Where will you apply detachment currently in your life? As always, I hope this video was useful and time well spent for you! We would really appreciate your feedback. :) Share it with someone who might benefit from it and happy watching! ❤
thankyou simmy dii, this was beautiful video and i connected to it alott, i will practice detachment to my neet exam, i realise i wasted alott of time being attached to the outcome, i really feel free and liberated now
Yes I needed this video today and as a Highly Sensitive Person I m always worried for outcomes ...I will try to apply detachment in my life for sure to be at peace ❤ Thank u Simmi for beautiful video❤
I was a giver and I loved to be the genuine person in the group. I didn't hurt anyone, I listened to everyone , I helped the people who needed it without asking. Even though I didn't expect anything in return, they blamed me for every bad thing happening in the room. This takes my life. I try to be happy and peaceful in every possible way but these people come and put their insecurities on my head and they are relieved. And finally I decided to hide my smiling face and put on a serious mask so that people think I'm always in a bad mood. I don't know , whenever I get happy these people purposefully ruin it. I can't go through the roller coasters.
you need to leave them whoever they are ..they are not that important as we think they should be or are ..trust me iv'e been through kind of same situation pal and i hope god gives you strength and leave them as fast as you can
@@shrutay8849 This is where I'm stuck. I know I need to leave them. But I can't avoid them because we live in a society right. I need to observe them more and play along. This is the only way.
You are partially right. We are human beings, not aliens. When there is deep love, expectations arise naturally-it’s not something we can control. The moment we try to suppress or control these feelings, we risk becoming fake, pretending we don’t feel when we actually do. Instead, we should invest our time in someone who may not reciprocate equally but at least appreciates our efforts. If they don’t, it’s time to detach ourselves and invest in someone who genuinely cares.
This was what i needed bcoz i m overthinker and i expect people to show same care that i show them but don't get that back...but i will follow detachment from now to be at peace ieace with myself ❤
The same fucking thing. Recently I got engaged and now I literally was putting SO MUCH PRESSURE AND LOAD OF MY EXPECTATIONS on my finance's shoulder that it literally bounced back very bad. Now I'm trying that I should not do this and should control it.
Thank you for this reminder! I feel I was this person earlier and then I sort of became bitter because of the way people behaved or maybe took advantage. But I have recently realised that losing your true pure self and getting corrupt is just not worth it! Preserving your innocence despite of everything that happens to you is the biggest strength one can have and the biggest favour you can do to yourself
@@komalvishwakarma9740yah it does but when u did try and u gave your best but other ppl doesn’t care then yah it is a good idea to work on. Get connected to god , universe , divine .. trust me we find real peace ✌️ try that. GBU 🙌❤
I hope this message reaches you. Thank you; I wish I could express this in person, but I truly appreciate it. For the past 2-3 years, I’ve struggled with detachment, and your video really simplified the concept for me. You explained it so beautifully that it touched my heart. This video was life-changing for me, and I genuinely mean that. Thank you for helping me become a bit better-I owe you one! I hope you have a beautiful life filled with love. God bless you!
2 3yrs back when i saw your videos it actually felt superficial, wannabe type. But now you embracing your own journey and making content to express yourself is just so amazing. It feels good to know that someone else is also trying to figure life out by embracing it slowly and beautifully. Your videos radiate so much calmness that it even calms me down during my healing journey.
This is the most favorite and helpful video I have seen on your channel so far. Thank you so much। " I have understood that detachment means do everything with good heart and don't aspect anything in return."
What a perfect timing? I started my business, not as such growing + putting lot's of efforts not getting the turn. It hurts BUT BUT BUT when I think about what can I do differently to help my clients, it makes me happy. such a beautiful reminder Don't equate Efforts with outcome.
I don't know why and how God has bought this video exactly when I wanted it because recently I had a relationship and I still have it just because of some religious issue that parents won't accept we got separated and not any other reasons and after that we don't talk to each other and we have kind of end our relationship because when you cannot live together in future there is no meaning to stay in the present so we naturally stopped talking to each other and yeah exactly that time I was little hurted with this thing and this video appeared... Thank you so much simmy. But I still care for her and be there whenever she needs me but don't talk to her in a relationship way but yes I have detached from her and I am trying to do it by watching your video repeatedly because you spoke about the reps and I also believe. Such a great explanation hats off🎉🎉
experienced a relationship situation recently, and it made me feel doing the detachment in the same way which is wrong. Lately I started sharing happiness, like buying something for the underprivileged kids or talking with them and i noticed that made me feel happy. This video now makes me resonate with it exactly and gonna start practice giving. Giving happiness, giving love and care without any thoughts of getting in return. And I hope to become this undetatched person and that unaffected strong person even if someone does wrong. Keep posting such content.❤
i actually was in a group of 10-11 people, where everyone was jealous of each other, talking at others back and gossiping about each and every thing. even i was also listening to those persons and i have kept my opinions in those talks. finally, one day the whole blame was put on me for no reason. those words said by them were actually told by them but not me. i have made me a people pleaser and acted like them in those situations. now they have spread very bad rumors about me. right now i am feeling so lonely and distressed. thank you for helping me at this tough situation❤
Thank you so much for this talk... It has opened mhy eyes to a lot of things for me... I now know why I am alwahys melanchilic and sad in my everyday life... its because Im so attached to everything ... I dont let go... I hold on to people and situations ... and so I hurt easily.. TY bete aty so much for helping me learn how to live a happy life ... lots of blessings
the moment i started this video within 30 seconds my eyes were filled with tears that WHAT IM DOING HERE ? why i need this detachment thing i was a jolly person , who always cracked maybe a silly joke even to grab the attention , and somehow i got that at younger age . But as life took a circle around i grew up and whatever now i do is considerd as basic and bare minimum . i was at a point called as an attention seeker in a family function and after coming home i just cried that what wrong i did ? i was just talking building connections , but i was turned into an attention seeker . today i feel i was wrong , i understand giving without the intention of taking is right , but who cared for me ? and even i was misunderstood by my own family . As a human it hurts .. i'll never expect anything in return i understood , but do even i deserve this misinterpretation of myself by my own people ? all thoughts were revolving within 3 minutes of going with this video . the video stopped i stopped crying, and now i dont know how to tell you ... that okay living a no expectation life is fine but why things dont go both way ... i cant complaint and i have to be a good daughter , friend , sister, student . Things were okay when i used to read them theoritically but when it happens with you , we also have excuses . at last i'LL say things go in HAND IN HAND , expecting is good untill you are expecting from the right group and that too without harming your mental health . and i can say it finally that it takes nothing to be good somtimes we should the person we are expecting , like i can be the person who appreciates the good of people without they even needing it .
