You will never know how strong you are until you forgive someone who does not apologize, and accept an apology that you will never receive... Healing does not mean that the pain no longer exists, but rather it means that the hurt no longer controls your life... We forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness: Because we deserve peace."
Hello drishti I thank you for this video I watch your always and feel very connected to it . I am confused about my relationship because my patner doesn't support me whenever I try to do something new but I love him so I stop myself from doing that or I have to hide from it . What should I do 😅
@@Glamgirl_7 This is very tough situation because 6 years ka relationship mtlb kafi long time h but agar aapka partner aapko support nhi kr rha to phir aapko choose krna pdega kisi ek ko
@@sanjidasultana4073 same here...he promised me that he will only love me....but he got engaged recently .it seems like my whole world is shattered and I just don't want to live anymore
hey im not a professional at all and im going thru some stuff too so i understand.. maybe not as much as u do but im in pain too and i just want to tell u i love you and i am sending u virtual hugs
Another thing- I have recently realised when I asked myself “ what do I miss about this person? “ and after self introspection found out that aisa kuch interesting ya captivating tha hi nei. It was my energy that was making the experience and the person so special.
He just randomly blocked me without saying anything it's 2.5 yrs relationship n he don't care at all how can someone do this he is sleeping peacefully n am I here 4 am crying for him badly
@@anchal________2944 are you alright anchal.... I have been also going through same thing... How could someone even sleep peacefully by ditching feelings of others
The most crucial factor in healing is establishing no contact. It's akin to letting a burned hand recover - would it heal faster by repeatedly touching a hot stove or by giving it the time and space to heal without further injury? The analogy is clear, yet in relationships, we often find ourselves impulsively touching the "stove." No contact is designed to facilitate your healing process. It may be painful initially, but it's the key to your recovery. Remember, healing takes time, and the process might involve intermittent pain. However, with each passing day, you'll gradually feel better. Trust the process, and soon you'll find yourself completely healed.
@@anubhavverma8679 I really love the analogy that you created here😭 can you please elaborate a bit more on "no contact"? I can go months without talking to that person..but I am somewhat not able to stop looking over his social media accounts...everytime I stalk him over sm..I tend to feel more hurt but I am just not able to stop myself from stalking his profiles despite knowing the fact that stalking is gonna hurt me more🥲 at max I go 2-3 days without getting this urge to check his profiles. Then I down spiral and I go back to seeing his profiles.. it's so difficult to let go... i feel like i can't breathe .if you know what i mean😭😭 what is this no contact rule..
After 14 years of relationship..he said he can't marry me...he wanted to go with his family's Decision..i don't know what to do now..how to move on..I am feeling like maine sab kho diya😔 kuch bhi nahi bacha..
Bro, really? How can someone do this. 14 saal se khyaal ni aaya usko family ka. Aur usne pehle clear ni kara tha kya ke woh aisi situation m kya krega agar uski family naa mani?? We also understand ke family bahot important hai. But yrr, jis insan ko apne hope di, jo aap pe trust krta, pyar krta aap se, kya uska koi value nai? I can't understand when parents will start to understand choice and happiness of their children, that they force them to choose. Jo insan aapse pyar krta, woh bhi aapki family hi ban jata hai. Yeh kitna galat hai.. 14 yrs is no joke. Jo insan usko pyar krne wale ke emotions aur loyalty ki respect ni kar ska, uske liye khada ni ho ska, apna vaada poora krne ki himmat ni kar ska,I don't know woh aage kisi k sath kya hi nibhayenge. Sorry to say, but even i got hurt by reading what horrible phase you going through. I really hope that you heal from that person who didn't valued aapka sath.
Agar usmein himmat thi hi nai poori duniya ke samne aapka sath nibhane ka, toh aapko jhoothi umeed di hi kyu. Kya aap lokon ne discuss ni kiya tha ke in case families agree ni hoti, toh kya krenge woh? Zubaan bhi koi cheez hoti hai yrr, woh ajjkal ke insanon ne sasti banadi hai. Fir lok kehte hain ke ajjkal insan itni jaldi trust kyu ni karte, q ni believe krte efforts pe! I mean agar insan ko trust krke bhi end m yhi milna hai , toh acha hi hai ke insan jaldi kisiko bhaav de hi naa. Aise lokon se toh bache rahenge.. better single than being with someone, jiski fitrat itni jaldi change ho jayegi, sath nibhane ke time pe.
I can feel you it's ok dii... life h hoti rehti h cheze. Shyama ju hmari thakurani shree radha ju pe vishwas rakho 🫂... hmari maharani sab dekh rhi hain vo sab dekh rhi h preshan mat hona. Mera 5½ years ka relationship khatam hua h uske itne low efforts ki vjh se......for granted lene ki vjh se...... mushkil ho raha h mere liye bhi but it's okk shyama ju hain hmare sath ❤🫂
Since 2023 i have been scrolling a lot of videos lecturing a lot about breakups, manifestation this that . And i won't lie there's nothing new you've said today that i didn't know but i found a reflection of my own self aggressively telling me to just shut up and move on. As you said "enough of this get a life ". I am so grateful for your video i found today. I'll be visiting to this video again and again until i surpass this situation. Thank you so much ❤
I've done such things that you've told in this video, I'm working on myself, but also there are such things to do. I feel that I'm on track. Thanks, Drishti Dii and also I'm thankful to the universe for being with me and guiding me every time.
