera relationship bht jyada hi bekar tha maine dubara pyar kia hai aur samajh nahi aa rha Hai ki maine apna pariwar sab kuch uske liye chodh dia hai lekin fir bhi woh chahta hai ki puri family saath hi tb hi shadi ho ab kaise krenge samjh nahi aa rha hai
@@shanyaradhaverma8541 bro. agar vo ldka apko pyr krta hoga na to vo shadi krega..
Pyar m Mehbooba ko nahi choda jada kisi b halat me..
Mam , I want to take advice from you as I am in same condition and are of the same age group as you were . I think we both have the same story but the fact is that I feel so lonely and I want that someone gives me an advice to get over from this hell. Mam can you please help me by giving me a way to move forward in my life .
Forget past and enjoy ur present and plan for ur best future
This is what Internet is for ! You are really strong girl 👍🏻
Thanks
I can totally relate to it. Girls please don't fall for these kind of guys. Life is more than hell with these kind of toxic people.
Pta nhi chalta n kisi ke face pe toh nhi likha hota ye sab chize toh dheere dheere nazar aane lagti hai
Nowadays please don't don't go to in any relationship
@@SanaNiche214on point 👉 👈🏻
Aise toxic log hr bar sorry bolnge hr bar mafi mangenge emotionally wo ye dikhaenge agr aapne usey chhor diya to jee nhi paenge, aur hm ladkiya hr torchar jhel k v hr bar unhe maf krte h ye soch kr ye ab aage se repeat nhi krega ab ye sudhr gya , ek chance de dete,
Bt bt bt ek bat jo bilkul pkki h jisme koi doubt nhi wo ye h ki agr kisi ne aapko ek bar physically abuse kiya to 200 percent wo hr bar krega bar bar krega , ha sath me justify v krega apne violence ko situation ko blame dega kbi apni family ko kbi aapke behaviour ko kbi work place me kisi se hue anbn, taki aapko lge he has a valid reason to show his arrogance, aur kdwa pr sach h hm girls emotionally itne fool hote h ki hm man v jate h ki bechare k sath bhot glt hua h to gusse me mar diya, lekin guys ye bs uska strategy taki aap usko oppose na kro ya kro v to ek time k bad maf kr do, Aisa case mostly 21-25 k agr group k girls jo bhr khi clg me pdh rhi h ya job kr rhi h unke sath hota h, kynki ye age bhot masoom ya keh skte h psychologically immature hota h aur inhe smjh me nhi aata pyar k nam pe ye bhediye aapko exploit kr rhe h, aur family ko v nhi batati ladkiya unhe lgta sb unhe judge krnge ya usey padhai chhorni pdegi job chhorni pdegi, in sb insecurity k wjh se wo sb akele sehti h us trap se nikl nhi pati ya jb tk niklti h tb tk unke sarir k ghaw se bda unke aatma ka ghaw bnta h jo nightmares k trh Puri life unhe sone nhi deta, ek bat suggest Krna chahungi bhle aapko realise ho ya na ho lekin jb v aapke sath khaskr k phla physical assault ya forced ***** hua ho usi time us riste se nikl jaie wrna jb tk aapko realise hoga tb tk aap aise trap aise loop me fas chuki hongi jha aapko siwae mrne k kuch dikhai nhi dega, ek bat aur ye kbi Mt socho aage kese hoga sbko pta chl jaega etc etc aap jis din us toxic rishte se nikloge agle hi subah life a fresh chapter start hoga aap better decision lekr life ko acha bna paoge aur apne past ki gltiyo ko kbi nhi dohraoge, one life doesn't means one story, bhot chapters hote h ek do khrab ho jae bt ache chapter unko compensate kr dete h phir aap piche mud kr kbi nhi dekhte ho
Same Aisa hi mere sath 2 year se ho raha hai😢
Mere sath b hora abuse hui ab b depression m hu koi dost ni h naa parents supptive h plz help@@MUdankar
Bhot himmat chahiye aise public k saamne batana you are brave
this is somehow so beautiful. ye wahi tinka hai jo bahut se logon ko paar lagayega.
lots of love and power to you for sharing this. ❤❤❤
Hi , prerna ji
The way your father react is reflect the love and beautiful bond between father and daughter..... You are an angel... And i hooe your this is very much useful to each gurl standing out their 🌷
Your father moment brought tears in my eyes. I couldnt have that moment but i stood stronger and came out of it.