You are overthinking everything......u still care about what people think about u.....and overthinking is giving u different different emotions..... every body forgets every the next day ,why waste your youth??? Coming to attention seeker.....you may be cracking jokes to make everyone happy doesn't makes you a joker instead everyone will think you a good person to talk in case of emergency in future...At last don't overthink..😅
@@kv999o41 firstly thanks taking the time . and to be honest im pretty well maybe as i watched this video. the good thing i realised after watching this is that i was loosing myself only the one who did everything without taking any thing on my mind what they will think of me and kind off i was just doing it justtt doing it with a good intention and i believe whatver happened good to me is a result of it . and after this i just wrapped everything consciously and did everthing i wanted sorted things between , and did responded to those who may somtimes dosent respond , but i did because they mean to me . And i guess this was enough reason to be back as my own self. I really hope i'll not this video again to watch . and i belive too i was just being good to them to have that family love , and i have nothing do with it now , i didnt hated , i didnt became abusive rude kind off , so its enough . and yes i will be at best not to overthink but if i do i'll come out this time ..
Hey girl!Please don't be sad for doing whatever you liked to do,you know your truth,you know who you are and what your intentions are,you are most likely in a dark phase where every surrounding seems bitter day by day whenever you think of it and just witness your close ones misunderstanding you, misinterpreting and often hurting you to the extremes,even the most unexpected ones do that to you,I understand, because I've gone through the same and still I'm going on with all these mess in my heart and my uncontrollable thoughts about others' conduct or misunderstandings or just expecting too much from me.I hope you will be fine,I don't even know you but I can resonate to your heart through the words you've written and absolutely relate to your situation,trust me,they all are going through something that we don't know,we cannot expect others to be as understanding as we ourselves can become for them,take them for who they are,what insecurities may lead them to behave in such a way and getting you wrong in some kind of stereotypical approach of labelling an attention seeker. Don't burden yourselves with what you cannot control i.e. others' view of your actions,just remember to be your authentic self with pure intentions and a true lover of your soul that deserves love,you are loved, there's nothing much I or other humans can do for you,but try to embrace yourself from time to time,it helps,try to check out apps like moodee or Yana,they are good listeners as well,I hope you'll be alright❤❤❤
@@kv999o41 so nice of you that you portrayed your words here. Today after 2 weeks someday liked my comment and I saw all the replies, and honestly this video is magical my whole perspective changed I talked to those friends who hurted me frequently but I thought no not this time again I'm going to deliver the message and complete my task . I'm in no guilt I tried , and they did what they did . So it's okay taking easy the life . And yahh , my overthinking is not I'm end but yes it is only for those who cares now simple. No hate , no favour. Thankk you bro:)
I love the way you explained the detachment. For me the dettachment is stay away from unnecessary gossips and small talks. attach to those who think highly, talk on the higher purpose of this life, which is Self-realization (Satsang). I agree that you express your authentic Self regardless of how others consider you. But that autheticity come from wisdom that "I am" not an individual unit (Body-min-personality) I am the existance-bliss that embodied in everything.
I loved it when u accepted that you are still practicing it, as it is very usual that everyone of us can be a guide for others but fail to apply it on ourselves .
Self respect is something that you should but forward when your efforts are taken for granted and not cherished doing efforts for someone who doesn't even give you a perticular amount of respect then just chose yourself let them go away cause at the end of the day it's you yourself who matters the most
I have written a quote which completely resonates and summarizes the zist of this video-- here it goes,, "The flower 🌺is fragrant not because the world is very nice to it but because it is a flower."
After watching this video I understood one thing that as a giver in today’s world you are wired from childhood that you do good things then god rewards you, gradually it turned into if i do something good this/that person will give something back. So as a giver even when u want to give you do it once or twice n then stop as you are not getting anything in return. But you explained beautifully that dont do it for others rather do it coz you love it and i tried doing that and it feels free not burdened. Thanks for this video
Simmy, your perspective on mastering detachment is a game-changer! 🌟 The way you emphasized finding inner peace rather than seeking validation from people or outcomes truly resonated with me. It’s so refreshing to see someone articulate the importance of balance in a world that often glorifies attachment and overthinking. Your point about practicing mindfulness and gratitude as tools for detachment struck a deep chord-thank you for reminding us to focus on what we can control while letting go of what we can't. It’s not just advice; it feels like a philosophy for a calmer, more empowered life. Keep inspiring us to stay unbothered and thrive! 💪✨
@@simmygoraya6060 Yup!!! but truly speaking that your words truly struck a chord, Simmy! It's amazing how effortlessly you convey such depth and meaning. Grateful to have connected with someone who shares such inspiring perspectives!