Truth being spoken! Being a guy the only thing I can ask all the male viewers to please don’t create any disrespect or hatred for the person who left you. Heal yourself and make a better life for yourself. May God bless you’ll ❤️
Mera breakup toh nahi but rejection hai. And it really hurt me a lot. We were friends but after that he don't talk. I wanted to talk badly sometimes i used to text him but aise reply deta tha ki woh care hi nahi karta. It's been years now we don't meet, we don't talk. Now itna pain nahi hota jitna beginning phase mein hota tha. Abhi itna importance nahi hai uska mere dil mein which i had before. Life is going good. Working on myself. My career. Happy!! But searching for new.
This is the same which i feel in my life, Everything is relatable, Good Job dear, Your every video is so meaningful, recently I have started following you , You are so pretty and videos are genuine ❤
This is the only video related to heartbreak or breakup that I can relate a lot and I really feel that connection...she explained it so simply that its easy for me to connect nd relate. Thank you for this video I needed the most now
You told us the main reason of why we fall in love with another person.. This route cause will definitely need to know us to heal ourselves..thanks for sharing such core things ❤ YOU are gods angel which helping people to make emotionally strong..Thank you God 💕and thank youhh for making such videos ❤
This is a godgifted video for me my dear friend.Aapka y attitude dekhkr mujhe ek inspiration mili Ki ab khud ko change Krna h move on Krna h thankyou sis ❤
From my experience, Whenever u feel like hugging that person and sleeping and wenting out whatever u hv in ur mind, just do it infront of god , tell him each and everything that u want to tell that person and feel free but never beg that person to come back, just feel like u r with urself and no one else can do that , remember u will remain with urself forever and ur god will never leave u and he always has best plans , trust divine plans❤ Dont try to control everything in ur life and trust god
I tried hanuman chalisa… it worked, as such kafi time baad shuru kee thee, but the way it worked is like magic… I feel any kind of seva, helping healing people…. Helps a lot in your healing journey..
He chased me from youtube ..we were really shared understanding, motivating each other bond ..but suddenly he blocked me because his family want him to focus on his studies ..and i didn't stopped him ..may he fulfill his parent wish ...if its meant to be together it will 😊
I loved the point about being an introvert and getting attracted to someone who is an extrovert and that's a gap or void inside us that has to be filled by working on ourselves and not looking for that elsewhere.
Exactly same happened with me. I was talking to this guy I met online. He was just so fun to talk to, as he knew all the topics and just so friendly and extroverted and being so happy and loud and cheerful. That's where I started liking him. Now I know it was my gap, of being a kind of silent boring nerd, wo always wanted that same energy that guy had.
I am suffering through this last 6/7 months and through this I try to give up my life for him but some reason god save my life and your video help me to move on from this situation thank you drishti di❤❤😊
Honestly speaking no one's perfect and it's all about forgiving each other. It's fine things are over sometimes it doesn't work out right? So that's fine. Just forgive yourself and the other person and keep growing 💖 Everything happens for a reason.
Don't know what to comment, can't say much... I'm just grateful to you that you have posted this video... Thank you very much Drishti Ma'am ❤️✨... There's a lot to learn from this 14 minute video, literally a lot...
Drishti di! I just love your channel. Trust me your storytelling skills is soo impressive. You are creator who constantly evolve/trying to be better in every video. You are supper amazing. The community you have built is really sooo precious :) your topic selection & all is just amazing. And one more thing...! Your video editor is great aswell :) his editing skills makes your video engaging and i see your recent themes of video are top notch as well (pink). Keep up the good work :) ♡♡♡
Drishti legit the best video , hands down the best video. right away sharing with all the friends who are going through this phase. this will definitely help them a lot, keep makin such beautiful helpful content.
Thank you so much for this video i truly needed. I had never ever imagined that this day would be come in my life. But we never know when the things turns and twist. We broke up and there is no way of togetherness, I want to move on and I'll give my 💯 in this phase. But it will be going to tough for me because he is my neighbour. Pain and sadness were never to be part of my life. despite all the things I believe in myself and one day i will be fine.
I had a terrible breakup 9 years ago, healed myself completely, never dated anyone in that phase. Had no faith in love. Worked hard and was selected as an officer, working for the security of my mother land India 🇮🇳 Last October, life took a turn and I fell in love again. A mature experienced man so to say, this woman made me realise why it didn't work with anyone else and beautiful life can become. Eventually she too left me due to family issues. She never tried convincing her parents. It has been a different journey right now, I hope I recover soon. Moral: No one loves you in this world apart from you yourself and if you are lucky enough your mother will. You should love your mother and your mother land only.
