I left a narcissistic relationship for sure long back but it costed my career a lot, I fell into a long term struggle in my career. It's really important to understand the difference between matured relationship and a toxic one.
I too wanna leave.. InshaAllah will try harder now . Ths relationship costing me hell .. I lost 20 lakhs.. I lost self esteem.. self confidence.. health.. mental peace.. wallahe he is a demon ..
I am also struggling a lot with my current abusive toxic relationship and I will watch her video every single day to remind myself to push myself out of this. Please pray for me. 🙏🏻
Narcissists never say sorry and and never bows down... they'll only tell you that it was an accident and only you are behind your trauma, it was not their mistake...
@@kanishk9293 analyse the past and think do you see the relationship in a long term with your partner being toxic , if you are the only one making efforts then there's no point of relationship.
From "heaven to hell" I got from my narcissistic partner... Accept the truth ...And move on guys ... Nidhi di sahi khri hain narcissistic insaan ko koi frq nhi pdta ... I cried a lot in front of him and he was literally laughing in front of me ... Infact I was really in a trauma bcz of him ...
Yes because they do alot of dramas so they think same about others. Whenever i cry he makes fun of me that im crying unnecessary. For him other people don't hurt
Getting out of a toxic relationship is the best decision I ever made. You should also consider making a video about how to deal with narcissistic co-workers.
Nidhi di, you covered a lot in this video. ❤️People need to get educated about narcissism. I did while I was going through a breakup with a narcissist, and it helped. And yes, never try to change them because they simply can't. You are just a supply to them basically an object serving their needs and that's the reason they 'love' and 'want' you. These needs may be sexual, of validation seeking or anything. They are internally insecure beings seeking validation from people. They may appear confident but they arent. They wont ever stop talking to people who gives them attention, no matter who that person is. Because they want, attention, which is the basis of their confidence. They love when they have a bad influence or affect on you, because it assures them that they are 'strong' enough to have influence on other humans. They will love when you will cry for them. They will boast about it. This shows they are really immature and insecure. But, the most important thing you need to understand is THEY CAN'T CHANGE, AND i am not the one saying this but billions of psychologists. Its proven by researches. Plus they hate 'being left', not because they love you but because it hurts their ego when you talk about leaving them, and thats the reason they start behaving good when you threaten to leave them.
@@nilemdevi3916 narcissist jitne smart khudko dikhate hai na wo us se kahi jyda bade wale bewkoof hote hai. Bas apko ek ache plan ki jarurat h unse dur hone k liye.
Mam aap ne 💯 % right bol rahe ho 32 year se mai is narcissis husband k saath rah rahi hu wo kanhi bhi nahi sudharte Aap ne ek dum sahi kaha or is subject per aap k jaisa anubhav or mujhe kisi me dekh ne me nahi mila aap ko dil se dua hai aap khub safal ho kamyab ho
Mam you are doing a good job by telling about these toxic relationships and spreading awareness to people who are stuck in these cycles with toxic partners. People are just to afraid to leave a toxic partner thinking that it can be their fault.
This is a toxic relationship.....im a teenager i know im very little to share this but i think i was going to be shraddha 2 in future maybe after some years ....i m hindu and my bf was muslim ......im not worried about religion but this is kind of relatable for me ....i was going through a toxic relationship .....same to same as said in video but at small level ....he was so aggressive his parents support him and he was addicted to hookah weed etc etc and he was so overpossesive that i literally ruined my 2 yrs with him ..even he was not passinate about career and future....im feeling so relatable.....becoz when i tried tobreak up he tried to abusive me ...he actually forced me for some some things ....disconnecting me from family friends and career .....and he didnt allowed me go outside and wear fashioned cloths ...even he didint allowed me tALK to my friends and took all passwords made me always cry ...i cared so much for him but i was so angery aggressive person he used abusivsive lang and bit his own sister ....he manipulateed me ...lgaslight me ...compared me with other ...this is starting of abussive relationships ....they manipulate you controll you then abusive you ..then love bomb behave so lovely thatyou you feel no one loves you more than them and you give a second chance ..and cycle repeats ....and you are not able to move outof relationship even if you want to ....i cant believe this happened withm me but at small scale but in future it would become so dangerous.....i was so depressed.....i was mad in love that i didnt shared this with anyone ......and i was the person always happy in small things my joyful family but now becomed depressed this ruined my 2yrs of life ...every single people told me tobreak up .....he even checked mycontacts so i barely talk to anyone but then im thankful im outof it and im happy ....my teacher helped me so much ...please girls be safe dont make such mistakes.....nidhi didi helped me to open eyes thank you savedmy life
Love your message. You are so wise for your age. A true inspiration for all youngsters.God bless you dear. May you spread happiness and wisdom to many. You are truly blessed.Cheers!!!