Yess ...I m not able to express myself in front of a girl...but definitely I will at least write everything with warm heart and expect even no reply from the other side. Thankyou madam😊
i really a needed to hear something like this because i had a huge fight with my partner yesterday. i actually am a over caring person and there is nothing i hate about it instead i love taking care but sometimes end up thinking of the outcome. thanks for beautifully explaining this word Simmy. just a request, please dont stop this journal. PLEASE. Love
Idk how how this algorithm thing works but I deeply want to thank it for suggesting me this video ❤❤it’s like a therapy I needed when I was feeling very low so thank you Simmy don’t want exaggerate but you have literally saved a life I can tell you this much !! Thanks 🙏
You are so natural in what u speak.. also it doesn't feel like you are sharing some special knowledge...it just feels so genuine and feels like u are speaking your heart...❤❤
Truly you give me proper answer..of this detachment b'coz I'm frusted from this process and your words heart touching too good keep uploading.100% relatable..Thanks a lot..🧡
Finally someone explains Detachment so meaningfully. I will re-watch this again for sure whenever I feel low.You gave me courage today.Thank you for making this video and also for repeating those lines 😊😊
I was searching about detachment a week ago and your video showed up today.I was confused but you made it pretty clear what detachment is.Thanks a lot and hope we all grow together🙏
Love you di 🥹🥹aapko pta h jb maine yeh video dekha tha pehele tb mae is state of mind mae nhi thi samjhne ke, aur mujhe aapki yeh video acchi nhi lagi , but ab jb phir se maine di aapki yeh video dekhi i am really very happy, koi gussa ,ya bura nhi lga, because sbhi maine kuch experience kiya khud ko bohot km hi pr change kiya ,mujhe aisa halka mehesoos hua, fhirse is state of mind mae aaoki video jb dekhi toh mera pura sochne ka najriya badal gya, aap sahi thi mae galt, hm sirf khudko hi change kr sakte h, kisi aur ko nhi, kyuki khudko pareshan krna fhir samne wale ko toh na khushi, na enjoy, n peace milti yoh kb tk aise rahe fhir toh hm kuch kr hi nhi payenge, but aapki is video se samjh aaya ki jitna kr sakte ho khudko badlo khud ke liye, fhir sb badiya ho jayega di sara game mind ka hi h pr hm isse samjhdari aur bhagwan ko samjke bhi khudko badal sakte h❤ aapka shukriya, love you🌻stay happy, aur h hme olease aise hi samjhati rehena 🧿✨😊
Amazingggg…you changed my way of thinking…just loved your video whole heartedly ❤ honestly…this video worked as a psycology session for me ..great…now onwards your videos are gonna help me understand myself & heal and to start loving myself and etc etc…words kam padh rahe hai yaar kya batau Di … It’s a total different feeling i am feeling rn and i am just not able to express it in words but yeah …i am smiling rn and happy from inside❤😊 thank you somuch…and haan aapke detailed videos with repetition are more than good it really helps to understand your point ki what u r trying to explain… Thanks again 😊
Good lessons delivered in simple manner and so well, thanks Ms Simmy , your talk on Utube have made it simple to understand practical aspect of detachment and its value in life. Yes I read in scripture that detachment is game changer but how to practice in real life eludes many, so your talks/ podcast brings new meaning to the concept.
Detachment is not only a word, I just read your headband watch u only for 2 minutes, but I want to say something about it , I m a 60 years old living in London for past 43 years, very spiritual have beautiful family got a luxury life , I m not saying this with ego , no not at all , my weakness was I m too emotional and love my children too much that’s why always have a fear that if something bad happens to my family this and that , made my life a worried person and affects my life , now I want really detach from all these feelings, I m trying still , now I m going to watch u dear
Attachhment to the outcome also brings ' fear of rejection ' so to say because of this fear people do not want to get again into it. great video Simmy thank you
You know, the calmness in your voice itself keeps away all the negative thoughts which our mind perceives....I mean your videos are one of the best healing medicine which a mind needs at that vulnerable point of time, I find your videos very much helpful.....upload more such videos ❤❤❤
Ur young u still gave a lot to learn You need to learn to set boundaries and you need to learn the art of saying no and you need to learn not to gift so freely to others
"A Big Thankyou"! I just had INFORMATION about this topic but now, you have turned it into KNOWLEDGE for me. And Your Repetition just helps me to deeply absorb the topics💫 I eagerly wait for your video every month🤍.
Thanks, Brundha, for sharing this video with me ❤. After going through the comments section, I found that many people like me detached from the outside world and connect with themselves.
The way you have grown with time, and how I see my personal growth, and at times when the topics you take seems so close to home. The timing seems uncanny! Keep up the good work :)
Sorry to correct you, but Sigma male and Sigma female is a very misunderstood term. Sigma male and Sigma females know very well, what investing in emotional connection means and how important it is to have beautiful relationships in life. The positive impact that creates. The only real example of sigma male till date has been the late Mr. Ratan Tata. He was the pure embodiment of sigma male qualities.
