BK Shivani on Detachment: What Exactly Is The Art Of Detachment | Sister Shivani

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
  • 'Detachment' is the feeling that you have of not being personally involved in something or of having no emotional interest in it. In this video, Sister Shivani shares the art of withdrawing desire from lesser things and letting them fall away to harness the power of human beings to reach great heights.
    Source: Brahma Kumaris
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  • @podcastfnw5262
    @podcastfnw5262 10 месяцев назад +114

    I've come to the hypothesis that we first need to detach from our child trauma or parents emotional baggage... identify where is the wound and heal by accepting and letting go of it... cause we are basically repeating that same story but with new characters that represents that same feelings..I looked so deeply into this that I can identify who is representing who in my life and it's the same archetypes repeating ..until you let go

  • @barshakar7200
    @barshakar7200 Год назад +108

    "Attachment creates pain
    Detachment radiates power"

  • @tsivappiragasam1428
    @tsivappiragasam1428 11 месяцев назад +10

    Silencing myself is one thing but silencing others through my silence is something needed

  • @shilpisaini1090
    @shilpisaini1090 Год назад +107

    She is a Real life Angel

  • @TheProminentPost
    @TheProminentPost Год назад +59

    Learning this detachment has bought me so much peace... and being attached to people and things that don't bring me joy was hell❤

    • @MsMumbaikar
      @MsMumbaikar 5 месяцев назад

      Agree. It came to me at thr right time. In fact, on the right day.

  • @chanilerner2107
    @chanilerner2107 2 года назад +23

    When one falls down, the other can pull you out. Beautiful

  • @OhHapppyDaay
    @OhHapppyDaay Год назад +21

    My daughter was in pain. She perceived me as the cause of her pain.
    I detached from her for her happiness. I Love her very much. I'm glad about detachment. I am free, as well. No more pain for either one.

    • @RiniHS96100
      @RiniHS96100 5 месяцев назад +1

      I am in the same situation. Wish I had someone to talk to. It's very painful as a mother.

    • @amritaroy3888
      @amritaroy3888 18 дней назад

      ​@@RiniHS96100yes , painful , I can understand ..

  • @subramaniamnagasayi1044
    @subramaniamnagasayi1044 Год назад +14

    Cannot thank her enough!! how my approach to life has changed just in last 3-4 weeks and practising her methods!!Om Shanthi

  • @joshicharan4968
    @joshicharan4968 Год назад +41

    Detachment is 100% attachment to the moment you live oblivious of past and future.

    • @OhHapppyDaay
      @OhHapppyDaay Год назад +3

      I had to read this post twice, but I understand now. Thank you for writing it.

    • @bhavanirrao2021
      @bhavanirrao2021 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@OhHapppyDaaybut i didn't understand this comment. Can anyone explain this comment

    • @utsaharya5463
      @utsaharya5463 4 месяца назад

      It means living in the moment not concerned about past or future ​@@bhavanirrao2021

    • @Andrea-ed4hp
      @Andrea-ed4hp Месяц назад

      @@bhavanirrao2021it means live in the current moment without any expectations or anxiety about the past or future

  • @peterhalstead7682
    @peterhalstead7682 Год назад +5

    This way of teaching and the teachings needs to be in every school in the world.🧡🌲🐝

  • @shalinimahana6614
    @shalinimahana6614 Год назад +10

    Purpose of detachment is so that if one is siting the other can stand,if one is in pain the other is calm,pain-free,peaceful...beautifully explained.

  • @urmila16
    @urmila16 Год назад +24

    On the beam. As always. This is true spirituality in its most practical aspect. Wish every single person in the world would listen to her. Daily.

  • @meenabhatt6401
    @meenabhatt6401 Год назад +5

    Om Shanti ... Sister Shivani ... 🌹❤🌷

  • @luckydesilva6733
    @luckydesilva6733 11 месяцев назад +2

    With my love & respect . Gods blessings to you sister Shivani .

  • @richagarg990
    @richagarg990 Год назад +13

    Such a beautiful explanation why detachment & taking care of self is necessary. Being kind is essence of life 🌸. Om Shanti 🌸🙏

  • @Heena-pb5us
    @Heena-pb5us Год назад +3

    You saved me. I'm so glad I heard you today.