If someone leave you and if you are saying like "I love him a lot" then we should respect each and every decision of that person because we are saying "love" and once we are deeply in love then just enjoy that feeling even if he/she is not yours, you are too lucky because of him/her you got to know the feeling of "LOVE"❤❤
Hi Drishti, been following you since sometime now. There's always something new to learn from you. Whenever I see your video I always feel like I want more, I want to keep on talking to you. Today it felt like I was talking to a friend who is telling me bs bohot hua now's the time you get your shit together. Thanks for for putting this video. Definitely feeling ki aur sunti rahu, aap aur daaton.😂 Thanks a lot❤❤
I was just going through this phase l wanted wanted to heal myself but didn't understood how to do so . I don't usually comment on any video but l did for this one. As a teenager l feel it was just the right decision to follow you
Just a random story of 2 ppl. They meet online, they talk, they start liking each other. He wanted a rltnship, but she had nothing more than platonic feelings for him. Eventually, they continue talking and he kept on proposing. One fine day she accepted, when she knew that she'd actually fallen for him. And then, just like how every story goes..she ended up getting hurt. They broke up just within a month. There was not 1 single reason for that breakup.Whatever be it, she was not yet ready to let him go. She tried giving themselves another chance only to end up getting hurt once again. But this time, the reasons made her prioritise her self respect, and to do the last favour when you love someone, i.e "the act of letting go.." It took 8 months to come in this rltnshp right from the time they started talking, but she still felt the same till the last day. Her feelings didn't change. It was true that he fell first, but she fell harder!
I always like the way you talk the way you explain, in each and every point of your content is simple which help audience to understand... Keep making such videos especially self developing and motivating.
Sidhi bath no bakwas thanks drishti every line u have said has a lot of value in it i just felt u are talking directly to me 😂 much needed video at this point of time
You sound so sorted. I feel breakups teach you a lot about yourself. I am going through a breakup phase and your words are very helpful. Few more days and i think i will be over her.
One more think i want to share its just a reminder cozz i have face itt.sometimess when we ask help from someone like our frnds,family memebers anyone we slowly become dependent on them and we think kii hn ab jo bhu ho yeh toh haina meri baat sunne ke liye hamesha kitna bhii ek hi cheez repeat karo yeh hoge hii support krne thiss iss the moment we have to realise that we have beckme dependent on them cozz life is will have up and downs in future too and naybe you have to deal with the pain of breakup again and not everytime you willl have them to listen to you..yoi have to learn to be emotionally independent kn your own and to avoid expectations from anyone....i hope that you all have got my point....thank you ❤❤
Didi ab toh lgta hai detach hi detach hai .. feelings hi nhi aati kisi ke liye jb breakup ho frnds mai bhi .... Like frnds ke sath ldai 3-4 din bs lgte hai attachment aur baat krne ki habit htane ke liye uske alawa buraa hi nhi lgtaa 😢 ... Lgta hai jese ab kisi ke liye true feelings aati hi nhi h bs ya toh attachment hoti hai ya baat krne ki habit...more like just enjoying the attention... And not true feelings
Well said main vi yehi manti hoo everything happens for a reason and also if something or someone hurt you breaks you for no reason just let them go with all your love to them and just be patienced ❤😌 universe sab kuch wapas deta hain ,,,,sabko😌
i m in so much pain these days.....i am in a situationship...this guy always behaved as if he also has same feelings for me but now i can see his behaviour changing....i really love him but he is such a pain in ass....never makes me feel important now...earlier he used to make me feel special...he said he have feelings he says that he is also attached to me but then he behaves as if i m being desparate for him....he wants to reap all relationship benefits from me but is never there when i need him....idk if he is a playboy or what but plz to anyone reading this pray for me that he also develop more feelings for me😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
This is the video I needed. She exactly break down whatever I was feeling. I felt so much relief after doing what she mentioned in the video. Keep up the great work 🎉
kash y video mujhe last year mili hoti jab mera breakup hua tha abhi y video sun k aisa lg rha seriously kitni chutiya thi mai jo ek insan k liye itna ro rhi thi jisko meri value hi nhi thi 😂😂
2 days ago i broke up with my boyfriend and that was the hardest phase of my life ever. I was in a relationship for 3 and half years we had both good and bad memories together, but he cheated on me twice i still forgive him and give a chance but he didn't change his behaviour and keep on hurting me . I don't feel regretted about my relationship, he wasn't enough lucky to have me 😢 So I'm here to heal my healing journey. Hope he finds someone who match his own behaviour
Didi aapki break up vali theory excellent hai i would like to add something - TIME is the best HEALER, jaisa jaisa time bita jayga vaise vaise tumhe uss person ko bhul jaoge aur khudhke life mai busy hote jaoge aur ek time aisa ayga ki tumhe uss bad & good memories, and uss person ko iss najariyese dekhoge ki, "Are ha mere life mai bhi aisa khuch hua tha but janedo jo hua so hua muje uske bajese ek life lesson mila." And trust me i am one of that. So trust the process and take this time to become best version of yourself. Hope this is helpful ❤😊
Drishti Di this video is awesome ♥️ Thank you so much for this video because this video tell us how to see your life after breakup in a different way..♥️♥️♥️ I really need this.. Love you Di ..😌
Maine toh breakup ke baad apna sim hi change kar diya aur phone use karna band kar diya 1 year tak but abhi bhi kabhi kabhi uski yaad aati jab tak aap ki ye video nahi dekhi thi but now I understand ki jo hota hai aache ke liye hota hai thank you di for helping me ❤
We broke up after 10 years of relationship and after just 3 months of breakup yesterday she got engaged to someone, I am totally devastated after seeing those pictures.