NPD thik nahi hote bilkul sahi... I'm going through this for past 22yrs.. n tried to be very humble to change him.. but nothing work out... Wo change nahi nahi hote....balki dusaro ko change hona padata hai ...
To be honest I was the dominating to every boyfriend which I had earlier relationship but the moment when I felt guilty and thought that I was doing wrong so I hv changed myself with an positive approach and tried to remove a lots of mistakes which I had done earlier!!! So I can easily relate how the mindset of the couple in an toxic or abusive relationship!!! Thank god I'm in gud position in my relationship :((
१००% sabhi bate sahi hai. Khud fiancialy independent hona jaruri hai. A jab aap karate ho to samanewala aapako darane lagata hai. Aapako rokane ki har koshish ki jati hai. Bhagwaan par aur khud par bharosa rakhe aur khud ko majboot banaye. Thank you🙏🙏🙏
Narcissists are psychopaths,energy exchange is very important you can't exchange your energy with psychopaths. Kya aapne face kiya hai narcissistic situation? Kuch nahi kar sakte jab tak god breakthrough nahi deta awakening milne tak suffering face hi karna padtay adhi zindagi confusion me hi chali jaati hai and brainfog hojatay you cannot remember things. Did you hear about gabby petito and brian laundrie case? Brain laundrie looks like typical narc in the footage.
Hello maam, not every man is narcissist, lots of man are suffering from narcissist woman also, but In your video you mentioned only man are narcissist. I hope u understand Thanks
9:45 exactly true words.... N that's the main reason behind talrate abusive relationship.. After marriage.. It's very hard nidhiji .. Bhot sari chije sochni padti hai... N mental stress bhi bhot bad jata hai.. Easa decision lene se pahele Or baad me
We are in our twenties...me and her decided that we won't plan anything related to future. What if we decide and it didn't work? What if we stuck for eachother? What if this turns into toxic( assuming that we will be always happy would be stupid)? What if we plan, and for some reason we separate, would there be easy to move? Dil nikal kar bhar aajega! So we are cherish the present and only present!
Hey Girl Salute to you At this moment I am facing the same situation! My husband is a narcissist and now I applied for divorce. Whatever you are saying in this video I am facing the same feeling but really want to say thanks to you girlll Ye video dekh kar mai apne aapko sambhal payi hu Mere 3 kids hain and shadi ko 6 years ho gae hain but mere husband me koi sudhar nahi aa rha tha balki meri or mere bade bete ki hi mental health bekar hoti ja rahi thi. Last year se mene khud Ghar se online kaam karke paise jode and yes you are absolutely right money is power! Savings hone ke baad hi m separate hone ka decision le payi hu last month.
Ma'am You are doing a great job. I got married 8 months ago, I feel mentally and emotionally drained. I don't know what to do, I can't leave this relationship because of my parents.
Yes u can leave , think abt ur self first.. Ur mental health is important! If u have a job the better other wise leave somehow, take help from others. U can do it.. ❤👍
Leave dear trust me u will never be happy nd from my personal experience i m saying he will drag to such level u will feel SucidAl….u hv to convence to ur parents think of urself ur happiness…ek himmat ki jaroorat hai but chodna hi solution hai…
Mam, mere ek closed one ek Narsistic person ke sath relationship me hai... Maine usko bahat samjhayi.. par woh ulta mujhe bura bolti hai, even woh Narsistic person mere bare me hi usko bura bura bol ke usko pura control me kar lia hai... Is situation me usko kaise samjhayu? Dono shadi karne bhi jaa rahe hai.. please advise is there any way?