More power to u
@@Littlegloveyou're lucky you've this kind of father otherwise brown parents are orthodox
@bepositive67-o3ylittlegoves might be busy...tm tnsn mt lo app apne close ones muma ya didi se btt kro..wh smjhenge..ignore that person dont meet him , attend his calls
@bepositive67-o3y look tum kisi ke liye apna life end karo usse usko koi faqk nhi parne wala ...jisse faqk parega uske baare mein socho and grow ur self busy rakho khud ko ..kuch new friends banao ,new skill sikho ek kamyaab insaan bano usse lakh gunna aache loge tumhare life mein aa jaiyenge 😊
Aisa hi mere sath ho rha hai, mere husband ne mere sath aisa kiya hai bcche b nhi de rha. Mere bcche, maa, bhai relative sbki nzro me usne acchi image bna rkkhi hai, muje na parents ka support hai na relatives ka, mai bilkul akeli hu, mera friend meri help krta hai, ek bhai bnaya hai maine lekin muje unke sath b gandi nzro se dekha ja rha hai , muje hr trf se torcher diya ja rha hai....abuse kiya ja rha hai ....manupulate kr diya hai usne bccho koo puri trh se...
Love can never hurt, a toxic relationship hurts!
I literally crying so hard.. how can a person do this with someone 💔... I'm sorry for you ❤ you beared a lot but God knows everything... He blessed you what you actually deserve ❤
I can totally relate. Suddenly after 4 years after leaving a toxic relationship, all those memories started flashing in front of my eyes. Still I don't know how I survived those terrible 3.5 years of my life. I really felt like Shivani was narrating my own story. It's very difficult to have the courage to leave these relationships, really proud of you, proud of me and all the men and women out there who survived this phase and came out gracefully. Now living the best days of my life with the best person ❤️
And my too same story 😢
Aap humyesa Kush rhiye congratulations for this proud achievement ❤
Stay bless my dear sister i have also seen this kind of relation but right now im single and thought if next one do same this then what i will do like fear of coming relation
Dear, one suggestion from my end to everyone is jaldi mein don't make any decisions. If you're planning to be with someone for the rest of your life, bohot soch samajh ke lena wo, Jo ki mostly teenagers ko pata nhi hota and jab pata chalta hai tab kuch kuch logo ko bohot late ho ja chuki hoti hai (example: me 😅). Dil dimag dono ki suno par future ke bare mein soch ke.
Last but not the least bohot bohot thank you itna positive replies karne k liye. Wish you guys all the very best for your future endeavours❤
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This is giving me the courage to speak about my toxic abusive relationship. We carry so much shame in being abused. While we take all the pain to heal. Thank you - I hail from Ranchi too and trust me Shivani ji you are the light so many of us needed. Gratitude and so proud of you.
Aapki past life story janke aage badhane ki himmat aati hai
You are very strong💪❤
find Partner from Dreams by Bruce Thornwood (thank me later)
Salute h apko. Aapne kaise apne aap ko phir se come back kiya apni personality mein. Confident. Hats off to you. Respect for you increased in my mind.
Hey!
I took stand for myself one month ago. I m married but my partner has all the three toxic points which you mentioned in ur video. I got married in 2017 and torchered physically from last 4 years. But after watching your video I feel proud of my self and on my decision. Thank you.
Yes.me bhi ye Puri jindagi jel8 hu.bahot der ho gai.samaj नही आता क्या बताऊं
My case is same but he always torchering me mentally but still I can't move on from this guy
@@Sonali8513You should move on, don't waste your time your love and energy for this kind of people,a pretty soul' like you deserve to be happy ❤
@@Sonali8513same
@@The_Bihari_Bala hey can you please tell more about how you're taking a stand? Did you move out of the house? Did he come back to get you?
Can't believe how many of us go through this and how blinded we get. I didn't go through physical abuse by god's grace but was emotionally abused through cheating, betrayal, manipulation, control, gaslighting and abandonment. To all who have been heartbroken, I promise you will get over it and get stronger through all this. Recognise the red flags from the beginning, it's always there. The universe shows you signs of abuse, do not ignore and choose yourself. Lots of strength and love ❤️
That's y... Jainism taught us to choose only Jain partner... Atleast he or she knows the karma and wrong doings!!!
Appreciate your perspective, but I know a few Jain men in my surroundings who are physically or emotionally abusive with their partners. It's not about Religion, it's just about choosing to be a good human. Every religion has good and bad people. Can't discriminate based on Religion, isn't that what Jainism teaches us as well. Jai Jinendra 🙏🏻
@@RadheKrishnaPeace you interpreted me wrongly.... It's ok fine 🙏
Sorry if I did 🙏🏻
Same things happens to me , mera breakup ho chuka hai or is chij se bahar niklna chahta hu , us insaan ko hmesha hmesha ke liye bhul jana chahta hu ,
I’m so glad that your dad came for your rescue and he is your Hero.God bless you abundantly with all the goodness in life.