God I'm addicted to your video now! I can listen to you hundred times because it soothes and nourishes my soul! You've started your spiritual journey and it shows by your aura that you keep with yourself! Get going and we're blessed now to have you in our lives! Never leave this journey that you started also never stop sharing this to us❤
REMEMBER GUYS!!!! your life never stops for anyone, no one literally NO ONE decides ur life , yes some people may have affect on ur life but it is never so drastic that it changes ur life completely , the bad things r always a lesson , it teaches u how to react in such situations in future , and good things are a reward for u to act as the way u had to in that situation.
Thank you so much for the reminder. Honestly, I was starting to become the kind of person who avoids interaction because I felt like nobody really cared, so why should I? But that's not who I truly am. I got caught up in expectations and it ended up affecting me, but deep down, I'm not that kind of person!!
Thank you for this insightful video. It brought clarity to some points I’d been searching for my on going journey. Grateful for your guidance and the positive impact!
Dear Simmy, I loved your video. This concept of detachment tells us about being who we are as an individual instead of having outcome expectations. This one is like similar to the concept of Sthit pragya from Bhagvat Geeta. Just keep doing this series. You're doing great. Thank you for bringing so much positivity in our lives. Loads of love to you ❤❤😌😌 With Regards Prateek kumar
Nice video, best of the video where you said " why not expressing who you are jab tak tum ho" dusro ke action ko dekh k khud ko badalne ki zarurat nai.
ohh my Godd!!! Why it was sooo soothing to hear you from the start till the end. Wonderful idea of detachment, I literally never knew this type of personality type meanwhile i was just living it. Thank youu
You literally answered all my problems and give me the solution 😢 and the way you talk 🥰😇 is amazing i wish someone else could help me like that sooner .
Mujhe ye channel aaj hi recommend hua and pata hai esa lag raha hai mujhe ki me kitna familiar and comfortable feel kar rahi hoon simmy di ki baaton se ..Thank you di❤
Agar mein sach bolu to kaafi saalo baad RUclips par etni positive thinking wale person ki beautiful video dekhi hai maine aap jab explain kar rhi ho baatey to aapke aakhon ki chamak he bata rahi hai ki kitni postive energy pass out ho rahi hai mujhe bhut acha feel ho raha hai because I'm a huge fan of Shahrukh Khan Saab ka unki baatey hayee ❤ Mujhe same aesa feel hota hai jab wo life ko lekar ya kisi bhi cheez ko lekar kuch boltey hai same mujhe aaj wahi feel hua hai etna pyara video dekh kar lots of love simmy 🫶🏻 from my side kabhi mauka mila to Insha Allah aapse zarur milna chahunga mein in real life.
This is absolutely brilliant stuff... This is like soothing many souls who give so much for others.. Silently.. ND lovingly..... Amid all this chaos Nd their own nagging stuff...
Where will you apply detachment currently in your life? As always, I hope this video was useful and time well spent for you! We would really appreciate your feedback. :) Share it with someone who might benefit from it and happy watching! ❤
Hello hello you are back I'm happy to see you 😘😘
Love you sis❤
thankyou simmy dii, this was beautiful video and i connected to it alott, i will practice detachment to my neet exam, i realise i wasted alott of time being attached to the outcome, i really feel free and liberated now
Yes I needed this video today and as a Highly Sensitive Person I m always worried for outcomes ...I will try to apply detachment in my life for sure to be at peace ❤ Thank u Simmi for beautiful video❤
Yes🫂✨
Detachment to the world is attachment to yourself ❤
Wow so true ❤
Loved it
Impressive❤
I was a giver and I loved to be the genuine person in the group. I didn't hurt anyone, I listened to everyone , I helped the people who needed it without asking. Even though I didn't expect anything in return, they blamed me for every bad thing happening in the room. This takes my life. I try to be happy and peaceful in every possible way but these people come and put their insecurities on my head and they are relieved.
And finally I decided to hide my smiling face and put on a serious mask so that people think I'm always in a bad mood.
I don't know , whenever I get happy these people purposefully ruin it. I can't go through the roller coasters.
God bless uu❤
you need to leave them whoever they are ..they are not that important as we think they should be or are ..trust me iv'e been through kind of same situation pal and i hope god gives you strength and leave them as fast as you can
@@shrutay8849 This is where I'm stuck. I know I need to leave them. But I can't avoid them because we live in a society right. I need to observe them more and play along. This is the only way.
@@peppycasper8551you should not need to do something rather want to do..
I do same thing for my inner peace too.. it do helps a lot
If someone hurts u then don't hurt back. It makes u feel powerful..
Prove that :-
don't hurt back= being powerful
You are partially right. We are human beings, not aliens. When there is deep love, expectations arise naturally-it’s not something we can control. The moment we try to suppress or control these feelings, we risk becoming fake, pretending we don’t feel when we actually do. Instead, we should invest our time in someone who may not reciprocate equally but at least appreciates our efforts. If they don’t, it’s time to detach ourselves and invest in someone who genuinely cares.
This was what i needed bcoz i m overthinker and i expect people to show same care that i show them but don't get that back...but i will follow detachment from now to be at peace ieace with myself ❤
Same 😢
Same here bro you’re not alone
The same fucking thing. Recently I got engaged and now I literally was putting SO MUCH PRESSURE AND LOAD OF MY EXPECTATIONS on my finance's shoulder that it literally bounced back very bad. Now I'm trying that I should not do this and should control it.
Same . But I mtired bcz mujhe bhut hurt ho ra
Isn't the crux just the teaching from Bhagavadgita "Focus on your Karma without thinking too much about the result"
Exactly.