Very informative video hai di.... aapki videos humesachi motivate karti hain.... aap normally sabki problems solve kar dete ho di..... keep growing di... DI stress jam karne ka upay bhi bataiye di.... .
Can I know your lipstick shade 😍😍 Please tell me mam.. I'm searching for this kind of shade please tell me.. I know my comment is off topic but I really want to know the shade😭💥💥
Sister Mai v en chese me fas gaye hu ..mujhe mera pati or bache milke aise satate hai mujhe sarogreat mother banake ghar me bandh karke rakha ... mujhe ense pls ajad kara do ....Mai apna ghar kolkata jana chate hu...Mai abhi chandigarh me kuch help milega
Madam plz tell that how to he'll ourself after that toxic relationship bcz its make trauma after leaving or dealing with that person kindly tell about that
My wife is NPD+ chronic alcholic, please suggest how to get out of this marrige. I am afraid that since she is a woman, she will get alomony+child custody from court.
I left a narcissistic relationship for sure long back but it costed my career a lot, I fell into a long term struggle in my career. It's really important to understand the difference between matured relationship and a toxic one.
More power to you brother ❤️
High Five
I too wanna leave.. InshaAllah will try harder now . Ths relationship costing me hell .. I lost 20 lakhs.. I lost self esteem.. self confidence.. health.. mental peace.. wallahe he is a demon ..
9th 0
I am also struggling a lot with my current abusive toxic relationship and I will watch her video every single day to remind myself to push myself out of this. Please pray for me. 🙏🏻
Narcissists never say sorry and and never bows down... they'll only tell you that it was an accident and only you are behind your trauma, it was not their mistake...
They say sorry and after that they .... i am the only guys who says sorry for your mistakes😂
Leaving a narcissist man was the best thing i did to myself!!!
Apko achha partner mila?
I am in the process of leaving a toxic relationship.. and im financially independent. Im on my way to recovery!!! Thank you mam !👼
Yaar meri wife bhi aise hi fasi h usne programing aisi ki h uski maa bhai ko bhi fasa rakha h
Dii m bhi nikal rha hu lekin bacho ka khana kon bnayega
Aap ke baby nhi h kya agar h to yaar bacho per bhoot boora asar padta hai
Great Shruti👍👍👍
Leaving a toxic relationship is the best thing I ever did.
How...???
@@kanishk9293 analyse the past and think do you see the relationship in a long term with your partner being toxic , if you are the only one making efforts then there's no point of relationship.
@@sanikashedge3455 Thanks I realise it
Legends stay single 😂😂😂
Ladkiyon ke saath bhi hota he kya
That " Nasha mukti kendra line" 😂😂
Lol
I left this toxic relationship but it costed me my mental health, career and peace...
From "heaven to hell" I got from my narcissistic partner...
Accept the truth ...And move on guys ... Nidhi di sahi khri hain narcissistic insaan ko koi frq nhi pdta ... I cried a lot in front of him and he was literally laughing in front of me ... Infact I was really in a trauma bcz of him ...
Yes because they do alot of dramas so they think same about others. Whenever i cry he makes fun of me that im crying unnecessary. For him other people don't hurt
Don't cry on this narcassistic person....Be strong......
Yes cycle repeat everytime 😭😭😭 and yes it's not easy to leave at once
Abusive relationship is always dangerous, always try to stay away from it.
Getting out of a toxic relationship is the best decision I ever made. You should also consider making a video about how to deal with narcissistic co-workers.
Nidhi di, you covered a lot in this video. ❤️People need to get educated about narcissism. I did while I was going through a breakup with a narcissist, and it helped. And yes, never try to change them because they simply can't. You are just a supply to them basically an object serving their needs and that's the reason they 'love' and 'want' you. These needs may be sexual, of validation seeking or anything. They are internally insecure beings seeking validation from people. They may appear confident but they arent. They wont ever stop talking to people who gives them attention, no matter who that person is. Because they want, attention, which is the basis of their confidence. They love when they have a bad influence or affect on you, because it assures them that they are 'strong' enough to have influence on other humans. They will love when you will cry for them. They will boast about it. This shows they are really immature and insecure. But, the most important thing you need to understand is THEY CAN'T CHANGE, AND i am not the one saying this but billions of psychologists. Its proven by researches. Plus they hate 'being left', not because they love you but because it hurts their ego when you talk about leaving them, and thats the reason they start behaving good when you threaten to leave them.