Cool video, My relationship of 6 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him
He is Fatherabulu has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked he up now online. impressive
Don't fall prey to someone else because you are in a vulnerable situation. You should take out time for yourself and go on a trip, join a hobby class, or teach underprivileged children. Have a purpose in your life.
Aadya will grow up and seeing this video , she will be proud to have such a open minded mother and a raised queen. To be honest she will become bold seeing you ❤
The best comment I have read ❤thanks
@@Littleglovestay alert n beware of ur old bf he may not harm u after seeing ur video...stay safe
I also came out of a toxic relationship,.. my ex was fully toxic and its v difficult to realise that its not your fault… these type of people make your life hell and then blame you only and you are always in guilt… they take all your friends away and make you lonely.. I left my toxic relationship worked on myself.. Starting developing and building myself… Did all the adventures and travelling that I wanted to do… Met the most amazing person and married him❤❤ Truly lucky and blessed❤️🧿 So girls never let anyone manipulate you… Believe me love yourself and right one will love you❤🧿🧿🧿
True
Did you told everything to your husband about your past or not.......?
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Did he slap you anytime ?
Didi you are best . Aftet listening your story i literally started crying 8:05 . Isase pata chalta hai mummy papa se best world mein koi nahin ho sakta❤
My friend is like that 😢
Adhya is so blessed to have you as mother jo ki ek acche mentor bhi ho. Thank you. And scch mey Shivani di aap sacch me bohot strong hai itna kuch aapne kaise bear kiya hoga 😢 mujhe imagine kar k drr lgta hai. Aap sbke role model hai. Bhagwan aapko and aapke pariwar ko khushiyan aur arshiwad dey taki esey logo ki parchai tk na pade.
Mene mere boyfriend deepak sharma se shadi ki, wo shuru se toxic and cheater tha. Uski bhaut affair rahe kritika, nikita, priyanka, sakshi sharma etc. Wo mujhe almost roj pitta tha, mere character ko blame krta tha. Mera weight 39 kg ho gya tha. Socide krne wali thi but apni beti ka soch kar nhi ki. 7 saal lge toxic marriage se niklne me. Aaj bht beautiful, confident, working hun. Daughter ko bhi bht ache se rakhti hun.
Hello dii
Same Mera story h Mai bhi pgl ho gyi hu
@@anjalirai1285 hm sb ki halat same hai bahen
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Bahen ye same mera sath bhi ho rha h..butt..mein phir bhi baccho k liye life guzar rhi hu
Sabhi ke parents itne supportive nhi hote h madam. U r lucky 2 have a supportive parents and partner
It's not one sided
Wo khud itni achi h aur aas paas k log k sath acha behave krti h jiske badle pyar isko mila
Kyuki itna lucky koi ho nhi skta
Ye luck nhi ye pyar usne kamaya h
True❤@@ankitasinha5476
Kisi faltu ladke se maar khane se bhtr apne maa baap se maar kha lo
Parents hamesha achhe hote h kabhi bhi apne bachho ka bura n chahte bas hum log us pyar ko samajh n pate or sochte h k vo gussa krenge etc.. but trust me agar Puri duniya me koi apka achha chahte h vo sirf parents hote h😊
@@lord_gamer9919sare parents acche nahi hote hai my parents left me to die and never supported me
Yes you are right. I was in a toxic relationship with my mom , her colleague n ex boyfriend.... But now since I left them ... I found someone who really loves me and respect me and I'm happy with him.
This video will help many people who are about to give up in their lives. Hats off to you to overcome this, many people couldn't survive in this kind of situations.
Thanks a lot for this comment
The purpose behind creating this
Agar arrange marriage main husband hi toxic ho to tubh to koi bhi larki kay parent's apnay damadh ka gerahban say pakar kar nahi kehta ayenda meri beti kay sath kuch galath nahi ho , shadi kay badh bhi woh apki beti to hoti hi hai na par tubh kia hojata hai parent's ko usko uskey Hal par chor detey hain r jubh murder ko suicide keh dia jata hai tubh atey hain social media par insaf magney koi bhi abuser tubh tukh hi abuse karta rehta hai jubh tukh larki kay side say koi stand nahi laita
Hi mam current time mumy breast cancer se deal kr rhi h kya Apki trf se kuch help ho skta h baki reports sb mere pas h
The best part of this video is she didn't shed a drop of tear while sharing her toxic past. Warna these for everything, people do drama on small things.
Crying or sheding tears is not drama, sensitive topic ya past ki baat karte waqt aajata hai rona, some people are more emotional, some are more practical.