  • @bmsharma3824
    @bmsharma3824 Год назад +29

    Attachment creates pain. Detachment radiates power. 😮😮😮

  • @shivanimashruwala5821
    @shivanimashruwala5821 3 месяца назад

    It shatters me to the core where I have been that strong support for all the ppl all the time around me. God has always been kind to me and there have been rare occasions I have been put through in miserable conditions. Forget support in any other way none of those are even around to ask how are doing or you will be fine. The thing that has weakened me is not the hard time, its behavior of ppl who I considered mine, helped them in all possible way going above and beyond. None of them are around just to ask one simple question how are you doing or coping up with this. It is really heart breaking and killing me. I am losing my faith from kindness. I am very sure about it that what I am expecting is bare minimum and wont cost a penny.

  • @akshitapathak2998
    @akshitapathak2998 5 месяцев назад +1

    I feel so blessed that I have got to listen her powerful words. Love her sessions, truly effective to the core. Thanks with all my heart

  • @tsivappiragasam1428
    @tsivappiragasam1428 11 месяцев назад +1

    Great teachings by this sister is gift of God

  • @MargueriteSwatton
    @MargueriteSwatton 10 месяцев назад +3

    Practicing detachment is an art form! Keep up the practice until one perfects it.

  • @sunilm1299
    @sunilm1299 5 месяцев назад +1

    Easy to listen ! Difficult to imbibe & practice unless there is utmost resolve & sincere commitment!

  • @Panirchelvam-yr6xv
    @Panirchelvam-yr6xv Год назад +1

    BK sister Shivani after listening to your messages, all my unnecessary thinkings disappeared and I am having a stress free life

  • @DebdulalK
    @DebdulalK Год назад +2

    She is an incredible leader to spread loving compassion.

  • @waulau8
    @waulau8 Год назад +1

    Namaste 🙏Sister Shivani, you are my spiritual sister. 🙏Thank you for the teachings and guidance. I had learned a lot from you. 🙏

  • @jkd6969
    @jkd6969 Год назад +2

    Thank for this clarity. Unfortunately we are so conditioned from childhood with such attachment that pulls us down! These twisted ways cause us so much pain and never empower us nor those we are attached to!

  • @yourhealingjourney9824
    @yourhealingjourney9824 Год назад +2

    Detachment has made me stronger, way more focused and loving towards others. Attachment has always been a disservice

  • @raninaidoo3279
    @raninaidoo3279 Год назад +7

    Thank you really appreciate your time & wisdom on our journey. This is mind opening & mindshift for me to practice. Stay blessed - Om Snanti. Indrani Naidoo - South Africa ❤

  • @balajisidd2902
    @balajisidd2902 Год назад +4

    Thank you madam. I understand real meaning as how to live as an human being and be kind to all

  • @gururajkulkarni343
    @gururajkulkarni343 Год назад +2

    how very true, THANKS Sister for enlightening us!! God bless you...

  • @urmila16
    @urmila16 Год назад +3

    Glass example is brilliant. Absolutely brilliant. Focus on our mind not stress what is wrong or others' faults.

  • @nehapallavi8652
    @nehapallavi8652 Год назад

    She has invisible magic wands which magically removes our worries because she knows the value of sprituality she is connected with our supreme lord shiv baba 🎉our shivani behan god bless you om shanti !!

  • @mervijaakola1749
    @mervijaakola1749 Год назад +4

    Thank you for the great wisdom 🙏 yes, self-caring is crucial 💯

  • @lazitazen6882
    @lazitazen6882 Год назад +2

    Thank you so much ❤ I have no words to express my gratitude to this video ❤ It helped me so much, so much ❤ God bless you

  • @stevenfernandes9402
    @stevenfernandes9402 10 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful teaching. Thank you

  • @lakshimil3933
    @lakshimil3933 Год назад

    Nice peaceful satsangvwith you is a blessed feeling love Shivani

  • @Andrea-ed4hp
    @Andrea-ed4hp Месяц назад

    wow. this really resonates with me. Love the way this is explained

  • @donnafernandes3091
    @donnafernandes3091 3 года назад +24

    Good stuff right here

  • @sasharenee7348
    @sasharenee7348 Год назад +2

    Thank You So Much for this subject arena I was seeking for today & the last 3 years since Covid hit!! Was at the edge due to Always carrying family members & latching on to their energies (including the worry, fretting part) & needed my sisters advice today on what to do since I live with my parents caring for one of my parents.
    She immediately sent me this message & said listen & this was what I needed!!!!
    THANK YOU FOR YOUR WISE WORDS Regarding Attachment & Detachment!!
    These words were specifically meant for me
    &
    I am Eternally Grateful for You
    Blessing’s,
    Sasha Rene’e

  • @chandankumarshaw2670
    @chandankumarshaw2670 9 месяцев назад +1

    Soooooo good ly explained!!!!❤❤❤❤❤. She is so strong!