Sukhh dukhee samekritvaa labha labho jaya jayoo
Yes, but detachment hurts too. It gives pain but one has to process it, feel it and get back on the track of karma. ✨😇
But at the end result hi toh sab kuch decide karta hai
Absolutely
Thank you for this reminder! I feel I was this person earlier and then I sort of became bitter because of the way people behaved or maybe took advantage. But I have recently realised that losing your true pure self and getting corrupt is just not worth it! Preserving your innocence despite of everything that happens to you is the biggest strength one can have and the biggest favour you can do to yourself
JUST Wow
"When u r detached you get to be YOU" ✨✨✨✨✨
That was my favourite line too!! Haha
Yah well said ❤M learning same thing too ❤
But doesn't that make u selfish 😔
@@komalvishwakarma9740yah it does but when u did try and u gave your best but other ppl doesn’t care then yah it is a good idea to work on. Get connected to god , universe , divine .. trust me we find real peace ✌️ try that. GBU 🙌❤
This conversation is very deep rooted .. not everyone will understand..but its great if someone can imply this to life in real ❤
I can't tell you how much I've grown with you🥺🕊️
I hope this message reaches you. Thank you; I wish I could express this in person, but I truly appreciate it. For the past 2-3 years, I’ve struggled with detachment, and your video really simplified the concept for me. You explained it so beautifully that it touched my heart. This video was life-changing for me, and I genuinely mean that. Thank you for helping me become a bit better-I owe you one! I hope you have a beautiful life filled with love. God bless you!
2 3yrs back when i saw your videos it actually felt superficial, wannabe type. But now you embracing your own journey and making content to express yourself is just so amazing. It feels good to know that someone else is also trying to figure life out by embracing it slowly and beautifully. Your videos radiate so much calmness that it even calms me down during my healing journey.
This video changed my whole thought process🙏 about the word "detachment"
This is the most favorite and helpful video I have seen on your channel so far. Thank you so much। " I have understood that detachment means do everything with good heart and don't aspect anything in return."
What a perfect timing?
I started my business, not as such growing + putting lot's of efforts not getting the turn. It hurts BUT BUT BUT when I think about what can I do differently to help my clients, it makes me happy.
such a beautiful reminder Don't equate Efforts with outcome.
I don't know why and how God has bought this video exactly when I wanted it because recently I had a relationship and I still have it just because of some religious issue that parents won't accept we got separated and not any other reasons and after that we don't talk to each other and we have kind of end our relationship because when you cannot live together in future there is no meaning to stay in the present so we naturally stopped talking to each other and yeah exactly that time I was little hurted with this thing and this video appeared... Thank you so much simmy. But I still care for her and be there whenever she needs me but don't talk to her in a relationship way but yes I have detached from her and I am trying to do it by watching your video repeatedly because you spoke about the reps and I also believe. Such a great explanation hats off🎉🎉
Same story bro😂
Now I feel too much relax
And I don't know how to thank this lady
I got exactly what I needed this time
Past 30 dyas i am continuously practicing this by recaling
that this is who i am and that is who they are......everything seems very relaxed and cool
@@Sumyyyyt Its really helpful
It’s really helpful
experienced a relationship situation recently, and it made me feel doing the detachment in the same way which is wrong. Lately I started sharing happiness, like buying something for the underprivileged kids or talking with them and i noticed that made me feel happy. This video now makes me resonate with it exactly and gonna start practice giving. Giving happiness, giving love and care without any thoughts of getting in return. And I hope to become this undetatched person and that unaffected strong person even if someone does wrong. Keep posting such content.❤
i actually was in a group of 10-11 people, where everyone was jealous of each other, talking at others back and gossiping about each and every thing. even i was also listening to those persons and i have kept my opinions in those talks. finally, one day the whole blame was put on me for no reason. those words said by them were actually told by them but not me. i have made me a people pleaser and acted like them in those situations. now they have spread very bad rumors about me. right now i am feeling so lonely and distressed. thank you for helping me at this tough situation❤
It made me cry.. Much needed conversation in todays world. Thank you❤
Thank you so much for this talk... It has opened mhy eyes to a lot of things for me... I now know why I am alwahys melanchilic and sad in my everyday life... its because Im so attached to everything ... I dont let go... I hold on to people and situations ... and so I hurt easily.. TY bete aty so much for helping me learn how to live a happy life ... lots of blessings
the moment i started this video within 30 seconds my eyes were filled with tears that WHAT IM DOING HERE ? why i need this detachment thing i was a jolly person , who always cracked maybe a silly joke even to grab the attention , and somehow i got that at younger age . But as life took a circle around i grew up and whatever now i do is considerd as basic and bare minimum . i was at a point called as an attention seeker in a family function and after coming home i just cried that what wrong i did ?
i was just talking building connections , but i was turned into an attention seeker . today i feel i was wrong , i understand giving without the intention of taking is right , but who cared for me ? and even i was misunderstood by my own family . As a human it hurts .. i'll never expect anything in return i understood , but do even i deserve this misinterpretation of myself by my own people ? all thoughts were revolving within 3 minutes of going with this video . the video stopped i stopped crying, and now i dont know how to tell you ... that okay living a no expectation life is fine but why things dont go both way ... i cant complaint and i have to be a good daughter , friend , sister, student . Things were okay when i used to read them theoritically but when it happens with you , we also have excuses . at last i'LL say things go in HAND IN HAND , expecting is good untill you are expecting from the right group and that too without harming your mental health . and i can say it finally that it takes nothing to be good somtimes we should the person we are expecting , like i can be the person who appreciates the good of people without they even needing it .