Agar serial killer ban gya to kya kare aise hi log shanki serial killer hote hai
@@nilemdevi3916 narcissist jitne smart khudko dikhate hai na wo us se kahi jyda bade wale bewkoof hote hai. Bas apko ek ache plan ki jarurat h unse dur hone k liye.
U talk about real problems with a solution. I don't think anyone else is doing so ❤❤❤❤ keep helping 🙂
Mam aap ne 💯 % right bol rahe ho 32 year se mai is narcissis husband k saath rah rahi hu wo kanhi bhi nahi sudharte Aap ne ek dum sahi kaha or is subject per aap k jaisa anubhav or mujhe kisi me dekh ne me nahi mila aap ko dil se dua hai aap khub safal ho kamyab ho
Bilkul sahi kaha aapne narcissist kabhi theek nahi hota...
Mam you are doing a good job by telling about these toxic relationships and spreading awareness to people who are stuck in these cycles with toxic partners. People are just to afraid to leave a toxic partner thinking that it can be their fault.
This is a toxic relationship.....im a teenager i know im very little to share this but i think i was going to be shraddha 2 in future maybe after some years ....i m hindu and my bf was muslim ......im not worried about religion but this is kind of relatable for me ....i was going through a toxic relationship .....same to same as said in video but at small level ....he was so aggressive his parents support him and he was addicted to hookah weed etc etc and he was so overpossesive that i literally ruined my 2 yrs with him ..even he was not passinate about career and future....im feeling so relatable.....becoz when i tried tobreak up he tried to abusive me ...he actually forced me for some some things ....disconnecting me from family friends and career .....and he didnt allowed me go outside and wear fashioned cloths ...even he didint allowed me tALK to my friends and took all passwords made me always cry ...i cared so much for him but i was so angery aggressive person he used abusivsive lang and bit his own sister ....he manipulateed me ...lgaslight me ...compared me with other ...this is starting of abussive relationships ....they manipulate you controll you then abusive you ..then love bomb behave so lovely thatyou you feel no one loves you more than them and you give a second chance ..and cycle repeats ....and you are not able to move outof relationship even if you want to ....i cant believe this happened withm me but at small scale but in future it would become so dangerous.....i was so depressed.....i was mad in love that i didnt shared this with anyone ......and i was the person always happy in small things my joyful family but now becomed depressed this ruined my 2yrs of life ...every single people told me tobreak up .....he even checked mycontacts so i barely talk to anyone but then im thankful im outof it and im happy ....my teacher helped me so much ...please girls be safe dont make such mistakes.....nidhi didi helped me to open eyes thank you savedmy life
Love your message. You are so wise for your age. A true inspiration for all youngsters.God bless you dear. May you spread happiness and wisdom to many. You are truly blessed.Cheers!!!
NPD thik nahi hote bilkul sahi... I'm going through this for past 22yrs.. n tried to be very humble to change him.. but nothing work out... Wo change nahi nahi hote....balki dusaro ko change hona padata hai ...
Same here
It's hard to end the relation but your suggestion provides relief as medicine
Aapko sunna humare liye bht badi baat hai or mai khuse hun aapke channel ki members hun... God bless you di...
Informative video
Needed this so much. Thank you ♥️
Listening and watching you,, is the most wonderful feeling in my life,,,,, ❤
Most of the talk is perfect, only somebody who is facing can understand.
To be honest I was the dominating to every boyfriend which I had earlier relationship but the moment when I felt guilty and thought that I was doing wrong so I hv changed myself with an positive approach and tried to remove a lots of mistakes which I had done earlier!!!
So I can easily relate how the mindset of the couple in an toxic or abusive relationship!!!