I understand that no contact phase is an important step in moving on but there are certain situations when you are just suddenly left hanging with no explanation from the other person, when things were genuinely going great and you never saw this coming, that is one of the most hurtful experiences. Sure you never know what the other person might be going through but after establishing good rapport and an understanding relation with someone and then being left questioning everything is just unfair. At that point of time, I believe it’s about seeking clarity and expressing myself as to how that made me feel regardless of whether I receive a reply or not from him, I’ll get a closure just by saying what was bothering me. It’s about protecting my mental peace at that time so that years from now when I’m doing much better in my life and once in a while get struck by those so called midnight/3AM thoughts, he’s not one of those. I wouldn’t want to get upset by something that made me feel like shit in my past. I also don’t believe in forgive and forget. Sure with time I’ll forget but I wouldn’t want to forgive someone who made go through such a terrible emotional roller coaster ride. You don’t have to do either of them if you don’t want to, you can just move on by letting out your opinion and expressing yourself, this is a way to set boundaries for yourself and makes it very clear to the other person too and is a form of closure in itself. Whether or not you receive a reply from him, that won’t matter, atleast you did your part and it’s not on you anymore and not your fault. It really feels liberating at that time because now you know that it is over for real and even if they do try to come back to you later, you wouldn’t want to and that is real GROWTH!
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You will never know how strong you are until you forgive someone who does not apologize, and accept an apology that you will never receive... Healing does not mean that the pain no longer exists, but rather it means that the hurt no longer controls your life... We forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness: Because we deserve peace."
Words🙌🏻
You are absolutely right this is compulsory for our self peace
10000% agree with these words... 😊❤
Hello drishti I thank you for this video I watch your always and feel very connected to it . I am confused about my relationship because my patner doesn't support me whenever I try to do something new but I love him so I stop myself from doing that or I have to hide from it . What should I do 😅
@@Glamgirl_7 This is very tough situation because 6 years ka relationship mtlb kafi long time h but agar aapka partner aapko support nhi kr rha to phir aapko choose krna pdega kisi ek ko
"Koi zaroorat nhi h khud se zyada kisiko importance dene ki"- Best line❤ and practically applicable in real life too😌
Feels like a older sister is there Infront of us and giving us lessons ❤. Thank you di 😊.
Kash bade didi aur bhai really main itte close hote age gap ke wajase open nai ho patey
After 10 years of attachment, relationship with someone. Now he is getting married to someone. I'm totally devastated right now.
@@sanjidasultana4073 same here...he promised me that he will only love me....but he got engaged recently .it seems like my whole world is shattered and I just don't want to live anymore
@@sanjidasultana4073 what are you doing now
@@sanjidasultana4073 me to abhi 1 hafte phele hua breakup
hey im not a professional at all and im going thru some stuff too so i understand.. maybe not as much as u do but im in pain too and i just want to tell u i love you and i am sending u virtual hugs
See, if they are able to marry someone why can't you?
'Only the scars remains' this is so real 😊
Another thing- I have recently realised when I asked myself “ what do I miss about this person? “ and after self introspection found out that aisa kuch interesting ya captivating tha hi nei. It was my energy that was making the experience and the person so special.
He just randomly blocked me without saying anything it's 2.5 yrs relationship n he don't care at all how can someone do this he is sleeping peacefully n am I here 4 am crying for him badly
@@anchal________2944 are you alright anchal.... I have been also going through same thing... How could someone even sleep peacefully by ditching feelings of others
@@anchal________2944 why always achhe logo ko hamesha bure log milte hai
@@anchal________2944 Hi we all are healing, just wanted to pray for you and let you know these tears are not worthy for him, hope you’re better ✨
Heyyyy.....love you Baby❤❤❤....... virtual hugs to you ....please preshan Mt kro.....khud ko
May krishna help u ❤❤
The most crucial factor in healing is establishing no contact. It's akin to letting a burned hand recover - would it heal faster by repeatedly touching a hot stove or by giving it the time and space to heal without further injury?
The analogy is clear, yet in relationships, we often find ourselves impulsively touching the "stove." No contact is designed to facilitate your healing process. It may be painful initially, but it's the key to your recovery.
Remember, healing takes time, and the process might involve intermittent pain. However, with each passing day, you'll gradually feel better. Trust the process, and soon you'll find yourself completely healed.
@@anubhavverma8679 I really love the analogy that you created here😭 can you please elaborate a bit more on "no contact"? I can go months without talking to that person..but I am somewhat not able to stop looking over his social media accounts...everytime I stalk him over sm..I tend to feel more hurt but I am just not able to stop myself from stalking his profiles despite knowing the fact that stalking is gonna hurt me more🥲 at max I go 2-3 days without getting this urge to check his profiles. Then I down spiral and I go back to seeing his profiles.. it's so difficult to let go... i feel like i can't breathe .if you know what i mean😭😭 what is this no contact rule..
The vedio is not just about breakup but also for the people who is healing in there life after separation or dettachment 💫✌️
After 14 years of relationship..he said he can't marry me...he wanted to go with his family's Decision..i don't know what to do now..how to move on..I am feeling like maine sab kho diya😔 kuch bhi nahi bacha..