@@sejaaaa true being emotional and sheding tears are fine, but now a days it has become a nack to draw TRP Or views. For genuine reasons yes, but unnecessarily using background music, few tears in eyes and slow motion all such is drama.
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Ye aapki kismat hai ki aapke father itne understanding the otherwise aisi situation me parents hi apne baccho ko blame karte hain aur ye declare kar dete hain ki iska to kuch nahi ho payega.Your father was really exceptionally good father.Society ko aise fathers k bacche hi badal paate hain.Baaki baccho ki jindagi to apne father ko ye samjhane me nikal jaati hai ki wo bhi kuch kar sakte hain.
You are damn lucky..!!!!
God has been kind on me
Sun ke Rona a gya di 😢😢😢aaj kal b aisa. Hi ho Raha h koi pyaar vyaar nhi hota hai
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kehte hain na pehla pehla pyar main logo ko kuch samajh nhi ata log andhe ho jate hain main bhi ho gyi thi aaj se 4sal pehle almost 3year complete hone ko tha relationship hamara wo jo kehta tha wohi sunti thi usse kuch bhi nahi chupati thi pehle to wo bohot accha tha uske aur mere dono Gharo main sabko pata tha hamare relationship ke bare main 1sal jab complete huwa tha relationship ka uske bad se uska behaviour main changes ane lage uski ek na sunu toh gli deta tha kahi jane ke liye mana karta tha sadi ho ya koi function main uski sab bat manti thi ek bar unse mujhpar hat bhi uthaya tha main uski harkatose pareshan hoke usse break up bhi karne ki koshish ki lekin wo apna hat katkar mujhe black main karta tha meri friend se bhi buri tarike se bat karta tha wo itna toxic tha ki uski har bat mujhe manni padti thi main sochti thi log kiya kahenge agar usse break up hogya toh kiya bolungi meri kudh ki koi ijjat he nahi thi uske samne ekdin main ye apne aap ko khud samjha ki aab nahi jab usne mujhe logo ke samne Jalil karna suru kiya tab mujhe samajh aaya ki ye pyar hain? Jo logo ke samne baizzat karaye jismae meri koi galti bhi na ho usdin khud ko us toxic relationship se bahar nikala bohot kuch jheli uske sath relationship main rehkar Aab uski yaad nahi ati bas ghin ati hain break up ke baad usne mujhse maafi bhi mangi lekin main uski fitrat se wakif thi isliye uske sath relationship main firse nahi aayi allah bachaye eise logo se jo hamari hasti Hui zindagi ko jahannam bana dete hain Aab uski Sadi ho gyi hain aur main bhi relationship main hu aur uske sath khush hu bohot himmat chahiye hoti hain eisi situation face karne ke liye kabhi kabhi soch kar hasi ati hain ki kitni bewakuf thi jab us toxic relationship ko bachane ke liye uski har bat manti thi...
Same मेरे पापा ज्यादा supportive नहीं है पर मेरी माँ हमेशा supportive और understanding एकदम मस्त मुझे मेरे पापा में कभी भी मुझे looser ही समझा
Your father moment brought tears in my eyes... 🥺🥺
Hope this video of yours help many many girls who go through this type of relationship.Actually right after the first physical abuse the girls should break off.
This is so important...such a good message! DV is not acceptable and we girls often keep quiet because of shame but we need to stand up for our truth. God gave you this success so that you get a platform to share your story so that girls who are blindly walking into such relationships will think 100 times. Also, girls...don't take abuse from anybody verbal or physical... whether it's your in laws, their relatives, etc. no one has the right to decide who you are. And if you feel guilty because you are asking for bare minimum please understand you are in a wrong relationship and you have your entire life to so don't waste it. ❤
I didn't realise untill i watched your video that yes i was in toxic relationship.
He used to have a lot anger issues . Didn't allow me to use social media apps. Its was not abuse never. But toturing me mentally. I somehow managed that time . He didn't let me to make friends and make sure i didn't talk to them . But eventually everything gets great . I'm with him . But he is the most lovable person now. He is caring from very start . But there are some things which i would say toxic but in other manner he is great . Now everything is very very good. He also accepts hi mistakes . He also supports me in almost every decisions.
Whatever happens happens for good.
"Thank you for sharing your story. I’m truly sorry you’re going through this. Toxic relationships can be incredibly challenging and emotionally draining. It’s important to remember that you don’t have to face this alone. Reaching out to a medical expert or a therapist can provide valuable guidance in managing these situations and finding a way forward. You deserve to feel safe, respected, and supported. Please take care of yourself, and know that there are resources available to help you through this."