Thank god I'm in gud position in my relationship :((
Then you aren’t a narcissist, just dominating but good that you healed 🌸
१००% sabhi bate sahi hai. Khud fiancialy independent hona jaruri hai. A jab aap karate ho to samanewala aapako darane lagata hai. Aapako rokane ki har koshish ki jati hai. Bhagwaan par aur khud par bharosa rakhe aur khud ko majboot banaye. Thank you🙏🙏🙏
Overall Financial Independency is ultimate
I really appreciate u.. ur too honest. Nobody talk abt sch things. Ur doing great job. Blessed u🙂
Ekdum sahi kaha 🙏 I really like your videos much love Nidhi ❤️❤️❤️❤️ 100% correct facts
Narcissists are psychopaths,energy exchange is very important you can't exchange your energy with psychopaths. Kya aapne face kiya hai narcissistic situation? Kuch nahi kar sakte jab tak god breakthrough nahi deta awakening milne tak suffering face hi karna padtay adhi zindagi confusion me hi chali jaati hai and brainfog hojatay you cannot remember things. Did you hear about gabby petito and brian laundrie case? Brain laundrie looks like typical narc in the footage.
very nice topic dii best such m love your work di... ❤️❤️❤️❤️
bahut hi informative vdo dii.... 👍👍👍👍
Amazing nd so helpfull ❤❤❤🌹🌹🌹🌹
Hello maam, not every man is narcissist, lots of man are suffering from narcissist woman also, but In your video you mentioned only man are narcissist. I hope u understand
Thanks
You misunderstood
After viewing rajveer bhai vlog i came here and i agree thanks for teaching us u are a legend
Explain very well diii 💯❤️
congratulations di 4L subscriber 👍👍👍 best of luck di keep growing 👍👍👍
9:45 exactly true words.... N that's the main reason behind talrate abusive relationship.. After marriage.. It's very hard nidhiji
.. Bhot sari chije sochni padti hai... N mental stress bhi bhot bad jata hai.. Easa decision lene se pahele Or baad me
You are absolutely right.
Informative and motivative video.❤️ Diii you are looking like a cute princess 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Thank you for your support and guidance you are absolutely right they can't improve 😊🙏
Very nice dii amazing topic
Me isko bahut share karungi thanks for sharing
Yaar kya sahi bola yaar..sachmae exactly wats hpng in my life same bola tumne..thank you so much dr..❤️
Ma'am urs 3 video saved my life thanks a lot..
Thanks Nidhi.. I really need to discuss something on this. Any way to connect with you. in Relationship with a Narc. Need help.
I have never seen someone with such honest suggestions ❤️❤️❤️❤️
True wordssss! ❤️
Plz one video on how can girls not be afraid of creepy men staring at them on street. Also, how to be brave from within.
This is a good topic
Topics to badiya h lekin koi FSA h to usko kaise nikale
Motivation milta h apne bilkul sahi kaha really goood topic thnxxx dear ji
Plz narcissism pe aur video bnaen .. bht help Mili hai apki videos thanks
I was facing these kind of situation for so long time without knowing I was draining day by day finally I stepped out of it.
We are in our twenties...me and her decided that we won't plan anything related to future. What if we decide and it didn't work? What if we stuck for eachother? What if this turns into toxic( assuming that we will be always happy would be stupid)? What if we plan, and for some reason we separate, would there be easy to move? Dil nikal kar bhar aajega! So we are cherish the present and only present!
Very good Bahut Sunder shujhav Aap ne diya mam Dhanyabad
Yes u are 100% true mam.. ur all saying is true...
There r also independent women earning good but in toxic relationships..I have several known ladies!
Mam if siblings and parents are narcissistic then how to manage it
All words r 💯 % correct. I can feel it now after 8years
Thanks ,all view r clear
Hey Girl
Salute to you
At this moment I am facing the same situation!
My husband is a narcissist and now I applied for divorce. Whatever you are saying in this video I am facing the same feeling but really want to say thanks to you girlll
Ye video dekh kar mai apne aapko sambhal payi hu
Mere 3 kids hain and shadi ko 6 years ho gae hain but mere husband me koi sudhar nahi aa rha tha balki meri or mere bade bete ki hi mental health bekar hoti ja rahi thi. Last year se mene khud Ghar se online kaam karke paise jode and yes you are absolutely right money is power!
Savings hone ke baad hi m separate hone ka decision le payi hu last month.
Hello di, I also have toxic relastionship since 3 years, today I have also decided to leave it, enough is enough.
"Mere jesa pyar tujhe kahi nhi mil sakta"
Le me : Tere jesa pyar mujhe chahiye hi nhi 😂🤣
Ma'am You are doing a great job.