Rashi... Apke pass sb kuch h dekho to ek baar piche mudd ke apke parents, apki family sb apka wait krr rhi h for your biggest 😊
Bro, really? How can someone do this. 14 saal se khyaal ni aaya usko family ka. Aur usne pehle clear ni kara tha kya ke woh aisi situation m kya krega agar uski family naa mani?? We also understand ke family bahot important hai. But yrr, jis insan ko apne hope di, jo aap pe trust krta, pyar krta aap se, kya uska koi value nai? I can't understand when parents will start to understand choice and happiness of their children, that they force them to choose. Jo insan aapse pyar krta, woh bhi aapki family hi ban jata hai. Yeh kitna galat hai.. 14 yrs is no joke. Jo insan usko pyar krne wale ke emotions aur loyalty ki respect ni kar ska, uske liye khada ni ho ska, apna vaada poora krne ki himmat ni kar ska,I don't know woh aage kisi k sath kya hi nibhayenge. Sorry to say, but even i got hurt by reading what horrible phase you going through. I really hope that you heal from that person who didn't valued aapka sath.
Agar usmein himmat thi hi nai poori duniya ke samne aapka sath nibhane ka, toh aapko jhoothi umeed di hi kyu. Kya aap lokon ne discuss ni kiya tha ke in case families agree ni hoti, toh kya krenge woh? Zubaan bhi koi cheez hoti hai yrr, woh ajjkal ke insanon ne sasti banadi hai. Fir lok kehte hain ke ajjkal insan itni jaldi trust kyu ni karte, q ni believe krte efforts pe! I mean agar insan ko trust krke bhi end m yhi milna hai , toh acha hi hai ke insan jaldi kisiko bhaav de hi naa. Aise lokon se toh bache rahenge.. better single than being with someone, jiski fitrat itni jaldi change ho jayegi, sath nibhane ke time pe.
@@rashi32104 don't worry love ur self and i mean seriously love urself
I can feel you it's ok dii... life h hoti rehti h cheze. Shyama ju hmari thakurani shree radha ju pe vishwas rakho 🫂... hmari maharani sab dekh rhi hain vo sab dekh rhi h preshan mat hona. Mera 5½ years ka relationship khatam hua h uske itne low efforts ki vjh se......for granted lene ki vjh se...... mushkil ho raha h mere liye bhi but it's okk shyama ju hain hmare sath ❤🫂
Since 2023 i have been scrolling a lot of videos lecturing a lot about breakups, manifestation this that . And i won't lie there's nothing new you've said today that i didn't know but i found a reflection of my own self aggressively telling me to just shut up and move on. As you said "enough of this get a life ".
I am so grateful for your video i found today. I'll be visiting to this video again and again until i surpass this situation. Thank you so much ❤
I hope you find strength to deal with this❤️
@@drishtiispeaks Thank you for this lots of love 💗
I've done such things that you've told in this video, I'm working on myself, but also there are such things to do. I feel that I'm on track. Thanks, Drishti Dii and also I'm thankful to the universe for being with me and guiding me every time.
I don't have any breakup story and also I was never in relationship but still I love watching your videos. love you di.
Truth being spoken! Being a guy the only thing I can ask all the male viewers to please don’t create any disrespect or hatred for the person who left you. Heal yourself and make a better life for yourself. May God bless you’ll ❤️
Mera breakup toh nahi but rejection hai. And it really hurt me a lot. We were friends but after that he don't talk. I wanted to talk badly sometimes i used to text him but aise reply deta tha ki woh care hi nahi karta. It's been years now we don't meet, we don't talk. Now itna pain nahi hota jitna beginning phase mein hota tha. Abhi itna importance nahi hai uska mere dil mein which i had before. Life is going good. Working on myself. My career. Happy!! But searching for new.
Same here with me 😢
When I realise I got late...,
Mila ky? Nhi toh m bhi single hu 🥺
@@barshaxoxo oh same happened with me n I really wondered what was wrong. But still i moved on and successful in my career n all. Can we be frnds? 😊
@@ramagrawal4064 😂
The same happened to me. I feel very worthless as if i have no quality for someone to love me
This is the same which i feel in my life,
Everything is relatable,
Good Job dear,
Your every video is so meaningful, recently I have started following you ,
You are so pretty and videos are genuine ❤
Finally apki video aagyi apki video ka intezaar tha because buht demotivate hori thi ap always motivate krdete ho you are adorable diidiii🌸💗💐💐💐
Itni videos dekh li healing ki but this one really helps me ❤
This is the only video related to heartbreak or breakup that I can relate a lot and I really feel that connection...she explained it so simply that its easy for me to connect nd relate. Thank you for this video I needed the most now
After 2.5 years of being in a relationship, he said he wants breakup.
AND I AGREED 🔥
Gurrrllll, I'm brave.
You told us the main reason of why we fall in love with another person..
This route cause will definitely need to know us to heal ourselves..thanks for sharing such core things ❤
YOU are gods angel which helping people to make emotionally strong..Thank you God 💕and thank youhh for making such videos ❤
This is a godgifted video for me my dear friend.Aapka y attitude dekhkr mujhe ek inspiration mili Ki ab khud ko change Krna h move on Krna h thankyou sis ❤
Yeh breakup wala topic toh bilkul hi unexpected tha😅😅❤❤
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Aaj kal youtube par sab therapist bane baithe hai !!!
But drishti you had said you were never in a relationship ! So how u saying just for sake of the video that u have gone through breakup!???