Quick recap
- seek medical help on priority , that will teach u to how to handle toxic people , just not your emotions
- share it with a reliable resource who can guide u
- learn to handle such people and first of all your emotions
The boy you got.... The most precious diamond you have. ❤
Had that darkest phase of my life but now it's 2-3 months in the process of healing myself,my mental health is important❤ and all the best to u to
More power to u
I expressed this to my dad first I wanna a get out of it after 7.5years now I am 21 😂he was all 3 at the same time and an addict too of lots of things u can guess what might have gone through and also had a ghosting personality, trying to believe with the whole family that I don't look good I am fat, do't have a good body language and bla bla I should tolerate a man, I should be compassionate towards their 1st son, I am ugly his cotation was like" you are with me 'cause u won't get any boy out" and also many a times provoked me to self harm and threatened me of suicide multiple times . Verbal abuse ,sexual assault and what not?! Ohhhhh shhh of relief......
Luckily I didn't fall in the trap of marriage and that is the reason why I am still alive having 8 psychiatric meds+ counselling but yeah trying to be on my own track alone cheers to me
Heartbreaking!!! I have seen you in college and never knew that there was so much behind your lovely smile. And sorry ; i feel sad that we couldnt help you then.
Be proud of where you have reached. We are rooting for you.
Thank you for sharing this story, now I know I am not only the person who went through a toxic relationship, my situation was extremely worse, but I am thankful to god I came out of that situation and moved on in my life.
God bless you sister
Great motivation di 😢
It is really very imp. To stand for yourself and it's neever to late to end something toxic, something which is killing you day by day
We just have to think once only that do our parents treat us like this if they don't then no one has the right to do so.
My heart broke after listening to your story 💔 but i am sooo glad you healed and loved again ❤ Stay strong and happy always! 🙌🏻
Thank u for standing up not even for your self... But for many women's who suffered once 🙏
Stay happy like this with your lovely family ❤ i believe when husband is loving... Women blooms out ❤
I really got tears in my eyes when your father part come ❤❤
Uncle ji is really a hero. Every girl deserve a father like him.
The tears in your mom's eyes is just everything 😢 😢
True , I was not able to see it while editing this
@@Littleglove 😢😢
I totally agree with you, and deeply feel everything you said ❤ my story was toxic then yours.. only my mother and brother stand by me ....after that God sent an angel to hold me... Now I proudly said God plans are always better
I hope you are fine now
What a beautiful video. Everybody tells you a lot of things, teaches you a lot of things, But no one says this. This is the kind of video we need. ❤
Really appreciating you to open such kind of truth about your life, it’s inspiration to many🙌
So true about isolating us from all the friends and relatives from us. And then having strong hold over our soul.
How to contact you shivani
❤❤I loved how your parents were supportive throughout
Absolutely I am blessed
You are a rockstar Shivani! Keep inspiring people. And always stay strong as you are 😀
Hiiii big fan here didi ❤❤❤❤❤
Hiiii di big fan hereee ❤ I Love youuuuuuu a lot ❤
khash mujhE bhi koi Pasand krta 💔😭💔....
@@hinakhalid2701 Khud apne app ko pasand karna sikho.. Then sab thik hoga
@@itinamohanty141 bilkul 😔
Totally agree with you.. You are a brave girl.. It needs lot of courage to talk about these things publicly..
After watching everything I just felt you because lots of thing happened in my life, but I moved on and after watching this I felt I'm on right path, happy for you 😊, God bless you ❤❤❤❤️
your family is so supportive u are so lucky and always stay happy ❤
Your dad is such a supportive man ❤❤
He is simply amazing
@@Littlegloveagar aisa husband ho toh....???ek 6 yrs old baby hai uske liye divorce mushkil lena ho raha.....mera husband ek narcissist hai...mai trap ho gayi hu.....uske gharwale bhi same uske jaise hi hai....mai life se thak gayi hu.suicide kiya toh mere bachhe ka future kharab hoga.....
The last line - once they come out they bloom like a big flower 💐. Thank you for this podcast didi❤
I can't believe mam..vo jo hmesha haste hain or hasate hain..she suffered from that kind of trauma..salute to u.❤❤❤lots of love💗💗
God bless you ma'am horrible experience
She is a strong woman....such strong woman...Many should be thankful to her that she is bringing this out..this will surely lead many to break this chain where many think ye to hote rhta hai
Wow!! I have no words, I'm overwhelmed with emotions..I'm watching your funny videos for a long time but never in my wildest dreams could imagine what you've been through..In your videos with your sasu-ma, you seem bubbly, happy-go-lucky kind of a person and here you faced such trauma..Kudos to your parents and in-laws specially your husband to make you believe in love again❤❤
As a mother she is too much hurted just because she dint notice ur pain u r lucky to have such a beautiful mother.