I got married 8 months ago, I feel mentally and emotionally drained.
I don't know what to do, I can't leave this relationship because of my parents.
Leave it, convince to parents
Yes u can leave , think abt ur self first.. Ur mental health is important! If u have a job the better other wise leave somehow, take help from others. U can do it.. ❤👍
Leave dear trust me u will never be happy nd from my personal experience i m saying he will drag to such level u will feel
SucidAl….u hv to convence to ur parents think of urself ur happiness…ek himmat ki jaroorat hai but chodna hi solution hai…
Best video Mam❣️ God Bless u❤️
Your words are very correct
Mam what about female covert narcissist. They are whey more dangerous and addictive . What are ur views?
I have a Narcissist Wife…Just fed up with this life and marriage. Just praying that i get out of it. Totally drained mentally😢
So helpful
good , I have few points to say about my Toxic relationship , How can I ?
Di can you please help me what should i do i can't leave it
Mam, mere ek closed one ek Narsistic person ke sath relationship me hai... Maine usko bahat samjhayi.. par woh ulta mujhe bura bolti hai, even woh Narsistic person mere bare me hi usko bura bura bol ke usko pura control me kar lia hai... Is situation me usko kaise samjhayu? Dono shadi karne bhi jaa rahe hai.. please advise is there any way?
Very informative video hai di.... aapki videos humesachi motivate karti hain.... aap normally sabki problems solve kar dete ho di..... keep growing di...
DI stress jam karne ka upay bhi bataiye di....
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Meditation
💯 right sister they love enjoying toucher and they feel proud to blame more
Very helpfull vedio
I have toxic relationship and I have bad sciatica back pain on bed rest mostly so how I doing.
Can I know your lipstick shade 😍😍 Please tell me mam.. I'm searching for this kind of shade please tell me.. I know my comment is off topic but I really want to know the shade😭💥💥
Bilkul sahi kaha ab ni dena h chances thnxxxx nidhi dear ji ❤❤❤❤
Thanks alot
Ur all vedios r great.
So related to me . Omygod . I can relate each and every word you are telling
Mine used to accuse me of cheating when i dint anythg wrong
Mam if they are parents so how to leave it
When someone gives silent treatment.?gives mixed signals what to do then.
WE MUST SHARE THIS VIDEO TO THOSE WHO ARE SUFFERING. LET'S HELP US AND HELP OUR FRIENDS. I HAVE GONE THROUGH A LOT 🙌
You are the best mam
Good. अध्यात्म की तरफ़ जाए। मन शांत रहेगा। 🙏🙂
Sister Mai v en chese me fas gaye hu ..mujhe mera pati or bache milke aise satate hai mujhe sarogreat mother banake ghar me bandh karke rakha ... mujhe ense pls ajad kara do ....Mai apna ghar kolkata jana chate hu...Mai abhi chandigarh me kuch help milega
Sooo true❤❤🙏🙏
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This is very true I have NPD research n yes NPD has no solution ,this person will not improve cause they don't see any problem with themselves
I feel all ppl have some level of npd
@@studyjunkie2546 no everyone has healthy level of narcissism when it exceeds this level it called npd
Thnx Nidhi
Aap bilkul theek bol rahi ho, finacial freedom ke baare mein bhi ek video banaye❤
Can cordialness, professional behaviour work weapon against narc .. their weaknesses, fear make a video on that if you can
May Allah bless you … bahut acchi video
Thnk u so much 😘
That's good 👍👍👍👍👍👍 absolutely right 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 you are great 👍👍
Mam agar baby hota h ton uski life ke liye dibosh lena chahiye ya nhi
Madam plz tell that how to he'll ourself after that toxic relationship bcz its make trauma after leaving or dealing with that person kindly tell about that
My parents are narcissist what I can do about it 😔
Ya you are right meditation karna chai even you can go for Vipassana meditation for 10 days it's free of charge and trust me you will find the way
what if they starts blackmailing us...??
Mam kya narcissist personality ko treat nhi kar skte😞❤
Also your hairstyle looks so cute you should film it 🥰
My wife is NPD+ chronic alcholic, please suggest how to get out of this marrige. I am afraid that since she is a woman, she will get alomony+child custody from court.