You are overthinking everything......u still care about what people think about u.....and overthinking is giving u different different emotions..... every body forgets every the next day ,why waste your youth??? Coming to attention seeker.....you may be cracking jokes to make everyone happy doesn't makes you a joker instead everyone will think you a good person to talk in case of emergency in future...At last don't overthink..😅
@@kv999o41 firstly thanks taking the time . and to be honest im pretty well maybe as i watched this video. the good thing i realised after watching this is that i was loosing myself only the one who did everything without taking any thing on my mind what they will think of me and kind off i was just doing it justtt doing it with a good intention and i believe whatver happened good to me is a result of it . and after this i just wrapped everything consciously and did everthing i wanted sorted things between , and did responded to those who may somtimes dosent respond , but i did because they mean to me . And i guess this was enough reason to be back as my own self. I really hope i'll not this video again to watch . and i belive too i was just being good to them to have that family love , and i have nothing do with it now , i didnt hated , i didnt became abusive rude kind off , so its enough . and yes i will be at best not to overthink but if i do i'll come out this time ..
Hey girl!Please don't be sad for doing whatever you liked to do,you know your truth,you know who you are and what your intentions are,you are most likely in a dark phase where every surrounding seems bitter day by day whenever you think of it and just witness your close ones misunderstanding you, misinterpreting and often hurting you to the extremes,even the most unexpected ones do that to you,I understand, because I've gone through the same and still I'm going on with all these mess in my heart and my uncontrollable thoughts about others' conduct or misunderstandings or just expecting too much from me.I hope you will be fine,I don't even know you but I can resonate to your heart through the words you've written and absolutely relate to your situation,trust me,they all are going through something that we don't know,we cannot expect others to be as understanding as we ourselves can become for them,take them for who they are,what insecurities may lead them to behave in such a way and getting you wrong in some kind of stereotypical approach of labelling an attention seeker. Don't burden yourselves with what you cannot control i.e. others' view of your actions,just remember to be your authentic self with pure intentions and a true lover of your soul that deserves love,you are loved, there's nothing much I or other humans can do for you,but try to embrace yourself from time to time,it helps,try to check out apps like moodee or Yana,they are good listeners as well,I hope you'll be alright❤❤❤
@@kv999o41 so nice of you that you portrayed your words here. Today after 2 weeks someday liked my comment and I saw all the replies, and honestly this video is magical my whole perspective changed I talked to those friends who hurted me frequently but I thought no not this time again I'm going to deliver the message and complete my task . I'm in no guilt I tried , and they did what they did . So it's okay taking easy the life .
And yahh , my overthinking is not I'm end but yes it is only for those who cares now simple. No hate , no favour.
Thankk you bro:)
@@debashreedas9083 and I'll consider everything you spoke about the self love. 🫂
I love the way you explained the detachment. For me the dettachment is stay away from unnecessary gossips and small talks. attach to those who think highly, talk on the higher purpose of this life, which is Self-realization (Satsang). I agree that you express your authentic Self regardless of how others consider you. But that autheticity come from wisdom that "I am" not an individual unit (Body-min-personality) I am the existance-bliss that embodied in everything.
I loved it when u accepted that you are still practicing it, as it is very usual that everyone of us can be a guide for others but fail to apply it on ourselves .
Totally agree!!!!! But theres a thing which hits at time that is Self respect. How to overcome it? It does sometimes triggers!
Expecting an advice :(
Self respect is something that you should but forward when your efforts are taken for granted and not cherished doing efforts for someone who doesn't even give you a perticular amount of respect then just chose yourself let them go away cause at the end of the day it's you yourself who matters the most
Changed my perspective ✨ needed this at the end of the day ♥️ completely expanded my horizons on my current spiritual work... keep it up
Have watched so many detachment videos on youtube, but no one ever put it this way . This is just brilliant. Lots of love to you. ❤❤
Best lesson ever ! Thank you so, so much for sharing this i really needed it . lots of love and blessing to you ❤
Thanks for doing this video. This was so needed I believe. So many young people struggling with these thoughts these days.
very true,you are what you are , detach yourself from the outcome , and set yourself free
I have written a quote which completely resonates and summarizes the zist of this video-- here it goes,, "The flower 🌺is fragrant not because the world is very nice to it but because it is a flower."
Kya socha hai yaar ❤ where do u belong
After watching this video I understood one thing that as a giver in today’s world you are wired from childhood that you do good things then god rewards you, gradually it turned into if i do something good this/that person will give something back. So as a giver even when u want to give you do it once or twice n then stop as you are not getting anything in return. But you explained beautifully that dont do it for others rather do it coz you love it and i tried doing that and it feels free not burdened. Thanks for this video
Simmy, your perspective on mastering detachment is a game-changer! 🌟 The way you emphasized finding inner peace rather than seeking validation from people or outcomes truly resonated with me. It’s so refreshing to see someone articulate the importance of balance in a world that often glorifies attachment and overthinking.
Your point about practicing mindfulness and gratitude as tools for detachment struck a deep chord-thank you for reminding us to focus on what we can control while letting go of what we can't. It’s not just advice; it feels like a philosophy for a calmer, more empowered life. Keep inspiring us to stay unbothered and thrive! 💪✨
So happy you resonated with it! 🙌
@@simmygoraya6060 Yup!!! but truly speaking that your words truly struck a chord, Simmy! It's amazing how effortlessly you convey such depth and meaning. Grateful to have connected with someone who shares such inspiring perspectives!