😂😂
From my experience, Whenever u feel like hugging that person and sleeping and wenting out whatever u hv in ur mind, just do it infront of god , tell him each and everything that u want to tell that person and feel free but never beg that person to come back, just feel like u r with urself and no one else can do that , remember u will remain with urself forever and ur god will never leave u and he always has best plans , trust divine plans❤
Dont try to control everything in ur life and trust god
No words…YOU ARE HEELING🫂💗your way of giving lessons and advice is just a fantastic❤️🔥
I tried hanuman chalisa… it worked, as such kafi time baad shuru kee thee, but the way it worked is like magic…
I feel any kind of seva, helping healing people…. Helps a lot in your healing journey..
He chased me from youtube ..we were really shared understanding, motivating each other bond ..but suddenly he blocked me because his family want him to focus on his studies ..and i didn't stopped him ..may he fulfill his parent wish
...if its meant to be together it will 😊
Best most complete video on dealing with breakups. Thank you 🙏😊❤
I loved the point about being an introvert and getting attracted to someone who is an extrovert and that's a gap or void inside us that has to be filled by working on ourselves and not looking for that elsewhere.
Exactly same happened with me. I was talking to this guy I met online. He was just so fun to talk to, as he knew all the topics and just so friendly and extroverted and being so happy and loud and cheerful.
That's where I started liking him. Now I know it was my gap, of being a kind of silent boring nerd, wo always wanted that same energy that guy had.
@@aradhya2109 and what you did then?? as exactly happened wid me too
@@aradhya2109 Same scenario happened with me... But this time she leave me unexpectedly 😔
If you are this much saved post trauma then your therapist must be really good.
I am suffering through this last 6/7 months and through this I try to give up my life for him but some reason god save my life and your video help me to move on from this situation thank you drishti di❤❤😊
Same story bro just work on yourself on your career.. Trust me u are amazing just spend time with urself your family and god
In this 14 min video ,you have settled all my emotions from which I was struggling from last month .Genuinely thank you for it 🥹🙌🏼!!
Honestly speaking no one's perfect and it's all about forgiving each other. It's fine things are over sometimes it doesn't work out right? So that's fine. Just forgive yourself and the other person and keep growing 💖 Everything happens for a reason.
I was in healthy relationship from last two years fir bhi me ye video dekh rhi hu age kam aayegi krke 😂😂
Mee too 😂
Mee also 🕶️😙
Mee too ✌️🕶️🌝
Just be aware of the third person and everything will be fine
I am watching this, even though I am not in any relationship nor even I had a break up 😅😅
I think,
Time never heals us, time just teaches us to live with the Pain we got.❤️🩹
- Itachi ucchia -
~~~ Itachi ucchia ~~
❤🙌
Don't know what to comment, can't say much... I'm just grateful to you that you have posted this video... Thank you very much Drishti Ma'am ❤️✨... There's a lot to learn from this 14 minute video, literally a lot...
Drishti di! I just love your channel. Trust me your storytelling skills is soo impressive. You are creator who constantly evolve/trying to be better in every video. You are supper amazing. The community you have built is really sooo precious :) your topic selection & all is just amazing. And one more thing...! Your video editor is great aswell :) his editing skills makes your video engaging and i see your recent themes of video are top notch as well (pink). Keep up the good work :) ♡♡♡
Drishti legit the best video , hands down the best video. right away sharing with all the friends who are going through this phase. this will definitely help them a lot,
keep makin such beautiful helpful content.
Glad you could connect with it❤️
Drishti decided to wake up and speak the truth 😅😭. Its always sooo peaceful to watch your videos, I really enjoy listening you.
Thank you so much for this video i truly needed. I had never ever imagined that this day would be come in my life. But we never know when the things turns and twist. We broke up and there is no way of togetherness, I want to move on and I'll give my 💯 in this phase. But it will be going to tough for me because he is my neighbour. Pain and sadness were never to be part of my life. despite all the things I believe in myself and one day i will be fine.
Aapka bhi dil tod diya kisine ??
I had a terrible breakup 9 years ago, healed myself completely, never dated anyone in that phase. Had no faith in love. Worked hard and was selected as an officer, working for the security of my mother land India 🇮🇳
Last October, life took a turn and I fell in love again. A mature experienced man so to say, this woman made me realise why it didn't work with anyone else and beautiful life can become. Eventually she too left me due to family issues. She never tried convincing her parents.
It has been a different journey right now, I hope I recover soon.
Moral: No one loves you in this world apart from you yourself and if you are lucky enough your mother will. You should love your mother and your mother land only.
Few days ago I ignored this video because I was happy with my bestfriend
And now I'm watching this crying in the dark relishing our memories
Ladke kabhi chhodte nhi hai...woh harkat aisi karte hein jisse ladki khud hi chhod ke chli jaye...😊
This girl has all my heart ❤️ .Thank you so much for spreading positivity among people ❤
I was never in a relationship but I'm still watching this 😭🗿
😅Yah same
Don't get into one until they want you for lifetime
Us🗿🥺
Also never try to be in a relationship, until both of you are so damn sure.