I loved the last few seconds, shows that you have the greatest trait in you - Gratefulness!!
I loved how she narrated her story and with that she tried to convey how to recognize everything, etc. I mean v less youtubers do this thing they just yap their side of the stories and that's it. I have never faced this nor i am gonna in future because i catch red flags, abusers, etc v quickly. Also, i don't trust people that easily but Thankyou for educating us :)
I am so proud of you ! Hope my daughter turns into someone like you who can catch the red flags
More power to you sweets
@@Littleglove oh this is such a lovely compliment😭💗 god bless you and your family. ;)
Aadya will grow up watching this video and be inspired by her mother's open-mindedness, resilience, and determination. She'll witness firsthand the strength and courage it takes to overcome challenges and pursue dreams.
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dii honestly speaking I feel tears in my eyes after listen your story, you are a amazing women, now I feel lucky that I am in a perfect healthy relationship, I got many proposal from my college's students but I am glad that I didn't accept any of them, although I am in LDR but I am happy
Thanks for this video, I shatter into tears when papa wala scene came kyuki meri toxic relationship ka end bhi papa se baat karke hua tha .. am also 22 years old and wish for beautiful future like u
Aww ! Trust me God has better plans for u !
@@ansunibate6659see iam a male......... And iam telling you if he still talks to his ex that means he doesn't love you, why to live with such a person who doesn't love you...... Talk with your parents and file for divorce with demand for child maintenance..... As you have child with him, you have all the rights to claim the child maintenance from him
Ohh same happened with me but he was, never abuse me physically but uski harkato sw lgta tha ki vo aisa krega or maine apne papa ko uske bare me btaya like I want to marry him or mere papa ne hmari relationship ka the end krwa diya us time mujhe bhot dukh hua tha but now I'm realising that THANK YOU PAPA parents are never be your enemy love u papa❤
Bhut himmat h apmei shivani you are such a strong women 💪 ❤️, girls always suffer in their life kisi bhi age m kyu na ho lekin na ye bol skte h agar parents friendly hai toh sab kuch thik hoskta h.
Same situation in my life but after break up meri life Mai bhi ek gujarti rajkumar aaya of mujhe duniya ki sari kushi fita thanx to Bappa ❤️🙏🙏
I am really proud of you girl, most of the women are experiencing same thing but in different ways😭, but we will keep going
Bohot din baad ek badhiya inspirational video dekhne mila, ye story bohot si girls face kar rhi hain. Plz bachcho aap log her pareshani apne parents se share karo qki aap hi unki duniya ho, maa baap ko kuch ni chahiye hota hai. Thankyou shivani and stay blessed dear .
This is so horrifying and many of us want to share our stories too but there is no one to listen and no platform….. i hope you can provide a platform and confidence in many women to come up and share
"Thank you for sharing your story. I’m truly sorry you’re going through this. Toxic relationships can be incredibly challenging and emotionally draining. It’s important to remember that you don’t have to face this alone. Reaching out to a medical expert or a therapist can provide valuable guidance in managing these situations and finding a way forward. You deserve to feel safe, respected, and supported. Please take care of yourself, and know that there are resources available to help you through this."
- seek medical help on priority
- share it with a reliable resource who can guide u
- learn to handle such people and first of all your emotions
This video will many people who are about to give up in their lives
Thanks
It's good that you are sharing ur past with people for the purpose that it should not happen with others😊 I appreciate u
Hi shivani
I don't know but after watching this video I am crying so so much. I was also in a toxic relationship. The guy was a control freak and abuser. Those years were the worst. Cut to present time i meant a guy who is truly a blessing who makes me feel worthy and valued. He made me believe in love again. Today after watching this, i just feel so proud of you and everyone who has come out of it. You are truly inspirational.
I m literally in tears after this and yesi can relate i m stuck in something where i can do nothing but i happy that i got ur escape more power to uu ❤
You father is the real hero in your life😊
He is
And her husband also❤
@@Littleglovedi ekk baat bolu.. mujhe vi life ko lekar bohut hi jyada confidence thi... may poor family se thi.. but sasural thik thak hi hay.. Lakin ab Mera confidence level is 0%...
Din rat roti reheti hun... Pata nehi kiu ye logone mujhe bichar diya... husband acche hay... Lakin sasural may koyi vi Mera Vala dekh nehi pate...
Abb may khud ka chehere se vi peresan hun... in logo ka ekk hi baat mere papa ke pas doulat nehi hay...