Yess ...I m not able to express myself in front of a girl...but definitely I will at least write everything with warm heart and expect even no reply from the other side. Thankyou madam😊
i really a needed to hear something like this because i had a huge fight with my partner yesterday. i actually am a over caring person and there is nothing i hate about it instead i love taking care but sometimes end up thinking of the outcome. thanks for beautifully explaining this word Simmy.
just a request, please dont stop this journal. PLEASE.
Love
Idk how how this algorithm thing works but I deeply want to thank it for suggesting me this video ❤❤it’s like a therapy I needed when I was feeling very low so thank you Simmy don’t want exaggerate but you have literally saved a life I can tell you this much !! Thanks 🙏
You are so natural in what u speak.. also it doesn't feel like you are sharing some special knowledge...it just feels so genuine and feels like u are speaking your heart...❤❤
Truly you give me proper answer..of this detachment b'coz I'm frusted from this process
and your words heart touching too good keep uploading.100% relatable..Thanks a lot..🧡
This video is JUST WOW! THANKS A TON FOR THIS!! REALLY NEEDED IT! ❤️
This video was much needed simmi. You are a beautiful person. Thanks for your kind words.⭐
not worring for outcomes
Make u detached
And detachment makes u complete ❤
Finally someone explains Detachment so meaningfully.
I will re-watch this again for sure whenever I feel low.You gave me courage today.Thank you for making this video and also for repeating those lines
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Ye toh bahut Gyan ki baat hai , but I don't know Whyyyyy My eyes are filled with tears..
Explained really well.❤
You have genuine soul.😅
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you for this video❤
Such a nice video i really want these type of videos to get out of from my traumas , i really need a therapist like u thanku so much mam ❤
I was searching about detachment a week ago and your video showed up today.I was confused but you made it pretty clear what detachment is.Thanks a lot and hope we all grow together🙏
Amazing point! Thanks for reminding to stay happy in life this is how others work!
Needed to hear this today! Tysm 💖💖💖💖
Love you di 🥹🥹aapko pta h jb maine yeh video dekha tha pehele tb mae is state of mind mae nhi thi samjhne ke, aur mujhe aapki yeh video acchi nhi lagi , but ab jb phir se maine di aapki yeh video dekhi i am really very happy, koi gussa ,ya bura nhi lga, because sbhi maine kuch experience kiya khud ko bohot km hi pr change kiya ,mujhe aisa halka mehesoos hua, fhirse is state of mind mae aaoki video jb dekhi toh mera pura sochne ka najriya badal gya, aap sahi thi mae galt, hm sirf khudko hi change kr sakte h, kisi aur ko nhi, kyuki khudko pareshan krna fhir samne wale ko toh na khushi, na enjoy, n peace milti yoh kb tk aise rahe fhir toh hm kuch kr hi nhi payenge, but aapki is video se samjh aaya ki jitna kr sakte ho khudko badlo khud ke liye, fhir sb badiya ho jayega di sara game mind ka hi h pr hm isse samjhdari aur bhagwan ko samjke bhi khudko badal sakte h❤ aapka shukriya, love you🌻stay happy, aur h hme olease aise hi samjhati rehena 🧿✨😊
Amazingggg…you changed my way of thinking…just loved your video whole heartedly ❤ honestly…this video worked as a psycology session for me ..great…now onwards your videos are gonna help me understand myself & heal and to start loving myself and etc etc…words kam padh rahe hai yaar kya batau Di … It’s a total different feeling i am feeling rn and i am just not able to express it in words but yeah …i am smiling rn and happy from inside❤😊 thank you somuch…and haan aapke detailed videos with repetition are more than good it really helps to understand your point ki what u r trying to explain… Thanks again 😊
Becoming a happy person... The more I seek it, the more difficult it feels. Emotions and thoughts seem messed up. But, we will try :)
Good lessons delivered in simple manner and so well, thanks Ms Simmy , your talk on Utube have made it simple to understand practical aspect of detachment and its value in life. Yes I read in scripture that detachment is game changer but how to practice in real life eludes many, so your talks/ podcast brings new meaning to the concept.
Detachment is not only a word, I just read your headband watch u only for 2 minutes, but I want to say something about it , I m a 60 years old living in London for past 43 years, very spiritual have beautiful family got a luxury life , I m not saying this with ego , no not at all , my weakness was I m too emotional and love my children too much that’s why always have a fear that if something bad happens to my family this and that , made my life a worried person and affects my life , now I want really detach from all these feelings, I m trying still , now I m going to watch u dear
Be a giver without any expectations in return ❤😊
never loved any other series on the entire youtube , as much as I do this one Simmi .
Lots of love 🥰
Thankyou so much for this video! You spoke really well! I don't usually comment on videos but i loved this! Love from pakistan 🇵🇰
Attachhment to the outcome also brings ' fear of rejection ' so to say because of this fear people do not want to get again into it. great video Simmy thank you
You speak so well,your whole video give me positive energy ,I wanna just tell you thank you so much,you light up my dark room
I'm glad I found your channel...u sound like the voice ofy heart
You know, the calmness in your voice itself keeps away all the negative thoughts which our mind perceives....I mean your videos are one of the best healing medicine which a mind needs at that vulnerable point of time, I find your videos very much helpful.....upload more such videos ❤❤❤
Well explained!