@@bhumi.810 so u wanna be 🙌 ha
If someone leave you and if you are saying like "I love him a lot" then we should respect each and every decision of that person because we are saying "love" and once we are deeply in love then just enjoy that feeling even if he/she is not yours, you are too lucky because of him/her you got to know the feeling of "LOVE"❤❤
Hi Drishti, been following you since sometime now. There's always something new to learn from you. Whenever I see your video I always feel like I want more, I want to keep on talking to you. Today it felt like I was talking to a friend who is telling me bs bohot hua now's the time you get your shit together. Thanks for for putting this video. Definitely feeling ki aur sunti rahu, aap aur daaton.😂 Thanks a lot❤❤
Haha that's such a cute thing to say🙌🏻
The best video, baaki bhi best hai, but this is one of my favorites. Such a realistic advice you have given. Thankyou Drishti!🌻❤️
I was just going through this phase l wanted wanted to heal myself but didn't understood how to do so . I don't usually comment on any video but l did for this one. As a teenager l feel it was just the right decision to follow you
I'm am so happy to hear this❤️
You all have Divine Feminine energy 🙏🌠
Just a random story of 2 ppl. They meet online, they talk, they start liking each other. He wanted a rltnship, but she had nothing more than platonic feelings for him. Eventually, they continue talking and he kept on proposing. One fine day she accepted, when she knew that she'd actually fallen for him. And then, just like how every story goes..she ended up getting hurt. They broke up just within a month. There was not 1 single reason for that breakup.Whatever be it, she was not yet ready to let him go. She tried giving themselves another chance only to end up getting hurt once again. But this time, the reasons made her prioritise her self respect, and to do the last favour when you love someone, i.e "the act of letting go.."
It took 8 months to come in this rltnshp right from the time they started talking, but she still felt the same till the last day. Her feelings didn't change. It was true that he fell first, but she fell harder!
I always like the way you talk the way you explain, in each and every point of your content is simple which help audience to understand... Keep making such videos especially self developing and motivating.
Ms. Sharma thanks a ton!
You have helped me a lot 🤗
GBu always ✨
It's my humble request you to pls make a vedio on consistency....!!!!!
you disrespect yourself everytime you go back to someone who disrespected you..!!!
You are best adviser.thank you very much dii.I have broken up and get depressed
After this vidio I feel good and relaxed.👍👍
Kaash ye video usko na mil jaye.
bhai 🤣😂
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Sometimes you need to know your place in someone's life because you might get hurt if you expect too much.
Dear Drishti, i am currently going through this phase I literally needed this one. Thank you very much
Thank you !!!! He broke up yesterday..it was 3 years relationship... i m lost right now... restless... bt i pray ds feeling gets over soon
Same here....some story
@@beautycrown8912 more power to you !!
Same here 😢
Sidhi bath no bakwas thanks drishti every line u have said has a lot of value in it i just felt u are talking directly to me 😂 much needed video at this point of time
Mjaa aa gya is video ko bar bar dehk sakti mai ❤❤
Recently had a breakup, and you uploaded this video. Im on my healing journey also☀️
Honestly made video ; One of the best.. I guess i will be positive about whatever was said in this video
You sound so sorted.
I feel breakups teach you a lot about yourself.
I am going through a breakup phase and your words are very helpful. Few more days and i think i will be over her.
I wish you strength✨
I really needed this video ❤ Thankyou so much ❤
One more think i want to share its just a reminder cozz i have face itt.sometimess when we ask help from someone like our frnds,family memebers anyone we slowly become dependent on them and we think kii hn ab jo bhu ho yeh toh haina meri baat sunne ke liye hamesha kitna bhii ek hi cheez repeat karo yeh hoge hii support krne thiss iss the moment we have to realise that we have beckme dependent on them cozz life is will have up and downs in future too and naybe you have to deal with the pain of breakup again and not everytime you willl have them to listen to you..yoi have to learn to be emotionally independent kn your own and to avoid expectations from anyone....i hope that you all have got my point....thank you ❤❤
Great point! Well put.
Drishti thanks soo much yaar this video much needed for me at this point of time❤
Thanks a lot once again
How to deal with parents pressure for career as a 12th students plz tell
Itna achhe se toh mera bada bhai meko nhi bolta ... Aap meri badi bhn jaise meko help krte ho thank you so much ❤ hamesa kuch rahiye aap di ❤️
Didi ab toh lgta hai detach hi detach hai .. feelings hi nhi aati kisi ke liye jb breakup ho frnds mai bhi .... Like frnds ke sath ldai 3-4 din bs lgte hai attachment aur baat krne ki habit htane ke liye uske alawa buraa hi nhi lgtaa 😢 ... Lgta hai jese ab kisi ke liye true feelings aati hi nhi h bs ya toh attachment hoti hai ya baat krne ki habit...more like just enjoying the attention... And not true feelings
Same with me.
What a lovely video
This video is purely therapeutic.
ladkiya to new bande ke sath mostly move on kar jati hai... only boys are left behind with guilts
@@thenameishitesh true
My honest review:- Thank You Didi 🥰...By giving my 15min on this video..now I am really feeling good 😌 nd once again thank you soo much didi ❤😊
Well said main vi yehi manti hoo everything happens for a reason and also if something or someone hurt you breaks you for no reason just let them go with all your love to them and just be patienced ❤😌 universe sab kuch wapas deta hain ,,,,sabko😌
"Sometimes we don't want to heal because the pain is the last link to what we've lost."