Depression may dub chuki hun...mujhe vi pata hay Lakin isse bahar likenle ki tarika mujhe nehi pata...
Meri daughter 5 Sal ki hay...khudkhusi karne ki vi khyaal ati hay mujhe... choti gyao se hun... isliye koi vi pasand nehi karte hay mujhe...
Love you di love u a lot....❤
Kisi ko ye baat bol nehi Pati hun.. kiuki love marriage hay...
@@DebashreeChoudhury-v6napne husband k sath rho support kro unki baat mano bhn agr rista bchana ha agr husband bhi nhi honge to socho kitna difficult hoga 😊
@@ThakurrAnni yes
U r pure by heart ❤❤ that's why u r living a happy life 😊
And now you are so confident and strong. Your dad is real life hero... You are inspiration for so many people... Stay strong 🤞
Himmat rkhne walo ki jit hmesa hoti h....👍👍👍
So proud of your husband ❤ I pray we all get a guy like him. ❤ you are a survivor❤ so proud of
One day, when I fully recover, I’ll share my story on my channel too❤️🩹. Thank you for this video❤️🩹
Plz do , I will wait and more power to u
Yahhh
I know these are a hard moments... I know ur smiling face in this video hides so much of pain,cries... I know that whenever u remember that phase of urs u really freak out...
But i know u are a tigress ❤
Being inspiration for others is a work of good deed u r doing..
The tears in ur mother's eyes just say the pain u felt just the hardest situations u handled...
You r the only one person who have the calibre and enough capable of sharing ur past otherwise no youtuber is capable sharing her or his moments to make people feel that what is the idea to overcome...
That's i want to say abt this..
I hope u remember me by my name ❤love u di so much ❤i hope to meet you 🔜
Reading this comment makes me feel inspired
Thank you di 😊 love you so much ❤️
I am na kinda of emotional person so whenever ur any sad video or any moment i really cry....
Whether it related to Aadya,u or ur any family member...
I listened many sad stories of different u youtubers
But I don't feel something
But by heart i feel some kind of connection with you
I am really connected with u and concerned abt u 💓 love you di
I really hope u remember me by my name'Asmita'
Love you much 😘😘
Me bhi thi aise hi ek relationship me 5 saal usne meri bhot badnaami krayi bhot.. ek dam jaise bs jeene ki wajah khatm ho gyi thi.. fir 2015 me meri shadi huyi.. mujhko sad dekh mummy papa ne meri shadi krdi.. jisme meri marzi nhi thi.. but kab vo shadi mere liye vardaan bn gyi pta hi nhi chala mere husband ne meko us trauma se bhahr nikala.. or itna pyaar kiya ki kab me us ladke se move on ho gyi pta nhi chala.. or aaj humari shadi 10 saal ho gye and we r very happy or humari ek beti bhi hai ..
🥺bhgwaan apko khush rkhe
Wowwwww. God bless u
Maine ye cheez face kiya h 2022 me mera brekup hua tha Marne ke condition pe chod ke chla gya tha ...par ab main bhaut kush hu jo hota h axe ke liye hota h ..uss toxic relationship se niklne ke baad pta chla jo hota h axe ke liye hota h .... main abhi v single hu par mera baad uska 2 brekup ho chuka h 😂
Tum log sab samoy dhokho dhati ho
@@skseth3791 Bhai jaise ladke ek jaise nhi hote vaise ladkiyan b nhi hoti..
I cried a lot hearing you as i can relate....ur husband came as a blessing in ur life...god bless u both...cherish as sabki life baadme sort nahi hoti
U r husband is so great that he didn't see u r past like other ppls so happy for uhh keep going girl ❤🎉
I am blessed
Tushar was my colleague and he is gem of a person very supportive .Tushar truly loves his wife Shivani
Tushar bhaiya being a hero of your story di ❤
Haha he is always my hero
Yess true papa 😅 aisa hi hona chahiye.maa baap se aur parivar se koi bada suporter nahi hota na bf na husband
Yes mom dad are every things
Proud of you Shivani. Stay blessed❤
Hats off to uncle who took such bold decision and stood by your side.
❤ love u
@@Littleglove I proud of di and ur papa😢
M also in a abusive relationship...now me and my daughter both r free n happy...