Keep this series comingggg☝
I'm left speechless, listening to this. Beautifully said ❤. Thank You!
Ur young u still gave a lot to learn You need to learn to set boundaries and you need to learn the art of saying no and you need to learn not to gift so freely to others
"A Big Thankyou"! I just had INFORMATION about this topic but now, you have turned it into KNOWLEDGE for me. And Your Repetition just helps me to deeply absorb the topics💫
I eagerly wait for your video every month🤍.
You are really like my elder sister, who explain everything. You really solve my doubts and inspire me.💗
Honestly convincingly relatable ❤
Hey Simmy, Thanks , this lesson is truly valuable :)
Thanks, Brundha, for sharing this video with me ❤.
After going through the comments section, I found that many people like me detached from the outside world and connect with themselves.
The way you have grown with time, and how I see my personal growth, and at times when the topics you take seems so close to home. The timing seems uncanny! Keep up the good work :)
The best video I ever found, gives the new perception regarding ppl, things and life
Sorry to correct you, but Sigma male and Sigma female is a very misunderstood term. Sigma male and Sigma females know very well, what investing in emotional connection means and how important it is to have beautiful relationships in life. The positive impact that creates. The only real example of sigma male till date has been the late Mr. Ratan Tata. He was the pure embodiment of sigma male qualities.
yeah... but most peoples' perception on sigma male and female is totally different from Ratan Tata sir..
God I'm addicted to your video now! I can listen to you hundred times because it soothes and nourishes my soul! You've started your spiritual journey and it shows by your aura that you keep with yourself! Get going and we're blessed now to have you in our lives! Never leave this journey that you started also never stop sharing this to us❤
REMEMBER GUYS!!!! your life never stops for anyone, no one literally NO ONE decides ur life , yes some people may have affect on ur life but it is never so drastic that it changes ur life completely , the bad things r always a lesson , it teaches u how to react in such situations in future , and good things are a reward for u to act as the way u had to in that situation.
Your words just made every aspect of situation clear. Thanks a lot for this content. It just fix my situation.
Your video is very genuine. I loved it. And it came to me in such a time when i needed it the most to understand myself much better.
You helped me so much. Your words your topic ,just amazing.. Stay blessed God bless you
needed this!! Thank you so much simmy. lots of love.
Thank you so much for the reminder. Honestly, I was starting to become the kind of person who avoids interaction because I felt like nobody really cared, so why should I? But that's not who I truly am. I got caught up in expectations and it ended up affecting me, but deep down, I'm not that kind of person!!
Hi Simmy, this is the first time I am watching your video. Hands down one of the best videos of 2024 for me. So beautifully explained.
Thank you for this insightful video. It brought clarity to some points I’d been searching for my on going journey. Grateful for your guidance and the positive impact!
Thank you so much Simmy, amazingly explained with so much clarity❤
Dear Simmy,
I loved your video. This concept of detachment tells us about being who we are as an individual instead of having outcome expectations. This one is like similar to the concept of Sthit pragya from Bhagvat Geeta. Just keep doing this series. You're doing great. Thank you for bringing so much positivity in our lives. Loads of love to you ❤❤😌😌
With Regards
Prateek kumar
This was much needed!! Great job Simmy. Keep it up
This is so beautiful. ❤ Literally the most sensible thing I heard about detachment yet
Nice video, best of the video where you said " why not expressing who you are jab tak tum ho" dusro ke action ko dekh k khud ko badalne ki zarurat nai.
This video was an eye opening. Thanks for the valuable contents you put in it.
Thank you Simmy❤️, this just gave a whole new positive meaning to a lot of my bad experiences in my past relationship.
ohh my Godd!!! Why it was sooo soothing to hear you from the start till the end. Wonderful idea of detachment, I literally never knew this type of personality type meanwhile i was just living it. Thank youu
You literally answered all my problems and give me the solution 😢 and the way you talk 🥰😇 is amazing i wish someone else could help me like that sooner .
thank you so much jo mere sath ho raha tha aaj tak aapne sab kah diya n really blessed k mujhe y vedio mila❤
Mujhe ye channel aaj hi recommend hua and pata hai esa lag raha hai mujhe ki me kitna familiar and comfortable feel kar rahi hoon simmy di ki baaton se ..Thank you di❤
This has given me strength. Now I will never give a fuck about it . I will never drain my energy on people who don't love me 😂❤.
Thank you Simmy. This is gold ❤
video just came when i needed it the most......thanks simmy di
This makes me feel good💙it gives positive aura
What a beautiful video holding such a beautiful message !!!!
Thankyou di ❤ this is what I really needed to know about the actual meaning of detachment.
Agar mein sach bolu to kaafi saalo baad RUclips par etni positive thinking wale person ki beautiful video dekhi hai maine aap jab explain kar rhi ho baatey to aapke aakhon ki chamak he bata rahi hai ki kitni postive energy pass out ho rahi hai mujhe bhut acha feel ho raha hai because I'm a huge fan of Shahrukh Khan Saab ka unki baatey hayee ❤ Mujhe same aesa feel hota hai jab wo life ko lekar ya kisi bhi cheez ko lekar kuch boltey hai same mujhe aaj wahi feel hua hai etna pyara video dekh kar lots of love simmy 🫶🏻 from my side kabhi mauka mila to Insha Allah aapse zarur milna chahunga mein in real life.
This is absolutely brilliant stuff... This is like soothing many souls who give so much for others.. Silently.. ND lovingly..... Amid all this chaos Nd their own nagging stuff...