i m in so much pain these days.....i am in a situationship...this guy always behaved as if he also has same feelings for me but now i can see his behaviour changing....i really love him but he is such a pain in ass....never makes me feel important now...earlier he used to make me feel special...he said he have feelings he says that he is also attached to me but then he behaves as if i m being desparate for him....he wants to reap all relationship benefits from me but is never there when i need him....idk if he is a playboy or what but plz to anyone reading this pray for me that he also develop more feelings for me😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
But what about those memories 😭
Her Memories haunt me
This is the video I needed. She exactly break down whatever I was feeling. I felt so much relief after doing what she mentioned in the video. Keep up the great work 🎉
Thank you for being a emotional supporter❤❤
Found this video on right time ❤❤
kash y video mujhe last year mili hoti jab mera breakup hua tha abhi y video sun k aisa lg rha seriously kitni chutiya thi mai jo ek insan k liye itna ro rhi thi jisko meri value hi nhi thi 😂😂
My fav creators advice is a worlds best words to listen for myself ❤ keep glowing growing preetyyyy
2 days ago i broke up with my boyfriend and that was the hardest phase of my life ever. I was in a relationship for 3 and half years we had both good and bad memories together, but he cheated on me twice i still forgive him and give a chance but he didn't change his behaviour and keep on hurting me . I don't feel regretted about my relationship, he wasn't enough lucky to have me 😢 So I'm here to heal my healing journey. Hope he finds someone who match his own behaviour
@@nehaaaaa07 more power and happiness to youu girl.... Stayy strong❤
@@nehaaaaa07 heyy bro I am sorry to know this.. are u fine now? If u need some help let me know.
You did a great job
He cheated on you , yeah clearly means he never deserved you.
thank you so much for your advice All your points helped me a lot in moving forward.
Didi aapki break up vali theory excellent hai i would like to add something - TIME is the best HEALER, jaisa jaisa time bita jayga vaise vaise tumhe uss person ko bhul jaoge aur khudhke life mai busy hote jaoge aur ek time aisa ayga ki tumhe uss bad & good memories, and uss person ko iss najariyese dekhoge ki, "Are ha mere life mai bhi aisa khuch hua tha but janedo jo hua so hua muje uske bajese ek life lesson mila." And trust me i am one of that.
So trust the process and take this time to become best version of yourself. Hope this is helpful ❤😊
thats beautiful ❣and helpful❣
Very well explained 🤌👍
Drishti Di this video is awesome ♥️
Thank you so much for this video because this video tell us how to see your life after breakup in a different way..♥️♥️♥️
I really need this..
Love you Di ..😌
Watching this video feel better, im trying to follow this advice 😢
You are right dear. We should not give importance more than our own self.
If one person brutally broke the trust will never be sincere again.
Thanks.. Really.. You explained it so well.. Whenever I feel low I watch it..
Best piece of advice I've Heard ! Helped a lot !
I was crying while watching the whole video!!!😭😭
Thankyou so much😭😭❤️❤️
@@flywithritz18 same bro 🥲🙌🏻
Got to learn so much ,also I get so much positivity in ur all videos.
Thankyou !❤🙌
Maine toh breakup ke baad apna sim hi change kar diya aur phone use karna band kar diya 1 year tak but abhi bhi kabhi kabhi uski yaad aati jab tak aap ki ye video nahi dekhi thi but now I understand ki jo hota hai aache ke liye hota hai thank you di for helping me ❤
1 saal tak phone use nai Kiya seriously 😳
@@akshatkashyap7285 yes
wow just a perfect video ....syncing my situation
Breakup jaisa to kuch nhi hua but, one sided k vjh se.. zindagi 😢😅😅😅
Perfect timing because i broke up 2 weeks ago without reason and..... It's difficult.. It really is
so how ya doing now?
Hope you are doing good❤
you are strong. it will be okay.
@@senpai0015 I am quite better though I still just love him so so so much but i have accepted the fact that it was all just a happy dream
@@sonalikaaaaa 🥺❤
We broke up after 10 years of relationship and after just 3 months of breakup yesterday she got engaged to someone, I am totally devastated after seeing those pictures.
@@Nillyjadhav209 bruhhh
I understand that no contact phase is an important step in moving on but there are certain situations when you are just suddenly left hanging with no explanation from the other person, when things were genuinely going great and you never saw this coming, that is one of the most hurtful experiences. Sure you never know what the other person might be going through but after establishing good rapport and an understanding relation with someone and then being left questioning everything is just unfair. At that point of time, I believe it’s about seeking clarity and expressing myself as to how that made me feel regardless of whether I receive a reply or not from him, I’ll get a closure just by saying what was bothering me. It’s about protecting my mental peace at that time so that years from now when I’m doing much better in my life and once in a while get struck by those so called midnight/3AM thoughts, he’s not one of those. I wouldn’t want to get upset by something that made me feel like shit in my past.
I also don’t believe in forgive and forget. Sure with time I’ll forget but I wouldn’t want to forgive someone who made go through such a terrible emotional roller coaster ride. You don’t have to do either of them if you don’t want to, you can just move on by letting out your opinion and expressing yourself, this is a way to set boundaries for yourself and makes it very clear to the other person too and is a form of closure in itself. Whether or not you receive a reply from him, that won’t matter, atleast you did your part and it’s not on you anymore and not your fault.
It really feels liberating at that time because now you know that it is over for real and even if they do try to come back to you later, you wouldn’t want to and that is real GROWTH!
Detachment is so difficult. ...
But once its done...life is forever evergreen....and god right wala ko sahi tym pe bhenjge hin.
Great video yaar, helps lot of people who are in need❤
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