  • @mixer16ph
    @mixer16ph 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you Sister and Brahma Kumaris. ❤❤❤

  • @shashichopra1341
    @shashichopra1341 11 месяцев назад +1

    Om Shanti thanks divine angel 🙏

  • @lingarajkashyap9681
    @lingarajkashyap9681 Год назад +16

    OM NAMAH SHIVAY. ATTACHMENT MEANS INVITATION TO DANGER OR DISASTERS AND DETACHMENT MEANS TO INVITE PLEASURES AND FEEE FROM ANY BURDENS.

  • @janiverster6162
    @janiverster6162 Год назад +3

    Thank you for this powerful metaphor. I will remember the glass today ❤

  • @aishwaryavaijapurkar9671
    @aishwaryavaijapurkar9671 11 месяцев назад +1

    Being detached is so peaceful n calm feeling ❤❤❤,

  • @25phyll
    @25phyll 2 года назад +8

    This is seriously good stuff

  • @waulau8
    @waulau8 Год назад

    A power soul is the one that do not create waste thoughts.
    A power soul is the one who had the power to put an end to the waste thoughts of the other person. That brought my mind to Bhavan Sri Ramana Maharshi. 🙏

  • @HermioneIl
    @HermioneIl 3 месяца назад

    My gurudeva! ❤from Greece!

  • @bandanamakal
    @bandanamakal 2 месяца назад

    I really like to listen to sister shivani ❤❤❤❤ she is Angel

  • @ramaramachandra6270
    @ramaramachandra6270 2 месяца назад

    Now iam practicing. Thanks Sister ❤❤

  • @parishah7494
    @parishah7494 Месяц назад

    Thank you sister Shivani

  • @meidasken3508
    @meidasken3508 Год назад

    My favorite pod, thank you.

  • @sasisasi-l4k
    @sasisasi-l4k 10 месяцев назад

    Thanks very much. Especially hearing today. I was in trouble in meaningless attachment. Thanks.

  • @ashsuva
    @ashsuva 2 года назад +6

    So true, Om Shanti 🙏

  • @rajeshwarisrinivasan1730
    @rajeshwarisrinivasan1730 3 месяца назад

    Great spiritual insight !!

  • @StunningIpsita
    @StunningIpsita Год назад +10

    I must say she is a living God in this world

  • @reemaislam8748
    @reemaislam8748 9 месяцев назад

    Wow! Thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Love and Blessings always ...❤❤

  • @rajinilata2243
    @rajinilata2243 Год назад +2

    Om shanti sister, awesome sharing.😮

  • @diah7980
    @diah7980 5 месяцев назад

    🌻Detatchment radiates Power .
    🌻Attachment creates pain.
    Inside to Outside.
    For that I need to take care of myself.
    When Iam calm and untouched by the people around us. When Iam calm , Iam automatically kind to someone in pain . Radiates blessings . Earn blessings daily .
    No questioning or judging them .

  • @HaharuRecords
    @HaharuRecords Год назад +2

    I want buy this women..
    Edit: look how gently she blinks her eyes...Thats a sign of purity

  • @andreamurillo09
    @andreamurillo09 Год назад +6

    Mastering this, would really be amazing.

  • @nuryanti7624
    @nuryanti7624 Год назад

    Now i understand more about relationship, thanks to her

  • @shakirbaloch9505
    @shakirbaloch9505 Год назад +3

    Million dollars practical steps to adopt permanently. Thanks
    Shakir Baloch Islamabad Pakistan

  • @DrArjunGrover
    @DrArjunGrover 11 месяцев назад

    OM SHANTI....😇😇😇😇

  • @fiorentinarizkiramadhana5377
    @fiorentinarizkiramadhana5377 Год назад +1

    this is gold

  • @KindyLemmon
    @KindyLemmon 11 месяцев назад

    Life changing. ❤

  • @prashantpillai-w4g
    @prashantpillai-w4g Год назад

    🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻

  • @supriyadutta1821
    @supriyadutta1821 6 месяцев назад

    Detachment is never leaving your family and doing whatever you feel like. Detached people give respect and more space to their loved ones without detecting or judging them to change

  • @kusumsingh1683
    @kusumsingh1683 Год назад +2

    Bless you didi, request you to speak on how to deal with narsissitic relationship and take care of children i such situations