Kese .. Apne divorce le liya kiya
Ultimately parents help the child but child never understand parents love and care
Thanks for this motivational autobiography 👍
Same jo Kuch aj tk mery sth ho chuka ye srf ma yan mera khuda janta hai ksi sy kbi share tk ni kr payi srf dar sy k family brdsht ni kr paye gi lekin ap boht himmat wali ho asi himmat har ksi k pas ni hoti God bless U Shivani
Hi hun I’m from the uk, your story resonates with me I also suffered through this toxic relationship however I had 2 children by him too and was married for 10 years I came to realisation that this has to end and eventually divorced him. I’m fighting for peace everyday however the trauma seems to be inside and I’m finding a better life for me and my children. I just wanted to say you are brave beautiful and inspirational well done for all your hard work and sharing your story with us ❤
Are you Indian origin person
No hate offence
Just asking 👋👋
In every situation parents support is must. I m surprised why parents don’t trust their children. B the first one to support your children. Never doubt their feelings.
Who told that they don't trust?
@@rudeguy9024 Bhai. In many cases parents doubt their children behavior and actions. In whatever condition parents must trust their children and support them.
I knew her as a senior and I am super happy that she got the courage to speak, well I should not say that she got the “courage”, as she was always stuffed with courage but yeah she got a “proper platform” to speak up ❤️ . Being a professor’s daughter with a princess kinda life during college days I actually failed to process when she told me about the abuse behind closed doors. She was advertised as an absolute bad@ss at that time among us but now as a woman I really get it that listening her thing with empathy and support would have played a better part for my own soul and would have also made a better version of Shivani herself. (non-traumatic Shivani, I mean). Sorry for not being a better version of myself at that moment.
Hope you find much love and peace in life ! XOXO
Yes hats off yor father duniya ka koi insan apko nhi smjhega jitna apko apne parents smjhenge👍👍👍👍👍
Stay strong mam you have very brave and strong 🥺😔❤️
Lots of love
I also suffered from toxic relationship he is a manipulator .. whenever i realise things and tell him that I don't wanna continue with him then he again start manipulating me and he always play blame game so I always questioned myself in live in a guilt...then i think how could i always be wrong and how he is always right from his pov why my pov is always wrong? I never shared my feelings to anyone I don't have any friends coz he don't like so I don't make friends now i feel like how dump i was m 26 year old mature girl but still trapped in this toxicity and suffered from past 6-7 years only and only for the sake of love bt i loved him truly and whole heartedly bt finally today from this video i tried to move ahead in my life and start new chapter of my life without him where his existence never matter to me ... Thankyou God Thankyou Universe for this awakening....i have learnt my lesson nd not repeat those mistakes which i repeated from past 7 yrs again and again... Thankyou universe thankyou so much i feel blessed now
More power to u, your comment is inspiring
Mai bhi aise relationship me thi aur uski ko pyaar samjh Rahi thi wo bahut control karta tha mujhe kahi bhi jao ussi se baat karo aisa bolta tha..ek baar mera finger tor dia tha
@ridhimashama9326... Remember sister first step will be tough but u have to do it ❤ to you
Agar uska naam ravindra pal ho to bilkul chor do
Mai bahut pareshan hu move on Krna chahti bttt vo insaan khta h ki main pyar krta hu ar mujhe lgta bhi h lkn us insaan ne kabhi bhi mere gussa hone pr mujhe nhi manaya main hospital me job krti thi mujhse job chhodne ko bola Maine chhod diya friends se koi baat nhi krti mai khud ko dhire dhire kho chuki hu
Literally I'm crying I don't know why.. But ap k papa jaise papa sabhi ko mile❤
Sabke parents itne supportive b ni hote…jo hona chahiye
Sahi baat h
Sach Kaha apne 👍
Exactly
Yaha to parents hii toxic hote haii
Same as my story but meri nude photos mere papa bhai ko share karne ki dhamki deta or raat ko papa ko call bhai ko 3-4 baje call
Who wants justice for Kolkata female doctor 🙏
I want 🤚
We want
I want but whether they are giving justice so stop this
@@ambikabag4012 If they are not giving justice then we should demand justice for her🙏
😔❤️🩹💔💔❤️🩹💔
This video made me cry 😢😢 u are such strong women and inspiration for all girls those who are stuck with these kind of toxic relationships or people….
You are truly a brave girl! God Bless you!
I don't know why I'm crying during listen this 😢❤
I am sorry my intention was to motivate you
@@Littleglove no di it motivate me but i think that something is happening with me jisko me v pyar hi manti aa rahi hu.. I'm confused bcoz ye physically Harrassment nhi he pr kahi na kahi mental Harrassment he jo ki me find out nhi kr paa rhi.. Apka past sun k bura laga bhtt aur utna hi achha lga ap present me kitne khus ho so me khud k liye v esa hi soch rhi hu ki sayed avi agar esa din chal raha he toh kal me v apke jese khush reh paungi.. I Manifeste this hope I'll get this.. Lots of love ❤❤
You are such a strong person😢😢😢
Thanks 🙏