  • @sadiaarman363
    @sadiaarman363 Год назад +6

    The first step to staying calm is, Protect yourself from the energy of the.situation and the people. Be a detached observer. Powerful soul is one who does not create waste thoughts. Powerful soul is one who can put an.end to the waste thoughts of others also

  • @shivanisrivastava1567
    @shivanisrivastava1567 9 месяцев назад

    Om shnti ❤

  • @prashantpillai9508
    @prashantpillai9508 Год назад

    🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻

  • @ingernordin3343
    @ingernordin3343 Год назад

    I love this ❤

  • @hiteshe_e9368
    @hiteshe_e9368 6 месяцев назад

    Attachments creates pain detachments heals them , gives power. I m peaceful soul. I have to be happy to heal myself. I have to radiate positive energy ❤ .when I m calm I m automatically kind.blessings is some I have to earn myself every single day . Being calm radiates kindness, being kind radiates blessings. My inner has no connection with outer world. 😊. My inside world which radiates to my outside world .

  • @papapapa3399
    @papapapa3399 Год назад +1

    Detachment is beautiful

  • @MjF809
    @MjF809 Год назад +1

    This is the ROOT of dysfunction
    We are taught this from birth from family yet its 100 percent curable!

  • @bhargavib707
    @bhargavib707 8 месяцев назад

    Loved it ❤

  • @alexandranun
    @alexandranun Год назад +5

    I feel detached from my kids but that doesn’t mean I don’t love them they think I’m cold and don’t care 😢

  • @trueman5948
    @trueman5948 10 месяцев назад

    All these things are intellectually stimulating........
    Madum we need practicle things that can bring behavioural changes in us....
    Pls guide us

  • @ThebeastStandalone
    @ThebeastStandalone 9 месяцев назад

    thank you so much didi i love you

  • @creativechristiancontent
    @creativechristiancontent Год назад +1

    You have to create a happy warming loving environment for your depressed loved ones ❤

  • @makomborerochivanga1318
    @makomborerochivanga1318 4 месяца назад

    Attachment create s pain, detachment radiates power!

  • @chronicdiseases6274
    @chronicdiseases6274 Год назад

    I love you and your truth

  • @akanshasingh575
    @akanshasingh575 Год назад

    Thank you 🙏

  • @Drsyed-y3g
    @Drsyed-y3g 2 месяца назад

    Detachment is positive.

  • @gayatrisibransingh4157
    @gayatrisibransingh4157 Год назад +1

    Yah Sach hai dhanyabad ❤

  • @lowkatherine
    @lowkatherine 3 месяца назад

    Detachment is freedom

  • @ElenaRoud
    @ElenaRoud Год назад +1

    I am ready

  • @bringarttogether
    @bringarttogether 2 года назад +4

    Thank you.

  • @sharadhajayaraman2092
    @sharadhajayaraman2092 Год назад +2

    Amazing explanation Sister

  • @unblinkable_e
    @unblinkable_e Месяц назад

    💙💫

  • @debasishsarkar5573
    @debasishsarkar5573 7 месяцев назад

    Every people is attached to someone in the world but we must not entgled ourselves with anything.

  • @akhileshprasad5644
    @akhileshprasad5644 Год назад

    All good evening everyone om Santi jai jai

  • @nkarthikeya8113
    @nkarthikeya8113 Год назад

    Mera pyara baba ❤❤❤

  • @LovelifewithGlory
    @LovelifewithGlory 7 месяцев назад

    Namasthe! While I understand everything you said about taking care of ourselves and radiating that power around us, without saying a word, How does someone understand if I'm showing them kindness or not? they might feel even more bitter thinking that I am not acknowledging their pain or it might appear to them that im being insensitive to their grief? idk if I put it across in a proper way, if anyone can help me understand this, I would appreciate it.

  • @shruti609
    @shruti609 Год назад

    Beautiful ❤️❤️

  • @Selflovexpedition
    @Selflovexpedition Год назад +3

    Sirf breakups wale he jante hain how much painful 😢 Attachment is

  • @sribatshadas3322
    @sribatshadas3322 Год назад +5

    Its tuff to detach urself when u love that person but might be she doesn't like that much

  • @bspraveen9364
    @bspraveen9364 Год назад +2

    Great words

  • @tsivappiragasam1428
    @tsivappiragasam1428 11 месяцев назад

    It is the inner world that should take care of outer but what generally happens is allow the outer to take of the inner and this process affects both inner and outer, because there is nothing to take from outer which is hollow.